Speaker 1: Welcome to Carefully Reckless, the production of our Heart Radio
Speaker 1: and the Black Effect aspected, Nice little aspect aspect, Nice
Speaker 1: oh Ship were back on the air. Thank you for
Speaker 1: letting me take a week off, guys. I was sick
Speaker 1: with the goddamn flew last week. But I'm here now
Speaker 1: and I got a special guest with me. So the
Speaker 1: last time I had this girl on with me, which
Speaker 1: is my sister, I'm just gonna take out who it is.
Speaker 1: We did a topic about cosmetic surgery and also having
Speaker 1: the disorder body morphia disorder exactly. We also talked about that,
Speaker 1: and she was telling us about me aesthetics, Uh, refresh
Speaker 1: them again, So me Aesthetics, they cancel my surgery due
Speaker 1: to c v A, which uh can be I guess
Speaker 1: classified as a stroke or as not really clear to fire,
Speaker 1: but in the same family as a stroke. And they
Speaker 1: were telling me that I could not get my money back.
Speaker 1: But because of that podcast, like just said, I don't
Speaker 1: know if you'll remember, you know, verbatim, she literally said,
Speaker 1: my podcast reaches many people, and it reached this one
Speaker 1: special young lady that did not know me from a
Speaker 1: can of paint. This girl reached out to me and
Speaker 1: my d M and told me, says, I can help
Speaker 1: you get your money back. She used to work for
Speaker 1: a bank. She she sat on the phone with me
Speaker 1: estatics and went back and forth with them for like
Speaker 1: forty five minutes and fought to get my money back.
Speaker 1: And that just goes to show that they are really
Speaker 1: genuine people out here, and that just because someone that
Speaker 1: was or not was, but just because someone is a
Speaker 1: fan of you, they reached out to help me and
Speaker 1: care about my family too. I offered to give this
Speaker 1: lady some money when I get my money back, and
Speaker 1: she was just like, I don't. I don't want that,
Speaker 1: Like I know, I'm gonna get my blessings back right right.
Speaker 1: And this is and she's a kind hearted pair of person.
Speaker 1: You can tell that because, like you said, she didn't
Speaker 1: even have to do that. She didn't have to do
Speaker 1: that on on and then she didn't on her day off.
Speaker 1: She did not have to take time out of her
Speaker 1: on her day a well, Black people don't like to
Speaker 1: be buffing on their day off, and she she did
Speaker 1: that for me on the strength of you. So thank you.
Speaker 1: It's just with the mess for letting me touch on that,
Speaker 1: because that's too much money to just be throwing away
Speaker 1: like I got like that. Yeah, so you know, black
Speaker 1: people round up. I don't ca if it was. It's
Speaker 1: ten dollars right pretty much. But they so they did
Speaker 1: take a percentage. They took ten percent out of that.
Speaker 1: So I'm getting all but like nine back, which I'm
Speaker 1: just happy to be even getting eight thousands and change back. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you know, it was all yours, and it's all old
Speaker 1: to you because they did perform your surgery, and it's
Speaker 1: their fault that they didn't, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: So they they pretty much breached their own contract, they
Speaker 1: fucked up their own policies or whatever. So that was
Speaker 1: a victory. That was a victory for carefully Reckless. That
Speaker 1: was a victory for my sister, and not only for
Speaker 1: my sister and carefully Reckless, that was a victory for
Speaker 1: me because, like she said, that just goes to show
Speaker 1: how many people actually tune in and how many people
Speaker 1: are actual avid listeners of Carefully Reckless. And so I
Speaker 1: appreciate y'all, like, oh my god, I love y'all so much,
Speaker 1: and thank you for bearing with me while I keep
Speaker 1: on taking these low breaks y'all. Either I'm busy or
Speaker 1: I'm sick. Just know I ain't taking off for no reason.
Speaker 1: Now speaking of black was that lady black who did it? Yeah?
Speaker 1: She was black? Okay, she she was a black young lady.
Speaker 1: I mean, like when I say nice, just she was
Speaker 1: really down to earth girl. You know who you are.
