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Speaker 1: You're listening to the voice, Come on dig me now,

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Speaker 1: one and only. Steve Harvey got a radio show. Oh man,

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey got a radio show because God. Because God

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Speaker 1: is simply amazing. Because God is off the chain, because

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Speaker 1: will take you places that you never ever thought you

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Speaker 1: they and I hear people say, you know, always dreamed

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Speaker 1: Did you really think you was gonna make it? Then?

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Speaker 1: So so so, since you're talking about this is what

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Speaker 1: That's why I try. I try to give people understand

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Speaker 1: You know what, I won't knop sending them here here

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Speaker 1: I got exactly what you want, But I got this process.

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Speaker 1: You don't even know it. That's why I said every morning,

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Speaker 1: Sometimes you're gonna have to do some things you don't

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Speaker 1: Steve told you that about that. If you don't do

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Speaker 1: I didn't. I didn't want to cross, I didn't want

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Speaker 1: spade game up, baby and learn how the big joke

424
00:24:47,480 --> 00:24:53,480
Speaker 1: of a little joke. Yeah, yeah, See I don't want

425
00:24:55,680 --> 00:24:58,359
Speaker 1: I don't want to. I don't want to reniggle. I

426
00:24:58,480 --> 00:25:03,920
Speaker 1: don't tell you. That's exactly what it mean you about

427
00:25:04,920 --> 00:25:07,600
Speaker 1: you worried about this hug. You just can't play space

428
00:25:07,840 --> 00:25:10,600
Speaker 1: with this ten me. Oh you're a good girlfriend, but

429
00:25:10,760 --> 00:25:13,440
Speaker 1: space on it now. Your best friend can play that

430
00:25:13,600 --> 00:25:15,960
Speaker 1: what you want? You want somebody who throwing these cars

431
00:25:15,960 --> 00:25:18,800
Speaker 1: out here? You over there with you? Over there with

432
00:25:18,880 --> 00:25:21,080
Speaker 1: the Ace King Queen a heart and live with the

433
00:25:21,480 --> 00:25:26,440
Speaker 1: deuce a heart? What's wrong with you? Shoot? He had that?

434
00:25:27,000 --> 00:25:29,040
Speaker 1: You know I ain't got no hearts? What did you do?

435
00:25:33,040 --> 00:25:35,080
Speaker 1: People are serious about their card. Let me tell you

436
00:25:35,160 --> 00:25:37,440
Speaker 1: when black people get mad at space when when you

437
00:25:37,600 --> 00:25:39,760
Speaker 1: lead and we lose three books in a row. Okay,

438
00:25:39,840 --> 00:25:42,480
Speaker 1: now you're the first. Okay, now that's the first. Okay.

439
00:25:42,560 --> 00:25:45,520
Speaker 1: One question, one question. This is a little sidebar. What

440
00:25:45,640 --> 00:25:47,680
Speaker 1: does it mean when you put the card on your forehead?

441
00:25:47,960 --> 00:25:50,480
Speaker 1: Get ready? What does that mean? Get ready? You're ready

442
00:25:51,000 --> 00:25:52,879
Speaker 1: because it ain't nobody going to beat this book. This

443
00:25:53,280 --> 00:25:58,720
Speaker 1: last book is out. This is the victory. Okay, you

444
00:25:58,840 --> 00:26:01,520
Speaker 1: pick that card and stick it on your foehead. Oh yeah, baby,

445
00:26:01,560 --> 00:26:04,280
Speaker 1: this is it. I thought it just been she had

446
00:26:04,320 --> 00:26:10,399
Speaker 1: a greasy forehead. All right, Carmen and Merman and Denver says,

447
00:26:10,880 --> 00:26:13,400
Speaker 1: I'm a forty two year old divorced woman. The man

448
00:26:13,520 --> 00:26:16,480
Speaker 1: i'm dating told me had told me that he likes

449
00:26:16,520 --> 00:26:21,280
Speaker 1: to swing occasionally, but he wants to do it every weekend. Um, first,

450
00:26:21,320 --> 00:26:24,639
Speaker 1: he said occasionally, Um, he loves watching me with others.

451
00:26:24,720 --> 00:26:29,840
Speaker 1: And do you think he's capable of having monogamous monogamous relationship? Wait?

452
00:26:29,920 --> 00:26:32,359
Speaker 1: Wait wait wait wait wait, he liked watching you with others,

453
00:26:32,440 --> 00:26:36,480
Speaker 1: So yeah, swing occasionally, but now he's doing it every

454
00:26:36,520 --> 00:26:40,240
Speaker 1: weekend and he likes watching her with others. Okay, so

455
00:26:40,359 --> 00:26:43,200
Speaker 1: we're not swing, We swing in. That's what we're doing.

456
00:26:43,320 --> 00:26:47,320
Speaker 1: We swing in every weekend, we're doing. It's over. I

457
00:26:47,359 --> 00:26:52,200
Speaker 1: ain't no, yes, yeah, no turning back. If you're looking

458
00:26:52,240 --> 00:26:53,880
Speaker 1: for us to one on one with him, that's a rap.

459
00:26:53,960 --> 00:26:57,080
Speaker 1: It's over with. It's been gone, y'all. Once you start

460
00:26:57,200 --> 00:27:01,639
Speaker 1: to swing, it's over. It's a huh. So to answer

461
00:27:01,720 --> 00:27:05,240
Speaker 1: her question, do you think he's capable of monogamous relationship?

462
00:27:05,280 --> 00:27:11,159
Speaker 1: You're saying no, he's capable of a nag? Ladies? Was

463
00:27:11,400 --> 00:27:15,960
Speaker 1: he capable of? Okay? Three fold five six people? The

464
00:27:16,040 --> 00:27:19,120
Speaker 1: numbers just keep going up. The number is not gonna

465
00:27:19,160 --> 00:27:21,200
Speaker 1: get back down to two. Now. That's bored to him.

466
00:27:21,200 --> 00:27:25,480
Speaker 1: It's just you and him, that's it. That's we gotta

467
00:27:25,520 --> 00:27:27,119
Speaker 1: get some people up in him. We gotta get some

468
00:27:27,240 --> 00:27:29,760
Speaker 1: niket people in him fast. This is not happy at all.

469
00:27:30,359 --> 00:27:32,639
Speaker 1: You are messing up the entire weekend, just me and you.

470
00:27:32,840 --> 00:27:40,639
Speaker 1: This is it? You think that's turning me on? You

471
00:27:40,760 --> 00:27:42,399
Speaker 1: walking through him naked? That ain't doing. And you need

472
00:27:42,440 --> 00:27:45,560
Speaker 1: to get some more people up in him. All walked

473
00:27:45,560 --> 00:27:48,359
Speaker 1: through here naked? Ye, some drinks, some alders. I need

474
00:27:48,400 --> 00:27:50,240
Speaker 1: a lot of naked people and some food and stuff.

475
00:27:50,280 --> 00:27:56,400
Speaker 1: What are we doing this? Ain't you got you? Yeah?

476
00:27:56,440 --> 00:27:58,680
Speaker 1: Because I tell you right now, if he loved watching

477
00:27:58,720 --> 00:28:01,080
Speaker 1: you with other people, that's it. You need other people

478
00:28:01,080 --> 00:28:02,560
Speaker 1: for him to love you. He can't love you by

479
00:28:02,640 --> 00:28:07,400
Speaker 1: your thank you. Yeah, I'm telling you right now. Try

480
00:28:07,440 --> 00:28:10,520
Speaker 1: to Netflix and you started it. Yeah, watch when you

481
00:28:10,600 --> 00:28:12,800
Speaker 1: get them, Watch when you get them. Eight nine people

482
00:28:12,840 --> 00:28:14,800
Speaker 1: in the room. But he look across the room. I

483
00:28:15,040 --> 00:28:19,359
Speaker 1: love yo. Yeah, that's what he gonna tell you when

484
00:28:19,400 --> 00:28:22,399
Speaker 1: you make this for me? All right? Last one, guys,

485
00:28:22,520 --> 00:28:25,200
Speaker 1: Last one. Moving on to Parker in Maryland. Parker says,

486
00:28:25,240 --> 00:28:27,639
Speaker 1: I'm a thirty four year old kept man and my

487
00:28:27,800 --> 00:28:30,080
Speaker 1: woman gives me money and plane tickets to meet her

488
00:28:30,119 --> 00:28:32,880
Speaker 1: in various cities. She's a single woman, but I've never

489
00:28:33,400 --> 00:28:35,280
Speaker 1: I've never been to her house, and I don't even

490
00:28:35,320 --> 00:28:38,040
Speaker 1: know where she works. Why is she being so mysterious

491
00:28:38,120 --> 00:28:40,959
Speaker 1: with me? You can't say nothing. You kept. You can

492
00:28:41,000 --> 00:28:43,080
Speaker 1: tell you not to keep. You use you kept, So

493
00:28:43,160 --> 00:28:45,280
Speaker 1: you got to keep your damn mouth shut. You do

494
00:28:45,360 --> 00:28:49,120
Speaker 1: what you're told. You can't you kept. You can't say nothing.

495
00:28:49,200 --> 00:28:50,720
Speaker 1: You don't answer where I work at, where I do

496
00:28:50,800 --> 00:28:53,960
Speaker 1: for money? What's wrong with you? I meet you here,

497
00:28:54,040 --> 00:28:58,560
Speaker 1: we do here. You skelt and I keep and ju

498
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Speaker 1: Loo coming up on the top of the r We'll

499
00:29:01,560 --> 00:29:05,280
Speaker 1: have some entertainment news for you right after this. You're listening.

500
00:29:09,520 --> 00:29:12,840
Speaker 1: In an interview with Cleveland News five on Friday, Cleveland

501
00:29:12,920 --> 00:29:16,640
Speaker 1: Brown's quarterback Deshaun Watson issued a public apology and an

502
00:29:16,680 --> 00:29:19,120
Speaker 1: effort to make amends to all of the women who

503
00:29:19,160 --> 00:29:23,560
Speaker 1: have accused him of sexual misconduct during massage sessions. Take

504
00:29:23,600 --> 00:29:26,080
Speaker 1: a listen. Look, I want to say that I'm truly

505
00:29:26,120 --> 00:29:28,720
Speaker 1: sorry to all the women that I've impacted in this situation.

506
00:29:29,560 --> 00:29:32,160
Speaker 1: My decisions that I made in my life that put

507
00:29:32,240 --> 00:29:35,600
Speaker 1: me in this position. Um, you know, I would definitely

508
00:29:35,680 --> 00:29:37,520
Speaker 1: like to have back, but I want to continue to

509
00:29:37,560 --> 00:29:40,200
Speaker 1: move forward and grow and learn and and show that

510
00:29:40,760 --> 00:29:43,320
Speaker 1: you know, I am a true person of Charatherine. I

511
00:29:43,400 --> 00:29:47,840
Speaker 1: want to keep pushing forward. Well, yeah, that's the zoology.

512
00:29:49,840 --> 00:29:55,520
Speaker 1: What's the status on that now, Well, Watson's suspension doesn't

513
00:29:55,600 --> 00:29:58,480
Speaker 1: count the preseason. He was eligible to play in the

514
00:29:58,560 --> 00:30:04,800
Speaker 1: preseason game on Friday against the Jacksonville Jacksonvillears. But but

515
00:30:05,160 --> 00:30:08,080
Speaker 1: now he was booed by the fans as he walked

516
00:30:08,120 --> 00:30:10,640
Speaker 1: into the field. I think that was to be expected, though,

517
00:30:11,080 --> 00:30:14,560
Speaker 1: you know, her stands are, Yeah, they're gonna Yeah, that's

518
00:30:14,600 --> 00:30:17,640
Speaker 1: what they do. And you know, they felt that he

519
00:30:17,760 --> 00:30:20,080
Speaker 1: deserved it, so that's what they did. The Browns went

520
00:30:20,200 --> 00:30:24,800
Speaker 1: on to beat the Jaguars twenty four to thirteen. Okay, okay,

521
00:30:25,480 --> 00:30:29,920
Speaker 1: I'll wait for sports. I'm sorry. Yeah, yeah, all right,

522
00:30:30,320 --> 00:30:34,680
Speaker 1: moving on to ohoh this story right here? Uh? In

523
00:30:34,840 --> 00:30:38,200
Speaker 1: an update on the horrific crash last week in the

524
00:30:38,480 --> 00:30:42,000
Speaker 1: Los Angeles area. Nicole L. Lenton, the traveling nurse who

525
00:30:42,440 --> 00:30:45,240
Speaker 1: kills six people in that one hundred mile per hour

526
00:30:45,400 --> 00:30:49,800
Speaker 1: fiery accident, is jailed in Lynnwood, California, and has been

527
00:30:49,920 --> 00:30:52,880
Speaker 1: charged with six counts of murder five counts of gross

528
00:30:53,160 --> 00:30:57,560
Speaker 1: vehicular manslaughter. She faces up to ninety years in prison

529
00:30:57,720 --> 00:31:00,960
Speaker 1: if she is convicted. According to her warrior, she had

530
00:31:01,040 --> 00:31:05,360
Speaker 1: previously been involved in thirteen car accidents and she has

531
00:31:05,800 --> 00:31:14,800
Speaker 1: profound history of mental health issues. Yes, why yeah, why

532
00:31:14,840 --> 00:31:18,480
Speaker 1: are you nursing on people while that? Did you do

533
00:31:18,560 --> 00:31:20,880
Speaker 1: a background check on her and her license should have

534
00:31:20,920 --> 00:31:26,360
Speaker 1: been suspended? You involved in thirteen cards thirteen? Yeah? Yeah, yeah,

535
00:31:26,560 --> 00:31:30,920
Speaker 1: that's terrific. Yeah yeah. Having a job, you shouldn't be

536
00:31:30,960 --> 00:31:33,280
Speaker 1: able to catch the bus. I mean, this is this

537
00:31:33,480 --> 00:31:37,760
Speaker 1: is bad. Yeah, it really really is bad. Yeah, and

538
00:31:38,080 --> 00:31:41,680
Speaker 1: and our prayers and condolences go out to the families

539
00:31:41,720 --> 00:31:44,600
Speaker 1: of those six people who were mowed down in that accident.

540
00:31:46,040 --> 00:31:49,760
Speaker 1: You know, you can't be really, I can't be sad

541
00:31:49,840 --> 00:31:53,080
Speaker 1: about it ninety years. I'm sorry. I can't because if

542
00:31:53,120 --> 00:31:57,560
Speaker 1: you kill I think about you kill six people. Man. Yeah, yeah,

543
00:31:57,760 --> 00:32:03,720
Speaker 1: oh my God, for the rest of your life. Yeah.

544
00:32:05,320 --> 00:32:10,640
Speaker 1: Justice for these victims and they'll never come back. Yeah.

