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Speaker 1: Hello, Hi, This is an unofficial Expert podcast with Sydney

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Speaker 1: and Marie.

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Speaker 2: Sydney, I don't know you don't see her last name anymore.

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Speaker 3: No, I'm trying to be like Share and Madonna and what.

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Speaker 2: You're trying to be like Marie.

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Speaker 3: Aren't those people older than you?

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Speaker 4: She used to say her whole name, first, middle, last prefix, suffix.

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Speaker 1: Anyway, it's early, and I just I forgot my last

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Speaker 1: name at the moment.

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Speaker 3: It's not that early. I've been up for several hours.

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Speaker 2: I am having a really good day so far.

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Speaker 4: I feel like this week I was an expert at

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Speaker 4: and by this week I meaned just last night, I

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Speaker 4: set out to go to bed early and I didn't, So.

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Speaker 3: You're an expert at not going to bed early.

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Speaker 2: But I woke up.

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Speaker 4: I still wove up early and went to the gym,

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Speaker 4: So I'm an expert at, you know, setting a goal

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Speaker 4: and reaching that goal. It only happened one time this week,

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Speaker 4: but that's still, you know, more time than you went

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Speaker 4: to the gym this week. Yes, absolutely, that's fine. You

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Speaker 4: got that gym girl, Thank you. It was me and

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Speaker 4: a bunch of dudes, old West Indian men at the

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Speaker 4: gym this morning. I had on my tiny, tiny shorts

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Speaker 4: and I was like, what are you looking at? But

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Speaker 4: then I was like, it's my little butt. When my

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Speaker 4: butt gets fat, I'm gonna quit the podcast.

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Speaker 3: You're also an expert at like losing your voice. You

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Speaker 3: thank you.

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Speaker 1: You literally keep losing your voice, and I don't know why.

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Speaker 4: Maybe because you talked too damn much. That might be it.

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Speaker 4: That might be it. I was at the gym today

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Speaker 4: and my lungs are sore. I don't know if that's

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Speaker 4: ever happened to anybody listening, but like, like when I.

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Speaker 3: Cough and when I sneeze, my lungs hurt in the back.

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Speaker 3: Is there a doctor in the house.

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Speaker 1: If there's doctors listening, please please, can you help me

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Speaker 1: and Marie let's get our health together.

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Speaker 4: If a young black woman with beak hair's listening who

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Speaker 4: lives in the Tristate area, who wants to let me

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Speaker 4: use her ID and borrow her insurance what I'm looking for?

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Speaker 4: So you gotta be like younger than twenty.

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Speaker 3: Four, oh my god?

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Speaker 1: Sure?

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Speaker 3: Other and like making really good money.

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Speaker 2: You're an idiot.

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Speaker 3: I can't Sydney, what were you an expert at?

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Speaker 2: This week?

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Speaker 1: I was an expert in being nosy as hell professional

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Speaker 1: black woman.

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Speaker 3: I'm so nosy.

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Speaker 1: I was in an Uber pool yesterday and right away

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Speaker 1: I looked at who was pooling with me, and his

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Speaker 1: name was Zoro. So I was like, oh, this is

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Speaker 1: gonna be messy, boots, let's go Zoro. So I get

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Speaker 1: in and there's two guys in the back and they

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Speaker 1: look real like hood and very straight. They had to

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Speaker 1: do rag with the tail hanging.

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Speaker 3: Oh.

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Speaker 1: One of them had like a really nice shape up.

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Speaker 1: One had like sweat gray sweatpants. And I said, you

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Speaker 1: could have just walked. Why are you taking an Uber?

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Speaker 1: You could have just walked or took the train.

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Speaker 3: Sang yeah.

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Speaker 1: So I'm in the front judging the fuck out of them,

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Speaker 1: and then all of a sudden they started talking and

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Speaker 1: they sounded very.

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Speaker 3: Yes, and I was not ready for that.

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Speaker 1: And apparently they were going to Zorro's man script because

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Speaker 1: his friend hey, got the call that he his boyfriend

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Speaker 1: was fucking somebody else at house. Yes, And so the

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Speaker 1: driver was like, you know, I don't want to be

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Speaker 1: an accessory to like whatever you're about to do when

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Speaker 1: you go to this guy's house. And he's like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: when I go there, I'm gonna funck him up. I'm

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Speaker 1: going back to jail again. I'm like, wait, well now

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Speaker 1: I'm back to jail again.

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Speaker 2: Sounds we're done.

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Speaker 3: It could just be me and my foolish or Zoro.

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Speaker 1: So then like he is trying to console him, but

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Speaker 1: at the same time play him out because he's like,

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Speaker 1: you know, you're better than this. I mean, you are

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Speaker 1: in an uber pool, but you're better than this.

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Speaker 3: I mean that's true. And I was like, what kind

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Speaker 3: of friend are you? Shut up? Pay So I'm like, listen,

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Speaker 1: You're doing well, Like you don't need to go to

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Speaker 1: jail for your boyfriend or whatever, like you shouldn't even

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Speaker 1: be going to his house. And he's like, this is

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Speaker 1: not even my account. This is my ex boyfriend's account.

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Speaker 1: My name is not even Zorro.

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Speaker 3: I was like, yo, who is your man named Zorro?

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Speaker 1: Like, but at the same time, I was like, yo,

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Speaker 1: you still got your ex's account, Like how good is

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Speaker 1: the dick?

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Speaker 4: The dick is great, m I mean maybe his ex

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Speaker 4: forgot that he still had the account.

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Speaker 1: No, he said that he can still use the account,

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Speaker 1: but he can only take uberpool, So.

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Speaker 2: It truly is over between them.

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Speaker 3: It truly is over between us.

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Speaker 2: So messy, but it was great.

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Speaker 3: I was listening to the whole thing. I was getting involved.

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Speaker 1: The driver was like totally rolling his eyes at everything

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Speaker 1: because he's like, don't egg them on.

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Speaker 4: Please, you just assume these dudes were straight because they

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Speaker 4: had the tail out of the rat.

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Speaker 2: So you can't trust a dude by his du rat.

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Speaker 4: That's what I think we took away from Cydney story

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Speaker 4: this week.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I was.

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Speaker 1: I was like, damn, I shouldn't have like assumed that

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Speaker 1: with hood because they hood.

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Speaker 4: Listen, if you have a due ragging and the tail

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Speaker 4: is out, I'm gonna assume that you're unemployed.

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Speaker 2: More assume that you live at your mama house.

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Speaker 3: But I'm not gonna assume. I don't know. I don't know,

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Speaker 3: but it was great.

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Speaker 2: It was awesome. O. Speaking of great, we have a

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Speaker 2: really great guest this week.

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Speaker 4: Yes, we do, super freaking excited about this.

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Speaker 3: This is she's a stead of comedian.

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Speaker 4: I believe she's made maybe a philanthropist, because I'm throwing

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Speaker 4: that in everybody's intros now. And she has a website

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Speaker 4: called the Headless Woman of Hollywood.

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Speaker 3: That's up for a Shorty Award.

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Speaker 2: Everybody give it. Marha Belski, Hello, Maia, I'm so happy

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Speaker 2: to be here. I can't believe that he wasn't Zoro.

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Speaker 2: That was a really big twist.

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Speaker 3: I was really upset.

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Speaker 2: You know that. I think that you need to make

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Speaker 2: a full on book of your Uberpool stories because I

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Speaker 2: love It's the only thing that I genuinely love reading online.

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Speaker 2: I read them to the end every time, thank you.

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Speaker 2: I never click read more on any statuses, but I

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Speaker 3: Well, let me tell you, people will be in my

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Speaker 3: inbox right reading more. You need to stack.

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Speaker 2: Well, It's like I hate It's like people like, you know,

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Speaker 2: people get mad about it. Like when people write articles online,

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Speaker 2: It's like, who's forcing you to read it? You know,

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Speaker 2: they're like another think piece. It's like, no one's forcing

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Speaker 2: you to read, no one's forcing you to think.

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Speaker 4: I mean, I feel like people used to go online

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Speaker 2: But now there's so much more you can do online.

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Speaker 3: And you don't have to read.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you can become a white nationalist terrorist. You can

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Speaker 2: become Okay, you can learn how to build a bump anything.

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Speaker 2: You can do anything.

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Speaker 3: And first of all, I'm providing real like content. Okay,

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Speaker 3: I'm giving.

