WEBVTT - Brown Babies 0:00:00.480 --> 0:00:04.720 Welcome to We Talk Back Podcast, the production of iHeartRadio 0:00:04.800 --> 0:00:07.800 and the Black Effect Network Talk Talk. 0:00:09.320 --> 0:00:13.399 We're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion who 0:00:13.560 --> 0:00:15.160 talks back. 0:00:17.520 --> 0:00:19.560 What's up, y'all? Thank you for tuning in for a 0:00:19.640 --> 0:00:24.720 new episode of We Talked Back, We Talk Black. Your 0:00:24.840 --> 0:00:27.280 host AJ Holiday, what's up. 0:00:27.160 --> 0:00:29.760 Tam Bam, y'all, It's me Tammam. I love y'all. 0:00:29.800 --> 0:00:32.760 Thank y'all for tuning in another week. We appreciate y'all 0:00:32.960 --> 0:00:35.280 so much. How was your weekend? 0:00:35.360 --> 0:00:35.600 Aj? 0:00:37.120 --> 0:00:44.520 Hey, it's my birthday for d okay, and I feel 0:00:44.560 --> 0:00:47.280 the say no, actually I don't. Okay. Let's talk about 0:00:47.280 --> 0:00:50.160 it for a second. So I turned forty on Saturday, 0:00:50.320 --> 0:00:54.360 and for whatever reason, I had a migraine Saturday morning, 0:00:54.840 --> 0:00:59.040 Sunday morning, Monday morning. But Sunday I never left the 0:00:59.080 --> 0:01:05.160 bed and my whole right side of my body was 0:01:05.200 --> 0:01:08.160 doing something like without me even moving. It was like 0:01:08.319 --> 0:01:11.320 Paul satan All type of shit was going on. 0:01:11.400 --> 0:01:13.360 Don't you take drugs on Saturday night? 0:01:13.800 --> 0:01:16.920 No, I didn't drink the entire weekend listen. I had 0:01:16.959 --> 0:01:20.080 a very clean birthday. I went to my niece's graduation, 0:01:20.200 --> 0:01:22.760 My youngest niece graduated from high school. Shout out CanYa, 0:01:22.920 --> 0:01:27.120 congra baby on the stage. Okay, she graduated top of 0:01:27.120 --> 0:01:29.560 her class and she better from Burke High School. Bitch, 0:01:29.560 --> 0:01:33.000 you better be at the top of the mouth anyway, girl. 0:01:33.040 --> 0:01:34.640 It was so ratchet. I feel like I was at 0:01:34.680 --> 0:01:39.160 Coolie High. Okay. The graduation was Saturday, twelve o'clock. We 0:01:39.240 --> 0:01:41.400 got there and I'm like, okay, are we at the 0:01:41.440 --> 0:01:44.560 same event? Because why is bitch's ass out with baby 0:01:44.560 --> 0:01:45.400 bumps in the front? 0:01:45.840 --> 0:01:46.360 Like really? 0:01:47.040 --> 0:01:48.960 And this is this is why later on in this 0:01:49.040 --> 0:01:51.640 episode we talk about Sexy Red because I think they 0:01:51.720 --> 0:01:55.360 was at the graduation. Sexy Red was at the graduation. Bitch, 0:01:55.840 --> 0:01:57.960 you hear me? Who was looking like they was going 0:01:58.160 --> 0:02:04.080 going to a cookout and then looking at you looking well, yeah, 0:02:04.280 --> 0:02:08.919 probably they probably went straight from there to other probably 0:02:08.960 --> 0:02:14.280 little family gatherings. But I fell out of place because 0:02:14.320 --> 0:02:17.760 I looked like an adult. And this is one of 0:02:17.800 --> 0:02:21.119 the you know, probably not the best school in Charleston. 0:02:22.160 --> 0:02:27.440 Downtown Charleston is almost fully gentrified. This is the last 0:02:27.520 --> 0:02:34.079 black school downtown Charleston. All the other elementaries no black students. 