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Speaker 2: Welcome to your show, The Truth after Dark.

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Speaker 3: Hello, beautiful people, Welcome to The True after Dark. I

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Speaker 3: Paul Pasy, Paul Pasy.

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Speaker 1: Paul pas just took a roast Barks took on logic

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Speaker 1: laws and well they said laws.

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Speaker 1: Lord, I'm nervous, okay, So let's get straight into some stuff.

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Speaker 1: So basically, there is a woman on Instagram and she

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Speaker 1: was like, I have a very sure way to tell

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Speaker 1: you if your man is a liar or not. Right,

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Speaker 1: She said, this always works. You're gonna know if your

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Speaker 1: from jump, She said, if your man is dozing off

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Speaker 1: and he's full blown snoring everything, and then he wakes

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Speaker 2: And he's like, no, no, no, I wasn't asleep.

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Speaker 1: She said, he's he's a dirty dog liar because why

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Speaker 1: were like, oh my god, was resting his eyes snoring,

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Speaker 1: It don't matter, she says, he's lying.

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Speaker 3: It do matter. That's what I'm trying to tell you.

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Speaker 3: How y'all gonna speak on men? I haven't been in

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Speaker 3: this situation. If it's two thirty, I'm resting my eyes.

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Speaker 3: I wasn't sleep and I was listening to the TV.

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Speaker 3: I didn't want to see it. I want to listen,

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Speaker 3: So you snore.

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Speaker 3: Can hear what I'm snoring. Yes, I can hear the TV.

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Speaker 3: I'm actually watching hearing it. But then I wake up

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Speaker 3: like fifteen minutes, Like, I know, it's everything.

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Speaker 1: What's going on while you wake up?

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Speaker 2: I thought you weren't sleep. How you waking up from

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Speaker 3: Because I was resting my eyes.

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Speaker 1: So that means you open your eyes, you don't wake up.

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Speaker 3: So I wasn't asleep. I was resting my eyes.

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Speaker 1: So you don't wake up, you open your eyes. You

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Speaker 3: People assume that when you close your eyes, you sleep, right.

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Speaker 1: So it's indicative to say that I opened my eyes.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, so I just opened my eyes.

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Speaker 2: So you don't think that's the way to show if a.

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Speaker 3: Man is way off with that way off. If y'all

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Speaker 2: I think so too. I agree with that one hundred percent.

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Speaker 1: I think so, I'm gonna show you a clip of

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Speaker 3: Okay, this is the one.

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Speaker 4: Men that are hyper fixated on this idea that women

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Speaker 4: expire after the age of thirty are petos.

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Speaker 1: What the do you mean?

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Speaker 4: You are a whole ass, grown ass band and you

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Speaker 4: don't like a grown ass woman.

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Speaker 2: Huh, what do you like?

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Speaker 1: Actually, don't answer that.

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Speaker 4: I already know you need to stay away from all schools,

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Speaker 4: all playgrounds, and all children, boys and girls, immediately and forever.

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Speaker 4: You guys tell on yourselves every single time you make

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Speaker 1: You were expired after thirty and you're a sponsor.

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Speaker 4: You are a sponsor, and you need professional help. You

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Speaker 4: actually need to go to jail, and then if you

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Speaker 1: You're a six individual.

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Speaker 4: Not only are screws loose, but they're completely see completely missing.

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Speaker 4: You guys should be so ashamed and embarrassed to even

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Speaker 4: say these intrusive thoughts you have out loud right, You

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Speaker 4: that are your age of age attractive.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, okay, I hope you heard that loud and clear.

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Speaker 3: I mean, how much more? Just don't have to hear.

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Speaker 3: I've already made an opinion on this. Don't find see

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Speaker 3: first off, you just get the whole goddamn decade. Girl.

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Speaker 3: So if a god say past thirty, you a pedophile?

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Speaker 3: So I have you messed with somebody twenty nine that

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Speaker 3: don't make sense. That don't make sense to me. Come

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Speaker 3: on now, don't see been hurt. You can tell that

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Speaker 3: she got some pain in her heart. She must be cooked,

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Speaker 3: must call her cooked? Talking about you a patty if

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Speaker 3: You cooked? Girl? Man, I need to come on this

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Speaker 3: show and explain yourself whoever that was. Because she got

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Speaker 3: some animosity in her heart calling guts patty, you should

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Speaker 3: go to jail. You should go to hell. So if

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Speaker 3: you forty five, you can't date a twenty nine year

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Speaker 3: old eighty seven, twenty six, twenty five, I.

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Speaker 1: Mean that is a big age gap. Like if I

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Speaker 3: Grown woman, you're a grown ass woman.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, But if I was forty five and I was

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Speaker 1: dating a twenty five year old, I will feel that

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Speaker 1: that was strange. I would feel strange because I have

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Speaker 3: But still, how is it strange if you've grown Only

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Speaker 3: Americans think like this, let's get into true only Americans.

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Speaker 1: Overseas women that are they married girls that are fourteen.

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Speaker 1: That's what you're saying, right, culture, right, and that's okay, But.

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Speaker 3: Who's to say what's the proper age.

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Speaker 2: Who's to say, well, it's about it's.

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Speaker 3: About your law and your country, because like, go if

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Speaker 3: you know, based on family, and I don't know what

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Speaker 3: I think twenty five is the number for me, twenty

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Speaker 3: five is the number. If twenty five is the lowest,

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Speaker 3: I'm going, I don't care if I'm seventy eight, twenty

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Speaker 3: five is the lowest.

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Speaker 1: Let me tell you something. It's not about the laws.

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Speaker 1: It's about that law.

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Speaker 3: Let me know to you because no everybody.

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Speaker 1: But I'm saying, if the laws was fourteen, let me talk,

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Speaker 1: because I just let you get your stuff off. If

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Speaker 1: that's fourteen, because the law says that's okay, that's something

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Speaker 1: mentally wrong with that man. And I'm gonna tell you why.

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Speaker 1: Because at fourteen years old, I was a fourteen year old.

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Speaker 1: You had daughters that were fourteen at fourteen years old,

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Speaker 1: you know, just like I know, they have no business

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Speaker 1: dealing with no grown ass man. That is disgusting because

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Speaker 1: number one, you're not fully developed mentally. You don't even

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Speaker 3: I've never said teenage nothing.

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Speaker 1: But what I'm telling you, it doesn't matter when you're

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Speaker 3: Been of a woman.

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Speaker 1: Because we're talking about the laws in different countries and

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Speaker 1: different countries. You said it matters what the law says.

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Speaker 1: That's what matters in different countries. Is okay to date

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Speaker 1: someone who's fourteen years old?

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Speaker 3: I don't know what these laws and these other countries

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Speaker 3: is just says.

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Speaker 2: The Kings and queen say young kids that.

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Speaker 3: Are I didn't say that. You got to rewind this.

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Speaker 1: You didn't say the kings and the queens were dated.

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Speaker 3: I don't know the age.

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Speaker 2: The ages were young.

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Speaker 1: They were fourteen, sixteen or eighteen or not.

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: But even at eighteen, when I was eighteen, I didn't

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Speaker 1: and it's just to me, I had no business dealing

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Speaker 1: that's just gonna let us go with the oakie dope

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Speaker 1: and just be with whatever.

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Speaker 2: If that's what you want.

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Speaker 1: Cool, But at the same time, it's like, if you

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Speaker 1: a dictatorship, then you should want someone who actually can

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Speaker 2: Like that, Like I'm sure.

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Speaker 1: Oh you know that, that's not why you close your eyes?

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Speaker 1: What are you so?

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Speaker 3: I'm done, You're done. Yes, I get what you're saying.

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Speaker 3: But it's like, for me, I'm not into that teenage

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Speaker 2: Like twenty three, I don't know you've grown?

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Speaker 3: Ridiculous age. Are you a grown woman?

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Speaker 2: I just think that still when I was.

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Speaker 2: It don't matter how you are.

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Speaker 3: It's okay for a woman today a young man, I.

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Speaker 3: Double standard.

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Speaker 1: Right, so you think it's okay for a man to

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Speaker 1: about what makes you get the ick, like lose attraction

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Speaker 1: physical turnoffs, emotionally.

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Speaker 3: What turns a man off? Whoa man? What turns a

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Speaker 2: Yeah, sexually, sexually, emotionally.

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Speaker 1: Emotionally anything like what are some turnofs?

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Speaker 3: Like what is a situation though? But what's the situation?

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Speaker 3: We gotta come up with the scenario. First day, your girl,

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Speaker 3: levels to it because like your girl can do something

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Speaker 3: what I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: So let's talk about the first day.

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Speaker 1: Like little things like it could be little things like

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Speaker 1: like not all men are gentlemen. So they're not gonna

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Speaker 1: necessarily open the car door. Okay, we know that that's

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Speaker 1: like wishful thinking with the man, right, and I don't

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Speaker 1: getting in the car first, getting comfortable, and I'm in

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Speaker 1: my heels, just standing there what you mean? What that's

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Speaker 3: Are he at?

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Speaker 1: He's moving around, he's getting to his door, taking a

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Speaker 1: never talking to you again. And that's a small thing

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Speaker 1: as a woman complete. It doesn't matter, Why is it?

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 1: It doesn't. I don't care if he was in a Bentley,

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Speaker 2: Most women will do that. It's called being a gentleman.

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Speaker 2: But I guess that's a lost part in his society.

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Speaker 3: If you had to clean the seat, he had clean,

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Speaker 1: Unlock the door way before that. You should see your

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Speaker 3: Man.

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Speaker 1: Don't think about those things. A woman got dressed, she

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Speaker 1: You're standing there, you're waiting, your waiting over. That's like

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Speaker 1: those little things. I can just I could foresee in

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Speaker 1: Like let's see if you just that was just a

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Speaker 3: Weird He must an't got one of them. So all right,

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Speaker 3: so he ain't got that car to when he walked

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Speaker 1: No, I mean your side, the one person's side it unlocked.

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Speaker 3: That's what I'm saying. He just walked up. He did

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Speaker 1: Even the range Rover doesn't do that, No, it doesn't.

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Speaker 1: Driver side, and then you want to get out. Your

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Speaker 3: That's blowing for a guy.

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Speaker 1: The guy, Yeah, no, I don't want to see an

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Speaker 1: draws ass out?

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Speaker 2: Why is your ass out?

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Speaker 1: Like if your ass is out.

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Speaker 3: Okay, damn. I guess for me. If it's the first

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Speaker 3: day you wear tennis shoes, you blow on me. You're

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Speaker 3: coming into Jordan's. I don't give a damn the nice

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Speaker 3: George first day, I'm taking you the mass strows you

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Speaker 3: got them Jordan's on. I'm like, what, like, come on,

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Speaker 3: throw the heels on this the first d nay right, hitmn,

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Speaker 3: what gotta blow me? I'm gonna be like, man, you

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Speaker 3: know what I'm ana. I'm gonna re I'm gonna be like,

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Speaker 3: we ain't going here. I'm gonna have to take you

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Speaker 3: somewhere else. I'm just on base. I'm gonna just based

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Speaker 3: the in and out. No, we ain't going to Mastros,

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Speaker 3: not like this. No, I'm good. That's that's gonna that's

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Speaker 3: gonna turn me off. Then another thing, what but on

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Speaker 3: some physical and what another thing that's gonna drive me,

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Speaker 3: that's gonna run me low. The first day, second day?

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Speaker 3: Where we at with it? What are we looking? First day,

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Speaker 3: second day, third day? Whatever? Yeah, all right, I don't

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Speaker 3: like the fact if we go to the restaurant and no,

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Speaker 3: this is thing, this is gonna blow me. You don't

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Speaker 3: tell me you're vegan before we go out, that's gonna

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Speaker 3: blow me. Don't don't tell me. I didn't looked up.

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Speaker 3: I didn't got you to the best spot. Now you're

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Speaker 3: I got you to the best steakhouse and you ain't

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Speaker 3: can work with you, but like, damn, come on, you

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00:22:14,680 --> 00:22:21,800
Speaker 3: gotta give me better communication. Yeah, and then if you

440
00:22:21,840 --> 00:22:23,800
Speaker 3: ain't having no drinks with your boy, then I don't

441
00:22:23,800 --> 00:22:27,399
Speaker 3: even know if we can date. Damn. I mean, we

442
00:22:27,440 --> 00:22:29,280
Speaker 3: gotta be able to have a glass of wine some

443
00:22:29,680 --> 00:22:32,360
Speaker 3: damn Like damn.

444
00:22:33,480 --> 00:22:35,760
Speaker 2: I was in a relationship with someone. My ex was

445
00:22:35,760 --> 00:22:36,640
Speaker 2: a vegan.

446
00:22:36,640 --> 00:22:37,280
Speaker 1: And he was.

447
00:22:39,600 --> 00:22:40,600
Speaker 3: That ain't gonna work for me.

448
00:22:40,640 --> 00:22:42,760
Speaker 2: But he was a gangster, but he didn't drink and

449
00:22:43,160 --> 00:22:44,280
Speaker 2: we had a ball though.

450
00:22:45,920 --> 00:22:47,280
Speaker 1: No, just because you don't.

451
00:22:47,160 --> 00:22:50,359
Speaker 3: Drink or East Steaks now, yeah, No.

452
00:22:50,480 --> 00:22:52,240
Speaker 1: His thing was like people had to be high or

453
00:22:52,320 --> 00:22:53,880
Speaker 1: drunk to He was like, I feel like.

454
00:22:54,160 --> 00:22:56,119
Speaker 2: In La because he was from New York Brooklyn. He

455
00:22:56,160 --> 00:22:57,000
Speaker 2: was like, I feel like n L.

456
00:22:57,040 --> 00:22:58,919
Speaker 1: A man have to be drunk and high to like

457
00:22:59,000 --> 00:23:01,000
Speaker 1: want to get crack, like what's up?

458
00:23:01,160 --> 00:23:01,439
Speaker 3: He was.

459
00:23:02,960 --> 00:23:05,440
Speaker 1: To talk to you to like other man like he

460
00:23:05,600 --> 00:23:06,840
Speaker 1: be on had on a swivel.

461
00:23:07,200 --> 00:23:08,720
Speaker 3: We're just all having a good time.

462
00:23:10,280 --> 00:23:12,680
Speaker 1: But if someone has a good personality and they don't

463
00:23:12,720 --> 00:23:14,400
Speaker 1: need to be lit them, they don't need to be lit.

464
00:23:14,480 --> 00:23:18,960
Speaker 3: Because the girl who didn't do none of that, and

465
00:23:19,040 --> 00:23:20,640
Speaker 3: it was it was cool, It was cool cool.

466
00:23:20,840 --> 00:23:21,720
Speaker 2: So I don't feel like you.

467
00:23:22,400 --> 00:23:26,639
Speaker 3: Have But that was a long time ago, over decades ago,

468
00:23:28,760 --> 00:23:30,119
Speaker 3: so now it changed.

469
00:23:30,359 --> 00:23:33,119
Speaker 1: Now it's just like you have to have liquor because

470
00:23:33,160 --> 00:23:34,080
Speaker 1: I could be a vibe, but.

471
00:23:35,640 --> 00:23:37,359
Speaker 3: You gotta have a glass of wine. Where you gotta

472
00:23:37,400 --> 00:23:40,320
Speaker 3: be on my vibe, you gotta be on my energy.

473
00:23:40,720 --> 00:23:43,040
Speaker 3: Let's have a let's have a glass of wine or something.

474
00:23:43,119 --> 00:23:45,919
Speaker 3: Come on, let's go. We ain't doing nothing tonight, you know,

475
00:23:47,119 --> 00:23:52,520
Speaker 3: come on now, like you over there looking square, come on,

476
00:23:52,880 --> 00:23:55,439
Speaker 3: let's gig it. What's going on? That's crazy?

477
00:23:56,480 --> 00:23:59,119
Speaker 2: Like I'm on a like detox, Honey, I'm.

