1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:00,440 Speaker 1: Morning. 2 00:00:00,480 --> 00:00:03,920 Speaker 2: Everybody is DJ Envy, Charlamagne de God. We are the 3 00:00:03,960 --> 00:00:06,880 Speaker 2: Breakfast Club. Now if you're just joining us, we're talking 4 00:00:06,880 --> 00:00:08,280 Speaker 2: about Marcus Houston. 5 00:00:08,640 --> 00:00:08,800 Speaker 1: Now. 6 00:00:08,840 --> 00:00:11,520 Speaker 2: You know, Marcus Houston was in the news recently because 7 00:00:11,520 --> 00:00:13,960 Speaker 2: it came out that he married a nineteen year old 8 00:00:14,000 --> 00:00:17,560 Speaker 2: woman and he was talking about why he wanted to 9 00:00:17,600 --> 00:00:20,360 Speaker 2: marry a younger woman opposed to women his age, and 10 00:00:20,400 --> 00:00:21,120 Speaker 2: this is what he said. 11 00:00:21,400 --> 00:00:23,720 Speaker 3: You know, a lot of women my age are very independent. 12 00:00:24,400 --> 00:00:26,319 Speaker 3: They are very like, you know, I don't need a 13 00:00:26,320 --> 00:00:27,639 Speaker 3: man to do this with me because I could do 14 00:00:27,640 --> 00:00:29,960 Speaker 3: this with myself. And I also, I come from a 15 00:00:30,000 --> 00:00:34,640 Speaker 3: generation that I'm very very you know, love to provide 16 00:00:35,000 --> 00:00:36,960 Speaker 3: for my wife. I love to provide for my woman. 17 00:00:37,040 --> 00:00:39,880 Speaker 3: And I'm very in that generation like the old days. 18 00:00:40,080 --> 00:00:42,120 Speaker 4: You know, I would never. 19 00:00:41,960 --> 00:00:44,040 Speaker 3: Want to be with a woman that felt like, oh, 20 00:00:44,080 --> 00:00:45,440 Speaker 3: I don't need you out of you know what I'm 21 00:00:45,479 --> 00:00:47,879 Speaker 3: saying like that, So, you know, and there's a lot 22 00:00:47,920 --> 00:00:50,000 Speaker 3: of women my age. I've dated women my age, and 23 00:00:50,080 --> 00:00:53,320 Speaker 3: you know, they may have baggage, they may have kids, 24 00:00:53,400 --> 00:00:55,880 Speaker 3: they may have not you know, it's just there's so 25 00:00:55,960 --> 00:00:58,720 Speaker 3: many different women that I've dated throughout my life, and 26 00:00:58,760 --> 00:01:01,160 Speaker 3: this just so happened to be the won that heart. 27 00:01:01,400 --> 00:01:03,880 Speaker 5: That could be wrong, but I didn't hear Marcus Houston 28 00:01:04,040 --> 00:01:07,160 Speaker 5: say I don't date older women, you know, because they 29 00:01:07,200 --> 00:01:09,920 Speaker 5: come with baggage. That's why I'm dating a younger woman, 30 00:01:09,959 --> 00:01:11,240 Speaker 5: because they don't have any baggage. 31 00:01:11,360 --> 00:01:13,040 Speaker 1: I didn't. I didn't get that from what he said. 32 00:01:13,120 --> 00:01:15,679 Speaker 5: Just now, the internet might feel like he said that, 33 00:01:15,800 --> 00:01:17,840 Speaker 5: but I didn't hear him say that. 34 00:01:18,319 --> 00:01:20,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, he said, women that are my age, like a 35 00:01:20,800 --> 00:01:24,160 Speaker 2: lot of women my age, very independent. He says, they 36 00:01:24,200 --> 00:01:25,720 Speaker 2: are like, I don't need a man to do this 37 00:01:25,760 --> 00:01:27,720 Speaker 2: with me because I can do it for myself. He said, 38 00:01:28,280 --> 00:01:31,360 Speaker 2: sometimes dating older women, they come with baggage, they have kids, 39 00:01:31,400 --> 00:01:31,960 Speaker 2: And yeah. 40 00:01:31,800 --> 00:01:33,720 Speaker 1: He did say that, Well they didn't, but he didn't say. 41 00:01:33,720 --> 00:01:35,720 Speaker 5: That's why he didn't say I'm dating an older I'm 42 00:01:35,760 --> 00:01:37,800 Speaker 5: dating a younger woman because they don't have no baggage. 