1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:02,840 Speaker 1: It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter, and if 2 00:00:02,840 --> 00:00:06,400 Speaker 1: you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting, and more, 3 00:00:06,760 --> 00:00:09,800 Speaker 1: please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEFM dot com 4 00:00:09,840 --> 00:00:12,280 Speaker 1: and click submit Strawberry Letter. 5 00:00:12,520 --> 00:00:13,560 Speaker 2: We could be reading. 6 00:00:13,320 --> 00:00:16,000 Speaker 1: Your letter live on the air, just like we're going 7 00:00:16,040 --> 00:00:18,560 Speaker 1: to read this one right here, right now, and you 8 00:00:18,640 --> 00:00:21,079 Speaker 1: never know, it could be yours. 9 00:00:21,680 --> 00:00:23,600 Speaker 3: It could be yours. Buckle up and hold on tight. 10 00:00:23,680 --> 00:00:26,880 Speaker 3: We got it for you. Here it is strawberry Let us. 11 00:00:27,160 --> 00:00:29,200 Speaker 2: All right, nephew, thank you. Subject. 12 00:00:29,320 --> 00:00:33,800 Speaker 1: My mom is for the streets, all right, All right, 13 00:00:33,800 --> 00:00:34,199 Speaker 1: here we go. 14 00:00:34,320 --> 00:00:35,080 Speaker 2: Let's get into it. 15 00:00:35,120 --> 00:00:37,840 Speaker 1: Dear Stephen Shirley, My husband and I are in our 16 00:00:38,040 --> 00:00:42,440 Speaker 1: mid sixties, and my mother moved into the apartment below us. 17 00:00:42,760 --> 00:00:46,040 Speaker 1: She's a widow, but she's dated since my dad died 18 00:00:46,159 --> 00:00:51,360 Speaker 1: four years ago. She calls the men her her gentleman friends, 19 00:00:51,440 --> 00:00:53,559 Speaker 1: and two of the guys were younger than she is. 20 00:00:53,680 --> 00:00:57,800 Speaker 1: But I acted like I didn't notice. My mom overdresses 21 00:00:57,920 --> 00:01:02,120 Speaker 1: everywhere we go because she's seeking it. She sparks conversation 22 00:01:02,280 --> 00:01:06,120 Speaker 1: with men, and it's flirty and embarrassing because most times 23 00:01:06,440 --> 00:01:08,880 Speaker 1: she can't tell that the man doesn't want to engage 24 00:01:08,880 --> 00:01:12,680 Speaker 1: in conversation with her. She's always raised me to go 25 00:01:12,840 --> 00:01:16,600 Speaker 1: after men instead of letting the man pursue me. Now 26 00:01:16,600 --> 00:01:19,240 Speaker 1: that she's older, I feel like I'm the parent, so 27 00:01:19,360 --> 00:01:22,240 Speaker 1: I try to discipline her. When I tell her to 28 00:01:22,240 --> 00:01:25,280 Speaker 1: stop coming on to men in public, she goes off 29 00:01:25,360 --> 00:01:28,440 Speaker 1: on me right then and there. It makes people think 30 00:01:28,440 --> 00:01:31,920 Speaker 1: that I'm being mean to my elderly mom. I recently 31 00:01:31,959 --> 00:01:35,280 Speaker 1: got locked out of her apartment because I walked in 32 00:01:35,360 --> 00:01:39,039 Speaker 1: on her entertaining one of her newer gentleman friends. It 33 00:01:39,120 --> 00:01:42,080 Speaker 1: was totally innocent and they were watching TV, but I 34 00:01:42,120 --> 00:01:45,120 Speaker 1: felt like she shouldn't be in her pajamas without a 35 00:01:45,280 --> 00:01:48,520 Speaker 1: robe while a new man was in her home. She 36 00:01:48,680 --> 00:01:51,680 Speaker 1: told me to leave, and the next day I couldn't 37 00:01:51,720 --> 00:01:54,400 Speaker 1: get in. She had one of her other gentleman friends 38 00:01:54,440 --> 00:01:57,160 Speaker 1: come change her dead boat lock. I had to call 39 00:01:57,200 --> 00:02:00,280 Speaker 1: a locksmith to change it back while she was at church. 