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Speaker 1: Second Date up Date. The girl on the phone for
Speaker 1: a second date Update today is shocked that a guy
Speaker 1: is not calling her back after he went on a
Speaker 1: date with her. Why because, in her own words, according
Speaker 1: to her email, she has never been blown off by
Speaker 1: a guy everhy and that's why they call her sure thing, Amanda,
Speaker 1: sure thing. Amanda is on the phone with us. What's up?
Speaker 1: Sure Thing. I don't think that's Oh, she's fine with it. Okay,
Speaker 1: Do they actually call you that? I just made that up? No,
Speaker 1: but I'm fine with it. Okay, okay, all right, Well
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna call your shirt thing from now on.
Speaker 1: So you said that this is the first time you've
Speaker 1: ever been blown off by a guy and not gotten
Speaker 1: a second date. Yep, is the first time. How is
Speaker 1: that possible, That's what I'm saying. I don't know how
Speaker 1: it's possible that I met my half. You've never been
Speaker 1: blown up. I don't know. I just never had that
Speaker 1: happen to me before. So this mused to be a
Speaker 1: very confusing time in your life, and I'm sorry about that. Amanda,
Speaker 1: tell us a little bit about the guy that you
Speaker 1: want us to call today. What's his name? His name
Speaker 1: is Jimmy. Okay, Jimmy. So, uh, this is this story.
Speaker 1: So one morning I was getting coffee before work and
Speaker 1: I left the shop and some guy you know, ran
Speaker 1: outside after me and he was like, you forgot this.
Speaker 1: And I turned around and he had a comb in
Speaker 1: his hand and I was like, what, that's not mine
Speaker 1: and he was like, I know, I know, I just
Speaker 1: needed something to get your attention. I just wanted to
Speaker 1: talk to you. Oh okay, So it was a little
Speaker 1: trick to try to talk to you. So he showed
Speaker 1: you his dirty, bacteria written comb that he had in
Speaker 1: his pocket. Well, I thought it was funny, you know,
Speaker 1: you know clever whatever are you? Someone who often gets
Speaker 1: chased down in parking lots for dates? Not chased down?
Speaker 1: But you know guys asked me out? Yeah, so you know,
Speaker 1: we got to talking and he seems cool and yeah,
Speaker 1: that's when he asked me to hang out and I said, well,
Speaker 1: I have work right now, m but he asked for
Speaker 1: my number, so I gave it to him, and we
Speaker 1: texted for a few days and Facebook team, you know,
Speaker 1: did the background shack all that. Yeah, right, so you
Speaker 1: did your due diligence to find out if he's a
Speaker 1: perv or not. Right exactly. So he seemed cool. So
Speaker 1: we set a time to you know, hang out for
Speaker 1: date and we went to dinner. How was dinner? Was
Speaker 1: everything cool? Well, everything was good, except for one part
Speaker 1: that was a little bit weird. Um. I told him
Speaker 1: I used to be a dancer. That's what I'm talking about.
Speaker 1: Called back that kind of dnswer I danced for a
Speaker 1: sports team, and I could dance for a sports team.
Speaker 1: Oh I still, let's not quite the caliber of dancer
Speaker 1: I was hoping for. That's what I was gonna say.
Speaker 1: Maybe he's not calling you back because you're not that
Speaker 1: kind of dance. Well, when I told him, he got
Speaker 1: this weird look after I said it, kind of like
Speaker 1: you guys did when I told you for the first time.
Speaker 1: It's understandable that when oh no, no, not that type
Speaker 1: of dancer I used to dance for at fourteen. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but then he seems skeptical, like he didn't really believe me.
Speaker 1: So I don't know, maybe he thought I was covering
Speaker 1: up that I really was that kind of dancer. Is
Speaker 1: that why you think he's not calling you back? Because
Speaker 1: because he thinks you're a stripper. I don't know. It
Speaker 1: could be. It's the only thing I can think of.
Speaker 1: Are you insulted that a man thinks that you are
Speaker 1: a stripper? No? I mean I told him the truth.
Speaker 1: Can I ask you a question, Amanda? Yeah, you don't
Speaker 1: sound like you're really that into this guy. Do you
Speaker 1: want to just do a second date? Update because he's
Speaker 1: the only guy never to call you back? Kind of? Yeah?
Speaker 1: I don't blame that's fine. I am all four of that.
Speaker 1: It's weird when somebody doesn't, you know, call you back
Speaker 1: after a date. Yeah. I mean I don't even need
Speaker 1: a second date. I just want to know why he
Speaker 1: called me. I mean, is that okay that I still
Speaker 1: do this? Yeah? Absolutely it is. Why don't you tell
Speaker 1: us how everything ended with him? Well, he gave me
Speaker 1: a kiss on the cheek and we went our separate ways.
