WEBVTT - A Hell Of A Watch 0:00:03.160 --> 0:00:06.000 Hi, guys, you like my sast. 0:00:07.400 --> 0:00:07.640 What? 0:00:08.480 --> 0:00:08.680 Yeah? 0:00:08.720 --> 0:00:09.920 I got a little sasquatch. 0:00:10.560 --> 0:00:11.240 Oh, thank you. 0:00:11.360 --> 0:00:15.960 I appreciate the wrong episode to episode. You know we're 0:00:15.960 --> 0:00:17.640 doing a Wedding from Hell? Right? 0:00:18.120 --> 0:00:22.200 Oh? 0:00:22.480 --> 0:00:23.680 Did you watch it for a third? 0:00:23.720 --> 0:00:26.639 I've watched it three times in the last week. 0:00:26.960 --> 0:00:31.400 Three times in one week? Yeah, yeah, dude, what's wrong 0:00:31.440 --> 0:00:37.760 with you? Kind of ATMC? When did you rewatch the 0:00:37.800 --> 0:00:40.720 Wedding from Hell this morning? Me too? 0:00:43.200 --> 0:00:44.000 Yeah? 0:00:44.080 --> 0:00:45.479 Yeah, guys love it? 0:00:45.840 --> 0:00:48.680 Well, why don't we You can't do your thing? You 0:00:48.720 --> 0:00:51.760 know you're on a roll with this recap thing, so uh, 0:00:51.880 --> 0:00:53.080 why don't you give us. 0:00:52.960 --> 0:00:55.520 The Shannon likes you to do the reading, so you're 0:00:55.560 --> 0:00:57.080 going to do the reading grams. 0:00:57.440 --> 0:01:00.320 So the episode we're talking about, Season one, episode six, 0:01:00.440 --> 0:01:05.280 Wedding from Hell, aired November eleventh, nineteen ninety eight. A 0:01:05.360 --> 0:01:09.520 bride to be is banished when Hakate, queen of the Underworld, 0:01:09.600 --> 0:01:15.160 steals the groom so she can conceive the next demon baby. Meanwhile, 0:01:15.240 --> 0:01:19.080 a persistent priest tries to stop the evil conception, and 0:01:19.160 --> 0:01:23.559 the Halliwell sisters try to stop the wedding reception. 0:01:23.840 --> 0:01:29.560 Wedding wedding crashers. The wedding Crasher episode is growing on me. 0:01:29.760 --> 0:01:35.640 I will say that, what fine, black mold. 0:01:36.319 --> 0:01:38.080 What did you? Are you serious right now? 0:01:38.720 --> 0:01:44.800 Yes, And I'll tell you why. You know, we waited 0:01:44.840 --> 0:01:48.960 so long to do this with Shannon, as everyone knows, 0:01:49.640 --> 0:01:52.560 and she was so excited to do it and had 0:01:52.600 --> 0:01:57.040 so much enthusiasm that I know that right now she's 0:01:57.240 --> 0:02:01.680 really amused that Brian had to watch it three times, 0:02:02.120 --> 0:02:05.440 that she made me watch it two times. And I 0:02:05.520 --> 0:02:09.799 remember her saying, well, how bad can it be? And 0:02:09.840 --> 0:02:12.919 we were like, pretty bad, And since she hadn't seen 0:02:12.960 --> 0:02:18.040 it before, she couldn't say. But, like I said, it's 0:02:18.120 --> 0:02:22.680 growing on me. And I'll tell you this, it's because 0:02:22.720 --> 0:02:27.960 of the sisterhood parts that are like totally coalescing. It's 0:02:28.320 --> 0:02:34.840 very true to real life, and there was some sisterhood 0:02:34.840 --> 0:02:40.200 bonding there. What makes it so unwatchable is, you know, 0:02:40.280 --> 0:02:43.440 I always like to make fun of our mid century effects, 0:02:44.320 --> 0:02:49.120 but this one is truly terrible makeup. But if you 0:02:49.240 --> 0:02:53.000 take those very awful demon heads out of it and 0:02:53.160 --> 0:02:56.919 just not watch those parts, look away, look away, it's 0:02:57.000 --> 0:03:00.280 actually an okay episode. 0:03:00.560 --> 0:03:03.240 This is what I was saying, go ahead, yeah, no, no, 0:03:03.200 --> 0:03:04.680 this is what I was saying last week. I agree. 