Speaker 1: Thank you so much, Thank you so much. No, I
Speaker 1: do love that. So, like I was saying, speaking of
Speaker 1: black the topic is black businesses. Listen. So I was,
Speaker 1: now listen, we know I have a lot out of
Speaker 1: controversies that I battled over the years or whatever. And
Speaker 1: I was actually canceled before by my own people, by
Speaker 1: the blacks, the only people to have a canceled any
Speaker 1: fucking body anyway. And um, yes, I was canceled by
Speaker 1: the motherucker's because I had said, um, indirectly direct to them,
Speaker 1: I don't support black businesses. I don't support the black dollar.
Speaker 1: I definitely did say that. I mean, I had celebrities
Speaker 1: in an uproar. I had my own family members, a
Speaker 1: couple of my friends, a couple of my friends who
Speaker 1: are black business owners. You know what I'm saying, both
Speaker 1: small and big business owners. They were quite offended by that.
Speaker 1: Like t I called me and talked to me for
Speaker 1: over an hour. The hell yeah, girl, I'm talking about
Speaker 1: I had to grab a fucking thesaurus and a dictionary.
Speaker 1: I'm like, God damn. But no, you know, I totally
Speaker 1: understood what he was saying, but I think I didn't elaborate.
Speaker 1: I didn't elaborate, And so you know, I'm gonna take
Speaker 1: the time today. We're gonna we're gonna talk about that
Speaker 1: ship because it needs to be talked about. Black businesses
Speaker 1: are very important. Our businesses are just as important as
Speaker 1: these European businesses, these Asian businesses, these Caucasian businesses, these Russians.
Speaker 1: Wherever we spend our money and we make it that way,
Speaker 1: and it's up to us to keep it that way.
Speaker 1: I don't take it back fully as a statement because
Speaker 1: I still don't support all black businesses, because there are
Speaker 1: truly some some alterations that need to be done. There
Speaker 1: is some professionalism that needs to be added to the standards.
Speaker 1: There are some fucking standards that need to be added
Speaker 1: to businesses. There are some rules and regulations that needs
Speaker 1: to be put in place. There are dudes and don'ts,
Speaker 1: There are you know, things that we need to step back.
Speaker 1: We need to self evaluate our businesses and be like, yo,
Speaker 1: if I take myself outside of myself having a business,
Speaker 1: if I was to become a customer, what I buy
Speaker 1: this ship, what I take this ship off of me
Speaker 1: as a business owner? What I step in this store.
Speaker 1: I'm talking about even something as small as business hours.
Speaker 1: Like if if I walk up to your business and
Speaker 1: it says open, but your door is closed and is
Speaker 1: locked because you ran out. You're the only one working
Speaker 1: that day and you ran out of something or you
Speaker 1: just didn't get up and feel like come to work today.
Speaker 1: You know that's that's horrible. That's horrible as a business.
Speaker 1: That don't only look bad on you, that reflects on
Speaker 1: the business. But you know what, um, just to touch
Speaker 1: on that real quick. I went to Giants the market
Speaker 1: Food and pharmacy, Giant Food and Pharmacy, and the manager
Speaker 1: of the store is black, and they closed the store.
Speaker 1: It was like ten forty five The store wasn't due
Speaker 1: to close until eleven PM. But I went there. I
Speaker 1: pulled up on the parking lot, walked up to the door,
Speaker 1: pull on the door. The door is lost locked at
Speaker 1: ten forty five pm. The hours are eleven PM. Is
Speaker 1: what it's supposed to close. So not only is it
Speaker 1: just black businesses, it's also businesses ran by people. Yeah,
Speaker 1: black operated businesses. Yeah, that that's that's definitely true. Um
Speaker 1: even the self employed uh service you know, like hairstylists
Speaker 1: and you know, nail text and lash texts and all
Speaker 1: of that stuff. You know, a lot of them start
Speaker 1: off great, very professional. Oh my god, I don't I
Speaker 1: don't know if it's whether they're star struck or not,
Speaker 1: like you know, but they start off amazing great, and
Speaker 1: then I guess with my personality and you know, I'm
Speaker 1: very inviting, I'm very uh down the earth or you
Speaker 1: know what have you? And I and I actually talked.
