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Speaker 1: Wake that ass up in the morning.

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Speaker 2: The Breakfast Club Morning, everybody is d J n V

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Speaker 2: Jess Hilarious, Charlamage the guy.

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Speaker 1: We all to Breakfast Club. We got some special guests.

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Speaker 3: In the building.

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Speaker 2: Indeed, we have Mandy be and Wheezy from Horrible Decisions,

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Speaker 2: but they chased a name.

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Speaker 4: Thank you. It is a decision podcasts that No, yes,

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Speaker 4: it is.

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Speaker 5: Not any It is absolutely possibles. You grow up, you

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Speaker 5: can move to a different city where no one knows you,

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Speaker 5: and then.

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Speaker 4: You can change your work. The grocery stoer said, heycome morning, ladies,

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Speaker 4: Good morning.

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Speaker 3: Why did feel why did y'all change the name.

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Speaker 4: For the coins Charlotte?

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Speaker 5: Not only that when we started Horrible Decisions, we were

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Speaker 5: twenty six years old.

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Speaker 4: Uh, I was still in college. I was in my

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Speaker 4: last year of college. Weezy, we were both in corporate and.

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Speaker 5: We was kind of living life doing doing all the things,

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Speaker 5: and we just kind of we wasn't our whole face.

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Speaker 5: I think everyone has a whole phase. And now we're

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Speaker 5: out of it.

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Speaker 4: Okay, and we just you know, are growing with our

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Speaker 4: audience and growing with the with the dollar. To be

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Speaker 4: fair doing this book though, you know, I was telling

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Speaker 4: people like I want to do Drew Barrymore, I want

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Speaker 4: to do this and that, and I just can't see them.

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Speaker 6: Saying horror, especially not Drew Barrymore.

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Speaker 4: And now she might be like, why did you guys?

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Speaker 4: It's okay to be a whore, but now, I mean

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Speaker 4: with growth, and we also wanted to be respected as

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Speaker 4: an author. I feel like for the people that don't

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Speaker 4: know us, everybody that like is in the podcast world

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Speaker 4: understands our evolution, and I think that's when we started

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Speaker 4: to gain our respect to know that, sure we talk

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Speaker 4: about sex, but it lasted so long. We've been able

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Speaker 4: to catapult into all these different ventures. But a new person,

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Speaker 4: I feel like they're gonna.

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Speaker 6: Be like how you feel about your fan, Like how

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Speaker 6: you think the fans took it? Like that y'all took

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Speaker 6: the horror ball.

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Speaker 4: I think the fans love it. I think the core

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Speaker 4: fans are happy. I think the casual fans just found

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Speaker 4: a way to get angry at you. Like people get

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Speaker 4: very excited if they think something bad is going on,

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Speaker 4: you know what I mean? Like literally the second they

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Speaker 4: saw that Horrible would be going behind a paywalls, like,

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Speaker 4: oh they fighting Charlotte one want day. I heard done

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Speaker 4: with them, like, you know, it's they can't wait to

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Speaker 4: feel that. And Mandy and I being that we've been

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Speaker 4: colleagues for so long, we've had on air mess and

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Speaker 4: things like that, I feel like that was the sexiest

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Speaker 4: part of the story when really, now we're so much older,

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Speaker 4: it's like.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Mandy's celibate, right, Oh.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I started the year off just a couple of months.

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Speaker 1: Was like, I'm celipate.

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Speaker 3: I'm starting over a couple of months ago.

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Speaker 4: That was It was a couple of weeks ago. That

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Speaker 4: was a magic city moment.

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Speaker 4: I love how you said club. You can let them

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Speaker 4: know we were city. It was a magic city, you know.

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Speaker 1: That's the first thing she told me. It wasn't like

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Speaker 3: What up, I'm celipate now. I was like, what made

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Speaker 4: I saw somebody cute.

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Speaker 3: It wasn't even relationship. You already win Jesus it is.

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Speaker 4: I mean, it was intimate, it was sensual. We kissed

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Speaker 4: and guddle.

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Speaker 3: Have you seen him?

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Speaker 4: Since he doesn't live in my states, so he's flying

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Speaker 4: to see me?

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Speaker 3: Yes? Wow?

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Speaker 4: No? No, no? No work to go to the second stand.

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Speaker 1: The second stand, what's the first thing.

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Speaker 4: The first stand was great. It was when I saw him.

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Speaker 1: Didn't date just okay, now I'm just.

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Speaker 5: Elevant anymore, okay, And this is what the book is

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Speaker 5: about about liberation, growth.

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Speaker 4: As women getting what you want.

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Speaker 1: Did you meet him Mages City?

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Speaker 4: No. I met him on an island, so you know

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Speaker 4: what which was?

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Speaker 1: It was on vacation and you lit one of the

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Speaker 5: Yes, okay, don't do that, but now I do see

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Speaker 4: You see I see that. Don't tell you they booked

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Speaker 4: us to go to headonism if no one's ever heard

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Speaker 4: of it. There, I didn't. I wasn't dating at anybody

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Speaker 4: I know. So there was a ballplayer that I knew,

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Speaker 4: he's not crazy basketball player at all, but he was

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Speaker 4: six five, dark, skinning fit. When I tell you every

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Speaker 7: his most when I used to work for Williams at w.

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Speaker 7: They used to do radio station trips to Hedonism. So

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Speaker 7: hedonism is the newdest resort parts of it. And they

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Speaker 7: have like hammicks hanging from the trees. You can have

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Speaker 3: You can have sex all over the whole facility if

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Speaker 3: you want to. It's a lot of mirrors on the ceiling.

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Speaker 1: No disrespect, but it's a lot of like overweight white women.

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Speaker 5: No no, we we went in a black Yeah, there's

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Speaker 5: different weekends that you could go, like I'm hosting Heato

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Speaker 4: Like we got lucky. But then there was a few

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Speaker 5: Like we come every week, and I was like, oh yeah,

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Speaker 5: the white couples definitely go to get Jamaican Jamaican pea.

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Speaker 4: The funniest part of this I always tell this story

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Speaker 4: because so first of all, he's already having sex in

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Speaker 4: I'm already irritated with him because all he doing is

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Speaker 1: So when is it because I left it?

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Speaker 4: What are you gonna trafficking? I know, trafficking that is

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Speaker 4: I booked for it. Like you know, like we were

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Speaker 4: But I'm gone out there with friends. When are you

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Speaker 3: You can't and they paying you, like these couples be paying.

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Speaker 7: Like you might be out there and you might highlight

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Speaker 7: and be y'all get fifey hundred dolls if you let

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Speaker 7: if you let my husband watch us have said.

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Speaker 4: We didn't get offered for those type of things.

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Speaker 3: Charlotte were there, Oh yeah, so maybe it's the men.

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Speaker 4: The men should go out there and make the money.

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Speaker 1: Then, so let you careful to you and wanted to

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Speaker 7: This context, This was like two thousand and six, two

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Speaker 7: she's like, hold on, let me go get my husband

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Speaker 7: and she was like yes, and we can do it,

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Speaker 3: Oh wow, to knock it off. No, I didn't knocke

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Speaker 4: Now that's the thing that really kind of makes that

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Speaker 4: But this is normal for me. So when I'm in

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Speaker 4: think mine, what besides this blazer, what's the biggest rebrand

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Speaker 4: thing of me? I will say this, I think now

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Speaker 4: I wasn't talking about exactly what I wanted, my feelings,

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Speaker 4: Like situationships, I was falling into them all the time.

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Speaker 4: I actually don't think that could happen before thirty. I'll

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Speaker 4: it just clicks. You're like, oh no, this is no thirty.

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Speaker 5: You you look better, you feel better, you make more money,

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Speaker 5: You didn't dealt with enough men in your teens and

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Speaker 3: But this is what I want.

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Speaker 1: You want to give this relationship?

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Speaker 3: Yah? Want marriage?

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Speaker 6: Anybody want marriage?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? I don't.

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Speaker 1: You want to not give this relationship?

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Speaker 4: Not monogamous? But I mean, of course I want marriage.

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Speaker 4: I like, what, We're not gonna have sex with the nanny?

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Speaker 4: What's the point? No? I mean, yeah, go ahead.

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Speaker 1: I mean I don't know why?

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Speaker 4: Why?

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Speaker 3: Why?

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Speaker 4: Why not not monogamy? Both? Yah?

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Why?

