WEBVTT - Second Date Update Classics: I Hope It's You + Fran-Fiction

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<v Speaker 1>A happy Labor Day weekend. It's working Jeffrey in the

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<v Speaker 1>morning like we do every Saturday. We got a double

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<v Speaker 1>dose for you on this Second Date podcast. Yeah, two

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<v Speaker 1>classics back to back that we hope you enjoy, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>put on while you're driving or stuck in traffic, doing

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<v Speaker 1>some housework, just.

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<v Speaker 2>In bed not moving. That's a game I like to play.

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<v Speaker 1>Is that how you like your three weekend times?

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<v Speaker 3>It's like, how can I move?

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<v Speaker 4>I hate?

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<v Speaker 3>All right?

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<v Speaker 1>What do you see in the comments of like sis? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>Benji Wolf said I hate this show. I will never

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<v Speaker 1>listen again until tomorrow. That's the attitude we like that.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, standard, that's right.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, let's get this hated double classics Second Date

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<v Speaker 1>started for you right now.

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<v Speaker 2>We're so jaded that when we hear one of our

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<v Speaker 2>listeners say they had an extremely intense moment on a date,

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<v Speaker 2>we immediately think, oh god, it's got to be bad. Yeah. Absolutely,

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<v Speaker 2>somebody fought a waiter, it started a fire, aliens abducted them.

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<v Speaker 2>But no, the woman will the phone assured us it

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<v Speaker 2>wasn't intense bad. It was intense good, so good that

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<v Speaker 2>it actually left her feeling like she may have met

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<v Speaker 2>her forever person.

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<v Speaker 1>Who on this show.

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<v Speaker 2>That is intense. You're gonna hear all about the moment

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<v Speaker 2>in your second date update coming up, next second date update.

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<v Speaker 2>What's worse than getting ghosted? Should we have a term

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<v Speaker 2>for that?

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<v Speaker 1>Get him deceased?

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<v Speaker 2>Good, cryptid, cryptid, black holed.

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<v Speaker 1>I bet these are all terms already that we probably

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<v Speaker 1>shouldn't google.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe whatever you call it. That's what our listener, Nicole says,

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<v Speaker 2>happened to her because not only did her date block her,

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<v Speaker 2>he's removed his entire dating profile from the apps. So

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<v Speaker 2>Nicole got black holed bad.

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<v Speaker 1>I think she just got blocked.

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<v Speaker 2>Actually, it really doesn't sound right now that I say

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<v Speaker 2>it out loud, but Nicole, either way, welcome to the show.

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<v Speaker 4>Thank you, oh, thank you.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean you are very perky for someone who is devastated.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry, Why on earth would you want to get

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<v Speaker 1>a hold of someone that's blocked you?

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<v Speaker 5>If I did anything wrong, I want to know about it.

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<v Speaker 2>Interesting, So let's start at the beginning. Tell us about

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<v Speaker 2>this guy that you met.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, so I met Elijah on a dating app, and

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<v Speaker 5>Elijah on his dating profile it was very clear it

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<v Speaker 5>literally said here to find my wife with intentionality and.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow, Okay, so he's not here to just have fun

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<v Speaker 2>and see what happens.

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<v Speaker 5>He's like, right, he might be married.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought Alexis was going to break out in hives

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<v Speaker 1>you just reading that description of something else.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like a lot of women would be turned

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<v Speaker 2>off by something that strong. But that was appealing to you, Nicole.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I'm looking.

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<v Speaker 5>For something serious. I want to build a future with someone.

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<v Speaker 5>So I found it really refreshing.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I mean.

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<v Speaker 3>People are so vague.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a lot of pressure going into a first date

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<v Speaker 1>like that.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, so you went to Vegas to get hitched

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<v Speaker 2>for your days fun.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean I would be really pissed if we got

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<v Speaker 5>married on a first date and then never heard from

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<v Speaker 5>him again.

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<v Speaker 2>It would Yeah, what did you guys do?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay?

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<v Speaker 5>So we got together and we did something a little

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<v Speaker 5>different that was really really fun. Like, neither of us

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<v Speaker 5>have pets, but we both are animal lovers.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, So we went to a local.

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<v Speaker 5>Dogs parts and we just chat and we chatted and

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<v Speaker 5>we watched dogs and.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you bring your dog?

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<v Speaker 1>She doesn't have one.

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<v Speaker 2>You don't have a dog, That's what I was going

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<v Speaker 2>to ask you.

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<v Speaker 3>I have never done that. Can you just show up

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<v Speaker 3>to a dog.

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<v Speaker 1>Bark just a normal park.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I've never even thought to do that.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't do the bar where people bring their dog.

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<v Speaker 2>Like you're banned from most public space.

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<v Speaker 3>But that's not because of the dogs. Okay, the women.

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<v Speaker 1>Still, this is really cute because it does sound like

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<v Speaker 1>a date that a couple who's been married for twenty

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<v Speaker 1>years would Yeah, instead.

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<v Speaker 2>Of people watching your dog watching, how was it?

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<v Speaker 6>It was really fun?

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<v Speaker 5>It was great, Like it was so true. And then

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<v Speaker 5>afterwards we drove around the city and he found this

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<v Speaker 5>like really cute area and we pulled over and he

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<v Speaker 5>kind of like pointed out some things to me that

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<v Speaker 5>I hadn't known, and we ended up making out in

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<v Speaker 5>his truck.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay.

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<v Speaker 5>What was also interesting, which I actually really liked, is

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<v Speaker 5>like he stopped halfway through like the makeout session, and

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<v Speaker 5>he just like put his hands around my face in

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<v Speaker 5>a way that was really sweet, and he said, look,

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<v Speaker 5>I just want you to know that I'm looking for

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<v Speaker 5>my wife and I don't want this to be a

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<v Speaker 5>one night thing.

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<v Speaker 1>WHOA you could not laugh with some subscribe such a

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<v Speaker 1>tender moment.

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<v Speaker 2>No, you get so comfortable you have such a hard.

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<v Speaker 1>Time with emotion.

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<v Speaker 2>I just laughing at something else.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, two hands.

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<v Speaker 2>No, that that was very sweet. I thought that was

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<v Speaker 2>very a nice moment to stop and make out both.

