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Speaker 1: Second date, up date. If someone sets you up on

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Speaker 1: I don't know you would like that.

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Speaker 2: I mean I thought of worse things in my head

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Speaker 1: I didn't even get you. Yeah, driving the getaway car

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Speaker 1: and they do the bank heist.

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Speaker 2: I mean, how are they.

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Speaker 1: Let's say they were really.

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Speaker 2: Hot, I mean fast driver.

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Speaker 1: Okay, that's exciting. Maybe you realize halfway through dinner your

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Speaker 1: other in a trench coat. It happens more than you think. Hey,

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Speaker 1: you guys want to go play Fortnite? Yeah, best case

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Speaker 1: scenario for jose. But one of our listeners, Janelle, said

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Speaker 1: she had the worst possible thing happened after she was

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Speaker 1: set up on a date by her friend to us today, Wait.

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Speaker 2: You know worse than the three children on stacked on

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Speaker 3: It's worse than that.

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Speaker 1: Five toddlers, baby, dude.

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Speaker 2: Okay, we're gonna stop being at your page.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, let's stop guessing. Why don't you tell us the

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Speaker 1: story you said a friend set you up on a

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so one of my friends at work, she was

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Speaker 3: a happy hour and there's this cute guy. Okay, she's

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Speaker 2: Like a waiter at the happy hour place. Is that

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Speaker 3: No, he hangs out there.

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Speaker 1: Uh brook. Her biggest fantasy is like making away with

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Speaker 2: Fantasy or reality job.

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Speaker 1: Well yeah, okay, who was she trying to set you

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Speaker 3: This guy named David? She's like, he's a real cutie,

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Speaker 3: so why don't you come up here and try your hands?

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Speaker 1: Okay, this is like a spontaneous date that she set

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so I get up there and one got cute

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Speaker 3: of course, and we get there and it's not busy

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Speaker 3: immediately lock eyes with It's gotta be David. And guess

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Speaker 3: what what? I know David already because he has experiment

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Speaker 3: three years ago.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so she knows your type because it is your

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Speaker 1: Yeah, oh no, is that good or bad?

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Speaker 3: Awkward? Because he kind of just disappeared on me three

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Speaker 3: years ago he texted me like and just you know,

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Speaker 3: gave him my walking paper be it text ox.

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Speaker 1: Was goodbye, We're done. Yeah, at least he messaged you.

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Speaker 1: A lot of guys wouldn't even have to do that.

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Speaker 2: I love how that's still a positive. Like how long

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Speaker 2: did you guys hang out for three years ago?

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Speaker 3: Just for a few months. It wasn't long at all,

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Speaker 1: My god, So how did your friends find out that

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Speaker 3: Well?

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Speaker 1: I just kind of blurted it out.

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Speaker 3: I was like, I dated him before my O, what.

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Speaker 3: Everybody was just embarrassed for me and was He kind

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Well kind of just let me know that he

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Speaker 1: He was busy studying to be a doctor to say

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Speaker 2: No, Yeah, I think he had other ideas of what

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Speaker 1: Or who probably must don't lie about that stuff.

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Speaker 2: But did he do the thing where he comes crawling

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Speaker 3: I can't say that, But what I can say is,

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Speaker 2: Oh okay, you're totally disappointed that it was David when

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Speaker 1: You can make out, though, but you've gone from like

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Speaker 1: I cannot believe I got set up with this horrible

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Speaker 3: Then calling us to call him again.

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Speaker 4: It isn't funny?

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Speaker 2: What happened that night?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, well, guys, I'm going to shock you with this one.

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Speaker 3: We made out.

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Speaker 3: No? No, No, he fit me home in an uber

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Speaker 2: Wow, you want the uber?

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Speaker 3: Was he like?

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Speaker 2: See she's getting I thought this was your talk.

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Speaker 1: Stop asking to make out with me and go home.

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Speaker 3: I was hoping.

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Speaker 4: Some people grow you know.

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Speaker 1: Have you tried to contact him after that night happened?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? You have?

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Speaker 2: How many times and at what time of day?

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Speaker 3: The whole history has a repeats itself.

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Speaker 4: Apparently I didn't learn my lessons because he's not responding again.

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Speaker 2: Back to this, Why do you think us calling him

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Speaker 3: Bro, I think he'll be honest, Like I learned something

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Speaker 1: Okay, you're still willing to give this guy a chance

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Speaker 1: Don't trust the gen Z on what's toxic and not

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Speaker 1: She just takes it four boys before we started. But

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Speaker 1: you know what, We're gonna try this. We're gonna do

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Speaker 2: I don't think there's a kind of about it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's the return of the Dave because they dated.

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Speaker 1: They dated three years ago when he suddenly ditched her

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Speaker 2: Mean in your ex is at a bar, who isn't

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Speaker 1: and for all what's going on? Brooke, what are your

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Speaker 2: I just think you know already what's going on, but

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Speaker 2: It's why doesn't he want you like that is totally understandable.

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Speaker 3: A member, now unless I ask how about that?

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Speaker 1: Okay? Well, the two times that he told you know.