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Speaker 4: You just doesn't fit in my lifestyle. Like I I've

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Speaker 4: been known for having a boyfriend and a girlfriend since

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Speaker 4: I've been twenty years old. Like it's it's.

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Speaker 3: Doesn't matter what you're known for or what you want,

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Speaker 3: it's a difference.

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Speaker 4: We had a conversation about this last night. I did

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Speaker 4: a podcast where I mentioned that I believe Mandy and

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Speaker 4: I have done this so well because we really lived

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Speaker 4: Now? A little straight?

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Speaker 6: Like it's like I get it, no, you know.

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Speaker 6: But I'm okay what we still have the crash. I'm

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Speaker 3: The hotel.

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Speaker 4: That is not what it is. The way this is,

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Speaker 4: To be Do you know who nineteen keys is? Whole time?

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Speaker 7: An Egyptian word that means to be at peace, at peace,

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Speaker 4: How it evolves over time. Even the history of romance,

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Speaker 3: We do.

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Speaker 4: We do under Charlamagne's imprint No Holes Barred. It's a duo,

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Speaker 5: It's a dual manifesto of sexual exploration and power. And

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Speaker 5: Diving in therapy, like going all the way back to

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Speaker 4: abortion and sexual assault comes up. But there's also a

443
00:19:55,400 --> 00:19:59,480
Speaker 4: story of a dude bdsm bdsm like ying me up,

444
00:19:59,560 --> 00:20:03,720
Speaker 4: spanking me, choking me, like Mandy getting electrocuted. That's my favorite.

445
00:20:03,840 --> 00:20:04,200
Speaker 3: I love it.

446
00:20:07,720 --> 00:20:10,520
Speaker 5: I went to a dungeon with my ex and we

447
00:20:10,680 --> 00:20:12,520
Speaker 5: agreed to both do two things that we had never

448
00:20:12,600 --> 00:20:16,119
Speaker 5: done before. So he agreed to put allow me to

449
00:20:16,119 --> 00:20:18,760
Speaker 5: put him in a chastity voute, which took some time

450
00:20:18,800 --> 00:20:21,280
Speaker 5: because he kept growing and he couldn't grow in order

451
00:20:21,359 --> 00:20:24,000
Speaker 5: to lock him in. And then I allowed him to

452
00:20:24,880 --> 00:20:34,440
Speaker 5: uh do electro shock inside of me with a tool happens, yeah,

453
00:20:34,520 --> 00:20:37,399
Speaker 5: and so like it like spawned all of these electro

454
00:20:37,560 --> 00:20:40,320
Speaker 5: currents inside of me, and it was the best feeling.

455
00:20:40,440 --> 00:20:42,600
Speaker 5: It felt like almost like an alien. I was like,

456
00:20:42,640 --> 00:20:44,400
Speaker 5: I'm never gonna feel this again. It felt like eight

457
00:20:44,520 --> 00:20:46,880
Speaker 5: tongues inside of me giving me oral at once.

458
00:20:47,000 --> 00:20:48,920
Speaker 4: It was it was the best feeling. I was like,

459
00:20:49,119 --> 00:20:51,160
Speaker 4: I just sayin't a normal feeling you gotta get?

460
00:20:51,359 --> 00:20:54,640
Speaker 6: It was great though one person, one person can't.

461
00:20:54,720 --> 00:20:57,200
Speaker 4: Just to be honest, I don't ride. I don't ride.

462
00:20:57,320 --> 00:20:59,080
Speaker 5: So I would love for my partner to be able

463
00:20:59,119 --> 00:21:01,560
Speaker 5: to experience everything he wants to experience that I'm not down.

464
00:21:02,400 --> 00:21:04,399
Speaker 4: I don't get on top. Let me go get you

465
00:21:04,520 --> 00:21:05,440
Speaker 4: somebody acrobatic.

466
00:21:06,280 --> 00:21:07,080
Speaker 3: You mean you can be.

467
00:21:10,280 --> 00:21:14,400
Speaker 4: On time, but I ain't getting on top. Nope. Oh yeah.

468
00:21:14,440 --> 00:21:16,360
Speaker 5: I just came back from Carnival and the way them

469
00:21:16,400 --> 00:21:18,159
Speaker 5: girls were winding their hips and doing.

470
00:21:18,080 --> 00:21:21,280
Speaker 4: All the splits. I said, my man deserves to experience

471
00:21:21,320 --> 00:21:23,160
Speaker 4: a woman that flexible. It ain't me though.

472
00:21:23,280 --> 00:21:26,679
Speaker 3: Isn't that a position of powerful woman? When again, when.

473
00:21:27,720 --> 00:21:32,800
Speaker 4: It's strong, that's great that you receive it that way. No, no, no,

474
00:21:33,600 --> 00:21:37,600
Speaker 4: I'm half white. No I know. So it goes, it goes,

475
00:21:38,040 --> 00:21:39,000
Speaker 4: it goes both, it goes.

476
00:21:39,440 --> 00:21:41,520
Speaker 6: You know, I do a little bit of okay, all right, Well,

477
00:21:41,800 --> 00:21:45,440
Speaker 6: what what makes you have an orgasm?

478
00:21:46,000 --> 00:21:48,120
Speaker 5: Oh, penetration, which is why I can't be fully gay

479
00:21:48,640 --> 00:21:51,119
Speaker 5: like and I want. I want a member with a

480
00:21:51,320 --> 00:21:52,880
Speaker 5: with a pose that is literally gay.

481
00:21:53,440 --> 00:21:57,120
Speaker 4: No no, no, no, no, I want I want right here,

482
00:21:58,560 --> 00:22:01,280
Speaker 4: not like that I want, but I like a man body.

483
00:22:01,359 --> 00:22:03,680
Speaker 1: There's just so many things a girl couldn't knock you

484
00:22:03,760 --> 00:22:04,919
Speaker 1: up with a strap on, all right, you know.

485
00:22:04,960 --> 00:22:06,800
Speaker 4: It needs to have a pulse. I like the finishing.

486
00:22:07,119 --> 00:22:12,760
Speaker 3: What comes girls, it's just finish, And I like.

487
00:22:12,800 --> 00:22:15,960
Speaker 4: The I like. I like like when I had a girlfriend,

488
00:22:16,000 --> 00:22:18,040
Speaker 4: we maybe want in the blue, used them for fun,

489
00:22:18,080 --> 00:22:21,119
Speaker 4: and after a while we're like, it's just something about it.

490
00:22:21,280 --> 00:22:24,440
Speaker 4: Maybe because her and I both slept with men before.

491
00:22:24,480 --> 00:22:26,639
Speaker 4: It's just like, no, that's not what weird. Oh you know,

492
00:22:26,680 --> 00:22:29,520
Speaker 4: And I like the finish. I've always felt that toys.

493
00:22:30,160 --> 00:22:32,119
Speaker 4: So something I talk about in the book even is

494
00:22:32,240 --> 00:22:36,240
Speaker 4: like I realized after having a girlfriend that gay sex,

495
00:22:36,400 --> 00:22:39,200
Speaker 4: as far as lesbian sex is that we see, it's

496
00:22:39,320 --> 00:22:41,879
Speaker 4: really for the may Old gates. It's not that sexy,

497
00:22:41,960 --> 00:22:44,639
Speaker 4: it's not that pretty. Sometimes you be rubbing, you be

498
00:22:44,720 --> 00:22:47,879
Speaker 4: on the neck, arm, it's like you start rubbing stuff everywhere.

499
00:22:47,960 --> 00:22:50,080
Speaker 4: It's not exactly what we think.

500
00:22:50,160 --> 00:22:51,000
Speaker 3: It is nothing crazy.

501
00:22:51,040 --> 00:22:53,000
Speaker 7: And then watching two lesbians with a scrap on and

502
00:22:53,040 --> 00:22:54,720
Speaker 7: one of them sucking the scrap on, and the person

503
00:22:54,760 --> 00:22:56,320
Speaker 7: that got the scrap on is money.

504
00:22:57,960 --> 00:23:05,440
Speaker 4: Because sex is a psychological okay, so no one moans

505
00:23:05,440 --> 00:23:09,440
Speaker 4: when they suck you. But but I'm feeling anything by

506
00:23:09,720 --> 00:23:11,120
Speaker 4: giving it to you, and I'm I made.

507
00:23:12,280 --> 00:23:17,960
Speaker 3: I got to scrap on what they tell you. Nothing.

