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It is a Strawberry Letter. 10 00:00:25,920 --> 00:00:26,960 Speaker 2: Thank you, nephew. 11 00:00:27,280 --> 00:00:31,200 Speaker 1: Subject A nerd in the boardroom, boss in the bedroom. 12 00:00:31,520 --> 00:00:34,400 Speaker 1: Dear Stephen Shirley, I've been messing around with the guy 13 00:00:34,479 --> 00:00:37,240 Speaker 1: that I worked with. He said he saw something special 14 00:00:37,280 --> 00:00:39,640 Speaker 1: in me, so he got me transferred to his team. 15 00:00:40,120 --> 00:00:42,440 Speaker 1: I looked up to his man, to this man because 16 00:00:42,479 --> 00:00:44,920 Speaker 1: of his work ethic and how he commanded the room 17 00:00:45,040 --> 00:00:47,880 Speaker 1: at our meetings. He is a straight nerd, but there's 18 00:00:47,920 --> 00:00:51,320 Speaker 1: something about him. It's probably all of the big words 19 00:00:51,360 --> 00:00:54,400 Speaker 1: he uses, but o MG, he is stuck in the 20 00:00:54,480 --> 00:00:57,360 Speaker 1: late nineties with his hair, his suits, and even the 21 00:00:57,360 --> 00:01:00,840 Speaker 1: way he talks. Thank goodness, he's not that way in 22 00:01:00,880 --> 00:01:04,760 Speaker 1: the bedroom. He's large and in charge there. He has 23 00:01:04,840 --> 00:01:07,200 Speaker 1: exactly what it takes to get the job done. And 24 00:01:07,280 --> 00:01:10,360 Speaker 1: I love how he plays love songs and lights candles 25 00:01:10,400 --> 00:01:13,919 Speaker 1: before we're intimate. He sets the moods before he takes 26 00:01:13,920 --> 00:01:18,480 Speaker 1: off his silky boxers, yes silk in quotations. There have 27 00:01:18,480 --> 00:01:21,479 Speaker 1: been times when I've stared at him sleeping and wonder 28 00:01:21,560 --> 00:01:24,679 Speaker 1: how he can be both a nerd and a superhero. 29 00:01:25,000 --> 00:01:27,600 Speaker 1: We've been hooking up on the low for eight months 30 00:01:27,640 --> 00:01:30,080 Speaker 1: and no one would ever think we were messing around. 31 00:01:30,520 --> 00:01:32,880 Speaker 1: Last week, I put in my two weeks notice because 32 00:01:32,880 --> 00:01:35,960 Speaker 1: I got a better job. Since I'm leaving the company, 33 00:01:36,240 --> 00:01:39,440 Speaker 1: he said it's time we get serious and date exclusively. 34 00:01:39,840 --> 00:01:42,160 Speaker 1: He is forty one and wants to get married and 35 00:01:42,160 --> 00:01:45,319 Speaker 1: start a family. I am forty four and I've been 36 00:01:45,440 --> 00:01:48,640 Speaker 1: married before, so I don't want to choose another man 37 00:01:48,720 --> 00:01:51,800 Speaker 1: that's not the total package. I'm so concerned about how 38 00:01:51,840 --> 00:01:54,520 Speaker 1: he looks that I told him our first outing should 39 00:01:54,520 --> 00:01:56,920 Speaker 1: be with my friends. We did a group date with 40 00:01:57,000 --> 00:01:59,960 Speaker 1: three of my girlfriends and their men. My girls were very, 41 00:02:00,040 --> 00:02:02,720 Speaker 1: very judgmental of him. They said that I would get 42 00:02:02,760 --> 00:02:05,640 Speaker 1: tired of his nerdy conversation and it might be too 43 00:02:05,680 --> 00:02:08,480 Speaker 1: hard to change him. I was thinking new clothes and 44 00:02:08,560 --> 00:02:12,520 Speaker 1: a haircut would do it, but they're skeptical. Skeptical. Can 45 00:02:12,639 --> 00:02:15,799 Speaker 1: I gradually change a man that's stuck in a time warp? 46 00:02:16,200 --> 00:02:18,160 Speaker 1: Would I be a fool to let him go? 47 00:02:18,880 --> 00:02:19,000 Speaker 4: Uh? 48 00:02:19,080 --> 00:02:20,760 Speaker 3: Yes you would, Yes, you would. 