Speaker 1: Dumb bitch stories because we've all been a dumb bitch
Speaker 1: at least once or twice. All right, y'all be back,
Speaker 1: Let's get into this dumb bitch story right quick, okay,
Speaker 1: And it's not the shame dumb bitches, right.
Speaker 2: It's because we've all been yes, a few. Honestly, I
Speaker 2: still I still go back to her every nowaday, and
Speaker 2: I'm still for her. What's your story? That sounded like, okay,
Speaker 2: you're on the couch. How did that make you? So?
Speaker 2: My ex was my ex. We were together from my
Speaker 2: senior year of high school up until about probably about
Speaker 2: a year ago, so we kind of spent our whole
Speaker 2: adult lodge growing together. So you know, we went through
Speaker 2: some ship So I dealt with like, you know, other girls.
Speaker 2: He dealt with, you know, me having to show him
Speaker 2: stop playing with me, some other guys and all of that.
Speaker 2: But I when I moved to l A, there was
Speaker 2: about a year and a half into two years that
Speaker 2: he was not in LA with me, and we like
Speaker 2: we were broken up, but it was like not a
Speaker 2: real breakup. It was still like very toxical here. It's
Speaker 2: like you're not supposed to be doing this, You're not
Speaker 2: supposed to be doing that, but realistically we're across the country,
Speaker 2: so we're both doing a lot of shit. And I
Speaker 2: said to him, like, you know, I want to date
Speaker 2: other people. This just doesn't make any sense. You're not
Speaker 2: coming here. I used to always feel like I'm tired
Speaker 2: of waiting on you. You always got some shit. I
Speaker 2: gotta wait on you to figure out and like, get
Speaker 2: get me together, come to la, like whatever. So we're
Speaker 2: doing that, that whole runaround thing and all that. And
Speaker 2: I was at work one day. I was on the
Speaker 2: tour bus twenty eighteen. My cousin called me, and she
Speaker 2: don't really like call me. This is like one of
Speaker 2: my cousins, so like we were all like all of
Speaker 2: my cousins are close. I'm not particularly close with this
Speaker 2: cousin anymore. Y'all will hear why. But she had called me,
Speaker 2: and she called me a couple of times, so I'm
Speaker 2: thinking something's wrong. So I'm in the middle of my tour.
Speaker 2: But so I take my phone out and I text her.
Speaker 2: When I text her, she just reads it. I'm like, hey,
Speaker 2: I'm at work. Good she didn't. So she calls again
Speaker 2: and I'm like, okay, she's calling me, and I just
Speaker 2: said he had that work. She like, you know, she
Speaker 2: know what I do for work, so it must be
Speaker 2: something really wrong. Mind y'all. I'm on a tour so
Speaker 2: they're like twenty five people on my tour bus. No,
Speaker 2: actually we were. We had just wrapped the tour. I
Speaker 2: was loading the new tour bus, but there were people
Speaker 2: on the bus. So as the people on the bus,
Speaker 2: it's like, you know, like if you am seeing an
Speaker 2: event and y'all not about to start yet, you said
Speaker 2: I could keep the crowd going. So I'm talking to me
Speaker 2: on the phone where y'all from all that stuff. So
Speaker 2: she calls me and she's like, bitch, such and such
Speaker 2: got her best friend pregnant. And I was like what
Speaker 2: And she was like, she's pregnant and he's trying to
Speaker 2: have her not he's trying to have it where she
Speaker 2: doesn't keep the baby. He don't plan on telling you.
Speaker 2: I'm just calling you because I wanted you to know.
Speaker 2: And I'm like, like when I saved my whole like
Speaker 2: I never fucked the feeling like that in my life,
Speaker 2: Like my whole life just dropped to the bottom of
Speaker 2: my feet. I was like, what the like I couldn't
Speaker 2: even like, like, I'm like, this has to be a joke,
Speaker 2: Like there's no a bit a bit is pregnant, but
Speaker 2: on top of a bitch being pregnant, it's like bro
Speaker 2: like you know the you know, the connection between the
Speaker 2: two of us, Like she not my friend, but like
Speaker 2: you know my cousin. Here were people that like you know,
Speaker 2: you've seen, you've been around. My first question though, was, well,
Speaker 2: why am I just getting a call down because she's pregnant,
Speaker 2: y'all upset that he don't want her to have a baby,
Speaker 2: Like the didn't call me when they started sucking each other.
Speaker 2: Oh I didn't know. I didn't this. I didn't that
Speaker 2: she told me that. You know, they were just like talking.
Speaker 2: It was nothing whatever whatever. So now I'm like heed it.
