WEBVTT - Episode 132: The Medium Man (Feat. Phresher) 0:00:00.200 --> 0:00:03.120 Let's all right, let's have some fun with this one, 0:00:03.160 --> 0:00:05.160 because you know, this guy is a little crazy and 0:00:05.200 --> 0:00:08.719 he's drinking and he normally doesn't do that. Fresher is 0:00:08.760 --> 0:00:10.960 here with us on live service. Yeah yeah, and I'm 0:00:11.000 --> 0:00:14.159 Angela Yee, I'm Stephanie Santiago, I'm g g McGuire, I'm 0:00:14.200 --> 0:00:16.840 lot real And thank you everybody who's been listening to 0:00:16.840 --> 0:00:19.079 the show and showing us support. We really appreciate it. 0:00:19.440 --> 0:00:20.799 So we are going to go back to something that 0:00:20.840 --> 0:00:22.720 we used to do that we haven't done in a while, right, 0:00:22.880 --> 0:00:25.360 which is a tip of the day. So fashion, you're 0:00:25.360 --> 0:00:27.160 gonna give your advice and we're going to chime in. 0:00:27.520 --> 0:00:30.560 So today's tip of the day. What is considered oversharing 0:00:30.600 --> 0:00:33.120 in a relationship? What is too much when you start 0:00:33.200 --> 0:00:36.600 dating somebody, when you're dating a young lady and she 0:00:36.720 --> 0:00:38.880 tells too much? Of course we share things, but what's 0:00:38.880 --> 0:00:41.400 too much? What don't you want to know? What? I 0:00:41.440 --> 0:00:46.360 don't want to know? Keep it seeing yourself, your friends, 0:00:46.400 --> 0:00:49.920 like your friends relationships. I don't want to know about 0:00:50.320 --> 0:00:52.360 nothing about your friends. What I'm saying, I don't want 0:00:52.400 --> 0:00:55.400 to know about it? Yeah? Nothing like I feel like, yeah, 0:00:55.480 --> 0:00:57.440 you spend too much time talking about your friends. You know, 0:00:57.600 --> 0:00:59.240 just worry about us and what we're doing. You know, 0:00:59.240 --> 0:01:01.600 I don't want to hear who cheating on your friend 0:01:01.640 --> 0:01:03.960 and what your boyfriend? Man? Did? You know what I'm saying, Like, 0:01:04.000 --> 0:01:06.120 I can hear your friend about what you're yet their 0:01:06.200 --> 0:01:07.760 companion did to that. I don't want to hear it. 0:01:08.319 --> 0:01:10.360 Don't want to hear about her girl talk problems. I 0:01:10.360 --> 0:01:13.720 don't hear that. Good that was a good one, especially 0:01:13.720 --> 0:01:18.000 because he probably sucked a girl before. You know that. 0:01:21.360 --> 0:01:27.840 I'm just going to hurt bees. Don't every friend every 0:01:27.840 --> 0:01:30.320 girl got a friend that got problems or friends I 0:01:30.360 --> 0:01:32.360 don't want to hear. I hate it. I hate I 0:01:32.400 --> 0:01:34.440 don't want to hear it. I don't want to hear it. 0:01:34.880 --> 0:01:37.480 Anything with the family, something somebody died or something like that, 0:01:37.680 --> 0:01:42.720 somebody with that, I don't hear that. But I don't 0:01:42.720 --> 0:01:46.080 want to hear the problems that the companion problems. Okay, 0:01:46.120 --> 0:01:48.240 you didn't who who faced it? Tell me who? I 0:01:48.280 --> 0:01:54.440 don't want to hear you graduated, You know what I'm saying. 0:01:54.600 --> 0:01:58.200 But sometimes you guys over shared too, So ladies, what 0:01:58.440 --> 0:02:00.600 is oversharing? Like? What don't we want to know. When 0:02:00.680 --> 0:02:03.520 it comes to our guy that we're dating, I don't 0:02:03.520 --> 0:02:06.480 want to know any of the girls that they've been 0:02:06.520 --> 0:02:08.680 with before. What if you you don't want to know, 0:02:08.720 --> 0:02:11.320 like why his last relationship didn't work, or no, I 0:02:11.840 --> 0:02:15.720 don't mind knowing about it, or like significant relationships, you 0:02:15.760 --> 0:02:20.040 know what I mean. But any insignificant relationship, anybody who 0:02:20.120 --> 0:02:22.520 slept away, I don't. I don't, it's none of my business. 