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Speaker 2: You real You're giving the people what they want.

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Speaker 3: Okay, I'm not talking about how I.

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Speaker 2: Like you're like like you're like you're telling the stories

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Speaker 2: of the neighborhood.

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Speaker 1: I'm not crying about like my cousin who's like has

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Speaker 2: You do you build it nice too, because it's like,

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Speaker 2: you know, you start out, I'm like, why is she

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Speaker 3: Because I was giving you my yeah mars.

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Speaker 2: It's like dramatic irony. It's like being straight, yeah, And

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Speaker 2: it's like there's right, and I hate them breeders. Do

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Speaker 2: you judge a man buy the do rag? No? I

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Speaker 2: mean my cousin's mixed, so he like would wear a

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Speaker 2: like not have people like judge him, you know, because

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Speaker 2: now he's trying to be a teacher so if he

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Speaker 2: be like, sir.

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Speaker 4: No, do rag is part of like your home clothes,

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Speaker 4: Like you should have the do rag.

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Speaker 2: He just like started calling him the N word, like

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Speaker 2: oh no, oh no.

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Speaker 1: We had our Christmas holiday show or whatever in December

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Speaker 1: and we gave out du REGs and soap of dove.

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Speaker 2: So like it's like it's like made from dove fat.

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Speaker 2: You know, it's like Mark. It's like Mark by Mark Jo.

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Speaker 2: It's two thousand dollars soap of dove, Yes, already pigeon soap.

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Speaker 2: And we forgot to say that you were expert on feminism.

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Speaker 3: Feminism expert.

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Speaker 2: Yes, it's you know feminism, Yes, the radical notion that

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Speaker 2: for most people it is about equality. But for me,

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Speaker 2: you know, just lately it's really taken a turn no,

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Speaker 2: but I think that's what people think it is. People

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Speaker 2: think that feminism is about women trying to be superior.

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Speaker 2: And then I was like, eventually, I was like, if

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Speaker 2: that's what they think it is, and if that, if

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Speaker 2: they think that we're just going around killing men, then

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Speaker 2: we should just do that. I give the people what

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Speaker 2: they want.

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Speaker 1: I thought feminism was only about like us getting like

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Speaker 1: equal rights treated equally.

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Speaker 2: We'll talk because feminism is different to different women. I mean,

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Speaker 2: obviously they're like I always say, I'm like, there is

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Speaker 2: no good or bad feminism, Like there's just men dying

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Speaker 2: by my cold bare hands. You know, Like how many

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Speaker 2: men vote? Have you killed on the air? I legally

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Speaker 2: I have to say zero. Okay, but if you could

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Speaker 2: kill like Zoro, I'm going back to again, exactly you

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Speaker 2: could kill.

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Speaker 4: Oh.

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Speaker 2: I have a very like I always joke about how

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Speaker 2: I have a list. Okay, well, can you give us

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Speaker 2: the top five names on the list? Yes, number one Gandhi.

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Speaker 2: That's a surprise, but he's not a good man. Why well,

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Speaker 2: I have, like number one on my list is like

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Speaker 2: Jeremy Renner. He's a surprise. You'd be surprised that Jeremy

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Speaker 2: Renner is a bad one. Well, he's pretty terrible in

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Speaker 4: The whitest man she knows. I've been meeting a lot

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Speaker 2: But so I do like a lot of this, like

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Speaker 1: But can you please explain that because you do it

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Speaker 2: We're called Free the Mind. Probably like do jokes like that. Like,

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Speaker 4: Wrote a manifest I feel like people write manifesto was

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Speaker 2: That's so well. I think it started to like, you know,

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Speaker 4: Well, I mean we saw what happened, right, Hillary Clinton

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Speaker 2: Well, and people, even liberals want to say, it's so

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Speaker 2: It's sad in both ways because it was against her

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Speaker 1: I feel in feminism is like if a woman is running,

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Speaker 3: To support her.

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Speaker 1: But but for me, I didn't necessarily like Hillary Clinton.

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Speaker 2: Nobody did.

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Speaker 1: Nobody liked her, Nobody liked her but it I mean

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Speaker 4: But I liked her pants suits there for all the

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Speaker 2: But I mean, it's a lot of factors. And that's

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna block you because otherwise it's going to start

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Speaker 1: And the people that come up to you and be like,

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Speaker 3: I don't care if you're not.

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Speaker 4: That's the world that we live in now, right is

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Speaker 2: I want to start because social media is such a

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Speaker 2: a right. Yeah. So it's a new thing and you

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Speaker 4: a lot of our favorite celebrities and people that we

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Speaker 4: hate are also online and they're tweeting and posts and

440
00:20:53,400 --> 00:20:55,720
Speaker 4: then you're like, what, I really like this person as

441
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Speaker 4: an actor, but they really can't spell.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well, you're like Kanye, No.

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Speaker 3: I will give Kanye. His tweets are like hysterical.

444
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Speaker 1: I'm like, these are really well for help, Cheerios are

445
00:21:15,440 --> 00:21:17,400
Speaker 1: just g giant baby donuts.

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Speaker 2: It's kind of like, yeah, it's like an open mic

447
00:21:19,080 --> 00:21:21,600
Speaker 2: stand up Kanye does, Like they're like, do you want

448
00:21:21,600 --> 00:21:27,680
Speaker 2: to do an hour? He just he just he doesn't

449
00:21:27,680 --> 00:21:31,280
Speaker 2: have a notebook for his jokes exactly. He's that guy

450
00:21:31,359 --> 00:21:33,240
Speaker 2: is like super compident off the bat. So like, you know,

451
00:21:33,359 --> 00:21:35,800
Speaker 2: men misunderstand the joke in that way, and some shitty

452
00:21:35,840 --> 00:21:38,720
Speaker 2: men will think that I'm making fun of feminism, so

453
00:21:38,720 --> 00:21:41,600
Speaker 2: they'll assume I don't like feminists, and feminists don't like me,

454
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Speaker 2: And then I'm like, obviously you don't know Marsha Bellski,

455
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Speaker 2: like you know, and then there are some women who

456
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Speaker 2: don't know me as well. And the hard thing is

457
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Speaker 2: is like I call myself a female apologist, like you

458
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Speaker 2: know how they are male apologists, where it's like there

459
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Speaker 2: are women who will defend men no matter what. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I do the same thing kind of for women, where

461
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Speaker 2: like a woman can be true guarb and I will

462
00:22:02,080 --> 00:22:05,919
Speaker 2: hate her, but you know, I'll be like, well, let's

463
00:22:05,920 --> 00:22:08,800
Speaker 2: look at you know, like I'll give her more excuses

464
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Speaker 2: than maybe she deserves.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I think that's the situation with like Hillary Clinton. Like

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Speaker 1: a lot of people out in open were like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: you know, you got to vote for Hillary because she's

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Speaker 1: the senator. But at the end of the day. Nobody

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Speaker 1: really liked her, nobody really wanted her to be with the.

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Speaker 2: Two party system. I feel like for some reason that

472
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Speaker 2: like we got spoiled I think with Obama, and this

473
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Speaker 2: is palimistic. You're not really supposed to be like that

474
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Speaker 2: inspired by the candidate. That's why when there is an

475
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Speaker 2: inspirational one, they win by such landslides like Obama, Reagan,

476
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Speaker 2: these charismatic guys, even though you know, like we loved Obama,

477
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Speaker 2: they loved Reagan. It was people compared them a lot

478
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Speaker 2: in terms of how they got elected. And then you

479
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Speaker 2: have Trump, who is just like, I don't even know

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Speaker 2: how you could call what he has charisma, but some

481
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Speaker 2: people view it that way.

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Speaker 4: It's not just amazing, it's whatever the opposite whatever charisma

483
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Speaker 4: is dirty.

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Speaker 1: No, he has he has the confidence of a mediocre

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Speaker 1: white man.

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Speaker 3: And that's what my air is.

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Speaker 1: That's who he is stopped stopped against. Okay, yep, yeah.

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Speaker 2: He's just he's he's the epitome of like white mediocrity.

489
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Speaker 2: But also he has this for every poor man. He

490
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Speaker 2: is like the lifestyles of the rich and the famous

491
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Speaker 2: image of a rich person that they have and they go,

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Speaker 2: that's what I'm gonna be when eyes strike it big,

493
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Speaker 2: even though I'm eighty years old, about to attacks the

494
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Speaker 2: dusty boot tacking, long faced, probably ponytail, a heart tattoo

495
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Speaker 2: with the mom on it, Tasmanian devil on the back.

