1 00:00:03,640 --> 00:00:08,280 Speaker 1: Jus second day. His name Howard is on the phone 2 00:00:08,320 --> 00:00:10,320 Speaker 1: for a second date up tape today, and he said 3 00:00:10,360 --> 00:00:12,040 Speaker 1: he met the girl he wants to call at a 4 00:00:12,039 --> 00:00:13,880 Speaker 1: baseball game, which is probably a good place to meet 5 00:00:13,920 --> 00:00:16,960 Speaker 1: somebody growing back, a bunch of beers getting a little drunk, 6 00:00:17,560 --> 00:00:20,599 Speaker 1: cursing at the players, and you meet someone else who's 7 00:00:20,600 --> 00:00:23,480 Speaker 1: just yelling at the players too, and you guys, you know, yeah, 8 00:00:23,600 --> 00:00:25,360 Speaker 1: talk about how terrible the team is and all that 9 00:00:25,400 --> 00:00:27,880 Speaker 1: kind of stuff and then just bond. So is that 10 00:00:27,920 --> 00:00:29,440 Speaker 1: what happened, Howard? Is that how you met the girl 11 00:00:29,480 --> 00:00:31,840 Speaker 1: you want to call it? Actually it was at my 12 00:00:31,920 --> 00:00:35,839 Speaker 1: son little league baseball game. Oh okay, I know I 13 00:00:36,080 --> 00:00:38,239 Speaker 1: read your email, so I said, you're probably please tell 14 00:00:38,280 --> 00:00:43,239 Speaker 1: me he or getting wasted. I was cheering them on. 15 00:00:43,520 --> 00:00:46,360 Speaker 1: It's only positive at the little league game. Okay. You 16 00:00:46,360 --> 00:00:48,280 Speaker 1: didn't say you weren't drunk, though, so I'm taking it 17 00:00:48,280 --> 00:00:49,839 Speaker 1: as you were. So, what's her name? Who do you 18 00:00:49,840 --> 00:00:52,440 Speaker 1: want to call today? What's her name? Her name's Abby? Abby? 19 00:00:52,520 --> 00:00:54,960 Speaker 1: All right? And how did you meet her at the game? 20 00:00:54,960 --> 00:00:57,080 Speaker 1: Have you guys known each other for a while or something? Well, 21 00:00:57,080 --> 00:01:01,120 Speaker 1: we actually match at the game. Okay, I'm a single parent. 22 00:01:01,560 --> 00:01:04,559 Speaker 1: And so I have two five year old twin boys, 23 00:01:04,680 --> 00:01:08,320 Speaker 1: and one of which is on this team, and I've 24 00:01:08,319 --> 00:01:11,800 Speaker 1: been divorced for a couple of years and it's just 25 00:01:11,880 --> 00:01:16,360 Speaker 1: been kind of difficult getting back into the dating game. Yeah, 26 00:01:16,440 --> 00:01:19,839 Speaker 1: it's hard to find a nice single girl who's available. 27 00:01:20,120 --> 00:01:23,160 Speaker 1: Was Abby a mom of one of the players on 28 00:01:23,200 --> 00:01:25,880 Speaker 1: the team. Yeah, so she was at the game and 29 00:01:26,000 --> 00:01:28,560 Speaker 1: her kid is on the same team, and as I've 30 00:01:28,600 --> 00:01:32,320 Speaker 1: actually heard my kid talking about her kids at school 31 00:01:32,400 --> 00:01:34,840 Speaker 1: and you know their buddies, so you know of her. 32 00:01:35,080 --> 00:01:37,640 Speaker 1: I mean, you've met her before. I had not met 33 00:01:37,680 --> 00:01:41,479 Speaker 1: her before, but I knew about her kid through my kid. Okay, 34 00:01:41,560 --> 00:01:43,760 Speaker 1: were you grilling your son, like, hey, five year old son, 35 00:01:43,880 --> 00:01:46,480 Speaker 1: is she single? Do you know she's still married? He 36 00:01:46,680 --> 00:01:50,920 Speaker 1: had no information whatsoever with me. He's not helpful in that. 37 00:01:52,200 --> 00:01:55,480 Speaker 1: Teach him to be a better wing man, for sure. Yeah. 38 00:01:55,520 --> 00:01:58,000 Speaker 1: I thought I had an inside man, but he wasn't it. 39 00:01:58,200 --> 00:02:01,120 Speaker 1: So she was at the game, and I struck up 40 00:02:01,160 --> 00:02:04,120 Speaker 1: conversation with her because I, you know, I had recognized 41 00:02:04,160 --> 00:02:07,280 Speaker 1: her and she was really nice. So you know, we 42 00:02:07,280 --> 00:02:09,720 Speaker 1: were talking about like, hey, we should get our kids 43 00:02:09,720 --> 00:02:12,000 Speaker 1: together for like a play date or something like that, 44 00:02:12,040 --> 00:02:14,119 Speaker 1: and she's like, oh, yeah, that'd be great. But then, 45 00:02:14,200 --> 00:02:16,040 Speaker 1: you know, after game went on, we were talking more 46 00:02:16,080 --> 00:02:18,400 Speaker 1: and more and I went out on a limb and 47 00:02:18,440 --> 00:02:20,480 Speaker 1: I was like, you know what forget to play date? 48 00:02:20,639 --> 00:02:23,000 Speaker 1: Would you like to go to dinner or something. Let's 49 00:02:23,040 --> 00:02:27,239 Speaker 1: have our own adult play date. Yeah yeah, and she said, yeah, 50 00:02:27,280 --> 00:02:29,680 Speaker 1: of course, that'd be great. Okay, So how was dinner. 51 00:02:30,040 --> 00:02:32,919 Speaker 1: I'm a little rusty. I move dated a little while, 52 00:02:33,120 --> 00:02:35,799 Speaker 1: but I made sure that I paid for dinner, and 53 00:02:36,000 --> 00:02:39,399 Speaker 1: we talked mostly about our kids because that's the only 54 00:02:39,440 --> 00:02:42,000 Speaker 1: thing that connected us in the beginning. But were you 55 00:02:42,040 --> 00:02:44,520 Speaker 1: able to get off that subject at all? I mean, 56 00:02:44,560 --> 00:02:46,560 Speaker 1: at some point you'd be like, okay, we're actually on 57 00:02:46,560 --> 00:02:49,280 Speaker 1: a date. I can stop talking about my child now. Yeah. Yeah. 58 00:02:49,360 --> 00:02:53,000 Speaker 1: The conversation kind of led from that, and then whenever, whenever, 59 00:02:53,000 --> 00:02:55,399 Speaker 1: it kind of doing bled off. Then we came back 60 00:02:55,400 --> 00:02:58,120 Speaker 1: to the kid and then went in another direction. So 61 00:02:58,280 --> 00:03:01,120 Speaker 1: it definitely became the base for conversation. But it was good. 62 00:03:01,280 --> 00:03:03,639 Speaker 1: You know, we didn't stay on that the whole time. Okay, 63 00:03:03,800 --> 00:03:06,079 Speaker 1: So all in all, you think the date was a success. 64 00:03:06,880 --> 00:03:10,520 Speaker 1: I think so I went really well. The only thing 65 00:03:10,639 --> 00:03:14,000 Speaker 1: is when we went to leave. I was walking her 66 00:03:14,000 --> 00:03:16,960 Speaker 1: back to her car, and I just don't know what 67 00:03:17,000 --> 00:03:19,240 Speaker 1: to do in these situations anymore. Do I kiss her? 68 00:03:20,040 --> 00:03:23,079 Speaker 1: You said a third date thing? I don't know, but 69 00:03:23,200 --> 00:03:27,040 Speaker 1: I decided to kind of go for it, and I 70 00:03:27,120 --> 00:03:30,320 Speaker 1: went to kiss her and she turned her head and 71 00:03:30,320 --> 00:03:33,040 Speaker 1: then they're kissing her cheek. All right, that's kind of 72 00:03:33,080 --> 00:03:36,160 Speaker 1: an awkward end of the date. Yeah, do you guys 73 00:03:36,160 --> 00:03:37,920 Speaker 1: think I screwed that up? I mean, should I not 74 00:03:38,040 --> 00:03:40,120 Speaker 1: have tried to kiss her on the first date? I mean, 75 00:03:40,360 --> 00:03:42,600 Speaker 1: should I had just been like, you know, cool, let's 76 00:03:42,720 --> 00:03:45,240 Speaker 1: let's do a second date and call it good. I 77 00:03:45,240 --> 00:03:47,640 Speaker 1: don't know, it depends on the situation, I guess. Yeah, 78 00:03:47,680 --> 00:03:49,560 Speaker 1: ost thing, kisses aren't what they used to be. I 79 00:03:49,600 --> 00:03:52,120 Speaker 1: think it's more common nowadays. And it's so hard for 80 