0:02:34.600 --> 0:02:38.600 My niece's school only had sixty five graduates from it, 0:02:38.800 --> 0:02:41.040 and I want to ask her, you know, what was 0:02:41.080 --> 0:02:43.280 her freshman class number, like how many people was in 0:02:43.280 --> 0:02:46.120 the freshman class to kind of gauge how many people 0:02:46.160 --> 0:02:48.640 should have been graduating or maybe they just no longer 0:02:48.680 --> 0:02:52.160 live in the city. But I mean, it was terrible, y'all. 0:02:52.200 --> 0:02:55.680 And I this we got we got some big problems 0:02:55.680 --> 0:02:58.280 in the black community, and this, this, this graduation was 0:02:58.320 --> 0:03:01.120 just a sample size of some real bullshit. One of 0:03:01.160 --> 0:03:05.399 the speakers is the president of Johnson C. Smith. She's 0:03:05.440 --> 0:03:08.760 a Burke graduate from Charleston, South Carolina. Oh, I tell 0:03:08.760 --> 0:03:13.040 you the ADHD in the building they sign and why 0:03:13.080 --> 0:03:17.680 the lady is talking. It was so embarrassing. Who's going 0:03:17.720 --> 0:03:20.160 to talk to the children if y'all niggas ain't Because 0:03:20.160 --> 0:03:22.680 if these are the families that these kids are coming from, 0:03:23.240 --> 0:03:27.360 if it's sixty five graduates, half of them probably doomed. Yeah, 0:03:27.360 --> 0:03:29.040 because these are the families raising him. 0:03:29.120 --> 0:03:32.080 Yeah, because it's some weird shit going on. A young 0:03:32.200 --> 0:03:36.720 man his grandmother reported him missing over the weekend, and 0:03:36.760 --> 0:03:38.160 he wrote a disc track. 0:03:38.360 --> 0:03:41.120 He made a dis song to her and released it. 0:03:41.560 --> 0:03:44.120 It was calling her all kinds of hoes and saying 0:03:44.160 --> 0:03:48.360 he ain't missing he's just running up his bag fifteen 0:03:48.440 --> 0:03:50.960 years old, calling his grandma the hole in the song 0:03:51.000 --> 0:03:51.920 because she reported her. 0:03:51.960 --> 0:03:54.360 I've seen that, and like he gonna pull up on 0:03:54.440 --> 0:03:56.480 her with the blicky yeah. 0:03:57.080 --> 0:04:01.320 And hurt his grandma for like reporting him missing is insane. 0:04:01.640 --> 0:04:04.440 And where are the older men in his family who 0:04:04.560 --> 0:04:07.600 are to course correct that, because somebody need to course 0:04:07.640 --> 0:04:08.240 correct that. 0:04:08.720 --> 0:04:12.880 But there is nobody, Nope, and even I know I 0:04:12.920 --> 0:04:14.440 talked to you about this a little minute ago, but 0:04:14.520 --> 0:04:17.000 this this dude in Charlotte murdered his forty three on 0:04:17.120 --> 0:04:19.360 mom because she told him to go get a job 0:04:20.400 --> 0:04:22.560 and killed me. He came back and shot her. Yes, 0:04:22.640 --> 0:04:24.440 so now you don't have a mom to support you 0:04:24.440 --> 0:04:25.240 while you're in prison. 0:04:27.160 --> 0:04:29.599 Just you should have just went and got the fucking job, right, 0:04:29.880 --> 0:04:32.560 because now you're going to hate. But I think maybe 0:04:32.680 --> 0:04:36.160 this person must have had like some type of mental 0:04:36.160 --> 0:04:39.360 health issues that wasn't being because who just killed their 0:04:39.400 --> 0:04:41.120 mama for telling them they need a job? 0:04:41.560 --> 0:04:47.920 It got to be something not right that correct. 0:04:48.240 --> 0:04:50.279 That other boy was a rapper and he murdered his 0:04:50.360 --> 0:04:53.680 mom for life insurance policy to defund his career. 0:04:55.320 --> 0:04:56.599 Like, I don't know what. 0:04:56.720 --> 0:04:59.600 That's so superath behavior behavior, because. 0:05:01.240 --> 0:05:04.479 That graduation was disappointing. And you know, my niece, she 0:05:04.560 --> 0:05:07.840 did her things. She's going off to Klafling University in Orangeburg. 0:05:08.880 --> 0:05:12.080 She's a very smart girl. Like when I tell you 0:05:12.120 --> 0:05:17.000 hood babies be, they gonna make it. They gonna make it. 0:05:17.240 --> 0:05:20.120 So I wish that class good luck. But I'm gonna 0:05:20.120 --> 0:05:24.880 tell y'all a dulting is scamming. It's a scam likely, okay. 0:05:25.120 --> 0:05:28.480 But anyway, aside from that, my birthday was cool. We 0:05:28.520 --> 0:05:31.599 had a good dinner and shit, I carry my masks. 