40 00:02:00,920 --> 00:02:04,200 Speaker 1: She's hell on wheels and I'm scared for her. I 41 00:02:04,240 --> 00:02:06,760 Speaker 1: don't want one of these men to get carried away 42 00:02:06,800 --> 00:02:08,799 Speaker 1: with her in the bedroom or try to rob her 43 00:02:08,840 --> 00:02:09,400 Speaker 1: or something. 44 00:02:09,680 --> 00:02:12,160 Speaker 2: And oh, yes, there is sex involved. 45 00:02:12,760 --> 00:02:15,639 Speaker 1: I live above her, so I can hear everything that 46 00:02:15,720 --> 00:02:18,400 Speaker 1: goes on how do I keep my mom safe without 47 00:02:18,440 --> 00:02:20,679 Speaker 1: making her feel like I'm telling her what to do 48 00:02:21,080 --> 00:02:22,080 Speaker 1: all the time. 49 00:02:23,120 --> 00:02:25,040 Speaker 3: I'm just gonna say this right off the top, this 50 00:02:25,160 --> 00:02:26,120 Speaker 3: letter is not for me. 51 00:02:26,960 --> 00:02:29,760 Speaker 4: If you give it to me, I cannot be responsible 52 00:02:30,200 --> 00:02:32,240 Speaker 4: for what I'm Thank you right now. 53 00:02:32,240 --> 00:02:33,639 Speaker 3: I'm all over the place, go. 54 00:02:33,680 --> 00:02:35,720 Speaker 2: To shit, all right, thank you? 55 00:02:37,360 --> 00:02:37,680 Speaker 3: All right. 56 00:02:37,760 --> 00:02:39,880 Speaker 1: This is really kind of a tough letter because your 57 00:02:39,919 --> 00:02:41,760 Speaker 1: mom is just good and grown. 58 00:02:41,880 --> 00:02:43,960 Speaker 2: You're in your mid sixties, so your. 59 00:02:43,880 --> 00:02:46,800 Speaker 1: Mom has to be what eighty maybe if you're in 60 00:02:46,840 --> 00:02:49,960 Speaker 1: your mid sixties, So all you can really do at 61 00:02:49,960 --> 00:02:53,320 Speaker 1: this point is protect her from afar. You just can't 62 00:02:53,360 --> 00:02:57,080 Speaker 1: pop up in her house unannounced. That's why she's mad. 63 00:02:57,160 --> 00:03:00,720 Speaker 1: You're not respecting her space or her private see and 64 00:03:00,800 --> 00:03:03,359 Speaker 1: the fact that she's in the apartment downstairs should make 65 00:03:03,400 --> 00:03:07,320 Speaker 1: you rest a little easy, because she wants to live 66 00:03:07,360 --> 00:03:10,280 Speaker 1: her life and do what she wants to do. Other 67 00:03:10,280 --> 00:03:13,840 Speaker 1: people want their older people, I should say, want their independence. 68 00:03:14,440 --> 00:03:16,720 Speaker 1: They want their independence. They want to move how they 69 00:03:16,760 --> 00:03:19,160 Speaker 1: want to move, they want to do what they want 70 00:03:19,200 --> 00:03:22,280 Speaker 1: to do. That means they want their independence when it 71 00:03:22,320 --> 00:03:25,120 Speaker 1: comes to dating, when it comes to intimacy, whether it's 72 00:03:25,160 --> 00:03:30,200 Speaker 1: cuddling with just your ps and no robe on, So 73 00:03:30,360 --> 00:03:34,760 Speaker 1: what's wrong with that? And they even want to have sex? Okay, 74 00:03:34,800 --> 00:03:37,280 Speaker 1: obviously you said you can hear it. At least your 75 00:03:37,280 --> 00:03:40,200 Speaker 1: mom is close by. I do think you need to 76 00:03:40,200 --> 00:03:42,320 Speaker 1: get some camera set up the door, set up at 77 00:03:42,360 --> 00:03:44,720 Speaker 1: the door, you know, since you're so worried, and if 78 00:03:44,720 --> 00:03:47,240 Speaker 1: something crazy does happen, you can look at the video, 79 00:03:47,760 --> 00:03:50,400 Speaker 1: you know, and at least see her gentlemen friends coming 80 00:03:50,520 --> 00:03:54,400 Speaker 1: and going. That should put your mind at ease somewhat. 