1 00:00:00,440 --> 00:00:03,279 Speaker 1: Yes, yes, that's all we need to say. 2 00:00:03,480 --> 00:00:06,760 Speaker 2: Yes, it's also weird to take a bathroom selfie, so 3 00:00:06,800 --> 00:00:09,600 Speaker 2: don't do any of those things. Calm Down with Erin 4 00:00:09,640 --> 00:00:12,799 Speaker 2: and Carissa is a production of iHeartRadio. 5 00:00:18,040 --> 00:00:18,720 Speaker 1: So CT. 6 00:00:19,079 --> 00:00:21,560 Speaker 2: This segment right now is brought to you by Macy's 7 00:00:21,600 --> 00:00:26,239 Speaker 2: and I Love This question by Lauren Richard. Favorite online 8 00:00:26,239 --> 00:00:29,680 Speaker 2: stores for cute summer sets and dresses? Obviously, Macy's is 9 00:00:29,720 --> 00:00:31,840 Speaker 2: one of them. We have got some summer shopping to 10 00:00:31,880 --> 00:00:33,520 Speaker 2: do with a couple of trips we're going to take. 11 00:00:33,760 --> 00:00:35,239 Speaker 3: I actually jumped on there the other day and was 12 00:00:35,240 --> 00:00:39,080 Speaker 3: buying some bathing suits for our upcoming trips. 13 00:00:39,560 --> 00:00:40,839 Speaker 1: It was I know. 14 00:00:41,320 --> 00:00:44,720 Speaker 3: But the only thing is though about that is that 15 00:00:44,880 --> 00:00:46,879 Speaker 3: if it doesn't like, once everything comes and if it 16 00:00:46,920 --> 00:00:50,280 Speaker 3: doesn't fit, I'm terrible about return and stuff. I know, 17 00:00:50,360 --> 00:00:52,720 Speaker 3: and it's gon I end up losing money. So I'm 18 00:00:52,720 --> 00:00:55,200 Speaker 3: going to be better about that. But yeah, favorite online store, 19 00:00:55,240 --> 00:00:57,680 Speaker 3: I mean, Macy's obviously is so easy because they have 20 00:00:57,840 --> 00:01:00,400 Speaker 3: so many different options. It's not just one brand They've 21 00:01:00,480 --> 00:01:03,320 Speaker 3: got They've got really good like travel stuff, like outfits 22 00:01:03,320 --> 00:01:04,120 Speaker 3: to travel in it. 23 00:01:04,920 --> 00:01:07,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, I love it. This is a good. 24 00:01:06,920 --> 00:01:10,959 Speaker 3: Question for you, Amy, sims o one, Oh, are there 25 00:01:11,000 --> 00:01:14,320 Speaker 3: tours of Ruby Ranch? Would love to snuggle those animals, Amy, 26 00:01:14,560 --> 00:01:16,560 Speaker 3: you are so sweet to ask. I would love, love, 27 00:01:16,640 --> 00:01:21,240 Speaker 3: love to have people up here, but it's like open 28 00:01:21,280 --> 00:01:25,360 Speaker 3: to the wait for it public, but not yet. That's 29 00:01:25,400 --> 00:01:27,360 Speaker 3: not really something I want to do yet because, as 30 00:01:27,400 --> 00:01:28,319 Speaker 3: we mentioned earlier on. 31 00:01:28,280 --> 00:01:30,440 Speaker 1: The podcast, it's a people can. 32 00:01:30,280 --> 00:01:34,959 Speaker 3: Get a little I don't know, yeah, litigious where it's 33 00:01:34,959 --> 00:01:37,080 Speaker 3: like if you get hurt up here, then there's liability 34 00:01:37,120 --> 00:01:39,640 Speaker 3: and there's all these other things. So the answer is 35 00:01:39,800 --> 00:01:42,479 Speaker 3: no to that right now, but maybe eventually. I haven't 36 00:01:42,520 --> 00:01:46,120 Speaker 3: ruled it out because I just want to have as 37 00:01:46,200 --> 00:01:48,720 Speaker 3: many people as possible enjoy the ranch or the animals. 