WEBVTT - Put a price tag on it

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to Before Breakfast, a production of I Heart Radio.

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<v Speaker 1>Good Morning, This is Laura. Welcome to the Before Breakfast podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>Today's tip is to put a price tag on it.

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<v Speaker 1>When there is something you want, figure out how much

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<v Speaker 1>time and money it would take to make it happen.

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<v Speaker 1>You may realize that things are not as costly as

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<v Speaker 1>you assumed, or perhaps they are, but at least you

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<v Speaker 1>know what you're working with so you can make rational choices.

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<v Speaker 1>So often in life we talk about things we would

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<v Speaker 1>like to change, but then we dismissed these ideas out

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<v Speaker 1>of hand, or perhaps view the problems as so overwhelming

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<v Speaker 1>that there is no rational place to start. I wish

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<v Speaker 1>I could fill in the blank, travel more, go back

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<v Speaker 1>to school, renovate my kitchen, stop looking from by, not

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<v Speaker 1>spend my weekends scrubbing the bathrooms. But here's the thing.

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<v Speaker 1>Very few things in life are truly impossible to change.

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<v Speaker 1>Many changes could happen with some amount of cash or time.

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<v Speaker 1>Taking a moment to consider how much such changes would

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<v Speaker 1>cost in time and money may prompt you to realize

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<v Speaker 1>it is something you can do more easily than you thought,

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<v Speaker 1>or at least it will put the problem in perspective.

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<v Speaker 1>For instance, maybe after the pandemic, your old work wardrobe

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<v Speaker 1>it's no longer fitting like it did. Rather than be

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<v Speaker 1>moaning this or squeezing into clothes that make you feel

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<v Speaker 1>bad about yourself, you could put a price tag on

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<v Speaker 1>this issue. With three hours on the internet and six

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<v Speaker 1>what do you think you could do? My guess is

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<v Speaker 1>that you could buy yourself a pretty good professional wardrobe

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<v Speaker 1>in a larger size with just a quick trip to

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<v Speaker 1>the post office to return whatever doesn't work. Or maybe

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<v Speaker 1>you don't like your disorganized pantry. What if you gave

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<v Speaker 1>yourself two hours on the weekend and fifty dollars for

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<v Speaker 1>organizing supplies. My guess is that you'd be pretty close

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<v Speaker 1>to getting the pantry under control for less than the

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<v Speaker 1>cost of a family dinner out. Even with something that

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<v Speaker 1>is more complicated, you should still look at the price tag.

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<v Speaker 1>If you are bothered by your crooked teeth, for instance,

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<v Speaker 1>go visit an orthodontist or check out one of those

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<v Speaker 1>online services. They will give you a dollar figure and

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<v Speaker 1>a length of time. Then you can decide how you

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<v Speaker 1>feel about that. Now it might be possible that you'll

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<v Speaker 1>decide it isn't worth the cost I have a slight

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<v Speaker 1>gap between my front teeth that I thought about fixing

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<v Speaker 1>for a few seconds in my late twenties. I got

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<v Speaker 1>an expert opinion on what fixing it would take, namely

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<v Speaker 1>a few thousand dollars and six to twelve months. Then

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<v Speaker 1>I had a kid and decided I didn't have the

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<v Speaker 1>brain space to be worried about an imperceptible gap. In general,

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<v Speaker 1>the upside of knowing is that then you can make

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<v Speaker 1>an informed choice, which leads to less rumination. No more

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so embarrassed by the dent in my car. I

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<v Speaker 1>should have it fixed. Instead, you think to yourself, it

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<v Speaker 1>stinks that I have a dent in my car, but

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<v Speaker 1>I would rather use the thousand dollars that would cost

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<v Speaker 1>to fix it for something else, since I'm going to

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<v Speaker 1>get a new car in a year or two. Anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>your mind can move on to other things. This sounds

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<v Speaker 1>simple enough, but I've found that sometimes people like to

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<v Speaker 1>nurse dissatisfactions rather than truly figuring out what it would

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<v Speaker 1>take to solve a problem. Perhaps you hate doing laundry,

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<v Speaker 1>don't we all? It can be fun to complain. I

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<v Speaker 1>recently heard such complaints about mounds and mounds of laundry

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<v Speaker 1>taking over one's life from a fairly well off woman

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<v Speaker 1>who could absolutely have afforded to pay someone else to

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<v Speaker 1>do her laundry. I'm not sure what was going on there.

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<v Speaker 1>Did she not know that that was an option or

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<v Speaker 1>was it more comforting to keep the identity of doing

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<v Speaker 1>everything for everyone else? I don't know. But we can

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<v Speaker 1>put a price tag on a great many things. That

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<v Speaker 1>includes outsourcing laundry or cooking, hiring some weekend childcare, even

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<v Speaker 1>big things like taking a six month sabbatical and traveling

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<v Speaker 1>the world, going part time and using the extra hours

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<v Speaker 1>to write a novel. In the end, we might not

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<v Speaker 1>find it is worth it to pay that price for

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<v Speaker 1>various reasons. But when we know the price, we can

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<v Speaker 1>make a decision and either make the change or move on.

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<v Speaker 1>Knowing we can then focus on more satisfying things in

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<v Speaker 1>the meantime. This is Laura. Thanks for listening, and here's

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