1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:01,480 Speaker 1: Hey, wake up. 2 00:00:01,639 --> 00:00:11,160 Speaker 2: Why would Why would I do seventy five to get soft? 3 00:00:10,680 --> 00:00:13,240 Speaker 2: I would do seventy five to get hard, I guess, 4 00:00:13,240 --> 00:00:14,680 Speaker 2: But I wouldn't do seventy five to get I mean 5 00:00:14,680 --> 00:00:17,319 Speaker 2: I already am, yes, I am soft to medium, so 6 00:00:17,360 --> 00:00:19,919 Speaker 2: I'm not trying to get soft the seventy five soft. 7 00:00:19,960 --> 00:00:21,880 Speaker 2: He's going to culverts every day or something like her, 8 00:00:21,960 --> 00:00:22,239 Speaker 2: you know. 9 00:00:22,480 --> 00:00:24,080 Speaker 1: Fred Show is on. 10 00:00:24,360 --> 00:00:29,960 Speaker 2: I prefer the seventy five soft. I prefer that method, 11 00:00:31,040 --> 00:00:34,920 Speaker 2: or like seventy five slight chubb. 12 00:00:36,080 --> 00:00:41,280 Speaker 1: Oh, just like I'm away like medium hard, you know 13 00:00:41,320 --> 00:00:43,479 Speaker 1: what I mean, because that seems like the way to live. 14 00:00:44,159 --> 00:00:47,680 Speaker 2: Really, Taco bell and an occasional stroll on the lake 15 00:00:47,760 --> 00:00:48,160 Speaker 2: or something. 16 00:00:48,840 --> 00:00:50,839 Speaker 1: You know what I mean. It's all about balance. 17 00:00:50,600 --> 00:00:54,000 Speaker 2: Right right right, That's what I mean. Morning everyone, It's Thursday, 18 00:00:54,040 --> 00:00:58,040 Speaker 2: May twenty second. Hi Kalin, good morning. Hi Jason Brown II, Kiki, 19 00:00:58,200 --> 00:01:01,560 Speaker 2: good morning. Was the Spielberg is here again today? Or 20 00:01:01,640 --> 00:01:03,840 Speaker 2: was it Stephanie Spielberg? What were we calling you yesterday? 21 00:01:04,080 --> 00:01:07,119 Speaker 2: It turns out her name's Nicole, So I'm not sure 22 00:01:07,120 --> 00:01:08,920 Speaker 2: where we came up with that. Bella Amena is here 23 00:01:08,920 --> 00:01:11,399 Speaker 2: on the phone. In the text, you realize I if 24 00:01:11,400 --> 00:01:13,319 Speaker 2: you were listening yesterday. I don't know what's wrong with you. 25 00:01:13,400 --> 00:01:16,360 Speaker 2: Why you weren't listening. It's unacceptable. But I received a 26 00:01:16,400 --> 00:01:20,240 Speaker 2: threatening message from Bellahamine's mom overnight last night. It was 27 00:01:20,280 --> 00:01:26,000 Speaker 2: extremely threatening, menacing, and I think it was misdirected. It 28 00:01:26,040 --> 00:01:27,240 Speaker 2: was it was what did it say? 29 00:01:27,240 --> 00:01:27,479 Speaker 1: Again? 30 00:01:27,640 --> 00:01:29,440 Speaker 2: I have it here somewhere. I went to my junk 31 00:01:29,480 --> 00:01:32,959 Speaker 2: folder and I don't know why it went to me 32 00:01:33,600 --> 00:01:36,039 Speaker 2: because I didn't do anything. Where did it go? 33 00:01:36,400 --> 00:01:40,240 Speaker 1: It was something like, uh, did I deleted it? Oh? 34 00:01:40,319 --> 00:01:40,759 Speaker 1: Here it is? 35 00:01:42,240 --> 00:01:45,120 Speaker 2: I was like, Jason, I'm concerned about my safety. I 36 00:01:45,160 --> 00:01:47,280 Speaker 2: sent it to him. He said, you messed with my 37 00:01:47,440 --> 00:01:49,320 Speaker 2: You messed with me or my daughter, and you're dead 38 00:01:49,360 --> 00:01:51,720 Speaker 2: to us. That's my baby girl. 39 00:01:52,120 --> 00:01:57,880 Speaker 3: At twelve fifty seven a, which is wild. 40 00:01:57,920 --> 00:01:59,640 Speaker 1: Nothing happens after ten pm? 41 00:02:00,200 --> 00:02:02,920 Speaker 2: Like, in what way did I mess with her? I 42 00:02:02,960 --> 00:02:05,280 Speaker 2: didn't mess with either one. I don't know this woman. 43 00:02:05,600 --> 00:02:07,280 Speaker 2: I didn't even know her name. She thinks my name 44 00:02:07,360 --> 00:02:10,600 Speaker 2: is Jeff. How could I possibly mess with her? She 45 00:02:10,600 --> 00:02:14,120 Speaker 2: thinks my name is Jeff? Who does she think Fred is? 46 00:02:14,600 --> 00:02:19,480 Speaker 1: Who's Jeff? Yeah? I'm very confused. I don't know. I mean, why, 47 00:02:19,560 --> 00:02:22,000 Speaker 1: why me? What did I do Am I unaware of something? 48 00:02:22,520 --> 00:02:24,400 Speaker 1: Do you guys know about some some of the incident 49 00:02:24,480 --> 00:02:26,959 Speaker 1: that took place? And I don't know about what's the subject? 50 00:02:27,000 --> 00:02:27,839 Speaker 1: Is Bella's right? 51 00:02:28,320 --> 00:02:28,519 Speaker 4: Yeah? 52 00:02:28,520 --> 00:02:30,320 Speaker 3: Like I don't know if it's like Bella's character, like 53 00:02:30,440 --> 00:02:33,760 Speaker 3: this is Bella's right to fight? 54 00:02:33,919 --> 00:02:35,280 Speaker 1: I don't know what she's talking about. 55 00:02:35,360 --> 00:02:40,079 Speaker 5: So she must have thought I don't under about right. 56 00:02:40,560 --> 00:02:42,680 Speaker 5: We always tell Bella she's right. If we told her 57 00:02:42,720 --> 00:02:46,799 Speaker 5: she's wrong, we get beat. That's what I'm confused. I 58 00:02:46,800 --> 00:02:50,240 Speaker 5: don't know what's going on anyway, Good morning everyone. 59 00:02:50,240 --> 00:02:52,160 Speaker 2: We'll get to the biggest stories of the day headlines 60 00:02:52,200 --> 00:02:54,400 Speaker 2: here just a second, the entertainment report and blogs this hour. 61 00:02:54,440 --> 00:02:55,280 Speaker 1: What are you working on? Gay? 62 00:02:55,480 --> 00:02:57,440 Speaker 6: All this Tory Lane stuff has made its way to 63 00:02:57,480 --> 00:03:00,760 Speaker 6: Congress in an interesting turn of events that I just 64 00:03:01,200 --> 00:03:02,440 Speaker 6: didn't think i'd say today. 65 00:03:02,919 --> 00:03:05,840 Speaker 2: All right, waiting on the phone, Why does somebody get ghosted? 66 00:03:07,639 --> 00:03:07,960 Speaker 1: What are we? 67 00:03:07,960 --> 00:03:11,720 Speaker 2: Eleven fifty one and fifty bucks of the Showdown with 68 00:03:11,760 --> 00:03:16,640 Speaker 2: Kiki today, only today tomorrow and four so six games 69 00:03:16,720 --> 00:03:19,440 Speaker 2: left total until Shelley comes back from eternity to leave 70 00:03:19,560 --> 00:03:21,959 Speaker 2: and so whatever the money is at the end, that's yours, yes, 71 00:03:22,360 --> 00:03:25,640 Speaker 2: And now that it's coming to the end. I don't 72 00:03:25,680 --> 00:03:27,919 Speaker 2: know if it's yours really, but it is. First, I'm 73 00:03:27,919 --> 00:03:30,320 Speaker 2: concerned it's yours. Okay, as far as I'm concerned, because 74 00:03:30,360 --> 00:03:31,840 Speaker 2: we have to start over or what do we do? 75 00:03:32,000 --> 00:03:33,840 Speaker 2: Are we picking up where we left off with Shelley? 76 00:03:34,000 --> 00:03:37,040 Speaker 1: Yeah? I think so, okay, because that's what I think. 77 00:03:37,080 --> 00:03:39,720 Speaker 1: That's fair. Yeah, yeah, she doesn't have to start at 78 00:03:39,800 --> 00:03:43,640 Speaker 1: zero again. Right, you're saying you're saying she's going to 79 00:03:43,680 --> 00:03:45,440 Speaker 1: get at zero between now and no. 80 00:03:45,440 --> 00:03:48,880 Speaker 3: No, no, it's like we should restart her like she 81 00:03:49,240 --> 00:03:50,840 Speaker 3: a baby, right yeah. 82 00:03:50,720 --> 00:03:53,400 Speaker 1: Right, whatever, whatever balance he's going to take home a 83 00:03:53,400 --> 00:03:56,840 Speaker 1: fat bag. Okay, what else do we have? 84 00:03:56,880 --> 00:03:59,240 Speaker 2: This morning throwback throw down named that tune battle is 85 00:03:59,280 --> 00:04:01,720 Speaker 2: coming up by lots of stuff. 86 00:04:01,960 --> 00:04:04,200 Speaker 1: So morality Monday on a Thursday? How about that? 87 00:04:04,400 --> 00:04:08,240 Speaker 2: Yes, morality Monday on a Thursday. So this is wild. 88 00:04:08,800 --> 00:04:11,600 Speaker 2: It's from Reddit. Am I the a hole? My son, 89 00:04:11,640 --> 00:04:14,640 Speaker 2: who's twenty three, got engaged a few months ago. Recently, 90 00:04:14,720 --> 00:04:16,919 Speaker 2: he admitted to me that he had been texting with 91 00:04:16,960 --> 00:04:19,360 Speaker 2: a girl that he met on Tinder, which shocked me. 92 00:04:19,400 --> 00:04:23,320 Speaker 2: He's engaged. That is not acceptable behavior. But here's the twist. 93 00:04:23,920 --> 00:04:27,800 Speaker 2: The girl on Tinder was actually his fiance. She made 94 00:04:27,839 --> 00:04:31,520 Speaker 2: a fake account to quote unquote test whether he would 95 00:04:31,560 --> 00:04:35,320 Speaker 2: stay loyal, and when he flirted back, she confronted him. Yes, 96 00:04:35,400 --> 00:04:37,360 Speaker 2: well my son did was messed up, But be creating 97 00:04:37,400 --> 00:04:40,920 Speaker 2: a whole fake profile to trap your partner is manipulation. 98 00:04:41,400 --> 00:04:44,080 Speaker 2: If you have to run sting operations to trust your fiance, 99 00:04:44,400 --> 00:04:46,800 Speaker 2: maybe you shouldn't be getting married after're learning this. I 100 00:04:46,880 --> 00:04:50,000 Speaker 2: told my son I would not pay for the wedding anymore. 