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Speaker 1: I've ever been left waiting by the phone.

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Speaker 2: It's the Fred Show. Andy, good morning, Welcome to the show.

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Speaker 3: How are you, good morning? Thanks for having me. I'm

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Speaker 3: pretty good. I'm pretty good.

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Speaker 2: Okay, but pretty good? So why just pretty good?

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Speaker 1: I mean, I know the purpose of this is to

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Speaker 1: find out if you've been ghosted, and you feel like

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Speaker 1: maybe you have been. So what happened with this woman?

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Speaker 1: Claire tell us everything?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, So I met Claire on Hinge. I was

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Speaker 3: pretty excited when we matched. You know, I asked for

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Speaker 3: her number, did the whole usual situation when you're trying

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Speaker 3: to meet up on those things. We agreed to go

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Speaker 3: out for a drink. She was like, she seemed pretty

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Speaker 3: into it. We had We had a great time, Like,

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Speaker 3: the conversation was easy, good sense of humor. We definitely connected.

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Speaker 3: And you know, the bonus was we went back to

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Speaker 3: my place and then sattle makeout session. And I can't

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Speaker 3: think of a single thing that went wrong. And now

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Speaker 3: she's just not responding to me at all. Okay, I'm

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Speaker 3: a little confused.

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Speaker 1: All right, So you're excited about this. You were hoping

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Speaker 1: to hear from her again after the date. You're pretty

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Speaker 1: sure when you reached out, she'd say, yeah, sure, let's

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Speaker 1: go out another time. Except you did, and she hasn't

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Speaker 1: responded to you at all at all.

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Speaker 3: Like actually, honestly, I thought maybe she would reach out first,

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Speaker 3: Like I was definitely like, I waited a couple of days,

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Speaker 3: you know, did that whole thing and nothing.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean we've discussed this before, the waiting thing.

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Speaker 1: It depends on the person that you're waiting on or

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Speaker 1: thinking you should wait for. Sometimes people want to hear

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Speaker 1: from you sooner some people. Sometimes people don't. But whatever

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Speaker 1: the case may be, you didn't wait for her entirely.

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Speaker 1: You did reach out. She's just not responding.

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Speaker 3: Well yeah, you know. A couple of days later, I

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Speaker 3: was like, okay, well whatever, maybe she's busier. I don't know.

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Speaker 3: So sent her text message, didn't get her response, send

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Speaker 3: her follow up text message. I didn't want to be pushy,

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Speaker 3: and you know that's sort of where it ended.

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Speaker 2: All right, we're gonna call her now and find out.

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Speaker 2: Good luck, Andy, Thanks.

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Speaker 3: Helen.

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Speaker 2: Hi is it Claire?

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Speaker 1: This is she?

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Speaker 2: Hey Claire, good morning.

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Speaker 1: My name is Fredam calling from the Fred Show, the

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Speaker 1: radio program, and I do have to tell you that

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Speaker 1: we are on the radio right now, and I would

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Speaker 1: need your permission to continue with the call.

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Speaker 2: Can we you have for a second.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I guess I went something.

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Speaker 1: Well maybe you may have won something, and I'll explain.

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Speaker 1: But we're calling on behalf of a dude named Andy

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Speaker 1: who says he recently went on a date with you

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Speaker 1: that he thought went pretty well.

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Speaker 2: Do you remember, Andy, Yeah, the date did go well.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it was fun.

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Speaker 2: We made out.

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Speaker 4: And honestly, when when after we made out, we were

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Speaker 4: at his place and at his house, I just I

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Speaker 4: swear about it. I just saw the biggest reread flag

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Speaker 4: in the world. Okay, Okay. I went into the kitchen

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Speaker 4: to get a glass of water, and I know if

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Speaker 4: he had one of those like dryer rates board calendars,

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Speaker 4: and I love those things. So I went to like

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Speaker 4: touch it, you know, I love them.

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Speaker 1: And as I was wait, hold on, so I was

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Speaker 1: gonna be clear on this, like in his kitchen he

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Speaker 1: had like one of those office.

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Speaker 2: Max like I don't know, got his calendar on it.

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Speaker 1: You could like write on it like you know, practice

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Speaker 1: for the kids or whatever at three or you know,

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Speaker 1: I don't know whatever.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but like this one he kept us his own calendar,

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Speaker 4: and like you have to refill it at the beginning

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Speaker 4: of each month because you have to put in the

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Speaker 4: right dates and everything.

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Speaker 3: So it's.

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Speaker 2: Sure, okay, yeah, all right, so what what was all

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Speaker 2: with it?

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Speaker 4: Well, okay, so keep that in mind that like at

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Speaker 4: the beginning of each month you have to write it in.

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Speaker 4: And I was looking at it, and all of a sudden,

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Speaker 4: I see, like for one full week it says Amanda's period.

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Speaker 4: I don't even know if I'm allowed to say that.

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Speaker 2: Like your Amanda, but I don't know who that is.

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Speaker 4: But like if he's concerned about this woman's period each month,

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Speaker 4: and like I probably should not be involved.

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Speaker 3: Wow, that's the truly.

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Speaker 5: Wow.

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Speaker 1: A race board and the kitchen none. I've heard of trackers,

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Speaker 1: and I've heard of you know, I don't know code words.