0:05:31.680 --> 0:05:33.599 Mab bitch, you ain't even had sex on my birthday. 0:05:33.600 --> 0:05:37.960 Well you look, you look pretty. You posted some pretty pictures. 0:05:38.400 --> 0:05:40.919 What did I do this weekend? Girl, I'm a hermit crab. 0:05:41.080 --> 0:05:44.360 I staying in the house. Like the taste of Charlotte 0:05:44.480 --> 0:05:46.800 was like I could see the taste of Charlotte from 0:05:46.440 --> 0:05:49.520 my patio and it looked you're it down there. I 0:05:49.560 --> 0:05:50.360 ain't go down there. 0:05:50.440 --> 0:05:52.160 People say you're not coming downstairs. 0:05:52.640 --> 0:05:55.680 No, no, thank you. 0:05:55.760 --> 0:05:56.880 There's too many people. 0:05:56.960 --> 0:05:59.360 It's all the fucking people. And I'm trying to lose weight. 0:05:59.400 --> 0:06:01.520 I don't need to and I don't need to. 0:06:01.520 --> 0:06:06.560 Spend my money. So oh, I had that already. I 0:06:06.560 --> 0:06:08.800 had that before, I've tasted it. I've tasted all the 0:06:08.839 --> 0:06:14.680 tastes I need. I'm trying to unbig my back. Let's 0:06:14.680 --> 0:06:16.200 get into scenes of the week. 0:06:17.760 --> 0:06:22.000 So if y'all were under a rock, y'all miss that. 0:06:22.160 --> 0:06:23.599 Michael Rainie Jr. 0:06:24.160 --> 0:06:29.120 Did Tyler James live stream and he was grown by 0:06:29.279 --> 0:06:33.440 the streamer's sister live on the streaming. You could see 0:06:33.520 --> 0:06:37.400 him like, go, my penis is being grabbed right now, 0:06:37.960 --> 0:06:40.440 and she looking at him like what's up? 0:06:40.960 --> 0:06:42.280 And shit went viral. 0:06:42.320 --> 0:06:45.400 Everybody was talking about it. The young man, Tyler James 0:06:46.080 --> 0:06:48.320 tried to blow it over at first, but it got 0:06:48.360 --> 0:06:51.920 so much attention that he issued an apology to Michael 0:06:52.000 --> 0:06:56.320 Rainie Jr. And then Michael Rainey Jr. Also said, you 0:06:56.360 --> 0:07:01.880 know that he was stilling talk about what happened, and 0:07:02.680 --> 0:07:05.120 basically he was he was gonna let it blow over, 0:07:05.200 --> 0:07:08.080 but he felt like if it was the other way around, it. 0:07:08.080 --> 0:07:11.560 Would be an issue, you know, and. 0:07:10.480 --> 0:07:13.760 And it's not okay, and it ain't okay for her 0:07:13.800 --> 0:07:17.280 to do that, to just grab that young man's uh 0:07:17.480 --> 0:07:19.400 private and if it had been. 0:07:20.920 --> 0:07:24.720 What's that nigga name, he would have kicked you in 0:07:24.720 --> 0:07:27.600 the face. So what's his name? 0:07:28.680 --> 0:07:29.160 Kevin Gate? 0:07:29.240 --> 0:07:30.960 Yeah, Kevin Gates would have kicked you in the face. 0:07:31.000 --> 0:07:33.400 You can't just be grabbing people parts. 0:07:35.200 --> 0:07:38.600 Listen, what is The girl looked young as hell, She 0:07:38.720 --> 0:07:41.040 looked younger than Mike Rainey. 0:07:41.280 --> 0:07:46.040 Yeah, but very aggressive, Like her face was very like, 0:07:46.680 --> 0:07:47.200 what's up? 0:07:48.600 --> 0:07:52.679 You know, I think women actually have more more trouble 0:07:53.080 --> 0:07:56.760 accepting rejection than men. M you know, because in our 0:07:56.800 --> 0:08:00.080 minds not an hour because in that group, but in 0:08:00.160 --> 0:08:03.960 some women's minds, you want to at least fuck me, 0:08:04.480 --> 0:08:08.440 at least imagine somebody at the very least you want 0:08:08.440 --> 0:08:10.800 to at least fuck me like that is definitely some 0:08:10.960 --> 0:08:14.240 women's thought process. So when they are rejected, even for sex, 0:08:15.440 --> 0:08:18.320 it's you're gonna have hell to reckon with as a 0:08:18.480 --> 0:08:21.320 as a man. If it was on the other if 0:08:21.360 --> 0:08:23.320 it was the other way around, he'd be in jail 0:08:23.440 --> 0:08:27.640 right now, right That shit is never okay. Stop touching 0:08:27.680 --> 0:08:31.800 people if it's not invited, man or woman, anybody. Yeah, 0:08:32.800 --> 0:08:34.920 And to do it on live and make him feel 0:08:35.040 --> 0:08:38.080 visibly uncomfortable, you literally sexually assaulted him in front of 0:08:38.080 --> 0:08:41.440 the whole world. You gotta be a shaming yourself. 