0:02:22.520 --> 0:02:25.240 But if it's somebody you know, I don't want to know. 0:02:25.320 --> 0:02:26.919 If the person I know that it told me, I 0:02:26.960 --> 0:02:30.360 don't want to know. I like that. I'm good because 0:02:30.440 --> 0:02:32.760 you know what, when I find when I'm dating somebody 0:02:32.760 --> 0:02:35.120 and I know who he previously fused with, always got 0:02:35.160 --> 0:02:37.119 my eye out for him. You know what I'm doing 0:02:39.000 --> 0:02:41.360 because I need that. If you sucked somebody that I know, 0:02:41.480 --> 0:02:43.440 I kind of would like you to tell me. And 0:02:43.480 --> 0:02:45.600 if she trashed, then it brings your property value down. 0:02:45.639 --> 0:02:47.640 So now, but still, because then what if you find 0:02:47.639 --> 0:02:49.959 out from someone else you do, and you're somewhere together 0:02:50.040 --> 0:02:53.040 and you're like, no, you don't want to know, because 0:02:53.080 --> 0:02:55.120 then no, I don't think you should because what if 0:02:55.160 --> 0:02:57.200 I find out and you ain't tell me? Right, Like 0:02:57.240 --> 0:02:59.160 if listen, if you were sucking with a check right 0:02:59.320 --> 0:03:01.480 and then you find out that she smashed and do that? 0:03:01.560 --> 0:03:03.200 You know, why didn't you rather know from her than 0:03:03.240 --> 0:03:04.960 someone I don't want to know. I don't. But what 0:03:05.000 --> 0:03:06.440 if you find out and she didn't tell you and 0:03:06.480 --> 0:03:09.280 you're all out together, I didn't ask you know what 0:03:09.280 --> 0:03:11.000 I'm saying, Like you want me to just her to 0:03:11.080 --> 0:03:16.480 just sit down with say listen, because I'm looking at 0:03:16.480 --> 0:03:21.440 you crazy. But what if TV is right there with you. 0:03:21.360 --> 0:03:24.959 You know, my right hand be with him at you 0:03:24.960 --> 0:03:26.600 should put that on the tape. Maybe that's your right hand, 0:03:26.600 --> 0:03:29.519 but your left hand, your hand, anybody you could see 0:03:29.520 --> 0:03:30.639 me with I think you should put it on the 0:03:30.680 --> 0:03:36.040 tapeway whatever. Let me know. But not And if like 0:03:36.080 --> 0:03:39.320 we're in a place together and you know, maybe there's 0:03:39.320 --> 0:03:41.680 something you feel like I should just have that one off. 0:03:42.200 --> 0:03:45.520 You know that others it's none of my business. But 0:03:45.760 --> 0:03:48.160 if it's never gonna affect me, don't let it affect me. 0:03:48.200 --> 0:03:50.200 What if she slept with eminem and then you did 0:03:50.200 --> 0:03:55.760 a song with him with you. That's a legend, so 0:03:55.960 --> 0:04:04.800 you know what sleep but legends go back out there 0:04:04.800 --> 0:04:10.080 and get us some more work. What about you gesi's 0:04:10.120 --> 0:04:13.119 got a new boom. So we got a new bay. Yeah, 0:04:13.480 --> 0:04:18.920 I mean bay. Um. I kind of agree with what 0:04:19.000 --> 0:04:21.560 Stephanie said. I don't want to know about what else 0:04:21.600 --> 0:04:23.320 you got going on. Her head going on. You can 0:04:23.360 --> 0:04:26.320 keep all of that to yourself. Um, you don't one 0:04:26.360 --> 0:04:28.080 another note. I also don't want to know when you 0:04:28.080 --> 0:04:32.279 have flash her into a diarrhea. Okay, but can't he 0:04:32.360 --> 0:04:37.120 be like, oh my stomach, Yeah, the stomach. But I 0:04:37.120 --> 0:04:40.560 don't want you. I don'take moments. Fresh has had crazy 0:04:40.600 --> 0:04:43.040 stomach moments. I mean, we all had a crazy man. 0:04:45.560 --> 0:04:47.840 But but man, it's just I don't want to know. 0:04:48.400 --> 0:04:52.719 I don't want to know that you got Bible problem 0:04:52.560 --> 0:04:58.640 from corner bathroom. It's crazy. There's no toilet paper here. 0:05:00.480 --> 0:05:02.280 It didn't no other paper you asked for. You try 0:05:02.320 --> 0:05:06.479 to figure something out. Man in the shower. Yeah, why, 0:05:06.640 --> 0:05:09.200 I'm never gonna tell you what I what happened. I 0:05:09.360 --> 