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Speaker 2: The thing is she wants an answer that he hasn't

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Speaker 1: Right, okay, maybe a radio show calling will help give

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Speaker 1: Yeah, the dating world has really messed you up. All right, Well,

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Speaker 1: the number right now. Hello, Hey, we're looking to talk

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Speaker 2: Hey David, welcome to the show.

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Speaker 1: What is this allowed? Allowed? That's all required. It's part

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Speaker 4: Oh why does she want?

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Speaker 2: Oh so that was like, what does she want? I'm

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Speaker 4: Oh no, yeah, I don't know about that.

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Speaker 2: Oh well, Oh were you excited to see Janelle when

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, I mean, like, I don't like that I

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Speaker 4: I don't mean to do that.

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Speaker 1: Well, he doesn't like that he's doing it again. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean like, look, I know I told her

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Speaker 4: I had grown, but like I don't want to date.

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Speaker 2: Wait, you don't want to date or you don't want.

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Speaker 4: To date her just in general honestly. Oh yeah, I

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Speaker 4: But if you do it with me, I can see

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Speaker 4: It's an unfortunate circumstance. It's like I won't make her

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Speaker 1: I mean, it's because it's mature that you know that,

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Speaker 2: But it's not mature that the.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't care like whatever judgment call you want

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Speaker 2: Yeah, somebody says who they are, you gotta believe them absolutely,

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Speaker 1: Some people just ghost. Well he was doing he was.

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Speaker 4: I mean, I was going to I was going to

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Speaker 1: Honestly, that classic text love that thing. I'm sorry to

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Speaker 4: Hi.

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Speaker 3: How are you.

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Speaker 1: Jane to know you heard what he was saying? Right?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? I mean, but what could be so bad? David

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Speaker 3: I mean, if you wanted to hang out with your

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Speaker 1: Oh God, don't seriously like you don't mean that. Yes,

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Speaker 2: No, this is like I'm a cool girl, walk all

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Speaker 3: I'm trying to be understanding.

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Speaker 2: You don't have to be understanding with someone who will

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Speaker 1: Yes, thank you? Who respects you?

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Speaker 4: I mean you want to be understanding, understand that, like,

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Speaker 4: I don't want this?

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Speaker 3: What exactly don't you want?

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Speaker 1: There? It's crazy.

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Speaker 4: I don't know. You want to be in a serious

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Speaker 4: relationship and I'm looking for a very much more casual thing.

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Speaker 4: I don't think you get it.

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Speaker 3: I have a lot of thoughts, clothes I can put on.

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Speaker 2: Cat that's a good spin. That's a good spin.

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Speaker 4: Okay, Well, I don't know if you like who I am.

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Speaker 4: I really don't.

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Speaker 3: Oh what, You're an awesome person. What is there not

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Speaker 4: I don't want to do that though, I don't want

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Speaker 4: to look. I buy my phenails and I eat them

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Speaker 1: Oh god, what.

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Speaker 2: The flexibility it takes to be able to do that.

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Speaker 3: We'll just work on healthier coping mechanisms. Like that's all huh.

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Speaker 1: Tying to get rid of her.

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Speaker 3: There's so many other things that you can chew on.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I will. I feel like he's politely as possible

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Speaker 2: But I wasn't. To her credit, I don't know. When

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Speaker 2: we talked to her, she didn't say she wanted a

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Speaker 2: big relationship with you. She literally said, I just want

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Speaker 4: Hanging out, Like, yeah, no, I don't.

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Speaker 1: I don't think you.

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Speaker 4: I don't think you get me like I'm super lazy. Okay,

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Speaker 4: like I pee in the backyard instead of going upstairs

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Speaker 1: In the bathroom.

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Speaker 3: Part of my nothing wrong with that.

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Speaker 2: What my gosh, Jane, pick up your self respect, it's

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Speaker 3: I'm not a quitter. I am not a quitter.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Janelle is still into this after the toe biting

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Speaker 1: on another day that we would pay for, and he

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Speaker 1: the answer is yes from Janelle already, so we needed

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Speaker 1: to get an answer from you, David. Would you be

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 1: You know you're great. Seriously, you're great.

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Speaker 4: It's not you with me.

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Speaker 1: I just don't watch that classic. Well, Janell, I'm sorry,

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Speaker 1: but it looks like we're not going to be able

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Speaker 1: to set you up a again with your ex boyfriend.

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Speaker 1: That is the universal that's that's the title of Janelle's

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Speaker 2: Brooking Jeffrey in the morning, Oh man, I have a

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Speaker 1: What rekindling an old relationship worked for j Lo and

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Speaker 1: ben Affleck didn't They look absolutely miserable whenever they're around

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Speaker 2: Literally the only good thing that happened. And that was

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Speaker 1: Just gonna say that they could have had their Matt

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Speaker 2: Wow, what a stickler. He is his own ideal.

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Speaker 1: So you lost me the analogy. So she needs to

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Speaker 1: date Matt Damon.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, we'll go with.

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Speaker 1: That conclusion that the that's a good thing. Reach to

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Speaker 1: reach out to him next, and we can reach out

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