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Speaker 1: today today's episode. I thought that we would have some
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Speaker 1: rather um? Obviously seeing me? I mean, he is so
Speaker 1: awesome and I love having him on the show. To
Speaker 1: be honest, we have great chemistry. I'm like, we should
Speaker 1: do this more often, Alex. Alex is in the house
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Speaker 1: your own, doing it to yourself, doing to yourself. You
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Speaker 1: to do it to myself. I always do it to myself.
Speaker 1: That could be many things. Now, if your mind is
Speaker 1: in the gutter, hey, that's on you. But anyways, Alex,
Speaker 1: So tell me about today's game or I guess today's fun?
Speaker 1: How is it? Well? You know what? Yeah, we we've
Speaker 1: we've covered a multitude of different topics here whenever I
Speaker 1: jump in the show with you, and today I thought,
Speaker 1: you know what, let's have some fun. You know, we've
Speaker 1: had some questions coming from the audience and people all
Speaker 1: over the world who listened to exactly. So today today
Speaker 1: we're gonna play a little game that I decided to
Speaker 1: come up with just so that people can get a
Speaker 1: little bit uh deeper into you who you are and
Speaker 1: into your thoughts of would you rather would rather yeah,
Speaker 1: deeper into me. I'm on, I'm gonna have no privacy.
Speaker 1: Let's let's let's do this. Let's do this the the
Speaker 1: fun way, because this is what we're here to do here.
Speaker 1: Um my very first question for you, just would you
Speaker 1: rather find true love today or win the lottery next year?
Speaker 1: And before you even think of this or give you
Speaker 1: a second here, money comes and goes, love is forever,
Speaker 1: So go ahead, I'm gonna and and explain why you're
Speaker 1: choosing the one that you chose. So, would I rather
Speaker 1: find true love today or win the lottery next year? Yeah,
Speaker 1: oh well, I shall say, like Tina said, what's love
Speaker 1: got to do with it? Give me the money, Give
Speaker 1: me the money, because let me tell you something. Any
Speaker 1: time that I have given my love, okay, I've given
Speaker 1: my love away. And and when no money and no
Speaker 1: love to Boco I he said, if I got the money,
Speaker 1: we can do many and they make it work somehow,
Speaker 1: and I can live happy somehow. And unfortunately, especially in
Speaker 1: the world that we live today, you can basically buy love.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, it's terrible to say it that way,
Speaker 1: but okay, everything now has become a negotiation. Women and
Speaker 1: men are with each other as a business transaction. Why
Speaker 1: should it be with you? I love you, but do
Speaker 1: you have money? I love it? But can you pay
Speaker 1: these bills? Though I love you better, if something goes
Speaker 1: down to you, you know, can you pay? Because it
Speaker 1: is it like? Is it like I once saw a
Speaker 1: meme say, you know, uh, they say money cannot buy
Speaker 1: you happiness. But have you ever seen a sad person
Speaker 1: on a jet ski? Exactly now? And now? Does it
Speaker 1: mean that you could be a little bit lonely? Yes? Obviously,
Speaker 1: you know. The truth is I know a lot of
Speaker 1: people that are very wealthy and are unhappy, you know,
Speaker 1: because money realistically can buy you happiness. Money can buy
Speaker 1: you love, you know, um, And we've seen it with
Speaker 1: many stars about We've seen it with a lot of
Speaker 1: different celebrities that have are on the top of the
Speaker 1: food chain when it comes to money and their status,
Speaker 1: and you know, they've I'm a bad bitch. Okay, I'm
Speaker 1: a bad bitch. I'm smart. I got my money to
Speaker 1: get I got this good at all and everything, and
Speaker 1: luck I'm over here suffering, so that has nothing to do.
Speaker 1: So I definitely say that, you know, money can buy
Speaker 1: you happiness completely. It can give you a certain extent
Speaker 1: of it, but it can give you, you know, happiness completely.
Speaker 1: But sometimes you give your love to people and all
Speaker 1: this fucking love, and then you know, you may be
Speaker 1: the one who's willing to you know what, I Am
Speaker 1: willing to pass up on money for love, but that
Speaker 1: person might not do the same for you if the
Speaker 1: opportunity were to come. It's a double edged sword. Money.