478
00:24:00,000 --> 00:24:01,560
Speaker 3: Your detail, all right, I'm gonna hit you up after

479
00:24:01,560 --> 00:24:03,200
Speaker 3: your detail? How long your deta's gonna be?

480
00:24:05,240 --> 00:24:05,520
Speaker 1: Okay?

481
00:24:07,800 --> 00:24:10,359
Speaker 2: Relationship now, No, let's say you're in a relationship.

482
00:24:10,480 --> 00:24:13,040
Speaker 1: Person is like y'all started out drinking hitting it and

483
00:24:13,080 --> 00:24:14,800
Speaker 1: they're like, look, I'm not gonna be drinking for like

484
00:24:14,840 --> 00:24:16,800
Speaker 1: three four months because I'm trying to get on a

485
00:24:16,840 --> 00:24:20,359
Speaker 1: serious thing. Det saying I'm vibing you're gonna be I'm cool.

486
00:24:21,840 --> 00:24:22,640
Speaker 3: I respect that.

487
00:24:23,240 --> 00:24:25,200
Speaker 2: How you respect it then, but you can't respect it

488
00:24:25,240 --> 00:24:25,960
Speaker 2: by dating.

489
00:24:25,720 --> 00:24:30,119
Speaker 3: Someone because when we dating, when I get you a

490
00:24:30,119 --> 00:24:32,120
Speaker 3: couple of drinks, you're gonna tell the truth and I'm

491
00:24:32,119 --> 00:24:35,000
Speaker 3: gonna learn a lot about you. So that's gonna tell

492
00:24:35,000 --> 00:24:35,320
Speaker 3: me a lot.

493
00:24:35,720 --> 00:24:44,879
Speaker 1: You want to crazy, I don't know about this? What okay?

494
00:24:45,240 --> 00:24:47,720
Speaker 1: I guess I think another thing that's a turnoff to

495
00:24:48,359 --> 00:24:50,240
Speaker 1: This is a turnoff if I go out with a

496
00:24:50,280 --> 00:24:54,120
Speaker 1: man's first, second, third day and you're sloppy, motherfucking drunk

497
00:24:54,160 --> 00:24:56,800
Speaker 1: and you're a grown ass man that's out for me.

498
00:24:57,320 --> 00:24:59,720
Speaker 1: What like you're supposed to be spoiler? How am I

499
00:24:59,720 --> 00:25:02,800
Speaker 1: looking to you? And you just sloppy? And it's funny

500
00:25:02,800 --> 00:25:04,879
Speaker 1: because my homegirl, and she's gonna be bad that I

501
00:25:04,920 --> 00:25:06,560
Speaker 1: said this. But she went on a date with someone

502
00:25:06,680 --> 00:25:08,960
Speaker 1: I know and I actually hooked them up and they

503
00:25:09,000 --> 00:25:12,240
Speaker 1: were out and this man passed out, fainted on the

504
00:25:12,240 --> 00:25:13,400
Speaker 1: ground at the club.

505
00:25:13,160 --> 00:25:15,080
Speaker 2: Or something, and she said she never looked at that

506
00:25:15,160 --> 00:25:15,479
Speaker 2: man ever.

507
00:25:15,600 --> 00:25:17,800
Speaker 1: Get he was so hurt. He was calling me like

508
00:25:17,840 --> 00:25:18,120
Speaker 1: a czar.

509
00:25:18,600 --> 00:25:19,000
Speaker 2: I love her.

510
00:25:19,000 --> 00:25:19,760
Speaker 1: I don't know what to do.

511
00:25:20,160 --> 00:25:22,320
Speaker 2: She was like, I can never take I will never

512
00:25:22,320 --> 00:25:22,679
Speaker 2: look at this.

513
00:25:22,920 --> 00:25:26,000
Speaker 3: That happened to me before you fainted. No, I went

514
00:25:26,040 --> 00:25:28,360
Speaker 3: out on the day that the first day she fainted.

515
00:25:28,400 --> 00:25:33,080
Speaker 1: I was good, I'm cool, sloppy drunk, and you know

516
00:25:33,160 --> 00:25:34,679
Speaker 1: what she wasn't you know what?

517
00:25:34,720 --> 00:25:37,439
Speaker 3: It was crazy too. She wasn't even drunk or nothing.

518
00:25:37,560 --> 00:25:42,560
Speaker 3: She just fainted. Look, she didn't even have no drink.

519
00:25:42,600 --> 00:25:44,879
Speaker 3: The drink did even get there yet. It was like

520
00:25:44,960 --> 00:25:47,560
Speaker 3: I had a cigar or something and then she fainted

521
00:25:47,600 --> 00:25:51,600
Speaker 3: because of the cigar, and I was like, and I

522
00:25:51,680 --> 00:25:52,800
Speaker 3: was with a couple of the home. I was like,

523
00:25:52,840 --> 00:25:55,879
Speaker 3: get her up out of here. They think that's what

524
00:25:55,880 --> 00:25:58,280
Speaker 3: I'm saying. I was like, they don't think I did something.

525
00:25:58,320 --> 00:25:59,880
Speaker 3: So I was just like, no, we can't. I can't

526
00:25:59,920 --> 00:26:02,760
Speaker 3: do this. It was all on cameras and stuff, and

527
00:26:02,800 --> 00:26:04,040
Speaker 3: it was just like, no, I can't.

528
00:26:04,680 --> 00:26:06,199
Speaker 1: You know what if you're on a date with a

529
00:26:06,280 --> 00:26:08,680
Speaker 1: girl and she falls down the stairs.

530
00:26:10,760 --> 00:26:12,080
Speaker 2: Twice in the night.

531
00:26:12,240 --> 00:26:12,760
Speaker 1: Let's say she.

532
00:26:12,720 --> 00:26:16,359
Speaker 3: Fell one day, that is this? How many days? Many days?

533
00:26:17,800 --> 00:26:18,960
Speaker 3: The first date up.

534
00:26:18,880 --> 00:26:21,720
Speaker 1: The stairs and she got up and her ankle was weak,

535
00:26:22,080 --> 00:26:25,120
Speaker 1: Then she fell down again twice in one motherfucking night.

536
00:26:25,600 --> 00:26:27,840
Speaker 3: How many dates is this? First date.

537
00:26:30,359 --> 00:26:30,600
Speaker 1: Week?

538
00:26:30,680 --> 00:26:33,879
Speaker 3: First date for week? I'm good. I'm like, you know what?

539
00:26:34,280 --> 00:26:37,160
Speaker 3: She she she I can't do this. She over here?

540
00:26:37,280 --> 00:26:43,640
Speaker 3: She she tricky, tricky. I'm like, what's going I can't

541
00:26:43,720 --> 00:26:45,080
Speaker 3: take you nowhere?

542
00:26:46,040 --> 00:26:48,880
Speaker 1: But she's like I never felt this is like crazy,

543
00:26:49,000 --> 00:26:50,600
Speaker 1: Like I promise you I haven't felt.

544
00:26:50,600 --> 00:26:53,399
Speaker 3: You don't understanding your girl is a reflection of you.

545
00:26:53,520 --> 00:26:56,080
Speaker 3: If these motherfuckers looking at me seeing my chip fall

546
00:26:56,119 --> 00:26:56,600
Speaker 3: all the time.

547
00:26:57,880 --> 00:26:59,800
Speaker 1: She's like, it's a one time thing, and I never

548
00:27:00,040 --> 00:27:00,960
Speaker 1: ever fall. I haven't fallen.

549
00:27:02,119 --> 00:27:03,000
Speaker 2: It's my shoes.

550
00:27:04,040 --> 00:27:05,640
Speaker 1: My shoes having me crazy.

551
00:27:05,680 --> 00:27:07,480
Speaker 2: It's hooking on the things down my ankle.

552
00:27:07,560 --> 00:27:10,520
Speaker 3: Week Like, damn good, we're good.

553
00:27:11,280 --> 00:27:12,600
Speaker 1: I feel that. If I'm on the day with the

554
00:27:12,600 --> 00:27:16,640
Speaker 1: man in the first week and he fell twice, I'm

555
00:27:16,760 --> 00:27:17,480
Speaker 1: never dealing.

556
00:27:18,600 --> 00:27:21,040
Speaker 3: And then a man falling.

557
00:27:20,800 --> 00:27:22,960
Speaker 2: And a big ass man just falling.

558
00:27:26,320 --> 00:27:26,960
Speaker 3: All the time.

559
00:27:27,440 --> 00:27:28,520
Speaker 1: It's not all the time.

560
00:27:28,840 --> 00:27:31,080
Speaker 3: You understand. This is an impression you make when it's

561
00:27:31,119 --> 00:27:33,880
Speaker 3: at the beginning. It's the first week, Like you you're

562
00:27:33,920 --> 00:27:37,160
Speaker 3: blowing me, like, damn you falling?

563
00:27:37,720 --> 00:27:40,440
Speaker 1: Really messed out on someone? So good?

564
00:27:40,760 --> 00:27:43,120
Speaker 3: All right? How about this you on the first date

565
00:27:43,359 --> 00:27:45,840
Speaker 3: and he accidentally bumped the wine and the spill on

566
00:27:45,880 --> 00:27:48,600
Speaker 3: your dress. But that's a great date.

567
00:27:49,200 --> 00:27:51,119
Speaker 1: I would see a man, I'll be pissed. And then

568
00:27:51,160 --> 00:27:53,320
Speaker 1: what if he's like, I'm about your new dress.

569
00:27:53,400 --> 00:27:56,560
Speaker 3: Yeah it's all white, and y'all supposed to go to

570
00:27:56,320 --> 00:27:58,920
Speaker 3: the Chris Brown concert after and you can't go home

571
00:27:58,960 --> 00:28:02,399
Speaker 3: and change. So now he's like, we're gonna miss the concert.

572
00:28:02,400 --> 00:28:06,439
Speaker 2: If you go home, you missed the concert.

573
00:28:06,440 --> 00:28:06,800
Speaker 1: It's okay.

574
00:28:07,200 --> 00:28:10,200
Speaker 2: The concert, I'm gonna be all right, Like I'm not true.

575
00:28:10,359 --> 00:28:10,920
Speaker 1: I'm no concert.

576
00:28:11,359 --> 00:28:12,760
Speaker 2: I'm not true Chris Brown.

577
00:28:13,000 --> 00:28:14,800
Speaker 1: And at the end of the day, that's a great concert,

578
00:28:14,800 --> 00:28:18,480
Speaker 1: I'm sure, but it's just like cool concert. I don't

579
00:28:18,520 --> 00:28:20,560
Speaker 1: care who it is. Like, I'm gonna be all right.

580
00:28:20,720 --> 00:28:22,000
Speaker 2: I'm not pressed for nothing.

581
00:28:22,440 --> 00:28:23,880
Speaker 1: And at the end of the day, if it's fell

582
00:28:23,960 --> 00:28:26,200
Speaker 1: and it's a great day and I'm vibing and you're like, look,

583
00:28:26,240 --> 00:28:27,679
Speaker 1: I'm gonna get you a new dress.

584
00:28:28,119 --> 00:28:29,840
Speaker 2: Because if you're not gonna get me a new dress.

585
00:28:29,680 --> 00:28:32,640
Speaker 3: That's blowing me. Like, I'll take it to the cleaners.

586
00:28:32,800 --> 00:28:34,679
Speaker 2: Yeah, I could do that too. I'll be cool if

587
00:28:34,680 --> 00:28:36,680
Speaker 2: you take it to the clean Yeah.

588
00:28:36,520 --> 00:28:37,480
Speaker 1: If you take it to the cleaner.

589
00:28:37,520 --> 00:28:38,680
Speaker 2: School, I'm gonna take it to the cleaners.

590
00:28:38,720 --> 00:28:38,960
Speaker 3: Whatever.

591
00:28:39,640 --> 00:28:41,080
Speaker 2: What if he's like, I have a whole bunch of

592
00:28:41,160 --> 00:28:42,040
Speaker 2: dresses in my trunk.

593
00:28:43,760 --> 00:28:51,480
Speaker 1: This is crazy, But I'm like with me, He's like, no,

594
00:28:51,520 --> 00:28:54,800
Speaker 1: it's my sisters. She has a miniore. I gonna say, no,

595
00:28:55,400 --> 00:28:56,080
Speaker 1: I'm not talking.

596
00:28:56,120 --> 00:28:57,840
Speaker 3: You got to work on deck. If you got a

597
00:28:57,840 --> 00:28:59,280
Speaker 3: bunch of dresses in this trunk.

598
00:29:00,320 --> 00:29:06,560
Speaker 1: Anyways, If prescribed new sexual health patients get fifteen dollars

599
00:29:06,600 --> 00:29:09,880
Speaker 1: off their first order of sparks on a reoccurring plan.

600
00:29:10,280 --> 00:29:13,240
Speaker 1: Connect with the provider at road dot co slash tad

601
00:29:13,320 --> 00:29:16,080
Speaker 1: to find out a prescription. Roast sparks are right for you.

602
00:29:16,720 --> 00:29:18,520
Speaker 1: Make sure y'all get into these roast sparks. Are you

603
00:29:18,560 --> 00:29:19,480
Speaker 1: gonna try one of these?

604
00:29:19,840 --> 00:29:21,760
Speaker 3: So you need a prescription for these?

605
00:29:22,480 --> 00:29:24,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, you have to get its to do.

606
00:29:25,200 --> 00:29:29,000
Speaker 1: They're supposed to make you last long.

607
00:29:29,600 --> 00:29:33,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, how many days will last? Huh?

608
00:29:33,760 --> 00:29:37,320
Speaker 1: It's not gonna last for days, it's hours. Who's being

609
00:29:37,360 --> 00:29:38,600
Speaker 1: hard for three days?

610
00:29:39,560 --> 00:29:39,640
Speaker 4: Like?

611
00:29:39,720 --> 00:29:41,120
Speaker 3: This is how these things work?

612
00:29:41,160 --> 00:29:41,320
Speaker 4: Bro?

613
00:29:41,600 --> 00:29:42,520
Speaker 3: You don't know how these things?

614
00:29:42,560 --> 00:29:44,800
Speaker 1: Well, I'm not fifty years year old man, so I

615
00:29:44,840 --> 00:29:49,680
Speaker 1: wouldn't know. Have you dealt with this before? Like via

616
00:29:49,720 --> 00:29:52,520
Speaker 1: agrun things? Oh?

617
00:29:52,560 --> 00:29:55,200
Speaker 3: They last for days though I don't want to say

618
00:29:55,200 --> 00:30:01,680
Speaker 3: as nail dnail know too, they last for days.

619
00:30:02,600 --> 00:30:03,680
Speaker 1: You want to take that right now?

620
00:30:03,680 --> 00:30:05,400
Speaker 2: I don't think you should take that right this moment.

621
00:30:06,480 --> 00:30:09,760
Speaker 3: Mm hmmm. Oh they take sweet too? Or this is

622
00:30:09,800 --> 00:30:12,440
Speaker 3: stressing me out. I'm might have something popping hold on tonight,

623
00:30:12,520 --> 00:30:13,600
Speaker 3: let me what's going on?

624
00:30:15,160 --> 00:30:17,560
Speaker 1: And then you have to put them like under your.

625
00:30:17,560 --> 00:30:24,680
Speaker 3: Tigue or something. And they kind of sweet too, It's

626
00:30:24,760 --> 00:30:26,720
Speaker 3: kind of like candy and medicine at the same time.

627
00:30:28,520 --> 00:30:30,800
Speaker 2: Why would you take that right now? This is crazy.

628
00:30:31,000 --> 00:30:33,520
Speaker 3: This is the Roast Sparks segment. Okay, so I gotta

629
00:30:33,600 --> 00:30:34,760
Speaker 3: let everybody know what they're doing.

630
00:30:36,080 --> 00:30:37,560
Speaker 1: Are you gonna come back with an update?

631
00:30:39,680 --> 00:30:41,400
Speaker 3: They gotta watch the next episdode for the U date.