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<v Speaker 3>Hands, grab both cheeks, bring maybe your wife part?

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<v Speaker 7>Yes, I mean it was nice.

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<v Speaker 5>I was like, oh my god, maybe this is my

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<v Speaker 5>future husband day.

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<v Speaker 3>That moment was special.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>Maybe you guys are perfect for each other.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's true. Everybody's in different spaces of dating. If

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<v Speaker 2>she is ready for this, if this is what you want, Nicoll,

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<v Speaker 2>then we got your back on it.

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<v Speaker 1>How messed up did you do that? You say that

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<v Speaker 1>to someone and then you block her?

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<v Speaker 2>What happened after that? Did something left?

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<v Speaker 5>He gave me this romantic kiss again, and he was like, look,

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<v Speaker 5>I'm looking for my forever and I hope it's you.

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<v Speaker 2>I hope.

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<v Speaker 9>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought that the whole time it was you, And

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<v Speaker 1>that was the face grab and the stuff.

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe you're much like I really hope you you.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. It sounds like he's now a host

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<v Speaker 1>of a reality shit.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I don't find out when we come back from

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<v Speaker 2>the break and spend the giant wheel Giant.

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<v Speaker 3>I really hope it too.

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<v Speaker 6>It does sound like that.

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<v Speaker 7>Not again?

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<v Speaker 2>So okay, how long ago.

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<v Speaker 7>Was that date?

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<v Speaker 5>This was about a week and a half ago, And like,

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<v Speaker 5>I went home after my yoga craft and I said specifically,

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<v Speaker 5>like oh, I want to see what he's up to,

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<v Speaker 5>but I don't want to message him. Let me go

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<v Speaker 5>look on his profile. And I went on the app

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<v Speaker 5>and I was like, what the hell, like, why are

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<v Speaker 5>we no longer match? Where are all our messages? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know, Gone, is it in your mind that

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<v Speaker 2>maybe somebody else has stepped in? And like he found

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<v Speaker 2>I mean because people are dating on like lots of

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<v Speaker 2>people on these apps all the time. Maybe he found

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<v Speaker 2>somebody else.

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<v Speaker 1>Sounds like me if someone proposed to him, he'd say yes, Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I said I love you to a lot of people

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<v Speaker 2>that I didn't it too, So well that's just me,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm sure, yeah, I think And.

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<v Speaker 1>Jeff laughed at himself through the whole thing, very uncomfortable

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<v Speaker 1>with big emotions.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's figure out where Elijah's head is at why he

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<v Speaker 2>took down his dating profile, And.

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<v Speaker 1>It totally makes sense why you would want answers here.

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<v Speaker 5>I looked up Instagram and I would block there, like

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<v Speaker 5>I literally can't see anything that's not good.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, well, all right, it's a bad side.

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<v Speaker 2>I hope we don't block you at the end of

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<v Speaker 2>this either. We'll find out when we come back. Get

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<v Speaker 2>some answers and your second date update. Right after this

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<v Speaker 2>second date update, Vegas has set the odds at nine

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<v Speaker 2>to one that this call ends in a marriage proposal.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, I'm really bad with thoughts.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm honest.

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<v Speaker 1>Good, No, you ever know?

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<v Speaker 3>Should be well?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't really know.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, it's probably.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what, Jeff, I'm not gonna bet anymore.

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<v Speaker 2>The fact that even Vegas is in on this should

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<v Speaker 2>be kind of shocking, because Nicole has asked us to

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<v Speaker 2>call a guy named Elijah, who repeatedly told her that

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<v Speaker 2>he is not dating casually.

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<v Speaker 1>He says it a lot. He says it on his

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<v Speaker 1>dating profile, he says it in real life.

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<v Speaker 2>Very intentionally searching for his wife, and even stopped mid

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<v Speaker 2>makeout to grab her face and remind her this French

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<v Speaker 2>thing isn't for fun. It is a wife hunt. I'm

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<v Speaker 2>setting atone with this tomb so afterwards. The weird part.

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<v Speaker 1>Is that I.

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<v Speaker 2>Afterwards he blocked in Nicole and deleted his entire dating profile.

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<v Speaker 1>Divorce and for Nicole. It's like, I'm guessing Nicole, maybe

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<v Speaker 1>I'm wrong. This is like the most romantic thing that's

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<v Speaker 1>probably ever happened on a first day, right.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I felt like a real connection. I thought to myself,

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<v Speaker 5>Oh my gosh, like this guy knows what he wants,

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<v Speaker 5>and like I was so hopeful, and then all of

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<v Speaker 5>a sudden, it's like, how can I not take this personally? Like,

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<v Speaker 5>not only did he delete the profile block me on

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<v Speaker 5>all socials, I don't even know if he's going to

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<v Speaker 5>answer your number.

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<v Speaker 10>Yeah, well, this is one of those dudes that actions

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<v Speaker 10>speak louder than words. They'll tell you everything you want

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<v Speaker 10>to hear, and then they won't follow through and do it.

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<v Speaker 1>I still feel like that, I hope it's you. Line

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<v Speaker 1>is just not sitting right with me. Yeah, Like it

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<v Speaker 1>feels almost like there's a job opening and he's trying

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<v Speaker 1>to still a position, Like he's not connecting with you,

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<v Speaker 1>he's just trying to make this next step. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 6>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe I'm reading too much of it into.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe he found one of those Russian bride websites and

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<v Speaker 2>he realized how easy it is to do that. So

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<v Speaker 2>I hope that's not the answer, but she loves me

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<v Speaker 2>her to say, let's call see if he picks up,

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<v Speaker 2>and hopefully he has some explanation. Here, I'm downing his

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<v Speaker 2>number right now. Let's do it.

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<v Speaker 7>Hello.

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<v Speaker 2>Hey is this Elijah. Yeah, this is a radio show.

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<v Speaker 2>We're called Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning, and we

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<v Speaker 2>are a hoot and a half.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my god, you never say that again.

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<v Speaker 2>We are.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like just when we get popular.

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<v Speaker 2>This is what's boosting the ratings. Elija, you still there.

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<v Speaker 9>Yeah, we're doing better until jeff started talking.

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<v Speaker 1>But we're here.

