WEBVTT - What A Day with Amy and T.J. 0:00:05.880 --> 0:00:09.280 Hey there, everybody. Welcome to this episode of Amy and 0:00:09.320 --> 0:00:12.720 TJ Jailed the bike. Now Robach right next to me 0:00:12.760 --> 0:00:14.720 on our own Mike, how you feeling today, dearest? 0:00:14.840 --> 0:00:15.720 I'm feeling good. 0:00:15.880 --> 0:00:16.400 Are you great? 0:00:16.440 --> 0:00:20.400 Actually? Yeah? We've got a busy fun week ahead. 0:00:19.040 --> 0:00:21.840 Busy fun week ahead. We have a busy fun kind 0:00:21.840 --> 0:00:24.919 of episode ahead. In this episode, you're gonna hear a 0:00:25.000 --> 0:00:29.160 royal photoshop controversy that I still don't understand. We're gonna 0:00:29.160 --> 0:00:32.000 get into when it's okay to date again after a 0:00:32.040 --> 0:00:36.479 divorce or after your spouse passes? Are you okay with 0:00:36.520 --> 0:00:39.000 your pilot taking a nap and the largest fine in 0:00:39.000 --> 0:00:41.480 the NBA this season. We'll get to all that, But first, Robes, 0:00:41.520 --> 0:00:44.040 you said the funniest thing in the world to me, 0:00:44.320 --> 0:00:47.560 oh before we left the house today to come here. 0:00:48.240 --> 0:00:50.519 Do you not even know what you said? That was 0:00:50.600 --> 0:00:55.160 beyond hilarious? I mean hilarious. I held it in because 0:00:55.200 --> 0:00:57.320 I didn't want to give it up before we came 0:00:57.360 --> 0:00:58.480 in and recorded the podcast. 0:00:58.520 --> 0:01:01.320 You saved it for the microphone, saved it. So the 0:01:01.360 --> 0:01:04.240 answer is no, I don't know. Oftentimes, when I am funny, 0:01:04.240 --> 0:01:06.880 you tell me after the fact and I don't realize 0:01:06.880 --> 0:01:09.039 how much fodder I provide. 0:01:09.560 --> 0:01:13.039 This was funny, the doozy, huh. I have not been 0:01:13.040 --> 0:01:15.640 feeling great for the past a couple of weeks. Really 0:01:15.680 --> 0:01:17.200 am trying to figure it out and losing more weight 0:01:17.240 --> 0:01:18.679 than I need to a lot of running, and I 0:01:18.720 --> 0:01:20.840 know the diet has changed a little bit, done some 0:01:20.880 --> 0:01:22.960 things weird, but I ain't feeling well, and you were 0:01:22.959 --> 0:01:23.720 concerned about that. 0:01:23.920 --> 0:01:25.000 I was concerned about that. 0:01:25.240 --> 0:01:28.520 I started googling it, which we're told oftentimes not to do, 0:01:29.120 --> 0:01:32.399 but I came up with my non medical opinion that 0:01:32.440 --> 0:01:35.720 you could possibly have some sort of vitamin deficiency because 0:01:35.720 --> 0:01:39.160 you don't eat meat, you very rarely do, and I 0:01:39.200 --> 0:01:41.520 know sometimes when you're vegan and vegetarian, you do have 0:01:41.600 --> 0:01:44.880 a bit of an extra effort you have to make 0:01:44.920 --> 0:01:47.600 to get some of those proteins that we would normally 0:01:47.640 --> 0:01:49.360 get from animal fats. So I was looking up that 0:01:49.400 --> 0:01:51.880 maybe you have a vitamin B twelve deficiency, or maybe 0:01:51.880 --> 0:01:54.840 you have a vitamin D deficiency. Now I know what 0:01:54.920 --> 0:02:00.360 you're laughing about, America. 0:02:00.920 --> 0:02:02.080 Who yeah, But I. 0:02:02.080 --> 0:02:04.320 Okay, okay, so wait for it. 0:02:04.480 --> 0:02:06.920 I came to the conclusion that I really wanted you 0:02:06.960 --> 0:02:08.679 to go to the doctor to get a blood test. 0:02:08.840 --> 0:02:13.560 I'm okay. Is that what you want me to do, sweetie? 0:02:14.040 --> 0:02:14.280 Yes? 0:02:14.440 --> 0:02:16.480 Are you having a difficult time getting me to go 0:02:16.520 --> 0:02:18.520 along and get this blood work that you think I 0:02:18.560 --> 0:02:20.200 so desperately need for my health? 