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Speaker 1: James Cameron loves strong women. That's why.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he's way and a strong woman. That's why you

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Speaker 2: married Catherine Bigelow.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, because she looked she throw you on

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Speaker 3: the room. Now, yo, the nickname from my plus used

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Speaker 3: to be hurt locked. Now we'll hearting on.

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Speaker 1: And now.

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Speaker 4: Why can't you look at me? Look at me? I

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Speaker 4: see you in a reflection. Don't look at my reflection.

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Speaker 4: Look at me. I did not know that.

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Speaker 1: Just add that to the pilot.

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Speaker 4: Then I met my.

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Speaker 3: Husband, who's duds, and I called the Holland tunnel because

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Speaker 3: gas is cheap on the other side. And now that

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Speaker 3: I'm married and tired, I called it brim a triangle.

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Speaker 3: Just get up, Christopher Columbus and find your way.

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Speaker 4: Is it haunted? Maybe it's been a long two years.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, Hey everybody, we're back with another episode

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Speaker 2: of adulting.

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Speaker 3: We sure are, honey, and today, oh boy, dude, we

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Speaker 3: got a truth for you.

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Speaker 4: It's the one, the only, the incredible short.

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Speaker 3: Our conversation with her is nothing short of inspiring.

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Speaker 1: You are not kidding, my friend.

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Speaker 2: So sit back, relax, and let's have a little pre

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Speaker 2: salida chat.

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Speaker 4: Welcome to adulta, Hey, friend, how you doing. Hey, I'm

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Speaker 4: just pretty. Whoa, I mean, I'm not bad.

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Speaker 2: You're not bad. You're coming into the studio. This is

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Speaker 2: just one of the myriad things that you do. I mean,

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Speaker 2: now you're a full on boss.

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Speaker 4: Yes, I've always been a boss. That's bitch, though.

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Speaker 3: Did I tell you When I was little? I think

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Speaker 3: I was seven or eight or maybe even nine.

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Speaker 4: Who knows.

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Speaker 3: I made a magazine at a construction paper and the

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Speaker 3: cul de Sac I lived in, and would like drop

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Speaker 3: it into everyone's mailbox.

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Speaker 4: And it was called Head over Heels and it was.

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Speaker 3: A severed head that I cut out and put it

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Speaker 3: into like a shoe that I made. Whoa, No, it

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Speaker 3: was like a head that I made. It was very literal.

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Speaker 4: I was like very young.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, And it was just like a newspaper, like a

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Speaker 3: weekly news clipping that I would draw of all the

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Speaker 3: things that happened on the cul de Sac, like someone's

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Speaker 3: dog was barking, someone didn't pick up the dog ball.

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Speaker 3: You know, the flowers are in bloom. And I thought

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Speaker 3: it was so cute and productive. But the neighbors ask

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Speaker 3: my parents to have me stop putting stuff.

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Speaker 4: In their mids.

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Speaker 2: Make it stop, right, was anybody like, hey, when is

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Speaker 2: the Christmas issue coming out?

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Speaker 3: I did have a Christmas issue and nobody cared and

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Speaker 3: it was just like, is kwans of real?

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Speaker 4: That was like my first one.

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Speaker 3: Nobody can't and it's just like, how dare you?

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Speaker 4: Did you have anything that?

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Speaker 1: Did I have anything like that?

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Speaker 3: I've always been a busy person though I love community,

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Speaker 3: so that's I think that's where that started.

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Speaker 2: I did participate in a magazine when I was a

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Speaker 2: small child in the fourth grade. My friend John Searcy

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Speaker 2: naming names published a magazine and he was brilliant beyond

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Speaker 2: his years. And that was the first time I had

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Speaker 2: ever understood anxiety. She's like, where where is your story?

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Speaker 1: Where it's the deadline?

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Speaker 2: And I was like, huh, Like I didn't know what

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Speaker 2: anxiety was. You know, when you're a kid, it's just

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Speaker 2: He would print it out on his zeroxit his dad's office,

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Speaker 2: and kids would just like read it and be like

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Speaker 4: You know that is so wild?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I think it is important to support

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Speaker 3: what your kids do, even if it's silly. Oh absolutely,

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Speaker 4: I used to do it.

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Speaker 3: I used to do a cabbage patched kid in Pound

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Speaker 3: Puppy Club, sure on Saturday mornings because my mom wouldn't

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Speaker 4: No fruit roll ups, no sugar seees. God, I know,

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Speaker 3: Was no, it was like a switch prison. It's like

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Speaker 3: it just looks better than it was. This is the

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Speaker 3: thing you can't really deny someone something like parents were

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Speaker 3: I got to college, I just like ate everything. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 3: what I mean, So you can't I feel like, don't

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Speaker 3: tell you use especially with like sex.

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Speaker 4: It's like smoking weed. Getting off topic.

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Speaker 3: The point is I was a boss ass bitch and

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Speaker 3: I'm still a boss ass bitch. And I feel like

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Speaker 3: you have people working under you now, not under me

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Speaker 3: with me.

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Speaker 1: You people working directly under you.

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Speaker 4: No with me.

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Speaker 3: This is the difference between my cannitellia and yours.

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Speaker 4: You can't wait to boss people around. Uh No.

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Speaker 2: I got an assistant for the first time after I

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Speaker 2: told you to get an assistant for forever and you're like, You're.

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Speaker 4: Like, I can't do it.

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Speaker 1: Everything's stressing me out.

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Speaker 2: I was like a kid and assistant that I was like,

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Speaker 2: that was like a year before you gotten I know.

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Speaker 3: People have been telling me that I need an assistant

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Speaker 3: for like five years. But people tell me what to

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Speaker 3: what I mean, right, like you should try a Cayenne

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Speaker 3: lemon fucking fast, Like people are always telling me dumb shit,

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Speaker 3: and I'm like, I got this. But there was a

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Speaker 3: point where I did feel like Donald Duck under like

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Speaker 3: a pile of gold, where I was like, there's just

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Speaker 2: I'm tired, because you needed to like delegate that and

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Speaker 3: I'm so glad that you finally have. Oh my god,

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Speaker 3: is amazing. Her name is Alex. She is friendly, but

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Speaker 3: she's really friendly. She's not like fake friendly, which is great.

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Speaker 3: She doesn't JOKEO like such a hard New Yorker.

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Speaker 4: She's like, how you doing.

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Speaker 3: I'm like good, I guess with the state.

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Speaker 4: Of a family.

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Speaker 3: She loves dogs like I am like John goes back.

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Speaker 3: Diane Lane muslif dunks. Yeah, because I've got two big, black,

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Speaker 3: don't mind, which is great. She's great with kids, which

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Speaker 4: He oh so yeah.

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Speaker 3: I mean, you know, I always talk about people as

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Speaker 3: I'm just like, thank you so much for fitting into

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Speaker 4: Don't everlate.

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Speaker 3: Sometimes at the end of the day, I do feel

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Speaker 3: like the terminator, do you know what I mean? Just

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Speaker 3: like again getting back to the one finger, just like.

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Speaker 4: You don't remember the end of the time.

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Speaker 2: A yeah, of course, don dun dun dunn, Don dunt dun.

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Speaker 1: You think remember a terminator?

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Speaker 2: Linda Hamilton racking a shotgun.

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Speaker 4: With one arm. Let me say, a jaw. What is

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Speaker 4: one look that you've always wanted to achieve but you

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Speaker 2: Probably like wearing a muscle shirt out on a you know,

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Speaker 2: like in a fire escape while playing the trumpet.

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Speaker 4: Look, I will definitely book you.

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Speaker 3: I'm just getting vibes of like the black dude at

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Speaker 3: the end of Pretty Woman.

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Speaker 4: Oh that's me. Yeah. A store in this door store.

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Speaker 4: Who is this mystical magical Miro.

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Speaker 3: I don't know, but he did his thing, Honey. He

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Speaker 3: was the only black person in that movie. You love

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Speaker 3: that we were arguing about Pretty Woman.

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Speaker 4: Were we arguing or having a debate.

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Speaker 2: We're having a spirited, healthy exchange of ideas.

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Speaker 3: Because you thought it was Remind me what you thought

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Speaker 3: Pretty Woman? Well, you thought it was not a great look.

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Speaker 2: I thought it was a bloated, transactional horror escape.

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Speaker 1: And just this.

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Speaker 2: The terrible worship of capitalism in the exchange of flesh

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Speaker 2: and how women are owned.

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Speaker 1: And I did not like that in any cana.

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Speaker 4: What did I think about it?

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Speaker 3: You're better at something this up than me, because I

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Speaker 3: don't remember.

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Speaker 2: You were like, let it live, it's great, we love it.

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Speaker 2: And then everybody who had written all this stuff at

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Speaker 2: AMC to help me out in this argument was like,

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Speaker 2: She's right, she's so funny, winning and charismatic.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I do like, look, you never know how

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Speaker 3: you're gonna find love, right, And so the fact that

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Speaker 2: I mean it's a cute everything though, Like I think

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Speaker 2: people just like they are suckers for a meet cute.

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Speaker 3: I mean, yes, we all are. Everyone wants to know

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Speaker 3: the story. That's how you end every rom com too.

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Speaker 3: But like at this point when you said meat cute,

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Speaker 3: I just I'm hosting a show on Netflix called Barbecue

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Speaker 3: Showdown and everything else, like the other kind of meat is.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, meet cute, right, you gotta get smoke rings?

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Speaker 3: What about the juices? But yeah, I mean that is

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Speaker 2: I mean, have you ever had like a meat cute

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: What's your what's your most memorable meet cute?

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Speaker 4: You know what?

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Speaker 3: I really have to go back to my book survirval

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Speaker 3: Thick is available on paperback and hit up that chapter

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Speaker 3: Game of Hose, which really just explores sexuality and body

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Speaker 3: positivity and coming into your own and not being ashamed

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Speaker 3: of it book. But you know, I think anytime that

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Speaker 3: I've put myself out there where I have done the

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Speaker 3: first handshaker hello is like.

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Speaker 4: A pat of my back for a meat cute.

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Speaker 3: I am really tired of everyone saying that shit has

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Speaker 3: to happen to you.

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Speaker 4: You can make it happen for you.

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Speaker 3: And that's why I always say open your mind, your heart,

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Speaker 3: and your legs to love.

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Speaker 4: Yeah. But I think the ultimate meeque was obviously my husband. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: because I was out.

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Speaker 3: On a very terrible day before with a guy who

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Speaker 3: was not worthy of my time. But I was in

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Speaker 3: also just like, I don't know how to end this.

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Speaker 3: And so when he finally said all the terrible things

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Speaker 3: he should, I met my husband like minutes later.

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Speaker 1: Wow, he was waiting in the wings.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: It's like it's like ce okay kind of yeah.

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Speaker 4: He's like, do you want to dance? I'm like, okay, oh,

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Speaker 4: That's all you need to say. Yeah, that's all you

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Speaker 3: Yes, can you please get this Cape Cod Martin book.

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Speaker 4: Chester? But I don't even know what that means. And

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Speaker 4: I was like, you're grosss.

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Speaker 3: But like if someone compliments to you on your style

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Speaker 4: I'm so excited about our guest today.

