Speaker 1: A happy Labor Day weekend. It's working Jeffrey in the
Speaker 1: morning like we do every Saturday. We got a double
Speaker 1: dose for you on this Second Date podcast. Yeah, two
Speaker 1: classics back to back that we hope you enjoy, you know,
Speaker 1: put on while you're driving or stuck in traffic, doing
Speaker 1: some housework, just.
Speaker 2: In bed not moving. That's a game I like to play.
Speaker 1: Is that how you like your three weekend times?
Speaker 3: It's like, how can I move?
Speaker 4: I hate?
Speaker 3: All right?
Speaker 1: What do you see in the comments of like sis? Yeah,
Speaker 1: Benji Wolf said I hate this show. I will never
Speaker 1: listen again until tomorrow. That's the attitude we like that.
Speaker 3: Yeah, standard, that's right.
Speaker 1: All right, let's get this hated double classics Second Date
Speaker 1: started for you right now.
Speaker 2: We're so jaded that when we hear one of our
Speaker 2: listeners say they had an extremely intense moment on a date,
Speaker 2: we immediately think, oh god, it's got to be bad. Yeah. Absolutely,
Speaker 2: somebody fought a waiter, it started a fire, aliens abducted them.
Speaker 2: But no, the woman will the phone assured us it
Speaker 2: wasn't intense bad. It was intense good, so good that
Speaker 2: it actually left her feeling like she may have met
Speaker 2: her forever person.
Speaker 1: Who on this show.
Speaker 2: That is intense. You're gonna hear all about the moment
Speaker 2: in your second date update coming up, next second date update.
Speaker 2: What's worse than getting ghosted? Should we have a term
Speaker 2: for that?
Speaker 1: Get him deceased?
Speaker 2: Good, cryptid, cryptid, black holed.
Speaker 1: I bet these are all terms already that we probably
Speaker 1: shouldn't google.
Speaker 2: Maybe whatever you call it. That's what our listener, Nicole says,
Speaker 2: happened to her because not only did her date block her,
Speaker 2: he's removed his entire dating profile from the apps. So
Speaker 2: Nicole got black holed bad.
Speaker 1: I think she just got blocked.
Speaker 2: Actually, it really doesn't sound right now that I say
Speaker 2: it out loud, but Nicole, either way, welcome to the show.
Speaker 4: Thank you, oh, thank you.
Speaker 2: I mean you are very perky for someone who is devastated.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, Why on earth would you want to get
Speaker 1: a hold of someone that's blocked you?
Speaker 5: If I did anything wrong, I want to know about it.
Speaker 2: Interesting, So let's start at the beginning. Tell us about
Speaker 2: this guy that you met.
Speaker 5: Okay, so I met Elijah on a dating app, and
Speaker 5: Elijah on his dating profile it was very clear it
Speaker 5: literally said here to find my wife with intentionality and.
Speaker 2: Wow, Okay, so he's not here to just have fun
Speaker 2: and see what happens.
Speaker 5: He's like, right, he might be married.
Speaker 1: I thought Alexis was going to break out in hives
Speaker 1: you just reading that description of something else.
Speaker 2: I feel like a lot of women would be turned
Speaker 2: off by something that strong. But that was appealing to you, Nicole.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm looking.
Speaker 5: For something serious. I want to build a future with someone.
Speaker 5: So I found it really refreshing.
Speaker 2: Okay, I mean.
Speaker 3: People are so vague.
Speaker 1: It's a lot of pressure going into a first date
Speaker 1: like that.
Speaker 2: You know, so you went to Vegas to get hitched
Speaker 2: for your days fun.
Speaker 5: I mean I would be really pissed if we got
Speaker 5: married on a first date and then never heard from
Speaker 5: him again.
Speaker 2: It would Yeah, what did you guys do?
Speaker 4: Okay?
Speaker 5: So we got together and we did something a little
Speaker 5: different that was really really fun. Like, neither of us
Speaker 5: have pets, but we both are animal lovers.
Speaker 6: Okay, So we went to a local.
Speaker 5: Dogs parts and we just chat and we chatted and
Speaker 5: we watched dogs and.
Speaker 2: Did you bring your dog?
Speaker 1: She doesn't have one.
Speaker 2: You don't have a dog, That's what I was going
Speaker 2: to ask you.
Speaker 3: I have never done that. Can you just show up
Speaker 3: to a dog.
Speaker 1: Bark just a normal park.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I've never even thought to do that.
Speaker 1: I don't do the bar where people bring their dog.
Speaker 2: Like you're banned from most public space.
Speaker 3: But that's not because of the dogs. Okay, the women.
Speaker 1: Still, this is really cute because it does sound like
Speaker 1: a date that a couple who's been married for twenty
Speaker 1: years would Yeah, instead.
Speaker 2: Of people watching your dog watching, how was it?
Speaker 6: It was really fun?
Speaker 5: It was great, Like it was so true. And then
Speaker 5: afterwards we drove around the city and he found this
Speaker 5: like really cute area and we pulled over and he
Speaker 5: kind of like pointed out some things to me that
Speaker 5: I hadn't known, and we ended up making out in
Speaker 5: his truck.
Speaker 4: Oh my god.
Speaker 1: Yes.
Speaker 2: Okay.
