1 00:00:00,760 --> 00:00:03,560 Speaker 1: Time now, guys for today's Strawberry Letter and listen. If 2 00:00:03,560 --> 00:00:07,600 Speaker 1: you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting, and more. 3 00:00:07,960 --> 00:00:11,399 Speaker 1: Please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve Harvey FM and 4 00:00:11,520 --> 00:00:15,040 Speaker 1: click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your letter 5 00:00:15,200 --> 00:00:17,840 Speaker 1: live on deep air, just like we're gonna read this 6 00:00:17,880 --> 00:00:22,440 Speaker 1: one right here, right now. Buckle up and hold on tight. 7 00:00:22,520 --> 00:00:25,360 Speaker 1: We got it for you here. It is the Strawberry Letter, 8 00:00:25,760 --> 00:00:30,680 Speaker 1: all right, Thank you, nephew. Subject my children's mama or 9 00:00:31,160 --> 00:00:34,920 Speaker 1: my sugar Mama, Dear Stephen Shirley. I love my wife 10 00:00:35,159 --> 00:00:37,640 Speaker 1: very much, and she is the mother of my children. 11 00:00:38,040 --> 00:00:41,479 Speaker 1: But I have another woman. My wife is very beautiful 12 00:00:41,520 --> 00:00:44,519 Speaker 1: and smart, but she doesn't submit to me like my 13 00:00:44,560 --> 00:00:47,319 Speaker 1: mistress does. My wife wants me to be the man 14 00:00:47,400 --> 00:00:49,680 Speaker 1: of the house all of the time, and when I 15 00:00:49,720 --> 00:00:53,000 Speaker 1: ask her for help on certain things, she huffs and puffs. 16 00:00:53,400 --> 00:00:56,040 Speaker 1: I just want a partnership with her and raise our 17 00:00:56,120 --> 00:01:00,880 Speaker 1: children together. My other woman is older and loves catering 18 00:01:00,920 --> 00:01:04,360 Speaker 1: to me like she is my personal assistant. It's so 19 00:01:04,520 --> 00:01:07,640 Speaker 1: good with this older woman. I'm starting to wonder if 20 00:01:07,680 --> 00:01:10,160 Speaker 1: I'm falling in love with her or if I'm just 21 00:01:10,240 --> 00:01:13,240 Speaker 1: in love with all of the attention. I told my 22 00:01:13,319 --> 00:01:16,080 Speaker 1: mistress that I am not leaving my wife, and she 23 00:01:16,120 --> 00:01:19,520 Speaker 1: doesn't seem to care. My wife had my phone looking 24 00:01:19,520 --> 00:01:22,559 Speaker 1: for our plumber's number, and she ran across a text 25 00:01:22,680 --> 00:01:25,040 Speaker 1: from my mistress. I told her she is one of 26 00:01:25,040 --> 00:01:28,640 Speaker 1: my real estate clients. My wife would never suspect anything, 27 00:01:28,760 --> 00:01:33,920 Speaker 1: and she doesn't question me. If she found out about 28 00:01:33,959 --> 00:01:36,840 Speaker 1: my mistress, I'm sure I could explain it so that 29 00:01:36,880 --> 00:01:39,839 Speaker 1: she wouldn't think anything was going on, because this lady 30 00:01:40,000 --> 00:01:42,640 Speaker 1: isn't my type at all. I'm in it for the 31 00:01:42,680 --> 00:01:46,000 Speaker 1: way she's always making me feel. She makes me a 32 00:01:46,040 --> 00:01:49,440 Speaker 1: priority and treats me like a king. She buys me 33 00:01:49,520 --> 00:01:54,240 Speaker 1: expensive gifts, and she freely gives me money. I love 34 00:01:54,320 --> 00:01:57,640 Speaker 1: that she enjoys kognac and cigars with me and has 35 00:01:57,640 --> 00:02:02,720 Speaker 1: a passion for classic cars. Is the ideal sugar mama. 36 00:02:02,800 --> 00:02:06,120 Speaker 1: The sex is great and feels so natural with her 37 00:02:06,400 --> 00:02:09,679 Speaker 1: that