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Speaker 1: Yes, me too.

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Speaker 4: I mean every time I see her, I get happy.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I love that.

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Speaker 3: Like I never know what she's thinking by her face.

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Speaker 3: That's my favorite. She's just like whatever. She's Atlanta raised. Okay,

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Speaker 3: but I feel like you're so Brooklyn. She's a comedian,

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Speaker 4: New black comedy Black. Why are you doing that with

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Speaker 3: Dad? The bust Down? She's on the bus down, Please

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Speaker 3: help us. Welcome Sharp.

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Speaker 6: Was lovely. Okay, ye talk to me. I was actually

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Speaker 5: Oh see, you can tell yeah Atlanta business.

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Speaker 6: When I was eight, I left my family behind and

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Speaker 4: Did you divorce your parents?

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Speaker 6: At me?

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Speaker 4: That is true? Therefore, I know I.

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Speaker 6: Wish, but I mean they were lovely people, but I

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Speaker 2: Wait, so are you a wings enthusiast because you're from Atlanta?

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Speaker 4: I am not?

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Speaker 1: Wow you are you different?

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Speaker 4: Other ways.

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Speaker 6: I mean, there's so I'm there are many other things

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Speaker 4: I love.

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Speaker 1: You not liking wings. It's more wings for me, you

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Speaker 4: But I have them. But I mean, by the time

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Speaker 4: I understood. Why do the strip clubs in Atlanta have

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Speaker 4: so many wings? Oh? I guess because you're going to

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Speaker 4: be there a while. Actually I was. I was in

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Speaker 1: It was actually Strokers.

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Speaker 4: Oh yes, okay, yes.

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Speaker 4: Remember when it opened.

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Speaker 6: My dad and we drove by and my dad was like, wow,

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Speaker 6: they didn't even try Brokers.

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Speaker 6: So I'm there for friend's birthday and I watched a

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Speaker 4: Him, Hey, what's up. He's like, hey, what's up. He

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Speaker 4: sure in front of them.

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Speaker 6: Now the thing is in Atlanta, the strippers are completely nude.

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Speaker 4: Wow.

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Speaker 6: And they serve alcohol, so that is that is how

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Speaker 4: You cannot serve alcohol, right.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, and some places they castes are under some sort

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Speaker 4: It wide Sea of Florida. No, yeah, have alcohol. And

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Speaker 6: So there, you know, the things are going on around him,

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Speaker 6: but he is focused on his basket of wings, sitting

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Speaker 6: at the bar, just cleaning him, just sucking marrow out,

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Speaker 6: through so much, just like here are my fresh ones,

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Speaker 6: And then he finishes, and he takes his wet nap

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Speaker 4: Ladies, I am ready for you now. And I was like,

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Speaker 2: After you get your sixteen wings, then you're ready for

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Speaker 6: He must tip well, because they already had the wings ready.

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Speaker 4: Wow.

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Speaker 6: So I'm like, I can't even really hate because if

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Speaker 4: You know, it's so funny. Okay, So I was thinking

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Speaker 3: So my husband from Europe doesn't understand that takeout might

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Speaker 3: be shitty takeout. He's so pure and he's just like,

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Speaker 3: if they serve you the foodage should be done well.

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Speaker 3: Why would they not poking holes at the top to

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Speaker 4: Like, how dare you?

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Speaker 3: And I'm like you, I'm just thinking about the person

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Speaker 6: Yes, absolutely, because there are enough strip clubs serving wings

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Speaker 6: that you can pick like, nah, I like that one

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Speaker 4: Know what I mean? And so yeah, you absolutely.

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Speaker 6: I mean I feel like, if you're going to spend

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Speaker 1: Do you go back to recharge? Is your family's still there.

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Speaker 6: My sister is still there, and I do try to

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Speaker 4: It was a little rough.

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Speaker 6: We of course, spent a complete year apart, which was

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Speaker 4: But then she came around.

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Speaker 4: I told jokes on a cruise.

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Speaker 6: It went really well in that it was like a

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Speaker 3: So the assignment absolutely. Oh I've done like the cruises

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Speaker 4: That are Carnival cruise and stuff like that wasn't carnival.

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Speaker 4: I don't remember what it was.

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Speaker 3: I really had to black it out. For cruises for comedians,

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Speaker 4: The show in the same time. Yeah, I'm like, you'll.

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Speaker 3: Get it next time. I'm like, I am not here

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Speaker 3: I'm so glad you are our unicorn.

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Speaker 4: I had to get baby's first passport. Yeh, where'd you go?

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Speaker 6: to rent, but they had already unlocked the chair.

448
00:20:46,440 --> 00:20:47,760
Speaker 4: Yeah.

449
00:20:49,040 --> 00:20:55,040
Speaker 6: Saw the woman look at us and just go, yeah,

450
00:20:56,760 --> 00:20:57,800
Speaker 6: we'll let him have that.

451
00:20:58,560 --> 00:20:59,960
Speaker 4: I love that. Yeah.

452
00:20:59,760 --> 00:21:01,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, not to circle back to strip clubs,

453
00:21:01,720 --> 00:21:04,040
Speaker 3: I've also done stand up in a strip club really,

454
00:21:04,200 --> 00:21:08,600
Speaker 3: Yes and Queens and there was hot food, which was good.

455
00:21:08,640 --> 00:21:11,520
Speaker 2: I think I did stand up in that same Yeah,

456
00:21:11,800 --> 00:21:12,640
Speaker 2: we're on the same show.

457
00:21:12,920 --> 00:21:14,639
Speaker 3: No, I don't know. We've been doing stand up for

458
00:21:14,640 --> 00:21:16,840
Speaker 3: a while. But like, I just love all the places

459
00:21:16,880 --> 00:21:17,640
Speaker 3: that stand up.

460
00:21:17,520 --> 00:21:20,840
Speaker 4: Will well, I've taken you. Yeah, it changes your eye.

461
00:21:21,080 --> 00:21:25,600
Speaker 6: I I've been teaching some comedy classes and one thing

462
00:21:25,640 --> 00:21:28,520
Speaker 6: I tell the students is that from this point on,

463
00:21:29,119 --> 00:21:31,159
Speaker 6: every place you go, you're going to look at the

464
00:21:31,280 --> 00:21:34,000
Speaker 6: corner of that room and go. I mean I could

465
00:21:34,000 --> 00:21:36,800
Speaker 6: probably put something there right, like a little actually.

466
00:21:36,560 --> 00:21:37,280
Speaker 4: Everywhere you go.

467
00:21:37,640 --> 00:21:40,120
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah absolutely. So what makes a good

468
00:21:40,119 --> 00:21:42,960
Speaker 1: show space for sure to comedy?

469
00:21:43,080 --> 00:21:48,000
Speaker 6: Yeah, it never will be conducive, So you guys got.

470
00:21:47,400 --> 00:21:50,440
Speaker 4: I don't know. No, it's never gonna work. But I

471
00:21:50,480 --> 00:21:52,800
Speaker 4: mean you can see it where it's like the not

472
00:21:52,920 --> 00:21:55,040
Speaker 4: the worst show, but like the worst venue.

473
00:21:59,680 --> 00:22:02,560
Speaker 2: Sometimes bad venues can be amazing shows, though, you know,

474
00:22:02,560 --> 00:22:04,080
Speaker 2: if it's like intimate and dank whatever.

475
00:22:04,320 --> 00:22:08,520
Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm gonna say sports bars. Did quite a few

476
00:22:08,560 --> 00:22:10,679
Speaker 6: sports bars while in the South, and.

477
00:22:11,119 --> 00:22:13,640
Speaker 4: I mean, you know, if they really want.

478
00:22:13,440 --> 00:22:15,800
Speaker 6: You there, they'll turn off one of the television one.

479
00:22:15,960 --> 00:22:18,359
Speaker 6: Oh that's huge, one that is huge. It won't be

480
00:22:18,400 --> 00:22:21,560
Speaker 6: the one that's directly over your head, No, but it's

481
00:22:21,640 --> 00:22:24,040
Speaker 6: one by the kitchen or something.

482
00:22:24,240 --> 00:22:27,040
Speaker 4: Sure, but yeah, those are usually rough.

483
00:22:27,400 --> 00:22:30,359
Speaker 6: I did one in a in the sports bar once,

484
00:22:30,520 --> 00:22:34,280
Speaker 6: and halfway through my set, a kitten crawled.

485
00:22:33,960 --> 00:22:35,200
Speaker 4: Out of the PA system.

486
00:22:35,920 --> 00:22:41,879
Speaker 6: What the act I wish because it got a great response,

487
00:22:41,920 --> 00:22:44,560
Speaker 6: and I was like, I'll take you. But the guy

488
00:22:44,600 --> 00:22:47,399
Speaker 6: who had put the show together kept his PA system

489
00:22:47,440 --> 00:22:50,640
Speaker 6: in his garage and they also had kittens in there.

490
00:22:50,640 --> 00:22:52,399
Speaker 6: I guess some cat had gone into the garage and

491
00:22:52,440 --> 00:22:55,400
Speaker 6: had kittens, and so one of the cats crawled into

492
00:22:55,480 --> 00:22:57,720
Speaker 6: the PA. So he drove around with that speaker in

493
00:22:57,760 --> 00:23:00,720
Speaker 6: his truck all day, had no idea set up the.

494
00:23:00,680 --> 00:23:02,240
Speaker 4: Speaker still in there.

495
00:23:02,560 --> 00:23:05,400
Speaker 6: Two other comics went before me in addition to him,

496
00:23:05,600 --> 00:23:06,960
Speaker 6: you know, opening and hosting.

497
00:23:07,320 --> 00:23:07,679
Speaker 4: Nothing.

498
00:23:08,080 --> 00:23:11,080
Speaker 6: I start and the Cat's like, I can't do this anymore,

499
00:23:11,280 --> 00:23:15,840
Speaker 6: Oh my god, this, I must leave the cat.

500
00:23:16,600 --> 00:23:17,800
Speaker 4: I walked the cat.

501
00:23:17,920 --> 00:23:20,200
Speaker 6: Not only did I walk the cat, the cat found

502
00:23:20,200 --> 00:23:24,119
Speaker 6: a home on the show at the show because his

503
00:23:24,240 --> 00:23:27,240
Speaker 6: wife explained, Oh, it's because these kittens in the garage

504
00:23:27,280 --> 00:23:28,800
Speaker 6: and someone's like, i'll take that kitten.

505
00:23:28,840 --> 00:23:28,959
Speaker 5: Now.

506
00:23:29,040 --> 00:23:31,520
Speaker 3: I'm like, what is happening here? No, you are the

507
00:23:31,600 --> 00:23:36,280
Speaker 3: sea lea for that cat. Yeah, you're the Sealy.

508
00:23:36,359 --> 00:23:36,720
Speaker 4: You're the.

509
00:23:39,760 --> 00:23:44,399
Speaker 3: I must walk you out of the show. Chlice walker.

510
00:23:44,560 --> 00:23:49,520
Speaker 4: You guys, I'm trying. I am so tired. Oh are

511
00:23:49,560 --> 00:23:50,840
Speaker 4: you not late night?

