1 00:00:00,240 --> 00:00:06,960 Speaker 1: I've ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the 2 00:00:07,040 --> 00:00:09,440 Speaker 1: Fred Show. Alison, Good morning, Welcome to the show. How 3 00:00:09,480 --> 00:00:11,880 Speaker 1: are you good, How are you doing great? 4 00:00:11,920 --> 00:00:12,320 Speaker 2: Thank you? 5 00:00:12,320 --> 00:00:15,120 Speaker 1: You're calling us about this guy, Isaac. You guys made 6 00:00:15,160 --> 00:00:18,640 Speaker 1: out one of the apps and he went out, and 7 00:00:18,680 --> 00:00:20,120 Speaker 1: you haven't heard from this guy. 8 00:00:20,360 --> 00:00:21,799 Speaker 2: You feel like maybe he's ghosting you. 9 00:00:21,920 --> 00:00:23,560 Speaker 1: So why don't you kind of fill us in, tell 10 00:00:23,600 --> 00:00:26,520 Speaker 1: us about your date, tell us about any details that 11 00:00:26,560 --> 00:00:28,720 Speaker 1: you can remember, and you know kind of where things 12 00:00:28,720 --> 00:00:29,160 Speaker 1: are now. 13 00:00:29,920 --> 00:00:34,760 Speaker 3: So Isaac, Isaac is uh, he's even hotter in person. 14 00:00:37,200 --> 00:00:40,599 Speaker 3: And you know, we really had a great time. Our 15 00:00:40,640 --> 00:00:44,320 Speaker 3: chemistry was absolutely insane. We could barely keep our hands 16 00:00:44,320 --> 00:00:47,839 Speaker 3: off each other this entire date. So you know, I'm 17 00:00:47,880 --> 00:00:51,000 Speaker 3: just I'm not really understanding where he went. 18 00:00:51,280 --> 00:00:55,000 Speaker 1: Okay, So I mean, you guys go out and I 19 00:00:55,040 --> 00:00:57,880 Speaker 1: don't know, you just sort of sense early on in 20 00:00:57,920 --> 00:01:00,440 Speaker 1: the date that like, wow, this is something different. And 21 00:01:00,840 --> 00:01:02,960 Speaker 1: you guys you mentioned that your hands were all over 22 00:01:03,000 --> 00:01:05,640 Speaker 1: each other, like I don't know, you guys were kissing 23 00:01:05,640 --> 00:01:07,880 Speaker 1: and it was just sort of physical. There was a 24 00:01:07,920 --> 00:01:09,720 Speaker 1: lot of comfort from the beginning, I mean, kind of 25 00:01:09,720 --> 00:01:10,400 Speaker 1: what was that about? 26 00:01:11,000 --> 00:01:13,440 Speaker 3: It was so comfortable from the very beginning, he was 27 00:01:13,520 --> 00:01:15,280 Speaker 3: just like gorgeous. 28 00:01:15,319 --> 00:01:16,240 Speaker 2: This guy's so hot. 29 00:01:17,280 --> 00:01:21,000 Speaker 3: It was just immediate chemistry, like we just couldn't stop 30 00:01:21,040 --> 00:01:23,319 Speaker 3: touching each other, couldn't stop like we were in public. 31 00:01:23,360 --> 00:01:27,399 Speaker 3: So obviously it wasn't like so crazy, but you. 32 00:01:27,319 --> 00:01:31,119 Speaker 2: Know, okay, so yeah, how do you go from that? 33 00:01:31,319 --> 00:01:33,280 Speaker 1: Then? How do you go from you know, this great 34 00:01:33,360 --> 00:01:37,160 Speaker 1: chemistry and this amazing attraction to nothing, to where this 35 00:01:37,200 --> 00:01:39,639 Speaker 1: guy has not called you since that date, He hasn't 36 00:01:39,640 --> 00:01:42,160 Speaker 1: texted you. I don't know if you've called him, but 37 00:01:42,280 --> 00:01:45,400 Speaker 1: no response. I mean, like nothing, this dude is, he's gone. 38 00:01:45,680 --> 00:01:48,040 Speaker 3: Silent, Like I just I don't understand it. It was 39 00:01:48,200 --> 00:01:52,240 Speaker 3: way too it was just way too much chemistry for him. 40 00:01:52,120 --> 00:01:54,960 Speaker 1: To just disappear like that. Yeah, that's gotta be frustrated. Well, 41 00:01:54,960 --> 00:01:57,160 Speaker 1: I wonder what's going on. Let's call this guy Isaac. 