WEBVTT - Amara, Would You Rather…

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<v Speaker 1>today today's episode. I thought that we would have some

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<v Speaker 1>fun and I would be answering some tongue would you

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<v Speaker 1>rather um? Obviously seeing me? I mean, he is so

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<v Speaker 1>awesome and I love having him on the show. To

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<v Speaker 1>be honest, we have great chemistry. I'm like, we should

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<v Speaker 1>do this more often, Alex. Alex is in the house

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<v Speaker 1>game game, thank you for having me here again. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean you could you could ask the questions to yourself,

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<v Speaker 1>to myself. I'm just okay, we can ask each other questions.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm being This is the show of doing it on

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<v Speaker 1>your own, doing it to yourself, doing to yourself. You

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<v Speaker 1>know what actually that this morning, but yesterday I had

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<v Speaker 1>to do it to myself. I always do it to myself.

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<v Speaker 1>That could be many things. Now, if your mind is

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<v Speaker 1>in the gutter, hey, that's on you. But anyways, Alex,

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<v Speaker 1>So tell me about today's game or I guess today's fun?

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<v Speaker 1>How is it? Well? You know what? Yeah, we we've

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<v Speaker 1>we've covered a multitude of different topics here whenever I

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<v Speaker 1>jump in the show with you, and today I thought,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what, let's have some fun. You know, we've

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<v Speaker 1>had some questions coming from the audience and people all

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<v Speaker 1>over the world who listened to exactly. So today today

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna play a little game that I decided to

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<v Speaker 1>come up with just so that people can get a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit uh deeper into you who you are and

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<v Speaker 1>into your thoughts of would you rather would rather yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>deeper into me. I'm on, I'm gonna have no privacy.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's let's let's do this. Let's do this the the

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<v Speaker 1>fun way, because this is what we're here to do here.

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<v Speaker 1>Um my very first question for you, just would you

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<v Speaker 1>rather find true love today or win the lottery next year?

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<v Speaker 1>And before you even think of this or give you

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<v Speaker 1>a second here, money comes and goes, love is forever,

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<v Speaker 1>So go ahead, I'm gonna and and explain why you're

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<v Speaker 1>choosing the one that you chose. So, would I rather

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<v Speaker 1>find true love today or win the lottery next year? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>oh well, I shall say, like Tina said, what's love

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<v Speaker 1>got to do with it? Give me the money, Give

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<v Speaker 1>me the money, because let me tell you something. Any

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<v Speaker 1>time that I have given my love, okay, I've given

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<v Speaker 1>my love away. And and when no money and no

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<v Speaker 1>love to Boco I he said, if I got the money,

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<v Speaker 1>we can do many and they make it work somehow,

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<v Speaker 1>and I can live happy somehow. And unfortunately, especially in

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<v Speaker 1>the world that we live today, you can basically buy love.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, it's terrible to say it that way,

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<v Speaker 1>but okay, everything now has become a negotiation. Women and

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<v Speaker 1>men are with each other as a business transaction. Why

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<v Speaker 1>should it be with you? I love you, but do

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<v Speaker 1>you have money? I love it? But can you pay

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<v Speaker 1>these bills? Though I love you better, if something goes

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<v Speaker 1>down to you, you know, can you pay? Because it

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<v Speaker 1>is it like? Is it like I once saw a

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<v Speaker 1>meme say, you know, uh, they say money cannot buy

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<v Speaker 1>you happiness. But have you ever seen a sad person

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<v Speaker 1>on a jet ski? Exactly now? And now? Does it

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<v Speaker 1>mean that you could be a little bit lonely? Yes? Obviously,

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<v Speaker 1>you know. The truth is I know a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>people that are very wealthy and are unhappy, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>because money realistically can buy you happiness. Money can buy

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<v Speaker 1>you love, you know, um, And we've seen it with

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<v Speaker 1>many stars about We've seen it with a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>different celebrities that have are on the top of the

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<v Speaker 1>food chain when it comes to money and their status,

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<v Speaker 1>and you know, they've I'm a bad bitch. Okay, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>a bad bitch. I'm smart. I got my money to

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<v Speaker 1>get I got this good at all and everything, and

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<v Speaker 1>luck I'm over here suffering, so that has nothing to do.

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<v Speaker 1>So I definitely say that, you know, money can buy

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<v Speaker 1>you happiness completely. It can give you a certain extent

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<v Speaker 1>of it, but it can give you, you know, happiness completely.