I can't imagine why this woman is single. I'm 38 00:02:09,680 --> 00:02:12,520 Speaker 1: not under any pressure to stop seeing this woman, but 39 00:02:12,600 --> 00:02:15,480 Speaker 1: I know it's wrong. I am happy at home and 40 00:02:15,560 --> 00:02:18,040 Speaker 1: I'm happy with my mistress, so I would have a 41 00:02:18,080 --> 00:02:21,640 Speaker 1: hard time choosing between the two. Should I make a choice, 42 00:02:21,680 --> 00:02:26,280 Speaker 1: now or ride this out. Please help, please help with 43 00:02:26,400 --> 00:02:29,280 Speaker 1: what what do you want us to help with? That's 44 00:02:29,320 --> 00:02:34,400 Speaker 1: what I'm confused about here. You already know, you already know. 45 00:02:34,600 --> 00:02:36,840 Speaker 1: I mean, what do you want Steve and I to do? 46 00:02:36,919 --> 00:02:40,200 Speaker 1: At this point? You have all the answers Morally, you 47 00:02:40,280 --> 00:02:43,799 Speaker 1: know this is wrong. You're married, you have children. Okay, 48 00:02:44,360 --> 00:02:47,680 Speaker 1: you're cheating, You're lying, You're using the sugar Mama because 49 00:02:47,919 --> 00:02:51,080 Speaker 1: she gives you attention. You're taking money from her. You 50 00:02:51,120 --> 00:02:53,480 Speaker 1: know she smokes cigars with you and all of that. 51 00:02:53,639 --> 00:02:55,680 Speaker 1: You think you might be in love with her. The 52 00:02:55,720 --> 00:02:59,240 Speaker 1: sex is great. You're critical of your wife because she 53 00:02:59,320 --> 00:03:03,720 Speaker 1: doesn't submit to you and because she wants you to 54 00:03:03,760 --> 00:03:06,000 Speaker 1: be the man of the house all the time. Hello, 55 00:03:06,880 --> 00:03:11,200 Speaker 1: I don't understand that one. But so this makes her 56 00:03:11,200 --> 00:03:14,720 Speaker 1: a bad wife because those are her requirements. All right? 57 00:03:15,160 --> 00:03:17,720 Speaker 1: I think you, sir, I think you have a problem 58 00:03:17,760 --> 00:03:21,840 Speaker 1: because you just want women to just to serve you 59 00:03:21,919 --> 00:03:24,600 Speaker 1: and cater to you. I mean, who are you that 60 00:03:24,760 --> 00:03:28,000 Speaker 1: you deserve that? What? What are you doing? But you 61 00:03:28,120 --> 00:03:30,480 Speaker 1: have a good wife. You says she was beautiful and smart, 62 00:03:30,560 --> 00:03:33,840 Speaker 1: you have children, but you're cheating on her. You don't 63 00:03:33,840 --> 00:03:37,560 Speaker 1: even deserve her. Let alone a sugar mama, and you 64 00:03:37,960 --> 00:03:40,600 Speaker 1: think you might have to decide between the two. If 65 00:03:40,640 --> 00:03:43,800 Speaker 1: we tell you to leave the sugar mama alone, you're 66 00:03:43,840 --> 00:03:46,800 Speaker 1: not gonna do it, because what the sex is great 67 00:03:46,840 --> 00:03:49,280 Speaker 1: and she does all these wonderful things to you. You 68 00:03:49,320 --> 00:03:52,800 Speaker 1: don't really want anything from us unless you want us 69 00:03:52,800 --> 00:03:55,600 Speaker 1: to tell you to stay stay in it, because you're 70 00:03:55,640 --> 00:03:58,040 Speaker 1: happy with both of them. You don't want an answer 71 00:03:58,080 --> 00:04:00,480 Speaker 1: from us. I mean, really, you're just wasting our time 72 00:04:00,600 --> 00:04:04,480 Speaker 1: right now. Seriously, you are, Steve, you know what, surely 73 00:04:04,840 --> 00:04:08,040 Speaker 1: everything you said it's spot on. I mean, you know, dude, 74 00:04:08,560 --> 