0:05:11.320 was at the airport and they have tissue in the 0:05:12.480 --> 0:05:14.720 so in the toilet, and then you have tissue in 0:05:14.760 --> 0:05:19.320 that particular store. So I went out the store, got 0:05:19.480 --> 0:05:26.800 the paper hanging. Don't find me, I said, listen right now, 0:05:26.960 --> 0:05:31.640 I can't be ship so I would prefer for someone 0:05:31.720 --> 0:05:35.960 to do that and be like, there's no you gotta 0:05:36.080 --> 0:05:41.360 understand if you dog, I'm sorry, I'm gonna I'm out 0:05:41.360 --> 0:05:45.440 the paper top, just coming out ripping it in the bathroom. 0:05:45.839 --> 0:05:48.479 I've done that in a public restroom, not for shipping, 0:05:48.600 --> 0:05:55.760 but because I don't share. I'm a girl. So yeah, 0:05:55.880 --> 0:05:59.120 I guess I don't know what that is. That's the 0:05:59.240 --> 0:06:01.840 story and I'm sticking to it. But I've had to 0:06:01.920 --> 0:06:04.320 do that. Like I've peeted in a storem like, oh, ship, 0:06:04.440 --> 0:06:08.159 there's no toilet paper, and the next went pants down. 0:06:08.279 --> 0:06:10.480 Even if there's somebody there, well, sorry, there was no 0:06:10.560 --> 0:06:18.239 potition in there. Let woman even get the going. Yeah, exactly. 0:06:18.360 --> 0:06:20.560 That's happened in every weekend. As a matter of fact, 0:06:21.200 --> 0:06:23.360 I was in the Ship Club in l A. Right, 0:06:23.760 --> 0:06:26.280 that's Sam, and I went in the bathroom and there 0:06:26.360 --> 0:06:27.960 was a line, so you know, by the time you 0:06:28.040 --> 0:06:29.640 get there, you're not trying to give up your spot. 0:06:30.320 --> 0:06:32.160 So I was in there, but fortunately the going next 0:06:32.160 --> 0:06:33.960 to me handing me simlar to that. Yeah, but you 0:06:34.040 --> 0:06:37.600 said there was somebody there, Yeah, there was nobody. It 0:06:37.720 --> 0:06:39.520 was nobody. I didn't see no feet. I'm like okay, 0:06:39.520 --> 0:06:42.640 I'm safe. That's that's something else I've done. I've been like, oh, 0:06:42.680 --> 0:06:45.000 I'm excuse me, can you pass me some tissues? That 0:06:45.160 --> 0:06:47.800 never looks like what do you try to unroll my 0:06:47.880 --> 0:06:51.360 ship for me? Like like hold on and passing? Just 0:06:51.400 --> 0:06:58.000 give me, you know, I just came on from under Henna. 0:06:58.839 --> 0:07:01.320 That's the favorite out. Yeah. I think I've been the 0:07:01.400 --> 0:07:03.480 passer of the tissue too. I think women, we just 0:07:03.520 --> 0:07:07.840 have that bomb in the bathroom when little hand comes 0:07:07.880 --> 0:07:10.880 into the day. I didn't we just have that ball 0:07:11.400 --> 0:07:13.280 like a guy. I could see a man in the 0:07:13.360 --> 0:07:16.280 bathroom like, excuse me, my man, could you passing some ship? 0:07:16.800 --> 0:07:23.240 Other guys that column what that is? That means they're 0:07:23.280 --> 0:07:28.160 bird shitting and that's very weird urinal If not so 0:07:28.320 --> 0:07:30.560 you're both in the toilet that y'are both taking the 0:07:30.600 --> 0:07:34.920 ship y'all want to pass if you're asking about if 0:07:34.960 --> 0:07:37.480 you're asking somebody who's not in the next door, they're 0:07:37.520 --> 0:07:39.880 like in the urinal or washing their hands, and you're like, 0:07:41.320 --> 0:07:45.520 it's already weird. Listen, it's already weird when you have 0:07:45.640 --> 0:07:48.840 to do number two in the private but anyway, like 0:07:48.960 --> 0:07:51.240 that's already weird. You're supposed to say that ship, but 0:07:51.360 --> 0:07:56.320 women sometimes you can't even that's nothing for us. Why 0:07:56.360 --> 0:07:58.680 didn't we get to talking about because I don't know 0:07:58.720 --> 0:08:06.160 if you brought it up? Sorry, okay, next, what else 0:08:06.240 --> 0:08:10.440 is t M? I though when you're so. I definitely 0:08:10.600 --> 0:08:14.600 had this situation where I wanted to know about someone 0:08:15.280 --> 0:08:17.960 having sex with someone else. I asked too many questions. 