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Speaker 1: I married my sister's ex am I the A Hole.

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Speaker 1: This is okay o P. Home of the Craziest True

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Speaker 1: Stories on Earth. I'm Sophia and Sam is O P.

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Speaker 1: The A Hole.

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Speaker 2: I feel like it's bad form to hook up with

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Speaker 2: your sister's act. What's wrong with it?

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Speaker 3: It's like it's got like such a high it's such

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Speaker 3: a high poof it's it's quafted in a it's aquafted.

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Speaker 2: Man. I'm just trying to respond to your question. I

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Speaker 2: was prepared to be assaulted with. Sorry. I'm gonna say, yeah,

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Speaker 2: I feel like it's bad form to up with your

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Speaker 2: family's act. And also I think it'll make it weird.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, there's a movie about this.

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Speaker 2: What is it called?

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Speaker 1: Well, actually, I don't know if they get together.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know what it's called. Thanks for that

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Speaker 2: wealth of information. This movie. I don't know what it's called.

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Speaker 2: Surly a movie. It was like when when we were

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Speaker 2: playing a Noba and someone was like, I think it

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Speaker 2: was you where you were It was like, name a

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Speaker 2: zombie movie and you're like zombies.

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Speaker 1: That wasn't me, but someone else was like zombies and there.

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Speaker 2: Was a movie. They're like, surely there's a movie named Zombies, and.

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Speaker 1: They were right. They were right. Well, let's hear more.

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Speaker 4: Dan in real life. That's a movie about this.

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Speaker 2: What Dan in real life?

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Speaker 1: Dan? It's really good, so very so major contact four

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Speaker 1: zero zero nine, says me twenty seven female and my

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Speaker 1: sister twenty nine female. I've been fighting recently for something

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Speaker 1: that I thought got resolved a long time ago.

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Speaker 2: There's a long time ago and way.

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Speaker 1: I've debated posting for like a week now, but figured

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Speaker 1: someone not directly involved would be good to hear from.

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Speaker 1: A couple of months ago, I married my husband, Gorid

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Speaker 1: Gregory Gregory twenty nine mail.

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Speaker 2: Rest of his name Greg Jane Breaker.

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Speaker 1: After being together for four years. We met each other

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Speaker 1: working at the same office, and I developed this huge

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Speaker 1: crush on him. I was pretty sure he was into

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Speaker 1: me too, so I decided to bring it up to

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Speaker 1: my sister Alicia. Alicia and Greg have dated, had dated

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Speaker 1: in middle school when they were both thirteen ish, and

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Speaker 1: because it had been so long at such a middle school,

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Speaker 1: I didn't think there would be an issue. Yeah, that's

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Speaker 1: the I dated my sister's ex conspiracy theory.

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Speaker 2: I think it's going to be an issue.

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Speaker 1: If that's the I dated my sister's ex. Then that

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Speaker 1: doesn't count.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, come on, relationships don't count, all right? When does

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Speaker 2: it count? When does a relationship start to count?

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Speaker 1: High school? But like also high school only if it's

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Speaker 1: been a year.

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Speaker 4: A year or more, well in middle school, when it

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Speaker 4: was like a year and a half, really did.

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Speaker 2: It go int high school?

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Speaker 1: No, then that doesn't count.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. I feel like it's more like relationships. Like I

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Speaker 2: would like, I'm thinking about some of the girls that

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Speaker 2: I dated, and if like one of my friends wanted

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Speaker 2: to date that girl, like and I dated her maybe

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Speaker 2: under three months, and I think I would be okay.

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Speaker 1: With that in middle school specifically.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, especially in middle school, but even like even if

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Speaker 2: it was like in the last couple of years, I

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Speaker 2: would be like, oh, like, we only dated a couple months, like,

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Speaker 2: but also you could go very deep in that time too.

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Speaker 1: Yeah no, wait how long did they say? How long?

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Speaker 3: Ah?