00:04:11,640 Speaker 1: really did you write us just so you could brag 75 00:04:11,680 --> 00:04:14,960 Speaker 1: about your situation? You just wanted to tell it to 76 00:04:15,000 --> 00:04:18,240 Speaker 1: somebody because obviously, man, this is something you can't keep 77 00:04:18,240 --> 00:04:21,760 Speaker 1: to yourself, because where in here did you ask for help? 78 00:04:22,800 --> 00:04:27,760 Speaker 1: Where in here do you even see a problem? See 79 00:04:28,120 --> 00:04:31,640 Speaker 1: all you did will send us a letter that to 80 00:04:31,920 --> 00:04:36,480 Speaker 1: justify what you're doing, and it don't add up, dog, 81 00:04:37,400 --> 00:04:40,480 Speaker 1: damn man, it's dudes like you, man, see brou I 82 00:04:40,520 --> 00:04:42,240 Speaker 1: don't know what you thought I was supposed to say 83 00:04:42,240 --> 00:04:44,120 Speaker 1: to you, but it's dudes like you to make it 84 00:04:44,200 --> 00:04:46,760 Speaker 1: hard for other dudes. Man, that's trying to do right 85 00:04:47,839 --> 00:04:50,240 Speaker 1: or out there just trying to trying to get it together. 86 00:04:51,000 --> 00:04:54,640 Speaker 1: My wife is very beautiful, she's the mother of your children. 87 00:04:55,240 --> 00:04:58,120 Speaker 1: But I got another woman. Okay, right here, now you're 88 00:04:58,120 --> 00:05:01,040 Speaker 1: starting to women are starting to do. Developer hate for you. 89 00:05:01,279 --> 00:05:03,360 Speaker 1: But let me show you where you may show they 90 00:05:03,440 --> 00:05:06,920 Speaker 1: hate you. My wife is very beautiful and smart, but 91 00:05:07,000 --> 00:05:10,440 Speaker 1: she doesn't submit to me like my mistress does. Right there, 92 00:05:10,520 --> 00:05:14,520 Speaker 1: they hate your ass. Every woman listening to this hates 93 00:05:14,920 --> 00:05:22,080 Speaker 1: your ass right now. That hell, dog, she's very beautiful 94 00:05:22,080 --> 00:05:27,080 Speaker 1: and small, but she don't submit to me. Dog, every woman, 95 00:05:27,360 --> 00:05:31,400 Speaker 1: you just loose you. So what, you stupid man? My 96 00:05:31,440 --> 00:05:33,799 Speaker 1: wife wants me to be the man of the house 97 00:05:33,920 --> 00:05:37,360 Speaker 1: all the time. Well what you want some days off? Yeah? 98 00:05:37,520 --> 00:05:39,920 Speaker 1: What is that? So you don't you don't get days 99 00:05:39,960 --> 00:05:43,440 Speaker 1: off from this hill? This thing called manhood, man, you 100 00:05:43,520 --> 00:05:47,400 Speaker 1: got to wear it. It's yours now. If you don't 101 00:05:47,400 --> 00:05:49,520 Speaker 1: want to be man at house all that damn time, 102 00:05:49,960 --> 00:05:51,919 Speaker 1: how many days off you need? Because she got to 103 00:05:51,920 --> 00:05:53,560 Speaker 1: be the wife and the mother. She don't get no 104 00:05:53,680 --> 00:05:57,160 Speaker 1: days off from there. Ain't man, come on to right hill? 105 00:05:57,520 --> 00:05:59,479 Speaker 1: And when I ask her for help on certain things, 106 00:05:59,480 --> 00:06:02,800 Speaker 1: she husts the post. I just want to partnership with 107 00:06:02,839 --> 00:06:05,719 Speaker 1: her and raise our children together. Any what marriage is though, 108 00:06:06,560 --> 00:06:08,880 Speaker 1: then you gotta figure some stuff out. You you just 109 00:06:08,880 --> 00:06:10,680 Speaker 1: got to sit down and talk. You gotta listen, you 110 00:06:10,680 --> 00:06:12,599 Speaker 1: gotta hear some stuff you don't want to hear. You 111 00:06:12,640 --> 00:06:14,400 Speaker 1: gotta let some stuff go you don't want to let 112 00:06:14,480 --> 00:06:17,960 Speaker 1: go of. That's what marriage really is. My other woman 113 00:06:18,080 --> 00:06:20,240 Speaker 1: is old and loves cater to me like she's my 114 00:06:20,320 --> 00:06:25,200 Speaker 1: personal assistant. Do you have a man about the bride? 