0:03:04.800 --> 0:03:09.440 The Sisterhood and the you guys are thriving in this episode. Yeah, 0:03:09.520 --> 0:03:12.200 I think, yes, the makeup, and then there's a few 0:03:12.320 --> 0:03:16.960 moments that are unjustified. I don't want to call it 0:03:17.000 --> 0:03:23.359 over acting, but yeah, maybe misdirected, high energy, I'm really 0:03:23.480 --> 0:03:28.640 angry guest star moments that don't quite fit. And whether 0:03:28.680 --> 0:03:30.519 that's I don't want to say that's the actor, maybe 0:03:30.520 --> 0:03:32.720 it's the way they were pushed at the moment. I 0:03:32.760 --> 0:03:34.880 need you more angry, I need you more excited. But 0:03:35.440 --> 0:03:37.600 there were some moments that didn't quite fit, that felt 0:03:37.640 --> 0:03:41.560 like kind of bad TV. But then you guys just 0:03:41.760 --> 0:03:45.280 handled it and brought it out. And that's why I said, 0:03:45.320 --> 0:03:47.160 I kind of dug it. 0:03:47.160 --> 0:03:52.080 It's a very spelling episode, down to the Beverly Hills 0:03:52.120 --> 0:04:02.520 mansion that we were at for the entire week. Yeah. 0:04:02.560 --> 0:04:06.440 But but aside from the mid century special effects, the 0:04:06.520 --> 0:04:12.680 Demon Baby was actually good. The Demon Baby was actually scary. 0:04:13.160 --> 0:04:13.720 I'm scared. 0:04:14.440 --> 0:04:16.800 So you guys both have kind of done a one 0:04:16.839 --> 0:04:20.600 eighty and which is one hundred percent allowed because I 0:04:20.640 --> 0:04:23.479 did Guy Fresh Eyes. I did a little bit of 0:04:23.480 --> 0:04:26.720 a one eighty on dream Sorcer. Yeah, it wasn't as 0:04:27.000 --> 0:04:30.440 bad as I remember it being my hot take on 0:04:30.560 --> 0:04:34.240 Wedding from Hell just from the jump is it's such 0:04:34.279 --> 0:04:38.479 a big episode. There are so many things and parts 0:04:38.560 --> 0:04:42.120 going on, like the Rex and Hannah bit where they 0:04:42.160 --> 0:04:46.479 have this, uh this this like doll that they're you know, 0:04:46.560 --> 0:04:48.640 going in Andy and. 0:04:48.360 --> 0:04:49.119 I a doll. 0:04:49.200 --> 0:04:54.159 It's an artifact, an artifact, you're right, an artifact. 0:04:54.000 --> 0:04:59.479 Fertility good doll. It's a fertility It has boobies. It's 0:04:59.520 --> 0:05:01.880 something that you need to keep away from me because 0:05:01.920 --> 0:05:03.080 I don't need any more children. 0:05:03.480 --> 0:05:08.440 That's true. No fertility artifacts for HMC everyone nne. 0:05:08.480 --> 0:05:10.440 I mean that's where it started. Yeah. 0:05:10.920 --> 0:05:15.600 Probably. Then you have the Andean Darryl bit where they're 0:05:15.600 --> 0:05:18.120 trying to solve this murder that happens. You have this 0:05:18.279 --> 0:05:22.560 like wedding, you know, the hakat and that whole backstory 0:05:22.560 --> 0:05:25.480 with Grace, and then you have the Elliott and Alison thing, 0:05:25.839 --> 0:05:28.080 plus you have the catering thing, plus you have the 0:05:28.160 --> 0:05:31.320 underlying pregnancy thing like there. 0:05:31.480 --> 0:05:33.919 Yeah, I was gonna say, what about excuse me, the 0:05:33.920 --> 0:05:35.080 bun in the oven. 0:05:35.040 --> 0:05:37.320 Well and the trash I save the best for last 0:05:37.480 --> 0:05:41.000 thing at the top of the trash. So there's so 0:05:41.240 --> 0:05:44.040 much going on. That they're trying to weave. And there's 0:05:44.160 --> 0:05:47.520 like a gazillion double or triple on Tondras that I 0:05:47.520 --> 0:05:49.880 found at the bag and I was like, wow, They're 0:05:50.200 --> 0:05:54.039 like it's I just feel like if this episode, same 0:05:54.160 --> 0:05:59.159 storyline was tackled like once everyone, because this is still 0:05:59.200 --> 0:06:01.720 pretty early in to you guys doing the show. 0:06:01.640 --> 0:06:04.080 Right, Like yeah, And I just read about that again, 0:06:04.200 --> 0:06:07.240 like not only were like two episodes out of order, 0:06:07.360 --> 0:06:11.440 but there was actually like three jumbled and juggled, so 0:06:11.520 --> 0:06:14.240 the whole order of the first five is funky. 