38 00:01:48,720 --> 00:01:53,200 Speaker 3: But yeah, the animals are so sweet. Well, who's my 39 00:01:53,240 --> 00:01:55,840 Speaker 3: favorite right now? Norman's probably my favorite, Norman the dog. 40 00:01:55,880 --> 00:01:58,040 Speaker 3: He's just like, loves me so much. I love any 41 00:01:58,080 --> 00:02:00,040 Speaker 3: animal that loves me the most, and Norman loves me 42 00:02:00,120 --> 00:02:02,920 Speaker 3: the most. But yeah, thank you for asking me. Still 43 00:02:02,920 --> 00:02:06,160 Speaker 3: working on Lollipop Anonymous. My friend and I went for 44 00:02:06,240 --> 00:02:09,160 Speaker 3: the same job. I'm the better candidate, but her boss, 45 00:02:09,400 --> 00:02:11,960 Speaker 3: her boss made the final decision and she ended up 46 00:02:12,000 --> 00:02:12,720 Speaker 3: getting the job. 47 00:02:13,080 --> 00:02:13,560 Speaker 1: I'm bitter. 48 00:02:13,680 --> 00:02:16,400 Speaker 2: I want to be happy for her, but my child 49 00:02:17,120 --> 00:02:22,079 Speaker 2: childish pettiness takes over suggestions. I feel like right now 50 00:02:22,080 --> 00:02:24,920 Speaker 2: I'm on a reel. This was supposed to happen. We 51 00:02:25,040 --> 00:02:29,480 Speaker 2: may not know why. With a lot of things, it's like, 52 00:02:30,200 --> 00:02:32,640 Speaker 2: dang it, someone just gave me a great quote about 53 00:02:32,639 --> 00:02:35,280 Speaker 2: it about a job, if it was meant to be, 54 00:02:35,560 --> 00:02:39,560 Speaker 2: or it'll happen, that wasn't it, But basically like it will. 55 00:02:39,680 --> 00:02:43,080 Speaker 2: And I hate sounding or saying even saying that or 56 00:02:43,120 --> 00:02:45,560 Speaker 2: listening to myself say that. But there's been so many 57 00:02:45,560 --> 00:02:48,400 Speaker 2: circumstances in people's lives or people we look up to 58 00:02:48,960 --> 00:02:51,960 Speaker 2: or we talk to, or even our own. You're like Jesus, 59 00:02:52,040 --> 00:02:55,080 Speaker 2: like it's a miracle it turned out that way, but 60 00:02:55,120 --> 00:02:56,960 Speaker 2: it just takes forever to figure it out. 61 00:02:57,120 --> 00:02:57,360 Speaker 1: Why. 62 00:02:57,480 --> 00:03:00,360 Speaker 3: I hate that it's not on our terms, on our 63 00:03:00,440 --> 00:03:02,440 Speaker 3: terms and in terms of control. Yeah, you want to 64 00:03:02,480 --> 00:03:05,840 Speaker 3: be able to like, oh, well I'm better, I'm this, 65 00:03:05,919 --> 00:03:08,200 Speaker 3: and that I will say this because it starts with 66 00:03:08,240 --> 00:03:10,120 Speaker 3: my friend and I went out for the same job. 67 00:03:10,760 --> 00:03:13,440 Speaker 3: You and I. We don't do the same thing, but 68 00:03:13,480 --> 00:03:16,560 Speaker 3: we are in the same industry and there's opportunities that 69 00:03:16,639 --> 00:03:19,480 Speaker 3: I'm sure like you've gotten that I could have went 70 00:03:19,560 --> 00:03:22,520 Speaker 3: up for or vice versa, whatever it is. And if 71 00:03:22,520 --> 00:03:25,519 Speaker 3: it's your friend, you have to remember, like the friendship 72 00:03:25,560 --> 00:03:28,440 Speaker 3: is more important than the job, and she'll remember the 73 00:03:28,480 --> 00:03:29,000 Speaker 3: way that you. 74 00:03:29,080 --> 00:03:30,880 Speaker 1: Treat her with this. 75 00:03:31,320 --> 00:03:33,840 Speaker 3: Be happy for her, even if you're a little jealous, 76 00:03:33,840 --> 00:03:36,360 Speaker 3: that's okay because that you're a competitive that you want it. 77 00:03:36,760 --> 00:03:39,720 Speaker 3: But also