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<v Speaker 1>But sometimes you give your love to people and all

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<v Speaker 1>this fucking love, and then you know, you may be

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<v Speaker 1>the one who's willing to you know what, I Am

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<v Speaker 1>willing to pass up on money for love, but that

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<v Speaker 1>person might not do the same for you if the

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<v Speaker 1>opportunity were to come. It's a double edged sword. Money.

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<v Speaker 1>Money could could be just as detrimental as love. You

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<v Speaker 1>can get hurt by both and you could also lose

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<v Speaker 1>both as se So you know what, do you would

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<v Speaker 1>you rather love or would you rather that money? You know, millions?

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<v Speaker 1>You know, millions? Millions would be fun? I feel okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, I would like to have some type of

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<v Speaker 1>money that I could reinvest into things right and take

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<v Speaker 1>care of my family. And once I have that and

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<v Speaker 1>put away, yeah I can, I can find love. This question,

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<v Speaker 1>there wasn't one thing to hear you and find it. No,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't feel like, oh so you wanted to be

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<v Speaker 1>either or in. That's it. When I thought I had

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<v Speaker 1>to be, I thought it was would you rather find

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<v Speaker 1>true love today or win the lottery next year? Well?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm winning the lottery next year, and then I'll find

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<v Speaker 1>love the year after that. Yeah, because when you got money,

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<v Speaker 1>everybody loves you. Everyone loves you. Wow. That's trash, right,

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<v Speaker 1>But I get it. I get it. Yeah, yeah, I see,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't see you know. I guess it's um. I

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<v Speaker 1>guess to each their own. Right. On that topic, here's

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<v Speaker 1>the next one. Would you rather lose your sight or

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<v Speaker 1>lose your memories to memorias? Would I rather lose my

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<v Speaker 1>sight or lose my memories? Wow? That was deep, a,

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<v Speaker 1>this is deep. The thing is that, um memories? You

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<v Speaker 1>know what? I'd rather lose my memory. I'd rather lose

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<v Speaker 1>my memory. You know why, my memories because to be honest, um,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't remember every single thing that you've done your

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<v Speaker 1>whole life since the day that you were born. You

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<v Speaker 1>remember certain moments in life. But I think that at

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<v Speaker 1>least if I could enjoy the day that I am

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<v Speaker 1>living and remember this day, I'll probably go to sleep

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<v Speaker 1>tomorrow and not remember, but I'll make the best out

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<v Speaker 1>of that day with that memory. At what point would

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<v Speaker 1>you don't mind losing your memory from I don't mind

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<v Speaker 1>forgetting all my exes if I can delete all of them,

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<v Speaker 1>like whatever memories it is that I have in my

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<v Speaker 1>mind of my exes, y'alls can press delete and reset.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm cool with that part. Um. Did you ever see

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<v Speaker 1>fifty Day to Adam Sandler? Memory and Everything? He dates

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<v Speaker 1>a girl who forgets everything after twenty four hours. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>so he has to make her fall in love. That's

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of work. But I'll say this much though,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, losing my eyesight, I think it's obviously for

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<v Speaker 1>those that have been blessed, because sometimes you know, and

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<v Speaker 1>we're very ungrateful for the things that we have, for

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<v Speaker 1>those that have been blessed to be able to open

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<v Speaker 1>your eyes and see the beauty of life and nature

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<v Speaker 1>and the people that we love and the things that

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<v Speaker 1>surround us. I am grateful for my eyesight. I would

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<v Speaker 1>never want to lose that, you know, So if I

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<v Speaker 1>had to lose my eyesight or my memories, I rather

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<v Speaker 1>lose my memories and enjoy enjoy that day, enjoy that moment,

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<v Speaker 1>create that moment. You know, it's a scary it's a

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<v Speaker 1>scary thought. It's a scary thought. But to those um

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<v Speaker 1>that might come as us this podcast who might have

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<v Speaker 1>lost their their their side or might be losing because

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<v Speaker 1>there's a lot of people that lose their site later

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<v Speaker 1>on in life. UM, you know, we feel I'm you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm I've been wearing glasses on my life, so I

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<v Speaker 1>take them off. I don't recognize you from the next person. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>And that's what I'm saying. That's why sometimes we can

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<v Speaker 1>be so ungrateful that we have to be grateful for

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<v Speaker 1>those that have you know, all your senses, I'm in

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<v Speaker 1>and for those that don't have it. You know, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>in for you guys too, because at least you guys

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<v Speaker 1>are still here and you're making the best out of

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<v Speaker 1>whatever situation you may be going through, So shout outs

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<v Speaker 1>to you, especially if you're over here listening to exactly

