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Speaker 1: What's up? Its way up with Angela Yee. I'm Angela Yee.

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Speaker 1: And it's a celebration. I mean, we got a nay

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Speaker 1: you're here. Congratulations girl, thank you. The album is out

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Speaker 1: right now. Wait, there's more. As a matter of fact,

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Speaker 1: we want to pop this Battle of Champagne to celebrate

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Speaker 1: both you and I are too scared to pop the battle,

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Speaker 1: so damn, my producer's gonna come over.

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Speaker 2: Here, come Dan, because we're scary and do.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you know what I I want to be better

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Speaker 1: at that, but I'm always scared that somebody shook it

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Speaker 1: up or something's gonna happen. Don't point it this way, sir.

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Speaker 1: Both like this like something's about to happen to us.

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Speaker 1: I have to get better at this. This is one

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Speaker 1: of the things I need to learn. What champagne to drink,

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Speaker 1: what wines I'm supposed to be like? I want to

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Speaker 1: be grown.

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Speaker 2: I'm so scared. I never understood why people shake it up. First,

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Speaker 2: you're not.

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Speaker 1: That's because they wanted to stop scared. What all you

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Speaker 1: gotta do? I feel like I could do you just

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Speaker 1: ease the tap off? Just why are you facing this way?

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Speaker 1: Turn around? There? We go, turn around? Oh he can't

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Speaker 1: even do it? Okay, all right, So we got so

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Speaker 1: many things to celebrate.

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Speaker 2: For you, you.

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Speaker 1: Know, because first of all, I'm excited that you're here.

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Speaker 1: Love your spirit, love your music.

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Speaker 2: Al I'm excited. You know.

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Speaker 1: We got a toast to this. I know you got

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Speaker 1: the team in here too. Does anybody else want some

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Speaker 1: champagne with us? Got Thursday? Yat Thursday? This is how

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Speaker 1: you test to see if anybody has another baby on

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Speaker 1: the wall or something. You know what I'm saying. It's like,

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Speaker 1: let's see if she'll drink this. And I'm just kidding.

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Speaker 2: Chairs here's the way. There's more. Let's go.

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Speaker 1: Not see the ring on the finger so that I

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Speaker 1: see that. So that's an engagement ring. We saw a

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Speaker 1: few months ago there was an actual engagement that went viral.

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Speaker 1: Everybody said, congratulations. Is that what that is? So can

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Speaker 1: we celebrate and toasted that too?

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Speaker 2: Is that what that is? Is that an engagement ring?

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Speaker 1: Wait, there's more, wait for it. I'm gonna toasted that now.

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Speaker 1: But honest so you gotta be having like the best

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Speaker 1: time right now.

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Speaker 2: I am.

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Speaker 3: I'm having a pretty good year in all the ways,

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Speaker 3: like in love, in music, and motherhood, in ownership and finances.

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Speaker 3: I'm just every single part of my life is so

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Speaker 3: beautiful right now that I'm still kind of waiting for

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Speaker 3: something to go wrong.

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Speaker 1: Don't do that. You got to celebrate these moments.

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Speaker 2: I don't know why. I don't know why I do.

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Speaker 1: That to myself, right because sometimes when things aren't going well,

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Speaker 1: you start feeling like, well, can only get better from here.

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Speaker 1: But when things are going well, you're like, something bad's

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Speaker 3: Yeah, And I think that's only because I'm so I

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Speaker 3: don't know, immune to trauma.

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Speaker 2: Damn. That sound bad to say, right, but it's it's

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Speaker 2: it's true.

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Speaker 1: Well, okay, before we get into that, let's get into

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Speaker 1: the great things. You have two children, I too, and

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Speaker 1: a bonus baby and a bonus baby. So you're old.

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Speaker 1: This is nine or ten.

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Speaker 2: My oldest is twelve or twelve. Yeah, he wants to

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Speaker 2: be thirteen.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, No, that's grown.

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Speaker 2: That's a big boy.

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Speaker 1: I don't know why. Okay, that's a big boy, all right.

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Speaker 1: And then the baby.

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Speaker 3: Is and then I have a middle My bonus baby

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Speaker 3: just turned three on April eight.

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Speaker 1: She's congratulations. Somebody was telling me the other day some

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Speaker 1: of these kids that ended up having to like really

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Speaker 1: start to develop during COVID, it's like different, yeacause of

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Speaker 3: One thousand percent. I got a pandemic baby. My last

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Speaker 3: one is a pandemic baby. And he's just he's wired differently.

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Speaker 2: Everyone says that I don't know, and I don't even

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Speaker 3: Maybe it's because they were, you know, closed in and

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Speaker 3: that they you know, their immediate family. But he's different.

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Speaker 3: He's resilient, he's fearless, you know. When he goes out

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Speaker 3: go full force into everything. He ain't scared of nothing, right.

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Speaker 1: Oh, and then for you being at home during the

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Speaker 1: pandemic with y'all man and he's Jamaica.

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Speaker 2: He is girl.

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Speaker 1: Should I say fiancee? We all get used to saying

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Speaker 1: that I've seen the video okay with your fiance you know,

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Speaker 1: how is how is that for you guys spending so

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Speaker 3: I don't together, We don't get we don't get tired

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Speaker 2: Because that's how we don't get tired of each other.

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Speaker 2: We work together. You know, we be at home together.

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Speaker 3: We do separate when necessary, like for work and things

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Speaker 3: like that. But if I could be, if I could.

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Speaker 2: Be up under, I would. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Do y'all sleep hugged up? You know how some people do.

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Speaker 3: We tangle our We tangle our legs into each other,

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Speaker 3: like we tangle our legs up together.

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Speaker 2: That is so cute.

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Speaker 1: And then you go home and you be so happy

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Speaker 1: that y'all miss it, and y'all missed each other so much.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you got a good one.

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Speaker 1: So all right, Well, then let's talk about some of

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Speaker 1: these songs in that case, because you have to chant

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Speaker 1: us some other energy. I mean, if right now, hot

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Speaker 1: saus Yeah, let's talk about it. I know this feeling.

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Speaker 1: And tell your mama I don't like her, nig because

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Speaker 1: sometimes when gods are doing you dirty, the family knows.

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Speaker 3: The mama be knowing, the mama be knowing when they

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Speaker 3: when she raised, can we go ahead? The mama know

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Speaker 3: when she didn't raise, I ain't she tild And a

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Speaker 3: lot of the times when when she also knows when

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Speaker 3: her son has done something wrong and.

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Speaker 2: He go running back home. She'll be on his side like, well,

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Speaker 2: he's just not ready and he thirty five?

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Speaker 1: What you mean he ain't ready? Right?

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Speaker 3: She The moms protect, They protect the bullshit, and I

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Speaker 3: hate that. I feel like, I feel like a nice

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Speaker 3: amount of women have experience absolutely the mama being the problem.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and not that she's the problem, but she always

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Speaker 1: gonna ride for her son.

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Speaker 2: She'd be the problem because it started home.

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Speaker 1: Listen, So you have a thirteen year old boy, dude, right,

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Speaker 1: so you're always gonna go to bad for your son

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Speaker 1: no matter who he's dating though, Right, You're gonna true.

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Speaker 3: However, I teach I'm for real, I feel you on that,

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Speaker 3: But I teach my boys accountability, you know, at all times.

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Speaker 3: And I also teach them don't ever put yourself in

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Speaker 3: you know what I mean? And you just got to

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Speaker 3: hope that you you free them out into the world

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Speaker 3: with that same perspective. But there's the Internet and then

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Speaker 3: there's peers and things you just can't keep them away from.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because sometimes you be feeling like your mom knew,

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Speaker 1: your sister knew, your boys knew. That's the worst type

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Speaker 1: of getting cheated on it. Oh man, and they don't

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Speaker 3: Especially when you done got cool with one of the

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Speaker 1: Sister thought we was cool, you know, but it's also

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Speaker 1: not really Therefore, Like I dated a guy, his cousin

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Speaker 1: actually told me. She was like, listen, you don't need

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Speaker 2: Would you want that? Though? What?

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Speaker 3: What girl truly would really want the family member of

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Speaker 3: the guy that she is probably head over heels in

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Speaker 3: love with to come and tell them, Hey, I know

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Speaker 3: you had be and everything, but don't waste your time.