545
00:32:11,240 --> 00:32:13,320
Speaker 1: You ain't doing no driving in jail. You got to

546
00:32:13,400 --> 00:32:22,760
Speaker 1: walk everywhere get rid. Yeah. Shooting yeah serious, Yeah, that's

547
00:32:23,000 --> 00:32:25,600
Speaker 1: what we do. You know, people just out driving, going somewhere,

548
00:32:25,800 --> 00:32:27,680
Speaker 1: having fun, and all of a sudden, here you come

549
00:32:27,760 --> 00:32:32,480
Speaker 1: flying down the street on home. I mean yeah, horrible, horrible.

550
00:32:32,800 --> 00:32:36,680
Speaker 1: I know that exact intersection too, all right. Moving on

551
00:32:36,840 --> 00:32:41,560
Speaker 1: to Nipsey Hustle um uh. Posthumously. He is set to

552
00:32:41,640 --> 00:32:44,360
Speaker 1: receive the star on the Hollywood Walk of Fame today

553
00:32:45,480 --> 00:32:48,760
Speaker 1: on what would have been his thirty seventh birthday. So happened.

554
00:32:48,920 --> 00:32:53,640
Speaker 1: Happy heavenly birthday to Nipsey Hustle, whose life ended tragically

555
00:32:53,720 --> 00:32:57,360
Speaker 1: back in twenty nineteen. Other stars in the twenty two

556
00:32:57,600 --> 00:33:00,800
Speaker 1: twenty twenty two Walk of Fame class and George Clinton,

557
00:33:00,880 --> 00:33:04,960
Speaker 1: Michael b. Jordan, Martha Reeves, and Michael strahand A SNL's

558
00:33:05,040 --> 00:33:08,880
Speaker 1: Keenan Thompson received his star on Friday. So my name

559
00:33:08,920 --> 00:33:10,480
Speaker 1: ain't no way in there. You don't see my name

560
00:33:10,520 --> 00:33:14,920
Speaker 1: on the list nowhere. I saw himself, I saw George Clinton,

561
00:33:14,920 --> 00:33:17,440
Speaker 1: I saw Michael B. Jordan, Martha Reeves. I didn't see

562
00:33:17,480 --> 00:33:21,719
Speaker 1: Tom Michael straighthand he's from Houston. I ain't got nothing

563
00:33:21,760 --> 00:33:27,480
Speaker 1: to do with me. Maybe you have a connection there, tu,

564
00:33:28,720 --> 00:33:30,760
Speaker 1: Come on, my mama went to TSU. I didn't get

565
00:33:30,760 --> 00:33:32,560
Speaker 1: my mom and daddy went to TSU. But that's got

566
00:33:32,640 --> 00:33:34,760
Speaker 1: nothing to do with me and my star go here.

567
00:33:35,200 --> 00:33:38,840
Speaker 1: But you could connect in straighthand that's the connection. No,

568
00:33:39,160 --> 00:33:40,480
Speaker 1: you know what, I'd have made him my mind. I'm

569
00:33:41,040 --> 00:33:44,320
Speaker 1: gonna put mine in my driveway. I'm not gonna got

570
00:33:44,400 --> 00:33:49,480
Speaker 1: nothing to wait on everybody that no. Yeah, some more

571
00:33:49,560 --> 00:33:52,800
Speaker 1: sad news out of Hollywood. UM actress Anne hash Uh

572
00:33:53,320 --> 00:33:56,600
Speaker 1: has died from injuries that she suffered Friday, August Smith

573
00:33:56,680 --> 00:33:59,760
Speaker 1: after driving her card through at Los Angeles home. Has

574
00:33:59,800 --> 00:34:02,640
Speaker 1: suffered a severe brain injury. It was kept alive on

575
00:34:02,720 --> 00:34:05,080
Speaker 1: life support for a week before she passed away. She

576
00:34:05,240 --> 00:34:08,640
Speaker 1: was fifty three. If you recall. Um, some people don't

577
00:34:08,680 --> 00:34:11,479
Speaker 1: remember her, but um back in the day, I guess

578
00:34:11,520 --> 00:34:14,920
Speaker 1: she and Ellen dated for a while Ellen degenerous and

579
00:34:14,960 --> 00:34:18,160
Speaker 1: a lot of people remember her from that. Yeah. So yeah,

580
00:34:18,239 --> 00:34:24,040
Speaker 1: our condolence is going out to her family for sure. Um. Yeah,

581
00:34:24,600 --> 00:34:28,160
Speaker 1: very sad, very very sad. She had children and yeah

582
00:34:28,280 --> 00:34:32,239
Speaker 1: she did touching tribute, yes, that her son did, and

583
00:34:33,280 --> 00:34:42,920
Speaker 1: you know, and just heartbroken. Yeah, just really sad. Yeah, yeah, yes,

584
00:34:43,040 --> 00:34:49,359
Speaker 1: it is absolutely it's very very short. Um. Wow, yeah

585
00:34:50,320 --> 00:34:52,800
Speaker 1: that story. Because wasn't she on wasn't she on a

586
00:34:52,880 --> 00:34:56,120
Speaker 1: soap opera? Two? Um? Was it Another World? I think

587
00:34:56,160 --> 00:35:02,160
Speaker 1: she played twins on the Yeah, watching her. It was

588
00:35:02,239 --> 00:35:06,400
Speaker 1: a movie she did with Harrison Ford. Harrison Ford, I

589
00:35:06,480 --> 00:35:12,319
Speaker 1: remember that movie. That was a great movie. Uh huh

590
00:35:12,440 --> 00:35:15,200
Speaker 1: and hash uhh. Yeah, she did a great movie with

591
00:35:15,320 --> 00:35:18,400
Speaker 1: Harris seven. It was six Days, seven Days. Yes, I

592
00:35:18,480 --> 00:35:20,200
Speaker 1: knew I had a number in it, but I could. Yeah.

593
00:35:20,239 --> 00:35:23,960
Speaker 1: That was really good. Yeah, she was a wonderful, wonderful actress.

594
00:35:24,760 --> 00:35:28,880
Speaker 1: That happened. Wow. And the reason they kept her on

595
00:35:28,960 --> 00:35:31,480
Speaker 1: life support is so they could figure out what to

596
00:35:31,560 --> 00:35:35,960
Speaker 1: do with her organs. They wanted to you know, you know,

597
00:35:36,120 --> 00:35:40,520
Speaker 1: people need organs, so that's what they do sometimes to

598
00:35:40,600 --> 00:35:44,719
Speaker 1: decide to donate. Absolutely. Yeah, all right, coming up at

599
00:35:44,719 --> 00:35:47,560
Speaker 1: twenty minutes after the hour, here's a question, would you

600
00:35:47,680 --> 00:35:51,319
Speaker 1: ever sure share your location with your partner, allowing them

601
00:35:51,400 --> 00:35:56,320
Speaker 1: to track you? Think about that you're listening to show.

602
00:35:56,760 --> 00:36:00,600
Speaker 1: To share or not to share your location is the

603
00:36:00,680 --> 00:36:03,600
Speaker 1: subject of this story. How would you feel if your

604
00:36:03,640 --> 00:36:06,520
Speaker 1: partner asks you to share your location with them? Okay,

605
00:36:06,600 --> 00:36:09,080
Speaker 1: that's the question. You know, that's very easy to do

606
00:36:09,280 --> 00:36:14,439
Speaker 1: on your smartphone. Clinical psychologist doctor Jasmine Sad says it's

607
00:36:14,560 --> 00:36:17,960
Speaker 1: a decision that's giving a lot of people anxiety, and

608
00:36:18,120 --> 00:36:20,880
Speaker 1: it's an issue that comes up a lot with her patients.

609
00:36:21,280 --> 00:36:23,799
Speaker 1: She tells her patients that the decision to share your

610
00:36:23,840 --> 00:36:27,960
Speaker 1: location with your partner should be a solution to a problem,

611
00:36:28,520 --> 00:36:31,040
Speaker 1: like if there's a legitimate reason for why you both

612
00:36:31,160 --> 00:36:34,200
Speaker 1: need to know where the other one is. If it's

613
00:36:34,320 --> 00:36:36,879
Speaker 1: just to keep tabs on each other because you don't

614
00:36:36,960 --> 00:36:41,000
Speaker 1: trust each other, then that's not healthy. So here's a

615
00:36:41,080 --> 00:36:44,120
Speaker 1: question for you. Would you ever share your location or

616
00:36:44,200 --> 00:36:47,160
Speaker 1: even ask your partner to share his location with you?

617
00:36:48,000 --> 00:36:51,560
Speaker 1: Big deal? That's see, that's why I don't want those

618
00:36:51,560 --> 00:36:53,839
Speaker 1: smartphone I got a dumb ass phone. I don't want

619
00:36:53,880 --> 00:36:57,920
Speaker 1: those smartphone. That's a smartphone tell you all these different

620
00:36:57,960 --> 00:37:00,279
Speaker 1: things we need to tell you the temperature and going

621
00:37:00,360 --> 00:37:02,120
Speaker 1: on everything. I don't need all that. I need a

622
00:37:02,200 --> 00:37:04,160
Speaker 1: dumb head phone. I could just make a call and

623
00:37:04,360 --> 00:37:07,000
Speaker 1: and that's it. But all this pinpoint me where you at?

624
00:37:07,040 --> 00:37:08,560
Speaker 1: I'm in the back room. Why you need no where

625
00:37:08,560 --> 00:37:10,200
Speaker 1: I'm at? I'm not. I'm not when I when I

626
00:37:10,280 --> 00:37:12,279
Speaker 1: pull out this driveway, I'm on my own. Let me be.

627
00:37:12,680 --> 00:37:16,080
Speaker 1: I don't need all that. You don't share your location

628
00:37:16,200 --> 00:37:19,320
Speaker 1: in the house. It's when you're out. But what do

629
00:37:19,480 --> 00:37:21,680
Speaker 1: you want though? When I leave? What do you want?

630
00:37:22,880 --> 00:37:24,719
Speaker 1: If you want me to bring some bread home? Text

631
00:37:24,760 --> 00:37:26,239
Speaker 1: me you want me bring some bread home? But you

632
00:37:26,239 --> 00:37:28,480
Speaker 1: don't even know where I'm getting the bread from. You

633
00:37:28,680 --> 00:37:32,160
Speaker 1: just tell me you what you need? Jesus, your pinpoint me?

634
00:37:32,320 --> 00:37:34,320
Speaker 1: Why what are you doing over there? I'm doing what

635
00:37:34,360 --> 00:37:37,520
Speaker 1: I want to do over here. I'm at the park,

636
00:37:37,560 --> 00:37:40,440
Speaker 1: I'm running three miles. What do you want? What if

637
00:37:40,480 --> 00:37:43,680
Speaker 1: you don't want nothing? Yeah, I'm sorry. We've been married

638
00:37:43,680 --> 00:37:46,840
Speaker 1: twenty one years. You what do you want? Why I

639
00:37:46,960 --> 00:37:49,640
Speaker 1: just left you? I don't see your problem with just

640
00:37:49,800 --> 00:37:53,000
Speaker 1: sharing your location. I don't see your problem with that. Huh,

641
00:37:53,480 --> 00:37:56,759
Speaker 1: what's wrong with you? You've been married twenty one years.

642
00:37:56,800 --> 00:37:59,759
Speaker 1: You can't share your location? Huh? Right? She know where

643
00:37:59,760 --> 00:38:03,440
Speaker 1: I be? Calor the same damn cigar ball on Thursday?

644
00:38:03,440 --> 00:38:05,080
Speaker 1: If you pass by the six thirty and you know

645
00:38:05,200 --> 00:38:07,960
Speaker 1: him right there? What do you want? What? Okay? Well,

646
00:38:08,000 --> 00:38:09,600
Speaker 1: since you want to share it, I'm just gonna come

647
00:38:09,680 --> 00:38:13,160
Speaker 1: up there, since that's where you are. And what none,

648
00:38:13,200 --> 00:38:17,640
Speaker 1: we got a problem coming up there embarrassing me in

649
00:38:17,760 --> 00:38:21,840
Speaker 1: front of my friends. What do you want? Junior? What

650
00:38:22,239 --> 00:38:25,799
Speaker 1: do you say? Oh? What? Say you? Absolutely? We'll share

651
00:38:25,840 --> 00:38:30,000
Speaker 1: my location? Yea? I damn sure, we'll share my location.

652
00:38:30,040 --> 00:38:32,680
Speaker 1: But here's the thing. I won't be nowhere. That phone

653
00:38:34,480 --> 00:38:38,880
Speaker 1: don't be in Philadelphia and I'm in New Mexico. I

654
00:38:39,080 --> 00:38:42,520
Speaker 1: share it. I promise you get a location. I better

655
00:38:42,520 --> 00:38:47,120
Speaker 1: the fact when you take my baby down isn't fill it? Yeah? Down,

656
00:38:47,960 --> 00:38:50,320
Speaker 1: my ass is somewhere else. I share it, though, I

657
00:38:50,480 --> 00:38:54,719
Speaker 1: get you. I sure will. I have no problem, y'all.

658
00:38:56,520 --> 00:38:59,160
Speaker 1: You asked the question. I said, yeah, live in my

659
00:38:59,280 --> 00:39:01,080
Speaker 1: best life. I'm a saying I had to keep it

660
00:39:02,200 --> 00:39:08,399
Speaker 1: to be with me. Leave it at the church all

661
00:39:08,600 --> 00:39:11,839
Speaker 1: week I've been praying. All right, coming up, we'll talk

662
00:39:11,840 --> 00:39:14,600
Speaker 1: about this big fight that happened at Spirit Airlines right

663
00:39:14,680 --> 00:39:21,160
Speaker 1: after this You're listening show. A big debate was sparked

664
00:39:21,239 --> 00:39:24,760
Speaker 1: online over the weekend after video footage of a physical

665
00:39:24,880 --> 00:39:29,520
Speaker 1: alter tate altercation between a Spirit Airlines employee and a

666
00:39:29,640 --> 00:39:33,480
Speaker 1: female passenger went viral. Did you guys see the video? Everybody?

667
00:39:35,880 --> 00:39:40,520
Speaker 1: It was crazy. The black male Spirit Airlines employee was pushed,

668
00:39:40,760 --> 00:39:44,480
Speaker 1: yelled at, cursed at, and called defamatory names by a

669
00:39:44,600 --> 00:39:48,359
Speaker 1: female passenger. Now was this female passenger white? She looked white?

670
00:39:48,840 --> 00:39:52,160
Speaker 1: Well she did. She looked white. She was white. Every

671
00:39:52,239 --> 00:39:54,480
Speaker 1: angle I looked at it, every angle I looked, she

672
00:39:54,600 --> 00:39:58,440
Speaker 1: was white. On the ground, every angle I looked, she

673
00:39:58,640 --> 00:40:03,040
Speaker 1: was white. Spirit employee continuously asked the woman to back up,

674
00:40:03,080 --> 00:40:06,799
Speaker 1: but she continues to turn him and eventually hit him

675
00:40:07,000 --> 00:40:10,480
Speaker 1: in his face as another passenger tried to separate them.

