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Speaker 1: Welcome to Carefully Reckless, the production of our Heart Radio

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Speaker 1: and the Black Effect aspected, Nice little aspect aspect, Nice

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Speaker 1: oh Ship were back on the air. Thank you for

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Speaker 1: letting me take a week off, guys. I was sick

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Speaker 1: with the goddamn flew last week. But I'm here now

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Speaker 1: and I got a special guest with me. So the

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Speaker 1: last time I had this girl on with me, which

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Speaker 1: is my sister, I'm just gonna take out who it is.

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Speaker 1: We did a topic about cosmetic surgery and also having

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Speaker 1: the disorder body morphia disorder exactly. We also talked about that,

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Speaker 1: and she was telling us about me aesthetics, Uh, refresh

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Speaker 1: them again, So me Aesthetics, they cancel my surgery due

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Speaker 1: to c v A, which uh can be I guess

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Speaker 1: classified as a stroke or as not really clear to fire,

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Speaker 1: but in the same family as a stroke. And they

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Speaker 1: were telling me that I could not get my money back.

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Speaker 1: But because of that podcast, like just said, I don't

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Speaker 1: know if you'll remember, you know, verbatim, she literally said,

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Speaker 1: my podcast reaches many people, and it reached this one

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Speaker 1: special young lady that did not know me from a

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Speaker 1: can of paint. This girl reached out to me and

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Speaker 1: my d M and told me, says, I can help

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Speaker 1: you get your money back. She used to work for

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Speaker 1: a bank. She she sat on the phone with me

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Speaker 1: estatics and went back and forth with them for like

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Speaker 1: forty five minutes and fought to get my money back.

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Speaker 1: And that just goes to show that they are really

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Speaker 1: genuine people out here, and that just because someone that

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Speaker 1: was or not was, but just because someone is a

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Speaker 1: fan of you, they reached out to help me and

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Speaker 1: care about my family too. I offered to give this

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Speaker 1: lady some money when I get my money back, and

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Speaker 1: she was just like, I don't. I don't want that,

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Speaker 1: Like I know, I'm gonna get my blessings back right right.

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Speaker 1: And this is and she's a kind hearted pair of person.

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Speaker 1: You can tell that because, like you said, she didn't

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Speaker 1: even have to do that. She didn't have to do

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Speaker 1: that on on and then she didn't on her day off.

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Speaker 1: She did not have to take time out of her

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Speaker 1: on her day a well, Black people don't like to

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Speaker 1: be buffing on their day off, and she she did

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Speaker 1: that for me on the strength of you. So thank you.

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Speaker 1: It's just with the mess for letting me touch on that,

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Speaker 1: because that's too much money to just be throwing away

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Speaker 1: like I got like that. Yeah, so you know, black

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Speaker 1: people round up. I don't ca if it was. It's

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Speaker 1: ten dollars right pretty much. But they so they did

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Speaker 1: take a percentage. They took ten percent out of that.

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Speaker 1: So I'm getting all but like nine back, which I'm

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Speaker 1: just happy to be even getting eight thousands and change back. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you know, it was all yours, and it's all old

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Speaker 1: to you because they did perform your surgery, and it's

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Speaker 1: their fault that they didn't, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 1: So they they pretty much breached their own contract, they

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Speaker 1: fucked up their own policies or whatever. So that was

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Speaker 1: a victory. That was a victory for carefully Reckless. That

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Speaker 1: was a victory for my sister, and not only for

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Speaker 1: my sister and carefully Reckless, that was a victory for

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Speaker 1: me because, like she said, that just goes to show

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Speaker 1: how many people actually tune in and how many people

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Speaker 1: are actual avid listeners of Carefully Reckless. And so I

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Speaker 1: appreciate y'all, like, oh my god, I love y'all so much,

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Speaker 1: and thank you for bearing with me while I keep

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Speaker 1: on taking these low breaks y'all. Either I'm busy or

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Speaker 1: I'm sick. Just know I ain't taking off for no reason.

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Speaker 1: Now speaking of black was that lady black who did it? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: She was black? Okay, she she was a black young lady.