remember to your point then it wasn't for you, 78 00:03:39,760 --> 00:03:40,360 Speaker 3: like if. 79 00:03:40,200 --> 00:03:42,440 Speaker 2: You did to be something coming that you can take 80 00:03:42,520 --> 00:03:44,320 Speaker 2: now because she has that job. 81 00:03:44,880 --> 00:03:46,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, and how. 82 00:03:46,400 --> 00:03:48,280 Speaker 3: You respond it's not what happens to you in life, 83 00:03:48,280 --> 00:03:50,160 Speaker 3: it's how you respond to it. So how you respond 84 00:03:50,160 --> 00:03:53,760 Speaker 3: to her, she'll remember that more than this job, because 85 00:03:53,800 --> 00:03:55,520 Speaker 3: the job will come and go. And especially if your 86 00:03:55,520 --> 00:03:59,119 Speaker 3: friend means that much to you, be happy for her because. 87 00:04:00,120 --> 00:04:01,960 Speaker 1: Don't be bitter. Be better. 88 00:04:03,160 --> 00:04:16,600 Speaker 3: Put it on a teacher, Gina jeb Arekkin, Sorry if 89 00:04:16,600 --> 00:04:17,440 Speaker 3: I pronounced that wrong. 90 00:04:17,560 --> 00:04:19,000 Speaker 1: What was the most surprising thing you. 91 00:04:19,040 --> 00:04:24,279 Speaker 3: Noticed about yourself the first time you saw yourself on TV? Oh? God, 92 00:04:24,880 --> 00:04:28,640 Speaker 3: how bad my hair color was? Or the camera adds 93 00:04:28,720 --> 00:04:30,560 Speaker 3: did pounds? I mean, where do we want to go 94 00:04:30,640 --> 00:04:33,400 Speaker 3: with this bad clothes? You and I have talked about 95 00:04:33,440 --> 00:04:36,719 Speaker 3: it when we look back on I don't know, but 96 00:04:36,800 --> 00:04:38,560 Speaker 3: I think more than anything, I don't know if this 97 00:04:38,600 --> 00:04:42,320 Speaker 3: is how you feel. I remember being like, Wow, I'm 98 00:04:42,400 --> 00:04:45,279 Speaker 3: living out my dream. I think my first thought wasn't 99 00:04:45,320 --> 00:04:48,039 Speaker 3: being I mean, naturally, we're going to be a little critical. 100 00:04:48,040 --> 00:04:52,240 Speaker 3: But I think I was just more proud of it myself. 101 00:04:52,480 --> 00:04:55,440 Speaker 3: My first time on TV was as a Rockies baseball reporter, 102 00:04:55,520 --> 00:04:58,599 Speaker 3: and I would, yes, I would, I would record. I'd 103 00:04:58,600 --> 00:05:01,560 Speaker 3: go and get my like TV speak pro tapes and 104 00:05:01,600 --> 00:05:04,240 Speaker 3: i'd record in the edit bay when I was on 105 00:05:04,360 --> 00:05:06,680 Speaker 3: and i'd clip them off and then i'd rewatch them 106 00:05:06,720 --> 00:05:08,040 Speaker 3: and find ways to get better. 107 00:05:08,080 --> 00:05:09,360 Speaker 1: But yeah, I remember. 108 00:05:09,040 --> 00:05:12,160 Speaker 3: Being very proud of the fact that I actually got 109 00:05:12,160 --> 00:05:12,920 Speaker 3: to do the job. You. 110 00:05:13,440 --> 00:05:17,000 Speaker 2: Of course, I think that I needed to slow down 111 00:05:17,120 --> 00:05:21,160 Speaker 2: and smile more, but those are the words of Clark Andrews, 112 00:05:21,160 --> 00:05:24,239 Speaker 2: Steve Andrews, Hey, smile a little bit more, slow down. 113 00:05:25,360 --> 00:05:29,760 Speaker 3: Those are I still need to do that. 114 00:05:29,920 --> 00:05:32,920 Speaker 2: I also win a lot, not because I can't see 115 00:05:32,960 --> 00:05:35,240 Speaker 2: because I'm not reading a teleprompter, because I'm trying to 116 00:05:35,279 --> 00:05:38,960 Speaker 2: remember what the hell I'm saying, and I know I 117 00:05:39,680 --> 00:05:41,720 Speaker 2: squint a lot. It's so stupid. 