1 00:00:14,280 --> 00:00:18,000 Speaker 1: Hi, guys, Welcome to another episode of Diamonds in the Rough. 2 00:00:18,239 --> 00:00:21,600 Speaker 1: We are recapping Royal Housewives of Orange County Season nineteen, 3 00:00:21,680 --> 00:00:25,000 Speaker 1: episode seven. Right now, I am here with one of 4 00:00:25,040 --> 00:00:30,200 Speaker 1: my besties and producer. Hey, I'm agin it's so you 5 00:00:30,240 --> 00:00:32,920 Speaker 1: normally hear laughing in the bat going stupid. 6 00:00:33,240 --> 00:00:35,199 Speaker 2: Why I got to do this with Erica once and 7 00:00:35,240 --> 00:00:36,280 Speaker 2: now I get to do it with you. 8 00:00:36,680 --> 00:00:38,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, so Erica was out of town. Then we didn't 9 00:00:38,840 --> 00:00:41,560 Speaker 1: want to be too backed up on episodes, So here 10 00:00:41,600 --> 00:00:43,720 Speaker 1: we go. We are going to be recapping this episode. 11 00:00:43,760 --> 00:00:48,279 Speaker 1: It should be titled you can't do the show without Tamram. No, 12 00:00:48,440 --> 00:00:51,440 Speaker 1: you can't. I mean they're even on the freaking trip 13 00:00:52,360 --> 00:00:55,200 Speaker 1: and they're having to pan to Tamra and therapy. 14 00:00:55,320 --> 00:00:57,440 Speaker 2: They couldn't get through a full day of New Orleans 15 00:00:57,640 --> 00:00:59,960 Speaker 2: without Tamra. Judge. They were like, let's cut the chip 16 00:01:00,440 --> 00:01:03,360 Speaker 2: chip short, let's go. Sorry, get off the boat, ladies. 17 00:01:04,040 --> 00:01:06,720 Speaker 1: Sorry, we got to keep it going. So the episode 18 00:01:06,760 --> 00:01:10,240 Speaker 1: starts out the girls are heading to the airboat Adventures. Emily, 19 00:01:10,280 --> 00:01:12,240 Speaker 1: Heather and Gin are in one car. The other car 20 00:01:12,280 --> 00:01:16,640 Speaker 1: has Katie, Gretchen and Jen. Shannon's running late. Both cars 21 00:01:16,680 --> 00:01:19,680 Speaker 1: are discussing what happened with Tamra last night not Shocked. Here, 22 00:01:20,000 --> 00:01:22,920 Speaker 1: Gina tells Emily that Heather said that she called the 23 00:01:23,000 --> 00:01:26,240 Speaker 1: journalist and confirmed with what Tamra said was true and 24 00:01:26,280 --> 00:01:29,679 Speaker 1: that Katie was lying. Here's where I'm confused. 25 00:01:30,200 --> 00:01:32,080 Speaker 2: Okay, well, you know what we should clear up real 26 00:01:32,160 --> 00:01:35,880 Speaker 2: quick that bothers me. People are saying about they call 27 00:01:36,040 --> 00:01:38,840 Speaker 2: basically you and Tamra bloggers because this word blogger, I 28 00:01:38,840 --> 00:01:42,839 Speaker 2: think has gotten so out of context. A journalist, a podcaster, 29 00:01:43,360 --> 00:01:46,480 Speaker 2: a blogger, a Bravo content creator. There's a vast difference 30 00:01:46,480 --> 00:01:50,520 Speaker 2: between all of these people. So Gina calling a journalist 31 00:01:50,600 --> 00:01:52,560 Speaker 2: is not the same thing as talking to a quote 32 00:01:52,600 --> 00:01:55,600 Speaker 2: unquote blogger. With the blogger they're using the context of 33 00:01:55,640 --> 00:01:58,280 Speaker 2: the show are basically Bravo content creators. 34 00:01:58,360 --> 00:02:03,920 Speaker 1: Right, Well, but I wouldn't say that Kiki Monique is 35 00:02:03,920 --> 00:02:05,280 Speaker 1: a Bravo content creator. 36 00:02:05,400 --> 00:02:08,079 Speaker 2: Well, she has an actual radio show, A saying she 37 00:02:08,080 --> 00:02:11,160 Speaker 2: has a radio show, but you wouldn't call her a blogger. No, Right, 38 00:02:11,240 --> 00:02:13,200 Speaker 2: That's that's what I'm saying. I think we're getting the 39 00:02:13,240 --> 00:02:16,120 Speaker 2: things all conflated with with the word blogger. We're lumping 40 00:02:16,120 --> 00:02:18,840 Speaker 2: it all one because people are calling out Tamra, saying 41 00:02:18,880 --> 00:02:21,480 Speaker 2: Tamra is a blogger, Like she's not. She's a podcaster. 42 00:02:21,919 --> 00:02:27,080 Speaker 2: She's a housewife who runs a very successful podcast. That's 43 00:02:27,120 --> 00:02:28,679 Speaker 2: not the same thing as being a blogger. 44 00:02:29,440 --> 00:02:32,120 Speaker 1: But also, if you are a blogger, fine, but that's 45 00:02:32,160 --> 00:02:34,040 Speaker 1: not who we're talking about in this instant. 46 00:02:34,160 --> 00:02:35,720 Speaker 2: Correct. Yes, that's the point I wanted to make. 47 00:02:35,880 --> 00:02:39,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, but also this is where I'm confused. Okay, so 48 00:02:39,760 --> 00:02:41,400 Speaker 1: Katie's lying, but. 49 00:02:41,600 --> 00:02:42,800 Speaker 2: What else is new? 50 00:02:43,120 --> 00:02:50,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, but okay, Katie's Lyne. But also so it's so 51 00:02:50,880 --> 00:02:55,320 Speaker 1: obvious to me that so is Gretchen. 