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Speaker 1: Second date, up date. You ask anybody and you'll get

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Speaker 2: Oh?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because I mean you have the traditional seven o'clock

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Speaker 1: But then you also have the hikers and bikers who

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Speaker 1: are like, ooh, five in the morning, let's wake up

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Speaker 1: out before or bike five. Yeah, our listener, Res he

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Speaker 1: might fall somewhere in the middle of those based on

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Speaker 1: what he chose to do for his first date the

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Speaker 1: other day, So let's talk to him about it. Rez,

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Speaker 1: Welcome to the show.

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Speaker 4: Hey guys, thanks for having me. Hey you doing.

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Speaker 5: Oh we're pretty good. Yeah, good time of day to

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Speaker 5: do the show.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, what time of day do you like to go

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Speaker 4: Res, I'm a gentleman, so I like to go at

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Speaker 4: whatever time is convenient for my date.

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Speaker 3: I was like, okay, so you asked them when would

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Speaker 3: be best?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, exactly.

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Speaker 1: Like, so, tell us about this woman that you met recently.

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Speaker 1: What's her name and what time did she want to

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Speaker 4: So this woman's name is Katrina, and she said she

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Speaker 4: with that, and I was like, well, like Sunday is

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Speaker 4: brunch day.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I think is a great date.

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Speaker 4: Yeah exactly. So we did like a Sunday brunch buffet

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Speaker 4: that I really love that been to before, and so

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Speaker 4: we met at the place and we hit it off

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Speaker 4: like immediately, and I was like on my best behavior,

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Speaker 4: you know, I wanted to be a total gentleman, like

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Speaker 4: opened the door, pulled her chair out, like I really

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Speaker 1: You know a lot of people like to get rowdy

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Speaker 1: and go wild at brunch. So it's good that you

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Speaker 1: reeled it in and held yourself in check. Don't push

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Speaker 1: her into the door, open it for her, put her

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Speaker 1: into it, let her go first for the omelet section.

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Speaker 1: She gets to do her choice. That's really nice.

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Speaker 3: Of that's cute. I mean, were you able to connect?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, for sure. I know Brooke wants to know about

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Speaker 1: your connection and if there was like a vibe going

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Speaker 1: on we're doing. I'm more curious about what the selection

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Speaker 1: was like at that buffet.

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Speaker 3: You want to know if there's crab legs or not.

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Speaker 2: I do.

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Speaker 5: I'm glad you're asking if it was like a oyster

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Speaker 5: like a seafood buffet. I do love when they have

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Speaker 1: Because you said it's a breakfast buffet, So does that

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Speaker 1: mean it's all serve yourself or is there a menu

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Speaker 4: I mean this is my secret spot. I'm not telling anyone. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: I'm gatekeeping.

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Speaker 3: Okay, okay.

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Speaker 4: There was a carving station which was sick. I was

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Speaker 4: putting down the vacant. But she uses into like a

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Speaker 3: Usually it's usually just like one fruit salad.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like the worst part of the buffet. Well,

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Speaker 5: Usually kiwis unless it's the real fancy ones have the

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Speaker 4: Like I said before, like I won't tell you where

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Speaker 1: But the place is legit.

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Speaker 4: It has absolutely everything, all the fruits.

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Speaker 1: And fruit palace.

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Speaker 3: You don't ask questions.

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Speaker 4: So being the gentleman that I am, like every time

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Speaker 4: like is there anything that I can get you? Running

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Speaker 3: Did you describe your trips to the buffet? It sounds

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Speaker 1: Is good?

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Speaker 2: Right?

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Speaker 3: I imagine him just being the server to her honestly, well.

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Speaker 1: Get your money's worth. But did anything like awkward or

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Speaker 4: Well, like I decided to reveal to her this uh

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Speaker 4: like age old brunch haack that me and my friends

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Speaker 3: What is it?

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Speaker 4: You know how hotels do continental breakfast for the guests. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: so like if you just walk into this hotel and

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Speaker 4: you just walk up to the buffet, sit down, get

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Speaker 4: like you belong there? Do you can just eat it

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Speaker 5: That's very risky though, because you make your show the

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Speaker 5: little cupons usually like the little people.

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Speaker 3: You wouldn't take her to a hotel, did you?

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Speaker 4: No, I just told her that hack.

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Speaker 1: That hack that's actually just an illegal activity. Okay, I

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Speaker 5: Anyway, And how old has that waffled be sitting there something?