Speaker 5: What was also interesting, which I actually really liked, is
Speaker 5: like he stopped halfway through like the makeout session, and
Speaker 5: he just like put his hands around my face in
Speaker 5: a way that was really sweet, and he said, look,
Speaker 5: I just want you to know that I'm looking for
Speaker 5: my wife and I don't want this to be a
Speaker 5: one night thing.
Speaker 1: WHOA you could not laugh with some subscribe such a
Speaker 1: tender moment.
Speaker 2: No, you get so comfortable you have such a hard.
Speaker 1: Time with emotion.
Speaker 2: I just laughing at something else.
Speaker 1: Yeah, two hands.
Speaker 2: No, that that was very sweet. I thought that was
Speaker 2: very a nice moment to stop and make out both.
Speaker 3: Hands, grab both cheeks, bring maybe your wife part?
Speaker 7: Yes, I mean it was nice.
Speaker 5: I was like, oh my god, maybe this is my
Speaker 5: future husband day.
Speaker 3: That moment was special.
Speaker 8: Yeah.
Speaker 5: Maybe you guys are perfect for each other.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's true. Everybody's in different spaces of dating. If
Speaker 2: she is ready for this, if this is what you want, Nicoll,
Speaker 2: then we got your back on it.
Speaker 1: How messed up did you do that? You say that
Speaker 1: to someone and then you block her?
Speaker 2: What happened after that? Did something left?
Speaker 5: He gave me this romantic kiss again, and he was like, look,
Speaker 5: I'm looking for my forever and I hope it's you.
Speaker 2: I hope.
Speaker 9: Yeah.
Speaker 1: I thought that the whole time it was you, And
Speaker 1: that was the face grab and the stuff.
Speaker 3: Maybe you're much like I really hope you you.
Speaker 1: I don't know. It sounds like he's now a host
Speaker 1: of a reality shit.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't find out when we come back from
Speaker 2: the break and spend the giant wheel Giant.
Speaker 3: I really hope it too.
Speaker 6: It does sound like that.
Speaker 7: Not again?
Speaker 2: So okay, how long ago.
Speaker 7: Was that date?
Speaker 5: This was about a week and a half ago, And like,
Speaker 5: I went home after my yoga craft and I said specifically,
Speaker 5: like oh, I want to see what he's up to,
Speaker 5: but I don't want to message him. Let me go
Speaker 5: look on his profile. And I went on the app
Speaker 5: and I was like, what the hell, like, why are
Speaker 5: we no longer match? Where are all our messages? Yeah?
Speaker 2: I don't know, Gone, is it in your mind that
Speaker 2: maybe somebody else has stepped in? And like he found
Speaker 2: I mean because people are dating on like lots of
Speaker 2: people on these apps all the time. Maybe he found
Speaker 2: somebody else.
Speaker 1: Sounds like me if someone proposed to him, he'd say yes, Yeah.
Speaker 2: I said I love you to a lot of people
Speaker 2: that I didn't it too, So well that's just me,
Speaker 2: I'm sure, yeah, I think And.
Speaker 1: Jeff laughed at himself through the whole thing, very uncomfortable
Speaker 1: with big emotions.
Speaker 2: Let's figure out where Elijah's head is at why he
Speaker 2: took down his dating profile, And.
Speaker 1: It totally makes sense why you would want answers here.
Speaker 5: I looked up Instagram and I would block there, like
Speaker 5: I literally can't see anything that's not good.
Speaker 1: Okay, well, all right, it's a bad side.
Speaker 2: I hope we don't block you at the end of
Speaker 2: this either. We'll find out when we come back. Get
Speaker 2: some answers and your second date update. Right after this
Speaker 2: second date update, Vegas has set the odds at nine
Speaker 2: to one that this call ends in a marriage proposal.
Speaker 1: Wow, I'm really bad with thoughts.
Speaker 2: I'm honest.
Speaker 1: Good, No, you ever know?
Speaker 3: Should be well?
Speaker 2: I don't really know.
Speaker 3: Okay, it's probably.
Speaker 1: You know what, Jeff, I'm not gonna bet anymore.
Speaker 2: The fact that even Vegas is in on this should
Speaker 2: be kind of shocking, because Nicole has asked us to
Speaker 2: call a guy named Elijah, who repeatedly told her that
Speaker 2: he is not dating casually.
Speaker 1: He says it a lot. He says it on his
Speaker 1: dating profile, he says it in real life.
Speaker 2: Very intentionally searching for his wife, and even stopped mid
Speaker 2: makeout to grab her face and remind her this French
Speaker 2: thing isn't for fun. It is a wife hunt. I'm
Speaker 2: setting atone with this tomb so afterwards. The weird part.
Speaker 1: Is that I.
Speaker 2: Afterwards he blocked in Nicole and deleted his entire dating profile.
Speaker 1: Divorce and for Nicole. It's like, I'm guessing Nicole, maybe
Speaker 1: I'm wrong. This is like the most romantic thing that's
Speaker 1: probably ever happened on a first day, right.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I felt like a real connection. I thought to myself,
Speaker 5: Oh my gosh, like this guy knows what he wants,
Speaker 5: and like I was so hopeful, and then all of
Speaker 5: a sudden, it's like, how can I not take this personally? Like,
Speaker 5: not only did he delete the profile block me on
Speaker 5: all socials, I don't even know if he's going to
Speaker 5: answer your number.