Speaker 1: Money could could be just as detrimental as love. You
Speaker 1: can get hurt by both and you could also lose
Speaker 1: both as se So you know what, do you would
Speaker 1: you rather love or would you rather that money? You know, millions?
Speaker 1: You know, millions? Millions would be fun? I feel okay,
Speaker 1: So yeah, I would like to have some type of
Speaker 1: money that I could reinvest into things right and take
Speaker 1: care of my family. And once I have that and
Speaker 1: put away, yeah I can, I can find love. This question,
Speaker 1: there wasn't one thing to hear you and find it. No,
Speaker 1: you don't feel like, oh so you wanted to be
Speaker 1: either or in. That's it. When I thought I had
Speaker 1: to be, I thought it was would you rather find
Speaker 1: true love today or win the lottery next year? Well?
Speaker 1: I'm winning the lottery next year, and then I'll find
Speaker 1: love the year after that. Yeah, because when you got money,
Speaker 1: everybody loves you. Everyone loves you. Wow. That's trash, right,
Speaker 1: But I get it. I get it. Yeah, yeah, I see,
Speaker 1: I don't see you know. I guess it's um. I
Speaker 1: guess to each their own. Right. On that topic, here's
Speaker 1: the next one. Would you rather lose your sight or
Speaker 1: lose your memories to memorias? Would I rather lose my
Speaker 1: sight or lose my memories? Wow? That was deep, a,
Speaker 1: this is deep. The thing is that, um memories? You
Speaker 1: know what? I'd rather lose my memory. I'd rather lose
Speaker 1: my memory. You know why, my memories because to be honest, um,
Speaker 1: you don't remember every single thing that you've done your
Speaker 1: whole life since the day that you were born. You
Speaker 1: remember certain moments in life. But I think that at
Speaker 1: least if I could enjoy the day that I am
Speaker 1: living and remember this day, I'll probably go to sleep
Speaker 1: tomorrow and not remember, but I'll make the best out
Speaker 1: of that day with that memory. At what point would
Speaker 1: you don't mind losing your memory from I don't mind
Speaker 1: forgetting all my exes if I can delete all of them,
Speaker 1: like whatever memories it is that I have in my
Speaker 1: mind of my exes, y'alls can press delete and reset.
Speaker 1: I'm cool with that part. Um. Did you ever see
Speaker 1: fifty Day to Adam Sandler? Memory and Everything? He dates
Speaker 1: a girl who forgets everything after twenty four hours. Yes,
Speaker 1: so he has to make her fall in love. That's
Speaker 1: a lot of work. But I'll say this much though,
Speaker 1: you know, losing my eyesight, I think it's obviously for
Speaker 1: those that have been blessed, because sometimes you know, and
Speaker 1: we're very ungrateful for the things that we have, for
Speaker 1: those that have been blessed to be able to open
Speaker 1: your eyes and see the beauty of life and nature
Speaker 1: and the people that we love and the things that
Speaker 1: surround us. I am grateful for my eyesight. I would
Speaker 1: never want to lose that, you know, So if I
Speaker 1: had to lose my eyesight or my memories, I rather
Speaker 1: lose my memories and enjoy enjoy that day, enjoy that moment,
Speaker 1: create that moment. You know, it's a scary it's a
Speaker 1: scary thought. It's a scary thought. But to those um
Speaker 1: that might come as us this podcast who might have
Speaker 1: lost their their their side or might be losing because
Speaker 1: there's a lot of people that lose their site later
Speaker 1: on in life. UM, you know, we feel I'm you know,
Speaker 1: I'm I've been wearing glasses on my life, so I
Speaker 1: take them off. I don't recognize you from the next person. Yeah,
Speaker 1: And that's what I'm saying. That's why sometimes we can
Speaker 1: be so ungrateful that we have to be grateful for
Speaker 1: those that have you know, all your senses, I'm in
Speaker 1: and for those that don't have it. You know, I'm
Speaker 1: in for you guys too, because at least you guys
Speaker 1: are still here and you're making the best out of
Speaker 1: whatever situation you may be going through, So shout outs
Speaker 1: to you, especially if you're over here listening to exactly
Speaker 1: a mad word. Hell yeah, hell yeah? Would you rather
Speaker 1: hell God? Here we go? Um? Would you rather have
Speaker 1: a third nipple? A third nipple, a third nipple or
Speaker 1: an extra toe? And and you know, in this instances,
Speaker 1: a lot of people do have extra toes, and there's
Speaker 1: a lot of people, a lot of people who have
Speaker 1: extra nipples. I haven't met someone that have an extra nipple,
Speaker 1: but definitely send me some pictures that exactly a matter
Speaker 1: I definitely want to see if you have an extra nipple,
Speaker 1: if you have an extra toe, you know, shout out
Speaker 1: to you. With the extra toe, you must have great balance.