676
00:40:10,560 --> 00:40:13,760
Speaker 1: The Spirit employee then hit the woman several times before

677
00:40:13,840 --> 00:40:17,120
Speaker 1: another black male got in the Spirit employee's space. Set

678
00:40:17,239 --> 00:40:19,640
Speaker 1: and you're not going to fight that woman, bro. The

679
00:40:19,760 --> 00:40:24,040
Speaker 1: Spirit employee has been suspended. Okay, so how did you

680
00:40:24,160 --> 00:40:25,920
Speaker 1: get what did you guy? What was your take? On

681
00:40:26,040 --> 00:40:28,640
Speaker 1: this situation. At the end of the day, you cannot

682
00:40:28,719 --> 00:40:31,239
Speaker 1: hit the lady. You got to walk away. You you

683
00:40:31,480 --> 00:40:35,360
Speaker 1: you're a man, you way strong, good, it's just you

684
00:40:35,440 --> 00:40:37,359
Speaker 1: know where I come from. You just don't hit no lady.

685
00:40:37,560 --> 00:40:39,400
Speaker 1: So you got to walk away, bro, what regardless of

686
00:40:39,480 --> 00:40:41,480
Speaker 1: what she's saying. If you walk away long far enough,

687
00:40:41,600 --> 00:40:43,759
Speaker 1: guess what, you can't hear what she's saying. Get away

688
00:40:43,800 --> 00:40:46,800
Speaker 1: from him? Yeah, get away from her now. She especially

689
00:40:46,840 --> 00:40:50,040
Speaker 1: if someone representing the area, probably was wrong. I'm sure

690
00:40:50,480 --> 00:40:53,080
Speaker 1: it was wrong. She was in space. She called the

691
00:40:53,320 --> 00:40:56,880
Speaker 1: N word, she was nword. Yeah, she should have walked away.

692
00:40:57,280 --> 00:41:01,600
Speaker 1: He should have walked away. So now it all escalate.

693
00:41:01,719 --> 00:41:04,080
Speaker 1: You just got learning. Yeah, you know those kind of

694
00:41:04,160 --> 00:41:07,080
Speaker 1: ignorant people. You gotta can not put your hands on

695
00:41:07,800 --> 00:41:11,320
Speaker 1: You can't do it. I will find another female to

696
00:41:11,400 --> 00:41:13,000
Speaker 1: come over there and how let you though, I will

697
00:41:13,040 --> 00:41:16,319
Speaker 1: find that. That's I will find that if I get

698
00:41:16,400 --> 00:41:20,040
Speaker 1: to cooking, if I get to Junior's sister, oh, it's

699
00:41:21,000 --> 00:41:24,200
Speaker 1: got that she'll be should take it. The whole situation

700
00:41:24,280 --> 00:41:28,800
Speaker 1: wet me. Did you got to walk away? I was

701
00:41:28,840 --> 00:41:32,080
Speaker 1: surprised that he was just suspended though the employee and

702
00:41:32,480 --> 00:41:36,399
Speaker 1: and not fired. Ye, well, I mean you gotta look

703
00:41:36,440 --> 00:41:38,839
Speaker 1: at she did. She did hit the guy in his face. Yeah,

704
00:41:39,000 --> 00:41:43,160
Speaker 1: he was provoked, for sure, he was provoked, yes, but

705
00:41:43,320 --> 00:41:47,480
Speaker 1: he just got He just didn't handle hands on her

706
00:41:47,640 --> 00:41:51,480
Speaker 1: though that seemed to be a problem. It's a basic

707
00:41:51,640 --> 00:41:54,040
Speaker 1: principle not to put your hands on a woman. Man.

708
00:41:54,160 --> 00:41:56,480
Speaker 1: I just I don't care you did. What What can't

709
00:41:56,480 --> 00:41:59,479
Speaker 1: she really do to me? How hard was slap? How hard?

710
00:41:59,600 --> 00:42:02,600
Speaker 1: But junior, I don't know how old he was. But

711
00:42:02,800 --> 00:42:06,000
Speaker 1: you know, it's different now, it's different now, it's really different.

712
00:42:06,680 --> 00:42:09,879
Speaker 1: It's different. You guys were raised a certain way. It's

713
00:42:09,920 --> 00:42:14,279
Speaker 1: not like that, um now isn't. But couldn't he have

714
00:42:14,400 --> 00:42:19,200
Speaker 1: called security? If she called and she put her hands

715
00:42:19,280 --> 00:42:24,560
Speaker 1: on him? Then she should band from flying because you

716
00:42:25,800 --> 00:42:28,919
Speaker 1: hit a federal employer, I mean a person that works

717
00:42:28,960 --> 00:42:32,759
Speaker 1: at an airline in a federal building. What I'm saying, so, yeah,

718
00:42:32,880 --> 00:42:37,759
Speaker 1: absolutely absolutely, then she should be something should happen to

719
00:42:37,880 --> 00:42:42,800
Speaker 1: her as well as Oh for sure assault? How about

720
00:42:42,840 --> 00:42:45,960
Speaker 1: that for starters? Yea, when you at work, when you

721
00:42:46,040 --> 00:42:47,719
Speaker 1: at work, period, man, you got to have a certain

722
00:42:47,760 --> 00:42:51,520
Speaker 1: type of temperament, you know what I mean from temperament now,

723
00:42:51,600 --> 00:42:53,520
Speaker 1: but at the same time, no one has a right

724
00:42:53,560 --> 00:42:56,000
Speaker 1: to put their hands on you while you're right right.

725
00:42:56,600 --> 00:42:59,279
Speaker 1: That might be why he's only suspended. That might be

726
00:42:59,520 --> 00:43:02,560
Speaker 1: only Yeah, you shouldn't have to put up with that either.

727
00:43:03,920 --> 00:43:06,840
Speaker 1: He went one thing, my man went off, I know

728
00:43:06,920 --> 00:43:09,279
Speaker 1: one thing called going that dough. Y'all all go in

729
00:43:09,440 --> 00:43:11,560
Speaker 1: with that code. When y'all come out that doughe, it

730
00:43:11,640 --> 00:43:14,560
Speaker 1: ain't never good. Y'all come back. You did that dough

731
00:43:14,600 --> 00:43:16,560
Speaker 1: with the code on it. You pressed up six digits.

732
00:43:16,560 --> 00:43:19,080
Speaker 1: You come out of that doughe. Somebody coming and throwing

733
00:43:19,120 --> 00:43:21,120
Speaker 1: you out this apple. That's all he has to do,

734
00:43:21,560 --> 00:43:24,600
Speaker 1: throwing that doughe and get your help. You know. Yeah,

735
00:43:24,880 --> 00:43:26,759
Speaker 1: ain't got to fight. I ain't never been in that

736
00:43:26,880 --> 00:43:30,040
Speaker 1: dough either is dough. But when they come out that dough,

737
00:43:33,120 --> 00:43:36,000
Speaker 1: everything in that dope, out of the security officers back

738
00:43:36,000 --> 00:43:39,520
Speaker 1: there in that doughe gate attendance in that doughe, it's

739
00:43:39,520 --> 00:43:42,520
Speaker 1: a beating in that dope. Y'all feel about the two

740
00:43:42,600 --> 00:43:44,480
Speaker 1: brothers at the end of the video on that a

741
00:43:44,800 --> 00:43:49,719
Speaker 1: was about to fight. Yeah, people were mad at them,

742
00:43:49,880 --> 00:43:52,640
Speaker 1: saying what he had jumped in if it had been

743
00:43:52,680 --> 00:43:54,680
Speaker 1: a black woman, you know, that's what a lot of

744
00:43:54,719 --> 00:43:58,440
Speaker 1: people were saying online as well. Yeah, hopefully you just

745
00:43:58,520 --> 00:44:06,080
Speaker 1: jump in and stop any fight. Anybody an shut it down? Yeah,

746
00:44:06,960 --> 00:44:09,600
Speaker 1: all right, guys, coming up next to nephew and the

747
00:44:09,680 --> 00:44:14,600
Speaker 1: prank phone call right after this, you're listening to show

748
00:44:16,160 --> 00:44:18,480
Speaker 1: coming up at about four minutes after the hour. It's

749
00:44:18,520 --> 00:44:21,920
Speaker 1: my Strawberry letter for today, and the subject is can

750
00:44:22,000 --> 00:44:25,320
Speaker 1: I change his mindset? Here we go again, can I

751
00:44:25,600 --> 00:44:30,440
Speaker 1: change its mindset? Always trying to change somebody? All right,

752
00:44:30,480 --> 00:44:33,160
Speaker 1: we'll get into that in just a bit, but right now,

753
00:44:33,280 --> 00:44:36,600
Speaker 1: the nephew is here for the prank phone call? What

754
00:44:36,719 --> 00:44:39,800
Speaker 1: you got for us? Now? Surely I'm coming off vacation.

755
00:44:39,880 --> 00:44:42,319
Speaker 1: I've been playing dad, I've been playing hohos. But I've

756
00:44:42,360 --> 00:44:45,640
Speaker 1: been doing I have not had time to be stupid.

757
00:44:45,800 --> 00:44:47,960
Speaker 1: It has just it dawned on me. I said, I've

758
00:44:48,040 --> 00:44:51,279
Speaker 1: not been stupid. And about a week this has really

759
00:44:51,520 --> 00:44:54,759
Speaker 1: bothered me. So, you know, back in the saddle and

760
00:44:54,880 --> 00:44:57,000
Speaker 1: just you know, trying to just regroup and get my

761
00:44:57,080 --> 00:44:59,839
Speaker 1: stupid back up because it's really been put on again. Yeah,

762
00:45:00,160 --> 00:45:01,800
Speaker 1: get my stupid back up because it's been low. My

763
00:45:01,840 --> 00:45:03,719
Speaker 1: stupid been running low. So let's get it back up

764
00:45:03,800 --> 00:45:05,640
Speaker 1: right here, this is bad. Bugs. We're gonna be as

765
00:45:05,680 --> 00:45:13,000
Speaker 1: stupid as possible. Bed bugs. Let's go cat dog. Hello, Hello,

766
00:45:13,120 --> 00:45:15,520
Speaker 1: trying to speak to Nieuh, she's out here right now

767
00:45:15,560 --> 00:45:18,080
Speaker 1: because I think a message. Uh do you know when

768
00:45:18,120 --> 00:45:22,080
Speaker 1: she's coming back? Nah? Is this a business? Calls him? No? No,

769
00:45:22,320 --> 00:45:24,960
Speaker 1: this personal. I need to talk to her immediately. No,

770
00:45:25,239 --> 00:45:27,279
Speaker 1: you need to talk to me. It's just a man.

771
00:45:27,880 --> 00:45:30,359
Speaker 1: Who is this? This is? This is Brandon? Who? Who?

772
00:45:30,560 --> 00:45:33,680
Speaker 1: Who are you? I'm earnest man. But why do you know? Shenie?

773
00:45:34,280 --> 00:45:36,600
Speaker 1: I got a bit of a situation here man. Uh.

774
00:45:37,040 --> 00:45:41,680
Speaker 1: And it's basically a financial situation that I'm owed some

775
00:45:41,760 --> 00:45:43,799
Speaker 1: money from her. So I kind of need to talk

776
00:45:43,840 --> 00:45:48,400
Speaker 1: to her about about getting this money. Uh. Is totally

777
00:45:48,960 --> 00:45:52,200
Speaker 1: disrupted my whole apartment. And I need to actually see

778
00:45:52,239 --> 00:45:54,480
Speaker 1: about talking to her about getting this whole problem taking

779
00:45:54,520 --> 00:45:57,560
Speaker 1: care of what what's the what's the situation, What's what's

780
00:45:57,600 --> 00:46:01,080
Speaker 1: the what's going on? I mean, I'm basically right now,

781
00:46:01,320 --> 00:46:04,279
Speaker 1: I'm twenty five hundred dollars in the rears due to

782
00:46:04,719 --> 00:46:09,600
Speaker 1: due to Sharnie and and I you know, I need

783
00:46:09,680 --> 00:46:11,239
Speaker 1: to see if she's gonna be able to pay me

784
00:46:11,360 --> 00:46:14,000
Speaker 1: for the situation or what you know. My girl owe

785
00:46:14,040 --> 00:46:17,080
Speaker 1: you money. She owes me twenty five hundred dollars, twenty

786
00:46:17,120 --> 00:46:19,239
Speaker 1: five hundred dollars for what. I don't even know who

787
00:46:19,280 --> 00:46:21,320
Speaker 1: you are, first of all, So what's up with the

788
00:46:21,360 --> 00:46:23,480
Speaker 1: twenty five hundred dollars? A man? First of all, my

789
00:46:23,640 --> 00:46:26,799
Speaker 1: name is Brandon, okay, and I've been I know, I've

790
00:46:26,840 --> 00:46:29,279
Speaker 1: been knowing Shani's probably for the last three or four

791
00:46:29,400 --> 00:46:32,719
Speaker 1: months now, Okay, So here you want to know it

792
00:46:32,840 --> 00:46:36,160
Speaker 1: all in a nutshell? Is it's like this, Sharnie's been

793
00:46:36,200 --> 00:46:38,960
Speaker 1: coming through okay for the last three or four months,

794
00:46:39,000 --> 00:46:41,120
Speaker 1: been coming over here to my spot, to my apartment,

795
00:46:41,560 --> 00:46:45,040
Speaker 1: hanging out. I'm just now finding out within the last

796
00:46:45,239 --> 00:46:48,680
Speaker 1: two weeks. It's I had to get rid of my couch.

797
00:46:49,000 --> 00:46:52,440
Speaker 1: I had to get rid of my mattresses because mattress,

798
00:46:52,520 --> 00:46:54,919
Speaker 1: because it's been a mattress women do it. Wait a minute,

799
00:46:54,920 --> 00:46:57,000
Speaker 1: So you're trying to tell me she was in your bid. Yeah,

800
00:46:57,120 --> 00:46:59,480
Speaker 1: she's been in my bed, dude, she's been in your

801
00:46:59,520 --> 00:47:03,400
Speaker 1: big Are you crazy? Dude? You know they know the

802
00:47:03,880 --> 00:47:07,040
Speaker 1: serious where twenty five hundred dollars. Problem is you took

803
00:47:07,040 --> 00:47:08,759
Speaker 1: about twenty five hundred dollars. You told my my girl

804
00:47:08,840 --> 00:47:10,799
Speaker 1: was in your bad now. Were not even gonna get

805
00:47:10,840 --> 00:47:13,000
Speaker 1: into that. You understand what I'm saying, But that's twenty

806
00:47:13,000 --> 00:47:15,600
Speaker 1: five hundred dollars. You can forget about it. No, no, no, no, no,

807
00:47:15,719 --> 00:47:18,319
Speaker 1: hold our prost of all, you're calling here, you calling here,

808
00:47:18,600 --> 00:47:20,560
Speaker 1: you calling here, and here, dude, answer the phone, and

809
00:47:20,640 --> 00:47:23,080
Speaker 1: you still got to to ad for her, and then

810
00:47:23,160 --> 00:47:25,239
Speaker 1: gonna tell me about some twenty five hundred dollars about

811
00:47:25,280 --> 00:47:28,800
Speaker 1: some mattress. Dude, I'm my my mattresses man or a

812
00:47:28,920 --> 00:47:31,719
Speaker 1: thousand bucks full of bad bucks. I had to throw

813
00:47:31,800 --> 00:47:34,200
Speaker 1: that away about worry about no damn mattress dude. You

814
00:47:34,280 --> 00:47:36,279
Speaker 1: talking about my girl. We've been together for four years.