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Speaker 4: Right?

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Speaker 5: Right?

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Speaker 2: When I met you a little dog.

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Speaker 1: No sex to joke pull it up the sign.

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Speaker 2: Yeah yeah NOx yeah, freaking sense of yourself dog.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry. I didn't think it would be an issue,

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Speaker 1: but I still wanted to check. I didn't want to

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Speaker 1: by asking. She seemed a bit surprised, because I don't

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Speaker 1: think she was expecting to hear about her middle school

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you never do, you never do.

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Speaker 1: But after we talked for a bit, she said she

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Speaker 2: So do you have a middle school crush?

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Speaker 1: Of course I had middle school crush? There's so many

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Speaker 1: who named one?

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Speaker 2: No, i'll name one of mine.

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Speaker 1: They might see it.

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Speaker 2: Well, we'll we'll bleep it. Only to think of one

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Speaker 2: Georgina Saint John's.

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Speaker 4: Oh that's such a good name. Wait, is your middle

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Speaker 4: school crush different than your elementary crush?

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Speaker 2: It was all like one thing, it was. It was okay,

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Speaker 2: through it all right, who's yours?

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Speaker 1: I want? Well, I'm not gonna name the ro I'm.

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Speaker 2: Gonna we're gonna, we're gonna bleep it. We're gonna bleep it.

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Speaker 4: What, No, I can't last name?

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Speaker 2: We will wait?

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Speaker 1: Wow, okay, he was everyone's middle school I don't know

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Speaker 1: he left fifth grade.

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Speaker 2: Oh, of course you choose the person that left?

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Speaker 1: Well, that's yeah, who's the person that.

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Speaker 2: You carpooled with all the time they lived down the street.

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Speaker 1: Daniel Daniel. I didn't have a crush on him. My

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Speaker 1: friend rough, wow, platonic friends.

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Speaker 2: What's he up to now?

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Speaker 1: He actually is in he's living in New York and

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Speaker 1: he works at I want to say baseball stadium because

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Speaker 1: my friend has seen him multiple times and she's like, like,

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Speaker 1: she left also in fifth grade and went to the

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Speaker 1: same school until end of high school. No, no, no,

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Speaker 1: that's not true.

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Speaker 2: Is middle No, he's not so hot. That means we're

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Speaker 2: going to bleeve his name.

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Speaker 1: That's true. Bleed the whole name though, Yeah, bleet the

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Speaker 1: whole name. That mean, Oh yeah, I won't give any

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he's not your type. Sophia has like a very

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Speaker 2: like crazy type, Like she's not in, she's not into

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Speaker 2: any of my friends.

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Speaker 4: Is not a good thing, though, isn't that a good

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Speaker 2: Well? I mean your hair. I like like some of

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Speaker 2: my friends, Like I was like, like I could see

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Speaker 2: Sophia dating.

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Speaker 1: Though, and keeps trying to send me.

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Speaker 2: Well, I I just think some of them are cool.

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Speaker 1: Damn, your hair is just trying to get too little.

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Speaker 2: Like I want to make sure I get along with

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Speaker 2: whoever Sophia dates.

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Speaker 1: There.

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Speaker 2: Let him live, let me live.

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Speaker 4: You start talking about your hair.

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Speaker 1: If it wasn't, I would like, thank you. Please tell

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Speaker 2: It looks great? Let's go come on. Yeah, see I

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Speaker 2: only bring Sophia up. She scares me down.

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Speaker 1: No, I would love to know. That's important. I didn't

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Speaker 1: leave that believe the name, so I thought, cool, I

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Speaker 1: with things, and a little while later me and Greg

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Speaker 1: got together. It's never seemed to be an issue before.

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Speaker 1: Recently we hit all the milestones and she seemed happy

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Speaker 1: for us. When he met my family again, they were

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Speaker 1: a bit surprised, but things were fine.

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Speaker 2: I've seen this kid before.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we know this kid.