101 00:04:50,320 --> 00:04:52,600 Speaker 2: I don't want to support a marriage that already starts 102 00:04:52,600 --> 00:04:55,280 Speaker 2: with lies in games from both sides. Some people in 103 00:04:55,320 --> 00:04:58,080 Speaker 2: the family say I'm overreacting and punishing both of them. 104 00:04:58,320 --> 00:05:01,279 Speaker 2: What is your opinion? Well, here's the thing. I have 105 00:05:01,320 --> 00:05:03,560 Speaker 2: a lot of questions about this, and you could chime in. 106 00:05:03,600 --> 00:05:06,479 Speaker 2: Of course eight five five five three five contexts the 107 00:05:06,480 --> 00:05:10,400 Speaker 2: same number. There's still going to be a wedding. I 108 00:05:10,400 --> 00:05:12,159 Speaker 2: mean that was that was my first thing, was this, 109 00:05:12,320 --> 00:05:15,680 Speaker 2: This dude was flirting with some woman and who just 110 00:05:15,720 --> 00:05:18,599 Speaker 2: happened to be his fiance. She catches him and they're 111 00:05:18,600 --> 00:05:20,760 Speaker 2: still getting married. So there's that. 112 00:05:21,480 --> 00:05:23,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, well he's on Tinder. 113 00:05:23,560 --> 00:05:25,800 Speaker 7: That was my one of my first thoughts, Like, if 114 00:05:25,800 --> 00:05:26,839 Speaker 7: you're in a relationship. 115 00:05:26,839 --> 00:05:29,599 Speaker 1: We're engaged to be married. Why are you on Tinder? 116 00:05:29,960 --> 00:05:31,760 Speaker 7: But then yes, you're you're getting you know, caught up whatever, 117 00:05:31,800 --> 00:05:33,680 Speaker 7: footing with somebody else. But my other issue, and a 118 00:05:33,720 --> 00:05:35,400 Speaker 7: lot of people are gonna fight me for this, is 119 00:05:35,440 --> 00:05:36,120 Speaker 7: you're twenty three. 120 00:05:36,120 --> 00:05:39,000 Speaker 1: Why are you getting married? That's my issue. I think 121 00:05:39,040 --> 00:05:39,680 Speaker 1: you're really young. 122 00:05:39,720 --> 00:05:45,400 Speaker 7: Yeah, I know, that's my hot takee Paulino Instagram. 123 00:05:45,480 --> 00:05:47,440 Speaker 2: That was Mom, hit up, Paulina if you got a problem, 124 00:05:47,600 --> 00:05:48,320 Speaker 2: it's not me. 125 00:05:48,400 --> 00:05:50,559 Speaker 1: I didn't do it. It's right to get married. 126 00:05:51,000 --> 00:05:51,200 Speaker 5: Child. 127 00:05:51,360 --> 00:05:56,240 Speaker 1: I didn't do anything. Didn't get married like seventeen, yeah, fourteen, 128 00:05:57,640 --> 00:06:00,480 Speaker 1: it was legal. Yeah, there was a dowry. 129 00:06:00,720 --> 00:06:03,560 Speaker 2: He hammers actually forty seven, which is or he was 130 00:06:03,640 --> 00:06:05,400 Speaker 2: forty seven at the time, So that was weird. 131 00:06:06,520 --> 00:06:08,920 Speaker 1: They're both really young, aren't they. He's a little bit older, 132 00:06:08,960 --> 00:06:10,520 Speaker 1: isn't it. I don't know why he met in high 133 00:06:10,560 --> 00:06:12,039 Speaker 1: school at like a Chick fil a or something. 134 00:06:13,839 --> 00:06:17,919 Speaker 6: A couple of years anyway. 135 00:06:16,200 --> 00:06:17,240 Speaker 1: So this isn't about Bella. 136 00:06:17,440 --> 00:06:19,920 Speaker 2: So my first question is, Okay, so Pauline is worried 137 00:06:20,360 --> 00:06:23,560 Speaker 2: that they're too young to get married. I'm worried twenty three. 138 00:06:23,800 --> 00:06:27,760 Speaker 2: I'm worried that he was on Tinder and he got caught. 139 00:06:28,000 --> 00:06:30,240 Speaker 2: So then my next question is, again, why is there 140 00:06:30,400 --> 00:06:31,920 Speaker 2: why is there a wedding at all? I guess she 141 00:06:32,000 --> 00:06:34,920 Speaker 2: got over it, and then you could ask the third question, 142 00:06:35,120 --> 00:06:39,200 Speaker 2: which is and I have no sympathy for this guy, 143 00:06:39,640 --> 00:06:41,440 Speaker 2: but yeah, I guess I guess she set. 144 00:06:41,320 --> 00:06:42,960 Speaker 1: Him up to catch him. 145 00:06:43,240 --> 00:06:44,720 Speaker 2: But I don't know that I have much of an 146 00:06:44,760 --> 00:06:47,799 Speaker 2: issue with setting somebody up to catch them on Tinder 147 00:06:48,160 --> 00:06:50,560 Speaker 2: if you're cheating, like you know what I mean, if 148 00:06:50,560 --> 00:06:52,520 Speaker 2: you suspect them, I mean, I guess you could go 149 00:06:52,560 --> 00:06:54,680 Speaker 2: right to them and communicate and ask the question, but 150 00:06:54,720 --> 00:06:57,000 Speaker 2: people are going to lie. I mean, how many times 151 00:06:57,040 --> 00:06:59,760 Speaker 2: have you gone to your significant other who you suspect 152 00:06:59,800 --> 00:07:01,040 Speaker 2: is on dating app and go, hey, are you on 153 00:07:01,080 --> 00:07:01,599 Speaker 2: a dating app? 154 00:07:01,600 --> 00:07:03,320 Speaker 1: And they go, yes, indeed. 155 00:07:03,040 --> 00:07:08,520 Speaker 2: I am, And I mean no, so so, but you know, 156 00:07:10,000 --> 00:07:12,320 Speaker 2: I guess I guess if she suspected he was cheating 157 00:07:12,480 --> 00:07:15,680 Speaker 2: and then she investigated and caught him, That's one thing 158 00:07:16,120 --> 00:07:18,840 Speaker 2: I don't like. I don't like traps or setups though, 159 00:07:20,120 --> 00:07:21,840 Speaker 2: and I don't like it if people were doing it 160 00:07:21,880 --> 00:07:24,760 Speaker 2: all the time and they have no suspicion of infidelity. 161 00:07:25,080 --> 00:07:27,640 Speaker 2: But maybe what we don't know here is why why 162 00:07:27,800 --> 00:07:29,680 Speaker 2: was she compelled to get on Tinder and try and 163 00:07:29,720 --> 00:07:30,160 Speaker 2: catch him? 164 00:07:30,240 --> 00:07:32,480 Speaker 6: That's a big part, Like if did she suspect something 165 00:07:32,560 --> 00:07:34,560 Speaker 6: or did she just have time one day? Let's see 166 00:07:34,560 --> 00:07:36,800 Speaker 6: if my man would go back, you know, because they're 167 00:07:36,800 --> 00:07:40,160 Speaker 6: both they're different to me. Regardless he was guilty, But 168 00:07:40,280 --> 00:07:42,280 Speaker 6: if she did feel something in her gut, then I 169 00:07:42,280 --> 00:07:45,080 Speaker 6: could understand why you would want clear evidence in proof. 170 00:07:45,240 --> 00:07:47,160 Speaker 2: Why would she have picked Tinder of all, and there's 171 00:07:47,240 --> 00:07:49,440 Speaker 2: there's so many of them, there's still you know, thirty 172 00:07:49,520 --> 00:07:51,880 Speaker 2: dating apps have a five million dating apps. I don't know, 173 00:07:51,920 --> 00:07:53,320 Speaker 2: so why would she have picked that one if she 174 00:07:53,360 --> 00:07:54,520 Speaker 2: didn't suspect that one? 175 00:07:54,640 --> 00:07:56,120 Speaker 1: Right? I don't know what I don't. 176 00:07:56,000 --> 00:07:58,840 Speaker 2: Like are the constant like and you hear about this 177 00:07:58,840 --> 00:08:01,000 Speaker 2: sometimes where let me look through your phone, or let 178 00:08:01,040 --> 00:08:03,000 Speaker 2: me spy on you here, let me spy on you there. 179 00:08:03,200 --> 00:08:04,560 Speaker 1: You know, trust issues that. 180 00:08:04,640 --> 00:08:08,680 Speaker 2: Aren't rooted in any actual behavior, like you hear about it. 181 00:08:08,720 --> 00:08:11,080 Speaker 2: You hear about people who are so insecure in relationships 182 00:08:11,120 --> 00:08:13,440 Speaker 2: and they don't they don't suspect the person of cheating 183 00:08:13,480 --> 00:08:17,240 Speaker 2: because they did something specific. They're just always suspecting somebody 184 00:08:17,240 --> 00:08:19,600 Speaker 2: of being up to something and they sneak through their phone. 185 00:08:19,680 --> 00:08:22,480 Speaker 1: So I don't like that because we don't like it. 186 00:08:22,840 --> 00:08:26,160 Speaker 1: But here's it. Well, quality control is fine, but we 187 00:08:26,200 --> 00:08:28,960 Speaker 1: disagree quality quality control? Why are you? 188 00:08:29,680 --> 00:08:31,960 Speaker 2: Why are you married to someone? If you feel the 189 00:08:32,000 --> 00:08:34,240 Speaker 2: need to go through their phone? It's not in need. 190 00:08:34,280 --> 00:08:35,800 Speaker 2: I think it's just more like to make sure we're 191 00:08:35,800 --> 00:08:36,440 Speaker 2: all on the same pace. 192 00:08:36,520 --> 00:08:43,160 Speaker 1: I want. It's so disrespectful. Yes, yes it is. It's great. 193 00:08:43,360 --> 00:08:47,080 Speaker 1: Do you still do it? Kicks? Hard? Is quality control? 194 00:08:47,120 --> 00:08:48,480 Speaker 1: That's my thing? Why? 195 00:08:48,800 --> 00:08:52,280 Speaker 2: Why why can't this man who's done nothing to you? 196 00:08:52,280 --> 00:08:52,440 Speaker 1: You know? 197 00:08:52,640 --> 00:08:54,640 Speaker 2: Let me okay, let me ask you. Have you ever 198 00:08:54,679 --> 00:08:56,400 Speaker 2: suspected Big Tim of cheating on you? 199 00:08:56,440 --> 00:08:56,480 Speaker 8: No? 200 00:08:57,120 --> 00:09:00,280 Speaker 1: Then why is it necessary to invade his privacy? Invade 201 00:09:00,320 --> 00:09:03,240 Speaker 1: his propcy? That's not invading his procy. It is invading 202 00:09:03,240 --> 00:09:04,880 Speaker 1: his privacy, absolutely, it is. 203 00:09:05,080 --> 00:09:07,120 Speaker 9: It's like an employer, right, every now and then you 204 00:09:07,160 --> 00:09:09,479 Speaker 9: do all he doesn't. 205 00:09:09,280 --> 00:09:14,360 Speaker 3: Work for you, performance review, That's all I'm doing. 206 00:09:15,240 --> 00:09:17,720 Speaker 1: I got to put you on a PI and people 207 00:09:17,760 --> 00:09:18,960 Speaker 1: work everything crazy. 