1 00:00:01,560 --> 00:00:05,960 Speaker 1: Dumb bitch stories because we've all been a dumb bitch 2 00:00:06,000 --> 00:00:09,400 Speaker 1: at least once or twice. All right, y'all be back, 3 00:00:09,520 --> 00:00:11,880 Speaker 1: Let's get into this dumb bitch story right quick, okay, 4 00:00:11,960 --> 00:00:14,400 Speaker 1: And it's not the shame dumb bitches, right. 5 00:00:14,280 --> 00:00:21,000 Speaker 2: It's because we've all been yes, a few. Honestly, I 6 00:00:21,040 --> 00:00:22,919 Speaker 2: still I still go back to her every nowaday, and 7 00:00:22,920 --> 00:00:31,560 Speaker 2: I'm still for her. What's your story? That sounded like, okay, 8 00:00:31,640 --> 00:00:36,319 Speaker 2: you're on the couch. How did that make you? So? 9 00:00:36,960 --> 00:00:40,720 Speaker 2: My ex was my ex. We were together from my 10 00:00:40,800 --> 00:00:43,200 Speaker 2: senior year of high school up until about probably about 11 00:00:43,200 --> 00:00:45,520 Speaker 2: a year ago, so we kind of spent our whole 12 00:00:45,520 --> 00:00:47,839 Speaker 2: adult lodge growing together. So you know, we went through 13 00:00:47,840 --> 00:00:50,640 Speaker 2: some ship So I dealt with like, you know, other girls. 14 00:00:50,720 --> 00:00:52,279 Speaker 2: He dealt with, you know, me having to show him 15 00:00:52,280 --> 00:00:54,600 Speaker 2: stop playing with me, some other guys and all of that. 16 00:00:54,640 --> 00:00:57,800 Speaker 2: But I when I moved to l A, there was 17 00:00:57,800 --> 00:00:59,520 Speaker 2: about a year and a half into two years that 18 00:01:00,040 --> 00:01:02,920 Speaker 2: he was not in LA with me, and we like 19 00:01:03,040 --> 00:01:04,920 Speaker 2: we were broken up, but it was like not a 20 00:01:04,920 --> 00:01:07,039 Speaker 2: real breakup. It was still like very toxical here. It's 21 00:01:07,080 --> 00:01:08,959 Speaker 2: like you're not supposed to be doing this, You're not 22 00:01:08,959 --> 00:01:11,240 Speaker 2: supposed to be doing that, but realistically we're across the country, 23 00:01:11,280 --> 00:01:13,440 Speaker 2: so we're both doing a lot of shit. And I 24 00:01:13,520 --> 00:01:14,880 Speaker 2: said to him, like, you know, I want to date 25 00:01:14,920 --> 00:01:16,920 Speaker 2: other people. This just doesn't make any sense. You're not 26 00:01:16,959 --> 00:01:19,440 Speaker 2: coming here. I used to always feel like I'm tired 27 00:01:19,480 --> 00:01:21,600 Speaker 2: of waiting on you. You always got some shit. I 28 00:01:21,640 --> 00:01:23,679 Speaker 2: gotta wait on you to figure out and like, get 29 00:01:23,720 --> 00:01:28,840 Speaker 2: get me together, come to la, like whatever. So we're 30 00:01:28,840 --> 00:01:32,280 Speaker 2: doing that, that whole runaround thing and all that. And 31 00:01:32,400 --> 00:01:33,760 Speaker 2: I was at work one day. I was on the 32 00:01:33,800 --> 00:01:39,160 Speaker 2: tour bus twenty eighteen. My cousin called me, and she 33 00:01:39,200 --> 00:01:40,520 Speaker 2: don't really like call me. This is like one of 34 00:01:40,560 --> 00:01:42,480 Speaker 2: my cousins, so like we were all like all of 35 00:01:42,520 --> 00:01:44,320 Speaker 2: my cousins are close. I'm not particularly close with this 36 00:01:44,360 --> 00:01:48,200 Speaker 2: cousin anymore. Y'all will hear why. But she had called me, 37 00:01:48,240 --> 00:01:50,200 Speaker 2: and she called me a couple of times, so I'm 38 00:01:50,200 --> 00:01:53,040 Speaker 2: thinking something's wrong. So I'm in the middle of my tour. 39 00:01:53,120 --> 00:01:55,560 Speaker 2: But so I take my phone out and I text her. 40 00:01:55,560 --> 00:01:57,640 Speaker 2: When I text her, she just reads it. I'm like, hey, 41 00:01:57,720 --> 00:02:01,160 Speaker 2: I'm at work. Good she didn't. So she calls again 42 00:02:01,560 --> 00:02:03,040 Speaker 2: and I'm like, okay, she's calling me, and I just 43 00:02:03,040 --> 00:02:05,200 Speaker 2: said he had that work. She like, you know, she 44 00:02:05,280 --> 00:02:06,640 Speaker 2: know what I do for work, so it must be 45 00:02:06,720 --> 00:02:09,600 Speaker 2: something really wrong. Mind y'all. I'm on a tour so 46 00:02:09,639 --> 00:02:12,320 Speaker 2: they're like twenty five people on my tour bus. No, 47 00:02:12,400 --> 00:02:14,200 Speaker 2: actually we were. We had just wrapped the tour. I 48 00:02:14,240 --> 00:02:16,480 Speaker 2: was loading the new tour bus, but there were people 49 00:02:16,520 --> 00:02:18,000 Speaker 2: on the bus. So as the people on the bus, 50 00:02:18,000 --> 00:02:19,440 Speaker 2: it's like, you know, like if you am seeing an 51 00:02:19,480 --> 00:02:21,359 Speaker 2: event and y'all not about to start yet, you said 52 00:02:21,400 --> 00:02:23,280 Speaker 2: I could keep the crowd going. So I'm talking to me 53 00:02:23,320 --> 00:02:25,480 Speaker 2: on the phone where y'all from all that stuff. So 54 00:02:25,520 --> 00:02:29,880 Speaker 2: she calls me and she's like, bitch, such and such 55 00:02:29,960 --> 00:02:33,679 Speaker 2: got her best friend pregnant. And I was like what 56 00:02:34,919 --> 00:02:38,760 Speaker 2: And she was like, she's pregnant and he's trying to 57 00:02:38,760 --> 00:02:41,040 Speaker 2: have her not he's trying to have it where she 58 00:02:41,040 --> 00:02:44,080 Speaker 2: doesn't keep the baby. He don't plan on telling you. 59 00:02:44,560 --> 00:02:46,359 Speaker 2: I'm just calling you because I wanted you to know. 60 00:02:47,200 --> 00:02:50,560 Speaker 2: And I'm like, like when I saved my whole like 61 00:02:51,240 --> 00:02:53,040 Speaker 2: I never fucked the feeling like that in my life, 62 00:02:53,080 --> 00:02:56,080 Speaker 2: Like my whole life just dropped to the bottom of 63 00:02:56,080 --> 00:02:59,440 Speaker 2: my feet. I was like, what the like I couldn't 64 00:02:59,440 --> 00:03:02,280 Speaker 2: even like, like, I'm like, this has to be a joke, 65 00:03:02,440 --> 00:03:06,560 Speaker 2: Like there's no a bit a bit is pregnant, but 66 00:03:06,639 --> 00:03:09,240 Speaker 2: on top of a bitch being pregnant, it's like bro 67 00:03:09,360 --> 00:03:11,840 Speaker 2: like you know the you know, the connection between the 68 00:03:11,880 --> 00:03:13,840 Speaker 2: two of us, Like she not my friend, but like 69 00:03:13,919 --> 00:03:15,800 Speaker 2: you know my cousin. Here were people that like you know, 70 00:03:15,880 --> 00:03:20,519 Speaker 2: you've seen, you've been around. My first question though, was, well, 71 00:03:20,600 --> 00:03:22,600 Speaker 2: why am I just getting a call down because she's pregnant, 72 00:03:22,680 --> 00:03:24,400 Speaker 2: y'all upset that he don't want her to have a baby, 73 00:03:24,520 --> 00:03:26,240 Speaker 2: Like the didn't call me when they started sucking each other. 74 00:03:28,440 --> 00:03:31,160 Speaker 2: Oh I didn't know. I didn't this. I didn't that 75 00:03:31,400 --> 00:03:34,760 Speaker 2: she told me that. You know, they were just like talking. 76 00:03:34,800 --> 00:03:37,720 Speaker 2: It was nothing whatever whatever. So now I'm like heed it. 77 00:03:38,000 --> 00:03:40,080 Speaker 2: Everybody getting it. So I'm like but when I say 78 00:03:40,160 --> 00:03:43,680 Speaker 2: bawling crying, I mean like I couldn't even talk, like 79 00:03:43,840 --> 00:03:46,680 Speaker 2: my job. They just saw me into the phone and 80 00:03:46,680 --> 00:03:49,400 Speaker 2: then I just like broke down. They thought somebody died, 81 00:03:49,880 --> 00:03:51,560 Speaker 2: so they took me off the tour bus. They got 82 00:03:51,560 --> 00:03:53,720 Speaker 2: another tour guy to come and replace me. They're trying 