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Speaker 1: Parenting back in the day. Kids should be seen and

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Speaker 1: not heard parenting today. What do you mean my kid

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Speaker 1: didn't win an NFL Super Bowl. He likes the team

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Speaker 1: and wanted to plan the NFL He should still get

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Speaker 1: a trophy for wanting to plan the NFL participations. The

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Speaker 1: Jewel Show and they recently did a survey and found

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Speaker 1: the most popular parenting rules from twenty to thirty years

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Speaker 1: ago versus the ones today, and they are very different.

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Speaker 1: They surveyed over a thousand people parents with children over

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Speaker 1: thirty and here are the top five old school rules

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Speaker 1: that used to be enforced that have changed a lot.

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Speaker 1: Number five, you have to behave, especially in public. I

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Speaker 1: still think that's a good rule. Apparently not anymore. In public.

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Speaker 1: You should be hitting. However, you don't have to behave

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Speaker 1: in public. It's fine and everyone are human. Oh there

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Speaker 1: are people that are like that. Number four on the

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Speaker 1: list of old school rules that parents used to have

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Speaker 1: but don't have anymore. You have to sit down and

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Speaker 1: eat together as a family. I'm glad about that one.

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Speaker 1: You definitely don't not. I hate that family never even

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Speaker 1: abided by that. Hate that rule. We'd have some people

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Speaker 1: in the living room which a TV some people that

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Speaker 1: have done. Also another rule that they used to have

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Speaker 1: thirty years ago that they don't have anymore. I support

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Speaker 1: this rule. Kids have to do chores. Yeah, definitely should.

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Speaker 1: They're living in the house, they need to participate with

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Speaker 1: cleaning up. Try asking a teenager to do a chores

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Speaker 1: getting an attitude it's it's like you punched them. How

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Speaker 1: dare you tell me to do that. I'm going to

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Speaker 1: call CPS right now. Another rule that used to be

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Speaker 1: enforced in parenting that isn't today. You don't always get

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Speaker 1: everything you want. I think that's a good thing to

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Speaker 1: say that is that is such a good thing, But

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Speaker 1: try telling that to a teenager right According to this survey, though,

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Speaker 1: parents nowadays don't think that that's a good thing till

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Speaker 1: you get whatever you want. Who was saying this? Thousand

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Speaker 1: parents They surveyed, I have no idea, no chores and

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Speaker 1: get everything you want? Yeah, no, exactly. Could you imagine

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Speaker 1: telling your boss, like, oh, I'm going to take tomorrow

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Speaker 1: off because like I want it, and like I was

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Speaker 1: told that I could have anything I want. Yeah, I'm

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Speaker 1: not coming in on Wednesdays because like that's the middle

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Speaker 1: of the week. Though. Actually Bella did tell me when

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Speaker 1: I was telling her about chores that she just doesn't agree.

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Speaker 1: She doesn't agree rules agree, And I'm like, but she

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Speaker 1: was like saying it in a way, we're sorry. We

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Speaker 1: just didn't agree on that though, so I'm not gonna

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Speaker 1: do it. That's the way she said. I was like,

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Speaker 1: excuse me, this isn't she said, we op different opinion.

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Speaker 1: I was like, but singing it in a way like

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Speaker 1: she's not going to do whatever. I said. Yeah, if

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Speaker 1: I said that to my mom, she would have slapped me.

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Speaker 1: My opinion on your rules is different than your opinion

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Speaker 1: on your rules. Therefar I don't have to do it,

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Speaker 1: and I was just like, that's a rule, not an opinion.

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Speaker 1: That's like a thing I just do on how you

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Speaker 1: feel about something. That's what you're supposed to do for

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Speaker 1: your thoughts. It's like being pulled over and then saying

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Speaker 1: I actually don't agree that I was speeding and said

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Speaker 1: I'm not going to take that ticket. You can just

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Speaker 1: go ahead and rip that up and take it back.

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Speaker 1: In my opinion, one hundred miles an hour and a

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Speaker 1: forty five mile an hour zone is not speeding, officer,

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Speaker 1: and sorry, our opinions did for Bubbe, I have a

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Speaker 1: good day. And the number one rule that that of

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Speaker 1: a guest parents don't and I support this, I support

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Speaker 1: not having this rule anymore. But the number one rule,

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Speaker 1: according to the survey that parents from thirty years ago

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Speaker 1: used to enforce that they don't anymore respect your elders. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: the respect your elders. I don't believe that you should

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Speaker 1: just respect someone because they're old. If they deserve respect,

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Speaker 1: don't matter how old they are. Yeah. When I was

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Speaker 1: growing up and I would have a girlfriend, her parents

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Speaker 1: always hated that I didn't care about that rule. Be

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Speaker 1: like no, I don't, Hey, you respect me, I'll respect you, right,

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Speaker 1: mutual respect here, right? And then so were you not

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Speaker 1: getting respect from your girlfriend's parents. No, I was just

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Speaker 1: a disrespectful kid, I think. But yeah, like I just

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Speaker 1: had this one. There was this one girlfriend I had

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Speaker 1: in high school where her grandfather, if you went into

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Speaker 1: his house like he would never say, you had to

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Speaker 1: go find him and say hi. And he had to

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Speaker 1: be the first person you said hi to. Who would

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Speaker 1: you get mad if you didn't? Yeah? What a narcissist? Right, crazy?

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Speaker 1: And then they told me that going over there because

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Speaker 1: I was going over there for some reason, and I

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Speaker 1: was like, that's not gonna happen. No, No, that's not

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Speaker 1: going to happen. I didn't say hi to him, and

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Speaker 1: then he ended up like yelling at me, and then

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Speaker 1: I ended up being like whatever, man, like, uh, I

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Speaker 1: don't have to do that just because you're older than me.

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Speaker 1: And then I ended up leaving and her family didn't

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Speaker 1: like me very much. Crazy it didn't walk out, I know, right,