508
00:23:17,960 --> 00:23:20,360
Speaker 3: You may tell you right now, but I'm just saying

509
00:23:20,359 --> 00:23:21,240
Speaker 3: it just seems.

510
00:23:21,680 --> 00:23:25,040
Speaker 6: Because right after you finished second, I could take it

511
00:23:25,080 --> 00:23:25,919
Speaker 6: off and throw it in the car.

512
00:23:26,720 --> 00:23:28,159
Speaker 1: So I think that's what he's saying, Like.

513
00:23:28,359 --> 00:23:31,520
Speaker 4: How okay, it's like you giving phone sex and you moan,

514
00:23:31,600 --> 00:23:34,880
Speaker 4: and like she said, it's you. There's something about the action.

515
00:23:35,240 --> 00:23:40,399
Speaker 4: And also keeping in mind because it's sexy watching you

516
00:23:40,800 --> 00:23:43,480
Speaker 4: do this is all BD s M right, So you're

517
00:23:43,760 --> 00:23:47,359
Speaker 4: being in the dominant position. That's how people wearing it

518
00:23:47,440 --> 00:23:50,560
Speaker 4: get off. It's like they know that you're on your knees,

519
00:23:51,080 --> 00:23:54,200
Speaker 4: you're being submissive, humiliate, whatever the word is. So that's

520
00:23:54,200 --> 00:23:54,919
Speaker 4: where they're getting to.

521
00:23:54,880 --> 00:23:55,400
Speaker 3: Turn off from.

522
00:23:55,880 --> 00:23:57,600
Speaker 2: It was your crazy sexual experience. If that was was

523
00:23:57,640 --> 00:23:58,960
Speaker 2: getting electrocuted, what's yours?

524
00:23:59,320 --> 00:24:05,320
Speaker 4: Hers nasty? No, it actually can't go on radio, but

525
00:24:05,440 --> 00:24:07,760
Speaker 4: I'll just say we'll put it behind the Patreon ahead.

526
00:24:17,119 --> 00:24:22,680
Speaker 4: She got something about blood. Yes, okay, here's what happened.

527
00:24:23,000 --> 00:24:23,200
Speaker 3: Boy.

528
00:24:24,119 --> 00:24:28,639
Speaker 4: My man was just like, uh, I think I was

529
00:24:28,640 --> 00:24:30,400
Speaker 4: having a bad day and I was like, oh my god,

530
00:24:30,760 --> 00:24:32,440
Speaker 4: you don't love me. I feel bad, you know, but

531
00:24:32,600 --> 00:24:35,760
Speaker 4: just be complaining. I've dated them, so I know. And uh.

532
00:24:35,880 --> 00:24:37,159
Speaker 4: He was like, why are you feeling like that? What

533
00:24:37,240 --> 00:24:38,480
Speaker 4: do you feel like just because you in your period?

534
00:24:38,480 --> 00:24:39,720
Speaker 4: I don't love you, I'm not attracted to you. And

535
00:24:39,720 --> 00:24:41,560
Speaker 4: I was like, I just feel that way. And we

536
00:24:41,640 --> 00:24:43,639
Speaker 4: were in the car and he put the car in

537
00:24:43,720 --> 00:24:47,879
Speaker 4: park and he said, put your fingers inside of yourself.

538
00:24:47,880 --> 00:24:51,159
Speaker 4: I'm like no, and then he did it. He ate

539
00:24:51,240 --> 00:24:52,520
Speaker 4: it and he said, you think I love you now?

540
00:24:52,680 --> 00:24:55,000
Speaker 4: And it was like it was like Saltbury.

541
00:24:57,840 --> 00:25:04,440
Speaker 3: Broke up with what you mean my man? Know that?

542
00:25:08,840 --> 00:25:11,399
Speaker 4: But god, I would say.

543
00:25:11,520 --> 00:25:18,280
Speaker 3: He from Brooklyn, right, fampire from the Bronx.

544
00:25:18,359 --> 00:25:20,360
Speaker 4: Then God, but you know what it is that's really

545
00:25:20,440 --> 00:25:22,560
Speaker 4: dope about it. Yes, you're listening to this right now,

546
00:25:22,680 --> 00:25:25,920
Speaker 4: watching this, you're like, this is disgusting. But I think

547
00:25:26,000 --> 00:25:28,280
Speaker 4: it's just that when you have no boundaries with someone,

548
00:25:28,359 --> 00:25:28,879
Speaker 4: it's sexy.

549
00:25:29,000 --> 00:25:31,520
Speaker 3: You got to get married. Oh of course you told

550
00:25:31,560 --> 00:25:37,480
Speaker 3: everybody in the radio we gotta get married now. Blood

551
00:25:41,280 --> 00:25:41,919
Speaker 3: was like a little bit.

552
00:25:43,359 --> 00:25:45,000
Speaker 4: I did put that in the book because I was like, yo,

553
00:25:45,280 --> 00:25:47,920
Speaker 4: every time we really you think you've reached a level

554
00:25:48,000 --> 00:25:51,400
Speaker 4: sexually something that so so many things on our list,

555
00:25:51,480 --> 00:25:54,160
Speaker 4: But listen, I'm not judging. We definitely live a wholesome

556
00:25:54,200 --> 00:25:59,760
Speaker 4: life like we we had this woman went on a

557
00:25:59,800 --> 00:26:01,680
Speaker 4: date with her. Was a wild night, so wholesome. And

558
00:26:01,840 --> 00:26:04,960
Speaker 4: my father he's in a nursing home right now and

559
00:26:05,119 --> 00:26:06,600
Speaker 4: we had to make sure we were there in the

560
00:26:06,680 --> 00:26:08,960
Speaker 4: morning to go see him. We got up with sitting

561
00:26:09,000 --> 00:26:11,239
Speaker 4: there playing checkers and stuff. We looking at each other

562
00:26:11,359 --> 00:26:15,520
Speaker 4: like we really just having his family moment. It's like

563
00:26:15,920 --> 00:26:17,200
Speaker 4: our sex life is our sex life.

564
00:26:18,600 --> 00:26:19,520
Speaker 3: That's what he really.

565
00:26:25,040 --> 00:26:26,879
Speaker 4: Okay, that's what's funny about it.

566
00:26:26,920 --> 00:26:29,159
Speaker 3: And your mama thank you, and she.

567
00:26:29,440 --> 00:26:31,000
Speaker 4: Would love to hear that. You know, she loves you.

568
00:26:31,640 --> 00:26:33,159
Speaker 4: She went to go to Charlottage's book to her, she

569
00:26:33,280 --> 00:26:35,000
Speaker 4: was like, he was looking at me and I was

570
00:26:35,040 --> 00:26:36,400
Speaker 4: like it because he knows who I am, or he's

571
00:26:36,400 --> 00:26:46,880
Speaker 4: looking at me girl. Okay, happy birthday thirteenth, Sorry, okay,

572
00:26:46,960 --> 00:26:48,920
Speaker 4: whatever day is. I don't know, we're hose, we don't know.

573
00:26:49,240 --> 00:26:51,960
Speaker 6: Have y'all ever been sexually never?

574
00:26:52,280 --> 00:26:53,080
Speaker 4: Okay never?

575
00:26:53,840 --> 00:26:55,560
Speaker 1: He said, that's so fast, Like I don't even look at.

576
00:26:55,520 --> 00:26:58,760
Speaker 4: Her, like, have y'all had sex? And we've never?

577
00:26:59,560 --> 00:26:59,760
Speaker 3: Never?

578
00:27:00,320 --> 00:27:03,040
Speaker 4: Would you? Was you really about to ask me? Why

579
00:27:03,160 --> 00:27:04,280
Speaker 4: do people think that?

580
00:27:05,160 --> 00:27:07,600
Speaker 3: Are you? Are you serious? I do.

581
00:27:07,640 --> 00:27:09,600
Speaker 4: I feel like Mandy and I give the energy like

582
00:27:09,720 --> 00:27:12,520
Speaker 4: we've never for a long time.

583
00:27:12,560 --> 00:27:15,320
Speaker 3: It was a point where they got to be some secure.

584
00:27:15,359 --> 00:27:15,719
Speaker 4: Definitely.

585
00:27:16,280 --> 00:27:17,000
Speaker 3: I did feel like that.

586
00:27:17,720 --> 00:27:20,400
Speaker 4: Now, Oh my god, it's just yeah.