0:08:18.480 --> 0:08:21.640 He started telling what kind of questions, like you know, well, 0:08:22.200 --> 0:08:24.800 how was it with this person? Like I wanted to know. 0:08:25.200 --> 0:08:28.840 Wasn't I wanted to know you're having a three summer something? No? No, 0:08:28.960 --> 0:08:31.520 I just wanted to question. I know, I don't know. 0:08:31.600 --> 0:08:33.719 I wanted to know because he fucking cheated on me, 0:08:33.760 --> 0:08:35.640 and I was like, well, what was it that made 0:08:35.679 --> 0:08:40.280 you do it? Type ship? And basiclya because well I 0:08:40.480 --> 0:08:43.439 made him give too much information. Then I regretted it 0:08:43.559 --> 0:08:45.760 after because then I was like, why the fun did it? Like? 0:08:45.800 --> 0:08:49.040 I don't want to hear this ship? What I didn't? Yeah, like, no, 0:08:49.160 --> 0:08:51.920 it wasn't what I did. What did he tell? You know? 0:08:52.120 --> 0:08:54.400 But he didn't say he said it wasn't about sex, though, 0:08:54.480 --> 0:08:57.599 what was it about? It was about freedom? Like it 0:08:57.720 --> 0:09:00.000 was about the fact that the only thing better than good. 0:09:00.000 --> 0:09:02.800 The pussy is new pussy, a bunch of pussy, you 0:09:02.880 --> 0:09:05.280 know what I mean. Yeah, he liked that. He liked 0:09:05.360 --> 0:09:09.680 to fun with a bunch of just when um, when 0:09:10.040 --> 0:09:12.240 I had an issue with a guy we had broke 0:09:12.360 --> 0:09:14.680 up and he um he fosked with somebody I knew. 0:09:14.720 --> 0:09:18.040 And I was really young at the time, and I'd like, 0:09:18.240 --> 0:09:21.880 you are asked for too much information? And I was. 0:09:22.080 --> 0:09:24.120 I would always ask superd questions and he would like 0:09:24.320 --> 0:09:26.439 brush them off like any man, like what like what 0:09:26.679 --> 0:09:30.679 is this question? So finally he was like he was like, 0:09:30.760 --> 0:09:34.680 the pussy was high, but but the head was good ship, 0:09:35.040 --> 0:09:37.240 And that was the worst thing I could have a 0:09:38.840 --> 0:09:42.880 better than You're gonna say, not better than me. It 0:09:43.040 --> 0:09:45.640 was just hell, that's the worst thing, you know, I 0:09:45.960 --> 0:09:48.360 could never I mean, but this Nike was smart. He 0:09:48.520 --> 0:09:50.840 played the bitch. He didn't say nothing good. But still 0:09:50.960 --> 0:09:52.640 that wasn't the point. It was just the fact that 0:09:52.720 --> 0:09:56.000 he really told me like he told me like ship, 0:09:56.360 --> 0:09:58.360 and I was just like, damn, why did I ask that? 0:09:58.600 --> 0:10:01.040 Like it made me felt crazy? But it was too 0:10:01.120 --> 0:10:05.080 much information. He should have just kept spinning me. That's 0:10:05.120 --> 0:10:07.800 what I was like, Okay, you want to know. All right, Well, 0:10:09.640 --> 0:10:12.280 he was like her pussy. She could square her pussy trash. 0:10:12.600 --> 0:10:18.320 Oh he told me that much. He was like her 0:10:18.360 --> 0:10:24.120 pussy trash because in trash don't really like mix no, 0:10:24.280 --> 0:10:26.720 because I guess after she was squirted, like he couldn't 0:10:26.760 --> 0:10:29.439 suck no more like that, she'll be done. So he 0:10:29.559 --> 0:10:31.959 basically a lot of information. That's what I'm telling you. 0:10:32.600 --> 0:10:34.440 You didn't get a lot of got a lot out 0:10:34.480 --> 0:10:39.760 of him, and it made me feel weird after, like, yeah, 0:10:39.800 --> 0:10:42.079 I could relate. That was that's awful. Yeah, it was 0:10:42.160 --> 0:10:44.360 too much. He said that a little bit to me. 0:10:44.480 --> 0:10:47.000 I couldn't even imagine that. Oh my god. I was like, 0:10:47.200 --> 0:10:49.679 because I took that ship to the fucking roof, like 0:10:49.720 --> 0:10:52.760 I'm not talking your dick for three years. See I 0:10:52.920 --> 0:10:56.760 was lying. I was lying. But that's that's the next 0:10:56.760 --> 0:11:01.280 thing I was feeling, like, just as good men loved throat. 