42 00:01:57,200 --> 00:01:58,880 Speaker 1: You're gonna be on the phone the whole time. I'm 43 00:01:58,880 --> 00:02:00,720 Speaker 1: going to play a song. Come back, do it. I'm 44 00:02:00,720 --> 00:02:02,720 Speaker 1: going to ask these questions on your behalf. At some point, 45 00:02:02,760 --> 00:02:04,880 Speaker 1: you're welcome to jumping on a call, and hopefully there's 46 00:02:04,880 --> 00:02:07,160 Speaker 1: a good explanation as to where he's been. We'll set 47 00:02:07,160 --> 00:02:08,840 Speaker 1: you guys up on a second date to pay for it. 48 00:02:08,880 --> 00:02:11,960 Speaker 1: All right, let's find out what's going on Part two 49 00:02:12,040 --> 00:02:14,519 Speaker 1: of waiting on the phone after Sabrina Carpenter back in 50 00:02:14,600 --> 00:02:18,120 Speaker 1: two minutes on the Fred Show, Sabrina Carpenter, It's the 51 00:02:18,160 --> 00:02:20,400 Speaker 1: Fred Show one hundred bucks with show vis Shelley in 52 00:02:20,440 --> 00:02:24,040 Speaker 1: the showdown you went in ten minutes, Alison, Hey, all right, 53 00:02:24,040 --> 00:02:25,760 Speaker 1: welcome back. Let's call this guy, Isaac. You met on 54 00:02:25,760 --> 00:02:27,800 Speaker 1: one of the apps. You went on this date. The 55 00:02:27,840 --> 00:02:31,320 Speaker 1: way you describe at the chemistry, the mutual chemistry was unbelievable. 56 00:02:31,320 --> 00:02:33,000 Speaker 1: You guys were you said you were touching each other 57 00:02:33,160 --> 00:02:35,720 Speaker 1: and I just felt so comfortable and you were really 58 00:02:35,760 --> 00:02:39,679 Speaker 1: into it into each other. Except you have not heard 59 00:02:39,720 --> 00:02:42,080 Speaker 1: from this man since that date, and you want to 60 00:02:42,080 --> 00:02:45,679 Speaker 1: know how you go from all this to nothing? Mm hmm. 61 00:02:46,040 --> 00:02:49,680 Speaker 1: All right, let's call him nowt good luck, Allison. Thanks, 62 00:02:55,280 --> 00:03:00,399 Speaker 1: Hello ISAs Isaac? Yeah, hey, hey, good morning. 63 00:03:00,400 --> 00:03:01,000 Speaker 2: My name is Fred. 64 00:03:01,040 --> 00:03:02,919 Speaker 1: I'm calling for the Fred Show, the morning radio show, 65 00:03:02,960 --> 00:03:04,000 Speaker 1: and I have to tell you that we are on 66 00:03:04,040 --> 00:03:06,320 Speaker 1: the radio right now, and I would need your permission 67 00:03:06,320 --> 00:03:07,920 Speaker 1: to continue with the call. So okay, if we chat 68 00:03:07,960 --> 00:03:09,440 Speaker 1: for just a second on the radio, you can hang 69 00:03:09,520 --> 00:03:10,120 Speaker 1: up anytime. 70 00:03:11,080 --> 00:03:12,680 Speaker 2: Okay, all right, thank you man. 71 00:03:12,680 --> 00:03:15,359 Speaker 1: We're calling on behalf of a woman named Alison, who 72 00:03:15,400 --> 00:03:16,880 Speaker 1: I guess you met on one of the apps and 73 00:03:16,880 --> 00:03:19,000 Speaker 1: you recently went on a date with her. Do you 74 00:03:19,000 --> 00:03:20,239 Speaker 1: remember Allison? I hope? 75 00:03:20,639 --> 00:03:24,520 Speaker 4: Oh yeah, Alison was a lot. 76 00:03:25,240 --> 00:03:27,080 Speaker 1: What does that mean? Because I'll tell you that we 77 00:03:27,120 --> 00:03:29,040 Speaker 1: spoke with her a minute ago. She reached out to 78 00:03:29,120 --> 00:03:32,120 Speaker 1: us and wanted our help. She said that she'd met 79 00:03:32,160 --> 00:03:33,640 Speaker 1: you on one of the apps, that she liked you 80 00:03:33,680 --> 00:03:36,920 Speaker 1: a lot, felt like there was great chemistry. She said 81 00:03:36,920 --> 00:03:39,680 Speaker 1: that you guys couldn't stop touching each other, like you 82 00:03:39,720 --> 00:03:41,720 Speaker 1: were all over each other the whole date. There was 83 00:03:41,760 --> 00:03:44,160 Speaker 1: like this extreme comfort between the two of you, and 84 00:03:44,600 --> 00:03:46,360 Speaker 1: and somehow you're not calling her, Like how do you 85 00:03:46,400 --> 00:03:49,080 Speaker 1: go from that to to not want to see her again? 