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Speaker 1: Good morning, it's the Fred's Show. I want to play

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Speaker 1: this for you. UM. This is I laughed so hard yesterday.

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Speaker 1: So if you remember, if you've been listening to our

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Speaker 1: show for some time, we once we once had an

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Speaker 1: intern name Young Cougar bay. Um. Young Cougar Bait is

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Speaker 1: now host of The Joe Show on Radio Station Tampa,

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Speaker 1: our sister station there in Tampa, Florida. We're very proud

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Speaker 1: of him. In addition, Ashley Nicks, who also was on

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Speaker 1: our station, UM is his co host. And then some

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Speaker 1: other dude and so shady. I'm only I'm only saying

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Speaker 1: I just I just want to piss him off. So anyway,

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Speaker 1: so Jeb Jeb Bush is on that show. Very exciting. UM.

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Speaker 1: And so I was every now and again I check

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Speaker 1: in with these guys and I listened to their show

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Speaker 1: we're very proud of them. And this was the segment

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Speaker 1: they did yesterday. I guess Cougar Baits girlfriend can't say

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Speaker 1: that she can't say, and it is hysterical. Listen to

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Speaker 1: all right, all right, listen to how would employ here?

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Speaker 1: What can you not say, Ashley? Massa Massachusetts? Massachusetts? Massachusetts?

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Speaker 1: How do you say it? That's exactly how you say Massachusetts?

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Speaker 1: Tom Brady lives in Tampa now, but he used to

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Speaker 1: live in Massachusetts. And the problem now is I have

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Speaker 1: I can't see this is the problem? Might hear it

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Speaker 1: the wrong way? So many times? Right? Right right right

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Speaker 1: way that I say nightmarror? What the hell might mirror?

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Speaker 1: Nightmare or nightmare or um? But what what are the

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Speaker 1: words or word? What is a word that you can't say? Eight? Five, five, five,

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Speaker 1: nine one one or three five? Way? Before you go?

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Speaker 1: Do you have one? Mine? Was that that state? That

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Speaker 1: Boston is the state brown? What's the state? Assi? Shoes?

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Speaker 1: I can't bad. I was born in Wellesley Hills, which

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Speaker 1: is a suburb of Boston in Massachusetts. Massachusetts. I can't. Okay,

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Speaker 1: what is the word that you can or words multiple

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Speaker 1: that you cannot say? Um, participation is a hard one

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Speaker 1: for me for some reason, and I can I can

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Speaker 1: I can't say it like I got to read it

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Speaker 1: here all the time. Price and participation. Maybe I can't

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Speaker 1: gotta be a lie. I don't know, vemno. Later on

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Speaker 1: we're gonna have picture the picture night, and maybe I'll

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Speaker 1: send to you some money for the alcohol that we're

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Speaker 1: gonna need to get through the pictures. And then how

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Speaker 1: would you like me to send it to you? No? No, yes,

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Speaker 1: they got they banned me. I can't say that. One

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Speaker 1: song by Bobby Valentino, I'm anomous, gonna be anominous. I

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Speaker 1: can't say that one anonymous problem. Now, it's a lot

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Speaker 1: don't know how to say them properly. Um, anomalous, anomous, Okay,

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Speaker 1: any other ones okay, Rufio, clothes, Yeah, there's clothes. Clothes.

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Speaker 1: There's clothes, clothes. And remember he couldn't say report. That's

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Speaker 1: why we start weatherport. What's true weatherport brought to you

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Speaker 1: by we do weatherports on here. Um, and he wears

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Speaker 1: the weather. They record the report. What is it for you, Calin,

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Speaker 1: if somebody to do a culture on me of some kind, nostalgic, Hey, juel, juel,

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Speaker 1: good morning, Oh, good morning, good morning. I love you guys,

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Speaker 1: thank you, we love you too. Wor, sire. A lot

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Speaker 1: of people can't say this where it's worse. Sure, you

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Speaker 1: Steake Marinade. The more I say it, the more I'm unsure. Jewel,

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Speaker 1: So hyhena? Okay, all right, thank you, daniel A, good day,

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Speaker 1: Thanks for calling. Hey, Hobvey, Hobby. What's the words you

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Speaker 1: It doesn't sound right. Warm and warm warm, there's a

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Speaker 1: saying warm worm there's oh, it's it's a warm outside.

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Speaker 1: bring up warm and warm? Thank you having had a

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Speaker 1: great day. It's hot outside, thank you. Yeah, it's hot

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Speaker 1: and there's a there's a thing, an insect or something.

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Speaker 1: Hey Joe, Yeah, good morning, Joe. How are you good?

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Speaker 1: Thank you? Um? Thanks for calling? What's the words? You

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Speaker 1: It's fantastic. Um, good word for you'll hear the word.

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Speaker 1: I honestly cannot do it. Um, that's Starette, that's Starette. No,

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Speaker 1: that Starette. I think to spend to a bachelorette party,

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Speaker 1: can't you say? Sority? Don't say that word? Yeah, the sorarity,

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Speaker 1: or sobriety soriety? Soet oh? Okay, no, she does not.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, Alan, Thank you for putting your license in

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Speaker 1: good risk. Hey, Lindsay, Hi, Lindsay, how are you? I'm good?

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Speaker 1: What's the word you can't say? I cannot say the

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Speaker 1: word pam pamphlet. You said it like I just said it, Okay,

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Speaker 1: I can't say it. I choose to say brochure and said, sure, yeah,

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Speaker 1: pamphlet you said it, okay, pamphlet, pamphlet. It wasn't terrible.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I knew what you'd but yeah, it's a brochure, right,

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Speaker 1: I want to love you too. I want to do

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Speaker 1: some more of these next the word that you cannot say?

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Speaker 1: And I got a bunch of good ones, holding right here,

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Speaker 1: five five, nine, one one h three five. Our friend

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Speaker 1: Ashley can't say Massachusetts, and now I have to think

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Speaker 1: really hard about it. Everybody knows my name Massachusetts, Massachusetts, Massachusetts.

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Speaker 1: I love Ashley so much. I love Joe Cougar Bait

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Speaker 1: WFLZ in Tampa, Florida. We love them. And that guy

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Speaker 1: John on there with him. He's so good. I love

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Speaker 1: the way he answers the phones. What's his name, Jed, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: That's a big deal though. You know, people they come

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Speaker 1: good things after working here. It's incredible. That means, you know,

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Speaker 1: the next Seacrest. I want one in Hawaii right now. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: Kimmi's in Hawaii. Um on the stations called yeah, like

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Speaker 1: you leave here. So no, none of you guys are allowed.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, but you guys aren't allowed to leave. Stay

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Speaker 1: right here. Yeah, no, you can know. No nobody else

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Speaker 1: Sounds about right. Yeah, I don't. I don't appreciate being abandoned. Um.

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Speaker 1: Hey Joe, Hi Joe, Hi, good morning. How are you?

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Speaker 1: I'm good? Thank you? Oh? What's the word Joe that

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Speaker 1: you can't say? Okay, I can I say the other?

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Speaker 1: The other you can't take, but you have to take

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Speaker 1: and like can't say my husband metapan is the word

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Speaker 1: But how do you say it? But my husband to say,

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't think I've ever seen the

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Speaker 1: worst talent is it contains a set of men? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I see the word I've that's the thing. If I

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Speaker 1: don't know how, but like doctors can say all those

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Speaker 1: I can't say half of them. Yeah, oh, we're gonna

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Speaker 1: give you a prescription of you know, gargoyle. And now

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Speaker 1: I see how why they write like that too, because

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Speaker 1: scribble it. Hey, Krista, Hi Corny, Hey, good morning. What's

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Speaker 1: the words you can't say? I really have to think

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Speaker 1: about it to say it properly. But Tuesday Tuesday you

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Speaker 1: said it right, well, British Tuesday. Yeah. My friends are like, no,

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Speaker 1: not Tuesday Tuesday. No. I think you said it right.

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Speaker 1: This sounds fine to us, but everybody get me so

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Speaker 1: much cram for it. Will you tell them that they're

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Speaker 1: all the rest of them are wrong? I will thank you.

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Speaker 1: Chris I have a great day, thanks so much for calling.

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Speaker 1: Hey Megan, Hi, good morning. These are words you can't say.

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Speaker 1: Let's hear them. Okay, I can't say curtain, and I

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Speaker 1: dear blog. So, as you guys know, I don't always

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Speaker 1: What happened? I think witness protection. That you could be

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Speaker 1: that that would be a perfectly good explanation, wouldn't it.

415
00:24:56,440 --> 00:24:59,800
Speaker 1: So you look, honestly, we asked people to be self aware,

416
00:25:00,000 --> 00:25:02,120
Speaker 1: and no one ever is. But when you look back

417
00:25:02,160 --> 00:25:04,320
Speaker 1: on this date, you really thought everything went great. You

418
00:25:04,440 --> 00:25:07,240
Speaker 1: thought this was like a changing turning point in your life,

419
00:25:07,560 --> 00:25:09,480
Speaker 1: and you're gonna hear from this guy and you're gonna

420
00:25:09,480 --> 00:25:12,879
Speaker 1: go out again and nothing. Yeah, yeah, clearly, And I am.

421
00:25:13,080 --> 00:25:14,920
Speaker 1: I mean I pick up on vibes and I thought

422
00:25:15,080 --> 00:25:18,320
Speaker 1: he was just totally like we're just fibing together. So

423
00:25:18,400 --> 00:25:21,840
Speaker 1: I'm so confused. Well, and I've been on those dates

424
00:25:21,920 --> 00:25:23,920
Speaker 1: before where you're like, oh, this is different and then

425
00:25:24,600 --> 00:25:26,280
Speaker 1: you know you don't hear from the person and you're like, well,

426
00:25:26,280 --> 00:25:27,920
Speaker 1: I guess it wasn't different for them, or like what

427
00:25:28,119 --> 00:25:29,800
Speaker 1: was the deal? So that's what we're gonna do. We're

428
00:25:29,840 --> 00:25:32,480
Speaker 1: gonna call this guy William. We'll ask some questions, we'll

429
00:25:32,520 --> 00:25:34,080
Speaker 1: see if we can figure out what's going on. You'll

430
00:25:34,119 --> 00:25:35,960
Speaker 1: be on the phone at some point. Definitely jump in,

431
00:25:36,040 --> 00:25:37,800
Speaker 1: but let us try and get some info for you

432
00:25:37,920 --> 00:25:40,119
Speaker 1: before that, and hopefully we can straighten this out and

433
00:25:40,240 --> 00:25:42,760
Speaker 1: set you up on another date that we pay for. Okay, Okay,

434
00:25:43,480 --> 00:25:45,720
Speaker 1: can you hang on for a second. Yeah, sure, you

435
00:25:45,800 --> 00:25:47,520
Speaker 1: have got to hear what happens next. Parts two of

436
00:25:47,560 --> 00:25:50,560
Speaker 1: waiting by the phone after this song. Fred Show one

437
00:25:50,640 --> 00:25:55,800
Speaker 1: h three five three five Kiss famis Chicago's number one

438
00:25:55,880 --> 00:25:57,879
Speaker 1: hit music station. Good morning, thanks for having us on.

439
00:25:58,119 --> 00:26:01,600
Speaker 1: It's the Fred Show, Tanya, Yeah, welcome back. Let's call

440
00:26:01,640 --> 00:26:04,520
Speaker 1: this guy William. You describe this this wonderful day that

441
00:26:04,600 --> 00:26:07,080
Speaker 1: you went on with him, and you were I mean

442
00:26:07,160 --> 00:26:09,840
Speaker 1: really he kind of exceeded your expectations after you met

443
00:26:09,920 --> 00:26:11,520
Speaker 1: him on bumble and talk to him and in person

444
00:26:11,600 --> 00:26:14,000
Speaker 1: it was that much better. Except he's not calling you

445
00:26:14,600 --> 00:26:16,880
Speaker 1: for another date, and you're surprised by this. You want

446
00:26:16,920 --> 00:26:19,320
Speaker 1: to know why. All right, we're gonna call him right now.

447
00:26:19,400 --> 00:26:29,240
Speaker 1: Good luck. Hi is this William? Are you a William

448
00:26:29,320 --> 00:26:31,520
Speaker 1: or you a Bill or a Billy? Or is he

449
00:26:32,000 --> 00:26:36,879
Speaker 1: William Willy? I go my William? Oh okay, well William M.

450
00:26:37,080 --> 00:26:38,760
Speaker 1: I'm trying to bother. I should tell you. My name

451
00:26:38,880 --> 00:26:42,320
Speaker 1: is Fred, Kayl and Jason, a whole crew here from

452
00:26:42,359 --> 00:26:44,320
Speaker 1: the Fred Show on Kiss FM. And I'm sorry to bother,

453
00:26:44,440 --> 00:26:45,399
Speaker 1: but I have to tell you that we are on

454
00:26:45,440 --> 00:26:47,439
Speaker 1: the radio right now and I need your permission to continue.

455
00:26:47,480 --> 00:26:51,080
Speaker 1: Can we talk for a minute? Oh yeah, okay, perfect,

456
00:26:51,119 --> 00:26:54,400
Speaker 1: Thank you so much for your cooperation. Um, we're calling

457
00:26:54,440 --> 00:26:57,720
Speaker 1: on behalf of a woman named Tanya, who said as

458
00:26:57,760 --> 00:27:01,320
Speaker 1: she met you on bumble and and she went into

459
00:27:01,359 --> 00:27:04,320
Speaker 1: this description about this amazing day that you guys went on.

460
00:27:04,680 --> 00:27:06,920
Speaker 1: But I said that she hasn't heard from you since

461
00:27:07,000 --> 00:27:08,840
Speaker 1: the date, so we're kind of trying to figure out

462
00:27:08,880 --> 00:27:13,600
Speaker 1: what happened. Oh well, yeah it was. It was a

463
00:27:13,680 --> 00:27:15,840
Speaker 1: really good date. I mean I had a really good

464
00:27:15,880 --> 00:27:20,320
Speaker 1: time and Kny is really really cool. Okay, it was

465
00:27:21,440 --> 00:27:24,680
Speaker 1: it was one thing. There's always one thing. What was

466
00:27:24,760 --> 00:27:30,000
Speaker 1: the one thing? All right? Halfway through the night we

467
00:27:30,119 --> 00:27:37,920
Speaker 1: were having dinner, she released the just the most aggressive

468
00:27:38,240 --> 00:27:43,560
Speaker 1: art I've ever know? How did you not? Like? Was it?

469
00:27:43,800 --> 00:27:49,000
Speaker 1: Was it loud? Or was it stinky? Release? Like release

470
00:27:49,119 --> 00:27:52,280
Speaker 1: the hounds? Like? Okay, So you're sitting there talking and

471
00:27:52,400 --> 00:27:55,840
Speaker 1: then I mean, are you sure it was her? Couldn't

472
00:27:55,840 --> 00:27:58,479
Speaker 1: have been anyone else? I mean it was it was her.

473
00:27:58,520 --> 00:28:01,359
Speaker 1: I mean it was silent, but there was there was

474
00:28:01,440 --> 00:28:04,520
Speaker 1: no one around. We were like distance from everyone else.

475
00:28:04,560 --> 00:28:09,760
Speaker 1: The waiter wasn't there. It was albeit okay, but you know,

476
00:28:10,000 --> 00:28:11,919
Speaker 1: I mean, what do they say that the wise man

477
00:28:12,000 --> 00:28:15,439
Speaker 1: once said that who those who smelt it dell did her?

478
00:28:15,560 --> 00:28:19,800
Speaker 1: Isn't that what they say? Yeah, this could have been

479
00:28:19,840 --> 00:28:21,320
Speaker 1: It could have been you, dude, are you trying to

480
00:28:21,359 --> 00:28:24,920
Speaker 1: cover up? I mean, if it was me, I've really

481
00:28:24,960 --> 00:28:30,040
Speaker 1: got one over on myself. So she let this out.

482
00:28:30,119 --> 00:28:32,440
Speaker 1: Now you just keep going with the date. But here,

483
00:28:32,480 --> 00:28:35,200
Speaker 1: you know that did this happen? I mean, these things

484
00:28:35,280 --> 00:28:39,240
Speaker 1: do happen though, right, I mean, it's just something you

485
00:28:39,280 --> 00:28:43,960
Speaker 1: can't get over or what. Honestly, I mean it wasn't.

486
00:28:45,160 --> 00:28:46,960
Speaker 1: I mean, it was a really bad part. I'm not

487
00:28:47,080 --> 00:28:50,080
Speaker 1: I'm not playing that one down. But you know I

488
00:28:50,200 --> 00:28:52,840
Speaker 1: had a good time. Okay, but you haven't called her

489
00:28:52,880 --> 00:28:54,680
Speaker 1: because you can't get over Okay. I forgot to mention

490
00:28:54,760 --> 00:28:57,440
Speaker 1: the time, Yes here apparently time you mount the going

491
00:28:57,480 --> 00:29:04,880
Speaker 1: on what happened? I William, Oh my god, I'm so embarrassed.

492
00:29:05,320 --> 00:29:07,520
Speaker 1: So you're gonna you're gonna own this one. I have

493
00:29:07,680 --> 00:29:11,560
Speaker 1: to say. I just I really hope that he didn't notice.

494
00:29:12,200 --> 00:29:16,280
Speaker 1: And I guess just that day I had like a

495
00:29:16,440 --> 00:29:24,720
Speaker 1: bull of keen wash. I'm really healthy, you're trying to

496
00:29:24,720 --> 00:29:28,200
Speaker 1: eat healthy, and it, you know, gives you a bubble gut. Yeah,

497
00:29:28,640 --> 00:29:30,360
Speaker 1: And so I just I couldn't hold it in. It

498
00:29:30,920 --> 00:29:34,720
Speaker 1: truly just seeped out. And I just feel so embarrassed.

499
00:29:34,800 --> 00:29:37,120
Speaker 1: But I got at least seep. These are the words

500
00:29:37,160 --> 00:29:39,560
Speaker 1: that we're hearing today. I'm waiting by the phone. Look, William,

501
00:29:39,920 --> 00:29:41,680
Speaker 1: it seems like the kind of thing that you know,

502
00:29:41,920 --> 00:29:49,880
Speaker 1: this happens. It's we're all human and nature, and I mean,

503
00:29:50,480 --> 00:29:52,440
Speaker 1: you just can't get over it, Like I don't know,

504
00:29:52,520 --> 00:29:57,960
Speaker 1: it's just it's clouded your opinion. Literally, I get it,

505
00:29:58,080 --> 00:30:02,160
Speaker 1: I get it. This is honestly, this is not a

506
00:30:02,240 --> 00:30:05,240
Speaker 1: deal breaker. I'm I'm so sorry. You don't mean to

507
00:30:05,320 --> 00:30:07,960
Speaker 1: embarrass you. Wait so that means you'll give her another shot?

508
00:30:08,520 --> 00:30:17,640
Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, I like you now, girl, don't before

509
00:30:17,720 --> 00:30:21,560
Speaker 1: the date. I should have gotten back sooner. Ira, I'm sorry.