587
00:27:20,440 --> 00:27:23,639
Speaker 6: I mean no, no, y'all don't seem like lovers at

588
00:27:23,640 --> 00:27:26,520
Speaker 6: all and nothing like that. But I mean with all this,

589
00:27:26,640 --> 00:27:29,160
Speaker 6: y'all got it and in Calmon and how y'all.

590
00:27:29,119 --> 00:27:32,800
Speaker 4: Just so watch have sex? And she reminded me, so

591
00:27:32,920 --> 00:27:34,760
Speaker 4: we're sitting with I didn't really watch. I was just

592
00:27:34,840 --> 00:27:41,359
Speaker 4: on the bed. Okay. Now, she was scared because she

593
00:27:41,400 --> 00:27:42,120
Speaker 4: met him at the club.

594
00:27:42,160 --> 00:27:45,159
Speaker 5: We was like sixteen, using fake Id's down in Miami

595
00:27:45,240 --> 00:27:47,000
Speaker 5: Memorial that weekend she found.

596
00:27:46,920 --> 00:27:53,600
Speaker 4: Got like the club. Yes, crazy about twenty years. I

597
00:27:53,760 --> 00:27:56,520
Speaker 4: forgot this story right, So she forgot about our co Arthur,

598
00:27:57,040 --> 00:27:59,240
Speaker 4: and she's trying to dig stories out of us. So

599
00:27:59,359 --> 00:28:00,919
Speaker 4: I said, you know, crazy, I've never had a one

600
00:28:00,960 --> 00:28:02,600
Speaker 4: nice stand man. He's like, that's a lie. I'm like, no,

601
00:28:02,720 --> 00:28:05,920
Speaker 4: it's not. She I was right there on the bed like,

602
00:28:06,080 --> 00:28:09,359
Speaker 4: oh not anything pre titties. I feel like, don't count.

603
00:28:09,520 --> 00:28:11,679
Speaker 5: See this is why, see the wholeness could be deleted.

604
00:28:11,720 --> 00:28:14,040
Speaker 5: She's talking about planting slice you can take miles off

605
00:28:14,080 --> 00:28:18,760
Speaker 5: a car. No, it was like yeah, literally, I mean

606
00:28:18,840 --> 00:28:21,000
Speaker 5: that was back in the day, you know, like selfon

607
00:28:21,080 --> 00:28:23,159
Speaker 5: I think we had pye kicks back then, Like it

608
00:28:23,359 --> 00:28:26,119
Speaker 5: wasn't to where you know, you had so much access.

609
00:28:26,440 --> 00:28:28,480
Speaker 4: So she wanted to him. I was like, okay, I'm.

610
00:28:28,359 --> 00:28:29,600
Speaker 1: Gonna sit at sixteen.

611
00:28:32,320 --> 00:28:34,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, in Miami.

612
00:28:34,760 --> 00:28:38,000
Speaker 4: We drove to Miami, we live. We had no teen pregnancies.

613
00:28:38,040 --> 00:28:43,560
Speaker 4: We know were I said, we have a team pregnancy. Yeah,

614
00:28:43,560 --> 00:28:47,800
Speaker 4: I got rid of it clearly. I think they were eighteen.

615
00:28:47,960 --> 00:28:49,840
Speaker 4: It was like, I'm not trying to be in Miami

616
00:28:49,880 --> 00:28:54,560
Speaker 4: at least bro to be in a club in Miami.

617
00:28:54,600 --> 00:28:57,440
Speaker 5: It's twenty one and forgot we have fake You think

618
00:28:57,480 --> 00:28:58,840
Speaker 5: they didn't got fakes many?

619
00:28:59,400 --> 00:29:02,040
Speaker 4: No, they some They were staying together because you didn't.

620
00:29:01,800 --> 00:29:02,360
Speaker 3: Even remember him.

621
00:29:02,360 --> 00:29:04,320
Speaker 2: Don't try to sit here and can Back then, everybody

622
00:29:04,400 --> 00:29:05,320
Speaker 2: was staying with each other's back then.

623
00:29:05,360 --> 00:29:06,040
Speaker 1: Nobody had no money.

624
00:29:06,080 --> 00:29:06,640
Speaker 3: It was like nine.

625
00:29:07,160 --> 00:29:08,600
Speaker 1: It was no shame, no shame.

626
00:29:09,360 --> 00:29:10,959
Speaker 4: He had money. So he wasn't nineteen because he had

627
00:29:11,000 --> 00:29:13,760
Speaker 4: his own room. He wasn't shared with nobody. That was

628
00:29:13,920 --> 00:29:19,840
Speaker 4: no courtyard. It don't remember, yo, Let me tell you

629
00:29:21,200 --> 00:29:24,200
Speaker 4: when I was really reflected, I thought this.

630
00:29:24,280 --> 00:29:25,680
Speaker 5: Was gonna be way more different. You came in with

631
00:29:25,760 --> 00:29:28,560
Speaker 5: a blazer, I have on plaid. I don't understand how

632
00:29:28,640 --> 00:29:29,520
Speaker 5: we're taking it here.

633
00:29:29,600 --> 00:29:32,200
Speaker 4: Y'all wanted us to spice up y'all morning, to see, like,

634
00:29:32,320 --> 00:29:35,400
Speaker 4: let's go back to being okay. So what is trap house?

635
00:29:35,800 --> 00:29:39,479
Speaker 4: Oh girl? So I've been going to workouts in New

636
00:29:39,520 --> 00:29:43,720
Speaker 4: York for almost a decade and I love Pilates inspired

637
00:29:43,800 --> 00:29:46,600
Speaker 4: movement and I love lifting, and so literally I went

638
00:29:46,640 --> 00:29:48,240
Speaker 4: to a plate class. I'm not even joking. It was

639
00:29:48,280 --> 00:29:50,600
Speaker 4: February this year, and I was saying to the instructor like,

640
00:29:51,080 --> 00:29:53,000
Speaker 4: oh my god, girl, that was such an amazing workout.

641
00:29:53,080 --> 00:29:55,920
Speaker 4: Thank you, Like I needed some like some trap or something.

642
00:29:56,360 --> 00:29:59,120
Speaker 4: She's like, I'd never play that here and made me

643
00:29:59,200 --> 00:30:03,880
Speaker 4: feel so small like and I was like, I'll make

644
00:30:03,960 --> 00:30:07,120
Speaker 4: that ship and so I And it's funny because someone

645
00:30:07,160 --> 00:30:08,520
Speaker 4: said to me when I made it, do you know

646
00:30:08,840 --> 00:30:10,320
Speaker 4: Envy wants to do hip hop plates?

647
00:30:10,440 --> 00:30:10,960
Speaker 3: Who told you that?

648
00:30:11,760 --> 00:30:12,640
Speaker 4: Maybe it was just someone I.

649
00:30:12,680 --> 00:30:15,840
Speaker 2: Mentioned it about it because I don't tell nobody, especially

650
00:30:15,840 --> 00:30:18,520
Speaker 2: not him. But I go to Pilate's right, Why do

651
00:30:18,640 --> 00:30:20,680
Speaker 2: I care if? Because I don't want you to pull

652
00:30:20,760 --> 00:30:22,000
Speaker 2: up on me. Look at my ass when I'm out there,

653
00:30:22,040 --> 00:30:22,720
Speaker 2: but anyway.

654
00:30:23,880 --> 00:30:29,080
Speaker 4: I'm looking at his ass, and.

655
00:30:29,120 --> 00:30:31,120
Speaker 3: I said, looking, what's on your mind?

656
00:30:31,160 --> 00:30:33,760
Speaker 2: So you listen three or four years, but when you

657
00:30:33,840 --> 00:30:36,000
Speaker 2: go to pilates, there's never no music that you's no

658
00:30:36,040 --> 00:30:37,320
Speaker 2: hip hop hard.

659
00:30:37,160 --> 00:30:39,840
Speaker 4: You're shaking, you know what I'm saying. So literally my

660
00:30:39,920 --> 00:30:42,280
Speaker 4: favorite genres of music of all time, and I listened

661
00:30:42,280 --> 00:30:44,880
Speaker 4: to everything. It's trapping house music. So I was gonna

662
00:30:44,880 --> 00:30:47,120
Speaker 4: buy an apartment in New York right I had money.