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Speaker 1: I mean, like when I say nice, just she was

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Speaker 1: Thank you so much, Thank you so much. No, I

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Speaker 1: do love that. So, like I was saying, speaking of

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Speaker 1: black the topic is black businesses. Listen. So I was,

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Speaker 1: now listen, we know I have a lot out of

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Speaker 1: controversies that I battled over the years or whatever. And

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Speaker 1: I was actually canceled before by my own people, by

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Speaker 1: the blacks, the only people to have a canceled any

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Speaker 1: the motherucker's because I had said, um, indirectly direct to them,

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Speaker 1: I definitely did say that. I mean, I had celebrities

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Speaker 1: small and big business owners. They were quite offended by that.

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Speaker 1: Like t I called me and talked to me for

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Speaker 1: I'm like, God damn. But no, you know, I totally

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Speaker 1: understood what he was saying, but I think I didn't elaborate.

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Speaker 1: ship because it needs to be talked about. Black businesses

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Speaker 1: are very important. Our businesses are just as important as

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Speaker 1: these European businesses, these Asian businesses, these Caucasian businesses, these Russians.

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Speaker 1: Wherever we spend our money and we make it that way,

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Speaker 1: and it's up to us to keep it that way.

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Speaker 1: I don't take it back fully as a statement because

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Speaker 1: I still don't support all black businesses, because there are

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Speaker 1: truly some some alterations that need to be done. There

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Speaker 1: is some professionalism that needs to be added to the standards.

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Speaker 1: There are some fucking standards that need to be added

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Speaker 1: to businesses. There are some rules and regulations that needs

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Speaker 1: to be put in place. There are dudes and don'ts,

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Speaker 1: There are you know, things that we need to step back.

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Speaker 1: We need to self evaluate our businesses and be like, yo,

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Speaker 1: if I take myself outside of myself having a business,

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Speaker 1: if I was to become a customer, what I buy

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Speaker 1: this ship, what I take this ship off of me

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Speaker 1: as a business owner? What I step in this store.

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Speaker 1: I'm talking about even something as small as business hours.

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Speaker 1: Like if if I walk up to your business and

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Speaker 1: it says open, but your door is closed and is

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Speaker 1: locked because you ran out. You're the only one working

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Speaker 1: that day and you ran out of something or you

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Speaker 1: just didn't get up and feel like come to work today.

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Speaker 1: You know that's that's horrible. That's horrible as a business.

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Speaker 1: That don't only look bad on you, that reflects on

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Speaker 1: the business. But you know what, um, just to touch

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Speaker 1: Food and pharmacy, Giant Food and Pharmacy, and the manager

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Speaker 1: It was like ten forty five The store wasn't due

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Speaker 1: to close until eleven PM. But I went there. I

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Speaker 1: pulled up on the parking lot, walked up to the door,

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Speaker 1: what it's supposed to close. So not only is it

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Speaker 1: even the self employed uh service you know, like hairstylists

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Speaker 1: don't know if it's whether they're star struck or not,

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Speaker 1: like you know, but they start off amazing great, and

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Speaker 1: then I guess with my personality and you know, I'm

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Speaker 1: know what have you? And I and I actually talked.

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Speaker 1: I love I love to talk. I love to get

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Speaker 1: to know people. People get comfortable over time, and then

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Speaker 1: like that, you know, they start being late and ship. Girl,

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Speaker 1: I asked somebody do my fucking lashes one time, and

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Speaker 1: she was so cool. Not the girl I go to now,

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Speaker 1: but somebody did my lashes one time. She was doing

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Speaker 1: them consecutively for over like maybe like two months, you know,

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Speaker 1: need for you to still act like we ain't friends.

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Speaker 1: We're not friends, that's what we're not. But I just

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Speaker 1: need for you to seriously act like I'm still a

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Speaker 1: stranger or I'm sorry, I'm a fucking client. Yeah, pretty much.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I don't care how many times that we

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Speaker 1: we have gotten deep in our talks while you're sitting

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Speaker 1: family member, at that moment, that is your client. They're

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Speaker 1: not your friend, they're not your family member. They are

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Speaker 1: I don't know. Y'all can tell me if I'm wrong.