Speaker 1: But um, I would I rather a third nipple or
Speaker 1: an extra toe? To be honest, I don't really do
Speaker 1: too much with my toes. It's like having an extra
Speaker 1: pinky toll. That's just they're like just the pinky toe
Speaker 1: is just there to get like extra. It's it true
Speaker 1: that that's what it's therefore, like you just smash it
Speaker 1: into corners of beds and tables. Yeah, you're a little
Speaker 1: toe is just there to get smashed. But a third
Speaker 1: nipple could be interesting even though that I must admit,
Speaker 1: after I got my titties done, after I got my
Speaker 1: boobs done, um, I kind of lost a little bit
Speaker 1: of sensibility on my nipples. So in the beginning it
Speaker 1: was fun like, oh, yeah, that's the hot dog, right, okay, great,
Speaker 1: But then after it's a hot dog right right right.
Speaker 1: But after that, it's like, what's the point. I feel like,
Speaker 1: now I just want my nipples for my babies, but
Speaker 1: I don't really do anything with them. They're just there
Speaker 1: gonna you know. So so I mean, so it's safe.
Speaker 1: It's safe to say your toe gets gets smashed a
Speaker 1: lot more than what you Yeah, my toes get My
Speaker 1: little toe gets more smashed than I do. That's all
Speaker 1: I got from that story, is like, my toe is
Speaker 1: just there to get smashed to give me an extra toe.
Speaker 1: Oh would you rather an extra toe? Who wants an
Speaker 1: extra toe? Just take the nipple. That's true, extra sensitivity,
Speaker 1: extra fund extra yeah. Yeah, and you can if you
Speaker 1: have multiple children, you can feed them all. Um. Yeah.
Speaker 1: So here's the next one. Would you rather date someone
Speaker 1: who was funny or date someone who was attractive? Date
Speaker 1: someone funny or date someone attractive if you have a
Speaker 1: good personality. I'm down for it because I like, at
Speaker 1: the end of the day, the lits is going to
Speaker 1: fade away. Then I'm gonna be stuck with you in
Speaker 1: the room for astrue time. And if we don't get
Speaker 1: along and we don't come, we don't vibe, then what's
Speaker 1: the point of doing this. So I'd rather you to, um,
Speaker 1: I guess, be funny, then be attractive, because the more
Speaker 1: you hang out with people, then eventually you start to
Speaker 1: look at them cute, you know, like, oh you know
Speaker 1: that bad and then you start to like them. But
Speaker 1: here's my one thing though, I don't like to like.
