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Speaker 1: First Date of follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury

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Speaker 1: Attorneys online at Advocateslaw dot com.

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Speaker 2: Natasha is on the phone today for our first date

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Speaker 2: follow up and she's getting ghosted by a guy named

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Speaker 2: Mason who she really likes. So in a few minutes

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Speaker 2: we're gonna call him see if you'll tell us why

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Speaker 2: he's ghosting her and maybe get her another date. But first, Natasha,

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Speaker 2: how long has it been since you heard from Mason?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 4: Man, it's been it's been like a.

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Speaker 3: Couple of days. Like I don't know, Well, he he won't.

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Speaker 4: Hang out with me again. We were I don't know.

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Speaker 3: He just says he's busy. It's the word family obligation.

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Speaker 1: Okay, but could not be legit if it's been a

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Speaker 1: couple days or the couple days is silence.

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Speaker 3: I mean, like we work in the same building. I

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Speaker 3: just don't get it, Like it's not it's just a

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Speaker 3: bunch of it's about to bes because he could just

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Speaker 3: be busy or I don't know, I feel like something

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Speaker 3: else is going on, Like we had such a great date.

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Speaker 5: We had like.

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Speaker 3: Fire, it was amazing. So like the fact that he

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Speaker 3: won't like meet up for another happy hour right across

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Speaker 3: the street from our office.

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Speaker 4: Is just doesn't make sense.

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Speaker 6: Well, let's talk about the date. Let's hear about the fire.

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Speaker 3: Well, I mean, like, I don't know, we had a

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Speaker 3: really good time, Like our date was like amazing, but

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Speaker 3: like we were like touching and kissing, like we shared appetizers.

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Speaker 4: And like, I don't know.

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Speaker 3: Then we went back to his house and we hooked up.

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Speaker 3: I had to go, like I had to sneak out

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Speaker 3: in the middle of the night because I had a

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Speaker 3: early work day the next day. But I don't know,

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Speaker 3: I just thought that since it was so hot, and

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Speaker 3: really I didn't see anything that went wrong. I just

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Speaker 3: don't understand, like why he can't even like I mean

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Speaker 3: after our coffee in the lobby, Like, what in the.

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Speaker 6: Heck right now? It feels like you're a little eager.

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Speaker 1: Have you expressed that eagerness at any point after so

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Speaker 1: you guys hooked up?

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Speaker 3: Well yeah, yeah, but like okay, so I might have

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Speaker 3: like kicked something when I left his house.

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Speaker 4: That may have upset him, Like.

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Speaker 2: I took something.

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Speaker 3: And when I was leaving, Yeah, I might have kicked

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Speaker 3: something like oh, kit my shoe. Well there was like

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Speaker 3: kitty litter on my shoe and I was leaving his house,

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Speaker 3: so I was like, oh, no, maybe I kicked over

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Speaker 3: his cat's litter box and maybe Dan, is that why

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Speaker 3: he's not talking to me? I mean I might be.

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Speaker 6: So did you leave a mess behind you? Is that

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Speaker 6: what you're saying?

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Speaker 3: It was dark, it was early, I didn't see it.

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Speaker 3: I might have met I don't even know if the

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Speaker 3: cat was in there. Sorry, it's not funny.

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Speaker 1: Did you address the potential mess that you left? Did

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Speaker 1: you say sorry, I think I kicked something on my

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Speaker 1: way out or anything like that.

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Speaker 4: I want to explain myself, but like, I'm just not

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Speaker 4: he won't meet up with me, So he's just being cold.

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Speaker 3: And after hooking up.

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Speaker 4: And after the way everything went, and then if I made.

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Speaker 3: A message apartment, and if that's why he doesn't want

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Speaker 3: to see me again, just tell me.

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Speaker 6: Yeah that doesn't feel good, right, Yeah, especially after hurking

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Speaker 6: up with somebody, They do owe you a little something

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Speaker 6: that doesn't feel good.