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Speaker 1: I'm not trying to be prejudiced against my own people,

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Speaker 1: but I feel like it is only or solely the

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Speaker 1: black people. It is only black people that will be like, yo,

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Speaker 1: you gotta come with your hair wash. Yeah, And I've

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Speaker 1: I've heard that countless times. I've actually, on a personal note,

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Speaker 1: Now I've reached out to her. Hey, you know, I

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Speaker 1: And what it say on the website, what it say

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Speaker 1: I don't even I don't EVENANNT come to get my head.

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Speaker 1: She said that to you? Yeah, on the website. Yeah, like,

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Speaker 1: did you read the website? I just I just mentioned

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Speaker 1: there any way I can pay anything additional? I'm not

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Speaker 1: get for you to wash my hair. But some people

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Speaker 1: have that option. Idn't know if it was an option.

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Speaker 1: But because of how she came off at me, like bitch,

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Speaker 1: I don't even want to come and get my hair

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Speaker 1: done no more at this point because I'm end up.

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Speaker 1: Let me shoot out you for that add to like definitely,

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Speaker 1: like a lot of black black businesses have problems with

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Speaker 1: like you were saying, hospitality, they don't have it. Now

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Speaker 1: you something to eat, something to drink, something like that,

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Speaker 1: and then it's always so much tension and so much hostility,

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Speaker 1: work today, But this is your motherfucking business. You work here,

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Speaker 1: even if it ain't your business, you work you you

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Speaker 1: even in any event where you couldn't get another job,

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Speaker 1: but this one, this is the only job you could get.

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Speaker 1: don't even taste drinks. Sip you just started sipping, I said,

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Speaker 1: I'll take a shot or something like that. I'll have

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Speaker 1: to like be out here like just bend in my

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Speaker 1: in my elbow. Yeah, that's old term for your young listeners.

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Speaker 1: Health elbow Again, Lord, you've never heard of that ship before. Also,

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Speaker 1: it's another um What is what is um Matt collection?

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Speaker 1: Black Owned? Yeah, that's that's Neo's ex wife Monifa. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I didn't know that. I have two baby series from

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Speaker 1: from her, yep, black Own, like she like her stop

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Speaker 1: and I got one of the big ass heads, big

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Speaker 1: ass head, big ship yo, but for real, for real man.

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Speaker 1: So I I sit back and I watched these black

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Speaker 1: drive themselves in the ground, and it's like, what can

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Speaker 1: you learn from these bigger businesses? What can you learn?

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Speaker 1: Be humble? It's number one. Yeah, learned to be humble

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Speaker 1: and then also learn how to learn. You know what

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Speaker 1: I'm saying, Like you don't know everything, You don't know everything,

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Speaker 1: and you can't think you know everything. You know, you

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Speaker 1: have to be open to suggestions. You have to open.

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Speaker 1: That's why a lot of people thrive more and and

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Speaker 1: and better with a team. Um, even though you know

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Speaker 1: you made you made a lot of people feel like

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Speaker 1: they can't trust people know you can't you know, but

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Speaker 1: two can be a team. They don't gotta be a

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Speaker 1: team of eight or ten. Like my My team is

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Speaker 1: still smaller, you know what I mean. I have four employees.

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Speaker 1: That's it. That's all I wish I could have forever.

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Speaker 1: But it ain't gonna be like that. It can't because

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Speaker 1: as I grow, my business grows, my staff has to grow,

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Speaker 1: my money grows, everything grows. Yeah, So I actually I

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Speaker 1: think that was a really good episode. I think we

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Speaker 1: can end that ship right here, because I'm looking at

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Speaker 1: this ship and it should say twenty seven minutes. So yeah,

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Speaker 1: we get about it. You don't say oh wow. So

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Speaker 1: we're gonna get up out of here and stay by

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Speaker 1: shape it. She'll be back next week because this is

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Speaker 1: my favorite. I Love my Sister and Carefully Reckless is

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Speaker 1: a production of My Heart Radio and The Black Effect.

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