81 00:03:54,640 --> 00:03:57,160 Speaker 1: And tell your mom it's for her safety. Your mom 82 00:03:57,280 --> 00:04:02,160 Speaker 1: is trying to live her best life life right now, Steve. 83 00:04:02,320 --> 00:04:05,320 Speaker 1: All you want her to do is be faked. See. 84 00:04:05,360 --> 00:04:09,200 Speaker 3: Well, I've tried to fix what I'm thinking and I 85 00:04:09,440 --> 00:04:10,760 Speaker 3: just can't pull it together. 86 00:04:11,040 --> 00:04:11,800 Speaker 2: Couldn't do it. 87 00:04:13,120 --> 00:04:18,200 Speaker 3: So well, y'all pray my strength here I go. 88 00:04:18,640 --> 00:04:20,760 Speaker 2: I knew it. Girl. 89 00:04:20,839 --> 00:04:25,960 Speaker 4: Your mama, Wow, girl, your mama, your mama trip it. 90 00:04:26,480 --> 00:04:29,000 Speaker 4: I'm just gonna tell you I ain't got I ain't gonna, 91 00:04:29,000 --> 00:04:30,640 Speaker 4: ain't gonna have no advice for you. 92 00:04:30,839 --> 00:04:32,960 Speaker 3: I'm just gonna tell you how your mama is. 93 00:04:33,839 --> 00:04:37,320 Speaker 4: You got a mama, You, you and your husband, you 94 00:04:37,400 --> 00:04:41,000 Speaker 4: and your mid sixties. I'm thinking, let's say sixty five. 95 00:04:41,920 --> 00:04:46,640 Speaker 4: If your mama had you at twenty, she ate it five. 96 00:04:47,560 --> 00:04:53,159 Speaker 4: If she had you at fifteen, she atey. WHOA, that's strong. 97 00:04:53,800 --> 00:04:57,520 Speaker 4: Your dad died four years ago. He was probably he's 98 00:04:57,520 --> 00:04:59,800 Speaker 4: probably glad to get out of him. I'm just gonna 99 00:04:59,800 --> 00:05:02,799 Speaker 4: go keep it real with you. You say, they describe your mama, 100 00:05:03,080 --> 00:05:05,400 Speaker 4: your daddy would probably glad to just get on out here. 101 00:05:05,400 --> 00:05:08,000 Speaker 3: Man, let me go work out young. I't had nothing of. 102 00:05:07,920 --> 00:05:08,480 Speaker 5: This right now. 103 00:05:09,240 --> 00:05:12,880 Speaker 4: She calls the men her gentleman friends. See that's old 104 00:05:12,960 --> 00:05:15,400 Speaker 4: right there? Who is that? That's my genemy? 105 00:05:15,520 --> 00:05:15,799 Speaker 2: Food? 106 00:05:16,520 --> 00:05:17,159 Speaker 3: That's old. 107 00:05:18,279 --> 00:05:20,560 Speaker 4: Two of the guys are younger than her. Most people 108 00:05:20,680 --> 00:05:22,760 Speaker 4: she meet gonna be younger than her. That ain't a 109 00:05:22,800 --> 00:05:25,320 Speaker 4: whole lot of people still living that's older than her. 110 00:05:25,440 --> 00:05:28,479 Speaker 4: So stop stop telling us stuff that we already know. 111 00:05:28,839 --> 00:05:31,159 Speaker 4: Some of the men is younger than her. Hell, most 112 00:05:31,240 --> 00:05:34,040 Speaker 4: everybody she meet gonna be younger than her. What percentage 113 00:05:34,040 --> 00:05:36,159 Speaker 4: of people you think your mama can meet at eighty 114 00:05:36,240 --> 