815
00:47:36,280 --> 00:47:37,880
Speaker 1: I'm about to pop the question on her, and you

816
00:47:37,920 --> 00:47:39,440
Speaker 1: want to sit there talk about she'd been hanging with

817
00:47:39,480 --> 00:47:41,160
Speaker 1: you or take it with you for the last four months.

818
00:47:41,400 --> 00:47:43,360
Speaker 1: It's about to be over in a minute. Now. What

819
00:47:43,440 --> 00:47:45,319
Speaker 1: if you want to marriage? And he's cool. I don't

820
00:47:45,360 --> 00:47:47,839
Speaker 1: care nothing about I don't even worry about that now.

821
00:47:47,960 --> 00:47:50,759
Speaker 1: But you talking about some bad mattress man. That's that's

822
00:47:50,760 --> 00:47:53,000
Speaker 1: a problem. Dude. Ain't wonder if I know damn mattress.

823
00:47:53,200 --> 00:47:55,239
Speaker 1: We don't wonder if I ain't got no mattress right

824
00:47:55,280 --> 00:47:58,399
Speaker 1: now my house? You calling the mind telling that stud

825
00:47:58,719 --> 00:48:01,160
Speaker 1: I do not call them answers right now, Nor do

826
00:48:01,280 --> 00:48:04,719
Speaker 1: I have a couch. Do you understand that I can't

827
00:48:04,719 --> 00:48:07,239
Speaker 1: about some mattress who cowers? Dude, I don't care nothing

828
00:48:07,239 --> 00:48:10,600
Speaker 1: about that. Your name you say it ain't Brandon, I'm Brandon.

829
00:48:10,719 --> 00:48:13,160
Speaker 1: Yeah here Brandon. Okay, don't worry about it right because

830
00:48:13,160 --> 00:48:15,040
Speaker 1: you're gonna find me a real fool. Don't let me

831
00:48:15,120 --> 00:48:17,200
Speaker 1: find you before you find me. Do you understand what

832
00:48:17,239 --> 00:48:19,560
Speaker 1: I'm saying? Don't you do, dud? Dude? No, you can

833
00:48:19,640 --> 00:48:21,080
Speaker 1: have you can have them bit of bugs and the

834
00:48:21,239 --> 00:48:23,799
Speaker 1: mattress or whatever. Answering these fall. I tell what I'm

835
00:48:23,800 --> 00:48:25,760
Speaker 1: saying is you talk about something bit but then event

836
00:48:25,840 --> 00:48:29,200
Speaker 1: bus over here? Okay, So what she did see the

837
00:48:29,280 --> 00:48:31,160
Speaker 1: problem over here in my place? I don't can't out

838
00:48:31,160 --> 00:48:32,839
Speaker 1: of the poblic She ain't bring nothing over there, first

839
00:48:32,840 --> 00:48:34,280
Speaker 1: of all, but I don't need any even a problem

840
00:48:34,400 --> 00:48:38,960
Speaker 1: right now. You've been over here, man, nobody else over here.

841
00:48:39,480 --> 00:48:41,200
Speaker 1: The one about who you hand over there? But you're

842
00:48:41,200 --> 00:48:43,359
Speaker 1: gonna call here're talking about no money. You ain't getting

843
00:48:43,360 --> 00:48:45,640
Speaker 1: nothing from here? Okay. First of all due. Check this out.

844
00:48:45,840 --> 00:48:47,800
Speaker 1: I don't have a problem with you, okay, Me and

845
00:48:47,920 --> 00:48:50,880
Speaker 1: you cool you coolroblem. We already got a problem. You're

846
00:48:50,880 --> 00:48:53,560
Speaker 1: calling me something about you can sleeping one my brother, Hey, dog,

847
00:48:53,640 --> 00:48:55,360
Speaker 1: dodge the one. I'm gonna say it again. Me and

848
00:48:55,480 --> 00:48:58,239
Speaker 1: you cool dog, we cool. We're not cool. We're not

849
00:48:58,360 --> 00:49:01,719
Speaker 1: cool for the my all on water. I don't handle

850
00:49:01,800 --> 00:49:04,560
Speaker 1: Sannie myself. I'm hard when you. I'm gonna handling you later.

851
00:49:04,880 --> 00:49:06,680
Speaker 1: What you're doing, what you're talking about you, you're gonna

852
00:49:06,719 --> 00:49:10,000
Speaker 1: handle me. I'm gonna handle you later. You want a mattress, right,

853
00:49:10,600 --> 00:49:13,520
Speaker 1: they do? Dude, want the mattress right? Head and marriage Shenise,

854
00:49:13,640 --> 00:49:15,560
Speaker 1: I ain't got nothing to do with that. My wife

855
00:49:15,760 --> 00:49:18,399
Speaker 1: about my money back man, for the proper of mind

856
00:49:18,440 --> 00:49:20,920
Speaker 1: that she has ruined. Man, don't worry about that. I'm

857
00:49:20,960 --> 00:49:22,719
Speaker 1: gonna get you a masxress. Don't worry about that. It's

858
00:49:22,760 --> 00:49:25,879
Speaker 1: gonna be a casket wrapt around now, so they do. Dude,

859
00:49:26,000 --> 00:49:28,360
Speaker 1: Why are you sitting here creating the drama with me

860
00:49:28,480 --> 00:49:30,520
Speaker 1: when me, me and you, we ain't even the problem.

861
00:49:30,680 --> 00:49:33,359
Speaker 1: The problem is, Shani. The problem is you picked up

862
00:49:33,400 --> 00:49:36,080
Speaker 1: your phone and you call here. That's the problem. What

863
00:49:36,280 --> 00:49:38,200
Speaker 1: you guys, who'll do because you ain't got no couch,

864
00:49:38,360 --> 00:49:40,480
Speaker 1: you ain't got no masttress. Now you gotta do that.

865
00:49:40,760 --> 00:49:43,279
Speaker 1: You understand what I'm saying. You know what I see.

866
00:49:43,280 --> 00:49:45,319
Speaker 1: I can't talk to you. When do Shenise get home? Man,

867
00:49:45,360 --> 00:49:47,320
Speaker 1: don't worry about when Shanis get home. I wish you

868
00:49:47,400 --> 00:49:49,399
Speaker 1: need to worry about was when I find you? Okay?

869
00:49:49,480 --> 00:49:51,439
Speaker 1: So so when when I when you're gonna have my money?

870
00:49:51,480 --> 00:49:53,239
Speaker 1: Didn't when you find me? Because I need my money

871
00:49:53,320 --> 00:49:55,160
Speaker 1: day I don't have your money? How your mattress too?

872
00:49:55,360 --> 00:49:58,240
Speaker 1: Please understand you're gonna be resting real way. Okay, okay,

873
00:49:58,320 --> 00:50:00,760
Speaker 1: So so let me ask you this here, Man senis

874
00:50:00,760 --> 00:50:03,640
Speaker 1: bringing bad bugs over to my house. Leave them all

875
00:50:03,680 --> 00:50:05,480
Speaker 1: in my mattress, Leave him all over my couch. Where

876
00:50:05,480 --> 00:50:08,080
Speaker 1: I gotta throw my stuff away? Where I'm wrong? At man,

877
00:50:08,239 --> 00:50:10,960
Speaker 1: where I'm wrong? I'm gonna ask you straight up? Did

878
00:50:11,040 --> 00:50:13,400
Speaker 1: you know she had a man? Say? What? Did you

879
00:50:13,600 --> 00:50:16,480
Speaker 1: know she had a man? But I mean kind of

880
00:50:16,600 --> 00:50:18,719
Speaker 1: kind of thought of, but not really though I know

881
00:50:19,040 --> 00:50:20,839
Speaker 1: kind of saught the man. Even you know she got

882
00:50:20,920 --> 00:50:22,800
Speaker 1: a man? Know she don't got a man? You know

883
00:50:22,960 --> 00:50:25,000
Speaker 1: she had a man, right, and you still win, dy

884
00:50:25,120 --> 00:50:27,719
Speaker 1: right they do. I ain't got nothing to do with y'all. Man,

885
00:50:28,120 --> 00:50:31,399
Speaker 1: I'm dealing with these bad bugs. You understand I'm saying. Dude,

886
00:50:31,440 --> 00:50:34,040
Speaker 1: do you understand you messing up a full year relationship?

887
00:50:34,160 --> 00:50:35,560
Speaker 1: You know, I'm a time I put in with this

888
00:50:35,680 --> 00:50:38,640
Speaker 1: woman full years. We're about to get we's about to

889
00:50:38,640 --> 00:50:41,400
Speaker 1: get married, and you're calling here with this. What are

890
00:50:41,440 --> 00:50:43,600
Speaker 1: y'all supposed to get married? Don't worry about what we're

891
00:50:43,600 --> 00:50:45,640
Speaker 1: supposed to get married, man, you messed that all up.

892
00:50:45,680 --> 00:50:47,520
Speaker 1: What I'm trying to explain to you is, dude, you

893
00:50:47,640 --> 00:50:50,520
Speaker 1: calling here on some bad bugs, which I know she

894
00:50:50,600 --> 00:50:52,239
Speaker 1: ain't got nothing to do with it. But the fact

895
00:50:52,280 --> 00:50:54,040
Speaker 1: that you told me that she was over your house

896
00:50:54,280 --> 00:50:57,440
Speaker 1: and your bed, that's over. It's over now, you understand

897
00:50:57,480 --> 00:50:59,640
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Now we see getting home, I'm gonna

898
00:50:59,680 --> 00:51:01,759
Speaker 1: deal with that. You understand what I'm saying. That's gonna

899
00:51:01,760 --> 00:51:03,759
Speaker 1: get dune with. I'm walking up out of here. But

900
00:51:03,840 --> 00:51:06,160
Speaker 1: when I leave here, please believe my next cop is

901
00:51:06,160 --> 00:51:08,400
Speaker 1: to come find your First of all, how did you

902
00:51:08,480 --> 00:51:10,440
Speaker 1: get the number to this apartment? That's what I want

903
00:51:10,480 --> 00:51:12,560
Speaker 1: to know. Hey, dude, she gave me both numbers, the

904
00:51:12,680 --> 00:51:15,160
Speaker 1: cell phone number in the house number told me, you know,

905
00:51:15,239 --> 00:51:17,560
Speaker 1: if it's an emergency, call the house. Okay, and this

906
00:51:17,680 --> 00:51:20,200
Speaker 1: is an emergency. Yeah, that's an emergency. I got bad.

907
00:51:22,000 --> 00:51:24,719
Speaker 1: Learn another emergency number, learning nine one one because when

908
00:51:24,719 --> 00:51:26,799
Speaker 1: I come down because on your dog, did you come

909
00:51:26,800 --> 00:51:28,640
Speaker 1: out on you handle it or you better call the cops.

910
00:51:28,640 --> 00:51:31,799
Speaker 1: You understand what I'm trying to tell you. Hey, man,

911
00:51:31,880 --> 00:51:34,400
Speaker 1: do you think Tommy will pay for the bad bugs?

912
00:51:34,800 --> 00:51:37,240
Speaker 1: Who is Tommy? I'm just saying, do you think Tommy

913
00:51:37,280 --> 00:51:40,120
Speaker 1: will pay for the bad bug? Who? It's Tommy? Tommy

914
00:51:40,280 --> 00:51:44,400
Speaker 1: dog nephew Tommy from the Steve Harby Morning Show. Ernest,

915
00:51:44,480 --> 00:51:50,560
Speaker 1: you just got brained by your girl shot niece. Man,

916
00:51:51,560 --> 00:51:57,640
Speaker 1: y'all y'all who ya? Hey, Well, it was over. It

917
00:51:57,920 --> 00:52:01,120
Speaker 1: was over. You understand what I'm telling you, and then

918
00:52:01,200 --> 00:52:03,240
Speaker 1: you have it. That's that met few for your baby

919
00:52:03,400 --> 00:52:06,520
Speaker 1: getting back into sad A little stupid to tear, all right.

920
00:52:09,920 --> 00:52:12,120
Speaker 1: I missed a lot of but I want to make

921
00:52:12,160 --> 00:52:15,000
Speaker 1: sure y'all get my swag back. I want to make

922
00:52:15,040 --> 00:52:16,960
Speaker 1: sure y'all didn't miss nothing. Did you did you catch

923
00:52:17,000 --> 00:52:20,359
Speaker 1: your boy on the two Friday Night Ready to Love? Yeah? Yeah,

924
00:52:20,560 --> 00:52:26,759
Speaker 1: huh what Okay, I don't look too fat, do it?

925
00:52:27,719 --> 00:52:29,759
Speaker 1: That's why I don't want to watch myself. I look fat.

926
00:52:30,440 --> 00:52:33,759
Speaker 1: M Why do Monica have both her jaws? Blow it

927
00:52:33,840 --> 00:52:38,040
Speaker 1: out like I looked like? Just well, I bit all sausage.

928
00:52:39,040 --> 00:52:46,239
Speaker 1: You look you ready to love on Friday night on

929
00:52:46,320 --> 00:52:48,440
Speaker 1: the old Network. You don't want to miss it? Come

930
00:52:48,520 --> 00:52:51,920
Speaker 1: check me out. And hey, it's Ready to Love Miami.

931
00:52:52,000 --> 00:52:54,080
Speaker 1: It's it's it's it's starting to get steamens. So I

932
00:52:54,120 --> 00:52:56,560
Speaker 1: want y'all to keep tuning in because it's getting crazy.

933
00:52:56,800 --> 00:52:59,800
Speaker 1: People are already picking their favorites and who's not their favorite?

934
00:53:00,120 --> 00:53:04,640
Speaker 1: Everybody's watching it. Tommy, I'm begin to stop in the supermarket.