663
00:30:47,160 --> 00:30:49,000
Speaker 4: I was like one hundred fifty gamma buy a million

664
00:30:49,040 --> 00:30:51,200
Speaker 4: dollar house and I was like no, it's either that

665
00:30:51,320 --> 00:30:54,000
Speaker 4: to start a business. So because I'm not a fitness

666
00:30:54,200 --> 00:30:56,760
Speaker 4: and trainer, I had to you know, partner with someone.

667
00:30:56,920 --> 00:30:59,200
Speaker 4: And so I found my favorite instructor in New York

668
00:30:59,360 --> 00:31:01,000
Speaker 4: black dudes name Jeff Blue, and I was like, yo,

669
00:31:01,200 --> 00:31:03,920
Speaker 4: I want you to make this and he literally was

670
00:31:04,040 --> 00:31:07,720
Speaker 4: like trapped and pilates. I'm like, I'm telling you, dog,

671
00:31:08,360 --> 00:31:10,960
Speaker 4: and he did everything. We flew him to La to

672
00:31:11,040 --> 00:31:14,680
Speaker 4: learn lagree. That's the really hard kinds and like training

673
00:31:14,760 --> 00:31:17,280
Speaker 4: these instructors to do things that people have never done.

674
00:31:17,360 --> 00:31:19,720
Speaker 4: So and it's funny because you'll see buff ass dudes

675
00:31:19,800 --> 00:31:22,080
Speaker 4: come in doing it. They come in and they shake

676
00:31:22,200 --> 00:31:23,440
Speaker 4: in like crazy, and then they go on the other

677
00:31:23,480 --> 00:31:25,040
Speaker 4: one and they're shaking. And then the little girls that

678
00:31:25,080 --> 00:31:28,640
Speaker 4: are super tiny can't do lifting. So everybody's doing something different.

679
00:31:28,720 --> 00:31:32,280
Speaker 4: But even as I've evolved, my partner Brionda, she's like,

680
00:31:32,320 --> 00:31:34,720
Speaker 4: all right, who's making the music. I'm like, me, I

681
00:31:34,800 --> 00:31:37,400
Speaker 4: got good music sation. She's like, that's not anough. So

682
00:31:37,960 --> 00:31:41,520
Speaker 4: I had to get a music director. And every step

683
00:31:41,560 --> 00:31:43,440
Speaker 4: of the way I've tried to make this elevated just

684
00:31:43,480 --> 00:31:44,800
Speaker 4: so a bitch cane. Now you know, when it's a

685
00:31:44,800 --> 00:31:46,280
Speaker 4: black owned business, they'd be like, you ain't got this.

686
00:31:47,000 --> 00:31:49,200
Speaker 4: Even the candles. I want to find all the candles.

687
00:31:49,200 --> 00:31:51,120
Speaker 4: I'm like, gotta be a little libo. Every single thing

688
00:31:51,280 --> 00:31:54,840
Speaker 4: I made that I wanted to be luxury, especially because

689
00:31:54,840 --> 00:31:56,640
Speaker 4: you're walking in there and you hear Jesus talking about

690
00:31:56,640 --> 00:31:58,400
Speaker 4: how chitto like it get real ghetto.

691
00:31:58,520 --> 00:32:00,280
Speaker 3: It looked like business woman though from what I see

692
00:32:00,320 --> 00:32:01,280
Speaker 3: on Instagram, I.

693
00:32:01,320 --> 00:32:04,000
Speaker 4: Haven't been able to take a class because it's been

694
00:32:04,040 --> 00:32:08,640
Speaker 4: so busy. I wait, because that's what's said.

695
00:32:08,640 --> 00:32:11,040
Speaker 1: I want to do a group trip there, right, and

696
00:32:11,240 --> 00:32:16,880
Speaker 1: and you got to come to well, I want to.

697
00:32:17,040 --> 00:32:19,160
Speaker 3: I don't want to be sexually arased, but.

698
00:32:19,200 --> 00:32:21,400
Speaker 2: I want to take a group trip there and put

699
00:32:21,440 --> 00:32:22,880
Speaker 2: everybody in pilates for fifty minutes.

700
00:32:23,280 --> 00:32:25,640
Speaker 4: Oh my god, it's hard, especially for the people that

701
00:32:25,800 --> 00:32:28,680
Speaker 4: haven't done It's it's not.

702
00:32:28,880 --> 00:32:30,680
Speaker 1: I used to go four times a week, five times

703
00:32:30,720 --> 00:32:32,160
Speaker 1: a week. My wife and my dough we go together.

704
00:32:32,240 --> 00:32:34,120
Speaker 4: Oh so you're gonna be good. It's megrant former.

705
00:32:35,800 --> 00:32:36,920
Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, that's that's fine.

706
00:32:36,960 --> 00:32:37,640
Speaker 3: We do it all.

707
00:32:37,720 --> 00:32:39,080
Speaker 1: But I enjoy it.

708
00:32:39,520 --> 00:32:42,480
Speaker 2: People don't know how difficult it is, but how it

709
00:32:42,560 --> 00:32:43,840
Speaker 2: helps you as well as far as strength is.

710
00:32:44,440 --> 00:32:49,160
Speaker 4: They don't either. The look of pilates is skinny lawn white.

711
00:32:49,280 --> 00:32:51,600
Speaker 6: Yeah, honestly, I'm sitting here like I never had a

712
00:32:51,640 --> 00:32:52,240
Speaker 6: desire to do it.

713
00:32:52,440 --> 00:32:54,719
Speaker 4: I was making jokes like, Oh, we're gonna open how

714
00:32:54,800 --> 00:32:56,240
Speaker 4: these white girls They're gonna be like, oh, what is

715
00:32:56,320 --> 00:32:58,400
Speaker 4: Gucci man break? Like I really thought that was gonna

716
00:32:58,400 --> 00:33:01,880
Speaker 4: happen when I tell you all black women, and it's

717
00:33:02,360 --> 00:33:04,440
Speaker 4: mind blowing to me. I actually wasn't ready for that.

718
00:33:04,600 --> 00:33:06,840
Speaker 4: But just TikTok. We were literally working out when I

719
00:33:06,880 --> 00:33:07,520
Speaker 4: was in the other.

720
00:33:07,440 --> 00:33:10,120
Speaker 6: Day and it was but none of my coochie I

721
00:33:10,240 --> 00:33:12,160
Speaker 6: was like, this is crazy, none of my couchie.

722
00:33:13,520 --> 00:33:18,280
Speaker 3: Oh okay, how did you promote it? How did you

723
00:33:18,320 --> 00:33:19,320
Speaker 3: get the worried out so fast?

724
00:33:19,400 --> 00:33:23,400
Speaker 4: Okay? So I truthfully was really worried about strategy because

725
00:33:23,440 --> 00:33:26,320
Speaker 4: I didn't know. So I posted myself making something cool.

726
00:33:26,400 --> 00:33:28,600
Speaker 4: You know when you can have a taste maker vibe,

727
00:33:28,600 --> 00:33:29,800
Speaker 4: like people know I like the party, they know I

728
00:33:29,880 --> 00:33:32,240
Speaker 4: like music. I thought that would work. It literally was

729
00:33:32,400 --> 00:33:36,560
Speaker 4: just people tiktoking. We've never made one TikTok. It's just

730
00:33:36,760 --> 00:33:37,960
Speaker 4: genuine a girls like listen.

731
00:33:38,040 --> 00:33:40,360
Speaker 5: That's why I listen that that ain't going away on

732
00:33:40,440 --> 00:33:43,680
Speaker 5: the night. A whole lot of it's gonna fake the

733
00:33:43,760 --> 00:33:46,120
Speaker 5: e kindom. It's like there's a lot of people that make.

734
00:33:46,040 --> 00:33:48,880
Speaker 3: Money off of their Frank Mccording Project Liberty.

735
00:33:50,520 --> 00:33:51,160
Speaker 1: There's nothing like that.

736
00:33:51,360 --> 00:33:53,520
Speaker 2: And I always say that the biggest business is what

737
00:33:53,680 --> 00:33:56,440
Speaker 2: makes people riches is to have something that nobody else has, right,

738
00:33:56,880 --> 00:33:59,360
Speaker 2: And there's so many minorities that love Platt. I'm the

739
00:33:59,400 --> 00:34:00,959
Speaker 2: only black guy when I go. I'm usually the only

740
00:34:01,040 --> 00:34:03,960
Speaker 2: guy when I do I'm black. But when I do go,

741
00:34:04,200 --> 00:34:06,040
Speaker 2: I hate the music. So the fact that I was there,

742
00:34:06,080 --> 00:34:07,360
Speaker 2: the first thing I said, where is it I want

743
00:34:07,400 --> 00:34:08,560
Speaker 2: to go you know what I mean, because I want

744
00:34:08,560 --> 00:34:10,000
Speaker 2: to try it out, because I would love to do it.