115 00:06:25,640 --> 00:06:28,840 Speaker 1: Why did you send for? Is she showed up in 116 00:06:29,000 --> 00:06:34,360 Speaker 1: a box like she's my personal assistant? Oh? Do hold 117 00:06:34,360 --> 00:06:36,559 Speaker 1: it right there, Steve. I know you should have called 118 00:06:36,560 --> 00:06:41,919 Speaker 1: timp service and marriage somebody down there. Yeah. We'll have 119 00:06:42,000 --> 00:06:44,760 Speaker 1: part two of Steve's response coming up at twenty three 120 00:06:44,800 --> 00:06:48,719 Speaker 1: minutes after the hours. Today's subject my children's mama or 121 00:06:48,760 --> 00:06:52,120 Speaker 1: my sugar Mama. We'll be back with Moura right after this. 122 00:06:52,839 --> 00:06:57,159 Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, Steve, come on, 123 00:06:57,279 --> 00:07:00,560 Speaker 1: let's recap today's strawberry letter. This crazy letter or subject 124 00:07:00,680 --> 00:07:04,719 Speaker 1: my children's mama or my sugar mama? Just food and 125 00:07:04,760 --> 00:07:09,360 Speaker 1: wrote in you know, just this letter stupid from time 126 00:07:09,400 --> 00:07:12,600 Speaker 1: and start off man. I love my wife very much. 127 00:07:12,640 --> 00:07:15,880 Speaker 1: She's the mother of my children. But I have another woman. 128 00:07:16,120 --> 00:07:19,760 Speaker 1: The hate for you began right here by all the 129 00:07:19,840 --> 00:07:22,720 Speaker 1: women listening to this letter. Then you seal the deal. 130 00:07:23,120 --> 00:07:25,800 Speaker 1: My wife is very beautiful and small, but she don't 131 00:07:25,840 --> 00:07:30,280 Speaker 1: submit to me like my mistress does. That did it 132 00:07:30,480 --> 00:07:34,240 Speaker 1: right there? Brother, Let me explain something to nothing you 133 00:07:34,360 --> 00:07:38,000 Speaker 1: write in this letter after this can bail you out 134 00:07:38,000 --> 00:07:41,400 Speaker 1: of the situation. You just created a bad graph one. 135 00:07:41,680 --> 00:07:45,840 Speaker 1: I'm telling you, partner see fellas, and I want fellas 136 00:07:45,840 --> 00:07:48,920 Speaker 1: to listen to this man. This is my father taught 137 00:07:48,960 --> 00:07:51,160 Speaker 1: me something. He says, Son, listen to me when a 138 00:07:51,280 --> 00:07:55,520 Speaker 1: fool is talking, stay there and listen carefully. I said, Daddy, 139 00:07:55,560 --> 00:07:58,120 Speaker 1: why should I listen to somebody that's stupid, he says, son, 140 00:07:58,240 --> 00:08:02,640 Speaker 1: listen to me. Don't walk away, because what you're gonna 141 00:08:02,720 --> 00:08:05,800 Speaker 1: learn is what not to do and what not to say. 142 00:08:06,000 --> 00:08:08,440 Speaker 1: Just stay there and listen. He a fool can teach 143 00:08:08,480 --> 00:08:12,040 Speaker 1: you a lesson. So a fool wrote this letter. Every 144 00:08:12,040 --> 00:08:15,920 Speaker 1: time I ask her something, she huff and puff. I 145 00:08:15,960 --> 00:08:18,640 Speaker 1: just want to partnership with her and raise our children together, 146 00:08:18,880 --> 00:08:22,320 Speaker 1: or partnership and raise your