49 00:02:20,760 --> 00:02:22,800 Speaker 1: If he's a good man and he treats you well 50 00:02:22,840 --> 00:02:25,960 Speaker 1: and he wants to get married and start a family. Yeah, 51 00:02:26,000 --> 00:02:28,079 Speaker 1: And from what you say in this letter, he's a 52 00:02:28,120 --> 00:02:31,560 Speaker 1: good guy. And having said that, I think one of 53 00:02:31,560 --> 00:02:34,359 Speaker 1: the easiest ways. And I don't believe. And you got 54 00:02:34,360 --> 00:02:36,679 Speaker 1: to change a man and all that, but it's wardrobe 55 00:02:36,760 --> 00:02:39,279 Speaker 1: because that's on the outside and not on the inside. 56 00:02:39,480 --> 00:02:42,079 Speaker 1: You're not trying to change his character or anything. You're 57 00:02:42,120 --> 00:02:45,919 Speaker 1: just trying to update his style. That's okay. But I 58 00:02:45,960 --> 00:02:48,000 Speaker 1: don't want you to mess this up either. I mean, 59 00:02:48,080 --> 00:02:50,440 Speaker 1: because it's not what you do, it's how you do it. 60 00:02:50,680 --> 00:02:52,760 Speaker 1: I think you should talk to him about it, send 61 00:02:52,840 --> 00:02:55,760 Speaker 1: him down and tell him, you know, don't crush his ego. 62 00:02:56,200 --> 00:02:58,680 Speaker 1: And from what you said, he seems like a reasonable guy, 63 00:02:58,800 --> 00:03:02,200 Speaker 1: so hopefully he'll be resetd of what you have. 64 00:03:02,160 --> 00:03:02,799 Speaker 2: To say to him. 65 00:03:03,320 --> 00:03:06,600 Speaker 1: A lot of women change things about their men outwardly, 66 00:03:06,720 --> 00:03:08,360 Speaker 1: the way they wear, the hair and the clothes, that 67 00:03:08,400 --> 00:03:08,840 Speaker 1: they wear. 68 00:03:09,760 --> 00:03:11,519 Speaker 2: You won't be the first one to do that. 69 00:03:12,160 --> 00:03:15,160 Speaker 1: I just think, you know, don't listen to your girlfriends 70 00:03:15,160 --> 00:03:17,440 Speaker 1: and other people haters. 71 00:03:17,000 --> 00:03:19,000 Speaker 2: About your relationship because they don't know. 72 00:03:19,639 --> 00:03:22,560 Speaker 1: This has to be solely your decision, not what they 73 00:03:22,639 --> 00:03:26,079 Speaker 1: think with their judgmental attitudes. And don't let your friends 74 00:03:26,120 --> 00:03:29,120 Speaker 1: talk you out of a good man. You like this man, 75 00:03:29,320 --> 00:03:32,480 Speaker 1: so please don't dump him for some stupid reason and 76 00:03:32,600 --> 00:03:35,160 Speaker 1: then see him out with some other women and they're 77 00:03:35,200 --> 00:03:37,680 Speaker 1: doing all good and flourishing and everything. 78 00:03:37,320 --> 00:03:43,200 Speaker 2: And then you have regrets. Don't do that, Okay, Steve, I. 79 00:03:43,200 --> 00:03:46,080 Speaker 4: Don't see nothing wrong in this letter. You know you've 80 00:03:46,080 --> 00:03:48,800 Speaker 4: been messing around with a guy to work with. He 81 00:03:48,840 --> 00:03:50,960 Speaker 4: said he's how something specially in you, so he had 82 00:03:51,000 --> 00:03:54,040 Speaker 4: you moved over to his team. You looked up to 83 00:03:54,120 --> 00:03:57,720 Speaker 4: him because of his work ethic and how he commands 84 00:03:57,760 --> 00:03:58,960 Speaker 4: the rooms at the meetings. 