0:11:01.640 --> 0:11:03.400 Now let me ask you, let me ask you this. 0:11:03.880 --> 0:11:06.959 Watching The Shy of course, all right, so you know 0:11:07.120 --> 0:11:10.880 in this last episode, right, he admitted to she, well, 0:11:10.920 --> 0:11:13.679 now they had broken up for a second, right, and 0:11:13.760 --> 0:11:16.160 he said that he messed around with the boss and 0:11:16.240 --> 0:11:18.200 then she said, okay, cool, asked up with somebody else. 0:11:18.320 --> 0:11:21.079 She came to the picnic, would do and that's what 0:11:21.240 --> 0:11:24.439 I said. He handed her plate like I call them Jeremy, 0:11:24.840 --> 0:11:27.080 Why is he bringing you a But they were not together, 0:11:28.040 --> 0:11:32.000 and they weren't together. That's why she said it was cool. Yeah, 0:11:32.559 --> 0:11:35.360 but would you confess that, like if you if you 0:11:35.440 --> 0:11:41.080 were him in that situation, because she would not know. Okay, 0:11:42.440 --> 0:11:46.880 hurt you. You got to make the other person listen, 0:11:47.000 --> 0:11:49.679 why do Why should I bring more problems and all that? 0:11:49.800 --> 0:11:51.920 We had problems already. We broke up for a reason. Right, 0:11:52.240 --> 0:11:54.760 when we get back together, we're not talking about nothing 0:11:54.800 --> 0:11:57.079 in that interval. Nothing. We don't need to go there 0:11:57.160 --> 0:11:59.079 because I'm gonna leave it alone. Look, he's willen. He 0:11:59.200 --> 0:12:01.960 wants hurt. I'm saying, so we're done. I'm done with Shorty. 0:12:02.000 --> 0:12:04.200 He wants to know who he wants the real estate girl? Right, 0:12:05.000 --> 0:12:07.679 what are we talking abou? She's wack? For um? You 0:12:07.760 --> 0:12:09.520 know for people who don't watch The Shy Do you 0:12:09.640 --> 0:12:12.560 think that if you were him? Because we watched that show, right, 0:12:12.920 --> 0:12:14.600 and we kind of think his girlfriend is wack because 0:12:14.640 --> 0:12:17.439 I don't like I don't really like her. She was 0:12:17.520 --> 0:12:22.520 like telling him Yeah, the boss turned me on period. 0:12:22.600 --> 0:12:25.080 You feld me? So I would really, he just said 0:12:25.120 --> 0:12:31.160 the boss turned period you like, even though she has 0:12:31.160 --> 0:12:34.439 snitched out too, she does a snitch sh it, so 0:12:34.520 --> 0:12:36.840 you would have a snitch on him. Yeah, she did. 0:12:36.960 --> 0:12:38.640 She told, She told that she knew that the other 0:12:38.720 --> 0:12:44.400 ni people to understand though she was trying to protect 0:12:44.480 --> 0:12:46.000 him in his job. You to see what he tried 0:12:46.000 --> 0:12:48.480 to leash like, no, because it wasn't him, It wasn't 0:12:48.559 --> 0:12:51.240 hit him, though she should have kept to herself, should 0:12:51.240 --> 0:12:54.120 have held it down. You're totally right, but more attractive 0:12:54.760 --> 0:13:00.280 hold it down. Have you ever confessed the chating? Yes? Side, 0:13:00.360 --> 0:13:01.800 Why did you have to do that? It was just 0:13:02.120 --> 0:13:04.760 it was over there. It was just too much, you understand. 0:13:04.760 --> 0:13:08.120 It wasn't like something where it wasn't where like you know, 0:13:08.200 --> 0:13:10.079 when you want a woman keep beating here, I know 0:13:10.200 --> 0:13:12.400 you know, maybe you know what, Let me just get 0:13:12.520 --> 0:13:14.439 this one out and I'll just be let her be 0:13:14.520 --> 0:13:16.640 mad for a week and then we back on and 0:13:16.720 --> 0:13:20.199 we'll be able to you know, move past. Because one spot. 0:13:20.280 --> 0:13:21.960 What was the evidence that she had that you had 0:13:22.040 --> 0:13:24.240 to tell? Because you know, some guys you gotta have 0:13:24.320 --> 0:13:26.640 like pictures video for this, Oh my god, you gotta 0:13:26.679 --> 