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<v Speaker 2>We're calling with a purpose. It's a segment that we're

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<v Speaker 2>doing called Second Date Update. That's where listeners can come

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<v Speaker 2>on our show and we try and help them reconnect

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<v Speaker 2>with a person they went on a date with that

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<v Speaker 2>they had a really nice time with. Darn it all.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, dude, I am so interested in hearing.

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<v Speaker 2>Story because we heard that you went out with a

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<v Speaker 2>woman named Nicole about a week ago.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, Okay, yeah, I mean it sounds like a really

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<v Speaker 1>good date that you two had. Would you agree with that?

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 9>I mean it was cool.

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<v Speaker 2>It was cool, Okay, positive, it is positive.

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<v Speaker 1>I just didn't you don't seem like a casual guy.

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<v Speaker 1>From what she explained, was.

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<v Speaker 3>Intense than I assumed.

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<v Speaker 2>She definitely intense is a good word because she said

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<v Speaker 2>that you were putting it out there a lot, that

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<v Speaker 2>you were only dating to find a wife for love.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. He said, you.

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<v Speaker 10>Guys, love is a wife dating.

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<v Speaker 2>So we heard about that you're looking for a wife.

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<v Speaker 7>I mean, not anymore, no way, I found.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait, does that means there's another person?

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<v Speaker 7>Well, here's the thing.

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<v Speaker 9>After the date, I went to a clairvoyant, and uh

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<v Speaker 9>I got new is that my wife isn't even in

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<v Speaker 9>this realm?

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<v Speaker 7>What?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay? You want to hang.

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<v Speaker 6>Hold on?

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<v Speaker 1>I just dropped my pick because I just can't.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, hold on.

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<v Speaker 2>The psychic said, your wife is not in this realm? Right,

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<v Speaker 2>it makes a lot of sense to me. I get

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<v Speaker 2>what you're saying, but maybe explain for everybody else.

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<v Speaker 9>Honestly, I believe that I've married other people in my

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<v Speaker 9>past live. It's constantly the same person, maybe in a

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<v Speaker 9>slightly different form.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, So this same person, your soulmate that's been with

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<v Speaker 2>you across all your lives, She's not.

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<v Speaker 1>That's who you're looking for.

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<v Speaker 2>She's not here.

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<v Speaker 9>Nah, Why how.

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<v Speaker 10>Do you know, brother, Like, how do you know that

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<v Speaker 10>the girl you went on a day with isn't told him?

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<v Speaker 3>I know?

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<v Speaker 7>But yeah, you're.

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<v Speaker 3>Looking for is she say it's me? Hi, honey, like.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm from the seventeen that kind of the part of

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<v Speaker 1>the past live saying that you don't actually remember the

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<v Speaker 1>explain it to us.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, thank you.

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<v Speaker 9>My clare voyant said that I found my soulmate in

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<v Speaker 9>every single dimension, but not this one.

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<v Speaker 2>She doesn't exist in this one. No, that she's not

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<v Speaker 2>here here in this.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, it doesn't matter where she has I think this

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<v Speaker 1>could be good news.

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<v Speaker 2>Actually, yeah, because we have a real life woman who

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<v Speaker 2>feels like she had a strong connection with you, and it.

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<v Speaker 1>Sounds like you're freed up in this realm, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>like you're single and kind of permanently in the.

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<v Speaker 2>Nicole we're talking about Nicole. Obviously, Nicole felt that connection

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<v Speaker 2>with you.

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<v Speaker 7>Okay, what do you mean that's a good thing?

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<v Speaker 1>You told her again and again, I'm looking for my wife.

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<v Speaker 1>I hope it's you.

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<v Speaker 7>Is this a sign?

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<v Speaker 1>Is a sign?

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<v Speaker 4>Yes?

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<v Speaker 3>Yes it is.

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<v Speaker 2>Look, Nicole felt like you guys had a deep, deep connection,

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<v Speaker 2>and now you actually have a phone connection to her too,

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<v Speaker 2>because she's on the other line waiting to talk to you.

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<v Speaker 7>What I.

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<v Speaker 2>That's Nicole.

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<v Speaker 9>I know she's on the phone, but my wife's dead.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh no, past life.

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<v Speaker 2>I thought she wasn't in this realm, right, correct?

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<v Speaker 7>She never made it here?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh okay, wait what Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Exactly Nicole? So why did you We never even got

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<v Speaker 1>to why you blocked Nicole?

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<v Speaker 2>This is why because she's not his wife. Nobody's going

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<v Speaker 2>to be his wife though, Are we understanding that right?

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<v Speaker 2>If you're not looking for your wife since she's not

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<v Speaker 2>in the realm, then then you're not interested in dating

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<v Speaker 2>at all.

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<v Speaker 9>I guess somethings are better off unexplained.

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<v Speaker 7>I don't have all the answer.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh yeah, you're right, this is definitely unexplainable.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I think the explanation makes sense. He was searching

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<v Speaker 2>for his wife the whole time, but not just anybody,

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<v Speaker 2>a specific woman from another dimension. And you're not.

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<v Speaker 5>Think this clairvoyant is really messing with you, Like I

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<v Speaker 5>feel like she is trying to kind of be the

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<v Speaker 5>only person who can like access supposedly what your quote

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<v Speaker 5>unquote truth is. And wow, I might not be your

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<v Speaker 5>celestial being from a different realm, but I think you're

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<v Speaker 5>going to miss out on some really great girls in

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<v Speaker 5>this realm if you don't give us a real shot.

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<v Speaker 1>That was good, That was so well spoken.

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<v Speaker 2>What do you think about that, Elijah?

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<v Speaker 9>All I heard was that she was talking about my clairvoyant.

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<v Speaker 1>Who is this man?

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<v Speaker 5>Your clearvoyant? Can meet me outside?

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<v Speaker 2>Wow, let's put the wife and the clairvoyant stuff aside.

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<v Speaker 2>What can we What about just having fun with Nicole,

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<v Speaker 2>going out on another date and enjoying this life.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you've got a woman that has heard all

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<v Speaker 1>of this and still wants to hang out with you.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, I guess I do something wrong specifically for

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<v Speaker 5>you to block me.

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<v Speaker 2>You weren't my wife.

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<v Speaker 9>I don't know how many times I told you that.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, maybe I was.