85 00:03:59,560 --> 00:04:01,080 Speaker 3: He is a straight nerd. 86 00:04:01,680 --> 00:04:04,920 Speaker 4: But you say something about him, but he's stuck in 87 00:04:04,920 --> 00:04:07,840 Speaker 4: the late nineties with his hair, his suits and even 88 00:04:07,840 --> 00:04:10,720 Speaker 4: the way he talks. And then you say, but thank goodness, 89 00:04:10,760 --> 00:04:14,080 Speaker 4: he ain't that way. In the bedroom. He's large and 90 00:04:14,160 --> 00:04:18,520 Speaker 4: in charge there. Okay, He's exactly what you take to 91 00:04:18,520 --> 00:04:21,440 Speaker 4: get your job done. He plays love songs and light 92 00:04:21,520 --> 00:04:25,280 Speaker 4: candles before we intimate because he owes school, you know, 93 00:04:25,520 --> 00:04:28,960 Speaker 4: lighting candles playing music at that that you know that 94 00:04:29,080 --> 00:04:32,640 Speaker 4: used to happen a lot. You know, wasn't nothing else. 95 00:04:33,120 --> 00:04:36,480 Speaker 4: Couldn't put on TikTok, you know. So with what you're 96 00:04:36,520 --> 00:04:43,360 Speaker 4: gonna do Netflix, wasn't out, couldn't do that. So yeah, 97 00:04:43,520 --> 00:04:46,560 Speaker 4: back back down to these candles in this music. Sorry, 98 00:04:48,000 --> 00:04:50,640 Speaker 4: but that's what you like. Then he sets the mood 99 00:04:50,720 --> 00:04:54,880 Speaker 4: for it, takes off his silky boxes. Okay, that's cool, 100 00:04:54,880 --> 00:04:59,200 Speaker 4: that's old two, all right. Sometimes when he's sleeping, you 101 00:04:59,200 --> 00:05:00,880 Speaker 4: look at him. You want how he can be a 102 00:05:00,920 --> 00:05:04,719 Speaker 4: nerd and a superhero. Now have you ever thought that 103 00:05:04,800 --> 00:05:07,760 Speaker 4: he has to be these two different peoples so he 104 00:05:07,760 --> 00:05:11,640 Speaker 4: can survive in this world? Do you think that he's 105 00:05:11,720 --> 00:05:17,719 Speaker 4: running the boardroom because he's a nerd. Of course, he 106 00:05:17,800 --> 00:05:21,840 Speaker 4: has found a way to be successful in the corporate world, 107 00:05:22,160 --> 00:05:24,280 Speaker 4: and the corporate world likes him because they don't put 108 00:05:24,320 --> 00:05:27,520 Speaker 4: him in charge there too. Now, y'all been hooking up 109 00:05:27,560 --> 00:05:30,880 Speaker 4: on the load for about eight months. Nobody thinks y'all 110 00:05:30,920 --> 00:05:33,640 Speaker 4: mess around. So you put it in your two week 111 00:05:33,760 --> 00:05:36,919 Speaker 4: notice because you got a better job. Since I'm leaving 112 00:05:36,920 --> 00:05:38,839 Speaker 4: the company, he said, it's time for us to get 113 00:05:39,000 --> 00:05:44,040 Speaker 4: serious and date exclusively. He's forty one, wants to get 114 00:05:44,040 --> 00:05:47,120 Speaker 4: married and start a family. I'm forty four. I've been 115 00:05:47,160 --> 00:05:49,920 Speaker 4: married before, so I don't want to choose another man 116 00:05:50,000 --> 00:05:54,159 Speaker 4: that's not the total package. Well, now let's stop right here, 117 00:05:54,960 --> 00:05:57,680 Speaker 4: seeing as how you divorce. Don't look like you know 118 00:05:57,720 --> 00:06:00,440 Speaker 4: how to pick all that good No way that's coming 119 00:06:00,440 --> 00:06:02,760 Speaker 4: from somebody and had a couple of them his damn self. 120 00:06:03,520 --> 00:06:07,960 Speaker 4: So now I know when you in the bad picking business. 121 00:06:09,320 --> 00:06:12,040 Speaker 4: So now you in the bad picking business. But now 122 00:06:12,080 --> 00:06:14,560 Speaker 4: you say you don't want another man that ain't the 123 00:06:14,600 --> 00:06:15,479 Speaker 4: total package? 124 00:06:16,000 --> 00:06:17,919 Speaker 3: Do you think you're the total package? 125 00:06:18,000 --> 00:06:18,200 Speaker 1: You know? 126 00:06:18,520 --> 00:06:21,400 Speaker 3: You know what I've never heard. I'm gonna say this. 127 00:06:21,400 --> 00:06:23,839 Speaker 4: This is gonna be shocked, and we're gonna go to break. 128 00:06:24,160 --> 00:06:27,360 Speaker 4: I've never heard a woman say I've heard women say 129 00:06:27,480 --> 00:06:30,240 Speaker 4: he ain't nothing. All my exes was dogs. And when 130 00:06:30,240 --> 00:06:32,760 Speaker 4: I've never heard a woman say, you know what, I 131 00:06:32,760 --> 00:06:33,640 Speaker 4: ain't about nothing? 