43 00:01:37,920 --> 00:01:39,360 Speaker 5: Like I don't know, he didn't say that. I didn't 44 00:01:39,360 --> 00:01:41,880 Speaker 5: get that from that what he said. But everybody has 45 00:01:42,120 --> 00:01:44,440 Speaker 5: baggage at a certain age. I think, like you know 46 00:01:44,480 --> 00:01:46,600 Speaker 5: what I mean, Like, if you, you know, forty plus 47 00:01:46,760 --> 00:01:49,880 Speaker 5: years old, you're going to have, you know, a traumas 48 00:01:50,040 --> 00:01:52,720 Speaker 5: that you might come into a situation with That's why 49 00:01:52,760 --> 00:01:54,920 Speaker 5: we always tell people like to go do the work. 50 00:01:55,000 --> 00:01:57,520 Speaker 5: Like that's why we encourage people to go to therapy, 51 00:01:57,560 --> 00:01:59,240 Speaker 5: you know what I mean, so they can deal with 52 00:01:59,280 --> 00:02:01,840 Speaker 5: their traumas before their traumas deal with them. And if 53 00:02:01,880 --> 00:02:03,680 Speaker 5: they don't deal with their traumas, they'll bring those traumas 54 00:02:03,720 --> 00:02:06,480 Speaker 5: into their relationship, and then those traumas will be projected 55 00:02:06,480 --> 00:02:08,480 Speaker 5: onto the person that they're in a relationship with, you 56 00:02:08,480 --> 00:02:10,600 Speaker 5: know what I mean. And how many older men we know 57 00:02:10,680 --> 00:02:12,880 Speaker 5: over forty that got kids as well? So what does 58 00:02:12,919 --> 00:02:15,359 Speaker 5: he mean when he says baggage If you're if you're 59 00:02:15,360 --> 00:02:17,639 Speaker 5: of a certain age, you're gonna have some baggage. 60 00:02:18,480 --> 00:02:20,760 Speaker 1: Baggage. I'm putting baggage in parenthesies, by the way. 61 00:02:20,800 --> 00:02:22,639 Speaker 2: But I do feel like a lot of older men 62 00:02:22,720 --> 00:02:25,600 Speaker 2: date younger women for one reason, because they feel like 63 00:02:25,600 --> 00:02:28,320 Speaker 2: a younger woman possibly can be controlled easier or more 64 00:02:28,480 --> 00:02:31,120 Speaker 2: because they haven't lived their life. They don't really know 65 00:02:31,240 --> 00:02:33,359 Speaker 2: as much as an older woman. They haven't lived, as. 66 00:02:33,320 --> 00:02:34,080 Speaker 1: People would say. 67 00:02:34,240 --> 00:02:36,200 Speaker 2: I also feel like a lot of men would date 68 00:02:36,240 --> 00:02:38,080 Speaker 2: young women because they feel like younger women. 69 00:02:38,280 --> 00:02:42,600 Speaker 1: Uh, their body hasn't met gravity yet. Right, This boy 70 00:02:42,720 --> 00:02:43,160 Speaker 1: a lot of. 71 00:02:43,080 --> 00:02:47,240 Speaker 5: Them shows violence. Wow, I thought Marcaus Houston chose violence. 72 00:02:47,600 --> 00:02:51,040 Speaker 5: Sean Kasey, DJ Andvy just chose violence. Tell me and 73 00:02:51,200 --> 00:02:53,799 Speaker 5: be explained more. What do you mean What do you 74 00:02:53,840 --> 00:02:55,480 Speaker 5: mean their bodies haven't met gravity yet? 75 00:02:55,480 --> 00:02:57,600 Speaker 1: What are you saying? I mean we all, our bodies 76 00:02:57,639 --> 00:03:00,760 Speaker 1: all meet gravity. Your balls, your balls sit the same way? 77 00:03:00,919 --> 00:03:03,280 Speaker 1: Yes they do? Actually? Okay, no, no, no no. I want 78 00:03:03,320 --> 00:03:03,520 Speaker 1: you to know. 79 00:03:03,520 --> 00:03:05,080 Speaker 5: You have to explain this. You shouldn't just get out 80 00:03:05,120 --> 00:03:07,080 Speaker 5: of this one. What did you mean by that statement? 