Speaker 10: Yeah, well, this is one of those dudes that actions
Speaker 10: speak louder than words. They'll tell you everything you want
Speaker 10: to hear, and then they won't follow through and do it.
Speaker 1: I still feel like that, I hope it's you. Line
Speaker 1: is just not sitting right with me. Yeah, Like it
Speaker 1: feels almost like there's a job opening and he's trying
Speaker 1: to still a position, Like he's not connecting with you,
Speaker 1: he's just trying to make this next step. I don't know.
Speaker 6: I don't know.
Speaker 1: Maybe I'm reading too much of it into.
Speaker 2: Maybe he found one of those Russian bride websites and
Speaker 2: he realized how easy it is to do that. So
Speaker 2: I hope that's not the answer, but she loves me
Speaker 2: her to say, let's call see if he picks up,
Speaker 2: and hopefully he has some explanation. Here, I'm downing his
Speaker 2: number right now. Let's do it.
Speaker 7: Hello.
Speaker 2: Hey is this Elijah. Yeah, this is a radio show.
Speaker 2: We're called Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning, and we
Speaker 2: are a hoot and a half.
Speaker 3: Oh my god, you never say that again.
Speaker 2: We are.
Speaker 1: It's like just when we get popular.
Speaker 2: This is what's boosting the ratings. Elija, you still there.
Speaker 9: Yeah, we're doing better until jeff started talking.
Speaker 1: But we're here.
Speaker 2: We're calling with a purpose. It's a segment that we're
Speaker 2: doing called Second Date Update. That's where listeners can come
Speaker 2: on our show and we try and help them reconnect
Speaker 2: with a person they went on a date with that
Speaker 2: they had a really nice time with. Darn it all.
Speaker 1: Right, dude, I am so interested in hearing.
Speaker 2: Story because we heard that you went out with a
Speaker 2: woman named Nicole about a week ago.
Speaker 1: Right, Okay, yeah, I mean it sounds like a really
Speaker 1: good date that you two had. Would you agree with that?
Speaker 7: Yeah?
Speaker 9: I mean it was cool.
Speaker 2: It was cool, Okay, positive, it is positive.
Speaker 1: I just didn't you don't seem like a casual guy.
Speaker 1: From what she explained, was.
Speaker 3: Intense than I assumed.
Speaker 2: She definitely intense is a good word because she said
Speaker 2: that you were putting it out there a lot, that
Speaker 2: you were only dating to find a wife for love.
Speaker 1: I don't know. He said, you.
Speaker 10: Guys, love is a wife dating.
Speaker 2: So we heard about that you're looking for a wife.
Speaker 7: I mean, not anymore, no way, I found.
Speaker 2: Wait, does that means there's another person?
Speaker 7: Well, here's the thing.
Speaker 9: After the date, I went to a clairvoyant, and uh
Speaker 9: I got new is that my wife isn't even in
Speaker 9: this realm?
Speaker 7: What?
Speaker 3: Okay? You want to hang.
Speaker 6: Hold on?
Speaker 1: I just dropped my pick because I just can't.
Speaker 3: Okay, hold on.
Speaker 2: The psychic said, your wife is not in this realm? Right,
Speaker 2: it makes a lot of sense to me. I get
Speaker 2: what you're saying, but maybe explain for everybody else.
Speaker 9: Honestly, I believe that I've married other people in my
Speaker 9: past live. It's constantly the same person, maybe in a
Speaker 9: slightly different form.
Speaker 2: Okay, So this same person, your soulmate that's been with
Speaker 2: you across all your lives, She's not.
Speaker 1: That's who you're looking for.
Speaker 2: She's not here.
Speaker 9: Nah, Why how.
Speaker 10: Do you know, brother, Like, how do you know that
Speaker 10: the girl you went on a day with isn't told him?
Speaker 3: I know?
Speaker 7: But yeah, you're.
Speaker 3: Looking for is she say it's me? Hi, honey, like.
Speaker 1: I'm from the seventeen that kind of the part of
Speaker 1: the past live saying that you don't actually remember the
Speaker 1: explain it to us.
Speaker 3: Yeah, thank you.
Speaker 9: My clare voyant said that I found my soulmate in
Speaker 9: every single dimension, but not this one.
Speaker 2: She doesn't exist in this one. No, that she's not
Speaker 2: here here in this.
Speaker 1: Okay, it doesn't matter where she has I think this
Speaker 1: could be good news.
Speaker 2: Actually, yeah, because we have a real life woman who
Speaker 2: feels like she had a strong connection with you, and it.
Speaker 1: Sounds like you're freed up in this realm, you know,
Speaker 1: like you're single and kind of permanently in the.
Speaker 2: Nicole we're talking about Nicole. Obviously, Nicole felt that connection
Speaker 2: with you.
Speaker 7: Okay, what do you mean that's a good thing?
Speaker 1: You told her again and again, I'm looking for my wife.
Speaker 1: I hope it's you.
Speaker 7: Is this a sign?
Speaker 1: Is a sign?
Speaker 4: Yes?
Speaker 3: Yes it is.
Speaker 2: Look, Nicole felt like you guys had a deep, deep connection,
Speaker 2: and now you actually have a phone connection to her too,
Speaker 2: because she's on the other line waiting to talk to you.
Speaker 7: What I.
Speaker 2: That's Nicole.
Speaker 9: I know she's on the phone, but my wife's dead.