935
00:53:04,719 --> 00:53:09,640
Speaker 1: Please get that one off the show I want. But

936
00:53:09,800 --> 00:53:12,120
Speaker 1: they're good TV. They get on my nerves, they get

937
00:53:12,160 --> 00:53:15,520
Speaker 1: on your nerves, but they're such good TV. Oh, the

938
00:53:15,640 --> 00:53:21,840
Speaker 1: crazy contestants. We got Ready to Love Miami. All right, nephew,

939
00:53:21,920 --> 00:53:24,799
Speaker 1: congratulations again. We'll be watching you know that? Coming up

940
00:53:24,880 --> 00:53:28,960
Speaker 1: next Strawberry Letters subject can I change his mindset? We'll

941
00:53:29,000 --> 00:53:32,040
Speaker 1: get into that right after this. You're listening to the

942
00:53:32,200 --> 00:53:36,880
Speaker 1: String Show, all right, It is time now for today's

943
00:53:36,920 --> 00:53:40,279
Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter. And if you need advice on relationships, work, sex,

944
00:53:40,480 --> 00:53:43,479
Speaker 1: parenting or more. Please submit your Strawberry Letter at Steve

945
00:53:43,640 --> 00:53:46,120
Speaker 1: Harvey FM dot com. All you have to do is

946
00:53:46,160 --> 00:53:49,200
Speaker 1: click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your letter

947
00:53:49,360 --> 00:53:51,759
Speaker 1: live on the air, just like we're gonna read this

948
00:53:51,920 --> 00:53:54,239
Speaker 1: one right here, right now, and you never know it

949
00:53:54,320 --> 00:53:57,520
Speaker 1: could be yours. Yeah, this one right here, this one

950
00:53:57,680 --> 00:53:59,759
Speaker 1: right here. Buckle up and hold on tight. We got

951
00:53:59,880 --> 00:54:03,200
Speaker 1: it for you here. It is Strawberry Letter thanking a

952
00:54:03,360 --> 00:54:07,680
Speaker 1: you subject. Can I change his mindset? Dear Stephen Shirley,

953
00:54:08,080 --> 00:54:10,320
Speaker 1: I've been dating a man for six years and we

954
00:54:10,480 --> 00:54:13,640
Speaker 1: live with his parents in a two bedroom house. We

955
00:54:13,760 --> 00:54:16,080
Speaker 1: had to move in with them in twenty twenty after

956
00:54:16,239 --> 00:54:18,880
Speaker 1: he lost his job. I don't have any family in

957
00:54:18,960 --> 00:54:22,200
Speaker 1: this town, so I agreed to stay there temporarily. But

958
00:54:22,320 --> 00:54:25,560
Speaker 1: he just started working four months ago. He couldn't find

959
00:54:25,600 --> 00:54:27,759
Speaker 1: a job in his field for a long time, so

960
00:54:27,960 --> 00:54:31,320
Speaker 1: I was relieved when he started working full time because

961
00:54:31,440 --> 00:54:35,680
Speaker 1: I thought he would finally get our own place. Their

962
00:54:35,760 --> 00:54:38,759
Speaker 1: house is small and our bedroom is directly across from

963
00:54:38,840 --> 00:54:42,879
Speaker 1: his parents' bedroom. His mom uses the dining chair as

964
00:54:43,040 --> 00:54:45,719
Speaker 1: the dining room excuse me as her sewing room, and

965
00:54:45,920 --> 00:54:48,520
Speaker 1: that's where she smokes her cigarettes, and you can smell

966
00:54:48,600 --> 00:54:52,919
Speaker 1: the smoke all over the house. It's a madhouse. They're

967
00:54:53,000 --> 00:54:55,239
Speaker 1: in their room having sex and we're in our room

968
00:54:55,360 --> 00:54:58,560
Speaker 1: having sex in our full sized bed. There is one

969
00:54:58,680 --> 00:55:01,320
Speaker 1: bathroom and the shower or does not work, so we

970
00:55:01,480 --> 00:55:05,400
Speaker 1: all have to take bath. This is sheer torture for me.

971
00:55:05,880 --> 00:55:10,040
Speaker 1: But I love this man. I often asked myself, why

972
00:55:10,080 --> 00:55:13,000
Speaker 1: do I put up with this. I'm twenty nine and

973
00:55:13,160 --> 00:55:15,520
Speaker 1: can do better. I can find a man with his

974
00:55:15,640 --> 00:55:18,840
Speaker 1: own place, a great job, and sane parents. I have

975
00:55:18,960 --> 00:55:21,560
Speaker 1: invested six years into this and I want him to

976
00:55:21,600 --> 00:55:24,759
Speaker 1: stop being complacent and get us out of here. He's

977
00:55:24,800 --> 00:55:28,160
Speaker 1: happy with the home cooked meals, watching movies with his parents,

978
00:55:28,239 --> 00:55:32,279
Speaker 1: holidays with them, etc. But I want out. My mother

979
00:55:32,360 --> 00:55:34,839
Speaker 1: came to visit me and she got a hotel room.

980
00:55:35,120 --> 00:55:37,040
Speaker 1: I stayed with her for two nights and it was

981
00:55:37,560 --> 00:55:40,440
Speaker 1: nice to take a shower, have a bed to myself,

982
00:55:40,680 --> 00:55:43,319
Speaker 1: and not have to talk to his mother. My mother

983
00:55:43,400 --> 00:55:45,960
Speaker 1: told me to be patient with him and things will

984
00:55:46,000 --> 00:55:48,799
Speaker 1: work out. Should I move out and break up with him?

985
00:55:48,880 --> 00:55:51,760
Speaker 1: Or should I follow my mother's advice? Can I change

986
00:55:51,800 --> 00:55:55,960
Speaker 1: his mindset? Or is he too far gone. Please advise

987
00:55:58,080 --> 00:56:01,279
Speaker 1: you guys have been living with his parents are long enough?

988
00:56:01,600 --> 00:56:05,480
Speaker 1: And do you want to die from secondhand smoke? I mean, really,

989
00:56:05,640 --> 00:56:08,320
Speaker 1: that's kind of what this is coming down to. There's

990
00:56:08,400 --> 00:56:12,839
Speaker 1: so many things wrong with this letter that we don't

991
00:56:12,880 --> 00:56:15,200
Speaker 1: really have the time to go into it. We really

992
00:56:15,280 --> 00:56:21,640
Speaker 1: really don't. The thing about it is is I don't

993
00:56:21,680 --> 00:56:23,799
Speaker 1: know why you have him. Figured this out on your own.

994
00:56:24,040 --> 00:56:26,719
Speaker 1: You can't continue to stay here. This was supposed to

995
00:56:26,760 --> 00:56:29,680
Speaker 1: be a temporary situation until he got a new job.

996
00:56:30,000 --> 00:56:33,719
Speaker 1: Thank god he's working again. Now after six years with him,

997
00:56:34,040 --> 00:56:38,120
Speaker 1: you're going backwards. He's becoming very comfortable, too comfortable with

998
00:56:38,280 --> 00:56:41,040
Speaker 1: mom and dad watching movies and the home cooked meals

999
00:56:41,040 --> 00:56:43,360
Speaker 1: and all that. You've been with him six years. He

1000
00:56:43,480 --> 00:56:47,200
Speaker 1: hasn't even proposed to you, and you know you can't

1001
00:56:47,320 --> 00:56:50,279
Speaker 1: change him. You can't change his mindset. He'll only change

1002
00:56:50,320 --> 00:56:52,759
Speaker 1: if he wants to change for you, and so far

1003
00:56:53,200 --> 00:56:57,560
Speaker 1: that hasn't happened. When I finished reading this letter, initially

1004
00:56:57,680 --> 00:56:59,640
Speaker 1: I had to go back up to the top line

1005
00:57:00,040 --> 00:57:03,120
Speaker 1: because I wanted to make sure you said that you

1006
00:57:03,239 --> 00:57:06,120
Speaker 1: know you were not married and you were just dating him.

1007
00:57:06,280 --> 00:57:08,680
Speaker 1: You're just dating him, You've just been dating him for

1008
00:57:08,760 --> 00:57:11,359
Speaker 1: six years? Any plans for the future, do you guys

1009
00:57:11,480 --> 00:57:14,080
Speaker 1: talk about it? Are you just content being with him

1010
00:57:14,360 --> 00:57:17,800
Speaker 1: for another ten years? Six years? I think you should

1011
00:57:17,840 --> 00:57:20,720
Speaker 1: get your own apartment by yourself. Let him stay with

1012
00:57:20,840 --> 00:57:23,760
Speaker 1: his parents, since he's loving it there so much. If

1013
00:57:23,800 --> 00:57:26,680
Speaker 1: there's any hope of you, guys ever being together, you

1014
00:57:26,880 --> 00:57:30,400
Speaker 1: being gone should help him make up his mind. If

1015
00:57:30,440 --> 00:57:32,440
Speaker 1: this is not what you want, why are you putting

1016
00:57:32,480 --> 00:57:34,960
Speaker 1: up with it? You even ask yourself that again, you

1017
00:57:35,080 --> 00:57:39,920
Speaker 1: need to find an apartment and move out today, Tommy,

1018
00:57:40,160 --> 00:57:47,400
Speaker 1: what you got? Can I change his mindset? That's the question? Now,

1019
00:57:47,480 --> 00:57:51,240
Speaker 1: my question to you is the problem is change your

1020
00:57:51,280 --> 00:57:54,800
Speaker 1: own mindset? That seemed to be the problem. So you're

1021
00:57:54,800 --> 00:57:58,200
Speaker 1: worried about his mindset. I'm worried. I'm concerned with your

1022
00:57:58,920 --> 00:58:01,800
Speaker 1: mindset because you're the one and set your mind on

1023
00:58:01,960 --> 00:58:03,800
Speaker 1: doing this, this, this and that and here's what I

1024
00:58:03,920 --> 00:58:05,800
Speaker 1: what I really don't like that I'm here? What I'm

1025
00:58:05,840 --> 00:58:09,600
Speaker 1: not here? Where's your job? Why are you not working?

1026
00:58:10,040 --> 00:58:12,520
Speaker 1: Why are you not taking care of at least yourself?

1027
00:58:13,280 --> 00:58:15,880
Speaker 1: And so you dependent on him? Now you up in

1028
00:58:15,920 --> 00:58:17,640
Speaker 1: his ragged ass house with his mom and his dadd

1029
00:58:18,080 --> 00:58:20,080
Speaker 1: All this this, this got to be the worst sex

1030
00:58:20,160 --> 00:58:22,280
Speaker 1: in the world across the hall from somebody to mom

1031
00:58:22,320 --> 00:58:24,840
Speaker 1: and dadd and this got to be straight ignorant. Okay,

1032
00:58:26,040 --> 00:58:28,600
Speaker 1: that's who want to do that? I can't. I can't

1033
00:58:28,680 --> 00:58:33,960
Speaker 1: hill to be here my mama. That's my mama over

1034
00:58:34,040 --> 00:58:36,880
Speaker 1: there hill like that. I can't. I'm sorry. I just

1035
00:58:37,000 --> 00:58:38,960
Speaker 1: can't hand that kind of sex my mama over that

1036
00:58:39,040 --> 00:58:41,120
Speaker 1: highland while I mean you over here, Holland, that just

1037
00:58:41,200 --> 00:58:44,120
Speaker 1: don't work for me. Let's change your mindset. So basically,

1038
00:58:44,160 --> 00:58:47,280
Speaker 1: you went about your relationship completely wrong. You moved in

1039
00:58:47,400 --> 00:58:49,720
Speaker 1: and moved in with him, all right, that didn't work.

1040
00:58:50,120 --> 00:58:52,400
Speaker 1: Uh so y'all lost different thing. Now you didn't moved

1041
00:58:52,400 --> 00:58:54,640
Speaker 1: in with him and his mom. Y'all not married. Everything

1042
00:58:54,760 --> 00:58:58,320
Speaker 1: you've done is completely out of order. So you need

1043
00:58:58,360 --> 00:59:01,040
Speaker 1: to get yourself together, won't you, Like Shirley saying, get

1044
00:59:01,080 --> 00:59:03,040
Speaker 1: your own apartment. But let's get you a job. I

1045
00:59:03,160 --> 00:59:06,560
Speaker 1: don't hear that you have a job. You need a job.

1046
00:59:07,400 --> 00:59:09,440
Speaker 1: Get you a job so you can take care of you.

1047
00:59:09,600 --> 00:59:12,240
Speaker 1: You're twenty something years old, so anybody in there twenties,

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00:59:13,000 --> 00:59:15,200
Speaker 1: I'm big on this. Be able to take care of

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00:59:15,360 --> 00:59:19,120
Speaker 1: yourself first. Then we can figure out what we're doing

1050
00:59:19,160 --> 00:59:21,680
Speaker 1: and how we move forward. But right now I'm dealing

1051
00:59:21,760 --> 00:59:24,200
Speaker 1: with your mindset. I think it's your mind that we

1052
00:59:24,320 --> 00:59:26,160
Speaker 1: need to be talking about. If he is who the

1053
00:59:26,240 --> 00:59:27,760
Speaker 1: way he is, and he's like the way he is,

1054
00:59:27,960 --> 00:59:30,800
Speaker 1: so be it. Get your mindset together, and then you'll

1055
00:59:30,840 --> 00:59:33,160
Speaker 1: find you a man that's good and got the mindset

1056
00:59:33,320 --> 00:59:38,760
Speaker 1: that you want him to have. That's right, that's right.

1057
00:59:39,120 --> 00:59:41,720
Speaker 1: Why are we all always trying to change these men?

1058
00:59:42,040 --> 00:59:44,920
Speaker 1: Why are we doing it? It's not gonna happen. They

1059
00:59:45,040 --> 00:59:49,080
Speaker 1: do it on their own. Six years. Oh here, mama,

1060
00:59:49,280 --> 00:59:52,440
Speaker 1: holla and go at it with Daddy, and then mama

1061
00:59:52,560 --> 00:59:54,840
Speaker 1: now smoking and making cloe? What kind of closes you?

1062
00:59:54,960 --> 00:59:57,080
Speaker 1: What did you sew in? What is you making in

1063
00:59:57,200 --> 00:59:59,680
Speaker 1: this damn room? And everything you make it? This? Here?

1064
00:59:59,720 --> 01:00:01,919
Speaker 1: I may a jumpsuit? Oh damn, Thank smell like Ben's

1065
01:00:01,960 --> 01:00:04,000
Speaker 1: in the head mentor like one hundred in the soft pack.

1066
01:00:04,120 --> 01:00:10,640
Speaker 1: I don't want that. That's a salt pack. All right?

1067
01:00:11,040 --> 01:00:13,200
Speaker 1: All right, hold on, we're gonna hear from Junior coming

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01:00:13,280 --> 01:00:16,640
Speaker 1: up with part two of the Strawberry Letter for Today

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01:00:16,840 --> 01:00:20,080
Speaker 1: at twenty three minutes after the hour. The subject is

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01:00:20,560 --> 01:00:25,560
Speaker 1: can I change his mindsets. We'll get back. Oh, mama, daddy,

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01:00:27,960 --> 01:00:31,920
Speaker 1: you're listening Harvey Morning Show. All right, we got a

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01:00:31,960 --> 01:00:35,720
Speaker 1: recap today's Strawberry letter. The subject is can I change

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01:00:35,800 --> 01:00:38,800
Speaker 1: his mindset? Twenty nine year old woman wrote this letter.

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01:00:38,960 --> 01:00:41,600
Speaker 1: She is in a relationship with a man that she's

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01:00:41,640 --> 01:00:44,840
Speaker 1: been dating. They've been together for six years. He lost

1076
01:00:44,920 --> 01:00:47,120
Speaker 1: his job. They had to move in with his parents

1077
01:00:47,280 --> 01:00:51,160
Speaker 1: in their two bedroom house. This happened back in twenty twenty.

1078
01:00:51,680 --> 01:00:55,160
Speaker 1: Her boyfriend lost his job. He's back working now, so

1079
01:00:55,360 --> 01:00:58,760
Speaker 1: she's thinking that, you know, since he's back working, they're

1080
01:00:58,800 --> 01:01:00,960
Speaker 1: getting ready to move out and move into their own place.