0:08:41.280 --> 0:08:43.120 Yeah, you ought to be embarrassed. I'm sure she is 0:08:43.160 --> 0:08:45.840 somewhere embarrassed. She did not issue an apology. She's probably 0:08:45.880 --> 0:08:50.280 somewhere hiding in shame for embarrassing her brother. 0:08:50.720 --> 0:08:52.400 You know, he says she's no longer. 0:08:52.200 --> 0:08:55.560 Michael Rainey's like, what makes you think you got access 0:08:55.600 --> 0:08:59.360 to that, to that anyway? Like like this, ain't even 0:08:59.440 --> 0:09:02.840 no regular at the house that might butt you down 0:09:02.920 --> 0:09:04.079 right quick, right? 0:09:06.360 --> 0:09:10.240 That was crazy to do it, nut, no pun intended. 0:09:14.120 --> 0:09:19.440 It's nuts. So y'all the internet is getting even more spooky. Okay, 0:09:19.960 --> 0:09:24.360 Meg the Stallion has a sex tape. It's not her, though, 0:09:24.400 --> 0:09:28.280 It's an a I created sex tape of Meg thee Stallion. 0:09:29.840 --> 0:09:33.640 Meg thee Stallion's performance of Florida proved more emotional than 0:09:33.720 --> 0:09:37.800 most fans probably expected, because Meg barely held back tears 0:09:37.880 --> 0:09:41.240 right before playing one of her hits. When the beat starts, 0:09:41.400 --> 0:09:43.920 Meg tries to launch into the song, but can't even 0:09:43.960 --> 0:09:46.520 get through the first few bars before stopping to collect 0:09:46.559 --> 0:09:50.960 herself once again. Her fans share on and writing added 0:09:51.000 --> 0:09:54.640 the video by the person filming shows love for MTS, 0:09:54.640 --> 0:09:57.680 so her fans didn't seem upset by the star needing 0:09:57.720 --> 0:10:00.840 to let her feelings out, so she went and tweeted 0:10:01.280 --> 0:10:04.600 a couple of days ago, It's really sick how y'all 0:10:04.600 --> 0:10:06.680 got y'all way to hurt me when you see me winning, 0:10:06.920 --> 0:10:10.080 y'all go too far, fake ass shit. Just know today 0:10:10.200 --> 0:10:12.520 was your last day playing with me, and I mean it. 0:10:12.600 --> 0:10:16.520 So somebody created a fake AI video of Meg thee 0:10:16.559 --> 0:10:18.559 Stallion having sex. I hadn't seen it. I didn't even 0:10:18.559 --> 0:10:20.720 try to look forward for real, even though I would 0:10:20.760 --> 0:10:23.959 like to see you make the actual, the actual Maga 0:10:25.120 --> 0:10:29.080 having sex. I would like to see that, but if 0:10:29.120 --> 0:10:33.880 it's fake, I you know. But anyway, the amount of 0:10:33.880 --> 0:10:37.360 people who thought that shit was real, who was talking crazy, yes, 0:10:37.600 --> 0:10:40.320 saying crazy shit to her about how she all head 0:10:40.400 --> 0:10:44.040 these crocodile down tears, and you wasn't saying that when Tori, 0:10:44.400 --> 0:10:47.080 when you put Torri and Joe, it's that lady gets 0:10:47.080 --> 0:10:50.840 too much hate. It's diskysting how much hate she gets. 0:10:50.960 --> 0:10:53.200 But that's why I'm glass glad how blessed she is, 0:10:53.240 --> 0:10:56.200 because the hate is equivalent to the blessings at this point. 0:10:56.200 --> 0:10:57.600 It's just absolutely extreme. 