208 00:09:19,760 --> 00:09:21,880 Speaker 2: Because my problem with that is you'll find something, if 209 00:09:21,920 --> 00:09:25,040 Speaker 2: you look hard enough, you'll find something that you don't like, right, 210 00:09:25,200 --> 00:09:29,480 Speaker 2: You'll find something not cheating necessarily hopefully, but you'll find something. 211 00:09:29,559 --> 00:09:31,840 Speaker 2: Who is this person I didn't know about? It's like, well, 212 00:09:32,640 --> 00:09:34,720 Speaker 2: that's someone I work with and we have I don't know, 213 00:09:34,760 --> 00:09:37,600 Speaker 2: we have a nice relationship. It's nothing that's inappropriate or whatever. 214 00:09:37,840 --> 00:09:40,000 Speaker 2: I don't know. Does he need to know everything happening 215 00:09:40,080 --> 00:09:41,240 Speaker 2: in your phone and your email? 216 00:09:41,400 --> 00:09:44,000 Speaker 1: No, he can. It's nothing, but he doesn't do it. 217 00:09:44,040 --> 00:09:45,400 Speaker 1: Does he? I don't know, but. 218 00:09:45,400 --> 00:09:47,480 Speaker 9: It's he doesn't need to. You know what I'm saying, 219 00:09:47,520 --> 00:09:49,040 Speaker 9: And that's how it should be. As long as I 220 00:09:49,040 --> 00:09:50,600 Speaker 9: don't need to and he doesn't need. 221 00:09:50,640 --> 00:09:52,600 Speaker 1: To, we're good. Does he do you guys have each 222 00:09:52,600 --> 00:09:54,440 Speaker 1: other's passwords? Okay? Yeah? 223 00:09:55,240 --> 00:09:57,600 Speaker 2: Because I don't like it when it's like confirmation by it. 224 00:09:57,679 --> 00:09:59,920 Speaker 2: I don't like it when people search and search and 225 00:10:00,000 --> 00:10:01,600 Speaker 2: search and search with no real evidence and then they 226 00:10:01,640 --> 00:10:03,040 Speaker 2: find something and they're like gotcha. 227 00:10:03,520 --> 00:10:05,719 Speaker 1: It's like, I don't know. That just seems like dumb 228 00:10:05,800 --> 00:10:06,240 Speaker 1: luck to me. 229 00:10:06,880 --> 00:10:11,360 Speaker 2: Like if your if your investigation is rooted in insecurity 230 00:10:11,400 --> 00:10:14,040 Speaker 2: and not in proof or not in any sort of 231 00:10:14,120 --> 00:10:17,400 Speaker 2: like true red flag signs. I don't like it even 232 00:10:17,440 --> 00:10:20,560 Speaker 2: if you catch the person cheating, because yeah, you found something, 233 00:10:20,600 --> 00:10:23,520 Speaker 2: but it's like you shouldn't have been looking, but if you. 234 00:10:23,520 --> 00:10:26,360 Speaker 1: Weren't cheating, there's nothing for me to find exactly. Okay. 235 00:10:26,360 --> 00:10:28,240 Speaker 2: But then on the flip side, like if you if 236 00:10:28,280 --> 00:10:30,840 Speaker 2: you are asking the same question about the same people, 237 00:10:30,920 --> 00:10:33,000 Speaker 2: or you see dating apps on their phones, or you 238 00:10:33,040 --> 00:10:35,760 Speaker 2: have like hard evidence that something inappropriates going on, well 239 00:10:35,800 --> 00:10:38,160 Speaker 2: then I don't have a problem with you investigating or 240 00:10:38,200 --> 00:10:40,640 Speaker 2: the back end sort of trying to catch them. But 241 00:10:40,720 --> 00:10:43,800 Speaker 2: again maybe that's unpopular, but it's like, yeah, if I 242 00:10:43,800 --> 00:10:45,720 Speaker 2: if I search hard enough for a year and then 243 00:10:45,760 --> 00:10:48,520 Speaker 2: I uncover that at one point in our relationship somebody 244 00:10:48,520 --> 00:10:51,600 Speaker 2: had an inappropriate conversation with someone, boom, gotcha. 245 00:10:51,760 --> 00:10:54,080 Speaker 1: It's like did you you shouldn't go to my stuff? 246 00:10:55,480 --> 00:10:57,560 Speaker 1: Why are you doing that though? Why you have appropriate? 247 00:10:58,720 --> 00:11:02,719 Speaker 2: Well again, but like I I did not want to 248 00:11:02,720 --> 00:11:04,360 Speaker 2: be in a relationship where I feel the need to 249 00:11:04,400 --> 00:11:07,640 Speaker 2: have to open to have to have a conversation where I, hey, 250 00:11:07,679 --> 00:11:09,160 Speaker 2: I'm gonna go through your phone sometimes. 251 00:11:09,160 --> 00:11:11,480 Speaker 7: Okay, it truly is a want, I promise, Like, it's 252 00:11:11,559 --> 00:11:13,480 Speaker 7: not a need. I'm not like I know he's up 253 00:11:13,520 --> 00:11:16,559 Speaker 7: to something. I just want to see, Like who is hobby. 254 00:11:16,280 --> 00:11:16,680 Speaker 1: On the phone? 255 00:11:16,760 --> 00:11:16,840 Speaker 2: Right? 256 00:11:16,880 --> 00:11:17,440 Speaker 1: Who does you know? 257 00:11:17,480 --> 00:11:18,080 Speaker 7: Who you do this? 258 00:11:18,520 --> 00:11:21,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, he's not crazy about it. He'll be I know 259 00:11:21,360 --> 00:11:22,080 Speaker 1: you went to my phone. 260 00:11:22,080 --> 00:11:24,800 Speaker 7: I'm like, I know I did, Like, yeah, hey Alexa, 261 00:11:24,880 --> 00:11:26,760 Speaker 7: good morning, good morning. 262 00:11:26,880 --> 00:11:30,240 Speaker 1: What was your concern here, Fela? 263 00:11:30,360 --> 00:11:32,280 Speaker 6: She should have addressed it in a different way. 264 00:11:32,320 --> 00:11:34,040 Speaker 1: But also he has a chance. 265 00:11:34,240 --> 00:11:35,360 Speaker 8: Why is this man on tender? 266 00:11:35,480 --> 00:11:37,520 Speaker 1: They should not be getting married. There's a lot of 267 00:11:37,559 --> 00:11:40,560 Speaker 1: red flags there, and girls have an intuition. 268 00:11:40,760 --> 00:11:43,840 Speaker 8: So even if she didn't have any like reason. 269 00:11:43,600 --> 00:11:47,800 Speaker 1: Too, she knew. Yeah, I see the whole intuition thing. 270 00:11:47,960 --> 00:11:48,360 Speaker 1: I don't know. 271 00:11:48,600 --> 00:11:51,880 Speaker 2: I think she I think she knew more about this. 272 00:11:52,120 --> 00:11:53,960 Speaker 2: I think she knew something because she went to the 273 00:11:54,040 --> 00:11:56,240 Speaker 2: right app and she knew just how to trap him, 274 00:11:56,480 --> 00:11:59,280 Speaker 2: and she did so. I think her suspicions were very pointed. 275 00:11:59,280 --> 00:12:01,920 Speaker 2: They were based in evidence, because otherwise, I mean, what 276 00:12:01,920 --> 00:12:02,720 Speaker 2: are you just gonna pick? 277 00:12:02,760 --> 00:12:05,000 Speaker 1: Of all the ones you'd pick? I wouldn't even pick Tinder. 278 00:12:05,600 --> 00:12:07,880 Speaker 8: You know that's a popular one. 279 00:12:08,160 --> 00:12:11,079 Speaker 2: Well, I mean, like maybe, but I mean you could 280 00:12:11,120 --> 00:12:14,200 Speaker 2: pick Hinge, you could pick Rayah, you could pick a bumble, 281 00:12:14,280 --> 00:12:17,040 Speaker 2: you could pick plenty of fish, you could you farmers 282 00:12:17,040 --> 00:12:19,600 Speaker 2: only Da Paulina was on for a while. I mean, 283 00:12:19,640 --> 00:12:21,280 Speaker 2: I guess I don't know, I feel like there's more 284 00:12:21,320 --> 00:12:23,640 Speaker 2: to this story, but no, nobody should be cheating. I 285 00:12:23,679 --> 00:12:25,720 Speaker 2: also don't think anybody should be going through anybody's phone. 286 00:12:25,800 --> 00:12:27,240 Speaker 2: And I don't think that when you find something you 287 00:12:27,280 --> 00:12:31,560 Speaker 2: should then feel justified in invading someone's privacy. I really don't, 288 00:12:32,400 --> 00:12:33,920 Speaker 2: because at the end of the day, you're gonna leave 289 00:12:33,960 --> 00:12:36,760 Speaker 2: him anyway, Sue, So I don't know thank you would 290 00:12:36,800 --> 00:12:37,640 Speaker 2: Lexa have a good day. 291 00:12:37,679 --> 00:12:42,000 Speaker 9: But that intuition, that intuition. Intuition does not lie. It's 292 00:12:42,040 --> 00:12:44,080 Speaker 9: a woman's intuition. We can so you're right every time 293 00:12:44,160 --> 00:12:46,360 Speaker 9: we get this filling in our stomach. It's never wrong. 294 00:12:46,559 --> 00:12:48,480 Speaker 1: You're not right. Come on, it's never wrong. 295 00:12:48,600 --> 00:12:52,120 Speaker 2: Never. We should not be going through a partner stuff. 296 00:12:52,120 --> 00:12:54,600 Speaker 2: If someone's like Fred, you seem guilty. No, I don't see. 297 00:12:55,080 --> 00:12:56,320 Speaker 1: I just I think that I think. 298 00:12:56,280 --> 00:12:58,880 Speaker 2: Humans have a right to privacy, which is not really 299 00:12:58,920 --> 00:13:00,920 Speaker 2: the issue here. But I don't blame this woman for 300 00:13:01,000 --> 00:13:03,760 Speaker 2: not paying for the wedding. It's a disaster, it's a mess. 301 00:13:04,080 --> 00:13:06,000 Speaker 2: Why would I put my money into that? So I'm 302 00:13:06,000 --> 00:13:07,800 Speaker 2: gonna spend, you know, however much money to throw a 303 00:13:07,840 --> 00:13:10,120 Speaker 2: party for you guys. And you cheated, and you caught 304 00:13:10,160 --> 00:13:12,560 Speaker 2: him and now somehow you think you're gonna work it out. 305 00:13:12,920 --> 00:13:15,199 Speaker 1: No, I'm not paying for that wedding. I don't. I don't. 306 00:13:15,520 --> 00:13:17,280 Speaker 1: I don't think they should be together. Yeah, they need 307 00:13:17,320 --> 00:13:18,000 Speaker 1: to do some work. 308 00:13:18,080 --> 00:13:20,480 Speaker 3: I think I would pay for it, but we have 309 00:13:20,559 --> 00:13:21,959 Speaker 3: to push the wedding down a couple of years. 