Speaker 1: You can't be too funny. You can't. I've gone out
Speaker 1: on dates, not dated, but I've gone out on dates
Speaker 1: with people that are too funny, and it's wrapped. That's
Speaker 1: what We're not gonna do. Comedian too funny or how
Speaker 1: does that work? Yeah? Like if every time I say
Speaker 1: something you laugh for no reason, because I know people
Speaker 1: can have that nervous laugh or just you just want
Speaker 1: to laugh, It's like, what is wrong with you? Like
Speaker 1: everything can be funny? Or anytime I'm piste off, if
Speaker 1: I'm piste off and you have a joke for everything
Speaker 1: it's done. I don't. So that's that's where that this
Speaker 1: one comes in, right, right, if they're like Comedian was like,
Speaker 1: they don't really laugh a lot about everything, but they
Speaker 1: turn things into jokes and they try to make you
Speaker 1: laugh all the time. Yeah. The thing is, can when
Speaker 1: you did attractive people, which I've done, I'm being they're
Speaker 1: so for the most part, not all of them, but
Speaker 1: for the most part they're so like into them cells,
Speaker 1: I'm so hot. Yeah, don't you want my body? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Can you? Can you give us before we move on
Speaker 1: to is there an experience for you where you've had
Speaker 1: this happen where they're where they're in front of the
Speaker 1: mirror a little bit more than than naturally and and
Speaker 1: yeah you've been you're the one outside honking waiting for
Speaker 1: them to come down, Like, yes, do you have a
Speaker 1: story to share about that? Yeah? Well actually, um, actually
Speaker 1: both of my exes well okay, I'll say both of
Speaker 1: my exes, which could be any of them. So don't
Speaker 1: don't don't start looking into it. Yeah, don't feel yourself
Speaker 1: with your crunchy ass. That's why you're an ex part
Speaker 1: of the past. But yeah, you know, they would look
Speaker 1: in the mirror and just like early in the morning,
Speaker 1: wake up every time and just look at the ads
Speaker 1: and just you know, rub it like ah yeah, I
Speaker 1: just do the arm thing in the morning, you know,
Speaker 1: to see if I got to work out some more
Speaker 1: go myselfing. They ha, And I was just like, bro,
Speaker 1: you look at yourself in the mirror more than I do.
Speaker 1: What is your problem? Straight, Metro, I don't have a
Speaker 1: problem to be Metro to Halley, like bring it down
Speaker 1: like ten notches. So yeah, if you're too if you're
Speaker 1: now ladies, girls, tell me if you know where I'm
Speaker 1: coming from. If there's a guy that's really hot and
Speaker 1: he's attractive, but then he acts like he doesn't know
Speaker 1: that he's hot, tell me that's not hot, I'd be like,
Speaker 1: oh you fine. But to say that, he'd be trying
Speaker 1: to act humble and you know, cool, like you know,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna care whatever. I'm like, oh my god, yes, better.
Speaker 1: If you act like you know you're attractive, that goes
Speaker 1: for girls to girls that are pretty. If you act
Speaker 1: stank because you know that you're attractive, that's unattractive. But
Speaker 1: if you're pretty and humble with it, you know you're
Speaker 1: still approachable. I think that that's you know, I don't
Speaker 1: know our dad bods in I like dad bods. I
Speaker 1: don't know who said that they weren't in personally, I
Speaker 1: don't really care about the whole six pack personally if
Speaker 1: you have. There's a lot of women out there who
Speaker 1: love them their dad about. There's a lot of very
Speaker 1: attractive looking women, um that you know know that they're
Speaker 1: very attractive model wise, and they just they you see
Speaker 1: them with dudes that are in their average dad body, Like, yeah,
Speaker 1: I like la Barida. I like I like my men
Speaker 1: to have a little you know, not that not necessarily
Speaker 1: like the beer the beer belly, but I like and
Speaker 1: don't say, you know, getting into details. Girls, you really know, Okay,
Speaker 1: it's a little bit. It's a little it's a little
Speaker 1: saucy when you're getting certain on it and you get
Speaker 1: that belly. Blacky, blacky, blackie, you know what I'm talking about.
Speaker 1: So I like my little day about till I like that.
Speaker 1: I like that, and that goes out for men to men.
Speaker 1: Men have a certain attraction to certain looking women as well. Um.
Speaker 1: Not every man in the world is chasing uh, you
Speaker 1: know the Barbie doll looking like woman that is not
Speaker 1: a man? Are men into still like real women? Like
Speaker 1: what the stretch in the moon? Don't go on the
Speaker 1: jelly rolls in the side, you'll take the jelly rolls. Yeah,
Speaker 1: there's I have friends, personal friends that are very like
Speaker 1: you know, good looking dudes. You know, worked out all
Speaker 1: their life. They work out just to keep in shape.