86 00:03:49,560 --> 00:03:49,800 Speaker 3: Yeah? 87 00:03:51,200 --> 00:03:54,720 Speaker 2: She was the one that was all over me and 88 00:03:54,760 --> 00:03:57,240 Speaker 2: that was from like the second we met. 89 00:03:57,800 --> 00:04:00,240 Speaker 4: And I mean it was, I mean it was it 90 00:04:00,360 --> 00:04:04,080 Speaker 4: was nice, but I'm not really that much of a 91 00:04:04,080 --> 00:04:07,080 Speaker 4: touchy guy, and she was. I mean it was just 92 00:04:07,120 --> 00:04:11,320 Speaker 4: way too much, too fast handhold thing. I mean she 93 00:04:11,440 --> 00:04:16,760 Speaker 4: was sitting on my lap and we just met so. 94 00:04:17,160 --> 00:04:22,120 Speaker 2: Like the way you guys were all over each other. No, No, 95 00:04:22,520 --> 00:04:24,440 Speaker 2: she was all over me and I'm not. 96 00:04:25,080 --> 00:04:28,960 Speaker 4: I'm not that touchy feely, especially with strangers. 97 00:04:29,200 --> 00:04:30,640 Speaker 1: Well, hold on, let me bring Alison in. And I 98 00:04:30,640 --> 00:04:33,560 Speaker 1: forgot you mentioned that Allison is here. I'm very forgetful, Allison. 99 00:04:33,960 --> 00:04:37,800 Speaker 1: So he's saying that that it was not a reciprocated 100 00:04:37,839 --> 00:04:39,800 Speaker 1: that it was you. You were the aggressor. You were 101 00:04:39,839 --> 00:04:42,960 Speaker 1: all over him and he was. He didn't like it, 102 00:04:43,080 --> 00:04:43,839 Speaker 1: that's what he's saying. 103 00:04:44,040 --> 00:04:47,880 Speaker 3: I mean, he seemed like he liked it, and uh 104 00:04:48,200 --> 00:04:50,760 Speaker 3: what I wouldn't really. I mean I could kind of 105 00:04:50,760 --> 00:05:01,200 Speaker 3: tell his chance of me, like right waking up in 106 00:05:01,240 --> 00:05:03,000 Speaker 3: the morning some time. 107 00:05:02,920 --> 00:05:05,279 Speaker 1: That's all I need, you know, So let's let's not 108 00:05:05,480 --> 00:05:11,240 Speaker 1: like brag about it. That's like an end of ourselves here, Allison, 109 00:05:11,320 --> 00:05:14,679 Speaker 1: and you know Isaac exactly. 110 00:05:14,720 --> 00:05:17,400 Speaker 2: Client. Yeah. So he may he may have. 111 00:05:17,600 --> 00:05:21,080 Speaker 1: I mean, he may have been like sensitized, but it 112 00:05:21,160 --> 00:05:23,120 Speaker 1: doesn't mean that he wanted you to do it. I 113 00:05:23,120 --> 00:05:26,400 Speaker 1: mean certain people like I'm not a super touchy feely 114 00:05:26,440 --> 00:05:28,479 Speaker 1: guy until I really know somebody, and even then, like 115 00:05:28,520 --> 00:05:31,400 Speaker 1: I don't know. It sounded like he didn't want to 116 00:05:31,440 --> 00:05:34,320 Speaker 1: be rude, and maybe he didn't hate it, but it 117 00:05:34,400 --> 00:05:37,360 Speaker 1: wasn't his favorite thing, Isaac, is that fair to say. 118 00:05:37,120 --> 00:05:40,400 Speaker 2: That's yes, that's you're hitting the nail on the head. 119 00:05:40,520 --> 00:05:42,920 Speaker 4: It's not it's not that I it's not that I 120 00:05:42,960 --> 00:05:48,120 Speaker 4: was like you girls a girl. This is the person 121 00:05:48,240 --> 00:05:48,600 Speaker 4: I've been. 122 00:05:49,200 --> 00:05:53,480 Speaker 2: We have never met before. So having a person sit 123 00:05:53,800 --> 00:05:57,360 Speaker 2: on top of you is it's just a lot. It's 124 00:05:57,440 --> 00:06:00,719 Speaker 2: a lot for the