512
00:23:51,160 --> 00:23:51,359
Speaker 1: Is it?

513
00:23:52,240 --> 00:23:52,600
Speaker 4: No?

514
00:23:52,240 --> 00:23:55,080
Speaker 3: No, No, it's just twenty years of comedy and forty

515
00:23:55,119 --> 00:23:56,280
Speaker 3: four years of the patriarchy.

516
00:23:56,280 --> 00:23:57,159
Speaker 4: That's where I'm tired.

517
00:23:57,400 --> 00:23:59,800
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, that I feel like I've been tap dancing

518
00:23:59,840 --> 00:24:02,199
Speaker 3: in and just like I feel like a fat ballerina

519
00:24:02,400 --> 00:24:03,520
Speaker 3: around men's egos.

520
00:24:03,560 --> 00:24:06,359
Speaker 4: Other than that, I'm fine, Yeah, especially mine.

521
00:24:06,400 --> 00:24:08,160
Speaker 1: She feels very nervous.

522
00:24:10,560 --> 00:24:12,720
Speaker 2: Wait, I gotta know you started in the South and

523
00:24:12,760 --> 00:24:14,240
Speaker 2: it like, yes, wow?

524
00:24:14,520 --> 00:24:15,040
Speaker 4: What was that?

525
00:24:15,200 --> 00:24:15,280
Speaker 1: Like?

526
00:24:15,800 --> 00:24:19,600
Speaker 6: Fine? I started and I guess what would be considered

527
00:24:20,160 --> 00:24:24,080
Speaker 6: the alternative part of it, which just means that it

528
00:24:24,119 --> 00:24:27,359
Speaker 6: was an open mic in a dive bar that was

529
00:24:27,480 --> 00:24:30,000
Speaker 6: very popular, and that's you know where I started. And

530
00:24:30,040 --> 00:24:32,679
Speaker 6: then at the comedy club that you could get to

531
00:24:32,920 --> 00:24:37,600
Speaker 6: on public transportation because most of them were way out

532
00:24:37,840 --> 00:24:39,720
Speaker 6: deep in the suburbs and you had to have a car,

533
00:24:39,760 --> 00:24:41,640
Speaker 6: and I started with no car.

534
00:24:42,480 --> 00:24:44,240
Speaker 4: Wow, some rules.

535
00:24:43,920 --> 00:24:46,280
Speaker 3: Too, especially in LA you need a car too for

536
00:24:46,400 --> 00:24:49,280
Speaker 3: the open mics. Now, what are your other comedy rules?

537
00:24:49,760 --> 00:24:51,359
Speaker 3: Will you date a comedian?

538
00:24:53,000 --> 00:24:56,399
Speaker 6: I've done it one and a half times and a

539
00:24:56,440 --> 00:24:58,560
Speaker 6: half halftimes a half.

540
00:24:58,400 --> 00:25:00,960
Speaker 4: Day, well the point five. He didn't really have much drive,

541
00:25:01,359 --> 00:25:02,879
Speaker 4: so when it came.

542
00:25:02,760 --> 00:25:07,280
Speaker 3: To dating or comedy, yes, now, actually dating, he had

543
00:25:07,320 --> 00:25:09,960
Speaker 3: a lot of drive and that he was dating many

544
00:25:10,000 --> 00:25:14,440
Speaker 3: people at once, but comedy wise, I think he was

545
00:25:14,480 --> 00:25:16,320
Speaker 3: one of those that like he had started and was

546
00:25:16,359 --> 00:25:19,000
Speaker 3: just wondering why the industry wasn't checking for him yet.

547
00:25:19,080 --> 00:25:23,439
Speaker 4: Oh god, it was like, I mean what like Our.

548
00:25:23,320 --> 00:25:26,000
Speaker 6: Biggest argument was he had talked to someone about doing

549
00:25:26,080 --> 00:25:28,679
Speaker 6: a show and their venue, and that person was like, well.

550
00:25:28,520 --> 00:25:30,640
Speaker 4: Can you do like twenty? Do you have twenty minutes?

551
00:25:30,720 --> 00:25:33,359
Speaker 6: And he was a gas that anyone would ask him

552
00:25:33,359 --> 00:25:35,719
Speaker 6: if he had twenty minutes? And I said, well, actually,

553
00:25:35,760 --> 00:25:38,159
Speaker 6: do you have twenty minutes? No shade, no shame, I

554
00:25:38,720 --> 00:25:40,840
Speaker 6: don't know I have. I've only seen you in five

555
00:25:40,880 --> 00:25:43,800
Speaker 6: minute increments, So do you have twenty? And then he

556
00:25:43,920 --> 00:25:46,440
Speaker 6: was furious again and he was like do you have twenty?

557
00:25:46,480 --> 00:25:49,000
Speaker 6: And I said, honestly, when I moved here from Atlanta,

558
00:25:49,040 --> 00:25:51,880
Speaker 6: I had thirty, but I had in Atlanta thirty, which

559
00:25:51,880 --> 00:25:53,760
Speaker 6: has now been cut down in New York to like

560
00:25:54,240 --> 00:25:57,360
Speaker 6: New York. Wow, we'll ask the comeding answer right there,

561
00:25:58,000 --> 00:26:02,720
Speaker 6: because it's the currency exchange rightly, so it wouldn't all translate.

562
00:26:02,760 --> 00:26:04,359
Speaker 6: And he was just like, I don't even know that,

563
00:26:05,400 --> 00:26:09,560
Speaker 6: and I'm like that. That's how it ended up going

564
00:26:09,600 --> 00:26:10,280
Speaker 6: into my brain.

565
00:26:11,880 --> 00:26:14,439
Speaker 3: I love doing comedy in New York City, especially for

566
00:26:14,480 --> 00:26:17,520
Speaker 3: the clubs, because it's so international, Like you really have

567
00:26:17,640 --> 00:26:20,560
Speaker 3: to figure out that's your international set. I feel like

568
00:26:20,680 --> 00:26:22,840
Speaker 3: in New York City at a comedy club because you

569
00:26:22,840 --> 00:26:25,440
Speaker 3: have a table from Germany and then a table from Australia,

570
00:26:25,440 --> 00:26:27,760
Speaker 3: a table from the Bronx, a table from Canada, and

571
00:26:27,800 --> 00:26:29,760
Speaker 3: it's just like, what are you going to do to

572
00:26:29,800 --> 00:26:30,840
Speaker 3: make everybody laugh?

573
00:26:31,200 --> 00:26:31,400
Speaker 4: Right?

574
00:26:31,560 --> 00:26:34,879
Speaker 3: So that's like such a great answer because I don't

575
00:26:34,880 --> 00:26:38,920
Speaker 3: think a lot of people moving to New York about

576
00:26:38,960 --> 00:26:40,200
Speaker 3: that at all, but you know who does?

577
00:26:41,160 --> 00:26:44,760
Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, yeah, absolutely, well because I'm an old lady.

578
00:26:45,040 --> 00:26:47,440
Speaker 4: So I mean I moved to New York at forty?

579
00:26:48,000 --> 00:26:53,320
Speaker 4: Was and what made you decide to move to New

580
00:26:53,400 --> 00:26:54,320
Speaker 4: York at forty.

581
00:26:54,160 --> 00:26:57,879
Speaker 6: To see how much I loved actually doing comedy because

582
00:26:57,920 --> 00:27:00,520
Speaker 6: I started doing comedy at like thirty seven, and I

583
00:27:00,600 --> 00:27:02,719
Speaker 6: was like, I really am enjoying this. Let me go

584
00:27:02,800 --> 00:27:04,679
Speaker 6: to New York and try to stick it out as

585
00:27:04,720 --> 00:27:06,879
Speaker 6: long as I can, as long as my knees will allow,

586
00:27:07,560 --> 00:27:07,960
Speaker 6: you know.

587
00:27:08,160 --> 00:27:19,000
Speaker 4: And then and then figure it out just shouting vitamins.

588
00:27:20,080 --> 00:27:22,240
Speaker 2: When you moved from Atlanta, did you move in SlowMo

589
00:27:22,320 --> 00:27:25,360
Speaker 2: away from a burning house, like not look back, get

590
00:27:25,440 --> 00:27:25,920
Speaker 2: your ship.

591
00:27:27,040 --> 00:27:31,080
Speaker 6: I definitely my second day in New York, I was like, oh,

592
00:27:31,119 --> 00:27:31,720
Speaker 6: I've made a.

593
00:27:31,720 --> 00:27:35,359
Speaker 1: Terrible Why was that? Why did you feel that?

594
00:27:35,359 --> 00:27:37,520
Speaker 6: I was just like, I'll go and I'll just I

595
00:27:37,520 --> 00:27:38,640
Speaker 6: guess I'll just get me a.

596
00:27:38,680 --> 00:27:41,440
Speaker 4: Job and then I'll just get me a job.

597
00:27:41,800 --> 00:27:44,720
Speaker 6: Exactly when you think I'll just get me a job,

598
00:27:44,840 --> 00:27:49,199
Speaker 6: you are in no way prepared prepared, But let me

599
00:27:49,280 --> 00:27:51,800
Speaker 6: just grab one of these jobs, man.

600
00:27:51,880 --> 00:27:52,680
Speaker 4: I mean I.

601
00:27:52,680 --> 00:27:56,560
Speaker 6: Did in a reasonable amount of time, but I don't.

602
00:27:56,800 --> 00:27:58,879
Speaker 6: The delusion that makes you think you can make a

603
00:27:58,880 --> 00:28:02,000
Speaker 6: whole room of people laugh is the same delusion that's like.

604
00:28:02,359 --> 00:28:03,639
Speaker 4: Let me go on up here and get me a

605
00:28:03,720 --> 00:28:05,120
Speaker 4: job right quick. But you need that.

606
00:28:06,240 --> 00:28:10,280
Speaker 2: I yes, but you need I think it was Frandly

607
00:28:10,359 --> 00:28:12,960
Speaker 2: Boyce talked about that you need a little naivete when

608
00:28:12,960 --> 00:28:14,440
Speaker 2: you're coming to New York.

609
00:28:15,000 --> 00:28:17,280
Speaker 1: She said, like her first thing that she did was

610
00:28:17,320 --> 00:28:18,000
Speaker 1: she walked.

611
00:28:17,760 --> 00:28:20,080
Speaker 2: Into the offices of the New York Times and was like, yeah,

612
00:28:20,119 --> 00:28:21,400
Speaker 2: you know what, I would write a couple.

613
00:28:21,200 --> 00:28:22,760
Speaker 1: Of columns for you if you want me to do that.

614
00:28:22,840 --> 00:28:25,760
Speaker 2: And they were just like, I'm so surprised that anybody

615
00:28:25,800 --> 00:28:28,199
Speaker 2: would do that. That they were like, I you know,

616
00:28:28,520 --> 00:28:29,960
Speaker 2: it's that kind of thing. It's that kind of thing.

617
00:28:30,200 --> 00:28:32,480
Speaker 2: But don't you feel that way? Like it feels like

618
00:28:33,200 --> 00:28:35,359
Speaker 2: you needed that a little bit. Oh No, I had

619
00:28:35,440 --> 00:28:35,840
Speaker 2: come to the.