Speaker 1: They're not out there looking at themselves in the mirror.
Speaker 1: You know. They love they love their women. They love
Speaker 1: their women. Women not women. There's another chicken here who
Speaker 1: sweats it off for sixteen hours. No, they're like, you know,
Speaker 1: and it's I think it's kind of hot a little bit.
Speaker 1: Not for nothing. You know, I said it before, once
Speaker 1: upon a time. I still find women attractive. I don't.
Speaker 1: That doesn't mean that I want you. I just can
Speaker 1: admire a girl that's pretty, and I think it's still
Speaker 1: pretty when I still a girl. They don't. But you
Speaker 1: still have a nice shape, like a little stretch. There's
Speaker 1: nothing wrong with it. You just have a natural body
Speaker 1: or it's human. And even if it's not natural, but
Speaker 1: you still got a little jelly. Shut us to all
Speaker 1: the girls. They got the jelly, and they're afraid to
Speaker 1: shake it. Okay. I Love is love, man, Love is love.
Speaker 1: Love is love. That's right, and if you turn off
Speaker 1: the lights, it's even better. The next one here that
Speaker 1: I have for you is would you rather have your
Speaker 1: own robots or private jet? Whatever? They have? My own
Speaker 1: robot or a private jet? And you I don't know
Speaker 1: if you've seen this as of late, um, the one
Speaker 1: of the big electronic shows in Vegas unveiled actual like robots,
Speaker 1: like humanoid looking robots that actually talk to you and
Speaker 1: do things for you. And you know, we're heading into
Speaker 1: a world like the Jetsons now like the cartoon where
Speaker 1: there's different robots and stuff. So yeah, but my question
Speaker 1: is whatever, wouldever they have a robot or have a
Speaker 1: private jet? But what does the robot like do? That's
Speaker 1: why I'm going, Yeah, that's why everything. So it'll clean
Speaker 1: the house for you, it'll do what is going to
Speaker 1: clean the house, pay the bills better? It can the
Speaker 1: robot give me the freaky stuff I'm being And I
Speaker 1: could just Yeah, there's plenty of plenty of robots out
Speaker 1: there in the in the adult industry that do the
Speaker 1: freaky stuff. I know, I'd be googling on the low tomb,
Speaker 1: but then I'd be delete thing it because I'd be
Speaker 1: embarrassing myself. You gotta use incognito mode on your browser. No,
Speaker 1: but it is true. Okay, So I think that I
Speaker 1: would rather have my private robot because the jet how
Speaker 1: often am I really gonna use? I was just gonna
Speaker 1: say that, how often are you really flying? And then
Speaker 1: you gotta pay to have it part somewhere you got
Speaker 1: that we got at me. I'm on on unless it's
Speaker 1: one of those diet Tesla private jet care you're connected
Speaker 1: to the electricity eat, I'm that's too much meet up.
Speaker 1: I'd rather have the robot. The robot do the bed
Speaker 1: YadA YadA YadA, make sure that when I come home
Speaker 1: everything to get you know, here's the rule. But you
Speaker 1: know how al also in the ninetime babo, you already
Speaker 1: know what you gotta do, and you already know the
Speaker 1: spot ding ning ning ning ding dal shut it off,
Speaker 1: just downloaded right into the robot. This is what I
Speaker 1: like exactly, This is what I like, and I can
Speaker 1: disconnect you when you start to get annoying. I think
Speaker 1: it's great. I shall have a robot. There we go.
Speaker 1: So anybody out there making robots please hit up exactly
Speaker 1: a matter on Instagram. But it kind of dehumanizes you
Speaker 1: a little bit, don't it, Because now I'm not gonna
Speaker 1: lie look between you and me and me and you,
Speaker 1: and I'm gonna be completely sexually open right now, respectfully,
Speaker 1: but this is my truth. Um ever since I haven't had,
Speaker 1: you know, a partner for a very long time, you
Speaker 1: end up taking care of yourself right. You end up
Speaker 1: playing DJ wack a wacker reacord you're ready now. So afterwards,
Speaker 1: I almost feel like a little bit dehumanizes you from
Speaker 1: that human connection with someone else because not already know
Speaker 1: I can handle myself. I can do it in my
Speaker 1: own time. I know when and where, this and that,
Speaker 1: and it's great and it's safe. It's safer right than
Speaker 1: to be out in the streets bed. You kind of
Speaker 1: lose that human connection and even when you go back
Speaker 1: into trying to look for it, it's kind of awkward.