0:10:58.160 --> 0:11:00.600 What I'm you know, I hate that that happened to her, 0:11:00.600 --> 0:11:03.760 but I'm glad it's not her real body, obviously, But 0:11:03.920 --> 0:11:07.360 what we need to be concerned with is why are 0:11:07.400 --> 0:11:09.239 we not out in the streets about. 0:11:08.960 --> 0:11:09.680 This AI shit. 0:11:09.880 --> 0:11:14.280 This ship is scared real and we are just very 0:11:14.559 --> 0:11:17.920 very taking it on the chin, very much, taking it 0:11:17.960 --> 0:11:21.400 on the chin that we are allowing this AI reality 0:11:21.520 --> 0:11:23.920 to be a thing in our culture. It should be 0:11:24.040 --> 0:11:27.839 demolished in some way. It's gonna take over us. We 0:11:27.920 --> 0:11:32.920 are going to be second class citizens in our in 0:11:32.960 --> 0:11:34.960 our country to AI. 0:11:35.559 --> 0:11:38.640 Yeah, so y'all keep playing. 0:11:39.960 --> 0:11:43.559 Elon Musk tweeted, you know how we're not tweeted he's 0:11:43.600 --> 0:11:47.400 actually challenging Apple because they want to put chappie Chat 0:11:47.440 --> 0:11:52.400 GPT onto iPhones, like within this new update, which is 0:11:52.440 --> 0:11:54.360 a whole lot of shit coming with this new update 0:11:54.400 --> 0:11:57.800 for iPhone. I'm considering switching back to Android because that 0:11:57.880 --> 0:12:00.880 was never an Apple girl. Okay, I know business people 0:12:00.960 --> 0:12:05.160 prefer Apple, but y'all might see this green bubble pop 0:12:05.240 --> 0:12:10.439 back up on y'all shit. But yeah, like people don't 0:12:10.480 --> 0:12:12.160 realize how this is bad. 0:12:12.679 --> 0:12:13.439 This is terrible. 0:12:13.480 --> 0:12:18.199 It does help move humanity forward some because we would 0:12:18.240 --> 0:12:20.960 like to think that the that there there's a human 0:12:21.080 --> 0:12:25.440 programming the computer. But at some point it's gonna be 0:12:25.679 --> 0:12:28.440 not just artificial intelligence, it's going to be artificial and 0:12:28.760 --> 0:12:32.120 artificial consciousness. You know what I'm saying. This is why 0:12:32.160 --> 0:12:37.280 you have apps like Clubhouse. They are getting our vocals, 0:12:37.760 --> 0:12:41.079 our voices, how we sound, how it elevates when we're mad. 0:12:41.440 --> 0:12:45.400 They have all these different apps out here studying real 0:12:45.520 --> 0:12:49.160 human interaction so that we can be replaced. You not, 0:12:49.280 --> 0:12:50.920 And in a minute, you're not gonna know what the 0:12:50.920 --> 0:12:54.560 fuck you're looking at online anymore. You know, nothing's true, 0:12:54.720 --> 0:12:57.200 everything's false because you just don't know what the fuck 0:12:57.280 --> 0:12:59.080 is happening. You don't know what's real, what's fake? 0:13:00.360 --> 0:13:03.240 Right, And it's gonna a robot sitting outside your door 0:13:03.280 --> 0:13:05.319 talking about come outside if you want two bitch, you're 0:13:05.320 --> 0:13:07.480 gonna get shot now. 0:13:07.559 --> 0:13:08.360 Then what you're gonna do? 0:13:09.480 --> 0:13:14.520 They already have robots policing people. Yeah, places, Yeah, it's RoboCop. 0:13:14.880 --> 0:13:18.680 This motherfucking robot car is our robot, bitch, And shit 0:13:18.760 --> 0:13:22.160 gonna get real, like so we all gonna be living 0:13:22.160 --> 0:13:24.600 in a motherfucker sewer because y'all wanted to make the 0:13:24.640 --> 0:13:27.520 style your fuck with an AI apple. 0:13:27.679 --> 0:13:33.600 See keep playing the only. 0:13:33.440 --> 0:13:35.959 Thing I want to do with AI is make songs 0:13:36.040 --> 0:13:41.360 like bb ol Drinzy bbyl Drenzy. 0:13:41.720 --> 0:13:43.920 That's the start of it. That is the start. 0:13:46.280 --> 0:13:47.640 I want to do that for sure. 0:13:48.720 --> 0:13:50.000 Do we have any other suits? 