118 00:05:42,080 --> 00:05:44,680 Speaker 3: No, but there's also a light in your eye or 119 00:05:44,680 --> 00:05:49,120 Speaker 3: sometimes like the sun or I mean, elements so hard. 120 00:05:49,560 --> 00:05:52,440 Speaker 2: I also notice now I need to stop this. When 121 00:05:52,480 --> 00:05:57,279 Speaker 2: I'm interviewing an athlete, my mouth starts mouthing what they're saying. 122 00:05:57,400 --> 00:06:02,039 Speaker 1: That's weird what I just said. What what I mean? 123 00:06:02,880 --> 00:06:05,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, like that like being like like, I don't know, 124 00:06:05,839 --> 00:06:07,640 Speaker 2: I've seen myself in some interviews and I don't know 125 00:06:07,640 --> 00:06:10,400 Speaker 2: if I'm going yeah or like finishing this sentence, like 126 00:06:10,520 --> 00:06:12,680 Speaker 2: I don't know. It's just the worst thing for me 127 00:06:12,760 --> 00:06:15,680 Speaker 2: to do is watch myself because then I get crazy. 128 00:06:15,760 --> 00:06:19,520 Speaker 3: So whatever, I well, that's actually good. I will still 129 00:06:20,080 --> 00:06:22,400 Speaker 3: go back, not as much as I used to, because 130 00:06:24,160 --> 00:06:26,279 Speaker 3: I think that there comes a point where you're like, Okay, 131 00:06:26,360 --> 00:06:29,160 Speaker 3: I know what my idiosyncrasies are, I know what my thing, 132 00:06:29,279 --> 00:06:31,919 Speaker 3: you know whatever. But I do think it's important and 133 00:06:31,960 --> 00:06:34,760 Speaker 3: it's not narcissistic, and I don't think it's aired at 134 00:06:34,800 --> 00:06:37,240 Speaker 3: all to go back and watch. It's the same way 135 00:06:37,320 --> 00:06:40,640 Speaker 3: that guys go back and watch film. They're learning from 136 00:06:40,720 --> 00:06:43,760 Speaker 3: the mistakes they've made. And it's also important to have 137 00:06:43,880 --> 00:06:46,880 Speaker 3: somebody else look at it too, because I would do 138 00:06:46,920 --> 00:06:47,440 Speaker 3: this a lot. 139 00:06:47,839 --> 00:06:49,880 Speaker 1: Mm hmmm, yeah, like an interview. 140 00:06:50,320 --> 00:06:53,120 Speaker 3: Hey, the editor fucking hates you because he can't find 141 00:06:53,160 --> 00:06:56,719 Speaker 3: an edit point because in the interview you keep talking 142 00:06:57,000 --> 00:06:59,640 Speaker 3: I do all the time. And finally like if Joel 143 00:06:59,680 --> 00:07:02,279 Speaker 3: are producer. Joel was like, Hey, of course that's great. 144 00:07:02,320 --> 00:07:05,440 Speaker 1: You agree with him. Cut out the vocal part of it. 145 00:07:05,520 --> 00:07:07,800 Speaker 3: Just nod your head because the editor, because you have 146 00:07:07,839 --> 00:07:09,760 Speaker 3: to think about those things too, because you're in a 147 00:07:09,760 --> 00:07:12,160 Speaker 3: conversation and you want them to be like, yeah, okay, great. 148 00:07:13,360 --> 00:07:15,880 Speaker 1: Any who, I ran into my start. 149 00:07:16,520 --> 00:07:19,880 Speaker 3: I ran into my ex's twin sister a few weeks ago. 150 00:07:20,360 --> 00:07:24,800 Speaker 3: We started texting weird to ask her out. Yes, yes, yes, 151 00:07:25,680 --> 00:07:29,320 Speaker 3: what No, that's all we need to say. Yes, eight 152 00:07:29,400 --> 00:07:32,520 Speaker 3: billion people in the world. No, stay out. 153 00:07:32,600 --> 00:07:35,400 Speaker 2: It's also weird to take a bathroom selfie, so don't 154 00:07:35,400 --> 00:07:36,440 Speaker 2: do any of those things. 