0:06:14.760 --> 0:06:16.760 Yeah, so I feel like maybe this could have been 0:06:16.839 --> 0:06:18.840 three potentially. 0:06:18.960 --> 0:06:21.320 Yeah, I think it was actually, So if. 0:06:21.160 --> 0:06:24.479 That's the case, it's like there there is so much 0:06:24.600 --> 0:06:28.200 going on and trying to like execute it all I 0:06:28.720 --> 0:06:32.640 think location and all on location, and while you guys 0:06:32.640 --> 0:06:35.599 are still kind of again figuring it out and getting 0:06:35.600 --> 0:06:38.760 into the groove because like there's a Jeremy reference here 0:06:38.760 --> 0:06:42.799 and we haven't spoken about Jeremy in you know, months, yeah, 0:06:43.120 --> 0:06:45.479 at least in the normal timeline, right. 0:06:45.360 --> 0:06:47.880 And it's like she says eight to six weeks and 0:06:47.920 --> 0:06:50.840 I'm like, wait a minute, Yeah. 0:06:51.080 --> 0:06:55.720 So I just think that again, and it's tough to like, 0:06:55.839 --> 0:06:58.320 I can't. It's tough to kind of like crush on 0:06:58.360 --> 0:07:00.760 the acting because I will, and there on the day, 0:07:00.880 --> 0:07:04.160 I don't know what our w Guinty was pushing for 0:07:04.320 --> 0:07:07.880 the actors standpoint, it just felt like there were two. 0:07:07.960 --> 0:07:10.840 And it's a testament to how brilliant like the three 0:07:10.880 --> 0:07:14.680 girls are. It's like, you guys are so effortless and 0:07:14.840 --> 0:07:21.240 easy and like just have this incredible dynamic versus this 0:07:21.320 --> 0:07:23.720 thing where you have these like the Grace and the 0:07:23.760 --> 0:07:27.360 Alison and the Elliott thing, and it feels it's jarring 0:07:27.480 --> 0:07:30.200 because it doesn't feel Yeah, it doesn't. It doesn't feel 0:07:30.240 --> 0:07:33.320 lived in at all. It feels really big and kind 0:07:33.320 --> 0:07:33.960 of soapy. 0:07:34.000 --> 0:07:37.920 But Allison was great. I felt for her, for sure. 0:07:38.480 --> 0:07:42.559 She got better. It's the opening, the opening scene really 0:07:42.600 --> 0:07:44.640 kind of like the opening scream. 0:07:45.360 --> 0:07:50.920 Yeah yeah, well but the opening line, her first line 0:07:51.120 --> 0:07:53.640 is I don't want anything bad to happen. 0:07:54.320 --> 0:07:56.720 Well, I can relate to that. I'm the person who's 0:07:56.720 --> 0:07:59.000 always waiting for the other shoe to drop, so I 0:07:59.040 --> 0:08:00.480 can relate to that. For sure. 0:08:01.480 --> 0:08:03.800 We can. We can work on that. It's not too late. 0:08:04.760 --> 0:08:07.720 But you know, they told her to scream like he's dead, 0:08:07.880 --> 0:08:09.120 like he just right. 0:08:09.640 --> 0:08:11.880 Yeah, and that's not what you do when that happens. 0:08:11.920 --> 0:08:14.240 First of all, A his eyes are open, so this 0:08:14.400 --> 0:08:16.840 is very perplexing. He's just staring into space. 0:08:17.200 --> 0:08:17.400 True. 0:08:17.440 --> 0:08:20.480 I mean a normal person would think, is this a stroke? 0:08:20.600 --> 0:08:23.000 What is happening? I would have slapped him a few 0:08:23.000 --> 0:08:23.840 times at least. 0:08:24.000 --> 0:08:26.040 Does anyone smell toast? Is it toast? 0:08:26.600 --> 0:08:30.440 I think so? Yeah, Like you know, when somebody just 0:08:30.440 --> 0:08:34.000 goes catatonic, you don't just scream out loud to the heavens. 0:08:34.480 --> 0:08:39.480 No, you can't cut to commercial on somebody going hello. 