0:13:31.199 have you got nothing, but now these things. There's this 0:13:32.120 --> 0:13:35.520 record she just a long time ago. It wasn't on 0:13:35.600 --> 0:13:37.480 screen recording or like it was just like you know, 0:13:37.679 --> 0:13:39.800 drink teenager years, just running around, you know what I'm saying, 0:13:39.840 --> 0:13:41.839 Like I don't you know my lady, you know what, mother, 0:13:41.920 --> 0:13:43.199 my two kids, you know what I'm saying. So like 0:13:43.480 --> 0:13:45.640 this is long term for real, you know me. So 0:13:46.000 --> 0:13:47.959 it's a whole different vibe, you know. So it was 0:13:48.040 --> 0:13:50.880 like young, you know, we twenty, she like getting nineteen. 0:13:50.960 --> 0:13:53.200 She's like, oh you know, and you were wilding at 0:13:53.240 --> 0:13:54.640 that time, you know. And I just had to just 0:13:54.760 --> 0:13:55.959 like get you know what in order for us to 0:13:56.000 --> 0:13:58.480 get past this point. I just gotta let no listen, 0:13:58.840 --> 0:14:01.640 Yeah she got this work, but listen, let's let's go 0:14:01.800 --> 0:14:05.040 past it. And and and you know, it definitely helped. 0:14:05.080 --> 0:14:07.319 You know, I have a question if she would have 0:14:07.360 --> 0:14:09.920 said the same thing to you, Yeah, I busted, but 0:14:10.000 --> 0:14:11.959 let's just move past it. Would you be able to 0:14:12.040 --> 0:14:14.360 just move past the man? Would you be able to? 0:14:14.600 --> 0:14:18.920 Because women, let me tell you something about y'all have 0:14:19.040 --> 0:14:23.640 this thing called the violence, Like like that's like precious gold. 0:14:23.800 --> 0:14:27.000 Like we feel the same way about the dick. Your 0:14:27.040 --> 0:14:30.840 dick like pressure, the same way about the PENI how 0:14:31.000 --> 0:14:34.920 dare he big entering you? You get what I'm saying, Like, 0:14:35.080 --> 0:14:39.080 how dare you put your bill? Agree? I feel like 0:14:39.200 --> 0:14:42.320 it's different because the man answers the woman. I feel 0:14:42.360 --> 0:14:46.960 the same like you know, not just this credit women women, 0:14:47.040 --> 0:14:50.480 yall can have babies like that thing is different like you, 0:14:51.400 --> 0:14:54.360 we can't have it without the dick, and dick is 0:14:54.440 --> 0:15:01.680 worthless from what he's saying that they girl, So it 0:15:01.760 --> 0:15:04.160 ain't no baby without the balls and it No, I 0:15:04.320 --> 0:15:07.800 get it. You mean to place some value and no, 0:15:07.920 --> 0:15:13.040 you're worth I mean this is one tiuple standard that 0:15:13.120 --> 0:15:16.440 I agree with. Like I feel like I feel like 0:15:16.560 --> 0:15:18.840 it's I feel like a man cheating, even though I 0:15:18.880 --> 0:15:22.160 don't think it's okay, and I will never I would 0:15:22.200 --> 0:15:24.680 prefer for it not to happen. I think it's more 0:15:24.720 --> 0:15:27.600 forgivable than a woman cheating. Hell no, I don't think 0:15:28.360 --> 0:15:30.920 it's not who you are as a person, Like if 0:15:30.960 --> 0:15:33.800 my boyfriend she had me. Jordan's simple. I don't think 0:15:33.800 --> 0:15:35.880 I could ever forget it. I'll be thinking about it 0:15:35.960 --> 0:15:38.280 all the time. They gets open their legs and that's fine. 0:15:38.400 --> 0:15:42.600 How do I agree with that? But I just I wonder, well, 0:15:45.800 --> 0:15:50.760 I understand you don't know what I'm your legs over 0:15:50.960 --> 0:15:58.520 right now? Yeah, it's nothing valuable there anyway, you always 0:15:58.600 --> 0:16:03.840 doing over you know, I'm just saying women like it's 0:16:03.880 --> 0:16:06.120 a level like you know, man, I know we're here 0:16:06.640 --> 0:16:08.880 put women, I put you up here. Man, you know 0:16:08.920 --> 0:16:10.600 what I'm saying, And I just want you to value 0:16:10.640 --> 0:16:13.240 that thing a little bit more than the male does. 0:16:13.680 --> 0:16:18.320 Please And actually because