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Speaker 3: I appreciated it because I felt like it had to

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Speaker 3: I really fuck with you, Like I like you a lot,

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Speaker 3: you cool, you treat him well, but he ain't it

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Speaker 3: he got She was like, he's got a lot of issues,

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Speaker 3: and I'm just telling you.

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Speaker 1: This because I really like you. Yeah, because me and

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Speaker 2: Oh what is coming?

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Speaker 1: And the other thing is you have to know who

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Speaker 1: they're just going to stay with that person and be

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Speaker 1: mad at you. Yeah, some people, you know you have

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Speaker 1: all right, let me not just think with my heart,

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Speaker 3: And my heart is getting me in trouble. Man, I

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Speaker 3: need to start listening to my mind more. Well, not now,

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Speaker 3: because I don't have them kind of problems. Okay, fiance

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Speaker 3: as far as love goes, uh huh. But in other

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Speaker 3: areas of my life, I should probably lead mentally instead

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Speaker 1: But you know, the house with.

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Speaker 2: Music absolutely absolutely to say it because people always be

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Speaker 1: Yes, because when you're happy sometimes the music don't.

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Speaker 3: You ain't got nothing to write about it? Yeah, when

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Speaker 2: Going good, you don't have no there was the inspiration

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Speaker 2: behind it? And don't nobody want to hit on every music?

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Speaker 1: Sometimes we do that. We need like a good.

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Speaker 3: If it's if it's something you can do a down

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Speaker 3: step two or something. Yeah, but it's kind of like

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Speaker 3: when Mary I'll never want to.

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Speaker 1: Probably when she was going through what she was going through.

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Speaker 1: I mean people tell her that all the time. Or

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Speaker 1: Tony Braxton did a great album about heartbreak.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, yeah, and you're right.

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Speaker 1: And then people feel like the music it's a different

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Speaker 1: because a lot of us are like and.

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Speaker 2: It's it's when it's relatable. It I think I think

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Speaker 2: the music travels further.

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Speaker 1: Right when it's but love is relatable too, you know,

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Speaker 1: And there's times when you're like, this is true. Think

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Speaker 1: about what what are some good wedding songs when you

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Speaker 1: think about you know.

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Speaker 2: She lovely?

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Speaker 3: That's one of my favorite wedding songs all right now,

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Speaker 3: Stevie Wondle I no, no, I was thinking, is that

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Speaker 3: song about his daughter?

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Speaker 1: Was that the song that was my Sherry and Moore? Okay?

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Speaker 3: So she oh wait, maybe that was the one I'm

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Speaker 2: Was it about his daughter's money?

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Speaker 1: Long?

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Speaker 3: Definitely got one? Oh my gosh, she got one with that.

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Speaker 3: Now that's that's that can be played it with that one.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's okay, it's okay. I'm but I'm a I'm

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Speaker 3: Time that was something I was likely doing. Yeah, it

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Speaker 1: How did you sugar Daddy help you hoo girl in

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Speaker 1: But yeah, how much older was he?

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Speaker 1: About almost thirty years twenty eight years older. Yeah, and

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Speaker 2: Absolutely? Okay, absolutely, honey.

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Speaker 3: But he was for me, for me, I think for

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Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, I mean everybody's going younger now.

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Speaker 3: It's a thing I've seen. I've seen a few posts.

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Speaker 2: I ain't say no name, but you.

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Speaker 1: Know, I think that, like I said, sometimes those things

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Speaker 1: Daddy would make me feel like I wish I had one.

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Speaker 1: I've never had that, I've never experienced that. It could

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Speaker 2: The girls was actually dming me for Sugar Daddy. Stort

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Speaker 1: I don't even know how to act ask for things?

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Speaker 2: What?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like, I don't know how to do that.

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Speaker 2: I do shit.

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Speaker 3: I need some shoes, I broke a nail. I want

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Speaker 1: I it's still not done. I bet like this for

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Speaker 2: But you know, you just you independent. That's cool.

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Speaker 1: Now, how do you explain to your fiance when he

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Speaker 1: because that is.

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Speaker 2: Like your diary. Yeah, it's like your diary and music.

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Speaker 3: It's funny that you ask that, because he will not

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Speaker 3: watch Sugar Daddy video to this day. Really, he won't

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Speaker 3: watch it. He hates the song. He don't want to

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Speaker 3: hear it. First of all, he had no idea who

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Speaker 3: I was when we met. So that's just beautiful in

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Speaker 3: itself because there's no you know, suspicion of ulterior motive

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Speaker 3: was a whole new space for him. He's very private,

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Speaker 3: you know, I did you Guystorial.

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Speaker 2: We met at my baby daddy.

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Speaker 1: House and I loved it. Please continue, let me.

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Speaker 2: Have some They're not friends. First of all, Let's make

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Speaker 1: It ain't no Porsche Falan situations.

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Speaker 3: It was a it was a it was a kickback, y'all.

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Speaker 3: Y'all have kickbacks out here. Y'all know what kickbacks is.

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Speaker 1: We don't really, but we know what it is.

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Speaker 2: Okay.

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Speaker 3: So it was a little kickback and I went over there.

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Speaker 3: I had just did like a twelve hour session at

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Speaker 2: Son and his uncle was like, now you come kick it.

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Speaker 3: I was like, I don't like y'all like that. I'm

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Speaker 3: it was just one of those situations where friends of

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Speaker 1: And did you turn back around?

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Speaker 2: Like? I was like, eyes, I can stay for a

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Speaker 3: I had to make sure that there was no friendship

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Speaker 3: you know what I'm saying, my son, Yeah, family.

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Speaker 2: My exist family.

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Speaker 3: So I ended up leaving right and then a couple

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Speaker 3: And he was just like, man, look I don't care

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Speaker 3: about none of it. Then I ain't into them. Y'all

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Speaker 3: been separated for a long. Y'all ain't been together for

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Speaker 3: over five years. So I let him take me out

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Speaker 2: And now we're getting married.

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Speaker 1: That can happen for you. Where was the first day?

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Speaker 2: And I don't regret it at his house.

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Speaker 1: You shouldn't regretted in his living room. You didn't mind

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Speaker 1: going to it. So y'all must have really been like

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Speaker 2: Nasty. Yeah, Jamica, Jamaica.

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Speaker 1: You know, there's rumors about Jamaican many things that they

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Speaker 1: won't do, but I don't believe it. I feel like

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Speaker 2: I don't know about what they want to do, but

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Speaker 2: I know about what they do do. So I'm so

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Speaker 1: That's good.

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Speaker 2: I'm very happy that.

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Speaker 1: Because people have all kinds of rules about dating. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: But you were just like because what we.

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Speaker 3: Were in time for you know what I'm saying, Especially

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Speaker 1: I mean, it was the first time you did have

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Speaker 3: It is a Hennessy involved, you know, I feel like

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Speaker 1: I guess sometimes the first time could be a little

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Speaker 2: Like? No, it was so I love telling the story.

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Speaker 3: It sounds so corny, but it was so electrical when

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Speaker 2: Corny, and I've always been the opposite of fairy tale.

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Speaker 3: But I truly believe that the first time we saw

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Speaker 1: Wow. And he feels the same way.

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Speaker 3: It's crazy because we when we tell that story, we

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Speaker 3: a you know, it's just one of those quotes.

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Speaker 2: That.

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Speaker 1: First sight and yeah, I don't believe that, but I.

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Speaker 1: And so some of these songs must have been written

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Speaker 2: Listen, I was, I was scared to touch that song, Angela.

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Speaker 1: That's that is scary, that's fantasious.

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Speaker 3: Yes, and it's it's it's it's a classic. If you're

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Speaker 2: And then my A n R.

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Speaker 3: Came in and was like, why not just give it

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Speaker 3: it's an anti love song. And the people received it.

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Speaker 2: There was a nice little handful of them that was like,

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Speaker 3: That, you know, but there was more, There was more

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Speaker 1: And I that Fantasia loved it.

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Speaker 2: She approved it. Girl, I didn't.

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Speaker 3: I didn't get to like personally speak or meet with

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Speaker 2: She had just did Color Purple.

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Speaker 3: But just for her and her team to even approve

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Speaker 1: And even when you put this out knowing that you

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: So it's really hard for it's hard for consumers to

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Speaker 3: And nothing that I write about is like no fool

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Speaker 1: It might not have just happened, though.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, And I've got records in the can girl like

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Speaker 3: was just ready to reclaim my time with this with

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Speaker 2: And I just gave them what they.