0:02:20.280 --> 0:02:22.880 You said, you know, good and well, I'm not going 0:02:22.919 --> 0:02:24.720 to the doctor. And so then I started looking up 0:02:24.720 --> 0:02:26.799 at home kits you could order and you just have 0:02:26.880 --> 0:02:27.680 to prick your finger. 0:02:28.000 --> 0:02:29.560 And when you came in the room and suggested that, 0:02:29.600 --> 0:02:30.720 what did I do? What did I say? 0:02:30.840 --> 0:02:35.280 You laughed at me, But guess what, I have an 0:02:35.280 --> 0:02:38.480 announcement to make, because I was it's so funny. I 0:02:38.480 --> 0:02:40.040 didn't put two and two together that you were going 0:02:40.120 --> 0:02:41.760 to say this, and I didn't know what you were 0:02:41.800 --> 0:02:42.200 referring to. 0:02:42.240 --> 0:02:43.639 And you said, I was so funny. 0:02:43.600 --> 0:02:46.480 Because I was worried about you, and realizing how I 0:02:46.560 --> 0:02:50.840 felt worried about you, I went quietly. You were doing 0:02:50.840 --> 0:02:53.400 your thing, and I went onto the Nyu langone app 0:02:53.600 --> 0:02:55.480 and I made my appointment for my blood work. 0:02:55.600 --> 0:03:00.519 Everybody, everybody, I'm telling you that I did that period. 0:03:00.560 --> 0:03:02.840 It is there, it is. 0:03:03.400 --> 0:03:04.280 I'll tell you what it is. 0:03:04.560 --> 0:03:07.600 You all, if you haven't been a following last episode, 0:03:07.639 --> 0:03:10.400 we had a renowned on cologist with us and a 0:03:10.400 --> 0:03:12.400 friend of ours, doctor Coleman, and we talked about the 0:03:12.440 --> 0:03:15.280 fact that Roeboch is a year and a half now, 0:03:15.280 --> 0:03:17.839 a year overdue, but you haven't had your blood work 0:03:17.880 --> 0:03:19.960 done for a year and a half and you're supposed 0:03:19.960 --> 0:03:21.919 to get it done every six months as a breast 0:03:21.960 --> 0:03:25.400 cancer survivor, you're way behind. And now with what with. 0:03:25.360 --> 0:03:28.240 My oncologist, that's what she suggested, every once different, So 0:03:28.440 --> 0:03:31.919 you can see right there. Tuesday, March twenty sixth, doctor Ratz, 0:03:31.960 --> 0:03:32.760 four pm. 0:03:32.760 --> 0:03:34.720 There And I did it because I. 0:03:34.760 --> 0:03:37.800 Realized what it felt like, literally in that moment, to 0:03:37.800 --> 0:03:41.320 be worried about you and hearing you saying, ain't in 0:03:41.320 --> 0:03:43.320 no way I'm going to an urgent care. 0:03:43.360 --> 0:03:45.480 I'm not going to a primary care doctor. I'm not 0:03:45.520 --> 0:03:45.840 doing it. 0:03:45.840 --> 0:03:47.720 I'll just try to figure it out, wait and see. 0:03:48.160 --> 0:03:50.920 And I felt frustrated, and then I thought in my mind, 0:03:50.960 --> 0:03:51.440 and it's funny. 0:03:51.480 --> 0:03:53.480 I didn't admit it to you, but inside I was like, 0:03:53.880 --> 0:03:57.200 oh my god, I'm doing the exact same thing. So 0:03:57.400 --> 0:03:59.200 then I went and made the appointment. 0:03:59.560 --> 0:04:01.960 Always say I love watching your process. 0:04:02.680 --> 0:04:04.360 To something funny, I did know idea what you were. 0:04:04.200 --> 0:04:07.240 For you that, because that is absolutely hilarious. Now, folks, 0:04:07.280 --> 0:04:11.200 please know last episode we did, which are not quite 0:04:11.200 --> 0:04:13.480 a week removed from recording it, but uh, with five 0:04:13.560 --> 0:04:15.760 or so days I hadn't made this. We were on 0:04:15.840 --> 0:04:18.960 that podcast, and you at your words were you know, no, no, no, no, 0:04:19.240 --> 0:04:20.920 I'm gonna take it farther. I'm gonna tell you how 0:04:20.960 --> 0:04:24.159 far along I was willing to take this today. From 0:04:24.240 --> 0:04:28.520 our transcript of the last episode, Oh, TJ, what would 0:04:28.560 --> 0:04:31.280 your doctor say upon hearing you've gone a year past 0:04:31.320 --> 0:04:34.599 getting blood work done? As a press cancer survivor? Amy, 0:04:34.839 --> 0:04:36.479 she would tell me to make an appointment for my 0:04:36.520 --> 0:04:41.160 blood work? TJ? How soon? Amy? Probably should call when 0:04:41.160 --> 0:04:42.599 I'm done with this podcast. 