00:03:52,240 --> 00:03:55,080 Speaker 1: us to judge now because we know you got rejected. Yeah, Like, 81 00:03:55,200 --> 00:03:56,920 Speaker 1: if we didn't know what was going to happen, I 82 00:03:56,920 --> 00:04:00,720 Speaker 1: would probably would have said go for it. But now too, Well, 83 00:04:00,720 --> 00:04:02,400 Speaker 1: what do you think I should have done? I mean, 84 00:04:02,600 --> 00:04:04,160 Speaker 1: I think maybe you moved too slow. Both you guys 85 00:04:04,160 --> 00:04:05,680 Speaker 1: have kids. I mean, you guys should just invite her 86 00:04:05,720 --> 00:04:08,240 Speaker 1: back to your place. You guys have been there done 87 00:04:08,240 --> 00:04:10,400 Speaker 1: that before. It's not like, you know, it's not like 88 00:04:10,480 --> 00:04:12,960 Speaker 1: new territory there as far as that's concerned. Oh, you know, 89 00:04:12,960 --> 00:04:15,080 Speaker 1: I didn't even think about that. Maybe I wasn't moving 90 00:04:15,080 --> 00:04:19,480 Speaker 1: fashion enough. Like you say, you're really rusty at dating. 91 00:04:19,560 --> 00:04:22,640 Speaker 1: I mean, is she back into the dating scene recently too? 92 00:04:22,680 --> 00:04:25,000 Speaker 1: Like maybe she's just rusty too, And she didn't know 93 00:04:25,400 --> 00:04:27,840 Speaker 1: it seems like it seemed like she was a little 94 00:04:27,839 --> 00:04:30,920 Speaker 1: bit more experienced in the dating thing, like she had 95 00:04:30,960 --> 00:04:34,080 Speaker 1: some kind of like it seemed like she had done 96 00:04:34,080 --> 00:04:38,200 Speaker 1: this before recently. But again, it was both of our 97 00:04:38,360 --> 00:04:40,640 Speaker 1: first date. So and I didn't know if I had 98 00:04:40,640 --> 00:04:44,480 Speaker 1: overstepped some bounds or anything like that. So did you 99 00:04:44,640 --> 00:04:47,760 Speaker 1: make plans to hang out again or anything? Yeah, So 100 00:04:48,120 --> 00:04:50,280 Speaker 1: before she left, I was just like, dude, you want 101 00:04:50,279 --> 00:04:51,960 Speaker 1: to get together at least you know, we could do 102 00:04:52,000 --> 00:04:54,200 Speaker 1: that play date their kids. And she was like, yeah, 103 00:04:54,240 --> 00:04:58,279 Speaker 1: of course, definitely. And so what's happened since I've reached 104 00:04:58,279 --> 00:05:00,480 Speaker 1: out to her a couple of times and and she 105 00:05:00,560 --> 00:05:03,800 Speaker 1: hasn't really responded even about like a playdate, not even 106 00:05:03,800 --> 00:05:06,480 Speaker 1: our own date. And that's awkward because your kids are 107 00:05:06,520 --> 00:05:10,400 Speaker 1: on the same baseball team. Yeah, I mean I bound 108 00:05:10,400 --> 00:05:12,680 Speaker 1: to see her again. Yeah, so I was hoping you 109 00:05:12,720 --> 00:05:14,360 Speaker 1: guys could help me out with this because I just 110 00:05:14,400 --> 00:05:16,919 Speaker 1: don't know. It's racking my brain and like, how I 111 00:05:16,960 --> 00:05:19,360 Speaker 1: screwed this up somehow? Okay, well we'll play a song 112 00:05:19,400 --> 00:05:21,039 Speaker 1: and then come back and call her and get your 113 00:05:21,080 --> 00:05:23,839 Speaker 1: second date update. All right, all right, thank you, hang 114 00:05:23,880 --> 00:05:32,840 Speaker 1: on brooking Jubile in the morning. Date. Baseball games are 115 00:05:32,839 --> 00:05:36,880 Speaker 1: always a good place to find love, especially a little 116 00:05:36,960 --> 00:05:39,000 Speaker 1: kids baseball game, because let's face it, you're not paying 117 00:05:39,040 --> 00:05:40,800 Speaker 1: attention to what's going on the field, neither other kids. 118 00:05:40,839 --> 00:05:42,200 Speaker 1: They don't even