Speaker 2: Everybody getting it. So I'm like but when I say
Speaker 2: bawling crying, I mean like I couldn't even talk, like
Speaker 2: my job. They just saw me into the phone and
Speaker 2: then I just like broke down. They thought somebody died,
Speaker 2: so they took me off the tour bus. They got
Speaker 2: another tour guy to come and replace me. They're trying
Speaker 2: to calm me down, and I feel like a dumb
Speaker 2: ass bitch because I'm like, I can't say to my job,
Speaker 2: like you fend had a baby on me. He's like, girl,
Speaker 2: what go to to work? You got bills to pay?
Speaker 2: But like I couldn't get myself together, Like I literally
Speaker 2: couldn't get myself together. I'm calling his mom. I'm cussing
Speaker 2: her out, like you fucking knew the whole time you
Speaker 2: didn't call me. I'm calling him. He's like into the phone.
Speaker 2: When I finally get him on the phone, I'm like,
Speaker 2: so she's pregnant. He was like what. I was like,
Speaker 2: so she's pregnant, Like, don't fucking play with me? And
Speaker 2: he was like, who called you? She called you? And
Speaker 2: I'm like that's your response, Like right, why? Like why
Speaker 2: am I? First of all? Why am I finding out
Speaker 2: the way that I found out? And then who called me?
Speaker 1: Like the fuck like they only care about who told?
Speaker 1: They mad at the bit you told, not their action,
Speaker 1: right Yo?
Speaker 2: When I say I was going off, I was going off, y'all.
Speaker 2: I freaked the fuck out. I screenshot at her Instagram.
Speaker 2: I posted her I didn't look. I told my cousin
Speaker 2: to send me her number, and my cousin at this
Speaker 2: point Shoann redeem herself. So she sends me the number.
Speaker 2: I ain't call her yet, though I posted her because
Speaker 2: I wanted her to know that I knew, and I
Speaker 2: wanted her to know in a very big way. And
Speaker 2: I regret so much of this because I'm like, bro,
Speaker 2: that man chose her. They done with that girl, he knew, Like,
Speaker 2: you know, when you fucking somebody without a content on
Speaker 2: what you're doing, you know you making that decision. That
Speaker 2: girl ain't owe me nothing. He did right, But I
Speaker 2: posted her. I tagged her like, y'all, go go send
Speaker 2: her some love. She's expected to be, baby, and like,
Speaker 2: I just did the most and I'm just like, I
Speaker 2: was just so fucking angry at everybody. All of that
Speaker 2: to say, I went through hell. Like it was hell, y'all.
Speaker 2: He ended up sleeping with her again, trying to control
Speaker 2: the situation. And I'm on the tour bus again. She
Speaker 2: sends me screenshots and him talking about he on his
Speaker 2: way over.
Speaker 1: And I see that's when the bitch become a problem,
Speaker 1: because why oh no.
Speaker 2: She she She definitely was. She knew what she was writing.
Speaker 2: But yeah, I said all that to say, y'all, I
Speaker 2: went back to him. What was the canalyst that ended?
Speaker 2: It Actually nothing to do with the baby. The girl,
Speaker 2: the beautiful baby boy is here and like a few
Speaker 2: years old now love him to death. I mean me
Speaker 2: and her ain't friends, but like I don't even think
Speaker 2: about her, like life has moved on. It was just
Speaker 2: like personally, like I felt like I was growing and
Speaker 2: like wanting him to do more. And just one day
Speaker 2: I just woke up. My mom got sick. We found
Speaker 2: out my mom was bad on the stage for a cancer.
Speaker 2: She's good now, But when my mom got sick and
Speaker 2: I was going through that process with her of just
Speaker 2: like her fighting for her life, it just really woke
Speaker 2: me up, Like, Bro, what are you doing all this for?
Speaker 2: Like you spend so much time away from your family,
Speaker 2: from your loved ones, like for this career thing and
Speaker 2: all that, but like what is this really for? Like
Speaker 2: are you really going hard? Because you really do spend
Speaker 2: a lot of time away. And I just woke up
Speaker 2: and was just like I'm not doing everything I need
Speaker 2: to be doing. And I don't feel like the man
Speaker 2: in my life is doing that for himself either. And
Speaker 2: I don't think that us being together is going to
Speaker 2: help that. I think that I'm a crutch for him
Speaker 2: and I need to be inspired every day, like I
Speaker 2: need a man that's going to push me. I need
Speaker 2: a man that wouldn't have been okay with a lot
Speaker 2: of things that I was settling for, and it was.
Speaker 2: And I love him to death. I think he's going
Speaker 2: to be a great husband for somebody once he realizes
Speaker 2: his own potential. But again, I think I realized that
Speaker 2: I was back in that space of waiting for him
Speaker 2: to figure it out, and I didn't do it no more.
Speaker 2: I just couldn't do it no more. And then once
Speaker 2: I decided to express that, it turned into disrespect and
Speaker 2: all this other stuff. So then I, oh, yeah, I
Speaker 2: really gotta get up out of here now. Yeah, I
Speaker 2: feel you.
Speaker 1: That's a lot of our story, life changing things, pushing
Speaker 1: it into perspective.