620
00:28:35,800 --> 00:28:38,960
Speaker 4: City, need to just be like duh, you know what

621
00:28:38,960 --> 00:28:41,160
Speaker 4: I mean. That's how it was when I started comedy.

622
00:28:41,200 --> 00:28:44,800
Speaker 6: I felt like, kind of the way to make it

623
00:28:44,880 --> 00:28:48,840
Speaker 6: through a lot of the bullshit is to be dumb

624
00:28:48,840 --> 00:28:49,280
Speaker 6: about it.

625
00:28:49,560 --> 00:28:51,200
Speaker 4: Hmmm, just like huh.

626
00:28:51,600 --> 00:28:55,760
Speaker 6: Wow, and then keep going like oh that's humph clock

627
00:28:55,840 --> 00:28:59,160
Speaker 6: it when you see it, and then don't interact.

628
00:28:59,160 --> 00:29:02,520
Speaker 3: Think that would work, and that is such a superpower

629
00:29:02,600 --> 00:29:05,960
Speaker 3: that nobody ever talks about because it's just like that's

630
00:29:05,960 --> 00:29:07,600
Speaker 3: something you have to figure out on your own two.

631
00:29:08,240 --> 00:29:10,080
Speaker 4: And what I love about.

632
00:29:09,720 --> 00:29:12,280
Speaker 3: You moving to New York to pursue comedy at forty

633
00:29:12,800 --> 00:29:15,960
Speaker 3: is that I don't know anybody else that would do that.

634
00:29:17,120 --> 00:29:19,600
Speaker 3: But you know what I mean, and I mean for better,

635
00:29:19,720 --> 00:29:23,280
Speaker 3: because everyone talks themselves out of what they should be doing.

636
00:29:23,360 --> 00:29:25,480
Speaker 3: I always see my most talented friends are the ones

637
00:29:25,920 --> 00:29:29,000
Speaker 3: that are in a corner, second guessing everything they fucking do.

638
00:29:29,760 --> 00:29:32,440
Speaker 3: And it's these basic bitches that are out here just being.

639
00:29:32,240 --> 00:29:32,960
Speaker 4: Like, look at me.

640
00:29:33,400 --> 00:29:37,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, at any and every age, and it's

641
00:29:37,160 --> 00:29:40,760
Speaker 3: just like they can't even come close to what we

642
00:29:40,960 --> 00:29:44,520
Speaker 3: can do. And so I love that you didn't talk

643
00:29:44,520 --> 00:29:46,680
Speaker 3: yourself out of shit. You're just like, let me go

644
00:29:46,760 --> 00:29:50,959
Speaker 3: see because the realization in New York, which is like

645
00:29:51,120 --> 00:29:56,080
Speaker 3: a masterclass of life and adulting, whether you're twenty or

646
00:29:56,160 --> 00:29:57,320
Speaker 3: thirty or forty, it's just.

647
00:29:57,200 --> 00:29:58,680
Speaker 4: Like, oh shit, how am I going to do?

648
00:29:58,720 --> 00:29:58,800
Speaker 6: This?

649
00:29:59,200 --> 00:30:00,880
Speaker 4: Is so yeah.

650
00:30:00,960 --> 00:30:05,080
Speaker 6: Absolutely, I remember calling my parents and talking to them

651
00:30:05,120 --> 00:30:08,440
Speaker 6: and just breaking down at how how hard it was.

652
00:30:09,160 --> 00:30:12,200
Speaker 6: And my parents, now, my dad had grown up in

653
00:30:12,440 --> 00:30:12,800
Speaker 6: New York.

654
00:30:12,840 --> 00:30:17,400
Speaker 4: He was a how you say bedsty do and or die.

655
00:30:18,920 --> 00:30:20,720
Speaker 4: I've heard of this. He was one of those.

656
00:30:20,760 --> 00:30:22,959
Speaker 6: And my mother grew up in Middle Georgia and then

657
00:30:23,080 --> 00:30:25,720
Speaker 6: moved to New York when she was like eighteen. Like

658
00:30:25,800 --> 00:30:28,440
Speaker 6: as they were trying to give her her high school diploma,

659
00:30:28,480 --> 00:30:31,560
Speaker 6: she was like thanks, I'm out by Yeah, so she

660
00:30:31,800 --> 00:30:35,200
Speaker 6: had some frame of references to the toughness of just

661
00:30:35,240 --> 00:30:37,920
Speaker 6: going up there. And I guess I'm a little I

662
00:30:37,920 --> 00:30:40,800
Speaker 6: wouldn't say stoic. I feel like I'm emotional. I just

663
00:30:40,800 --> 00:30:42,960
Speaker 6: don't know if I portray it a lot.

664
00:30:42,880 --> 00:30:45,760
Speaker 4: You don't. And I love it you don't love it.

665
00:30:45,840 --> 00:30:48,680
Speaker 6: So my parents, even with my parents knowing me since

666
00:30:48,760 --> 00:30:51,120
Speaker 6: having me, they still were like, who is this bitch?

667
00:30:51,240 --> 00:30:55,600
Speaker 6: Like crying on the phone and they were just like okay,

668
00:30:55,680 --> 00:30:57,760
Speaker 6: but you're going to figure this out, right, like you're

669
00:30:57,760 --> 00:31:00,280
Speaker 6: gonna are you coming back? Like what's happening? It's been

670
00:31:00,400 --> 00:31:02,160
Speaker 6: like a month. And I said no, I'll get it.

671
00:31:02,520 --> 00:31:04,120
Speaker 6: I just it is a lot.

672
00:31:04,640 --> 00:31:05,320
Speaker 4: It's a lot.

673
00:31:05,400 --> 00:31:08,520
Speaker 6: And they're like okay, all right, cool, cool. And my

674
00:31:08,560 --> 00:31:10,120
Speaker 6: mother was like, I know, it is a lot. And

675
00:31:10,120 --> 00:31:11,959
Speaker 6: my dad's like, well, just do it. This is what

676
00:31:12,000 --> 00:31:15,800
Speaker 6: you wanted, right, And I'm like, yeah, they are both

677
00:31:15,840 --> 00:31:18,520
Speaker 6: trying in their own ways and I appreciate that and

678
00:31:18,600 --> 00:31:19,000
Speaker 6: I'm just.

679
00:31:18,920 --> 00:31:19,680
Speaker 4: Gonna keep going.

680
00:31:19,840 --> 00:31:21,640
Speaker 2: So coming up at forty, I mean I said this

681
00:31:21,680 --> 00:31:23,840
Speaker 2: about myself a lot too, like I always think of

682
00:31:23,920 --> 00:31:24,920
Speaker 2: last best chances.

683
00:31:25,320 --> 00:31:25,520
Speaker 4: Hmm.

684
00:31:25,800 --> 00:31:28,880
Speaker 2: I was like, I think I in twenty twenty kind

685
00:31:28,880 --> 00:31:31,360
Speaker 2: of like set myself up for my last best chance.

686
00:31:31,120 --> 00:31:31,960
Speaker 1: In comedy, you know.

687
00:31:32,320 --> 00:31:34,640
Speaker 2: And because I was like I'm forty, like I really

688
00:31:35,360 --> 00:31:39,200
Speaker 2: need to annie up and kick in. Did you feel

689
00:31:39,200 --> 00:31:42,480
Speaker 2: that way too, Because if you're saying you're forty when

690
00:31:42,480 --> 00:31:45,880
Speaker 2: you came here and now you're on bust down like

691
00:31:46,200 --> 00:31:48,240
Speaker 2: it's like, I mean, it's an amazing thing.

692
00:31:48,240 --> 00:31:51,520
Speaker 6: It's like, actually I feel a little bit of that

693
00:31:51,800 --> 00:31:55,480
Speaker 6: now because I'll be turning fifty this year, yes quick,

694
00:31:55,520 --> 00:31:59,120
Speaker 6: And so I'm like, I gotta I mean, were running

695
00:31:59,200 --> 00:32:03,080
Speaker 6: at a all of the replenty, like we're at of eggs, lubrication,

696
00:32:03,120 --> 00:32:05,400
Speaker 6: we're running out all the cartilage.

697
00:32:05,600 --> 00:32:08,480
Speaker 4: We gotta we gotta, we gotta work it well.

698
00:32:08,520 --> 00:32:12,440
Speaker 6: We can't love this so at forty since I already

699
00:32:12,680 --> 00:32:15,480
Speaker 6: started so late and was just in the throes of it,

700
00:32:15,680 --> 00:32:18,120
Speaker 6: just in love with it, I was like, yep, let's go,

701
00:32:18,240 --> 00:32:18,840
Speaker 6: let's do this.

702
00:32:19,040 --> 00:32:21,760
Speaker 4: And now I'm like, okay, I seem to be in this.

703
00:32:21,880 --> 00:32:25,640
Speaker 4: Now you're in it. You're in it, so now what?

704
00:32:25,960 --> 00:32:28,560
Speaker 6: And I am trying to not be a person who

705
00:32:28,640 --> 00:32:31,000
Speaker 6: is like you mentioned Michelle, like in the corner, just

706
00:32:31,040 --> 00:32:33,040
Speaker 6: like I don't know, I'm trying.

707
00:32:32,720 --> 00:32:33,880
Speaker 4: To not be that person.

708
00:32:33,960 --> 00:32:36,800
Speaker 6: That's That's what I've been working on over the past

709
00:32:36,840 --> 00:32:39,680
Speaker 6: couple of years of just like you know, you've stopped

710
00:32:39,680 --> 00:32:42,360
Speaker 6: every other caper that you've started. This is not a caper.

711
00:32:42,480 --> 00:32:45,440
Speaker 6: This is not a scheme, This is not just something

712
00:32:45,480 --> 00:32:46,000
Speaker 6: you're trying.

713
00:32:46,080 --> 00:32:50,520
Speaker 3: You like, you're in no more imposter syndromes, like yeah,

714
00:32:50,560 --> 00:32:53,920
Speaker 3: once we really fake it, Yeah we made then we're like,

715
00:32:53,920 --> 00:32:54,920
Speaker 3: oh fuck, we're making.

716
00:32:54,800 --> 00:32:57,200
Speaker 4: We're making it dope, right.

717
00:32:57,160 --> 00:33:00,880
Speaker 3: And I just I just I love that you're in

718
00:33:00,920 --> 00:33:04,720
Speaker 3: the New York comedy scene. I really do we need

719
00:33:04,760 --> 00:33:07,719
Speaker 3: more voices like you. We need more faces like you. Yeah,

720
00:33:07,800 --> 00:33:10,960
Speaker 3: and also women who fucking say their age.

721
00:33:11,360 --> 00:33:13,320
Speaker 4: Yeah, what are we not doing happen?

722
00:33:13,560 --> 00:33:15,560
Speaker 2: We can bleep that out the fifty thing. We can

723
00:33:15,600 --> 00:33:19,240
Speaker 2: blep that out. It's not wait on, I'm slow.

724
00:33:20,640 --> 00:33:21,320
Speaker 4: Oh my god.