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Speaker 2: That was the most repressing part when I realized that

497
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Speaker 2: he won was I was like, I was just looking

498
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Speaker 2: forward to the election being over so that I wouldn't

499
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Speaker 2: have to see his fucking face anymore, stupid voice.

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Speaker 3: His face, his hair, family.

501
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Speaker 2: His wife's old pork face like she just but people

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Speaker 2: like us, just living our lives. It's like Donald Trump

503
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Speaker 2: fully doesn't understand that. It's like, you know, fifty years ago,

504
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Speaker 2: we wouldn't be able, Like we're just normal people and

505
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Speaker 2: we are feminists, like we are living a life that

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Speaker 2: we couldn't lived fifty years ago. And the people that

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Speaker 2: think that we can somehow go back to that, it's

508
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Speaker 2: just not going to happen. There are too many basic

509
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Speaker 2: women who are not gonna give up their jobs and like,

510
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Speaker 2: you know, give up their right.

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Speaker 3: I don't know, I'm.

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Speaker 2: Setting it back to the kitchen, Marcia. I mean, spit

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Speaker 2: my flat ass down all day.

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Speaker 3: I have no problems sitting it down.

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Speaker 2: What if you couldn't go to the gym, though they

516
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Speaker 2: would still let you go.

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Speaker 4: I would just plank at home, you know what I mean?

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Speaker 4: I would just throw My name is sale Marcia.

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Speaker 1: I do have an issue with feminism in terms of

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Speaker 1: like there's women who are like, oh, we're fighting for

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Speaker 1: our rights, and then they get down on the women

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Speaker 1: who actually want to stay at home and they're like,

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Speaker 1: I actually just want to take care of my family.

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Speaker 3: I don't.

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Speaker 1: There's always a back and forth and there's no cohesiveness.

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Speaker 2: Here's what my mom tells me about that, which I

527
00:25:03,680 --> 00:25:09,040
Speaker 2: agree with is the fight between housewives and working women

528
00:25:09,560 --> 00:25:14,280
Speaker 2: is mostly contained between housewives who are unhappy and working

529
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Speaker 2: women who are unhappy. Those are the only people who

530
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Speaker 2: are invested in that fight because I don't give a

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Speaker 2: shit if a woman stays home, yeah, and I don't

532
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Speaker 2: give a shit if a woman goes to work, and

533
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Speaker 2: I don't give a show she has kids. I don't

534
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Speaker 2: give a show. She doesn't have kids. I don't give

535
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Speaker 2: a show. She's straight. I don't give a show she's gay.

536
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Speaker 2: I don't care because I'm happy with my choices and

537
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Speaker 2: I want other women to just be happy and to

538
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Speaker 2: have a choice. That's the thing. You choose to stay home, fine,

539
00:25:38,240 --> 00:25:40,480
Speaker 2: no one's forcing you to. And in that way, you're

540
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Speaker 2: gonna choose to be with a man who probably values

541
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Speaker 2: you for certain things and go hit you and hit

542
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Speaker 2: you and then you have no resources to get out.

543
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Speaker 2: But the thing is because of feminism. Even if that

544
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Speaker 2: woman says I hate feminists, I want to stay home.

545
00:25:54,720 --> 00:25:57,119
Speaker 2: If she does get hit, there are gonna be resources

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Speaker 2: for her even though she stays at home and depends

547
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Speaker 2: on his money. That's what feminism has done for women

548
00:26:01,840 --> 00:26:04,560
Speaker 2: like that, even if they don't appreciate it. And for

549
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Speaker 2: the working women who want to blame those women, it's like,

550
00:26:07,880 --> 00:26:10,320
Speaker 2: you know what, You're not helping anybody. And to me,

551
00:26:10,440 --> 00:26:13,720
Speaker 2: that says you're somehow dissatisfied in the choices you've made.

552
00:26:14,160 --> 00:26:17,560
Speaker 2: You resent something along the way. Listen. For me, the

553
00:26:17,600 --> 00:26:20,480
Speaker 2: goal is UH make.

554
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Speaker 4: Enough money so that when I meet a man with money,

555
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Speaker 4: I'm not like dependent. Well, I don't want to be

556
00:26:26,760 --> 00:26:28,280
Speaker 4: dependent on the dude anyway. I just want him to

557
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Speaker 4: pay for everything. I don't want to have.

558
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Speaker 2: To depend on him. I just expect him to still pay. Right.

559
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Speaker 2: It feels good, but that's a gesture thing because honestly,

560
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Speaker 2: to me, my boyfriend will pay for stuff. I don't

561
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Speaker 2: expect him to, but I do in a way, you know,

562
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Speaker 2: And it's more of the I realize that you're a woman,

563
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Speaker 2: and thank you for spending your time with me, Like,

564
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Speaker 2: you know, does he make more money than you? We

565
00:26:52,480 --> 00:26:55,840
Speaker 2: make the same money. Okay, but he's sure. But it's

566
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Speaker 2: a nice gesture. I mean. But then I like offering

567
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Speaker 2: to pay, and I like him accepting it sometimes, you know,

568
00:27:02,359 --> 00:27:04,080
Speaker 2: like you like when he'd be like, no, I got

569
00:27:04,119 --> 00:27:07,320
Speaker 2: it exactly, exactly, and it's more of the gesture. That's

570
00:27:07,320 --> 00:27:10,119
Speaker 2: how people are. Like Feminism's killing romance. It's like, I

571
00:27:10,119 --> 00:27:13,480
Speaker 2: don't know many feminists who are going around like and

572
00:27:13,520 --> 00:27:15,359
Speaker 2: the ones who do, like it is hard because I

573
00:27:15,400 --> 00:27:17,680
Speaker 2: want to be like girl, don't But then they date

574
00:27:17,720 --> 00:27:19,159
Speaker 2: men who are like, okay with that.

575
00:27:19,359 --> 00:27:23,520
Speaker 1: Now I'm so against this. H I don't know twentieth

576
00:27:23,520 --> 00:27:26,760
Speaker 1: century woman that's like, oh, let me pay for dates,

577
00:27:26,840 --> 00:27:29,600
Speaker 1: let me like take the man, let bumble fuck bumble

578
00:27:29,760 --> 00:27:30,200
Speaker 1: no fuck.

579
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Speaker 2: When I realized that it's women, maybe I've been hard

580
00:27:34,240 --> 00:27:38,359
Speaker 2: on dudes because so many l's, they're taking so many l's, Like, oh,

581
00:27:38,400 --> 00:27:39,280
Speaker 2: I have to initiate.

582
00:27:39,400 --> 00:27:40,040
Speaker 3: No fuck that.

583
00:27:40,560 --> 00:27:42,640
Speaker 2: Well, that's like I always say, you have to look

584
00:27:42,640 --> 00:27:44,760
Speaker 2: at what they're still not giving us, because people are

585
00:27:44,760 --> 00:27:47,000
Speaker 2: like women just want to take take take their rights,

586
00:27:47,000 --> 00:27:49,480
Speaker 2: and they you know, they want to get their doors open,

587
00:27:49,560 --> 00:27:51,679
Speaker 2: but they still want to blah blah blah. And it's like, okay,

588
00:27:51,680 --> 00:27:54,200
Speaker 2: well they just pass the thing where women might start

589
00:27:54,240 --> 00:27:56,600
Speaker 2: getting drafted into the army, but they're like, we also

590
00:27:56,680 --> 00:27:58,720
Speaker 2: might take away abortion. So they're like, you can fight

591
00:27:58,800 --> 00:28:01,240
Speaker 2: for us, but we're not going to give you like right,

592
00:28:01,560 --> 00:28:03,919
Speaker 2: you know. And that's how dating is too. It's like

593
00:28:03,960 --> 00:28:06,879
Speaker 2: there are still so many advantages for men. I feel

594
00:28:06,960 --> 00:28:08,360
Speaker 2: in sex and dating.

595
00:28:08,480 --> 00:28:10,760
Speaker 1: Well, the problem is that men think that if they

596
00:28:10,800 --> 00:28:12,880
Speaker 1: give you something, then you have to suck.

597
00:28:12,680 --> 00:28:13,520
Speaker 2: Their day exactly.

598
00:28:13,800 --> 00:28:17,199
Speaker 1: It's it's not even like I feel like there's not

599
00:28:17,359 --> 00:28:19,960
Speaker 1: enough straight men sucking d that.