kid. Doc. You have to 147 00:08:22,360 --> 00:08:24,640 Speaker 1: talk to your wife. You have to compromise. You have 148 00:08:24,680 --> 00:08:26,800 Speaker 1: to hear stuff. You have to listening stories. You who 149 00:08:26,880 --> 00:08:28,760 Speaker 1: want to listen to. You got to go places you 150 00:08:28,760 --> 00:08:31,640 Speaker 1: don't want to go. Why are you rubbing your faith 151 00:08:32,120 --> 00:08:34,160 Speaker 1: while you're saying to the dress room, you're gonna buy 152 00:08:34,200 --> 00:08:36,760 Speaker 1: stuff you don't feel like buying. She's gonna spend some money. 153 00:08:36,760 --> 00:08:38,280 Speaker 1: Ain't gonna say nothing to you about it. I just 154 00:08:38,400 --> 00:08:41,440 Speaker 1: saw all this Scott to happen. Swift marriage is my 155 00:08:41,559 --> 00:08:44,040 Speaker 1: other woman is older and loves Caden to me like 156 00:08:44,120 --> 00:08:49,679 Speaker 1: she's my personal assistant. Now, if you thought they hated 157 00:08:49,760 --> 00:08:56,160 Speaker 1: you in paragraph one, the letter has now turned into 158 00:08:57,160 --> 00:09:02,120 Speaker 1: they want to join together and kill. This woman is 159 00:09:02,160 --> 00:09:06,640 Speaker 1: looking at she like you, stak ass. It's so good 160 00:09:06,640 --> 00:09:08,920 Speaker 1: with this older woman. I'm starting to wonder if I'm 161 00:09:08,920 --> 00:09:11,400 Speaker 1: falling in love with her or just in the love 162 00:09:11,600 --> 00:09:15,000 Speaker 1: all the attention. I told my mistress I'm not leaving 163 00:09:15,040 --> 00:09:17,120 Speaker 1: my wife, and she don't seem to care. Now I 164 00:09:17,160 --> 00:09:18,920 Speaker 1: know why that is so, and I'm gonna show you. 165 00:09:18,920 --> 00:09:22,080 Speaker 1: We're gonna come back to that. My wife had your 166 00:09:22,080 --> 00:09:24,280 Speaker 1: phone looking to our plumbers number. She ran across the 167 00:09:24,280 --> 00:09:26,320 Speaker 1: tech from mistress. I told her she's one of my 168 00:09:26,360 --> 00:09:29,040 Speaker 1: real estate clients. My wife would never suspect anything, and 169 00:09:29,120 --> 00:09:31,920 Speaker 1: she doesn't question me. And she found out about my mistress. 170 00:09:32,080 --> 00:09:34,560 Speaker 1: I'm sure I could explain it so that she wouldn't 171 00:09:34,600 --> 00:09:37,640 Speaker 1: think anything was going on, because this lady isn't my 172 00:09:37,720 --> 00:09:40,520 Speaker 1: type at all. Bad right there, that's the key to 173 00:09:40,640 --> 00:09:49,800 Speaker 1: this whole thing. She's actually perfect for you, you full 174 00:09:49,840 --> 00:09:53,960 Speaker 1: of it, and she is too, just a matchmate in heaven. 175 00:09:54,280 --> 00:09:57,800 Speaker 1: But doc, let me tell you how much you into 176 00:09:57,880 --> 00:10:01,360 Speaker 1: this chick because she makes you a priority and treat 177 00:10:01,400 --> 00:10:04,000 Speaker 1: you like a king. She bought me expensive Gilts and 178 00:10:04,160 --> 00:10:10,080 Speaker 1: she freely gives me money. Who do this? Who do this? 179 00:10:10,640 --> 00:10:18,280 Speaker 1: Accepts somebody trying to hold on to somebody else. Listen, 180 00:10:18,320 --> 00:10:27,000 Speaker 1: give you an example of this by Marjorie expensive Gilts. 