132 00:06:37,720 --> 00:06:40,520 Speaker 3: A woman say, you know what is me? I ain't 133 00:06:40,520 --> 00:06:41,080 Speaker 3: about nothing? 134 00:06:41,800 --> 00:06:45,360 Speaker 1: Part too of Steve's response, coming up at twenty three 135 00:06:45,400 --> 00:06:48,479 Speaker 1: minutes after the hour today's Strawberry Letter subject nerd in 136 00:06:48,520 --> 00:06:49,960 Speaker 1: the boardroom, boss. 137 00:06:49,640 --> 00:06:52,200 Speaker 2: In the bedroom. We'll get back into it right after this. 138 00:06:52,560 --> 00:06:55,280 Speaker 2: You're listening hard Morning show. 139 00:06:55,600 --> 00:06:58,480 Speaker 1: All right, Come on, Steve, let's recap today's Strawberry letter. 140 00:06:58,960 --> 00:07:01,440 Speaker 1: Nerd in the boardroom, boss in the bedroom. 141 00:07:03,480 --> 00:07:05,920 Speaker 4: Yeah, here's this woman who's messing around with this guy 142 00:07:05,960 --> 00:07:09,479 Speaker 4: on the job that's a nerd. He's in the supervisory capacity. 143 00:07:09,600 --> 00:07:11,600 Speaker 4: Said he saw some men, so he had him transfer 144 00:07:11,720 --> 00:07:13,760 Speaker 4: to their team. Now they've been seeing each other on 145 00:07:13,800 --> 00:07:17,000 Speaker 4: the low loaf about eight months. She likes everything about him, 146 00:07:17,000 --> 00:07:19,200 Speaker 4: how he commands the boardroom. Think it's because of the 147 00:07:19,240 --> 00:07:21,960 Speaker 4: big words he uses and all that. But they've been 148 00:07:21,960 --> 00:07:25,400 Speaker 4: in the bedroom. He everything, he is superhero. He's in 149 00:07:25,520 --> 00:07:26,560 Speaker 4: charge in there too. 150 00:07:27,880 --> 00:07:29,160 Speaker 3: But now. 151 00:07:30,680 --> 00:07:34,160 Speaker 4: And everything is going right. You know, he's a straight nerd. 152 00:07:34,640 --> 00:07:37,160 Speaker 4: But it's something about him. But she don't like the 153 00:07:37,160 --> 00:07:39,040 Speaker 4: fact that he's stuck in the late nineties with his 154 00:07:39,160 --> 00:07:42,280 Speaker 4: hand his suits. Thank goodness, he ain't that way in 155 00:07:42,320 --> 00:07:45,200 Speaker 4: the bedroom. So now he played love songs and light 156 00:07:45,320 --> 00:07:47,520 Speaker 4: candles because that's what people used to do, you know, 157 00:07:47,520 --> 00:07:49,960 Speaker 4: because we didn't have a lot of other stuff. So 158 00:07:50,200 --> 00:07:53,160 Speaker 4: you know, it was all like that. He sets the 159 00:07:53,200 --> 00:07:55,840 Speaker 4: mood before he take off his silks. He's silky boxes. 160 00:07:56,280 --> 00:07:59,000 Speaker 4: There's been times when I've stared at him sleeping. How 161 00:07:59,040 --> 00:08:01,600 Speaker 4: he can be a nerd and a superhero, And I said, 162 00:08:01,680 --> 00:08:04,520 Speaker 4: because he has to be that to have the job 163 00:08:04,560 --> 00:08:07,440 Speaker 4: he got. He's figured out the way to become successful 164 00:08:07,480 --> 00:08:10,400 Speaker 4: in corporate American and that's what he's doing all right now, 165 00:08:10,640 --> 00:08:12,960 Speaker 4: y'all been hooking up for about eight weeks. Last week 166 00:08:13,000 --> 00:08:14,680 Speaker 4: you put in your notice because you found a better 167 00:08:14,760 --> 00:08:17,160 Speaker 4: job since you leaving the company. He said, This time 168 00:08:17,200 --> 00:08:19,920 Speaker 4: we get serious and started dating. He forty one, I'm 169 00:08:19,920 --> 00:08:22,080 Speaker 4: forty four. He want to get married and start a family. 