WEBVTT - 2nd Date Update PODCAST: Blame it on the Nanny

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<v Speaker 1>Jus second day. His name Howard is on the phone

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<v Speaker 1>for a second date up tape today, and he said

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<v Speaker 1>he met the girl he wants to call at a

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<v Speaker 1>baseball game, which is probably a good place to meet

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<v Speaker 1>somebody growing back, a bunch of beers getting a little drunk,

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<v Speaker 1>cursing at the players, and you meet someone else who's

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<v Speaker 1>just yelling at the players too, and you guys, you know, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>talk about how terrible the team is and all that

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<v Speaker 1>kind of stuff and then just bond. So is that

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<v Speaker 1>what happened, Howard? Is that how you met the girl

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<v Speaker 1>you want to call it? Actually it was at my

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<v Speaker 1>son little league baseball game. Oh okay, I know I

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<v Speaker 1>read your email, so I said, you're probably please tell

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<v Speaker 1>me he or getting wasted. I was cheering them on.

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<v Speaker 1>It's only positive at the little league game. Okay. You

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<v Speaker 1>didn't say you weren't drunk, though, so I'm taking it

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<v Speaker 1>as you were. So, what's her name? Who do you

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<v Speaker 1>want to call today? What's her name? Her name's Abby? Abby?

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<v Speaker 1>All right? And how did you meet her at the game?

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<v Speaker 1>Have you guys known each other for a while or something? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>we actually match at the game. Okay, I'm a single parent.

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<v Speaker 1>And so I have two five year old twin boys,

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<v Speaker 1>and one of which is on this team, and I've

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<v Speaker 1>been divorced for a couple of years and it's just

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<v Speaker 1>been kind of difficult getting back into the dating game. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's hard to find a nice single girl who's available.

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<v Speaker 1>Was Abby a mom of one of the players on

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<v Speaker 1>the team. Yeah, so she was at the game and

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<v Speaker 1>her kid is on the same team, and as I've

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<v Speaker 1>actually heard my kid talking about her kids at school

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<v Speaker 1>and you know their buddies, so you know of her.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you've met her before. I had not met

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<v Speaker 1>her before, but I knew about her kid through my kid. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>were you grilling your son, like, hey, five year old son,

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<v Speaker 1>is she single? Do you know she's still married? He

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<v Speaker 1>had no information whatsoever with me. He's not helpful in that.

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<v Speaker 1>Teach him to be a better wing man, for sure. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought I had an inside man, but he wasn't it.

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<v Speaker 1>So she was at the game, and I struck up

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<v Speaker 1>conversation with her because I, you know, I had recognized

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<v Speaker 1>her and she was really nice. So you know, we

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<v Speaker 1>were talking about like, hey, we should get our kids

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<v Speaker 1>together for like a play date or something like that,

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<v Speaker 1>and she's like, oh, yeah, that'd be great. But then,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, after game went on, we were talking more

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<v Speaker 1>and more and I went out on a limb and

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, you know what forget to play date?

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<v Speaker 1>Would you like to go to dinner or something. Let's

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<v Speaker 1>have our own adult play date. Yeah yeah, and she said, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>of course, that'd be great. Okay, So how was dinner.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a little rusty. I move dated a little while,

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<v Speaker 1>but I made sure that I paid for dinner, and

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<v Speaker 1>we talked mostly about our kids because that's the only

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<v Speaker 1>thing that connected us in the beginning. But were you

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<v Speaker 1>able to get off that subject at all? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>at some point you'd be like, okay, we're actually on

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<v Speaker 1>a date. I can stop talking about my child now. Yeah. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>The conversation kind of led from that, and then whenever, whenever,

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<v Speaker 1>it kind of doing bled off. Then we came back

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<v Speaker 1>to the kid and then went in another direction. So

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<v Speaker 1>it definitely became the base for conversation. But it was good.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, we didn't stay on that the whole time. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So all in all, you think the date was a success.

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<v Speaker 1>I think so I went really well. The only thing

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<v Speaker 1>is when we went to leave. I was walking her

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<v Speaker 1>back to her car, and I just don't know what

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<v Speaker 1>to do in these situations anymore. Do I kiss her?