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Speaker 3: What they fell in love with me for in the

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Speaker 1: Saying stuff that other people won't say. And it just

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Speaker 1: when such and such, like when a Naya saying something

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Speaker 1: she could be playing you, but it's still sounds real

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Speaker 1: pretty thank you while you're talking about it.

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Speaker 2: Thank you. Somebody gotta do it, leave it up to me.

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Speaker 2: I got you.

445
00:18:54,200 --> 00:18:56,960
Speaker 1: Now. What about when it went viral that you got

446
00:18:56,960 --> 00:18:59,480
Speaker 1: engaged in November. That wasn't you that put it up.

447
00:18:59,520 --> 00:19:03,600
Speaker 1: Somebody did. Somebody else did, and everybody was like, congratulations,

448
00:19:03,600 --> 00:19:06,040
Speaker 1: that's amazing, you deserve it, so on and so forth.

449
00:19:06,200 --> 00:19:08,080
Speaker 1: But was that a moment that you didn't want people

450
00:19:08,200 --> 00:19:09,120
Speaker 1: to it was.

451
00:19:09,359 --> 00:19:15,119
Speaker 3: It was so beautiful and sacred and special, and I

452
00:19:15,200 --> 00:19:18,920
Speaker 3: just couldn't believe that that, you know, God had finally

453
00:19:19,880 --> 00:19:24,520
Speaker 3: finally allowed me to meet my husband. That I wanted

454
00:19:24,560 --> 00:19:27,240
Speaker 3: to soak that up privately. I wanted to soak that

455
00:19:27,320 --> 00:19:29,960
Speaker 3: up by myself. You know, it took it took a

456
00:19:30,000 --> 00:19:31,720
Speaker 3: long time for me to even get to that space,

457
00:19:31,800 --> 00:19:33,359
Speaker 3: so I wasn't ready to share it.

458
00:19:33,359 --> 00:19:37,000
Speaker 2: But it's out there. It's it's out there.

459
00:19:37,040 --> 00:19:38,240
Speaker 1: How's the wedding planning going?

460
00:19:38,440 --> 00:19:40,160
Speaker 2: Girl? I haven't even started.

461
00:19:40,280 --> 00:19:42,280
Speaker 1: Okay, so much going on right now forever.

462
00:19:42,560 --> 00:19:43,680
Speaker 2: It's too much going on right now.

463
00:19:43,680 --> 00:19:45,879
Speaker 3: We got the drop and you know, wait, there's mores

464
00:19:45,920 --> 00:19:48,920
Speaker 3: out and then we're going on tour. It's yeah, I

465
00:19:48,960 --> 00:19:51,840
Speaker 3: don't even have twenty twenty fours. It's all booked up.

466
00:19:51,840 --> 00:19:54,000
Speaker 1: Right, So you do. Do you have a date yet?

467
00:19:54,560 --> 00:19:57,320
Speaker 2: I don't have nothing. That's fine, I don't have nothing.

468
00:19:57,440 --> 00:19:57,960
Speaker 1: Got a ring?

469
00:19:58,280 --> 00:20:01,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, and that's good enough. It's heavy, So, girl, it's

470
00:20:01,600 --> 00:20:03,600
Speaker 2: so heavy.

471
00:20:03,800 --> 00:20:05,480
Speaker 1: How was it even? Like you said, you guys have

472
00:20:05,520 --> 00:20:08,200
Speaker 1: a blended family? Now? Yeah, how was that process?

473
00:20:08,400 --> 00:20:12,440
Speaker 3: I was scared to become a step mama.

474
00:20:12,760 --> 00:20:15,040
Speaker 2: Not gonna lie I hope that doesn't sound harsh.

475
00:20:15,119 --> 00:20:18,760
Speaker 3: But now now I've learned to appreciate it and find

476
00:20:18,840 --> 00:20:20,679
Speaker 3: so much beauty in it. But I was worried that

477
00:20:20,800 --> 00:20:23,280
Speaker 3: this this little boy because I met him when he

478
00:20:23,359 --> 00:20:23,880
Speaker 3: was two.

479
00:20:24,000 --> 00:20:25,040
Speaker 2: He was just two years old.

480
00:20:25,720 --> 00:20:29,840
Speaker 3: He's about to be six now, So I was worried

481
00:20:29,880 --> 00:20:33,400
Speaker 3: that I didn't know how to And forgive me if

482
00:20:33,400 --> 00:20:35,359
Speaker 3: this sounds harsh, but I'm just telling you how what

483
00:20:35,480 --> 00:20:37,680
Speaker 3: space I was in. I was worried that I wouldn't

484
00:20:37,720 --> 00:20:42,920
Speaker 3: find space to open my heart to, you know, a

485
00:20:42,920 --> 00:20:47,640
Speaker 3: another kid, especially during postpartum and all these other things

486
00:20:47,680 --> 00:20:52,040
Speaker 3: I was dealing with after having Apollo. But he's wanted.

487
00:20:52,119 --> 00:20:55,000
Speaker 3: He's become one of the the the loves of my life.

488
00:20:55,480 --> 00:20:58,679
Speaker 3: And I can't imagine. My house is beautifully chaotic with

489
00:20:58,720 --> 00:20:59,719
Speaker 3: all three of my boys.

490
00:20:59,800 --> 00:21:01,639
Speaker 2: Yeah, I love it.

491
00:21:01,840 --> 00:21:03,800
Speaker 3: And he couldn't say my name when we met. He

492
00:21:03,840 --> 00:21:06,679
Speaker 3: couldn't say Naya, so he nicknamed me yah Yah.

493
00:21:06,800 --> 00:21:07,399
Speaker 2: That's cute.

494
00:21:07,440 --> 00:21:11,800
Speaker 3: It's the cutest, it's the cutest, most affectionate name that

495
00:21:11,840 --> 00:21:12,480
Speaker 3: he calls me.

496
00:21:12,640 --> 00:21:15,800
Speaker 1: And that's that's my baby. Now, how was it even

497
00:21:15,880 --> 00:21:18,280
Speaker 1: for you guys? Like meeting the other person? I know

498
00:21:18,320 --> 00:21:20,960
Speaker 1: you had to meet his son's mother and.

499
00:21:20,880 --> 00:21:21,960
Speaker 2: Then my baby mama.

500
00:21:22,040 --> 00:21:25,320
Speaker 1: Yeah we're cool, Okay, good? Yeah? Is that a process?

501
00:21:26,440 --> 00:21:28,879
Speaker 3: I mean, I think it's an adjustment for anybody, you know,

502
00:21:29,040 --> 00:21:32,120
Speaker 3: especially when you're inviting a whole other person into your

503
00:21:32,280 --> 00:21:35,399
Speaker 3: child's life. You gotta know what you what, who you're

504
00:21:35,440 --> 00:21:37,680
Speaker 3: dealing with, and what you're dealing with. So I think

505
00:21:37,720 --> 00:21:39,120
Speaker 3: it was an adjustment for all of us.

506
00:21:39,160 --> 00:21:42,280
Speaker 2: But we smooth sailing. Now, we're cool. My baby mama cool.

507
00:21:42,720 --> 00:21:44,960
Speaker 1: And how did you know that you were that you

508
00:21:45,000 --> 00:21:46,600
Speaker 1: had postpartum girl?

509
00:21:47,440 --> 00:21:50,760
Speaker 2: Because I've I wasn't me.

510
00:21:51,920 --> 00:21:54,720
Speaker 1: I couldn't because some people don't know, like they're suffering

511
00:21:54,720 --> 00:21:56,359
Speaker 1: from it and have no idea what's wrong.

512
00:21:56,440 --> 00:21:57,159
Speaker 2: Oh, I knew.

513
00:21:57,320 --> 00:21:59,960
Speaker 3: I knew I was outside of myself, so I could

514
00:22:00,080 --> 00:22:02,600
Speaker 3: tell that you know something was wrong. It's a form

515
00:22:02,640 --> 00:22:07,200
Speaker 3: of it's depression. It's a form of depression. I felt

516
00:22:08,040 --> 00:22:11,600
Speaker 3: completely consumed by motherhood. I couldn't get back to me.

517
00:22:11,760 --> 00:22:14,680
Speaker 3: I couldn't. I couldn't write any Oh, I'm getting emotional.

518
00:22:14,720 --> 00:22:16,439
Speaker 3: Why I was get emotional when I talk about this.

519
00:22:17,400 --> 00:22:17,920
Speaker 2: I couldn't.