0:04:44.440 --> 0:04:45.320 So it took me. 0:04:45.640 --> 0:04:46.760 Yeah, worried about you. 0:04:46.880 --> 0:04:49.159 Yes, make the appointment, But it worked. 0:04:49.200 --> 0:04:51.760 This is why it should be in a relationship, folks. 0:04:52.800 --> 0:04:54.000 They can save your life. 0:04:54.040 --> 0:04:56.200 Sometimes you surprised that I did that today. 0:04:56.000 --> 0:04:58.240 I am shocked. I didn't tell you. Yeah, But the 0:04:58.279 --> 0:05:01.440 only reason it came up is because you're looking at it. 0:05:01.520 --> 0:05:02.800 You worried about me get a. 0:05:02.760 --> 0:05:05.400 Blood test, And then I realized the pot. 0:05:05.760 --> 0:05:07.680 I was the pot calling the kettle black, and I 0:05:07.680 --> 0:05:09.480 needed to go ahead and do something. 0:05:09.560 --> 0:05:11.560 But this is great news. It is great to hear. 0:05:12.240 --> 0:05:13.680 So we going on. 0:05:14.800 --> 0:05:17.480 It's happening. 0:05:18.279 --> 0:05:20.760 I think so. But Emma was sitting here with us, 0:05:20.760 --> 0:05:23.359 our producer that you all hear us talk about reference 0:05:23.520 --> 0:05:27.200 to see it all take place in her face when 0:05:27.200 --> 0:05:28.880 you were coming around, like, I don't know what were 0:05:28.920 --> 0:05:30.280 you joking about? Now, I have no idea what I 0:05:30.279 --> 0:05:31.880 said that was funnier. Well then I said this, and 0:05:31.880 --> 0:05:35.599 then I said, yes, the light. 0:05:35.440 --> 0:05:37.520 Bulb, you could actually the light bulb go off in 0:05:37.560 --> 0:05:37.880 my head. 0:05:38.000 --> 0:05:46.000 Yes, okay, that's the health update. Yes, first we started 0:05:46.000 --> 0:05:47.760 the week. I guess is it busy that we started 0:05:47.760 --> 0:05:50.560 a week with? Was it an Oscars? Probably an Oscar party. 0:05:50.560 --> 0:05:54.719 It's like an Oscars gathering of your daughter. 0:05:56.320 --> 0:05:57.240 So it was a foursome. 0:05:57.440 --> 0:06:00.599 So we watched this show. I'm I'm not sure what 0:06:00.640 --> 0:06:03.000 I was excited about going into it. Actually, we were 0:06:03.080 --> 0:06:06.760 very excited about American fiction, which almost completely got shut out. 0:06:06.760 --> 0:06:09.640 I believe adaptist screenplay, but just a great film. Again, 0:06:09.680 --> 0:06:11.800 well you told somebody I think the other night run 0:06:11.880 --> 0:06:14.760 now don't walk, Yeah, and go see this movie. But 0:06:14.760 --> 0:06:18.080 what were you looking forward to the Oscars? 0:06:18.120 --> 0:06:18.200 Is? 0:06:18.240 --> 0:06:18.680 You know? 0:06:18.880 --> 0:06:22.280 Usually I look forward to the Red Carpet and the dresses, 0:06:22.720 --> 0:06:23.760 and we. 0:06:23.720 --> 0:06:25.120 Did have our most fun with that. 0:06:25.120 --> 0:06:26.400 That's usually the most fun. 0:06:26.720 --> 0:06:28.360 I think one of my favorite moments was on the 0:06:28.400 --> 0:06:31.640 Red Carpet with Jodie Foster talking about being at a 0:06:31.680 --> 0:06:35.120 certain age where she just doesn't give an f what 0:06:35.360 --> 0:06:37.760 anybody thinks about her, and how this is the happiest 0:06:38.080 --> 0:06:40.120 she's ever been