510
00:30:21,560 --> 00:30:23,920
Speaker 1: I love one tany. Can you get over this? I mean,

511
00:30:24,000 --> 00:30:27,160
Speaker 1: he revealed your your toot on the date, but now

512
00:30:27,200 --> 00:30:28,360
Speaker 1: he wants to go out with you again. Are you

513
00:30:28,400 --> 00:30:31,240
Speaker 1: open to that? I think I am. I think that

514
00:30:31,320 --> 00:30:34,560
Speaker 1: this is just like a silly, silly hiccup. And I

515
00:30:34,960 --> 00:30:39,560
Speaker 1: wasn't a hiccup. It wasn't clear about what it was.

516
00:30:39,640 --> 00:30:42,920
Speaker 1: I mean, that's totally different. But um, okay, so another

517
00:30:43,000 --> 00:30:46,120
Speaker 1: day we'll pay for another day. This is this is amazing. Yeah,

518
00:30:46,400 --> 00:30:50,120
Speaker 1: I'm excited. All right, I can tell choose the restaurant carefully,

519
00:30:50,160 --> 00:30:55,000
Speaker 1: all right, both of you? Um, perfect guys. Good luck

520
00:30:55,040 --> 00:31:01,720
Speaker 1: to you, Thank you, Thank one three five kiss FAMD,

521
00:31:01,840 --> 00:31:04,240
Speaker 1: Chicago's number one hit music station. Good morning, thanks for

522
00:31:04,280 --> 00:31:06,400
Speaker 1: having us on. It's the Fred Show. I want to

523
00:31:06,440 --> 00:31:08,440
Speaker 1: hear this story, Kalin, that from our sheet today. But

524
00:31:08,520 --> 00:31:10,600
Speaker 1: I because I almost got caught up in something like this,

525
00:31:10,800 --> 00:31:14,320
Speaker 1: but you the question is eight five five, five nine

526
00:31:14,440 --> 00:31:16,080
Speaker 1: one one h three five that's how you get a

527
00:31:16,120 --> 00:31:18,520
Speaker 1: hold of us at the Fred Show. But the question

528
00:31:18,720 --> 00:31:24,680
Speaker 1: is we broke up, but I'm still paying four blank. Yeah.

529
00:31:24,720 --> 00:31:26,800
Speaker 1: So have you ever been in this situation before where

530
00:31:27,040 --> 00:31:29,000
Speaker 1: you're not with somebody anymore but you're still on the

531
00:31:29,040 --> 00:31:31,680
Speaker 1: hook for something? What is What is it you're still

532
00:31:31,720 --> 00:31:34,080
Speaker 1: paying for? There's a few things that I'm still paying

533
00:31:34,120 --> 00:31:35,520
Speaker 1: for it for my AX because like you know, I

534
00:31:35,800 --> 00:31:38,040
Speaker 1: haven't paid off my credit cards. You know, times are

535
00:31:38,160 --> 00:31:40,640
Speaker 1: rough out here, so I'm still paying for a couple

536
00:31:40,960 --> 00:31:47,800
Speaker 1: birthday and Christmas gifts and that's almost a year old obviously, Okay, which, okay,

537
00:31:47,840 --> 00:31:49,520
Speaker 1: it's not he left you hanging on that stuff, like

538
00:31:49,600 --> 00:31:51,040
Speaker 1: you know, you would have given it to him anyway,

539
00:31:51,160 --> 00:31:53,719
Speaker 1: so for sure, but it's like weird to like, yeah, right,

540
00:31:53,720 --> 00:31:56,240
Speaker 1: you're still paying on stuff that. Yeah. I keep a

541
00:31:56,360 --> 00:31:59,800
Speaker 1: list like of what each item is on my credit card,

542
00:32:00,080 --> 00:32:02,960
Speaker 1: so it'll be like you know so and so shirt

543
00:32:03,160 --> 00:32:07,160
Speaker 1: or you know whatever specific thing, so like it'll say

544
00:32:07,280 --> 00:32:09,120
Speaker 1: like his name, and every time I see it, I'm like,

545
00:32:09,560 --> 00:32:11,320
Speaker 1: I still have to pay for this, Like don't they

546
00:32:11,520 --> 00:32:14,760
Speaker 1: give me the money back? No money back here, and like,

547
00:32:15,160 --> 00:32:17,040
Speaker 1: as long as you're together, then you have to pay

548
00:32:17,120 --> 00:32:18,520
Speaker 1: for it. But then once you're dead, and just forget.

549
00:32:18,760 --> 00:32:22,400
Speaker 1: Once dead, you kill the guy. I didn't. I didn't

550
00:32:22,400 --> 00:32:24,320
Speaker 1: do it. It's forgiven once you break up. Have you

551
00:32:24,320 --> 00:32:25,480
Speaker 1: ever been on the hook, any of you guys for

552
00:32:25,560 --> 00:32:28,200
Speaker 1: something for for next? No. I was always on my

553
00:32:28,280 --> 00:32:30,840
Speaker 1: own until until Jess and I got together, Like we didn't,

554
00:32:30,960 --> 00:32:32,600
Speaker 1: we didn't. We got on a cell phone plan together,

555
00:32:32,640 --> 00:32:35,320
Speaker 1: but every girlfriend before that, I was Yeah, I was

556
00:32:35,320 --> 00:32:37,760
Speaker 1: all my own stuff. Yeah, oh yeah, Shelly never never.

557
00:32:38,000 --> 00:32:41,440
Speaker 1: I can't see you commingling funds with anybody. I just

558
00:32:41,880 --> 00:32:44,360
Speaker 1: don't see it happen every time. Why not. I've known

559
00:32:44,400 --> 00:32:46,840
Speaker 1: you for a while, but for some reason, I don't.

560
00:32:46,880 --> 00:32:49,280
Speaker 1: I don't see Shelly diving into Hey, let's put all

561
00:32:49,320 --> 00:32:52,320
Speaker 1: that stuff together into what I'm very cautious. Yeah, I

562
00:32:52,400 --> 00:32:56,120
Speaker 1: am too. I was dating somebody, and I'm not bringing

563
00:32:56,160 --> 00:32:58,400
Speaker 1: this up to like be a jackass or whatever, but

564
00:32:58,440 --> 00:33:02,080
Speaker 1: I was dating somebody early quarantine, and I was staying

565
00:33:02,160 --> 00:33:04,960
Speaker 1: there a lot, and it was in the city, so

566
00:33:05,120 --> 00:33:08,000
Speaker 1: parking was not a thing. So there were parking spots

567
00:33:08,040 --> 00:33:10,160
Speaker 1: available for rent in this person's building, and that was

568
00:33:10,200 --> 00:33:12,440
Speaker 1: a big step for me, having only really met with

569
00:33:12,520 --> 00:33:14,680
Speaker 1: somebody for a month. I rented a parking spot in

570
00:33:14,680 --> 00:33:15,880
Speaker 1: the building, so I had a place to put my

571
00:33:15,920 --> 00:33:19,240
Speaker 1: car when I stayed there. The uncomfortable part of it

572
00:33:19,360 --> 00:33:21,440
Speaker 1: was the person I was renting from also rented to

573
00:33:21,560 --> 00:33:25,040
Speaker 1: her previous boyfriend who had who still had money left

574
00:33:25,640 --> 00:33:29,200
Speaker 1: on the like he was so not gone, like he

575
00:33:29,360 --> 00:33:32,040
Speaker 1: was so freshly gone. Oh no, my first couple of

576
00:33:32,080 --> 00:33:36,160
Speaker 1: weeks for free. Nice, that felt good. Thanks for that guy.

577
00:33:36,320 --> 00:33:39,760
Speaker 1: That felt good. Yeah, that was nice. Yeah, huh, I

578
00:33:39,840 --> 00:33:43,240
Speaker 1: did that. But you know, you did it, And I

579
00:33:43,280 --> 00:33:44,840
Speaker 1: mean it made sense at the time because it was like,

580
00:33:44,840 --> 00:33:46,640
Speaker 1: I don't know what else was I gonna do. But

581
00:33:46,840 --> 00:33:49,160
Speaker 1: I also it was month to months fortunately, so I

582
00:33:49,200 --> 00:33:50,720
Speaker 1: didn't get like i'd have to sign a lease. Can

583
00:33:50,760 --> 00:33:52,840
Speaker 1: you imagine if I had a parking spot in my

584
00:33:52,960 --> 00:33:55,320
Speaker 1: ex's building but I was still paying for it would

585
00:33:55,320 --> 00:33:57,160
Speaker 1: be very convenient because it's in the west Loop and

586
00:33:57,200 --> 00:34:01,080
Speaker 1: it's you know, there's some nice restaurants over there. Do

587
00:34:01,160 --> 00:34:05,320
Speaker 1: you think in fact I sent the fob back. You know,

588
00:34:06,280 --> 00:34:08,000
Speaker 1: it's probably a mile from my home. And this was

589
00:34:08,080 --> 00:34:09,640
Speaker 1: the story where I went to the UPS store with

590
00:34:09,719 --> 00:34:11,680
Speaker 1: the fob for the party drives to send it back

591
00:34:11,960 --> 00:34:13,520
Speaker 1: and I'm like, hey, send this to this address and

592
00:34:13,520 --> 00:34:15,759
Speaker 1: the guy's like, you know, this address is a mile away, Mike,

593
00:34:15,880 --> 00:34:18,000
Speaker 1: I'm well aware. And the guy goes. The guy goes,

594
00:34:18,360 --> 00:34:20,879
Speaker 1: I've been there, so he knew what I was doing.

595
00:34:21,120 --> 00:34:23,520
Speaker 1: Just take it. I don't want to. Yeah, but I

596
00:34:23,640 --> 00:34:26,360
Speaker 1: did that. I rented a parking spot in someone's I

597
00:34:26,400 --> 00:34:30,200
Speaker 1: didn't yet either. Yeah, well I did that. Um hey,

598
00:34:30,280 --> 00:34:35,120
Speaker 1: Melanie feel great about it too. What do you want

599
00:34:35,160 --> 00:34:40,319
Speaker 1: to hook for from your ex? My child? Oh well

600
00:34:40,520 --> 00:34:43,520
Speaker 1: there's that. Yeah, so what is it? The whole child?

601
00:34:43,680 --> 00:34:50,239
Speaker 1: Like there's no help or anything. No help. Well but hey,

602
00:34:50,440 --> 00:34:51,880
Speaker 1: you know, way easy for me to say, but you

603
00:34:51,960 --> 00:34:54,080
Speaker 1: got the kid and he doesn't get the kid. So

604
00:34:54,200 --> 00:34:57,080
Speaker 1: there's that. We were talking about this earlier in the week.

605
00:34:57,160 --> 00:34:58,920
Speaker 1: But my mom would tell you the only good thing

606
00:34:58,960 --> 00:35:02,160
Speaker 1: about being married to my my father was me and

607
00:35:02,680 --> 00:35:04,759
Speaker 1: was my sister. So there's that. And I don't you know,

608
00:35:04,840 --> 00:35:07,360
Speaker 1: we were very expensive, but um, you know, she seems

609
00:35:07,360 --> 00:35:08,600
Speaker 1: to think that was a good thing in the end.

610
00:35:08,640 --> 00:35:13,279
Speaker 1: So there you go. You win, Melany, Yeah, you're better off. Yeah. Sorry,

611
00:35:13,280 --> 00:35:16,960
Speaker 1: about Yeah, I mean maybe, but like I can really

612
00:35:17,040 --> 00:35:20,879
Speaker 1: use the money. So have a good day, Melody, thanks

613
00:35:20,920 --> 00:35:25,560
Speaker 1: for calling. Yeah, I mean there's that Brittany. Brittany, what

614
00:35:25,640 --> 00:35:28,480
Speaker 1: do you want to hook for from your ex? So

615
00:35:28,680 --> 00:35:31,320
Speaker 1: it's not that I'm still paying for it. But I

616
00:35:31,680 --> 00:35:34,879
Speaker 1: was buying a keep from his uncle and I went

617
00:35:34,920 --> 00:35:38,280
Speaker 1: ahead and paid almost five hundred to five thousand dollars

618
00:35:38,360 --> 00:35:41,640
Speaker 1: to his uncle. And after I left him, he went

619
00:35:41,719 --> 00:35:43,839
Speaker 1: ahead and kept the car and put it in his name,

620
00:35:44,400 --> 00:35:47,960
Speaker 1: and I was about five thousand dollars damn because it

621
00:35:48,160 --> 00:35:49,880
Speaker 1: was kind of like a I'm not gonna call it

622
00:35:49,880 --> 00:35:51,279
Speaker 1: a shady deal, but it was kind of like a

623
00:35:51,320 --> 00:35:53,480
Speaker 1: flippant deal, and because you were with the guys and

624
00:35:53,680 --> 00:35:57,080
Speaker 1: then and then I was so responsible for paying the

625
00:35:57,200 --> 00:36:01,919
Speaker 1: car payment that was in both of our names. But yeah,

626
00:36:03,200 --> 00:36:07,440
Speaker 1: it's nasty. I know that I went over and damaged

627
00:36:07,480 --> 00:36:12,279
Speaker 1: the hell out of that car on it. I don't

628
00:36:12,280 --> 00:36:14,879
Speaker 1: know why you should have put Rufiya on the chase.

629
00:36:15,239 --> 00:36:16,960
Speaker 1: Ruffia will handle this for I ever know. If you

630
00:36:17,040 --> 00:36:28,319
Speaker 1: need any help, girls there, you go down like eight

631
00:36:28,360 --> 00:36:31,359
Speaker 1: thousand of them in the city. Have a good day,

632
00:36:32,920 --> 00:36:36,840
Speaker 1: O man. Hey Heather, Yeah, Heather, you're not with the

633
00:36:36,920 --> 00:36:40,160
Speaker 1: person anymore, But you're stuck with the bill. What is it? Oh? No,

634
00:36:40,320 --> 00:36:43,640
Speaker 1: mind the other way around? Oh bill? What is it?

635
00:36:44,520 --> 00:36:47,480
Speaker 1: He still pays my car or my curR insurance? Who

636
00:36:47,560 --> 00:36:50,440
Speaker 1: still pays my cell phone? He still pays to take

637
00:36:50,480 --> 00:36:52,880
Speaker 1: care of our dog insurance. Actually, just put down my

638
00:36:53,000 --> 00:36:54,960
Speaker 1: last game and I'm my car. I just heard this.

639
00:36:55,320 --> 00:36:57,279
Speaker 1: What is why is he doing this? Are you still

640
00:36:57,280 --> 00:36:59,839
Speaker 1: sleeping with him? Is that why? No? Not at all?

641
00:37:00,400 --> 00:37:03,200
Speaker 1: He just what is he hoping that you'll take him back? Um?

642
00:37:03,280 --> 00:37:05,840
Speaker 1: We were engaged and unfortunately he made a lot of

643
00:37:05,880 --> 00:37:08,520
Speaker 1: mistakes at the end, so he feels responsible for how

644
00:37:08,600 --> 00:37:13,200
Speaker 1: my life him. So it's still paying for saying and

645
00:37:13,320 --> 00:37:15,040
Speaker 1: have you dated other people while he pays for all

646
00:37:15,040 --> 00:37:18,960
Speaker 1: this stuff? Yeah he's aware. Oh okay, wow is that

647
00:37:19,200 --> 00:37:25,600
Speaker 1: for you? You got some power girl magic? You got

648
00:37:25,680 --> 00:37:28,200
Speaker 1: some magic stuff going on there? Is there is there

649
00:37:28,280 --> 00:37:30,520
Speaker 1: any chance you think that you know? This is how

650
00:37:30,600 --> 00:37:32,840
Speaker 1: he attaches himself to continues to attach himself to you

651
00:37:32,920 --> 00:37:36,279
Speaker 1: so that maybe one day you'll take him back. Yeah,

652
00:37:36,440 --> 00:37:39,239
Speaker 1: but you don't care because it's saving you money. Yeah,

653
00:37:39,360 --> 00:37:41,760
Speaker 1: and I have you know, it was a bad situation.

654
00:37:41,920 --> 00:37:44,520
Speaker 1: He's now in another country. So at this point he's

655
00:37:44,560 --> 00:37:46,800
Speaker 1: thinking some time for himself. But I think, you know,

656
00:37:46,960 --> 00:37:50,080
Speaker 1: there might be some behind it. But if it's been

657
00:37:50,120 --> 00:37:56,080
Speaker 1: a very comfortable start another country and still pays your bills, wow, wow,

658
00:37:56,239 --> 00:37:59,440
Speaker 1: I know. I wish somebody put it on me like that.

659
00:37:59,680 --> 00:38:02,000
Speaker 1: I want to pay their bills two years later, sign

660
00:38:02,080 --> 00:38:05,839
Speaker 1: on some stuff, Heather, I don't know if he's paying

661
00:38:05,880 --> 00:38:09,040
Speaker 1: for your credit card to take me to dinner, let's

662
00:38:09,080 --> 00:38:15,000
Speaker 1: do it. Have a good day, thank you. Bye. Hey Jackie, Jackie,

663
00:38:15,080 --> 00:38:16,959
Speaker 1: you're not with the person anymore, but you're still paying

664
00:38:17,040 --> 00:38:20,840
Speaker 1: the bill. I am now with him. Um. I was

665
00:38:21,080 --> 00:38:25,359
Speaker 1: engaged once upon a time and we decided to call

666
00:38:25,520 --> 00:38:29,080
Speaker 1: the wedding and I got stuff, paying to the entire

667
00:38:29,440 --> 00:38:36,319
Speaker 1: reception hall, uh, the remainder of the photographer, the rest

668
00:38:36,360 --> 00:38:39,600
Speaker 1: of our honeymoons, and I had to pay off the

669
00:38:39,680 --> 00:38:43,279
Speaker 1: remainder of my engage ring. And how did you get

670
00:38:43,320 --> 00:38:45,080
Speaker 1: stuck with all of this? Why didn't he do any

671
00:38:45,160 --> 00:38:51,279
Speaker 1: of it? Okay? I was Harriet, I don't know, you

672
00:38:51,320 --> 00:38:53,640
Speaker 1: don't know, you know, did you take that? So? I

673
00:38:53,719 --> 00:38:56,000
Speaker 1: guess he didn't feel like it was his obligation. And

674
00:38:56,840 --> 00:38:59,200
Speaker 1: I wasn't going to let these spenders. I mean, you're

675
00:38:59,320 --> 00:39:04,800
Speaker 1: under a time. Actually, yeah, terrible. It was a terrible time,

676
00:39:04,960 --> 00:39:07,840
Speaker 1: and that just made it even better. Did you at

677
00:39:07,920 --> 00:39:10,000
Speaker 1: least go on a honeymoon with somebody else? Like not?

678
00:39:10,160 --> 00:39:13,480
Speaker 1: You know, didn't. I'm very happily married now with two

679
00:39:13,560 --> 00:39:18,120
Speaker 1: kids and think that every day that that didn't work out. Yeah,

680
00:39:18,160 --> 00:39:20,480
Speaker 1: I mean that would have been weird. I guess. Yeah.