Speaker 1: Did you make any plans for a future date? No,
Speaker 1: he said, you know, I'll call you. Have you tried
Speaker 1: texting him? No? I haven't texted him. Oh yeah, you'd
Speaker 1: never do something like that. Well, I'm waiting for him
Speaker 1: to text me. But maybe I mean, maybe he just
Speaker 1: cut onto the fact that you're not really that interested
Speaker 1: in him, and so he thought why I even put
Speaker 1: the energy in. I don't care. I just want to
Speaker 1: know why you're not calling you that. Okay, how long
Speaker 1: has it been then since your date? Since you haven't
Speaker 1: reached out to him. You're just waiting for him to call.
Speaker 1: It hasn't been like a day or anything, has it. No,
Speaker 1: it's done like two weeks. Okay, Yeah, that's an official
Speaker 1: blow off. Then. Yeah, this is the first time this
Speaker 1: has ever happened to me and I can't figure it out. Okay, Well,
Speaker 1: we'll play a song, come back, call him and get
Speaker 1: your second date update. All right? Okay, Yeah, you're welcome,
Speaker 1: hanging ladies and gentlemen. Welcome to the stage. Amanda. Yeah,
Speaker 1: Rita Fellas, she's working for you. She wants a second
Speaker 1: date update because the guys she went out with won't
Speaker 1: call her back and she is so upset and she's
Speaker 1: about to take it out for everybody to see. Get
Speaker 1: your ones out, Amanda's taking center stage. You're gonna show
Speaker 1: us how a second date update is really done. Isn't
Speaker 1: that right, Amanda? Yeah, why am I introwing Amanda like that? Well,
Speaker 1: because she's a dancer. Unfortunately, she's not that kind of dancer.
Speaker 1: But she thinks that the guy isn't calling her back
Speaker 1: because during their date, she was like, I'm a dancer,
Speaker 1: and then he gave her a weird look like you
Speaker 1: always hear when somebody just says they're a dancer. You're like,
Speaker 1: I know what that means. And then she explained that
Speaker 1: she wasn't that kind of dancer. But she feels like
Speaker 1: maybe he didn't believe her. That's the only thing she
Speaker 1: can think of as to why he wouldn't be calling
Speaker 1: her back. She did also say that she's never been
Speaker 1: blown off by a guy before. Ever, this is the
Speaker 1: first guy never to call her and ask for a
Speaker 1: second date, and that's more important to her than even
Speaker 1: getting the second date. She just wants to know why
Speaker 1: this is the one guy who wouldn't call her back. Amanda. Yep,
Speaker 1: you're ready to get this thing going. I'm ready and
Speaker 1: is always ready. She lives by the matter. If you
Speaker 1: stay ready, you ain't got to get ready, and we're
Speaker 1: ready for some hot second date action. You've been moonlighting
Speaker 1: as a strip club DJ. Haven't you I want that
Speaker 1: job so bad? Okay, sorry, Brooke, you were saying something
Speaker 1: to him before I started the music. Yeah, I mean,
Speaker 1: if it comes back that maybe he's just been out
Speaker 1: of town for the last two weeks and there's a
Speaker 1: totally reasonable explanation. Were you actually going to turn him
Speaker 1: down at that point? I don't all. I mean, I
Speaker 1: guess we'll see how it goes. You sound actually pissed
Speaker 1: that this guy's not calling you back. I am. I
Speaker 1: just want to know, of all the guys that I've dated,
Speaker 1: why is it this guy that's not calling you back?
Speaker 1: What reason does he have? Well, I'm gonna dial the
Speaker 1: phone of her right now and get him on the
Speaker 1: phone and see if we can find out why. Okay,
Speaker 1: sound good? Hi? Can I speak to Jimmy please? Yeah?
Speaker 1: This is Jimmy. Hey, Jimmy, how are you? This is
Speaker 1: Jewil from Brook and Jewil in the Morning. Jebil from
Speaker 1: Brook and Jewil in the Morning, the radio program. Why
Speaker 1: is a radio program calling me? Well, because one of
Speaker 1: our listeners actually emailed us and asked if we could
Speaker 1: get you on the phone. Her name is Amanda, and
Speaker 1: you recently took her out on a date. Okay, So
Speaker 1: Amanda emailed us and told us about your date, and
Speaker 1: she also said she really liked you a lot and
Speaker 1: she's one why you're not calling her back? She said,
Speaker 1: it's been like two weeks since you guys went out.
Speaker 1: She's been hoping you would call to ask her on
Speaker 1: a second date, but she's heard nothing, and she's wondering,
Speaker 1: is there whoa she did? I said, I bet she did.
Speaker 1: Why do you say it like that? Well, Amanda is uh,
Speaker 1: uh boy, Amanda's uh, she's something else. Um. We talked
Speaker 1: to her just to let you know. We talked to her.
