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Speaker 1: we got it for you. Straw sub subject, This dude

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Speaker 1: is always I know what was that? This dude is

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Speaker 1: always at my house. Dear Stephen Shirley. My wife and

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Speaker 1: I have been married for five years. I'm in the

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Speaker 1: National Guard and I got deployed earlier this year. Anyway,

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Speaker 1: my wife has a male friend that she went on

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Speaker 1: spark at all. She is still friends with him. Before

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Speaker 1: Her friend is constantly over at the house again, and

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Speaker 1: I started talking to an ex girlfriend, and things happen

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Speaker 1: that shouldn't have, and my wife found out. It's lonely

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Speaker 1: being deployed, so I wanted to talk to someone. My

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Speaker 1: all the time. He is staying overnight at my house,

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Speaker 1: and if he hasn't staying all night, he doesn't leave

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Speaker 1: that I don't like this at all. I have told

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Speaker 1: not my wife that I don't trust, it's him. I

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Speaker 1: man of the house. Please help all right, First of all,

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Speaker 1: other man asked you if you'd be bothered by him

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Speaker 1: You gave him permission, right then and there. You gave

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Speaker 1: you hardly called your wife or your children while you

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Speaker 1: were deployed. Um, you allowed this guy to come into

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Speaker 1: you're right, Yes, he does want more than just a

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Speaker 1: She wants more because she's replaced you with him. He

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Speaker 1: the kids. I'm sure they look like the perfect little,

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Speaker 1: or is it that this man is here taking your place? Uh? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: kind of too late for that, because he's walking all

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Speaker 1: help this ignorant The dude is always at my house.

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Speaker 1: First of all, I can't even type this letter. My

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Speaker 1: been married for five years. You the Nashalal. I got deployed, y'ada, y'all, y'ada.

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Speaker 1: You know, Sherley, thank you for yourself whatever though. Anyway,

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Speaker 1: would you mind if I spent some while you was

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Speaker 1: the foot man boy. When I first left, I hardly

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Speaker 1: know that? Like okay? Sometime? He answered. Her friend is

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Speaker 1: the first of all, the fact that he even asked,

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Speaker 1: you are of African American DECI, first of all, you

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Speaker 1: over there? You? How did she find out? You know

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Speaker 1: My wife has never forgiven me for this. It's a

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Speaker 1: night you're listening Steve Show. All right, Steve, here we go.

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Speaker 1: Let's recap the Today's Strawberry letter subject always at my

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Speaker 1: while he was on deployment. You started calling more. She

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Speaker 1: So I started talking to an ex girlfriend of things

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Speaker 1: happened that shouldn't having. My wife found out you're stupid?

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Speaker 1: How you way over there? She find out you're stupid.

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Speaker 1: It's lonely being deployed, so I wanted to talk to

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Speaker 1: And if he ain't staying all night, he don't leave

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Speaker 1: to two and three. Stop calling him her damn friend.

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Speaker 1: Uh huh, I got buddies, Jane, were friends friends. I've

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Speaker 1: j friends, I've been over your three am. It's because

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Speaker 1: not dog. I don't know why you wrote this this letter.

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Speaker 1: Then you said in this letter after you here, it's

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Speaker 1: Now I'm stupid. It's not my wife. I don't truck well,

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Speaker 1: What is you still faking for? Why ain't your ass

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Speaker 1: Would I be wrong? Here? He gonna dude boy dumber?

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Speaker 1: Did you know he did? He get dumber as the

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Speaker 1: You're actually making me man, Yeah, yeah, he ought to

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Speaker 1: be mad. He wore that plays shut you like here,

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Speaker 1: big daddy on it. Wow. Hey don't y'all don't help Yeah, y'all,

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Speaker 1: a man, and don't do nothing to the man. Don't

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Speaker 1: go back over there being violent. They don't need of

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Speaker 1: that man. Just go and break off because you said

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Speaker 1: the man can stay here with your stupid ass. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I don't see how mean what the national gal wan't

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Speaker 1: what you're doing. Man, don't let coming up. Steve, you're

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Speaker 1: from Cleveland. People from Cleveland are testy, will tell you

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Speaker 1: about it. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.