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<v Speaker 1>a mad word. Hell yeah, hell yeah? Would you rather

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<v Speaker 1>hell God? Here we go? Um? Would you rather have

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<v Speaker 1>a third nipple? A third nipple, a third nipple or

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<v Speaker 1>an extra toe? And and you know, in this instances,

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of people do have extra toes, and there's

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of people, a lot of people who have

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<v Speaker 1>extra nipples. I haven't met someone that have an extra nipple,

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<v Speaker 1>but definitely send me some pictures that exactly a matter

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<v Speaker 1>I definitely want to see if you have an extra nipple,

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<v Speaker 1>if you have an extra toe, you know, shout out

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<v Speaker 1>to you. With the extra toe, you must have great balance.

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<v Speaker 1>But um, I would I rather a third nipple or

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<v Speaker 1>an extra toe? To be honest, I don't really do

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<v Speaker 1>too much with my toes. It's like having an extra

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<v Speaker 1>pinky toll. That's just they're like just the pinky toe

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<v Speaker 1>is just there to get like extra. It's it true

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<v Speaker 1>that that's what it's therefore, like you just smash it

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<v Speaker 1>into corners of beds and tables. Yeah, you're a little

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<v Speaker 1>toe is just there to get smashed. But a third

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<v Speaker 1>nipple could be interesting even though that I must admit,

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<v Speaker 1>after I got my titties done, after I got my

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<v Speaker 1>boobs done, um, I kind of lost a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>of sensibility on my nipples. So in the beginning it

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<v Speaker 1>was fun like, oh, yeah, that's the hot dog, right, okay, great,

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<v Speaker 1>But then after it's a hot dog right right right.

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<v Speaker 1>But after that, it's like, what's the point. I feel like,

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<v Speaker 1>now I just want my nipples for my babies, but

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<v Speaker 1>I don't really do anything with them. They're just there

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<v Speaker 1>gonna you know. So so I mean, so it's safe.

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<v Speaker 1>It's safe to say your toe gets gets smashed a

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<v Speaker 1>lot more than what you Yeah, my toes get My

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<v Speaker 1>little toe gets more smashed than I do. That's all

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<v Speaker 1>I got from that story, is like, my toe is

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<v Speaker 1>just there to get smashed to give me an extra toe.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh would you rather an extra toe? Who wants an

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<v Speaker 1>extra toe? Just take the nipple. That's true, extra sensitivity,

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<v Speaker 1>extra fund extra yeah. Yeah, and you can if you

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<v Speaker 1>have multiple children, you can feed them all. Um. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>So here's the next one. Would you rather date someone

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<v Speaker 1>who was funny or date someone who was attractive? Date

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<v Speaker 1>someone funny or date someone attractive if you have a

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<v Speaker 1>good personality. I'm down for it because I like, at

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<v Speaker 1>the end of the day, the lits is going to

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<v Speaker 1>fade away. Then I'm gonna be stuck with you in

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<v Speaker 1>the room for astrue time. And if we don't get

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<v Speaker 1>along and we don't come, we don't vibe, then what's

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<v Speaker 1>the point of doing this. So I'd rather you to, um,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess, be funny, then be attractive, because the more

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<v Speaker 1>you hang out with people, then eventually you start to

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<v Speaker 1>look at them cute, you know, like, oh you know

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<v Speaker 1>that bad and then you start to like them. But

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<v Speaker 1>here's my one thing though, I don't like to like.

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<v Speaker 1>You can't be too funny. You can't. I've gone out

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<v Speaker 1>on dates, not dated, but I've gone out on dates

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<v Speaker 1>with people that are too funny, and it's wrapped. That's

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<v Speaker 1>what We're not gonna do. Comedian too funny or how

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<v Speaker 1>does that work? Yeah? Like if every time I say

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<v Speaker 1>something you laugh for no reason, because I know people

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<v Speaker 1>can have that nervous laugh or just you just want

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<v Speaker 1>to laugh, It's like, what is wrong with you? Like

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<v Speaker 1>everything can be funny? Or anytime I'm piste off, if

0:12:36.240 --> 0:12:38.400
<v Speaker 1>I'm piste off and you have a joke for everything

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<v Speaker 1>it's done. I don't. So that's that's where that this

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<v Speaker 1>one comes in, right, right, if they're like Comedian was like,

0:12:44.520 --> 0:12:46.640
<v Speaker 1>they don't really laugh a lot about everything, but they

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<v Speaker 1>turn things into jokes and they try to make you

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<v Speaker 1>laugh all the time. Yeah. The thing is, can when