632
00:30:42,080 --> 00:30:45,440
Speaker 3: What the episode for the update? Make sure y'all too then,

633
00:30:45,640 --> 00:30:48,560
Speaker 3: but y'all know what's going on. Lord, good luck.

634
00:30:51,760 --> 00:30:53,680
Speaker 2: Let me take this because you don't stress me out.

635
00:30:54,440 --> 00:30:57,120
Speaker 3: You can't be a host to be stressed out.

636
00:30:57,480 --> 00:31:00,800
Speaker 1: I could be what I want to be, Like, you know,

637
00:31:00,960 --> 00:31:02,240
Speaker 1: deal with the heat.

638
00:31:05,760 --> 00:31:09,800
Speaker 3: You got the boots on the night, the thigh high

639
00:31:09,800 --> 00:31:13,040
Speaker 3: boots on the see stop, you got to th high

640
00:31:13,120 --> 00:31:14,160
Speaker 3: boots on the day.

641
00:31:15,600 --> 00:31:19,320
Speaker 1: With my outfit, Like, yeah, it does.

642
00:31:20,760 --> 00:31:25,360
Speaker 3: Look cool. You don't never want to the light to

643
00:31:25,440 --> 00:31:31,600
Speaker 3: see your outfits when I'm back outside, when you back outside,

644
00:31:32,120 --> 00:31:32,920
Speaker 3: you back outside.

645
00:31:33,800 --> 00:31:36,880
Speaker 1: No, I'm just saying, like when I'm like walking through life,

646
00:31:36,960 --> 00:31:38,960
Speaker 1: people see my office. But I'm not going to stand

647
00:31:39,040 --> 00:31:41,080
Speaker 1: up and do a whole thing on the show. That's

648
00:31:41,120 --> 00:31:41,600
Speaker 1: just crazy.

649
00:31:41,600 --> 00:31:42,960
Speaker 3: I thought this was after dark.

650
00:31:43,840 --> 00:31:45,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's cool. You got your toes out. They already

651
00:31:45,800 --> 00:31:51,520
Speaker 1: got feet picks and Okay, that's enough for them. Anyways,

652
00:31:52,840 --> 00:31:57,120
Speaker 1: back to what we're saying, so Ari money bag Yo

653
00:31:57,440 --> 00:31:58,840
Speaker 1: g Herbow's baby mom.

654
00:31:58,680 --> 00:32:01,000
Speaker 3: And money Yo's girl and seeing stuff.

655
00:32:00,720 --> 00:32:03,280
Speaker 1: On Harry Fletcher. She said, for the right price, you

656
00:32:03,320 --> 00:32:07,080
Speaker 1: would definitely let someone ship on her period. Kreesha was

657
00:32:07,160 --> 00:32:09,040
Speaker 1: like no, Young Miami was like no, I will not.

658
00:32:09,040 --> 00:32:11,320
Speaker 2: Do it for no price. Like she was like pee yeah.

659
00:32:11,720 --> 00:32:15,360
Speaker 1: But Mari was like, girl, you had the right price. Yeah,

660
00:32:15,480 --> 00:32:17,400
Speaker 1: I'm getting shitted one hundred percent. I don't give it

661
00:32:17,480 --> 00:32:26,920
Speaker 1: down everywhere anywhere. There's no damn people are getting shipped on.

662
00:32:27,000 --> 00:32:28,440
Speaker 1: I told you people are getting shit Talke.

663
00:32:29,160 --> 00:32:37,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, I asked a question. Are saying she is a price.

664
00:32:38,920 --> 00:32:43,160
Speaker 3: You know what I'm asking you. I asked you a

665
00:32:43,280 --> 00:32:44,440
Speaker 3: question like have.

666
00:32:44,440 --> 00:32:45,200
Speaker 1: You been shitting on?

667
00:32:46,480 --> 00:32:46,680
Speaker 3: Right?

668
00:32:47,240 --> 00:32:49,560
Speaker 1: So that's ridiculous. Don't ask me no ship like that?

669
00:32:49,680 --> 00:32:52,600
Speaker 3: Oh you're saying that's the thing going on with girls now,

670
00:32:52,720 --> 00:32:55,200
Speaker 3: Like this is not a thing for men.

671
00:32:56,480 --> 00:32:58,160
Speaker 1: The whole part is they shot on you, and you

672
00:32:58,160 --> 00:32:59,800
Speaker 1: shoot on them. They like to be shipping on too.

673
00:33:00,800 --> 00:33:01,600
Speaker 3: What's your price?

674
00:33:01,960 --> 00:33:03,880
Speaker 1: I don't have a price. I'm not getting shitted on.

675
00:33:03,920 --> 00:33:07,040
Speaker 1: I already told you this before like, no, Wood is

676
00:33:07,040 --> 00:33:09,000
Speaker 1: shitting on me. Like, I will not degrade myself on

677
00:33:09,040 --> 00:33:11,520
Speaker 1: that level for no money. There's a lot of other

678
00:33:11,560 --> 00:33:13,680
Speaker 1: things I could do to get a few dollars. Didn't

679
00:33:13,680 --> 00:33:14,280
Speaker 1: get shitted on.

680
00:33:14,360 --> 00:33:17,480
Speaker 3: But he was like, yeah, I got this thirty thousand.

681
00:33:17,240 --> 00:33:20,080
Speaker 2: Thirty thousand to get shitted on. You sound ridiculous.

682
00:33:20,120 --> 00:33:22,880
Speaker 3: No, I think that's the going rate. That's what they've

683
00:33:22,880 --> 00:33:23,400
Speaker 3: been saying.

684
00:33:24,560 --> 00:33:26,600
Speaker 2: I'm not getting shitted on for thirty thousand.

685
00:33:26,320 --> 00:33:29,880
Speaker 3: Thirty thousand. What have you done for thirty thousand? What

686
00:33:29,920 --> 00:33:31,480
Speaker 3: would you do for thirty thousand?

687
00:33:33,360 --> 00:33:37,320
Speaker 1: Not much, I'm gonna tell you no, that's craz doing

688
00:33:37,440 --> 00:33:42,360
Speaker 1: much for thirty thousand for thirty for my man, Like.

689
00:33:42,560 --> 00:33:44,280
Speaker 3: Would you do the Vince Carter on true have to

690
00:33:44,320 --> 00:33:47,240
Speaker 3: dark for thirty thousand? Yeah, well you'll do something then

691
00:33:47,360 --> 00:33:48,240
Speaker 3: for thirty thousand.

692
00:33:48,440 --> 00:33:50,480
Speaker 2: For thirty thousand to do a three sixties that sounds

693
00:33:50,520 --> 00:33:51,120
Speaker 2: stupid as hell.

694
00:33:51,160 --> 00:33:53,600
Speaker 1: If they want a fun thirty thousand for that cool

695
00:33:53,720 --> 00:33:56,360
Speaker 1: run that run that up, girl.

696
00:33:56,120 --> 00:33:58,240
Speaker 3: You got to get your hustle up. Thirty thousand. That's

697
00:33:58,240 --> 00:33:59,640
Speaker 3: a good amount of money.

698
00:33:59,360 --> 00:34:03,040
Speaker 1: For fully clothes standing up for thirty thousand anyone, that

699
00:34:03,080 --> 00:34:03,600
Speaker 1: sounds good.

700
00:34:03,680 --> 00:34:05,600
Speaker 3: But she said I wouldn't do much for thirty thousand,

701
00:34:05,640 --> 00:34:06,040
Speaker 3: but I'm.

702
00:34:05,920 --> 00:34:08,560
Speaker 1: Saying, like, for thirty thousand, as far as like anything

703
00:34:08,640 --> 00:34:12,400
Speaker 1: that's not fully clothed or sexual favors and all that

704
00:34:12,640 --> 00:34:14,719
Speaker 1: or whatever else, I'm not doing none of that. Like

705
00:34:14,760 --> 00:34:16,520
Speaker 1: I'm not a whore. You cannot buy me.

706
00:34:17,040 --> 00:34:18,279
Speaker 3: Nobody said no, no.

707
00:34:18,200 --> 00:34:21,799
Speaker 1: I'm just clarifying that in case anyone was confused. Was

708
00:34:24,080 --> 00:34:27,360
Speaker 1: so a man on pop the balloon was saying that

709
00:34:28,239 --> 00:34:30,760
Speaker 1: there was a woman that he had picked or whatever

710
00:34:31,239 --> 00:34:33,960
Speaker 1: she had on an outfit and it wasn't like crazy revealing,

711
00:34:34,040 --> 00:34:35,840
Speaker 1: but it was just like a little jumpsuit, showed a

712
00:34:35,840 --> 00:34:40,160
Speaker 1: little curve, showed a little body, and he was like,

713
00:34:40,800 --> 00:34:43,359
Speaker 1: you know, on a scale to one to ten, how

714
00:34:43,400 --> 00:34:44,640
Speaker 1: revealing do you think your outfit is?

715
00:34:44,680 --> 00:34:46,960
Speaker 2: And she was like probably like six or seven. And

716
00:34:46,960 --> 00:34:48,879
Speaker 2: he was like okay, so.

717
00:34:48,840 --> 00:34:51,400
Speaker 1: How revealing do you dress typically? And she was like

718
00:34:51,440 --> 00:34:54,200
Speaker 1: probably like six or seven. And he was like, okay, well,

719
00:34:54,239 --> 00:34:55,960
Speaker 1: I like you would you be willing to tone that

720
00:34:56,080 --> 00:34:58,680
Speaker 1: down if we were in a relationship and she was

721
00:34:58,760 --> 00:35:02,439
Speaker 1: like absolutely not, why would I do that? Like I'm

722
00:35:02,480 --> 00:35:05,160
Speaker 1: not gonna be willing to do that. Actually, do you

723
00:35:05,239 --> 00:35:07,360
Speaker 1: feel like when a woman gets in a relationship, she

724
00:35:07,360 --> 00:35:09,800
Speaker 1: start toning down how she dresses.

725
00:35:11,120 --> 00:35:13,520
Speaker 3: I think if he liked her like that, then what

726
00:35:13,600 --> 00:35:19,720
Speaker 3: you what you're looking for? Bro? Like, like she's gonna

727
00:35:19,920 --> 00:35:22,799
Speaker 3: everybody gonna expose their cars. This is what you liked

728
00:35:22,800 --> 00:35:25,000
Speaker 3: about her, right, you liked her in the six and

729
00:35:25,080 --> 00:35:29,759
Speaker 3: seven range of her dress. So now you get with her,

730
00:35:29,760 --> 00:35:32,719
Speaker 3: you want her to go to three four. And then

731
00:35:32,800 --> 00:35:35,640
Speaker 3: now when she has a three four, you're gonna be like,

732
00:35:35,719 --> 00:35:38,319
Speaker 3: this ain't what I met. I need you to do

733
00:35:38,360 --> 00:35:41,720
Speaker 3: stuff how it was when you med like I don't

734
00:35:41,800 --> 00:35:45,000
Speaker 3: like that like and it's vice versa like for a

735
00:35:45,040 --> 00:35:46,680
Speaker 3: girl with a man. This is how it was when

736
00:35:46,719 --> 00:35:48,319
Speaker 3: we met. Now you want me to go back to

737
00:35:48,360 --> 00:35:52,120
Speaker 3: the three four. This is what I was on And

738
00:35:52,160 --> 00:35:56,360
Speaker 3: that's where things get misconscrewed in relationships. Because you like that.

739
00:35:56,360 --> 00:35:58,040
Speaker 3: That's the reason you like me, because you liked how

740
00:35:58,040 --> 00:35:59,800
Speaker 3: I dressed. You don't know me from that and we

741
00:35:59,880 --> 00:36:03,640
Speaker 3: just met, right, you like my look? So what do

742
00:36:03,680 --> 00:36:06,880
Speaker 3: you know about me that saying that I need to

743
00:36:06,880 --> 00:36:10,000
Speaker 3: tone it down? And we just said a few words

744
00:36:10,040 --> 00:36:14,200
Speaker 3: to each other, But you like this, and now that's

745
00:36:14,239 --> 00:36:19,600
Speaker 3: controlling it really is? If like because I like shoot

746
00:36:19,600 --> 00:36:21,440
Speaker 3: I could look at a woman and be like, damn,

747
00:36:21,480 --> 00:36:24,680
Speaker 3: she cracking, she got a whole suit on. We love

748
00:36:24,760 --> 00:36:28,480
Speaker 3: to say this like for real, I'm like, damn, I'm sophisticated.

749
00:36:28,520 --> 00:36:31,120
Speaker 3: I like that. Now if you go from that to

750
00:36:31,239 --> 00:36:35,880
Speaker 3: like being all revealing, I'm like, damn, what happened to

751
00:36:35,920 --> 00:36:39,279
Speaker 3: the the look I met you in? You know? And

752
00:36:39,320 --> 00:36:41,600
Speaker 3: if we get together and be a couple, I'm like, man,

753
00:36:41,600 --> 00:36:45,080
Speaker 3: I liked you when I met you like that. I

754
00:36:45,160 --> 00:36:47,080
Speaker 3: get it. But like if you met her like that,

755
00:36:47,760 --> 00:36:49,640
Speaker 3: you knew what you like. You just trying to like

756
00:36:50,200 --> 00:36:55,200
Speaker 3: tone her down for what I mean, turn her up. Yeah.

757
00:36:55,320 --> 00:36:58,560
Speaker 1: I feel like in my past relationships, like issue would

758
00:36:58,600 --> 00:37:01,319
Speaker 1: be like wearing bright colors, Like I wasn't allowed to

759
00:37:01,320 --> 00:37:06,520
Speaker 1: wear bright colors like blue or green, like workout outfits

760
00:37:06,600 --> 00:37:09,600
Speaker 1: or anything because it was just like, oh, it brings attention.

761
00:37:10,680 --> 00:37:13,359
Speaker 3: So that was like, oh, you can't wear that that right?

762
00:37:13,600 --> 00:37:13,880
Speaker 1: Yeah?

763
00:37:13,960 --> 00:37:16,200
Speaker 2: I was okay with it. I was like all right, cool,

764
00:37:16,360 --> 00:37:17,680
Speaker 2: you know, or like you.

765
00:37:17,680 --> 00:37:20,520
Speaker 3: Don't controlling, No, it was cool.

766
00:37:20,800 --> 00:37:24,200
Speaker 1: Or if he was just like oh don't wear that, yeah, okay,

767
00:37:24,400 --> 00:37:27,120
Speaker 1: like oh you're not wearing that tonight, like okay, cool,

768
00:37:27,360 --> 00:37:30,319
Speaker 1: you know, Like whatever, I don't think that that's a

769
00:37:30,360 --> 00:37:32,920
Speaker 1: big battle for me to fight, Like I just feel

770
00:37:32,920 --> 00:37:33,800
Speaker 1: like that's whatever.

771
00:37:33,920 --> 00:37:37,359
Speaker 2: Like if you're not comfortable, then okay, Like it is

772
00:37:37,360 --> 00:37:37,920
Speaker 2: what it is.

773
00:37:38,360 --> 00:37:40,640
Speaker 1: You're a man. So sometimes when I wear things, I'm

774
00:37:40,640 --> 00:37:43,120
Speaker 1: not looking at it as like ooh some some like

775
00:37:43,160 --> 00:37:45,319
Speaker 1: you know, little things that I don't look at like,

776
00:37:46,080 --> 00:37:48,879
Speaker 1: so if you feel uncomfortable with it, then I won't

777
00:37:48,920 --> 00:37:51,960
Speaker 1: wear it. Like it's just very simple for me. I

778
00:37:52,000 --> 00:37:55,960
Speaker 1: think that's an easy compromise, just in my opinion. But

779
00:37:56,320 --> 00:37:58,920
Speaker 1: everyone is different, so everyone has a different opinion on

780
00:37:58,960 --> 00:38:02,040
Speaker 1: what they show prefer you know, or like a man

781
00:38:02,040 --> 00:38:04,200
Speaker 1: will feel like if you're with me, you could wear whatever.