170 00:08:22,120 --> 00:08:24,120 Speaker 4: I've been married, so I don't want to choose another 171 00:08:24,160 --> 00:08:27,559 Speaker 4: man that's not the total package. And like I said 172 00:08:27,600 --> 00:08:29,440 Speaker 4: before I left, which is what we do. You know 173 00:08:29,520 --> 00:08:32,240 Speaker 4: what I've noticed that I have never heard in my life. 174 00:08:32,880 --> 00:08:35,959 Speaker 4: I've heard women who have exes who talk about what 175 00:08:36,080 --> 00:08:38,719 Speaker 4: was wrong with the men and they wasn't ready, they 176 00:08:38,760 --> 00:08:41,880 Speaker 4: wasn't mature, ain't no good man. I can't find a 177 00:08:41,920 --> 00:08:43,640 Speaker 4: good man. There's a lot of good men out there. 178 00:08:44,120 --> 00:08:47,440 Speaker 4: I've never heard a woman say, you know what, I 179 00:08:47,480 --> 00:08:48,319 Speaker 4: ain't about. 180 00:08:48,080 --> 00:08:53,200 Speaker 3: Nothing, And you never will you know what it's me 181 00:08:54,120 --> 00:08:55,800 Speaker 3: reason I can't keep a man. 182 00:08:58,400 --> 00:09:00,760 Speaker 4: You know, now there are women who can keep them man, 183 00:09:01,080 --> 00:09:04,000 Speaker 4: But you know it's women out here who just blame 184 00:09:04,160 --> 00:09:05,720 Speaker 4: men for all they woes. 185 00:09:06,160 --> 00:09:11,280 Speaker 3: And it could be you ain't no good man out here. 186 00:09:11,320 --> 00:09:12,600 Speaker 3: A lot of good men out here. 187 00:09:15,240 --> 00:09:18,400 Speaker 4: Anyway, here's her problem. So I don't want to choose 188 00:09:18,400 --> 00:09:21,560 Speaker 4: another man that's not total package. I'm so concerned about 189 00:09:21,600 --> 00:09:24,560 Speaker 4: how he looks. I told him my first outing should 190 00:09:24,600 --> 00:09:26,560 Speaker 4: be with my friends. We did a group date and 191 00:09:26,600 --> 00:09:30,360 Speaker 4: three of my girlfriends and they men. My girls are 192 00:09:30,480 --> 00:09:33,400 Speaker 4: very judgmental of him. They said that I get tired 193 00:09:33,400 --> 00:09:35,880 Speaker 4: of this nerdy conversation and it might be too hard 194 00:09:35,920 --> 00:09:39,360 Speaker 4: to change him. Your girlfriend and they men, any. 195 00:09:39,280 --> 00:09:42,080 Speaker 3: Of them married? You married. 196 00:09:44,040 --> 00:09:47,839 Speaker 4: Any of them? Me and Ashy your girlfriends to marry him. 197 00:09:49,800 --> 00:09:52,360 Speaker 4: Uh so you just had three girlfriends and they men. 198 00:09:53,120 --> 00:09:56,880 Speaker 4: But the girls got a problem with them, the dudes didn't, 199 00:09:57,720 --> 00:09:59,440 Speaker 4: And it might be too hard to change him. I 200 00:09:59,480 --> 00:10:01,600 Speaker 4: was thinking new clothes and a haircut would do it. 201 00:10:01,720 --> 00:10:05,120 Speaker 4: What new clothes and haircut could help? But he would 202 00:10:05,200 --> 00:10:08,960 Speaker 4: need a good woman to do that. But you're so 203 00:10:09,040 --> 00:10:12,800 Speaker 4: worried about what your friends think that you're finna let 204 00:10:12,840 --> 00:10:21,359 Speaker 4: the superhero and the nerd go. But they're skeptical. They're skeptical. 205 00:10:21,800 --> 00:10:24,080 Speaker 4: Can I gradually change a man that's stuck in the 206 00:10:24,160 --> 00:10:27,360 Speaker 4: time warp? I've seen it happened to me. 207 00:10:29,400 --> 00:10:32,280 Speaker 2: Yep, do you mean Steve? What are you saying? 208 00:10:33,280 --> 00:10:37,760 Speaker 3: I've seen it? Would change my haircut and my suits. 