725
00:33:22,080 --> 00:33:23,560
Speaker 2: So let me ask you this though, what was your

726
00:33:23,560 --> 00:33:25,880
Speaker 2: defining moment when you were like, because you said you

727
00:33:25,920 --> 00:33:29,000
Speaker 2: came here at forty you started thirty seven. What happened

728
00:33:29,160 --> 00:33:31,760
Speaker 2: at age thirty seven and you're like, fuck this noise,

729
00:33:31,760 --> 00:33:33,160
Speaker 2: I'm doing this well.

730
00:33:33,240 --> 00:33:36,240
Speaker 4: I had wanted to do stand up since I was fifteen.

731
00:33:36,600 --> 00:33:38,480
Speaker 4: Oh my god, and I.

732
00:33:38,680 --> 00:33:43,240
Speaker 6: Finally it's a little morbid, but I was like, Okay,

733
00:33:43,520 --> 00:33:47,240
Speaker 6: I want to do this. My mother had had a

734
00:33:47,280 --> 00:33:50,440
Speaker 6: serious stroke when she was like forty six, and so

735
00:33:50,480 --> 00:33:53,520
Speaker 6: she was paralyzed like on her right side, and so

736
00:33:53,880 --> 00:33:56,440
Speaker 6: I'm penciling my stroke in at like forty one.

737
00:33:57,000 --> 00:34:00,040
Speaker 4: Let me go ahead and just do comedy once, right.

738
00:34:00,120 --> 00:34:03,000
Speaker 6: So I could say that on some old bucket list

739
00:34:03,320 --> 00:34:05,440
Speaker 6: thing and then I can say that I've done it.

740
00:34:05,960 --> 00:34:08,560
Speaker 4: So I went up and my first set.

741
00:34:08,600 --> 00:34:11,200
Speaker 6: As I was doing it, you know, you disassociate and

742
00:34:11,239 --> 00:34:13,880
Speaker 6: you float above and you watch yourself do it. And

743
00:34:13,920 --> 00:34:16,880
Speaker 6: then I got annoyed because I was like, oh no,

744
00:34:17,040 --> 00:34:18,640
Speaker 6: this is what I have to do for the rest

745
00:34:18,640 --> 00:34:19,080
Speaker 6: of my life.

746
00:34:19,200 --> 00:34:22,040
Speaker 4: Now I got to figure out how to change my life.

747
00:34:22,080 --> 00:34:24,279
Speaker 6: So as I am telling jokes for the first time,

748
00:34:24,320 --> 00:34:27,000
Speaker 6: my brain is also like, so, like, what do we

749
00:34:27,080 --> 00:34:27,440
Speaker 6: do now?

750
00:34:27,640 --> 00:34:29,840
Speaker 4: How how do we do this forever?

751
00:34:30,040 --> 00:34:33,319
Speaker 6: Annoy that was annoyed that I now have to do

752
00:34:33,440 --> 00:34:37,320
Speaker 6: comedy for I had a thing about what like a

753
00:34:37,640 --> 00:34:39,840
Speaker 6: passive aggressive pimps, like.

754
00:34:40,560 --> 00:34:46,080
Speaker 4: You know, just down what's a passive aggressive.

755
00:34:46,080 --> 00:34:50,080
Speaker 6: Just one who's like talking to his employees and it's

756
00:34:50,160 --> 00:34:52,680
Speaker 6: just like, well, I mean I get you know, just

757
00:34:54,680 --> 00:34:57,160
Speaker 6: like you're not going to hit him, but you're just like, oh,

758
00:34:57,239 --> 00:34:59,279
Speaker 6: it seems like other people are able to do it,

759
00:34:59,280 --> 00:34:59,839
Speaker 6: but I mean if.

760
00:34:59,719 --> 00:35:04,360
Speaker 4: You can, you can't work with them. The mother in

761
00:35:04,440 --> 00:35:05,440
Speaker 4: law energy.

762
00:35:06,640 --> 00:35:10,160
Speaker 6: Like that whole thing just kind of goofy things like that.

763
00:35:28,320 --> 00:35:31,200
Speaker 3: Okay, we got some questions from audience members. This is

764
00:35:31,360 --> 00:35:34,840
Speaker 3: very exciting. Oh this is a nerdy one, so perfect

765
00:35:34,880 --> 00:35:35,480
Speaker 3: for you guys.

766
00:35:36,800 --> 00:35:40,200
Speaker 1: We wear glasses, right, I don't guess is actually.

767
00:35:42,360 --> 00:35:44,160
Speaker 4: Your eyes are bad nerve.

768
00:35:45,520 --> 00:35:49,319
Speaker 3: Okay, the question is what's the difference between a four

769
00:35:49,360 --> 00:35:52,400
Speaker 3: oh one K and an IRA which gets me closer

770
00:35:52,440 --> 00:35:53,520
Speaker 3: to early retirement?

771
00:35:54,920 --> 00:35:56,880
Speaker 2: Do you want to take this because maybe you have

772
00:35:56,920 --> 00:35:58,360
Speaker 2: a stronger prescription than that.

773
00:35:58,400 --> 00:36:03,040
Speaker 6: I not, I will say, but they are progressive. So

774
00:36:03,080 --> 00:36:07,440
Speaker 6: I do have two prescriptions. Let's see the IRA. I

775
00:36:07,480 --> 00:36:10,200
Speaker 6: think there's something there with a ros IRA. Both of

776
00:36:10,239 --> 00:36:12,640
Speaker 6: them are things that I have signed up for without

777
00:36:12,719 --> 00:36:13,560
Speaker 6: knowing what they are.

778
00:36:13,960 --> 00:36:17,120
Speaker 4: Right me too, I thought it was IRA the whole time.

779
00:36:17,760 --> 00:36:19,560
Speaker 4: I would love to meet IRA. Yeah.

780
00:36:19,680 --> 00:36:23,640
Speaker 6: Yeah, and uh, if you take money out of the

781
00:36:23,719 --> 00:36:25,800
Speaker 6: four oh one K, you will have to pay taxes

782
00:36:25,840 --> 00:36:26,200
Speaker 6: on it.

783
00:36:26,600 --> 00:36:28,160
Speaker 2: Yes, if you take money out of the four one

784
00:36:28,200 --> 00:36:32,360
Speaker 2: K before and a half years old, yeah yeah, you

785
00:36:32,400 --> 00:36:35,680
Speaker 2: can stand for independent retirement account. But you can take

786
00:36:35,680 --> 00:36:38,399
Speaker 2: money out of your IRA if you're making like your

787
00:36:38,440 --> 00:36:41,120
Speaker 2: first home purchase, Okay, you can take you can do that,

788
00:36:41,440 --> 00:36:43,719
Speaker 2: and then you can also I think borrow against a

789
00:36:43,760 --> 00:36:46,200
Speaker 2: four oh one K for the same purposes, but like

790
00:36:46,360 --> 00:36:49,879
Speaker 2: four one K is it's employer base, so it's your

791
00:36:50,000 --> 00:36:52,600
Speaker 2: it's the company that you work for. It's their retirement

792
00:36:53,000 --> 00:36:55,600
Speaker 2: fun and hopefully they'll match whatever you put in.

793
00:36:56,239 --> 00:36:59,359
Speaker 3: It's a it's a good company, and it probably isn't

794
00:36:59,400 --> 00:37:02,600
Speaker 3: if you're in a mayor Listen, good luck though. My

795
00:37:02,680 --> 00:37:06,040
Speaker 3: husband's from Holland. These motherfuckers take like three month vacation.

796
00:37:06,320 --> 00:37:08,120
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's wild. That is wild.

797
00:37:08,239 --> 00:37:11,120
Speaker 3: Think it a whole year off from eternity, lee, right,

798
00:37:11,440 --> 00:37:13,319
Speaker 3: so they can heal, you know.

799
00:37:13,480 --> 00:37:17,640
Speaker 6: So I'm just like, I have things set up for retirement,

800
00:37:17,680 --> 00:37:21,360
Speaker 6: and yet I also don't actually see myself retire ring.

801
00:37:21,480 --> 00:37:23,920
Speaker 4: Right, you know, you know what I mean. I'm like,

802
00:37:23,960 --> 00:37:26,359
Speaker 4: I don't even know what that world is.

803
00:37:26,680 --> 00:37:31,000
Speaker 6: Like, I literally see myself doing the makeup for my

804
00:37:31,480 --> 00:37:34,640
Speaker 6: Netflix special in the bathroom of my day job, do

805
00:37:34,680 --> 00:37:38,000
Speaker 6: you know, Like that's how I see these kind of things.

806
00:37:38,280 --> 00:37:42,920
Speaker 3: I'm with that Woopy Goldberg, Joan Rivers, Betty White life

807
00:37:43,000 --> 00:37:45,920
Speaker 3: where I want to be an adult diapers hosting SML.

808
00:37:47,760 --> 00:37:51,759
Speaker 3: I want to I definitely as to the bathroom. Yeah, oh,

809
00:37:51,800 --> 00:37:55,240
Speaker 3: this is a fun question. I recently moved to BK. Lately,

810
00:37:55,320 --> 00:37:57,799
Speaker 3: lots of friends and family have wanted to visit I'm

811
00:37:57,800 --> 00:38:00,200
Speaker 3: still new to the city and having a heart time

812
00:38:00,239 --> 00:38:03,239
Speaker 3: figuring out how to best host them, and I want

813
00:38:03,280 --> 00:38:05,200
Speaker 3: to create a dope New York experience.

814
00:38:05,400 --> 00:38:11,640
Speaker 4: P s. Also, I'm black. Can't be done. Then, Oh

815
00:38:12,160 --> 00:38:13,160
Speaker 4: that's impossible.

816
00:38:14,120 --> 00:38:16,680
Speaker 6: She's saying that she was black because we would have

817
00:38:16,719 --> 00:38:20,000
Speaker 6: said just tell them to stay somewhere else, and she's like, well, i'm.

818
00:38:19,800 --> 00:38:23,719
Speaker 4: Black, so take that off the table. I think it's like, right,

819
00:38:23,960 --> 00:38:24,359
Speaker 4: I'm black.

820
00:38:24,400 --> 00:38:26,520
Speaker 3: And then also, I'm going to have a really hard

821
00:38:26,560 --> 00:38:29,200
Speaker 3: time trying to impress them or have anything.

822
00:38:28,880 --> 00:38:30,640
Speaker 4: Be the way that they want it.

823
00:38:30,800 --> 00:38:34,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, show huh the walk and just tell tell you folks,

824
00:38:34,040 --> 00:38:35,200
Speaker 3: they're gonna have to walk.

825
00:38:37,480 --> 00:38:41,680
Speaker 4: Lots of cares. It's okay, it's fine. Tell them they

826
00:38:41,719 --> 00:38:42,600
Speaker 4: won't get murdered.

827
00:38:42,760 --> 00:38:44,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, you can feel it.

828
00:38:44,560 --> 00:38:47,600
Speaker 2: After like three blocks with black family, they're just like,

829
00:38:48,040 --> 00:38:49,760
Speaker 2: where where is MoMA?

830
00:38:49,840 --> 00:38:56,239
Speaker 3: Then yeah, we gotta meet mama.

831
00:38:56,680 --> 00:38:58,799
Speaker 1: Oh we ain't even got the Googenheim.