782
00:38:05,200 --> 00:38:06,719
Speaker 1: But if you're not with me, you're going out to

783
00:38:07,040 --> 00:38:11,400
Speaker 1: here with your homegirls, then like this is crazy.

784
00:38:11,520 --> 00:38:11,719
Speaker 4: You know.

785
00:38:12,000 --> 00:38:13,600
Speaker 3: So it's just I guess it just depends.

786
00:38:16,760 --> 00:38:21,600
Speaker 1: There was a viral list of careers going around online.

787
00:38:21,280 --> 00:38:25,360
Speaker 2: That is a do not date list of careers.

788
00:38:26,600 --> 00:38:37,359
Speaker 1: Both personal trainers, athletes, content creators, nurses, firefighters, the world.

789
00:38:38,320 --> 00:38:39,560
Speaker 3: This is I guess you.

790
00:38:39,560 --> 00:38:42,719
Speaker 1: Get day half the world. This is the list, and

791
00:38:42,760 --> 00:38:49,840
Speaker 1: they're basically saying like these these professions are the most traders,

792
00:38:50,239 --> 00:38:58,120
Speaker 1: like promiscuous of all of them basically what truck drivers,

793
00:38:58,280 --> 00:39:08,160
Speaker 1: personal trainers, photographers and my models, rappers, police, entertainment, security, athletes, pastors, teachers,

794
00:39:08,200 --> 00:39:09,360
Speaker 1: and contact creators.

795
00:39:09,440 --> 00:39:12,799
Speaker 3: You said everything in the entertainment field, then that's pretty.

796
00:39:12,560 --> 00:39:14,960
Speaker 1: Much the police technically just covered the.

797
00:39:14,920 --> 00:39:18,680
Speaker 3: Whole entertainment field though, So take away the entertainment field,

798
00:39:18,800 --> 00:39:26,520
Speaker 3: then you got people who work for the city, which

799
00:39:26,600 --> 00:39:31,280
Speaker 3: is like security and police, like and then what truck drivers.

800
00:39:32,560 --> 00:39:32,640
Speaker 4: For?

801
00:39:32,840 --> 00:39:35,680
Speaker 3: Then teachers? What are you looking for? Then? What's what's

802
00:39:35,880 --> 00:39:37,360
Speaker 3: you just said? The whole population?

803
00:39:37,480 --> 00:39:40,200
Speaker 1: I mean, there's like people in finance, there's people in HR,

804
00:39:40,320 --> 00:39:42,960
Speaker 1: there's people in real estate, there's people in and there's

805
00:39:42,960 --> 00:39:45,840
Speaker 1: a lot of more professions. You know, there's people in fashion,

806
00:39:46,440 --> 00:39:47,439
Speaker 1: there's people.

807
00:39:47,160 --> 00:39:49,960
Speaker 3: In Yeah, that's that's all a part of what that

808
00:39:49,960 --> 00:39:52,359
Speaker 3: that list was too, though that's associated with that.

809
00:39:52,480 --> 00:39:55,800
Speaker 1: Not finance. Where is finance associated with that list? Where's

810
00:39:56,000 --> 00:39:57,920
Speaker 1: HR associated with that list?

811
00:39:58,200 --> 00:40:00,879
Speaker 3: Girl? You was not getting nobody in finance? So come down,

812
00:40:02,560 --> 00:40:09,480
Speaker 3: you know that person who said that? Like? What? Oh? No, though,

813
00:40:10,239 --> 00:40:11,400
Speaker 3: So what they're saying.

814
00:40:12,200 --> 00:40:14,040
Speaker 1: They're saying that you should not date these people because

815
00:40:14,080 --> 00:40:18,239
Speaker 1: these and they're gonna cheat and they're just not good

816
00:40:18,280 --> 00:40:19,240
Speaker 1: people to be around.

817
00:40:19,520 --> 00:40:20,680
Speaker 2: You know you're on that list.

818
00:40:20,800 --> 00:40:22,840
Speaker 1: I guess technically, if you want to consider me a

819
00:40:22,880 --> 00:40:24,719
Speaker 1: content creator, I'm on that list too.

820
00:40:24,960 --> 00:40:29,120
Speaker 3: You hold that list too. Influencers, Like, what the hell?

821
00:40:29,200 --> 00:40:32,080
Speaker 3: The same thing she talking about herself because she probably

822
00:40:32,120 --> 00:40:37,239
Speaker 3: put influencer on her Instagram page. That's what it is, like,

823
00:40:37,280 --> 00:40:39,000
Speaker 3: Come on, don I don't contradict yourself.

824
00:40:39,960 --> 00:40:41,759
Speaker 1: I mean I think that you date who you date.

825
00:40:41,880 --> 00:40:43,880
Speaker 1: If they rock with you and you cool, then it

826
00:40:43,920 --> 00:40:45,480
Speaker 1: don't matter, you know what I'm saying. But they do

827
00:40:45,560 --> 00:40:48,480
Speaker 1: say like nurses and personal trainers cheat all the time,

828
00:40:49,160 --> 00:40:51,960
Speaker 1: and flight attendants they say those are the main jobs.

829
00:40:52,040 --> 00:40:54,280
Speaker 1: Just funny because there's it's a viral thing on TikTok

830
00:40:54,320 --> 00:40:56,959
Speaker 1: where flight attendants be like it's like this thing where

831
00:40:56,960 --> 00:40:59,240
Speaker 1: they say how many bodies I have when I started

832
00:40:59,280 --> 00:41:01,719
Speaker 1: doing flight attend and it'll be like three, and it's

833
00:41:01,760 --> 00:41:04,120
Speaker 1: like how many bodies I've had now that I've been

834
00:41:04,120 --> 00:41:06,319
Speaker 1: a flight atten for a year, and it'd be like

835
00:41:06,640 --> 00:41:09,360
Speaker 1: twenty five. And then they'll put the little man and

836
00:41:09,400 --> 00:41:11,959
Speaker 1: the woman. They'll be like five women, twenty five men,

837
00:41:12,560 --> 00:41:14,680
Speaker 1: like and it goes like so many women are doing

838
00:41:14,800 --> 00:41:18,040
Speaker 1: that viral of like maybe getting there cracking on the flight.

839
00:41:18,320 --> 00:41:23,960
Speaker 3: They traveling now going to this country that comes food people. Yeah, yeah, me, No,

840
00:41:24,160 --> 00:41:26,120
Speaker 3: they ain't mean them on a flight they where they get.

841
00:41:26,320 --> 00:41:28,440
Speaker 1: No, I heard they meeting them on the flights. They

842
00:41:28,480 --> 00:41:29,680
Speaker 1: meet them on the flights.

843
00:41:29,360 --> 00:41:31,520
Speaker 3: They meet where they at. They're gonna stay like I

844
00:41:31,520 --> 00:41:33,959
Speaker 3: got two nights and over here and friends while let's see,

845
00:41:35,000 --> 00:41:39,160
Speaker 3: are we we? You know like you know these damn

846
00:41:39,280 --> 00:41:39,879
Speaker 3: come on now?

847
00:41:41,800 --> 00:41:44,919
Speaker 1: Okay, So there's a viral meme.

848
00:41:45,280 --> 00:41:48,239
Speaker 3: Another viral means yeah. A lot of viral means we.

849
00:41:48,239 --> 00:41:51,719
Speaker 1: Got and it says, and it says if you're in

850
00:41:51,800 --> 00:41:54,640
Speaker 1: a relationship, I should be able to tell by looking

851
00:41:54,680 --> 00:41:58,040
Speaker 1: at your IG feed. A lot of y'all look single,

852
00:41:58,440 --> 00:42:02,160
Speaker 1: but you're not. Why don't y'all like posting your significant

853
00:42:02,160 --> 00:42:03,200
Speaker 1: others on your page?

854
00:42:04,239 --> 00:42:07,080
Speaker 3: To keep my relationship private, I don't need nobody in

855
00:42:07,120 --> 00:42:12,080
Speaker 3: my business. I don't need nobody dming or I don't

856
00:42:12,120 --> 00:42:15,640
Speaker 3: need all that attention coming to my significant other. We

857
00:42:15,800 --> 00:42:18,400
Speaker 3: know that's all that matter. I don't gotta flash you,

858
00:42:18,520 --> 00:42:21,080
Speaker 3: I don't gotta I ain't gonta let the world do

859
00:42:21,160 --> 00:42:24,480
Speaker 3: all of that. Come on, man, Well that's that's lame.

860
00:42:24,600 --> 00:42:26,759
Speaker 3: A lot of the times, I mean like cause you're

861
00:42:26,760 --> 00:42:29,759
Speaker 3: putting yourself out there for criticism. You're putting yourself out

862
00:42:29,800 --> 00:42:32,279
Speaker 3: there for other people to hate. You put yourself out

863
00:42:32,320 --> 00:42:35,839
Speaker 3: there for people like criticized, for people to like try

864
00:42:35,880 --> 00:42:39,120
Speaker 3: to get at your girl or discredit you or all

865
00:42:39,160 --> 00:42:41,959
Speaker 3: of that. Like then that's where creeps come in at,

866
00:42:42,200 --> 00:42:45,000
Speaker 3: Like people who publicize their relationships all the time, that'd

867
00:42:45,000 --> 00:42:47,320
Speaker 3: be like the beginning of the end for the most part.

868
00:42:48,320 --> 00:42:50,120
Speaker 1: I mean I will say this, like I've been in

869
00:42:50,160 --> 00:42:53,280
Speaker 1: relationships that were on my Instagram or whatever. We posted

870
00:42:53,320 --> 00:42:57,960
Speaker 1: each other, but it wasn't that serious because maybe like

871
00:42:58,040 --> 00:43:02,120
Speaker 1: we're not celebrities, so it's probably different for you, you know.

872
00:43:02,080 --> 00:43:04,960
Speaker 2: For me, like I would like to do like family.

873
00:43:05,880 --> 00:43:09,239
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'll do like family, Like oh, we're with my

874
00:43:09,280 --> 00:43:11,080
Speaker 1: family and we all took a picture and then it's like,

875
00:43:11,120 --> 00:43:14,200
Speaker 1: oh I'll post that or like it's like it was

876
00:43:14,239 --> 00:43:16,160
Speaker 1: just easy because it's like I was with this person

877
00:43:16,160 --> 00:43:18,359
Speaker 1: for so long world together, Like I'm not hiding it.

878
00:43:18,400 --> 00:43:20,800
Speaker 1: I'm just like posting stuff and you're right there, cool

879
00:43:20,880 --> 00:43:22,240
Speaker 1: reviving cute little stuff.

880
00:43:22,360 --> 00:43:23,880
Speaker 2: But it wasn't an issue, you know.

881
00:43:24,320 --> 00:43:27,520
Speaker 1: I think the hardest part is like if you break up,

882
00:43:27,920 --> 00:43:30,880
Speaker 1: then you take all the pictures down and everyone's in

883
00:43:31,160 --> 00:43:34,319
Speaker 1: business and they're like, damn, well what happened? Why are

884
00:43:34,360 --> 00:43:38,880
Speaker 1: y'all not together anymore? You know whatever? Whatever, But you know,

885
00:43:39,080 --> 00:43:44,680
Speaker 1: like whatever, Like I don't think that it matters to me,

886
00:43:44,960 --> 00:43:54,120
Speaker 1: like either way, to be honest, So is it okay

887
00:43:54,160 --> 00:43:56,880
Speaker 1: to follow your ex or people used to date when

888
00:43:56,920 --> 00:44:02,320
Speaker 1: you're in a new relationship on Instagram?

889
00:44:02,520 --> 00:44:05,600
Speaker 3: Is it okay to follow people you used to day?

890
00:44:06,160 --> 00:44:07,360
Speaker 3: That's not a big deal to me.

891
00:44:07,680 --> 00:44:10,319
Speaker 1: Okay, So you don't mind someone like they follows their

892
00:44:10,400 --> 00:44:14,280
Speaker 1: acts or people they dated. Okay, so you're.

893
00:44:14,080 --> 00:44:16,600
Speaker 3: Like even like searching to see if you've been doing.

894
00:44:16,560 --> 00:44:17,960
Speaker 1: But what if you know the acc and you know

895
00:44:18,080 --> 00:44:21,480
Speaker 1: she follows him and she's liking on his pictures and stuff, Why.

896
00:44:21,320 --> 00:44:22,440
Speaker 3: Are you liking the pictures?

897
00:44:22,480 --> 00:44:23,400
Speaker 1: Why are you following him?

898
00:44:24,400 --> 00:44:26,400
Speaker 3: Because I don't got time to go through the unfollow

899
00:44:26,880 --> 00:44:28,160
Speaker 3: every fucking body.

900
00:44:28,160 --> 00:44:31,319
Speaker 1: I mean, your exes. Damn how many people you dated?

901
00:44:31,360 --> 00:44:32,360
Speaker 1: Talk about everybody?

902
00:44:32,520 --> 00:44:33,360
Speaker 3: Millions of people?

903
00:44:35,719 --> 00:44:39,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, how was it so many people?

904
00:44:39,320 --> 00:44:41,240
Speaker 3: I mean I could have been out with like twenty

905
00:44:41,280 --> 00:44:42,600
Speaker 3: five girls on one day.

906
00:44:43,600 --> 00:44:48,719
Speaker 2: What woah, you were out with twenty five girls?

907
00:44:49,120 --> 00:44:51,839
Speaker 3: No, I'm just saying, like they like when you get

908
00:44:52,800 --> 00:44:54,320
Speaker 3: it's just been like one day with them and like,

909
00:44:54,360 --> 00:44:55,120
Speaker 3: I never talked to that.

910
00:44:55,200 --> 00:44:58,240
Speaker 1: But your ex is different to me. I don't follow

911
00:44:58,400 --> 00:45:01,160
Speaker 1: none of my exes. I feel like my exes. I'm

912
00:45:01,160 --> 00:45:03,160
Speaker 1: not following you on Instagram. I'm not keeping up with

913
00:45:03,200 --> 00:45:05,759
Speaker 1: the Kardashians. I don't have to see what you're up to,

914
00:45:05,880 --> 00:45:07,600
Speaker 1: what you're doing with a new tattoo, you got what

915
00:45:08,000 --> 00:45:10,160
Speaker 1: car are you by? I don't care about none of that.

916
00:45:10,360 --> 00:45:12,120
Speaker 3: I think it don't even matter because they not in

917
00:45:12,239 --> 00:45:14,560
Speaker 3: my algorithm because I'm not liking their pictures, so I'm

918
00:45:14,560 --> 00:45:15,760
Speaker 3: not even seeing them anyway.

919
00:45:16,719 --> 00:45:17,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm honest.

920
00:45:18,160 --> 00:45:21,520
Speaker 3: If they in the algorithm, that's saying something different. Like

921
00:45:21,560 --> 00:45:23,799
Speaker 3: you if you like, hey, look and we scrolling and

922
00:45:23,800 --> 00:45:27,040
Speaker 3: your X coming up on an algorithm, yeah, let's talk

923
00:45:27,040 --> 00:45:29,000
Speaker 3: about it now. But if you just following them, I'm

924
00:45:29,000 --> 00:45:30,520
Speaker 3: not even tripping. But if I see you in the

925
00:45:30,520 --> 00:45:32,880
Speaker 3: algorithm on the scroller, and that's telling me that you

926
00:45:33,000 --> 00:45:36,799
Speaker 3: comment and are liking them. Because people fall completely out

927
00:45:36,800 --> 00:45:39,000
Speaker 3: of my algorithm, like I don't see them, and I

928
00:45:39,080 --> 00:45:41,520
Speaker 3: might be following them for years and I never see them.

929
00:45:42,480 --> 00:45:44,120
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying. You know how that work

930
00:45:45,400 --> 00:45:46,759
Speaker 3: I don't think that's a big deal.