600
00:28:19,960 --> 00:28:20,639
Speaker 3: It's not equal.

601
00:28:20,760 --> 00:28:24,600
Speaker 2: There's not enough in the world.

602
00:28:24,840 --> 00:28:28,960
Speaker 1: I and I don't care about a lotter or a

603
00:28:29,000 --> 00:28:31,160
Speaker 1: surfing turf, like it's not enough.

604
00:28:31,200 --> 00:28:33,000
Speaker 2: But that's all you just want to tell young girls

605
00:28:33,040 --> 00:28:35,280
Speaker 2: like let a guy buy something for you, but you're

606
00:28:35,320 --> 00:28:37,880
Speaker 2: not ever obligated. And it's nice when you see young

607
00:28:37,920 --> 00:28:40,880
Speaker 2: women who already have that figured out, because it does

608
00:28:40,920 --> 00:28:42,960
Speaker 2: take a long time. That's why I feel like women

609
00:28:43,000 --> 00:28:45,560
Speaker 2: come into their sexual peak in their thirties for many reasons,

610
00:28:45,600 --> 00:28:47,959
Speaker 2: like physical, but I also feel so much of it

611
00:28:48,040 --> 00:28:50,480
Speaker 2: is that by the time you're thirty, you have really

612
00:28:50,520 --> 00:28:53,800
Speaker 2: figured out how to be in control in situations with men.

613
00:28:55,000 --> 00:28:57,720
Speaker 2: The curve, yeah, exactly, And if you're ahead of the curve,

614
00:28:57,840 --> 00:28:58,720
Speaker 2: then you're ahead of the curve.

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Speaker 1: Marcia, I had a question for you, how do you

616
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Speaker 1: feel about gold diggers, like women who literally just seek

617
00:29:05,080 --> 00:29:09,880
Speaker 1: men for money and like everything that they have financially,

618
00:29:09,960 --> 00:29:12,600
Speaker 1: because there's a lot of women out there, especially women

619
00:29:12,640 --> 00:29:16,760
Speaker 1: like with athletes, people who are like multi millionaires. There's

620
00:29:16,840 --> 00:29:19,360
Speaker 1: tons of these women just going out here meeting dudes

621
00:29:19,400 --> 00:29:20,160
Speaker 1: who have money.

622
00:29:19,960 --> 00:29:20,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, rappers.

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00:29:20,800 --> 00:29:22,600
Speaker 2: I feel this is the thing is they don't have

624
00:29:22,640 --> 00:29:25,160
Speaker 2: anything else except that. It's the same with like women

625
00:29:25,240 --> 00:29:30,440
Speaker 2: who like objectification and like over sexualization, because I feel

626
00:29:30,640 --> 00:29:33,400
Speaker 2: that like these women, it's hard because you don't want

627
00:29:33,400 --> 00:29:35,600
Speaker 2: to pity a woman and it is their choice. They

628
00:29:35,640 --> 00:29:40,800
Speaker 2: have agency, but there's obviously a lot of douance societal

629
00:29:40,920 --> 00:29:43,520
Speaker 2: things that would build a woman up to thinking my

630
00:29:43,680 --> 00:29:47,240
Speaker 2: best shot at power and comfort is through my looks,

631
00:29:47,400 --> 00:29:49,640
Speaker 2: is through becoming like a fem fatale. And I will

632
00:29:49,640 --> 00:29:52,719
Speaker 2: say that I think people focus on the negative of

633
00:29:52,760 --> 00:29:55,640
Speaker 2: those women rather than the men that made them that way,

634
00:29:56,240 --> 00:29:59,360
Speaker 2: you know, whereas if anything, you should focus on it equally,

635
00:29:59,440 --> 00:30:02,120
Speaker 2: and for me, one focus on the evil of the men.

636
00:30:02,760 --> 00:30:06,200
Speaker 1: I think that first of all, the women who do

637
00:30:06,280 --> 00:30:09,320
Speaker 1: it good for them that you think, like, oh, listen,

638
00:30:09,360 --> 00:30:13,280
Speaker 1: my pussy is worth a yacht in a private jet.

639
00:30:13,160 --> 00:30:15,840
Speaker 2: And they don't personality. I'm yeah, how bored. I don't

640
00:30:15,840 --> 00:30:17,680
Speaker 2: get how men are satisfied with that.

641
00:30:17,800 --> 00:30:20,600
Speaker 5: But then but I just want the women because it's

642
00:30:20,720 --> 00:30:23,560
Speaker 5: as fat I just want the women to do that

643
00:30:23,760 --> 00:30:27,720
Speaker 5: to also invest, like they need to do more than

644
00:30:27,840 --> 00:30:30,280
Speaker 5: just like take the money and buy stuff and then

645
00:30:30,320 --> 00:30:32,360
Speaker 5: go on trips because at the end of the day,

646
00:30:32,440 --> 00:30:34,560
Speaker 5: all that stuff is gonna be gone and you need to,

647
00:30:34,800 --> 00:30:35,280
Speaker 5: Like I had.

648
00:30:35,160 --> 00:30:36,200
Speaker 3: A friend, some of them do.

649
00:30:36,240 --> 00:30:38,000
Speaker 2: But then people hit on that, they're like, well, where'd

650
00:30:38,000 --> 00:30:40,720
Speaker 2: your money come from? So well it's like the Kardashians,

651
00:30:40,720 --> 00:30:43,840
Speaker 2: I mean, flipped it exactly, and people respect business. I

652
00:30:43,880 --> 00:30:45,880
Speaker 2: think that, well, yeah, it's that is a business.

653
00:30:45,920 --> 00:30:48,320
Speaker 3: What business is taking and flipping.

654
00:30:47,920 --> 00:30:51,600
Speaker 2: It and it's like that's unfortunately still an almost guaranteed

655
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Speaker 2: avenue for a woman to have. It's like the same

656
00:30:53,560 --> 00:30:56,600
Speaker 2: thing I support sex workers, I support me too, strippers.

657
00:30:56,640 --> 00:30:58,719
Speaker 2: I've had friends who are strippers, Like, when I go

658
00:30:58,800 --> 00:31:01,400
Speaker 2: into a strip club, I get upset because of me

659
00:31:01,600 --> 00:31:04,120
Speaker 2: personally and how I view the men and the system.

660
00:31:04,200 --> 00:31:06,000
Speaker 2: But I'm not ever gonna tell us.

661
00:31:06,040 --> 00:31:07,360
Speaker 3: And I get at.

662
00:31:07,120 --> 00:31:08,800
Speaker 1: When I go to a really bad strip club in

663
00:31:08,880 --> 00:31:11,880
Speaker 1: Detroit and the strippers are having messy buns and they

664
00:31:11,920 --> 00:31:13,680
Speaker 1: wearing prescription glasses and.

665
00:31:13,640 --> 00:31:15,800
Speaker 3: They got Chinese flip flaps. Bar.

666
00:31:16,160 --> 00:31:18,120
Speaker 2: Well, that's the thing. Most of my friends like strip clubs.

667
00:31:18,120 --> 00:31:21,040
Speaker 2: I would never tell them don't go to a strip club.

668
00:31:21,040 --> 00:31:23,360
Speaker 2: I would never even put my opinion about strip clubs

669
00:31:23,400 --> 00:31:26,120
Speaker 2: on them. But I've had people be like, fuck you

670
00:31:26,120 --> 00:31:27,800
Speaker 2: for not wanting to go to a strip club, and

671
00:31:27,800 --> 00:31:30,120
Speaker 2: I'm like, that's not fair either. All strip clubs are

672
00:31:30,160 --> 00:31:30,920
Speaker 2: not created equals.

673
00:31:32,280 --> 00:31:34,320
Speaker 4: And we had to go through a metal detector before

674
00:31:34,360 --> 00:31:36,000
Speaker 4: we got to see the tittas, and I.

675
00:31:36,000 --> 00:31:41,000
Speaker 2: Was like, is it worth it to me? Are you

676
00:31:41,040 --> 00:31:44,680
Speaker 2: that good in there? That might still get shaped? The

677
00:31:44,680 --> 00:31:46,880
Speaker 2: first time I ever I was my friends all went

678
00:31:46,920 --> 00:31:48,920
Speaker 2: to a strip club and I wasn't eighteen yet and

679
00:31:48,960 --> 00:31:51,920
Speaker 2: they went to the eighteen and up strip club in Tulsa, Oklahoma.