00:05:37,640 Speaker 4: five that's older than her? 115 00:05:38,080 --> 00:05:40,320 Speaker 3: That like one percent of the population, ain't it? 116 00:05:40,600 --> 00:05:40,640 Speaker 5: So? 117 00:05:40,839 --> 00:05:41,359 Speaker 3: Yeah? 118 00:05:41,680 --> 00:05:44,679 Speaker 4: Even down at the retirement home or the nursing home, 119 00:05:45,360 --> 00:05:48,040 Speaker 4: she gonna be the old one down there, Okay, here 120 00:05:48,040 --> 00:05:52,159 Speaker 4: we go. My mom over dresses everywhere we go because 121 00:05:52,160 --> 00:05:53,080 Speaker 4: she's seeking attention. 122 00:05:53,160 --> 00:05:54,960 Speaker 3: I think that's fly that you stay fly. 123 00:05:55,000 --> 00:05:55,720 Speaker 2: Till you die. 124 00:05:55,800 --> 00:05:57,840 Speaker 3: I think you should over dress. That's what I'm gonna be. 125 00:05:57,880 --> 00:06:02,520 Speaker 4: I'm gonna be an old man wearing old pimp suits, colors, ties. 126 00:06:02,440 --> 00:06:05,279 Speaker 3: Hats, brown, God, I'm I'm wearing. 127 00:06:05,320 --> 00:06:09,640 Speaker 4: I'm rocking out of here, just like your mama. Uh. 128 00:06:10,040 --> 00:06:15,120 Speaker 4: She sparks conversations with men, and it's flirty and embarrassing 129 00:06:15,120 --> 00:06:18,159 Speaker 4: because most times she can't tell that the men don't 130 00:06:18,200 --> 00:06:21,360 Speaker 4: want to engage conversation. I've had that experience before, because 131 00:06:21,520 --> 00:06:24,520 Speaker 4: you know, I'm a year away from being seventy. So 132 00:06:24,560 --> 00:06:27,440 Speaker 4: it's like old women think, because I'm that age, that's 133 00:06:27,480 --> 00:06:28,120 Speaker 4: what I want. 134 00:06:28,240 --> 00:06:29,600 Speaker 3: That's not. That's not. 135 00:06:30,560 --> 00:06:33,119 Speaker 4: I've had an eighty year old women come here, Hey, Davy, 136 00:06:33,160 --> 00:06:36,400 Speaker 4: what's going on? Hey mama? Why you call me that 137 00:06:36,560 --> 00:06:38,640 Speaker 4: we round the same age? 138 00:06:39,520 --> 00:06:39,799 Speaker 3: Wow? 139 00:06:40,040 --> 00:06:43,080 Speaker 1: Hang on, Steve, We'll have part two of your response 140 00:06:43,160 --> 00:06:47,320 Speaker 1: coming up at twenty three minutes after today's Strawberry letter 141 00:06:47,360 --> 00:06:50,000 Speaker 1: subject my mom is for the streets. We'll get back 142 00:06:50,040 --> 00:06:54,640 Speaker 1: into it right after this. You're listening Steve Hardy Morning Show. 143 00:07:00,000 --> 00:07:03,320 Speaker 5: It's Carla Farroll. Kick that old mopping bucket aside. Are 144 00:07:03,360 --> 00:07:06,200 Speaker 5: you ready for a mop and bucket clean? 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Wow, this wild one right here. 154 00:07:39,280 --> 00:07:43,760 Speaker 4: This woman is in her mid sixties. Her mama and 155 00:07:43,880 --> 00:07:47,280 Speaker 4: her daddy died four years ago, so now she out 156 00:07:47,280 --> 00:07:50,960 Speaker 4: there dating men that she calls her gentleman friends. That's 157 00:07:51,000 --> 00:07:53,520 Speaker 4: an old statement right there. But she's got to be 158 00:07:53,640 --> 00:07:56,560 Speaker 4: eighty to eighty five somewhere in there, could be a 159 00:07:56,560 --> 00:07:59,920 Speaker 4: little bit older than that. Then you said that your mom, 160 00:08:00,000 --> 00:08:02,560 Speaker 4: I'm