Speaker 1: I love I love to talk. I love to get
Speaker 1: to know people. People get comfortable over time, and then
Speaker 1: they start doing what they want to do and ship
Speaker 1: like that, you know, they start being late and ship. Girl,
Speaker 1: I asked somebody do my fucking lashes one time, and
Speaker 1: she was so cool. Not the girl I go to now,
Speaker 1: but somebody did my lashes one time. She was doing
Speaker 1: them consecutively for over like maybe like two months, you know,
Speaker 1: and this would made me stop going to or I
Speaker 1: had an appointment earlier in the morning, like seven forty
Speaker 1: five or something like that. She was always she had
Speaker 1: already started being late. This bitch asked me, can you
Speaker 1: come pick me up? She was dropping her car off
Speaker 1: somewhere or whatever. She was like, do you mind come
Speaker 1: picking me up? Jass? Like, first of all, bitch, I
Speaker 1: need for you to still act like we ain't friends.
Speaker 1: We're not friends, that's what we're not. But I just
Speaker 1: need for you to seriously act like I'm still a
Speaker 1: stranger or I'm sorry, I'm a fucking client. Yeah, pretty much.
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't care how many times that we
Speaker 1: have talked about personal business or you have. You know,
Speaker 1: I've given you advice or you've given me advice, or
Speaker 1: we have gotten deep in our talks while you're sitting
Speaker 1: there doing my god them lasses and I'm laying there
Speaker 1: with my eyes closed all that time. It don't matter
Speaker 1: how much we've bonded, my nigga, do not ask me
Speaker 1: to come get you. I feel like when you are
Speaker 1: receiving a service, whether it's from a friend or a
Speaker 1: family member, at that moment, that is your client. They're
Speaker 1: not your friend, they're not your family member. They are
Speaker 1: your client. This is this is your business. They are
Speaker 1: your clients, and they need to treat it as such.
Speaker 1: With it and like even with the hairstyles, like these days,
Speaker 1: it's so many fucking rules. And I'm telling you it's
Speaker 1: I don't know. Y'all can tell me if I'm wrong.
Speaker 1: I'm not trying to be prejudiced against my own people,
Speaker 1: but I feel like it is only or solely the
Speaker 1: black people. It is only black people that will be like, yo,
Speaker 1: you gotta come with your hair wash. Yeah, And I've
Speaker 1: I've heard that countless times. I've actually, on a personal note,
Speaker 1: I've actually experienced a young lady. I wanted the book
Speaker 1: and get my head done, and I saw on her
Speaker 1: on her page, on her website, whatever it was, I
Speaker 1: saw that it says you must come with your hair washed.
Speaker 1: Now I've reached out to her. Hey, you know, I
Speaker 1: see that you said I have to come with my
Speaker 1: hair wash. Now, is there any way that I could
Speaker 1: pay an additional fee where you can shampoo my hair?
Speaker 1: And what it say on the website, what it say
Speaker 1: on the website, you know, what's this? Never mine? Because
Speaker 1: I don't even I don't EVENANNT come to get my head.
Speaker 1: She said that to you? Yeah, on the website. Yeah, like,
Speaker 1: did you read the website? I just I just mentioned
Speaker 1: that in the beginning that I see that it says
Speaker 1: on here blah blah blah blah blah, asking but is
Speaker 1: there any way I can pay anything additional? I'm not
Speaker 1: trying to get, like just an option for me to
Speaker 1: get for you to wash my hair. But some people
Speaker 1: have that option. Idn't know if it was an option.
Speaker 1: That's why I asked the clothes mouth don't get fed.
Speaker 1: But because of how she came off at me, like bitch,
Speaker 1: I don't even want to come and get my hair
Speaker 1: done no more at this point because I'm end up.
Speaker 1: Let me shoot out you for that add to like definitely,
Speaker 1: like a lot of black black businesses have problems with
Speaker 1: like you were saying, hospitality, they don't have it. Now
Speaker 1: we're gonna take a brief break. You can go grab
Speaker 1: you something to eat, something to drink, something like that,
Speaker 1: and then it's always so much tension and so much hostility,
Speaker 1: like you didn't want to get up and come to
Speaker 1: work today, But this is your motherfucking business. You work here,
Speaker 1: even if it ain't your business, you work you you
Speaker 1: even in any event where you couldn't get another job,
Speaker 1: but this one, this is the only job you could get.