0:08:39.840 --> 0:08:40.640 Up up the drama. 0:08:40.679 --> 0:08:43.079 I need to scream, yeah, pump up the drama. 0:08:43.559 --> 0:08:46.199 Pump up the drama. Plump up the drama. But so 0:08:46.280 --> 0:08:50.880 all that being said, it's like it feels there's just 0:08:51.400 --> 0:08:54.959 it's so much. There's so much theatrical. It's very theatrical, 0:08:55.320 --> 0:08:59.479 and it's tough because again, next to you three specifically 0:09:00.200 --> 0:09:03.040 like it really and we're also just coming off of 0:09:03.120 --> 0:09:07.600 John Chow, which was also like let's not forget, you know, like, 0:09:07.679 --> 0:09:10.200 so to come off from John Choate like just such 0:09:10.200 --> 0:09:13.679 an incredible artist and actor, and then kind of hit 0:09:13.760 --> 0:09:15.920 this a little bit. It was it's. 0:09:17.800 --> 0:09:23.800 Love it her life, Love her life, for one day. 0:09:24.240 --> 0:09:26.839 Do you know Alison was a little. 0:09:29.320 --> 0:09:32.320 Yeah, I think I have a crush on Hannah. 0:09:32.120 --> 0:09:34.600 Oh yeah, that's that's true. 0:09:35.400 --> 0:09:35.880 I know. 0:09:37.280 --> 0:09:43.640 Interesting is a saucy minx. She's very saucy. She's playing Rex. 0:09:43.679 --> 0:09:46.480 I think before I used to think Rex was manipulating her, 0:09:46.520 --> 0:09:49.720 but I think she's really in on, like she's in charge. 0:09:51.040 --> 0:09:55.160 They've officially replaced Andy and Prue with the creepiest relationship 0:09:59.720 --> 0:10:01.000 there at the top of the board. 0:10:01.440 --> 0:10:04.440 Like he walks in, Sorry we're jumping, we're so far ahead, 0:10:04.440 --> 0:10:07.120 but I'm just because we're talking about Rex and Hannah. Remember, 0:10:07.320 --> 0:10:09.760 Like he walks in the door and she's just like 0:10:10.360 --> 0:10:14.280 touching the sword on some like artifact or some statue, 0:10:14.880 --> 0:10:16.280 and he turns around. He's like, a should we go 0:10:16.320 --> 0:10:19.280 to a football game and watch people get hurt? Hut 0:10:19.840 --> 0:10:21.760 hurts and she's all excited about it. 0:10:22.480 --> 0:10:26.160 Yeah, they're the creepiest. They win. And actually Andy and 0:10:26.200 --> 0:10:28.880 Prue were sort of normal in this episode, as normal 0:10:28.920 --> 0:10:29.680 as they can be. 0:10:30.280 --> 0:10:34.920 Well, you know, because Andy actually he like, for example, 0:10:34.960 --> 0:10:37.400 when he goes and sees Prue at Bucklin's, he actually 0:10:37.400 --> 0:10:40.720 called her for once, and she even made a point 0:10:40.760 --> 0:10:43.920 to say, I appreciate you calling before you show up. 0:10:44.480 --> 0:10:48.440 Sure, but he still leaves her with a dagger, like here, 0:10:48.600 --> 0:10:49.800 here's your dagger, lady. 0:10:50.400 --> 0:10:53.200 That's true. Yeah, that's very true. 0:10:54.320 --> 0:10:58.520 Here's the evidence. I'm sconded with it. It's a great word, 0:10:59.040 --> 0:11:01.040 great coffee today. 0:11:01.200 --> 0:11:03.040 I love an absconding with evidence. 0:11:03.600 --> 0:11:07.120 Yeah. It's a very Charlie's Angels episode for sure, which 0:11:07.160 --> 0:11:11.760 I appreciate now, the campiness and the Charlie's Angels of it. 0:11:11.800 --> 0:11:16.520 All Right, there are other things, like, you know, when 0:11:16.520 --> 0:11:19.240 we're at the estate, the things in the moments that 0:11:19.400 --> 0:11:21.959 just don't track, where like you know, the priest is 0:11:22.000 --> 0:11:26.679 suddenly thrown out a window by de demonic force and 0:11:27.080 --> 0:11:30.000 the security guards let the three of us come in 0:11:30.040 --> 0:11:33.520 there and inspect the body in front of them as 0:11:33.559 --> 0:11:34.120 one does. 0:11:34.920 --> 0:11:39.640 Yeah. Also Father Trusk turns out he's very uh slippery 0:11:39.640 --> 0:11:42.280 and elusive, like how did he how did he escape 0:11:42.320 --> 0:11:47.640 these like two brutes like the back of that truck 0:11:48.040 --> 0:11:53.160 switches outfits, grabs, you know, grabs the sacred dagger and 0:11:53.640 --> 0:11:54.600 you know, makes his move. 0:11:55.200 --> 0:11:59.720 He he's on a mission and God is on his side. 0:12:00.520 --> 0:12:04.440 I didn't know God involved daggers with Pikaate. But we're 0:12:04.559 --> 0:12:07.920 misimashined all sorts of religious issues right now? 0:12:08.160 --> 0:12:12.080 Correct God? So if God is on Father Trusk's side, 0:12:12.200 --> 0:12:14.400 would it be safe to say that God is not 0:12:14.559 --> 0:12:16.040 on the pizza strippers side? 0:12:16.320 --> 0:12:21.000 Just well, you know, sometimes there's sacrifice, yeah, great or. 0:12:21.000 --> 0:12:25.440 Good human sacrifice, and he needed to be one of them. 0:12:25.920 --> 0:12:29.319 That's just real rough. But that, by the way, that 0:12:29.400 --> 0:12:31.320 was at that was a thing for me. That's still 0:12:31.360 --> 0:12:35.520 like upon this this second viewing of Wedding from Hell, 0:12:36.000 --> 0:12:39.079 it didn't. I was like, wait, you guys, just well, 0:12:39.080 --> 0:12:41.400 first of all, your reactions, all three of you were 0:12:41.480 --> 0:12:43.920 so genuine, like I don't know what you guys were 0:12:43.960 --> 0:12:46.720 looking at, but it looked like you were having the 0:12:46.760 --> 0:12:49.040 most fun. Did they have the stripper to strip for 0:12:49.080 --> 0:12:49.679 you off camera? 0:12:49.760 --> 0:12:53.199 Of course? Okay, Franco I think his name is Franco. 0:12:53.800 --> 0:12:57.000 Yeah, because I'm watching you three and I'm like, you, guys, 0:12:57.080 --> 0:13:01.120 your reactions are so genuine and hilarious. You're grossed out, 0:13:01.679 --> 0:13:05.440 Like both Alyssa and Shannon are having the time of 0:13:05.480 --> 0:13:06.959 their lives. 0:13:07.679 --> 0:13:11.320 I mean, those are things you just cannot unsee. It's 0:13:11.360 --> 0:13:14.439 it's the demon heads and the speedo for me. 0:13:15.120 --> 0:13:20.560 Yeah, but ba, in regardless of easy easy just calling 0:13:20.640 --> 0:13:21.440 her what it is. 0:13:21.679 --> 0:13:26.119 Jesus, Jesus, so easily distracted, so distracted. 0:13:27.120 --> 0:13:31.200 But this idea of like, you guys really just watch 0:13:31.320 --> 0:13:35.240 this dude get like eaten alive. 0:13:35.960 --> 0:13:38.800 Yeah, that does that protect the innocent? 0:13:39.200 --> 0:13:40.080 Is that what we do? 0:13:40.240 --> 0:13:43.720 So what we're doing now, like b K said, it's 0:13:43.960 --> 0:13:45.640 there are sacrifices to be made. 0:13:46.280 --> 0:13:50.760 Yeah, and then they just went home like Franco. 0:13:52.160 --> 0:13:57.440 And we we we just washed that pizza was very greasy. 0:13:58.120 --> 0:14:00.880 Yeah, not the innocent we're supposed to protect. 0:14:01.640 --> 0:14:05.880 No, not gluten free. 0:14:05.480 --> 0:14:12.080 Say god, well I take umbrage with this. Whether it 0:14:12.120 --> 0:14:16.760 was gluten free or not. He needed some he needed 0:14:16.800 --> 0:14:18.000 your he needed your protection. 0:14:18.679 --> 0:14:21.400 I think that it's funny that Prue sits out like 0:14:21.560 --> 0:14:24.960 most of this episode in her office until the supper 0:14:25.040 --> 0:14:26.320 shows up and then she's there. 0:14:27.240 --> 0:14:29.760 Yeah, that's actually a very good observation. 