52 00:02:55,919 --> 00:03:00,720 Speaker 2: Oh and I think Jen gives the tell at the 53 00:03:00,800 --> 00:03:02,480 Speaker 2: end of the episode, which we can talk about now 54 00:03:02,480 --> 00:03:04,320 Speaker 2: if you want. But this it was a big moment 55 00:03:04,360 --> 00:03:06,840 Speaker 2: for me because Jen says in her talking head eventually 56 00:03:07,480 --> 00:03:10,440 Speaker 2: even if she did say it, and to me that's 57 00:03:10,480 --> 00:03:13,120 Speaker 2: in immediately, oh she said it. Yeah, if you're saying 58 00:03:13,240 --> 00:03:16,040 Speaker 2: even if she did say it, she said it. 59 00:03:16,520 --> 00:03:19,120 Speaker 1: Yeah. So the girls arrive at the Airboat Adventures to 60 00:03:19,160 --> 00:03:22,880 Speaker 1: see some alligators. Shannon is having a panic attack. 61 00:03:24,320 --> 00:03:25,280 Speaker 2: What else is new? 62 00:03:26,400 --> 00:03:29,440 Speaker 1: The hair is askew. She's having a panic attack, so 63 00:03:29,560 --> 00:03:31,400 Speaker 1: she's late. They decide they want to leave her but 64 00:03:31,400 --> 00:03:35,480 Speaker 1: she still needs your coat. Okay, Shannon, come on, Once 65 00:03:35,520 --> 00:03:37,480 Speaker 1: you're late, then you can't ask for production to go 66 00:03:37,480 --> 00:03:38,120 Speaker 1: get your coat. 67 00:03:38,240 --> 00:03:40,240 Speaker 2: Well, are there xanax in the coat? Because then maybe 68 00:03:40,280 --> 00:03:41,240 Speaker 2: they should get the coat. 69 00:03:41,920 --> 00:03:42,840 Speaker 1: Can I have the coat? 70 00:03:43,000 --> 00:03:45,080 Speaker 2: Please? Are there some zannies in the pocket? 71 00:03:45,240 --> 00:03:47,600 Speaker 1: Our xanax in the night before? In the coat? 72 00:03:48,080 --> 00:03:49,400 Speaker 2: I think she took them all. 73 00:03:52,880 --> 00:03:55,600 Speaker 1: Then Gina explains that she's having a lot of anxiety 74 00:03:55,640 --> 00:03:58,520 Speaker 1: and being late does not help, and Shan starts crying 75 00:03:59,000 --> 00:04:02,880 Speaker 1: and saying, well, I had a panic attack or anxiety attack. 76 00:04:04,360 --> 00:04:07,960 Speaker 2: That's Shannon's perpetual state. Is an anxiety attack? 77 00:04:08,760 --> 00:04:09,720 Speaker 1: Well mine too? 78 00:04:10,040 --> 00:04:12,040 Speaker 2: Well, yeah, but you handle it a little bit better 79 00:04:12,080 --> 00:04:12,640 Speaker 2: than she does. 80 00:04:12,680 --> 00:04:14,440 Speaker 1: I think, are you giving me a compliment? 81 00:04:14,600 --> 00:04:17,279 Speaker 2: You know you look really good today? The hair, I'm 82 00:04:17,320 --> 00:04:19,080 Speaker 2: telling you start. 83 00:04:19,200 --> 00:04:21,000 Speaker 1: Say obsessed with me? 84 00:04:21,720 --> 00:04:23,960 Speaker 2: He looks so it's so creepy. 85 00:04:24,279 --> 00:04:30,080 Speaker 1: Scoot over. But the girls arrive at Bourbon House for dinner. 86 00:04:30,360 --> 00:04:33,080 Speaker 1: They try fried oysters at the bar and Emily makes 87 00:04:33,120 --> 00:04:36,000 Speaker 1: fun of Heather. Heather and Emily started arguing and didn't 88 00:04:36,040 --> 00:04:40,520 Speaker 1: even notice that Gina was honestly choking. She yes, she was, 89 00:04:40,920 --> 00:04:43,000 Speaker 1: but I also don't think Gina needs to be off 90 00:04:43,040 --> 00:04:43,360 Speaker 1: the show. 91 00:04:43,880 --> 00:04:46,400 Speaker 2: That's fine. I had this conversation with Erica too. You 92 00:04:46,440 --> 00:04:47,920 Speaker 2: both enjoyed Gina. That's great. 93 00:04:48,360 --> 00:04:51,839 Speaker 1: Well, then why are you getting mad about it? I 94 00:04:51,880 --> 00:04:53,400 Speaker 1: there's no rate, Like, why are you all wake up? 95 00:04:53,480 --> 00:04:56,240 Speaker 2: I think I said it's the vocal fry. But also, 96 00:04:57,120 --> 00:04:59,400 Speaker 2: you know, Gina's doing her job this season. I feel 97 00:04:59,400 --> 00:05:03,760 Speaker 2: like she's playing the middle, the middle person, the middle orange. 98 00:05:04,000 --> 00:05:07,520 Speaker 2: I don't know something about it, just doesn't. I did 99 00:05:07,560 --> 00:05:10,400 Speaker 2: like that she called Shannon out on being late. Yeah, 100 00:05:10,560 --> 00:05:12,320 Speaker 2: which is a through line I feel like on Housewives 101 00:05:12,320 --> 00:05:14,000 Speaker 2: this week because we've dealt with Lisa being late and 102 00:05:14,040 --> 00:05:15,320 Speaker 2: then Shannon being late. 103 00:05:15,839 --> 00:05:18,720 Speaker 1: So I get between the lateness and the headbands. Enough 104 00:05:18,800 --> 00:05:19,200 Speaker 1: is enough? 