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Speaker 1: My sister was even one of my bridesmaids and seemed

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Speaker 1: happy for me the entire time. Like, I haven't really

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Speaker 1: thought of them dating in forever because it no longer

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Speaker 1: seems relevant. I mean, she has a husband at this point,

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Speaker 2: Like she has a husband.

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Speaker 1: Yeah that's yeah, it does.

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Speaker 2: She's like the one that got away.

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Speaker 1: So it doesn't seem like a middle school boyfriend would

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Speaker 1: be something to dwell on. It wouldn't be.

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Speaker 2: It wouldn't be. You would think, you would think we

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Speaker 2: and then it's all all.

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Speaker 1: You also have to believe the baseball.

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Speaker 2: So many guys that work at baseball, football, there's so

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Speaker 2: many guys could baseball player, the chances of him watching

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Speaker 2: this specific.

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Speaker 1: Episode, So no, I personally, you just think it's not

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Speaker 2: Your type, so many people are your type.

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Speaker 1: That's true, it's not, it's not. So it didn't seem

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Speaker 1: like a middle school boyfriend would be something to dwell on.

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Speaker 1: We were with my family this Christmas and things were

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Speaker 1: going just as fine as they usually are until my

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Speaker 1: sisters started handing out the presents she had gotten. Now,

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Speaker 1: we don't get each other presents every year, and people

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Speaker 1: get screwed or anything because they didn't buy every individual

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Speaker 1: she wanted to get me something special for my first

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Speaker 1: a gift, so it was fine. But after she finished

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Speaker 1: that's crazy.

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Speaker 2: That is so dastardly. Wow, you're not getting anything.

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Speaker 1: To Christmas presents for.

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Speaker 2: You and the husband's honey, Like I am talking about

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Speaker 2: your middle school crash who works in the baseball field.

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Speaker 1: Yikes. I asked her what she meant, because huh yeah,

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Speaker 1: and she said I didn't have to be so weird

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Speaker 1: to plot. Oh what she said. I didn't have to

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Speaker 1: be so weird to plot to take Greg from her.

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Speaker 1: I'll admit I had a crash on it. That's crazy.

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Speaker 1: How did she take Greg? I'll admit I had a

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Speaker 1: crush on him when I was eleven, but I didn't

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Speaker 1: plan my life around dating him. One day, I grabbed

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Speaker 1: her and pulled her into the other room and we

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Speaker 1: started yelling at each other. I definitely said some nasty

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Speaker 1: things because if she had an issue, why wouldn't she

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Speaker 1: bring that up when I directly asked.

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Speaker 2: Her because she probably felt like it should not matter.

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Speaker 1: But then like she was like, well, I'm not overcrabbed.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, damn, he's looking fine.

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Speaker 4: I just want to know how was Greg philing about this? Well,

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Speaker 4: because Greg's like, wow, I'm having sister's fight over me.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Greg, Greg's a hot pi's of ass. We both wow,

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Speaker 2: I feel bad for the Yeah.

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Speaker 1: We both wound up leaving my parents' house early, and

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Speaker 1: her husband seems super pissed.

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Speaker 2: Of course, you took my middle school boyfriend away from me.

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Speaker 1: Edie's like, honey, I'm right, what about about our current relationship?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: My mom texted that she was disappointed we fought at Christmas,

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Speaker 1: which yeah, I get, but it's not like I did

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Speaker 1: it intentionally. She's telling whatever family members will listen about

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Speaker 1: how I stole her boyfriend and so they're mad at me,

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Speaker 2: And then yeah, like like she honestly a middle school

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Speaker 2: Still okay, yeah, your middle school boyfriends, boyfriend girlfriends. I

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Speaker 2: I don't know if I did play kissy tag in

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, were playing the kissy tag. I remember we

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Speaker 1: That's yeah, everyone did that. I didn't know that was

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Speaker 2: Ooh, Greg was the one that broke things off. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: so you did say that, like thirteen, fourteen is into

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Speaker 2: For sure. You were fourteen in high school because four.