745
00:34:10,160 --> 00:34:12,840
Speaker 2: Because it's already painful, right, you already trying to focus.

746
00:34:12,960 --> 00:34:14,960
Speaker 2: But if I had the music that I enjoy, it

747
00:34:15,040 --> 00:34:16,920
Speaker 2: makes it fun now when I can really go through it.

748
00:34:16,960 --> 00:34:19,359
Speaker 2: So I'm we're gonna do a family trip there.

749
00:34:19,880 --> 00:34:22,560
Speaker 4: I made a code for everybody breakfast. There's ten bucks off.

750
00:34:22,600 --> 00:34:24,400
Speaker 4: Even if you've already been you can still use it.

751
00:34:24,560 --> 00:34:27,480
Speaker 4: But with the house music. By the way, my mom

752
00:34:27,560 --> 00:34:29,759
Speaker 4: is a Studio fifty four girl. She's a black woman.

753
00:34:29,760 --> 00:34:31,319
Speaker 4: I've been listening to the house music my whole life.

754
00:34:31,320 --> 00:34:33,520
Speaker 4: I've always thought it was black. I feel like all

755
00:34:33,600 --> 00:34:37,240
Speaker 4: we know is showed me love, but house music is black. Yeah,

756
00:34:37,480 --> 00:34:39,279
Speaker 4: I mean, I'm not playing out rant.

757
00:34:39,480 --> 00:34:43,920
Speaker 5: I'm playing that shit followed me hus because I'm bougie, okay,

758
00:34:44,160 --> 00:34:47,280
Speaker 5: because I mean it can still read as traps, oh.

759
00:34:49,480 --> 00:34:51,320
Speaker 3: Sothing like why why did you spell it like that?

760
00:34:51,480 --> 00:34:53,560
Speaker 4: To be honest, it was because I feel like when

761
00:34:53,600 --> 00:34:55,640
Speaker 4: we see the year or like a different version of house,

762
00:34:55,640 --> 00:34:57,600
Speaker 4: we always say, oh, this is like kind of you know,

763
00:34:57,719 --> 00:34:59,680
Speaker 4: And then I felt like a house if someone gooted

764
00:34:59,719 --> 00:35:02,040
Speaker 4: it it by like a weed stores. Yeah, trap House

765
00:35:02,960 --> 00:35:05,239
Speaker 4: by the way, I wanted to call it Trapilates, but

766
00:35:05,280 --> 00:35:06,920
Speaker 4: shout out. I don't know who they are, but you know,

767
00:35:06,960 --> 00:35:09,160
Speaker 4: the trademark was taken in Atlanta. So but we already

768
00:35:09,200 --> 00:35:12,600
Speaker 4: know Atlanta got trapp Lot. But I mean my goal,

769
00:35:12,680 --> 00:35:14,399
Speaker 4: Like people be asking me the franchise. We've been opened

770
00:35:14,440 --> 00:35:17,080
Speaker 4: six days, people like, oh, can you franchise it? I'm like, oh, yeah,

771
00:35:17,200 --> 00:35:20,080
Speaker 4: Like I got to learn from every wed, so congratulations.

772
00:35:20,120 --> 00:35:24,080
Speaker 3: But yeah, money, don't talk about your entrepreneur ventures enough.

773
00:35:24,120 --> 00:35:26,160
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying. You got WTF media man,

774
00:35:26,360 --> 00:35:26,640
Speaker 3: you had the.

775
00:35:26,600 --> 00:35:29,120
Speaker 4: Studio, I still have it open. Yeah, it's just now

776
00:35:29,239 --> 00:35:30,080
Speaker 4: need to know studios.

777
00:35:30,560 --> 00:35:34,440
Speaker 5: Yeah, but I I relocated to Atlanta. I have other

778
00:35:34,520 --> 00:35:38,520
Speaker 5: opportunities professionally down there. But yeah, and right now I'm

779
00:35:38,560 --> 00:35:42,080
Speaker 5: working on scripts and pitching those. I just wrote another

780
00:35:42,160 --> 00:35:44,080
Speaker 5: proposal for a book after writing the book with you.

781
00:35:44,800 --> 00:35:47,080
Speaker 5: I definitely just love the process. I want to continue

782
00:35:47,120 --> 00:35:47,400
Speaker 5: doing that.

783
00:35:48,680 --> 00:35:49,719
Speaker 4: And yeah, I think over the.

784
00:35:49,800 --> 00:35:51,799
Speaker 5: Last eight years, I think that's why we've been able

785
00:35:51,840 --> 00:35:53,560
Speaker 5: to keep this going, because we've both been able to

786
00:35:53,600 --> 00:35:56,320
Speaker 5: just branch out individually and do the things that we really.

787
00:35:56,640 --> 00:35:59,279
Speaker 4: Turning over Your money that you make. Like when we

788
00:35:59,400 --> 00:36:01,680
Speaker 4: got our first Black Effect check, it was so dope

789
00:36:01,760 --> 00:36:05,120
Speaker 4: because to be on salary for a podcast, it's just

790
00:36:05,280 --> 00:36:07,960
Speaker 4: like unheard of, and we were making We quit our

791
00:36:08,040 --> 00:36:10,000
Speaker 4: jobs before, you know, so like we were in this

792
00:36:10,239 --> 00:36:13,719
Speaker 4: doing this. But it's just mind blowing that we've been

793
00:36:13,760 --> 00:36:16,000
Speaker 4: able to take that business acumen and flip it because

794
00:36:16,040 --> 00:36:18,799
Speaker 4: a lot of people think when you're a podcaster, people

795
00:36:18,920 --> 00:36:20,680
Speaker 4: really don't know how I make money, Like I think

796
00:36:21,080 --> 00:36:22,680
Speaker 4: so many people think I have only fans when they

797
00:36:22,680 --> 00:36:25,160
Speaker 4: meet me, which I get it. I feel like I

798
00:36:25,200 --> 00:36:27,200
Speaker 4: could have the look, but t is already out like okay,

799
00:36:27,440 --> 00:36:30,440
Speaker 4: but content creation is one thing, and then it's like,

800
00:36:30,560 --> 00:36:34,200
Speaker 4: well businesses, no, no, not only that, it's just diversifying

801
00:36:34,239 --> 00:36:36,520
Speaker 4: as well how you bring in money. So between Black

802
00:36:36,560 --> 00:36:39,360
Speaker 4: Effect now the book which Charlemagne as well, then we

803
00:36:39,440 --> 00:36:43,360
Speaker 4: have Patreon, then we tour, shout out to Justin and merchandise,

804
00:36:43,960 --> 00:36:46,440
Speaker 4: we have five different means of income just for the podcast.

805
00:36:46,520 --> 00:36:49,239
Speaker 4: So even though we're not in the write ups like

806
00:36:49,320 --> 00:36:52,400
Speaker 4: the other white podcasts talking about one hundred million dollar deals,

807
00:36:52,840 --> 00:36:56,120
Speaker 4: are our business and what horrible decisions does make seven

808
00:36:56,160 --> 00:36:58,839
Speaker 4: figures a year? We are a seven figure podcast.

809
00:36:58,800 --> 00:37:00,000
Speaker 1: We're not one hundred.

810
00:37:00,760 --> 00:37:02,759
Speaker 4: We are, but we we have seven figures, like and

811
00:37:02,840 --> 00:37:03,800
Speaker 4: we make that yearly.

812
00:37:04,280 --> 00:37:05,120
Speaker 3: So I love it.

813
00:37:05,320 --> 00:37:08,160
Speaker 4: And then again, that's just one form of income. Again.

814
00:37:08,239 --> 00:37:10,160
Speaker 4: She has her studio, I have my studio. We have

815
00:37:10,360 --> 00:37:12,000
Speaker 4: other things that we do as well outside.

816
00:37:12,080 --> 00:37:14,680
Speaker 7: So the decision is a business that generates money, and

817
00:37:14,719 --> 00:37:16,480
Speaker 7: I love how y'all use that money to build other

818
00:37:16,680 --> 00:37:17,320
Speaker 7: other businesses.