Speaker 1: It should be thankful because you still have a job.
Speaker 1: There are people with no fucking job. Act like you
Speaker 1: like what you do. You know what I mean? You
Speaker 1: could be so much further in life, and then you
Speaker 1: don't know how you would make a person's day, you know,
Speaker 1: just being nice, you know what I'm saying. So like
Speaker 1: customer service, that ship matters. That was another reason why
Speaker 1: I said I didn't want to support black businesses. But
Speaker 1: I need to you understand, I'm gonna keep saying it.
Speaker 1: Understand I solely meant certain black businesses. I don't want
Speaker 1: to support all black businesses because all black businesses, in
Speaker 1: my opinion, are not worthy of my money. Now y'all
Speaker 1: can say the same ship about me. I have doctor Who.
Speaker 1: That's a fitness apparel line that I have as a
Speaker 1: wage trainers, UH, workout gear, all types of ship like that. Now,
Speaker 1: if you've ever received any any you know, bad service
Speaker 1: from me or whatever, I will want to be the
Speaker 1: first to know we could fix it. I'll get it together.
Speaker 1: I've never given anybody bad customer service, me or anybody
Speaker 1: from my team. You know what I mean, but I
Speaker 1: would definitely be open to any criticism. That's another thing
Speaker 1: black They do not like it. They feel like you're
Speaker 1: just trying to put them down. You can come to
Speaker 1: them in the nicest way possible, like hey, you know,
Speaker 1: you know, and you could be a business owner, just
Speaker 1: like from one business owner to another, like, hey, you know,
Speaker 1: I'm a business owner to like, I don't want you
Speaker 1: to think I'm trying to knock you, but try to like, well,
Speaker 1: I run my ship, how round my ship? And you
Speaker 1: run your ship? How you run your ship? Like whoa?
Speaker 1: Like hold up, Like I'm just trying to I'm just
Speaker 1: trying to give you a little insight, like you know,
Speaker 1: and I feel like some people are just way better
Speaker 1: business savvy than other people. Like everybody don't got it.
Speaker 1: Everybody don't got it. Like some people are better off
Speaker 1: like in the in in the background, like maybe doing
Speaker 1: paperwork or something like that, not physically dealing with people,
Speaker 1: and you know, like okay, So like for instance, when
Speaker 1: I first started this ship, I wasn't good because I
Speaker 1: wasn't this patient with people. I really didn't like dealing with,
Speaker 1: you know, being approached about whether something went wrong or not.
Speaker 1: So not even with doctor who I'm talking about. Like
Speaker 1: when I first started that, I didn't never want to
Speaker 1: talk to anybody about business. So I put my cousin
Speaker 1: in place to run my business because she's always been
Speaker 1: business savvy. My cousin London, she's my assistant as well.
Speaker 1: She runs a lot of my business is for me,
Speaker 1: and that's who I put in place. Until I became
Speaker 1: business savvy enough to, you know, work as an active CEO,
Speaker 1: I was behind the scenes. I'm like, look, I'll pay you.
Speaker 1: I put you in place to do this ship right
Speaker 1: here because I don't want to deal with nobody telling
Speaker 1: me that down. Like this ship now, like that ship now,
Speaker 1: because I'm a want slapp ship like that. But when
Speaker 1: you grow out of that type of ship and you
Speaker 1: really like you it's not for everybody. Being running a
Speaker 1: business is not for everybody. You have to have a
Speaker 1: great amount of patients. You have to have a perseverance.
Speaker 1: You have to have endurance because you will endure a
Speaker 1: whole lot. You would endure broke times, you will endure
Speaker 1: the grind, you will endure it all. I'm telling you
Speaker 1: were running to nasty people. That's what it really is.