832
00:38:59,080 --> 00:39:03,800
Speaker 6: Yeah, just explain to them comfortable shoes and say even

833
00:39:03,840 --> 00:39:08,279
Speaker 6: if they don't match, mom, wear the comfortable.

834
00:39:07,760 --> 00:39:09,399
Speaker 4: Shoes, yes, please don't.

835
00:39:09,440 --> 00:39:11,840
Speaker 6: And and those sandals are not just because they're flats

836
00:39:11,880 --> 00:39:12,920
Speaker 6: doesn't mean they're comfortable.

837
00:39:13,640 --> 00:39:16,000
Speaker 4: Two more questions. These are real cute. Okay.

838
00:39:16,080 --> 00:39:19,040
Speaker 3: The first one is if my partner wants to eventually

839
00:39:19,080 --> 00:39:23,239
Speaker 3: move across the country, how do I thoughtfully engage with

840
00:39:23,320 --> 00:39:27,880
Speaker 3: their wants while realistically prioritizing my own goals?

841
00:39:28,400 --> 00:39:28,720
Speaker 4: Oh?

842
00:39:29,640 --> 00:39:30,319
Speaker 6: Okay, so you.

843
00:39:30,360 --> 00:39:32,600
Speaker 4: Don't want to go? Is so you don't want to go?

844
00:39:33,680 --> 00:39:34,120
Speaker 4: I'm hearing.

845
00:39:34,160 --> 00:39:36,279
Speaker 6: What I'm hearing is you don't want to go? How

846
00:39:36,320 --> 00:39:39,640
Speaker 6: do I picking up of a sense of I don't

847
00:39:39,680 --> 00:39:39,960
Speaker 6: want to go.

848
00:39:40,160 --> 00:39:41,920
Speaker 4: I don't want to go? So you don't want to go?

849
00:39:42,080 --> 00:39:46,080
Speaker 4: So how do I? This is my out. It is

850
00:39:46,120 --> 00:39:49,000
Speaker 4: also a side note, right okay?

851
00:39:49,239 --> 00:39:52,440
Speaker 6: So what then you're gonna have to do is decide

852
00:39:52,760 --> 00:39:55,080
Speaker 6: real quickly the thing that you're trying to save.

853
00:39:55,200 --> 00:39:56,759
Speaker 4: What is this thing that you're like?

854
00:39:57,400 --> 00:40:00,400
Speaker 6: Well, I mean, I want to rest the fact that

855
00:40:00,440 --> 00:40:02,839
Speaker 6: you have to leave, But I have this that I'm

856
00:40:02,880 --> 00:40:03,399
Speaker 6: working on.

857
00:40:03,760 --> 00:40:06,800
Speaker 4: What's the this? Have you ever done long distance? No?

858
00:40:07,160 --> 00:40:07,880
Speaker 4: I barely do.

859
00:40:08,680 --> 00:40:13,680
Speaker 6: Next to me, so, oh, my goodness, full of advice

860
00:40:13,719 --> 00:40:14,960
Speaker 6: and I got nothing.

861
00:40:15,160 --> 00:40:17,319
Speaker 3: Uh huh no h I did long distance for two

862
00:40:17,400 --> 00:40:19,759
Speaker 3: years in New York to Amsterdam for my husband with

863
00:40:19,840 --> 00:40:23,120
Speaker 3: my husband with my then boyfriend, because I knew there

864
00:40:23,160 --> 00:40:25,719
Speaker 3: was no other Dick, I want to sit on right, Like,

865
00:40:25,800 --> 00:40:29,640
Speaker 3: I mean, when you know, when you know that's this question,

866
00:40:29,760 --> 00:40:33,560
Speaker 3: isn't I just But for me, what really helps me

867
00:40:34,120 --> 00:40:37,440
Speaker 3: is a pro and con list, like like I actually

868
00:40:37,480 --> 00:40:40,640
Speaker 3: have to write it down and I say this all

869
00:40:40,640 --> 00:40:42,520
Speaker 3: the time. Once I figure out the why, then I

870
00:40:42,640 --> 00:40:45,319
Speaker 3: like kind of have the answers. It's like, why do

871
00:40:45,400 --> 00:40:46,239
Speaker 3: I not want to go?

872
00:40:46,680 --> 00:40:46,799
Speaker 4: Right?

873
00:40:46,960 --> 00:40:51,919
Speaker 3: Wouldn't it be exciting unless you don't want to leave

874
00:40:52,120 --> 00:40:55,400
Speaker 3: your apartment, your goals or be with this person anymore?

875
00:40:55,719 --> 00:40:55,959
Speaker 4: Right?

876
00:40:56,200 --> 00:40:56,359
Speaker 6: Right?

877
00:40:56,760 --> 00:40:58,920
Speaker 2: I feel like this is a very genteel couple and

878
00:40:58,960 --> 00:41:00,520
Speaker 2: I would love to see them mark you.

879
00:41:00,520 --> 00:41:00,680
Speaker 1: You know.

880
00:41:00,960 --> 00:41:03,440
Speaker 2: It feels like they would never just come out and

881
00:41:03,480 --> 00:41:07,920
Speaker 2: be like that. It's just like, yeah, but I'm feeling this.

882
00:41:08,280 --> 00:41:10,160
Speaker 2: I'm feeling that I'm not getting through to you in

883
00:41:10,200 --> 00:41:12,880
Speaker 2: the manner by which I think. They're both customer service

884
00:41:12,920 --> 00:41:16,600
Speaker 2: representatives and they're locked in the ultimate conflict.

885
00:41:16,880 --> 00:41:20,000
Speaker 6: No customer service representatives would yell at each other because

886
00:41:20,040 --> 00:41:22,160
Speaker 6: they have to stay calm for the customers.

887
00:41:25,360 --> 00:41:30,640
Speaker 4: That's why there's always coming home and young at our kids. Yes, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,

888
00:41:30,680 --> 00:41:32,040
Speaker 4: you know, I really feel bad.

889
00:41:32,120 --> 00:41:34,000
Speaker 3: I have a couple of friends, like what you're saying

890
00:41:34,040 --> 00:41:37,160
Speaker 3: where they really can't express how they're feeling because they

891
00:41:37,160 --> 00:41:40,160
Speaker 3: don't want to be the bad guy and hurt each

892
00:41:40,160 --> 00:41:44,120
Speaker 3: other's feelings deliberately. And so they're like their insides are

893
00:41:44,120 --> 00:41:49,040
Speaker 3: literally like burning up because they're like holding it all in, right, yeah,

894
00:41:49,080 --> 00:41:51,880
Speaker 3: and so like we'll just have like a gallon of

895
00:41:51,920 --> 00:41:56,200
Speaker 3: wine or a box of wine and.

896
00:41:54,719 --> 00:41:56,920
Speaker 4: Bring a bucket of.

897
00:41:57,000 --> 00:41:59,160
Speaker 3: Way we all have purple lips and we can finally

898
00:41:59,200 --> 00:42:00,400
Speaker 3: talk about it.

899
00:42:00,400 --> 00:42:04,400
Speaker 4: It's like Game a Trivia was so long. It was

900
00:42:04,560 --> 00:42:05,240
Speaker 4: so long.

901
00:42:06,200 --> 00:42:09,360
Speaker 3: Give the about Jacob, bitch, tell him how you feel.

902
00:42:09,719 --> 00:42:15,040
Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, I think that's it. I think that person

903
00:42:15,200 --> 00:42:19,760
Speaker 6: just has to say, oh no, I don't.

904
00:42:19,600 --> 00:42:21,759
Speaker 4: Know if I want to go, and then see where

905
00:42:21,760 --> 00:42:22,600
Speaker 4: it goes from there.

906
00:42:22,680 --> 00:42:26,640
Speaker 6: I bet you at no point has a person gone.

907
00:42:26,560 --> 00:42:32,480
Speaker 4: I'm doing this. Yeah, we got to own it.

908
00:42:32,760 --> 00:42:36,720
Speaker 3: That person has to happened. Oh, it'll take care of itself.

909
00:42:36,800 --> 00:42:39,120
Speaker 3: Sometimes that happens where it's it's like, oh it didn't

910
00:42:39,120 --> 00:42:41,040
Speaker 3: work out, Okay, I don't even have to like.

911
00:42:41,000 --> 00:42:41,399
Speaker 4: Do a thing.

912
00:42:41,520 --> 00:42:43,640
Speaker 1: Oh, but that is holding it a fart for so long.

913
00:42:43,719 --> 00:42:46,600
Speaker 4: It is hoping wish your If anyone knows what it's

914
00:42:46,640 --> 00:42:50,160
Speaker 4: like to hold the farts me and you're welcome. Guys,

915
00:42:50,200 --> 00:42:53,600
Speaker 4: you're welcome for this whole side of this small room.

916
00:42:53,760 --> 00:42:56,600
Speaker 3: Okay, because I had the sweet potatoes, you.

917
00:42:56,480 --> 00:42:58,960
Speaker 2: Did have the sweet potatoes. Those are ruders and tutors.

918
00:43:02,360 --> 00:43:05,840
Speaker 3: Okay, this is an exciting question. What I love is

919
00:43:05,880 --> 00:43:07,960
Speaker 3: that it seems like a simple question, but it is.

920
00:43:08,320 --> 00:43:10,919
Speaker 3: It really is people needing help.

921
00:43:11,080 --> 00:43:14,880
Speaker 4: Okay, Okay, So here's the question.

922
00:43:15,320 --> 00:43:18,120
Speaker 3: What's one routine I should add to my life to

923
00:43:18,200 --> 00:43:20,920
Speaker 3: make my workday or regular life more exciting and.

924
00:43:20,880 --> 00:43:22,720
Speaker 1: Fruitful, more exciting and fruitful.

925
00:43:22,920 --> 00:43:23,719
Speaker 4: Yeah, and I.

926
00:43:23,640 --> 00:43:27,120
Speaker 3: Get this because you get stuck in the mundane of

927
00:43:27,440 --> 00:43:32,239
Speaker 3: responsibility and what you like child rose, thank you so much,

928
00:43:32,360 --> 00:43:35,279
Speaker 3: and some dried mango slices. But then you want to

929
00:43:35,320 --> 00:43:37,360
Speaker 3: do something fun and new, but you don't want to.

930
00:43:37,480 --> 00:43:39,200
Speaker 3: I don't want to go to a class. I don't

931
00:43:39,239 --> 00:43:41,680
Speaker 3: want to meet new friends. I don't want to have

932
00:43:41,719 --> 00:43:44,120
Speaker 3: to like sign up and let like I could barely

933
00:43:44,160 --> 00:43:47,080
Speaker 3: want to like pay for an app. Sure, so, how

934
00:43:47,120 --> 00:43:49,799
Speaker 3: do you add something to your life to make it

935
00:43:49,840 --> 00:43:50,520
Speaker 3: more fruitful?

936
00:43:50,960 --> 00:43:51,600
Speaker 1: Fruitful?

937
00:43:53,239 --> 00:43:57,840
Speaker 6: Try making a food that you've never had, not just

938
00:43:58,160 --> 00:44:00,880
Speaker 6: ordering it, but actually cooking.