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Speaker 4: Years later you were eighteen when you graduated.

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Speaker 1: Yep, true is true? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Well yeah, so I think it was less than a

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Speaker 2: How old is yeah?

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Speaker 4: So hard about it?

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Speaker 2: What?

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Speaker 4: No, Sam, John, Yeah, we're young adults. Adults?

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Speaker 2: Am I had an adult in your eyes? No?

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Speaker 4: I put you in a young adult category.

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Speaker 2: Why can you definitely.

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Speaker 4: Uh, you're too young to buy a house. Mm hmm, yeah,

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Speaker 1: We got phineas and verb, the verb saw what a says,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, dude, red flag, red flag to be to be

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Speaker 2: mad about another relationship and to still be emotionally invested

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Speaker 2: definitely not about it. Not about it. I would feel

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Speaker 1: Yeah, saw it. I mean, he continues, you had no

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Speaker 1: there was no drama then, at least that I know of.

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Speaker 1: I hadn't thought about pregnancy. They mentioned trying, but we

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Speaker 2: What does pregnancy you have to do with anything?

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Speaker 2: Is it like she can't get pregnant so she's not

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Speaker 2: She's like, oh, maybe my boy got bunked sperm and

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Speaker 2: Greg don't.

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Speaker 1: It's not something else. I couldn't like.

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Speaker 2: Some of those straight shooters.

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Speaker 1: Anyway, there was an update. Things are pretty tense right

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Speaker 1: now in my family, but less people are mad at

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Speaker 1: me now a lot. If you were correct about the

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Speaker 2: Okay, there's gotta be something. Yeah, it's got to be something.

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Speaker 1: The other night, my mom invited me over to talk

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Speaker 1: she was disappointed. Her and my dad were just upset

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Speaker 1: that there was drama on Christmas. I apologize for picking

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Speaker 1: definitely could have waited until later. Her and my sister

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Speaker 1: Leasha told my mom that her husband, Chris had told

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Speaker 1: Alicia that I had been flirting with him and I

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Speaker 1: this was a pretty big shock to hear. He had

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Speaker 1: told Alicia that op was flirting with him. O, what, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's shocking.

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Speaker 2: Maybe he is just like everyone loves Greg. I want

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Speaker 1: Yeah, this is the plot of a feeback, Watch Back.

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Speaker 1: That's the next show that we're going to watch.

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Speaker 2: Oh, it's basically do shows? Can we do movies? Can

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Speaker 2: we do a movie night?

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Speaker 1: Oh? It's a great show.

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Speaker 2: Did you want to see Oppenheimer on the twenty fifth?

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Speaker 4: She said no?

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Speaker 1: Oh you already said no, I don't want to watch

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Speaker 2: Why remember she doesn't like the Right she doesn't like

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's pretty.

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Speaker 2: Bad, but big boom, big movies. See that's said big boom.

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Speaker 1: You told my mom a couple months back that Chris

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Speaker 2: Oh, oh is it?

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Speaker 1: Ope?

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Speaker 2: Oh?

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Speaker 1: They had been going to couple's counseling to help, and

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Speaker 1: Alicia told my mom it had been helping. We're not

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Speaker 2: Oh yikes, yikes, yikes. And Chris was probably projecting like what.

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Speaker 1: He wanted, and the sister's probably like my sister's stolen

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Speaker 1: two of them, oh, one of us. I just don't

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Speaker 1: to make that my issue. Yeah, but the stealing comment

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Speaker 2: There's some jealous like or maybe not an attractiveness thing,

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Speaker 1: Oh and and the sister thought I was some evil

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Speaker 2: I would befriend.