want to be there. Most of them 119 00:05:42,600 --> 00:05:45,320 Speaker 1: are by the outfield fence, like picking dandelions or something, 120 00:05:45,400 --> 00:05:47,880 Speaker 1: so not a lot of action. And that's why Howard 121 00:05:48,000 --> 00:05:49,520 Speaker 1: is on the phone for a second day update. Today 122 00:05:49,520 --> 00:05:52,240 Speaker 1: struck up a conversation with the girl named Abby and 123 00:05:52,279 --> 00:05:54,080 Speaker 1: they ended up going out on a date. But now 124 00:05:54,120 --> 00:05:56,479 Speaker 1: she's not calling him back. And even in little league, 125 00:05:56,480 --> 00:05:58,800 Speaker 1: there's no like winners and losers anymore than even keep score. 126 00:05:59,200 --> 00:06:03,480 Speaker 1: So Howard, I guess on that day, But now now 127 00:06:03,480 --> 00:06:05,800 Speaker 1: he's got a big l because she's not calling him back. 128 00:06:05,839 --> 00:06:07,520 Speaker 1: So how are you went from big winner to big loser? 129 00:06:07,520 --> 00:06:10,839 Speaker 1: How does that feel not great? I mean, I just 130 00:06:11,000 --> 00:06:13,240 Speaker 1: I mean a big state of like, where did I 131 00:06:13,279 --> 00:06:15,480 Speaker 1: go wrong? Here? You can't think of anything you did 132 00:06:15,480 --> 00:06:18,599 Speaker 1: wrong because I feel like because your kids play on 133 00:06:18,640 --> 00:06:21,160 Speaker 1: the same team, even if she didn't want to go 134 00:06:21,200 --> 00:06:23,200 Speaker 1: out with you again, she'd give you a courtesy call 135 00:06:23,600 --> 00:06:26,400 Speaker 1: just to keep things friendly. For her not to call 136 00:06:26,440 --> 00:06:29,080 Speaker 1: you back at all, I think is bad. I mean, 137 00:06:29,240 --> 00:06:32,720 Speaker 1: maybe she wants to confront me at the game about it. 138 00:06:32,760 --> 00:06:36,479 Speaker 1: I don't know. That would be awkward shouting at you 139 00:06:36,520 --> 00:06:38,560 Speaker 1: in the stands. Who knows. All right, Well, I'm on 140 00:06:38,600 --> 00:06:40,400 Speaker 1: the dollar phone number right now, and see why she's 141 00:06:40,400 --> 00:06:51,839 Speaker 1: not calling you back. Okay, okay, all right, here we go. Hello, 142 00:06:52,320 --> 00:06:56,760 Speaker 1: all right, a speak to Abby? Please? Abby? How are you? 143 00:06:56,839 --> 00:06:58,760 Speaker 1: This is jew Bil from the radio show Brook and 144 00:06:58,839 --> 00:07:06,880 Speaker 1: jew Bil in the Morning. What. Yeah, this is so weird? 145 00:07:06,920 --> 00:07:09,800 Speaker 1: Why's calling me? Well? I'm calling you because we got 146 00:07:09,840 --> 00:07:13,520 Speaker 1: an email about you from somebody who listens to the show. Okay, 147 00:07:13,560 --> 00:07:18,360 Speaker 1: that's justin weird. Who emailed you about me? His name 148 00:07:18,440 --> 00:07:23,880 Speaker 1: is Howard. Okay, that's that's excited. Abby. We do this 149 00:07:23,880 --> 00:07:25,400 Speaker 1: thing on our show called the Second Date Update. I 150 00:07:25,400 --> 00:07:26,480 Speaker 1: don't know if you know what that is or not. 151 00:07:26,600 --> 00:07:28,200 Speaker 1: But that's if you go out on a date with 152 00:07:28,200 --> 00:07:30,920 Speaker 1: somebody and then end up not wanting to see them again, 153 00:07:30,960 --> 00:07:32,840 Speaker 1: they can email us to get you on the phone 154 00:07:32,840 --> 00:07:35,880 Speaker 1: and ask what happened. So Howard emailed us and told 155 00:07:35,960 --> 00:07:38,400 Speaker 1: us about your date, and he also can't figure out 156 00:07:38,440 --> 00:07:42,240 Speaker 1: why you're not calling him back. Well, let's just say 157 00:07:42,280 --> 00:07:45,320 Speaker 1: that I won't be