680
00:31:52,040 --> 00:31:54,560
Speaker 2: Is there an eighteen and under strip club? No, there's

681
00:31:54,680 --> 00:31:56,720
Speaker 2: like a twenty one, you know. It's like, so this

682
00:31:56,760 --> 00:32:00,880
Speaker 2: is no alcohol, just stripping. Okay, terrible. And they had

683
00:32:00,880 --> 00:32:03,200
Speaker 2: this like there's this place in Tulsa called Cloud nine

684
00:32:03,200 --> 00:32:05,720
Speaker 2: where they have legs and eggs. It's like a breakfast

685
00:32:05,760 --> 00:32:13,680
Speaker 2: buffet legs. I'm here for Tulsa. When my friends went

686
00:32:13,720 --> 00:32:16,840
Speaker 2: to this like one and I had never heard of

687
00:32:16,840 --> 00:32:19,000
Speaker 2: anything about strip clubs, and she was like, we saw

688
00:32:19,040 --> 00:32:21,360
Speaker 2: this girl stretch out or clit. I was like, I

689
00:32:21,400 --> 00:32:23,440
Speaker 2: don't think that's what they're supposed to do.

690
00:32:25,120 --> 00:32:26,040
Speaker 3: Stay in eggs.

691
00:32:26,160 --> 00:32:30,080
Speaker 2: That was the trick. I don't know. So maybe I

692
00:32:30,080 --> 00:32:30,320
Speaker 2: had a.

693
00:32:30,360 --> 00:32:33,280
Speaker 1: Drama and I'm like, how do I get how often

694
00:32:33,320 --> 00:32:34,840
Speaker 1: do you go to the strip club?

695
00:32:34,880 --> 00:32:37,480
Speaker 2: Marsha Bee, Well, I lived in Portland. I mean I

696
00:32:37,480 --> 00:32:43,160
Speaker 2: don't go. I've been. Portland has the highest strip club

697
00:32:43,240 --> 00:32:47,760
Speaker 2: per capita rate in the country Las Vegas or seconds

698
00:32:47,800 --> 00:32:49,760
Speaker 2: Las Vegas. What is it they got like move it's

699
00:32:49,800 --> 00:32:53,480
Speaker 2: because it's because they're right on the border with Washington,

700
00:32:53,560 --> 00:32:56,960
Speaker 2: and Washington has Tassel laws where you have to cover

701
00:32:57,000 --> 00:33:00,400
Speaker 2: your nipples, whereas in Portland they have full nudity. So

702
00:33:00,520 --> 00:33:02,800
Speaker 2: there's like one hundred thousand strip clubs. They have a

703
00:33:02,880 --> 00:33:05,720
Speaker 2: vegan strip club, is what everyone jokes about, how all

704
00:33:05,720 --> 00:33:09,240
Speaker 2: the girls are vegan and the leather is vegan or whatever.

705
00:33:09,280 --> 00:33:09,640
Speaker 2: I don't know.

706
00:33:09,680 --> 00:33:11,080
Speaker 3: I have no time, I don't care.

707
00:33:11,360 --> 00:33:13,520
Speaker 2: I don't care if my stripper is or not.

708
00:33:15,800 --> 00:33:17,160
Speaker 3: Open for a real show.

709
00:33:17,280 --> 00:33:18,959
Speaker 2: But that's the thing. It's like, that's just like, you know,

710
00:33:19,520 --> 00:33:22,400
Speaker 2: I like, I always joke like I'm more sex negative

711
00:33:22,560 --> 00:33:26,760
Speaker 2: than some people, probably because for me, I because of

712
00:33:26,840 --> 00:33:30,200
Speaker 2: like the stuff that I think or whatever I think

713
00:33:30,280 --> 00:33:34,520
Speaker 2: that men have through mainstream culture, like in society, have

714
00:33:34,640 --> 00:33:37,320
Speaker 2: co opted the women's sexual lib movement. So like for me,

715
00:33:37,480 --> 00:33:40,880
Speaker 2: I get confused when a woman's being empowered or when

716
00:33:40,920 --> 00:33:43,640
Speaker 2: she's being objectified, like when there's a bunch of headless

717
00:33:43,640 --> 00:33:45,760
Speaker 2: butts in like a rat video or a pop like

718
00:33:45,920 --> 00:33:48,360
Speaker 2: music video. I don't like it. Okay, So let's talk

719
00:33:48,360 --> 00:33:50,640
Speaker 2: about this. So you have this website it's called Headless

720
00:33:50,640 --> 00:33:51,640
Speaker 2: Women of Hollywood.

721
00:33:51,800 --> 00:33:56,880
Speaker 4: Yeah, and you basically found all the movie posters and

722
00:33:57,080 --> 00:34:00,400
Speaker 4: all the scenes in all the movies and videos where

723
00:34:00,680 --> 00:34:04,360
Speaker 4: you can see the dude's entire body, and like the

724
00:34:04,400 --> 00:34:06,760
Speaker 4: woman is just shown from like the nickdam.

725
00:34:07,280 --> 00:34:11,759
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's different things. It's like it started with. There's

726
00:34:11,800 --> 00:34:14,240
Speaker 2: a lot of these posters where it's just the woman's

727
00:34:14,280 --> 00:34:17,160
Speaker 2: butt is the focus, even though the actress who the

728
00:34:17,160 --> 00:34:19,399
Speaker 2: butt is supposed to represent is like a main part

729
00:34:19,440 --> 00:34:21,799
Speaker 2: of the movie. And then the men are on it

730
00:34:21,840 --> 00:34:24,400
Speaker 2: and always, you know, there's this trope of men fully

731
00:34:24,480 --> 00:34:27,120
Speaker 2: clothed looking at a naked woman and it's just an

732
00:34:27,120 --> 00:34:30,680
Speaker 2: expanse on this feminist notion of the male gaze, which

733
00:34:30,719 --> 00:34:33,560
Speaker 2: started as like an artistic thing just how you know,

734
00:34:33,719 --> 00:34:35,840
Speaker 2: men view the female body and the female form is

735
00:34:35,880 --> 00:34:39,080
Speaker 2: seen as very artistic and beautiful. And then with capitalism

736
00:34:39,120 --> 00:34:42,880
Speaker 2: has sort of become like cheapened and very like quick

737
00:34:43,000 --> 00:34:50,240
Speaker 2: paced objectification of just interchangeable female sexualized body parts being

738
00:34:50,400 --> 00:34:54,440
Speaker 2: sold the same as a sexual woman in her entirety,

739
00:34:54,920 --> 00:34:59,239
Speaker 2: you know, so just a leg, just a lip, just boobs,

740
00:34:59,400 --> 00:35:02,120
Speaker 2: just a butt, without any context as to who the

741
00:35:02,160 --> 00:35:05,640
Speaker 2: whole woman is or if she might have any sexual desire,

742
00:35:05,760 --> 00:35:09,080
Speaker 2: what that pair of boobs might want. They're like no, no, no, no, no,

743
00:35:09,320 --> 00:35:11,719
Speaker 2: just put some lotion on her knees. Yeah, and it

744
00:35:11,840 --> 00:35:15,279
Speaker 2: becomes so background and so normal. You know, I hate

745
00:35:15,280 --> 00:35:18,200
Speaker 2: the word normalized since Trump becomes selected, because everyone's using

746
00:35:18,239 --> 00:35:20,480
Speaker 2: it every fucking day, and it's like, you know, it

747
00:35:20,600 --> 00:35:23,279
Speaker 2: used to be an academic term, I guess, but it's

748
00:35:23,360 --> 00:35:26,879
Speaker 2: it becomes so normal that you really don't even notice

749
00:35:26,920 --> 00:35:29,439
Speaker 2: it anymore. So I noticed it because someone pointed out

750
00:35:29,480 --> 00:35:31,680
Speaker 2: to me. And every time I would point out subway

751
00:35:31,719 --> 00:35:33,759
Speaker 2: posters to people, I'd be with like, this is a

752
00:35:33,800 --> 00:35:37,440
Speaker 2: headless woman. They'd be like, oh, you know, that's one

753
00:35:38,000 --> 00:35:40,200
Speaker 2: they do that sometimes, and I'd be like, no, this

754
00:35:40,280 --> 00:35:44,080
Speaker 2: is a very common, calculated advertising trope that's been used

755
00:35:44,120 --> 00:35:46,480
Speaker 2: four years since the mad Men days. Basically as who

756
00:35:46,560 --> 00:35:47,120
Speaker 2: started it?