0:14:30.080 --> 0:14:32.680 All the food in the food, in the food, I. 0:14:32.600 --> 0:14:37.000 Mean, how does the struggling like man, that one was busy. 0:14:37.520 --> 0:14:39.960 It felt like you guys had like a hundred extras 0:14:41.200 --> 0:14:43.880 and you were busy. Piper was very. 0:14:43.680 --> 0:14:49.040 Busy because, like I said, it was a big production. 0:14:49.240 --> 0:14:52.160 It was a big and that's why this tracks that 0:14:52.240 --> 0:14:56.000 it was supposed to be episode three, you know, and 0:14:56.000 --> 0:14:59.360 Andy and Darryl are all like Smoogie in their best 0:14:59.400 --> 0:15:06.280 like port very. They're on it, but Prue leaves the 0:15:06.800 --> 0:15:08.840 well not so much on it because Prue leaves the 0:15:08.920 --> 0:15:13.760 laptop top open for you know, Andy just did peruse 0:15:14.360 --> 0:15:18.640 and she's looking at demonicra. Yes, he's perusing. 0:15:20.040 --> 0:15:22.080 Do you get that what you just did there? It 0:15:22.160 --> 0:15:22.600 was really good. 0:15:23.040 --> 0:15:27.960 Thank you coffee again, brought to you by Coffee Water. 0:15:28.760 --> 0:15:32.520 But literally, like he knows, he's got to know already 0:15:32.680 --> 0:15:35.760 or else he is the world's worst detective, which is 0:15:35.800 --> 0:15:37.640 where I take Gumbridge again. 0:15:37.920 --> 0:15:41.000 That's definitely up for debate. Yeah, I actually think he's 0:15:41.000 --> 0:15:41.760 a good detective. 0:15:42.680 --> 0:15:45.640 People are so split on this relationship. I read some 0:15:45.640 --> 0:15:48.440 stuff last night where they were like, he's not a stalker, 0:15:48.960 --> 0:15:54.200 he's your childhood sweetheart. They're very connected, and I was like, ma'am, 0:15:54.480 --> 0:15:56.880 I'm gonna put you in touch with some better help. 0:15:57.200 --> 0:16:01.880 Okay, yeah, maybe we need may talk about relationship. 0:16:04.080 --> 0:16:07.920 Guys. You know, maybe they are high school sweethearts and 0:16:08.320 --> 0:16:10.119 you know, sure, but that doesn't. 0:16:10.160 --> 0:16:12.200 Give you the right to just show up with people's 0:16:12.200 --> 0:16:14.440 places at work, home. 0:16:14.720 --> 0:16:17.600 Car, look at their computer when they walk away. 0:16:18.520 --> 0:16:22.800 Yeah, might as well be like looking at her journal. Yeah, basic, Yeah, 0:16:22.800 --> 0:16:23.960 when he's going on the computer. 0:16:24.480 --> 0:16:26.960 And Preue definitely had a journal. She would be a 0:16:27.040 --> 0:16:30.280 journal keeper for sure. M hmm. 0:16:30.680 --> 0:16:34.280 Are either of the journal keepers? No, used to be. 0:16:34.640 --> 0:16:37.880 I've kind of fallen out, like in the last couple 0:16:37.840 --> 0:16:43.120 of days. I think in your twenties, everybody keeps a journal. No. 0:16:43.440 --> 0:16:46.240 I got to this thing, like, you know, don't just 0:16:46.320 --> 0:16:47.160 never write it down? 0:16:48.000 --> 0:16:49.080 Yeah, it's evidence. 0:16:49.800 --> 0:16:53.560 Duh, what are you two talking about right now? What 0:16:53.680 --> 0:16:54.360 do you hide it? 0:16:54.480 --> 0:16:57.600 I found this book that said that takes you through 0:16:58.040 --> 0:17:02.000 a timeline to le for my son. So it's like, 0:17:02.400 --> 0:17:04.720 you know, right about your life, and so I've been 0:17:04.800 --> 0:17:06.240 kind of filling stuff in on that. 0:17:07.920 --> 0:17:10.200 I did that. I had journals for the boys when 0:17:10.200 --> 0:17:14.000 they were babies, but now, No. 0:17:13.160 --> 0:17:15.520 Now it'd be amazing to go back and read those. 0:17:16.720 --> 0:17:20.879 H my dead body. 0:17:22.080 --> 0:17:26.600 Have you ever had a parent come in and cancel 0:17:26.640 --> 0:17:29.399 your relationship so they could be with someone else, like 0:17:29.400 --> 0:17:30.800 like this episode. 