Speaker 1: Because you like when you first first, like first first first, first,
Speaker 1: first started before like you became like juicin Lar, Justinlar
Speaker 1: before London, Me trying to with you and me. You're
Speaker 1: going back and forth and you know she's a boss zella. Okay.
Speaker 1: I didn't want to deal with that. She is a
Speaker 1: little monster, y'all. I'm telling like, And I was like,
Speaker 1: really like just going back and forth, and she like
Speaker 1: this a little half she sat day and it was like, shake,
Speaker 1: you ain't checked this and checked that. And I'm like, well, ship,
Speaker 1: I do got three kids, like I'm trying, well, ship,
Speaker 1: I could have missed this, so I could have missed that.
Speaker 1: I'm like, well, ship, do this ship your damn stuff.
Speaker 1: I can't. I can't do this ship. And then she
Speaker 1: was like I can't do this ship either, Chris, do
Speaker 1: this ship. Look, I know I asked the poor Dumbas's
Speaker 1: boyfriend to do, like you how to do a sucking gamble,
Speaker 1: So I was in the fucking ship. It was it's
Speaker 1: really it's really overwhelming. And like I said, if you're
Speaker 1: not business savvy and like really like, if you don't
Speaker 1: know how to do that kind of ship, it can
Speaker 1: be overwhelming. And just like it was overwhelming for you,
Speaker 1: and it was definitely overwhelming for me. I was like, look,
Speaker 1: I'm getting fussed at. I'm like, I'm trying. I'm trying
Speaker 1: for that ship. Shout out London, because London, I think
Speaker 1: heard that experience with the being a Comcast that helped
Speaker 1: her dealing with all the other crazy motherfucker's London does
Speaker 1: her damn thing. She she talks very well, she'd be
Speaker 1: she'd be handling that ship. I heard on a business
Speaker 1: call not too long. I was like, damn, I ain't
Speaker 1: even know you knew what the funk that meant. She
Speaker 1: was like, yeah, bitch, I'm smart, like I'm just a
Speaker 1: little rich ship. But yeah, I was like, oh my god,
Speaker 1: she's that's not her her voice when she talked to
Speaker 1: business people with Ship, when she talked to these other
Speaker 1: businesses and these higher ups and ship. But yeah, you know,
Speaker 1: so that back to what I was saying, you know,
Speaker 1: it's it's very fucking over woman. But that's where you
Speaker 1: have to have either, you know, a patient mind, a
Speaker 1: patient personality. You have to be open to learn. You
Speaker 1: have to be open to criticism. Yo, It's okay because
Speaker 1: it doesn't Criticism does not mean insulting, like it's not
Speaker 1: like somebody not trying to come at you. That's one
Speaker 1: thing about black people. We always feel like somebody is
Speaker 1: trying to come for us, somebody is trying to disrespect us. Honestly,
Speaker 1: that ship criticism makes you better, even if it is disrespectful.
Speaker 1: Take that ship with a grain of salt and just
Speaker 1: keep applying pressure to these motherfucker's. Just make yourself better
Speaker 1: no matter what. You never stopped. Consistency is the key,
Speaker 1: and that's how I've stayed relevant all these years. That's
Speaker 1: how a lot of small businesses they have like flourished
Speaker 1: and blossomed into huge businesses. Now a lot of black
Speaker 1: businesses are are fucking huge now that I've watched some,
Speaker 1: I've watched grow like you know what I mean, Like
Speaker 1: I'm gonna shout out, just just a couple of black
Speaker 1: swanker push yes, like Swank Swank has came Uh, they
Speaker 1: have come up. I love it. I work with Swank,
Speaker 1: you know, doing a brand of bass of the program,
Speaker 1: and I love it. They are really they really down
Speaker 1: the earth. And it's the black woman from Detroit doing
Speaker 1: the damn thing. She is doing her things. And listen,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you this one. I got into it
Speaker 1: one of their representatives, and I honestly feel like this
Speaker 1: is why they don't use me for Brandon basson in anymore. Um,
Speaker 1: I don't know if this girl is still there, but
Speaker 1: so they okay, okay, well should I'll reach back out
Speaker 1: because I actually do you love their clothes. But that's
Speaker 1: why I said, I don't know if this girl is
Speaker 1: there anymore. But um, it wasn't the owner. It was
Speaker 1: one of their representatives or whatever. It was, somebody my
Speaker 1: point of contact. I was doing Brandon Bassoning for them,
Speaker 1: and I that I asked for a certain pair of
Speaker 1: jeans to be said to me because I'm a person
Speaker 1: that I only wear it with looks good on me,
Speaker 1: you know, like everybody should you know. And if I
Speaker 1: don't like it, I'm not gonna want to promote it
Speaker 1: because if I don't feel comfortable in it, how I'm
Speaker 1: gonna sell it for you? Of so, um I did that.