310 00:13:22,200 --> 00:13:23,080 Speaker 1: I need to change little bit. 311 00:13:23,080 --> 00:13:25,480 Speaker 3: Do need to really figure it out and work through 312 00:13:25,520 --> 00:13:27,800 Speaker 3: this before I'm gonna put any more money my money 313 00:13:27,840 --> 00:13:28,280 Speaker 3: into this. 314 00:13:29,120 --> 00:13:31,040 Speaker 1: Which means you're not paying for it, right, That means 315 00:13:31,080 --> 00:13:32,800 Speaker 1: you're not paying for it. Actually, they're going to figure 316 00:13:32,840 --> 00:13:33,760 Speaker 1: out that it's too toxic. 317 00:13:33,960 --> 00:13:35,960 Speaker 2: They're gonna di So you saying I won't pay for 318 00:13:36,040 --> 00:13:38,680 Speaker 2: it as planned. It's you saying I'm not paying for 319 00:13:38,720 --> 00:13:41,960 Speaker 2: it because it probably should never happen, should never come together. 320 00:13:44,720 --> 00:13:48,680 Speaker 2: I'm going through these texts. I yeah, run girl. My 321 00:13:48,760 --> 00:13:51,640 Speaker 2: husband and I were run girl. My husband and I 322 00:13:51,720 --> 00:13:53,839 Speaker 2: were buying a house when the process are called to 323 00:13:53,840 --> 00:13:56,320 Speaker 2: tell me that she found recurring charges for a tender 324 00:13:56,360 --> 00:13:59,040 Speaker 2: account on his bank statement that we didn't share together. 325 00:13:59,080 --> 00:14:01,040 Speaker 2: Come to find out, he was meeting up with other women. 326 00:14:01,120 --> 00:14:02,280 Speaker 2: See now that that that you. 327 00:14:02,280 --> 00:14:04,199 Speaker 1: Go, I mean now paying for Tinder. 328 00:14:04,880 --> 00:14:08,480 Speaker 2: That's crazy you have a membership and everything. Wow yeah yeah, 329 00:14:08,559 --> 00:14:11,320 Speaker 2: Well well I don't know about Tinder on some of 330 00:14:11,320 --> 00:14:13,280 Speaker 2: them that you barely even get seen if you don't pay. 331 00:14:14,160 --> 00:14:15,880 Speaker 1: So there's that. But I mean, see, there you go. 332 00:14:15,960 --> 00:14:18,960 Speaker 2: So she had evidence, right, Like now you have a 333 00:14:19,000 --> 00:14:21,760 Speaker 2: reason to be concerned, Like the guy did something, he 334 00:14:21,880 --> 00:14:25,880 Speaker 2: was caught you just you just grabbing his phone every 335 00:14:25,920 --> 00:14:28,200 Speaker 2: day when he's in the shower and scrolling through it. 336 00:14:28,400 --> 00:14:30,720 Speaker 2: I don't like that. I just don't like it. That's 337 00:14:30,760 --> 00:14:31,760 Speaker 2: not it's not cool. 338 00:14:32,000 --> 00:14:35,200 Speaker 7: There's nothing on my phone personally that my husband will 339 00:14:35,240 --> 00:14:37,520 Speaker 7: ever find. Okay, the only thing he'll get upset about 340 00:14:37,520 --> 00:14:39,280 Speaker 7: it is probably like the door and actual seats and 341 00:14:39,280 --> 00:14:41,320 Speaker 7: like the Starbucks, Like he will be very upset about 342 00:14:41,320 --> 00:14:42,200 Speaker 7: that for other reasons. 343 00:14:42,200 --> 00:14:43,800 Speaker 1: But you're never gonna got you me Like. 344 00:14:43,800 --> 00:14:46,120 Speaker 7: There's nothing in my phone, like okay, well group chat 345 00:14:46,160 --> 00:14:49,120 Speaker 7: with between me and Jason about him excellent. 346 00:14:49,240 --> 00:14:52,000 Speaker 2: So he's never gonna get you know what's funny. He 347 00:14:52,080 --> 00:14:54,240 Speaker 2: just texted me and said the same thing. He just 348 00:14:54,360 --> 00:14:56,280 Speaker 2: hobby just he doesn't speak words to me when I 349 00:14:56,280 --> 00:14:57,800 Speaker 2: see him, but he does. We just he and I 350 00:14:57,880 --> 00:15:00,520 Speaker 2: just stand there and be anti social together. But he 351 00:15:00,600 --> 00:15:02,640 Speaker 2: texted me and said, hey, there's nothing in my phone 352 00:15:02,640 --> 00:15:05,560 Speaker 2: that Paulina would ever need to be worried about. Problem solved, 353 00:15:05,680 --> 00:15:07,560 Speaker 2: So he doesn't. So he doesn't go through your phone. 354 00:15:07,600 --> 00:15:08,920 Speaker 2: You don't go through his problems. 355 00:15:09,120 --> 00:15:10,960 Speaker 1: Right, I've never found anything in his phone. You don't 356 00:15:10,960 --> 00:15:14,680 Speaker 1: never go through it anymore. Don't do that myself, because. 357 00:15:16,240 --> 00:15:21,760 Speaker 2: Because you're trying to build a healthy, trustworthy relationship, or 358 00:15:21,800 --> 00:15:22,760 Speaker 2: you're not going. 359 00:15:22,560 --> 00:15:27,000 Speaker 1: Back behind his back and spying on him. Oh my gosh, Paulina, 360 00:15:27,160 --> 00:15:29,960 Speaker 1: Sophia and Monica. I got two people. 361 00:15:30,280 --> 00:15:32,520 Speaker 8: Oh hello, yeah, hello. 362 00:15:32,400 --> 00:15:35,720 Speaker 1: I got both. W What do you think about this? Well, 363 00:15:35,920 --> 00:15:36,840 Speaker 1: coming from a twenty. 364 00:15:36,680 --> 00:15:38,200 Speaker 8: Three year old, and I'm sitting next to my mom, 365 00:15:38,240 --> 00:15:40,560 Speaker 8: we think, Mom, don't pay for the wedding. Let these 366 00:15:40,640 --> 00:15:41,520 Speaker 8: kids figure it out. 367 00:15:41,800 --> 00:15:44,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I think so too. Yeah. The number one, 368 00:15:44,920 --> 00:15:45,480 Speaker 1: the wedding. 369 00:15:45,240 --> 00:15:48,360 Speaker 8: Doesn't need to and then what And then I've been 370 00:15:48,360 --> 00:15:51,840 Speaker 8: married for thirty years and I never go through my 371 00:15:51,920 --> 00:15:54,080 Speaker 8: husband's phone. He would go through my phone and I 372 00:15:54,080 --> 00:15:56,600 Speaker 8: would sit there and let him. But at the end 373 00:15:56,600 --> 00:16:00,920 Speaker 8: of the at the end of the you know, in conclusion, 374 00:16:00,960 --> 00:16:03,920 Speaker 8: I would say, don't give anybody if you can't trust 375 00:16:03,960 --> 00:16:06,600 Speaker 8: somebody and you're looking through their phone. Then there's an issue, 376 00:16:06,680 --> 00:16:09,200 Speaker 8: and then there's other issues that people should talk about. Okay, 377 00:16:09,320 --> 00:16:12,240 Speaker 8: and don't pay for the wedding. I would not pay 378 00:16:12,280 --> 00:16:14,640 Speaker 8: for the wedding. I would say sorry. If you guys 379 00:16:14,640 --> 00:16:16,960 Speaker 8: both were sitting here trying to play games on each other, 380 00:16:17,000 --> 00:16:19,080 Speaker 8: then you guys shouldn't get married. Okay, and the story, 381 00:16:19,120 --> 00:16:20,120 Speaker 8: I'll be at the wedding, and. 382 00:16:20,080 --> 00:16:22,480 Speaker 2: That's it, all right, Well, thank you Sophia and Monica. 383 00:16:22,480 --> 00:16:26,200 Speaker 2: I appreciate that. Inconclusion sounds like an essay wrote, you know, 384 00:16:26,640 --> 00:16:32,880 Speaker 2: and inconclusion conclusion, Oh yeah, And for some reason aforementioned, 385 00:16:33,360 --> 00:16:37,880 Speaker 2: I love I love that I learned because it seemed 386 00:16:37,960 --> 00:16:39,760 Speaker 2: like a lot of syllables and it seemed like a 387 00:16:39,800 --> 00:16:45,600 Speaker 2: smart person world, yes, exactly, yes, And so I used 388 00:16:45,600 --> 00:16:47,400 Speaker 2: to use it and I'm like, I'm so smart for 389 00:16:47,440 --> 00:16:48,840 Speaker 2: knowing this, but not really. 390 00:16:48,560 --> 00:16:52,880 Speaker 1: I should be a lawyer, right right, writing depositioners? Absolutely, 391 00:16:52,880 --> 00:16:54,960 Speaker 1: all right, So this is a problem. So so everyone agrees, 392 00:16:55,000 --> 00:16:56,760 Speaker 1: we don't do the wedding. We're not doing the wedding. 393 00:16:56,840 --> 00:16:59,360 Speaker 1: They shouldn't be married, and nobody should be snooping. Good, 394 00:16:59,400 --> 00:17:02,520 Speaker 1: I'm glad you agreed. Great, it starts today. We'll do 395 00:17:02,600 --> 00:17:06,600 Speaker 1: headlines next Fred show back in two. Fred's show is 396 00:17:06,920 --> 00:17:09,440 Speaker 1: on Fred's Biggest Stories of the Day. 397 00:17:09,600 --> 00:17:12,160 Speaker 2: All right, So ten guys broke out of the New 398 00:17:12,280 --> 00:17:16,480 Speaker 2: Orleans jail last week. I think they found half of 399 00:17:16,520 --> 00:17:19,520 Speaker 2: them as of yesterday. I haven't seen an update on that. 400 00:17:19,720 --> 00:17:21,879 Speaker 2: But they clogged a toilet to get the water shut 401 00:17:21,920 --> 00:17:23,639 Speaker 2: off so they could escape through. 402 00:17:23,520 --> 00:17:24,520 Speaker 1: The hole behind it. 403 00:17:24,760 --> 00:17:27,960 Speaker 2: This is according to a lawyer for a maintenance worker 404 00:17:28,000 --> 00:17:31,399 Speaker 2: who is now being charged with helping them. So, this worker, 405 00:17:31,480 --> 00:17:35,720 Speaker 2: named Sterling, didn't know about the men's plan and didn't 406 00:17:35,760 --> 00:17:37,960 Speaker 2: allow the inmates to cut a pipe behind the toilet 407 00:17:38,000 --> 00:17:38,880 Speaker 2: to create the opening. 408 00:17:39,359 --> 00:17:40,320 Speaker 1: He had nothing to do with it. 409 00:17:40,320 --> 00:17:43,600 Speaker 2: Aorty's have said that an inmate instructed him to turn 410 00:17:43,640 --> 00:17:46,280 Speaker 2: off the water to the toilet, leading to one of 411 00:17:46,280 --> 00:17:48,879 Speaker 2: the largest jail breaks in recent US history. Five of 412 00:17:48,920 --> 00:17:52,360 Speaker 2: the guys, as of last night, do remain at large. 