681
00:39:20,560 --> 00:39:22,880
Speaker 1: I paid for it in the end, but you know,

682
00:39:23,120 --> 00:39:24,680
Speaker 1: it is what it is. No good for you. But

683
00:39:24,719 --> 00:39:26,680
Speaker 1: I mean if a woman had approached me and been like, hey,

684
00:39:26,960 --> 00:39:28,480
Speaker 1: I broke up with this dude, but I still have

685
00:39:28,560 --> 00:39:30,360
Speaker 1: the honeymoon where you go with me, I would totally

686
00:39:30,440 --> 00:39:32,239
Speaker 1: go on the honeymoon with you. Yeah. I should have

687
00:39:32,320 --> 00:39:34,840
Speaker 1: totally thought about that. Yeah, I mean, at least take advantage,

688
00:39:34,840 --> 00:39:37,720
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. Yeah, thank you, Jackie. Good

689
00:39:37,719 --> 00:39:39,120
Speaker 1: for you. By the way, that's a happy ending of

690
00:39:39,160 --> 00:39:42,400
Speaker 1: that story. I liked it. It is. Have a great day.

691
00:39:42,480 --> 00:39:48,120
Speaker 1: Thanks for calling. I got two jewelry stories for you.

692
00:39:49,120 --> 00:39:53,160
Speaker 1: The first is this viral video a high school student

693
00:39:53,360 --> 00:39:56,680
Speaker 1: that created some drama among his teachers with a sixteen

694
00:39:56,719 --> 00:39:59,640
Speaker 1: dollars gadget that can supposedly tell where there a diamond's

695
00:39:59,680 --> 00:40:04,080
Speaker 1: real um diamond tester. Her kid is his TikTok name

696
00:40:04,160 --> 00:40:07,440
Speaker 1: he uplooted his first video of an eight part series

697
00:40:07,480 --> 00:40:09,880
Speaker 1: in September twenty first, and now viral clip has been

698
00:40:09,960 --> 00:40:12,680
Speaker 1: viewed almost five million times. The team uses a diamond

699
00:40:12,920 --> 00:40:15,640
Speaker 1: selector two to test if one of his teacher's wedding

700
00:40:15,719 --> 00:40:20,040
Speaker 1: rings is a real diamond or a simulated stone like

701
00:40:20,200 --> 00:40:23,399
Speaker 1: a ces or whatever. Turns out, according to the video,

702
00:40:23,440 --> 00:40:26,080
Speaker 1: at least that one of these at least one of

703
00:40:26,160 --> 00:40:30,640
Speaker 1: the rings is fake or the diamond is face um.

704
00:40:31,080 --> 00:40:36,319
Speaker 1: The teacher is shocked by the results. Listeners right, yeah,

705
00:40:39,640 --> 00:40:43,759
Speaker 1: of course, let me let me test her fake. That

706
00:40:43,880 --> 00:40:53,640
Speaker 1: kid sounds like he's twenty five third grade? Yeah, okay what?

707
00:40:54,920 --> 00:40:57,640
Speaker 1: And then the second teacher was so upset she called

708
00:40:57,680 --> 00:41:01,680
Speaker 1: her husband, I guess on the video from the club. Hey,

709
00:41:01,840 --> 00:41:06,200
Speaker 1: you married? Right? Yes? You are? You got? Yes? You

710
00:41:06,280 --> 00:41:13,839
Speaker 1: think it's rue? Are Aren't they mad at him? Yeah?

711
00:41:13,920 --> 00:41:18,279
Speaker 1: That's that's the question. You want to ask you real? Right?

712
00:41:18,360 --> 00:41:20,920
Speaker 1: Let me see that run this is fake? I got

713
00:41:22,520 --> 00:41:28,440
Speaker 1: her husband? Are you kid? I don't want to see?

714
00:41:28,840 --> 00:41:33,279
Speaker 1: What do you mean? I don't know about put it

715
00:41:33,360 --> 00:41:37,400
Speaker 1: on speaker if it's real? Class to yell at her husband.

716
00:41:37,440 --> 00:41:40,560
Speaker 1: I don't know, I guess, so no, that went viral.

717
00:41:41,120 --> 00:41:46,960
Speaker 1: I mean, I obviously, if you give someone a diamond ring,

718
00:41:47,040 --> 00:41:49,000
Speaker 1: a diamond and gaze ring, you're presenting it as a

719
00:41:49,040 --> 00:41:52,600
Speaker 1: real diamond. So I suppose it's deceptive if if that

720
00:41:52,760 --> 00:41:55,040
Speaker 1: person were to find out that it's fake, that it's

721
00:41:55,120 --> 00:41:57,960
Speaker 1: glass and not a diamond or whatever. But if that

722
00:41:58,080 --> 00:42:01,839
Speaker 1: person goes her whole life and ever knows, I guess

723
00:42:01,960 --> 00:42:03,560
Speaker 1: you get to live with that. As the guy, But like,

724
00:42:03,680 --> 00:42:06,480
Speaker 1: does anybody really care this guy's ruin any marriages over here?

725
00:42:06,560 --> 00:42:10,560
Speaker 1: His teacher marriages. Yeah? Well, because now it's like, but

726
00:42:10,640 --> 00:42:13,359
Speaker 1: I guess you could argue like did he lie? Did

727
00:42:13,440 --> 00:42:15,239
Speaker 1: he not lie? I mean you could argue like as

728
00:42:15,280 --> 00:42:17,120
Speaker 1: a as a guy who gives a woman a fake ring?

729
00:42:17,200 --> 00:42:19,560
Speaker 1: Are you lying? Or are you not lying? Are you just?

730
00:42:19,960 --> 00:42:21,520
Speaker 1: Are you? You know what I mean? Like, nobody wants

731
00:42:21,560 --> 00:42:23,680
Speaker 1: a fake ring, and everyone assumes the ring is real.

732
00:42:24,080 --> 00:42:26,240
Speaker 1: But if it's it's pretty and you like it, nobody

733
00:42:26,280 --> 00:42:29,680
Speaker 1: can tell. Then who is the liar? Or is anyone

734
00:42:29,760 --> 00:42:32,719
Speaker 1: really lying? Yeah? I think I just would rather not know.

735
00:42:33,520 --> 00:42:36,040
Speaker 1: I mean, dude' obviously lying he bought the ring that's

736
00:42:36,120 --> 00:42:38,680
Speaker 1: not real, and then play it off like it's real.

737
00:42:38,800 --> 00:42:40,839
Speaker 1: But I'm saying, but you okay, but you say play

738
00:42:40,840 --> 00:42:43,359
Speaker 1: it off like it's real. He proposes with a ring,

739
00:42:43,600 --> 00:42:46,600
Speaker 1: and there's probably never any conversation. I mean, nobody accepts

740
00:42:46,640 --> 00:42:48,080
Speaker 1: a diamond ring and goes, hey, by the way, is

741
00:42:48,120 --> 00:42:52,279
Speaker 1: this real? Nobody does that? Assume it's real? Right, right?

742
00:42:52,520 --> 00:42:55,040
Speaker 1: But if you never say anything, are you lying? Yes,

743
00:42:57,280 --> 00:42:59,680
Speaker 1: that's a good question. That is a good question. If

744
00:42:59,760 --> 00:43:03,080
Speaker 1: you present a woman or a woman presents a woman whatever,

745
00:43:03,320 --> 00:43:07,200
Speaker 1: a diamond engagement ring, yeah, and you never say anything

746
00:43:07,239 --> 00:43:09,319
Speaker 1: about it. You just say, here's a beautiful ring, will

747
00:43:09,360 --> 00:43:11,479
Speaker 1: you marry me? And she says yes and put whatever

748
00:43:11,920 --> 00:43:14,520
Speaker 1: and puts it on her finger, and you never say

749
00:43:14,560 --> 00:43:17,160
Speaker 1: a word about it. And then everyone's happy and everyone

750
00:43:17,200 --> 00:43:19,960
Speaker 1: gets there. You don't present a fake, a praisal, nothing like.

751
00:43:20,080 --> 00:43:23,080
Speaker 1: It's just that's the ring. Everyone's happy, everyone thinks it's beautiful.

752
00:43:23,520 --> 00:43:26,640
Speaker 1: And then five years later somebody comes along with a

753
00:43:26,880 --> 00:43:30,080
Speaker 1: with a diamond tester and realize and then then you

754
00:43:30,200 --> 00:43:34,000
Speaker 1: realize that it's not real. Did he really? Did a

755
00:43:34,040 --> 00:43:37,200
Speaker 1: guy really lie? I would say he didn't lie. I

756
00:43:37,280 --> 00:43:39,640
Speaker 1: would say he didn't he didn't say anything, He didn't lie.

757
00:43:39,680 --> 00:43:41,840
Speaker 1: I mean you're lying off the bed by buying a

758
00:43:42,080 --> 00:43:46,200
Speaker 1: fake ring presenting it as it's a real diamond. That's lie,

759
00:43:46,400 --> 00:43:49,360
Speaker 1: are you? I mean yes, everybody assumes it's real. But

760
00:43:49,440 --> 00:43:51,360
Speaker 1: you now it's one thing. If you go, isn't this

761
00:43:51,440 --> 00:43:53,440
Speaker 1: a beautiful three carrot diamond that I got you worth

762
00:43:53,520 --> 00:43:56,640
Speaker 1: thirty thousand dollars? Tell all your friends, now that's a lie. Yes,

763
00:43:56,960 --> 00:43:58,840
Speaker 1: But if I just give you a beautiful ring and

764
00:43:58,920 --> 00:44:01,399
Speaker 1: don't say any more about it, and I just think

765
00:44:01,440 --> 00:44:02,839
Speaker 1: it's beautiful and I gave it to you, and that's

766
00:44:02,880 --> 00:44:05,080
Speaker 1: the symbol that I'm presenting to you, and now we're

767
00:44:05,160 --> 00:44:07,960
Speaker 1: married and you're happy. Did I lie to you? Yes?

768
00:44:08,040 --> 00:44:10,120
Speaker 1: By not saying anything, you're lying. But what I's like,

769
00:44:10,239 --> 00:44:13,000
Speaker 1: just financially, he couldn't do a real diamond. But then

770
00:44:13,840 --> 00:44:15,920
Speaker 1: you would then say something. Then you'd be like, I

771
00:44:16,000 --> 00:44:18,239
Speaker 1: can't afford a real diamond, Like why would you? Cause

772
00:44:18,440 --> 00:44:21,239
Speaker 1: that cheapens the whole thing. That cheapens the moment then,

773
00:44:21,520 --> 00:44:23,600
Speaker 1: And the other thing is if she's happy or he say,

774
00:44:23,640 --> 00:44:26,200
Speaker 1: whoever gets this ring? If this person's happy and doesn't,

775
00:44:26,320 --> 00:44:28,400
Speaker 1: is none the wiser doesn't that prove the point that

776
00:44:28,480 --> 00:44:30,160
Speaker 1: it doesn't have to be a real diamond. And five

777
00:44:30,320 --> 00:44:32,479
Speaker 1: years down the road you're on this kid's TikTok video

778
00:44:32,520 --> 00:44:34,799
Speaker 1: and it's a fake the whole time. Then what then

779
00:44:34,840 --> 00:44:38,600
Speaker 1: you're you're you're calling that whole lie for five years eight, five, nine, one,

780
00:44:38,600 --> 00:44:40,600
Speaker 1: one h three five. Now I'm curious about this. Now,

781
00:44:40,640 --> 00:44:42,200
Speaker 1: what are you gonna We'll get to the second jewelry

782
00:44:42,239 --> 00:44:44,840
Speaker 1: story later. What are you gonna do about this? Because

783
00:44:44,880 --> 00:44:47,200
Speaker 1: again I'm not saying I want to do this. My

784
00:44:47,360 --> 00:44:50,040
Speaker 1: whole thing about engagement rings and rings and gifts in

785
00:44:50,120 --> 00:44:53,319
Speaker 1: general is by the gifts that you can afford to give,

786
00:44:53,960 --> 00:44:57,279
Speaker 1: and then hopefully as your relationship improves, that you can

787
00:44:57,440 --> 00:44:59,680
Speaker 1: afford more expensive things. But if you if you go

788
00:44:59,719 --> 00:45:01,800
Speaker 1: out start your life, you're twenty something years old, you

789
00:45:01,800 --> 00:45:03,920
Speaker 1: get married and you can only afford to five thousand

790
00:45:03,960 --> 00:45:06,960
Speaker 1: dollars ring or twenty five hundred whatever it is, and

791
00:45:07,200 --> 00:45:10,200
Speaker 1: you give somebody a fifteen thousand dollars ring or twenty

792
00:45:10,239 --> 00:45:12,080
Speaker 1: thousand dollars ring that you can't afford. You're making all

793
00:45:12,120 --> 00:45:14,440
Speaker 1: these payments underweb. That's I don't think that's a good

794
00:45:14,480 --> 00:45:16,720
Speaker 1: way to start your life. And I think it's also

795
00:45:17,600 --> 00:45:21,200
Speaker 1: you're you're not doing that because that's the symbol, because

796
00:45:21,239 --> 00:45:23,480
Speaker 1: that symbol is necessary. You're doing it because you want

797
00:45:23,480 --> 00:45:25,000
Speaker 1: to send a message to other people that you have

798
00:45:25,120 --> 00:45:27,200
Speaker 1: more than you do, you know what I'm saying. And yes,

799
00:45:27,320 --> 00:45:29,560
Speaker 1: nobody wants to give there the person they're a lover

800
00:45:29,719 --> 00:45:33,839
Speaker 1: there wants to marry a little ring. And but what's

801
00:45:33,880 --> 00:45:36,600
Speaker 1: more important to you, Like, let's get married, let's have

802
00:45:36,760 --> 00:45:38,400
Speaker 1: enough money to do it, or let's wait years and

803
00:45:38,480 --> 00:45:39,880
Speaker 1: years and years till I can afford. You give a

804
00:45:39,920 --> 00:45:42,520
Speaker 1: symbol that I believe is a reflection of me. But

805
00:45:42,680 --> 00:45:46,560
Speaker 1: if you're buying a fake ring, why buy a ginormous

806
00:45:46,640 --> 00:45:48,200
Speaker 1: fake ring, you know what I'm saying, Why not just

807
00:45:48,320 --> 00:45:49,960
Speaker 1: afford the one you can afford, Like you're saying, like

808
00:45:50,280 --> 00:45:53,680
Speaker 1: a tiny real stone or diamond that you could for Now,

809
00:45:53,719 --> 00:45:56,040
Speaker 1: if you're presenting somebody with a five carrot ring, and

810
00:45:56,520 --> 00:45:58,200
Speaker 1: you know, that's one thing. But I haven't seen this

811
00:45:58,280 --> 00:46:01,200
Speaker 1: person's ring. I don't know, maybe an average normal ring.

812
00:46:01,280 --> 00:46:03,520
Speaker 1: And the guy thinks that spending money on diamonds is stupid,

813
00:46:03,600 --> 00:46:07,960
Speaker 1: and so he didn't hey andreata Oh good morning, what

814
00:46:08,080 --> 00:46:10,160
Speaker 1: are you gonna do? Look, I'm not sad. I don't

815
00:46:10,160 --> 00:46:11,960
Speaker 1: want to be in this position like I want to.

816
00:46:13,080 --> 00:46:15,120
Speaker 1: I would agree that if you propose to someone, the

817
00:46:15,200 --> 00:46:18,800
Speaker 1: assumption is that what you're giving them is legitimate. That

818
00:46:19,560 --> 00:46:23,359
Speaker 1: being sad. If you don't say anything and everyone's happy,

819
00:46:23,480 --> 00:46:26,839
Speaker 1: then you're not really lying. But this is how life feel.

820
00:46:26,880 --> 00:46:28,239
Speaker 1: If you love the person, what does that matter if

821
00:46:28,280 --> 00:46:30,600
Speaker 1: it's a twenty five rings to a thirty thousand dollars rings?

822
00:46:31,000 --> 00:46:32,840
Speaker 1: And what are you really going to get mad? Like?

823
00:46:32,960 --> 00:46:34,640
Speaker 1: If you'd like it, you love it there too? What

824
00:46:34,719 --> 00:46:36,759
Speaker 1: does that matter? How much it caused? And since when

825
00:46:36,800 --> 00:46:38,640
Speaker 1: does it matter what it caused? Him? He's like to me,

826
00:46:38,760 --> 00:46:41,360
Speaker 1: I feel like you're a superficial person. Oh you're imagine

827
00:46:41,360 --> 00:46:43,879
Speaker 1: didn't buy me? If there's a thirty thousand thousand dollars rings?

828
00:46:44,000 --> 00:46:45,920
Speaker 1: They but least he loves doing enough to propose to

829
00:46:45,960 --> 00:46:47,919
Speaker 1: you and Mary, you'll be with you. I would argue

830
00:46:47,960 --> 00:46:49,880
Speaker 1: that's more important. That easy for me to say, you know,

831
00:46:49,920 --> 00:46:53,080
Speaker 1: the hope of some metical we are um And yes,

832
00:46:53,200 --> 00:46:55,640
Speaker 1: I mean do I want to be in a position

833
00:46:55,680 --> 00:46:57,160
Speaker 1: where I give a little chip of a diamond is

834
00:46:57,239 --> 00:46:58,839
Speaker 1: someone I'm crazy in love with? And then she goes

835
00:46:58,880 --> 00:47:00,600
Speaker 1: and shows all her friends and all our friends are like,

836
00:47:00,640 --> 00:47:04,040
Speaker 1: oh that's tiny or whatever, but that doesn't fu's on

837
00:47:04,080 --> 00:47:06,839
Speaker 1: the relationship. Yeah, oh, why can't you do that later

838
00:47:06,920 --> 00:47:08,800
Speaker 1: on down the road? Like my fea actually proposed to me.

839
00:47:08,880 --> 00:47:11,600
Speaker 1: I know it's not no thousand dollars a ring, but

840
00:47:11,719 --> 00:47:13,759
Speaker 1: that didn't matter. I love him on a samarium and

841
00:47:13,960 --> 00:47:16,359
Speaker 1: I know later down the ring down the line, Hey,

842
00:47:16,560 --> 00:47:18,480
Speaker 1: when you renew your vows, why can't then he could

843
00:47:18,520 --> 00:47:20,480
Speaker 1: buy you that thirty thousand dollars ring that you really

844
00:47:20,640 --> 00:47:22,520
Speaker 1: I agree with that that I can agree with that.

845
00:47:22,640 --> 00:47:28,160
Speaker 1: Nobody's spending thirty thousand agree If all you've got is

846
00:47:28,239 --> 00:47:31,520
Speaker 1: what you've got, then then there are more important things

847
00:47:31,520 --> 00:47:33,080
Speaker 1: to spend money on in that point in your life.