520
00:22:19,800 --> 00:22:23,680
Speaker 3: I couldn't create any music. I couldn't write a song

521
00:22:23,760 --> 00:22:28,480
Speaker 3: to save my life, Like I was just creatively empty.

522
00:22:28,600 --> 00:22:31,000
Speaker 3: If you need this, I was breastfeeding, so my baby

523
00:22:31,119 --> 00:22:34,679
Speaker 3: was completely dependent on me at the time. It was

524
00:22:34,680 --> 00:22:39,159
Speaker 3: a moment where I had actually went mute because I

525
00:22:39,160 --> 00:22:43,120
Speaker 3: felt like I didn't have anything to I couldn't find

526
00:22:43,160 --> 00:22:46,520
Speaker 3: anything worth saying or worth speaking about.

527
00:22:46,960 --> 00:22:51,200
Speaker 2: Oh God, I'm too gangster for this shit, Angela, It's okay.

528
00:22:51,720 --> 00:22:54,399
Speaker 1: You know what, This is helpful for other people because

529
00:22:54,400 --> 00:22:56,280
Speaker 1: this is real life. You know how many women go

530
00:22:56,359 --> 00:23:00,000
Speaker 1: through postpartum depression. Some of them, unfortunately, can't even identify

531
00:23:00,200 --> 00:23:03,760
Speaker 1: was wrong. Sometimes it with somebody who has no idea

532
00:23:03,840 --> 00:23:05,960
Speaker 1: what's happening with them. Yeah, So to be able to

533
00:23:05,960 --> 00:23:08,160
Speaker 1: see some of these signs and know that it's nothing

534
00:23:08,200 --> 00:23:10,320
Speaker 1: that you know, to know what it is, so that

535
00:23:10,359 --> 00:23:12,160
Speaker 1: you know how to handle it, I think it's important.

536
00:23:12,320 --> 00:23:15,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, for sure, because it was a new, unfamiliar space.

537
00:23:15,640 --> 00:23:18,159
Speaker 3: I didn't experience that with my thirteen year old. I

538
00:23:18,240 --> 00:23:21,280
Speaker 3: bounced right back, my body bounced back, my skin cleared up.

539
00:23:21,320 --> 00:23:23,000
Speaker 2: I didn't have any issues.

540
00:23:23,040 --> 00:23:26,280
Speaker 3: I didn't feel sexy, I didn't feel desired. I was

541
00:23:26,320 --> 00:23:30,240
Speaker 3: like tripping out on Jay and he was Oh Jay

542
00:23:30,359 --> 00:23:34,159
Speaker 3: was so Jay was my rock through all of that.

543
00:23:35,359 --> 00:23:41,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, that was he was. He he kept me sane.

544
00:23:42,119 --> 00:23:44,320
Speaker 1: That's how you know, that's real love though, that's the

545
00:23:44,359 --> 00:23:47,199
Speaker 1: one for somebody. Yeah, to be able because that's you know,

546
00:23:47,280 --> 00:23:50,080
Speaker 1: that's it's hard for him to have to deal with

547
00:23:50,200 --> 00:23:53,040
Speaker 1: as Yeah, it's harder for you. I was, so it was.

548
00:23:53,600 --> 00:23:55,720
Speaker 3: It's fair to say, Yeah, it's fair to say that

549
00:23:55,760 --> 00:23:58,520
Speaker 3: it affects everybody because he that was his first time

550
00:23:58,560 --> 00:23:59,920
Speaker 3: having to deal with postpartum too.

551
00:24:00,080 --> 00:24:02,639
Speaker 2: It was a stranger in his house, right, you know.

552
00:24:02,840 --> 00:24:06,240
Speaker 3: So to be able to be back in this creative

553
00:24:06,240 --> 00:24:09,480
Speaker 3: space now with my album with Wait There's More, I'm

554
00:24:09,520 --> 00:24:12,320
Speaker 3: just so appreciative, which is why I opened up the

555
00:24:12,359 --> 00:24:15,960
Speaker 3: album with Glory because I had to give spiritual recognition

556
00:24:16,040 --> 00:24:17,359
Speaker 3: to God for bringing me out of that.

557
00:24:18,560 --> 00:24:23,119
Speaker 1: Now that's amazing. Yeah, and you know, just for what

558
00:24:23,480 --> 00:24:25,720
Speaker 1: did you? For everybody listening, what are some things that

559
00:24:25,720 --> 00:24:26,640
Speaker 1: you were able to do.

560
00:24:26,600 --> 00:24:29,840
Speaker 2: That were helpful for you to get back in my bag?

561
00:24:31,600 --> 00:24:33,560
Speaker 3: So, if you know, I went viral for my freestyles,

562
00:24:33,960 --> 00:24:36,919
Speaker 3: so I would challenge myself by just propping my phone up,

563
00:24:37,280 --> 00:24:38,440
Speaker 3: just going into my studio.

564
00:24:39,600 --> 00:24:41,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, I just had to go back to the start.

565
00:24:41,840 --> 00:24:45,720
Speaker 3: I needed to find it so badly, So what better

566
00:24:45,760 --> 00:24:48,760
Speaker 3: way to go, find something other than to retrace your steps,

567
00:24:48,800 --> 00:24:49,040
Speaker 3: you know.

568
00:24:49,480 --> 00:24:50,800
Speaker 2: So I just went back to the start.

569
00:24:50,800 --> 00:24:52,320
Speaker 3: I propped my phone up and I would put a

570
00:24:52,320 --> 00:24:55,040
Speaker 3: beat on and I wouldn't even try to force it.

571
00:24:55,080 --> 00:24:57,960
Speaker 3: I would just wait until a melody came to me.

572
00:24:58,160 --> 00:25:00,760
Speaker 3: And it was It was a lot like a kid

573
00:25:00,840 --> 00:25:03,000
Speaker 3: riding a tricycle for the first time. You're gonna fall

574
00:25:03,040 --> 00:25:04,719
Speaker 3: down a couple of times, but you're gonna get back

575
00:25:04,760 --> 00:25:05,840
Speaker 3: up and you're gonna keep going.

576
00:25:06,280 --> 00:25:08,080
Speaker 2: So I just I stuck at it until I.

577
00:25:08,040 --> 00:25:10,879
Speaker 3: Found my found my voice again, and then I called

578
00:25:10,920 --> 00:25:13,520
Speaker 3: my my super assistant, Sierra, and I was like, hey,

579
00:25:13,520 --> 00:25:16,080
Speaker 3: I'm ready. I think I'm ready, you know, And we

580
00:25:16,119 --> 00:25:17,680
Speaker 3: got back in the lab and now we have weight.

581
00:25:17,720 --> 00:25:18,200
Speaker 2: There's more.

582
00:25:19,040 --> 00:25:20,479
Speaker 1: Yeah, And do you still live in Houston?

583
00:25:20,640 --> 00:25:22,240
Speaker 2: I do. I just bought a house in Houston.

584
00:25:22,320 --> 00:25:26,920
Speaker 1: Oh, guys, I we gotta toasted that.

585
00:25:27,160 --> 00:25:29,200
Speaker 2: Yes, toast the home owner ship. Man.

586
00:25:29,320 --> 00:25:30,840
Speaker 1: Oh my god, that's amazing.

587
00:25:31,080 --> 00:25:31,520
Speaker 2: What was it?

588
00:25:31,880 --> 00:25:34,639
Speaker 1: Listen? And it is a difficult time for some people,

589
00:25:34,760 --> 00:25:37,200
Speaker 1: you know, because we've been talking about like housing.

590
00:25:36,960 --> 00:25:38,159
Speaker 2: And mortgages and all of that.

591
00:25:38,440 --> 00:25:40,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, how was that process for you of buying a

592
00:25:40,800 --> 00:25:42,840
Speaker 1: home and finding the right place. How did you know

593
00:25:42,920 --> 00:25:43,440
Speaker 1: this was it?