939
00:44:01,120 --> 00:44:05,120
Speaker 3: You got snapped? Can you snapping that mic again.

940
00:44:05,360 --> 00:44:08,720
Speaker 4: Oh, yes, fruit, that makes it fruity.

941
00:44:08,960 --> 00:44:09,920
Speaker 1: Yeah.

942
00:44:10,040 --> 00:44:12,879
Speaker 6: I feel like that that might be it because if

943
00:44:12,920 --> 00:44:16,520
Speaker 6: cooking is your thing, then that's a way to get into.

944
00:44:17,200 --> 00:44:17,439
Speaker 4: Yeah.

945
00:44:17,480 --> 00:44:20,359
Speaker 6: And if it's not your thing, well now we're trying that.

946
00:44:20,480 --> 00:44:24,200
Speaker 6: So even if whatever you cook isn't great, at least

947
00:44:24,200 --> 00:44:25,000
Speaker 6: you tried.

948
00:44:26,400 --> 00:44:27,839
Speaker 1: I find that about cocktails.

949
00:44:32,280 --> 00:44:34,840
Speaker 2: I have a cocktails book, and I love like making

950
00:44:34,840 --> 00:44:35,400
Speaker 2: a newbie.

951
00:44:35,440 --> 00:44:40,800
Speaker 3: You know, my husband froths an egg white stick right off. Wow,

952
00:44:41,160 --> 00:44:47,040
Speaker 3: I'm right, one little gentle like syrup, be cherry cherry thing,

953
00:44:47,760 --> 00:44:49,120
Speaker 3: and I'm gonna pretend.

954
00:44:51,360 --> 00:44:53,120
Speaker 4: Pretended because that's delicious.

955
00:44:53,840 --> 00:44:57,080
Speaker 3: Oh, the little egg white frothy.

956
00:44:57,320 --> 00:44:58,600
Speaker 4: Thank you so much for being here.

957
00:44:58,719 --> 00:45:01,440
Speaker 1: Thank you for having me, are you Yeah? Are you kidding? Like,

958
00:45:01,920 --> 00:45:03,680
Speaker 1: thank you for elevating this show.

959
00:45:04,120 --> 00:45:09,000
Speaker 4: Yeah. It is all gutta all the time.

960
00:45:09,880 --> 00:45:13,440
Speaker 3: I'm talking about egg froths and fucking blow jobs.

961
00:45:13,600 --> 00:45:21,439
Speaker 4: Yeah, and you are just so much. Yeah.

962
00:45:21,640 --> 00:45:25,719
Speaker 3: Go to Shaula's website or listen to her podcast.

963
00:45:28,320 --> 00:45:30,960
Speaker 4: The War Report.

964
00:45:31,160 --> 00:45:34,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, I was just listening to you looking for it.

965
00:45:34,160 --> 00:45:36,359
Speaker 2: I was listening to this episode of the War Report

966
00:45:36,360 --> 00:45:38,560
Speaker 2: where you were talking about how you were when you

967
00:45:38,600 --> 00:45:41,040
Speaker 2: were a kid. You're sick and stay home and you

968
00:45:41,120 --> 00:45:43,080
Speaker 2: just wanted to sleep and that was it. And then

969
00:45:43,200 --> 00:45:45,040
Speaker 2: like you lived across from a bowling alley and a

970
00:45:45,080 --> 00:45:47,560
Speaker 2: grocery store and you was yeah, yeah, it was just

971
00:45:47,680 --> 00:45:51,360
Speaker 2: that made me laugh so much. Were you like a

972
00:45:51,480 --> 00:45:52,840
Speaker 2: grown up when you were six?

973
00:45:53,960 --> 00:45:58,160
Speaker 6: I mean, it's looking like it's looking like from stories

974
00:45:58,400 --> 00:46:02,560
Speaker 6: things that piece together is looking like I've been not

975
00:46:02,600 --> 00:46:08,399
Speaker 6: necessarily an old soul, but definitely a crotchety old man

976
00:46:08,960 --> 00:46:11,920
Speaker 6: like I've definitely been Benjaminities.

977
00:46:12,160 --> 00:46:14,680
Speaker 4: Yeah. I think old souls become young spirits.

978
00:46:15,000 --> 00:46:17,920
Speaker 6: Oh yeah, well then my sister was definitely the old soul,

979
00:46:18,320 --> 00:46:22,640
Speaker 6: whereas I've just stayed crotchety throughout, throughout, throughout, just a

980
00:46:22,760 --> 00:46:26,880
Speaker 6: steady like humph. There's always an element of so funny.

981
00:46:26,960 --> 00:46:30,920
Speaker 3: I don't get crotchety, but I definitely get like stone,

982
00:46:31,239 --> 00:46:33,640
Speaker 3: like the Stone Colt, which I love. But I think

983
00:46:33,640 --> 00:46:35,919
Speaker 3: there's a lot going on under there, and so I'm

984
00:46:35,920 --> 00:46:40,480
Speaker 3: always like, what is it? That's what I love about it.

985
00:46:40,600 --> 00:46:45,359
Speaker 2: Yes, everybody, please go and watch Chile show Bust Down.

986
00:46:45,880 --> 00:46:46,520
Speaker 1: Is it out now?

987
00:46:46,680 --> 00:46:47,200
Speaker 4: It is out?

988
00:46:47,239 --> 00:46:50,960
Speaker 2: It's out, amazing, amazing, can't wait. Can you tell me

989
00:46:51,000 --> 00:46:52,400
Speaker 2: just a little bit about your character before we have

990
00:46:52,400 --> 00:46:52,640
Speaker 2: to go.

991
00:46:52,719 --> 00:46:56,040
Speaker 6: Oh sure, Well it's a show that was put together

992
00:46:56,239 --> 00:47:01,280
Speaker 6: by Langston Kerman, Chris Red, Sam Jay and and it's

993
00:47:01,320 --> 00:47:05,840
Speaker 6: basically just them being extremely silly based in the casino

994
00:47:06,320 --> 00:47:09,640
Speaker 6: in the Midwest, and I'm on an episode.

995
00:47:09,239 --> 00:47:11,840
Speaker 4: Where they are dealing with the homeless.

996
00:47:11,960 --> 00:47:16,040
Speaker 6: Actually wow, so I'm there as one of their former employees.

997
00:47:16,480 --> 00:47:22,240
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, well fantastic's so thank you for fucking coming,

998
00:47:22,440 --> 00:47:23,400
Speaker 3: Thanks for having me.

999
00:47:27,680 --> 00:47:30,440
Speaker 5: I love that so much. Yeah, like what a beautiful

1000
00:47:30,440 --> 00:47:34,759
Speaker 5: ass story. I mean, like I said, very inspiring. Yes,

1001
00:47:35,400 --> 00:47:38,600
Speaker 5: Like I was just like, damn, what's my excuse?

1002
00:47:38,840 --> 00:47:40,920
Speaker 4: You know, No, I mean, you're out here doing it.

1003
00:47:41,160 --> 00:47:41,359
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1004
00:47:41,360 --> 00:47:43,520
Speaker 2: But she's doing she doing it, doing it and yeah yeah.

1005
00:47:43,560 --> 00:47:46,040
Speaker 3: And that's the thing, Like no one's gonna bet on

1006
00:47:46,080 --> 00:47:48,600
Speaker 3: you like you, you know what I mean, Like do

1007
00:47:49,000 --> 00:47:51,240
Speaker 3: fucking you. Don't wait for somebody else.

1008
00:47:51,360 --> 00:47:53,799
Speaker 1: Yep, you know, don't wait, just.

1009
00:47:53,760 --> 00:47:57,080
Speaker 2: Be your own advocate, get out there, do it. I

1010
00:47:57,080 --> 00:47:59,920
Speaker 2: hope people listening today are like, yeah, I'm gonna do

1011
00:48:00,160 --> 00:48:00,759
Speaker 2: I'm gonna do it.

1012
00:48:01,280 --> 00:48:02,920
Speaker 1: Like, get your ass off the couch.

1013
00:48:03,800 --> 00:48:06,440
Speaker 3: Are you gonna give me some Kim Kardashian, don't fucking

1014
00:48:06,520 --> 00:48:10,160
Speaker 3: be lazy, get your ass up and fucking okay.

1015
00:48:09,880 --> 00:48:11,040
Speaker 4: Caim no, but.

1016
00:48:12,600 --> 00:48:15,239
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think it's really important for people to know

1017
00:48:15,360 --> 00:48:18,160
Speaker 3: it doesn't matter how old you are or how much

1018
00:48:18,200 --> 00:48:21,759
Speaker 3: experience you have at something. If you really really love

1019
00:48:21,800 --> 00:48:24,960
Speaker 3: it and you feel the desire to do it, do it.

1020
00:48:25,120 --> 00:48:27,400
Speaker 2: You don't have to tell everybody. You don't need everyone's permission.

1021
00:48:27,719 --> 00:48:29,800
Speaker 2: But it's just the messages that we're getting from society.

1022
00:48:29,880 --> 00:48:31,680
Speaker 2: It's like the twenty under twenty, the thirty under thirty,

1023
00:48:31,680 --> 00:48:32,920
Speaker 2: the forty, you know, like that kind of thing.

1024
00:48:32,960 --> 00:48:34,840
Speaker 1: It's like youth is prized.

1025
00:48:35,040 --> 00:48:35,520
Speaker 4: Yeah.

1026
00:48:35,680 --> 00:48:40,040
Speaker 3: I always say that people love logic. They love the

1027
00:48:40,040 --> 00:48:42,600
Speaker 3: black and white. They love like, well, it's either.

1028
00:48:42,440 --> 00:48:42,960
Speaker 4: This or this.

1029
00:48:43,600 --> 00:48:47,719
Speaker 3: But real love and growth and experience and humanity is

1030
00:48:47,760 --> 00:48:49,480
Speaker 3: the shades of grain between.

1031
00:48:49,480 --> 00:48:52,600
Speaker 2: Oh what you're gonna put it on?

1032
00:48:53,000 --> 00:48:56,200
Speaker 4: I don't know yet, sandwich a magnet. I don't know yet.

1033
00:48:56,520 --> 00:48:57,480
Speaker 1: Oh my god.

1034
00:48:57,600 --> 00:48:59,120
Speaker 3: But I say that all the time because I had

1035
00:48:59,120 --> 00:49:02,239
Speaker 3: a surrogate from my kids. But that doesn't make me

1036
00:49:02,280 --> 00:49:04,560
Speaker 3: any less of their mom.

1037
00:49:04,560 --> 00:49:05,000
Speaker 4: I don't know.

1038
00:49:05,040 --> 00:49:07,120
Speaker 3: You know what, it's not as black and white that

1039
00:49:07,160 --> 00:49:08,560
Speaker 3: you get to have a baby and be a mom.

1040
00:49:08,600 --> 00:49:11,280
Speaker 3: You can be a mom, but without even having kids,

1041
00:49:11,400 --> 00:49:14,719
Speaker 3: you know, you can just take care of people. And

1042
00:49:14,800 --> 00:49:17,799
Speaker 3: so I don't know, I'm just really inspired by SCHILEI wah.