848
00:47:33,080 --> 00:47:35,120
Speaker 1: So get what you can. Exactly how many people I

849
00:47:35,320 --> 00:47:37,920
Speaker 1: know people who are quote unquote saving for the ring

850
00:47:38,040 --> 00:47:40,520
Speaker 1: and that's the reason that they're not married after years

851
00:47:40,560 --> 00:47:43,120
Speaker 1: and years and years. That's crazy, se to me, he says,

852
00:47:43,120 --> 00:47:45,440
Speaker 1: I deserve a really good ring. I don't care if

853
00:47:45,440 --> 00:47:47,680
Speaker 1: we went to Louis twenty five third ring you asking

854
00:47:47,760 --> 00:47:49,920
Speaker 1: me is what matters to me. Us becoming a family

855
00:47:50,160 --> 00:47:52,600
Speaker 1: for our daughter is what matters to me, Not how

856
00:47:52,680 --> 00:47:54,640
Speaker 1: much money. You promise, yea, So we're gonna have to

857
00:47:54,680 --> 00:47:56,080
Speaker 1: wait two years so you can buy me a ten

858
00:47:56,120 --> 00:47:58,279
Speaker 1: thousand dollars ring. It's like that. That seems silly to me.

859
00:47:58,440 --> 00:48:00,600
Speaker 1: It's again, it feeds the perfect let's buy a house.

860
00:48:00,719 --> 00:48:03,400
Speaker 1: Let's buy a house. There, I don't care about dam

861
00:48:03,719 --> 00:48:06,239
Speaker 1: There you go, thank you and have a great day. Yes,

862
00:48:06,600 --> 00:48:09,759
Speaker 1: make sense to me. That makes sense. Hey, Lissa, h

863
00:48:10,280 --> 00:48:13,440
Speaker 1: you heard the whole thing. Here is this guy on

864
00:48:13,480 --> 00:48:16,600
Speaker 1: TikTok is the students going around and revealing apparently I

865
00:48:16,640 --> 00:48:18,640
Speaker 1: don't know if it's real or not, But then all

866
00:48:18,640 --> 00:48:20,200
Speaker 1: of his teachers have a lot of the teachers have

867
00:48:20,320 --> 00:48:22,880
Speaker 1: fake rings. And then, at least to the question, if

868
00:48:22,960 --> 00:48:25,359
Speaker 1: you present someone a fake ring but you don't say

869
00:48:25,360 --> 00:48:27,239
Speaker 1: anything about it one way or the other, are you lying?

870
00:48:27,920 --> 00:48:30,680
Speaker 1: You think it depends on who you're speaking to. I

871
00:48:30,840 --> 00:48:35,080
Speaker 1: think that technically, technically it is lying by omission because

872
00:48:35,160 --> 00:48:40,800
Speaker 1: you're actually disclosing that it is fake. But I'm just

873
00:48:40,960 --> 00:48:44,120
Speaker 1: going off of my personal experience with my husband and

874
00:48:44,320 --> 00:48:46,560
Speaker 1: at the time when we were getting engaged and we

875
00:48:47,360 --> 00:48:50,560
Speaker 1: didn't really want to put the money towards an expensive ring,

876
00:48:50,840 --> 00:48:53,520
Speaker 1: he bought me a very inexpensive one, and we put

877
00:48:53,560 --> 00:48:56,200
Speaker 1: the money towards a house instead because that was more

878
00:48:56,239 --> 00:48:59,000
Speaker 1: important to us. But that was a joint decision that

879
00:48:59,080 --> 00:49:01,120
Speaker 1: you made together, so you knew what was going on.

880
00:49:01,320 --> 00:49:05,120
Speaker 1: It was a real ring, as opposed to being presented

881
00:49:05,160 --> 00:49:06,719
Speaker 1: with something that you thought was real but it was

882
00:49:06,760 --> 00:49:09,719
Speaker 1: fake in an effort to save money. True. So to

883
00:49:09,800 --> 00:49:14,000
Speaker 1: answer the question, technically, it's flying biomission because I think

884
00:49:14,040 --> 00:49:16,799
Speaker 1: it's just because of the standard. Everybody believes that when

885
00:49:16,840 --> 00:49:20,759
Speaker 1: they are getting proposed to, unless it's spoken about beforehand,

886
00:49:20,960 --> 00:49:25,360
Speaker 1: that it is real unless it's disclosed. Technically it's lying

887
00:49:25,480 --> 00:49:29,040
Speaker 1: because you're not saying it. But I guess if you're

888
00:49:29,120 --> 00:49:31,759
Speaker 1: happy with somebody then it shouldn't matter to them, And

889
00:49:32,040 --> 00:49:34,399
Speaker 1: if it is based off of a ring, then it's

890
00:49:34,440 --> 00:49:38,000
Speaker 1: probably not going to be I don't want to say

891
00:49:38,040 --> 00:49:39,759
Speaker 1: it's not going to be a happy marriage anyway, but

892
00:49:39,840 --> 00:49:42,440
Speaker 1: if you're just marrying somebody based on the fact that

893
00:49:42,600 --> 00:49:46,279
Speaker 1: their ring is expensive and you wanted to marry them

894
00:49:46,320 --> 00:49:51,040
Speaker 1: for that reason, then it's probably not anybody it's to

895
00:49:51,080 --> 00:49:53,359
Speaker 1: say the ring has to be real. Who's to say

896
00:49:53,400 --> 00:49:55,439
Speaker 1: it has to be Where did that standard gets set?

897
00:49:55,960 --> 00:49:59,040
Speaker 1: Agree with that? But I feel like that is the standard.

898
00:49:59,239 --> 00:50:02,000
Speaker 1: It's unfortunate that that's the standard, but I feel like

899
00:50:02,400 --> 00:50:05,000
Speaker 1: it is. This is what the de Beers people did,

900
00:50:05,280 --> 00:50:07,759
Speaker 1: you know, like a million years ago, as they took

901
00:50:07,840 --> 00:50:10,600
Speaker 1: junk stones and they managed to market to everybody that

902
00:50:10,680 --> 00:50:12,120
Speaker 1: this is what every woman wants, and then all of

903
00:50:12,160 --> 00:50:14,400
Speaker 1: a sudden, every woman wanted it, and now they're you know,

904
00:50:14,440 --> 00:50:16,680
Speaker 1: diamonds are worth however much. And this is a different conversation.

905
00:50:16,760 --> 00:50:18,800
Speaker 1: But I guess I would say, if you like the

906
00:50:18,880 --> 00:50:21,040
Speaker 1: ring and it's pretty and you're happy, then so be it.

907
00:50:21,160 --> 00:50:23,080
Speaker 1: Let's move on. But you're Ryan. I guess I assume

908
00:50:23,120 --> 00:50:25,360
Speaker 1: it's real, and I've ever I don't. I don't know.

909
00:50:25,520 --> 00:50:29,560
Speaker 1: It's tough. Thank you, Alyssa, thank you. Have a good day. Hey, Stephanie,

910
00:50:31,400 --> 00:50:33,600
Speaker 1: you don't like this. You think that if a guy

911
00:50:33,840 --> 00:50:38,120
Speaker 1: presents a fake diamond to a woman that it's a lie,

912
00:50:38,239 --> 00:50:41,520
Speaker 1: even if it's never discussed. No, that's what I said.

913
00:50:41,560 --> 00:50:46,080
Speaker 1: But I said, oh, damn, you tell me. I'm just

914
00:50:46,200 --> 00:50:50,840
Speaker 1: reading the synopsis here. No, what did you say? It

915
00:50:50,960 --> 00:50:54,080
Speaker 1: doesn't matter, m if it's a lie or not. That's

916
00:50:54,160 --> 00:50:56,880
Speaker 1: not the issue. The issue is the fact of you know,

917
00:50:57,000 --> 00:50:59,520
Speaker 1: you're joining somebody for the rest of your life supposedly,

918
00:50:59,600 --> 00:51:02,440
Speaker 1: like that's what you think, and then if it comes down,

919
00:51:02,520 --> 00:51:05,200
Speaker 1: say five years down the line, that's a deception. You're

920
00:51:05,239 --> 00:51:08,080
Speaker 1: starting the marriage off with the decent yes, So it's

921
00:51:08,160 --> 00:51:11,320
Speaker 1: just a simple conversation that has to be made, you know.

922
00:51:11,760 --> 00:51:13,600
Speaker 1: I mean if you're with someone and they only want

923
00:51:13,640 --> 00:51:15,640
Speaker 1: a diamond ring, and you know that this person only

924
00:51:15,680 --> 00:51:18,000
Speaker 1: wants a diamond ring, but then you're knowingly like, I'm

925
00:51:18,040 --> 00:51:20,400
Speaker 1: not telling them, right. But if they don't want it,

926
00:51:20,440 --> 00:51:23,320
Speaker 1: it doesn't matter. It's just a it's a simple conversation

927
00:51:23,400 --> 00:51:24,840
Speaker 1: that has to be made. But if I give you

928
00:51:24,960 --> 00:51:29,040
Speaker 1: a fake diamond, Stephanie, and you're happy with that, well,

929
00:51:29,080 --> 00:51:31,960
Speaker 1: then I guess I just saved myself of money. But

930
00:51:32,000 --> 00:51:33,680
Speaker 1: then if she's a person that wants it. But if

931
00:51:33,719 --> 00:51:35,839
Speaker 1: she's a person that wants a diamond, and then she's

932
00:51:35,880 --> 00:51:37,480
Speaker 1: showing it off to her friends and then to a

933
00:51:37,520 --> 00:51:41,520
Speaker 1: friend everybody, and everyone's happy, but she's also living a lie.

934
00:51:42,120 --> 00:51:45,960
Speaker 1: She's lying about the legit. Yeah, because she's been deceived

935
00:51:46,000 --> 00:51:48,759
Speaker 1: the whole time. If I found out five years later,

936
00:51:48,920 --> 00:51:51,360
Speaker 1: I'd be like, you straight up lied me, Like this

937
00:51:51,520 --> 00:51:54,000
Speaker 1: whole time, I've been thinking that this is real, and

938
00:51:54,320 --> 00:51:59,480
Speaker 1: I think that's pretty safety. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I get it.

939
00:51:59,560 --> 00:52:02,200
Speaker 1: Everybody kind of knows what you're doing there, Stephanie. Thank you,

940
00:52:02,280 --> 00:52:05,279
Speaker 1: have a great day. Thanks so much for listening. Hey Jen,

941
00:52:06,360 --> 00:52:08,520
Speaker 1: Hey there, how are you? Hey? So you weren't proposed

942
00:52:08,520 --> 00:52:11,360
Speaker 1: to with a fake ring? I was, and I actually

943
00:52:11,440 --> 00:52:14,399
Speaker 1: picked it out knowing it was fake, and you didn't care.

944
00:52:15,200 --> 00:52:17,239
Speaker 1: I did not care. I would rather spend the money

945
00:52:17,280 --> 00:52:20,200
Speaker 1: on thinking for our household or our wedding. And it's

946
00:52:20,200 --> 00:52:22,319
Speaker 1: a beautiful ring. I wear it once in a while,

947
00:52:22,440 --> 00:52:25,920
Speaker 1: and that's it. Let's say let's say that you didn't

948
00:52:26,040 --> 00:52:28,040
Speaker 1: know that it was fake, but you did know that

949
00:52:28,080 --> 00:52:30,760
Speaker 1: he could afford it. If you're being honest with yourself,

950
00:52:30,800 --> 00:52:32,520
Speaker 1: would you have assumed it was real and then felt

951
00:52:32,520 --> 00:52:35,200
Speaker 1: deceived if you found out later it was fake. I

952
00:52:35,360 --> 00:52:37,959
Speaker 1: would have assumed it was real, but I wouldn't have cared.

953
00:52:38,520 --> 00:52:41,080
Speaker 1: I'm not a jewelry person. I've knocked into that stuff.

954
00:52:41,160 --> 00:52:44,959
Speaker 1: So that is my buddies who saved and saved, the saved,

955
00:52:44,960 --> 00:52:47,880
Speaker 1: and then then by these really expensive wedding rings, and

956
00:52:48,000 --> 00:52:50,680
Speaker 1: then the person now only wears like this little tiny

957
00:52:50,760 --> 00:52:55,040
Speaker 1: gold bought from some boozy designer or whatever. And it's like,

958
00:52:55,080 --> 00:52:58,040
Speaker 1: wait a minute, my mom, My dad bought my mom

959
00:52:58,120 --> 00:53:01,000
Speaker 1: the super huge crazy him and he saved all this money,

960
00:53:01,040 --> 00:53:03,319
Speaker 1: designed himself. He's an engineer or whatever. And she never

961
00:53:03,440 --> 00:53:06,759
Speaker 1: wears that because well, because it's like kind of a lot.

962
00:53:06,960 --> 00:53:09,120
Speaker 1: And so they got married when they were older. He

963
00:53:09,200 --> 00:53:11,040
Speaker 1: had the money, so he did it. But then you know,

964
00:53:11,160 --> 00:53:13,120
Speaker 1: now she wears like a band, which is also nice,

965
00:53:13,160 --> 00:53:14,800
Speaker 1: but it's not the big thing he spent all the

966
00:53:14,840 --> 00:53:17,080
Speaker 1: money on. That's in that safe somewhere. What good a

967
00:53:17,160 --> 00:53:24,840
Speaker 1: death do nothing? You know, No, we've already had this

968
00:53:24,920 --> 00:53:28,000
Speaker 1: convers one. It is a little bit of an antiquated

969
00:53:28,080 --> 00:53:30,760
Speaker 1: design because he gave it to her in the early nineties.

970
00:53:31,000 --> 00:53:33,080
Speaker 1: My sister's idea is that she's going to take this

971
00:53:33,280 --> 00:53:35,600
Speaker 1: ring that my dad designed with his own hands and

972
00:53:35,719 --> 00:53:37,279
Speaker 1: pull the diamond out and put it in something else.

973
00:53:37,400 --> 00:53:39,840
Speaker 1: Over my dead body. No, now it's going to be

974
00:53:39,960 --> 00:53:42,840
Speaker 1: yeah that that's that happens for you. Nos, that happened.

975
00:53:42,840 --> 00:53:45,920
Speaker 1: You got to get engaged. Well, and I don't care

976
00:53:45,960 --> 00:53:47,840
Speaker 1: if nobody ever wears it, And which, which is the

977
00:53:47,960 --> 00:53:49,879
Speaker 1: argument that people have had with me, is well then

978
00:53:50,239 --> 00:53:52,080
Speaker 1: what a waste. But it's not a waste. It's not

979
00:53:52,200 --> 00:53:54,400
Speaker 1: like my dad went to zails and bought a design

980
00:53:54,480 --> 00:53:57,759
Speaker 1: that's now antiquated. He made it in cad and and

981
00:53:57,880 --> 00:53:59,759
Speaker 1: then made the little mold and gave it to the

982
00:54:00,320 --> 00:54:02,600
Speaker 1: He made himself from his own brain. And your sister

983
00:54:02,680 --> 00:54:07,680
Speaker 1: wants to just tuned down. No, you couldn't do that

984
00:54:09,560 --> 00:54:14,680
Speaker 1: father like that. Hey Loupe, Hey, how Loupe, morning man?

985
00:54:14,800 --> 00:54:18,120
Speaker 1: I think a good one. I think there's a couple

986
00:54:18,120 --> 00:54:21,160
Speaker 1: of things people are not taking the consideration. First of all,

987
00:54:21,480 --> 00:54:25,000
Speaker 1: what is this kid using? Is he using an actual machine?

988
00:54:25,600 --> 00:54:32,160
Speaker 1: Is he using like a little tester peck? And And

989
00:54:32,440 --> 00:54:34,680
Speaker 1: how do you know that actually works or doesn't work?

990
00:54:35,080 --> 00:54:37,440
Speaker 1: First of all. Second of all, how do you know

991
00:54:37,560 --> 00:54:40,640
Speaker 1: that these guys didn't get duped at the jury store? Yeah,

992
00:54:41,200 --> 00:54:43,719
Speaker 1: that's true too, you know. I mean there's a lot

993
00:54:43,760 --> 00:54:46,680
Speaker 1: of disignest people. You know, I don't know nothing about diamonds.

994
00:54:46,680 --> 00:54:49,960
Speaker 1: That can be easy trick to buy a three thousand

995
00:54:50,040 --> 00:54:53,680
Speaker 1: dollars bring which is bringing worth only five five hundred dollars.

996
00:54:53,800 --> 00:54:57,160
Speaker 1: You know, I don't know. Yeah, I mean, it's it's

997
00:54:57,440 --> 00:54:59,400
Speaker 1: possible that one of these guys got taken. Yeah, and

998
00:54:59,440 --> 00:55:01,399
Speaker 1: then that's how he's finding out thanks this little snot

999
00:55:01,480 --> 00:55:06,960
Speaker 1: nos kid, And that's the story. I'm sticking too. Yeah, crossing,

1000
00:55:08,200 --> 00:55:12,480
Speaker 1: I got receipt. Now, I don't I don't think this

1001
00:55:12,680 --> 00:55:16,719
Speaker 1: kid is really doing what he says he's doing. I

1002
00:55:16,760 --> 00:55:20,719
Speaker 1: mean we don't know how well that The whole conversation though,

1003
00:55:20,800 --> 00:55:23,080
Speaker 1: is a hypothetical now, I mean, Luke, we're just now No,

1004
00:55:23,200 --> 00:55:26,080
Speaker 1: you're just saying what who's the liar? Or is anyone lying?

1005
00:55:26,120 --> 00:55:27,440
Speaker 1: But thank you so much, man, have a good day.

1006
00:55:28,680 --> 00:55:33,879
Speaker 1: Glad you call Erica Erica. Yeah, you you're the Erica?

1007
00:55:33,920 --> 00:55:39,560
Speaker 1: Are you Erica? Is that you? Hello? Erica me? And

1008
00:55:39,640 --> 00:55:44,040
Speaker 1: then she hung up. Yeah, no, it's me, I'm here. Yeah, No,

1009
00:55:45,120 --> 00:55:49,120
Speaker 1: is your name America? And it is? It's you. Are

1010
00:55:49,160 --> 00:55:55,280
Speaker 1: you lying about your name right now? For about yourself

1011
00:55:57,480 --> 00:56:00,400
Speaker 1: with a fake name? Liar? Okay, No, what do you

1012
00:56:00,400 --> 00:56:03,759
Speaker 1: want to say? Please? God? Okay, So I you know,

1013
00:56:04,120 --> 00:56:08,680
Speaker 1: I'm I have a ring, I'm not engaged, I'm not married.

1014
00:56:08,760 --> 00:56:12,360
Speaker 1: We've just kind of had this um understanding for the

1015
00:56:12,400 --> 00:56:14,920
Speaker 1: past ten years that like, look, we're not going to

1016
00:56:15,000 --> 00:56:17,879
Speaker 1: get married. It's not it's not for us, the ring.

1017
00:56:18,800 --> 00:56:22,880
Speaker 1: But my dad is very, very traditional and he wanted

1018
00:56:22,960 --> 00:56:25,040
Speaker 1: the ring. He wanted to know that we are in it.

1019
00:56:25,520 --> 00:56:27,759
Speaker 1: So it was a diamond ring. It was like only

1020
00:56:27,880 --> 00:56:30,800
Speaker 1: five hundred dollars. But I love it. It's a band.