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Speaker 1: think is more disrespectful? Okay, So what do you think

938
00:46:10,560 --> 00:46:15,200
Speaker 1: is more disrespectful Hiding your phone or going through your

939
00:46:15,200 --> 00:46:15,880
Speaker 1: partner's phone?

940
00:46:18,320 --> 00:46:21,759
Speaker 3: Hiding your phone? I mean I don't think what do

941
00:46:21,800 --> 00:46:22,719
Speaker 3: you mean hiding your phone?

942
00:46:22,840 --> 00:46:24,680
Speaker 1: Like hiding and you can't look at my phone, like

943
00:46:24,760 --> 00:46:29,279
Speaker 1: being weird, like just you know, someone's overly like protective.

944
00:46:29,440 --> 00:46:31,759
Speaker 3: Like I think it's more disrespectful to go through your

945
00:46:31,760 --> 00:46:34,400
Speaker 3: partner's phone, truthfully. I think like if they go in

946
00:46:34,400 --> 00:46:37,360
Speaker 3: the other room and you being all sneaky and shit, like,

947
00:46:37,560 --> 00:46:39,759
Speaker 3: come on, man, just be like damn, what is it

948
00:46:39,840 --> 00:46:41,719
Speaker 3: like before I even go through your phone? I mean,

949
00:46:41,800 --> 00:46:43,839
Speaker 3: even I'm gonna know something as because I don't even

950
00:46:43,920 --> 00:46:45,920
Speaker 3: have to. I don't even have to do all that

951
00:46:45,960 --> 00:46:48,120
Speaker 3: to know. You can you like when you're around somebody

952
00:46:48,200 --> 00:46:50,919
Speaker 3: so much, and you know they tendencies and you see

953
00:46:51,080 --> 00:46:54,759
Speaker 3: how they move, you're gonna feel it in like your conscience.

954
00:46:54,960 --> 00:46:58,560
Speaker 3: You're gonna feel it like some man, right, some is off,

955
00:46:58,719 --> 00:47:01,520
Speaker 3: some is you know it ain't. It ain't really moving

956
00:47:01,600 --> 00:47:04,399
Speaker 3: like it was moving before. And you know now you're

957
00:47:04,440 --> 00:47:07,080
Speaker 3: being all like I'm gonna know, like, man, it is

958
00:47:07,160 --> 00:47:09,879
Speaker 3: something going on. Your conscious speaks and if you don't

959
00:47:09,920 --> 00:47:12,960
Speaker 3: listen then it'll just fly over your head. So I

960
00:47:13,080 --> 00:47:15,839
Speaker 3: just think it's disrespectful to be sneaky about going through

961
00:47:15,840 --> 00:47:18,520
Speaker 3: somebody phone, just us, like, you know there's something going on.

962
00:47:18,640 --> 00:47:21,880
Speaker 3: What's up? Read the room, feel the temperature, like who

963
00:47:21,719 --> 00:47:24,040
Speaker 3: who you been with? Like what's going on? Talk about

964
00:47:24,040 --> 00:47:25,960
Speaker 3: it like why we ain't this, why we ain't. It's

965
00:47:25,960 --> 00:47:29,360
Speaker 3: gonna be signs of everything. Definitely before you even have

966
00:47:29,440 --> 00:47:31,440
Speaker 3: to go through somebody's phone, And when you address that,

967
00:47:31,520 --> 00:47:34,040
Speaker 3: you're gonna be able to tell like you know, you

968
00:47:34,040 --> 00:47:36,520
Speaker 3: know whatever it is, You're gonna figure it out. You

969
00:47:36,520 --> 00:47:38,960
Speaker 3: ain't gotta do all of that. If you don't, then

970
00:47:39,000 --> 00:47:39,960
Speaker 3: you don't know your partner.

971
00:47:40,560 --> 00:47:42,719
Speaker 1: I agree. I think going through your partner's phone is

972
00:47:42,800 --> 00:47:45,319
Speaker 1: really disrespectful as an invasion of privacy you don't know

973
00:47:45,360 --> 00:47:47,160
Speaker 1: what that person has in there. It could be stuff

974
00:47:47,280 --> 00:47:50,600
Speaker 1: like personal about someone else's business, Like it's just a

975
00:47:50,640 --> 00:47:53,319
Speaker 1: lot and personally I don't rock with that. And like

976
00:47:53,360 --> 00:47:55,760
Speaker 1: you said, there's signs like I always feel it ahead

977
00:47:55,800 --> 00:47:59,080
Speaker 1: of time and know and I'm gonna just like fall

978
00:47:59,120 --> 00:48:01,560
Speaker 1: back like you know, I could feel it. I don't

979
00:48:01,560 --> 00:48:05,600
Speaker 1: need to do all of that. What do you think

980
00:48:05,680 --> 00:48:09,400
Speaker 1: is more describable? Texting your ex happy birthday, my love

981
00:48:10,080 --> 00:48:13,400
Speaker 1: or deleting messages from somebody else new.

982
00:48:14,120 --> 00:48:16,200
Speaker 3: Deleting messages for somebody else new?

983
00:48:16,360 --> 00:48:18,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, like you're dealing with someone you're being sneaky, you're

984
00:48:18,440 --> 00:48:22,920
Speaker 1: deleting the messages or texting your ex, which ones worse

985
00:48:22,960 --> 00:48:23,480
Speaker 1: someone new?

986
00:48:23,600 --> 00:48:29,440
Speaker 3: Or texting your ex deleting is deleting new? Like what's

987
00:48:29,680 --> 00:48:32,839
Speaker 3: new a new person? Like? Why is there new if

988
00:48:32,840 --> 00:48:33,440
Speaker 3: we're together?

989
00:48:34,320 --> 00:48:36,560
Speaker 2: Your X text messages if we're.

990
00:48:36,440 --> 00:48:38,840
Speaker 3: Together, because it might be a respect factor.

991
00:48:39,480 --> 00:48:43,520
Speaker 1: Respect You don't have to respect your ex. Like that's

992
00:48:43,520 --> 00:48:45,440
Speaker 1: weird to me. Why are you texting an ex that

993
00:48:45,480 --> 00:48:46,360
Speaker 1: you don't have nothing?

994
00:48:46,920 --> 00:48:49,600
Speaker 3: No, if you don't have no connection to your ex?

995
00:48:49,920 --> 00:48:51,239
Speaker 3: No kids?

996
00:48:51,440 --> 00:48:52,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, no kids?

997
00:48:52,800 --> 00:48:56,480
Speaker 3: Okay? If it's no kids, is it more disrespectful? To

998
00:48:56,480 --> 00:49:00,640
Speaker 3: text your ex happy birthday, my love or some thing new.

999
00:49:01,239 --> 00:49:04,239
Speaker 3: I think they equal. I think it's the same thing.

1000
00:49:05,160 --> 00:49:07,959
Speaker 1: Okay, what do you think it's more disrespectful to vent

1001
00:49:08,000 --> 00:49:11,759
Speaker 1: to your friends about your relationship and tell them like

1002
00:49:11,880 --> 00:49:16,240
Speaker 1: negative stuff or to vent to the opposite sex.

1003
00:49:17,760 --> 00:49:21,359
Speaker 3: It's way more disrespectful to devent to the opposite sex,

1004
00:49:21,400 --> 00:49:24,439
Speaker 3: because if it's opposite sex, you vent into unless it's

1005
00:49:24,480 --> 00:49:27,640
Speaker 3: like you got a gay dude, right, you know, a

1006
00:49:27,680 --> 00:49:30,480
Speaker 3: lot of a lot of gay. A lot of girls

1007
00:49:30,800 --> 00:49:34,880
Speaker 3: vent to like they gave our friends. Yeah, that'll be

1008
00:49:34,920 --> 00:49:37,040
Speaker 3: your friends, but that's the opposite sex.

1009
00:49:37,120 --> 00:49:40,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, but gay don't.

1010
00:49:40,760 --> 00:49:44,759
Speaker 3: It's both bad for me because now it invites like

1011
00:49:46,000 --> 00:49:49,880
Speaker 3: that negative energy and that negative type of like yeah,

1012
00:49:50,440 --> 00:49:57,200
Speaker 3: just aura into your relationship because they always gonna ride

1013
00:49:57,239 --> 00:49:59,359
Speaker 3: on your side. They're gonna be like, girl, you don't

1014
00:49:59,360 --> 00:50:01,680
Speaker 3: need him. And then the dude gonna do the same

1015
00:50:01,680 --> 00:50:04,080
Speaker 3: thing too, like well you know, I've been telling you.

1016
00:50:04,080 --> 00:50:04,800
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying.

1017
00:50:05,120 --> 00:50:09,040
Speaker 1: It depends because we're lucky, because my friends will tell

1018
00:50:09,040 --> 00:50:11,759
Speaker 1: me like, bitch, you're dead wrong. Like I'll literally ask

1019
00:50:11,840 --> 00:50:14,520
Speaker 1: my friends like am I tripping? Like before I would

1020
00:50:14,600 --> 00:50:17,360
Speaker 1: even approach my partner like I'll text him like is

1021
00:50:17,400 --> 00:50:20,479
Speaker 1: this crazy? Am I tripping? And they'll literally like they'll

1022
00:50:20,520 --> 00:50:22,120
Speaker 1: literally be like you tripping.

1023
00:50:21,920 --> 00:50:24,840
Speaker 3: Chill, but like their circumstances too, for like say, like

1024
00:50:24,920 --> 00:50:30,960
Speaker 3: you vent into like your your man's best friend. That's

1025
00:50:31,000 --> 00:50:33,640
Speaker 3: y'all cool. He's like your brother, like your brother. He

1026
00:50:33,760 --> 00:50:38,160
Speaker 3: like your brother, He like your brother. Though I don't

1027
00:50:38,200 --> 00:50:39,680
Speaker 3: think that's crossing the line.

1028
00:50:40,000 --> 00:50:41,040
Speaker 2: I think that's what I think.

1029
00:50:41,080 --> 00:50:43,880
Speaker 3: If you're talking to his best friend and he trusts

1030
00:50:43,920 --> 00:50:46,759
Speaker 3: y'all together and y'all like brother and sister, I don't

1031
00:50:46,760 --> 00:50:48,279
Speaker 3: think that's a I don't think that.

1032
00:50:48,719 --> 00:50:50,000
Speaker 1: I think that's really.

1033
00:50:49,719 --> 00:50:52,200
Speaker 3: Because think about this, don't don't. Like you gotta listen though,

1034
00:50:52,239 --> 00:50:54,800
Speaker 3: you gotta pay attention to listen, so you gotta like thinking,

1035
00:50:54,880 --> 00:50:58,560
Speaker 3: like damn, who else know him better outside of his

1036
00:50:58,680 --> 00:51:01,319
Speaker 3: partner his best friends? So like you be like, man,

1037
00:51:01,360 --> 00:51:02,879
Speaker 3: what do I have to do? What do you think?

1038
00:51:03,600 --> 00:51:06,000
Speaker 3: You're talking to him and he giving you some realize game,

1039
00:51:06,080 --> 00:51:07,840
Speaker 3: like you know what, man, he been going to He

1040
00:51:08,200 --> 00:51:11,399
Speaker 3: might tell his best friend something he ain't told you, Like, man,

1041
00:51:11,440 --> 00:51:12,759
Speaker 3: you know what he ain't want to tell you, but

1042
00:51:12,800 --> 00:51:15,759
Speaker 3: he going through some like turmoil with this and that

1043
00:51:15,920 --> 00:51:17,799
Speaker 3: and all of that, just you know, bear with him.

1044
00:51:18,120 --> 00:51:18,960
Speaker 3: It might get.

1045
00:51:18,760 --> 00:51:21,799
Speaker 1: Help, you know what I'm saying, because your friend is

1046
00:51:21,800 --> 00:51:24,080
Speaker 1: always going to be on your side, so it's biased,

1047
00:51:24,800 --> 00:51:27,120
Speaker 1: Like I feel like it even if the man is wrong,

1048
00:51:27,200 --> 00:51:30,400
Speaker 1: my best friend's gonna like promote that you stay with me,

1049
00:51:30,560 --> 00:51:32,560
Speaker 1: that you make it work, even if it's like not

1050
00:51:33,200 --> 00:51:35,080
Speaker 1: he might.

1051
00:51:33,560 --> 00:51:36,319
Speaker 3: Get you some game, but he might give you some

1052
00:51:36,400 --> 00:51:38,920
Speaker 3: game too about like he you know some things he

1053
00:51:39,040 --> 00:51:39,880
Speaker 3: might not want to tell you.

1054
00:51:40,239 --> 00:51:42,320
Speaker 2: I've done that before. I understand.

1055
00:51:42,640 --> 00:51:43,040
Speaker 1: I get it.

1056
00:51:43,040 --> 00:51:45,000
Speaker 3: So while you off it, I'm off of.

1057
00:51:44,960 --> 00:51:46,680
Speaker 2: It because it always gets tricky.

1058
00:51:46,800 --> 00:51:49,560
Speaker 3: It's always because try to get at you now.

1059
00:51:49,600 --> 00:51:51,799
Speaker 2: Nah, but it's just it creates a weird.

1060
00:51:51,680 --> 00:51:55,320
Speaker 3: And friends with the best friend's girlfriend too, you friends

1061
00:51:55,320 --> 00:51:56,280
Speaker 3: with both of them.

1062
00:51:56,440 --> 00:51:58,600
Speaker 1: That's really gets tricky. You never supposed to bevan to

1063
00:51:58,640 --> 00:51:59,759
Speaker 1: the best friend's girlfriend.

1064
00:52:00,200 --> 00:52:03,400
Speaker 3: No, no, no, but you know them we all cool,

1065
00:52:03,520 --> 00:52:05,759
Speaker 3: like you just be like we all cool. You know

1066
00:52:05,760 --> 00:52:09,160
Speaker 3: what I'm saying. I mean I never did that. I'm

1067
00:52:09,200 --> 00:52:12,960
Speaker 3: just trying to hypothetically speak or you know, just kind

1068
00:52:13,000 --> 00:52:17,520
Speaker 3: of like say that's a situation to where that can

1069
00:52:17,560 --> 00:52:20,600
Speaker 3: be a thing. You know, I've never done that, Like

1070
00:52:20,680 --> 00:52:23,919
Speaker 3: I ain't never called my boy a wife and be like, man,

1071
00:52:24,080 --> 00:52:25,799
Speaker 3: you know I'm going through it with such and such

1072
00:52:25,840 --> 00:52:28,279
Speaker 3: a dud. I've never done that, but I could see

1073
00:52:28,280 --> 00:52:29,560
Speaker 3: a situation to where that can.

1074
00:52:29,719 --> 00:52:32,040
Speaker 1: Like I mean, I've done that before for sure, because

1075
00:52:32,040 --> 00:52:35,080
Speaker 1: it's been years with this person and they're like family

1076
00:52:35,120 --> 00:52:36,520
Speaker 1: at this point, like our whole fak.

1077
00:52:36,800 --> 00:52:39,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, Like what if you're taking like vacations with all

1078
00:52:39,040 --> 00:52:41,239
Speaker 3: of them and stuff and like the whole family. It's like,

1079
00:52:41,280 --> 00:52:43,640
Speaker 3: it's not it's not weird. I'm telling you. You looking at

1080
00:52:43,640 --> 00:52:47,320
Speaker 3: it like on some young like high school. I'm not

1081
00:52:47,600 --> 00:52:48,520
Speaker 3: college on.

1082
00:52:48,520 --> 00:52:53,120
Speaker 1: High school stuff or college stuff. Okay, So what's worse?

1083
00:52:53,640 --> 00:52:56,759
Speaker 1: What's more disrespectful lying about where you are or lying

1084
00:52:56,800 --> 00:52:57,759
Speaker 1: about who you're with?