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Speaker 1: How did Katrina react to hearing your hack?

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Speaker 4: I mean, like immediately she just had this look on

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Speaker 1: It was not good.

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Speaker 2: He's a better person than Yeah.

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Speaker 5: You would think she'd laugh and talk about like how

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Speaker 1: Know, unless you did it last week, and she probably

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Speaker 1: assumed that you weren't going to pay for brunch this.

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Speaker 3: She's like, wait, have you paid for this meal tonight yet?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Oh yeah.

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Speaker 4: I had to backpedal and be like I only did

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Speaker 4: this when I was seventeen, Like I'm gonna tip like

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Speaker 4: thirty percent now.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, So did the whole energy shift after that combo?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, we wrapped up hugs, so really weird. And then

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Speaker 4: we haven't spoken in like.

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Speaker 1: A whole week.

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Speaker 3: YI. Have you tried?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: I reached out. I texted her the next day because

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Speaker 4: I was kind of like hoping she would text me

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Speaker 4: later that day, being like I had such a good

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Speaker 1: So I think you did this to yourself. You taught

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Speaker 3: And she doesn't need you anymore. She's busy. Yeah, you

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Speaker 3: have a person, or teach him to fish.

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Speaker 1: I see, Well, we'll find out when we call her

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Speaker 1: and see if she actually stole your brunchhack and is

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Speaker 1: using it for evil. When we do your second date

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Speaker 1: update right after this, than you and then hold on

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Speaker 1: second date update if you're just joining us for the

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Speaker 1: second date update. We've been talking to res about his

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Speaker 1: brunch date at a super secret brunch location that he

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Speaker 5: It's very strange how protective he is at this place.

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Speaker 3: He is.

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Speaker 1: But that's where he took a woman named Katrina recently,

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Speaker 1: and it was going extremely well until.

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Speaker 7: He made the mistake of speaking specifically speaking about his

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Speaker 7: brunch hack where you can get free continental breakfast from

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Speaker 7: hotels if you just walk in and act like you're

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Speaker 7: staying there.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I mean that's that's stealing it.

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Speaker 5: But yeah, but sealing things doesn't cost anything, so that can.

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Speaker 1: Be considered a hack. Yeah, if you look at it

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Speaker 1: in a different way, it was an idea. It did

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Speaker 1: change the vibe for the rest of their date, though,

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Speaker 1: because Katrina did not have the best reaction. He's hoping

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Speaker 1: we can get things back on track. And in an

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Speaker 1: unrelated note, the CEO of Best Western called in and

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Speaker 1: wants to speak to you after the segment is over. Okay,

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Speaker 1: rez I gave them your phone number so you can

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Speaker 1: chat later.

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Speaker 4: I mean, I had been to nothing though.

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Speaker 3: You already admitted to it.

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Speaker 2: My head.

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Speaker 1: We have recorded evidence.

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Speaker 5: So I'm gonna tell you you should ask for a

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Speaker 5: lawyer if you ever get called in.

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Speaker 4: Don't do your own talking, you know, I honestly I

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Speaker 4: regret talking about it to you guys, and I regret

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Speaker 4: talking about it on my date.

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Speaker 1: This is ruining my life.

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Speaker 3: Yes, wow, well that seems dramatic.

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Speaker 1: The good news is we don't know if that was

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Speaker 1: the cause. Sure, she could have some other reason to

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Speaker 1: right now. We'll figure out what she has to say.

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Speaker 1: All right, great, hopefully she picks up. And this is

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Speaker 4: Hello.

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Speaker 1: Hey is this Katrina? Yes, hey, Katrina. You're on a

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Speaker 1: radio show right now. It's called Brook and Jeffrey in

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Speaker 1: the Morning. Bye, Hi, welcome to the show. I like

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Speaker 1: Jeff branched out there for a Yeah, I know it

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Speaker 2: Sorry, I'm on a radio show.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning, and

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Speaker 1: this is a segment that we do. You might be

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Speaker 1: familiar with it. It's called a second date update.

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Speaker 2: I don't know. Is this like a prank?

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Speaker 1: No, No, we do those too, Yeah, but this one

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Speaker 1: is one where we're trying to help one of our

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Speaker 1: on a date with him, a guy named Res.

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Speaker 4: Oh.