1021
00:56:30,920 --> 00:56:34,800
Speaker 1: It's gorgeous. But down down the road, friends the family.

1022
00:56:34,880 --> 00:56:38,239
Speaker 1: I think you know the history of like the diamond is,

1023
00:56:38,360 --> 00:56:41,720
Speaker 1: so if you get a diamond, that diamond is yours.

1024
00:56:41,840 --> 00:56:44,000
Speaker 1: So if that guy seats, the fact guy leaves the

1025
00:56:44,120 --> 00:56:48,160
Speaker 1: that guy whatever, that's your security to like get out

1026
00:56:48,320 --> 00:56:51,719
Speaker 1: and and that's your ring. Also, you're saying that if

1027
00:56:52,160 --> 00:56:55,080
Speaker 1: if it's a fake ring and she's walking around thinking, well,

1028
00:56:55,080 --> 00:56:57,320
Speaker 1: at least I've got the value of this. If he

1029
00:56:57,400 --> 00:57:00,359
Speaker 1: does sounding bad and then she doesn't, it is kind

1030
00:57:00,360 --> 00:57:03,960
Speaker 1: of a pessimistic way to view the ring, right, I understand,

1031
00:57:04,239 --> 00:57:08,880
Speaker 1: believe me, I understand, But I mean traditionally that is

1032
00:57:09,000 --> 00:57:13,000
Speaker 1: the way that the actual diamond came into play. You

1033
00:57:13,080 --> 00:57:17,760
Speaker 1: guys were asking why it has to be a diamond value,

1034
00:57:18,480 --> 00:57:20,840
Speaker 1: it has more value. I don't think that the history

1035
00:57:20,880 --> 00:57:22,959
Speaker 1: of the diamond is here's a diamond case, I cheat

1036
00:57:23,000 --> 00:57:24,560
Speaker 1: on you and then so you can go get yourself

1037
00:57:24,600 --> 00:57:27,920
Speaker 1: an apartment. I don't think that's the story. But I

1038
00:57:28,320 --> 00:57:31,200
Speaker 1: get that there's an assumption that it's worth something. But again,

1039
00:57:31,240 --> 00:57:33,520
Speaker 1: these are all assumptions. It doesn't make someone a liar.

1040
00:57:33,520 --> 00:57:35,840
Speaker 1: It might make them a little shady, But you know,

1041
00:57:35,880 --> 00:57:40,120
Speaker 1: you're assuming a lot of things. Yeah, you absolutely are.

1042
00:57:41,440 --> 00:57:44,760
Speaker 1: You are going into marriage in general, that's true. But

1043
00:57:44,880 --> 00:57:48,600
Speaker 1: if if he buys you a jankie ring that you're

1044
00:57:48,640 --> 00:57:51,440
Speaker 1: happy with, and then he is able to go put

1045
00:57:51,480 --> 00:57:53,560
Speaker 1: the down payment on the house too, and pay off

1046
00:57:53,600 --> 00:57:55,320
Speaker 1: some credit card bills and pay for the wedding, then

1047
00:57:55,480 --> 00:57:59,400
Speaker 1: well then it's a win win, right. I completely agree.

1048
00:57:59,480 --> 00:58:03,160
Speaker 1: That's fine, super satisfied, admiring in my beautiful house. And

1049
00:58:03,320 --> 00:58:05,000
Speaker 1: this segment is gonna make sure I never get away

1050
00:58:05,040 --> 00:58:07,360
Speaker 1: with this ever, because when I'm marry now, I was

1051
00:58:07,360 --> 00:58:09,640
Speaker 1: gonna buy one of those sixteen dollars testers on Amazon.

1052
00:58:09,960 --> 00:58:12,360
Speaker 1: Let's see what I'm up to. Thank you, Erica. You're

1053
00:58:12,400 --> 00:58:17,480
Speaker 1: gonna have the greatest relationship and the best like history

1054
00:58:17,680 --> 00:58:27,200
Speaker 1: to come. So you do. I know, Oh, Dylan has

1055
00:58:27,280 --> 00:58:29,920
Speaker 1: no faith r I think he does, though I'm kidding.

1056
00:58:30,280 --> 00:58:31,840
Speaker 1: I have faith in you, Fred. I just want to

1057
00:58:31,920 --> 00:58:35,560
Speaker 1: dance at your wedding, man. I just want to go

1058
00:58:36,040 --> 00:58:39,480
Speaker 1: there early and be there for everything and then leave

1059
00:58:40,160 --> 00:58:44,360
Speaker 1: real early, like you do. At least I showed up

1060
00:58:44,400 --> 00:58:48,000
Speaker 1: for the actual events that matter. And then I left. No,

1061
00:58:48,200 --> 00:58:49,960
Speaker 1: then I left and didn't drink all your old I'm

1062
00:58:50,000 --> 00:58:52,480
Speaker 1: gonna I'm gonna shut down that barn everything. Oh I know,

1063
00:58:52,560 --> 00:58:55,200
Speaker 1: when there you were or yeah, it's gonna be great

1064
00:58:55,280 --> 00:58:57,200
Speaker 1: when I when there are two people at the wedding

1065
00:58:57,600 --> 00:59:04,840
Speaker 1: and the person I'm married and old. Good morning guys,

1066
00:59:04,880 --> 00:59:07,000
Speaker 1: Fred shows on one O three to five Kiss FM,

1067
00:59:07,120 --> 00:59:10,840
Speaker 1: Chicago's number one hit music station. Um. So, I went

1068
00:59:10,880 --> 00:59:12,640
Speaker 1: to Dallas over the weekend to visit my sister who

1069
00:59:12,720 --> 00:59:16,160
Speaker 1: is pregnant, and she is the prettiest little pregnant lady

1070
00:59:16,200 --> 00:59:19,920
Speaker 1: with her little belly, and um, February seventh or eighth,

1071
00:59:19,960 --> 00:59:22,560
Speaker 1: I believe is the day a little baby girl coming out.

1072
00:59:22,720 --> 00:59:26,480
Speaker 1: And um my mom is in you know, just I

1073
00:59:26,600 --> 00:59:32,360
Speaker 1: don't know, buy everything mode, and she's excited over the moon.

1074
00:59:32,720 --> 00:59:37,800
Speaker 1: She's over it's okay, what do you mean. That's a

1075
00:59:37,880 --> 00:59:41,280
Speaker 1: lot of attention, and maybe not always attention that everybody wants,

1076
00:59:41,520 --> 00:59:43,640
Speaker 1: but but it's nice to have everything. All the stuff

1077
00:59:43,680 --> 00:59:45,520
Speaker 1: they have to buy. My mom just has shipped to

1078
00:59:45,560 --> 00:59:48,720
Speaker 1: the house. It's just there. Oh, we need the stroller.

1079
00:59:48,800 --> 00:59:50,880
Speaker 1: Next day strollers there. Yeah, but that's the point of

1080
00:59:51,000 --> 00:59:53,640
Speaker 1: the baby shower. Yeah, I don't want the baby showers.

1081
00:59:53,680 --> 00:59:57,360
Speaker 1: There's nothing less buy the new house baby shower. But

1082
00:59:57,440 --> 00:59:59,480
Speaker 1: I'm in the hotel. I'm saying a hotel because my

1083
00:59:59,520 --> 01:00:01,560
Speaker 1: sister has my mom stayed there. She has one guest

1084
01:00:01,680 --> 01:00:03,000
Speaker 1: in my aunt and I stayed in a hotel. So

1085
01:00:03,040 --> 01:00:05,960
Speaker 1: we're in the hotel bar and this beautiful woman walks

1086
01:00:06,000 --> 01:00:09,400
Speaker 1: into the lobby. Because she's so pretty. I'm like, well,

1087
01:00:09,480 --> 01:00:11,840
Speaker 1: she's pretty, and I'm just thinking this in my head.

1088
01:00:11,880 --> 01:00:14,360
Speaker 1: And then as I'm thinking this, out of her like bag,

1089
01:00:15,080 --> 01:00:18,880
Speaker 1: she pulls out a clear water bottle and proceeds to

1090
01:00:18,920 --> 01:00:21,520
Speaker 1: put it up to her lip and spit her tobacco. Oh,

1091
01:00:23,600 --> 01:00:28,400
Speaker 1: dip into the plastic you know thing this, you know whatever,

1092
01:00:28,520 --> 01:00:31,560
Speaker 1: whatever that sounds and so and then from that, from

1093
01:00:31,560 --> 01:00:33,400
Speaker 1: like the next five minutes in the lobby, she's holding

1094
01:00:33,440 --> 01:00:37,080
Speaker 1: it and just every now and again. So in college,

1095
01:00:37,200 --> 01:00:40,400
Speaker 1: my freshman year, I had a roommate who dipped, and

1096
01:00:40,600 --> 01:00:43,120
Speaker 1: he would use solo cups. But the thing about him

1097
01:00:43,200 --> 01:00:45,600
Speaker 1: is he wouldn't he wouldn't throw the solo cups away,

1098
01:00:46,080 --> 01:00:48,160
Speaker 1: So he'd sit there and play a video game whenever

1099
01:00:48,240 --> 01:00:49,800
Speaker 1: he dip into the solo cup and then set the

1100
01:00:49,840 --> 01:00:51,400
Speaker 1: solo cup down, and then the solo cup lived there

1101
01:00:51,440 --> 01:00:55,440
Speaker 1: until I threw it away. It is a disgusting habit,

1102
01:00:55,600 --> 01:00:57,640
Speaker 1: it really is. I'm sorry if you do it, it

1103
01:00:57,880 --> 01:01:00,200
Speaker 1: is gross. I mean it's it's nice at toe will

1104
01:01:00,200 --> 01:01:02,280
Speaker 1: spit into it in cups. There's some people that just

1105
01:01:02,960 --> 01:01:06,880
Speaker 1: spit into the street or the clear plastic bottle. Now

1106
01:01:06,920 --> 01:01:08,760
Speaker 1: I can see the contents of Yeah, I would think

1107
01:01:08,760 --> 01:01:10,080
Speaker 1: you would look at that and say, that was in

1108
01:01:10,200 --> 01:01:13,760
Speaker 1: my body, that was in my mouth. This isn't good

1109
01:01:13,840 --> 01:01:16,920
Speaker 1: for me. Um. But I was instantly not that I

1110
01:01:17,000 --> 01:01:19,080
Speaker 1: was going to approach her, but I was instantly turned

1111
01:01:19,080 --> 01:01:21,080
Speaker 1: off by that. Like there's no way, there is no

1112
01:01:21,480 --> 01:01:24,160
Speaker 1: way that I could date the hottest girl, the hottest

1113
01:01:24,240 --> 01:01:27,400
Speaker 1: girl in the Warler could walk in here and be like, hey, Fred,

1114
01:01:27,480 --> 01:01:29,640
Speaker 1: take me now, and then pull out a dip cup

1115
01:01:29,680 --> 01:01:31,880
Speaker 1: and spit in it. I'd be like, I'm done. I'll

1116
01:01:31,920 --> 01:01:36,040
Speaker 1: take you. Never uninterested. Um, but is there what comes

1117
01:01:36,080 --> 01:01:38,840
Speaker 1: to mind? Five? Nine, one three five, And I'll go

1118
01:01:38,840 --> 01:01:40,400
Speaker 1: around the room, Jason, I'll start with you before you

1119
01:01:40,400 --> 01:01:43,240
Speaker 1: go into the funnel, what comes to mind immediately as

1120
01:01:43,360 --> 01:01:47,600
Speaker 1: as an immediate turnoff. Oh my gosh, um, I think like,

1121
01:01:47,720 --> 01:01:49,960
Speaker 1: if you can't like have a conversation with me like

1122
01:01:50,080 --> 01:01:51,720
Speaker 1: I have, you have to be funny and like be

1123
01:01:51,800 --> 01:01:53,479
Speaker 1: able to talk to me if that's not going to happen,

1124
01:01:53,520 --> 01:01:55,280
Speaker 1: and have to be funny. You have to be funny.

1125
01:01:57,240 --> 01:02:00,440
Speaker 1: I like to laugh. You're very funny though. You are

1126
01:02:00,520 --> 01:02:02,400
Speaker 1: the best hype man. No, because I feel like Chris

1127
01:02:02,560 --> 01:02:04,800
Speaker 1: Rock when I'm with you, because you're just cracking up

1128
01:02:04,960 --> 01:02:08,280
Speaker 1: and everything I say. I'm like, oh, I'm so funny. Yeah.

1129
01:02:08,280 --> 01:02:09,919
Speaker 1: Why do you think we've had you here all the time?

1130
01:02:10,800 --> 01:02:13,920
Speaker 1: Because you boost my ego everything. But that's the thing.

1131
01:02:14,000 --> 01:02:16,400
Speaker 1: I have to like have good conversations and be able

1132
01:02:16,440 --> 01:02:19,160
Speaker 1: to laugh. Could you could you date a person who

1133
01:02:19,320 --> 01:02:23,520
Speaker 1: valued Christina Aguilera more than break? No deal breaker? Oh

1134
01:02:23,640 --> 01:02:26,880
Speaker 1: my gosh. The car and you know he puts on

1135
01:02:27,000 --> 01:02:29,960
Speaker 1: his music and it's gene a bottle. I'm out decided,

1136
01:02:31,200 --> 01:02:35,680
Speaker 1: stop dropping roll right out there, okay, Jaws of life. Yeah,

1137
01:02:36,560 --> 01:02:39,040
Speaker 1: me out of the um. Okay, I want to know.

1138
01:02:39,120 --> 01:02:41,120
Speaker 1: Immediate turn off show Bis. Shelley just walked in, so

1139
01:02:41,320 --> 01:02:43,040
Speaker 1: I don't have to push this. This show Bys Shelley

1140
01:02:43,040 --> 01:02:48,200
Speaker 1: button bus was late today. Oh yeah, she takes good

1141
01:02:48,240 --> 01:02:50,280
Speaker 1: for you? Do you know? Apparently there's like a limit

1142
01:02:50,320 --> 01:02:53,439
Speaker 1: on the bus there, so so I take There's three

1143
01:02:53,560 --> 01:02:55,600
Speaker 1: people on a stop trying to get on the bus,

1144
01:02:55,720 --> 01:02:57,600
Speaker 1: and the guy says one person can get on. Watch

1145
01:02:57,880 --> 01:03:00,360
Speaker 1: he gets on. The other guy waiting almost gotten a

1146
01:03:00,400 --> 01:03:02,120
Speaker 1: fight with the bus driver. So you're sitting there for

1147
01:03:02,240 --> 01:03:05,320
Speaker 1: ten minutes a lot of drops. Yeah, anyway, keep this

1148
01:03:05,400 --> 01:03:07,800
Speaker 1: social distance going. Yeah, um, what is it for you?

1149
01:03:08,040 --> 01:03:12,320
Speaker 1: Immediate turn off? Shelley, I would say, what's an immediate

1150
01:03:12,360 --> 01:03:16,520
Speaker 1: turn off? Probably? Um, just like if you're rude, you know,

1151
01:03:16,600 --> 01:03:18,600
Speaker 1: like if because I've been on dates before and they're

1152
01:03:18,640 --> 01:03:21,880
Speaker 1: rude to the waiters or they're rude to like are

1153
01:03:21,920 --> 01:03:24,720
Speaker 1: serving us or whatever, that's not turn on. Yeah, that's

1154
01:03:24,720 --> 01:03:27,919
Speaker 1: not good, No you guys, Paula. For me, I would

1155
01:03:27,960 --> 01:03:31,440
Speaker 1: have to say, as of recently, height just because like

1156
01:03:31,680 --> 01:03:33,600
Speaker 1: I tried going out with somebody who was my height

1157
01:03:33,680 --> 01:03:35,520
Speaker 1: and I just felt like it was like a little

1158
01:03:35,520 --> 01:03:37,600
Speaker 1: teddy bear. I couldn't do it. I'm only five two

1159
01:03:37,680 --> 01:03:41,560
Speaker 1: at this point. You gotta be taller than me, ye literally,

1160
01:03:41,840 --> 01:03:46,479
Speaker 1: and shall take it in Okay, Well, no, I won't

1161
01:03:46,480 --> 01:03:56,680
Speaker 1: take any that's not true, right, Rufio. I mean I

1162
01:03:56,840 --> 01:03:59,240
Speaker 1: make shoe contact before I make eye contact. I mean

1163
01:03:59,280 --> 01:04:02,280
Speaker 1: you gotta have some kind of sense of fashion or style.

1164
01:04:02,600 --> 01:04:05,200
Speaker 1: You can't just be wearing I don't know. I don't

1165
01:04:06,560 --> 01:04:10,400
Speaker 1: outfits make a huge if he's exasperated, I just can't.

1166
01:04:11,320 --> 01:04:13,520
Speaker 1: I just can't. I can't. I just I can't. Even

1167
01:04:14,200 --> 01:04:16,400
Speaker 1: got to be pretty good too, Yeah, cal he took

1168
01:04:16,440 --> 01:04:20,400
Speaker 1: mine shoes shoes all day or day? Yeah, okay, Frankie,

1169
01:04:21,840 --> 01:04:25,720
Speaker 1: Hi Frankie, good morning. Automatic deal breaker turn off? For me,

1170
01:04:25,840 --> 01:04:31,560
Speaker 1: it's dipping. I have to say. It's when when guys

1171
01:04:31,640 --> 01:04:35,880
Speaker 1: have long nails. You know what hands that's another one

1172
01:04:36,160 --> 01:04:43,440
Speaker 1: nail yeah s yeah, yeah, bro, Yeah that is that

1173
01:04:43,600 --> 01:04:45,640
Speaker 1: is gross. Yeah, I would agree, Thank you man, have

1174
01:04:45,680 --> 01:04:50,240
Speaker 1: a great day, especially to um Or. I think you

1175
01:04:50,320 --> 01:04:51,919
Speaker 1: know what, that was a hard one for me to break.

1176
01:04:51,920 --> 01:04:53,400
Speaker 1: I used to bait my nails. I was so bad

1177
01:04:53,400 --> 01:04:57,080
Speaker 1: about it. It's a hard one to break. Myra. Hi,

1178
01:04:57,320 --> 01:05:00,680
Speaker 1: good morning, Hi Myra, good morning. Automatic to turn off?