105 00:05:19,600 --> 00:05:22,040 Speaker 2: Oh the headband's gotta go with that Gretchen out look. 106 00:05:22,480 --> 00:05:25,200 Speaker 1: The confessional with the with the did you see the 107 00:05:25,240 --> 00:05:29,760 Speaker 1: drunk drawn picture of No, Oh, he did one. It's 108 00:05:29,920 --> 00:05:31,240 Speaker 1: so good. 109 00:05:31,480 --> 00:05:33,120 Speaker 2: Oh. I got to look at up drunk look up 110 00:05:33,200 --> 00:05:35,080 Speaker 2: drunk drown. If you guys don't follow him on Instagram 111 00:05:35,200 --> 00:05:37,720 Speaker 2: or him or her, I don't know whatever the pronouns are, 112 00:05:37,760 --> 00:05:39,480 Speaker 2: but drunk Tron is amazing. 113 00:05:39,640 --> 00:05:40,560 Speaker 1: So good. 114 00:05:40,720 --> 00:05:43,799 Speaker 2: No, but that look was like it was like Jackie 115 00:05:44,120 --> 00:05:50,039 Speaker 2: Kennedy on Nassis, but like bought it on Timu, do 116 00:05:50,080 --> 00:05:52,120 Speaker 2: you know what I mean? Like it? It didn't work. 117 00:05:52,279 --> 00:06:07,080 Speaker 1: It was not it was a no boring out. Then 118 00:06:07,120 --> 00:06:09,640 Speaker 1: at dinner, Gina brings up that she called the journalist 119 00:06:09,720 --> 00:06:12,840 Speaker 1: and they confirmed that Katie did say that to Kiki. 120 00:06:13,279 --> 00:06:15,360 Speaker 1: Gretchen wonders, why are they're talking about it if it 121 00:06:15,440 --> 00:06:18,599 Speaker 1: wasn't published. She says she doesn't have proof, so why 122 00:06:18,600 --> 00:06:21,520 Speaker 1: would she believe Kiki. The girls want to call Kiki, 123 00:06:21,640 --> 00:06:23,960 Speaker 1: and Jen says that if she were Katie, she would 124 00:06:24,000 --> 00:06:27,839 Speaker 1: be dialing Kiki right now. And Katie's confessional, she explains 125 00:06:27,880 --> 00:06:31,000 Speaker 1: the last fall, she went to dinner with Jen, Gretchen 126 00:06:31,160 --> 00:06:33,640 Speaker 1: and all of their significant others, and she says that's 127 00:06:33,640 --> 00:06:36,120 Speaker 1: when Gretchen and Slade told them At the night of 128 00:06:36,240 --> 00:06:38,440 Speaker 1: Naked Wasted, she felt sick and they went to the 129 00:06:38,440 --> 00:06:41,680 Speaker 1: hospital and she did a toxicology report and they found 130 00:06:41,800 --> 00:06:43,320 Speaker 1: drugs in her system. 131 00:06:44,360 --> 00:06:47,040 Speaker 2: So at this point are we believing Katie? 132 00:06:47,520 --> 00:06:51,760 Speaker 1: At this point, I believe that Katie told Kiki Monique. 133 00:06:51,960 --> 00:06:55,680 Speaker 1: At this point, I also believe she told Kiki Monique 134 00:06:55,720 --> 00:06:57,960 Speaker 1: because Slade and Gretchen told her that story. 135 00:06:59,640 --> 00:07:02,120 Speaker 2: Gretchen, I feel at this point had not been asked 136 00:07:02,160 --> 00:07:04,560 Speaker 2: back yet. When if we're going back to when this 137 00:07:04,600 --> 00:07:06,479 Speaker 2: conversation happened at that dinner. 138 00:07:06,480 --> 00:07:11,200 Speaker 1: Oh okay, right, Oh, I think the unfilmed conversation. 139 00:07:11,320 --> 00:07:13,160 Speaker 2: So I don't think if I don't know if this 140 00:07:13,400 --> 00:07:16,000 Speaker 2: was Gretchen and Slade trying to get back on the show, 141 00:07:16,080 --> 00:07:18,000 Speaker 2: if it was them not being on the show and 142 00:07:18,040 --> 00:07:20,000 Speaker 2: wanting to get at Tamra and they thought Katie was 143 00:07:20,040 --> 00:07:23,440 Speaker 2: the vehicle to do it. They knew, they knew by 144 00:07:23,560 --> 00:07:26,120 Speaker 2: last season. Katie obviously is going to take things like 145 00:07:26,200 --> 00:07:28,480 Speaker 2: she did with the paparazzi with Heather last season and 146 00:07:28,600 --> 00:07:32,040 Speaker 2: just use them to her advantage. She's she should on 147 00:07:32,120 --> 00:07:38,440 Speaker 2: paper be an amazing housewife. Yeah, and something isn't working 148 00:07:38,520 --> 00:07:39,320 Speaker 2: with the way. 149 00:07:39,600 --> 00:07:43,080 Speaker 1: Because I don't think she wants to be the shit 150 00:07:43,160 --> 00:07:46,560 Speaker 1: talk the same way Jen's doing it is what Katie's doing. 151 00:07:47,520 --> 00:07:50,120 Speaker 2: Well, Jen is a different level of disingenuous to me. 152 00:07:50,920 --> 00:07:53,280 Speaker 2: I think what Katie's problem is is that she hasn't 153 00:07:53,320 --> 00:07:56,080 Speaker 2: given herself enough time to make real relationships. 154 00:07:57,160 --> 00:08:01,880 Speaker 3: Well, not like anyone's trying, right, But don't you think 155 00:08:01,920 --> 00:08:05,280 Speaker 3: that if she had built at least a connection with 156 00:08:05,320 --> 00:08:08,679 Speaker 3: these women maybe last season going like, you don't care 157 00:08:09,280 --> 00:08:10,400 Speaker 3: enough because she doesn't. 158 00:08:10,440 --> 00:08:13,000 Speaker 2: There aren't high enough stakes with her with the women. 