Speaker 1: I was like, yo, uh, I don't like this what
Speaker 1: y'all sent me, and something like that, like that's not
Speaker 1: what I asked for and it's too big and the
Speaker 1: pants or droopy, and the girl kind of got smart
Speaker 1: and I'm like, well, listen, y'all, as is doing all this,
Speaker 1: I ain't even got you all damn tags, y'all don't
Speaker 1: have tags. Y'all basically bought these James from such and
Speaker 1: such and put your name on the packaging. So if
Speaker 1: you really really want to take some criticism, like get
Speaker 1: get a little bit more better with your fucking packaging
Speaker 1: and get your ship together. And even though I was
Speaker 1: being smart, that was still some criticism for the owner.
Speaker 1: But I was being smart because she was being smart
Speaker 1: to me. And I'm telling you, like, a couple of
Speaker 1: months down the line, they had their own tags in
Speaker 1: their fucking and they have the you know, like the
Speaker 1: the tag lists. So like that I said that that.
Speaker 1: I don't know if it was only me that said
Speaker 1: it or whatever, but I've seen a change in because
Speaker 1: I was still ordering shipped from them, even though I
Speaker 1: didn't want to do brandon besting them from them afore,
Speaker 1: I still was ordering because I was like, I do
Speaker 1: like the way these James fit me, you know, And
Speaker 1: I was like, damn, yo, that's good. Like that's an
Speaker 1: example of criticism working people taking it, know what I mean?
Speaker 1: So another one Klata scope, yo, Jessica BB Judy. She
Speaker 1: like that woman. She is she she's really she's having
Speaker 1: seen you know my baby girl, you're you're my niece.
Speaker 1: The child looks like me and just like just like me.
Speaker 1: So she was cursed period. But she you know, she's
Speaker 1: she works for BB Judy Jessica with her Calotta Kids line.
Speaker 1: And when I tell you that woman is a fucking
Speaker 1: marketing genius. When I tell you like her strategies. I
Speaker 1: don't know who's what teams she got working for her,
Speaker 1: but they she got to SeeMe a beast. That's a
Speaker 1: that's another one. UM. Good customer service, UM can take
Speaker 1: constructive criticism and you know exactly yo. I've never yo,
Speaker 1: I'm telling you, I've never heard anyone talk bad about
Speaker 1: you know, the service or customer service or even when
Speaker 1: when the people give criticism, she'll listen like because she's
Speaker 1: actually good with kids as well. Um super si yo.
Speaker 1: I remember keep calling her my damn cousin. I love
Speaker 1: them to down. Yes, I want to shot out of
Speaker 1: her too. I remember crayon case wasn't that big and
Speaker 1: she just yed those women they're best friends. Actually, I
Speaker 1: an't even to cut you off. That's another thing with
Speaker 1: certain black people. They have these businesses that try to
Speaker 1: tear other black businesses down, but then you have people
Speaker 1: like Judy and Super that are helping to build one
Speaker 1: another up. I mean, granted, you know Judy was up
Speaker 1: and Super was her friend. She brought her friend up
Speaker 1: with her. She didn't try to tell her down, you
Speaker 1: know what I mean. So it's just like we need
Speaker 1: more events because there's so many black businesses that it
Speaker 1: is sitting there trying to tell each other down instead
Speaker 1: of trying to build each other up. That's like I've
Speaker 1: seen this mean it's ay and um. If you ever
Speaker 1: feel like your business idea won't be successful because it's
Speaker 1: other people with that same business, walk down the bride
Speaker 1: out right. It's so it's many brandy brands of bread
Speaker 1: and all of them get bored, every one of them.