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<v Speaker 5>Maybe the clairvoyant is wrong. I mean, I'm just saying

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<v Speaker 5>I don't like being rejected, and I also have to

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<v Speaker 5>say that, like, I think it's just really shortsighted. We

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<v Speaker 5>had a great time.

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<v Speaker 9>Yeah, well, I know that my wife didn't talk that

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<v Speaker 9>much in another lifetime.

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<v Speaker 1>Clear my goshee is purposely avoiding him now, dude, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>the wife wasn't born into this century.

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<v Speaker 5>Maybe my point in this lifetime to tell you to

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<v Speaker 5>be more accepting of your feature rife than another realm.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so I know Nicole still is fighting for this,

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<v Speaker 2>So Elijah, I think she's just fighting. I get that

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<v Speaker 2>you have doubts about Nicole. What if you and Nicole

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<v Speaker 2>went to your clairvoyant together and we would pay for

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<v Speaker 2>the uber ride?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my god, can we have a fight, Nicole?

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<v Speaker 2>Give it a chance?

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<v Speaker 1>Would Nicole even do that?

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<v Speaker 5>Honestly, I'm just confused and curious as to what the

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<v Speaker 5>clairvoyant would tell me about my path.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't I don't want to know it's going to

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<v Speaker 1>lead you down at dark Trail.

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<v Speaker 2>I want this to happen. So that's a yes from Nicole. Elijah.

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<v Speaker 2>It's up to you.

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<v Speaker 9>My clairevoyant is in chief, so if she pays, then

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<v Speaker 9>I'm cool with it.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, Nicole, I'm sure you're down for that.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, hey, it's on the radio. We can even

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<v Speaker 5>come back and tell you guys, I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>Know about want to know?

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<v Speaker 2>Do we want to know?

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<v Speaker 7>That?

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<v Speaker 2>That's going to be a no?

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<v Speaker 1>From all.

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<v Speaker 2>It sounds like it's a yes, Eliza and Nicole. You

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<v Speaker 2>guys are going out together in this realm.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't wait till we do a second date update

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<v Speaker 1>from the next realm.

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<v Speaker 3>It's going to be expensive phone bill.

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<v Speaker 8>Freaking Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 2>Is that literally the only second date update where we

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<v Speaker 2>actually got a yes but then said we don't need

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<v Speaker 2>an update, We're good.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that is not remember Ever, I am still baffled

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<v Speaker 1>by that entire conversation. I don't know what was real,

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<v Speaker 1>who believed what if they were being sincere?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, well, I'm sorry, girls asked for a commitment.

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<v Speaker 10>This guy's committed over what hundreds of years?

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<v Speaker 6>Valid?

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<v Speaker 1>Point valid? But maybe you were his wife. It'll pass life.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I'm waiting for you, honey.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. I do think maybe the missing piece in all

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<v Speaker 2>of this is is it possible Elijah had been smoking

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<v Speaker 2>something when we called him?

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<v Speaker 10>You know, he sounded like that's his vibe, like he

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<v Speaker 10>didn't sound like a big mysterious person.

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<v Speaker 2>He was trying to reach the other dimension true different

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<v Speaker 2>means find his wife. Yeah, trying to find his wife

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<v Speaker 2>that way, I.

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<v Speaker 3>Don't see.

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<v Speaker 2>That.

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<v Speaker 1>I think Alexis was on to something where he actually

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<v Speaker 1>probably did have a wife and she just chose not

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<v Speaker 1>to come back like that. That's not worth coming back. Again.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, I call it four hundredth marriage. Yeah, it's

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<v Speaker 2>enough for me. The text in seven eight, five nine two.

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<v Speaker 2>And make sure you follow us wherever you get your podcast,

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<v Speaker 2>if it's on Spotify, Apple, wherever at Brook and.

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<v Speaker 8>Jeffrey brooking Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 2>Feels like every single date ever always includes the same

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<v Speaker 2>old question, where.

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<v Speaker 3>Did you grow up?

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<v Speaker 2>What are your hobbies?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>How many pieces of canalope can you fit in your mouth?

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<v Speaker 2>At the same time, that's actually a great quy. My

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<v Speaker 2>record's in nineteen dang, yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Is it slice?

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<v Speaker 8>Like?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I don't even know what to know. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to know.

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<v Speaker 2>I'll show you later. We challenge each.

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<v Speaker 1>Other's mellow balls, isn't it.

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<v Speaker 2>But while those might seem like pretty tame, normal conversation starters,

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<v Speaker 2>one of our listeners says she divulged a little too

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<v Speaker 2>much when she was asked about her career aspirations, and

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<v Speaker 2>while her answer was one hundred percent true, he's one

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<v Speaker 2>hundred percent not calling her back anymore, and you're gonna

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<v Speaker 2>hear why in your second date update. Right after this

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<v Speaker 2>second date update, we got an email from one of

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<v Speaker 2>our listeners named Fran who said she dates a lot,

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<v Speaker 2>probably more than the average person. According to her, was.

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<v Speaker 1>That a brag.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know if that's a brag. If you're having

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<v Speaker 2>to go out with lots and lots and lots of people.

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<v Speaker 3>It's like the office problem with it alone.

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<v Speaker 2>But she says after thirty five dates over the last

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<v Speaker 2>six months, she thinks she finally found a guy who

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<v Speaker 2>doesn't totally repulse her. It's good.

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<v Speaker 1>Her bar's very high.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, and now he's not calling her back right now.

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<v Speaker 2>The repuls becomes the repulsey, and she's on the phone

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<v Speaker 2>right now. Fran I love you, You disgust me. Welcome

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<v Speaker 2>to the show.

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<v Speaker 6>Hey, how are you guys?

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<v Speaker 3>Friend?

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<v Speaker 1>God, I feel like your proof that when people say

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<v Speaker 1>you just got to put yourself out there, that it

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't actually always work.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you put yourself out there last for years and

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<v Speaker 2>years and years. Tell us about the guy that you

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<v Speaker 2>recently met.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, So I met this guy through the way we

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<v Speaker 6>always hate meeting people online dating.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, for sure.