159 00:08:12,880 --> 00:08:15,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, whether she's there or not. It's like there's no 160 00:08:15,800 --> 00:08:19,440 Speaker 1: real relationship and we're hearing the same thing over and 161 00:08:19,520 --> 00:08:22,560 Speaker 1: over and over again. But to me, now, the story 162 00:08:22,640 --> 00:08:25,000 Speaker 1: isn't about Katie. I don't care about Katie. I care 163 00:08:25,040 --> 00:08:27,880 Speaker 1: about Gretchen and Slade telling this to Katie. 164 00:08:28,320 --> 00:08:31,320 Speaker 2: Correct and what their purpose and reason was. 165 00:08:31,840 --> 00:08:35,640 Speaker 1: And was it to talk shit about Tamra because or 166 00:08:35,920 --> 00:08:39,200 Speaker 1: was it because they're truly upset by it? Is it 167 00:08:39,280 --> 00:08:41,280 Speaker 1: because they wanted it to come out on the show? 168 00:08:41,400 --> 00:08:43,240 Speaker 1: Is it because they wanted to be back on the show? 169 00:08:43,360 --> 00:08:45,240 Speaker 1: I mean there's a million different reasons why it could 170 00:08:45,280 --> 00:08:45,800 Speaker 1: have happened. 171 00:08:46,240 --> 00:08:48,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, And I mean obviously they wanted back on the 172 00:08:48,920 --> 00:08:49,679 Speaker 2: show no matter what. 173 00:08:49,960 --> 00:08:52,559 Speaker 1: Why is Jin pretending she doesn't remember this conversation? 174 00:08:52,760 --> 00:08:56,560 Speaker 2: Is the problem with n Jin? She has been lying 175 00:08:56,600 --> 00:08:58,600 Speaker 2: since the beginning of the season, and no she gets 176 00:08:58,640 --> 00:09:00,160 Speaker 2: away with it. No one calls her out. Do you 177 00:09:00,160 --> 00:09:03,080 Speaker 2: remember at the beginning of the season, Gina said, Jen, 178 00:09:03,240 --> 00:09:05,959 Speaker 2: you said that Katie's a con artist, and Jen pulled 179 00:09:06,000 --> 00:09:09,120 Speaker 2: her whole innocence act. I would never say and it 180 00:09:09,200 --> 00:09:13,000 Speaker 2: got dropped and no one presses her on anything. It 181 00:09:13,040 --> 00:09:15,280 Speaker 2: was the same with the video that Katie took of 182 00:09:15,360 --> 00:09:19,640 Speaker 2: Shannon that she originally said she let Jen and Alexis 183 00:09:19,679 --> 00:09:22,760 Speaker 2: listen to it, and Jen vehemently denied it, and it 184 00:09:22,920 --> 00:09:26,040 Speaker 2: just was let go. It's like, oh, okay, Jen, You're 185 00:09:27,160 --> 00:09:29,559 Speaker 2: people are saying all these things and you're always I 186 00:09:29,600 --> 00:09:30,320 Speaker 2: would never do that. 187 00:09:30,600 --> 00:09:33,320 Speaker 1: Do you think that nobody goes against Jen because Jen 188 00:09:33,679 --> 00:09:35,880 Speaker 1: got a good a good season last year. 189 00:09:35,960 --> 00:09:39,440 Speaker 2: I think that's a factor for sure. I mean, Jen is, 190 00:09:39,880 --> 00:09:42,200 Speaker 2: I don't. I think she is interesting to watch. I 191 00:09:42,200 --> 00:09:44,120 Speaker 2: think there's a lot of story there that we're missing 192 00:09:44,200 --> 00:09:47,840 Speaker 2: out on, and I hopefully they start digging into it 193 00:09:47,920 --> 00:09:54,400 Speaker 2: and she gets, you know, more of combative people about 194 00:09:54,400 --> 00:09:56,800 Speaker 2: what she's saying. She's just they just let her slide 195 00:09:56,840 --> 00:09:58,920 Speaker 2: with things. It's crazy. I think at this point you 196 00:09:58,960 --> 00:10:01,920 Speaker 2: should be able to tell that and is lying Yeah. 197 00:10:02,200 --> 00:10:04,800 Speaker 1: Then they panned to Tamar going to see her therapist. 198 00:10:05,040 --> 00:10:08,800 Speaker 1: She tells her what happened in New Orleans. Tamar explains 199 00:10:08,840 --> 00:10:11,320 Speaker 1: that she tried to call me before dinner, but I 200 00:10:11,320 --> 00:10:14,080 Speaker 1: didn't answer. It's not a shock and this is not 201 00:10:15,160 --> 00:10:17,920 Speaker 1: just a tamor thing, I don't ever answer the phone. 202 00:10:18,840 --> 00:10:21,720 Speaker 2: Wait, just please talk about the fact that your voicemail 203 00:10:22,160 --> 00:10:25,880 Speaker 2: we here is I forgot don't leave me a voicemail, 204 00:10:26,080 --> 00:10:31,160 Speaker 2: and Tama goes, hey, babe, I forgot about that part. 205 00:10:32,840 --> 00:10:35,319 Speaker 1: My voicemail does say Hi, it's Teddy, Please don't leave 206 00:10:35,320 --> 00:10:39,000 Speaker 1: a message, and then they've panned to Hi, babe, it's 207 00:10:39,080 --> 00:10:47,040 Speaker 1: tam I've forgot about that. But she said she knew 208 00:10:47,080 --> 00:10:48,319 Speaker 1: it was going to be hard on her going in 209 00:10:48,400 --> 00:10:50,920 Speaker 1: dinner dinner, and she admits that she took half a 210 00:10:51,040 --> 00:10:54,680 Speaker 1: annex and had two drinks, and since she got home, 211 00:10:54,720 --> 00:10:56,720 Speaker 1: none of them called her, is what she says to 212 00:10:56,760 --> 00:10:57,400 Speaker 1: the therapist. 