Speaker 1: Oh no, past life.
Speaker 2: I thought she wasn't in this realm, right, correct?
Speaker 7: She never made it here?
Speaker 4: Oh okay, wait what Yeah?
Speaker 1: Exactly Nicole? So why did you We never even got
Speaker 1: to why you blocked Nicole?
Speaker 2: This is why because she's not his wife. Nobody's going
Speaker 2: to be his wife though, Are we understanding that right?
Speaker 2: If you're not looking for your wife since she's not
Speaker 2: in the realm, then then you're not interested in dating
Speaker 2: at all.
Speaker 9: I guess somethings are better off unexplained.
Speaker 7: I don't have all the answer.
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, you're right, this is definitely unexplainable.
Speaker 2: Well, I think the explanation makes sense. He was searching
Speaker 2: for his wife the whole time, but not just anybody,
Speaker 2: a specific woman from another dimension. And you're not.
Speaker 5: Think this clairvoyant is really messing with you, Like I
Speaker 5: feel like she is trying to kind of be the
Speaker 5: only person who can like access supposedly what your quote
Speaker 5: unquote truth is. And wow, I might not be your
Speaker 5: celestial being from a different realm, but I think you're
Speaker 5: going to miss out on some really great girls in
Speaker 5: this realm if you don't give us a real shot.
Speaker 1: That was good, That was so well spoken.
Speaker 2: What do you think about that, Elijah?
Speaker 9: All I heard was that she was talking about my clairvoyant.
Speaker 1: Who is this man?
Speaker 5: Your clearvoyant? Can meet me outside?
Speaker 2: Wow, let's put the wife and the clairvoyant stuff aside.
Speaker 2: What can we What about just having fun with Nicole,
Speaker 2: going out on another date and enjoying this life.
Speaker 1: I mean, you've got a woman that has heard all
Speaker 1: of this and still wants to hang out with you.
Speaker 5: I mean, I guess I do something wrong specifically for
Speaker 5: you to block me.
Speaker 2: You weren't my wife.
Speaker 9: I don't know how many times I told you that.
Speaker 2: Okay, maybe I was.
Speaker 5: Maybe the clairvoyant is wrong. I mean, I'm just saying
Speaker 5: I don't like being rejected, and I also have to
Speaker 5: say that, like, I think it's just really shortsighted. We
Speaker 5: had a great time.
Speaker 9: Yeah, well, I know that my wife didn't talk that
Speaker 9: much in another lifetime.
Speaker 1: Clear my goshee is purposely avoiding him now, dude, Yeah,
Speaker 1: the wife wasn't born into this century.
Speaker 5: Maybe my point in this lifetime to tell you to
Speaker 5: be more accepting of your feature rife than another realm.
Speaker 2: Okay, so I know Nicole still is fighting for this,
Speaker 2: So Elijah, I think she's just fighting. I get that
Speaker 2: you have doubts about Nicole. What if you and Nicole
Speaker 2: went to your clairvoyant together and we would pay for
Speaker 2: the uber ride?
Speaker 3: Oh my god, can we have a fight, Nicole?
Speaker 2: Give it a chance?
Speaker 1: Would Nicole even do that?
Speaker 5: Honestly, I'm just confused and curious as to what the
Speaker 5: clairvoyant would tell me about my path.
Speaker 1: I don't I don't want to know it's going to
Speaker 1: lead you down at dark Trail.
Speaker 2: I want this to happen. So that's a yes from Nicole. Elijah.
Speaker 2: It's up to you.
Speaker 9: My clairevoyant is in chief, so if she pays, then
Speaker 9: I'm cool with it.
Speaker 2: All right, Nicole, I'm sure you're down for that.
Speaker 5: I mean, hey, it's on the radio. We can even
Speaker 5: come back and tell you guys, I don't.
Speaker 1: Know about want to know?
Speaker 2: Do we want to know?
Speaker 7: That?
Speaker 2: That's going to be a no?
Speaker 1: From all.
Speaker 2: It sounds like it's a yes, Eliza and Nicole. You
Speaker 2: guys are going out together in this realm.
Speaker 1: I can't wait till we do a second date update
Speaker 1: from the next realm.
Speaker 3: It's going to be expensive phone bill.
Speaker 8: Freaking Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 2: Is that literally the only second date update where we
Speaker 2: actually got a yes but then said we don't need
Speaker 2: an update, We're good.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that is not remember Ever, I am still baffled
Speaker 1: by that entire conversation. I don't know what was real,
Speaker 1: who believed what if they were being sincere?
Speaker 3: Okay, well, I'm sorry, girls asked for a commitment.
Speaker 10: This guy's committed over what hundreds of years?
Speaker 6: Valid?
Speaker 1: Point valid? But maybe you were his wife. It'll pass life.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm waiting for you, honey.
Speaker 2: Yeah. I do think maybe the missing piece in all
Speaker 2: of this is is it possible Elijah had been smoking
Speaker 2: something when we called him?
Speaker 10: You know, he sounded like that's his vibe, like he
Speaker 10: didn't sound like a big mysterious person.
Speaker 2: He was trying to reach the other dimension true different
Speaker 2: means find his wife. Yeah, trying to find his wife
Speaker 2: that way, I.
Speaker 3: Don't see.
Speaker 2: That.