in her life. She was going if 0:06:40.160 --> 0:06:42.880 she's in her sixties, she looked fabulous, but whatever you 0:06:42.920 --> 0:06:45.839 could tell, she felt fabulous, And I love that idea 0:06:46.920 --> 0:06:48.600 as women, you know, I think a lot of us 0:06:48.600 --> 0:06:51.800 fear getting older and being irrelevant, and you know, all 0:06:51.839 --> 0:06:53.960 of the things that come with aging. To see someone 0:06:54.000 --> 0:06:57.479 that vibrant, that successful, that amazing and saying and you 0:06:57.520 --> 0:07:00.039 could tell with truth in her voice, this is the 0:07:00.040 --> 0:07:01.760 happy at she's ever been in her life because she 0:07:01.880 --> 0:07:04.360 doesn't give an f I think that is the one 0:07:04.720 --> 0:07:07.840 amazing thing that comes at a certain point when you've 0:07:07.880 --> 0:07:09.640 earned the right to feel that way, and we all. 0:07:09.560 --> 0:07:11.560 Should be able to feel like that. Are you there yet, 0:07:12.000 --> 0:07:14.840 I'm getting there. I'm not there yet. I'm getting there. 0:07:14.880 --> 0:07:17.480 I think after everything, when you start to We've joked 0:07:17.480 --> 0:07:19.400 about the fact that when people when you get to 0:07:19.480 --> 0:07:22.000 a place where you've been talked about her everything, the 0:07:22.000 --> 0:07:23.400 worst thing you could think it has been said about you. 0:07:23.480 --> 0:07:25.400 There is a freedom to that because you're kind of like, well, 0:07:26.560 --> 0:07:29.560 everyone's taking those shots, so I don't care anymore. I'm 0:07:29.600 --> 0:07:31.400 not in the I don't care anymore, but I'm getting 0:07:31.400 --> 0:07:32.880 there and I love seeing her own it. 0:07:33.040 --> 0:07:34.320 That was probably my favorite. 0:07:34.040 --> 0:07:36.000 Part of the whole night, was on the right corp 0:07:36.120 --> 0:07:37.960 even before the show. What about the actual show? What 0:07:38.000 --> 0:07:38.840 was your favorite? 0:07:39.080 --> 0:07:41.320 I mean, I know this sounds basic because I think 0:07:41.360 --> 0:07:44.040 this was everyone's favorite, but come on, it's Ryan Gosling. 0:07:44.280 --> 0:07:44.960 That was amazing. 0:07:45.440 --> 0:07:49.000 There's no question. It was so good that it was unreal. 0:07:49.160 --> 0:07:50.360 It was so good. 0:07:50.440 --> 0:07:52.640 And he was singing that that wasn't that wasn't him 0:07:52.680 --> 0:07:55.080 lip syncing. I mean, he really put on an amazing show. 0:07:55.120 --> 0:07:56.080 He went for it well. 0:07:56.120 --> 0:07:59.600 I love that it was. It's out of the norm 0:07:59.680 --> 0:08:02.080 for it show like that with the room full of 0:08:02.120 --> 0:08:06.040 those particular folks to see something that fun and I 0:08:06.080 --> 0:08:08.360 love though. That reminded me I don't think I've seen 0:08:08.360 --> 0:08:11.280 a performance of musical performance I enjoy that much. Since 0:08:11.960 --> 0:08:15.600 three six Mafia, to have these dudes from the streets 0:08:15.640 --> 0:08:18.360 of Memphis in front of that crowd talking about his 0:08:18.480 --> 0:08:22.160 heart out there for a pimp was just beautiful television. 0:08:22.560 --> 0:08:25.600 But it was fun. It was different and I I 0:08:25.600 --> 0:08:28.760 still haven't seen Barbie. Yeah, but that dude last night 0:08:28.840 --> 0:08:31.400 makes me want to watch Sunday. 0:08:31.160 --> 0:08:32.920 Night and with you. I loved Barbie. 0:08:32.960 --> 0:08:36.760 Okay, Now I don't want to watch it. 0:08:35.880 --> 0:08:37.680 One for the reasons you think, though there is an 0:08:37.679 --> 0:08:40.440 incredible social commentary and female empowerment. 