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Speaker 1: When my mom called me over, she didn't think I

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Speaker 1: that's harsh. It's not like I can prove I'm not

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Speaker 1: She's been doing damage control on all the relatives who

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Speaker 1: my sister was telling I was stealing her husband. Yay,

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Speaker 1: stop it. This whole thing would have been easier if

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Speaker 1: said she would try to talk to Alicia some more

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Speaker 1: Greg's pissed. He's pissed at my whole family pretty much,

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Speaker 2: Greg's gonna want out of this family. Yeah, like this

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Speaker 2: I'll be like, oh, I don't know if it's being

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Speaker 1: She texted Greg yesterday. Says sister Alicia to Greg yesterday, Oh,

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Speaker 1: Pe only loves you because you were mine.

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Speaker 2: Whoa whoa that is that is a crazy that's a

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Speaker 2: crazy thing. Well because your middle school Yeah, but damn well,

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Speaker 2: life and like take things like just like like you know,

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Speaker 2: like when I would get like ice cream and you

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Speaker 1: No, that's not what happened.

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Speaker 2: That's what that is. Always what happened would be like

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Speaker 1: We would be eating ice cream and Sam would say, oh,

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Speaker 1: let's have a race to see who you can eat

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Speaker 1: and then I would have to watch him eat his

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Speaker 1: ice cream. I totally yeah, yeah, yeah, I don't know

447
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Speaker 1: what you were talking about.

448
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Speaker 2: Damn, I totally forgot.

449
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Speaker 1: I'd never forgotten.

450
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Speaker 2: That was so funny.

451
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Speaker 1: It's coming up at your wedding.

452
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Speaker 2: The karma. Yeah, you stole my ice cream, the thief

453
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Speaker 2: of my joygg.

454
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Speaker 1: So I guess she doesn't believe my mom. He blocked

455
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Speaker 1: her after that. I don't know. I was hoping the

456
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Speaker 1: reasoning would have been something else. I'm not sure what

457
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Speaker 1: to do. I don't know if my relationship with her

458
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Speaker 1: can come back from this. And I refuse to be

459
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Speaker 1: anywhere near christ me too.

460
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Speaker 2: I like, honestly, if I was Greg, I'm like, I

461
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Speaker 2: don't know about this man.

462
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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I know.

463
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Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know.

464
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Speaker 2: If you if you were Greg, would you leave.

465
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Speaker 1: No, I don't think I would leave, because.

466
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Speaker 2: I might not leave just because of it, but I

467
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Speaker 2: would be.

468
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Speaker 1: Like, I would be like, I don't want to see

469
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Speaker 1: your family.

470
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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, it's like it's kind of a red

471
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Speaker 2: flag if you're you're having this many familial relationship issues

472
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Speaker 2: this early into the relationship.

473
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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know. I would just I don't think

474
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Speaker 1: it's a necessarily a red flag. It just seems like

475
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Speaker 1: I would be like I would I would say like, hey,

476
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Speaker 1: I don't really want to hang out with Yes.

477
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Speaker 2: I don't know if I want to deal with all that.

478
00:22:23,080 --> 00:22:25,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, but like it's mainly just yeah.

479
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Speaker 2: Yeah, Like it doesn't seem like like like what we

480
00:22:28,960 --> 00:22:31,080
Speaker 2: said at the beginning, it doesn't seem like Ope's doing anything.

481
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Speaker 1: Well no, no, it doesn't seem like OP did anything wrong.

482
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Speaker 1: It seemed like the parents didn't know what was going on,

483
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Speaker 1: and not that they do. They're on her side. Yeah,

484
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Speaker 1: I don't know, but yeah, I think cut contact.

485
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Speaker 2: What do you think no contact or low contact contact?

486
00:22:45,680 --> 00:22:49,720
Speaker 2: Low contact? Yeah, just like family gatherings, even the family

487
00:22:51,040 --> 00:22:52,360
Speaker 2: or does this all happen? I don't know what would

488
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Speaker 2: you do? Would you go low contact no contact? I

489
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Speaker 2: would love to hear in the commons below, do we

490
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Speaker 2: have any okay story times in the in the que

491
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Speaker 2: I don't think Riley anything on you. Yeah, well, this

492
00:23:04,280 --> 00:23:08,720
Speaker 2: has been another episode of okop. If you have a story,

493
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Speaker 2: you should totally send it to us. Call us at

494
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Speaker 2: four four zero five or eight six R six seven,

495
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Speaker 2: or submit to our subreddit our slash Okop show.