757
00:35:47,200 --> 00:35:50,560
Speaker 4: I mean, think about what other start what other super

758
00:35:50,600 --> 00:35:53,279
Speaker 4: common movie posters we've seen, right, We've seen like the

759
00:35:53,560 --> 00:35:54,200
Speaker 4: the two.

760
00:35:54,040 --> 00:35:57,000
Speaker 2: Main characters back to back. Yeah, like the mister Missus

761
00:35:57,040 --> 00:35:59,719
Speaker 2: Smith exactly. Like it's just another trope like that. But

762
00:35:59,760 --> 00:36:03,320
Speaker 2: I'm fortunately it goes back to like the sort of

763
00:36:03,400 --> 00:36:07,400
Speaker 2: James Bond where women are expected to be a sexualized

764
00:36:07,400 --> 00:36:10,200
Speaker 2: background that are expected to be there only when the

765
00:36:10,239 --> 00:36:12,000
Speaker 2: men want and then as soon as the men don't

766
00:36:12,040 --> 00:36:14,040
Speaker 2: want them there, yeah, they disappear.

767
00:36:14,200 --> 00:36:17,040
Speaker 3: Well, because at the end of the day, sex cells.

768
00:36:17,280 --> 00:36:19,839
Speaker 1: It's like, if you put up a poster of just

769
00:36:19,880 --> 00:36:24,000
Speaker 1: a man in his ugly ass face, we're not going

770
00:36:24,239 --> 00:36:25,759
Speaker 1: like we need more than juice.

771
00:36:25,920 --> 00:36:28,520
Speaker 2: But that's the thing people say sex cells, and that's fine.

772
00:36:28,600 --> 00:36:32,440
Speaker 2: But my point is like, when you sell a woman

773
00:36:32,480 --> 00:36:35,080
Speaker 2: as sexual, I think you have to keep in mind

774
00:36:35,160 --> 00:36:37,399
Speaker 2: because when you now they're doing these sort of joke

775
00:36:37,480 --> 00:36:39,520
Speaker 2: posters where it's just the guy's leg and it's kind

776
00:36:39,520 --> 00:36:41,759
Speaker 2: of funny. But when you do just a guy's leg

777
00:36:41,840 --> 00:36:44,840
Speaker 2: or a guy's but for straight for you know, marketed

778
00:36:44,880 --> 00:36:50,200
Speaker 2: towards heterosexuals, I guess I would say they're it's not

779
00:36:50,239 --> 00:36:53,080
Speaker 2: as easy to detach them from their whole. You're not

780
00:36:53,160 --> 00:36:56,400
Speaker 2: gonna have just you know, a sexual part of a

781
00:36:56,440 --> 00:36:59,720
Speaker 2: man being objectified, whereas with a woman it's so common.

782
00:36:59,760 --> 00:37:02,760
Speaker 2: So they're there's nothing wrong with sexuality or women being sexual,

783
00:37:03,040 --> 00:37:06,319
Speaker 2: but it's them being reduced to their parts explicitly for

784
00:37:06,440 --> 00:37:09,160
Speaker 2: the purpose of men and not even in question that

785
00:37:09,239 --> 00:37:12,960
Speaker 2: they you know, it's it's just it's like their consent

786
00:37:13,120 --> 00:37:16,239
Speaker 2: or their pleasure is just assumed. You know. Yeah, I mean,

787
00:37:16,320 --> 00:37:16,600
Speaker 2: but I.

788
00:37:16,520 --> 00:37:18,359
Speaker 4: Think that's the world that we live in, right we

789
00:37:18,440 --> 00:37:20,120
Speaker 4: live in the world like this is what this country

790
00:37:20,200 --> 00:37:22,560
Speaker 4: was built on. White men get what they want and

791
00:37:22,600 --> 00:37:25,719
Speaker 4: do what they want, and we just have to accept it.

792
00:37:26,080 --> 00:37:29,680
Speaker 4: And now we have a dude who thinks like that

793
00:37:29,800 --> 00:37:32,520
Speaker 4: regularly in charge.

794
00:37:32,760 --> 00:37:36,320
Speaker 2: They've all thought like that, grab them by the pussy,

795
00:37:36,600 --> 00:37:38,719
Speaker 2: saying it and doing it, and people are like, and

796
00:37:38,880 --> 00:37:41,879
Speaker 2: thirty five percent of the country doesn't think that's wrong.

797
00:37:41,920 --> 00:37:44,000
Speaker 2: You know, you got to say, you can't look at

798
00:37:44,040 --> 00:37:46,640
Speaker 2: the votes. You gotta look at the people that support him.

799
00:37:46,640 --> 00:37:48,560
Speaker 2: And Donald Trump when he says I could go out

800
00:37:48,560 --> 00:37:50,400
Speaker 2: in Fifth Avenue and shoot somebody in the middle of

801
00:37:50,440 --> 00:37:53,160
Speaker 2: the street, he is talking about thirty five percent of

802
00:37:53,200 --> 00:37:56,120
Speaker 2: the people will still support him, and they will will

803
00:37:56,239 --> 00:37:58,080
Speaker 2: and then I'm sorry, they go just because I support

804
00:37:58,080 --> 00:38:00,440
Speaker 2: Trump doesn't mean I'm crazy. I'm like, okay, well you're

805
00:38:00,440 --> 00:38:03,120
Speaker 2: allowed to say that, and I'm allowed to disagree with you.

806
00:38:03,400 --> 00:38:06,000
Speaker 2: You don't mean you crazy, I means you dumb. It

807
00:38:06,040 --> 00:38:08,120
Speaker 2: means you're either he's only conned or crazy.

808
00:38:08,239 --> 00:38:11,400
Speaker 1: I think that Trump is kind of like the class

809
00:38:11,560 --> 00:38:13,719
Speaker 1: clown And when you were in school and you had

810
00:38:13,719 --> 00:38:16,200
Speaker 1: a class like that class he's dumb, but for some

811
00:38:16,239 --> 00:38:19,839
Speaker 1: reason you were still interested and you were like thought

812
00:38:19,880 --> 00:38:21,600
Speaker 1: it was funny, and you were like, you know what,

813
00:38:21,640 --> 00:38:23,040
Speaker 1: I'm still gonna be friends with the class.

814
00:38:23,040 --> 00:38:24,840
Speaker 2: See. And I was the person who's like, why is

815
00:38:24,880 --> 00:38:28,000
Speaker 2: everyone friends with No?

816
00:38:28,400 --> 00:38:31,160
Speaker 4: To me, Trump was like the kid in class that

817
00:38:31,280 --> 00:38:37,200
Speaker 4: had like zero personality but was like really rich and.

818
00:38:36,000 --> 00:38:38,520
Speaker 2: Maybe had big parties, and you just wanted to go

819
00:38:38,560 --> 00:38:40,560
Speaker 2: to parties. Email you really like it, even though you

820
00:38:40,640 --> 00:38:42,200
Speaker 2: knew he might have raped a girl, right.

821
00:38:42,200 --> 00:38:47,480
Speaker 4: I mean probably definitely, absolutely, yeah, grabbing people by the pussy, Oh,

822
00:38:47,480 --> 00:38:47,799
Speaker 4: I'm one.

823
00:38:48,360 --> 00:38:50,759
Speaker 2: I mean, I'm sure that it goes way deeper than

824
00:38:50,840 --> 00:38:52,879
Speaker 2: we can even imagine. There's a story that he had

825
00:38:52,920 --> 00:38:54,640
Speaker 2: sex with a thirteen year old but the man who's

826
00:38:54,680 --> 00:38:58,520
Speaker 2: been convicted of pedophilia. So he had all these friends,

827
00:38:58,560 --> 00:39:00,880
Speaker 2: i mean, these rich men since the days of like

828
00:39:01,239 --> 00:39:04,120
Speaker 2: people like can you believe Roman Polanski and all this stuff.

829
00:39:04,160 --> 00:39:06,879
Speaker 2: In the seventies, everybody was fucking thirteen year old girl.

830
00:39:06,920 --> 00:39:07,839
Speaker 3: Yeah, everybody.