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<v Speaker 1>You said a third date thing? I don't know, but

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<v Speaker 1>I decided to kind of go for it, and I

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<v Speaker 1>went to kiss her and she turned her head and

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<v Speaker 1>then they're kissing her cheek. All right, that's kind of

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<v Speaker 1>an awkward end of the date. Yeah, do you guys

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<v Speaker 1>think I screwed that up? I mean, should I not

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<v Speaker 1>have tried to kiss her on the first date? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>should I had just been like, you know, cool, let's

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<v Speaker 1>let's do a second date and call it good. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know, it depends on the situation, I guess. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>ost thing, kisses aren't what they used to be. I

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<v Speaker 1>think it's more common nowadays. And it's so hard for

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<v Speaker 1>us to judge now because we know you got rejected. Yeah, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>if we didn't know what was going to happen, I

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<v Speaker 1>would probably would have said go for it. But now too, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>what do you think I should have done? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I think maybe you moved too slow. Both you guys

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<v Speaker 1>have kids. I mean, you guys should just invite her

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<v Speaker 1>back to your place. You guys have been there done

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<v Speaker 1>that before. It's not like, you know, it's not like

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<v Speaker 1>new territory there as far as that's concerned. Oh, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't even think about that. Maybe I wasn't moving

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<v Speaker 1>fashion enough. Like you say, you're really rusty at dating.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, is she back into the dating scene recently too?

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<v Speaker 1>Like maybe she's just rusty too, And she didn't know

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<v Speaker 1>it seems like it seemed like she was a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit more experienced in the dating thing, like she had

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<v Speaker 1>some kind of like it seemed like she had done

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<v Speaker 1>this before recently. But again, it was both of our

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<v Speaker 1>first date. So and I didn't know if I had

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<v Speaker 1>overstepped some bounds or anything like that. So did you

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<v Speaker 1>make plans to hang out again or anything? Yeah, So

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<v Speaker 1>before she left, I was just like, dude, you want

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<v Speaker 1>to get together at least you know, we could do

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<v Speaker 1>that play date their kids. And she was like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>of course, definitely. And so what's happened since I've reached

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<v Speaker 1>out to her a couple of times and and she

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<v Speaker 1>hasn't really responded even about like a playdate, not even

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<v Speaker 1>our own date. And that's awkward because your kids are

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<v Speaker 1>on the same baseball team. Yeah, I mean I bound

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<v Speaker 1>to see her again. Yeah, so I was hoping you

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<v Speaker 1>guys could help me out with this because I just

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. It's racking my brain and like, how I

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<v Speaker 1>screwed this up somehow? Okay, well we'll play a song

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<v Speaker 1>and then come back and call her and get your

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<v Speaker 1>second date update. All right, all right, thank you, hang

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<v Speaker 1>on brooking Jubile in the morning. Date. Baseball games are

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<v Speaker 1>always a good place to find love, especially a little

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<v Speaker 1>kids baseball game, because let's face it, you're not paying

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<v Speaker 1>attention to what's going on the field, neither other kids.

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<v Speaker 1>They don't even want to be there. Most of them

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<v Speaker 1>are by the outfield fence, like picking dandelions or something,

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<v Speaker 1>so not a lot of action. And that's why Howard

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<v Speaker 1>is on the phone for a second day update. Today

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<v Speaker 1>struck up a conversation with the girl named Abby and

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<v Speaker 1>they ended up going out on a date. But now

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<v Speaker 1>she's not calling him back. And even in little league,

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<v Speaker 1>there's no like winners and losers anymore than even keep score.

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<v Speaker 1>So Howard, I guess on that day, But now now

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<v Speaker 1>he's got a big l because she's not calling him back.

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<v Speaker 1>So how are you went from big winner to big loser?

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<v Speaker 1>How does that feel not great? I mean, I just

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<v Speaker 1>I mean a big state of like, where did I

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<v Speaker 1>go wrong? Here? You can't think of anything you did

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<v Speaker 1>wrong because I feel like because your kids play on

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<v Speaker 1>the same team, even if she didn't want to go

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<v Speaker 1>out with you again, she'd give you a courtesy call

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<v Speaker 1>just to keep things friendly. For her not to call

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<v Speaker 1>you back at all, I think is bad. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe she wants to confront me at the game about it.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. That would be awkward shouting at you

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<v Speaker 1>in the stands. Who knows. All right, Well, I'm on

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<v Speaker 1>the dollar phone number right now, and see why she's

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<v Speaker 1>not calling you back. Okay, okay, all right, here we go. Hello,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, a speak to Abby? Please? Abby? How are you?

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<v Speaker 1>This is jew Bil from the radio show Brook and

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<v Speaker 1>jew Bil in the Morning. What. Yeah, this is so weird?

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<v Speaker 1>Why's calling me? Well? I'm calling you because we got

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<v Speaker 1>an email about you from somebody who listens to the show. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>that's justin weird. Who emailed you about me? His name

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<v Speaker 1>is Howard. Okay, that's that's excited. Abby. We do this

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<v Speaker 1>thing on our show called the Second Date Update. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know if you know what that is or not.