1085
00:52:59,560 --> 00:53:10,320
Speaker 3: I think is more disrespectful to lot about who you're with,

1086
00:53:13,760 --> 00:53:17,200
Speaker 3: because you know, some casts don't be wanting to tell

1087
00:53:17,239 --> 00:53:19,520
Speaker 3: they women I'm at the strip club, you know what,

1088
00:53:19,640 --> 00:53:21,240
Speaker 3: I'm at the I'm at the spot with the homies,

1089
00:53:21,840 --> 00:53:23,440
Speaker 3: but I'm with the home Like, I don't know, it's

1090
00:53:23,440 --> 00:53:25,239
Speaker 3: just a certain situation and I know you don't like

1091
00:53:25,280 --> 00:53:27,279
Speaker 3: me being here, but then I'll tell you later, Like

1092
00:53:27,320 --> 00:53:28,719
Speaker 3: you know what I lied I was at the strip

1093
00:53:28,760 --> 00:53:32,040
Speaker 3: club or I lied, I was more of a because

1094
00:53:32,080 --> 00:53:35,640
Speaker 3: who you with? That's that's way more suspicious now because

1095
00:53:35,640 --> 00:53:38,200
Speaker 3: that like the people you're around you like cause you're

1096
00:53:38,200 --> 00:53:40,520
Speaker 3: gonna like start coming up with stuff in your mind.

1097
00:53:41,200 --> 00:53:44,239
Speaker 3: But like where you at, you know you can you

1098
00:53:44,280 --> 00:53:46,360
Speaker 3: can you can, you can go, you can come clean

1099
00:53:46,400 --> 00:53:48,160
Speaker 3: with that. It just maybe a spot you don't like

1100
00:53:48,160 --> 00:53:50,239
Speaker 3: me to be at. And I just like, man, I

1101
00:53:50,280 --> 00:53:52,040
Speaker 3: was here, I was right here. You know it ain't

1102
00:53:52,080 --> 00:53:54,040
Speaker 3: it wasn't nothing, but I don't want to tell you

1103
00:53:54,040 --> 00:53:55,920
Speaker 3: at the time because I didn't want to argument. And

1104
00:53:56,560 --> 00:54:00,680
Speaker 3: also what he can confirm. But like saying people who

1105
00:54:00,719 --> 00:54:05,279
Speaker 3: you with? That's tricky, that's tricky. That's like, oh no,

1106
00:54:05,440 --> 00:54:09,200
Speaker 3: that's that's uh uh. I think that's why what about you?

1107
00:54:09,200 --> 00:54:09,719
Speaker 3: What you think?

1108
00:54:12,000 --> 00:54:14,480
Speaker 1: I think lying about who you're with, for sure is

1109
00:54:14,560 --> 00:54:17,920
Speaker 1: more tricky. Yeah, because who the fuck are you with that?

1110
00:54:17,920 --> 00:54:18,960
Speaker 1: You gotta lie about it?

1111
00:54:19,160 --> 00:54:21,399
Speaker 3: Yeah? Who are you with that? You gotta lie about that?

1112
00:54:22,280 --> 00:54:24,880
Speaker 2: You know why lying about going to the strip club either.

1113
00:54:24,719 --> 00:54:27,239
Speaker 3: Though, because you probably said I don't like you doing

1114
00:54:27,320 --> 00:54:29,600
Speaker 3: all that. But then it was the homies and I

1115
00:54:29,719 --> 00:54:31,759
Speaker 3: just want to go, and you know they was all

1116
00:54:31,800 --> 00:54:34,919
Speaker 3: like damn, oh you got you your girl. Oh you

1117
00:54:34,920 --> 00:54:37,040
Speaker 3: you you wear the panties in the relationship and you

1118
00:54:37,480 --> 00:54:39,719
Speaker 3: can't do nothing. I think you know what I'm saying.

1119
00:54:39,840 --> 00:54:42,200
Speaker 3: Guys get peer pressure like that from their homies.

1120
00:54:42,280 --> 00:54:44,960
Speaker 1: People need to understand who they're in a relationship with

1121
00:54:45,040 --> 00:54:48,080
Speaker 1: more and just because if you're with a relationship with

1122
00:54:48,120 --> 00:54:50,920
Speaker 1: someone who likes to go out all the time or

1123
00:54:51,000 --> 00:54:53,600
Speaker 1: y'all are always hitting it, that's because that's what he

1124
00:54:53,760 --> 00:54:56,400
Speaker 1: likes to do. With or without you, he's gonna be outside.

1125
00:54:57,000 --> 00:54:59,200
Speaker 1: So it's like, if you know you have someone like

1126
00:54:59,239 --> 00:55:02,360
Speaker 1: that and that's not your vibe, then I don't know

1127
00:55:02,400 --> 00:55:04,440
Speaker 1: why you're rocking with that person because that's what the

1128
00:55:04,480 --> 00:55:14,000
Speaker 1: person's gonna do. What about talking bad about your partner

1129
00:55:14,800 --> 00:55:18,280
Speaker 1: when you're mad or giving them the silent treatment.

1130
00:55:19,040 --> 00:55:25,960
Speaker 3: Talking bad about your partner disrespectful, Yeah, disrespectful. I take them.

1131
00:55:26,200 --> 00:55:27,560
Speaker 2: I'm gonna say the silent treatment.

1132
00:55:27,880 --> 00:55:30,239
Speaker 1: If I get the silent treatment, I promise you, Like

1133
00:55:30,400 --> 00:55:32,400
Speaker 1: that's almost like I'm gonna break up with that person,

1134
00:55:32,760 --> 00:55:35,920
Speaker 1: Like that's like one of my highest non negotiables if

1135
00:55:35,960 --> 00:55:40,880
Speaker 1: I'm messing with something there silent You know, that silent

1136
00:55:40,920 --> 00:55:44,440
Speaker 1: treatment is like a form of like major disrespect, Like

1137
00:55:44,560 --> 00:55:48,319
Speaker 1: you're gonna ignore me intentionally, Nah, I'm cool on that,

1138
00:55:48,520 --> 00:55:52,239
Speaker 1: Like I'm that's like to me, I'm so cool on that,

1139
00:55:52,400 --> 00:55:54,920
Speaker 1: Like I can't tell you how much that bothers me.

1140
00:55:55,560 --> 00:55:57,120
Speaker 1: Like I could deal with a lot of stuff. I'd

1141
00:55:57,200 --> 00:56:00,920
Speaker 1: rather you argue with me, talking out figure it out

1142
00:56:00,960 --> 00:56:03,560
Speaker 1: with me. But if you're gonna ignore me for a day,

1143
00:56:04,080 --> 00:56:06,840
Speaker 1: if you're gonna ignore me for days, like get a

1144
00:56:06,880 --> 00:56:09,480
Speaker 1: new girl by the time those days are up, I'm cool.

1145
00:56:09,760 --> 00:56:11,239
Speaker 1: Like I promise, I'm cool.

1146
00:56:11,560 --> 00:56:15,000
Speaker 3: If I ever give somebody the silent treatment, that's because

1147
00:56:16,280 --> 00:56:19,440
Speaker 3: I am gonna say something that I might regret, and

1148
00:56:19,480 --> 00:56:22,000
Speaker 3: it's best that I stay quiet.

1149
00:56:21,600 --> 00:56:22,280
Speaker 2: Not for days.

1150
00:56:22,640 --> 00:56:25,319
Speaker 3: I'm gonna say something that's gonna be breakable up with

1151
00:56:26,160 --> 00:56:31,040
Speaker 3: if I have breakable up with, if I if I

1152
00:56:31,239 --> 00:56:33,640
Speaker 3: have to say something, so I just like take the

1153
00:56:33,719 --> 00:56:35,680
Speaker 3: high road. I'm gonna lie, I'm gonna shut up because

1154
00:56:35,880 --> 00:56:40,120
Speaker 3: I'm a I'm a I'm dangerous. If I if I

1155
00:56:40,200 --> 00:56:41,959
Speaker 3: got the side of treatment, you bring out the side

1156
00:56:41,960 --> 00:56:43,680
Speaker 3: of the treatment, because I'm like, you know what's best

1157
00:56:43,680 --> 00:56:46,359
Speaker 3: for me to be goddamn quiet, because I'm gonna say

1158
00:56:46,400 --> 00:56:48,279
Speaker 3: something that's gonna really break us up. So I'm gonna

1159
00:56:48,280 --> 00:56:52,480
Speaker 3: just keep it quiet. Yeah, I don't.

1160
00:56:52,560 --> 00:56:54,799
Speaker 1: I don't know what I'd rather someone tell me, like, YO,

1161
00:56:54,880 --> 00:56:57,040
Speaker 1: give me like a minute and we're good.

1162
00:56:57,280 --> 00:56:59,200
Speaker 3: Just give me a minute, all right, So three words,

1163
00:56:59,239 --> 00:57:00,680
Speaker 3: it's good, give.

1164
00:57:00,480 --> 00:57:03,439
Speaker 1: Me a minute, like we're good, but give me a minute.

1165
00:57:03,520 --> 00:57:05,200
Speaker 1: I just I don't want to say nothing, break up

1166
00:57:05,280 --> 00:57:05,880
Speaker 1: up bull.

1167
00:57:05,920 --> 00:57:09,600
Speaker 3: And then walk out the room and slam the goddamn door. Anyways,

1168
00:57:09,680 --> 00:57:11,200
Speaker 3: that's the same thing side of the treatment.

1169
00:57:11,600 --> 00:57:15,319
Speaker 1: So what's more disrepectful staying in contact with someone who

1170
00:57:15,320 --> 00:57:19,040
Speaker 1: you know wants you or pretending that you don't know

1171
00:57:19,360 --> 00:57:21,040
Speaker 1: their intentions?

1172
00:57:24,800 --> 00:57:27,800
Speaker 3: Staying in contact with what.

1173
00:57:29,000 --> 00:57:32,080
Speaker 1: Staying in contact like you're still cool with someone and

1174
00:57:32,120 --> 00:57:34,280
Speaker 1: you know they want you, they know you know y'all

1175
00:57:34,280 --> 00:57:36,840
Speaker 1: have like a vibe or something, and you know they're

1176
00:57:36,920 --> 00:57:39,960
Speaker 1: on you and you're still cool with them, or just

1177
00:57:40,040 --> 00:57:42,880
Speaker 1: pretending like I don't really know that they want me,

1178
00:57:46,240 --> 00:57:48,000
Speaker 1: like not acknowledging.

1179
00:57:47,360 --> 00:57:55,280
Speaker 3: It as long as you keep the boundaries. I don't

1180
00:57:55,280 --> 00:57:58,280
Speaker 3: know about that, Like say that one more time. You said,

1181
00:57:58,600 --> 00:58:00,760
Speaker 3: what's more of a red flag.

1182
00:58:02,040 --> 00:58:09,080
Speaker 1: Disrespectful wants you like y'all are talking want you and

1183
00:58:09,120 --> 00:58:12,720
Speaker 1: you know they want you, or pretending you don't know

1184
00:58:12,840 --> 00:58:14,200
Speaker 1: someone wants you, like you don't know.

1185
00:58:14,120 --> 00:58:17,400
Speaker 3: There that don't make sist because you're.

1186
00:58:17,240 --> 00:58:21,560
Speaker 1: Pretending like nah, what like this is cool, Like they're

1187
00:58:21,600 --> 00:58:25,560
Speaker 1: not on that. You're you're tripping, like you just think

1188
00:58:25,600 --> 00:58:27,280
Speaker 1: they want me. They don't want me, but you know,

1189
00:58:27,760 --> 00:58:30,560
Speaker 1: you know, because you know when someone wants you for real,

1190
00:58:31,600 --> 00:58:33,160
Speaker 1: it's a it's a it's a it's a.

1191
00:58:33,080 --> 00:58:36,040
Speaker 3: Delusion if you don't if that's the case, like think

1192
00:58:36,080 --> 00:58:39,840
Speaker 3: about any girl who has any contact with a guy

1193
00:58:40,560 --> 00:58:45,160
Speaker 3: or or like like every guy at some point of

1194
00:58:45,360 --> 00:58:48,040
Speaker 3: knowing this girl is going to want to get at them.

1195
00:58:48,160 --> 00:58:54,520
Speaker 3: But as long as you keep it steff farm out

1196
00:58:54,680 --> 00:58:56,640
Speaker 3: in the distance, then what.

1197
00:58:56,600 --> 00:58:57,080
Speaker 1: You're gonna do.

1198
00:58:57,120 --> 00:58:58,600
Speaker 2: That's saying in contact?

1199
00:58:59,240 --> 00:59:04,880
Speaker 3: What is like in in contact me often whenever, once

1200
00:59:04,960 --> 00:59:07,240
Speaker 3: every six months or.

1201
00:59:07,280 --> 00:59:14,000
Speaker 1: Any time like whenever you want to. This should not

1202
00:59:14,040 --> 00:59:14,680
Speaker 1: be that hard.

1203
00:59:15,000 --> 00:59:19,800
Speaker 3: This is hard, Come on what it's.

1204
00:59:18,880 --> 00:59:22,680
Speaker 1: Really not for me personally? I know, like if I'm

1205
00:59:22,720 --> 00:59:24,440
Speaker 1: in a relationship, if I was in a relationship and

1206
00:59:24,840 --> 00:59:28,080
Speaker 1: I have men that want me and they're texting me

1207
00:59:28,200 --> 00:59:30,720
Speaker 1: like hey, what's up? Like literally, I just had a

1208
00:59:30,720 --> 00:59:32,880
Speaker 1: situation where I was out with somebody that I was

1209
00:59:32,920 --> 00:59:36,760
Speaker 1: dealing with and I saw this guy and he said

1210
00:59:36,800 --> 00:59:39,600
Speaker 1: what's up? And he was someone that I dated very briefly,

1211
00:59:40,160 --> 00:59:43,680
Speaker 1: and he knew I was with this person. And then

1212
00:59:43,840 --> 00:59:50,280
Speaker 1: every day you're texting. I fumbled, shake my head, what's up? Hey,

1213
00:59:50,360 --> 00:59:50,800
Speaker 1: what's up?

1214
00:59:50,840 --> 00:59:51,760
Speaker 3: Did you tell your person?

1215
00:59:51,800 --> 00:59:53,439
Speaker 1: Yeah? I did? I did?

1216
00:59:53,880 --> 00:59:54,240
Speaker 3: I did?

1217
00:59:55,040 --> 00:59:58,000
Speaker 1: So, Like this is crazy, So why are you texting

1218
00:59:58,440 --> 01:00:01,120
Speaker 1: all the time now? Like are you crazy?

1219
01:00:01,320 --> 01:00:04,240
Speaker 3: Like you never I've never had I never had that.

1220
01:00:04,480 --> 01:00:06,160
Speaker 2: But men are, That's what I'm trying to tell you.

1221
01:00:06,200 --> 01:00:06,880
Speaker 2: Men are like that.

1222
01:00:07,040 --> 01:00:09,880
Speaker 1: So if I'm cool with this person, mind you, this

1223
01:00:10,000 --> 01:00:12,160
Speaker 1: is not even a person I slept with or anything.

1224
01:00:12,240 --> 01:00:14,120
Speaker 1: It was just someone who had interested me and I

1225
01:00:14,160 --> 01:00:17,000
Speaker 1: never wanted them, like it was a cool and you're

1226
01:00:17,080 --> 01:00:19,600
Speaker 1: just every day like damn, you look so good. I fumbled,

1227
01:00:19,640 --> 01:00:22,760
Speaker 1: da da da, And it's just like ignore block, like

1228
01:00:22,960 --> 01:00:25,040
Speaker 1: I'm blocking? Why am I not blocking that?

1229
01:00:25,080 --> 01:00:26,640
Speaker 3: First? I've never had to deal with that.

1230
01:00:26,880 --> 01:00:29,080
Speaker 1: But as a woman, That's what I'm saying. Women deal

1231
01:00:29,120 --> 01:00:32,480
Speaker 1: with that disrespectful to stay in contact with that person.