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<v Speaker 6>His name is Tommy. Okay, Okay, she was so handsome,

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<v Speaker 6>and you know, you see a ton of people online

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<v Speaker 6>that are attractive and you kind of don't think anything

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<v Speaker 6>of it. But I look through photos, and he had

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<v Speaker 6>this one photo of him with two cats that were

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<v Speaker 6>his cat. It was really sweet because guys always posting

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<v Speaker 6>photos with like dogs or like when they're fishing and

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<v Speaker 6>all this other stuff, and it was really sweet to

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<v Speaker 6>see something that wasn't that.

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<v Speaker 2>He posted a totally different animal. This guy's a keeper,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, cat guy, it just screams. He's sensitive, he's in tune.

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<v Speaker 1>He's not like there's no toxic masculinity stuff happening there.

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<v Speaker 2>Like if it was a tiger cat, that would be

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<v Speaker 2>a red yeah yeah, housecat, that's flax.

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<v Speaker 6>So you know, we had some really cute banter back

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<v Speaker 6>and forth, and finally he kind of dropped the tint like, oh,

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<v Speaker 6>you know, I make he's really amazing homemade enchiladas. I know,

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<v Speaker 6>I know. And he was just like, you know, how

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<v Speaker 6>would you feel if I made dinner for you and

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<v Speaker 6>he came over and.

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<v Speaker 1>Did it feel too good to be true? Already? He's hot,

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<v Speaker 1>he's got cats, he cooks for you.

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<v Speaker 6>Honestly kind of, but you know, you also have that

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<v Speaker 6>thing where you're like, well maybe twenty seven or eighty

0:21:58.960 --> 0:22:02.000
<v Speaker 6>times a charm whatever where we're at now? So you're like,

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<v Speaker 6>we'll see.

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<v Speaker 1>I like your eternal optimism on you know, like to

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<v Speaker 1>go out on that many dates and keep trying.

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<v Speaker 6>You kind of have to be because I think if

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<v Speaker 6>you get too jaded, and that's not attractive to people either.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that's that's probably where I'm at.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm guessing you rs vp'd yes to the enchilada date.

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<v Speaker 6>I did, so, you know, I went over there, really

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<v Speaker 6>cute place, clean, another plus, so he makes these enchiladas

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<v Speaker 6>and I'm watching him cook. There's something so sexy about

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<v Speaker 6>watching a man cook. And when he knows his way

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<v Speaker 6>around the kitchen.

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<v Speaker 1>I really like it when they throw a towel like

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<v Speaker 1>over the side of their shoulder. That's like a thing

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<v Speaker 1>for me.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh oh yeah, and the big chef.

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<v Speaker 5>Hats no, but I will take an apron now.

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<v Speaker 1>Is good? It's not good?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I'll get rid of you don't need.

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<v Speaker 3>A hair net, fike mustache.

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<v Speaker 2>Chef style. Yeah, okay.

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<v Speaker 1>What was the vibe? Like the conversation?

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<v Speaker 6>So it was good, Like our banter online was pretty

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<v Speaker 6>much the same in person, which is always nice. You know,

0:23:08.920 --> 0:23:12.399
<v Speaker 6>it wasn't awkward and we're chatting back and forth, and

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<v Speaker 6>of course inevitably It always comes to the same question,

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<v Speaker 6>which is, you know, what do you do for a living?

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<v Speaker 6>And the thing is I work in insurance. That is

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<v Speaker 6>not a sexy thing to talk about. It's boring.

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<v Speaker 2>What are you talking about insurance? It's hot. I can

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<v Speaker 2>show you a twenty page document you have to sign on.

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<v Speaker 1>The bottom, all in nine fonts. So you told them insurance.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 6>Well, if I'm feeling it out and the vibe is good,

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<v Speaker 6>I'll usually be pretty honest and be like, my day

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<v Speaker 6>job is insurance, but I'm also an author and I'm

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<v Speaker 6>working on a book right now.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh right, And that's true, right, it is true.

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<v Speaker 6>Yes, But the problem is they always say, well, what

0:23:53.640 --> 0:23:57.280
<v Speaker 6>are you working on now? And I am really honest

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<v Speaker 6>about it, and this is true. I'm working on a

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<v Speaker 6>collection of all of the worst states that I've been on.

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<v Speaker 10>Oh okay, Yeah, it's a slightly relatable. I have a

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<v Speaker 10>lot of comedian friends, and it's hard to date because

0:24:11.680 --> 0:24:14.080
<v Speaker 10>girls immediately go, oh, I don't want to end up

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<v Speaker 10>in one of your jokes on stage.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, to be like, I don't want to end up

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<v Speaker 3>in one of your books, yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>And then don't mess it up.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, that's a lot of pressure, brock, It's easy to

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<v Speaker 3>mess up.

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<v Speaker 2>Is that the vibe of what happened with Tommy.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, it really kind of derailed. And you know, we

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<v Speaker 6>finished dinner. Dinner was great still. But this is the

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<v Speaker 6>thing I usually will do too. It's like, I don't

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<v Speaker 6>want to put too much pressure on somebody, especially if

0:24:34.640 --> 0:24:36.679
<v Speaker 6>you're like invited to their home or whatever. So I

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<v Speaker 6>made plans already to go and meet up with my

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<v Speaker 6>friends after we had dinner in a bar and so

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<v Speaker 6>and I told him that I said, you're more than

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<v Speaker 6>welcome to come, hoping that he would.

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<v Speaker 1>But you're more than welcome to come isn't always a

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<v Speaker 1>full invite. It feels like a pity invite.

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<v Speaker 10>I feel like, you know, I would like to be

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<v Speaker 10>invited like that, you know, Like for me, it's like

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<v Speaker 10>it is, I don't feel pressured where it's like.

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<v Speaker 3>Shooting out if I say no, I'm rejecting her.

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<v Speaker 1>It's interesting.

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<v Speaker 10>It's kind of like, oh, you know what, I don't

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<v Speaker 10>think this time, maybe next time.

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<v Speaker 1>What did he say?

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<v Speaker 8>Oh?

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<v Speaker 6>He said now, yeah, And it was really weird and

0:25:09.400 --> 0:25:13.000
<v Speaker 6>like we had this really awkward hug goodbye. And I

0:25:13.440 --> 0:25:15.840
<v Speaker 6>really liked him a lot, and I really just want

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<v Speaker 6>some clarity, because I feel like this is the thing

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<v Speaker 6>that you can't be mad at somebody for working on

0:25:20.800 --> 0:25:23.359
<v Speaker 6>something well before you ever met well and.