413 00:17:52,840 --> 00:17:55,159 Speaker 2: This was clearly all part of an orchestrated plan. His 414 00:17:55,240 --> 00:17:58,359 Speaker 2: lawyer said it was nothing more than he was nothing 415 00:17:58,359 --> 00:18:00,360 Speaker 2: more than a tool they used to turn off the water, 416 00:18:00,400 --> 00:18:04,199 Speaker 2: which they knew would have to happen after clogging the toilet. So, 417 00:18:04,400 --> 00:18:05,800 Speaker 2: I mean, I don't know why, Why are the inmates 418 00:18:05,840 --> 00:18:08,800 Speaker 2: telling the maintenance guys what to do, like, hey, open 419 00:18:08,880 --> 00:18:12,160 Speaker 2: his door. I mean, I gotta get out of here, right, 420 00:18:12,240 --> 00:18:13,080 Speaker 2: I mean I don't. 421 00:18:13,240 --> 00:18:13,639 Speaker 1: I don't know. 422 00:18:13,800 --> 00:18:17,439 Speaker 2: But then again, like what would the maintenance worker have 423 00:18:17,520 --> 00:18:19,639 Speaker 2: to gain by helping them break out, Like once we 424 00:18:19,720 --> 00:18:23,040 Speaker 2: get out, we're gonna pay you or something like, No, 425 00:18:23,119 --> 00:18:25,080 Speaker 2: they're not. They're going to escape and never see you again, 426 00:18:27,000 --> 00:18:28,680 Speaker 2: right like unlessy, if you see them again, that means 427 00:18:28,680 --> 00:18:31,080 Speaker 2: they got caught and they came back. So if I'm 428 00:18:31,119 --> 00:18:33,280 Speaker 2: the maintenance guy, it's like, oh, yeah, my rich uncle 429 00:18:33,359 --> 00:18:35,439 Speaker 2: is gonna, you know, pay you one hundred thousand dollars 430 00:18:35,600 --> 00:18:37,600 Speaker 2: once you're right, So they're not. 431 00:18:38,600 --> 00:18:39,040 Speaker 1: I don't know. 432 00:18:39,119 --> 00:18:42,160 Speaker 2: So anyway, the maintenance worker is being charged with helping them, 433 00:18:42,200 --> 00:18:43,800 Speaker 2: he says, no, I was just doing my job. I 434 00:18:43,800 --> 00:18:46,560 Speaker 2: didn't know what they were up to. But I imagine 435 00:18:46,640 --> 00:18:48,760 Speaker 2: having to come back now to jail. I assume they're 436 00:18:48,800 --> 00:18:50,359 Speaker 2: going to a different jail. I don't know they have 437 00:18:50,359 --> 00:18:52,800 Speaker 2: to go to different because they taunted those guys. They 438 00:18:52,880 --> 00:18:55,280 Speaker 2: rode on top of the hole that they made too easy. 439 00:18:55,320 --> 00:19:00,399 Speaker 2: They didn't spell too right, but that's okay. So I 440 00:19:00,440 --> 00:19:02,320 Speaker 2: don't get how people can still I truly don't know 441 00:19:02,320 --> 00:19:05,040 Speaker 2: how people can still break out of jail or rob banks. 442 00:19:05,600 --> 00:19:06,480 Speaker 1: I don't I don't get it. 443 00:19:06,840 --> 00:19:09,080 Speaker 2: I don't know how like to put an air tag 444 00:19:09,119 --> 00:19:10,600 Speaker 2: on everybody and then we know where you are all 445 00:19:10,640 --> 00:19:12,400 Speaker 2: the time, And like why would I write? 446 00:19:12,480 --> 00:19:14,359 Speaker 1: And police chases? Like why would I? 447 00:19:14,520 --> 00:19:18,520 Speaker 2: Why they got they had drones, Now they've got helicopters. 448 00:19:19,000 --> 00:19:20,720 Speaker 2: Every news station is going to get out there and 449 00:19:20,760 --> 00:19:23,160 Speaker 2: follow you around, you know, So I don't know right, 450 00:19:23,280 --> 00:19:25,439 Speaker 2: like how far you think you're going to go? I 451 00:19:25,480 --> 00:19:29,600 Speaker 2: know in some cities if it's too high speed, they'll 452 00:19:29,640 --> 00:19:31,560 Speaker 2: stop it because it's dangerous. 453 00:19:31,600 --> 00:19:33,679 Speaker 6: In Chicago, they can't chase I learned that when my 454 00:19:33,760 --> 00:19:37,040 Speaker 6: car was on the lamb. Oh really, cops would be like, 455 00:19:37,080 --> 00:19:39,159 Speaker 6: we saw it speeding by, but we're not allowed to 456 00:19:39,240 --> 00:19:39,640 Speaker 6: chase it. 457 00:19:40,040 --> 00:19:41,960 Speaker 2: I was like, Oh, is that motivation or is that 458 00:19:42,119 --> 00:19:44,679 Speaker 2: is that law? Is that just them going on? I 459 00:19:44,680 --> 00:19:47,720 Speaker 2: don't feel like it. I got bigger stuff to do. 460 00:19:47,920 --> 00:19:50,000 Speaker 6: Yeah, because it's great danger for other people like on 461 00:19:50,040 --> 00:19:51,080 Speaker 6: the street and on the right. 462 00:19:51,160 --> 00:19:53,359 Speaker 1: No, it makes sense. I just I don't know, is it? Like? 463 00:19:53,400 --> 00:19:58,560 Speaker 2: No, we're investigating like you know, like serious crimes, murders, deaths, stuff, 464 00:19:58,600 --> 00:20:00,679 Speaker 2: so sorry about your car, but I saw a roll by. 465 00:20:00,840 --> 00:20:04,960 Speaker 2: But no, the NFL tush push. Jason's here to stay. 466 00:20:05,200 --> 00:20:07,520 Speaker 2: You can tell us more about what the touch pushes is. 467 00:20:07,600 --> 00:20:09,720 Speaker 2: Our director of sports support in Jason Brown, tell us more. 468 00:20:09,840 --> 00:20:12,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, it's when you give a little, you know, 469 00:20:12,920 --> 00:20:17,119 Speaker 3: to the tushy, you know, a little what like a 470 00:20:18,359 --> 00:20:21,000 Speaker 3: you know what I'm saying. Yeah, No, I don't. I 471 00:20:21,000 --> 00:20:22,960 Speaker 3: actually don't know. Well, now that's a different that's a 472 00:20:22,960 --> 00:20:25,399 Speaker 3: whole different noise. That's a different kind of toush push. 473 00:20:25,400 --> 00:20:28,400 Speaker 3: Though you might enjoy the weekend. But dam I did 474 00:20:28,440 --> 00:20:29,960 Speaker 3: explain this to you before. But that's okay. 475 00:20:30,320 --> 00:20:33,879 Speaker 2: Proposal to ban the controversial tush push narrowly failed to 476 00:20:34,000 --> 00:20:38,200 Speaker 2: pass at the NFL Spring League Meetings meetings. 477 00:20:38,560 --> 00:20:39,159 Speaker 1: Let me see here. 478 00:20:39,560 --> 00:20:41,960 Speaker 2: The ban, proposed by the Green Bay Packers, needed the 479 00:20:42,000 --> 00:20:44,040 Speaker 2: vote to twenty four team owners to pass. The final 480 00:20:44,080 --> 00:20:46,120 Speaker 2: vote was twenty two to ten, with the Eagles, who 481 00:20:46,119 --> 00:20:48,760 Speaker 2: came up with the play, among the ten teams voting 482 00:20:48,800 --> 00:20:51,840 Speaker 2: against the ban. The plane, known as the Brotherly Shove, 483 00:20:52,320 --> 00:20:56,359 Speaker 2: involves the offense lining up players behind and around the 484 00:20:56,440 --> 00:20:59,639 Speaker 2: quarterback and then push him forward into the defense to 485 00:20:59,680 --> 00:21:02,240 Speaker 2: scored touchdown or a first down. Critics said at the 486 00:21:02,240 --> 00:21:06,400 Speaker 2: play is both dull and dangerous, and it makes football 487 00:21:06,840 --> 00:21:11,199 Speaker 2: look a lot more like rugby. So if you were 488 00:21:11,200 --> 00:21:15,240 Speaker 2: concerned about that, there's a CBS albody New York news anchor, 489 00:21:15,280 --> 00:21:17,560 Speaker 2: a morning anchor named Olivia who's making news. She went 490 00:21:17,600 --> 00:21:21,160 Speaker 2: into labor just before her five am broadcast, and despite 491 00:21:21,160 --> 00:21:23,760 Speaker 2: her water breaking at four point fifteen, she chose to 492 00:21:23,800 --> 00:21:27,000 Speaker 2: remain on the air anchored the full three hour newscast 493 00:21:27,320 --> 00:21:31,080 Speaker 2: while timing her contractions. Her co anchor kept viewers updated 494 00:21:31,119 --> 00:21:35,040 Speaker 2: via Facebook Live, and that got significant attention. Of course, 495 00:21:35,680 --> 00:21:39,199 Speaker 2: the woman appeared composed, even eating yogurt during commercial breaks, 496 00:21:39,440 --> 00:21:40,120 Speaker 2: and said that she. 497 00:21:42,680 --> 00:21:44,560 Speaker 1: Was I guess continuing to. 498 00:21:44,560 --> 00:21:47,520 Speaker 2: Work helped manage her anxiety better than waiting at the hospital. 499 00:21:47,680 --> 00:21:50,680 Speaker 2: She left at the hospital immediately after the newscast, and 500 00:21:50,960 --> 00:21:51,560 Speaker 2: I guess went. 501 00:21:51,560 --> 00:21:55,439 Speaker 1: Had a baby. Women are amazing, very amazing. But that's risky, 502 00:21:55,480 --> 00:21:55,800 Speaker 1: isn't it. 503 00:21:55,840 --> 00:21:58,920 Speaker 7: I was gonna say, there's no job, no nothing, no 504 00:21:58,920 --> 00:22:01,399 Speaker 7: no broadcast. That need to do that bad, like please 505 00:22:01,440 --> 00:22:03,760 Speaker 7: go get a medical medical attention, like when you're about 506 00:22:03,760 --> 00:22:04,760 Speaker 7: to give birth, just because it. 507 00:22:04,680 --> 00:22:07,280 Speaker 1: Can be risky. Anything can happen in an instant you're right. 508 00:22:07,560 --> 00:22:09,080 Speaker 2: So your water breaks and you're like, well, I got 509 00:22:09,080 --> 00:22:11,440 Speaker 2: several I guess you know from the contractions how long 510 00:22:11,480 --> 00:22:14,119 Speaker 2: you've got The contractions are really far apart. 511 00:22:14,160 --> 00:22:16,280 Speaker 1: Then you know you're not anywhere close to it, right. 512 00:22:16,400 --> 00:22:18,879 Speaker 7: They say the water breaking doesn't necessarily mean like in movies, 513 00:22:18,920 --> 00:22:20,960 Speaker 7: we're like run of the hospital, We're going to deliver. 