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<v Speaker 1>you did attractive people, which I've done, I'm being they're

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<v Speaker 1>so for the most part, not all of them, but

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<v Speaker 1>for the most part they're so like into them cells,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so hot. Yeah, don't you want my body? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Can you? Can you give us before we move on

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<v Speaker 1>to is there an experience for you where you've had

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<v Speaker 1>this happen where they're where they're in front of the

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<v Speaker 1>mirror a little bit more than than naturally and and

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<v Speaker 1>yeah you've been you're the one outside honking waiting for

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<v Speaker 1>them to come down, Like, yes, do you have a

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<v Speaker 1>story to share about that? Yeah? Well actually, um, actually

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<v Speaker 1>both of my exes well okay, I'll say both of

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<v Speaker 1>my exes, which could be any of them. So don't

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<v Speaker 1>don't don't start looking into it. Yeah, don't feel yourself

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<v Speaker 1>with your crunchy ass. That's why you're an ex part

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<v Speaker 1>of the past. But yeah, you know, they would look

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<v Speaker 1>in the mirror and just like early in the morning,

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<v Speaker 1>wake up every time and just look at the ads

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<v Speaker 1>and just you know, rub it like ah yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>just do the arm thing in the morning, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>to see if I got to work out some more

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<v Speaker 1>go myselfing. They ha, And I was just like, bro,

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<v Speaker 1>you look at yourself in the mirror more than I do.

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<v Speaker 1>What is your problem? Straight, Metro, I don't have a

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<v Speaker 1>problem to be Metro to Halley, like bring it down

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<v Speaker 1>like ten notches. So yeah, if you're too if you're

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<v Speaker 1>now ladies, girls, tell me if you know where I'm

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<v Speaker 1>coming from. If there's a guy that's really hot and

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<v Speaker 1>he's attractive, but then he acts like he doesn't know

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<v Speaker 1>that he's hot, tell me that's not hot, I'd be like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh you fine. But to say that, he'd be trying

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<v Speaker 1>to act humble and you know, cool, like you know,

0:14:21.200 --> 0:14:25.320
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna care whatever. I'm like, oh my god, yes, better.

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<v Speaker 1>If you act like you know you're attractive, that goes

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<v Speaker 1>for girls to girls that are pretty. If you act

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<v Speaker 1>stank because you know that you're attractive, that's unattractive. But

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<v Speaker 1>if you're pretty and humble with it, you know you're

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<v Speaker 1>still approachable. I think that that's you know, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know our dad bods in I like dad bods. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know who said that they weren't in personally, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't really care about the whole six pack personally if

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<v Speaker 1>you have. There's a lot of women out there who

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<v Speaker 1>love them their dad about. There's a lot of very

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<v Speaker 1>attractive looking women, um that you know know that they're

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<v Speaker 1>very attractive model wise, and they just they you see

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<v Speaker 1>them with dudes that are in their average dad body, Like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I like la Barida. I like I like my men

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<v Speaker 1>to have a little you know, not that not necessarily

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<v Speaker 1>like the beer the beer belly, but I like and

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<v Speaker 1>don't say, you know, getting into details. Girls, you really know, Okay,

0:15:20.880 --> 0:15:22.520
<v Speaker 1>it's a little bit. It's a little it's a little

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<v Speaker 1>saucy when you're getting certain on it and you get

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<v Speaker 1>that belly. Blacky, blacky, blackie, you know what I'm talking about.

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<v Speaker 1>So I like my little day about till I like that.

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<v Speaker 1>I like that, and that goes out for men to men.

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<v Speaker 1>Men have a certain attraction to certain looking women as well. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>Not every man in the world is chasing uh, you

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<v Speaker 1>know the Barbie doll looking like woman that is not

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<v Speaker 1>a man? Are men into still like real women? Like

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<v Speaker 1>what the stretch in the moon? Don't go on the

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<v Speaker 1>jelly rolls in the side, you'll take the jelly rolls. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>there's I have friends, personal friends that are very like

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<v Speaker 1>you know, good looking dudes. You know, worked out all

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<v Speaker 1>their life. They work out just to keep in shape.

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<v Speaker 1>They're not out there looking at themselves in the mirror.

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<v Speaker 1>You know. They love they love their women. They love

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<v Speaker 1>their women. Women not women. There's another chicken here who

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<v Speaker 1>sweats it off for sixteen hours. No, they're like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's I think it's kind of hot a little bit.