first day, okay. 125 00:06:00,760 --> 00:06:02,599 Speaker 1: But the way you described it, Allison, was that this 126 00:06:02,760 --> 00:06:05,800 Speaker 1: was reciprocated, this was mutual. And he's saying, we. 127 00:06:05,760 --> 00:06:08,760 Speaker 3: Didn't stop me. I mean, you know, like, it's not 128 00:06:08,880 --> 00:06:11,680 Speaker 3: like if I if I grabbed his hand and held 129 00:06:11,680 --> 00:06:14,360 Speaker 3: his hand, I mean he held the other side. 130 00:06:15,040 --> 00:06:20,360 Speaker 4: So okay, yeah, I'm supposed to be like, get off 131 00:06:20,400 --> 00:06:23,479 Speaker 4: of me, Like, no, I'm not going, but I'm not 132 00:06:23,520 --> 00:06:27,800 Speaker 4: gonna well no, I'm not going to be rude, but 133 00:06:27,880 --> 00:06:31,280 Speaker 4: I'm also like that very uncomfort. 134 00:06:31,320 --> 00:06:34,600 Speaker 1: You liked her, but the chemistry was not, in fact reciprocated, 135 00:06:34,640 --> 00:06:36,240 Speaker 1: and it was a little bit too much too soon, 136 00:06:36,360 --> 00:06:39,320 Speaker 1: and you would have preferred a different approach. 137 00:06:39,360 --> 00:06:43,160 Speaker 4: You're saying, right, and I look, I'm again, I don't mind. 138 00:06:43,600 --> 00:06:46,600 Speaker 2: The touchy stuff is just not with a stranger. 139 00:06:46,880 --> 00:06:50,040 Speaker 4: We we barely even have gotten to know each other. 140 00:06:50,080 --> 00:06:52,279 Speaker 1: But what if they would have escalated to the bedroom 141 00:06:52,560 --> 00:06:53,760 Speaker 1: and then you're okay with it? 142 00:06:53,880 --> 00:06:56,920 Speaker 4: Oh no, I don't do that stuff that I don't 143 00:06:56,920 --> 00:06:58,160 Speaker 4: do that first day. 144 00:06:58,360 --> 00:07:03,320 Speaker 1: Oh okay, yeah, okay, all right right, Alison, Isaac he 145 00:07:03,400 --> 00:07:04,600 Speaker 1: takes his slow this man here. 146 00:07:05,080 --> 00:07:08,360 Speaker 4: So I'm kind of thinking that that's probably why it 147 00:07:08,400 --> 00:07:09,760 Speaker 4: didn't go there. 148 00:07:09,920 --> 00:07:12,240 Speaker 1: Because you didn't want to. You're saying Alison would have, 149 00:07:12,560 --> 00:07:15,880 Speaker 1: but you didn't want to. I mean, yeah, Alison, is 150 00:07:15,880 --> 00:07:18,280 Speaker 1: that true? If Isaac had been like, let's go back 151 00:07:18,280 --> 00:07:19,680 Speaker 1: to the house, you would have done it. I mean, 152 00:07:19,720 --> 00:07:21,480 Speaker 1: no judgment. I'm just it sounds like you were really 153 00:07:21,520 --> 00:07:21,920 Speaker 1: into it. 154 00:07:22,040 --> 00:07:24,040 Speaker 3: I was really into him, But I mean it doesn't 155 00:07:24,080 --> 00:07:25,480 Speaker 3: mean I would have taken it that far. 156 00:07:25,680 --> 00:07:26,160 Speaker 2: I don't know. 157 00:07:26,320 --> 00:07:29,640 Speaker 1: I don't know what if he had sent to you, Alison, like, hey, 158 00:07:29,680 --> 00:07:31,360 Speaker 1: I'm not a touchy feely guy. Like, what if there's 159 00:07:31,400 --> 00:07:32,680 Speaker 1: I don't know how to do it exactly, but what 160 00:07:32,720 --> 00:07:34,280 Speaker 1: if there's a way to like sort of establish a 161 00:07:34,280 --> 00:07:38,040 Speaker 1: boundary so that hey, you know, I don't know how 162 00:07:38,040 --> 00:07:40,840 Speaker 1: you do that. I can't honestly tell you. I've got 163 00:07:40,880 --> 00:07:42,760 Speaker 1: women all over me all the time, So it's so touching. 164 00:07:42,800 --> 00:07:44,280 Speaker 1: I'm having to like tell him how to get off 165 00:07:44,320 --> 00:07:44,520 Speaker 1: of me. 166 00:07:44,600 --> 00:07:46,120 Speaker 2: But I wouldn't. 167 00:07:47,000 --> 00:07:49,760 Speaker 3: I would complain about that, but like you could, you 168 00:07:49,760 --> 00:07:51,560 Speaker 3: could honestly just stay it polite. 