496
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Speaker 1: Or if you have any movie recommendations.

497
00:23:17,960 --> 00:23:20,280
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah, we're doing like movie night here and

498
00:23:20,320 --> 00:23:24,119
Speaker 2: so what what we should plan another movie night?

499
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Speaker 1: We still have to plan minecraft. Oh yeah, you made

500
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Speaker 1: that planning session.

501
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Speaker 2: I didn't. But you never came to me about the

502
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Speaker 2: planning session. I was.

503
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Speaker 1: I was waiting for you. You literally went upstairs and

504
00:23:36,560 --> 00:23:38,720
Speaker 1: you were like, I'll be right back. You never came back.

505
00:23:38,840 --> 00:23:43,840
Speaker 2: Was I doing something? It's probably something important. I'm sorry

506
00:23:44,200 --> 00:23:46,320
Speaker 2: we should have been there. Well, how about how about

507
00:23:46,359 --> 00:23:47,199
Speaker 2: right now? When do you want to do it?

508
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Speaker 1: I'm going one contact.

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Speaker 2: If you love us, make sure to subscribe.

510
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Speaker 1: We love you and see you tomorrow.

511
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Speaker 2: This is an episode from Deep within the Archives. Time

512
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Speaker 2: for okop ree lash.

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Speaker 5: Am I the a hole for refusing to move my

514
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Speaker 5: husband's service dog out of the house because my niece

515
00:24:07,080 --> 00:24:08,320
Speaker 5: is uncomfortable.

516
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Speaker 2: Yo, uncomfortable? But the service dog is doing a service

517
00:24:14,040 --> 00:24:18,840
Speaker 2: and that service is making everyone uncomfortable around it. Yeah. Yeah, hey,

518
00:24:19,160 --> 00:24:22,320
Speaker 2: create a perimeter around this person. This person can't see,

519
00:24:22,760 --> 00:24:25,439
Speaker 2: so can't feel whatever is wrong with that person.

520
00:24:25,560 --> 00:24:29,240
Speaker 5: Surround the niece with other services, yeah, such as you

521
00:24:29,320 --> 00:24:34,040
Speaker 5: need smatters something amiss. My husband is disabled. One expand

522
00:24:34,080 --> 00:24:36,399
Speaker 5: on that for privacy, and we got him a service

523
00:24:36,440 --> 00:24:38,280
Speaker 5: dog four months ago to help him out on a

524
00:24:38,359 --> 00:24:40,840
Speaker 5: daily basis, my brother and his family lost their home

525
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Speaker 5: and asked to move in with us for a few

526
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Speaker 5: weeks till they land another place to stay. Now, the

527
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Speaker 5: thing is, my niece fourteen started complaining about the service

528
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Speaker 5: dog making her uncomfortable.

529
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Speaker 2: Like why it's a dog. Uh, it's an uncomfortable dog.

530
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Speaker 2: It's a dog with a job. Dog shouldn't have jobs.

531
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Speaker 2: What is that? Recently I went to the my chemical romance. Uh, yeah,

532
00:25:07,240 --> 00:25:11,399
Speaker 2: and there was a service dog there, or like there

533
00:25:11,440 --> 00:25:13,840
Speaker 2: was like a bomb stiffing dog there. And I'm like,

534
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Speaker 2: I don't know why I said this, but I went

535
00:25:15,840 --> 00:25:19,159
Speaker 2: up to the guy like, dude, I love dogs with jobs.