1179
01:05:00,720 --> 01:05:04,600
Speaker 1: What is it? Um I'm like a big I love teeth,

1180
01:05:04,680 --> 01:05:06,520
Speaker 1: so like somebody who does not brust your teeth or

1181
01:05:06,560 --> 01:05:11,240
Speaker 1: like have crusty teeth is like an automatic liked I

1182
01:05:11,240 --> 01:05:13,360
Speaker 1: would say, somebody doesn't brush your teeth, that's probably a

1183
01:05:13,400 --> 01:05:17,120
Speaker 1: good one. Yeah, crusty, crusty teeth. How have crusty teeth

1184
01:05:17,200 --> 01:05:20,120
Speaker 1: like stuff? I don't know, Like some people just have

1185
01:05:20,400 --> 01:05:22,600
Speaker 1: like stuff like at the top of their teeth, like

1186
01:05:22,680 --> 01:05:24,680
Speaker 1: it shows that they don't brush them correctly, or like

1187
01:05:24,720 --> 01:05:28,120
Speaker 1: they don't flost enough. And that's just like I just

1188
01:05:28,240 --> 01:05:30,760
Speaker 1: can right, that's fair, that's fair. Thank you, Myra, have

1189
01:05:30,840 --> 01:05:34,520
Speaker 1: a great day. Thanks for calling. Hey, Natalie, good morning,

1190
01:05:34,520 --> 01:05:37,800
Speaker 1: How are you all right? Good morning? Automatic deal breaker

1191
01:05:37,840 --> 01:05:42,240
Speaker 1: for you hand in hand with smoking and teeth, because

1192
01:05:42,280 --> 01:05:45,240
Speaker 1: you can tell when they're smoking from that teeth. It's

1193
01:05:45,280 --> 01:05:50,360
Speaker 1: just bad. Oh. Smoking is a tough one because I'm

1194
01:05:50,400 --> 01:05:52,240
Speaker 1: not going to give anyone to speech about how bad

1195
01:05:52,280 --> 01:05:54,840
Speaker 1: it is for you. But if you don't smoke, then

1196
01:05:55,560 --> 01:05:57,640
Speaker 1: you you better start if you're gonna be with somebody

1197
01:05:57,680 --> 01:05:59,840
Speaker 1: who does, because you're gonna smell it. You're gonna smell

1198
01:05:59,840 --> 01:06:02,160
Speaker 1: it their clothes, on their skin, on their breath, on

1199
01:06:02,240 --> 01:06:06,440
Speaker 1: their hands. You're gonna sea and my husband quit. I'm like,

1200
01:06:06,560 --> 01:06:09,600
Speaker 1: if you keep smoking, I'm not gonna say it. I can't. Yeah,

1201
01:06:09,800 --> 01:06:11,440
Speaker 1: that's the thing. Either you do as a couple or

1202
01:06:11,480 --> 01:06:12,960
Speaker 1: you don't do it all, I think, because if one

1203
01:06:13,040 --> 01:06:17,520
Speaker 1: person's not doing it, it's gross. Kind of thank you.

1204
01:06:19,320 --> 01:06:24,800
Speaker 1: Have a good day, loupe very friends up, Hey, good morning,

1205
01:06:24,880 --> 01:06:29,640
Speaker 1: automatic deal breaker. Oh women with body order, and I'm

1206
01:06:29,680 --> 01:06:37,080
Speaker 1: not talking little they don't go there, don't there, don't

1207
01:06:37,120 --> 01:06:43,440
Speaker 1: do little there? He as a guy. Yeah, I know

1208
01:06:43,560 --> 01:06:47,520
Speaker 1: when my you know when my very smell. So yeah,

1209
01:06:47,680 --> 01:06:49,760
Speaker 1: you know you're going down your wash up? Thank you

1210
01:06:49,960 --> 01:06:54,960
Speaker 1: go on the t Oh boy, are you bridge down there?

1211
01:06:55,600 --> 01:06:58,880
Speaker 1: Come on? Would you actually go on the sea? Look,

1212
01:06:58,920 --> 01:07:02,000
Speaker 1: I I I don't disagree with you, but I you know,

1213
01:07:04,560 --> 01:07:09,960
Speaker 1: I know, I know you say the field, pay the field,

1214
01:07:10,360 --> 01:07:14,240
Speaker 1: and that's a nice way of putting it. Yeah, I

1215
01:07:14,320 --> 01:07:16,880
Speaker 1: mean this might have for you to grow. Is you

1216
01:07:16,960 --> 01:07:25,240
Speaker 1: got to making the pants come off in Okay? Look

1217
01:07:25,320 --> 01:07:28,240
Speaker 1: I get it. If it's a matter of hygiene, then yes,

1218
01:07:29,000 --> 01:07:30,360
Speaker 1: you go to the guy. Know that I was opposed

1219
01:07:30,360 --> 01:07:32,760
Speaker 1: to a date. Yeah, you go to the Have we

1220
01:07:32,800 --> 01:07:35,040
Speaker 1: all been there, ladies? As it happens, we've all been.

1221
01:07:35,280 --> 01:07:37,600
Speaker 1: Have we all been there? I mean, how is it?

1222
01:07:37,800 --> 01:07:39,360
Speaker 1: How is that even an instant turn off? Like you

1223
01:07:39,520 --> 01:07:45,040
Speaker 1: you just noticed that right away? Like well, I will say,

1224
01:07:46,560 --> 01:07:54,360
Speaker 1: I don't want to talk about this. I want to hygiene. Yeah, yeah,

1225
01:07:54,480 --> 01:08:00,320
Speaker 1: I don't want to make people know it's too for this.

1226
01:08:01,880 --> 01:08:06,439
Speaker 1: We'll just we'll just say hijie. We'll leave it there, Trish. Hi, Trish, Hey,

1227
01:08:06,560 --> 01:08:09,560
Speaker 1: let's don't know. I just I'm recovering from Loupe. What's

1228
01:08:09,560 --> 01:08:13,080
Speaker 1: an automatic turnoff for you when the first thing guys

1229
01:08:13,120 --> 01:08:15,120
Speaker 1: want to talk about is how much money they make?

1230
01:08:15,240 --> 01:08:18,200
Speaker 1: I think it's so tacky. Hey, And for some reason,

1231
01:08:18,600 --> 01:08:20,760
Speaker 1: it seems to be worse when you're like married or

1232
01:08:20,800 --> 01:08:22,960
Speaker 1: engaged to They'll see your ring and some guy will

1233
01:08:23,000 --> 01:08:25,200
Speaker 1: come up to you literally be like, hey, how much

1234
01:08:25,240 --> 01:08:27,479
Speaker 1: money or a man makes? You're like, oh my gosh,

1235
01:08:27,560 --> 01:08:31,080
Speaker 1: does that work? How insecure are you that you're gonna

1236
01:08:31,160 --> 01:08:34,040
Speaker 1: lead with how much money you have? Because that because

1237
01:08:34,080 --> 01:08:36,400
Speaker 1: you think that's your best asset, or maybe that is

1238
01:08:36,439 --> 01:08:38,040
Speaker 1: your best asset and that should tell you everything you

1239
01:08:38,080 --> 01:08:42,760
Speaker 1: need to know. Wow. Yeah, it's just so terrible. Yeah,

1240
01:08:43,080 --> 01:08:46,400
Speaker 1: I don't Yeah, thank you, Trish, have a great day too.

1241
01:08:46,640 --> 01:08:50,720
Speaker 1: Glad you called? Hello? Okay, Hi, Yes you were on

1242
01:08:50,840 --> 01:08:54,479
Speaker 1: one h three five. What's up, Melissa? So the biggest

1243
01:08:54,520 --> 01:08:59,680
Speaker 1: turn off is tiny man hand? Yeah, a good one man?

1244
01:09:00,080 --> 01:09:03,280
Speaker 1: Their hands can't have little hands. Huh no, or like

1245
01:09:03,400 --> 01:09:12,880
Speaker 1: skinny singers. I was worried. That was momentarily worried. Are

1246
01:09:12,920 --> 01:09:15,600
Speaker 1: you relating it to like other things? Are you just

1247
01:09:15,720 --> 01:09:18,280
Speaker 1: saying it just doesn't look good to have little, tiny,

1248
01:09:18,360 --> 01:09:20,120
Speaker 1: dainty hands on a man. Or are you saying it's

1249
01:09:20,120 --> 01:09:22,320
Speaker 1: because other things may not may also be little tiny

1250
01:09:22,360 --> 01:09:26,080
Speaker 1: and dainty. Well that, but it just doesn't look right,

1251
01:09:26,160 --> 01:09:29,280
Speaker 1: and I don't know it grosses me out. Okay, all right,

1252
01:09:29,320 --> 01:09:32,040
Speaker 1: fair enough the little tiny hands, thank you. Melissa looks

1253
01:09:32,080 --> 01:09:37,400
Speaker 1: big when you hold it. That's why you need her.

1254
01:09:38,000 --> 01:09:45,040
Speaker 1: Her hands need to be tiny, she needs I've always

1255
01:09:45,080 --> 01:09:49,280
Speaker 1: been a little break ma. I'm telling you that I

1256
01:09:49,360 --> 01:09:50,760
Speaker 1: got the tea off the air. I got the tea

1257
01:09:50,760 --> 01:09:55,920
Speaker 1: I always got, ye that was delicious. Every now and

1258
01:09:55,960 --> 01:10:00,000
Speaker 1: again I come with tea that everyone else hasn't already heard,

1259
01:10:00,680 --> 01:10:03,040
Speaker 1: so it's exciting. I never hear anything, so I'm always up.

1260
01:10:03,240 --> 01:10:04,640
Speaker 1: I know you, You and I I think are kind

1261
01:10:04,680 --> 01:10:06,720
Speaker 1: of the same. But like oftentimes I'll come in all

1262
01:10:06,760 --> 01:10:09,320
Speaker 1: excited about something I learned about and then everyone's like, yeah,

1263
01:10:09,320 --> 01:10:14,280
Speaker 1: that that happened like a year ago. Yeah. Um, Also,

1264
01:10:14,880 --> 01:10:16,800
Speaker 1: you gotta watch it. You're gonna be sad though, but

1265
01:10:16,880 --> 01:10:18,760
Speaker 1: you gotta watch it came we're talking about how much

1266
01:10:18,760 --> 01:10:22,080
Speaker 1: we love animals on Netflix, the My Octopus Friend Show.

1267
01:10:22,439 --> 01:10:31,080
Speaker 1: What the hell's it called doing Octopus jazz hand? You

1268
01:10:31,160 --> 01:10:34,400
Speaker 1: got a jazz handed It's called My Octopus Teacher. Okay,

1269
01:10:34,439 --> 01:10:36,000
Speaker 1: So you said that I'm going to be sad and

1270
01:10:36,120 --> 01:10:38,639
Speaker 1: you think that I need to be more savage because

1271
01:10:38,640 --> 01:10:42,160
Speaker 1: it's sweet, but it's sad. Did you know, I'll say

1272
01:10:42,200 --> 01:10:46,880
Speaker 1: this much. Did you know that octopus pie pie they

1273
01:10:47,000 --> 01:10:50,240
Speaker 1: only live a year and they they only live to

1274
01:10:50,360 --> 01:10:54,240
Speaker 1: give birth and they mate give birth and die. That

1275
01:10:54,439 --> 01:10:57,400
Speaker 1: that I will say, it's all women are for. Um, well,

1276
01:10:57,479 --> 01:10:59,400
Speaker 1: unless you're over thirty nine, then it's over for you,

1277
01:10:59,520 --> 01:11:01,880
Speaker 1: and you'll, like the Bachelorette is just you may as

1278
01:11:01,880 --> 01:11:04,879
Speaker 1: well just give up on life. Um, I'm being facetious.

1279
01:11:04,880 --> 01:11:07,680
Speaker 1: You're not writing me an email about that. But this

1280
01:11:07,880 --> 01:11:10,040
Speaker 1: is a very sweet story about a guy who basically

1281
01:11:10,080 --> 01:11:12,080
Speaker 1: becomes friends with an octopus, a real life oct This

1282
01:11:12,160 --> 01:11:14,000
Speaker 1: is not like a children's book like you was going

1283
01:11:14,040 --> 01:11:15,880
Speaker 1: to die in a year. I don't know if he

1284
01:11:15,960 --> 01:11:17,560
Speaker 1: knew that at the time, that kind you know, but

1285
01:11:17,680 --> 01:11:19,640
Speaker 1: he was like depressed, is sad in his life and

1286
01:11:19,760 --> 01:11:21,800
Speaker 1: he was his career. He was a photographer and like

1287
01:11:21,920 --> 01:11:25,120
Speaker 1: a filmmaker kind of thing. I don't know. And so

1288
01:11:25,280 --> 01:11:29,320
Speaker 1: he so he's some friends. Okay, so he's like super

1289
01:11:29,400 --> 01:11:32,759
Speaker 1: sad and depressed. So this dude, she lives in South Africa,

1290
01:11:32,800 --> 01:11:35,920
Speaker 1: I guess it was. So he starts swimming and taking

1291
01:11:36,000 --> 01:11:38,160
Speaker 1: pictures again, but he has like lost all of his motivation.

1292
01:11:38,240 --> 01:11:41,200
Speaker 1: And then one day there's his octopus that he discovers,

1293
01:11:41,520 --> 01:11:44,760
Speaker 1: and then he goes back every single day for a

1294
01:11:44,960 --> 01:11:51,479
Speaker 1: year and he finds this octopus every single day. They

1295
01:11:51,600 --> 01:11:54,040
Speaker 1: talk about whatever in the ocean. This was during quarantine.

1296
01:11:54,080 --> 01:11:55,519
Speaker 1: I probably would have been open to being friends with

1297
01:11:55,520 --> 01:11:58,080
Speaker 1: an octopus too, it was. It is a very sweet story.

1298
01:11:58,160 --> 01:12:00,559
Speaker 1: And he talks about what he learned from the octopus

1299
01:12:00,720 --> 01:12:03,200
Speaker 1: and like here's the other thing though, is he would

1300
01:12:03,240 --> 01:12:06,400
Speaker 1: swim and he would see predators go to try and

1301
01:12:06,439 --> 01:12:08,799
Speaker 1: attack the octopus, and like he didn't want to interfere

1302
01:12:08,840 --> 01:12:12,800
Speaker 1: with nature. So here's his friend, the octopus. And then

1303
01:12:12,840 --> 01:12:15,240
Speaker 1: a shark would come along, and like, you know, you

1304
01:12:15,240 --> 01:12:17,400
Speaker 1: would think you would go scare the shark and get

1305
01:12:17,479 --> 01:12:19,800
Speaker 1: him away from your friend, but like you're now, now

1306
01:12:19,880 --> 01:12:23,639
Speaker 1: you're playing with certain nature, so he didn't do anything.

1307
01:12:25,080 --> 01:12:27,280
Speaker 1: He said, it's a very beautiful little hour in twenty

1308
01:12:27,320 --> 01:12:28,920
Speaker 1: minute story, and I think you like it, but you

1309
01:12:29,000 --> 01:12:30,920
Speaker 1: know it's the end is predictable based on what I

1310
01:12:31,000 --> 01:12:34,040
Speaker 1: told you. But it's still very sweet and it inspired

1311
01:12:34,080 --> 01:12:37,160
Speaker 1: this bigger movement and it sort of turned this guy's

1312
01:12:37,240 --> 01:12:40,600
Speaker 1: life around. That's beautiful, but I am not going to

1313
01:12:40,680 --> 01:12:43,920
Speaker 1: go into it knowing the ending, and then i'm you know, well,

1314
01:12:44,520 --> 01:12:47,280
Speaker 1: life is sad enough, no, but it's inspiring though. My

1315
01:12:47,360 --> 01:12:49,080
Speaker 1: sister told me to watch it, and I did watch it.

1316
01:12:49,320 --> 01:12:52,240
Speaker 1: It's called My Octopus Teacher and it's on Netflix and

1317
01:12:52,320 --> 01:12:54,120
Speaker 1: only get any point five out of ten a MGB.

1318
01:12:54,240 --> 01:12:57,320
Speaker 1: And maybe it's the end part one episode. It's just

1319
01:12:57,400 --> 01:13:00,320
Speaker 1: one episode. Yeah, But the guy was like aust in

1320
01:13:00,400 --> 01:13:02,320
Speaker 1: his life, I guess. And then he meets this octopus

1321
01:13:02,360 --> 01:13:04,000
Speaker 1: and how he knew that it was the same octopus

1322
01:13:04,040 --> 01:13:06,639
Speaker 1: every day. I mean, he knew worse, he knew where

1323
01:13:06,640 --> 01:13:11,320
Speaker 1: it was. But the octopus, like God, I guess, they're

1324
01:13:11,400 --> 01:13:14,280
Speaker 1: very smart and emotional, and the octopus at first obviously

1325
01:13:14,320 --> 01:13:16,280
Speaker 1: was very scared of him and like would swim away,

1326
01:13:16,840 --> 01:13:19,360
Speaker 1: but then over time, the octopus knew that it was him,

1327
01:13:19,400 --> 01:13:21,599
Speaker 1: he's like come on in m and would like come

1328
01:13:21,680 --> 01:13:24,920
Speaker 1: to him and like touch him, like attach itself to

1329
01:13:25,040 --> 01:13:29,200
Speaker 1: him in a very sweet way. And there's video. Yes,

1330
01:13:29,400 --> 01:13:33,360
Speaker 1: he films this whole thing. No, it's no, it's very sweet.

1331
01:13:33,400 --> 01:13:35,040
Speaker 1: You'll like it. But I was very sad in the end,

1332
01:13:35,080 --> 01:13:37,599
Speaker 1: of course, because I'm not going to give it away.

1333
01:13:37,640 --> 01:13:40,360
Speaker 1: But I mean, we know what happens. But that octopus

1334
01:13:40,479 --> 01:13:43,720
Speaker 1: funeral under the sea, well there wasn't an opportunity for that.

1335
01:13:43,840 --> 01:13:46,120
Speaker 1: I'm not going to tell you why did he get

1336
01:13:46,160 --> 01:13:49,200
Speaker 1: eaten by a shark? Maybe, but um yeah, some shart

1337
01:13:49,240 --> 01:13:52,360
Speaker 1: comes over then tries to mess with that octopus. I'm

1338
01:13:52,400 --> 01:13:56,120
Speaker 1: gonna man, the man did not get eaten by a shark.

1339
01:13:56,960 --> 01:13:59,000
Speaker 1: But it's it's I mean, when they I will say

1340
01:13:59,040 --> 01:14:01,400
Speaker 1: this much, when the to push so it gives birth

1341
01:14:02,040 --> 01:14:04,160
Speaker 1: to all these spawn or whatever. Oh there's a very

1342
01:14:04,200 --> 01:14:07,000
Speaker 1: sweet part at the end too about that. But then

1343
01:14:08,080 --> 01:14:10,479
Speaker 1: but then it's sort of like it's just it starts

1344
01:14:10,520 --> 01:14:12,519
Speaker 1: to die on its own, like it loses energy and

1345
01:14:12,640 --> 01:14:16,080
Speaker 1: color and like it's that's the its purpose on is

1346
01:14:16,120 --> 01:14:18,680
Speaker 1: to procreate, and then it does its deal for a

1347
01:14:18,760 --> 01:14:21,960
Speaker 1: year and then dies. So like it anyway just one.