594
00:25:43,600 --> 00:25:46,560
Speaker 3: So we we actually originally wanted to move out to

595
00:25:46,600 --> 00:25:49,399
Speaker 3: the country and get some exclusive space and some land

596
00:25:49,480 --> 00:25:52,840
Speaker 3: and be separated from the city. But my children, I

597
00:25:52,920 --> 00:25:55,199
Speaker 3: really try my hard is to make sure that they

598
00:25:55,240 --> 00:25:58,680
Speaker 3: don't have to feel any change because of my career. Right,

599
00:25:59,119 --> 00:26:02,400
Speaker 3: So instead of moving on to the country, my oldest

600
00:26:02,480 --> 00:26:04,960
Speaker 3: he is he's at the age and in seventh grade

601
00:26:05,000 --> 00:26:08,720
Speaker 3: where he's starting to establish his core friends, like the

602
00:26:08,760 --> 00:26:10,880
Speaker 3: friends that's gonna be his homies until college.

603
00:26:11,160 --> 00:26:12,399
Speaker 1: They're gonna have movies together.

604
00:26:12,600 --> 00:26:14,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, And I didn't want to disrupt that.

605
00:26:14,720 --> 00:26:16,400
Speaker 3: I didn't want to take that away from him because

606
00:26:16,440 --> 00:26:18,679
Speaker 3: he got some homies that he been ribbed down with

607
00:26:18,800 --> 00:26:23,600
Speaker 3: since like third grade. So instead we chose to, like,

608
00:26:23,800 --> 00:26:26,040
Speaker 3: you know, have a bit of a compromise, and we

609
00:26:26,160 --> 00:26:28,119
Speaker 3: just found this exclusive gated neighborhood.

610
00:26:28,200 --> 00:26:30,239
Speaker 2: Got to have a got to show y'all did at

611
00:26:30,280 --> 00:26:30,560
Speaker 2: the gate.

612
00:26:30,600 --> 00:26:31,280
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying.

613
00:26:31,480 --> 00:26:34,120
Speaker 2: You can't just get off out up in hire. So

614
00:26:34,840 --> 00:26:37,040
Speaker 2: we got a gated and we went to a gated neighborhood.

615
00:26:37,080 --> 00:26:40,040
Speaker 3: It's pretty exclusive, and that way we still have our

616
00:26:40,640 --> 00:26:44,040
Speaker 3: you know, we're still separate from have your privacy yeah, space. Yeah,

617
00:26:44,040 --> 00:26:46,240
Speaker 3: we still have our privacy, but our kids still get

618
00:26:46,240 --> 00:26:49,080
Speaker 3: to feel pretty naser everyday lives.

619
00:26:49,160 --> 00:26:49,480
Speaker 2: Yeah.

620
00:26:49,640 --> 00:26:52,040
Speaker 1: Now I got to ask you about this song pakiau yay.

621
00:26:52,880 --> 00:26:54,920
Speaker 2: Oh what a shift in conversation.

622
00:26:56,760 --> 00:27:01,600
Speaker 1: Move on to this getting catfish. Okay, you gotta explain

623
00:27:01,840 --> 00:27:04,040
Speaker 1: this to me because you know you write these songs. Yeah,

624
00:27:04,359 --> 00:27:07,639
Speaker 1: from a real place. Have you ever stayed with somebody

625
00:27:07,680 --> 00:27:09,760
Speaker 1: too long? Because you got calf fish by the deck?

626
00:27:10,480 --> 00:27:13,960
Speaker 2: Stayed with them too long? No, I might, I'm out

627
00:27:13,960 --> 00:27:16,080
Speaker 2: of there. You ain't finna, No, no, sir.

628
00:27:16,640 --> 00:27:19,840
Speaker 3: Hell now you had said it was like this, but

629
00:27:20,119 --> 00:27:21,560
Speaker 3: truth is, it's like that.

630
00:27:21,920 --> 00:27:24,040
Speaker 2: So I'm out. I'm bouncing. No, I don't.

631
00:27:24,080 --> 00:27:27,920
Speaker 3: I'm not babysitting your feelings or a but if.

632
00:27:27,880 --> 00:27:29,560
Speaker 1: You really like them as a person, you don't want

633
00:27:29,560 --> 00:27:30,639
Speaker 1: to hurt their feeling.

634
00:27:30,760 --> 00:27:33,040
Speaker 2: You hurt my feelings when you lied about your thing?

635
00:27:33,600 --> 00:27:37,000
Speaker 2: Is what are we talking about? No, that's not fair.

636
00:27:37,200 --> 00:27:39,200
Speaker 1: So that's a big deal to you. You couldn't love

637
00:27:39,240 --> 00:27:40,560
Speaker 1: somebody and be with them, but they.

638
00:27:40,520 --> 00:27:45,880
Speaker 2: Just Let's now, let's be honest here. Sex is at

639
00:27:45,960 --> 00:27:53,960
Speaker 2: least sixty five percent of the relationship, a little more

640
00:27:53,960 --> 00:27:54,440
Speaker 2: than half.

641
00:27:55,240 --> 00:27:58,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, definitely more than half. I would put sixty five

642
00:27:58,200 --> 00:27:58,960
Speaker 3: on it, because.

643
00:27:58,720 --> 00:28:00,800
Speaker 1: When everything else is great, the sad lines up to

644
00:28:00,880 --> 00:28:01,159
Speaker 1: you know what.

645
00:28:01,160 --> 00:28:04,119
Speaker 3: I mean, And especially when you're especially when there's that

646
00:28:05,359 --> 00:28:08,080
Speaker 3: think of it like this, you have this, you have

647
00:28:08,160 --> 00:28:10,600
Speaker 3: this bomb connection and attraction to this person.

648
00:28:11,080 --> 00:28:13,240
Speaker 2: And then once you're once you choose.

649
00:28:12,920 --> 00:28:17,040
Speaker 3: Whatever, whatever speed y'all choose to go at once you

650
00:28:17,160 --> 00:28:20,000
Speaker 3: choose to meet each other with your bodies, and then

651
00:28:20,040 --> 00:28:23,960
Speaker 3: it's like wamp wanmp are we gonna act like that's

652
00:28:24,000 --> 00:28:25,879
Speaker 3: not a disappointment and you're just gonna go off the

653
00:28:25,920 --> 00:28:27,040
Speaker 3: fact that they're sweet?

654
00:28:27,280 --> 00:28:32,600
Speaker 1: So this happened to you, Yes, damn it? What do

655
00:28:32,680 --> 00:28:33,920
Speaker 1: you do in that situation?

656
00:28:34,240 --> 00:28:34,560
Speaker 2: Please?

657
00:28:35,760 --> 00:28:36,440
Speaker 1: What you say?

658
00:28:36,600 --> 00:28:40,640
Speaker 2: Get your ship and go oh my god, because.

659
00:28:40,640 --> 00:28:43,760
Speaker 3: Nah, I'm not babysitting, no feelings. Sex is a big deal.

660
00:28:44,840 --> 00:28:47,280
Speaker 1: Sex is a big somebody could be not that big

661
00:28:47,320 --> 00:28:48,200
Speaker 1: and still be good. Though.

662
00:28:48,240 --> 00:28:51,160
Speaker 3: No, oh no, I didn't say, you know, to each

663
00:28:51,240 --> 00:28:55,480
Speaker 3: his own. Okay, some girls are satisfied with with with fivers,

664
00:28:56,320 --> 00:28:59,680
Speaker 3: maybe sixers, you know whatever, to each his own, right,

665
00:29:00,360 --> 00:29:01,840
Speaker 3: I know, Meto, not you.

666
00:29:02,120 --> 00:29:03,240
Speaker 2: I'm not I'm not.

667
00:29:03,120 --> 00:29:05,320
Speaker 3: Feeling a babysit your feelings, sir, you shouldn't have been

668
00:29:05,320 --> 00:29:07,320
Speaker 3: talking all this shit because now I'm expecting that you

669
00:29:07,360 --> 00:29:08,040
Speaker 3: done built.

670
00:29:07,840 --> 00:29:09,800
Speaker 1: Up the hot is true, that's why you always got

671
00:29:09,880 --> 00:29:12,480
Speaker 1: to talk it down a little, like I don't I

672
00:29:12,600 --> 00:29:14,920
Speaker 1: not rather them not talk about it at all, maybe

673
00:29:14,960 --> 00:29:15,600
Speaker 1: not mention it.

674
00:29:15,680 --> 00:29:17,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, like don't, let's not even talk.

675
00:29:17,680 --> 00:29:19,800
Speaker 1: Maybe he got to talk about like his mouth work like.

676
00:29:20,440 --> 00:29:22,640
Speaker 2: Most of the time, the ones that's the ones.

677
00:29:22,360 --> 00:29:25,240
Speaker 3: That's tiny like that they got you know what I'm saying,

678
00:29:25,240 --> 00:29:26,720
Speaker 3: they got motor mouth, but.