Speaker 1: I think Alexis was on to something where he actually
Speaker 1: probably did have a wife and she just chose not
Speaker 1: to come back like that. That's not worth coming back. Again.
Speaker 2: You know, I call it four hundredth marriage. Yeah, it's
Speaker 2: enough for me. The text in seven eight, five nine two.
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Speaker 8: Jeffrey brooking Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 2: Feels like every single date ever always includes the same
Speaker 2: old question, where.
Speaker 3: Did you grow up?
Speaker 2: What are your hobbies?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 2: How many pieces of canalope can you fit in your mouth?
Speaker 2: At the same time, that's actually a great quy. My
Speaker 2: record's in nineteen dang, yeah.
Speaker 1: Is it slice?
Speaker 8: Like?
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't even know what to know. I don't
Speaker 1: want to know.
Speaker 2: I'll show you later. We challenge each.
Speaker 1: Other's mellow balls, isn't it.
Speaker 2: But while those might seem like pretty tame, normal conversation starters,
Speaker 2: one of our listeners says she divulged a little too
Speaker 2: much when she was asked about her career aspirations, and
Speaker 2: while her answer was one hundred percent true, he's one
Speaker 2: hundred percent not calling her back anymore, and you're gonna
Speaker 2: hear why in your second date update. Right after this
Speaker 2: second date update, we got an email from one of
Speaker 2: our listeners named Fran who said she dates a lot,
Speaker 2: probably more than the average person. According to her, was.
Speaker 1: That a brag.
Speaker 2: I don't know if that's a brag. If you're having
Speaker 2: to go out with lots and lots and lots of people.
Speaker 3: It's like the office problem with it alone.
Speaker 2: But she says after thirty five dates over the last
Speaker 2: six months, she thinks she finally found a guy who
Speaker 2: doesn't totally repulse her. It's good.
Speaker 1: Her bar's very high.
Speaker 2: Well, and now he's not calling her back right now.
Speaker 2: The repuls becomes the repulsey, and she's on the phone
Speaker 2: right now. Fran I love you, You disgust me. Welcome
Speaker 2: to the show.
Speaker 6: Hey, how are you guys?
Speaker 3: Friend?
Speaker 1: God, I feel like your proof that when people say
Speaker 1: you just got to put yourself out there, that it
Speaker 1: doesn't actually always work.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you put yourself out there last for years and
Speaker 2: years and years. Tell us about the guy that you
Speaker 2: recently met.
Speaker 6: Okay, So I met this guy through the way we
Speaker 6: always hate meeting people online dating.
Speaker 1: Yeah, for sure.
Speaker 6: His name is Tommy. Okay, Okay, she was so handsome,
Speaker 6: and you know, you see a ton of people online
Speaker 6: that are attractive and you kind of don't think anything
Speaker 6: of it. But I look through photos, and he had
Speaker 6: this one photo of him with two cats that were
Speaker 6: his cat. It was really sweet because guys always posting
Speaker 6: photos with like dogs or like when they're fishing and
Speaker 6: all this other stuff, and it was really sweet to
Speaker 6: see something that wasn't that.
Speaker 2: He posted a totally different animal. This guy's a keeper,
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 1: Yeah, cat guy, it just screams. He's sensitive, he's in tune.
Speaker 1: He's not like there's no toxic masculinity stuff happening there.
Speaker 2: Like if it was a tiger cat, that would be
Speaker 2: a red yeah yeah, housecat, that's flax.
Speaker 6: So you know, we had some really cute banter back
Speaker 6: and forth, and finally he kind of dropped the tint like, oh,
Speaker 6: you know, I make he's really amazing homemade enchiladas. I know,
Speaker 6: I know. And he was just like, you know, how
Speaker 6: would you feel if I made dinner for you and
Speaker 6: he came over and.
Speaker 1: Did it feel too good to be true? Already? He's hot,
Speaker 1: he's got cats, he cooks for you.
Speaker 6: Honestly kind of, but you know, you also have that
Speaker 6: thing where you're like, well maybe twenty seven or eighty
Speaker 6: times a charm whatever where we're at now? So you're like,
Speaker 6: we'll see.
Speaker 1: I like your eternal optimism on you know, like to
Speaker 1: go out on that many dates and keep trying.
Speaker 6: You kind of have to be because I think if
Speaker 6: you get too jaded, and that's not attractive to people either.
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's that's probably where I'm at.
Speaker 2: I'm guessing you rs vp'd yes to the enchilada date.
Speaker 6: I did, so, you know, I went over there, really
Speaker 6: cute place, clean, another plus, so he makes these enchiladas
Speaker 6: and I'm watching him cook. There's something so sexy about
Speaker 6: watching a man cook. And when he knows his way
Speaker 6: around the kitchen.
Speaker 1: I really like it when they throw a towel like
Speaker 1: over the side of their shoulder. That's like a thing
Speaker 1: for me.
Speaker 2: Oh oh yeah, and the big chef.
Speaker 5: Hats no, but I will take an apron now.
Speaker 1: Is good? It's not good?
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'll get rid of you don't need.
Speaker 3: A hair net, fike mustache.
Speaker 2: Chef style. Yeah, okay.
Speaker 1: What was the vibe? Like the conversation?
Speaker 6: So it was good, Like our banter online was pretty
Speaker 6: much the same in person, which is always nice. You know,
Speaker 6: it wasn't awkward and we're chatting back and forth, and
Speaker 6: of course inevitably It always comes to the same question,
Speaker 6: which is, you know, what do you do for a living?