0:08:40.600 --> 0:08:43.280 I loved. I loved the movie. Well, if you want 0:08:43.280 --> 0:08:46.880 to watch it, I'll try not to talk and tell 0:08:46.880 --> 0:08:48.400 you my favorite parts as we're watching it. 0:08:49.400 --> 0:08:52.640 That's fine. Oh you don't even look like you believe you. 0:08:52.760 --> 0:08:55.440 Oh, my goods, I just know. Yeah, we're to point now. 0:08:55.480 --> 0:08:58.240 We went to actually to the movies this weekend with 0:08:58.280 --> 0:09:00.760 your daughter. And see he's saying, look because he told 0:09:00.800 --> 0:09:03.280 me and to being that he would. He was refusing 0:09:03.320 --> 0:09:07.079 to sit in between us because we both talk at 0:09:07.120 --> 0:09:09.480 different times about different parts of the movie and he 0:09:09.520 --> 0:09:10.640 can't hear what's happening. 0:09:11.040 --> 0:09:14.199 But as it turns out, he sat in between us and. 0:09:14.360 --> 0:09:16.120 I didn't see much of the movie. 0:09:16.320 --> 0:09:18.640 Well, I did notice it for the first time. Chris laughing. 0:09:18.679 --> 0:09:20.240 Well, I would say something and then a few minutes 0:09:20.320 --> 0:09:22.400 later I look and she'd be telling you something. 0:09:22.440 --> 0:09:23.640 I was like, oh, wow, we really do. 0:09:23.840 --> 0:09:28.120 I'm literally ping ponging between you two watching movies. But 0:09:29.040 --> 0:09:33.160 any way, what you go? I said at the top 0:09:33.200 --> 0:09:36.560 here this is the photoshop controversy. I don't fully on 0:09:36.640 --> 0:09:39.920 a royal photoshop controversy. I still really don't quite understand. 0:09:40.000 --> 0:09:42.959 Okay, so I'm kind of really into this story. Yes, 0:09:43.520 --> 0:09:46.439 I had fun going down a rabbit hole looking at 0:09:46.440 --> 0:09:49.960 it because there there was already conspiracy theories out there 0:09:50.000 --> 0:09:53.760 about Kate Middleton. She had abdominal surgery according to the 0:09:53.800 --> 0:09:57.640 Palace on January sixteenth. I believe it is odd she 0:09:57.760 --> 0:09:59.199 was in the in the. 0:09:59.040 --> 0:10:00.760 Hospital for almost two weeks. 0:10:00.800 --> 0:10:04.200 That is not something that you would typically consider to 0:10:04.240 --> 0:10:06.480 be a normal hospital stay for that kind of surgery. 0:10:06.480 --> 0:10:06.960 Abdominal. 0:10:07.400 --> 0:10:09.240 Yeah, but they didn't go into any detail. They just 0:10:09.240 --> 0:10:10.120 said it wasn't cancer. 0:10:10.160 --> 0:10:12.480 Okay. Didn't you say something about you didn't have an 0:10:12.480 --> 0:10:14.400 abdominal or did you have an I've had. 0:10:14.480 --> 0:10:17.080 I've we know me and my medical history everything. I 0:10:17.080 --> 0:10:19.360 have had an apendectomy and I have had. 0:10:19.600 --> 0:10:23.319 This is the embarrassing one the terratoma. 0:10:23.840 --> 0:10:27.240 It's really rare and I'm not going to get into it, 0:10:27.240 --> 0:10:30.280 but I had to have that surgery too, so I've 0:10:30.280 --> 0:10:33.200 had two abdominal surgeries. Now, I mean, I don't know 0:10:33.200 --> 0:10:35.800 what hers is, and of course we don't need to know, 0:10:35.880 --> 0:10:39.040 but it just sparked a lot of conspiracy theories because 0:10:39.080 --> 0:10:41.320 it was an odd thing, and then you know, you're 0:10:41.440 --> 0:10:45.520 probably the two most surveilled people in all of UK 0:10:45.640 --> 0:10:46.800 in terms of the paparazzi. 