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<v Speaker 1>He doesn't have anything to do with him.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, what was his reaction, because you seem to

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<v Speaker 2>think that this was the main part of the night

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<v Speaker 2>where things started to go downhill, Like, tell us more

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<v Speaker 2>about how Tommy reacted when you told him about the book.

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<v Speaker 6>I got a vibe from him that he just started

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<v Speaker 6>to like internalize and be like, oh, well, is that

0:25:41.400 --> 0:25:43.800
<v Speaker 6>why she's on a date with me? Is she really

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<v Speaker 6>interested in me? Or is this research?

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<v Speaker 7>You know?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, you should tell him your past, the research stage

0:25:49.359 --> 0:25:52.360
<v Speaker 1>that was months ago. You're well into the second edit

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<v Speaker 1>of this thing.

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<v Speaker 10>When he rejected you, you should have just pulled out

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<v Speaker 10>a notebook and been like.

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<v Speaker 7>Well.

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<v Speaker 2>As for chapter four, well we'll see once and for

0:26:05.359 --> 0:26:08.000
<v Speaker 2>all if he does end up in your book. In

0:26:08.040 --> 0:26:10.040
<v Speaker 2>the book, I don't want to be in that book.

0:26:10.080 --> 0:26:12.400
<v Speaker 2>Why do you want to be It's the worst experiences,

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<v Speaker 2>you know what.

0:26:13.000 --> 0:26:14.399
<v Speaker 3>I'm probably already in her book.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Actually, we'll come back and we're gonna call Tommy and

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<v Speaker 2>see if we can get you another date with him.

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<v Speaker 2>When we do your second ate update, Next second date update.

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<v Speaker 2>Top three worst things you could say to a guy

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<v Speaker 2>on a first date. I'm not who I said I was. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>your dad was better. Oh I'm a New York Jets fan.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh booike. You just love mediocrity.

0:26:47.720 --> 0:26:52.199
<v Speaker 1>It doesn't exist, Like they don't really exist.

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<v Speaker 2>They're too embarrassed to admit it. But also not a

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<v Speaker 2>great idea to tell a guy. I'm currently writing a

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<v Speaker 2>book about the worst dudes I've ever gone out.

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<v Speaker 3>It's pretty dang bad.

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<v Speaker 8>Bro.

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<v Speaker 1>Is it bad though? I mean, it's your first date

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<v Speaker 1>with her, you think so?

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<v Speaker 2>Its off of the guys. In securities are many. And

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<v Speaker 2>that's exactly what Franz said when she was out with

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<v Speaker 2>Tommy the other night, while he was making her in chiladas.

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<v Speaker 2>That moment kind of derailed their entire night.

0:27:19.000 --> 0:27:20.959
<v Speaker 1>But he was a guy that had cats in the

0:27:21.000 --> 0:27:24.560
<v Speaker 1>photo of his dating profile. He shouldn't have had insecurities.

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<v Speaker 1>What you know, she understands what I'm saying, right, Did

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<v Speaker 1>that make sense to you, fran I.

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<v Speaker 6>Mean, yeah, I thought he was more in touch with that.

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<v Speaker 1>Perfect It's just like the vibe of cat dudes give

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<v Speaker 1>it off, like I'm stable. I know who I am.

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<v Speaker 3>Huh, checklist before you buy a cat?

0:27:48.520 --> 0:27:50.440
<v Speaker 1>Say that's the vibe, that's the vibe.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, okay, I'll accept that.

0:27:51.800 --> 0:27:54.560
<v Speaker 2>Okay, nothing toxic about what Brooke just I don't think

0:27:56.720 --> 0:27:59.800
<v Speaker 2>shouldn't have insecurities. All right, Let's see if he agrees

0:27:59.840 --> 0:28:01.879
<v Speaker 2>with that sentiment when we call him right now. You

0:28:01.920 --> 0:28:04.679
<v Speaker 2>ready to do this, Fran, Let's do it, hoping the

0:28:04.720 --> 0:28:17.040
<v Speaker 2>cats answer, Let's give it a try. Hello, Hey is

0:28:17.040 --> 0:28:17.560
<v Speaker 2>this Tommy?

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<v Speaker 7>Uh? Yeah?

0:28:20.160 --> 0:28:23.359
<v Speaker 2>You an insecure boy? Tommy? What why would you say that?

0:28:24.240 --> 0:28:25.359
<v Speaker 2>I won't see what you thought?

0:28:25.520 --> 0:28:25.600
<v Speaker 8>No?

0:28:25.800 --> 0:28:29.959
<v Speaker 3>I thought he wasn't Tommy. Sorry, Sorry, we were having

0:28:30.000 --> 0:28:31.119
<v Speaker 3>a discussion before we called you.

0:28:31.240 --> 0:28:33.760
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's spilled over into this phone call. We're a

0:28:33.880 --> 0:28:35.520
<v Speaker 2>radio show called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

0:28:35.960 --> 0:28:38.640
<v Speaker 4>Yoh, why are you calling me?

0:28:39.080 --> 0:28:42.440
<v Speaker 2>Good question. We're doing this segment called a second Date Update,

0:28:43.000 --> 0:28:45.400
<v Speaker 2>and one of our listeners asked us to reach out

0:28:45.400 --> 0:28:47.360
<v Speaker 2>to you because you two hung out the other night,

0:28:47.720 --> 0:28:48.360
<v Speaker 2>remember Fran.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, he cooked enchiladas for her, we heard, which

0:28:56.200 --> 0:28:57.800
<v Speaker 1>is a pretty awesome move.

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<v Speaker 7>How do you know all this.

0:29:00.520 --> 0:29:04.479
<v Speaker 2>Is straight from Fran's mouth, well, Friand's mouth to my

0:29:04.560 --> 0:29:05.640
<v Speaker 2>ears to my mouth.

0:29:05.760 --> 0:29:10.520
<v Speaker 1>Why are you making everything Frand told us is what

0:29:10.560 --> 0:29:16.320
<v Speaker 1>he's trying to say. Yeah, because she's she likes you.