169 00:07:51,680 --> 00:07:54,200 Speaker 1: I mean, human beings, you're allowed to have boundaries, You're 170 00:07:54,200 --> 00:07:56,160 Speaker 1: allowed to have a comfort level, you know, and and 171 00:07:56,560 --> 00:07:58,960 Speaker 1: it's possible that you crossed that. But I guess he 172 00:07:59,000 --> 00:08:01,120 Speaker 1: could have communicated it to you, but he feel shy 173 00:08:01,160 --> 00:08:04,960 Speaker 1: about it. So look, Isaac, now that we've got that 174 00:08:05,000 --> 00:08:08,320 Speaker 1: all out on the table, would you consider a second date. 175 00:08:08,480 --> 00:08:11,240 Speaker 1: Maybe we'd take things a little bit more slowly. No, 176 00:08:11,480 --> 00:08:13,200 Speaker 1: I'm okay, Oh. 177 00:08:13,080 --> 00:08:17,760 Speaker 2: Man, all right, are not strangers anymore? Well, Allison, I 178 00:08:18,480 --> 00:08:19,840 Speaker 2: don't know. I'm not sure what to say. 179 00:08:19,840 --> 00:08:22,160 Speaker 1: I mean, I appreciate that you liked him, and I 180 00:08:22,240 --> 00:08:23,280 Speaker 1: just think it was a little too much. 181 00:08:23,760 --> 00:08:27,160 Speaker 3: I mean, I guess it's just his law. I mean, 182 00:08:27,640 --> 00:08:31,680 Speaker 3: if he wants to be a gigantic prude, that's fine. 183 00:08:31,920 --> 00:08:35,440 Speaker 2: I don't know that this is a bit of a 184 00:08:35,440 --> 00:08:36,719 Speaker 2: double standard we have going here. 185 00:08:37,320 --> 00:08:41,720 Speaker 1: If we're talking like this, if Isaac, we're talking like this, 186 00:08:42,320 --> 00:08:44,600 Speaker 1: we would have we would be blowing up right now. 187 00:08:44,679 --> 00:08:47,080 Speaker 1: Everyone would be saying, this guy's a scumbag. And I 188 00:08:47,120 --> 00:08:48,960 Speaker 1: hate to be the guy who flips the script, but 189 00:08:49,080 --> 00:08:52,080 Speaker 1: like in fairness, this man is establishing boundaries the same 190 00:08:52,120 --> 00:08:53,360 Speaker 1: way that women often do. 191 00:08:53,760 --> 00:08:56,079 Speaker 2: He has every right to do that. Yes, and I. 192 00:08:56,000 --> 00:08:59,760 Speaker 3: Don't know that's establishing boundaries. Well, he has the opportunity 193 00:08:59,840 --> 00:09:01,720 Speaker 3: to stablished an boundary and he didn't do it. 194 00:09:01,760 --> 00:09:03,960 Speaker 1: He could have said something and he didn't. But he 195 00:09:04,280 --> 00:09:06,280 Speaker 1: was uncomfortable with the whole thing. And now he says, 196 00:09:06,320 --> 00:09:07,800 Speaker 1: a chance to stand up. You were sitting on him. 197 00:09:10,679 --> 00:09:13,440 Speaker 1: It sounds like there were a few reasons he couldn't 198 00:09:13,440 --> 00:09:15,880 Speaker 1: say that, but I didn't tell me, like, hey up 199 00:09:15,920 --> 00:09:16,400 Speaker 1: a little bit. 200 00:09:18,720 --> 00:09:19,480 Speaker 2: Something was standing. 201 00:09:21,400 --> 00:09:24,680 Speaker 1: Look, you have every right to have whatever comfort level 202 00:09:24,800 --> 00:09:27,720 Speaker 1: you you choose, and so does Alison. And it's just 203 00:09:27,760 --> 00:09:30,120 Speaker 1: not it's not a it's not going to work out. 204 00:09:30,160 --> 00:09:32,400 Speaker 2: So guys, best of luck for both of you. 205 00:09:32,520 --> 00:09:34,880 Speaker 1: The Entertainment Report at one hundred bucks with show Vas, Shelley, 206 00:09:34,960 --> 00:09:37,360 Speaker 1: Keeky's Court All coming up next Fred Show back in 207 00:09:37,400 --> 00:09:37,920 Speaker 1: two minutes.