Speaker 1: She told us about meeting you. I thought it was
Speaker 1: really cool the way she didn't sound like anything that
Speaker 1: I mean you. I think she's a real pisser on
Speaker 1: the air. Sure, what do you mean by that? Like
Speaker 1: she had a like problem? It's a nightmare. She's a nightmare.
Speaker 1: Did you say she's a nightmare? She was a nightmare?
Speaker 1: Why is she a nightmare? What? What'd she tell you?
Speaker 1: You just said you guys went out to dinner and
Speaker 1: had some good conversation, ended the date with a kiss
Speaker 1: on the cheek, and she was hoping to hear from
Speaker 1: you again, that's it pretty much it. Yeah, Well let's look, okay,
Speaker 1: Amanda is a very attractive woman. But I could tell
Speaker 1: everything about her from her food order. What do you mean, like,
Speaker 1: she's a vegetarian and you just can't stand those people
Speaker 1: like I feel the same. Oh, it's a lot worse
Speaker 1: than that. Okay, well what could be worse? What did
Speaker 1: she do just ordering food that pissed you off enough
Speaker 1: to like call her a pisser or whatever thing. Let
Speaker 1: me give you a blow by blow description. She started
Speaker 1: off by asking for bottled water, no ice, and he
Speaker 1: couldn't be taught water. She explained all this to the waiter.
Speaker 1: Why is that so offensive to you? Though? Oh, that's
Speaker 1: not offensive. That was just the opening salvo, all right.
Speaker 1: It got worse from there. Then she explained that she
Speaker 1: had certain dietary restrictions. Didn't eat any red meat okay,
Speaker 1: no glue, no dairy, No fish that swim. What but
Speaker 1: fish that swim? You know, yeah, let that sink in.
Speaker 1: So no no dairy, no fish that swim. She's a
Speaker 1: picky eater, obviously. Yeah. I even asked her, I said,
Speaker 1: what do you mean fish that swim? Oh? So she
Speaker 1: made this little wavy motion with their hand. You know,
Speaker 1: fish that swim? I said, yeah, I know, fish that swim.
Speaker 1: Don't off fish swim? No, No, you know there's some
Speaker 1: little fish that walk around You're like, like shrimp, lobsters,
Speaker 1: anything with little ditty legs are okay? Is that just
Speaker 1: because she has like an allergy or something? So who knows?
Speaker 1: I thought you were just I thought you were just
Speaker 1: saying it like as a figure of speech when you
Speaker 1: were talking fish that swims. I didn't realize that was
Speaker 1: the exact words that came out of her mood. She
Speaker 1: actually said fish that swim. You know. I was gonna
Speaker 1: just take it at face value, but she went on
Speaker 1: to explain to me that fish that swim have a
Speaker 1: higher lucury content, and so if you eat fish that swim,
Speaker 1: you're slowly killing yourself. He sounds really upset about this.
Speaker 1: I wanted to eat a whole fish right then? Okay,
Speaker 1: so is it all right? So she's a picky eater.
Speaker 1: I've never heard the fish that swim thing? Before? Why
Speaker 1: not either? Why not go out with her on a
Speaker 1: second date? Though? Is that the only bad thing? Wasn't
Speaker 1: that a nerve? I don't know. I mean it was
Speaker 1: high maintenance. Okay, it's a high maintenance issue. Can I
Speaker 1: ask as I'm just curious what did she end up
Speaker 1: ordering for dinner. I don't know, some sort of salad
Speaker 1: water dressing, you know, something about her with water dressing.
Speaker 1: So we'd talk to her about your date, and she
Speaker 1: didn't mention her dietary restrictions. But she did also say,
Speaker 1: you're the only guy that has ever not called her
Speaker 1: back for a second date. You know that. Yeah, that's
Speaker 1: kind of hard for me to believe. I can't imagine
Speaker 1: all the other guys in her life have put up
Speaker 1: with that. Oh my gosh. You know what, Jimmy, thank
Speaker 1: you for being honest with us. Man, I appreciate it,
Speaker 1: no problem. And now I feel like I must be
Speaker 1: honest with you because Amanda is actually on the other
Speaker 1: line listening to this conversation. Yeah, I am here, and
Speaker 1: I'm hearing what you're saying about me. Hey, Amanda, I
Speaker 1: care about what goes in my body, and obviously you
Speaker 1: don't know I was caring about what went in your
Speaker 1: body in a completely different way. Thank you for taking
Speaker 1: the words out of my mouth, Jimmy. I was hoping
Speaker 1: I didn't have to make that joke. You're sure, Jimmy,
Speaker 1: I will say, to stand up for her. What do
Speaker 1: you expect the hottest girl you've ever seen to then
Speaker 1: go down a cheeseburger? Can't you have that body that
Speaker 1: she probably has and also mowed down on cheese fries
Speaker 1: all the time. Look, I wish you ever heard the phrase,
Speaker 1: no matter how hot she is, there's some good they're
Speaker 1: just tired of hers. Yes, your information. I didn't even
Speaker 1: want a second date. I literally just wanted this to happen,
Speaker 1: to find out why you didn't call me back, why
Speaker 1: you were such a jerk. Obviously, I thoughtest girl that
Speaker 1: you've ever gone out with, So that's for you. Look,
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. You're very hot, okay, but and
Speaker 1: I totally sleep with you want, But I just don't
Speaker 1: want to eat. That leads me to my question, Jimmy,
Speaker 1: would you like to go on a second date with Amanda?