83 00:03:53,720 --> 00:03:55,720 Speaker 2: to calm me down, and I feel like a dumb 84 00:03:55,760 --> 00:03:57,920 Speaker 2: ass bitch because I'm like, I can't say to my job, 85 00:03:58,680 --> 00:04:00,680 Speaker 2: like you fend had a baby on me. He's like, girl, 86 00:04:00,720 --> 00:04:02,880 Speaker 2: what go to to work? You got bills to pay? 87 00:04:03,320 --> 00:04:06,400 Speaker 2: But like I couldn't get myself together, Like I literally 88 00:04:06,440 --> 00:04:08,680 Speaker 2: couldn't get myself together. I'm calling his mom. I'm cussing 89 00:04:08,720 --> 00:04:11,000 Speaker 2: her out, like you fucking knew the whole time you 90 00:04:11,000 --> 00:04:13,480 Speaker 2: didn't call me. I'm calling him. He's like into the phone. 91 00:04:13,800 --> 00:04:16,800 Speaker 2: When I finally get him on the phone, I'm like, 92 00:04:17,000 --> 00:04:20,440 Speaker 2: so she's pregnant. He was like what. I was like, 93 00:04:20,520 --> 00:04:23,480 Speaker 2: so she's pregnant, Like, don't fucking play with me? And 94 00:04:23,520 --> 00:04:26,960 Speaker 2: he was like, who called you? She called you? And 95 00:04:27,000 --> 00:04:31,560 Speaker 2: I'm like that's your response, Like right, why? Like why 96 00:04:31,600 --> 00:04:33,520 Speaker 2: am I? First of all? Why am I finding out 97 00:04:33,520 --> 00:04:37,400 Speaker 2: the way that I found out? And then who called me? 98 00:04:37,720 --> 00:04:40,919 Speaker 1: Like the fuck like they only care about who told? 99 00:04:41,200 --> 00:04:43,200 Speaker 1: They mad at the bit you told, not their action, 100 00:04:43,720 --> 00:04:44,440 Speaker 1: right Yo? 101 00:04:44,520 --> 00:04:47,640 Speaker 2: When I say I was going off, I was going off, y'all. 102 00:04:47,720 --> 00:04:51,479 Speaker 2: I freaked the fuck out. I screenshot at her Instagram. 103 00:04:51,520 --> 00:04:53,839 Speaker 2: I posted her I didn't look. I told my cousin 104 00:04:53,839 --> 00:04:55,480 Speaker 2: to send me her number, and my cousin at this 105 00:04:55,520 --> 00:04:57,479 Speaker 2: point Shoann redeem herself. So she sends me the number. 106 00:04:57,680 --> 00:05:00,200 Speaker 2: I ain't call her yet, though I posted her because 107 00:05:00,240 --> 00:05:01,400 Speaker 2: I wanted her to know that I knew, and I 108 00:05:01,400 --> 00:05:03,320 Speaker 2: wanted her to know in a very big way. And 109 00:05:03,440 --> 00:05:06,200 Speaker 2: I regret so much of this because I'm like, bro, 110 00:05:07,200 --> 00:05:09,359 Speaker 2: that man chose her. They done with that girl, he knew, Like, 111 00:05:09,440 --> 00:05:11,240 Speaker 2: you know, when you fucking somebody without a content on 112 00:05:11,279 --> 00:05:13,320 Speaker 2: what you're doing, you know you making that decision. That 113 00:05:13,360 --> 00:05:15,919 Speaker 2: girl ain't owe me nothing. He did right, But I 114 00:05:15,960 --> 00:05:18,440 Speaker 2: posted her. I tagged her like, y'all, go go send 115 00:05:18,440 --> 00:05:22,080 Speaker 2: her some love. She's expected to be, baby, and like, 116 00:05:22,640 --> 00:05:25,320 Speaker 2: I just did the most and I'm just like, I 117 00:05:25,400 --> 00:05:29,160 Speaker 2: was just so fucking angry at everybody. All of that 118 00:05:29,320 --> 00:05:32,120 Speaker 2: to say, I went through hell. Like it was hell, y'all. 119 00:05:32,400 --> 00:05:34,359 Speaker 2: He ended up sleeping with her again, trying to control 120 00:05:34,440 --> 00:05:37,960 Speaker 2: the situation. And I'm on the tour bus again. She 121 00:05:38,000 --> 00:05:39,880 Speaker 2: sends me screenshots and him talking about he on his 122 00:05:39,920 --> 00:05:40,520 Speaker 2: way over. 123 00:05:40,520 --> 00:05:43,320 Speaker 1: And I see that's when the bitch become a problem, 124 00:05:43,440 --> 00:05:45,240 Speaker 1: because why oh no. 125 00:05:45,160 --> 00:05:49,000 Speaker 2: She she She definitely was. She knew what she was writing. 