Speaker 1: So I can only but imagine what it is when
Speaker 1: you become adapted to having a robot or these uh,
Speaker 1: these like animated illusional world that they create in the
Speaker 1: VR world. Yeah, people, people are into this whole like
Speaker 1: virtual reality thing. When you want to connect with a
Speaker 1: real human being. You don't even know how to act.
Speaker 1: Here's a little syde quest on this isn't it kind
Speaker 1: of like the same thing as social media and having
Speaker 1: a cell phone attached to you all day. You kind
Speaker 1: of lose yourself in that world where you become a
Speaker 1: slave to the cell phone, you know, where you're always
Speaker 1: on it like it needs to be around you. You're
Speaker 1: stuck in social media. You're stuck in this world of
Speaker 1: trying to take the best pick or post the best
Speaker 1: thing or I'm one of those I think that I
Speaker 1: have more friends on social media than I have in
Speaker 1: real life. There's people that don't even know but we
Speaker 1: talk every day, and I don't even know who you are.
Speaker 1: And that's the good part. Those are the good parts,
Speaker 1: right You find and you find interesting people out there.
Speaker 1: But at the same time, you know, I still like
Speaker 1: going to my local bar and hanging out, meeting a
Speaker 1: couple of peeps, you know. But I mean I posted
Speaker 1: recently something on my social media that it was with
Speaker 1: Kanye West where he said that, um, you know, now
Speaker 1: we're we've basically we're going to keep playing this game,
Speaker 1: but we we just got a little bit deep. But
Speaker 1: people these days are so caught up with social media
Speaker 1: and this fake you know, this fake life of what
Speaker 1: reality should be, that we no longer go outside, we
Speaker 1: no longer hang out with friends, we're no longer living
Speaker 1: our real, our real lives because we're so caught up
Speaker 1: in this internet, social media world where we're concerned about
Speaker 1: other people's opinions, people that we don't even know. Um,
Speaker 1: a lot of things you miss out on your life.
Speaker 1: You could spend a day to day stuck home on
Speaker 1: your computer, on your phone, and you literally missed out
Speaker 1: on real life. So that's something that I feel that
Speaker 1: I wish that we can kind of get back from
Speaker 1: like back and like you said, we're gonna we're about
Speaker 1: to jump onto the next would you rather question here?
Speaker 1: But here's here's a real quick one at Sharon, you know,
Speaker 1: at Sharing the singer, he explained that he hasn't had
Speaker 1: a cell phone since two dozen and fifteen. How do
Speaker 1: you survive in the street? Got he got stuck in
Speaker 1: the in that whole like social media world, like always
Speaker 1: being a slave to the phone. So he has his iPad.
Speaker 1: He spends time during the day to check his email,
Speaker 1: answer people back and if you have to get to him.
Speaker 1: You know his phone number, and that is it. That
Speaker 1: is his life now and he says changed him completely.
Speaker 1: That's kind of good. The only thing is that now
Speaker 1: a lot of us we make money off social media.
Speaker 1: So it's like social media now has become a way
Speaker 1: of earning income. And that's where it gets complicated. But
Speaker 1: if I didn't have to make if I didn't make
Speaker 1: money from it, I would try my best to spend
Speaker 1: less time on social media. And you can always have
Speaker 1: a team do that for you. You can always have
Speaker 1: a team. Hey, listen or or someone with you help me,
Speaker 1: you know, let's make the video. But there's no need
Speaker 1: for me to sit in front of the video. Like
Speaker 1: the thing Instagram, Instagram to to this. You're there and
Speaker 1: just like Twitter, but I want to see what you a,
Speaker 1: what you go, that, what you did, and you know
Speaker 1: who's pregnant, who's not pregnant, who's breaking up? But is
Speaker 1: that really bringing any value to your life? Not necessarily,
Speaker 1: but anyways, that's into the top I need to be honest.