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01:01:01,920 --> 01:01:04,520
Speaker 1: Not the situation, Not the case here at all. The

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01:01:04,640 --> 01:01:07,840
Speaker 1: boyfriend is loving living with his parents. Why because he's

1083
01:01:07,880 --> 01:01:10,720
Speaker 1: getting home cooked meals, he gets to watch movies with

1084
01:01:10,840 --> 01:01:14,800
Speaker 1: his parents. It's been holidays with them. But she wants out.

1085
01:01:15,120 --> 01:01:17,800
Speaker 1: She's depending on this man to get them a house,

1086
01:01:18,040 --> 01:01:20,800
Speaker 1: to move them out, to do all these things. They

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01:01:20,880 --> 01:01:25,000
Speaker 1: live in this house. The shower is broken in the bathroom.

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01:01:25,080 --> 01:01:27,440
Speaker 1: They have one bathroom. They all have to take baths

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01:01:27,520 --> 01:01:31,440
Speaker 1: and this one bath The mom is a seamstress. She

1090
01:01:31,560 --> 01:01:34,160
Speaker 1: sews in the dining room. She smokes all over the house.

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01:01:34,800 --> 01:01:37,600
Speaker 1: It's just a mess. She's miserable in this place. But

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01:01:37,760 --> 01:01:40,520
Speaker 1: she's looking to her man, trying to change his mind

1093
01:01:40,600 --> 01:01:43,000
Speaker 1: to get him out of there, and that's not happening.

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01:01:43,120 --> 01:01:46,320
Speaker 1: She says she can do better, but she's not. That's

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01:01:46,400 --> 01:01:49,760
Speaker 1: basically the gist of the letter. Her mom came to

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01:01:49,880 --> 01:01:52,000
Speaker 1: visit her. She stayed with her mom in a hotel,

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01:01:52,160 --> 01:01:54,360
Speaker 1: got her own shower, her own bed. She liked that,

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01:01:54,720 --> 01:01:57,120
Speaker 1: but her mother told her not to break up with

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01:01:57,240 --> 01:01:59,720
Speaker 1: the man and to give it a little more time,

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01:02:00,080 --> 01:02:02,600
Speaker 1: be patient, and things will work out. What she wants

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01:02:02,640 --> 01:02:05,360
Speaker 1: to know is can she change his mindset or is

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01:02:05,400 --> 01:02:09,840
Speaker 1: he too far gone? Junior? What say you? What you got? Junior?

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01:02:10,960 --> 01:02:15,520
Speaker 1: I've seen these houses with these two bedrooms, wasn't bathroom?

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01:02:16,000 --> 01:02:18,880
Speaker 1: I know what this house set up looks like. I've

1105
01:02:18,920 --> 01:02:21,720
Speaker 1: been in there. I know what this is. First of all,

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01:02:22,360 --> 01:02:25,000
Speaker 1: I ain't they have a sex and they house. That's fine.

1107
01:02:25,160 --> 01:02:28,080
Speaker 1: But the problem I see how you took a shower.

1108
01:02:28,520 --> 01:02:32,600
Speaker 1: It over two years, your crazy look sitting your ass

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01:02:32,680 --> 01:02:35,320
Speaker 1: and that little last tub and that bath room, put

1110
01:02:35,360 --> 01:02:38,680
Speaker 1: your knees in your chests, trying to wipe yourself down.

1111
01:02:39,160 --> 01:02:42,280
Speaker 1: It's all y'all in here bathing. I know what this

1112
01:02:42,520 --> 01:02:45,400
Speaker 1: looks like. You in here crying because you know that

1113
01:02:45,640 --> 01:02:49,400
Speaker 1: shower head is rusted and it ain't working. I know

1114
01:02:49,600 --> 01:02:51,320
Speaker 1: you tired of this. You ought to be tired of

1115
01:02:51,360 --> 01:02:54,360
Speaker 1: a lot of things, changing mindsets. You need to change locations.

1116
01:02:54,560 --> 01:02:56,680
Speaker 1: It's what you don't care. What you need to do.

1117
01:02:56,960 --> 01:02:58,959
Speaker 1: If you get you a better man with his own place,

1118
01:02:59,040 --> 01:03:00,800
Speaker 1: go out there, get here them because you don't have

1119
01:03:00,920 --> 01:03:03,160
Speaker 1: to hit this. Aren't you tired of these old lass

1120
01:03:03,200 --> 01:03:05,480
Speaker 1: conversations with his mama without a cigarette, hanging out on

1121
01:03:06,840 --> 01:03:08,960
Speaker 1: sitting up there? Man about this? You know? And I

1122
01:03:09,440 --> 01:03:13,200
Speaker 1: when I first met Clidis Johnson it was nineteen forty five. Yeah,

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01:03:14,760 --> 01:03:17,600
Speaker 1: you gotta be tired of these old lass conversations. Do

1124
01:03:17,760 --> 01:03:20,240
Speaker 1: you just stat that window that's over that kitchen's sake

1125
01:03:20,320 --> 01:03:22,600
Speaker 1: and just hold for a better future with that Curtin

1126
01:03:22,720 --> 01:03:25,080
Speaker 1: rod All? It ain't you tired of looking up there

1127
01:03:25,120 --> 01:03:27,439
Speaker 1: on that wall and seeing King and Kennedy just hanging

1128
01:03:27,560 --> 01:03:30,080
Speaker 1: up there because he wouldn't the little lass house. I

1129
01:03:30,400 --> 01:03:32,800
Speaker 1: know you got to be tired of this. How many

1130
01:03:32,920 --> 01:03:36,200
Speaker 1: times you're watching good times and you living in good times?

1131
01:03:36,520 --> 01:03:43,760
Speaker 1: How you watching this going them? How is you doing this.

1132
01:03:44,360 --> 01:03:47,200
Speaker 1: How is you in here with his parents? How long

1133
01:03:47,680 --> 01:03:49,840
Speaker 1: is you was sitting there with his mama watching Lady

1134
01:03:49,920 --> 01:03:52,960
Speaker 1: Sings the Blue, watching Lady Sings the Blue with him

1135
01:03:53,000 --> 01:03:55,760
Speaker 1: mama and daddy, and they just rubbing their feet together

1136
01:03:55,960 --> 01:03:58,800
Speaker 1: on end of that couch. And these cigarettes won't stop.

1137
01:03:58,960 --> 01:04:01,240
Speaker 1: Ain't you tiling that that ass tray with twenty two

1138
01:04:01,320 --> 01:04:03,480
Speaker 1: butts in it? Just sitting up there on the town.

1139
01:04:03,760 --> 01:04:06,400
Speaker 1: You got to be tired of this? Can you change

1140
01:04:06,440 --> 01:04:09,800
Speaker 1: your location? It's what I'm saying. Can you just change

1141
01:04:09,920 --> 01:04:13,000
Speaker 1: your location? Do you have any money for a studio

1142
01:04:13,080 --> 01:04:19,120
Speaker 1: with a working shower, just a studio? Just can you

1143
01:04:19,200 --> 01:04:24,360
Speaker 1: just give it? At even heard the word astray as

1144
01:04:24,600 --> 01:04:27,600
Speaker 1: the scene one. But she's slowing and stacking them up,

1145
01:04:27,880 --> 01:04:30,360
Speaker 1: and then they got the nerve to be over there

1146
01:04:30,680 --> 01:04:34,400
Speaker 1: just across the hall. Give it it all, Give it

1147
01:04:34,480 --> 01:04:36,439
Speaker 1: it all across the hall, and you just got the dirt.

1148
01:04:36,600 --> 01:04:38,760
Speaker 1: You couldn't touch me, so were across the hall, having

1149
01:04:38,800 --> 01:04:42,480
Speaker 1: six You couldn't touch me in this house. Ain't you

1150
01:04:42,640 --> 01:04:45,480
Speaker 1: tired of that quilp that she saw that you sleep on. Yeah,

1151
01:04:46,240 --> 01:04:48,800
Speaker 1: that quill that you're sleeping on. You got to be

1152
01:04:48,920 --> 01:04:54,840
Speaker 1: tired of that quill? Oh, now, change that stell like smoke,

1153
01:04:54,920 --> 01:04:57,560
Speaker 1: like time, and said everything she's slowing smelling like smoke.

1154
01:04:57,880 --> 01:05:00,280
Speaker 1: You gotta be tired of talking to the postman every

1155
01:05:00,320 --> 01:05:02,240
Speaker 1: day because they're coming right up to the bell box

1156
01:05:02,400 --> 01:05:04,800
Speaker 1: and you're everybody saying, how you doing? Mister Williams? You

1157
01:05:05,000 --> 01:05:07,440
Speaker 1: know you know, mister Williams, why don't you just get

1158
01:05:07,480 --> 01:05:11,040
Speaker 1: out here? Forget mindset change your location shirt? That's all

1159
01:05:11,080 --> 01:05:14,520
Speaker 1: I got. Fuck, you ain't got to take this. I

1160
01:05:14,560 --> 01:05:16,920
Speaker 1: didn't like my mama the town every weekend so I

1161
01:05:17,000 --> 01:05:21,000
Speaker 1: could shower up show. But you know what, you know

1162
01:05:21,080 --> 01:05:28,520
Speaker 1: what Mama told her to stay m something? What's so

1163
01:05:28,680 --> 01:05:31,320
Speaker 1: crazy about this? Ain't you tired of pulling them tires out?

1164
01:05:31,360 --> 01:05:34,240
Speaker 1: That candy in that bathroom with them broken shelves and

1165
01:05:34,360 --> 01:05:37,280
Speaker 1: the dish rag you bathing with it? How you do this?

1166
01:05:38,680 --> 01:05:41,120
Speaker 1: How could you do that? All the holes in the rag,

1167
01:05:41,240 --> 01:05:43,560
Speaker 1: the tiles got rag. You ought to be tired loo

1168
01:05:43,680 --> 01:05:45,560
Speaker 1: at the hot water about on the back of that door,

1169
01:05:45,600 --> 01:05:47,840
Speaker 1: and that bad y'all tired looking That moon moves, thee

1170
01:05:48,000 --> 01:05:50,840
Speaker 1: moon moving everywhere every day she got a brand new

1171
01:05:50,920 --> 01:05:53,600
Speaker 1: moon moved. You ought to be tired of seeing. No,

1172
01:05:55,640 --> 01:05:59,160
Speaker 1: just don't make no sense. I can't do this. No, no,

1173
01:05:59,560 --> 01:06:02,080
Speaker 1: don't call ask us. You're too grown. You're twenty nine,

1174
01:06:02,440 --> 01:06:06,920
Speaker 1: you're twenty four people using one tallet. People go, oh, man,

1175
01:06:07,480 --> 01:06:10,560
Speaker 1: I know walked everybody. Don't lock that doing it bath

1176
01:06:10,640 --> 01:06:12,440
Speaker 1: from I know you've walked in and then seeing his

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01:06:12,560 --> 01:06:14,440
Speaker 1: mama was sitting on that toilet. I know you've seen that.

1178
01:06:15,680 --> 01:06:21,479
Speaker 1: I know what you need. Now, baby girl, don't baby

1179
01:06:21,520 --> 01:06:26,520
Speaker 1: girl me put your clothes off. She's she's twenty nine

1180
01:06:26,560 --> 01:06:30,720
Speaker 1: and she can do better. So do better, better, do better? Yeah? Leave,

1181
01:06:31,680 --> 01:06:36,160
Speaker 1: Do we get your own apartment suspenders and white shirts?

1182
01:06:36,200 --> 01:06:41,720
Speaker 1: Se me patting it? All right? Listen, man Wall that's

1183
01:06:41,800 --> 01:06:45,880
Speaker 1: up on Instagram at Steve Barby FM. Do a comment

1184
01:06:45,920 --> 01:06:47,960
Speaker 1: on today's Strawberry Letter. You can also check out the

1185
01:06:47,960 --> 01:06:51,120
Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter podcast on demand. Coming up next, it is

1186
01:06:51,240 --> 01:06:55,440
Speaker 1: Junior and Sports Talk. Right after this. You're listening Steve

1187
01:06:55,640 --> 01:06:58,480
Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. All right, guys, it is time now

1188
01:06:58,560 --> 01:07:01,800
Speaker 1: for Junior and Sports Talk. What you got junior? All right, Shirley,

1189
01:07:01,880 --> 01:07:04,840
Speaker 1: But let me tell everybody. Huntsville, Alabama, September first, Man,

1190
01:07:04,880 --> 01:07:06,960
Speaker 1: I'm coming to town. We're gonna have us a good time.

1191
01:07:07,000 --> 01:07:08,320
Speaker 1: Come on out, there and hang out with your favorite

1192
01:07:08,320 --> 01:07:10,480
Speaker 1: play cousin for Labor Day weekend. I got time to

1193
01:07:10,520 --> 01:07:12,480
Speaker 1: do one show. I'm gonna come in. I'm gonna come

1194
01:07:12,480 --> 01:07:14,520
Speaker 1: out and gonna get your tickets right now and Huntsville

1195
01:07:14,560 --> 01:07:20,080
Speaker 1: Stand Up Live dot Com. All right, man, you know

1196
01:07:20,400 --> 01:07:22,120
Speaker 1: I got one day because I gotta go get prepared

1197
01:07:22,160 --> 01:07:24,560
Speaker 1: for some other things. But I'm while junior. You got

1198
01:07:24,640 --> 01:07:26,560
Speaker 1: to go to the cigar boar while you there. Okay, man,

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01:07:26,600 --> 01:07:29,000
Speaker 1: that's at the part that I have at the party

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01:07:29,040 --> 01:07:31,480
Speaker 1: over there. So that's that's gonna do. Ye ask for

1201
01:07:31,600 --> 01:07:40,160
Speaker 1: Marssa telling my sin Marsa, oh Marsa. Okay, I do

1202
01:07:40,280 --> 01:07:42,000
Speaker 1: that man. All right, man, let's get to it. Let's

1203
01:07:42,000 --> 01:07:45,000
Speaker 1: talk about the Serena Williams is on her fairwheel tool.

1204
01:07:45,120 --> 01:07:46,840
Speaker 1: She is gonna hang it up. Man. I am not

1205
01:07:47,040 --> 01:07:50,560
Speaker 1: mad at her career. She did a great job. We're

1206
01:07:50,560 --> 01:07:52,320
Speaker 1: gonna miss her though, because she brought so much to

1207
01:07:52,360 --> 01:07:53,800
Speaker 1: the sport. I mean, looking at all the people that

1208
01:07:53,880 --> 01:07:57,040
Speaker 1: she's influenced, all these young black tennis. She's still baby,

1209
01:07:57,120 --> 01:08:00,800
Speaker 1: She's still grand slams girl. Is not mad at you.

1210
01:08:00,920 --> 01:08:02,880
Speaker 1: Gonna sit down and do something. Mess coach be a

1211
01:08:03,000 --> 01:08:05,480
Speaker 1: commentator makes some more money elsewhere. You still got it?