0:10:46.840 --> 0:10:48.040 No one got pictures of. 0:10:48.040 --> 0:10:50.600 Them going to the hospital leaving the hospital. I think 0:10:50.640 --> 0:10:52.640 there was one photo of William visiting her, but that 0:10:52.760 --> 0:10:55.040 was it. So we haven't seen her. They said that 0:10:55.080 --> 0:10:58.000 we wouldn't see her until after Easter, but I think 0:10:58.040 --> 0:10:59.920 because they knew that there were so many rumors swirl 0:11:00.480 --> 0:11:02.520 about what may have really been going on or what's 0:11:02.600 --> 0:11:06.160 really happening, from she's dead to their getting divorced, to 0:11:06.280 --> 0:11:07.439 she's had plastic surgery. 0:11:07.440 --> 0:11:08.560 I mean, it's just whatever you want. 0:11:08.480 --> 0:11:08.719 To call it. 0:11:08.800 --> 0:11:10.880 Wait, I didn't follow that. You said they already said 0:11:10.920 --> 0:11:13.880 we wouldn't be seeing her till later anyway, Okay. 0:11:13.480 --> 0:11:16.840 Correct, But I think just because they saw people speculating 0:11:16.840 --> 0:11:18.600 in that vacuum, that void of information. 0:11:19.520 --> 0:11:21.240 Yeah, William, they the palaces. 0:11:21.240 --> 0:11:24.120 William took the picture of Kate and her children and 0:11:24.160 --> 0:11:26.960 they released it on UK's Mother's Day. 0:11:27.520 --> 0:11:30.520 But when you look at the photo and to the point. 0:11:30.280 --> 0:11:34.120 Where the ap geddy Reuter's these major news organizations they 0:11:34.160 --> 0:11:36.840 initially republished it and then took it down and said, 0:11:36.840 --> 0:11:42.160 we aren't going to disseminate this photo because it was 0:11:42.200 --> 0:11:45.520 manipulated from the source. So anyone who's gone on to 0:11:45.520 --> 0:11:47.600 look at it, like her hair is kind of funny. 0:11:48.000 --> 0:11:50.040 I have been staring at this picture. I can't The. 0:11:50.080 --> 0:11:53.760 Hands are strange, like there's a pattern in the tile 0:11:53.880 --> 0:11:55.000 that doesn't match up. 0:11:55.679 --> 0:11:59.200 So there wasn't understand there was some strange thing. 0:11:59.280 --> 0:12:03.040 So it got then that reached such a fever pitch 0:12:03.120 --> 0:12:05.199 that and this is I believe. 0:12:04.920 --> 0:12:06.000 Almost unprecedented. 0:12:06.480 --> 0:12:12.600 Princess Kate actually put out an apology saying, hey, whoops, guys, 0:12:13.080 --> 0:12:15.600 I edited it and you know, obviously I'm not that 0:12:15.640 --> 0:12:18.160 great at it. I'm an amateur and left it at that. 0:12:18.360 --> 0:12:20.400 But that did not quiet all of the critics. 0:12:20.640 --> 0:12:23.120 I find it hard to believe. I don't think they 0:12:23.120 --> 0:12:27.400 say she's taken photos before, but you really are going 0:12:27.480 --> 0:12:29.960 to let I mean, knowing all the eyeballs are going 0:12:30.000 --> 0:12:34.240 to be on this picture. Let William take the picture, 0:12:34.920 --> 0:12:38.040 he gives it to his wife. She plays around with 0:12:38.080 --> 0:12:42.840 it on her laptop or her cell phone to photoshop 0:12:42.880 --> 0:12:44.440 it or do what she wants to do to it. 0:12:44.480 --> 0:12:47.040 And then what sends it to the press office? Say hey, guys, 0:12:47.160 --> 0:12:47.960 put that out for me. 0:12:48.200 --> 0:12:51.040 The controversy's going to continue and the conspiracy theories are 0:12:51.080 --> 0:12:52.640 going to probably escalate. 0:12:52.840 --> 0:12:55.880 I'm still amazed that she would be allowed to photo 0:12:55.960 --> 0:12:59.080 shop like I am going to work on this and 0:12:59.120 --> 0:13:00.720 give it back to you. Guys. Has to put out that. 0:13:00.880 --> 0:13:03.200 Just to your point, I don't think many people believe 0:13:03.480 --> 0:13:05.520 that she actually did it, although she is now on 0:13:05.559 --> 0:13:07.120 the record because she put it out on Twitter. 