WEBVTT - Loren LoRosa Shares Her Dumb Bitch Story

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<v Speaker 1>Dumb bitch stories because we've all been a dumb bitch

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<v Speaker 1>at least once or twice. All right, y'all be back,

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<v Speaker 1>Let's get into this dumb bitch story right quick, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>And it's not the shame dumb bitches, right.

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<v Speaker 2>It's because we've all been yes, a few. Honestly, I

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<v Speaker 2>still I still go back to her every nowaday, and

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<v Speaker 2>I'm still for her. What's your story? That sounded like, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>you're on the couch. How did that make you? So?

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<v Speaker 2>My ex was my ex. We were together from my

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<v Speaker 2>senior year of high school up until about probably about

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<v Speaker 2>a year ago, so we kind of spent our whole

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<v Speaker 2>adult lodge growing together. So you know, we went through

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<v Speaker 2>some ship So I dealt with like, you know, other girls.

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<v Speaker 2>He dealt with, you know, me having to show him

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<v Speaker 2>stop playing with me, some other guys and all of that.

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<v Speaker 2>But I when I moved to l A, there was

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<v Speaker 2>about a year and a half into two years that

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<v Speaker 2>he was not in LA with me, and we like

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<v Speaker 2>we were broken up, but it was like not a

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<v Speaker 2>real breakup. It was still like very toxical here. It's

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<v Speaker 2>like you're not supposed to be doing this, You're not

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<v Speaker 2>supposed to be doing that, but realistically we're across the country,

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<v Speaker 2>so we're both doing a lot of shit. And I

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<v Speaker 2>said to him, like, you know, I want to date

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<v Speaker 2>other people. This just doesn't make any sense. You're not

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<v Speaker 2>coming here. I used to always feel like I'm tired

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<v Speaker 2>of waiting on you. You always got some shit. I

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<v Speaker 2>gotta wait on you to figure out and like, get

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<v Speaker 2>get me together, come to la, like whatever. So we're

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<v Speaker 2>doing that, that whole runaround thing and all that. And

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<v Speaker 2>I was at work one day. I was on the

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<v Speaker 2>tour bus twenty eighteen. My cousin called me, and she

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<v Speaker 2>don't really like call me. This is like one of

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<v Speaker 2>my cousins, so like we were all like all of

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<v Speaker 2>my cousins are close. I'm not particularly close with this

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<v Speaker 2>cousin anymore. Y'all will hear why. But she had called me,

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<v Speaker 2>and she called me a couple of times, so I'm

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<v Speaker 2>thinking something's wrong. So I'm in the middle of my tour.

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<v Speaker 2>But so I take my phone out and I text her.

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<v Speaker 2>When I text her, she just reads it. I'm like, hey,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm at work. Good she didn't. So she calls again

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<v Speaker 2>and I'm like, okay, she's calling me, and I just

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<v Speaker 2>said he had that work. She like, you know, she

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<v Speaker 2>know what I do for work, so it must be

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<v Speaker 2>something really wrong. Mind y'all. I'm on a tour so

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<v Speaker 2>they're like twenty five people on my tour bus. No,

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<v Speaker 2>actually we were. We had just wrapped the tour. I

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<v Speaker 2>was loading the new tour bus, but there were people

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<v Speaker 2>on the bus. So as the people on the bus,

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<v Speaker 2>it's like, you know, like if you am seeing an

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<v Speaker 2>event and y'all not about to start yet, you said

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<v Speaker 2>I could keep the crowd going. So I'm talking to me

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<v Speaker 2>on the phone where y'all from all that stuff. So

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<v Speaker 2>she calls me and she's like, bitch, such and such

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<v Speaker 2>got her best friend pregnant. And I was like what

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<v Speaker 2>And she was like, she's pregnant and he's trying to

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<v Speaker 2>have her not he's trying to have it where she

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<v Speaker 2>doesn't keep the baby. He don't plan on telling you.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just calling you because I wanted you to know.

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<v Speaker 2>And I'm like, like when I saved my whole like

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<v Speaker 2>I never fucked the feeling like that in my life,

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<v Speaker 2>Like my whole life just dropped to the bottom of

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<v Speaker 2>my feet. I was like, what the like I couldn't

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<v Speaker 2>even like, like, I'm like, this has to be a joke,

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<v Speaker 2>Like there's no a bit a bit is pregnant, but

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<v Speaker 2>on top of a bitch being pregnant, it's like bro

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<v Speaker 2>like you know the you know, the connection between the

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<v Speaker 2>two of us, Like she not my friend, but like

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<v Speaker 2>you know my cousin. Here were people that like you know,

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<v Speaker 2>you've seen, you've been around. My first question though, was, well,

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<v Speaker 2>why am I just getting a call down because she's pregnant,

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<v Speaker 2>y'all upset that he don't want her to have a baby,

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<v Speaker 2>Like the didn't call me when they started sucking each other.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh I didn't know. I didn't this. I didn't that

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<v Speaker 2>she told me that. You know, they were just like talking.

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<v Speaker 2>It was nothing whatever whatever. So now I'm like heed it.