Speaker 1: There will be no eating you, Okay. I was gonna
Speaker 1: say you guys, I would pay for you guys to
Speaker 1: go to dinner, but you don't even have to do that.
Speaker 1: You can just sleep together once. I'm not interested either, Amanda.
Speaker 1: Huh No, I'm not Yeah, you're not missing out there,
Speaker 1: Amanda whatsoever. Clearly, you know what, You're just a low
Speaker 1: class jerk and you obviously can't handle a woman like me.
Speaker 1: I don't want to handle a woman like you. I'd
Speaker 1: rather handle a woman that eats fish that swim, And
Speaker 1: by the way, I don't care what you think all
Speaker 1: fish swim. Well, this was definitely not a successful second
Speaker 1: date update, but we can try to answer the question
Speaker 1: our text messag board seven eight five nine two Do
Speaker 1: all fish swim? Text it in. There's something way more
Speaker 1: important going on now. Now. There's just a big debate
Speaker 1: on the text message board at seven eight five nine
Speaker 1: to two about if fish swim or not if there
Speaker 1: are a fish that don't swim. A lot of people
Speaker 1: are saying dead fish don't swim, they float. That's very true.
Speaker 1: I don't say starfish don't swim. We're talking about it
Speaker 1: because of the second date update. If you missed today
Speaker 1: second day update, this girl named Amanda went out with
Speaker 1: a dude named Jimmy and there was a weird moment
Speaker 1: on the date where she told him that she was
Speaker 1: a dancer and he gave her a weird look because
Speaker 1: she thought maybe he thought she was a special kind
Speaker 1: of dancer, but she's not that kind of dancer. She
Speaker 1: thought he might have gotten the wrong idea, though, and
Speaker 1: that's why he wasn't calling back. But we got him
Speaker 1: on the phone, and Jimmy said he was turned off
Speaker 1: by her picky food ordering. She asked for no gluten,
Speaker 1: no dairy, and no fish that swim. There's a lot
Speaker 1: of there's a crustacean battle that's happening right now. Yeah,
Speaker 1: if it doesn't swim, it's a crustation according to a
Speaker 1: lot of people. But since like lobsters, they swim, they
Speaker 1: can just push themselves along kind of. Apparently she only
Speaker 1: eats sea creatures with legs, shrimps, lobsters, things like that
Speaker 1: that don't swim. But I will not eat any fish
Speaker 1: that swim. And Jimmy thought she was just too high
Speaker 1: maintenance and did not want another date with her. And
Speaker 1: you know, he's googling a lot of things about fish
Speaker 1: right now, like when I mean, is she even right?
Speaker 1: Like what's happening with ye fish? And I understand that,
Speaker 1: you know, not wanted to go with someone who's that
Speaker 1: picky of an eater. You can't ever go anywhere, or
Speaker 1: if you do go where, it's just like she's going
Speaker 1: to order a salad, yeah every single time? Well she should, right, Like,
Speaker 1: if she's that piggy, then that's what you stick to.
Speaker 1: Somebody texted in says, starfish actually do swim, but our
Speaker 1: starfish considered fish or are they considered like are they
Speaker 1: a crustacean? Fish in the name? But I think that
Speaker 1: there's a lot of things with fish in the name
Speaker 1: that doesn't make that doesn't make it a fish. What
Speaker 1: do you mean we are so scientific? It's like, how
Speaker 1: are we not on natural right now? Shrimp do swim,
Speaker 1: so the conversation. But I don't think lobsters and shrimp
Speaker 1: or fish. Does a crustacean count as a fish if
Speaker 1: it lives in the sea, I don't think so. I
Speaker 1: think a fish and a crustacean are different. I don't
Speaker 1: know anyway. All I know is that today's second day
Speaker 1: update has opened up a whole discussion that I think
Speaker 1: is very important and that we need to have. Remember,
Speaker 1: if you want to do a second date update, all
Speaker 1: you have to do is email the show and we
Speaker 1: will call the person that didn't call you back