213 00:10:57,720 --> 00:11:01,000 Speaker 2: Correct. We we do get into that later with the 214 00:11:01,080 --> 00:11:01,680 Speaker 2: scene with Heather. 215 00:11:01,920 --> 00:11:05,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, and then we get they're all home now, Emily 216 00:11:05,160 --> 00:11:07,920 Speaker 1: and Shane send Luke off on his plate. Emily says 217 00:11:07,960 --> 00:11:10,520 Speaker 1: Luke was calling her over and over again in New Orleans. 218 00:11:11,040 --> 00:11:13,520 Speaker 1: She tells Shane that since she got back, Lucas talking 219 00:11:13,559 --> 00:11:15,880 Speaker 1: to her like a baby, and Shane says, it doesn't 220 00:11:15,920 --> 00:11:18,560 Speaker 1: happen with me, It only happens with you. But that's 221 00:11:18,600 --> 00:11:24,120 Speaker 1: common with all kids that they will act one way 222 00:11:24,120 --> 00:11:26,599 Speaker 1: with their mom in one way with their dad. 223 00:11:27,080 --> 00:11:29,400 Speaker 2: Especially boys. I feel like I've watched Cruise with you 224 00:11:29,480 --> 00:11:32,440 Speaker 2: and then Cruise with Edwin and I there's a distinct difference. 225 00:11:32,080 --> 00:11:35,359 Speaker 1: In the way, Yeah, Cruise with me, He's like yeah, moman, 226 00:11:35,960 --> 00:11:40,000 Speaker 1: and then with Edwin's he's what's up? 227 00:11:40,720 --> 00:11:44,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, so bro, he's so bro with me, and I'm like, cruise, 228 00:11:44,440 --> 00:11:49,840 Speaker 2: you don't have to be bro with me, boy. 229 00:11:51,360 --> 00:11:54,560 Speaker 1: So, but Emily does end up getting emotional, and I 230 00:11:54,559 --> 00:11:58,800 Speaker 1: think what's happening here is they're having a disconnect Emily 231 00:11:58,880 --> 00:12:02,640 Speaker 1: and Shane because Shane's, you know, part of it, this 232 00:12:02,720 --> 00:12:06,120 Speaker 1: is airing on television. I think Shane's trying to protect 233 00:12:06,160 --> 00:12:08,040 Speaker 1: the kids a little bit, where Emily's trying to be 234 00:12:08,080 --> 00:12:10,400 Speaker 1: completely transparent with what they're going through. 235 00:12:10,640 --> 00:12:13,080 Speaker 2: Do you're saying you feel like Shane would have rather 236 00:12:13,120 --> 00:12:16,720 Speaker 2: not talked about the son's issue on camera? Okay, I 237 00:12:16,720 --> 00:12:19,439 Speaker 2: think what Emily's doing is good though. 238 00:12:19,640 --> 00:12:22,000 Speaker 1: I think it's good. I think it's helpful. I think 239 00:12:22,000 --> 00:12:24,480 Speaker 1: it'll change a lot of lies. But I think Shane 240 00:12:25,240 --> 00:12:27,520 Speaker 1: it makes him kind of close up, and then it 241 00:12:27,600 --> 00:12:30,160 Speaker 1: makes Emily feel like, you know, when you're having a 242 00:12:30,200 --> 00:12:33,720 Speaker 1: conversation and it feels one sided. But it's something you're 243 00:12:33,760 --> 00:12:36,760 Speaker 1: really passionate about it hurts you. Yeah, I think that's 244 00:12:36,760 --> 00:12:38,400 Speaker 1: why she ended up getting emotional. 245 00:12:38,920 --> 00:12:41,040 Speaker 2: I did too, And I think it's you know, it's 246 00:12:41,080 --> 00:12:45,520 Speaker 2: probably is it really affecting their marriage because she's taking 247 00:12:45,600 --> 00:12:48,440 Speaker 2: what's happening with the sun and kind of putting it 248 00:12:48,480 --> 00:12:51,560 Speaker 2: on her Yeah, And I don't maybe Shane doesn't know 249 00:12:51,600 --> 00:12:53,800 Speaker 2: how to bring her down from that in a way 250 00:12:53,840 --> 00:12:57,400 Speaker 2: that's conducive to not then leading to a fight. 251 00:12:57,720 --> 00:13:01,760 Speaker 1: Correct. Then Heather and tear for lunch. Heather asks what 252 00:13:01,920 --> 00:13:07,160 Speaker 1: happened that night, and Tamara admits that she had his annex, 253 00:13:07,679 --> 00:13:09,920 Speaker 1: and then she tells Heather she feels like she's on 254 00:13:09,960 --> 00:13:12,840 Speaker 1: an island by herself. Tarma tells Heather she didn't get 255 00:13:12,880 --> 00:13:14,960 Speaker 1: a call from her, and then Heather says she called 256 00:13:14,960 --> 00:13:16,560 Speaker 1: her that night and Tama hung up on. 257 00:13:16,600 --> 00:13:22,200 Speaker 2: Her right, which you know, Tamar probably doesn't remember, so 258 00:13:22,240 --> 00:13:22,959 Speaker 2: we have to let that go. 259 00:13:23,160 --> 00:13:25,920 Speaker 1: But the one that was only one call the night 260 00:13:25,960 --> 00:13:28,240 Speaker 1: of does that count? 