679
00:29:30,400 --> 00:29:31,600
Speaker 2: Motormouth. But I'm not.

680
00:29:32,160 --> 00:29:35,360
Speaker 3: I'm not babysitting, no no feelings and protecting, no egos

681
00:29:35,360 --> 00:29:37,120
Speaker 3: and no shit like that. Nah, I got to have

682
00:29:37,400 --> 00:29:39,000
Speaker 3: sex is a big deal in a relationship. I don't

683
00:29:39,000 --> 00:29:41,160
Speaker 3: care what nobody's saying. They lying if they say otherwise.

684
00:29:41,520 --> 00:29:43,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, it is a big deal. It's a big deal

685
00:29:43,600 --> 00:29:47,480
Speaker 1: when it's not hitting. I feel like when it's it's great,

686
00:29:47,640 --> 00:29:50,600
Speaker 1: you know, perfect, But when it's not good, I think

687
00:29:50,640 --> 00:29:54,000
Speaker 1: it's a uh, it's an indication that there's other things

688
00:29:54,040 --> 00:29:54,520
Speaker 1: wrong too.

689
00:29:54,960 --> 00:29:56,720
Speaker 2: Oh you think so, I think so.

690
00:29:57,680 --> 00:30:00,000
Speaker 1: But I will say sometimes the relationship could not be great,

691
00:30:00,040 --> 00:30:01,080
Speaker 1: but the sex could be great.

692
00:30:01,440 --> 00:30:03,920
Speaker 3: Okay, And then that's what bitches end up going crazy

693
00:30:04,000 --> 00:30:05,200
Speaker 3: because then they get.

694
00:30:06,680 --> 00:30:08,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, it definitely needs to be.

695
00:30:08,440 --> 00:30:10,400
Speaker 1: But I also feel like when your sex is not

696
00:30:10,680 --> 00:30:13,880
Speaker 1: like lined up, usually that means it's other things.

697
00:30:14,000 --> 00:30:16,720
Speaker 2: Going on, like mentally, emotionally it.

698
00:30:16,640 --> 00:30:19,680
Speaker 1: Could be or it could be in your relationship that something,

699
00:30:19,840 --> 00:30:22,000
Speaker 1: or it could be he's going through something. You know,

700
00:30:22,080 --> 00:30:25,480
Speaker 1: that happens sometimes like guys. I think sometimes we feel

701
00:30:25,480 --> 00:30:27,800
Speaker 1: like guys are always ready and they're not, you know,

702
00:30:28,280 --> 00:30:29,840
Speaker 1: just like we could be like, oh, I don't feel

703
00:30:29,840 --> 00:30:31,000
Speaker 1: like it's not to have a headache, But if.

704
00:30:30,880 --> 00:30:33,240
Speaker 3: A guy says that, it's like, oh yeah, like who,

705
00:30:33,280 --> 00:30:36,400
Speaker 3: first of all, where you being drop the let me see,

706
00:30:36,840 --> 00:30:40,240
Speaker 3: let me smell it? Nah, for real, You're absolutely right

707
00:30:40,240 --> 00:30:40,600
Speaker 3: on that one.

708
00:30:40,600 --> 00:30:42,920
Speaker 2: It's the difference. I know it probably sounds sexist.

709
00:30:42,720 --> 00:30:45,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, but we used to try to understand that sometimes

710
00:30:45,240 --> 00:30:49,920
Speaker 1: they go through things. Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, they're humans.

711
00:30:50,400 --> 00:30:55,880
Speaker 2: That's fail or whatever. But like I said, you know, nah,

712
00:30:55,960 --> 00:30:56,840
Speaker 2: it matters.

713
00:30:56,880 --> 00:31:00,160
Speaker 3: And Pakia is that record is about experiencing a guy

714
00:31:00,200 --> 00:31:01,240
Speaker 3: that hyped himself up.

715
00:31:01,160 --> 00:31:02,800
Speaker 2: And it wouldn't it wouldn't what it was.

716
00:31:02,880 --> 00:31:04,800
Speaker 1: Boyd Packett had to catch a straight with that one.

717
00:31:06,360 --> 00:31:08,840
Speaker 1: And you know what else, that was the first running

718
00:31:08,840 --> 00:31:09,760
Speaker 1: for president.

719
00:31:09,800 --> 00:31:13,200
Speaker 3: That was my first attempt in linking with a comedian

720
00:31:13,280 --> 00:31:13,800
Speaker 3: on the record.

721
00:31:13,840 --> 00:31:16,800
Speaker 2: That's whel on there. You know, I love I love

722
00:31:16,880 --> 00:31:17,120
Speaker 2: him that.

723
00:31:17,280 --> 00:31:18,040
Speaker 1: She's so funny.

724
00:31:18,120 --> 00:31:20,120
Speaker 2: I love her. I'm just so happy she was willing

725
00:31:20,120 --> 00:31:22,160
Speaker 2: to be a part of it. So shout out to Lunelle.

726
00:31:22,400 --> 00:31:26,680
Speaker 1: You love comedians because you're the mispatch. Yeah, I love you, know,

727
00:31:26,760 --> 00:31:29,120
Speaker 1: Miss Patt. First of all, comedy is like going to

728
00:31:29,160 --> 00:31:32,640
Speaker 1: a comedy show is my ideal date night, date night always. Yeah,

729
00:31:32,640 --> 00:31:34,800
Speaker 1: that's perfect. And so that's what I love about you too.

730
00:31:34,880 --> 00:31:38,920
Speaker 1: That's something that was unexpected. Yeah, oh, unexpected for real.

731
00:31:38,960 --> 00:31:39,800
Speaker 1: That was the perfect word.

732
00:31:39,880 --> 00:31:42,520
Speaker 3: She She reached out to me on ig and was like, hey,

733
00:31:42,560 --> 00:31:43,840
Speaker 3: I got this show I want you to be a

734
00:31:43,840 --> 00:31:46,520
Speaker 3: part of and I actually I actually.

735
00:31:46,640 --> 00:31:47,719
Speaker 2: Was trying to pass on it.

736
00:31:47,760 --> 00:31:49,480
Speaker 3: I was like, oh, miss Pat, thank you so much,

737
00:31:49,480 --> 00:31:51,520
Speaker 3: but I'm not an actress. I don't want to get

738
00:31:51,520 --> 00:31:53,640
Speaker 3: on TV and embarrass myself, you know, but thank you

739
00:31:53,680 --> 00:31:55,040
Speaker 3: for considering me.

740
00:31:55,080 --> 00:31:57,240
Speaker 2: But I ain't never acted before. She said, what's your number?

741
00:31:57,440 --> 00:32:00,000
Speaker 2: I gave him my number. She called me up. I said, hey,

742
00:32:00,040 --> 00:32:00,800
Speaker 2: miss Pat, how you doing.

743
00:32:00,800 --> 00:32:02,400
Speaker 3: She said, if you don't get your ass down here

744
00:32:02,400 --> 00:32:04,800
Speaker 3: at Lanta and come audition for this damn shot.

745
00:32:05,280 --> 00:32:06,600
Speaker 2: I said, Okay, okay, I'm gonna do it.

746
00:32:06,600 --> 00:32:08,720
Speaker 3: I on my way, And she's the same person on

747
00:32:08,760 --> 00:32:10,959
Speaker 3: and off camera. You ain't gonna never get no other

748
00:32:11,040 --> 00:32:14,000
Speaker 3: version of Miss Pat. She's one thousand percent genuine. She

749
00:32:14,080 --> 00:32:16,560
Speaker 3: act the same way. But I did it, and now

750
00:32:16,560 --> 00:32:18,040
Speaker 3: I'm moving on the season four with them.

751
00:32:18,160 --> 00:32:20,360
Speaker 1: Isn't that so dope? Like since that you never would

752
00:32:20,360 --> 00:32:22,000
Speaker 1: have anticipated and made it?

753
00:32:22,040 --> 00:32:22,160
Speaker 2: Is?

754
00:32:22,360 --> 00:32:23,360
Speaker 1: How was the audition?

755
00:32:23,800 --> 00:32:27,160
Speaker 3: It was easy because I'm naturally a damn fool in

756
00:32:27,200 --> 00:32:30,600
Speaker 3: real life anyway, So it was very easy to tap

757
00:32:30,640 --> 00:32:33,880
Speaker 3: into the energy of Trina and you know, she from

758
00:32:33,880 --> 00:32:34,240
Speaker 3: the hood.