Speaker 6: And the thing is I work in insurance. That is
Speaker 6: not a sexy thing to talk about. It's boring.
Speaker 2: What are you talking about insurance? It's hot. I can
Speaker 2: show you a twenty page document you have to sign on.
Speaker 1: The bottom, all in nine fonts. So you told them insurance.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 6: Well, if I'm feeling it out and the vibe is good,
Speaker 6: I'll usually be pretty honest and be like, my day
Speaker 6: job is insurance, but I'm also an author and I'm
Speaker 6: working on a book right now.
Speaker 1: Oh right, And that's true, right, it is true.
Speaker 6: Yes, But the problem is they always say, well, what
Speaker 6: are you working on now? And I am really honest
Speaker 6: about it, and this is true. I'm working on a
Speaker 6: collection of all of the worst states that I've been on.
Speaker 10: Oh okay, Yeah, it's a slightly relatable. I have a
Speaker 10: lot of comedian friends, and it's hard to date because
Speaker 10: girls immediately go, oh, I don't want to end up
Speaker 10: in one of your jokes on stage.
Speaker 3: Yeah, to be like, I don't want to end up
Speaker 3: in one of your books, yeah.
Speaker 1: And then don't mess it up.
Speaker 3: Well, that's a lot of pressure, brock, It's easy to
Speaker 3: mess up.
Speaker 2: Is that the vibe of what happened with Tommy.
Speaker 6: Yeah, it really kind of derailed. And you know, we
Speaker 6: finished dinner. Dinner was great still. But this is the
Speaker 6: thing I usually will do too. It's like, I don't
Speaker 6: want to put too much pressure on somebody, especially if
Speaker 6: you're like invited to their home or whatever. So I
Speaker 6: made plans already to go and meet up with my
Speaker 6: friends after we had dinner in a bar and so
Speaker 6: and I told him that I said, you're more than
Speaker 6: welcome to come, hoping that he would.
Speaker 1: But you're more than welcome to come isn't always a
Speaker 1: full invite. It feels like a pity invite.
Speaker 10: I feel like, you know, I would like to be
Speaker 10: invited like that, you know, Like for me, it's like
Speaker 10: it is, I don't feel pressured where it's like.
Speaker 3: Shooting out if I say no, I'm rejecting her.
Speaker 1: It's interesting.
Speaker 10: It's kind of like, oh, you know what, I don't
Speaker 10: think this time, maybe next time.
Speaker 1: What did he say?
Speaker 8: Oh?
Speaker 6: He said now, yeah, And it was really weird and
Speaker 6: like we had this really awkward hug goodbye. And I
Speaker 6: really liked him a lot, and I really just want
Speaker 6: some clarity, because I feel like this is the thing
Speaker 6: that you can't be mad at somebody for working on
Speaker 6: something well before you ever met well and.
Speaker 1: He doesn't have anything to do with him.
Speaker 2: I mean, what was his reaction, because you seem to
Speaker 2: think that this was the main part of the night
Speaker 2: where things started to go downhill, Like, tell us more
Speaker 2: about how Tommy reacted when you told him about the book.
Speaker 6: I got a vibe from him that he just started
Speaker 6: to like internalize and be like, oh, well, is that
Speaker 6: why she's on a date with me? Is she really
Speaker 6: interested in me? Or is this research?
Speaker 7: You know?
Speaker 1: Well, you should tell him your past, the research stage
Speaker 1: that was months ago. You're well into the second edit
Speaker 1: of this thing.
Speaker 10: When he rejected you, you should have just pulled out
Speaker 10: a notebook and been like.
Speaker 7: Well.
Speaker 2: As for chapter four, well we'll see once and for
Speaker 2: all if he does end up in your book. In
Speaker 2: the book, I don't want to be in that book.
Speaker 2: Why do you want to be It's the worst experiences,
Speaker 2: you know what.
Speaker 3: I'm probably already in her book.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Actually, we'll come back and we're gonna call Tommy and
Speaker 2: see if we can get you another date with him.
Speaker 2: When we do your second ate update, Next second date update.
Speaker 2: Top three worst things you could say to a guy
Speaker 2: on a first date. I'm not who I said I was. Yeah,
Speaker 2: your dad was better. Oh I'm a New York Jets fan.
Speaker 3: Oh booike. You just love mediocrity.
Speaker 1: It doesn't exist, Like they don't really exist.
Speaker 2: They're too embarrassed to admit it. But also not a
Speaker 2: great idea to tell a guy. I'm currently writing a
Speaker 2: book about the worst dudes I've ever gone out.
Speaker 3: It's pretty dang bad.
Speaker 8: Bro.
Speaker 1: Is it bad though? I mean, it's your first date
Speaker 1: with her, you think so?
Speaker 2: Its off of the guys. In securities are many. And
Speaker 2: that's exactly what Franz said when she was out with
Speaker 2: Tommy the other night, while he was making her in chiladas.
Speaker 2: That moment kind of derailed their entire night.
Speaker 1: But he was a guy that had cats in the
Speaker 1: photo of his dating profile. He shouldn't have had insecurities.
Speaker 1: What you know, she understands what I'm saying, right, Did
Speaker 1: that make sense to you, fran I.