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<v Speaker 1>Not for nothing. You know, I said it before, once

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<v Speaker 1>upon a time. I still find women attractive. I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>That doesn't mean that I want you. I just can

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<v Speaker 1>admire a girl that's pretty, and I think it's still

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<v Speaker 1>pretty when I still a girl. They don't. But you

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<v Speaker 1>still have a nice shape, like a little stretch. There's

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<v Speaker 1>nothing wrong with it. You just have a natural body

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<v Speaker 1>or it's human. And even if it's not natural, but

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<v Speaker 1>you still got a little jelly. Shut us to all

0:16:50.560 --> 0:16:52.720
<v Speaker 1>the girls. They got the jelly, and they're afraid to

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<v Speaker 1>shake it. Okay. I Love is love, man, Love is love.

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<v Speaker 1>Love is love. That's right, and if you turn off

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<v Speaker 1>the lights, it's even better. The next one here that

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<v Speaker 1>I have for you is would you rather have your

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<v Speaker 1>own robots or private jet? Whatever? They have? My own

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<v Speaker 1>robot or a private jet? And you I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>if you've seen this as of late, um, the one

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<v Speaker 1>of the big electronic shows in Vegas unveiled actual like robots,

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<v Speaker 1>like humanoid looking robots that actually talk to you and

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<v Speaker 1>do things for you. And you know, we're heading into

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<v Speaker 1>a world like the Jetsons now like the cartoon where

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<v Speaker 1>there's different robots and stuff. So yeah, but my question

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<v Speaker 1>is whatever, wouldever they have a robot or have a

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<v Speaker 1>private jet? But what does the robot like do? That's

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<v Speaker 1>why I'm going, Yeah, that's why everything. So it'll clean

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<v Speaker 1>the house for you, it'll do what is going to

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<v Speaker 1>clean the house, pay the bills better? It can the

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<v Speaker 1>robot give me the freaky stuff I'm being And I

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<v Speaker 1>could just Yeah, there's plenty of plenty of robots out

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<v Speaker 1>there in the in the adult industry that do the

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<v Speaker 1>freaky stuff. I know, I'd be googling on the low tomb,

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<v Speaker 1>but then I'd be delete thing it because I'd be

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<v Speaker 1>embarrassing myself. You gotta use incognito mode on your browser. No,

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<v Speaker 1>but it is true. Okay, So I think that I

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<v Speaker 1>would rather have my private robot because the jet how

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<v Speaker 1>often am I really gonna use? I was just gonna

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<v Speaker 1>say that, how often are you really flying? And then

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<v Speaker 1>you gotta pay to have it part somewhere you got

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<v Speaker 1>that we got at me. I'm on on unless it's

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<v Speaker 1>one of those diet Tesla private jet care you're connected

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<v Speaker 1>to the electricity eat, I'm that's too much meet up.

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<v Speaker 1>I'd rather have the robot. The robot do the bed

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<v Speaker 1>YadA YadA YadA, make sure that when I come home

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<v Speaker 1>everything to get you know, here's the rule. But you

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<v Speaker 1>know how al also in the ninetime babo, you already

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<v Speaker 1>know what you gotta do, and you already know the

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<v Speaker 1>spot ding ning ning ning ding dal shut it off,

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<v Speaker 1>just downloaded right into the robot. This is what I

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<v Speaker 1>like exactly, This is what I like, and I can

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<v Speaker 1>disconnect you when you start to get annoying. I think

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<v Speaker 1>it's great. I shall have a robot. There we go.

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<v Speaker 1>So anybody out there making robots please hit up exactly

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<v Speaker 1>a matter on Instagram. But it kind of dehumanizes you

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit, don't it, Because now I'm not gonna

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<v Speaker 1>lie look between you and me and me and you,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm gonna be completely sexually open right now, respectfully,

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<v Speaker 1>but this is my truth. Um ever since I haven't had,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, a partner for a very long time, you

0:19:19.600 --> 0:19:21.919
<v Speaker 1>end up taking care of yourself right. You end up

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<v Speaker 1>playing DJ wack a wacker reacord you're ready now. So afterwards,

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<v Speaker 1>I almost feel like a little bit dehumanizes you from

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<v Speaker 1>that human connection with someone else because not already know

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<v Speaker 1>I can handle myself. I can do it in my

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<v Speaker 1>own time. I know when and where, this and that,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's great and it's safe. It's safer right than

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<v Speaker 1>to be out in the streets bed. You kind of

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<v Speaker 1>lose that human connection and even when you go back

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<v Speaker 1>into trying to look for it, it's kind of awkward.