261 00:13:28,960 --> 00:13:30,720 Speaker 2: Uh? 262 00:13:30,760 --> 00:13:30,840 Speaker 1: It? 263 00:13:31,080 --> 00:13:34,120 Speaker 2: I think it. I mean I know that Tama really 264 00:13:34,160 --> 00:13:36,680 Speaker 2: just wanted somebody to say, like, hey, are you okay? 265 00:13:36,800 --> 00:13:37,839 Speaker 2: And she's not getting that. 266 00:13:38,240 --> 00:13:40,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, she hasn't gotten it all season. 267 00:13:41,320 --> 00:13:46,640 Speaker 2: Right, and so you know, should she have acted the 268 00:13:46,640 --> 00:13:49,400 Speaker 2: way she did it at dinner, Obviously she could have 269 00:13:49,400 --> 00:13:52,120 Speaker 2: handled it a different way. But I get why Tamar 270 00:13:52,200 --> 00:13:54,520 Speaker 2: is upset with Heather because Heather is probably her best 271 00:13:54,520 --> 00:13:56,720 Speaker 2: friend on the show, Yeah for sure, and so she 272 00:13:56,920 --> 00:14:01,400 Speaker 2: just wants someone to be like are you okay. 273 00:14:00,400 --> 00:14:03,679 Speaker 1: Which Heather does a little bit at this lunch. 274 00:14:05,360 --> 00:14:07,520 Speaker 2: Right until Cody walks into the scene. 275 00:14:08,360 --> 00:14:10,480 Speaker 1: Just because you know Cody by name, because you think 276 00:14:10,520 --> 00:14:11,320 Speaker 1: he's the hot waiter. 277 00:14:11,920 --> 00:14:17,520 Speaker 2: It's the hot waiter. It's a thing. Cody is going 278 00:14:17,520 --> 00:14:19,360 Speaker 2: to be on Watch What Happens Live as a bartender. 279 00:14:19,440 --> 00:14:21,520 Speaker 2: We can call it right now. I guarantee you Andy 280 00:14:21,520 --> 00:14:23,680 Speaker 2: Cohen will have that man as a bartender and watch 281 00:14:23,720 --> 00:14:24,240 Speaker 2: app its like. 282 00:14:24,200 --> 00:14:26,040 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, I really hope that happens. 283 00:14:26,160 --> 00:14:28,560 Speaker 2: I hope it does for him too well and for us. 284 00:14:29,120 --> 00:14:31,720 Speaker 1: There's a little funny meme too that was made and 285 00:14:31,760 --> 00:14:35,760 Speaker 1: it's like Chammer's face asking like was this sparkling water? 286 00:14:36,000 --> 00:14:37,920 Speaker 1: Do you recommend it? Oh? 287 00:14:38,000 --> 00:14:41,280 Speaker 2: Right? So obviously Teddy also noticed Cody. She's trying to 288 00:14:41,280 --> 00:14:44,800 Speaker 2: pretend like she didn't know. You found him on Instagram already. 289 00:14:44,800 --> 00:14:45,600 Speaker 2: I can guarantee it. 290 00:14:45,680 --> 00:14:49,040 Speaker 1: You follow Cody. 291 00:14:50,640 --> 00:14:54,160 Speaker 2: To be another gay vestie. I gotta I got a 292 00:14:54,200 --> 00:14:57,960 Speaker 2: feeling we'll see reached out to us codes. 293 00:14:58,160 --> 00:15:02,920 Speaker 1: I'm busy, I'm busy. Cody worry about that. Then Emily, Jen, 294 00:15:03,040 --> 00:15:05,920 Speaker 1: and Gretchen meet at the bar. Gretchen doesn't know if 295 00:15:06,000 --> 00:15:10,000 Speaker 1: she's being naive about Katie and Katie had said she 296 00:15:10,040 --> 00:15:12,520 Speaker 1: had no issue with calling Kiky at dinner, but then 297 00:15:12,760 --> 00:15:16,920 Speaker 1: why didn't she. Jen wonders that if Gretchen did say 298 00:15:16,920 --> 00:15:21,560 Speaker 1: this to Katie Katie, why Katie would tell the bloggers. Okay, 299 00:15:22,440 --> 00:15:27,640 Speaker 1: some things to break down here. The reason Gretchen isn't 300 00:15:27,800 --> 00:15:31,320 Speaker 1: upset about this in general is because she doesn't want 301 00:15:31,400 --> 00:15:32,920 Speaker 1: it to come out that she did it, that she 302 00:15:33,040 --> 00:15:36,000 Speaker 1: told a group of people about this. 303 00:15:36,560 --> 00:15:38,720 Speaker 2: Well, so she changed her story, and I'm just gonna say, 304 00:15:38,800 --> 00:15:42,000 Speaker 2: we missed well, we missed the yes. But she says 305 00:15:42,040 --> 00:15:44,840 Speaker 2: the tamer in the car she did go to the hospital, 306 00:15:45,560 --> 00:15:48,600 Speaker 2: and then cut to right to her confessional where she says, 307 00:15:48,920 --> 00:15:53,120 Speaker 2: I did not go to the hospital, but I should have. Yeah, 308 00:15:53,640 --> 00:15:59,080 Speaker 2: that immediately should tell you. Gretchen said it some to 309 00:15:59,160 --> 00:16:00,120 Speaker 2: some effect. 310 00:16:00,160 --> 00:16:03,120 Speaker 1: To some effect, Gretchen said it. And Gretchen can't even 311 00:16:03,200 --> 00:16:04,640 Speaker 1: keep track of what she did. 312 00:16:04,440 --> 00:16:09,240 Speaker 2: Say, right, and why is Slade calling Matt? They so 313 00:16:09,280 --> 00:16:11,840 Speaker 2: they went on Juicy Scoop? Did you see this? Okay? 314 00:16:11,840 --> 00:16:13,840 Speaker 2: So Gretchen and Slade went on Juicy Scoop and they 315 00:16:13,920 --> 00:16:17,120 Speaker 2: broke it down and said Slade called Matt just to 316 00:16:17,160 --> 00:16:20,880 Speaker 2: be like, hey, why is your wife doing this? But 317 00:16:21,080 --> 00:16:23,920 Speaker 2: that doesn't make sense either because even. 318 00:16:23,800 --> 00:16:28,120 Speaker 1: If so, okay, maybe they did tell Katie in confidence, 319 00:16:28,840 --> 00:16:31,520 Speaker 1: but they still told Katie. 