over dresses everywhere to get attention. I think that's 161 00:08:02,560 --> 00:08:05,400 Speaker 4: cool to be dressed up when you're old. I think 162 00:08:05,440 --> 00:08:10,000 Speaker 4: that's pretty slick. She has conversations with men and it's flirty, 163 00:08:10,040 --> 00:08:13,000 Speaker 4: and she can't tell when men are put off by 164 00:08:13,160 --> 00:08:14,960 Speaker 4: r don't want to be bothered. I've been in that 165 00:08:15,040 --> 00:08:18,120 Speaker 4: position because you know, I'm like really really famous with 166 00:08:18,240 --> 00:08:21,960 Speaker 4: old people, you know, because God gave me all my 167 00:08:22,080 --> 00:08:24,760 Speaker 4: fame and glory in my lady years because he knew 168 00:08:24,760 --> 00:08:27,640 Speaker 4: I would have wrecked it. If I had this much 169 00:08:27,720 --> 00:08:31,240 Speaker 4: fame and wealth at thirty, I'd be in jail with 170 00:08:31,320 --> 00:08:34,720 Speaker 4: Puffy Gode. 171 00:08:35,280 --> 00:08:38,480 Speaker 3: So he waited till I was old enough. 172 00:08:39,040 --> 00:08:43,280 Speaker 1: I know, call it okay to say anything, you know. 173 00:08:43,520 --> 00:08:44,959 Speaker 3: Just you know, I'm just telling you. 174 00:08:44,960 --> 00:08:46,600 Speaker 4: If I was thirty and hand this money and stuff, 175 00:08:46,600 --> 00:08:49,680 Speaker 4: I'd be sitting somewhere I looking crazy. But I didn't, 176 00:08:49,880 --> 00:08:51,600 Speaker 4: so he gave it to me when I was older. 177 00:08:51,840 --> 00:08:54,960 Speaker 4: My fan base is young and old. Most women that 178 00:08:55,080 --> 00:08:58,000 Speaker 4: love me is too old to be loving anybody. I'm 179 00:08:58,040 --> 00:09:00,280 Speaker 4: just gonna be real with you. They come up to 180 00:09:00,320 --> 00:09:03,000 Speaker 4: me all the time, Hey baby, and I'm be gonna well, 181 00:09:03,040 --> 00:09:05,880 Speaker 4: your voice is leaving too, So I'm used to that. 182 00:09:06,760 --> 00:09:08,840 Speaker 4: She don't know it because she ain't been out there 183 00:09:08,920 --> 00:09:13,400 Speaker 4: in a while. She raised me to go after me 184 00:09:13,520 --> 00:09:17,160 Speaker 4: in instead of letting a man pursue me. Now that 185 00:09:17,280 --> 00:09:19,600 Speaker 4: she's older, I feel like I'm the parent. I try 186 00:09:19,640 --> 00:09:22,520 Speaker 4: to discipline her. Didn't you just say your mama raised 187 00:09:22,559 --> 00:09:26,760 Speaker 4: you to go after me? She raised you to go 188 00:09:26,880 --> 00:09:30,000 Speaker 4: after me. I don't know no mama to done that 189 00:09:30,000 --> 00:09:32,960 Speaker 4: to her daughter. So this is new. I feel like 190 00:09:33,000 --> 00:09:35,079 Speaker 4: I'm the parent, So I try to discipline her. When 191 00:09:35,080 --> 00:09:37,040 Speaker 4: I tell her to stop coming on to me, and 192 00:09:37,080 --> 00:09:40,079 Speaker 4: in public, she go off on me right then and there. 