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<v Speaker 1>So I can only but imagine what it is when

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<v Speaker 1>you become adapted to having a robot or these uh,

0:19:57.960 --> 0:20:02.840
<v Speaker 1>these like animated illusional world that they create in the

0:20:02.920 --> 0:20:05.439
<v Speaker 1>VR world. Yeah, people, people are into this whole like

0:20:05.640 --> 0:20:09.879
<v Speaker 1>virtual reality thing. When you want to connect with a

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<v Speaker 1>real human being. You don't even know how to act.

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<v Speaker 1>Here's a little syde quest on this isn't it kind

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<v Speaker 1>of like the same thing as social media and having

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<v Speaker 1>a cell phone attached to you all day. You kind

0:20:20.240 --> 0:20:23.840
<v Speaker 1>of lose yourself in that world where you become a

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<v Speaker 1>slave to the cell phone, you know, where you're always

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<v Speaker 1>on it like it needs to be around you. You're

0:20:28.520 --> 0:20:31.320
<v Speaker 1>stuck in social media. You're stuck in this world of

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<v Speaker 1>trying to take the best pick or post the best

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<v Speaker 1>thing or I'm one of those I think that I

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<v Speaker 1>have more friends on social media than I have in

0:20:38.680 --> 0:20:40.679
<v Speaker 1>real life. There's people that don't even know but we

0:20:40.760 --> 0:20:43.160
<v Speaker 1>talk every day, and I don't even know who you are.

0:20:43.359 --> 0:20:45.160
<v Speaker 1>And that's the good part. Those are the good parts,

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<v Speaker 1>right You find and you find interesting people out there.

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<v Speaker 1>But at the same time, you know, I still like

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<v Speaker 1>going to my local bar and hanging out, meeting a

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<v Speaker 1>couple of peeps, you know. But I mean I posted

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<v Speaker 1>recently something on my social media that it was with

0:20:57.400 --> 0:21:00.320
<v Speaker 1>Kanye West where he said that, um, you know, now

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<v Speaker 1>we're we've basically we're going to keep playing this game,

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<v Speaker 1>but we we just got a little bit deep. But

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<v Speaker 1>people these days are so caught up with social media

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<v Speaker 1>and this fake you know, this fake life of what

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<v Speaker 1>reality should be, that we no longer go outside, we

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<v Speaker 1>no longer hang out with friends, we're no longer living

0:21:17.480 --> 0:21:19.879
<v Speaker 1>our real, our real lives because we're so caught up

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<v Speaker 1>in this internet, social media world where we're concerned about

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<v Speaker 1>other people's opinions, people that we don't even know. Um,

0:21:27.160 --> 0:21:29.040
<v Speaker 1>a lot of things you miss out on your life.

0:21:29.080 --> 0:21:31.480
<v Speaker 1>You could spend a day to day stuck home on

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<v Speaker 1>your computer, on your phone, and you literally missed out

0:21:34.320 --> 0:21:37.440
<v Speaker 1>on real life. So that's something that I feel that

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<v Speaker 1>I wish that we can kind of get back from

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<v Speaker 1>like back and like you said, we're gonna we're about

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<v Speaker 1>to jump onto the next would you rather question here?

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<v Speaker 1>But here's here's a real quick one at Sharon, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>at Sharing the singer, he explained that he hasn't had

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<v Speaker 1>a cell phone since two dozen and fifteen. How do

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<v Speaker 1>you survive in the street? Got he got stuck in

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<v Speaker 1>the in that whole like social media world, like always

0:21:57.640 --> 0:22:01.040
<v Speaker 1>being a slave to the phone. So he has his iPad.

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<v Speaker 1>He spends time during the day to check his email,

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<v Speaker 1>answer people back and if you have to get to him.

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<v Speaker 1>You know his phone number, and that is it. That

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<v Speaker 1>is his life now and he says changed him completely.

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<v Speaker 1>That's kind of good. The only thing is that now

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of us we make money off social media.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's like social media now has become a way

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<v Speaker 1>of earning income. And that's where it gets complicated. But

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<v Speaker 1>if I didn't have to make if I didn't make

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<v Speaker 1>money from it, I would try my best to spend

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<v Speaker 1>less time on social media. And you can always have

0:22:32.119 --> 0:22:33.720
<v Speaker 1>a team do that for you. You can always have

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<v Speaker 1>a team. Hey, listen or or someone with you help me,

0:22:37.520 --> 0:22:39.520
<v Speaker 1>you know, let's make the video. But there's no need

0:22:39.600 --> 0:22:41.040
<v Speaker 1>for me to sit in front of the video. Like

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<v Speaker 1>the thing Instagram, Instagram to to this. You're there and

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<v Speaker 1>just like Twitter, but I want to see what you a,

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<v Speaker 1>what you go, that, what you did, and you know

0:22:49.960 --> 0:22:52.919
<v Speaker 1>who's pregnant, who's not pregnant, who's breaking up? But is

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<v Speaker 1>that really bringing any value to your life? Not necessarily,

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<v Speaker 1>but anyways, that's into the top I need to be honest.