320 00:16:32,280 --> 00:16:35,000 Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying Gretchen is she's lying saying that 321 00:16:35,080 --> 00:16:37,360 Speaker 2: she never said it. But I think what happened is 322 00:16:37,920 --> 00:16:40,640 Speaker 2: they're worried that if this were to be brought up 323 00:16:40,680 --> 00:16:42,680 Speaker 2: on camera that it could either a lead to I 324 00:16:42,720 --> 00:16:45,560 Speaker 2: don't know what, like a lawsuit for defamation on Tamra's 325 00:16:45,640 --> 00:16:48,760 Speaker 2: end if they're saying that Tamra drugged her, or like 326 00:16:48,800 --> 00:16:52,360 Speaker 2: a Phaedra situation in Atlanta season nine where if Phaeder 327 00:16:52,440 --> 00:16:56,880 Speaker 2: lied about Candy trying to drug Portie and and she 328 00:16:56,960 --> 00:16:58,960 Speaker 2: was immediately let go from the show, And if they're like, 329 00:16:59,040 --> 00:17:01,160 Speaker 2: oh crap, Gretchen did get back on the show, and 330 00:17:01,320 --> 00:17:03,240 Speaker 2: is this going to blow up her spot now by 331 00:17:03,280 --> 00:17:05,360 Speaker 2: Katie revealing this, that. 332 00:17:05,320 --> 00:17:08,520 Speaker 1: Could possibly be it. But that's where I'm having the problems. 333 00:17:08,680 --> 00:17:12,720 Speaker 1: I don't at this point Katie is a non discussion 334 00:17:12,800 --> 00:17:17,000 Speaker 1: to me in regards to this issue. 335 00:17:17,320 --> 00:17:18,879 Speaker 2: Well but the yeah, I mean. 336 00:17:18,760 --> 00:17:21,959 Speaker 1: I something is still bugging me because Katie telling Kiki 337 00:17:22,440 --> 00:17:23,879 Speaker 1: to me this doesn't shock me. 338 00:17:24,600 --> 00:17:27,640 Speaker 2: Well, I just don't understand what the point was I did. 339 00:17:27,800 --> 00:17:30,480 Speaker 2: I think Katie just wants to be liked almost. Is 340 00:17:30,520 --> 00:17:32,960 Speaker 2: that why she's just telling random people things like. 341 00:17:33,119 --> 00:17:35,080 Speaker 1: But I don't think I think she'd probably have hung 342 00:17:35,119 --> 00:17:37,439 Speaker 1: out with Kiki Monique a couple of times. They became 343 00:17:37,560 --> 00:17:40,639 Speaker 1: pals by pals, like you know, the type where you 344 00:17:40,720 --> 00:17:43,280 Speaker 1: go to you know, drinks and you see each other 345 00:17:43,280 --> 00:17:45,760 Speaker 1: and you hang out, and I think she was gossiping. 346 00:17:45,280 --> 00:17:47,680 Speaker 2: With her, right, No, that's what I one hundred percent. 347 00:17:47,680 --> 00:17:50,359 Speaker 2: But Kiki's obviously in this world in a way that's 348 00:17:50,400 --> 00:17:52,280 Speaker 2: like kind of like off to the side Radio Andy. 349 00:17:52,320 --> 00:17:54,639 Speaker 2: But like you have to assume if you're going to 350 00:17:54,800 --> 00:18:01,600 Speaker 2: mention something that severe, that it's going to come out. 351 00:18:02,119 --> 00:18:04,560 Speaker 1: But it came. I don't think that Katie expected it 352 00:18:04,600 --> 00:18:05,760 Speaker 1: to come out through Tamra. 353 00:18:07,480 --> 00:18:10,160 Speaker 2: I don't think Tamra. I think Tamra was going through 354 00:18:10,880 --> 00:18:14,040 Speaker 2: when Gretchen got back on the show, it was is 355 00:18:14,160 --> 00:18:17,280 Speaker 2: naked wasted going to come back up? Right? That was 356 00:18:17,359 --> 00:18:20,480 Speaker 2: probably in the back of her mind because obviously it's 357 00:18:20,520 --> 00:18:22,920 Speaker 2: one of the things people still talk about to this day, 358 00:18:23,200 --> 00:18:27,600 Speaker 2: and it was do I get ahead of what's about 359 00:18:27,600 --> 00:18:30,159 Speaker 2: to happen because she knew this information, or do I 360 00:18:30,200 --> 00:18:34,600 Speaker 2: not mention it because it's something so kind of dark 361 00:18:34,680 --> 00:18:38,920 Speaker 2: and devastating, Like because once something said, even if it's 362 00:18:38,920 --> 00:18:40,880 Speaker 2: not true, there are some people who are going to be. 363 00:18:40,880 --> 00:18:47,720 Speaker 1: Like, yeah, but that's what's bothering me because it Gretchen 364 00:18:48,080 --> 00:18:53,639 Speaker 1: and Slade doing this back and forth thing really down 365 00:18:56,119 --> 00:18:58,359 Speaker 1: I don't even have the word for it, but for me, 366 00:18:59,040 --> 00:19:02,000 Speaker 1: it just it makes me feel like they're liars. 