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<v Speaker 2>Everybody getting it. So I'm like but when I say

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<v Speaker 2>bawling crying, I mean like I couldn't even talk, like

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<v Speaker 2>my job. They just saw me into the phone and

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<v Speaker 2>then I just like broke down. They thought somebody died,

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<v Speaker 2>so they took me off the tour bus. They got

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<v Speaker 2>another tour guy to come and replace me. They're trying

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<v Speaker 2>to calm me down, and I feel like a dumb

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<v Speaker 2>ass bitch because I'm like, I can't say to my job,

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<v Speaker 2>like you fend had a baby on me. He's like, girl,

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<v Speaker 2>what go to to work? You got bills to pay?

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<v Speaker 2>But like I couldn't get myself together, Like I literally

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<v Speaker 2>couldn't get myself together. I'm calling his mom. I'm cussing

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<v Speaker 2>her out, like you fucking knew the whole time you

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<v Speaker 2>didn't call me. I'm calling him. He's like into the phone.

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<v Speaker 2>When I finally get him on the phone, I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>so she's pregnant. He was like what. I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>so she's pregnant, Like, don't fucking play with me? And

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<v Speaker 2>he was like, who called you? She called you? And

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like that's your response, Like right, why? Like why

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<v Speaker 2>am I? First of all? Why am I finding out

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<v Speaker 2>the way that I found out? And then who called me?

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<v Speaker 1>Like the fuck like they only care about who told?

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<v Speaker 1>They mad at the bit you told, not their action,

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<v Speaker 1>right Yo?

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<v Speaker 2>When I say I was going off, I was going off, y'all.

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<v Speaker 2>I freaked the fuck out. I screenshot at her Instagram.

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<v Speaker 2>I posted her I didn't look. I told my cousin

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<v Speaker 2>to send me her number, and my cousin at this

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<v Speaker 2>point Shoann redeem herself. So she sends me the number.

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<v Speaker 2>I ain't call her yet, though I posted her because

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<v Speaker 2>I wanted her to know that I knew, and I

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<v Speaker 2>wanted her to know in a very big way. And

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<v Speaker 2>I regret so much of this because I'm like, bro,

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<v Speaker 2>that man chose her. They done with that girl, he knew, Like,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, when you fucking somebody without a content on

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<v Speaker 2>what you're doing, you know you making that decision. That

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<v Speaker 2>girl ain't owe me nothing. He did right, But I

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<v Speaker 2>posted her. I tagged her like, y'all, go go send

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<v Speaker 2>her some love. She's expected to be, baby, and like,

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<v Speaker 2>I just did the most and I'm just like, I

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<v Speaker 2>was just so fucking angry at everybody. All of that

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<v Speaker 2>to say, I went through hell. Like it was hell, y'all.

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<v Speaker 2>He ended up sleeping with her again, trying to control

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<v Speaker 2>the situation. And I'm on the tour bus again. She

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<v Speaker 2>sends me screenshots and him talking about he on his

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<v Speaker 2>way over.

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<v Speaker 1>And I see that's when the bitch become a problem,

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<v Speaker 1>because why oh no.

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<v Speaker 2>She she She definitely was. She knew what she was writing.

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<v Speaker 2>But yeah, I said all that to say, y'all, I

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<v Speaker 2>went back to him. What was the canalyst that ended?

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<v Speaker 2>It Actually nothing to do with the baby. The girl,

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<v Speaker 2>the beautiful baby boy is here and like a few

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<v Speaker 2>years old now love him to death. I mean me

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<v Speaker 2>and her ain't friends, but like I don't even think

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<v Speaker 2>about her, like life has moved on. It was just

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<v Speaker 2>like personally, like I felt like I was growing and

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<v Speaker 2>like wanting him to do more. And just one day

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<v Speaker 2>I just woke up. My mom got sick. We found

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<v Speaker 2>out my mom was bad on the stage for a cancer.

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<v Speaker 2>She's good now, But when my mom got sick and

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<v Speaker 2>I was going through that process with her of just

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<v Speaker 2>like her fighting for her life, it just really woke

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<v Speaker 2>me up, Like, Bro, what are you doing all this for?

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<v Speaker 2>Like you spend so much time away from your family,

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<v Speaker 2>from your loved ones, like for this career thing and

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<v Speaker 2>all that, but like what is this really for? Like

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<v Speaker 2>are you really going hard? Because you really do spend

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of time away. And I just woke up

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<v Speaker 2>and was just like I'm not doing everything I need

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<v Speaker 2>to be doing. And I don't feel like the man

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<v Speaker 2>in my life is doing that for himself either. And

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think that us being together is going to

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<v Speaker 2>help that. I think that I'm a crutch for him

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<v Speaker 2>and I need to be inspired every day, like I

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<v Speaker 2>need a man that's going to push me. I need

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<v Speaker 2>a man that wouldn't have been okay with a lot

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<v Speaker 2>of things that I was settling for, and it was.

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<v Speaker 2>And I love him to death. I think he's going

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<v Speaker 2>to be a great husband for somebody once he realizes

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<v Speaker 2>his own potential. But again, I think I realized that

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<v Speaker 2>I was back in that space of waiting for him

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<v Speaker 2>to figure it out, and I didn't do it no more.

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<v Speaker 2>I just couldn't do it no more. And then once

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<v Speaker 2>I decided to express that, it turned into disrespect and

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<v Speaker 2>all this other stuff. So then I, oh, yeah, I

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<v Speaker 2>really gotta get up out of here now. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 2>feel you.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a lot of our story, life changing things, pushing

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<v Speaker 1>it into perspective.