209 00:10:37,800 --> 00:10:43,040 Speaker 3: I saw it. Yeah, I don't even know what you're 210 00:10:43,040 --> 00:10:43,560 Speaker 3: tripping for. 211 00:10:44,960 --> 00:10:47,720 Speaker 4: Oh she was smart, though, she waited till she got 212 00:10:47,800 --> 00:10:49,360 Speaker 4: in and said, hey, you need to take them big 213 00:10:49,400 --> 00:10:53,680 Speaker 4: suits off. Now trying to change ad faught okay, and 214 00:10:53,920 --> 00:10:56,960 Speaker 4: farther and now here I am today. Would I be 215 00:10:57,000 --> 00:10:59,040 Speaker 4: a fool to let him go? You be a damn 216 00:10:59,080 --> 00:11:02,920 Speaker 4: fool to let him. You would be beyond ignorant to 217 00:11:03,000 --> 00:11:07,840 Speaker 4: let him go, And he won'ts you. On top of 218 00:11:08,000 --> 00:11:13,320 Speaker 4: all this, all he ain't a is a suit and 219 00:11:13,360 --> 00:11:19,360 Speaker 4: a haircut. That's all he ain't. You're gonna get tired 220 00:11:19,400 --> 00:11:22,040 Speaker 4: of that nerdy conversation. Oh well, I know a lot 221 00:11:22,080 --> 00:11:28,200 Speaker 4: of women is tired of these hip conversations. You know, 222 00:11:28,280 --> 00:11:30,160 Speaker 4: you can have a man say all the right things 223 00:11:30,160 --> 00:11:34,320 Speaker 4: that don't mean none of them. So, lady, I don't 224 00:11:34,320 --> 00:11:36,680 Speaker 4: know what you're gonna do. But if you let this 225 00:11:36,760 --> 00:11:41,280 Speaker 4: man go, you a stone cold fool. But then again, 226 00:11:42,880 --> 00:11:43,559 Speaker 4: maybe is you. 227 00:11:45,440 --> 00:11:49,800 Speaker 2: She'll never say it. Maybe is you she'll. 228 00:11:50,240 --> 00:11:53,120 Speaker 3: He ever thought of why you can't keep a man? 229 00:11:54,600 --> 00:11:56,440 Speaker 3: Maybe it's you. 230 00:11:57,000 --> 00:11:59,520 Speaker 4: I know y'all always want to put it on the man, 231 00:12:00,040 --> 00:12:04,960 Speaker 4: but I wish y'all would sometimes ess Is there anything 232 00:12:05,160 --> 00:12:10,040 Speaker 4: that you could be doing wrong? Is there anything about 233 00:12:10,080 --> 00:12:10,960 Speaker 4: you you could change? 234 00:12:12,080 --> 00:12:12,840 Speaker 2: Think about that? 235 00:12:13,200 --> 00:12:16,079 Speaker 3: Could you be too picky? 236 00:12:17,240 --> 00:12:20,600 Speaker 4: Because if you gonta let a man go because he 237 00:12:20,679 --> 00:12:23,559 Speaker 4: talk like a nerd and he got an old style 238 00:12:23,640 --> 00:12:27,120 Speaker 4: haircut in a suit that you don't like, you're gonna 239 00:12:27,200 --> 00:12:27,840 Speaker 4: let him go for that? 240 00:12:31,320 --> 00:12:33,320 Speaker 1: I was gonna ask you one thing, What is he 241 00:12:33,480 --> 00:12:36,040 Speaker 1: saying that turns her on so much? In the in 242 00:12:36,080 --> 00:12:37,600 Speaker 1: the boardroom? Those big words? 243 00:12:37,600 --> 00:12:39,120 Speaker 3: Hey, what do you guys want to do for lunch? 244 00:12:41,000 --> 00:12:50,160 Speaker 3: Are you kidding me? Applebee's not interested? How about it? 245 00:12:50,200 --> 00:12:50,959 Speaker 3: How about him? Anore? 246 00:12:51,400 --> 00:12:51,560 Speaker 4: You know? 247 00:12:51,720 --> 00:12:54,079 Speaker 3: Look, Hey, how about a more for a new dining experience? 248 00:12:55,400 --> 00:12:58,359 Speaker 1: You can come in on Today's Strubberry letter on Instagram 249 00:12:58,400 --> 00:12:59,800 Speaker 1: and Facebook and Steve Barby. 250 00:13:00,160 --> 00:13:02,160 Speaker 3: That's all it is. It's just words like that. 251 00:13:02,280 --> 00:13:04,840 Speaker 2: It's just also check out the. 252 00:13:07,480 --> 00:13:11,160 Speaker 1: Free iHeartRadio app coming up next to his junior and 253 00:13:11,240 --> 00:13:16,400 Speaker 1: sports talk. Right after this, you're listening to Harvey Morning Show.