0:13:50.920 --> 0:13:53.840 Yes, okay, y'all, I don't know. Do you do dating apps? 0:13:55.040 --> 0:13:57.360 I used to, but it just never worked out for me, 0:13:57.440 --> 0:14:00.120 so I stopped swiping. I'm tired. I feel like I'm 0:14:00.120 --> 0:14:03.240 talking to AI person. It's just the same conversation over 0:14:03.280 --> 0:14:05.199 and over again with a different face. 0:14:05.920 --> 0:14:08.160 Or a scammer. Because the last dat and app I 0:14:08.280 --> 0:14:11.720 actually tried to get on with Sugar Babies whatever that 0:14:11.720 --> 0:14:15.240 shit is, and it was a bunch of scammers from 0:14:15.280 --> 0:14:18.440 Africa and shit on there. It was nobody, nobody for 0:14:18.520 --> 0:14:19.480 real on those. 0:14:19.320 --> 0:14:20.000 Apps, right. 0:14:20.360 --> 0:14:24.120 I saw this story on the Shade Room. So black 0:14:24.160 --> 0:14:29.720 women are taken to TikTok to express their dissatisfication with 0:14:30.240 --> 0:14:33.160 the dating apps. So dating apps have forever changed the 0:14:33.240 --> 0:14:36.640 landscape of dating, of the dating scene as we know it. However, 0:14:37.160 --> 0:14:41.400 some claim that the algorithms could be biased towards certain races, 0:14:41.960 --> 0:14:44.520 so it says several black women have claimed that the 0:14:44.760 --> 0:14:48.240 Hinge dating app is pushing their profiles to the bottom 0:14:48.280 --> 0:14:51.480 of the dating pool. A recent TikTok train revealed that 0:14:51.560 --> 0:14:55.560 some women saw better matches when they changed their ethnicity 0:14:55.600 --> 0:14:59.480 to Caucasian in their settings. Both men and women are 0:14:59.520 --> 0:15:01.640 stepping in to the shade room to share their experiences. 0:15:01.680 --> 0:15:01.800 D D. 0:15:02.320 --> 0:15:03.960 I didn't watch the full video. I didn't go watch 0:15:04.000 --> 0:15:07.360 because they actually had people like, you know, different people talking. 0:15:07.400 --> 0:15:11.360 But okay, so you change your preference, I mean not preference. 0:15:11.360 --> 0:15:16.400 You change your demographic right to Caucasian, and then all 0:15:16.440 --> 0:15:19.680 of a sudden different types of men start popping up, 0:15:19.760 --> 0:15:25.040 is what I'm gathering is happening. So me, black girl, 0:15:25.160 --> 0:15:28.000 put my picture up. I'm not having access to the 0:15:28.040 --> 0:15:31.640 same pool of men until I change my and my 0:15:31.720 --> 0:15:36.200 settings to Caucasian. I can I can see these well, 0:15:36.320 --> 0:15:37.680 the company's doing some shit like. 0:15:37.680 --> 0:15:41.160 That, but can't the men put is there a preference 0:15:41.240 --> 0:15:43.440 on race on there? 0:15:45.000 --> 0:15:45.200 Yeah? 0:15:45.240 --> 0:15:47.560 I believe so you could put like what you so? 0:15:47.800 --> 0:15:48.040 Yeah? 0:15:48.160 --> 0:15:52.320 Yeah, so maybe I think the men that you are 0:15:52.360 --> 0:16:01.960 seeking are looking for right, So yes, and I so 0:16:02.080 --> 0:16:04.200 that it might you might be seeing these men because 0:16:04.200 --> 0:16:07.240 they put Caucasian women, that's what they're interested in, and 0:16:07.280 --> 0:16:11.359 that's now why you're seeing them. 0:16:10.040 --> 0:16:14.240 Right, Like who you're in right and I'm wondering if 0:16:14.280 --> 0:16:18.560 they are seeing is it white men that start popping 0:16:18.640 --> 0:16:22.560 up or other nice looking black men? Maybe right, maybe 0:16:22.760 --> 0:16:25.920 maybe their preference can also be white. They might have 0:16:26.000 --> 0:16:27.520 it to what they don't want their preference to be 0:16:27.560 --> 0:16:29.120 black women. We already know we got a problem with 0:16:29.160 --> 0:16:31.800 these niggas. I don't know what. I don't know what 0:16:32.000 --> 0:16:33.400 more what? 0:16:33.400 --> 