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Speaker 3: You have any family obligations to have I don't even

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Speaker 3: understand how many could be possible.

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Speaker 2: It'll be okay, well, we'll play a song, come back

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Speaker 2: and then call him and see if you tell us

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Speaker 2: why he's ghosting you, and maybe get to another date

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Speaker 2: if you still want one. Okay, okay, thank you, all right,

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Speaker 2: we'll play a song, come back and get your first

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Speaker 2: day follow up.

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Speaker 6: Next.

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Speaker 2: Natasha is on the phone today for a first date

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Speaker 2: follow up. She's getting ghosted by a dude named Mason.

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Speaker 2: So in a second, we're gonna call him, see if

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Speaker 2: you tell us why he's ghosting her and maybe get

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Speaker 2: her another date. But real quick, Natasha, why don't you

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Speaker 2: catch everybody up on your situation?

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Speaker 3: Basically we work in the same building. We didn't realize

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Speaker 3: we had worked together for so long, and then we met.

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Speaker 4: And we had she hung out and we hooked up.

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Speaker 4: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I maybe kicked over his catbox and now he will

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Speaker 3: hang out with me, all right.

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Speaker 2: Do you think it might be because he kicked over

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Speaker 2: the litter box on accident? All right, well, we'll see

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Speaker 2: if we can figure it out.

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Speaker 4: Here we go.

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Speaker 2: Are you ready?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Okay? Hello, Hi, I'm asking to Mason. Please, Mason, how

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Speaker 2: are you?

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Speaker 3: Good's? Who's?

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Speaker 2: Oh? Thank you for asking Mason. My name is Jubel

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Speaker 2: and I host a radio show. It's called the Jewbel

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Speaker 2: show him Mason the whole shows here. I'm Nina, Hi,

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Speaker 2: and I'm Victoria.

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Speaker 5: Hey guys, I've heard you guys. I've heard you guys later,

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Speaker 5: I heard you guys earlier.

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Speaker 6: Oh switch, thank you.

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Speaker 2: That's cool. We're just calling to say thank you. We

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Speaker 2: were watching you. Listen. We're actually calling you because we

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Speaker 2: got an email about you, Mason.

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Speaker 6: Okay, from somebody.

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Speaker 2: Who you went on a date with, and now you're ghosting.

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Speaker 2: This is a first date follow up.

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Speaker 7: Oh okay, all right, so what the what are the accusations?

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Speaker 2: Any idea, any idea of who would email us?

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Speaker 6: Natasha? I'm pretty sure you're correct, Mason. Is Natasha?

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Speaker 5: What happened?

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Speaker 2: She wants to know why you're ghostinger. She said she

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Speaker 2: really liked you, but now you will.

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Speaker 7: Talk about okay, So all right, well this is okay

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Speaker 7: if she wants to hear it on the radio. So

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Speaker 7: we obviously, like she told you, guys, kind of the

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Speaker 7: basic what happened.

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Speaker 5: We met and we went off for drinks, and then

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Speaker 5: she might well she might have spent.

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Speaker 1: The night to say okay, cool, and then so it's thanks,

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Speaker 1: were drinking and I'm a light sleeper.

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Speaker 7: She spent the night and I kept on waking up

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Speaker 7: because she kept on farting and I and it's fine,

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Speaker 7: there's nothing wrong with farts.

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Speaker 5: But it's just a little bit like maybe I guess

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Speaker 5: too soon.

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Speaker 7: For fart, if that makes sense, Like I just you know,

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Speaker 7: I just kind of met her and I'm already hearing

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Speaker 7: her fart exactly.

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Speaker 6: You can't really control your body too soon.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, So, which is fine because I'm sure, like you

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Speaker 7: know who doesn't fart.

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Speaker 5: So but I was just a little bit much for me.

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Speaker 5: It kind of gave me an eck. But there's nothing,

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Speaker 5: there's no bad thing. I should just honestly, I should

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Speaker 5: have just got back here.