759
00:32:34,280 --> 00:32:37,720
Speaker 2: I'm from the hood. She she sings, I sing for real.

760
00:32:37,880 --> 00:32:38,040
Speaker 2: You know.

761
00:32:38,160 --> 00:32:42,000
Speaker 3: They made I feel like they designed her character around

762
00:32:42,000 --> 00:32:44,520
Speaker 3: a lot of who I am anyways, because she said

763
00:32:44,520 --> 00:32:46,480
Speaker 3: when they was thinking up the character, she thought of

764
00:32:46,560 --> 00:32:47,480
Speaker 3: me immediately.

765
00:32:47,560 --> 00:32:49,880
Speaker 1: So dope. It's so dope to even know that you

766
00:32:49,960 --> 00:32:52,560
Speaker 1: made that big of an impact on somebody that I

767
00:32:52,600 --> 00:32:55,240
Speaker 1: can't something you've never done before, like acting. They already

768
00:32:55,320 --> 00:32:56,880
Speaker 1: knew yeah.

769
00:32:56,480 --> 00:32:57,000
Speaker 2: And I won't.

770
00:32:57,000 --> 00:33:00,760
Speaker 3: I don't even be I'm I'm unscripted all day long,

771
00:33:00,880 --> 00:33:03,680
Speaker 3: you know. So to get that blessing and then being

772
00:33:04,600 --> 00:33:07,840
Speaker 3: you know, meeting Tyler Perry and doing movies with him.

773
00:33:08,040 --> 00:33:10,600
Speaker 3: From just off of that, it's still it still blows.

774
00:33:10,640 --> 00:33:12,440
Speaker 1: I mean people put up billboards to try to get

775
00:33:12,440 --> 00:33:15,360
Speaker 1: in Talli Perry movies, and you ain't have to people

776
00:33:15,360 --> 00:33:17,680
Speaker 1: what put up billboards trying to get in talent? Like

777
00:33:18,000 --> 00:33:19,880
Speaker 1: remember that woman, she was an actor, she put up

778
00:33:19,880 --> 00:33:21,000
Speaker 1: a billboard in Atlanta.

779
00:33:21,360 --> 00:33:23,200
Speaker 2: No, I didn't know that, Yeah, to try to.

780
00:33:23,160 --> 00:33:24,440
Speaker 1: Get in one of his movies.

781
00:33:25,840 --> 00:33:26,800
Speaker 2: I know, I didn't know.

782
00:33:27,280 --> 00:33:32,640
Speaker 1: And you the other hand, it's like we want her word.

783
00:33:32,680 --> 00:33:33,240
Speaker 2: That's crazy.

784
00:33:33,360 --> 00:33:36,080
Speaker 1: I gotta ask you, like just even thinking about you know,

785
00:33:36,120 --> 00:33:38,360
Speaker 1: your background. I know that earlier when we first started

786
00:33:38,360 --> 00:33:41,520
Speaker 1: this conversation, you talked about like coming from trauma and

787
00:33:41,560 --> 00:33:43,960
Speaker 1: things like that. You know, what was it like for

788
00:33:44,000 --> 00:33:46,160
Speaker 1: you growing up before music really took off.

789
00:33:46,880 --> 00:33:48,680
Speaker 2: I come from music. First of all.

790
00:33:48,840 --> 00:33:52,040
Speaker 3: My mama was a songstress before she got sick, and

791
00:33:52,120 --> 00:33:55,200
Speaker 3: my grandfather was the lead singer of a quartet group,

792
00:33:55,440 --> 00:33:59,160
Speaker 3: so it's it's in my blood. My mama wasn't LVN.

793
00:33:59,280 --> 00:34:03,200
Speaker 3: She worked nights and overnights. So my big sister kind

794
00:34:03,200 --> 00:34:07,400
Speaker 3: of took on a responsible role pretty early on in

795
00:34:07,680 --> 00:34:10,000
Speaker 3: you know, helping do our hair and cooking us eggs

796
00:34:10,080 --> 00:34:12,000
Speaker 3: in the morning, and Mama would get off work and

797
00:34:12,040 --> 00:34:13,320
Speaker 3: get us ready and off to school.

798
00:34:13,360 --> 00:34:15,359
Speaker 2: My mama was so tired. She did her thing with us.

799
00:34:15,400 --> 00:34:17,840
Speaker 3: Man, shout out to shout out to you, mommy, you

800
00:34:17,920 --> 00:34:19,560
Speaker 3: did a wonderful job with us.

801
00:34:21,320 --> 00:34:23,320
Speaker 2: Damn getting me washing over again.

802
00:34:23,800 --> 00:34:24,120
Speaker 1: Damn.

803
00:34:24,200 --> 00:34:24,319
Speaker 2: Man.

804
00:34:24,320 --> 00:34:28,560
Speaker 1: I'm just like, Okay, it's a celebration day because you

805
00:34:28,600 --> 00:34:31,400
Speaker 1: know what, no matter what your backstory is, we're here today.

806
00:34:31,719 --> 00:34:32,040
Speaker 2: Yeah.

807
00:34:32,239 --> 00:34:38,800
Speaker 3: Man, I she wasn't always, you know, great, So Mama

808
00:34:38,800 --> 00:34:39,839
Speaker 3: did the best she could with us.

809
00:34:39,840 --> 00:34:40,920
Speaker 2: She got us up out the hood.

810
00:34:41,840 --> 00:34:43,719
Speaker 3: She met my stepdad who's been in my lab since

811
00:34:43,719 --> 00:34:45,600
Speaker 3: I was eight years old, and he stepped up and

812
00:34:45,640 --> 00:34:50,759
Speaker 3: did the job of a man who couldn't. And you know,

813
00:34:50,920 --> 00:34:54,719
Speaker 3: she's always nurtured my gift. My mama knew early on

814
00:34:54,800 --> 00:34:57,279
Speaker 3: that I could sing. At two years old. She recognized

815
00:34:57,320 --> 00:34:59,400
Speaker 3: my gift. And it's funny because I see it in

816
00:34:59,400 --> 00:35:01,880
Speaker 3: my I see in my three year old he sings.

817
00:35:01,920 --> 00:35:04,520
Speaker 3: He walks around the house singing melodies. And when I

818
00:35:04,560 --> 00:35:06,480
Speaker 3: was two, my Mama said, I would I would do that.

819
00:35:07,000 --> 00:35:10,239
Speaker 3: Da no no no no no no no no no

820
00:35:10,239 --> 00:35:14,120
Speaker 3: no no no no. The movie The it was a

821
00:35:14,239 --> 00:35:16,800
Speaker 3: Universal Motion Pictures the intro.

822
00:35:17,000 --> 00:35:19,600
Speaker 2: At two years old. It was just stuck. It was stuck.

823
00:35:19,760 --> 00:35:21,879
Speaker 3: And I wrote my first song when I was ten,

824
00:35:22,600 --> 00:35:25,240
Speaker 3: and I wouldn't I would en roll. I would sign

825
00:35:25,320 --> 00:35:27,680
Speaker 3: up for all of these competition shows in the city

826
00:35:27,719 --> 00:35:30,440
Speaker 3: and win all of them. And I got signed actually

827
00:35:30,480 --> 00:35:32,880
Speaker 3: at fourteen to a gospel label. When I was fourteen

828
00:35:32,960 --> 00:35:39,000
Speaker 3: years old, went nowhere, fell through bad deal, and I

829
00:35:39,080 --> 00:35:41,440
Speaker 3: did the voice, I did American Idol. I did all

830
00:35:41,480 --> 00:35:43,919
Speaker 3: these things, and I would never make it past second round,

831
00:35:44,040 --> 00:35:47,040
Speaker 3: third round, preliminaries. And then to sit in front of

832
00:35:47,080 --> 00:35:49,719
Speaker 3: my phone, prop it up on a desk, make a

833
00:35:49,760 --> 00:35:54,600
Speaker 3: freestyle and go viral out of nowhere. God had taken

834
00:35:54,600 --> 00:35:56,000
Speaker 3: me all around the world and I never had to

835
00:35:56,080 --> 00:35:58,319
Speaker 3: leave my living room, right, and I was I thought

836
00:35:58,320 --> 00:36:00,200
Speaker 3: I was supposed to get it in other ways by

837
00:36:00,239 --> 00:36:01,400
Speaker 3: doing the competition shows.