514 00:22:20,720 --> 00:22:21,520 Speaker 1: This baby right now. 515 00:22:21,560 --> 00:22:24,399 Speaker 7: It's not like that, and it's true, but again, that 516 00:22:24,560 --> 00:22:25,760 Speaker 7: doesn't mean like keep working. 517 00:22:25,880 --> 00:22:27,359 Speaker 1: That means to get off your feet and go to 518 00:22:27,400 --> 00:22:28,160 Speaker 1: the hospital or where. 519 00:22:28,280 --> 00:22:30,120 Speaker 2: We tried to get you to keep doing this show 520 00:22:30,440 --> 00:22:32,000 Speaker 2: from the hospital, but you wouldn't do it. 521 00:22:32,119 --> 00:22:33,960 Speaker 1: I know, I was editing video hospital. I was just 522 00:22:34,000 --> 00:22:37,160 Speaker 1: born at that point. I was. I was dilating. 523 00:22:37,160 --> 00:22:40,400 Speaker 4: If you will, yeah, I will, Yeah, I will, I will, 524 00:22:40,440 --> 00:22:41,600 Speaker 4: I certainly will yeah yeah. 525 00:22:41,680 --> 00:22:43,280 Speaker 1: I was induced. So we didn't. We didn't want you 526 00:22:43,320 --> 00:22:46,800 Speaker 1: to work out. We didn't. We didn't want you to wed 527 00:22:46,840 --> 00:22:49,439 Speaker 1: you to stop. I know you guys blocked me. We did. 528 00:22:49,600 --> 00:22:52,439 Speaker 2: Yeah, we did on all platforms, and we are. I'm sorry, 529 00:22:53,080 --> 00:22:55,919 Speaker 2: and we've got to un block you. Actually said another 530 00:22:55,960 --> 00:22:59,719 Speaker 2: concern today, a side effect dubbed o zempic teeth. 531 00:23:00,760 --> 00:23:02,680 Speaker 1: If you're on the ozempic affects. 532 00:23:02,680 --> 00:23:04,840 Speaker 2: The users of the popular weight loss drug Ozempic and 533 00:23:04,880 --> 00:23:08,680 Speaker 2: similar GLP one medications, patients have reported dental issues like 534 00:23:08,800 --> 00:23:12,920 Speaker 2: dry mouth, bad breath, gum disease, and tooth decay. Experts 535 00:23:12,920 --> 00:23:15,880 Speaker 2: suggest that these problems may stem from the drugs appetite 536 00:23:15,920 --> 00:23:20,080 Speaker 2: suppressing effects, which reduced to liva production, essential for oral health. Also, 537 00:23:20,320 --> 00:23:23,240 Speaker 2: common side effects like nauseam the acid reflux can further 538 00:23:23,320 --> 00:23:26,960 Speaker 2: harm teeth due to increased exposure to stomach acids. Dental 539 00:23:26,960 --> 00:23:30,440 Speaker 2: professionals now recommend that anyone considering these medications consult with 540 00:23:30,480 --> 00:23:34,000 Speaker 2: their dentists beforehand to mitigate potential risks. So here's the thing. 541 00:23:34,400 --> 00:23:36,080 Speaker 2: You're gonna what did I tell you about last week 542 00:23:36,160 --> 00:23:37,920 Speaker 2: or earlier in the week. You're not gonna have any teeth. 543 00:23:38,840 --> 00:23:41,280 Speaker 2: You're gonna have bad breath, something with your chin or 544 00:23:41,320 --> 00:23:45,200 Speaker 2: your jaw or something. You're gonna grow a tail. Correct, 545 00:23:45,400 --> 00:23:49,600 Speaker 2: and but you will be snatched, no teeth and snatched, 546 00:23:49,680 --> 00:23:53,959 Speaker 2: which is amazing. And another day, another TikTok trend. I 547 00:23:53,960 --> 00:23:55,440 Speaker 2: have to tell you guys not to do. It's called 548 00:23:55,480 --> 00:24:02,399 Speaker 2: carrot max. It's called carrot It's gaining popularity among beauty 549 00:24:02,520 --> 00:24:06,560 Speaker 2: enthusiasts seeking a natural sun kissed glow. So you would 550 00:24:06,560 --> 00:24:09,120 Speaker 2: consume large this is I guess real. You would consume 551 00:24:09,200 --> 00:24:12,960 Speaker 2: large quantities of carrots, particularly canned ones, due to their 552 00:24:13,040 --> 00:24:18,960 Speaker 2: high beta carotene content. This can lead to carrot honima. 553 00:24:19,840 --> 00:24:22,320 Speaker 2: I'm sure I said that right, a harmless condition that 554 00:24:22,359 --> 00:24:25,639 Speaker 2: turns the skin yellow orange. Experts do warn, though, of 555 00:24:25,680 --> 00:24:29,120 Speaker 2: more serious risks. One person ate six cans of carrots daily, 556 00:24:29,160 --> 00:24:32,280 Speaker 2: resulting in over five thousand milligrams of sodium intake, more 557 00:24:32,320 --> 00:24:35,480 Speaker 2: than double the recommended limit. The excessive sodium intake led 558 00:24:35,520 --> 00:24:39,040 Speaker 2: to mild organ failure and a trip to the emergency room. 559 00:24:39,320 --> 00:24:43,720 Speaker 1: Was well, she looks she was blowing right absolutely to me. 560 00:24:44,720 --> 00:24:46,919 Speaker 3: As a baby, I would only eat baby food with 561 00:24:47,040 --> 00:24:47,920 Speaker 3: carrots in it. 562 00:24:48,359 --> 00:24:50,879 Speaker 1: I wouldn't need any other flavored food a baby. How 563 00:24:50,920 --> 00:24:53,360 Speaker 1: did you get to choose even well? Like I wouldn't. 564 00:24:53,400 --> 00:24:55,160 Speaker 1: I didn't like anything else. I only like the keres, 565 00:24:55,160 --> 00:24:55,880 Speaker 1: just spit it all out. 566 00:24:55,960 --> 00:24:59,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, so my parents only give me a baby full 567 00:24:59,040 --> 00:25:00,000 Speaker 3: with carris and I turn orange? 568 00:25:01,840 --> 00:25:02,960 Speaker 1: Yeah? I don't know, tesk my mom? 569 00:25:03,320 --> 00:25:07,440 Speaker 2: Wow, you remember having a choice of what I got 570 00:25:07,480 --> 00:25:09,119 Speaker 2: to eat as a baby. I feel like I was 571 00:25:09,200 --> 00:25:12,240 Speaker 2: hungry and then I was put in front of me. 572 00:25:11,680 --> 00:25:15,240 Speaker 1: I mean I was very developed, you know. Yeah, yeah, 573 00:25:15,320 --> 00:25:18,400 Speaker 1: very refined culinary taste that James Brown get. 574 00:25:19,359 --> 00:25:22,800 Speaker 2: Health professionals advise against extreme dietary trends and emphasized the 575 00:25:22,800 --> 00:25:25,720 Speaker 2: importance of balanced nutrition. So, yes, people are trying to 576 00:25:25,760 --> 00:25:27,640 Speaker 2: look tanned by eating too many carrots. 577 00:25:31,480 --> 00:25:33,399 Speaker 1: Where do we live? What are we doing? What are 578 00:25:33,400 --> 00:25:37,040 Speaker 1: we doing? Isn't that like j I think that's like yallowy? 579 00:25:37,280 --> 00:25:45,440 Speaker 4: I was more of a Okay, National Craft Distillery Day, 580 00:25:45,560 --> 00:25:49,480 Speaker 4: National Solitaire Day, National Buy a Musical Instrument Day, and 581 00:25:49,680 --> 00:25:51,600 Speaker 4: National Maritime Day today? 582 00:25:51,760 --> 00:25:53,639 Speaker 2: Really, are we going to add musical instruments now to 583 00:25:53,680 --> 00:25:56,879 Speaker 2: kiki karaoke? Are are we upping the do you know 584 00:25:56,920 --> 00:25:59,560 Speaker 2: how to play a music? Playing violin for two years? 585 00:26:00,320 --> 00:26:01,400 Speaker 1: Girl? Wow? 586 00:26:02,119 --> 00:26:05,360 Speaker 2: I played one for a year. Okay, Yeah, I started orchestras. 587 00:26:05,400 --> 00:26:07,199 Speaker 2: There were hot girls in fifth grade. You had to 588 00:26:07,240 --> 00:26:10,000 Speaker 2: take an instrument, and there were hot girls that in 589 00:26:10,040 --> 00:26:13,719 Speaker 2: the strings area. So I was like one of two 590 00:26:13,800 --> 00:26:18,359 Speaker 2: guys that did the strings. Yeah, my poor parents. It 591 00:26:18,480 --> 00:26:20,000 Speaker 2: wasn't very good at it either, and I didn't get 592 00:26:20,000 --> 00:26:22,040 Speaker 2: the girls, so it goes there. It was all for 593 00:26:22,160 --> 00:26:25,240 Speaker 2: not way to bring that up. Kiki the Entertainment Report 594 00:26:25,240 --> 00:26:26,639 Speaker 2: in two minutes, French Show's on. 595 00:26:26,840 --> 00:26:30,520 Speaker 1: Them, Caitlin's Entertainer Report. He is on the Fread Show. 596 00:26:31,000 --> 00:26:34,919 Speaker 6: Cardi B's X rapper, Offset is taking aim at her 597 00:26:34,960 --> 00:26:39,440 Speaker 6: new Boo Patriots wide receiver Stefan Diggs in a new song, because. 598 00:26:39,240 --> 00:26:40,199 Speaker 1: Of course he is. 599 00:26:40,520 --> 00:26:40,680 Speaker 4: Now. 600 00:26:40,720 --> 00:26:42,760 Speaker 6: I can't really play you the song. I played it 601 00:26:42,800 --> 00:26:45,359 Speaker 6: for Jason. He can attest, but can't really do that. 602 00:26:45,480 --> 00:26:47,920 Speaker 10: And I'm not sure you would understand what's going on anyways, 603 00:26:48,200 --> 00:26:50,080 Speaker 10: but I can tell you that the song exists, and 604 00:26:50,119 --> 00:26:52,840 Speaker 10: it does seem to be a direct response to those 605 00:26:52,880 --> 00:26:56,000 Speaker 10: photos of Cardi and Stefan sitting courtside at a Nicked 606 00:26:56,040 --> 00:26:57,679 Speaker 10: playoff game where she looked very happy. 607 00:26:57,720 --> 00:26:59,880 Speaker 1: She was holding his hand. I could have I could 608 00:27:00,000 --> 00:27:02,159 Speaker 1: I've told you this was coming. I knew this was coming. 609 00:27:02,359 --> 00:27:04,760 Speaker 6: Of course, Cardi and Offset have been playing and fighting 610 00:27:04,760 --> 00:27:06,879 Speaker 6: in our faces for years, which I do appreciate. I 611 00:27:06,920 --> 00:27:09,040 Speaker 6: do like when we're included in on the fighting and 612 00:27:09,080 --> 00:27:11,399 Speaker 6: the drama, if we're included in the happy times. 