Speaker 6: Mean, yeah, I thought he was more in touch with that.
Speaker 1: Perfect It's just like the vibe of cat dudes give
Speaker 1: it off, like I'm stable. I know who I am.
Speaker 3: Huh, checklist before you buy a cat?
Speaker 1: Say that's the vibe, that's the vibe.
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, I'll accept that.
Speaker 2: Okay, nothing toxic about what Brooke just I don't think
Speaker 2: shouldn't have insecurities. All right, Let's see if he agrees
Speaker 2: with that sentiment when we call him right now. You
Speaker 2: ready to do this, Fran, Let's do it, hoping the
Speaker 2: cats answer, Let's give it a try. Hello, Hey is
Speaker 2: this Tommy?
Speaker 7: Uh? Yeah?
Speaker 2: You an insecure boy? Tommy? What why would you say that?
Speaker 2: I won't see what you thought?
Speaker 8: No?
Speaker 3: I thought he wasn't Tommy. Sorry, Sorry, we were having
Speaker 3: a discussion before we called you.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's spilled over into this phone call. We're a
Speaker 2: radio show called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 4: Yoh, why are you calling me?
Speaker 2: Good question. We're doing this segment called a second Date Update,
Speaker 2: and one of our listeners asked us to reach out
Speaker 2: to you because you two hung out the other night,
Speaker 2: remember Fran.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, he cooked enchiladas for her, we heard, which
Speaker 1: is a pretty awesome move.
Speaker 7: How do you know all this.
Speaker 2: Is straight from Fran's mouth, well, Friand's mouth to my
Speaker 2: ears to my mouth.
Speaker 1: Why are you making everything Frand told us is what
Speaker 1: he's trying to say. Yeah, because she's she likes you.
Speaker 2: She likes you, and she wants to see you again
Speaker 2: and is confused why it hasn't happened yet.
Speaker 7: Well, I mean, just being honest, it was. It was
Speaker 7: a little weird. Oh weird.
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, Well here's the deal, man, Like we get
Speaker 2: emails all the time from people asking us to do
Speaker 2: these for them. And Fran admitted that she's dated a
Speaker 2: lot of people and you stood out among all the guys.
Speaker 2: You were different and she really liked you. And she
Speaker 2: also wishes that she didn't bring up the book that
Speaker 2: she was writing.
Speaker 7: Well, okay, so that's the thing.
Speaker 4: I mean, it was going fine, you know, it was
Speaker 4: she seems nice enough, you know, it's a five date,
Speaker 4: and then she brings up this book and it's just like,
Speaker 4: I mean, it's so weird, Like, am I just content
Speaker 4: for you to put into your book?
Speaker 1: But she wouldn't tell you about the book if she
Speaker 1: thought you were going to be in it, like just
Speaker 1: sharing what's going on in your life, her life, and
Speaker 1: she had already written about all the other bad dates
Speaker 1: she was really thought she was on a good date
Speaker 1: with you.
Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, But here's the thing. So then I'm like, Okay,
Speaker 4: this is kind of weird, but maybe it's fine, you know, maybe.
Speaker 7: This doesn't include me. But then I was like, hey, so,
Speaker 7: what are some of the bad dates that you went on?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Goodness, A good question.
Speaker 1: Then you know what not to do well, And I'm
Speaker 1: sure she has like some big stories that she made
Speaker 1: bigger just to make the book entertaining.
Speaker 2: Too, right, Oh, yeah, did she tell you or did
Speaker 2: she keep it a secret? You have to buy the book.
Speaker 1: She only read the first twenty sentences. You have to purchase.
Speaker 4: Yeah, she told me a few and hundred that she
Speaker 4: didn't embellish, Okay, but one of them she was like,
Speaker 4: oh man, it was so terrible. I like went at
Speaker 4: this date with this guy and he just wanted to
Speaker 4: play board games all night.
Speaker 1: Okay, Like we.
Speaker 4: Went back to his plays and he had Monopoly and
Speaker 4: he had Scrabble and it was just like an endless
Speaker 4: like that's all he wanted to.
Speaker 3: Do the last three days.
Speaker 1: That was her horror stories.
Speaker 2: So what's the problem with that.
Speaker 4: Well, the thing is is that I kind of had
Speaker 4: a whole night planned and after dinner, like, what's in
Speaker 4: my living room? A couple of board games?
Speaker 2: Oh?
Speaker 1: I see, so it just derailed your Okay, I can.
Speaker 4: And then I had to make excuses to like sneak
Speaker 4: over to the living room and like hide the game
Speaker 4: I had.
Speaker 3: I guess we're not going to play Connect for tonight.
Speaker 1: I bet that that's not what she meant. I bet
Speaker 1: it's not that she didn't want to play board games.
Speaker 1: It's just that maybe this guy had literally hours of
Speaker 1: it playing or it was like really competitive in a
Speaker 1: dumb way.
Speaker 9: You know.
Speaker 7: Yeah, I mean maybe.
Speaker 4: But then she was also like, I've been on like
Speaker 4: so many days we're like guys have tried to cook
Speaker 4: for me and just like totally burnt the food. Oh
Speaker 4: and I'm like in the middle of cooking, well she
Speaker 4: says this. So then I'm like, oh my god, if
Speaker 4: I don't get these Inchulata's perfect, I'm gonna get ripped about.
Speaker 4: And I'm like it was just very stressful.