0:17:30.760 --> 0:17:31.639 Great question. 0:17:32.960 --> 0:17:35.040 Drew definitely has absolutely not. 0:17:35.680 --> 0:17:42.320 Although I will say this, I remember this was it 0:17:42.359 --> 0:17:46.320 was posts Sarah. I was dating this girl for a 0:17:46.359 --> 0:17:50.280 couple of years and I remember meeting my parents up 0:17:50.280 --> 0:17:56.040 in Pasadena after you know, they came up for a Sunday. 0:17:56.080 --> 0:17:58.119 We were going to go to lunch, and like the 0:17:58.160 --> 0:18:01.200 girl in Question of Time were, we'd been fighting a 0:18:01.200 --> 0:18:03.000 lot and we'd been going to like I think we'd 0:18:03.040 --> 0:18:06.359 been at like six months of couple's therapy. And I 0:18:06.359 --> 0:18:09.160 show up and I say, and they're like, oh, Where's 0:18:09.280 --> 0:18:14.159 where's Jen? And I'm like, oh, we broke up last night. 0:18:14.880 --> 0:18:17.080 Oh yeah, we saw that coming. And I was like, well, 0:18:18.520 --> 0:18:22.400 do you know I just pay for six months of 0:18:23.080 --> 0:18:26.600 couple's therapy every week, sometimes twice a week. And you said, oh, yeah, 0:18:26.640 --> 0:18:28.400 we saw that coming. How long ago? Like she goes, 0:18:28.440 --> 0:18:32.040 right from the beginning, And I said, what, we've been 0:18:32.080 --> 0:18:34.720 together for over two years. Why didn't you say anything? 0:18:35.080 --> 0:18:37.960 And she goes, because if it had worked out, then 0:18:38.359 --> 0:18:40.919 you would have always kind of resented us if we 0:18:41.000 --> 0:18:42.760 had said, I like, we don't think this is the 0:18:42.840 --> 0:18:46.359 right person for you. So they just kept their mouth shut. 0:18:46.600 --> 0:18:48.480 So they that they did the opposite. 0:18:49.200 --> 0:18:51.080 I'm a completely different parent. 0:18:51.960 --> 0:18:52.480 Please share. 0:18:53.000 --> 0:18:55.640 I will look at Finland and go, how you doing? 0:18:56.080 --> 0:18:57.080 Are you having fun with that? 0:19:00.160 --> 0:19:00.440 God? 0:19:02.119 --> 0:19:06.280 Do you enjoy this? I maintenance stuff? Do you like it? 0:19:06.520 --> 0:19:07.320 You like the drama? 0:19:07.960 --> 0:19:10.679 Do you like it? Do you drive on it? It's something? 0:19:10.840 --> 0:19:11.760 Do we need to talk? 0:19:13.200 --> 0:19:15.280 This might be a generational thing. I mean, you are 0:19:15.400 --> 0:19:19.240 not the age of my parents, you know, they're they're 0:19:19.280 --> 0:19:25.639 in their seventies, but you're just my TV mom. And 0:19:25.960 --> 0:19:28.440 but I just thought that was a really interesting approach, 0:19:28.640 --> 0:19:31.679 and I think parents, I'm assuming you so like to 0:19:31.760 --> 0:19:34.280 that end. You have a you have an opinion about 0:19:34.280 --> 0:19:38.119 probably every girl that Finley has ever brought up. Absolutely, 0:19:38.600 --> 0:19:40.200 and have you shared it every time? 0:19:41.119 --> 0:19:47.119 Yes? Wow, even Kelly starting I'm young. Okay, I like 0:19:47.200 --> 0:19:52.200 Kelly's girlfriend. She's very cute. I like her too, very sweet. 0:19:52.240 --> 0:19:56.800 Very sweet. He's a very bored Yeah kay. What about you? 0:19:56.840 --> 0:20:00.159 Have you have you tried to interfere on No. 0:20:00.240 --> 0:20:07.080 I've never tried to interfere with Jamein's relationships. When he 0:20:07.200 --> 0:20:09.959 comes to me and you know, or through a breakup 0:20:10.040 --> 0:20:12.040 or something wrong, I'll just talk him through it. You know, 0:20:12.040 --> 0:20:15.200 it's that same thing. You don't want to say something 0:20:15.320 --> 0:20:19.200 negative about the person that it could work out with, 0:20:19.359 --> 0:20:24.320 because that person will you know, they'll wind up hating you. 0:20:24.520 --> 0:20:27.240 They're going to choose sides. Right, You're gonna choose, and 0:20:27.280 --> 0:20:30.959 if they choose to be with this girl, then you know, 0:20:31.040 --> 0:20:33.200 now I'm the asshole and they think you don't get along. 