831
00:39:07,920 --> 00:39:10,239
Speaker 2: All the clubs they had open thirteen year old girl

832
00:39:10,320 --> 00:39:12,800
Speaker 2: go go dancers and shit, it's like America is gross,

833
00:39:13,600 --> 00:39:14,239
Speaker 2: gross man.

834
00:39:14,200 --> 00:39:15,680
Speaker 3: And it's for me right now.

835
00:39:15,719 --> 00:39:19,360
Speaker 1: It's like everybody's just so shocked, and I'm like, everybody

836
00:39:19,400 --> 00:39:22,600
Speaker 1: has that creepyess uncle or that cousin for sure.

837
00:39:22,920 --> 00:39:24,880
Speaker 3: Oh we won't call him a rapist, but you not

838
00:39:24,960 --> 00:39:26,800
Speaker 3: going to his house exactly.

839
00:39:27,920 --> 00:39:30,400
Speaker 2: Every uncle that you know is like a pedophile or something.

840
00:39:30,640 --> 00:39:31,520
Speaker 2: Like everybody who.

841
00:39:31,480 --> 00:39:34,560
Speaker 1: Was just so surprised by like Bill Cosby and all

842
00:39:34,560 --> 00:39:36,880
Speaker 1: these other people who were accused of stuff.

843
00:39:36,880 --> 00:39:39,400
Speaker 3: It's like, dude, you know how many dudes.

844
00:39:39,200 --> 00:39:41,239
Speaker 1: Did you know that are separated from another dude that's

845
00:39:41,239 --> 00:39:42,080
Speaker 1: probably a rapist?

846
00:39:42,160 --> 00:39:44,239
Speaker 3: Like, come on, but that's supply.

847
00:39:44,080 --> 00:39:47,120
Speaker 2: With male accountability. Why so why I started just joking

848
00:39:47,160 --> 00:39:49,879
Speaker 2: about kill all men because it just gets so frustrating

849
00:39:50,320 --> 00:39:52,759
Speaker 2: that it's like, you know, the good men quote unquote,

850
00:39:53,200 --> 00:39:56,320
Speaker 2: they still don't want to acknowledge that men and women

851
00:39:56,400 --> 00:39:58,880
Speaker 2: live in two different worlds because women have to like

852
00:39:59,280 --> 00:40:02,680
Speaker 2: just basically keep our struggle amongst ourselves, and every time

853
00:40:02,719 --> 00:40:04,000
Speaker 2: we don't, people are.

854
00:40:03,800 --> 00:40:07,080
Speaker 1: Like Marcia, I'm gonna say, I feel like that's a

855
00:40:07,200 --> 00:40:07,759
Speaker 1: white woman.

856
00:40:08,080 --> 00:40:09,239
Speaker 2: Okay, I was just about this.

857
00:40:09,320 --> 00:40:13,040
Speaker 1: That's that's most fairly issue with feminism. It's like it's

858
00:40:13,080 --> 00:40:16,759
Speaker 1: always from the white woman, the white feminism that's in

859
00:40:16,800 --> 00:40:18,520
Speaker 1: a different tax bracket.

860
00:40:18,680 --> 00:40:21,480
Speaker 3: It's not like the little people. It's not like women.

861
00:40:21,560 --> 00:40:23,680
Speaker 2: This certainly need to be a different tax bracket.

862
00:40:23,719 --> 00:40:26,120
Speaker 4: I feel like if you're going to be a feminist

863
00:40:26,200 --> 00:40:29,799
Speaker 4: and stand for white women and you know, stand with

864
00:40:29,880 --> 00:40:33,360
Speaker 4: plant parenthood and stand with you know, headless women in Hollywood,

865
00:40:33,680 --> 00:40:36,680
Speaker 4: then at the same time, and not you specifically, but

866
00:40:37,120 --> 00:40:39,720
Speaker 4: just the people who call themselves feminists but won't speak

867
00:40:39,800 --> 00:40:43,120
Speaker 4: up with like Sandra Bland or speak up when something

868
00:40:43,480 --> 00:40:47,040
Speaker 4: like someone says something crazy disrespectful about Sasha and Malia.

869
00:40:46,920 --> 00:40:49,480
Speaker 2: Like because they know it won't affect them exactly. And

870
00:40:49,520 --> 00:40:52,360
Speaker 2: that's the problem is that the white feminists like screaming

871
00:40:52,440 --> 00:40:55,520
Speaker 2: over and anything. They want to get mad at men,

872
00:40:56,360 --> 00:40:59,360
Speaker 2: you know, for not acknowledging their struggle, but that is

873
00:40:59,480 --> 00:41:03,640
Speaker 2: anything challenges where they lie in the privileged scale. They're like, well,

874
00:41:03,680 --> 00:41:06,920
Speaker 2: let's not talk about that, or you're just complaining, or

875
00:41:07,239 --> 00:41:09,759
Speaker 2: do we really need more representation of women of color

876
00:41:09,800 --> 00:41:12,120
Speaker 2: and film? Because then I lose the part like you know,

877
00:41:12,200 --> 00:41:15,680
Speaker 2: things like that where that's where I get really upset

878
00:41:16,239 --> 00:41:21,040
Speaker 2: when people use feminism as a platform for narcissism, selfishness,

879
00:41:21,640 --> 00:41:25,040
Speaker 2: and now and then men love to put those women

880
00:41:25,080 --> 00:41:28,000
Speaker 2: as the faces of feminism, where they go, that's all

881
00:41:28,040 --> 00:41:30,520
Speaker 2: feminism is, and you go, well, for me, like feminism

882
00:41:30,560 --> 00:41:33,080
Speaker 2: saved my life. It made me stop blaming myself for

883
00:41:33,160 --> 00:41:35,880
Speaker 2: certain things that happened, you know, like and that's what

884
00:41:35,960 --> 00:41:39,080
Speaker 2: it does for individual women when it But it's hard

885
00:41:39,120 --> 00:41:42,160
Speaker 2: because I don't want to ever say there's good feminism,

886
00:41:42,239 --> 00:41:45,960
Speaker 2: bad feminism, blah blah blah. But with the white feminism specifically,

887
00:41:46,480 --> 00:41:50,120
Speaker 2: that is bad because to me, that's not feminism inherently

888
00:41:50,480 --> 00:41:54,200
Speaker 2: if you don't have an intersectional view of how black

889
00:41:54,239 --> 00:41:58,279
Speaker 2: women are disproportionately affected by sexism and women have called,

890
00:41:58,320 --> 00:42:01,239
Speaker 2: you know, especially with immigrant women now are going to

891
00:42:01,320 --> 00:42:04,880
Speaker 2: be hugely affected by this presidency more and you know,

892
00:42:04,960 --> 00:42:06,960
Speaker 2: we need to focus on them and because they're the

893
00:42:06,960 --> 00:42:09,280
Speaker 2: people who are most affected by reproductive rights.

894
00:42:10,000 --> 00:42:11,879
Speaker 1: And that's the thing that makes me so angry because

895
00:42:11,880 --> 00:42:14,960
Speaker 1: when I was in high school, plant parenthood, which like

896
00:42:15,160 --> 00:42:17,680
Speaker 1: for the black and Spanish bitches, it was not like

897
00:42:17,719 --> 00:42:18,600
Speaker 1: a white woman thing.

898
00:42:19,040 --> 00:42:21,560
Speaker 3: There were statistics as saying like white women don't have

899
00:42:21,640 --> 00:42:25,440
Speaker 3: abortions like that. I just feel like plant parenthood.

900
00:42:24,960 --> 00:42:27,359
Speaker 1: Is all of a sudden, like a white woman thing,

901
00:42:27,600 --> 00:42:30,800
Speaker 1: like all these women are like fighting for plant parenthood,

902
00:42:30,800 --> 00:42:33,359
Speaker 1: but like ten years ago, it was it wasn't even

903
00:42:33,400 --> 00:42:36,680
Speaker 1: heard of they had private practitioners if they wanted to

904
00:42:36,719 --> 00:42:39,919
Speaker 1: get abortions, like they weren't going to plant parenthood at all.

905
00:42:40,000 --> 00:42:41,680
Speaker 2: Right, Well, I do think I think white women have

906
00:42:41,719 --> 00:42:44,840
Speaker 2: a responsibility to stick up for plant parented. But it

907
00:42:44,920 --> 00:42:48,320
Speaker 2: is interesting how they've like branded it for themselves. Yes,

908
00:42:48,360 --> 00:42:48,839
Speaker 2: in a way.