1348
01:14:22,040 --> 01:14:24,800
Speaker 1: It's it's actually very sweet. You'll like it, and it's

1349
01:14:24,880 --> 01:14:27,200
Speaker 1: I I almost cried, and you know, it's hard for

1350
01:14:27,280 --> 01:14:28,760
Speaker 1: me to cry, but I thought it was very nice

1351
01:14:29,080 --> 01:14:31,560
Speaker 1: of all people. This guy's life was saved by in

1352
01:14:31,840 --> 01:14:34,519
Speaker 1: in you know, an underwater And the other thing is

1353
01:14:34,520 --> 01:14:38,519
Speaker 1: this guy can hold his breath like five minutes. Oh,

1354
01:14:38,680 --> 01:14:40,519
Speaker 1: he didn't have it. He refused to bring a scuba

1355
01:14:40,560 --> 01:14:43,320
Speaker 1: tank because he thought that would sort of scare off

1356
01:14:43,360 --> 01:14:45,280
Speaker 1: the octopus. It sort of took away from the organic

1357
01:14:45,400 --> 01:14:48,240
Speaker 1: nature of what he was doing. Wow, gasping for air

1358
01:14:48,280 --> 01:14:50,320
Speaker 1: and then he goes down, has a convo, it goes

1359
01:14:50,360 --> 01:14:53,120
Speaker 1: back up basically yeah, but he wouldn't gasp, but he was.

1360
01:14:53,280 --> 01:14:55,080
Speaker 1: It was increased like a what I called free diving

1361
01:14:55,160 --> 01:14:57,400
Speaker 1: or something like. It's pretty amazing. Are there subtitles when

1362
01:14:57,439 --> 01:14:59,720
Speaker 1: he's talking through the octopus underwater? Now? You just know

1363
01:14:59,840 --> 01:15:02,200
Speaker 1: he he reads. He says that he narrates what he

1364
01:15:02,320 --> 01:15:05,000
Speaker 1: was saying to the octopus. You guys, your jackasses. Okay,

1365
01:15:05,040 --> 01:15:07,920
Speaker 1: you're very sweet. You go watch it. Go watch it,

1366
01:15:07,960 --> 01:15:10,600
Speaker 1: you'll like it. I'm very intrigued. You're gonna watch you

1367
01:15:10,760 --> 01:15:12,479
Speaker 1: ruin the whole thing, and you ruined the whole thing

1368
01:15:12,520 --> 01:15:14,840
Speaker 1: for me. No, I don't know what happens at the end.

1369
01:15:15,200 --> 01:15:16,559
Speaker 1: You know what happens in the end. If you've ever

1370
01:15:17,040 --> 01:15:21,639
Speaker 1: read about an octopus, sweet story. I'm reading about octopus.

1371
01:15:21,720 --> 01:15:24,000
Speaker 1: It's a great story. Friend, Thank you, thanks for the reviews.

1372
01:15:24,240 --> 01:15:27,280
Speaker 1: Appreciate your support. Everybody could be inspired by it. But

1373
01:15:27,400 --> 01:15:30,040
Speaker 1: you can find happiness and friendship in areas that you

1374
01:15:30,160 --> 01:15:33,479
Speaker 1: never expected and in life inspiration. You're gonna jump in

1375
01:15:33,520 --> 01:15:36,760
Speaker 1: Lake Michigan today and there's octopus Lake Michigan. We have

1376
01:15:36,800 --> 01:15:44,759
Speaker 1: an issue alligator about You're never gonna guess I'm friends

1377
01:15:44,800 --> 01:15:47,479
Speaker 1: with an octopus. He's gonna be like that, ain't no octopus.

1378
01:15:47,880 --> 01:15:51,360
Speaker 1: You're too close to Gary. That's that's something that's that's

1379
01:15:51,400 --> 01:15:57,360
Speaker 1: something that came from the factories over the story. Friend's

1380
01:15:57,400 --> 01:15:59,519
Speaker 1: gonna be. It's gonna be like, Yeah, friend's gonna be

1381
01:15:59,560 --> 01:16:04,920
Speaker 1: the shit wreum every day. Maybe yes, like that one movie, Hey,

1382
01:16:04,960 --> 01:16:06,600
Speaker 1: I wander been in the Shape of Water. It'll be

1383
01:16:06,640 --> 01:16:09,040
Speaker 1: fright of an octopus. You're gonna fall in love with

1384
01:16:09,080 --> 01:16:12,920
Speaker 1: an octopus. Wonder if anybody fun save me some money

1385
01:16:14,840 --> 01:16:21,680
Speaker 1: all those tentacles. Imagine it's perfect for you because a

1386
01:16:21,760 --> 01:16:26,880
Speaker 1: year and then they're done. Well, yeah, I know, yeah,

1387
01:16:26,880 --> 01:16:29,920
Speaker 1: I missed the octopus though, I wonder if I wonder

1388
01:16:29,920 --> 01:16:31,720
Speaker 1: if anyone at the shed works on the works for

1389
01:16:31,720 --> 01:16:33,840
Speaker 1: the octopus. And that's the thing. They must must be

1390
01:16:33,920 --> 01:16:35,840
Speaker 1: the same in the aquarium. They died the same way

1391
01:16:36,400 --> 01:16:40,080
Speaker 1: they circle of life. I guess. Okay, um, back to

1392
01:16:40,160 --> 01:16:43,040
Speaker 1: the lecture at hand, we have here a video from

1393
01:16:43,080 --> 01:16:46,200
Speaker 1: this woman. Apparently I'm gonna I haven't listened to the

1394
01:16:46,240 --> 01:16:48,200
Speaker 1: whole thing. I know the story, but apparently she works

1395
01:16:48,240 --> 01:16:50,519
Speaker 1: at a jeweler. She is a jeweler, works at a

1396
01:16:50,600 --> 01:16:53,400
Speaker 1: jewelry store, and here is her version of events. I

1397
01:16:53,439 --> 01:16:56,360
Speaker 1: hope she doesn't get it's very happy that I was

1398
01:17:00,240 --> 01:17:03,760
Speaker 1: about did you cos I don't think so, as you know,

1399
01:17:03,880 --> 01:17:06,080
Speaker 1: well you just fired up. I don't remember. We'll find

1400
01:17:06,120 --> 01:17:08,040
Speaker 1: out on the air. Yeah, that's how we always find out.

1401
01:17:09,040 --> 01:17:11,200
Speaker 1: Story time. So I work at a jewelry store, and

1402
01:17:11,240 --> 01:17:12,960
Speaker 1: today a man came in looking for a gift for

1403
01:17:13,040 --> 01:17:15,479
Speaker 1: his wife for their tenth year anniversary. He ended up

1404
01:17:15,520 --> 01:17:17,560
Speaker 1: picking out a piece that said my beautiful wife. And

1405
01:17:17,680 --> 01:17:19,400
Speaker 1: I said, anything else for you today? And he said, no,

1406
01:17:19,520 --> 01:17:21,160
Speaker 1: that's it for her. But I do want to make

1407
01:17:21,200 --> 01:17:24,000
Speaker 1: another purchase using a separate credit card, and could you

1408
01:17:24,200 --> 01:17:27,559
Speaker 1: possibly create a different account for me? And I said sure.

1409
01:17:27,640 --> 01:17:29,400
Speaker 1: What are you looking for? And he said, do you

1410
01:17:29,439 --> 01:17:32,160
Speaker 1: have anything that says girlfriend? And I said yes, and

1411
01:17:32,280 --> 01:17:34,040
Speaker 1: he said perfect, I'll take it. And do you have

1412
01:17:34,080 --> 01:17:36,960
Speaker 1: anything that says happy one year anniversary? A question? What

1413
01:17:37,080 --> 01:17:39,479
Speaker 1: kind of jewelry is being purchased here that says all

1414
01:17:39,560 --> 01:17:46,840
Speaker 1: that on it? Right? Yeah, my beautiful wife. Right? First

1415
01:17:46,840 --> 01:17:49,000
Speaker 1: of all, what is going on? This is a very

1416
01:17:49,080 --> 01:17:55,720
Speaker 1: large piece getting plaqued for these people with it? And

1417
01:17:55,800 --> 01:17:58,600
Speaker 1: I said yes, and he said perfect, I'll take it.

1418
01:17:59,040 --> 01:18:01,160
Speaker 1: So I boxed everything up all nice and I put

1419
01:18:01,200 --> 01:18:03,560
Speaker 1: them in their respective bags. He had me mark a

1420
01:18:03,680 --> 01:18:05,840
Speaker 1: K for Kristen on the bottom of his wife's bag

1421
01:18:06,160 --> 01:18:07,960
Speaker 1: and an L for Laura on the bottom of his

1422
01:18:08,040 --> 01:18:10,719
Speaker 1: girlfriend's bag. I put pretty bows on them. I handed

1423
01:18:10,760 --> 01:18:12,240
Speaker 1: it to him. I said, they're gonna love it. Have

1424
01:18:12,320 --> 01:18:16,519
Speaker 1: a nice day. He said, thank you, and up that

1425
01:18:16,680 --> 01:18:20,519
Speaker 1: his wife's name is Laura and his girlfriend's name is Kristen.

1426
01:18:21,600 --> 01:18:28,960
Speaker 1: I must have mixed up the bags. Oh, I don't

1427
01:18:28,960 --> 01:18:32,439
Speaker 1: like bags. Up the bags up. That's not her business.

1428
01:18:32,880 --> 01:18:37,120
Speaker 1: And then and then you know, you got jewelry and

1429
01:18:37,400 --> 01:18:39,960
Speaker 1: she sold jewelry. Now, I don't know. I don't know

1430
01:18:40,040 --> 01:18:42,000
Speaker 1: if that's did I mean, because you could argue, oh,

1431
01:18:42,040 --> 01:18:44,719
Speaker 1: I just got the wrong I got the wrong bag,

1432
01:18:44,880 --> 01:18:46,479
Speaker 1: or so, you know what I mean, like because obviously

1433
01:18:46,720 --> 01:18:48,880
Speaker 1: you're not presenting to them at the same time. So

1434
01:18:48,960 --> 01:18:51,439
Speaker 1: I suppose if you gave your wife a girlfriend to me,

1435
01:18:51,479 --> 01:18:53,000
Speaker 1: Oh my god, that's not what I worded. It was

1436
01:18:53,000 --> 01:18:54,880
Speaker 1: already wrapped. I don't know what happened. I take it

1437
01:18:54,920 --> 01:18:57,519
Speaker 1: back to the store, Laura. Then they must have messed up.

1438
01:18:57,680 --> 01:18:59,880
Speaker 1: But the bigger question here, the bigger question here is,

1439
01:19:00,120 --> 01:19:01,800
Speaker 1: and we were debating this off there, Callen and I

1440
01:19:01,880 --> 01:19:05,840
Speaker 1: were does this woman have as a as a salesperson

1441
01:19:05,920 --> 01:19:09,599
Speaker 1: in a store. Does she have any right to inject

1442
01:19:09,680 --> 01:19:13,920
Speaker 1: herself in this situation and potentially call this guy out

1443
01:19:13,960 --> 01:19:16,439
Speaker 1: for his infidelity? Is that for her to do? No?

1444
01:19:16,720 --> 01:19:21,160
Speaker 1: Why not? Yeah? Coming from the man who's in everybody's business, right,

1445
01:19:23,320 --> 01:19:25,920
Speaker 1: it's not my job. I'm not selling jewelry. Hold on,

1446
01:19:25,960 --> 01:19:28,560
Speaker 1: hold on, hold on, hold on. Paulina says that it

1447
01:19:28,880 --> 01:19:31,080
Speaker 1: is her right to do this. Why do you think

1448
01:19:31,120 --> 01:19:34,280
Speaker 1: that this jeweler has a right. All she's there to do.

1449
01:19:34,640 --> 01:19:37,320
Speaker 1: Her job is to sell the jewelry and get to

1450
01:19:37,400 --> 01:19:39,479
Speaker 1: people what they ask for and take the money and

1451
01:19:39,640 --> 01:19:42,200
Speaker 1: let them go off in their immoral ways. It is

1452
01:19:42,280 --> 01:19:44,320
Speaker 1: not up to her to be the moral police in

1453
01:19:44,360 --> 01:19:47,200
Speaker 1: my opinion. But you say, well, she's not calling the

1454
01:19:47,320 --> 01:19:49,760
Speaker 1: girls and like reporting to them. She's just doing what

1455
01:19:49,960 --> 01:19:52,080
Speaker 1: God send her to do. Make a mistake that will

1456
01:19:52,080 --> 01:19:55,120
Speaker 1: eventually met intentional mistake though I know, I know, I'm

1457
01:19:55,120 --> 01:19:57,920
Speaker 1: a very aware I like this game. Listen, whatever happens happens.

1458
01:19:57,960 --> 01:20:00,600
Speaker 1: That's his problem. He can figure that out. You're cheating, like,

1459
01:20:00,680 --> 01:20:03,240
Speaker 1: that's on you, boo. That's not her problem. It's her

1460
01:20:04,320 --> 01:20:08,719
Speaker 1: problem woman though too. I think to kind of meddle anyway,

1461
01:20:08,960 --> 01:20:12,559
Speaker 1: girl power type of Have you ever known a girl

1462
01:20:12,560 --> 01:20:14,559
Speaker 1: to cheat before a girl to cheat? Have you ever?

1463
01:20:14,840 --> 01:20:17,360
Speaker 1: And I assume you called the girl's boyfriend and revealed

1464
01:20:17,400 --> 01:20:19,080
Speaker 1: that she was cheating then, because that's the right thing

1465
01:20:19,120 --> 01:20:21,760
Speaker 1: to do. I've done something similar, yes, But every time, though,

1466
01:20:21,800 --> 01:20:23,599
Speaker 1: I take it. Every time, you know, if something cheating,

1467
01:20:23,680 --> 01:20:26,800
Speaker 1: you inject yourself. Right, she didn't call directly, she just

1468
01:20:27,120 --> 01:20:30,000
Speaker 1: left a little clue. I'm just challenging your opinion. No,

1469
01:20:30,120 --> 01:20:33,840
Speaker 1: I love that she purposely messed packages the bags to

1470
01:20:34,200 --> 01:20:36,800
Speaker 1: get her husband caught. Now, rufi you say she is

1471
01:20:36,880 --> 01:20:38,400
Speaker 1: not her job to do this. It's not her job.

1472
01:20:38,439 --> 01:20:41,120
Speaker 1: Her job is a cell jewelry and her she made

1473
01:20:41,240 --> 01:20:45,800
Speaker 1: two transactions. She made money and that's it. And now

1474
01:20:45,920 --> 01:20:47,360
Speaker 1: what if the guy would have come back and like

1475
01:20:47,920 --> 01:20:50,639
Speaker 1: get another engagement ring or spend more money at her business.

1476
01:20:50,840 --> 01:20:52,880
Speaker 1: She's just messing all that up and then she puts

1477
01:20:52,920 --> 01:20:54,880
Speaker 1: it on social media for the fact that she could

1478
01:20:54,920 --> 01:20:57,080
Speaker 1: get fired over this. If that guy everceives it that

1479
01:20:57,320 --> 01:20:59,680
Speaker 1: is true, She's gonna lose her job and everything her

1480
01:21:00,280 --> 01:21:02,040
Speaker 1: is going to see that and be like, hey, yeah,

1481
01:21:02,439 --> 01:21:04,760
Speaker 1: we're gonna lose business now, because anybody who deals with

1482
01:21:04,840 --> 01:21:07,200
Speaker 1: you knows you can't keep a secret room. Yeah, I mean,

1483
01:21:07,240 --> 01:21:08,880
Speaker 1: the same is true. Like for people. I know people

1484
01:21:08,880 --> 01:21:12,160
Speaker 1: who work at nice restaurants in town, and those guys

1485
01:21:12,240 --> 01:21:14,040
Speaker 1: see a lot of things. They see a lot of

1486
01:21:14,120 --> 01:21:17,160
Speaker 1: business things. They see people come in with different people,

1487
01:21:17,840 --> 01:21:21,240
Speaker 1: and it's their job to pretend like they don't see

1488
01:21:21,240 --> 01:21:23,240
Speaker 1: any of this. And the reason they do that is

1489
01:21:23,240 --> 01:21:25,439
Speaker 1: because this guy's coming in, if he's coming in three, four,

1490
01:21:25,560 --> 01:21:27,800
Speaker 1: five times a week, or this woman with different than

1491
01:21:27,920 --> 01:21:30,160
Speaker 1: that's business and so they stay out of it. Because

1492
01:21:30,400 --> 01:21:33,880
Speaker 1: if they call the person out for being shady, then

1493
01:21:33,920 --> 01:21:35,960
Speaker 1: they're never gonna come back. They're gonna lose all that business.

1494
01:21:36,240 --> 01:21:37,840
Speaker 1: So you don't you just stay out of it. It's

1495
01:21:37,840 --> 01:21:40,160
Speaker 1: not your business. Yeah, not your business. You don't know

1496
01:21:40,240 --> 01:21:42,000
Speaker 1: the women. You don't know the women. You don't know

1497
01:21:42,120 --> 01:21:44,320
Speaker 1: what if it's a frupple, you don't say what if

1498
01:21:44,360 --> 01:21:46,680
Speaker 1: they're all together, then it's not gonna cause what kind

1499
01:21:46,680 --> 01:21:48,240
Speaker 1: of problem would call yea what I'm just saying, then

1500
01:21:48,320 --> 01:21:53,439
Speaker 1: why getting why get involved in the first get involved herself?

1501
01:21:54,320 --> 01:21:56,920
Speaker 1: And then and then posting the video? Heay the cloud

1502
01:21:57,000 --> 01:21:58,920
Speaker 1: thing on the video, that's a little much, I will say.

1503
01:21:59,120 --> 01:22:01,280
Speaker 1: But what she did I think hilarious. And whatever happens

1504
01:22:01,280 --> 01:22:03,120
Speaker 1: will happen. He gets gonna get caught, and get caught.

1505
01:22:04,560 --> 01:22:10,280
Speaker 1: I can't compare this to your octopus story. I would say,

1506
01:22:11,560 --> 01:22:13,040
Speaker 1: for me, this is just me. I don't like to

1507
01:22:13,080 --> 01:22:16,320
Speaker 1: get involved in drama and conflict other people's business, So

1508
01:22:16,360 --> 01:22:18,320
Speaker 1: I would just back off and let nature take its course.

1509
01:22:18,360 --> 01:22:20,200
Speaker 1: That's right, that's right. That's how I would see that.

1510
01:22:20,520 --> 01:22:22,400
Speaker 1: If he's meant to get caught, he'll get caught. I

1511
01:22:22,520 --> 01:22:24,280
Speaker 1: didn't just let that play out, how it would play.

1512
01:22:24,320 --> 01:22:26,320
Speaker 1: I don't feel like it's my responsibility to tell it

1513
01:22:26,520 --> 01:22:28,200
Speaker 1: right and get involved, and frankly, I would even be

1514
01:22:28,280 --> 01:22:31,280
Speaker 1: clever enough to think to do that, to insert myself

1515
01:22:31,320 --> 01:22:34,120
Speaker 1: into that. I am responsible for my own morality, and

1516
01:22:34,160 --> 01:22:36,240
Speaker 1: trust me, that's a hard enough job in itself. I

1517
01:22:36,320 --> 01:22:38,559
Speaker 1: am not responded. I am not the moral police out

1518
01:22:38,640 --> 01:22:41,000
Speaker 1: here to bust up everybody who's doing the wrong thing.