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Speaker 4: I'm a woman, and I don't even I mean I

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Speaker 4: track it with an appy.

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Speaker 2: Yeah that's what I mean.

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Speaker 1: I don't mean, like, yeah, they don't put like an

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Speaker 1: EE tagging or whatever those things are called. Let me

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Speaker 1: bring Andy in because I'm really curious, Andy, who the

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Speaker 1: hell is Amanda and why are we tracking that? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: I don't actually I don't know what she's talking.

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Speaker 2: About you don't know what you're talking about.

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Speaker 3: I mean that was like if that was an Honestly,

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Speaker 3: I don't really pay much attention to that dry rate

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Speaker 3: for it.

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Speaker 2: So like I don't know each month.

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Speaker 1: But had this current month and you have to write

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Speaker 1: the days in, it sounds like so somebody would have

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Speaker 1: filled it out this month.

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Speaker 2: Do you know anyone named No?

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Speaker 3: I think, what's that?

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Speaker 2: Do you know anyone named Amanda?

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Speaker 3: No? No, well, I mean it's a lot you wouldn't know.

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Speaker 5: I mean I dated a girl named Amanda like a while,

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Speaker 5: so you do know, because that would be that would

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Speaker 5: be a yes, I do know someone and who is

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Speaker 5: you know, private health information you have access to and

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Speaker 5: you're tracking for your personal knowledge and you're saying this

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Speaker 5: that you haven't seen this Amanda in how long?

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Speaker 3: Oh, like a really long time, like really like a

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Speaker 3: week or two.

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Speaker 4: She's literally she's opulating right now, And I know that

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Speaker 4: because it was.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, no, no, you know that that that no.

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Speaker 3: I I I forget sometimes about like filling that in.

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Speaker 3: So that's got to be from like months ago, like

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Speaker 3: a long time.

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Speaker 4: Ago, filled in already it had our.

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Speaker 2: Explained that.

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Speaker 3: I think, you know, like she she went on like

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Speaker 3: when we were dating, and like build it in and

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Speaker 3: like it was something we'd kind of laugh about, you know,

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Speaker 3: you know, and you could play on ahead. You know.

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Speaker 1: Really, I know, yeah, this is this is definitely sus

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Speaker 1: I mean, this is not adding up. Like why you

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Speaker 1: say you don't pay attention to the calendar, but you

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Speaker 1: put their date on it. You say you don't know

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Speaker 1: this woman, but you do you know?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, man, that he doesn't know.

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Speaker 4: Even if she did, when was the last time she

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Speaker 4: was there that she felt comfortable enough to add her

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Speaker 4: period to yours?

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Speaker 1: I mean it would have been this month, calendar might

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Speaker 1: be there. Yeah, dude, yeah, I don't want you to

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Speaker 1: own this. Why don't you to say, like I don't

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Speaker 1: know you still dabble with her or something?

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Speaker 2: Then you're doing something.

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Speaker 3: I mean listen, like I don't know, fine, sure whatever,

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Speaker 3: We're like not exclusive, we're hanging out.

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Speaker 2: We've come a long way in the last three or

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Speaker 2: four minutes. Someone you don't even know non exclusively three.

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Speaker 1: Months and he knows when to and when not to,

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Speaker 1: so he schedules his dates, right, Okay, all right, I'm sorry,

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Speaker 1: but you come off like a big ass loser now

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Speaker 1: or not a loser as well?

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Speaker 2: Loser was that was Freudian slip.

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Speaker 1: You come off like a big ass liar, is what

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Speaker 1: I meant to say, because you just really changed the story.

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Speaker 1: So you could have just said that from the beginning

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Speaker 1: and she might have understood. But now I don't know

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Speaker 1: what I believe about you.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, I don't know. I guess I get that.

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Speaker 3: I'm not.

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Speaker 1: Sure.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I'm going to it now because I'm kind

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Speaker 3: of caught.

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Speaker 4: You think, you know, you could have just said but

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Speaker 4: he literally just admitted that he's only copping to it

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Speaker 4: because he was caught. So if he wasn't caught, then

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Speaker 4: he would just continue lying.

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Speaker 2: Right, this is not what I would even admit that

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Speaker 2: you're a bad liar.

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Speaker 4: Though he realized, like you might have gotten away with this,

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Speaker 4: not even good at what you try to do.

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Speaker 1: You might have gotten away with this because Andy, you

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Speaker 1: could have just been like, yeah, I broke up with

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Speaker 1: her while ago. Sometimes I don't know why she'd put

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Speaker 1: that whatever, but I'm single and i'm you know, maybe

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Speaker 1: this woman would have said, Okay, I'll give you another shot,

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Speaker 1: but no, not now. I guarantee Claire you don't want

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Speaker 1: to go out with him again.

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Speaker 4: Definitely, definitely not.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Well we'll look okay, thank you, thank you for

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Speaker 1: your time and for the explanation. And Andy, I don't know, man,

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Speaker 1: I might. I might take that old dry erase board

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Speaker 1: down one work things out with what's your face? So

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Speaker 1: one of the next weeks she'll be good. Yeah Jesus,

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Speaker 1: oh my god. Yeah, guys, I'm sorry it's not going

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Speaker 1: to work out. Best of luck to both of you.

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Speaker 3: Oh, I'm very much okay, but thank you.