1232
01:00:32,800 --> 01:00:36,320
Speaker 3: For a woman, it's like man, but men are have

1233
01:00:36,400 --> 01:00:38,720
Speaker 3: to deal with that. Men are the ones doing it,

1234
01:00:39,360 --> 01:00:40,600
Speaker 3: So it's not it's not.

1235
01:00:40,960 --> 01:00:43,880
Speaker 2: What Okay, we're moving on this.

1236
01:00:45,400 --> 01:00:49,120
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Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, so astap Rocky.

1241
01:01:01,560 --> 01:01:05,280
Speaker 1: He said that when he met his if he met

1242
01:01:05,320 --> 01:01:07,640
Speaker 1: like his girl earlier, and he feels like he wouldn't

1243
01:01:07,640 --> 01:01:10,040
Speaker 1: have been ready and timing is super important when you

1244
01:01:10,080 --> 01:01:12,920
Speaker 1: be the woman. He's like, you know, like, if I know,

1245
01:01:13,000 --> 01:01:15,360
Speaker 1: I would have probably messed this up if it would

1246
01:01:15,360 --> 01:01:17,439
Speaker 1: have been earlier in my life when I met her.

1247
01:01:17,840 --> 01:01:20,520
Speaker 1: And he was like, and I also feel like the

1248
01:01:20,600 --> 01:01:24,360
Speaker 1: right woman in your life is amazing because it like

1249
01:01:24,440 --> 01:01:26,840
Speaker 1: takes the blindfold off of your eyes. Like she'll tell

1250
01:01:26,840 --> 01:01:29,120
Speaker 1: you like that's not really your friend for real, or

1251
01:01:29,160 --> 01:01:31,400
Speaker 1: this person is trying to do this, or this person is.

1252
01:01:31,320 --> 01:01:32,040
Speaker 2: Trying to do that.

1253
01:01:32,520 --> 01:01:35,680
Speaker 1: And he's like, you know, his woman like has changed

1254
01:01:35,720 --> 01:01:39,040
Speaker 1: his life so much for the better. Yeah, And he's

1255
01:01:39,040 --> 01:01:41,640
Speaker 1: talking about Rihanna obviously because him and Rihanna are together.

1256
01:01:42,120 --> 01:01:47,080
Speaker 1: And he said that his in his other relationship to

1257
01:01:47,560 --> 01:01:55,320
Speaker 1: right to take the blind folds off, have an actual

1258
01:01:55,440 --> 01:01:56,520
Speaker 1: really relationship.

1259
01:01:57,280 --> 01:02:00,680
Speaker 3: She got too much resources to find out if that's good.

1260
01:02:01,160 --> 01:02:05,800
Speaker 3: That's good, right, that was I was settling. I'm settling.

1261
01:02:06,080 --> 01:02:08,720
Speaker 1: It seems like he genuinely actually rocks with her for

1262
01:02:08,760 --> 01:02:09,400
Speaker 1: real though.

1263
01:02:09,280 --> 01:02:13,400
Speaker 3: Like it doesn't. Yeah, that's Rihanna.

1264
01:02:14,680 --> 01:02:15,440
Speaker 2: You're horrible.

1265
01:02:16,040 --> 01:02:19,440
Speaker 1: Anyway, Let's do a fan question and then we're.

1266
01:02:21,200 --> 01:02:21,439
Speaker 3: Better.

1267
01:02:21,520 --> 01:02:24,240
Speaker 1: What that's wild?

1268
01:02:24,560 --> 01:02:26,080
Speaker 3: Wow, that's Rihanna.

1269
01:02:27,600 --> 01:02:30,320
Speaker 1: When a woman says that she's so trifling, she's such

1270
01:02:30,360 --> 01:02:32,160
Speaker 1: a gold digger, she only wants you for money. She

1271
01:02:32,320 --> 01:02:33,960
Speaker 1: on her to see if she loves you. But man,

1272
01:02:34,120 --> 01:02:35,680
Speaker 1: I'm work because she's a allienaire.

1273
01:02:36,000 --> 01:02:37,800
Speaker 2: Like that sounds crazy?

1274
01:02:38,000 --> 01:02:39,400
Speaker 3: Like how it sounds crazy?

1275
01:02:40,040 --> 01:02:41,480
Speaker 1: Woman says it. It's crazy.

1276
01:02:41,560 --> 01:02:42,560
Speaker 2: It's like a cold digger.

1277
01:02:42,720 --> 01:02:45,000
Speaker 3: But we know that. But we know what you mean.

1278
01:02:45,040 --> 01:02:47,240
Speaker 1: We know we don't.

1279
01:02:46,960 --> 01:02:49,400
Speaker 3: Get the same because we don't get the same opportunities

1280
01:02:49,440 --> 01:02:51,840
Speaker 3: as the women get because there's more rich men than

1281
01:02:51,960 --> 01:02:54,200
Speaker 3: rich women. So when we get a chance to do it,

1282
01:02:54,240 --> 01:02:55,920
Speaker 3: we that's city boys up.

1283
01:02:58,040 --> 01:03:01,360
Speaker 1: Anyways, let's get into the fan question before we wrap up.

1284
01:03:01,880 --> 01:03:04,960
Speaker 1: So someone said, I'm not even gonna name their acts

1285
01:03:05,120 --> 01:03:06,959
Speaker 1: because I just don't want to put them out there.

1286
01:03:07,280 --> 01:03:09,120
Speaker 1: I really like my man and our relationship is good,

1287
01:03:09,160 --> 01:03:11,120
Speaker 1: but he doesn't go down on me much and it's

1288
01:03:11,120 --> 01:03:13,280
Speaker 1: starting to bother me. I don't want to make him

1289
01:03:13,320 --> 01:03:15,680
Speaker 1: feel pressured or awkward, but I also don't want to

1290
01:03:15,760 --> 01:03:18,640
Speaker 1: keep being unsatisfied. Should I say something or just accept

1291
01:03:18,640 --> 01:03:24,760
Speaker 1: that this is how it is? Whoa I personally, that's

1292
01:03:24,760 --> 01:03:28,920
Speaker 1: a hard one because I love that a lot.

1293
01:03:29,160 --> 01:03:31,040
Speaker 2: So I feel like if it's something that.

1294
01:03:30,960 --> 01:03:34,720
Speaker 1: You really feel that you want and need, then you

1295
01:03:34,760 --> 01:03:36,720
Speaker 1: should talk about it, you know what I mean? Because

1296
01:03:36,760 --> 01:03:41,600
Speaker 1: like that could drive you to be like super unhappy.

1297
01:03:41,080 --> 01:03:46,320
Speaker 3: In yeah, that's what it is, Like, Hey baby, I

1298
01:03:46,480 --> 01:03:46,840
Speaker 3: like that?

1299
01:03:47,720 --> 01:03:49,120
Speaker 1: Why he was so sure?

1300
01:03:49,320 --> 01:03:51,880
Speaker 3: No, I'm just saying, like, nod, because if you're in

1301
01:03:51,880 --> 01:03:56,440
Speaker 3: a relationship and it's good, then tell him. That's simple.

1302
01:03:56,560 --> 01:03:58,600
Speaker 3: That's an easy one to fix. That's an easy fix.

1303
01:03:59,320 --> 01:04:00,800
Speaker 3: You know this ain't at all.

1304
01:04:01,200 --> 01:04:03,040
Speaker 1: But how do you tell a man that, like, she.

1305
01:04:03,360 --> 01:04:05,120
Speaker 3: Maybe I love when you go down, that's one of

1306
01:04:05,120 --> 01:04:06,080
Speaker 3: my favorite things.

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01:04:07,280 --> 01:04:11,320
Speaker 1: What if he's like, I don't really like that? What

1308
01:04:11,440 --> 01:04:16,560
Speaker 1: you mean he's like, that's.

1309
01:04:15,120 --> 01:04:17,800
Speaker 3: In a relationships going.

1310
01:04:17,680 --> 01:04:19,720
Speaker 2: Down on me that doesn't like to do that. That's

1311
01:04:19,840 --> 01:04:20,640
Speaker 2: awkward for me.

1312
01:04:20,960 --> 01:04:23,280
Speaker 1: Then I'm in my head like I have to tell

1313
01:04:23,320 --> 01:04:25,240
Speaker 1: this man, which means he doesn't really like it. Which

1314
01:04:25,240 --> 01:04:27,160
Speaker 1: means now I don't even enjoy it because now I'm

1315
01:04:27,200 --> 01:04:29,600
Speaker 1: in my head thinking he's so distraught down.

1316
01:04:29,640 --> 01:04:32,760
Speaker 3: Now, what a relationship is? You got to understand any relationship,

1317
01:04:32,800 --> 01:04:41,080
Speaker 3: any successful relationship, whether it's business man with his wife,

1318
01:04:41,600 --> 01:04:44,320
Speaker 3: like you gotta do things like you don't want to

1319
01:04:44,360 --> 01:04:47,320
Speaker 3: do to make it work. Like if he like I

1320
01:04:47,400 --> 01:04:49,080
Speaker 3: need you to get up at five in the morning,

1321
01:04:49,880 --> 01:04:52,360
Speaker 3: get up at five in the morning if you want

1322
01:04:52,360 --> 01:04:53,920
Speaker 3: to be with that person, if you got to do

1323
01:04:54,360 --> 01:04:56,120
Speaker 3: like you gotta do stuff that you don't like to

1324
01:04:56,120 --> 01:04:57,200
Speaker 3: do to make shit work.

1325
01:04:57,400 --> 01:05:01,960
Speaker 1: But what period want anyone doing something think sexually that you.

1326
01:05:01,920 --> 01:05:05,680
Speaker 3: Don't like it, like it's anything though it's gonna be things.

1327
01:05:05,800 --> 01:05:07,280
Speaker 2: Like talking about sexually.

1328
01:05:07,920 --> 01:05:10,160
Speaker 3: That's what's matter. It don't matter what it is.

1329
01:05:10,840 --> 01:05:13,680
Speaker 1: I think that sexually, I don't want anyone going down

1330
01:05:13,720 --> 01:05:15,560
Speaker 1: on me that doesn't like to do that. I feel

1331
01:05:15,560 --> 01:05:18,040
Speaker 1: like that's gonna make me feel awkward. And you could

1332
01:05:18,080 --> 01:05:19,840
Speaker 1: tell in the performance that you don't like to do

1333
01:05:19,920 --> 01:05:20,560
Speaker 1: with the performances.

1334
01:05:20,720 --> 01:05:21,880
Speaker 3: Got to show that he like it.

1335
01:05:22,240 --> 01:05:24,360
Speaker 2: The performance is like you got to show that like it.

1336
01:05:24,840 --> 01:05:27,680
Speaker 1: You know what I mean, Because it's like, you know,

1337
01:05:29,040 --> 01:05:32,080
Speaker 1: you could tell when a woman is unenthusiastic about giving

1338
01:05:32,120 --> 01:05:33,000
Speaker 1: you head.

1339
01:05:33,840 --> 01:05:36,360
Speaker 2: It's like like or a.

1340
01:05:36,320 --> 01:05:38,840
Speaker 1: Woman who's into it, she's moaning, she's getting into it,

1341
01:05:38,920 --> 01:05:42,240
Speaker 1: she's couching the vibe, like it feels different and women

1342
01:05:42,240 --> 01:05:43,080
Speaker 1: feel the same way.

1343
01:05:43,360 --> 01:05:44,160
Speaker 3: Why did you commit?

1344
01:05:45,640 --> 01:05:50,000
Speaker 1: Maybe maybe it fell off though.

1345
01:05:50,000 --> 01:05:51,520
Speaker 3: You knew this before y'all got into it.

1346
01:05:51,640 --> 01:05:53,880
Speaker 2: So what if he stopped doing.

1347
01:05:53,680 --> 01:05:56,840
Speaker 3: It, then he's doing it with somebody else.

1348
01:05:57,760 --> 01:06:00,200
Speaker 2: Okay, so a man says, I pay for dates.

1349
01:06:00,080 --> 01:06:03,320
Speaker 1: I plan, he's doing it with something. It's crazy. Don't

1350
01:06:03,360 --> 01:06:06,200
Speaker 1: get these people that advice and tell her now she's

1351
01:06:06,240 --> 01:06:08,400
Speaker 1: gonna be thinking her man is doing it with someone else.

1352
01:06:09,680 --> 01:06:12,680
Speaker 1: Don't say that a man said, I pay for dates,

1353
01:06:13,000 --> 01:06:15,680
Speaker 1: I plan things. I show up emotionally, but sometimes I

1354
01:06:15,680 --> 01:06:17,919
Speaker 1: feel like my girlfriend just expects it and doesn't really

1355
01:06:17,960 --> 01:06:21,320
Speaker 1: acknowledge it. How do you bring up feeling unappreciated without

1356
01:06:21,360 --> 01:06:23,600
Speaker 1: sounding like you're just keeping score, like I do this,

1357
01:06:23,720 --> 01:06:25,440
Speaker 1: I do that.

1358
01:06:25,440 --> 01:06:28,600
Speaker 3: That's a tough one, because that one, like it's just

1359
01:06:28,680 --> 01:06:32,800
Speaker 3: like sometimes you get in a relationship and you try

1360
01:06:32,840 --> 01:06:34,600
Speaker 3: to explain it to them and then they look at

1361
01:06:34,600 --> 01:06:37,600
Speaker 3: you like you complaining, but you really just like damn,

1362
01:06:37,720 --> 01:06:41,080
Speaker 3: I just you know, like damn, like I ain't keeping score,

1363
01:06:41,160 --> 01:06:44,040
Speaker 3: but like, you know, what's up. It just seems like

1364
01:06:44,040 --> 01:06:47,160
Speaker 3: it's lopsided out here, Like for real, that'd be a

1365
01:06:47,160 --> 01:06:50,160
Speaker 3: lot of relationships, man, because a man girls, and that's

1366
01:06:50,200 --> 01:06:53,640
Speaker 3: a girl getting comfortable. That's what most relationships start to

1367
01:06:53,640 --> 01:06:55,440
Speaker 3: be the beginning of the end. When girls start to

1368
01:06:55,440 --> 01:06:58,200
Speaker 3: get hella comfortable, they stop doing the shit that they

1369
01:06:58,320 --> 01:07:01,320
Speaker 3: used to do, and shit starts getting lopsided and he's

1370
01:07:01,320 --> 01:07:04,600
Speaker 3: still doing the same shit. And then you know, it's

1371
01:07:04,680 --> 01:07:07,840
Speaker 3: just like damn, she just got comfortable and unappreciative before

1372
01:07:07,960 --> 01:07:10,400
Speaker 3: she was thank you, I appreciate you. Oh man, you

1373
01:07:10,520 --> 01:07:13,400
Speaker 3: just doing shit and then you got comfortable. That's how

1374
01:07:13,440 --> 01:07:16,720
Speaker 3: most relationships in I'm telling you, and man just want

1375
01:07:16,720 --> 01:07:19,320
Speaker 3: to feel as a man, we just want to feel appreciated,

1376
01:07:19,560 --> 01:07:22,680
Speaker 3: like damn, show me and but I appreciate that is

1377
01:07:23,000 --> 01:07:27,120
Speaker 3: reciprocate the energy, like don't just keep just taking taking taken, like,

1378
01:07:27,200 --> 01:07:30,000
Speaker 3: reciprocate it, Like damn, what what are you doing in

1379
01:07:30,080 --> 01:07:33,000
Speaker 3: this He's just constantly doing stuff and he's like damn.

1380
01:07:33,000 --> 01:07:36,360
Speaker 3: And that's when these other little motherfucking chicks creep in.

1381
01:07:36,440 --> 01:07:41,240
Speaker 3: It's like I do that for you, I'll do that

1382
01:07:41,280 --> 01:07:41,680
Speaker 3: for you.