536
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Speaker 2: How long has your dog had this job? And it's

537
00:25:22,520 --> 00:25:26,919
Speaker 2: like the security guy and I don't know. That's funny,

538
00:25:26,920 --> 00:25:29,359
Speaker 2: he was, Jill, that's funny. By the way, tell Nima

539
00:25:29,359 --> 00:25:33,520
Speaker 2: that you went to my Chemical Chemical. Yeah, Jewel, I

540
00:25:33,680 --> 00:25:37,160
Speaker 2: never heard a song before going. I couldn't name one.

541
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Speaker 2: I could.

542
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Speaker 5: That's honestly fun because you got the outsiders.

543
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Speaker 2: For it was good. He was very angry, an angry man.

544
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Speaker 2: He went like ranting or like in the in his

545
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Speaker 2: song Okay, but black Parade excellent, that's a good song. Oh,

546
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Speaker 2: so you do know, I said, I couldn't get lie.

547
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Speaker 5: I said I couldn't name my song, sir, I said

548
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Speaker 5: I could not. I couldn't remember who did that one.

549
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Speaker 5: So speaking of the emo punk concerts. Now, it's strange

550
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Speaker 5: because there's no allergies or anything else that would make

551
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Speaker 5: her just uncomfortable. She told my brother, and he asked

552
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Speaker 5: if I could move the.

553
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Speaker 2: Dog where where? Away? Maybe I could move it to

554
00:26:27,480 --> 00:26:31,880
Speaker 2: another house if your house didn't get taken from you. Oh, oh,

555
00:26:32,320 --> 00:26:38,680
Speaker 2: you're poor. That's the joke. Make money next time, pun

556
00:26:39,680 --> 00:26:43,840
Speaker 2: think about being poor before you decide. Exactly why do

557
00:26:43,920 --> 00:26:45,040
Speaker 2: you invest in apple?

558
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Speaker 1: Yeah?

559
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Speaker 5: Exactly Why didn't you think about money? I said, absolutely not.

560
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Speaker 5: This dog is literally as helpful as a human being

561
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Speaker 5: when it comes to people with his abilities, and he's

562
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Speaker 5: incredibly smart, and more importantly, he he minds his own

563
00:27:00,760 --> 00:27:05,600
Speaker 5: business and never bothers my niece. But she's just uncomfortable

564
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Speaker 5: with having him for some reason. Like there's literally no reason.

565
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Speaker 5: Unlike the niece, this dog is not dead weight, like

566
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Speaker 5: the dog has a look at job.

567
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Speaker 2: The just complains he is basically a meat sack. Yeah, like, yeah,

568
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Speaker 2: completely useless.

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Speaker 5: My brother and his wife started begging, saying it's temporary,

570
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Speaker 5: but I refuse.

571
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Speaker 2: What oh temporary? Where? Like, where are you gonna put

572
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Speaker 2: this dog? I don't understand. It's truly just.

573
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Speaker 5: By a doghouse, which also completely defeats the point on

574
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Speaker 5: a service dog.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god.

576
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Speaker 5: They said that my husband doesn't really need the dog

577
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Speaker 5: as of now, since he's home most of the time, he.

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Speaker 2: Doesn't really need it. Bro he's disabled. We don't know

579
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Speaker 2: what kind of disabled for privacy reasons, but he has

580
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Speaker 2: a service dog. Is that not proof or not?

581
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Speaker 4: Like?

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Speaker 5: Come on yet, I still refuse. They tried talking to

583
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Speaker 5: my husband directly, but I shut that down immediately.

584
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Speaker 2: He's disabled, she will do that's right.

585
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Speaker 5: My brother's wife started in argument with me right after

586
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Speaker 5: my brother went to work, and she started yelling about

587
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Speaker 5: how I value my dog over my niece and her comfort. Yes,

588
00:28:12,920 --> 00:28:17,879
Speaker 5: some people in these retas stories make your bil My

589
00:28:17,960 --> 00:28:21,040
Speaker 5: stomach is about to explode. I said, it wasn't just

590
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Speaker 5: a dog, but it's my husband who needs him. My

591
00:28:26,040 --> 00:28:29,399
Speaker 5: brother came home and we kept arguing. He said that

592
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Speaker 5: I was being unsupportive and cruel to my niece who's

593
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Speaker 5: already been through enough.