155 00:07:36,600 --> 00:07:39,040 Speaker 3: Do that either, and that toilet in the background. No, 156 00:07:39,120 --> 00:07:42,000 Speaker 3: one wants. Don't shit where you sleep and or take 157 00:07:42,000 --> 00:07:45,840 Speaker 3: your picture? No, absolutely not. Next. 158 00:07:45,840 --> 00:07:48,120 Speaker 1: Hey, here's one for you, Denise. 159 00:07:48,320 --> 00:07:50,640 Speaker 2: I have a problem with my neighbor feeding raccoons in 160 00:07:50,680 --> 00:07:54,160 Speaker 2: the park behind my backyard. Since they're feeding them, they've 161 00:07:54,360 --> 00:07:56,960 Speaker 2: come out of the woods now onto my lawn and 162 00:07:57,040 --> 00:08:00,400 Speaker 2: use it as a litter box. David, I don't want 163 00:08:00,440 --> 00:08:04,680 Speaker 2: to make people mad, but I've had enough of it. Suggestions, Hey, 164 00:08:05,160 --> 00:08:08,080 Speaker 2: stop feeding the raccoons or come clean my wawn. 165 00:08:09,160 --> 00:08:11,360 Speaker 3: I'm the first to be snow white, and I want 166 00:08:11,360 --> 00:08:13,480 Speaker 3: to have all the animals around me, and I just. 167 00:08:13,640 --> 00:08:18,440 Speaker 1: Ah, like all of them except that bird. I get it. 168 00:08:18,520 --> 00:08:20,720 Speaker 3: I get that you want it. You feel like you're like, oh, yeah, 169 00:08:20,760 --> 00:08:25,440 Speaker 3: but they're hungry. Newsflash, raccoons can fend for themselves. There's 170 00:08:25,440 --> 00:08:28,480 Speaker 3: a reason they're not domesticated animals. They know how to 171 00:08:28,480 --> 00:08:30,600 Speaker 3: go out and hunt, they know how to go find food. 172 00:08:30,880 --> 00:08:35,160 Speaker 3: Stop feeding the wild animals, especially if it's then going 173 00:08:35,240 --> 00:08:37,960 Speaker 3: to like be a problem on your lawn. I'd have 174 00:08:37,960 --> 00:08:39,720 Speaker 3: no problem going over to the neighbor and be like, hey, 175 00:08:40,200 --> 00:08:42,640 Speaker 3: I too love animals, but let's not feed the ones 176 00:08:42,679 --> 00:08:44,960 Speaker 3: that know how to fend for themselves. Let's go down 177 00:08:45,080 --> 00:08:47,720 Speaker 3: to the local animal shelter and let's go get a dog, 178 00:08:48,000 --> 00:08:51,000 Speaker 3: or let's go rescue some other animal that can't fend 179 00:08:51,000 --> 00:08:53,000 Speaker 3: for itself. And if that's how you want to take 180 00:08:53,000 --> 00:08:56,360 Speaker 3: care of animals, let's do it in a productive manner, 181 00:08:56,440 --> 00:08:59,040 Speaker 3: not having these wild beasts rip. 182 00:08:58,920 --> 00:09:00,679 Speaker 1: Up my lawn out no one know. 183 00:09:00,679 --> 00:09:02,760 Speaker 3: If the neighbors like, hey, Yeah, that possum over there, 184 00:09:02,920 --> 00:09:05,880 Speaker 3: I want to also feed that ew. No, there's some 185 00:09:06,080 --> 00:09:09,719 Speaker 3: animals that need to just be relegated to bending for themselves. 186 00:09:09,800 --> 00:09:13,280 Speaker 1: And this comes from a real Doctor Doolittle. Animal lever. 187 00:09:13,800 --> 00:09:19,079 Speaker 2: Stop feeding the raccoons and the birds. It's gross. Meanwhile, 188 00:09:19,120 --> 00:09:21,280 Speaker 2: I'll tell you what's not gross. 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