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Speaker 1: Fresh Show is on. It's stay or go all right?

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Speaker 1: Hell Lola, good morning, Lola, welcome to the show. How

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Speaker 1: are you cool? Lola?

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Speaker 2: Are you him?

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Speaker 1: Yes? You were mute. You just had a full conversation

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Speaker 1: with yourself, Lola, I did.

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Speaker 2: I am a little embarrassed by that.

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Speaker 1: I will.

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Speaker 2: That should just show you how how I'm doing well.

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Speaker 1: I mean, you know, these things happen. So what's going on?

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Speaker 1: And first of all, this is kind of a sad story,

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Speaker 1: and I'm sorry about that. But what's going on with

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Speaker 1: your boyfriend? And why don't you kind of fill us in?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so my boyfriend plut our dog down without talking

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Speaker 2: to me while I was out of town.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry for your loss. I mean, I was talking

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Speaker 1: to someone about this website. Losing humans is difficult, but whatever,

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Speaker 1: he's losing dogs and pets is as or mortive for

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Speaker 1: some reason. So I'm sorry that happened to you. What

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Speaker 1: happened though? Why did he do that?

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Speaker 3: You know?

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Speaker 2: I mean I first got the dog, and thank you

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Speaker 2: for that. I appreciate. I mean, I'm so out of sorts,

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Speaker 2: I like can't even work my phone properly. I uh,

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Speaker 2: I mean I first got the dog. You know about

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Speaker 2: a year before I started dating my boyfriend, but we've

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Speaker 2: raised the dog for you know, about seven years, and

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Speaker 2: I knew, you know, she was having some health issues,

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Speaker 2: and you know, I wasn't expecting it to be so soon.

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Speaker 2: And when I got home, my boyfriend told me that,

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Speaker 2: I guess she was having seizures. And so my boyfriend

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Speaker 2: took her to you know, urgent care, and the vet

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Speaker 2: said it was time to put her down, and my

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Speaker 2: boyfriend told me, uh, he didn't want to ruin my trip.

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Speaker 1: Well, yeah, look, I don't want to sound insensitive when

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Speaker 1: I say this, but unfortunately I've been part of this

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Speaker 1: process before, and I feel like when it happens, sometimes

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Speaker 1: the most humane thing to do is, you know, for

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Speaker 1: that to for that to occur. Like I've been there

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Speaker 1: when I've taken a dog to the vet and the

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Speaker 1: vet has been like, there's nothing we can do. You've

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Speaker 1: done everything, like the most you know, the best thing

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Speaker 1: putting him or her down because and I suppose a

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Speaker 1: couple of days may not have mattered much, but what

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Speaker 1: I would imagine he was thinking. I got to think

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Speaker 1: is that that was the right thing to do for

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Speaker 1: the dog, and it wasn't going to change whether you

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Speaker 1: were there or not. That said, how much longer, Like

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Speaker 1: was it two days, three days a week? I mean,

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Speaker 1: how long was it before you got back?

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Speaker 2: It was a couple of days. And it's it's not

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Speaker 2: even like I do believe I agree with you, like

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Speaker 2: I do think he did the right thing. There's no

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Speaker 2: way I want my dog to suffer just for my

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Speaker 2: selfish reasons to like say goodbye. But the fact that

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Speaker 2: I wasn't called or consultant rare, like I just show

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Speaker 2: up and if that wasn't he just broke the news

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Speaker 2: to me. That's what bothers me. I can't even look

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Speaker 2: him in the eye right now, and so I just

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Speaker 2: that's that's my main issues, Like, am I ever.

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Speaker 1: Gonna building it over this because Lola people are immediately

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Speaker 1: texting into this the station, like I don't even need

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Speaker 1: to hear the whole story. Leave it's unacceptable. Again, I'm

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Speaker 1: trying to see you know, my mom was out of

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Speaker 1: town once when we put one of our dogs down,

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Speaker 1: family dogs down, and it was absolutely the right thing

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Speaker 1: to do. The dog was having seizures. It was really bad.