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<v Speaker 1>We should talk about it in another podcast shop here's another.

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<v Speaker 1>Would you rather your mom arrange your marriage or marry

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<v Speaker 1>your most recent x? Oh wow? Um, Uh, well, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna my mom's gonna hate me for what I'm

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<v Speaker 1>about to say. Thankfully her English is not too good.

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<v Speaker 1>But the thing is that if my mom would arrange

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<v Speaker 1>my marriage, So my option is either my mom arranges

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<v Speaker 1>my marriage or me marry my ex. Okay, and my

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<v Speaker 1>mom ranges my marriage. I know that he's probably gonna

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<v Speaker 1>be older, he's gonna be rich, and she's not gonna

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<v Speaker 1>care if I like him or not. It's just like

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<v Speaker 1>me that he's gonna take care of you. He's gonna

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<v Speaker 1>handle it. Yeah, that's the old schools, like Latinos and

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<v Speaker 1>Hispanics are like that, right. My mom used to say

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<v Speaker 1>that all the time. Yeah, she's like I want that

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<v Speaker 1>day and then with time you're gonna learn to love him.

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<v Speaker 1>And yeah, I get over it. Now. If I do

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<v Speaker 1>it on my own, like with my ex and it's

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<v Speaker 1>just or one of my exes whatever. Um, it would

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<v Speaker 1>be based off somebody that I'm physically attracted to. It

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<v Speaker 1>would be based off many things. Better. As you can tell,

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<v Speaker 1>I am not the best one select thing. So and

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<v Speaker 1>vibe vibes are excellent. We need vibe vibes. Chemistry is important. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>better to be honest. Studies have shown that arranged marriages

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<v Speaker 1>actually lasts longer than those that do it out of

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<v Speaker 1>physical attraction or out of love what they consider love

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<v Speaker 1>at the time. You know, being in love, you could

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<v Speaker 1>be in love for a certain amount of time that

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<v Speaker 1>fades away, that fades away eventually. So, um, maybe I

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<v Speaker 1>think that my mom would would make a good selection.

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<v Speaker 1>She will make a good choice thinking further ahead in life,

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<v Speaker 1>thinking for like, you know, the checking out the boxes,

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<v Speaker 1>because this person is that you were effectful, it is

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<v Speaker 1>your hard workers. Either me, I'm automatically gonna assume is

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<v Speaker 1>there attraction? You know? Do we have chemistry? Dada? And

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<v Speaker 1>then I look into all that other stuff. So who knows?

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<v Speaker 1>I like that, I like that, and you know what

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like? Perhaps maybe you if if there's someone

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<v Speaker 1>was to ask your kids this question, you know, what

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<v Speaker 1>would your answer be? What do you mean? So if

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<v Speaker 1>someone would ask your your kids, what do you think

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<v Speaker 1>their answer would be if they were to have an

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<v Speaker 1>arranged marriage by their mom, which would be you or

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<v Speaker 1>marry their most recent X. Would you still have the

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<v Speaker 1>same mentality as your mom? Marry someone who could take

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<v Speaker 1>care of you with money and you've learned to love them,

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<v Speaker 1>or what kind of advice would you give your your children.

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<v Speaker 1>I would have the same mindset as my mom, just

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit more modified, right. I would still want

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<v Speaker 1>them to be happy and and I would try to

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<v Speaker 1>pay attention to the things that they are attracted to

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<v Speaker 1>physically in a man, which is something that my mom

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't care right. My mom will automatically say it is

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<v Speaker 1>some deelling I an't think, right, But I would try

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<v Speaker 1>to look for certain things. Okay, I'm going to do

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<v Speaker 1>my best to put this person together. But I do

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<v Speaker 1>understand specifically these days that things have changed so much

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<v Speaker 1>how you do have to look for someone that can

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<v Speaker 1>financially be stable, be you know, support system, because they

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<v Speaker 1>want you to be the ones the women to maintain

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<v Speaker 1>them and decay all women equality. Women are making as

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<v Speaker 1>much money as men, this and that. So now I

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<v Speaker 1>don't got to work and I'm just gonna be home

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<v Speaker 1>and my girl's gonna pay the bills, and she got

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<v Speaker 1>it because she's an empowered woman. No, it's either fifty fifty.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you still believe in fifty fifty? Yeah, I definitely do. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>I believe in the whole aspect of you know, everyone

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<v Speaker 1>helping each other out anyway they can, especially like with

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<v Speaker 1>bills and and whatnot. I mean, is that is that

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<v Speaker 1>what something that you're thinking about with? No, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know if I believe in anymore? Really, you know what

0:26:56.119 --> 0:26:58.760
<v Speaker 1>it is? You need to find the right person to know.