1383
01:07:42,480 --> 01:07:44,880
Speaker 1: Why do they know that though? Why are you playing

1384
01:07:45,080 --> 01:07:47,120
Speaker 1: another woman about the relationship.

1385
01:07:47,200 --> 01:07:49,560
Speaker 3: That's the problem because he blowed and I tried to tell.

1386
01:07:49,360 --> 01:07:51,960
Speaker 1: Me, and that's what a girl starts complaining to a man.

1387
01:07:52,120 --> 01:07:53,960
Speaker 1: And he's like, oh, she don't go down to you.

1388
01:07:54,320 --> 01:07:57,160
Speaker 1: I'll do that for you. I'll do that for you. Yeah,

1389
01:07:57,280 --> 01:07:57,760
Speaker 1: same shit.

1390
01:07:58,160 --> 01:08:00,760
Speaker 2: Have a conversation and talk about what's lacking.

1391
01:08:00,880 --> 01:08:05,920
Speaker 3: But he had the conversation over her head, and it's complaining.

1392
01:08:06,200 --> 01:08:08,920
Speaker 3: This is what this is what that leads to. After

1393
01:08:09,000 --> 01:08:10,680
Speaker 3: that conversation, well, he said.

1394
01:08:10,520 --> 01:08:12,160
Speaker 2: He hasn't had the conversation yet.

1395
01:08:12,320 --> 01:08:15,600
Speaker 3: Have the conversation mom asking how to have it. So

1396
01:08:15,640 --> 01:08:18,200
Speaker 3: how do you have this conversation? You just tell her like, look, man,

1397
01:08:18,200 --> 01:08:20,519
Speaker 3: I'm just like, man, I feel I'm appreciated in this man.

1398
01:08:20,560 --> 01:08:22,920
Speaker 3: I just feel like I should be your keen. I

1399
01:08:22,920 --> 01:08:24,720
Speaker 3: should be you know, I should be. You should be

1400
01:08:24,720 --> 01:08:26,880
Speaker 3: making me feel like I'm that guy. And I ain't

1401
01:08:26,880 --> 01:08:29,000
Speaker 3: been feeling like that. When you say that, and see

1402
01:08:29,000 --> 01:08:31,680
Speaker 3: how she moved, If she just distanced, then you know

1403
01:08:31,720 --> 01:08:32,880
Speaker 3: it's something else going on.

1404
01:08:34,560 --> 01:08:36,479
Speaker 1: That's a good advice. Okay, one last one and then

1405
01:08:36,479 --> 01:08:38,679
Speaker 1: we're going to wrap up. My boyfriend has a child,

1406
01:08:38,760 --> 01:08:40,760
Speaker 1: and I respect that he has to communicate with his

1407
01:08:40,840 --> 01:08:43,960
Speaker 1: baby mom, but sometimes it feels like she's doing extras.

1408
01:08:44,200 --> 01:08:45,800
Speaker 2: She'll send pictures of herself.

1409
01:08:45,439 --> 01:08:47,320
Speaker 1: With the kid and not just the child alone, and

1410
01:08:47,360 --> 01:08:50,360
Speaker 1: it feels intentional. Am I being insecure?

1411
01:08:50,600 --> 01:08:52,240
Speaker 2: Or is it something I should address?

1412
01:08:52,479 --> 01:08:56,720
Speaker 3: I think you address that be like I don't need

1413
01:08:56,760 --> 01:08:59,680
Speaker 3: no pictures with y'all in it, Like you're gonna have

1414
01:08:59,720 --> 01:09:03,880
Speaker 3: to be in the picture. Like I appreciate that you

1415
01:09:03,920 --> 01:09:07,720
Speaker 3: said the pictures, but like he gotta he gotta take it, like, nah,

1416
01:09:07,800 --> 01:09:09,600
Speaker 3: I don't don't see me the ones. Just see me

1417
01:09:09,640 --> 01:09:11,800
Speaker 3: the ones of my daughter or my son, Like I

1418
01:09:11,840 --> 01:09:13,720
Speaker 3: don't need you to be in it because I'm just

1419
01:09:13,760 --> 01:09:17,439
Speaker 3: doing too much. You know what I'm saying. Address it.

1420
01:09:17,520 --> 01:09:20,080
Speaker 3: You gotta address it. We gotta just as relationships, we

1421
01:09:20,200 --> 01:09:23,960
Speaker 3: gotta address our feelings. We can't go behind closed doors.

1422
01:09:24,000 --> 01:09:28,480
Speaker 3: We can't talk to our friend, our guy, friend, our girlfriend,

1423
01:09:28,880 --> 01:09:32,320
Speaker 3: like like, no address the situation. That's the only way

1424
01:09:33,240 --> 01:09:36,000
Speaker 3: things is gonna pan out. When you address the situation

1425
01:09:36,200 --> 01:09:40,920
Speaker 3: once twice three times now and things don't change, then

1426
01:09:40,960 --> 01:09:43,880
Speaker 3: that's when it starts being issue. Things gotta change because

1427
01:09:43,880 --> 01:09:46,360
Speaker 3: this is how you feel like if we feel a

1428
01:09:46,400 --> 01:09:48,880
Speaker 3: certain way and the communication gotta get better. That's why

1429
01:09:48,920 --> 01:09:51,400
Speaker 3: we don't have these relationships like we used to where

1430
01:09:51,439 --> 01:09:54,240
Speaker 3: people will staying together twenty thirty years having it because

1431
01:09:54,240 --> 01:09:57,240
Speaker 3: the communication is off. People can't deal with shit. People

1432
01:09:57,320 --> 01:09:58,160
Speaker 3: quit too easy.

1433
01:09:58,760 --> 01:10:01,160
Speaker 1: What about last time and when we talked about this,

1434
01:10:01,280 --> 01:10:04,479
Speaker 1: you said that you should avoid conflict and not have

1435
01:10:04,520 --> 01:10:11,760
Speaker 1: communication because based on anything, My question was, if your

1436
01:10:11,840 --> 01:10:15,800
Speaker 1: woman feels like bothered by something, should she address it

1437
01:10:15,920 --> 01:10:16,960
Speaker 1: or should she just avoid it?

1438
01:10:16,960 --> 01:10:19,240
Speaker 3: Depends on what it is. Because you gotta also pick

1439
01:10:19,280 --> 01:10:22,600
Speaker 3: your battles. Yeah, like is it worth me even complaining

1440
01:10:22,640 --> 01:10:24,000
Speaker 3: over this little bullshit?

1441
01:10:24,200 --> 01:10:25,280
Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying. So is it?

1442
01:10:25,360 --> 01:10:27,840
Speaker 3: Like it depends on what the battle is. That's what

1443
01:10:27,880 --> 01:10:31,719
Speaker 3: we gotta understand as a relationship couples. I'm not gonna picky,

1444
01:10:31,800 --> 01:10:34,439
Speaker 3: be picky over every little thing. Now, let me see

1445
01:10:34,439 --> 01:10:37,280
Speaker 3: your messages with her, Let me see how you communicate back.

1446
01:10:37,320 --> 01:10:39,240
Speaker 3: Are you sending pictures back with you in it? And

1447
01:10:39,360 --> 01:10:41,680
Speaker 3: like like, you know what, if it's nothing and you

1448
01:10:41,760 --> 01:10:44,120
Speaker 3: looked at it and you see what the you know what,

1449
01:10:44,240 --> 01:10:47,240
Speaker 3: this ain't even worth it? Like, we gotta do better

1450
01:10:47,280 --> 01:10:50,000
Speaker 3: with picking our battles, like the battles don't add up

1451
01:10:50,040 --> 01:10:51,920
Speaker 3: because it's gonna be too many battles to it. It's

1452
01:10:51,920 --> 01:10:53,559
Speaker 3: gonna be like, I'm good, you know, it ain't even work.

1453
01:10:53,680 --> 01:10:55,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, I get it. I think I'm gonna say this

1454
01:10:55,320 --> 01:10:58,280
Speaker 1: to close it off. Our most viral clip clip till

1455
01:10:58,320 --> 01:11:00,280
Speaker 1: this day, and I was just thinking about it, is

1456
01:11:00,439 --> 01:11:04,200
Speaker 1: doctor Cheyamne Briant saying that dealing with a man with

1457
01:11:04,400 --> 01:11:09,280
Speaker 1: children is like being in a polyamory relationship. And it's

1458
01:11:09,479 --> 01:11:12,760
Speaker 1: crazy how big that clip is. That clip has like

1459
01:11:12,800 --> 01:11:16,200
Speaker 1: five hundred thousand likes and so many retweets, and it

1460
01:11:16,280 --> 01:11:18,360
Speaker 1: still gets cracking till this day. And it's crazy how

1461
01:11:18,400 --> 01:11:21,680
Speaker 1: so many people and women resonate with that, you know

1462
01:11:21,720 --> 01:11:23,559
Speaker 1: what I mean. And I didn't understand it, but I

1463
01:11:23,640 --> 01:11:26,280
Speaker 1: get what she's saying. You know, it's hard when you

1464
01:11:26,280 --> 01:11:28,839
Speaker 1: deal with someone to have like kids and stuff because

1465
01:11:29,200 --> 01:11:32,840
Speaker 1: you realize that that, like what she's trying to say

1466
01:11:32,920 --> 01:11:35,160
Speaker 1: is like you gotta deal with shit like you gotta

1467
01:11:35,200 --> 01:11:37,280
Speaker 1: deal with maybe obbas you gotta deal with different things.

1468
01:11:37,360 --> 01:11:38,000
Speaker 3: Depends on you.

1469
01:11:38,040 --> 01:11:42,080
Speaker 1: Gotta deal well you do because you have to deal

1470
01:11:42,160 --> 01:11:46,800
Speaker 1: with the whole a factor of like your man having

1471
01:11:46,880 --> 01:11:48,960
Speaker 1: a whole part of your life that you're not involved in,

1472
01:11:49,360 --> 01:11:52,040
Speaker 1: like you got like if you don't have kids, you

1473
01:11:52,080 --> 01:11:54,639
Speaker 1: don't have that, Like you also deal with the fact

1474
01:11:54,680 --> 01:11:58,120
Speaker 1: that you'll never have like your own family with that person,

1475
01:11:58,160 --> 01:11:59,960
Speaker 1: meaning like, this is not the first time this person

1476
01:12:00,040 --> 01:12:02,800
Speaker 1: I already live this life had kids. This is you,

1477
01:12:03,400 --> 01:12:06,120
Speaker 1: Like that's not as exciting to be like, oh, you're

1478
01:12:06,160 --> 01:12:09,720
Speaker 1: having a kid, Like it's a different dynamic. And I

1479
01:12:09,720 --> 01:12:12,360
Speaker 1: feel like so many women deal with that, and they

1480
01:12:12,400 --> 01:12:14,800
Speaker 1: feel like so many women related to this, and it's

1481
01:12:14,840 --> 01:12:16,760
Speaker 1: crazy because I just was looking at this yesterday and

1482
01:12:16,800 --> 01:12:19,559
Speaker 1: I was like, damn, people were feeling that, And I

1483
01:12:19,600 --> 01:12:22,840
Speaker 1: feel like it's so important in a relationship for that

1484
01:12:23,040 --> 01:12:26,000
Speaker 1: to be understood and like the dynamic to be addressed

1485
01:12:26,000 --> 01:12:28,479
Speaker 1: and everyone to be on the same page because if not,

1486
01:12:29,040 --> 01:12:31,880
Speaker 1: it's hard. So I feel like with this situation, you

1487
01:12:32,000 --> 01:12:34,120
Speaker 1: have to communicate it and you have to talk about

1488
01:12:34,120 --> 01:12:36,479
Speaker 1: how you're feeling, because if this is someone you really

1489
01:12:36,479 --> 01:12:39,000
Speaker 1: want to be with long term, then you gotta be

1490
01:12:39,080 --> 01:12:41,760
Speaker 1: able to address this and he has to make sure

1491
01:12:41,800 --> 01:12:45,040
Speaker 1: you also feel comfortable in the situation because if you don't,

1492
01:12:45,360 --> 01:12:47,120
Speaker 1: then you're never gonna be able to be with someone

1493
01:12:47,240 --> 01:12:49,719
Speaker 1: long term. That's a reality that you have to accept

1494
01:12:49,720 --> 01:12:52,840
Speaker 1: this person as children and you have to if you

1495
01:12:52,920 --> 01:12:54,960
Speaker 1: love him, you're gonna have to love his children and

1496
01:12:55,280 --> 01:12:57,800
Speaker 1: be a part of his life. And that's important. So

1497
01:12:57,880 --> 01:13:00,360
Speaker 1: address it, talk about it, get into it. And I

1498
01:13:00,400 --> 01:13:03,000
Speaker 1: think that that's the best move, and Paul says the

1499
01:13:03,040 --> 01:13:03,439
Speaker 1: same thing.

1500
01:13:03,800 --> 01:13:05,759
Speaker 2: So keep sending in fan questions.

1501
01:13:05,800 --> 01:13:09,080
Speaker 1: We really really really love the fact that you guys

1502
01:13:09,080 --> 01:13:11,680
Speaker 1: send these questions in. We want to do like a

1503
01:13:11,680 --> 01:13:14,240
Speaker 1: little hotline one of these days. We'll let you guys

1504
01:13:14,320 --> 01:13:17,479
Speaker 1: know about that, and we have a live show coming up,

1505
01:13:17,479 --> 01:13:19,760
Speaker 1: so if you're in the Los Angeles area, we will

1506
01:13:19,760 --> 01:13:21,320
Speaker 1: give you all the details soon.

1507
01:13:21,840 --> 01:13:23,240
Speaker 2: Thank you guys for all your support.

1508
01:13:23,320 --> 01:13:23,960
Speaker 1: We love you.

1509
01:13:24,080 --> 01:13:29,000
Speaker 3: We appreciate you. Like subscribe, follow us on all the

1510
01:13:29,040 --> 01:13:35,120
Speaker 3: major platforms YouTube. That's it.

1511
01:13:38,920 --> 01:13:41,879
Speaker 1: You don't know what platforms all the major platforms.

1512
01:13:42,840 --> 01:13:44,960
Speaker 3: To tell the people what the platforms.

1513
01:13:44,400 --> 01:13:49,400
Speaker 1: Are the platforms YouTube, Spotify, every Woman name every single

1514
01:13:49,400 --> 01:13:51,439
Speaker 1: platform YouTube.

1515
01:13:51,479 --> 01:13:53,519
Speaker 2: And make sure too that you guys know that we're

1516
01:13:53,560 --> 01:13:54,040
Speaker 2: on t B.

1517
01:13:54,600 --> 01:13:55,240
Speaker 1: So if you.

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01:13:55,400 --> 01:13:58,639
Speaker 3: Are, that's just I'm cheering you on right now.

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01:13:59,120 --> 01:14:00,240
Speaker 2: Watch us on to be.

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Speaker 3: Watching distracted you are, you're easily distracted. I'm making face

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01:14:06,200 --> 01:14:09,439
Speaker 3: you're like, thank.

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01:14:09,240 --> 01:14:09,920
Speaker 2: You guys so much.

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01:14:09,960 --> 01:14:13,840
Speaker 1: You can watch this on to be, Apple, Spotify, all

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01:14:13,880 --> 01:14:16,080
Speaker 1: the major platforms, YouTube, etc.

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01:14:20,000 --> 01:14:21,840
Speaker 3: She rub me low. I mean you know that's what

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01:14:21,880 --> 01:14:25,120
Speaker 3: she said. Let's see the boots.

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01:14:26,880 --> 01:14:30,559
Speaker 2: This is crazy. Good night, Thank you guys for joining.

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01:14:48,640 --> 01:14:57,440
Speaker 3: Listen is to take it over the game. All right, everybody,

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01:14:57,840 --> 01:14:59,160
Speaker 3: welcome to truth.

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01:14:59,160 --> 01:15:05,360
Speaker 1: After Do you think that men or women are more toxic?

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Speaker 4: Hm? Hm