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Speaker 1: My dad did call my mom and say we have

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Speaker 1: Katie was her name, kay Katon, Katie the snaucher. She

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Speaker 1: was sixteen, having seizures all the time, but they were

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Speaker 1: becoming so consistent that it was like okay, and so

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Speaker 1: he called my mom and say, hey, I'm going to

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Speaker 1: take Katie to the vet, but I think it's time.

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Speaker 1: And my mom was obviously very sad, but that was

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Speaker 1: the right thing to do, and I think she felt

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Speaker 1: probably ruined your trip, but it also is something that

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Speaker 1: I feel like you should have had some equity in

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Speaker 1: the decision making process for right.

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Speaker 2: I agree, Thank you. I feel so validated because you know,

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Speaker 2: that was like our baby, and and of course I

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Speaker 2: would have been sad, but you know, I'm an adult, like, yes,

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Speaker 2: this is my trip would have been I would have

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Speaker 2: being like, where, where's our fur baby?

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Speaker 1: And then him being like, oh.

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Speaker 2: I just made this decision without even consulting you.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I mean again, I'm trying to see the

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Speaker 1: other side of this, where it's sometimes these things they

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Speaker 1: can't linger because it wouldn't be fair to the animal.

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Speaker 1: But at least he could have told you what he

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Speaker 1: see that if there I'm trying to play Devil's advocate here,

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Speaker 1: but if there was no alternative, if this was absolutely

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Speaker 1: Where did you enjoy your trip for the last few days?

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Speaker 1: You know what I mean? Like everyone is texting up

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Speaker 1: the flip side, though, what was he he could have called,

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Speaker 1: you could have not called. But if they were going

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Speaker 1: to do it that day, they were going to do

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Speaker 1: it that day, no matter what. Right, Yeah, So yeah,

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Speaker 1: I would want to I would want to know. But

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Speaker 1: like if you're my parents, for example, my parents have

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Speaker 1: medical procedures apparently consistently, and then they just forget to

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Speaker 1: tell me, and then because they don't want me to worry. Yes,

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Speaker 1: ruin my day, they don't want me to be concerned

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Speaker 1: me and be like, yeah, Dad's recovering great from what

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Speaker 1: Oh wow, yeah, you had open heart surgery today and

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Speaker 1: they you know, they put a new way, put a

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Speaker 1: and everything. It's like, well, I would have liked to

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Speaker 1: But I also understand why they feel like if if

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Speaker 1: I mean, if it's a normal thing, then I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I like the transparency though personally, but and are you

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Speaker 2: I mean, it does sort of seem like it's something

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Speaker 4: You know, like he knows Daisy was my baby, you know,

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Speaker 4: I mean, she was our dog, but you know that

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Speaker 2: I just think that is kind of a major red

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Speaker 2: I would have called him.

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Speaker 1: Do you feel like, is he is he considerate of you?

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Speaker 1: In other ways, Is this the first time that you've

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Speaker 1: seen him do something without thinking at least optically with

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Speaker 1: because some could argue he was thinking about your well being.

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Speaker 1: Others would say that it was, you know, unacceptable of

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Speaker 1: him not to consult you. I mean, is he generally

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Speaker 2: I would say he's consider it, but kind of like

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Speaker 2: on like it's now I'm looking at it through like

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Speaker 2: a different lens, and it's kind of like his good intentions.

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Speaker 2: That's almost like in like like at a kid, and

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Speaker 2: I don't want to disrespect him, but like almost like

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Speaker 1: I'm just thinking if it's a global issue that he

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Speaker 1: You know? I don't know, is he going to do

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Speaker 1: that with your lives and say, oh, yeah, you know,

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Speaker 1: job in San Antonio when we're leaving, right, you know,

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Speaker 1: then that's a problem. But if yeah, in this one instance,

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Speaker 1: he sounds like he didn't do right by you, and

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Speaker 1: I'm no winning though, to be honest, like that's kind

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Speaker 1: of where I'm at, Like I don't tell her and.

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Speaker 2: Then the thing is okay. Like if you told her

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Speaker 2: and she's on a trip, right, I think for me personally,

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Speaker 2: it would just kill me because I'm not there to

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Speaker 2: say goodbye.