Speaker 1: So it's just like I don't I don't know about
Speaker 1: the Day and Wonder Bread now that should be getting
Speaker 1: all dried out, but people buy that ship. I know
Speaker 1: a girl, I don't know people be behind it. So
Speaker 1: it's just like, you know, if you ever feel discouraged,
Speaker 1: you walk down the bride out, walk down that bridge.
Speaker 1: I don't just like, damn, that's like me being a
Speaker 1: mobile ball tender. It's hell a mobile ball tenders out here.
Speaker 1: But I'm not sitting there. I'm not going to sit
Speaker 1: there and be like, oh, I'm not gonna be able
Speaker 1: to do this because this person is doing that. That
Speaker 1: person is doing it. But yeah, but you know what
Speaker 1: stands out about you? Yes, alright, So my sister, she
Speaker 1: is a mobile bus sender. But the thing is about
Speaker 1: this girl. She don't drink, so I think it's the
Speaker 1: best thing. Like, yo, she does not drink, Like she
Speaker 1: don't even taste drinks. Sip you just started sipping, I said,
Speaker 1: most so wine. But she do not drink. She can't
Speaker 1: stand liquor, but will make you one of the best
Speaker 1: drinks you've ever fucking head from a bartender who gets
Speaker 1: skunk drunk. Like it's so crazy. So I feel like
Speaker 1: that's what stands out with her. I don't know exactly why,
Speaker 1: but like that, I don't know, that's what stands out
Speaker 1: with you, Like you don't be I don't know. I
Speaker 1: don't really like the I mean, so like if I'm going,
Speaker 1: you know, somewhere with like you know, for like celebratory
Speaker 1: purposes or something, like that or like maybe my birthday,
Speaker 1: I'll take a shot or something like that. I'll have
Speaker 1: a few mixed drinks or whatever. But I ain't about
Speaker 1: to like be out here like just bend in my
Speaker 1: elbow like shot shot shots like you know, yo, stand
Speaker 1: in my elbow. Yeah, that's old term for your young listeners.
Speaker 1: Health elbow Again, Lord, you've never heard of that ship before. Also,
Speaker 1: it's another um What is what is um Matt collection?
Speaker 1: Black Owned? Yeah, that's that's Neo's ex wife Monifa. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I didn't know that. I have two baby series from
Speaker 1: from her, yep, black Own, like she like her stop
Speaker 1: and I got one of the big ass heads, big
Speaker 1: ass head, big ship yo, but for real, for real man.
Speaker 1: So I I sit back and I watched these black
Speaker 1: businesses thrive, and then you know, I watched the ones
Speaker 1: drive themselves in the ground, and it's like, what can
Speaker 1: you learn from these bigger businesses? What can you learn?
Speaker 1: Be humble? It's number one. Yeah, learned to be humble
Speaker 1: and then also learn how to learn. You know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying, Like you don't know everything, You don't know everything,
Speaker 1: and you can't think you know everything. You know, you
Speaker 1: have to be open to suggestions. You have to open.
Speaker 1: That's why a lot of people thrive more and and
Speaker 1: and better with a team. Um, even though you know
Speaker 1: you made you made a lot of people feel like
Speaker 1: they can't trust people know you can't you know, but
Speaker 1: two can be a team. They don't gotta be a
Speaker 1: team of eight or ten. Like my My team is
Speaker 1: still smaller, you know what I mean. I have four employees.
Speaker 1: That's it. That's all I wish I could have forever.
Speaker 1: But it ain't gonna be like that. It can't because
Speaker 1: as I grow, my business grows, my staff has to grow,
Speaker 1: my money grows, everything grows. Yeah, So I actually I
Speaker 1: think that was a really good episode. I think we
Speaker 1: can end that ship right here, because I'm looking at
Speaker 1: this ship and it should say twenty seven minutes. So yeah,
Speaker 1: we get about it. You don't say oh wow. So
Speaker 1: we're gonna get up out of here and stay by
Speaker 1: shape it. She'll be back next week because this is
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