we don't value our puppies. I 0:16:18.440 --> 0:16:21.920 mean that's kind of yes. I feel like, yes, I 0:16:22.040 --> 0:16:24.840 feel like, you know, when you're like slaying your pussy out, 0:16:24.960 --> 0:16:27.120 you really don't valueate, you know what I mean? You 0:16:27.200 --> 0:16:31.560 want to some value to the world. But maybe I 0:16:31.640 --> 0:16:34.080 don't know. I just feel like with women, even though 0:16:34.160 --> 0:16:37.400 you know I'm not an innocent angel, I'm just saying like, 0:16:37.520 --> 0:16:40.240 I just feel like our body parts are different from 0:16:40.320 --> 0:16:45.080 the man's and it's just it's just not the same word. 0:16:52.000 --> 0:16:54.240 But I am like, you know, you gotta take care 0:16:54.800 --> 0:16:58.080 the service and you got overread. You gotta to take 0:16:58.160 --> 0:17:05.600 care of her, get fun nothing. If I gotta pick one, 0:17:07.240 --> 0:17:13.040 kill you the most, you the head. You let me 0:17:13.080 --> 0:17:16.440 tell you why you put your tell you why you're 0:17:16.760 --> 0:17:21.400 in your mouth. Let me tell you to me no carefully, 0:17:21.800 --> 0:17:24.560 when you start giving head mass like like like when 0:17:24.600 --> 0:17:27.320 you start giving all like you're giving head like you 0:17:27.560 --> 0:17:35.600 you're going in. You really like this person, heady anybody 0:17:35.640 --> 0:17:38.080 ship one you might damn I like to have a 0:17:38.119 --> 0:17:41.560 good night, But you're not just gonna blow you feel me. 0:17:41.760 --> 0:17:44.119 That's not gonna happen like that. You gotta really have that. 0:17:44.640 --> 0:17:46.320 And the thing is a woman, you can have some 0:17:46.960 --> 0:17:49.080 a nine out of ten times, unless she's a prostitute. 0:17:49.119 --> 0:17:51.520 She's gonna put a raw dick in her mouth, you know, 0:17:51.640 --> 0:17:54.920 even if she used a condom having sacked you know 0:17:55.000 --> 0:17:58.960 what I mean. You're always unless you're a process, always 0:17:59.160 --> 0:18:02.040 got put a raw in your mond. Jerks off on 0:18:02.119 --> 0:18:05.840 your face, on the face, but a lot of faith 0:18:07.320 --> 0:18:13.159 because the jerk off, because there was no entering honestly, 0:18:13.359 --> 0:18:15.120 So if he jerk off on my left ass cheek 0:18:15.200 --> 0:18:20.639 is cool, No nothing, nothing, everything that's gonna hurt me. 0:18:20.680 --> 0:18:24.159 But I appreciate I appreciate him not going in. I 0:18:24.200 --> 0:18:26.720 appreciate you not letting him in. It's all about entering 0:18:27.880 --> 0:18:30.640 special being that you know, for the past few years, 0:18:30.640 --> 0:18:32.960 you've blown up a lot more. How does that affect 0:18:32.960 --> 0:18:35.280 your relationship? Man? You guys have been together for so 0:18:35.440 --> 0:18:37.520 long and it's been it's it's hell, you know what saying. 0:18:37.520 --> 0:18:39.600 But it's all me, you know, the balance, you know 0:18:39.640 --> 0:18:41.560 what I'm like, I said, I had to learn balance 0:18:41.560 --> 0:18:44.040 between you know, music and life, you know, and and 0:18:44.720 --> 0:18:47.520 I had to realize that things that I do in 0:18:47.560 --> 0:18:49.920 the public can affect my private home, you know. So 0:18:50.240 --> 0:18:52.640 it's just me. I had to learn just develop that balance. 0:18:52.680 --> 0:18:54.960 You know. Um, she's starting to get more comfortable with 0:18:55.040 --> 0:18:57.040 me just running around and doing what I do, you know, 0:18:57.119 --> 0:18:59.440 But that's me giving her that reassurance coming home and 0:18:59.760 --> 0:19:02.280 you of giving her the time, you know, like she 0:19:02.359 --> 0:19:03.800 only want time, you know what I'm saying, Like, that's 0:19:03.800 --> 0:19:05.720 what she care about, time and the kids, you feel me, So, 0:19:06.160 --> 0:19:07.879 you know, more of that. The more I do, the 0:19:07.960 --> 0:19:10.479 more reassurance she had. You