126 00:05:49,640 --> 00:05:51,279 Speaker 2: But yeah, I said all that to say, y'all, I 127 00:05:51,279 --> 00:05:54,480 Speaker 2: went back to him. What was the canalyst that ended? 128 00:05:54,480 --> 00:05:57,560 Speaker 2: It Actually nothing to do with the baby. The girl, 129 00:05:57,680 --> 00:06:01,479 Speaker 2: the beautiful baby boy is here and like a few 130 00:06:01,560 --> 00:06:04,680 Speaker 2: years old now love him to death. I mean me 131 00:06:04,720 --> 00:06:06,320 Speaker 2: and her ain't friends, but like I don't even think 132 00:06:06,320 --> 00:06:09,560 Speaker 2: about her, like life has moved on. It was just 133 00:06:09,600 --> 00:06:12,360 Speaker 2: like personally, like I felt like I was growing and 134 00:06:12,400 --> 00:06:14,800 Speaker 2: like wanting him to do more. And just one day 135 00:06:14,800 --> 00:06:17,640 Speaker 2: I just woke up. My mom got sick. We found 136 00:06:17,640 --> 00:06:19,360 Speaker 2: out my mom was bad on the stage for a cancer. 137 00:06:19,440 --> 00:06:22,359 Speaker 2: She's good now, But when my mom got sick and 138 00:06:22,400 --> 00:06:24,320 Speaker 2: I was going through that process with her of just 139 00:06:24,320 --> 00:06:26,640 Speaker 2: like her fighting for her life, it just really woke 140 00:06:26,720 --> 00:06:28,560 Speaker 2: me up, Like, Bro, what are you doing all this for? 141 00:06:29,279 --> 00:06:31,440 Speaker 2: Like you spend so much time away from your family, 142 00:06:31,480 --> 00:06:33,640 Speaker 2: from your loved ones, like for this career thing and 143 00:06:33,680 --> 00:06:35,360 Speaker 2: all that, but like what is this really for? Like 144 00:06:35,680 --> 00:06:38,000 Speaker 2: are you really going hard? Because you really do spend 145 00:06:38,000 --> 00:06:40,240 Speaker 2: a lot of time away. And I just woke up 146 00:06:40,240 --> 00:06:42,000 Speaker 2: and was just like I'm not doing everything I need 147 00:06:42,000 --> 00:06:45,120 Speaker 2: to be doing. And I don't feel like the man 148 00:06:45,200 --> 00:06:48,240 Speaker 2: in my life is doing that for himself either. And 149 00:06:48,279 --> 00:06:49,960 Speaker 2: I don't think that us being together is going to 150 00:06:50,040 --> 00:06:51,760 Speaker 2: help that. I think that I'm a crutch for him 151 00:06:52,240 --> 00:06:54,080 Speaker 2: and I need to be inspired every day, like I 152 00:06:54,080 --> 00:06:55,320 Speaker 2: need a man that's going to push me. I need 153 00:06:55,320 --> 00:06:56,560 Speaker 2: a man that wouldn't have been okay with a lot 154 00:06:56,600 --> 00:07:00,200 Speaker 2: of things that I was settling for, and it was. 155 00:07:01,279 --> 00:07:02,719 Speaker 2: And I love him to death. I think he's going 156 00:07:02,760 --> 00:07:04,719 Speaker 2: to be a great husband for somebody once he realizes 157 00:07:04,720 --> 00:07:07,680 Speaker 2: his own potential. But again, I think I realized that 158 00:07:07,720 --> 00:07:09,560 Speaker 2: I was back in that space of waiting for him 159 00:07:09,600 --> 00:07:12,080 Speaker 2: to figure it out, and I didn't do it no more. 160 00:07:12,800 --> 00:07:14,200 Speaker 2: I just couldn't do it no more. And then once 161 00:07:14,240 --> 00:07:16,480 Speaker 2: I decided to express that, it turned into disrespect and 162 00:07:16,480 --> 00:07:18,440 Speaker 2: all this other stuff. So then I, oh, yeah, I 163 00:07:18,440 --> 00:07:22,240 Speaker 2: really gotta get up out of here now. Yeah, I 164 00:07:22,280 --> 00:07:22,600 Speaker 2: feel you. 165 00:07:22,960 --> 00:07:27,480 Speaker 1: That's a lot of our story, life changing things, pushing 166 00:07:27,480 --> 00:07:28,400 Speaker 1: it into perspective.