0:20:33.240 --> 0:20:34.160 He create awkward. 0:20:34.280 --> 0:20:37.080 So but if he wants to talk to me about something, yes, 0:20:37.280 --> 0:20:40.280 I'll be as honest and tactful ever, but I'll never 0:20:40.400 --> 0:20:43.520 say I'll bring up questions like are you you know, 0:20:43.680 --> 0:20:45.879 kind of like are you sure? How does this make 0:20:45.920 --> 0:20:48.240 you feel? Of that kind of stuff, but you know, 0:20:48.440 --> 0:20:53.040 never detracting and never slighting a person who he's chosen 0:20:53.080 --> 0:20:53.479 to be with. 0:20:54.240 --> 0:20:57.880 Oh oh, I'll make a note of that. I'll make 0:20:57.920 --> 0:20:59.800 a note of it, and then I'll continue to do it. 0:21:01.680 --> 0:21:04.840 By the way, actually it's it's I'm nervous, you know, 0:21:04.920 --> 0:21:06.320 of him being angry at me. 0:21:06.440 --> 0:21:08.960 So my children are always angry at me. This is 0:21:08.960 --> 0:21:09.560 what we lived for. 0:21:10.080 --> 0:21:13.040 Yes, But by the way, I kind of I've told 0:21:13.080 --> 0:21:15.400 you were I'm more like you when it comes to friends. 0:21:15.480 --> 0:21:17.160 Like if a friend goes like, oh what do you think, 0:21:17.280 --> 0:21:20.280 I'm like instantly I'm like, well, you know, like is 0:21:20.320 --> 0:21:22.160 this really? Like what are you doing? 0:21:22.600 --> 0:21:24.840 Yeah? That's what I hate actually about both of you, 0:21:24.880 --> 0:21:28.080 because you guys are so in love with Mike that 0:21:28.200 --> 0:21:31.680 I didn't even have a chance to complain. It's true 0:21:32.320 --> 0:21:34.199 if I have a problem and I'm like, well, you know, 0:21:34.359 --> 0:21:36.679 I'm kind of unhappy about this. You guys are always like, 0:21:36.920 --> 0:21:42.480 Mike's so great, It's okay, gross, Mike's the best, you 0:21:42.520 --> 0:21:45.879 know what when you do that. 0:21:46.320 --> 0:21:49.080 I remember I said that first about it. I was like, God, 0:21:49.080 --> 0:21:53.879 the guy's handsome, he's fun. God, he's just the best. Huh. 0:21:53.880 --> 0:21:55.600 And you're like, yeah, but you don't, like, no, he's 0:21:55.640 --> 0:21:58.760 the best. I love him. 0:21:59.240 --> 0:22:01.600 I just never want to go there. I had a 0:22:01.680 --> 0:22:07.200 mom cancel a relationship. This girl. We were in love. 0:22:07.320 --> 0:22:10.520 It was like we were we were you elliot. We 0:22:10.600 --> 0:22:14.240 had really great chemistry and she was amazing. It was 0:22:14.280 --> 0:22:17.080 so much fun. And you know, this is early nineties 0:22:17.119 --> 0:22:22.200 before I met the future wife and mom met mom, 0:22:22.240 --> 0:22:25.080 and Mom was very much like the mom in this show, 0:22:25.320 --> 0:22:30.320 like high society Richie. Richie needed like here, I am 0:22:30.359 --> 0:22:33.000 all hippie b k, you know, living out of my 0:22:33.119 --> 0:22:36.760 car basically, and you know, she comes from you know, money, 0:22:36.880 --> 0:22:39.800 and she's like and so I try to impress her 0:22:39.800 --> 0:22:45.320 with my you know, genleinliness and wit, and you know, 0:22:45.440 --> 0:22:48.200 it didn't go over and so she kind of talked her. 0:22:50.160 --> 0:22:52.879 It was over over right, like a week after I 0:22:52.920 --> 0:22:56.080 met mom, it was over. And now she's gone on 0:22:56.240 --> 0:23:00.360