0:16:33.800 What are you? 0:16:33.800 --> 0:16:35.760 What do y'all really want? You know what I'm saying, 0:16:35.800 --> 0:16:38.600 I'm not telling you to go date white men, But 0:16:38.680 --> 0:16:42.360 there's other groups of people we can start exploring. You know, 0:16:42.400 --> 0:16:47.080 if you're having having problems dating amongst your own right, 0:16:47.200 --> 0:16:49.400 you have to start exploring. We don't have to. We 0:16:49.400 --> 0:16:52.600 don't we knocking a dialog. We don't have to. Right, So, 0:16:52.600 --> 0:16:54.240 if you're on a dating app and you feel like 0:16:54.280 --> 0:16:56.560 you're not even being chosen a dating app, I think 0:16:56.600 --> 0:16:59.920 part of it is internal, right, because I think if 0:16:59.920 --> 0:17:04.280 you if you let's just say it, if you are 0:17:04.320 --> 0:17:06.879 a pretty girl, there's gonna be white women. I mean, 0:17:06.880 --> 0:17:09.480 excuse me, there's gonna be white men, black men, whoever 0:17:09.560 --> 0:17:12.920 man they in m DMS, they're gonna be messaging your ass. 0:17:13.440 --> 0:17:15.640 So that goes into a whole nother thing. Like maybe 0:17:15.680 --> 0:17:17.800 you feel like you're not being picked in real world 0:17:17.840 --> 0:17:23.160 and online. What can anybody do about that? Because men, 0:17:23.280 --> 0:17:26.240 that's what goes back to saying, like women, we don't 0:17:26.320 --> 0:17:30.760 like feeling rejected, but people have preference, and people are 0:17:30.800 --> 0:17:32.080 allowed to have preference. 0:17:33.119 --> 0:17:37.320 But just we imagine being mad enough about a dating 0:17:37.359 --> 0:17:39.960 app to sue to. 0:17:41.920 --> 0:17:43.240 Y're not picking me? 0:17:43.600 --> 0:17:45.440 Like what like what? 0:17:46.280 --> 0:17:48.560 Yeah? So I mean it kind of goes into our 0:17:48.600 --> 0:17:53.679 topic today because, like I said, people are allowed to 0:17:53.800 --> 0:17:57.080 have preference as long as somebody is not disrespecting you. 0:17:58.040 --> 0:18:00.560 Do you see online like where like let's say a 0:18:00.560 --> 0:18:04.760 basketball player he has a black wife, right, this black 0:18:04.760 --> 0:18:07.280 wife may not be light skin, but she's black. I mean, 0:18:07.359 --> 0:18:10.120 may not be dark skin, but she's black. You'll look 0:18:10.160 --> 0:18:13.960 into comments and the things that black women are saying 0:18:14.000 --> 0:18:20.160 about it's always a light skin like what what's happening? Yeah, 0:18:20.240 --> 0:18:21.399 it's still a black woman. 0:18:21.720 --> 0:18:22.640 She's still a black woman. 0:18:22.720 --> 0:18:27.200 That's still a black woman. And if that's that man's preference, 0:18:27.840 --> 0:18:29.960 let it be. Is nothing you can do about it, y'all. 0:18:30.440 --> 0:18:39.040 Y'all can't make people choose you other people you, Yeah, 0:18:39.119 --> 0:18:41.840 you can't make people choose you. So I don't know 0:18:41.920 --> 0:18:45.760 I've never had I've never had those issues, so but 0:18:45.800 --> 0:18:49.040 I know they exist. So I'm not being discissive of that. 0:18:49.119 --> 0:18:49.399 Bitch. 0:18:49.400 --> 0:18:51.240 I've been getting the same I've been getting niggas with 0:18:51.240 --> 0:18:52.640 the same body my whole life. 0:18:52.680 --> 0:18:52.879 You know. 0:18:52.960 --> 0:18:54.639 It might have been a little slimmer at one point, 0:18:54.920 --> 0:18:58.680 a little chunky, but I never had problems dating or 0:18:58.840 --> 0:19:02.160 accessing the person and I wanted to access never. 0:19:02.320 --> 0:19:05.720 Yeah, likewise, I don't know, but let's get into that 0:19:05.840 --> 0:19:13.000 conversation about, like, you know, the relationship between women light 0:19:13.080 --> 0:19:13.840 skin and dark. 0:19:14.080 --> 0:19:15.080 I want to talk about it. 0:19:15.920 --> 0:19:17.600 Call her colorism. 