1043
00:49:17,840 --> 00:49:19,560
Speaker 3: And what's so exciting too, is that she's about to

1044
00:49:19,560 --> 00:49:23,759
Speaker 3: turn fifty and she's only getting started. Yeah, right, Like

1045
00:49:23,840 --> 00:49:26,400
Speaker 3: that's the fucking dope part. Like I can see it.

1046
00:49:26,400 --> 00:49:28,640
Speaker 3: It's like real fucking fun to watch.

1047
00:49:29,360 --> 00:49:34,080
Speaker 2: So let's ask h this which is which is kind

1048
00:49:34,080 --> 00:49:36,400
Speaker 2: of our wrap up portion of the evening.

1049
00:49:36,600 --> 00:49:38,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, what's been your rose? What's been your throne? What's

1050
00:49:38,560 --> 00:49:39,080
Speaker 1: been your bud?

1051
00:49:39,400 --> 00:49:41,719
Speaker 4: Rose? Thorns, buds? You go, you go?

1052
00:49:41,880 --> 00:49:46,240
Speaker 2: Okay, cool, let's see I'll start with Rose.

1053
00:49:46,680 --> 00:49:47,520
Speaker 4: Rose? Was that?

1054
00:49:47,600 --> 00:49:49,239
Speaker 2: And maybe this is a little selfish, but I got

1055
00:49:49,239 --> 00:49:52,840
Speaker 2: my first, really, my first offer on something that I

1056
00:49:52,840 --> 00:49:54,080
Speaker 2: didn't ever audition for.

1057
00:49:54,520 --> 00:49:56,799
Speaker 4: Nice is a good feeling, right, that's a really.

1058
00:49:56,520 --> 00:49:58,080
Speaker 2: I was like, I had to read the email a

1059
00:49:58,080 --> 00:50:00,080
Speaker 2: couple of times. It's like, are you are you sure?

1060
00:50:00,200 --> 00:50:00,640
Speaker 4: Are you sure?

1061
00:50:00,719 --> 00:50:00,919
Speaker 1: Wait?

1062
00:50:01,120 --> 00:50:01,520
Speaker 4: This is art?

1063
00:50:01,560 --> 00:50:03,920
Speaker 3: What do you remember what I told you at the

1064
00:50:04,000 --> 00:50:08,000
Speaker 3: Ponce Dellion situation when we were having an overpriced pretzel.

1065
00:50:07,680 --> 00:50:09,480
Speaker 4: When you told me you're doing the AMC show.

1066
00:50:09,320 --> 00:50:12,200
Speaker 1: And I cried, Yes, I remember that so well because.

1067
00:50:11,960 --> 00:50:13,920
Speaker 4: I knew it was happening. Oh, well, what.

1068
00:50:13,960 --> 00:50:16,400
Speaker 1: Was happening that I was becoming something?

1069
00:50:18,120 --> 00:50:21,040
Speaker 3: You are always something, but now people are starting to

1070
00:50:21,120 --> 00:50:21,879
Speaker 3: recognize it.

1071
00:50:21,960 --> 00:50:25,160
Speaker 2: Oh that's so sweet, You're so sweet. No shit thorn

1072
00:50:25,480 --> 00:50:30,400
Speaker 2: this week, haven't had one yet and oh you can

1073
00:50:30,480 --> 00:50:32,799
Speaker 2: just skip it. No, I haven't had I really haven't

1074
00:50:32,840 --> 00:50:35,720
Speaker 2: had one it yet. There hasn't been like a down spot. Yeah,

1075
00:50:35,719 --> 00:50:38,560
Speaker 2: but we're only halfway through the week, and I guess

1076
00:50:38,960 --> 00:50:42,360
Speaker 2: one to grow on is just and it always remains.

1077
00:50:42,400 --> 00:50:44,920
Speaker 1: This is being more organized.

1078
00:50:45,239 --> 00:50:48,280
Speaker 2: Just being more organized, being more responsible for my things, yeah,

1079
00:50:48,320 --> 00:50:51,640
Speaker 2: and really looking out for myself at night. My mornings

1080
00:50:51,680 --> 00:50:54,080
Speaker 2: go really well, but my night prep I make excuses

1081
00:50:54,080 --> 00:50:55,399
Speaker 2: as to why I shouldn't, like.

1082
00:50:55,640 --> 00:50:59,440
Speaker 1: Why charge your phone, why wash my face? Why do anything?

1083
00:50:59,520 --> 00:50:59,719
Speaker 4: You know?

1084
00:51:00,320 --> 00:51:02,080
Speaker 3: That's me and eating at the end of the day,

1085
00:51:02,239 --> 00:51:04,560
Speaker 3: Like I'm so good for the first half of the day,

1086
00:51:04,760 --> 00:51:07,040
Speaker 3: and then when I just get home, I'm like, hell, yeah,

1087
00:51:07,120 --> 00:51:08,680
Speaker 3: I just need to stuff whatever I can in my

1088
00:51:08,680 --> 00:51:09,399
Speaker 3: face and go to bed.

1089
00:51:09,400 --> 00:51:11,240
Speaker 1: You ever taken a little bit of chocolate and peanut

1090
00:51:11,280 --> 00:51:12,080
Speaker 1: butter and just throw that.

1091
00:51:12,239 --> 00:51:13,879
Speaker 4: Wait, yeah, and put it on top of ice cream?

1092
00:51:13,880 --> 00:51:16,680
Speaker 4: Who the fuck are you talking a bit? Who the

1093
00:51:16,719 --> 00:51:18,680
Speaker 4: fuck are you talking to? I don't wear anything with

1094
00:51:18,760 --> 00:51:21,440
Speaker 4: zippers anymore. This is a coat. There's no buttons or.

1095
00:51:21,440 --> 00:51:28,319
Speaker 3: Zippers, but rose, thorns and bud you know, I have

1096
00:51:28,880 --> 00:51:32,200
Speaker 3: They call these three year olds now they're so sassy

1097
00:51:32,680 --> 00:51:33,120
Speaker 3: and grown.

1098
00:51:33,160 --> 00:51:34,240
Speaker 4: They call them three najors.

1099
00:51:35,840 --> 00:51:38,439
Speaker 3: So I have a couple of three majors, y'all, and

1100
00:51:38,840 --> 00:51:43,640
Speaker 3: just a whole ass opinion. And what about what just

1101
00:51:43,760 --> 00:51:47,719
Speaker 3: everything's all everything just ice age or blue ey or

1102
00:51:47,760 --> 00:51:51,960
Speaker 3: I don't want to wear these socks or don't touch me, mama,

1103
00:51:52,080 --> 00:51:54,760
Speaker 3: I don't like that. Don't don't do my hair uh

1104
00:51:55,520 --> 00:51:59,600
Speaker 3: or cut my nails, like all over the plane. Their

1105
00:51:59,640 --> 00:52:02,240
Speaker 3: cute litt a cute little mouths all over the place,

1106
00:52:02,880 --> 00:52:07,520
Speaker 3: and so no, I don't except my rose is that

1107
00:52:08,000 --> 00:52:10,720
Speaker 3: they I see their little minds developing and they're becoming

1108
00:52:10,719 --> 00:52:14,400
Speaker 3: so independent and wonderful and juicy and yummy. And my

1109
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Speaker 3: thorn is that I lost my temper in the car

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Speaker 3: because they learned how to open the door that.

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Speaker 4: The black mom at a target came out.

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Speaker 3: I was like, don't you can't ship, don't do that

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Speaker 3: shit that's dangerous.

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Speaker 4: I was like goo ga ga good.

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Speaker 3: And then I'm like, please don't do that because but

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Speaker 3: I already saw them just so disappointed with me, and

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Speaker 3: they shut down and I just pickme up from daycare

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Speaker 3: and we were all so happy to see each other,

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Speaker 3: and they just like try to open the door, and

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Speaker 3: they were proud of themselves for opening the door. But

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Speaker 3: I also was like in the middle of a fucking

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Speaker 3: road and was on the freeway. No, no freeway, it

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Speaker 3: was a back road.

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Speaker 1: But still do that.

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Speaker 3: So I apologized to them. It was the first time

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Speaker 3: I had to apologize to them. Wow, because they understood

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Speaker 3: that I did something bad.

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Speaker 2: Can I ask you a question, please, did your parents

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Speaker 2: ever apologize to you when they got uprest?

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Speaker 5: Oh?

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Speaker 2: Then that's a really cool thing because my parents ever

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Speaker 2: apologized to me when they get upset, And I think, uh,

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Speaker 2: breaking that cycle is It's really important, especially when you

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Speaker 2: don't have any examples.

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Speaker 4: Be the change you want to see. I know that

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00:53:22,760 --> 00:53:25,239
Speaker 4: sounds so hashtaggy.

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Speaker 1: But that's kindy.

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Speaker 4: It's true.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but everything everyone livesing hashtags and like T shirts

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00:53:30,320 --> 00:53:37,600
Speaker 3: and topeggs. You're like, yeah, hashtag, I know, but it's true.

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00:53:38,320 --> 00:53:41,160
Speaker 3: You really just treat people how you want to be treated,

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Speaker 3: even if those people are your people and they're little people.

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Speaker 3: Because I don't want them going around yelling at people

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Speaker 3: for no reason, losing their temper and they're all gonna

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Speaker 3: they're already gonna do that because they live in New York,

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Speaker 3: I know.

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Speaker 4: And so the bud is that we are growing together. Hey,

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Speaker 4: you and the kid.

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Speaker 3: Oh for Fox you guys, thank you so much for

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Speaker 3: listening to our show. We appreciate you, We love you.

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Speaker 3: We don't know who the fuck you are.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, if you guys have any donations that you want

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Speaker 2: sitting with, didn't I almost feel.

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00:54:12,800 --> 00:54:15,680
Speaker 1: That like that, like like we're brought to you by donation.

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Speaker 4: I know who wants some coffee beans? Anyways. Yeah, take

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Speaker 4: care of yourself, but don't forget to wash, Like especially,

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Speaker 4: just check.

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Speaker 3: Under your fucking fingernails, people, like, just look under your fingernails,

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Speaker 3: look behind your ears, looking, this is your assignment. Everyone,

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Speaker 3: Look in those crevices, okay, like what we do in

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Speaker 3: the shadows type shit on your body.

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Speaker 4: Just do that because yuck. That's all. That's all.

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Speaker 3: I gotta go, bye bye.

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Speaker 1: This has been an exactly right production.

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Speaker 4: Our senior producer is Natalie Wrinn. Senior Managing producer is

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Speaker 4: Hannah Kyle Kriton. This episode was sound designed and mixed

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Speaker 4: by Andrew Eapen and engineered by Ryobam. Our guest booker

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Speaker 4: is Patrick Cotner. Our theme song is by dj on Will.

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Speaker 4: Photography by Chris Spender, most.

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Speaker 1: Artwork by Jamie Bechtel.

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Speaker 3: Executive produced by Karen Kilgarriff, Georgia Harstark, and Danielle Kramer.

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Speaker 4: Follow the show on Instagram at Adulting the Pot.

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Speaker 3: Email your questions to Adulting Questions at gmail dot com

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Speaker 3: mm HM