909
00:42:48,840 --> 00:42:51,160
Speaker 4: Well my thing is this, like, I get it, you

910
00:42:51,239 --> 00:42:53,400
Speaker 4: got you found something to be passionate about. Y'all are

911
00:42:53,400 --> 00:42:57,200
Speaker 4: in marching with signs and cardboard and pink cats and everything,

912
00:42:57,200 --> 00:42:59,400
Speaker 4: and that's fabulous, But like, where.

913
00:42:59,160 --> 00:43:02,680
Speaker 2: Is that passion and that for black lives? Black lives, Yes,

914
00:43:02,920 --> 00:43:05,200
Speaker 2: they need to be there too. That is the problem,

915
00:43:05,600 --> 00:43:07,759
Speaker 2: it is, and I think a lot of it is

916
00:43:07,800 --> 00:43:10,719
Speaker 2: this like that. That's why the Women's March once they

917
00:43:10,719 --> 00:43:13,319
Speaker 2: did give the organization to women of color, Like it

918
00:43:13,480 --> 00:43:15,799
Speaker 2: just is better. I mean, white women when they try

919
00:43:15,840 --> 00:43:18,560
Speaker 2: and speak for feminism without listening to all the voices,

920
00:43:18,640 --> 00:43:21,200
Speaker 2: just don't do it correctly. I mean, and it sounds

921
00:43:21,239 --> 00:43:23,920
Speaker 2: you're in It sounds one sided speak for someone that

922
00:43:23,960 --> 00:43:27,240
Speaker 2: you're not listening to you and they're still not understanding privilege.

923
00:43:27,239 --> 00:43:30,160
Speaker 2: And you can't fight against privilege, you know, if you're

924
00:43:30,200 --> 00:43:32,800
Speaker 2: only fighting for it for yourself that's why it's like

925
00:43:32,840 --> 00:43:36,360
Speaker 2: the original feminists were directly involved with civil rights. You know,

926
00:43:36,440 --> 00:43:38,200
Speaker 2: the original feminists, I guess that the ones from the

927
00:43:38,239 --> 00:43:41,759
Speaker 2: sixties and seventies I'm talking about, and the white women

928
00:43:41,800 --> 00:43:45,120
Speaker 2: who only fought for, you know, the rights of housewives

929
00:43:45,120 --> 00:43:47,719
Speaker 2: in a way were seen as very those were like

930
00:43:47,760 --> 00:43:52,800
Speaker 2: the original white feminists. Yeah, and the suffragettes were actively

931
00:43:52,840 --> 00:43:55,800
Speaker 2: trying to get women the right to vote over black people.

932
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Speaker 1: Right Yep, Marcia, this was like a great discussion and

933
00:44:00,360 --> 00:44:03,680
Speaker 1: it was so good and I really want to continue.

934
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Speaker 3: Uh, but we have to give you this quiz really quick.

935
00:44:07,080 --> 00:44:10,160
Speaker 1: We're only going to give you two questions.

936
00:44:10,560 --> 00:44:17,080
Speaker 3: Uh, we got to get out of here, thir what's

937
00:44:17,120 --> 00:44:17,520
Speaker 3: your question?

938
00:44:17,560 --> 00:44:17,799
Speaker 1: Marie?

939
00:44:17,920 --> 00:44:19,120
Speaker 2: Wait? Hold on?

940
00:44:24,200 --> 00:44:27,719
Speaker 3: Oh my goodness, I can't believe we were getting into it.

941
00:44:27,800 --> 00:44:30,880
Speaker 2: We were getting I know, we should do a sequel

942
00:44:30,920 --> 00:44:31,880
Speaker 2: sometimes we should.

943
00:44:32,040 --> 00:44:33,520
Speaker 3: We should definitely when we get some.

944
00:44:33,640 --> 00:44:35,239
Speaker 2: Because I love to talk about stuff like that, because

945
00:44:35,239 --> 00:44:38,480
Speaker 2: that's all I will talk to individual women and.

946
00:44:38,560 --> 00:44:42,720
Speaker 3: Just like, please, don't we get more time? Okay, So Murray,

947
00:44:42,760 --> 00:44:43,600
Speaker 3: first question.

948
00:44:43,640 --> 00:44:45,440
Speaker 2: And we're back. Marcia.

949
00:44:45,800 --> 00:44:51,319
Speaker 4: As a feminist, you consider yourself a feminist A what's

950
00:44:51,360 --> 00:44:54,080
Speaker 4: the difference between a feminist and a lesbian.

951
00:44:57,440 --> 00:45:01,480
Speaker 2: A feminist is someone who wishes they could sleep with women. No,

952
00:45:01,640 --> 00:45:07,320
Speaker 2: just kidding. I know a lot of lesbians who wouldn't

953
00:45:07,360 --> 00:45:09,840
Speaker 2: consider themselves feminist. And I know a lot of lesbians

954
00:45:09,840 --> 00:45:12,520
Speaker 2: who have creeped me out more than dudes. I'm gonna

955
00:45:12,560 --> 00:45:16,799
Speaker 2: say me, me, me, and me, not like I had

956
00:45:16,800 --> 00:45:20,160
Speaker 2: a you know, and I would say a lot of people.

957
00:45:20,640 --> 00:45:22,840
Speaker 2: My mom always says, who do you think are the

958
00:45:22,880 --> 00:45:24,799
Speaker 2: people that have more of a problem with men? The

959
00:45:24,800 --> 00:45:26,439
Speaker 2: ones who have to sleep with them are the ones

960
00:45:26,480 --> 00:45:26,960
Speaker 2: who don't?

961
00:45:29,560 --> 00:45:29,840
Speaker 3: Okay?

962
00:45:29,880 --> 00:45:32,319
Speaker 2: When I said maybe both, we're gonna give you a

963
00:45:32,360 --> 00:45:32,920
Speaker 2: point for that.

964
00:45:33,640 --> 00:45:38,360
Speaker 1: And our last question is, uh, so there's a burning building,

965
00:45:38,480 --> 00:45:41,279
Speaker 1: like building on fire and your brother's in it.

966
00:45:41,880 --> 00:45:45,239
Speaker 3: Your brother's in it, yea, and twelve women, Oh, who

967
00:45:45,239 --> 00:45:46,480
Speaker 3: are you gonna pick first?

968
00:45:46,640 --> 00:45:49,440
Speaker 2: I'd be like, Alan, is it okay?

969
00:45:50,480 --> 00:45:50,800
Speaker 1: Alan?

970
00:45:51,000 --> 00:45:51,320
Speaker 4: John?

971
00:45:53,280 --> 00:45:57,560
Speaker 2: Well, my brother is a father, But like if any

972
00:45:57,640 --> 00:46:01,080
Speaker 2: of the women have kids, you know, I are the

973
00:46:01,120 --> 00:46:07,319
Speaker 2: women white? No, it doesn't matter. I would save my

974
00:46:07,400 --> 00:46:09,880
Speaker 2: brother because you gotta save your family first, but I

975
00:46:09,920 --> 00:46:11,240
Speaker 2: would hide it from the press.

976
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Speaker 1: Okay, that was perfect, Thank you, So mus you guys,

977
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Speaker 1: can you just.

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Speaker 3: Plug your Instagram?

979
00:46:19,600 --> 00:46:19,799
Speaker 4: Yes?

980
00:46:20,000 --> 00:46:24,600
Speaker 2: Instagram is at Marcia sky Sky because my last name

981
00:46:24,680 --> 00:46:27,279
Speaker 2: is okay anyways, m A r c I A s

982
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Speaker 2: k Y. My Twitter is Marsha Belski m A r

983
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Speaker 2: c I A b e L s k y. And yeah,

984
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Speaker 2: find my band free theMIND one dot band camp dot com.

985
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Speaker 2: And where can people? What's the website the Headless Women

986
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Speaker 2: and Headless Women of Hollywood dot com spelled like it sounds,

987
00:46:48,080 --> 00:46:50,480
Speaker 2: and it's also on Tumblr. You can search it there.

988
00:46:50,600 --> 00:46:53,560
Speaker 2: And where are the Shorty Awards? On the Shorty Awards,

989
00:46:53,880 --> 00:46:56,240
Speaker 2: The voting's over, but it's voted for the best tumbler

990
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Speaker 2: of the year, so we'll see if I officially get

991
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Speaker 2: to the talk.

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Speaker 3: And he everyone.

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