0:29:16.440 --> 0:29:18.360
<v Speaker 2>She likes you, and she wants to see you again

0:29:18.560 --> 0:29:23.840
<v Speaker 2>and is confused why it hasn't happened yet.

0:29:24.120 --> 0:29:27.240
<v Speaker 7>Well, I mean, just being honest, it was. It was

0:29:27.280 --> 0:29:29.520
<v Speaker 7>a little weird. Oh weird.

0:29:30.680 --> 0:29:33.640
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, okay, Well here's the deal, man, Like we get

0:29:33.640 --> 0:29:36.719
<v Speaker 2>emails all the time from people asking us to do

0:29:36.760 --> 0:29:39.040
<v Speaker 2>these for them. And Fran admitted that she's dated a

0:29:39.080 --> 0:29:42.280
<v Speaker 2>lot of people and you stood out among all the guys.

0:29:42.280 --> 0:29:46.680
<v Speaker 2>You were different and she really liked you. And she

0:29:46.960 --> 0:29:48.680
<v Speaker 2>also wishes that she didn't bring up the book that

0:29:48.720 --> 0:29:49.280
<v Speaker 2>she was writing.

0:29:50.160 --> 0:29:52.080
<v Speaker 7>Well, okay, so that's the thing.

0:29:53.120 --> 0:29:55.000
<v Speaker 4>I mean, it was going fine, you know, it was

0:29:55.080 --> 0:29:57.520
<v Speaker 4>she seems nice enough, you know, it's a five date,

0:29:57.640 --> 0:30:00.200
<v Speaker 4>and then she brings up this book and it's just like,

0:30:01.240 --> 0:30:03.440
<v Speaker 4>I mean, it's so weird, Like, am I just content

0:30:04.080 --> 0:30:05.720
<v Speaker 4>for you to put into your book?

0:30:06.040 --> 0:30:07.840
<v Speaker 1>But she wouldn't tell you about the book if she

0:30:07.880 --> 0:30:10.120
<v Speaker 1>thought you were going to be in it, like just

0:30:10.160 --> 0:30:13.360
<v Speaker 1>sharing what's going on in your life, her life, and

0:30:13.880 --> 0:30:16.240
<v Speaker 1>she had already written about all the other bad dates

0:30:16.280 --> 0:30:18.360
<v Speaker 1>she was really thought she was on a good date

0:30:18.360 --> 0:30:18.600
<v Speaker 1>with you.

0:30:19.480 --> 0:30:22.080
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, okay, But here's the thing. So then I'm like, Okay,

0:30:22.520 --> 0:30:25.240
<v Speaker 4>this is kind of weird, but maybe it's fine, you know, maybe.

0:30:25.040 --> 0:30:27.440
<v Speaker 7>This doesn't include me. But then I was like, hey, so,

0:30:27.560 --> 0:30:29.280
<v Speaker 7>what are some of the bad dates that you went on?

0:30:29.600 --> 0:30:29.800
<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

0:30:30.000 --> 0:30:32.480
<v Speaker 2>Goodness, A good question.

0:30:32.520 --> 0:30:34.280
<v Speaker 1>Then you know what not to do well, And I'm

0:30:34.280 --> 0:30:36.360
<v Speaker 1>sure she has like some big stories that she made

0:30:36.400 --> 0:30:38.520
<v Speaker 1>bigger just to make the book entertaining.

0:30:38.120 --> 0:30:40.360
<v Speaker 2>Too, right, Oh, yeah, did she tell you or did

0:30:40.400 --> 0:30:42.120
<v Speaker 2>she keep it a secret? You have to buy the book.

0:30:43.320 --> 0:30:46.880
<v Speaker 1>She only read the first twenty sentences. You have to purchase.

0:30:47.720 --> 0:30:51.479
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, she told me a few and hundred that she

0:30:51.480 --> 0:30:55.560
<v Speaker 4>didn't embellish, Okay, but one of them she was like,

0:30:55.760 --> 0:30:58.480
<v Speaker 4>oh man, it was so terrible. I like went at

0:30:58.480 --> 0:31:01.320
<v Speaker 4>this date with this guy and he just wanted to

0:31:01.360 --> 0:31:03.000
<v Speaker 4>play board games all night.

0:31:03.400 --> 0:31:04.040
<v Speaker 1>Okay, Like we.

0:31:04.080 --> 0:31:06.760
<v Speaker 4>Went back to his plays and he had Monopoly and

0:31:06.880 --> 0:31:10.080
<v Speaker 4>he had Scrabble and it was just like an endless

0:31:10.760 --> 0:31:12.320
<v Speaker 4>like that's all he wanted to.

0:31:12.280 --> 0:31:14.640
<v Speaker 3>Do the last three days.

0:31:17.840 --> 0:31:19.040
<v Speaker 1>That was her horror stories.

0:31:19.120 --> 0:31:20.040
<v Speaker 2>So what's the problem with that.

0:31:20.760 --> 0:31:22.719
<v Speaker 4>Well, the thing is is that I kind of had

0:31:22.760 --> 0:31:25.840
<v Speaker 4>a whole night planned and after dinner, like, what's in

0:31:25.880 --> 0:31:31.040
<v Speaker 4>my living room? A couple of board games?

0:31:31.040 --> 0:31:31.200
<v Speaker 2>Oh?

0:31:31.280 --> 0:31:34.600
<v Speaker 1>I see, so it just derailed your Okay, I can.

0:31:35.280 --> 0:31:37.600
<v Speaker 4>And then I had to make excuses to like sneak

0:31:37.640 --> 0:31:39.840
<v Speaker 4>over to the living room and like hide the game

0:31:40.080 --> 0:31:41.960
<v Speaker 4>I had.

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<v Speaker 3>I guess we're not going to play Connect for tonight.

0:31:45.000 --> 0:31:47.160
<v Speaker 1>I bet that that's not what she meant. I bet

0:31:47.200 --> 0:31:49.200
<v Speaker 1>it's not that she didn't want to play board games.

0:31:49.200 --> 0:31:51.959
<v Speaker 1>It's just that maybe this guy had literally hours of

0:31:52.000 --> 0:31:55.520
<v Speaker 1>it playing or it was like really competitive in a

0:31:55.600 --> 0:31:56.360
<v Speaker 1>dumb way.