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Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, look, I'm sorry. There's just no way that

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Speaker 2: I can go out with him again. But thank you

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Speaker 1: No no, wait, wait, well that's okay for you to

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Speaker 1: say that, but could you maybe give us a little

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Speaker 1: bit more information on why? Because Res is really confused.

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Speaker 1: He told us about your brunch date, but he's clueless

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Speaker 1: for the reason. You might be blowing him off.

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Speaker 3: And you sound real strong in that conviction there that

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I mean I should say he was a really nice guy.

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Speaker 2: He was very polite. He was like offering to get

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Speaker 2: me food. We went to this brunch buffet.

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Speaker 3: Why wouldn't Why would you want to do that?

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Speaker 1: You don't like nice guys?

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Speaker 2: No, I like nice guys. He's just missing something missing.

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Speaker 1: Did something happen at the buffet that turns you off?

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Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, it was Honestly, it was so weird,

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Speaker 2: like I've never I've never experienced anything like this before.

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Speaker 2: It was it was so strange. Like I said, he

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Speaker 2: food right from the buffet, which was like very gentlemanly

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Speaker 2: some cantlope. And then I'd see him walking around and

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Speaker 2: they don't have it. But I could see it from

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Speaker 3: He's like, some men don't know they're melons.

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Speaker 3: So did you just get up and go get it? Finally?

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Speaker 2: Well, no, because I realized I don't think this guy

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Speaker 2: If you're a thirty year old man and you've never

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Speaker 5: Can't read candalop to suddenly the poor man can't read?

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Speaker 2: Those are basic things though, Like, if it's one basic

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Speaker 1: Well, let's ask him what other basic things he doesn't

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Speaker 2: What are you talking about? He is not, he.

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Speaker 3: He could wait and write enough to email us. So

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Speaker 1: Well did you get chatchypt to do a lot of

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Speaker 1: I'm here?

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Speaker 1: Are you? Are you hearing what Katrina is saying about

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Speaker 2: But yeah, I'm sorry. I didn't know you were on

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Speaker 4: Well I know, I know now I googled it.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, we love a man who learns. Yeah, there,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Katrina, this must feel like growth, right, You've encouraged this.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I'm glad he learned. I'm glad that I

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Speaker 2: it doesn't change how I feel the less fortunate.

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Speaker 1: That is so rude, the fruit illiterate out there. It's

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Speaker 4: I feel like I'm Oliver Twist over here, like I'm

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Speaker 2: I don't know what a candle?

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Speaker 3: Do you hear that literary reference again? Prove the man reads.

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Speaker 3: This is so weird, like this is not a class thing.

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Speaker 4: Again, Katrina. I mean, hear me out in the moment,

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Speaker 4: Everyone on the show knows. I know, you know, we're

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Speaker 3: Look at that that's hard nowadays.

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Speaker 4: I was just never round cantelope. But like that doesn't

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Speaker 6: I mean, I appreciate you saying that, and I don't

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Speaker 2: Taking the time to do the research. I wish you

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Speaker 1: Well, desperate times call for desperate measures sometimes. But but Katrina,

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Speaker 1: I mean, in a lot of relationships, a big part

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Speaker 8: The resme know a lot of stuff that you don't

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Speaker 8: nobody means to that saying you learn new interests and

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Speaker 3: That you date.

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Speaker 1: Are you willing to keep an open mind and give

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Speaker 2: I just think it's weird, Like it's his brunch place.

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Speaker 3: We can't. We can't get over this.

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Speaker 8: If one word in the future, I know, it's like

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Speaker 1: Everybody is different, Brooke. It's not your life that we're

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Speaker 1: I'm assuming that it's a no from you. That's kind

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Speaker 1: What if you can name ten fruits right now?

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Speaker 4: Hey Apple, I was kidding.

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Speaker 3: There's no way he's picking guava out of a table.

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Speaker 1: He just googled fruits right now and he's just looking

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Speaker 3: It's alphabetical, apple, banana, cherry.

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Speaker 1: Nice dry right brook it Jeffrey in the morning. This

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Speaker 1: Well, I agree. It's a small problem that she should

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Speaker 3: Know this making problems.

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Speaker 5: The real problem is how much fruit she's eating at

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Speaker 5: No camelope, I guess it's a very very short line.

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Speaker 1: Well, plus you have to wait in the embarrassment too

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Speaker 1: hopefully we can help you come back. If you're struggling

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Speaker 1: to get a second date, email the show. We'll call

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Speaker 1: that person who's not calling you back and go check

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