613 00:27:11,520 --> 00:27:12,560 Speaker 1: So thank you guys for that. 614 00:27:12,600 --> 00:27:15,840 Speaker 6: But Cardia is happy and Offset is mad, and she's 615 00:27:15,840 --> 00:27:18,960 Speaker 6: with someone else because you did naughty stuff, So there 616 00:27:19,000 --> 00:27:21,040 Speaker 6: you go. But he made a little song and that's cute. 617 00:27:21,200 --> 00:27:23,320 Speaker 6: Sinza has been a very busy lady. I don't know 618 00:27:23,359 --> 00:27:24,760 Speaker 6: if you guys have seen all the stuff she's been 619 00:27:24,840 --> 00:27:28,120 Speaker 6: up to, both keeping kids off of drugs as well 620 00:27:28,119 --> 00:27:31,520 Speaker 6: as defending Meg the Stallion. So first let's get into 621 00:27:31,800 --> 00:27:33,800 Speaker 6: her being at the in and out drive through when 622 00:27:33,840 --> 00:27:36,480 Speaker 6: she noticed a young boy with a canister of nitrous 623 00:27:36,800 --> 00:27:40,280 Speaker 6: aka whippits and convinced the child to throw it away 624 00:27:40,600 --> 00:27:43,480 Speaker 6: in exchange for a photo or video with her. She 625 00:27:43,560 --> 00:27:46,919 Speaker 6: shared the story on Instagram, expressing concern over products like 626 00:27:46,960 --> 00:27:50,000 Speaker 6: the strawberry banana flavored canister of super Whip and how 627 00:27:50,000 --> 00:27:52,080 Speaker 6: they're blatantly marketed to children. 628 00:27:52,200 --> 00:27:53,840 Speaker 1: According to her, that's what she thinks. 629 00:27:54,000 --> 00:27:58,359 Speaker 6: She also emphasized the serious neurological risks associated with nitrous 630 00:27:58,400 --> 00:27:59,879 Speaker 6: oxide abuse as well. 631 00:28:00,240 --> 00:28:01,520 Speaker 1: Sizzia also is. 632 00:28:01,440 --> 00:28:04,719 Speaker 6: Defending Meg the Stallion amid all of this renewed controversy 633 00:28:04,760 --> 00:28:08,080 Speaker 6: surrounding the twenty twenty incident where Tory Lanez shot her 634 00:28:08,080 --> 00:28:10,560 Speaker 6: in the foot. In a recent interview, says that emphasized 635 00:28:10,600 --> 00:28:13,880 Speaker 6: the importance of believing and supporting black women, stating that 636 00:28:13,920 --> 00:28:17,919 Speaker 6: Megan has endured undue scrutiny and victim blaming. This comes 637 00:28:17,920 --> 00:28:21,280 Speaker 6: as Tory's legal team claims to have new evidence suggesting 638 00:28:21,320 --> 00:28:25,400 Speaker 6: his innocence despite his twenty twenty two conviction and ten 639 00:28:25,480 --> 00:28:28,440 Speaker 6: year sentence where the assault. Megan has denied these claims, 640 00:28:28,520 --> 00:28:33,119 Speaker 6: labeling them as part of a continued harassment campaign. Moving 641 00:28:33,160 --> 00:28:36,080 Speaker 6: on to and not really moving on because it's still connected. 642 00:28:36,440 --> 00:28:40,640 Speaker 6: But for some reason, Florida Congresswoman Anna Paulina Luna has 643 00:28:40,760 --> 00:28:43,760 Speaker 6: entered the chat as well. In this ongoing you know 644 00:28:45,000 --> 00:28:46,920 Speaker 6: receive renewed attention. I guess you want to call it. 645 00:28:46,920 --> 00:28:47,160 Speaker 1: I don't know. 646 00:28:47,200 --> 00:28:48,920 Speaker 6: It's very odd to me, but Anna claims to have 647 00:28:49,000 --> 00:28:52,280 Speaker 6: a ring video that she believes proves that Tory did 648 00:28:52,280 --> 00:28:54,880 Speaker 6: not shoot Megan during the twenty twenty incident. She also 649 00:28:54,960 --> 00:28:59,480 Speaker 6: points to alleged inconsistencies in the prosecution's case, including a 650 00:28:59,560 --> 00:29:03,160 Speaker 6: lack of forensic DNA evidence on the weapon and questions 651 00:29:03,160 --> 00:29:06,640 Speaker 6: about the nature of Megan's injuries. Anna is now advocating 652 00:29:06,680 --> 00:29:09,040 Speaker 6: for the release of this video and is pushing for 653 00:29:09,160 --> 00:29:12,880 Speaker 6: a pardon from California Governor Gavin Newsom, which I'm sure 654 00:29:12,880 --> 00:29:16,280 Speaker 6: he'll get right on. Megda Sallion has responded strongly, of course, 655 00:29:16,760 --> 00:29:19,000 Speaker 6: arguing that Tory shot her and she wants you guys 656 00:29:19,000 --> 00:29:21,240 Speaker 6: to leave her the hell alone, and I don't blame her, 657 00:29:21,320 --> 00:29:23,880 Speaker 6: So I really like every day I'm shocked by all 658 00:29:23,880 --> 00:29:27,440 Speaker 6: of this. But now people in Congress are getting involved. 659 00:29:27,440 --> 00:29:29,840 Speaker 1: It's very weird. It's very weird energy. He was convicted. 660 00:29:29,880 --> 00:29:31,640 Speaker 6: You guys, by the way, if you missed any part 661 00:29:31,680 --> 00:29:33,760 Speaker 6: of our show to type the Fred Show on demand 662 00:29:33,960 --> 00:29:36,440 Speaker 6: and set us as a preset on the free iHeartRadio app. 663 00:29:36,800 --> 00:29:40,520 Speaker 1: Happy birthday, Jaden, We listen every morning. Thank you. 664 00:29:40,640 --> 00:29:44,360 Speaker 2: And another text middle school orchestra teacher checking in Fred, 665 00:29:44,360 --> 00:29:46,360 Speaker 2: you aren't the only teenage boy trying to meet other 666 00:29:46,400 --> 00:29:49,640 Speaker 2: cute and smart girls by joining the school orchestra. But 667 00:29:49,680 --> 00:29:52,720 Speaker 2: in all seriousness, go music education in all schools. Okay, good, 668 00:29:52,760 --> 00:29:54,600 Speaker 2: there you go. That was That was the game. That 669 00:29:54,680 --> 00:29:56,360 Speaker 2: was what I was trying to do. Get with the 670 00:29:56,400 --> 00:29:56,880 Speaker 2: hot girl. 671 00:29:58,160 --> 00:29:58,840 Speaker 1: The hot girl. 672 00:29:58,920 --> 00:30:01,520 Speaker 2: Actually that reads that to me on Facebook like six 673 00:30:01,520 --> 00:30:03,960 Speaker 2: months ago. Who's still happily married? That was weird. 674 00:30:04,120 --> 00:30:08,280 Speaker 1: Blogs are next. Yeah, they talk better than they say. 675 00:30:09,080 --> 00:30:09,400 Speaker 9: Tell me. 676 00:30:09,840 --> 00:30:12,600 Speaker 1: These are the radio blogs on the Fred Show. 677 00:30:13,120 --> 00:30:15,720 Speaker 2: Okay, Waiting by the phone from the Hall of fame 678 00:30:15,720 --> 00:30:18,080 Speaker 2: in just a second, throwback, throw it out, oney, one. 679 00:30:18,320 --> 00:30:19,440 Speaker 1: And fifty bucks. 680 00:30:19,760 --> 00:30:24,680 Speaker 2: Okky, if you don't lose between now and next Friday, 681 00:30:24,720 --> 00:30:27,200 Speaker 2: then you're gonna have like fifteen hundred bucks. I need it. 682 00:30:28,480 --> 00:30:30,280 Speaker 2: Let's see what happens. We'll playing in a little bit 683 00:30:31,120 --> 00:30:33,080 Speaker 2: our audio journals. We call them blogs, like are writing 684 00:30:33,080 --> 00:30:34,480 Speaker 2: in our diaries. I haven't done one in a while. 685 00:30:34,480 --> 00:30:36,920 Speaker 2: I'm gonna do one, dear blog. So, I have a 686 00:30:36,920 --> 00:30:42,080 Speaker 2: friend who's transitioning industries and she is now in the 687 00:30:44,440 --> 00:30:50,200 Speaker 2: organization game. Okay, she's a professional organizer, this person. 688 00:30:50,440 --> 00:30:51,280 Speaker 1: Okay, Okay. 689 00:30:51,480 --> 00:30:56,000 Speaker 2: Now, as you know, I've amassed a bit of a 690 00:30:56,040 --> 00:30:58,480 Speaker 2: collection of things in my home and I have the 691 00:30:58,600 --> 00:31:03,280 Speaker 2: dreaded claw it. I have the dreaded closet that I've 692 00:31:03,280 --> 00:31:05,200 Speaker 2: been talking about for years. I talk about it in 693 00:31:05,240 --> 00:31:09,560 Speaker 2: therapy even. It's a closet that is just full to 694 00:31:09,640 --> 00:31:11,160 Speaker 2: the brim, and it's like a little bit of a 695 00:31:11,160 --> 00:31:13,600 Speaker 2: walk in like not much maybe like four feet deep 696 00:31:13,680 --> 00:31:15,600 Speaker 2: three feet deep by like four feet like a little 697 00:31:15,640 --> 00:31:16,360 Speaker 2: walking closet. 698 00:31:16,960 --> 00:31:18,120 Speaker 1: You can't even open the door. 699 00:31:18,280 --> 00:31:22,240 Speaker 2: Well, you couldn't until I finally two weeks ago, went 700 00:31:22,280 --> 00:31:25,600 Speaker 2: in and took absolutely everything out of it and threw 701 00:31:25,680 --> 00:31:27,760 Speaker 2: most of it or donated most of it, threw most 702 00:31:27,800 --> 00:31:29,440 Speaker 2: of it away or donated. Because here's the thing, I 703 00:31:29,440 --> 00:31:31,200 Speaker 2: had to open it. I haven't been able to access 704 00:31:31,240 --> 00:31:34,280 Speaker 2: that room in years because I guess, you know, I move, 705 00:31:34,320 --> 00:31:36,360 Speaker 2: and I just anything I didn't know what to do 706 00:31:36,440 --> 00:31:38,160 Speaker 2: with or didn't want to deal with. I just put 707 00:31:38,160 --> 00:31:41,240 Speaker 2: in this closet closet, right, But it just became so. 708 00:31:41,400 --> 00:31:43,200 Speaker 1: Like even I mean, people. 709 00:31:42,920 --> 00:31:44,479 Speaker 2: Come to the house like, let me see this thing 710 00:31:44,720 --> 00:31:46,240 Speaker 2: because they've heard me talking about it, like let me 711 00:31:46,240 --> 00:31:47,560 Speaker 2: see how bad it is. I'm like, you can't see 712 00:31:47,600 --> 00:31:50,120 Speaker 2: how bad it is because you can't open it. So anyway, 713 00:31:50,160 --> 00:31:53,440 Speaker 2: so I finally address that, so now like talk about cleansing. 