819
00:37:17,400 --> 00:37:21,600
Speaker 4: I honestly want every podcaster to start considering building another business.

820
00:37:21,640 --> 00:37:23,960
Speaker 4: Don't have to be brick and mortar, but like, literally,

821
00:37:24,000 --> 00:37:25,839
Speaker 4: oh yeah, shout out to you. What is you got

822
00:37:25,880 --> 00:37:26,600
Speaker 4: into brick and mortar?

823
00:37:26,760 --> 00:37:30,280
Speaker 5: Even having the studio, like dealing with an actual location

824
00:37:30,560 --> 00:37:31,840
Speaker 5: and staff And I'm.

825
00:37:31,760 --> 00:37:33,719
Speaker 4: Like, oh, that ain't me. Do you know the owner

826
00:37:33,760 --> 00:37:36,200
Speaker 4: of the building that you have? A SOHO? So we

827
00:37:36,320 --> 00:37:40,000
Speaker 4: got three buildings, four different studios, right. The SOHO dude

828
00:37:40,080 --> 00:37:43,640
Speaker 4: hits me up about how someone filed an insurance claim

829
00:37:43,640 --> 00:37:44,960
Speaker 4: and I'm like what they were like, yeah, they fold

830
00:37:45,000 --> 00:37:47,600
Speaker 4: my the bathroom. I was like, I'm so sorry to

831
00:37:47,600 --> 00:37:49,239
Speaker 4: hear that. He was like it's good, Like he has

832
00:37:49,400 --> 00:37:51,280
Speaker 4: huge buildings. He's like, I've already got this covered.

833
00:37:51,640 --> 00:37:54,840
Speaker 1: But like, that's what's building business.

834
00:37:55,520 --> 00:37:57,520
Speaker 4: I've been trying to make sure it's spit in the studio.

835
00:37:57,600 --> 00:38:03,680
Speaker 4: Gott yeah, how house. It's crazy to me all the businesses.

836
00:38:03,239 --> 00:38:06,520
Speaker 5: Though, all the projects, everything that we do creatively, those

837
00:38:06,560 --> 00:38:08,959
Speaker 5: are my babies as a woman that doesn't want kids.

838
00:38:09,360 --> 00:38:11,560
Speaker 5: And when people talk about what legacy looks like and things,

839
00:38:11,800 --> 00:38:14,560
Speaker 5: the things that I'm creating are going to outlive me

840
00:38:15,360 --> 00:38:18,800
Speaker 5: and my kids if I had any their kids. So

841
00:38:18,960 --> 00:38:21,120
Speaker 5: to me, my legacy and what I'm leaving are the

842
00:38:21,239 --> 00:38:23,440
Speaker 5: things and businesses that I'm creating. And I think Weezy

843
00:38:23,440 --> 00:38:24,759
Speaker 5: and I talk about it as well. I think it's

844
00:38:24,840 --> 00:38:28,479
Speaker 5: wonderful that we're able to like provide salaries and pay people,

845
00:38:28,680 --> 00:38:31,839
Speaker 5: like even our Horrible Decisions team, it's like ten people.

846
00:38:32,280 --> 00:38:34,400
Speaker 5: And then she has her studio team. I have my studio,

847
00:38:34,480 --> 00:38:36,080
Speaker 5: and it's just like, it's great, how do y'all.

848
00:38:35,960 --> 00:38:37,799
Speaker 1: Take with you in Atlanta? And you hear New York?

849
00:38:37,800 --> 00:38:38,680
Speaker 1: How do y'all take the podcast?

850
00:38:38,719 --> 00:38:39,440
Speaker 6: We both record?

851
00:38:39,680 --> 00:38:41,680
Speaker 5: And she was just in Atlanta. I go to la

852
00:38:42,239 --> 00:38:44,160
Speaker 5: whenever we're in the same city, we find a studio

853
00:38:44,200 --> 00:38:44,640
Speaker 5: on record.

854
00:38:44,880 --> 00:38:45,160
Speaker 3: Gotcha.

855
00:38:45,280 --> 00:38:48,440
Speaker 4: It's honestly too, like, I mean, you wasn't even do

856
00:38:48,520 --> 00:38:51,200
Speaker 4: you live here now? I do now you do, but yeah,

857
00:38:51,320 --> 00:38:53,120
Speaker 4: like you make it word, you know what I'm saying.

858
00:38:53,160 --> 00:38:55,360
Speaker 4: I remember when I first heard that, like just didn't

859
00:38:55,360 --> 00:38:57,960
Speaker 4: live here when she was first working. I was like wow,

860
00:38:58,360 --> 00:39:00,440
Speaker 4: but like you got your home is at home, Like

861
00:39:00,480 --> 00:39:02,359
Speaker 4: what are you gonna do your job? I think she'd

862
00:39:02,400 --> 00:39:05,040
Speaker 4: be secondary. So Mandy, I felt that Atlanta coming and

863
00:39:05,080 --> 00:39:07,000
Speaker 4: I was like, Oh my god, she's gonna do it.

864
00:39:07,040 --> 00:39:07,520
Speaker 4: She's gonna do it.

865
00:39:08,280 --> 00:39:10,120
Speaker 5: I wanted to move to Atlanta years ago, but I

866
00:39:10,200 --> 00:39:13,719
Speaker 5: had another show that kept me here that thankfully I ended,

867
00:39:13,760 --> 00:39:17,880
Speaker 5: and it was amazing ending it and so now that

868
00:39:18,040 --> 00:39:20,040
Speaker 5: I don't have to be here weekly to do a

869
00:39:20,200 --> 00:39:23,719
Speaker 5: current event pod. Yeah, as soon as I ended that,

870
00:39:23,760 --> 00:39:24,879
Speaker 5: I was like, yeah, which, by.

871
00:39:24,800 --> 00:39:26,640
Speaker 4: The way, many and I have left it so long.

872
00:39:26,760 --> 00:39:31,160
Speaker 4: When that show ended, we already got to say. See

873
00:39:31,200 --> 00:39:33,360
Speaker 4: the thing is it was another show that I had people.

874
00:39:33,520 --> 00:39:35,400
Speaker 4: We've been together so long, so if someone is a

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00:39:35,480 --> 00:39:38,000
Speaker 4: casual listener, they're thinking it's Mandy and I. I woke

876
00:39:38,080 --> 00:39:39,640
Speaker 4: up to all these texts. It was my birthday. I

877
00:39:39,680 --> 00:39:41,520
Speaker 4: think when it happened, I was like, what am I

878
00:39:41,600 --> 00:39:44,560
Speaker 4: talking about? And then my mother called me because Mandy

879
00:39:44,600 --> 00:39:47,400
Speaker 4: made a video. That's who made our rollout so good.

880
00:39:47,440 --> 00:39:50,359
Speaker 5: When everyone thought we broke up, they was like, oh,

881
00:39:50,960 --> 00:39:54,000
Speaker 5: of course I became I'm the villain whatever, and they

882
00:39:54,040 --> 00:39:55,799
Speaker 5: made it seem like, oh, she can't keep a partner,

883
00:39:55,880 --> 00:39:58,480
Speaker 5: she can't keep a podcast up, she can't And it

884
00:39:58,600 --> 00:40:01,239
Speaker 5: was like we played until that, especially with me ending

885
00:40:01,440 --> 00:40:03,040
Speaker 5: the pot last year, my mom called me.

886
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Speaker 4: Like, Mandy is on the internet comment off on you

887
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Speaker 4: and when did you do this?

888
00:40:07,600 --> 00:40:08,680
Speaker 3: I'm like, when did you do this?

889
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Speaker 4: It wasn't me. I'm like, if another like to get

890
00:40:10,680 --> 00:40:17,640
Speaker 4: a walk back, but yeah, real celebrity drama. It's you're

891
00:40:17,680 --> 00:40:20,400
Speaker 4: running naked in the halls. It's all the news like

892
00:40:20,560 --> 00:40:21,920
Speaker 4: it is something.

893
00:40:22,120 --> 00:40:26,680
Speaker 3: You know, it is serious. Well, I'm proud of y'all.

894
00:40:26,719 --> 00:40:27,440
Speaker 4: Man, thank you.

895
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Speaker 3: Thanks.

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Speaker 7: The book No Holds Bar, The Dual Manifesto of Sexual

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Speaker 7: Exploration and Power, will be in stores June twenty fourth.