193 00:09:40,080 --> 00:09:42,280 Speaker 4: And then it makes people think that I'm being mean 194 00:09:42,679 --> 00:09:46,280 Speaker 4: to my elderly mom because see you telling her to 195 00:09:46,280 --> 00:09:48,079 Speaker 4: stop talking to me, and guess what she's saying back 196 00:09:48,120 --> 00:09:51,640 Speaker 4: to her. Stop telling me what to do all the time. 197 00:09:52,559 --> 00:09:54,960 Speaker 4: You won't let me enjoy myself. And that's what the 198 00:09:55,000 --> 00:10:00,320 Speaker 4: people here leave me alone? Why can't I on my 199 00:10:00,440 --> 00:10:03,160 Speaker 4: left life? See you gotta let your mama have some 200 00:10:03,200 --> 00:10:07,959 Speaker 4: fun late, that's what it sounded like. So I recently 201 00:10:08,000 --> 00:10:10,480 Speaker 4: got locked out of her apartment because I walked in 202 00:10:10,600 --> 00:10:14,640 Speaker 4: on her entertaining her newer gentleman friends. One of her 203 00:10:14,760 --> 00:10:17,600 Speaker 4: newer gentlemen friends. It was totally innocent. 204 00:10:17,880 --> 00:10:21,080 Speaker 3: They was watching TV, but I felt like she shouldn't 205 00:10:21,080 --> 00:10:25,000 Speaker 3: be in her pajamas without a row while a man 206 00:10:25,160 --> 00:10:29,719 Speaker 3: is in her home, girl, what is you worrying about that? 207 00:10:29,880 --> 00:10:30,160 Speaker 2: Folk? 208 00:10:30,400 --> 00:10:32,920 Speaker 3: Have you seen eighty year old women pajamas? 209 00:10:33,040 --> 00:10:33,560 Speaker 4: You don't have to. 210 00:10:36,920 --> 00:10:39,240 Speaker 3: Have you ever seen a. 211 00:10:39,559 --> 00:10:43,600 Speaker 4: Sexy pair of eighty year old women pajamas? 212 00:10:43,880 --> 00:10:47,280 Speaker 3: Do you know how thick they are? She probably need 213 00:10:47,320 --> 00:10:48,000 Speaker 3: a robe on. 214 00:10:48,200 --> 00:10:51,840 Speaker 4: The robe is woven into the pajamas. 215 00:10:52,280 --> 00:10:53,760 Speaker 3: That's how thick then pajamas is. 216 00:10:53,800 --> 00:10:55,400 Speaker 4: So I don't even know what you was worried about 217 00:10:55,440 --> 00:10:59,760 Speaker 4: right there, and they was watching TV. She shouldn't have 218 00:10:59,840 --> 00:11:03,000 Speaker 4: on or pajamas without a role while a man is 219 00:11:03,040 --> 00:11:03,600 Speaker 4: in her home. 220 00:11:03,920 --> 00:11:05,840 Speaker 3: She told me to lead. The next day, you couldn't 221 00:11:05,840 --> 00:11:06,199 Speaker 3: get in. 222 00:11:06,480 --> 00:11:08,800 Speaker 4: She had one of her gentlemen friends come change the 223 00:11:08,920 --> 00:11:11,880 Speaker 4: dead boat lock I done had to call locksmith to 224 00:11:11,960 --> 00:11:15,040 Speaker 4: change him back. And I'm scared for her. I don't 225 00:11:15,040 --> 00:11:16,960 Speaker 4: want one of these men to get carried away with 226 00:11:17,040 --> 00:11:19,120 Speaker 4: her in the bedroom or try to rock now, unlet's 227 00:11:19,160 --> 00:11:22,079 Speaker 4: stop right here. You don't want one of these old 228 00:11:22,120 --> 00:11:24,760 Speaker 4: men to get carried away with her in the bedroom. 229 00:11:24,880 --> 00:11:27,840 Speaker 4: Listen to me. Take that off your plate or things 230 00:11:27,880 --> 00:11:32,120 Speaker 4: to be concerned about you. I'm telling you right now, 231 00:11:32,160 --> 00:11:38,480 Speaker 4: at eighty, it can only get so wild wiling at eighty. 232 00:11:39,440 --> 00:11:43,440 Speaker 4: It's different from wiling at sixty, which is different from 233 00:11:43,480 --> 00:11:46,880 Speaker 4: wilding at forty, which is different from wilding at twenty. 234 00:11:47,280 --> 00:11:49,439 Speaker 3: What's the different high it's gonna. 