Speaker 1: I mean, I could see how her stories you could
Speaker 1: interpret them to be about you. I don't think that
Speaker 1: it wasn't her intention.
Speaker 2: Though, Yeah, and you don't have to just believe us
Speaker 2: telling you that you can hear it straight from Fran's mouth.
Speaker 2: Why do I keep.
Speaker 1: Saying it like that?
Speaker 2: Because she's on the other line right now wants to
Speaker 2: talk to you.
Speaker 7: Man.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, that's Frand in her mouth. Yeah, go ahead,
Speaker 2: Friand's mouth say stuff.
Speaker 6: Hey, Sonny. I'm first of all, I'm sorry.
Speaker 1: That's a good start.
Speaker 6: Every thing that you said is true, and you would ask,
Speaker 6: and I just thought it would be like they were
Speaker 6: kind of funny and silly, and I just thought it
Speaker 6: would be fine to kind of talk about it. But
Speaker 6: I can see how that would send somebody kind of
Speaker 6: into their head.
Speaker 2: Tommy, are you hearing her his head?
Speaker 7: Yeah? I don't know.
Speaker 4: It was just like a little I mean, I don't
Speaker 4: know how you want me to feel about that, you know,
Speaker 4: It's just like I feel like it's like, all right, sweet,
Speaker 4: put a ton of pressure on me, like on this
Speaker 4: first date when.
Speaker 7: I don't know you.
Speaker 4: You know, well, it's a person.
Speaker 6: I had no idea about the board games, and I'm
Speaker 6: sorry if you felt like you would a hide step.
Speaker 6: And to be clear, the board game guy tried to
Speaker 6: explain settlers of Catan to me for an hour and
Speaker 6: I just couldn't handle it.
Speaker 2: Okay, but it's not that you hate any board games
Speaker 2: as a date night. It was just with that particular.
Speaker 1: Guy, right, careful, Yeah, with somebody that you're.
Speaker 2: Down to scrabble with, Tommy. Maybe the games.
Speaker 1: Somebody else what you want? Mouse Trap? No, they don't care, Jose.
Speaker 7: I've actually never played Hungry Hungry Hip Both.
Speaker 1: No, it is the worst game. It is so dumb.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry.
Speaker 9: It is.
Speaker 6: Honestly, is somebody who talked about not liking board games.
Speaker 6: I really like that game?
Speaker 2: All right, fine, I really, Tommy, I'm going to take
Speaker 2: Fran's side here. I really don't think you need to
Speaker 2: feel like insecure about her worst people I've Ever dated book,
Speaker 2: Just don't read.
Speaker 1: Maybe her second book can be about how her dating
Speaker 1: life turned into a relationship, and that could be starring you.
Speaker 1: Nobody wants to read that.
Speaker 2: Okay, I'm writing the worst Coworkers I've Ever had book,
Speaker 2: and no one in this room isn't it. So you
Speaker 2: don't need to feel insecure about that at all.
Speaker 1: I don't because keep talking just by comparison, But.
Speaker 2: I really think you should get Fran another shot here, Tommy,
Speaker 2: and if you willing to go out with her, we'll
Speaker 2: pay for that date.
Speaker 7: Look, I was having a good time.
Speaker 4: If I can just maybe just get a promise that
Speaker 4: she's not going to write about me, that would be amazing.
Speaker 1: To be a really juicy chapter that she'd have to
Speaker 1: leave out.
Speaker 6: I'll tell you what, Tommy, I will do you one better.
Speaker 6: I will write about this, except I will take full
Speaker 6: responsibility and be the bad date.
Speaker 2: I mean, you're using us as content to be in
Speaker 2: your book.
Speaker 1: I think I have to call my agent first, and
Speaker 1: I'm sure that there's a cut that we're supposed to get.
Speaker 6: Yeah, too late, I've already had the chapter outline.
Speaker 2: Okay, well I'm starting a new book. Worst listeners I've
Speaker 2: ever told. But congratulations you guys. We're going to send.
Speaker 1: Keep us updated, Okay, and let us know how when
Speaker 1: the book's published as well.
Speaker 2: Who wins Hungry Hungry Hippos too?
Speaker 8: It's gonna be good brooking Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 2: Textboard is blowing up right now. Not surprised. Ninety seven
Speaker 2: percent of people agree Brooke is a bad person for
Speaker 2: not liking Hungry Hungry Hippers.
Speaker 1: It's not a very good game. Like, there's no strategy
Speaker 1: at all. You just say on that say that's all
Speaker 1: you do.
Speaker 2: You know, Brooke, we tend to not like things when
Speaker 2: we see ourselves reflected in them. What's going on.
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie every time I eat my lunch
Speaker 1: every day, I'm very hungry after.
Speaker 2: Yeah, the peopils were eating kale and craw healthy.
Speaker 3: It's the best game ever.
Speaker 1: All right, you got me, You've got.
Speaker 3: Me there you eat little white balls.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's hung right. I'm glad we were able to
Speaker 2: get them a second date. They've only sounded like they
Speaker 2: had good chemistry.
Speaker 1: I'm curious to hear too, and if her if and
Speaker 1: when her book actually gets published, Yeah, you know, I
Speaker 1: hope she stays updated.
Speaker 3: We should read it.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we should.
Speaker 3: I mean, I'll do an audi your book.
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