Speaker 1: We should talk about it in another podcast shop here's another.
Speaker 1: Would you rather your mom arrange your marriage or marry
Speaker 1: your most recent x? Oh wow? Um, Uh, well, you know,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna my mom's gonna hate me for what I'm
Speaker 1: about to say. Thankfully her English is not too good.
Speaker 1: But the thing is that if my mom would arrange
Speaker 1: my marriage, So my option is either my mom arranges
Speaker 1: my marriage or me marry my ex. Okay, and my
Speaker 1: mom ranges my marriage. I know that he's probably gonna
Speaker 1: be older, he's gonna be rich, and she's not gonna
Speaker 1: care if I like him or not. It's just like
Speaker 1: me that he's gonna take care of you. He's gonna
Speaker 1: handle it. Yeah, that's the old schools, like Latinos and
Speaker 1: Hispanics are like that, right. My mom used to say
Speaker 1: that all the time. Yeah, she's like I want that
Speaker 1: day and then with time you're gonna learn to love him.
Speaker 1: And yeah, I get over it. Now. If I do
Speaker 1: it on my own, like with my ex and it's
Speaker 1: just or one of my exes whatever. Um, it would
Speaker 1: be based off somebody that I'm physically attracted to. It
Speaker 1: would be based off many things. Better. As you can tell,
Speaker 1: I am not the best one select thing. So and
Speaker 1: vibe vibes are excellent. We need vibe vibes. Chemistry is important. Um,
Speaker 1: better to be honest. Studies have shown that arranged marriages
Speaker 1: actually lasts longer than those that do it out of
Speaker 1: physical attraction or out of love what they consider love
Speaker 1: at the time. You know, being in love, you could
Speaker 1: be in love for a certain amount of time that
Speaker 1: fades away, that fades away eventually. So, um, maybe I
Speaker 1: think that my mom would would make a good selection.
Speaker 1: She will make a good choice thinking further ahead in life,
Speaker 1: thinking for like, you know, the checking out the boxes,
Speaker 1: because this person is that you were effectful, it is
Speaker 1: your hard workers. Either me, I'm automatically gonna assume is
Speaker 1: there attraction? You know? Do we have chemistry? Dada? And
Speaker 1: then I look into all that other stuff. So who knows?
Speaker 1: I like that, I like that, and you know what
Speaker 1: I feel like? Perhaps maybe you if if there's someone
Speaker 1: was to ask your kids this question, you know, what
Speaker 1: would your answer be? What do you mean? So if
Speaker 1: someone would ask your your kids, what do you think
Speaker 1: their answer would be if they were to have an
Speaker 1: arranged marriage by their mom, which would be you or
Speaker 1: marry their most recent X. Would you still have the
Speaker 1: same mentality as your mom? Marry someone who could take
Speaker 1: care of you with money and you've learned to love them,
Speaker 1: or what kind of advice would you give your your children.
Speaker 1: I would have the same mindset as my mom, just
Speaker 1: a little bit more modified, right. I would still want
Speaker 1: them to be happy and and I would try to
Speaker 1: pay attention to the things that they are attracted to
Speaker 1: physically in a man, which is something that my mom
Speaker 1: doesn't care right. My mom will automatically say it is
Speaker 1: some deelling I an't think, right, But I would try
Speaker 1: to look for certain things. Okay, I'm going to do
Speaker 1: my best to put this person together. But I do
Speaker 1: understand specifically these days that things have changed so much
Speaker 1: how you do have to look for someone that can
Speaker 1: financially be stable, be you know, support system, because they
Speaker 1: want you to be the ones the women to maintain
Speaker 1: them and decay all women equality. Women are making as
Speaker 1: much money as men, this and that. So now I
Speaker 1: don't got to work and I'm just gonna be home
Speaker 1: and my girl's gonna pay the bills, and she got
Speaker 1: it because she's an empowered woman. No, it's either fifty fifty.