235 00:11:49,200 --> 00:11:52,160 Speaker 4: Get out of hand in they eighty. Tell me that 236 00:11:54,400 --> 00:11:56,400 Speaker 4: he got to sit on the edge of the bed. 237 00:11:56,600 --> 00:11:59,640 Speaker 4: He can't get his socks off. He bent over and 238 00:11:59,679 --> 00:12:03,360 Speaker 4: tried take his socks off. Now he wheezed it. He'dne 239 00:12:03,440 --> 00:12:06,600 Speaker 4: forgot to take the viaguar. Now he got to sit 240 00:12:06,720 --> 00:12:09,920 Speaker 4: there and wait on the viagara to kick in. He 241 00:12:10,040 --> 00:12:14,080 Speaker 4: donet fell asleep because it took too long. You got 242 00:12:14,080 --> 00:12:17,360 Speaker 4: to take an hour before he done set the timer. 243 00:12:17,760 --> 00:12:19,760 Speaker 4: He don't know how to set the timer because his 244 00:12:19,880 --> 00:12:22,880 Speaker 4: daughner just brought him my iPhone. Now he done fell 245 00:12:22,920 --> 00:12:26,760 Speaker 4: asleep on your bed, yo, Mama, laying over there waiting sexy. 246 00:12:26,800 --> 00:12:30,480 Speaker 4: When he wake up, he can't unbutton all them buttons 247 00:12:30,520 --> 00:12:33,800 Speaker 4: on them old pajamas that your grandmama got. 248 00:12:34,000 --> 00:12:35,839 Speaker 3: So now he's sitting up in the here trying to. 249 00:12:35,880 --> 00:12:39,040 Speaker 4: Rub her to get all bothered and hot and heavy, 250 00:12:39,320 --> 00:12:42,600 Speaker 4: but nothing is going through cutting through the fabric on 251 00:12:42,720 --> 00:12:46,040 Speaker 4: them pajamas. I'm telling you how hard it is to 252 00:12:46,200 --> 00:12:50,319 Speaker 4: wild at eighty. It is so hard to wild at eighty. 253 00:12:51,280 --> 00:12:54,880 Speaker 4: Now she need help getting out of her pajamas. He 254 00:12:54,920 --> 00:12:56,960 Speaker 4: didnet got up and bent over and trying to scoot 255 00:12:57,000 --> 00:12:59,520 Speaker 4: her out to pajamas. Now his back then went out. 256 00:13:00,080 --> 00:13:03,600 Speaker 4: He got the late back down. Now he backing bed 257 00:13:03,720 --> 00:13:08,560 Speaker 4: and getting knocked out. What's how hard it is to 258 00:13:08,679 --> 00:13:09,520 Speaker 4: wild at eighty? 259 00:13:10,080 --> 00:13:13,520 Speaker 2: Okay, I got it, Steve, I definitely got it. 260 00:13:14,080 --> 00:13:17,120 Speaker 4: My mom is I enjoyed this letter. I had no 261 00:13:17,240 --> 00:13:20,000 Speaker 4: help for you and your mama. And the reason I 262 00:13:20,040 --> 00:13:21,360 Speaker 4: can't help because I ain't ever. 263 00:13:21,200 --> 00:13:23,160 Speaker 3: Been eighty before. I don't even know what the hell. 264 00:13:23,080 --> 00:13:26,079 Speaker 2: Going on poster comments and on the history letter. 265 00:13:26,400 --> 00:13:28,760 Speaker 3: I want to holler at your marble. 266 00:13:28,800 --> 00:13:31,959 Speaker 1: At Steve Harvey FM on Instagram and Facebook, and check 267 00:13:31,960 --> 00:13:35,160 Speaker 1: out the Strawberry Letter podcast on the free iHeartRadio app 268 00:13:35,440 --> 00:13:37,680 Speaker 1: for it never sounded so good. You can download it 269 00:13:37,679 --> 00:13:41,520 Speaker 1: today coming up at forty six minutes after after the hour. 270 00:13:41,679 --> 00:13:46,280 Speaker 1: It is gonna be unk and nef wilding out right. 271 00:13:46,160 --> 00:13:49,400 Speaker 3: After his teeth is on that pillow. 272 00:13:52,360 --> 00:13:54,839 Speaker 2: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show