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Speaker 1: I'm not there to you know, be there for my

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Speaker 1: dog's last breath. Oh yeah, trips over right, trips over right?

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Speaker 3: Done?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, immediately exactly like immediately, which may have been nice

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Speaker 1: too if you'd had the option to say, all right,

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Speaker 1: you know, give me twenty four hours, I'm gonna come home.

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Speaker 1: I want to be there for this kind of thing.

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Speaker 1: That's I agree with that too. But let me take

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Speaker 1: some phone calls on this, Lola, and I appreciate you

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Speaker 1: what you cantum, sorry for your loss, and now we're

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Speaker 2: Well, thanks, I appreciate you, guys.

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Speaker 1: Yes, I appreciate you too. Thank you eight five five

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Speaker 1: texted vetech for seven years. Unfortunately, with seizures and pets,

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Speaker 1: depending on the length of them severity, it can lead

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Speaker 1: to brain neuro damage if numerous occur in a short period.

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Speaker 1: I agree she should have been told, but in the

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Speaker 1: the VET. I've seen some dogs be unable to come

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Speaker 1: out of a seizure with iView medications and the post

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Speaker 1: seizure face. See that's again, like, if it happened, if

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Speaker 1: was you know, hey, we need to end this, which

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Speaker 1: was the case I was involved with, but luckily everybody

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Speaker 1: if it had to happen, now, maybe you call and say, hey,

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Speaker 1: I have terrible news. I'm sorry, this is happening. It's

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Speaker 1: the best thing for the dog, Daisy, that's what you do, yes, yeah,

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Speaker 1: and have to communicate right.

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Speaker 5: No, you cannot just make that type of decision and

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Speaker 5: not consult her, like what to me, it says like

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Speaker 5: he doesn't think she's emotionally strong enough to handle certain things.

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Speaker 5: So what else will you like to me about or

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Speaker 5: what else will you omit telling me?

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Speaker 1: Okay, let's say though, let me ask you this, Kiki.

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Speaker 1: So you last year, it was last year. You want

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Speaker 1: to Gracie Award, right, big award. You want a big

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Speaker 1: award for females and media, and you're at this thing.

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Speaker 1: God forbid. Let's I don't even want to say Lock's

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Speaker 1: your dog. Let's just make it. You had a hamster

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Speaker 1: And Tim takes Ted to the vet and say, Hampshire,

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Speaker 6: And how do you just exist for two days after

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Speaker 5: Like just vibing, but you just let me walk in

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Speaker 1: What weird? Like? You know, I would want to know.

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Speaker 1: I mean normally in these situations they'll say to you, like,

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Speaker 6: To control my reaction to something like as Pinky said like,

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Speaker 1: Hi Sarah. So just to recap here, Lola just called

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Speaker 6: So something super similar happen into myself. We had our cat.

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Speaker 1: And thank you for calling. All good.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I have a good day. Thank you for listening,

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Speaker 1: Thank you, appreciate you. Hey Kia, Hi, Hey, So you're

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Speaker 3: Are so bad Yeah, that's what I think. I think

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Speaker 3: don't think that's something to leave him over. Okay, all

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Speaker 1: I hear you have a great day, Thanks for listening,

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Speaker 1: appreciate you. Uh is it Alicia?

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Speaker 5: Yes?

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Speaker 1: Hey, good morning. What do you think his ass.

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Speaker 6: Would be out the door?

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Speaker 1: Like I get that too.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, you had better call me because I will

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Speaker 2: I don't care what is holding you back, Like I

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Speaker 3: That's my child chatter before he got together, like get

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Speaker 6: Here, man.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm trying to give this guy the benefit of

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Speaker 1: the doubt, but I know I'd be pissed. So yeah,

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Speaker 6: He had so many opportunities, like to do the right

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Speaker 3: Like, oh my lord, I would freaking beat his ass up.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I hear you. Thank you, Alicia, have a good day,

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Speaker 1: you too, and all that we've decided leave his ass,

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Speaker 1: beat his ass, do what you got to do, but

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