1212
01:08:05,680 --> 01:08:11,680
Speaker 1: Dream she is? She is a legend. Yeah, I give it.

1213
01:08:11,800 --> 01:08:13,439
Speaker 1: I give you the eight to ten years. That little

1214
01:08:13,480 --> 01:08:18,160
Speaker 1: girl gonna be playing. You're watching sex her daughter by Yeah? Yeah, yeah,

1215
01:08:18,160 --> 01:08:19,840
Speaker 1: her daughter. I think her daughter will be out there

1216
01:08:20,280 --> 01:08:22,360
Speaker 1: also last week, man, we gotta talk about it. Did

1217
01:08:22,400 --> 01:08:25,120
Speaker 1: y'all see Marshawn Lynch? You get a d U? Did

1218
01:08:25,200 --> 01:08:30,040
Speaker 1: y'all's hear? Man? Yeah? Man? But beast mold the only

1219
01:08:30,280 --> 01:08:35,160
Speaker 1: skittles in bananas? No, man, but but but my whole

1220
01:08:35,240 --> 01:08:38,599
Speaker 1: thing is why you don't have a drive dollar? Yah? Yeah,

1221
01:08:39,120 --> 01:08:41,240
Speaker 1: you know, why are you gonna drive? I don't like

1222
01:08:41,360 --> 01:08:43,880
Speaker 1: seeing Marshawn. Marshawn got some great commercials. I know that.

1223
01:08:45,880 --> 01:08:47,800
Speaker 1: Every time I see a commercial, I go get it.

1224
01:08:47,880 --> 01:08:53,960
Speaker 1: Whatever he said, yeah, somebody whatever whatever he's in. And

1225
01:08:54,120 --> 01:08:56,639
Speaker 1: also we did talk about this earlier to Shaun Watson

1226
01:08:57,280 --> 01:09:01,000
Speaker 1: didn't make an apology Friday about to all the women

1227
01:09:01,080 --> 01:09:04,640
Speaker 1: who were involved in the sex scandal, miss Coompany. He

1228
01:09:04,720 --> 01:09:07,160
Speaker 1: did make an apology. Let me ask all this about

1229
01:09:07,160 --> 01:09:09,080
Speaker 1: their apology. Did you feel it was authentic or were

1230
01:09:09,080 --> 01:09:11,400
Speaker 1: just like he's saying it to save face. How do

1231
01:09:11,479 --> 01:09:13,880
Speaker 1: you look at this did we view this as this

1232
01:09:14,160 --> 01:09:16,960
Speaker 1: was genuine? Well, I mean, how can you judge someone

1233
01:09:17,120 --> 01:09:20,080
Speaker 1: within their heart? You know, I mean, because you had

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01:09:20,120 --> 01:09:23,360
Speaker 1: all this other time to apologize. Yeah, I'm looking at

1235
01:09:23,479 --> 01:09:25,800
Speaker 1: all the time that went by and you had time

1236
01:09:25,840 --> 01:09:28,559
Speaker 1: to apologize, and then all Friday, all of a sudden

1237
01:09:28,640 --> 01:09:31,040
Speaker 1: after the ruling, now you want to apologize. I thought

1238
01:09:31,040 --> 01:09:32,719
Speaker 1: you should have just apologized when you got in Trump

1239
01:09:32,760 --> 01:09:35,640
Speaker 1: in the first place. You think in the timing of

1240
01:09:35,720 --> 01:09:40,320
Speaker 1: the apologize, I mean he apologized maybe, and um, I

1241
01:09:40,400 --> 01:09:42,639
Speaker 1: don't know. We'll see what the NFL what the commissioner.

1242
01:09:42,680 --> 01:09:46,880
Speaker 1: The commissioners suspended for the entire Sea High season, So

1243
01:09:47,120 --> 01:09:50,200
Speaker 1: for size, maybe he thought it would have meant guilt

1244
01:09:50,360 --> 01:09:53,800
Speaker 1: if he apologized initially or something, you know, just to

1245
01:09:53,880 --> 01:09:56,160
Speaker 1: be fair. He's suspended for six games and he can

1246
01:09:56,320 --> 01:09:58,439
Speaker 1: play in the preseason. He just can't play in the

1247
01:09:58,520 --> 01:10:01,920
Speaker 1: season open for six games. So we see gonna turn out. Man,

1248
01:10:01,920 --> 01:10:04,679
Speaker 1: I just had a question back. That's all all right, junior,

1249
01:10:04,800 --> 01:10:06,760
Speaker 1: thank you coming up at the top of the hour.

1250
01:10:06,880 --> 01:10:09,679
Speaker 1: What are some of your fondest memories of school. We'll

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Speaker 1: get into that right after this. You're listening to show,

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Speaker 1: all right, So school is already back in session for

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01:10:19,720 --> 01:10:22,599
Speaker 1: a lot of students and parents are happy and very

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01:10:22,800 --> 01:10:25,880
Speaker 1: very relieved. Think back to your first day of school,

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01:10:25,920 --> 01:10:28,360
Speaker 1: and I think back now, was it stressful for you

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01:10:28,600 --> 01:10:30,880
Speaker 1: or were you always ready to go back to school

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01:10:31,920 --> 01:10:34,639
Speaker 1: after a nice summer break? What was your favorite subject

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01:10:34,720 --> 01:10:37,120
Speaker 1: in school? All of these things. I mean, it makes

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01:10:37,160 --> 01:10:40,400
Speaker 1: you think about that when when when August and September

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01:10:40,479 --> 01:10:43,640
Speaker 1: get here. How old were you when you had your

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Speaker 1: first crush on someone? That's another good question. And what

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01:10:46,760 --> 01:10:51,120
Speaker 1: sports or activities did you participate in? Were you excited

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01:10:51,120 --> 01:10:53,600
Speaker 1: about the first day? I always was, you know what?

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01:10:53,960 --> 01:10:57,160
Speaker 1: The first day to me was always about it. Depending

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01:10:57,200 --> 01:10:59,760
Speaker 1: on what grade we talk like that ninth grade that

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01:11:00,080 --> 01:11:03,799
Speaker 1: is grueling. I didn't like that ninth grade being a freshman,

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Speaker 1: because you're a freshman at the high school. All of

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01:11:06,920 --> 01:11:11,680
Speaker 1: this is new. Yeah, you're a freshman, you know, you

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01:11:11,800 --> 01:11:15,200
Speaker 1: just you just left eighth grade where you was the bomb,

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01:11:15,800 --> 01:11:19,559
Speaker 1: you know, the man, the man. Now you're starting at

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01:11:19,560 --> 01:11:21,360
Speaker 1: the bottom of the totem pole. And here we are

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Speaker 1: ninth grade all the way to twelve. Oh my god.

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Speaker 1: And back when I was in school upper classman, I

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01:11:28,160 --> 01:11:30,400
Speaker 1: wouldn't say hayes, but they would give a freshman a

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01:11:30,479 --> 01:11:37,280
Speaker 1: hard time. Oh yeah, fish, what's happening? Yeah, they go

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01:11:37,479 --> 01:11:40,000
Speaker 1: give it to you. They gonna give it to you.

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01:11:40,520 --> 01:11:43,519
Speaker 1: If that's the same case. My daughter's gonna be a

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01:11:43,560 --> 01:11:48,000
Speaker 1: freshman this year, so oh is she? Huh? Josha can

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01:11:48,120 --> 01:11:53,800
Speaker 1: handle herself. I'm pretty sure. Yeah, don't forget who her

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01:11:53,880 --> 01:12:01,080
Speaker 1: mama is. Okay, and my daddy's girl right there and

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01:12:01,200 --> 01:12:04,240
Speaker 1: then defend. And Carlin Junior can attest it. Man. The

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01:12:04,280 --> 01:12:06,880
Speaker 1: first day of college, you know, just going off to school,

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01:12:07,000 --> 01:12:10,000
Speaker 1: that was like, whoa, I don't know what. I'm scared

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01:12:10,040 --> 01:12:16,360
Speaker 1: as all get out, man on your own, waving you

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01:12:16,520 --> 01:12:21,800
Speaker 1: away from home? This is yeah, what about your first

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01:12:21,880 --> 01:12:24,920
Speaker 1: crush at school? What? What? How were you when you

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01:12:25,000 --> 01:12:30,519
Speaker 1: had your first crush? Five? Five? So as I walk,

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01:12:31,520 --> 01:12:34,479
Speaker 1: I said, our backpacking last she got it all together, like, huh,

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01:12:36,439 --> 01:12:40,960
Speaker 1: you started way too color with you. I'm coloring with you.

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01:12:43,160 --> 01:12:52,840
Speaker 1: You canna help me stay in the line. But film

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01:12:52,920 --> 01:12:58,240
Speaker 1: sixth grade? Oh my god, yeah, sixth grade Regina Pringle, God,

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01:13:02,160 --> 01:13:05,839
Speaker 1: Regina Regina Pringle called guy. You couldn't tell me nothingbody

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01:13:06,439 --> 01:13:11,559
Speaker 1: Springle like the chips spring Yeah. I couldn't even make

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01:13:11,640 --> 01:13:13,840
Speaker 1: eye contact with I also scared. Look at that girl.

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01:13:13,920 --> 01:13:17,439
Speaker 1: I was like, same way I am with Haighlet today.

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01:13:20,280 --> 01:13:25,120
Speaker 1: That's the same level, same same level. Boy, that's Regina

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01:13:25,160 --> 01:13:28,559
Speaker 1: Pringle on that level. Boy, you got the high school

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01:13:28,640 --> 01:13:30,360
Speaker 1: you had to crush on the girl Rember. Remember used

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01:13:30,360 --> 01:13:33,080
Speaker 1: to carry her books. Yeah, that was big dog. If

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01:13:33,160 --> 01:13:35,240
Speaker 1: everybody knew if you was carrying her books, they knew

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01:13:35,280 --> 01:13:39,920
Speaker 1: what that meant. Yeah yeah, huh oh yeah, no, you

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01:13:40,040 --> 01:13:41,840
Speaker 1: knew you with somebody when you when you and your

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01:13:41,880 --> 01:13:46,800
Speaker 1: girl shared a locker together. Oh my god. And then

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01:13:46,920 --> 01:13:54,200
Speaker 1: y'all break up. Get your stuff out my locker, right, yeah,

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01:13:55,880 --> 01:13:57,960
Speaker 1: I'm friend to get I'm friend to get the janitor

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01:13:58,000 --> 01:14:00,600
Speaker 1: to change my damn called because I want you in

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01:14:00,720 --> 01:14:07,439
Speaker 1: my locker. Man, is that what you were trying? Yeah?

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01:14:10,640 --> 01:14:13,120
Speaker 1: What about sports? I know you guys were into sports.

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01:14:13,800 --> 01:14:15,800
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that was that was the fun part. That

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01:14:15,880 --> 01:14:18,920
Speaker 1: was easy. Yeah, that was easy. Going to practice to

1311
01:14:19,000 --> 01:14:23,080
Speaker 1: foll school and you going to practice school. The problem

1312
01:14:23,680 --> 01:14:26,880
Speaker 1: I ran track? My problem my head was I had

1313
01:14:27,000 --> 01:14:29,479
Speaker 1: was we we we had like he said, we had

1314
01:14:29,479 --> 01:14:33,439
Speaker 1: track crackers before school started, But it was that shower

1315
01:14:33,720 --> 01:14:41,000
Speaker 1: shower after. I didn't like that part. It's just what Yeah,

1316
01:14:41,120 --> 01:14:42,720
Speaker 1: but I wanted to be clean, but it was I

1317
01:14:42,880 --> 01:14:45,000
Speaker 1: wasn't used to taking no shower with no thirty part people,

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01:14:45,040 --> 01:14:47,519
Speaker 1: and there I was like, I'm gonna wait late. I'm

1319
01:14:47,600 --> 01:14:51,040
Speaker 1: gonna be late every morning from my first class. I

1320
01:14:51,120 --> 01:14:54,439
Speaker 1: gotta wait for y'all to clear out of here. All right, guys,

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01:14:55,280 --> 01:14:57,639
Speaker 1: coming up next to about twenty minutes after the hour,

1322
01:14:57,720 --> 01:15:00,160
Speaker 1: we'll have more of a seed privatly morning show right

1323
01:15:00,200 --> 01:15:08,080
Speaker 1: after this. You're listening too well. The city of Vincent, Alabama,

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01:15:08,320 --> 01:15:13,200
Speaker 1: voted to disband its police department following racist texts between officers.

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01:15:13,560 --> 01:15:17,400
Speaker 1: The police chief and assistant police chief allegedly texted jokes

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01:15:17,479 --> 01:15:20,800
Speaker 1: about a pregnant slave to other officers. Here's a joke.

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01:15:21,040 --> 01:15:23,760
Speaker 1: Get this. What do you call a pregnant slave? This

1328
01:15:23,920 --> 01:15:26,080
Speaker 1: is what they were texting. What do you call a

1329
01:15:26,280 --> 01:15:33,760
Speaker 1: pregnant slave? An unidentified officer responded, bogo bogo, bogo, buy one,

1330
01:15:34,080 --> 01:15:40,639
Speaker 1: get one free. Wow what? The text surfaced on social media,

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01:15:40,720 --> 01:15:43,519
Speaker 1: and the mayor of the city issued a statement that

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01:15:44,280 --> 01:15:48,720
Speaker 1: appropriate action has been taken, meaning that the entire I

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01:15:48,840 --> 01:15:53,639
Speaker 1: mean the entire police department has been fired. The Alabama

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01:15:53,720 --> 01:15:57,880
Speaker 1: Sheriff's Office will now respond to emergency calls in that area.

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01:15:58,320 --> 01:16:02,439
Speaker 1: Thank you very much. Love it. I love it. Thank you.

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01:16:02,680 --> 01:16:07,080
Speaker 1: They fired everybody. Okay, but we've been talking about and

1337
01:16:07,160 --> 01:16:11,320
Speaker 1: the police officers and police departments forever for a very

1338
01:16:11,800 --> 01:16:15,760
Speaker 1: very long time. Finally someone's doing something. Yeah. It's just

1339
01:16:15,920 --> 01:16:17,960
Speaker 1: sad that we don't know which ones we can trust.

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01:16:18,080 --> 01:16:20,479
Speaker 1: That's sad part about it. Man. We have no earthly

1341
01:16:20,560 --> 01:16:23,439
Speaker 1: idea which was trust. Yeah, I'm glad you said that,

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01:16:23,520 --> 01:16:26,080
Speaker 1: because there are good police. There's a lot of good ones.

1343
01:16:26,160 --> 01:16:29,760
Speaker 1: They really are very much relatives of the police officers. Yeah. Man,

1344
01:16:29,840 --> 01:16:31,960
Speaker 1: when you don't know who's good and who's not good,

1345
01:16:32,120 --> 01:16:37,880
Speaker 1: many a police officers. Yeah, so when you get pulled

1346
01:16:37,960 --> 01:16:40,320
Speaker 1: over it's fifty fifty, you don't know what's going to happen.