0:13:08.520 --> 0:13:10.559 Whoops, that was me, My bad. 0:13:10.920 --> 0:13:12.000 I'll take her at a word. 0:13:12.880 --> 0:13:13.800 You might be the only one. 0:13:13.840 --> 0:13:27.360 Wow, what what's the proper time? What is the answer 0:13:27.440 --> 0:13:31.840 to that question? If you're married, your spouse passes, how 0:13:31.960 --> 0:13:34.560 soon can you then start to date again and it 0:13:34.679 --> 0:13:35.240 not be. 0:13:36.880 --> 0:13:37.600 Distasteful? 0:13:37.720 --> 0:13:41.480 Yes, I don't personally think it's anyone else's business. 0:13:41.640 --> 0:13:43.679 There you go, so there is no time. 0:13:43.960 --> 0:13:45.800 I don't think you could ever say there is a 0:13:45.800 --> 0:13:49.319 correct time or a specific amount of warning. You don't 0:13:49.360 --> 0:13:53.520 know a what the status of that relationship actually was. 0:13:54.040 --> 0:13:58.080 B you don't know what it's like to be lonely, 0:13:58.240 --> 0:14:01.400 and sometimes, you know, when you're in those darkest hours, 0:14:01.760 --> 0:14:04.720 you reach out for comfort and then something happens, a 0:14:04.800 --> 0:14:08.040 relationship ensuites that you didn't even intend to happen. So 0:14:08.080 --> 0:14:09.880 it's not like you're going on dating apps and even 0:14:09.920 --> 0:14:11.640 if you are okay. 0:14:11.559 --> 0:14:15.360 And again, who are we to say about somebody else's situation, 0:14:15.760 --> 0:14:18.160 but we are talking about now somebody else's situation, and 0:14:18.160 --> 0:14:21.120 you just hit on almost exact thing. She said, this 0:14:21.240 --> 0:14:24.400 idea of loneliness. They were talking about Kelly Rizzo, who 0:14:26.080 --> 0:14:28.800 was married to Bob Sagett. She was married him for 0:14:28.840 --> 0:14:31.400 three years when he passed. That's been now well over 0:14:31.440 --> 0:14:35.840 two years ago. And yeah, she's come out here recently 0:14:36.040 --> 0:14:39.720 and proudly and showing that she is dating someone now 0:14:39.800 --> 0:14:42.800 did a red carpet official I guess is what they 0:14:42.840 --> 0:14:48.280 call it. But she started getting some feedback, some criticism 0:14:48.640 --> 0:14:50.280 that she felt the need to address. 0:14:50.640 --> 0:14:53.240 You actually did, and I remember you had such a 0:14:53.360 --> 0:14:57.000 beautiful interview with her right after Bob Saggett's death. 0:14:56.840 --> 0:14:58.000 Because it was unexpected. 0:14:58.000 --> 0:15:01.240 It was what did you lean from talking to her 0:15:01.320 --> 0:15:03.760 about their love and their relationship and what do you 0:15:03.800 --> 0:15:04.560 think about all of them? 0:15:04.680 --> 0:15:07.960 You know. The thing from that day the interview I 0:15:08.000 --> 0:15:09.640 remember most is when we were done. It was with 0:15:09.680 --> 0:15:11.240 her for a couple of hours. We were done, the 0:15:11.280 --> 0:15:14.600 crew was putting up and said bye to her. I 0:15:14.640 --> 0:15:16.160 thought she was gone because we were at the back 0:15:16.160 --> 0:15:17.840 of this house. Thought she was gone. I went back 0:15:17.880 --> 0:15:22.520 in and she came back in and was in tears, 0:15:22.720 --> 0:15:25.880 just in thanking me for the platform, thanking me for 0:15:25.960 --> 0:15:30.760 how we handled her delicately through the process. I remember 0:15:30.880 --> 0:15:33.480 that personal interaction, and that's when I saw, I guess 0:15:33.560 --> 0:15:36.320 more of a the pain of a woman who she 0:15:36.400 --> 0:15:38.280 was so composed, and she cried a little during the 0:15:38.320 --> 0:15:41.840 interview where she was so composed. But that's when she 0:15:41.880 --> 0:15:45.240 didn't feel like the wife of a star. She didn't 0:15:45.240 --> 0:15:50.400 feel like the actress or the podcaster, and she's