0:31:56.280 --> 0:31:56.480
<v Speaker 9>You know.

0:31:57.120 --> 0:31:57.920
<v Speaker 7>Yeah, I mean maybe.

0:31:58.000 --> 0:31:59.920
<v Speaker 4>But then she was also like, I've been on like

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<v Speaker 4>so many days we're like guys have tried to cook

0:32:02.120 --> 0:32:05.080
<v Speaker 4>for me and just like totally burnt the food. Oh

0:32:05.120 --> 0:32:07.320
<v Speaker 4>and I'm like in the middle of cooking, well she

0:32:07.400 --> 0:32:12.920
<v Speaker 4>says this. So then I'm like, oh my god, if

0:32:12.920 --> 0:32:15.880
<v Speaker 4>I don't get these Inchulata's perfect, I'm gonna get ripped about.

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<v Speaker 4>And I'm like it was just very stressful.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I could see how her stories you could

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<v Speaker 1>interpret them to be about you. I don't think that

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<v Speaker 1>it wasn't her intention.

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<v Speaker 2>Though, Yeah, and you don't have to just believe us

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<v Speaker 2>telling you that you can hear it straight from Fran's mouth.

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<v Speaker 2>Why do I keep.

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<v Speaker 1>Saying it like that?

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<v Speaker 2>Because she's on the other line right now wants to

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<v Speaker 2>talk to you.

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<v Speaker 7>Man.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, that's Frand in her mouth. Yeah, go ahead,

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<v Speaker 2>Friand's mouth say stuff.

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<v Speaker 6>Hey, Sonny. I'm first of all, I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a good start.

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<v Speaker 6>Every thing that you said is true, and you would ask,

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<v Speaker 6>and I just thought it would be like they were

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<v Speaker 6>kind of funny and silly, and I just thought it

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<v Speaker 6>would be fine to kind of talk about it. But

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<v Speaker 6>I can see how that would send somebody kind of

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<v Speaker 6>into their head.

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<v Speaker 2>Tommy, are you hearing her his head?

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah? I don't know.

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<v Speaker 4>It was just like a little I mean, I don't

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<v Speaker 4>know how you want me to feel about that, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>It's just like I feel like it's like, all right, sweet,

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<v Speaker 4>put a ton of pressure on me, like on this

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<v Speaker 4>first date when.

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<v Speaker 7>I don't know you.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, well, it's a person.

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<v Speaker 6>I had no idea about the board games, and I'm

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<v Speaker 6>sorry if you felt like you would a hide step.

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<v Speaker 6>And to be clear, the board game guy tried to

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<v Speaker 6>explain settlers of Catan to me for an hour and

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<v Speaker 6>I just couldn't handle it.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, but it's not that you hate any board games

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<v Speaker 2>as a date night. It was just with that particular.

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<v Speaker 1>Guy, right, careful, Yeah, with somebody that you're.

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<v Speaker 2>Down to scrabble with, Tommy. Maybe the games.

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<v Speaker 1>Somebody else what you want? Mouse Trap? No, they don't care, Jose.

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<v Speaker 7>I've actually never played Hungry Hungry Hip Both.

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<v Speaker 1>No, it is the worst game. It is so dumb.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 9>It is.

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<v Speaker 6>Honestly, is somebody who talked about not liking board games.

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<v Speaker 6>I really like that game?

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<v Speaker 2>All right, fine, I really, Tommy, I'm going to take

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<v Speaker 2>Fran's side here. I really don't think you need to

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<v Speaker 2>feel like insecure about her worst people I've Ever dated book,

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<v Speaker 2>Just don't read.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe her second book can be about how her dating

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<v Speaker 1>life turned into a relationship, and that could be starring you.

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<v Speaker 1>Nobody wants to read that.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I'm writing the worst Coworkers I've Ever had book,

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<v Speaker 2>and no one in this room isn't it. So you

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<v Speaker 2>don't need to feel insecure about that at all.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't because keep talking just by comparison, But.

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<v Speaker 2>I really think you should get Fran another shot here, Tommy,

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<v Speaker 2>and if you willing to go out with her, we'll

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<v Speaker 2>pay for that date.

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<v Speaker 7>Look, I was having a good time.

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<v Speaker 4>If I can just maybe just get a promise that

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<v Speaker 4>she's not going to write about me, that would be amazing.

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<v Speaker 1>To be a really juicy chapter that she'd have to

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<v Speaker 1>leave out.

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<v Speaker 6>I'll tell you what, Tommy, I will do you one better.

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<v Speaker 6>I will write about this, except I will take full

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<v Speaker 6>responsibility and be the bad date.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, you're using us as content to be in

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<v Speaker 2>your book.

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<v Speaker 1>I think I have to call my agent first, and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sure that there's a cut that we're supposed to get.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, too late, I've already had the chapter outline.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, well I'm starting a new book. Worst listeners I've

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<v Speaker 2>ever told. But congratulations you guys. We're going to send.

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<v Speaker 1>Keep us updated, Okay, and let us know how when

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<v Speaker 1>the book's published as well.

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<v Speaker 2>Who wins Hungry Hungry Hippos too?

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<v Speaker 8>It's gonna be good brooking Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 2>Textboard is blowing up right now. Not surprised. Ninety seven

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<v Speaker 2>percent of people agree Brooke is a bad person for

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<v Speaker 2>not liking Hungry Hungry Hippers.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not a very good game. Like, there's no strategy

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<v Speaker 1>at all. You just say on that say that's all

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<v Speaker 1>you do.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, Brooke, we tend to not like things when

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<v Speaker 2>we see ourselves reflected in them. What's going on.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not gonna lie every time I eat my lunch

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<v Speaker 1>every day, I'm very hungry after.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, the peopils were eating kale and craw healthy.

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<v Speaker 3>It's the best game ever.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, you got me, You've got.

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<v Speaker 3>Me there you eat little white balls.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's hung right. I'm glad we were able to

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<v Speaker 2>get them a second date. They've only sounded like they

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<v Speaker 2>had good chemistry.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm curious to hear too, and if her if and

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<v Speaker 1>when her book actually gets published, Yeah, you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>hope she stays updated.

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<v Speaker 3>We should read it.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we should.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, I'll do an audi your book.

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<v Speaker 2>Remember you can always email the show. We'll call that

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