1347
01:16:41,160 --> 01:16:43,680
Speaker 1: All right, I'm moving on. We'll have more of a

1348
01:16:43,760 --> 01:16:46,120
Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up at thirty three minutes

1349
01:16:46,120 --> 01:16:48,960
Speaker 1: after the hour, we'll play around would you rather? Right

1350
01:16:49,040 --> 01:16:54,240
Speaker 1: after this you're listening to all right, guys, it is

1351
01:16:54,320 --> 01:16:57,840
Speaker 1: time for would you rather? For today? Would you rather

1352
01:16:58,360 --> 01:17:02,200
Speaker 1: win a million dollars and lose all your friends? Or

1353
01:17:02,240 --> 01:17:05,360
Speaker 1: would you rather win fifty k and keep your friends?

1354
01:17:05,800 --> 01:17:08,080
Speaker 1: I'm meant to hell with them? Damn friends, give me

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01:17:08,200 --> 01:17:10,719
Speaker 1: this million dollars, I get some new friends, because because

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01:17:10,760 --> 01:17:12,720
Speaker 1: when I get this million, I don't want them old

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01:17:12,760 --> 01:17:15,120
Speaker 1: friends asking me for nothing. No, damn way, I rather

1358
01:17:15,160 --> 01:17:17,479
Speaker 1: picking two who I rode with? I want the million

1359
01:17:17,600 --> 01:17:20,080
Speaker 1: into hell. Well, I ain't got the phone noway, So

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01:17:20,200 --> 01:17:26,200
Speaker 1: what we're doing? Okay? I think we're all in agreement

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01:17:26,240 --> 01:17:30,160
Speaker 1: with that. What's a little fifty and is still over

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01:17:30,240 --> 01:17:34,320
Speaker 1: here with the ragged Why am I doing that? Fifty? K?

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01:17:34,600 --> 01:17:39,559
Speaker 1: That's it? Good? Good now? But yeah, junior millions, I'm

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01:17:39,600 --> 01:17:41,599
Speaker 1: a million. I'm losing all my friend, matter of fact,

1365
01:17:41,920 --> 01:17:43,800
Speaker 1: starting I'm gonna stop knowing as soon as I get

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01:17:43,840 --> 01:17:47,840
Speaker 1: to check, I'm right away. I thought you're gonna say,

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01:17:47,880 --> 01:17:52,719
Speaker 1: you're gonna start with us now, y'all family that don't count,

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01:17:53,000 --> 01:17:57,200
Speaker 1: That don't count? All right? Would you rather have varied

1369
01:17:57,320 --> 01:17:59,519
Speaker 1: to think about this? Think about this before you answer.

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01:17:59,600 --> 01:18:03,000
Speaker 1: Would you rather have very skinny legs or a very

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01:18:03,560 --> 01:18:06,679
Speaker 1: long neck? I'm gonna take the ones. When the Williams

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01:18:06,760 --> 01:18:10,680
Speaker 1: gat oh the leg, long leg, he got some long

1373
01:18:10,760 --> 01:18:13,599
Speaker 1: skinny legs, I'm taking me. I can't, no, I can't,

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01:18:15,400 --> 01:18:18,519
Speaker 1: but they are long. No, No, I don't want no

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01:18:18,640 --> 01:18:23,680
Speaker 1: long nick. Though, that's not that's that's not good. I

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01:18:23,680 --> 01:18:25,400
Speaker 1: don't look good with the nick I got now. I

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01:18:25,439 --> 01:18:27,800
Speaker 1: don't know why I want a long one. Yeah, yeah,

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01:18:27,840 --> 01:18:30,080
Speaker 1: a long neck then my turtle nick don't really look

1379
01:18:30,120 --> 01:18:31,840
Speaker 1: like a turtle nick. You know what I'm saying. It's

1380
01:18:31,840 --> 01:18:40,840
Speaker 1: like a regular, regular shirt right here? All right? Moving on?

1381
01:18:40,960 --> 01:18:45,120
Speaker 1: Would you rather have a pet hamster or a pet tarantula?

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01:18:47,640 --> 01:18:50,759
Speaker 1: One of them? The man, I don't want to rodent.

1383
01:18:52,040 --> 01:18:55,679
Speaker 1: I want hamster. Sorry, hems ain't number a cute ass

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01:18:55,800 --> 01:19:02,560
Speaker 1: name for a red I hate that. That's at that

1385
01:19:02,680 --> 01:19:05,960
Speaker 1: gives me the creeps right there. Yah, I don't like

1386
01:19:06,120 --> 01:19:08,479
Speaker 1: bugs because if you look over there in that tank

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01:19:08,560 --> 01:19:12,000
Speaker 1: and you don't see that tarantula in the hen't we out?

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01:19:13,800 --> 01:19:18,080
Speaker 1: We out? It's some stuff that'll make you leave your house.

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01:19:18,280 --> 01:19:21,160
Speaker 1: You out? Yeah, So you're taking a cute rat over

1390
01:19:21,240 --> 01:19:24,240
Speaker 1: the over the better. He better enjoy that wheel because

1391
01:19:24,280 --> 01:19:25,720
Speaker 1: he ain't gonna get out of there. He ain't never

1392
01:19:25,800 --> 01:19:29,320
Speaker 1: coming out of there, all right. Would you rather have

1393
01:19:29,479 --> 01:19:32,960
Speaker 1: the ability to read your mate's mind or would you

1394
01:19:33,120 --> 01:19:35,599
Speaker 1: rather have the ability or would you rather your mate

1395
01:19:35,680 --> 01:19:38,400
Speaker 1: have the ability to read yours? So you want to

1396
01:19:38,439 --> 01:19:41,840
Speaker 1: read hers? You want her to read. You don't want

1397
01:19:41,840 --> 01:19:45,800
Speaker 1: to read this line a whole lot. You don't want

1398
01:19:45,840 --> 01:19:47,880
Speaker 1: to know what you got in there that she can't read.

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01:19:48,040 --> 01:19:52,040
Speaker 1: What everything ever? Over there? Just time? He don't like

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01:19:52,160 --> 01:19:57,000
Speaker 1: me today? All right, coming up, it is our last

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01:19:57,040 --> 01:19:58,719
Speaker 1: break of the day and we'll close out the show

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01:19:58,840 --> 01:20:04,439
Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening all right? Here we are

1403
01:20:04,640 --> 01:20:08,600
Speaker 1: last break of the day. Uh, thank you all for

1404
01:20:08,680 --> 01:20:12,439
Speaker 1: listening as always. Steve, come on and take us home

1405
01:20:13,640 --> 01:20:18,280
Speaker 1: with your closing remarks to day. I have some really

1406
01:20:18,360 --> 01:20:25,639
Speaker 1: really good information. I'm really really pleased with this line

1407
01:20:25,680 --> 01:20:30,639
Speaker 1: of thinking because everybody has them, everybody has to deal

1408
01:20:30,720 --> 01:20:34,719
Speaker 1: with them, everybody faces it. It's just so many people

1409
01:20:35,840 --> 01:20:39,599
Speaker 1: lose the point of it. You know, the thing about

1410
01:20:39,720 --> 01:20:43,799
Speaker 1: going through something, I think you can go through something

1411
01:20:43,920 --> 01:20:47,280
Speaker 1: better if you know there's a point to it, you

1412
01:20:47,360 --> 01:20:50,560
Speaker 1: know what I mean. People go to the gym to

1413
01:20:50,680 --> 01:20:54,639
Speaker 1: work out if they're trying to get to a certain point.

1414
01:20:56,120 --> 01:20:59,719
Speaker 1: The moment you don't see the point of it, going

1415
01:20:59,760 --> 01:21:04,840
Speaker 1: to the gym becomes ridiculous to you. It becomes harder

1416
01:21:04,880 --> 01:21:07,040
Speaker 1: to you because all of a sudden it doesn't make sense.

1417
01:21:08,720 --> 01:21:12,280
Speaker 1: So what I want to show you is how to

1418
01:21:12,360 --> 01:21:15,439
Speaker 1: look at the point of something. And the thing that

1419
01:21:15,520 --> 01:21:17,840
Speaker 1: I'm going to talk to you about is something that

1420
01:21:17,960 --> 01:21:22,559
Speaker 1: everybody faces when they're trying to be successful, because everybody

1421
01:21:22,760 --> 01:21:27,080
Speaker 1: is going to go through some difficult times. Everybody, I

1422
01:21:27,320 --> 01:21:30,160
Speaker 1: don't care who you are, You're going to have some

1423
01:21:30,280 --> 01:21:42,560
Speaker 1: difficult times. Everybody is going to have some challenges, challenges, difficulties, setbacks.

1424
01:21:43,040 --> 01:21:46,360
Speaker 1: You're going to have this. But listen to me, all

1425
01:21:46,439 --> 01:21:52,280
Speaker 1: of this is part of the process to succeed. When

1426
01:21:52,360 --> 01:21:56,600
Speaker 1: you are presented with these setbacks, these difficulties, and these challenges,

1427
01:21:57,280 --> 01:21:59,640
Speaker 1: I want you to understand what they actually are. They

1428
01:21:59,680 --> 01:22:06,840
Speaker 1: are actually test. Everybody gets tested. The reason you have

1429
01:22:07,160 --> 01:22:11,600
Speaker 1: to have the test is because tests are presented to

1430
01:22:11,760 --> 01:22:16,880
Speaker 1: you to see if you're willing to go through the process.

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01:22:18,880 --> 01:22:20,920
Speaker 1: It's merely just to see if you're willing to go

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01:22:21,040 --> 01:22:25,760
Speaker 1: through what it takes. The challenges, the setbacks, the difficulties.

1433
01:22:26,040 --> 01:22:29,000
Speaker 1: The test are just there to see if you are

1434
01:22:29,200 --> 01:22:34,719
Speaker 1: willing to go through the process. Now, in being willing

1435
01:22:34,840 --> 01:22:39,439
Speaker 1: to go through the process, it assures you something that

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01:22:39,640 --> 01:22:42,599
Speaker 1: when you pass the test and you reach your goal,

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01:22:43,600 --> 01:22:46,760
Speaker 1: that you will have a level of appreciation for it.

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01:22:48,320 --> 01:22:52,640
Speaker 1: I'll give you an example. Somebody use your card. I

1439
01:22:52,720 --> 01:22:55,200
Speaker 1: don't recommend that they're not gonna take care of your

1440
01:22:55,240 --> 01:22:58,080
Speaker 1: card or where you do, because they didn't pay for it.

1441
01:22:58,400 --> 01:23:00,320
Speaker 1: They're not making a note on it. They didn't have

1442
01:23:00,360 --> 01:23:02,519
Speaker 1: to struggle to get the down payment. They didn't have

1443
01:23:02,560 --> 01:23:04,599
Speaker 1: to make sure their credit was right. They didn't walk

1444
01:23:04,640 --> 01:23:06,599
Speaker 1: in the bank and get turned down a couple of times,

1445
01:23:06,800 --> 01:23:09,439
Speaker 1: then go back and fix their credit. Now they got up.

1446
01:23:09,920 --> 01:23:13,280
Speaker 1: That's why if you rent out your room to somebody,

1447
01:23:13,560 --> 01:23:15,400
Speaker 1: they're not gonna take care of your room like you

1448
01:23:15,560 --> 01:23:18,280
Speaker 1: take care of your house, because they didn't go through

1449
01:23:18,320 --> 01:23:21,600
Speaker 1: the process to get it. All they wanted was the

1450
01:23:21,880 --> 01:23:24,679
Speaker 1: room because they didn't have to fill out the credit report.

1451
01:23:24,720 --> 01:23:26,879
Speaker 1: They didn't go down here. They don't have the mortgage.

1452
01:23:27,120 --> 01:23:29,240
Speaker 1: They don't know what it took to have to own

1453
01:23:29,360 --> 01:23:31,800
Speaker 1: this house. That's why they didn't take care of their yard,

1454
01:23:32,160 --> 01:23:35,519
Speaker 1: because they've written some people who writ don't take care

1455
01:23:35,560 --> 01:23:38,080
Speaker 1: of the property because it ain't theirs. Now that's not

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Speaker 1: all renters. I'm just talking about the case of something.

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Speaker 1: Because when you go through the test, it causes you

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Speaker 1: to have an appreciation for now the test are necessary.

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Speaker 1: The test teaches you things. The test provides you with

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Speaker 1: a lesson. Tests are merely lessons. You're gonna see these

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Speaker 1: tests again, and when you see them again, they won't appear.

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Speaker 1: Is it nearly as difficult because you've already taken the

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Speaker 1: tests before and you've already passed it. The test also

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Speaker 1: strengthens you. All these tests you haven't. It's strengthens you.

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Speaker 1: It's like lifting weights. Oh it's heavy right now. If

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Speaker 1: you put them fifties in your hand, that's heavy weight.

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Speaker 1: But if you keep lifting fifties after a while, you

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Speaker 1: can lift seventies, but them fifties. But guess what them

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Speaker 1: fifties did. That was so hard that you felt like

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Speaker 1: dropping and you needed a spotter. They made you stronger.

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Speaker 1: Though the tests make you stronger, the next thing that

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Speaker 1: the test does for you is it makes you experienced.

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Speaker 1: Because now that you have these tests under your belt,

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Speaker 1: you know something you can turn around and share with

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Speaker 1: people how to get past the tests because you've seen

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Speaker 1: them before. This is the reason that you have challenges, setbacks,

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Speaker 1: and difficult because you are being tested. So when God

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Speaker 1: gives you the thing that you're asking for, you will

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Speaker 1: have a level of appreciation for it. You will have

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Speaker 1: learned the lessons that it takes to maintain it. You

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Speaker 1: will have been strengthened by the process, and you will

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Speaker 1: become experienced by the process. Here is the last and

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Speaker 1: main thing that the test does for you, These tests

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Speaker 1: that they're presented to you. Old people have said it

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Speaker 1: a thousand times. You cannot have a testimony without the test.

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Speaker 1: How can you share this experience with anybody? How do

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Speaker 1: you tell a young person what to do if you

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Speaker 1: ain't been through nothing. How can you teach me how

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Speaker 1: to play golf and you don't play golf? It's impossible.

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Speaker 1: You can't be the swim coach and you can't swim.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry you can't. You got to have gone through

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Speaker 1: the process. It's the process and the test that gets

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Speaker 1: you to the point. But you can't have a testimony

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Speaker 1: without a test. You'll have nothing to say in your life.

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Speaker 1: If you've never passed any tests, you will have no

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Speaker 1: story to tell. So all of you that are being tested,

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Speaker 1: you're working on your story. Now. What story will you

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Speaker 1: tell your children? What story will you tell your grandchildren?

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Speaker 1: What story will you tell young people who need minering?

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Speaker 1: What story will you tell people who may look up

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Speaker 1: to you and they think you got something. What story

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Speaker 1: will you tell. You've got to be tested to make

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Speaker 1: it happen. Pass the test, Deal with them and you'll

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Speaker 1: be fine. Those are my closing contests. No purchase necessary,

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Speaker 1: void ware prohibited. Participants must be legal US residents at

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Speaker 1: least eighteen years old, unless otherwise stated. For complete contest rules,

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