a 0:15:50.400 --> 0:15:52.160 public figure in her own right. She didn't feel like that. 0:15:52.200 --> 0:15:53.920 She was a woman who just lost somebody she loved, 0:15:54.200 --> 0:15:56.120 and that stood out to me more than anything. So 0:15:56.360 --> 0:15:58.480 I was surprised you brought this to my attention, like 0:15:58.520 --> 0:16:01.000 she's being criticized to the point she had to come out, 0:16:01.000 --> 0:16:03.440 and she put out a couple of videos on TikTok 0:16:03.440 --> 0:16:07.040 in which she was actually trying to explain her not 0:16:07.400 --> 0:16:08.760 that's not the right word, that's the right word. She 0:16:09.360 --> 0:16:10.960 defend the right word. 0:16:12.760 --> 0:16:15.320 The fact that it's sad to me that she felt 0:16:15.320 --> 0:16:18.040 the need to defend herself. But I get it, I 0:16:18.080 --> 0:16:21.280 totally get it. But that is something that I feel 0:16:21.320 --> 0:16:23.760 like is just despicable. Then anyone wants to wait in 0:16:23.800 --> 0:16:26.000 on someone who's already suffered an extreme loss, that they 0:16:26.040 --> 0:16:28.120 don't get to be happy again, but they don't get 0:16:28.160 --> 0:16:28.800 to move on again. 0:16:28.800 --> 0:16:31.600 And from what I read, she even talked. 0:16:31.360 --> 0:16:35.520 To his daughter's correct, Yes she did if I started 0:16:35.600 --> 0:16:36.080 dating again. 0:16:36.120 --> 0:16:39.120 She even said she wasn't open to the possibility for 0:16:39.160 --> 0:16:41.760 a full year, like just take the next year off 0:16:41.800 --> 0:16:45.560 the table, But she didn't just to hear anybody questioning again, 0:16:45.640 --> 0:16:47.920 I didn't spend time around the two of them together, 0:16:48.000 --> 0:16:50.320 but the time I spend with her to hear anybody 0:16:50.400 --> 0:16:54.880 questioning her love of that man now that he's gone 0:16:55.000 --> 0:16:57.040 and she's has to move on with her life. And 0:16:57.040 --> 0:17:00.400 you talked about loneliness, I just can't imagine. Well, yeah, 0:17:00.400 --> 0:17:03.440 and I've stayed in touch with her ever since. She's 0:17:03.480 --> 0:17:06.440 just some money I've always appreciated and adored. And Kelly, 0:17:06.440 --> 0:17:10.360 you're listening, do you think just to all the love 0:17:10.400 --> 0:17:14.080 out there to you. But that was a tough one. 0:17:14.760 --> 0:17:16.600 I'm sure you all saw, and so many of us 0:17:16.640 --> 0:17:20.840 travel and the idea of one or two or both 0:17:20.840 --> 0:17:22.880 of your pilots falling asleep at the same time is 0:17:22.960 --> 0:17:26.199 absolutely terrifying. But that's exactly what happened in Indonesia. We 0:17:26.240 --> 0:17:28.480 should say no one was harmed. I think there were 0:17:28.520 --> 0:17:32.160 one hundred and fifty three passengers on board that plane, 0:17:32.200 --> 0:17:36.240 and it landed safely without incident. However, there was twenty 0:17:36.280 --> 0:17:39.199 eight minutes where air traffic control could not get a 0:17:39.280 --> 0:17:41.639 hold of either one of the pilots, and they actually 0:17:41.720 --> 0:17:46.800 veered off, of course, which is disturbing again because they 0:17:46.800 --> 0:17:47.400 both fell usen. 0:17:47.600 --> 0:17:50.360 But when they got back in touch, initially they said, yeah, 0:17:50.359 --> 0:17:51.920 we have some radio issues. 0:17:52.600 --> 0:17:54.480 Yeah, it was the radio just malfunctioned. 0:17:54.520 --> 0:17:57.840 Well, I don't know what to say, but okay, now 0:17:57.880 --> 0:18:02.240 here's a scary part. All right. There are some places 0:18:02.840 --> 0:18:08.280 that do allow for pilots to sleep, to take naps 0:18:08.400 --> 0:18:12.840