Speaker 1: Do you still believe in fifty fifty? Yeah, I definitely do. Um.
Speaker 1: I believe in the whole aspect of you know, everyone
Speaker 1: helping each other out anyway they can, especially like with
Speaker 1: bills and and whatnot. I mean, is that is that
Speaker 1: what something that you're thinking about with? No, I don't
Speaker 1: know if I believe in anymore? Really, you know what
Speaker 1: it is? You need to find the right person to know.
Speaker 1: There's no, there's no, there's no fifty fifty. Why I
Speaker 1: gotta give fifty? I think fifty is too much. You're
Speaker 1: thinking about yourself too much. No, I think that I
Speaker 1: can give thirty in a good day, like I could
Speaker 1: give you thirty. Honestly, I should be giving you twenty five.
Speaker 1: But I'm going to give you thirty so that you
Speaker 1: don't feel bad and the rest really be on you,
Speaker 1: because what the total holds more value, you know, And
Speaker 1: I'm here like there's a lot. I'm giving you all
Speaker 1: types of support, kinning, cooking, os and you know, working. Well,
Speaker 1: that's that's that's when when the conversation changes. At that,
Speaker 1: Oh god, if you need another if you're going to
Speaker 1: be at home taking care of your children and not
Speaker 1: being able to financially support someone, yeah, of course obviously,
Speaker 1: then just all goes No. No, No, I want to work.
Speaker 1: I want to want Okay, I want to work and
Speaker 1: I want to make my money and I want to give. Well,
Speaker 1: we'll see. I think when you find out someone what
Speaker 1: they tell you. Ladies, Oh my god, this is such
Speaker 1: a good topic for the Instagram thingthing. I want to
Speaker 1: post it on my page. And I want to know
Speaker 1: what you guys think. Should women these days overall? Should
Speaker 1: uh relationships still be couples? Should they still be fifty fifty?
Speaker 1: Should women get less than men? Should men get more?
Speaker 1: Do you still believe that men are supposed to be
Speaker 1: the providers and women are supposed to be the you know,
Speaker 1: the nurturer and all this are the good stuff? You know.
Speaker 1: I'm not saying to be cooking and cleaning the house
Speaker 1: because if we were being all the feminists to eat
Speaker 1: me up, That's not what I said. What I said is, um,
Speaker 1: I know that we want equality, but how much equality
Speaker 1: do we want? Do we really want it? When? Do
Speaker 1: we want it? Because do we want it all the
Speaker 1: time or just when we're getting money at work? I
Speaker 1: don't know. I'm trying to figure it out anyways. That
Speaker 1: that show is coming up real soon. Good, Yeah, I mean,
Speaker 1: and I think I think we I think we had
Speaker 1: a lot of fun today. You know. Unfortunately, we've we've
Speaker 1: come to the end of the you know, would you rather?
Speaker 1: And we've answered a lot and you know, I've given good,
Speaker 1: ive given, I've given my thirty percent today, So you know,
Speaker 1: I have loved it. You know, honestly I love doing
Speaker 1: my podcast with you, Alex. We get along so good,
Speaker 1: that energy and the vibes are so great. Um and
Speaker 1: I'm also grateful and thankful to have you guys already
Speaker 1: know where can they follow you? Oh man, don't don't
Speaker 1: put me out. This is all about exactly at anybody
Speaker 1: could find me. And because the ladies would be like,
Speaker 1: oh my god, he's kind of you know whatever. I'm like,
Speaker 1: I don't know, but you know, you know, I'm not
Speaker 1: a maybe. I don't know, I'm just an average Alex
Speaker 1: thinking so much for coming in today. I want to
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Speaker 1: favorite show. Today's show was so lit and while I
Speaker 1: was doing it, UM, I don't know, my mind was
Speaker 1: going out of a thousand miles per hour because I
Speaker 1: just thought of so many other great episodes that we
Speaker 1: can do. We're gonna work on that real soon. UM. Anyways,
Speaker 1: thank you guys so much for listening. I shall check
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