181 00:10:25,520 --> 00:10:32,480 Speaker 1: A freely give her money. You know why because I'm 182 00:10:32,559 --> 00:10:36,840 Speaker 1: trying to keep her. Now, not that ain't what it's 183 00:10:36,840 --> 00:10:40,840 Speaker 1: really about, you know, But you dog, she trying to 184 00:10:40,960 --> 00:10:45,400 Speaker 1: keep you. I'm in love with my wife. I'm man, 185 00:10:45,440 --> 00:10:47,679 Speaker 1: I took some vials. I'm trying, trying. I'm trying. I'm 186 00:10:47,720 --> 00:10:50,120 Speaker 1: trying to get to the tape with this one. You 187 00:10:50,240 --> 00:10:52,560 Speaker 1: sitting up in here, man, acting like you like like like, 188 00:10:52,760 --> 00:10:56,360 Speaker 1: you just got options, but she ain't your type though? 189 00:10:59,559 --> 00:11:03,520 Speaker 1: Who's with his wife? But see, that's why every woman 190 00:11:03,600 --> 00:11:07,680 Speaker 1: hates you. I love that she enjoys Kanyak cigars with 191 00:11:07,760 --> 00:11:11,240 Speaker 1: me and got a passion for classic cars. What woman? 192 00:11:11,720 --> 00:11:16,040 Speaker 1: You listen to? This a treasure troll? You found the 193 00:11:16,080 --> 00:11:24,960 Speaker 1: greatest woman to ever live? Where is she? Oh? My god? Cigars, Kanyak, 194 00:11:25,800 --> 00:11:32,920 Speaker 1: classic car? Don't you tell me she likes sports? Boy, 195 00:11:33,360 --> 00:11:37,600 Speaker 1: don't tell me she wanted to go to the fight. 196 00:11:40,120 --> 00:11:44,640 Speaker 1: Don't you tell me she don't give a damn if 197 00:11:44,640 --> 00:11:47,840 Speaker 1: you don't brush your teeth day. Don't you say it? 198 00:11:48,360 --> 00:11:52,440 Speaker 1: Don't just say it? Your wife in and make me cray. 199 00:11:55,200 --> 00:11:59,280 Speaker 1: Wait a minute, she let you get into bed without 200 00:11:59,360 --> 00:12:06,000 Speaker 1: taking a s Yeah, boy, where did you five this woman? 201 00:12:07,559 --> 00:12:12,439 Speaker 1: See dog, She's the ideal sugar mama. The sex is 202 00:12:12,559 --> 00:12:16,560 Speaker 1: great and it feels so natural. I can't imagine why 203 00:12:16,600 --> 00:12:19,800 Speaker 1: this woman is single. I'll give you a couple of 204 00:12:19,800 --> 00:12:23,720 Speaker 1: reasons why she's single. Number two. Number one, she dating you? 205 00:12:25,400 --> 00:12:30,360 Speaker 1: Number two. Most men don't like women with cigar breath. 206 00:12:33,640 --> 00:12:38,520 Speaker 1: Number number three. I don't want a woman with all 207 00:12:38,559 --> 00:12:41,280 Speaker 1: that in common with me. I won't do something by myself. 208 00:12:41,360 --> 00:12:43,240 Speaker 1: I don't want my wife like sports. I want to 209 00:12:43,240 --> 00:12:46,199 Speaker 1: watch sports with my boys. I don't want my wife 210 00:12:46,200 --> 00:12:48,520 Speaker 1: to play golf. I won't go for my damn self. 211 00:12:49,920 --> 00:12:54,600 Speaker 1: That's watch her as a single. She do two damn much. 212 00:12:55,200 --> 00:12:59,960 Speaker 1: I thank you and no more with this ignorant ass letter. 213 00:13:00,559 --> 00:13:04,120 Speaker 1: All right, post your comments on today's Strawberry Letter, What 214 00:13:04,320 --> 00:13:07,680 Speaker 1: you do Steve Harvey FM on Instagram and Facebook, and 215 00:13:07,679 --> 00:13:10,400 Speaker 1: don't forget to check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on 216 00:13:10,440 --> 00:13:13,040 Speaker 1: demand now coming up at forty six minutes after the hour. 217 00:13:13,120 --> 00:13:16,520 Speaker 1: Our girl from the Talk Cheryl Underwood coming up right 218 00:13:16,559 --> 00:13:20,319 Speaker 1: after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.