81 00:03:07,240 --> 00:03:10,720 Speaker 2: When people are older, the ass starts to drop, sometimes 82 00:03:10,720 --> 00:03:11,840 Speaker 2: their breast start to drop. 83 00:03:11,880 --> 00:03:13,919 Speaker 1: It is gravity in two days something. 84 00:03:14,080 --> 00:03:16,320 Speaker 5: These forty year old women, these fifty some of your 85 00:03:16,320 --> 00:03:19,720 Speaker 5: old women, are killing these young girls. Nowadays, every woman 86 00:03:19,760 --> 00:03:23,359 Speaker 5: that I think is beautiful is way over the age 87 00:03:23,360 --> 00:03:25,799 Speaker 5: of forty. I don't care if they're in entertainment, are 88 00:03:25,840 --> 00:03:28,600 Speaker 5: just walking around in everyday life. These forty old women 89 00:03:28,680 --> 00:03:30,639 Speaker 5: are These forty old women know how to take care 90 00:03:30,639 --> 00:03:33,600 Speaker 5: of theirself way better than a lot of these younger girls. 91 00:03:33,639 --> 00:03:37,240 Speaker 2: And why a lot of older men too young. I'm married, bro, 92 00:03:37,640 --> 00:03:39,720 Speaker 2: don't even look at me. I'm married, My wife. 93 00:03:39,480 --> 00:03:40,680 Speaker 1: Is You're not making no sense. 94 00:03:40,920 --> 00:03:44,040 Speaker 5: I'm saying that the older women are killing these young 95 00:03:44,080 --> 00:03:46,880 Speaker 5: girls in the look department, and you saying that's why 96 00:03:47,480 --> 00:03:48,000 Speaker 5: older men. 97 00:03:48,160 --> 00:03:50,840 Speaker 2: You are saying a lot of times, the reason why 98 00:03:50,920 --> 00:03:53,120 Speaker 2: older men the moonwalk. 99 00:03:53,640 --> 00:03:56,200 Speaker 5: You just keep fighting. You are just trying to prove 100 00:03:56,280 --> 00:03:59,080 Speaker 5: this stupid ass point. You just told all these women 101 00:03:59,080 --> 00:04:02,600 Speaker 5: that when they get old, everything drops. That's what you 102 00:04:02,800 --> 00:04:04,760 Speaker 5: just said, Mike. You say these older women is out 103 00:04:04,760 --> 00:04:06,560 Speaker 5: here saggy, flabby and sick. 104 00:04:06,880 --> 00:04:10,400 Speaker 1: That's what you just said. You just chose big violence. 105 00:04:10,760 --> 00:04:15,880 Speaker 2: Why hello, Mike, Mike get fifty years old and you 106 00:04:15,920 --> 00:04:16,720 Speaker 2: dated younger women. 107 00:04:16,800 --> 00:04:17,799 Speaker 1: Why, Mike, Why? 108 00:04:18,600 --> 00:04:21,080 Speaker 4: I mean, like, like my man said, the older women 109 00:04:21,120 --> 00:04:22,680 Speaker 4: that come with a lot of package in a lot 110 00:04:22,680 --> 00:04:23,719 Speaker 4: of ways. 111 00:04:23,760 --> 00:04:25,800 Speaker 5: Mike, you ain't got no baggage, Mike, Mike, you ain't 112 00:04:25,800 --> 00:04:27,640 Speaker 5: got no baggage. You let Mike finish because this is 113 00:04:27,720 --> 00:04:29,920 Speaker 5: just a silly conversation. Mike, you're fifty years old, you're 114 00:04:29,920 --> 00:04:31,560 Speaker 5: a black man in America. You ain't got no baggage. 115 00:04:31,560 --> 00:04:32,360 Speaker 5: You ain't got no trauma. 116 00:04:32,720 --> 00:04:35,240 Speaker 1: Nah, not really, you're a liar. You've been in therapy. 117 00:04:35,880 --> 00:04:36,040 Speaker 5: Nah. 118 00:04:36,279 --> 00:04:38,400 Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, nothing's ever happened to you in your life. 119 00:04:38,400 --> 00:04:39,599 Speaker 4: You got I'm just saying. 