0:19:17.720 --> 0:19:23.160 We'll talk about it when we get back, all right, guys, 0:19:23.200 --> 0:19:25.800 I know we were just talking about a little bit 0:19:25.840 --> 0:19:29.679 of colorism, which brings us to our topic today. 0:19:30.040 --> 0:19:30.240 Now. 0:19:30.240 --> 0:19:34.160 I brought on my good friend Teresa. I reached out 0:19:34.200 --> 0:19:37.240 to her yesterday and I was like, you a fine 0:19:37.320 --> 0:19:38.000 chocolate girl. 0:19:38.680 --> 0:19:41.280 You grew up chocolate with light skinned sisters. 0:19:41.320 --> 0:19:44.000 Would you like to talk about your experience as a 0:19:44.040 --> 0:19:47.520 young girl growing up in a household with light women 0:19:47.640 --> 0:19:50.280 being a dark woman. She said, absolutely, I have so 0:19:50.440 --> 0:19:53.800 much to share about that. So I couldn't wait to 0:19:53.840 --> 0:19:55.880 bring her on so we could have this conversation. Thank 0:19:55.920 --> 0:19:57.520 you for coming. Teresa, Hey. 0:19:59.440 --> 0:20:02.520 Meeting you as well. 0:20:03.520 --> 0:20:06.439 So y'all know, like in the black community, this is 0:20:06.520 --> 0:20:09.359 like one of those conversations aside from the fifty to 0:20:09.359 --> 0:20:12.880 fifty conversation, It's just one of those those things that 0:20:13.600 --> 0:20:18.480 I think, maybe it's uncomfortable for me because I don't 0:20:18.520 --> 0:20:22.880 feel like I've actually experienced what darker skinned women or lighter, 0:20:23.000 --> 0:20:26.520 lighter skinned women experience. But I understand both sides of 0:20:26.560 --> 0:20:32.200 the spectrum. I understand the dynamic between these two subgroups 0:20:32.880 --> 0:20:37.080 within the black culture. We've created a whole subgroup, and 0:20:37.160 --> 0:20:40.000 some people act like it's a different race. Light skinned 0:20:40.000 --> 0:20:44.200 people are race, Dark skinn people are different races. It's weird. 0:20:44.320 --> 0:20:48.080 So I definitely can't wait to dive into this today, y'all. 0:20:49.800 --> 0:20:52.240 Yeah, when we're not busy going in with. 0:20:52.240 --> 0:20:57.720 White people, guess what you're still in it to them. 0:21:01.320 --> 0:21:02.879 It's like if I ride in a car with a 0:21:02.880 --> 0:21:05.000 bunch of light skin bitches and they say, you niggas, 0:21:05.040 --> 0:21:05.760 get out of the car. 0:21:06.560 --> 0:21:07.800 They're not just talking to me. 0:21:09.520 --> 0:21:11.720 Everybody. 0:21:12.080 --> 0:21:20.879 Yeah, So Teresa, yes, talk to us about your experience 0:21:21.000 --> 0:21:23.680 like growing up as the chocolate sister in the family, 0:21:23.760 --> 0:21:25.639 Like what did you go through what'd you. 0:21:25.680 --> 0:21:29.560 Experience, Well, I am the second. 0:21:29.240 --> 0:21:34.800 Out of three girl syndrome to go ahead to. 0:21:35.560 --> 0:21:36.439 The black sheep. 0:21:37.359 --> 0:21:40.600 Yeah, And I never thought of it as being the 0:21:40.640 --> 0:21:44.280 black sheep. I thought it was because why she didn't 0:21:44.280 --> 0:21:46.320 get in trouble or why did I have to get 0:21:46.359 --> 0:21:48.760 in trouble? And I just in my own head put 0:21:48.800 --> 0:21:51.439 it as oh, because I'm the dark skin one of 0:21:51.440 --> 0:21:54.800 the family, Like they get treated better because they're light 0:21:54.840 --> 0:21:57.399 skin and I'm dark skinned. So I always had it 0:21:57.440 --> 0:21:59.480 in my mind and my mama sat me down. I 0:21:59.480 --> 0:22:03.440 think I was like seven or eight. I made a comment, Oh, 0:22:03.600 --> 0:22:06.360 she looked better because she likes skin, and my mom 0:22:06.480 --> 0:22:09.840