367 00:19:02,520 --> 00:19:05,000 Speaker 2: Well, well, I agree with you. I think that they're 368 00:19:05,160 --> 00:19:09,000 Speaker 2: obviously lying. I think there's so many instances that point 369 00:19:09,000 --> 00:19:11,720 Speaker 2: out that they're lying and they're trying to cover their tracks. 370 00:19:11,720 --> 00:19:13,800 Speaker 2: And but what I don't understand about Katie is why 371 00:19:13,840 --> 00:19:17,920 Speaker 2: she is trying to protect Gretchen so much in this situation. 372 00:19:17,920 --> 00:19:20,560 Speaker 1: Because she sold her out. 373 00:19:20,160 --> 00:19:24,479 Speaker 2: And now look what happened. She throw Jen and Gretchen 374 00:19:24,520 --> 00:19:30,359 Speaker 2: are making ridiculous Instagram reels that they're swearing aren't what 375 00:19:30,440 --> 00:19:35,480 Speaker 2: they are and Katie should have never have trusted those two. 376 00:19:36,680 --> 00:19:38,800 Speaker 1: No, I don't think Katie had a chance to really 377 00:19:38,800 --> 00:19:41,439 Speaker 1: connect with anybody, and so I think she started connecting 378 00:19:41,760 --> 00:19:46,480 Speaker 1: with people in the Bravo sphere, Yeah, to have conversation 379 00:19:46,840 --> 00:19:48,320 Speaker 1: and try and figure out what it is that she 380 00:19:48,400 --> 00:19:49,960 Speaker 1: was going through. And this is what happened. 381 00:19:50,000 --> 00:19:51,440 Speaker 2: I want Katie to be a good housewife. 382 00:19:51,680 --> 00:19:54,560 Speaker 1: But Katie and her confessional asks the producer if she 383 00:19:54,600 --> 00:19:57,960 Speaker 1: should tell the real story or or if she should 384 00:19:58,000 --> 00:20:05,040 Speaker 1: be protecting Gretchen. To me, that's that's it. Well, actually that's. 385 00:20:05,160 --> 00:20:06,680 Speaker 2: The producers know the questions lying. 386 00:20:06,960 --> 00:20:08,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean I think that they know that she's lying. 387 00:20:09,880 --> 00:20:13,760 Speaker 1: And we have Matt saying he knows that. Matt doesn't 388 00:20:13,800 --> 00:20:18,439 Speaker 1: completely reiterate the story, but he does say she did 389 00:20:18,640 --> 00:20:21,080 Speaker 1: not say that. They did not say that. 390 00:20:21,280 --> 00:20:23,600 Speaker 2: Why do you think that he chooses to be kind of. 391 00:20:23,560 --> 00:20:26,000 Speaker 1: Vague because I think he's trying to stay out of 392 00:20:26,000 --> 00:20:28,240 Speaker 1: the drama even though he's in the drama. 393 00:20:28,640 --> 00:20:30,240 Speaker 2: Does Matt try to say out of the drama? 394 00:20:30,640 --> 00:20:32,960 Speaker 1: No, but I think he wants to and I think so. 395 00:20:33,520 --> 00:20:36,520 Speaker 1: And I think when it's happening in real time, like 396 00:20:36,520 --> 00:20:39,879 Speaker 1: when it's not like a sit down scene between them. 397 00:20:40,480 --> 00:20:44,840 Speaker 1: I think he accidentally lets himself get involved, but when 398 00:20:44,880 --> 00:20:48,040 Speaker 1: it's them sitting there, he knows he's already prepped himself. 399 00:20:48,359 --> 00:20:52,360 Speaker 1: I think he's trying to stay out of the drama 400 00:20:52,680 --> 00:20:54,720 Speaker 1: and just make a martini and look like the perfect 401 00:20:54,720 --> 00:20:57,600 Speaker 1: testband while you're holding back. 402 00:20:57,720 --> 00:20:59,440 Speaker 2: I don't think I think Matt loves the drama. I mean, 403 00:20:59,560 --> 00:21:02,280 Speaker 2: we saw last season was Shannon, and then we saw 404 00:21:02,400 --> 00:21:05,440 Speaker 2: him going off on Tamra when Katie was walking out 405 00:21:05,440 --> 00:21:08,360 Speaker 2: of the Heather's birthday party. I think he enjoys it. 406 00:21:08,800 --> 00:21:10,840 Speaker 2: I think they. I think they kind of. I wish 407 00:21:10,880 --> 00:21:14,240 Speaker 2: that Katie would actually play up the campiness of like, yeah, 408 00:21:14,480 --> 00:21:17,360 Speaker 2: I lie about it, like I'm just lying and causing chaos, 409 00:21:17,400 --> 00:21:18,879 Speaker 2: and I wish you would just blow shit up. I 410 00:21:18,920 --> 00:21:20,960 Speaker 2: wish she would have just threw Gretchen under the bus 411 00:21:20,960 --> 00:21:22,959 Speaker 2: at that. 412 00:21:22,960 --> 00:21:26,600 Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. That's what I want, Katie. Just 413 00:21:26,680 --> 00:21:27,160 Speaker 1: blow it. 414 00:21:27,200 --> 00:21:31,960 Speaker 2: Up the reunion. Katie, we need you to blow it up. 415 00:21:32,560 --> 00:21:35,480 Speaker 1: Blow it up. I'm going to end this episode with 416 00:21:35,640 --> 00:21:38,520 Speaker 1: one piece of advice, blow it up. 417 00:21:39,320 --> 00:21:40,399 Speaker 2: You got it in you, Katie,