594
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Speaker 2: Oh god, it's a dog. It's a dog. Bro.

595
00:28:41,160 --> 00:28:44,000
Speaker 5: My husband got involved and asked me to take him

596
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Speaker 5: to his father's house with the dog, but I said no,

597
00:28:48,120 --> 00:28:51,520
Speaker 5: not after what his dad said to him, and that

598
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Speaker 5: him and the dog are staying.

599
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Speaker 2: I feel like there's like like family drama that were

600
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Speaker 2: just skirted around with the dad whole thing. Yeah, wait,

601
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Speaker 2: what do you mean what did his dad saitaying with

602
00:29:02,160 --> 00:29:02,520
Speaker 2: the dad?

603
00:29:03,000 --> 00:29:05,040
Speaker 5: My brother and his wife are in the guest room

604
00:29:05,120 --> 00:29:08,280
Speaker 5: sulking hard while my niece is ignoring me. Meanwhile, my

605
00:29:08,360 --> 00:29:11,120
Speaker 5: husband is sitting in the kitchen right now trying to

606
00:29:11,160 --> 00:29:13,800
Speaker 5: convince me to let him go stay with his dad's

607
00:29:13,920 --> 00:29:16,520
Speaker 5: to keep peace with my brother. Wow, it's not even

608
00:29:16,520 --> 00:29:19,920
Speaker 5: his own brother. Like Bro the death like Opie's husband

609
00:29:19,960 --> 00:29:25,000
Speaker 5: is doing way more than Yeah, crazy this man. My

610
00:29:25,120 --> 00:29:27,720
Speaker 5: husband is like this all the time, always willing to

611
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Speaker 5: do what others want just to keep the peace. You

612
00:29:30,680 --> 00:29:33,240
Speaker 5: can literally cuss him out and he'll apologize for it

613
00:29:33,320 --> 00:29:36,320
Speaker 5: like it was his fault. Oh goodness, sounds like a

614
00:29:36,400 --> 00:29:40,120
Speaker 5: nice guy. Yeah, maybe overly nice. He thinks he owes

615
00:29:40,160 --> 00:29:43,400
Speaker 5: people for accepting him as a disabled man, which is sad,

616
00:29:43,680 --> 00:29:45,680
Speaker 5: and it's true that he's home most of the day,

617
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Speaker 5: but he needs his service dogs throughout the rest of

618
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Speaker 5: the day. So am I the a hole for refusing

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Speaker 5: to move out the dog temporarily?

620
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Speaker 2: I think No. I think she's like standing up for

621
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Speaker 2: her husband because it doesn't seem like he wants to

622
00:29:59,680 --> 00:30:04,000
Speaker 2: or I don't know, like literally, it's just like the

623
00:30:04,480 --> 00:30:08,800
Speaker 2: niece's side is so stupid. Oh yeah, I mean, but

624
00:30:08,880 --> 00:30:11,480
Speaker 2: like it's not even a reason. I just feel uncomfortable

625
00:30:11,880 --> 00:30:12,840
Speaker 2: over yourself.

626
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Speaker 5: At the absolute barest of minimums, the barest of minimums, articulate, yeah,

627
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Speaker 5: that's the bare minimum.

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Speaker 2: If you were if you had if you were attacked

629
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Speaker 2: by a dog or something, yeah, or okay, if you

630
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Speaker 2: are allergic to the dog.

631
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Speaker 5: That at least explains why not that that still doesn't

632
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Speaker 5: justify them getting rid of the dog. But like it's like,

633
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Speaker 5: at least explain yourself what you want.

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Speaker 2: People die,