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<v Speaker 1>There's no, there's no, there's no fifty fifty. Why I

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<v Speaker 1>gotta give fifty? I think fifty is too much. You're

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<v Speaker 1>thinking about yourself too much. No, I think that I

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<v Speaker 1>can give thirty in a good day, like I could

0:27:12.080 --> 0:27:15.480
<v Speaker 1>give you thirty. Honestly, I should be giving you twenty five.

0:27:15.480 --> 0:27:16.800
<v Speaker 1>But I'm going to give you thirty so that you

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<v Speaker 1>don't feel bad and the rest really be on you,

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<v Speaker 1>because what the total holds more value, you know, And

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<v Speaker 1>I'm here like there's a lot. I'm giving you all

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<v Speaker 1>types of support, kinning, cooking, os and you know, working. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>that's that's that's when when the conversation changes. At that,

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<v Speaker 1>Oh god, if you need another if you're going to

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<v Speaker 1>be at home taking care of your children and not

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<v Speaker 1>being able to financially support someone, yeah, of course obviously,

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<v Speaker 1>then just all goes No. No, No, I want to work.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to want Okay, I want to work and

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<v Speaker 1>I want to make my money and I want to give. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll see. I think when you find out someone what

0:27:50.320 --> 0:27:53.080
<v Speaker 1>they tell you. Ladies, Oh my god, this is such

0:27:53.119 --> 0:27:56.320
<v Speaker 1>a good topic for the Instagram thingthing. I want to

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<v Speaker 1>post it on my page. And I want to know

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<v Speaker 1>what you guys think. Should women these days overall? Should

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<v Speaker 1>uh relationships still be couples? Should they still be fifty fifty?

0:28:06.440 --> 0:28:09.240
<v Speaker 1>Should women get less than men? Should men get more?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you still believe that men are supposed to be

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<v Speaker 1>the providers and women are supposed to be the you know,

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<v Speaker 1>the nurturer and all this are the good stuff? You know.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not saying to be cooking and cleaning the house

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<v Speaker 1>because if we were being all the feminists to eat

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<v Speaker 1>me up, That's not what I said. What I said is, um,

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<v Speaker 1>I know that we want equality, but how much equality

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<v Speaker 1>do we want? Do we really want it? When? Do

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<v Speaker 1>we want it? Because do we want it all the

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<v Speaker 1>time or just when we're getting money at work? I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. I'm trying to figure it out anyways. That

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<v Speaker 1>that show is coming up real soon. Good, Yeah, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>and I think I think we I think we had

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of fun today. You know. Unfortunately, we've we've

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<v Speaker 1>come to the end of the you know, would you rather?

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<v Speaker 1>And we've answered a lot and you know, I've given good,

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<v Speaker 1>ive given, I've given my thirty percent today, So you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I have loved it. You know, honestly I love doing

0:28:57.080 --> 0:28:59.800
<v Speaker 1>my podcast with you, Alex. We get along so good,

0:28:59.840 --> 0:29:02.800
<v Speaker 1>that energy and the vibes are so great. Um and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm also grateful and thankful to have you guys already

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<v Speaker 1>know where can they follow you? Oh man, don't don't

0:29:08.840 --> 0:29:13.360
<v Speaker 1>put me out. This is all about exactly at anybody

0:29:13.360 --> 0:29:15.880
<v Speaker 1>could find me. And because the ladies would be like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my god, he's kind of you know whatever. I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, but you know, you know, I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>a maybe. I don't know, I'm just an average Alex

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<v Speaker 1>thinking so much for coming in today. I want to

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<v Speaker 1>thank everyone for joining me. I remember to follow exactly

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<v Speaker 1>was doing it, UM, I don't know, my mind was

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<v Speaker 1>going out of a thousand miles per hour because I

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<v Speaker 1>just thought of so many other great episodes that we

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<v Speaker 1>can do. We're gonna work on that real soon. UM. Anyways,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you guys so much for listening. I shall check

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<v Speaker 1>you guys next Thursday on exactly Amada