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Speaker 2: It wasn't like why you guys were like stuff.

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Speaker 1: Is it?

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 7: I mean, I I was sleeping. Who knows what she was,

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Speaker 7: but I rememberphy.

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Speaker 6: It was just it was just sleep okay, Like I could.

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Speaker 1: I could, I could see like if she was doing

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Speaker 1: in the middle of conversation. But like if you're sleeping,

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Speaker 1: you can't really control it's happening, right, I know.

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Speaker 5: That's why it's an embarrassing ick. I guess. I mean,

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Speaker 5: I just again, like it's maybe if I just.

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Speaker 7: Knew her longer for it's like a dating and thing

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Speaker 7: because I you know, there's something wrong with that would

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Speaker 2: But I always get nervous about that, falling asleep next

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Speaker 2: to someone for the first time, if I'm going to

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Speaker 2: fart or not, that's.

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Speaker 6: How you get nervous.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, what if you were in his position? I'm

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Speaker 1: just curious, like how other people would handle that, Like

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Speaker 1: if you were she was sleep farting, I think that's

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Speaker 1: that'd be cute unless they were like real bad ones.

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Speaker 2: That's cute. She doesn't even know she's farting. She's embarrassed

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Speaker 2: right now?

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Speaker 6: Are you crying right now?

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Speaker 2: I'm just laughing again.

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Speaker 6: Oh I'm sorry. Well, thank you for telling us the truth. Mason.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I feel about I'm a light sleeper. I don't

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Speaker 2: Sure, Mason, I don't know if you remember or not.

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Speaker 2: But when we do the first date follow up, the

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Speaker 2: other person is on the phone. So Natasha's on the

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Speaker 2: phone and wants to talk to you.

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Speaker 5: All right, all that I here?

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Speaker 4: Hy Sorry, Hey, yeah, no, no, it's cool.

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Speaker 3: Maybe you know you were definitely farting.

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Speaker 6: That's for dinner. We okay, okay, I was.

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Speaker 5: Talking a lot, so I probably don't want to air

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Speaker 5: my stomach. Maybe I didn't. I don't know if I remember.

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Speaker 5: I don't know who was farting, but there was farting dude, so.

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Speaker 3: Something when when I too, it's cute and you it

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Speaker 3: just seems uncomfortable around you, so you know, sorry, but

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Speaker 3: I don't know. You were totally farting more than I was,

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Speaker 3: and I feel so much better now.

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Speaker 7: Okay, Well, I'm glad we're on the same page, part

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Speaker 5: I'm glad we have the same Yeah.

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Speaker 7: I'm glad I heard you got to hear me fart

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Speaker 7: because I felt them fair.

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Speaker 3: I thought I thought you didn't want to talk to

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Speaker 3: me anymore because I tacked over your cat pots. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: that was totally.

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Speaker 5: No, that happens all the time. That's that's fine, that would.

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Speaker 2: Have been fir Well, now that you have both known

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Speaker 2: each other's fart sound like, I mean, yeah, Mason, would

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Speaker 2: you like to go on another date when Natasha will

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Speaker 2: pay for it?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 7: So I guess now that we both realize that we're

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Speaker 7: both nighttime tutors, uh night, I mean, I'm not I'm

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Speaker 7: not opposed to it, and I definitely feel bad about

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Speaker 7: ghosting and I shouldn't have done that.

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Speaker 5: And now that now it's just now it's this whole

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Speaker 5: thing is just really funny.

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Speaker 2: So ye, Natasha, congratulations got another date?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, thank you guys.

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Speaker 3: That's awesome and speaks for apologizing. I hated that feeling.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, so definitely, yeah, definitely and just please yeah, let's

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Speaker 7: go on the second date.

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Speaker 2: Okay, that's cut. And now it doesn't matter if you

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Speaker 2: guys fart, no, no, maybe.

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Speaker 6: Do things and turn each other on.

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Speaker 5: Reset, I like that hard part.

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Speaker 6: Reset Juble's first date follow up