120 00:04:39,640 --> 00:04:41,240 Speaker 1: I'm just saying you got kids. 121 00:04:41,800 --> 00:04:45,440 Speaker 4: I mean, a man likes to feel special, you know. 122 00:04:45,360 --> 00:04:47,480 Speaker 1: Mike, do you have kids? Mike, do you have kids? 123 00:04:47,800 --> 00:04:48,000 Speaker 4: Yes? 124 00:04:48,560 --> 00:04:51,400 Speaker 5: Okay, so you got mad baggage according to Marcus Houston, 125 00:04:51,440 --> 00:04:53,240 Speaker 5: because if you were a fifty year old woman with 126 00:04:53,360 --> 00:04:55,560 Speaker 5: four kids, you'd be having mad baggage. 127 00:04:55,600 --> 00:04:57,240 Speaker 1: Mike, come on, let's stop be in there. 128 00:04:57,760 --> 00:04:58,799 Speaker 4: My kids are over thirty. 129 00:04:58,839 --> 00:05:02,280 Speaker 1: All my kids are grown, should be you fifty, so. 130 00:05:03,760 --> 00:05:04,680 Speaker 4: They're not really bagging. 131 00:05:04,880 --> 00:05:07,400 Speaker 2: Mike is saying what Marcus Houston is saying, and not 132 00:05:07,480 --> 00:05:09,680 Speaker 2: that I agree, but I'm saying that a young a 133 00:05:09,680 --> 00:05:12,320 Speaker 2: lot of older men choose younger women because one they 134 00:05:12,360 --> 00:05:15,599 Speaker 2: feel like they can mold them and make them do 135 00:05:15,640 --> 00:05:18,239 Speaker 2: what they want. And two, a lot of people feel 136 00:05:18,240 --> 00:05:21,760 Speaker 2: that younger women their bodies are not reaching gravity. 137 00:05:21,760 --> 00:05:25,800 Speaker 5: Man, you don't stop saying that. 138 00:05:25,800 --> 00:05:28,720 Speaker 1: That is definitely what people say. Who is people? 139 00:05:29,279 --> 00:05:31,760 Speaker 5: You gotta stop this, bro. This is crazy. This is 140 00:05:31,760 --> 00:05:34,800 Speaker 5: crazy talking talking this morning. This guy is crazy. This 141 00:05:34,839 --> 00:05:37,359 Speaker 5: guy is out there telling all the older women y'all 142 00:05:37,400 --> 00:05:40,320 Speaker 5: flabby and sick. Did I say that older women looking 143 00:05:40,440 --> 00:05:42,039 Speaker 5: like Larry Holmes flabby and sick? 144 00:05:42,080 --> 00:05:43,160 Speaker 1: That's what you're saying. 145 00:05:42,920 --> 00:05:45,920 Speaker 4: You're not saying. But listen, this is a good point 146 00:05:45,960 --> 00:05:48,960 Speaker 4: to Marcus made. They don't need a man. That's how 147 00:05:49,000 --> 00:05:52,120 Speaker 4: they talk. Men need to feel needed and wanted, not 148 00:05:52,279 --> 00:05:53,880 Speaker 4: they don't need to be with a woman that. I 149 00:05:53,920 --> 00:05:55,480 Speaker 4: don't need no man to do this. I don't need 150 00:05:55,520 --> 00:05:58,960 Speaker 4: no fan fit I mean, then, I mean what I mean? 151 00:05:59,000 --> 00:05:59,880 Speaker 4: What do they need you for? 152 00:06:00,520 --> 00:06:03,080 Speaker 5: Y'all act like older women don't do that? By the way, 153 00:06:03,120 --> 00:06:06,280 Speaker 5: I'm envy knows. I'm a I'm a You know I 154 00:06:06,320 --> 00:06:09,360 Speaker 5: love older women. You like them over fifty? 155 00:06:09,760 --> 00:06:12,719 Speaker 1: I do? I love I love sixty. So that's what 156 00:06:13,160 --> 00:06:16,200 Speaker 1: I like them seasoned. Okay, that's what I like, all right. 