838
00:36:01,400 --> 00:36:02,480
Speaker 2: But it didn't happen like that.

839
00:36:03,200 --> 00:36:05,759
Speaker 1: Yeah, No, that is a blessing though, Yeah, it is.

840
00:36:06,080 --> 00:36:09,399
Speaker 1: It is. And sometimes you know, things happen when they're

841
00:36:09,400 --> 00:36:12,080
Speaker 1: supposed to happen. Yeah, because maybe when you were younger,

842
00:36:12,080 --> 00:36:13,960
Speaker 1: if things would have worked out, or if you would

843
00:36:13,960 --> 00:36:16,239
Speaker 1: have won one of those competition shows, you would have

844
00:36:16,280 --> 00:36:18,640
Speaker 1: been locked into something, yeah, that you couldn't get out

845
00:36:18,719 --> 00:36:19,040
Speaker 1: for sure.

846
00:36:19,120 --> 00:36:23,360
Speaker 3: Divine appointments, divine appointments, and I had I love telling

847
00:36:23,400 --> 00:36:26,120
Speaker 3: this story. I had forty nine hundred followers when I

848
00:36:26,120 --> 00:36:27,200
Speaker 3: posted that freestyle.

849
00:36:27,719 --> 00:36:28,640
Speaker 2: By the next.

850
00:36:28,400 --> 00:36:31,840
Speaker 3: Morning when I woke up, I had two hundred thousand followers.

851
00:36:31,840 --> 00:36:34,400
Speaker 3: This boot up Yeah, this was the LMA boot up

852
00:36:34,440 --> 00:36:38,600
Speaker 3: remake just overnight. You know, the popularity, I mean not

853
00:36:38,719 --> 00:36:42,080
Speaker 3: the work at music, but the popularity.

854
00:36:42,120 --> 00:36:44,279
Speaker 2: And I didn't get to experience the climb of that.

855
00:36:44,360 --> 00:36:47,160
Speaker 3: I was literally just me one day and the next

856
00:36:47,200 --> 00:36:49,719
Speaker 3: day I was that girl from Instagram, that's singing girl

857
00:36:49,719 --> 00:36:50,480
Speaker 3: from Instagram.

858
00:36:50,600 --> 00:36:53,200
Speaker 2: So it's been one hell of a ride.

859
00:36:53,280 --> 00:36:55,560
Speaker 1: Did the label start going crazy hitting you up at

860
00:36:55,600 --> 00:36:57,799
Speaker 1: that point? Absolutely, that's when they're like And by that time,

861
00:36:57,840 --> 00:37:00,160
Speaker 1: it's like, well, yeah, now I got all these file.

862
00:37:00,400 --> 00:37:01,600
Speaker 2: And I didn't know.

863
00:37:01,680 --> 00:37:04,120
Speaker 3: I didn't know anything about labels. I didn't know nothing

864
00:37:04,160 --> 00:37:06,440
Speaker 3: about you know, getting signed or none of that. It

865
00:37:06,480 --> 00:37:09,479
Speaker 3: was labels coming left and right. It was all type

866
00:37:09,480 --> 00:37:12,239
Speaker 3: of celebrities in my DM asking about deals and I

867
00:37:12,280 --> 00:37:15,160
Speaker 3: didn't know nothing about none of that. So ultimately I

868
00:37:15,280 --> 00:37:18,080
Speaker 3: ended up, you know, getting an attorney and meeting up

869
00:37:18,200 --> 00:37:20,200
Speaker 3: over an Empire and I signed with them, and I'm

870
00:37:20,400 --> 00:37:22,680
Speaker 3: very very happy at Empire. Shout out to Empire and

871
00:37:22,719 --> 00:37:26,799
Speaker 3: my mama, Tina Davis. And I think it's it's just

872
00:37:26,880 --> 00:37:28,919
Speaker 3: it's the way a record label should be ran ow

873
00:37:29,040 --> 00:37:30,800
Speaker 3: my masters, I have creative control.

874
00:37:31,440 --> 00:37:33,400
Speaker 2: I'm I'm good.

875
00:37:33,680 --> 00:37:36,600
Speaker 1: Right and even thinking about with gospel music, you know

876
00:37:36,640 --> 00:37:39,960
Speaker 1: they will frown upon certain types of things like and

877
00:37:40,600 --> 00:37:44,239
Speaker 1: you know your songs. The first song clearly is homage to.

878
00:37:44,880 --> 00:37:46,320
Speaker 2: You know, spiritual recognition.

879
00:37:46,480 --> 00:37:50,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, spiritual recognition. But then the rest of the songs.

880
00:37:49,440 --> 00:37:51,760
Speaker 2: Boom black twists.

881
00:37:52,760 --> 00:37:55,400
Speaker 3: I had to start what we like to say, Listen,

882
00:37:55,760 --> 00:37:57,360
Speaker 3: I love I love the Lord.

883
00:37:57,840 --> 00:38:02,200
Speaker 2: Now he know I'll be talking about but I love God.

884
00:38:02,280 --> 00:38:03,759
Speaker 3: I had to get I had to start it off

885
00:38:03,760 --> 00:38:07,200
Speaker 3: that way because I mean, the gift comes from him anyways,

886
00:38:07,200 --> 00:38:09,040
Speaker 3: and who am I without without God?

887
00:38:09,160 --> 00:38:12,120
Speaker 2: I don't. I don't care what people you know think,

888
00:38:12,239 --> 00:38:14,040
Speaker 2: But yeah, I started off that way.

889
00:38:14,080 --> 00:38:16,359
Speaker 3: And then we're gonna get into our back to our

890
00:38:16,400 --> 00:38:18,760
Speaker 3: regularly scheduled shit talking program.

891
00:38:20,560 --> 00:38:22,520
Speaker 1: Well, I am so happy that I got to celebrate

892
00:38:22,520 --> 00:38:26,240
Speaker 1: with you today on the day that your album is out. Wait,

893
00:38:26,280 --> 00:38:28,239
Speaker 1: there's more. And when we say wait, there's more. We

894
00:38:28,320 --> 00:38:30,799
Speaker 1: mean the album is out right now. We mean the

895
00:38:30,840 --> 00:38:33,360
Speaker 1: wedding is not being planned, but it's gonna happen. It

896
00:38:33,520 --> 00:38:37,160
Speaker 1: was a whole fiance, all right. We mean Tyler Perry movies,

897
00:38:37,200 --> 00:38:40,480
Speaker 1: we mean the Miss Pat Show, we mean like so

898
00:38:40,600 --> 00:38:43,160
Speaker 1: many different things that you are so deserving of. So

899
00:38:43,280 --> 00:38:46,879
Speaker 1: congratulations on everything that you have going on right now.

900
00:38:46,880 --> 00:38:50,520
Speaker 1: A beautiful family, a beautiful spirit, beautiful voice, all of

901
00:38:50,560 --> 00:38:52,919
Speaker 1: the all of the things. A tour that's kicking off.

902
00:38:53,200 --> 00:38:56,359
Speaker 3: Yes, wait, there's more tour. That's what That's what I'm

903
00:38:56,360 --> 00:38:59,799
Speaker 3: most most excited about. It's double for my last tour.

904
00:39:00,760 --> 00:39:02,920
Speaker 3: The last tour was my first tour.

905
00:39:02,880 --> 00:39:05,719
Speaker 1: Right ever, first time you learned a lot, Daniel, Yeah

906
00:39:05,719 --> 00:39:06,080
Speaker 1: I did.

907
00:39:06,280 --> 00:39:09,680
Speaker 3: And I also sold out in like forty eight hours

908
00:39:09,960 --> 00:39:12,120
Speaker 3: and I didn't even know if people, you know, fuck

909
00:39:12,160 --> 00:39:14,840
Speaker 3: with me like that. So anyway, this one has doubled.

910
00:39:14,880 --> 00:39:16,840
Speaker 3: Now we have that was eleven cities. Now we have

911
00:39:16,920 --> 00:39:20,719
Speaker 3: twenty cities. Okay, and I'm lit. I'm lit about it.

912
00:39:20,800 --> 00:39:21,239
Speaker 2: That's right.

913
00:39:21,280 --> 00:39:24,239
Speaker 1: Fit Well, chairs today, chairs to you. Thank you so much.

914
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Speaker 1: I appreciate you.

915
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Speaker 2: Well