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<v Speaker 1>But that's if you go out on a date with

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<v Speaker 1>somebody and then end up not wanting to see them again,

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<v Speaker 1>they can email us to get you on the phone

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<v Speaker 1>and ask what happened. So Howard emailed us and told

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<v Speaker 1>us about your date, and he also can't figure out

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<v Speaker 1>why you're not calling him back. Well, let's just say

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<v Speaker 1>that I won't be interested in getting involved with him

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<v Speaker 1>anytime soon. Yeah. I think he's figured that out. We're

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<v Speaker 1>trying to figure out why. Um okay, I know Howard too,

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<v Speaker 1>literally because my son plays in both Actually our kids

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<v Speaker 1>are friendly to each other, which is nice. But the

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<v Speaker 1>other day at one of the games, we were getting

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<v Speaker 1>along pretty well and he was very futhcoming and he

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<v Speaker 1>asked me to dinner, and I was like, yeah, he

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<v Speaker 1>told us about your date, h and he said that

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<v Speaker 1>everything was great. He said it was great. Yeah, he

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<v Speaker 1>thought it was fantastic. He did say at the end

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<v Speaker 1>of the date, he leaned in to try to kiss you,

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<v Speaker 1>and you kind of turned your cheek. It didn't seem

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<v Speaker 1>like you wanted to have a first date kiss. I

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<v Speaker 1>think that what happened during the dinner is we talked

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<v Speaker 1>at we're both divorced, so naturally that's going to come up. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and he sort of overshared over shared about his divorced Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>about how the divorce happened pretty much, Okay, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>what would be oversharing. Oversharing would be sharing the fact

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<v Speaker 1>that he hooked up with his kids nanny. Whoa, he

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<v Speaker 1>hooked up with this kid's nanny and that's why he

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<v Speaker 1>got a divorce. I mean it was more than like

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<v Speaker 1>hooked up. I guess they were together for some time.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh so he had he shared with you on your

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<v Speaker 1>first date. Yeah, that the reason he had a divorce

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<v Speaker 1>was because he was having an affair with the nanny. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>like a full blown affair with the nanny. Okay, well

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<v Speaker 1>that's that's a bit of a t but a good

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<v Speaker 1>reason for divorce. So at least he has that, I get.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean he was a little bit like sort of

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<v Speaker 1>like remorseful about it. And then this also kind of

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<v Speaker 1>made me mad because he was doing that saying where

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<v Speaker 1>he was like, well, you know, my wife was being

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<v Speaker 1>a little like holding she wasn't hearing any attention Jeeves too,

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm like, oh god, yeah it is. It's always

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<v Speaker 1>an excuse about some new shorts and she didn't comment

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<v Speaker 1>on my shorts, you know. So I was like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just gonna start banging the nanny. She likes my shorts. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>But here's what's crazy, and that I can't believe that

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<v Speaker 1>he shared with me on a daine he was going

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<v Speaker 1>to take all his kids to Disney right, and then

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<v Speaker 1>I guess the mother found out about the bear, so

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<v Speaker 1>they were like, well, we're not doing a family trip,

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<v Speaker 1>and he said that he still went on the trip

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<v Speaker 1>to Disney with the nanny. Wait, no kids or kids

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<v Speaker 1>do with them? No kids? He took them nanny to

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<v Speaker 1>Disney Lands. Oh okay, that's a lot of information on

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<v Speaker 1>a first date. Yeah, that's a lot. Yeah, especially you

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<v Speaker 1>know when you're just starting to date somebody, you might

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<v Speaker 1>have questions if they got a divorce because they were

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<v Speaker 1>having an affair with the nanny and then had a

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<v Speaker 1>trip scheduled to Disneyland with their kids and everything else,

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<v Speaker 1>but then blew that off to just take the nanny.

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<v Speaker 1>There might raise a flag or two. Yeah, I mean, like,

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<v Speaker 1>it's crazy. I can't believe that he would think that

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<v Speaker 1>any date would be going well. If dad is information

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<v Speaker 1>that I'm getting okay, okay, but so yeah, to look

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<v Speaker 1>at the other side though, like he definitely overshared, but

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<v Speaker 1>it was what was going on with his life, and

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<v Speaker 1>at least he was honest about it. I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>like I feel like he was trying to make excuses

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<v Speaker 1>for himself like that. He just sleared sort of like

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<v Speaker 1>that into an affair with his children's nanny. Excuse me,

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<v Speaker 1>I have something to say here. Oh, I'm sure you do. Way,

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<v Speaker 1>what is going on right now? Abby? That's Howard. He

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<v Speaker 1>was actually on the other line listing and wants to

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<v Speaker 1>talk to you. What I want to talk to him?