157 00:06:16,200 --> 00:06:19,479 Speaker 5: But me and my wife have a great relationship and 158 00:06:19,520 --> 00:06:22,320 Speaker 5: we protect and provide for each other like we need 159 00:06:22,360 --> 00:06:24,880 Speaker 5: each other. Like, what is this thing that y'all have 160 00:06:24,920 --> 00:06:26,560 Speaker 5: where y'all need a woman to like want? 161 00:06:26,640 --> 00:06:29,320 Speaker 1: Y'all y'all say I need to mold a woman like that? 162 00:06:29,360 --> 00:06:30,760 Speaker 1: Don't know. I'm just telling you what this is. I 163 00:06:30,760 --> 00:06:31,640 Speaker 1: don't know. I don't agree. 164 00:06:31,720 --> 00:06:33,440 Speaker 5: I need to feel wanted. I don't need I need 165 00:06:33,440 --> 00:06:35,600 Speaker 5: a woman to want me and need me? And what 166 00:06:35,680 --> 00:06:35,880 Speaker 5: is that? 167 00:06:35,920 --> 00:06:36,440 Speaker 1: What is that? 168 00:06:36,560 --> 00:06:40,320 Speaker 5: Kevin More the insecurities y'all haven't dealt with Kevin. 169 00:06:40,480 --> 00:06:42,159 Speaker 2: We're talking about consusedon what's your thoughts? 170 00:06:42,760 --> 00:06:45,680 Speaker 4: I think you but I think her parents are crazy. 171 00:06:45,960 --> 00:06:47,560 Speaker 1: Talk to me, brother, right right. 172 00:06:47,839 --> 00:06:49,919 Speaker 4: I want a woman to want me too, but I 173 00:06:49,960 --> 00:06:53,440 Speaker 4: want an interpaent woman at the same time. I want 174 00:06:53,480 --> 00:06:54,479 Speaker 4: a woman. 175 00:06:54,360 --> 00:06:57,360 Speaker 5: At you said what you said, you're saying you want 176 00:06:57,400 --> 00:06:59,919 Speaker 5: a woman that uh that that that that's still that 177 00:07:00,120 --> 00:07:02,000 Speaker 5: need you, but can also do her own thing. 178 00:07:02,480 --> 00:07:05,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, like he said, And I don't I 179 00:07:05,360 --> 00:07:07,360 Speaker 2: don't know how long they've been talking, how long they've 180 00:07:07,400 --> 00:07:10,280 Speaker 2: been speaking. But for myself, the fact that they married 181 00:07:10,280 --> 00:07:12,680 Speaker 2: at nineteen or whatever it was, it means they had 182 00:07:12,680 --> 00:07:14,640 Speaker 2: to know each other, right, And I don't think I 183 00:07:14,640 --> 00:07:17,280 Speaker 2: would allow, and I'm gonna say it allowed, but allow 184 00:07:17,360 --> 00:07:20,280 Speaker 2: my eighteen year old daughter to be around somebody that old. 185 00:07:20,280 --> 00:07:22,520 Speaker 1: That's just name. First of all, we got I got 186 00:07:22,520 --> 00:07:23,800 Speaker 1: four daughters. You got four daughters. 187 00:07:23,880 --> 00:07:26,720 Speaker 5: Imagine a man, a grown ass man like that, saying 188 00:07:27,080 --> 00:07:30,000 Speaker 5: I can mold her. What does that even mean? Like 189 00:07:30,560 --> 00:07:32,400 Speaker 5: you didn't do your you didn't do your job as 190 00:07:32,400 --> 00:07:34,080 Speaker 5: a father. I didn't do my job as a father. 191 00:07:34,240 --> 00:07:35,880 Speaker 5: If it's an old man out here talking about I'm 192 00:07:35,880 --> 00:07:37,240 Speaker 5: going to mold her, all. 193 00:07:37,160 --> 00:07:39,280 Speaker 2: Right, Well, eight hundred and five eighty five, one oh 194 00:07:39,280 --> 00:07:41,280 Speaker 2: five to one. Let's have this discussion some more with 195 00:07:41,400 --> 00:07:43,680 Speaker 2: taking your calls to. 196 00:07:42,920 --> 00:07:45,680 Speaker 5: Choose more violence. I don't know who called more violence 197 00:07:45,720 --> 00:07:47,640 Speaker 5: this morning. You and Marcus Houston, what are you talking? 198 00:07:47,920 --> 00:07:51,400 Speaker 5: V said everything drops after this guy is crazy. 199 00:07:51,440 --> 00:07:53,280 Speaker 1: Let's talk about it at the Breakfast Club. Good morning,