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Speaker 4: June twenty tonight.

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Speaker 6: That's right, you got them nails them to show.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, take a play with It's for men and women. No,

901
00:40:42,560 --> 00:40:46,200
Speaker 5: it's for I'm thoughtful by other people. Okay, all right,

902
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Speaker 5: because I was on one handed purposely.

903
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Speaker 3: Okay.

904
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Speaker 2: Yeah, when you go to the nails law and you'll

905
00:40:55,520 --> 00:40:57,359
Speaker 2: be like, no, no, no, no, not these two open.

906
00:40:58,239 --> 00:40:59,600
Speaker 2: They have to ask why, and you tell.

907
00:40:59,440 --> 00:41:01,960
Speaker 4: Me, don't you know it's either I braid here or

908
00:41:02,040 --> 00:41:04,840
Speaker 4: type a lot. They'm sure they do.

909
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Speaker 5: They do.

910
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Speaker 4: They asked, by the way, Jess, I cannot wait till

911
00:41:09,560 --> 00:41:13,560
Speaker 4: your auntie age. You said, now, no, you're not.

912
00:41:14,400 --> 00:41:15,280
Speaker 3: I'm not forty.

913
00:41:15,560 --> 00:41:18,600
Speaker 4: You have an undertone of auntie when you just said

914
00:41:18,640 --> 00:41:22,799
Speaker 4: to them, oh, that's what you do, all right, age forty.

915
00:41:22,840 --> 00:41:23,440
Speaker 3: But she's not forty.

916
00:41:24,320 --> 00:41:27,360
Speaker 4: She be fun. Don't let you have a lesbian you

917
00:41:27,440 --> 00:41:27,799
Speaker 4: and that girl.

918
00:41:29,880 --> 00:41:33,440
Speaker 6: Your sister, Yeah, my little sister, she just she too

919
00:41:33,520 --> 00:41:35,080
Speaker 6: new though she ain't get out the trial period.

920
00:41:35,200 --> 00:41:38,800
Speaker 4: My little sister she gay. She believe that it's a It's.

921
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Speaker 6: Twenty one though, so you know, she she she still

922
00:41:43,160 --> 00:41:44,600
Speaker 6: could be, you know, trying. I'm not saying that she

923
00:41:44,719 --> 00:41:48,799
Speaker 6: won't be gay forever, but she's still When she said little,

924
00:41:48,840 --> 00:41:50,799
Speaker 6: she got a little twickle on eye for these little

925
00:41:51,160 --> 00:41:53,319
Speaker 6: guys out here, so she can't be fully gay.

926
00:41:53,719 --> 00:41:54,240
Speaker 3: Has three.

927
00:41:59,080 --> 00:42:00,840
Speaker 4: A pretty nigga gonna be straight.

928
00:42:00,719 --> 00:42:04,319
Speaker 6: Right right, because she don't like to sexually engage with men,

929
00:42:04,640 --> 00:42:06,480
Speaker 6: but she's still like to look at them and ship.

930
00:42:06,520 --> 00:42:09,960
Speaker 6: But she likes having sex with girls. So that's all

931
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Speaker 6: I don't know, is that A seven?

932
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Speaker 4: Like, Okay, that's gay.

933
00:42:14,520 --> 00:42:17,520
Speaker 3: Okay, she put you on new music, she put me on.

934
00:42:18,000 --> 00:42:19,879
Speaker 4: It's this new song. You ever heard this song?

935
00:42:20,400 --> 00:42:23,040
Speaker 6: I forgot his name, but it'd be like, niggas can

936
00:42:23,239 --> 00:42:35,560
Speaker 6: be gay to listen, niggas can be.

937
00:42:37,600 --> 00:42:38,520
Speaker 4: Like you ain't never heard.

938
00:42:40,680 --> 00:42:44,960
Speaker 6: You know, they're talking about black men, like, yeah, you didn't.

939
00:42:46,680 --> 00:42:52,480
Speaker 4: Already already? Oh he didn't. I like his new song,

940
00:42:52,960 --> 00:42:56,160
Speaker 4: y'all gotta have little NOx up here to talk about. Know.

941
00:42:56,360 --> 00:42:59,120
Speaker 4: I'm sure he's still his sexuality, but his music is

942
00:42:59,160 --> 00:43:01,879
Speaker 4: different now and it's really good. I really like him,

943
00:43:02,000 --> 00:43:12,439
Speaker 4: you know that. Steve Lacy, I love Tyler. My little

944
00:43:12,480 --> 00:43:25,160
Speaker 4: sister played right. Listen. Trump, Trump would be like, if

945
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Speaker 4: you're Tram.

946
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Speaker 1: We appreciate you joining us Decision Podcast.

947
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948
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949
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953
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Speaker 4: That story you got that was five dollars maybe.

957
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Speaker 3: And the whole hive is so active that when the

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Speaker 3: book first was announced it.

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Speaker 5: Was number one, they went ahead and immediately work or

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Speaker 5: pre ordering their books. So we're really excited. And of

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Speaker 5: course we will be touring. We'll announce that later, but

962
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Speaker 5: you guys will be able to see us do this live.

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Speaker 4: I know you got to go, but just to tell

964
00:44:17,760 --> 00:44:20,640
Speaker 4: you about there was a girl that's a really big

965
00:44:20,680 --> 00:44:22,799
Speaker 4: fan of yours at the live show we just had

966
00:44:23,200 --> 00:44:25,760
Speaker 4: and she was taken. I know she's taking a picture

967
00:44:25,760 --> 00:44:26,960
Speaker 4: of me, and I'm like, oh, I know you will

968
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Speaker 4: go to all his books. Did you see him? She's like,

969
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Speaker 4: who hive? He always here? That almost made me hear.

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Speaker 3: But I know y'all said, no king shaman? Yes, what

971
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Speaker 3: if the king is animals?

972
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Speaker 4: Oh no, So we have rules. Uh no kids, no animals,

973
00:44:42,760 --> 00:44:46,200
Speaker 4: no dead bodies. Those are the three and consensual and

974
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Speaker 4: of course consensual like everything consensual.

975
00:44:48,239 --> 00:44:53,719
Speaker 5: But we absolutely zero tolerance for PDFs, for bestiality and

976
00:44:54,080 --> 00:44:55,799
Speaker 5: for uh necrophilia.

977
00:44:55,880 --> 00:44:57,400
Speaker 7: Got because there was a guy in Florida who I

978
00:44:57,440 --> 00:44:59,040
Speaker 7: gave donkey the day two this morning he put his

979
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Speaker 7: penis in the is that is.

980
00:45:01,560 --> 00:45:06,360
Speaker 4: That is that's also animal abuse. But that's crazy, that's crazy.

981
00:45:06,760 --> 00:45:07,880
Speaker 4: And what color was tea.

982
00:45:09,719 --> 00:45:10,040
Speaker 3: And white?

983
00:45:10,360 --> 00:45:14,200
Speaker 4: I mean, but Florida, Florida in Florida, I don't even

984
00:45:14,320 --> 00:45:18,799
Speaker 4: go based on color. It's just watching Florida. Florida man

985
00:45:18,920 --> 00:45:20,560
Speaker 4: is good eating them.

986
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Speaker 3: It's good.

987
00:45:21,600 --> 00:45:23,840
Speaker 7: It ain't as good as the regular Florida stories we

988
00:45:23,960 --> 00:45:25,520
Speaker 7: read in the news, though, but it's good.

989
00:45:25,800 --> 00:45:27,480
Speaker 4: Now that black man and a white dude with no

990
00:45:27,640 --> 00:45:29,799
Speaker 4: teeth and he burned the house over it was still together.

991
00:45:31,400 --> 00:45:34,960
Speaker 4: It's good, but it's it's re enactments of Florida man stories.

992
00:45:35,480 --> 00:45:38,200
Speaker 4: But I think what's so crazy about Florida were from there,

993
00:45:38,640 --> 00:45:40,719
Speaker 4: from Florida, and we be it's embarrassed. Do you think

994
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Speaker 4: I was? We were doing bam pire hello, because you're

995
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Speaker 4: not not we, not we not we Sometimes you have

996
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Speaker 4: to speak for yourself first away, all.

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Speaker 1: Right, it's the Breakfast CLU Good morning, wake till

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Speaker 3: Airs up early in the morning at Breakfast Club