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<v Speaker 1>It's a little too late now, Yeah, I just gotta

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<v Speaker 1>jump in here. Abby. I really wish you would have

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<v Speaker 1>told me that that was an issue. I mean, who

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<v Speaker 1>would that not be an issue for We were talking

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<v Speaker 1>about our divorces. You were open, I was being open

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<v Speaker 1>about it, and I was being truthful and honest and like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it was a mistake, but that was it wasn't enough

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<v Speaker 1>time ago. That wasake. Wait wait, wait, Howard, you told

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<v Speaker 1>me that you guys were involved for six months. That's

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<v Speaker 1>a relationship as far as I'm concerned. I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>you understand though, yes, it was a mistake, but she

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<v Speaker 1>she's really hot. What that's fine? Then, how long you're

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<v Speaker 1>a man who can't control the urges? And I already

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<v Speaker 1>told you that my marriage was not going very well.

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<v Speaker 1>It was already falling apart, and she wasn't. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>need any convincing. I mean, she sounds really hot. She's

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<v Speaker 1>the dude. Oh my god, Howard, I was all for

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<v Speaker 1>like second chances for you, but you don't sound like

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<v Speaker 1>you even understand what you did. Wait wait, wait, guys,

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<v Speaker 1>you're not getting the best part of everything. She still

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<v Speaker 1>works for him. This nanny, what, Howard, the nanny that

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<v Speaker 1>you had an affair with, is Seal your nanny? Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>she is really really great with the kids, and but

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<v Speaker 1>so many people that can be great with kids. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god, I have to pick my jaw up off

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<v Speaker 1>the floor. I cannot believe that. Can you please let

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<v Speaker 1>me finish? Please? It is no longer a thing. She

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<v Speaker 1>works for me, and she is in her own thing,

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<v Speaker 1>her own relationship, and I am I am not a

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<v Speaker 1>part of that. Yeah, and I really don't think it's

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<v Speaker 1>gonna happen again. You don't think you don't think it's

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<v Speaker 1>gonna happen again. But she is hot, so I'm pretty

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<v Speaker 1>sure that's why she's still on the payroll. Just think

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<v Speaker 1>she comes around again, right, Oh, oh my god, you

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<v Speaker 1>don't understand how hard it is to find a good

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<v Speaker 1>childcare and and I'm not just gonna fire her because

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I happen to have had a relationship with

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<v Speaker 1>her for six months. Oh my god, I think that

0:13:31.640 --> 0:13:35.680
<v Speaker 1>nanny sleeping with the husband disqualifies her as good childcare.

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<v Speaker 1>Like that is, she's out whatever, I'm not firing her.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, she's good at her job, she's good with

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<v Speaker 1>the kids. I'm not getting rid of her. And just

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<v Speaker 1>like Abby, I'm only interested in a relationship with the youth.

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<v Speaker 1>That's it. That's romantic. That is romantic. Abbey, would you

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<v Speaker 1>like to go on a second date with Howard will Pay?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you? Are you crazy? Did you just hear that

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<v Speaker 1>romantic commento? Listen, I used to bang my nanny for

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<v Speaker 1>six month, but you're the one I want. Pretty nice.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe instead of talking to me about a second date,

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<v Speaker 1>you should call it to nanny. Oh I told you

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<v Speaker 1>her and I are over and it was her choice

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<v Speaker 1>and I respect that. Yeah, so you're not even the

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<v Speaker 1>one that ended it. You were dumped by the nanny Abby.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you sure, because I think you're missing out on

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<v Speaker 1>this one man. Yeah, so you don't want to go

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<v Speaker 1>out with Howard again? Hey, Howard, I do not want

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<v Speaker 1>to go out with you again, nor do I want

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<v Speaker 1>to sit with you at any Little League game in

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<v Speaker 1>the future either. Okay, Okay, let's keep our kids out

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<v Speaker 1>of this, all right. Oh yeah, yeah, you are being

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<v Speaker 1>a little unfair. I think you should be able to

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<v Speaker 1>sit next to you. Listen, this whole thing got out

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<v Speaker 1>of hand. I like, I just want you to be

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<v Speaker 1>able to meet this nanny and then you swear that away. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So you said you could understand how hot she was. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I got it. Yeah, broken jew will in the morning.