1519
01:22:41,400 --> 01:22:43,240
Speaker 1: I gotta take care of myself, and if I work

1520
01:22:43,280 --> 01:22:45,120
Speaker 1: at the jewelry store, I gotta saw you your jewelry.

1521
01:22:45,160 --> 01:22:47,439
Speaker 1: I can think in my head you're a scumbag, and

1522
01:22:47,680 --> 01:22:50,760
Speaker 1: that's the end of it. I agree, but I feel

1523
01:22:50,880 --> 01:22:53,559
Speaker 1: personally like this was the universe or God or whoever

1524
01:22:53,600 --> 01:22:56,800
Speaker 1: you believe in telling this girl to take initiative because

1525
01:22:56,840 --> 01:22:58,559
Speaker 1: that poor wife is at home right now thinking she's

1526
01:22:58,600 --> 01:23:00,040
Speaker 1: the only one trying to be the only one and

1527
01:23:00,320 --> 01:23:02,479
Speaker 1: that's not the case. Well, don't be don't be getting

1528
01:23:02,920 --> 01:23:05,439
Speaker 1: in multiple relationship falling it because I'm gonna call you

1529
01:23:05,479 --> 01:23:06,880
Speaker 1: out when it happens. I don't do that no more.

1530
01:23:06,920 --> 01:23:10,880
Speaker 1: I don't cheat, no more, no more, no more. I

1531
01:23:10,960 --> 01:23:14,880
Speaker 1: stopped cheating in two thousand and eleven. All Right, she

1532
01:23:15,080 --> 01:23:18,439
Speaker 1: got she don't cheat no more. If I missed more names,

1533
01:23:18,600 --> 01:23:20,360
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, it's not my fault. Okay,

1534
01:23:20,360 --> 01:23:26,599
Speaker 1: I'm taking Oh well, that's a different story. Nine three five.

1535
01:23:26,920 --> 01:23:29,840
Speaker 1: Take a little short survey here. Did this woman at

1536
01:23:29,880 --> 01:23:33,519
Speaker 1: the jewelry store have any right mixing up these things

1537
01:23:33,640 --> 01:23:36,720
Speaker 1: so that dude gets caught in what was clearly a

1538
01:23:36,840 --> 01:23:39,679
Speaker 1: cheating situation? Or should she have kept her mouth shut?

1539
01:23:39,840 --> 01:23:46,400
Speaker 1: On Kiss before you go, that's what you did. Don't

1540
01:23:46,439 --> 01:23:49,519
Speaker 1: poke the bear. Don't you poke the bear? Did you

1541
01:23:49,640 --> 01:23:51,639
Speaker 1: do that? Hello Gina, good morning, welcome to the friend

1542
01:23:51,680 --> 01:23:54,040
Speaker 1: show on Kiss. How are you good morning? I'm good.

1543
01:23:54,080 --> 01:23:56,320
Speaker 1: How are you guys? Um? Great? Just to recap here

1544
01:23:56,360 --> 01:23:59,240
Speaker 1: and thanks for listening. This this woman works at a

1545
01:23:59,280 --> 01:24:04,240
Speaker 1: jewelry store. Decided that a customer comes in and wants

1546
01:24:04,280 --> 01:24:06,280
Speaker 1: to buy something for his wife and his girlfriend. It's

1547
01:24:06,360 --> 01:24:08,960
Speaker 1: very deliberate. Two different accounts, two different credit cards, the

1548
01:24:09,040 --> 01:24:12,120
Speaker 1: whole thing. She mislabels this stuff, obviously with the intent

1549
01:24:12,240 --> 01:24:14,400
Speaker 1: of calling him out and so he can get caught.

1550
01:24:14,520 --> 01:24:17,720
Speaker 1: So what do you think? So my thought is, I

1551
01:24:17,800 --> 01:24:19,800
Speaker 1: know she said she put him in nice three little

1552
01:24:19,840 --> 01:24:22,960
Speaker 1: bags with all that. Um, I'm sorry to find him

1553
01:24:23,320 --> 01:24:25,640
Speaker 1: I'm going to check him that thing three, four or

1554
01:24:25,680 --> 01:24:27,519
Speaker 1: five times to make sure I have the right one

1555
01:24:27,560 --> 01:24:29,920
Speaker 1: in the right bag, because I could do that. I mean,

1556
01:24:30,040 --> 01:24:31,519
Speaker 1: I find him, I don't want to get caught. You

1557
01:24:31,600 --> 01:24:34,240
Speaker 1: better double track and if he does, then that's on him. Yeah,

1558
01:24:34,360 --> 01:24:36,080
Speaker 1: but what if it's wrapped, you got to unwrap it?

1559
01:24:36,280 --> 01:24:38,280
Speaker 1: You know all that. Oh yeah, he's plice to take.

1560
01:24:40,240 --> 01:24:43,400
Speaker 1: Oh okay, fair enough, Thank you, Gina, have a great take.

1561
01:24:44,720 --> 01:24:47,920
Speaker 1: Glad you called. Hey, Jenny, good morning, good morning. What

1562
01:24:48,040 --> 01:24:50,000
Speaker 1: do you think is this wasn't in her right in

1563
01:24:50,120 --> 01:24:54,599
Speaker 1: her place to get involved with this? Well, I'm thirty nine,

1564
01:24:56,000 --> 01:25:00,920
Speaker 1: you know what you're saying, Jenny piece, Hey, I wonder

1565
01:25:00,960 --> 01:25:06,479
Speaker 1: if we both get a discount on caskets together. If

1566
01:25:06,520 --> 01:25:09,720
Speaker 1: you guys, you know they did this one fiance to

1567
01:25:09,840 --> 01:25:13,799
Speaker 1: that um bug eye guy in Australia, Remember the florest

1568
01:25:13,920 --> 01:25:15,439
Speaker 1: like called him out and he said he's oh he's

1569
01:25:15,439 --> 01:25:17,880
Speaker 1: been here all the time. Oh yeah, yeah, I do

1570
01:25:18,000 --> 01:25:21,400
Speaker 1: remember that. So it's like, you know, I'm it's kind

1571
01:25:21,439 --> 01:25:25,080
Speaker 1: of on the clerk or the salesperson, like there, what's

1572
01:25:25,120 --> 01:25:27,160
Speaker 1: their motivation? Why would they want to screw this guy

1573
01:25:27,200 --> 01:25:30,760
Speaker 1: over your right side? This? This golls the business, you know,

1574
01:25:31,560 --> 01:25:34,679
Speaker 1: But I think, no, she wouldn't have done that because

1575
01:25:34,920 --> 01:25:37,080
Speaker 1: her motivation, this would be an easy one to get

1576
01:25:37,120 --> 01:25:39,120
Speaker 1: out of. I say, you just say, oh my gosh,

1577
01:25:39,160 --> 01:25:40,800
Speaker 1: I got the wrong order. This is not what I

1578
01:25:40,880 --> 01:25:43,680
Speaker 1: asked for. And now and now I'm never going back

1579
01:25:43,720 --> 01:25:47,680
Speaker 1: to that jeweler again because because you screwed me. And

1580
01:25:47,840 --> 01:25:50,200
Speaker 1: you know what else, Now you've got something where tomorrow's

1581
01:25:50,200 --> 01:25:54,080
Speaker 1: stay or go. Well, this lady needs to call him

1582
01:25:54,080 --> 01:25:55,680
Speaker 1: if she's gonna be out here meddling, she needs to

1583
01:25:55,760 --> 01:25:57,200
Speaker 1: call us and tell us what you're doing, so we

1584
01:25:57,280 --> 01:26:00,439
Speaker 1: got something to talk about every single day. I agree, Jenny,

1585
01:26:00,600 --> 01:26:02,320
Speaker 1: Love you guys, Love you too, have a great tay.

1586
01:26:02,360 --> 01:26:05,720
Speaker 1: Hey Lisa, good morning, Good morning guys. Love you guys,

1587
01:26:06,720 --> 01:26:08,320
Speaker 1: Thank you so much, Love you too. What this? What

1588
01:26:08,400 --> 01:26:11,479
Speaker 1: do you think she's gotten involved or no, no way.

1589
01:26:11,640 --> 01:26:15,799
Speaker 1: He's super out of line. She is meddling, she's causing drama.

1590
01:26:16,080 --> 01:26:19,000
Speaker 1: And honestly, what if the guy was maybe making a

1591
01:26:19,080 --> 01:26:21,560
Speaker 1: protest for her sons, grolfriend, I mean, you just you

1592
01:26:21,680 --> 01:26:24,400
Speaker 1: don't know when you don't assume, when you assume, bad

1593
01:26:24,479 --> 01:26:27,360
Speaker 1: things happened. So she was so totally out of line.

1594
01:26:27,360 --> 01:26:31,840
Speaker 1: I agree with ruffio and yeah, she definitely crossed the line. Yeah,

1595
01:26:32,040 --> 01:26:34,200
Speaker 1: he's kind of news cheating, he's kind of dumb. We're

1596
01:26:34,240 --> 01:26:36,240
Speaker 1: going to the same store. But you know, I mean,

1597
01:26:36,280 --> 01:26:38,000
Speaker 1: this seems a little more obvious. But one thing I

1598
01:26:38,200 --> 01:26:41,760
Speaker 1: learned is I don't know what people's arrangements are, so

1599
01:26:41,920 --> 01:26:44,560
Speaker 1: I just don't get involved because I'm amazed at the

1600
01:26:44,640 --> 01:26:47,680
Speaker 1: number of people who have arrangements that they don't you know,

1601
01:26:47,760 --> 01:26:51,240
Speaker 1: like they're married, but they have internally it's okay for

1602
01:26:51,360 --> 01:26:53,080
Speaker 1: one or the other to step out and so here

1603
01:26:53,120 --> 01:26:55,599
Speaker 1: if I go meddling, now, I'm just embarrassing people, right

1604
01:26:55,640 --> 01:27:00,240
Speaker 1: because maybe everybody knows exactly she was out of line. Yeah,

1605
01:27:00,280 --> 01:27:02,840
Speaker 1: thank you, Lisa, thank you. I have a great day.

1606
01:27:02,920 --> 01:27:07,960
Speaker 1: Thanks for listening. Nicki, Hello, Nikki Nikey, good morning. What

1607
01:27:08,000 --> 01:27:11,880
Speaker 1: do you think you know what you guys have bro

1608
01:27:12,040 --> 01:27:19,120
Speaker 1: code rights before home she is? She said, bro code Yeah,

1609
01:27:19,200 --> 01:27:23,599
Speaker 1: but well I'm sorry, go ahead, said us before us? Yeah,

1610
01:27:25,520 --> 01:27:30,240
Speaker 1: Uterus is before deuterus is. You know, it's interesting I

1611
01:27:30,280 --> 01:27:32,479
Speaker 1: have not heard that one before. Um. Okay, so you're

1612
01:27:32,520 --> 01:27:35,120
Speaker 1: saying that every woman has an obligation to protect every

1613
01:27:35,160 --> 01:27:38,920
Speaker 1: other woman, why not? But you don't know those women

1614
01:27:39,080 --> 01:27:40,760
Speaker 1: you don't know, Like if bro code is like I

1615
01:27:40,880 --> 01:27:45,320
Speaker 1: know a dude, they have the same parts. There's another

1616
01:27:45,400 --> 01:27:49,320
Speaker 1: woman involved in this situation. Yeah, listen, listen to the world.

1617
01:27:53,600 --> 01:27:55,400
Speaker 1: I'm listening. If I don't know my butt is cheating,

1618
01:27:55,400 --> 01:27:56,920
Speaker 1: I'm not getting in that business because it's not in

1619
01:27:57,000 --> 01:27:59,719
Speaker 1: my business. It's different than just calling them and telling

1620
01:27:59,760 --> 01:28:02,599
Speaker 1: them she just did a little switcheroo. And then if

1621
01:28:02,640 --> 01:28:10,560
Speaker 1: they have an arrangement, right exactly, if I know a

1622
01:28:10,640 --> 01:28:12,880
Speaker 1: guy that's dating someone, that's like, if if the girl

1623
01:28:13,040 --> 01:28:14,640
Speaker 1: is my friend, of course I'm going to tell her.

1624
01:28:14,880 --> 01:28:17,080
Speaker 1: But if if the guy's like dating someone I don't know,

1625
01:28:17,240 --> 01:28:19,439
Speaker 1: then it's not my business. You know what I'm saying, Like,

1626
01:28:19,520 --> 01:28:20,960
Speaker 1: it's you talk to your friend though, and be like

1627
01:28:21,040 --> 01:28:24,439
Speaker 1: stop cheating. Right, No, that's not that's his life. That's

1628
01:28:24,479 --> 01:28:26,519
Speaker 1: not my life. I go home and I do my thing.

1629
01:28:28,520 --> 01:28:33,760
Speaker 1: I don't either, but I might be what's that that

1630
01:28:33,840 --> 01:28:36,120
Speaker 1: the girlfriend might be at fault if they've only been

1631
01:28:36,160 --> 01:28:38,960
Speaker 1: together for a year and he's been married for ten years.

1632
01:28:39,880 --> 01:28:49,439
Speaker 1: Maybe she knows your business. Your business is a cell jewelry, Yeah,

1633
01:28:49,800 --> 01:28:53,439
Speaker 1: she doesn't own the shop. You never know. Got a

1634
01:28:53,479 --> 01:28:57,200
Speaker 1: male perspective here? What do you think. Uh, I'm thinking

1635
01:28:57,280 --> 01:28:59,400
Speaker 1: like she should just keep herself to herself. For example,

1636
01:28:59,479 --> 01:29:02,600
Speaker 1: one time, uh, I took a two girls in a

1637
01:29:02,680 --> 01:29:04,439
Speaker 1: road to the same restaurant and I when I went

1638
01:29:04,479 --> 01:29:07,559
Speaker 1: to the bathroom, one of the waitress has actually told

1639
01:29:07,600 --> 01:29:10,000
Speaker 1: the girl that, hey, this guy keeps springing over girls.

1640
01:29:10,040 --> 01:29:12,160
Speaker 1: I'm not sure if you're you know, is the first

1641
01:29:12,240 --> 01:29:15,960
Speaker 1: date or not, So just letting you know that it's

1642
01:29:16,080 --> 01:29:22,280
Speaker 1: very different. It's not very different, friend, Okay, you guys, Okay,

1643
01:29:23,000 --> 01:29:25,280
Speaker 1: the guy or the girl, I'm sorry, did not tell

1644
01:29:25,320 --> 01:29:28,040
Speaker 1: the waiter anything like this is my wife. That's I

1645
01:29:28,120 --> 01:29:31,519
Speaker 1: check number one, that's number two. That yes, because it's

1646
01:29:31,520 --> 01:29:34,320
Speaker 1: not what's happening. This guy went to a jeweler and said,

1647
01:29:34,360 --> 01:29:36,120
Speaker 1: I need a girlfriend, Ring, I need a wife, Ring,

1648
01:29:36,160 --> 01:29:38,920
Speaker 1: you need a baby, mama, Ring differs and got into

1649
01:29:39,040 --> 01:29:42,120
Speaker 1: the other person's business. What they didn't need to do

1650
01:29:43,080 --> 01:29:45,760
Speaker 1: if I went to a waiter, was the waiter was wrong, Yeah,

1651
01:29:46,040 --> 01:29:49,000
Speaker 1: jew was I was doing the same thing. Oh, the

1652
01:29:49,120 --> 01:29:52,200
Speaker 1: jeweler was not a wife involved. Look what you did, Paul,

1653
01:29:52,840 --> 01:29:57,240
Speaker 1: absolute explosion. Thank you, Paul problem. I appreciate you. Dead

1654
01:29:57,320 --> 01:30:03,200
Speaker 1: dated the room two different restaurants. Next time, Homie I

1655
01:30:03,800 --> 01:30:05,600
Speaker 1: go to the same three or four places, and I

1656
01:30:06,200 --> 01:30:10,799
Speaker 1: have a lot of trust in those folks. You're dating,

1657
01:30:10,840 --> 01:30:13,439
Speaker 1: you're not marrying, No, I am. You didn't know. You're

1658
01:30:13,439 --> 01:30:15,479
Speaker 1: exactly right. And if one of those people were like, hey,

1659
01:30:15,520 --> 01:30:17,280
Speaker 1: he was in here with somebody else, first of all,

1660
01:30:17,320 --> 01:30:20,599
Speaker 1: you should expect that because I'm not exclusive, secontive, I'm

1661
01:30:20,640 --> 01:30:23,479
Speaker 1: never going back there, exactly. That's different. Hold on, I

1662
01:30:23,600 --> 01:30:29,720
Speaker 1: got somebody arguing, is how are you saying it early? Really? Hi,

1663
01:30:29,840 --> 01:30:32,160
Speaker 1: good morning? What do you think? By the way, Okay,

1664
01:30:32,360 --> 01:30:35,600
Speaker 1: so I'm thinking, like, if you are getting cheated on

1665
01:30:35,800 --> 01:30:38,720
Speaker 1: most of the time, you're thinking, why didn't anybody warn me?

1666
01:30:39,240 --> 01:30:44,880
Speaker 1: You know? So she's taking the initiatives to do the warning. Yeah, well,

1667
01:30:44,920 --> 01:30:47,120
Speaker 1: I mean, are you gonna warn everybody everything you see,

1668
01:30:47,200 --> 01:30:49,919
Speaker 1: every impropriety? Are you? Are you out there protecting everybody

1669
01:30:50,720 --> 01:30:54,080
Speaker 1: on your lap? And you go exactly, yeah, Like he

1670
01:30:54,160 --> 01:30:56,600
Speaker 1: went in there with the intention to do this, So

1671
01:30:56,800 --> 01:31:01,240
Speaker 1: he's basically he's putting her into this narrative at this point. Yeah,

1672
01:31:01,439 --> 01:31:05,720
Speaker 1: that's true. That's now. Yeah, Yeah, thank you, have a

1673
01:31:05,760 --> 01:31:08,280
Speaker 1: good day. Thank you too. Are you willing to suffer

1674
01:31:08,360 --> 01:31:10,800
Speaker 1: all the consequences that come with that? You know what

1675
01:31:10,800 --> 01:31:13,320
Speaker 1: I'm saying, as a jeweler, as an employee, to get fired,

1676
01:31:13,560 --> 01:31:15,439
Speaker 1: to be on social media, then you're getting dragged in

1677
01:31:15,520 --> 01:31:17,880
Speaker 1: social media. She put it out there, but then you

1678
01:31:17,960 --> 01:31:19,800
Speaker 1: could get sued and you could lose your job and

1679
01:31:19,960 --> 01:31:23,160
Speaker 1: everything that comes with it. Dude, for her, how, I

1680
01:31:23,240 --> 01:31:24,840
Speaker 1: don't know. I'm just saying, like, you know what I'm saying.

1681
01:31:25,439 --> 01:31:29,280
Speaker 1: I don't really I feel I could see all my

1682
01:31:29,360 --> 01:31:32,400
Speaker 1: cheating boyfriends. That'd be amazing. Yeah, I'm just saying, like,

1683
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Speaker 1: are you Fred Show