714 00:31:53,800 --> 00:31:57,360 Speaker 2: You know, the closet is now accessible. So this friend 715 00:31:57,360 --> 00:31:59,080 Speaker 2: of mine is like, well, yeah, that's what I'm doing now, 716 00:31:59,120 --> 00:32:00,440 Speaker 2: because I caught up with her the other day and 717 00:32:00,440 --> 00:32:02,840 Speaker 2: she's like, that's what I'm doing now. I'm organizing. I'm 718 00:32:02,840 --> 00:32:04,440 Speaker 2: trying to start this business. I was like, or I 719 00:32:04,440 --> 00:32:06,320 Speaker 2: guess I said, I said, you used to start a business. 720 00:32:06,360 --> 00:32:08,040 Speaker 2: I think she's working for someone else. But anyway, I'm like, 721 00:32:08,080 --> 00:32:11,560 Speaker 2: you know what, I want you to come organize my house. 722 00:32:12,080 --> 00:32:15,480 Speaker 2: You come organize my house because you know whatever. So 723 00:32:15,560 --> 00:32:18,520 Speaker 2: here's what I'm doing next week. She's coming and doing 724 00:32:18,520 --> 00:32:20,680 Speaker 2: my kitchen and I'm not even going to be there. 725 00:32:20,760 --> 00:32:23,600 Speaker 2: I'm not even present. Would you Here's why I'm going 726 00:32:23,640 --> 00:32:26,160 Speaker 2: with this. Would you allow someone to go through your 727 00:32:26,160 --> 00:32:28,960 Speaker 2: stuff and organize it when you weren't even there. And 728 00:32:29,000 --> 00:32:30,960 Speaker 2: the reason I can't be there or I can't be 729 00:32:31,040 --> 00:32:34,240 Speaker 2: present for this is because in order to do this properly, 730 00:32:34,400 --> 00:32:37,400 Speaker 2: everything has to come out, and I can't. My OCD 731 00:32:37,560 --> 00:32:40,880 Speaker 2: will not allow that. My anxiety. My anxiety will go nuts. 732 00:32:40,920 --> 00:32:42,320 Speaker 2: And then the next thing she's going to do or 733 00:32:42,360 --> 00:32:45,960 Speaker 2: the closets, and that I'm physically leaving town for that, 734 00:32:46,280 --> 00:32:48,000 Speaker 2: Like she's one of the only people I trust. To 735 00:32:48,000 --> 00:32:49,400 Speaker 2: give her a key to my house and just be like, 736 00:32:49,440 --> 00:32:50,800 Speaker 2: when I get back, this will be done. 737 00:32:51,640 --> 00:32:52,360 Speaker 1: Would you do it? 738 00:32:52,520 --> 00:32:55,160 Speaker 2: Would you let someone just go just start to finish, 739 00:32:55,200 --> 00:32:56,840 Speaker 2: just go through your stuff because she's not going to 740 00:32:56,880 --> 00:33:00,440 Speaker 2: throw anything away per se or not without advice asking 741 00:33:00,480 --> 00:33:02,040 Speaker 2: me if she could throw it away, because I've done 742 00:33:02,040 --> 00:33:04,040 Speaker 2: most of the throwing away. Now I just need to 743 00:33:04,040 --> 00:33:07,080 Speaker 2: figure out how to make it efficiently fit because I 744 00:33:07,080 --> 00:33:09,400 Speaker 2: don't really have any method of doing that, nor do 745 00:33:09,480 --> 00:33:12,800 Speaker 2: I have the desire and so you know, would you 746 00:33:12,880 --> 00:33:15,320 Speaker 2: let someone go through your stuff, organize it without you 747 00:33:15,400 --> 00:33:17,600 Speaker 2: even president, and then just walk back in and it's done. 748 00:33:17,800 --> 00:33:20,120 Speaker 1: I need this bad, like I need it bad now, 749 00:33:20,600 --> 00:33:21,440 Speaker 1: so I'm not the only one. 750 00:33:21,520 --> 00:33:23,520 Speaker 9: So before I was like, I could never nobody's going 751 00:33:23,560 --> 00:33:26,160 Speaker 9: through my stuff. Right now, I need this, Like just 752 00:33:26,240 --> 00:33:27,640 Speaker 9: come let her take the wheel. 753 00:33:28,120 --> 00:33:29,640 Speaker 1: Okay, well then you can be client number two. 754 00:33:29,680 --> 00:33:31,719 Speaker 9: Then I guess we'll be for real, depending on how 755 00:33:31,800 --> 00:33:33,480 Speaker 9: much she charged now right, well. 756 00:33:33,360 --> 00:33:35,120 Speaker 2: You know, I've looked into this before and I can't 757 00:33:35,160 --> 00:33:37,720 Speaker 2: afford it. No, I've looked into this before. It's very expensive. 758 00:33:38,160 --> 00:33:39,560 Speaker 2: But this friend of mine is willing to do it 759 00:33:39,600 --> 00:33:42,960 Speaker 2: for me. Like, you know, I pay her whatever because 760 00:33:43,080 --> 00:33:45,760 Speaker 2: I think she's relatively new to it. So it's like 761 00:33:46,400 --> 00:33:47,760 Speaker 2: in whatever, so I don't have to pay the mark 762 00:33:47,800 --> 00:33:49,320 Speaker 2: up of the she my friend. So I was like, 763 00:33:49,400 --> 00:33:51,040 Speaker 2: let me throw you some here, do some work. I 764 00:33:51,040 --> 00:33:53,520 Speaker 2: would love it, and everybody wins with this. 765 00:33:53,760 --> 00:33:56,560 Speaker 7: She's able to pretty much toss anything and you can't 766 00:33:56,560 --> 00:33:57,520 Speaker 7: say nothing about it, like she. 767 00:33:57,560 --> 00:33:58,160 Speaker 1: Want to come in. 768 00:33:58,240 --> 00:34:00,440 Speaker 2: She's not gonna throwing away without like send me a 769 00:34:00,520 --> 00:34:02,080 Speaker 2: picture of it to me and being like, can I 770 00:34:02,120 --> 00:34:03,680 Speaker 2: throw this away or whatever? But yeah, I mean I'm 771 00:34:03,680 --> 00:34:05,440 Speaker 2: sure stuff wille thrown away, but she didn't find stuff 772 00:34:05,440 --> 00:34:06,120 Speaker 2: I didn't even know I had. 773 00:34:06,200 --> 00:34:07,640 Speaker 7: I was going to say, like, maybe it's better you're 774 00:34:07,640 --> 00:34:09,560 Speaker 7: not there, because you're gonna find like T shirts from 775 00:34:09,640 --> 00:34:11,719 Speaker 7: you know, two thousand and five, some remote you did 776 00:34:11,800 --> 00:34:13,920 Speaker 7: or something right with the radio station. And I have 777 00:34:14,000 --> 00:34:15,799 Speaker 7: found that stuff, and you're gonna find excuse to keep 778 00:34:15,840 --> 00:34:17,440 Speaker 7: it though, and we don't want that anymore. 779 00:34:17,640 --> 00:34:20,120 Speaker 1: That's what's me urge. The let her come in, don't 780 00:34:20,160 --> 00:34:21,600 Speaker 1: even have her text to you. I don't like that. 781 00:34:22,160 --> 00:34:23,680 Speaker 2: Just put I don't know that I want her just 782 00:34:23,719 --> 00:34:26,880 Speaker 2: throwing things away. I mean, just in case she doesn't 783 00:34:26,920 --> 00:34:29,320 Speaker 2: know what it is, because you inevitably you're gonna stumble 784 00:34:29,440 --> 00:34:31,640 Speaker 2: upon something that you know. I have my grandfather not 785 00:34:31,680 --> 00:34:34,880 Speaker 2: in the kitchen, but I have my grandfather's old aviation logbooks, 786 00:34:34,920 --> 00:34:36,879 Speaker 2: like when he was a pilot and stuff. You might 787 00:34:36,880 --> 00:34:38,719 Speaker 2: look at that and not know what that is and 788 00:34:38,760 --> 00:34:40,520 Speaker 2: be like, I don't know what this is, and so 789 00:34:40,560 --> 00:34:42,960 Speaker 2: I don't need anyone making executive decisions I want to 790 00:34:42,960 --> 00:34:46,160 Speaker 2: throw away. But I'm all for this strong encouragement that like, hey, 791 00:34:46,160 --> 00:34:48,480 Speaker 2: you don't need this anymore. But the thing for me, though, 792 00:34:48,520 --> 00:34:51,319 Speaker 2: is that is the trust. That's the thing for me 793 00:34:51,560 --> 00:34:53,479 Speaker 2: because I know myself and I know that it would 794 00:34:53,520 --> 00:34:55,759 Speaker 2: it's gonna make me so uncomfortable to be there with 795 00:34:55,880 --> 00:34:58,480 Speaker 2: all my stuff all over everywhere. So I'm just saying, 796 00:34:58,560 --> 00:34:59,560 Speaker 2: Jesus take the wheel. 797 00:35:00,040 --> 00:35:02,840 Speaker 6: Can you just do it anyone else in your apartment before, 798 00:35:03,080 --> 00:35:04,839 Speaker 6: like for a long period of time without you there? 799 00:35:05,040 --> 00:35:08,440 Speaker 1: No, Okay, So it's a big deal that you trust her. 800 00:35:08,640 --> 00:35:10,000 Speaker 2: But I think that's the only way to do this 801 00:35:10,320 --> 00:35:12,560 Speaker 2: because the closets are gonna be stuff every I don't 802 00:35:12,560 --> 00:35:14,399 Speaker 2: have a very big house. It's a very like it's 803 00:35:14,440 --> 00:35:17,239 Speaker 2: a two bedroom condo. It's not big, so there's gonna 804 00:35:17,239 --> 00:35:19,960 Speaker 2: be stuff everywhere. I can't live like this, No you can't. 805 00:35:20,520 --> 00:35:22,680 Speaker 2: But it's gonna be so nice when it's done. Yes, 806 00:35:22,920 --> 00:35:24,759 Speaker 2: it's gonna be so nice when it's done. It's like 807 00:35:24,880 --> 00:35:27,920 Speaker 2: it's like name your price, lady, Like I mean you 808 00:35:28,000 --> 00:35:28,480 Speaker 2: know what I mean. 809 00:35:28,560 --> 00:35:32,319 Speaker 9: You're gonna feel lighter, your house is gonna feel clean, right, yeah, 810 00:35:32,320 --> 00:35:33,040 Speaker 9: I feel sexy. 811 00:35:33,160 --> 00:35:35,960 Speaker 1: Credit score are gonna go, Yes, it's my credit score. 812 00:35:35,760 --> 00:35:40,319 Speaker 2: Is you're gonna find credit in the classisted. Now I'm 813 00:35:40,320 --> 00:35:42,000 Speaker 2: not gonna know where anything is for a while, but 814 00:35:42,480 --> 00:35:45,520 Speaker 2: that's okay. 815 00:35:45,880 --> 00:35:47,920 Speaker 1: More Fred Show next right here.