know. You bring her places 0:19:10.560 --> 0:19:14.880 like to eventing like you know, are not a lot, 0:19:15.040 --> 0:19:17.080 but you know, for the most part, you know, just 0:19:17.240 --> 0:19:19.200 me being up here saying it, you know what I'm saying, 0:19:19.240 --> 0:19:21.920 like makes her feel comfortable. Damn you you're claiming it, 0:19:22.040 --> 0:19:24.719 you know. And and that makes it because that's her 0:19:24.760 --> 0:19:26.600 because when she first was with you, it wasn't like 0:19:26.640 --> 0:19:28.639 you were getting the attention that you get now. But 0:19:28.720 --> 0:19:31.640 then there's been like a shift exactly. And while she's 0:19:31.640 --> 0:19:33.639 probably excited for you, it also feels like it's he's 0:19:33.640 --> 0:19:35.960 slipping away from me, and I gotta make you put 0:19:36.000 --> 0:19:38.479 my foot down, definitely. But I told her the same thing, 0:19:38.560 --> 0:19:41.359 you know, I told her, Listen, you have to let 0:19:41.480 --> 0:19:43.399 me do what I do. You understand, because this is 0:19:43.480 --> 0:19:45.520 my life. That's how we feed the family, you under saying, 0:19:45.560 --> 0:19:46.960 So that is how I feed my family. Let me 0:19:47.000 --> 0:19:49.159 do what I do. When I come back home, we 0:19:49.359 --> 0:19:51.199 we deal with it all together, you know's I need 0:19:51.280 --> 0:19:52.639 you to be strong too. I need you to make 0:19:52.640 --> 0:19:54.560 sure these kids up going to school and ready to 0:19:54.600 --> 0:19:57.040 go and things like that, you know, and and and 0:19:57.160 --> 0:19:58.880 right now we're starting to get it, you know. She said, 0:20:00.000 --> 0:20:02.200 Of people out there that are newly on this road 0:20:02.320 --> 0:20:04.280 to fame, what are some of the things that you've 0:20:04.359 --> 0:20:06.520 learned that you're like, Okay, I never thought about this, 0:20:06.600 --> 0:20:09.000 but I had to adjust this man. Balance. Man. I 0:20:09.080 --> 0:20:11.360 want to say, uh, when you know, when you knew, 0:20:11.480 --> 0:20:13.200 when you new to it, you try to be everywhere 0:20:13.280 --> 0:20:14.560 because you want to, you know, you want you to 0:20:14.600 --> 0:20:17.200 want to be everywhere, every club, every night, and as 0:20:17.320 --> 0:20:19.200 time go past, you just realized that you don't have 0:20:19.280 --> 0:20:20.600 to be in every club, you don't have to be 0:20:20.680 --> 0:20:23.280 in every every store and every time somebody cool you 0:20:23.359 --> 0:20:24.879 have to go. That's the thing I had to learn 0:20:24.960 --> 0:20:27.520 twenty seventeen, That's what I learned. I'm not first. It's 0:20:27.560 --> 0:20:29.960 not gonna be everywhere, you understand. And it's a balance. 0:20:30.040 --> 0:20:32.040 You have to balance the life. You know, and um, 0:20:32.160 --> 0:20:34.320 you know we took you took more trips with the 0:20:34.400 --> 0:20:36.359 family last year. You understan need to be gonna do 0:20:36.440 --> 0:20:38.639 more this year. It's just it's a balanced thing. But 0:20:38.680 --> 0:20:40.639 it's it's it's hard because when you first get on 0:20:40.640 --> 0:20:43.080 what you're saying, you you you've been fighting your whole 0:20:43.200 --> 0:20:45.320 life to get this moment, and when it's here, you're 0:20:45.400 --> 0:20:48.000 you're stuck in it. It's new and and I don't 0:20:48.040 --> 0:20:50.000 care what you say that you cannot prepare for it 0:20:50.080 --> 0:20:51.879 because you're not ready for it, you know, as much 0:20:51.920 --> 0:20:55.600 as you try, But learn that balance. Balance, man, trust me, man, 0:20:55.720 --> 0:20:57.399 you you never turned on a person I was deal 0:20:57.480 --> 0:20:59.920 with you before anything. You know, money, no not in fact, 0:21:00.400 --> 0:21:02.240 what about you go ahead, no, no, no, I was 0:21:02.280 --> 0:21:05.080 just gonna say, like when you said, like what relationships 0:21:05.119 --> 0:21:08.160