interested in getting involved with him 158 00:07:45,360 --> 00:07:48,720 Speaker 1: anytime soon. Yeah. I think he's figured that out. We're 159 00:07:48,760 --> 00:07:55,040 Speaker 1: trying to figure out why. Um okay, I know Howard too, 160 00:07:55,120 --> 00:07:58,920 Speaker 1: literally because my son plays in both Actually our kids 161 00:07:58,920 --> 00:08:01,880 Speaker 1: are friendly to each other, which is nice. But the 162 00:08:01,920 --> 00:08:04,200 Speaker 1: other day at one of the games, we were getting 163 00:08:04,200 --> 00:08:06,440 Speaker 1: along pretty well and he was very futhcoming and he 164 00:08:06,560 --> 00:08:09,360 Speaker 1: asked me to dinner, and I was like, yeah, he 165 00:08:09,440 --> 00:08:11,880 Speaker 1: told us about your date, h and he said that 166 00:08:11,880 --> 00:08:14,880 Speaker 1: everything was great. He said it was great. Yeah, he 167 00:08:14,880 --> 00:08:16,920 Speaker 1: thought it was fantastic. He did say at the end 168 00:08:16,920 --> 00:08:19,520 Speaker 1: of the date, he leaned in to try to kiss you, 169 00:08:19,520 --> 00:08:21,120 Speaker 1: and you kind of turned your cheek. It didn't seem 170 00:08:21,160 --> 00:08:24,720 Speaker 1: like you wanted to have a first date kiss. I 171 00:08:24,840 --> 00:08:29,760 Speaker 1: think that what happened during the dinner is we talked 172 00:08:29,760 --> 00:08:33,160 Speaker 1: at we're both divorced, so naturally that's going to come up. Yeah, 173 00:08:33,640 --> 00:08:38,640 Speaker 1: and he sort of overshared over shared about his divorced Yeah, 174 00:08:38,679 --> 00:08:44,120 Speaker 1: about how the divorce happened pretty much, Okay, I mean 175 00:08:44,160 --> 00:08:48,400 Speaker 1: what would be oversharing. Oversharing would be sharing the fact 176 00:08:48,400 --> 00:08:51,719 Speaker 1: that he hooked up with his kids nanny. Whoa, he 177 00:08:51,800 --> 00:08:54,080 Speaker 1: hooked up with this kid's nanny and that's why he 178 00:08:54,120 --> 00:08:57,360 Speaker 1: got a divorce. I mean it was more than like 179 00:08:57,480 --> 00:09:00,640 Speaker 1: hooked up. I guess they were together for some time. 180 00:09:01,200 --> 00:09:04,400 Speaker 1: Oh so he had he shared with you on your 181 00:09:04,520 --> 00:09:07,640 Speaker 1: first date. Yeah, that the reason he had a divorce 182 00:09:07,840 --> 00:09:10,600 Speaker 1: was because he was having an affair with the nanny. Yeah, 183 00:09:10,640 --> 00:09:13,960 Speaker 1: like a full blown affair with the nanny. Okay, well 184 00:09:14,000 --> 00:09:17,520 Speaker 1: that's that's a bit of a t but a good 185 00:09:17,559 --> 00:09:22,520 Speaker 1: reason for divorce. So at least he has that, I get. 186 00:09:22,600 --> 00:09:24,600 Speaker 1: I mean he was a little bit like sort of 187 00:09:24,640 --> 00:09:27,400 Speaker 1: like remorseful about it. And then this also kind of 188 00:09:27,400 --> 00:09:29,200 Speaker 1: made me mad because he was doing that saying where 189 00:09:29,200 --> 00:09:31,040 Speaker 1: he was like, well, you know, my wife was being 190 00:09:31,040 --> 00:09:34,400 Speaker 1: a little like holding she wasn't hearing any attention Jeeves too, 191 00:09:34,480 --> 00:09:38,160 Speaker 1: And I'm like, oh god, yeah it is. It's always 192 00:09:38,160 --> 00:09:40,840 Speaker 1: an excuse about some new shorts and she didn't comment 193 00:09:40,880 --> 00:09:43,320 Speaker 1: on my shorts, you know. So I was like, well, 194 00:09:43,320 --> 00:09:48,000 Speaker 1: I'm just gonna start banging the nanny. She likes my shorts. Yeah. 195 00:09:48,040 --> 00:09:50,280 Speaker 1: But here's what's crazy, and that I can't believe that 196 00:09:50,360 --> 00:09:52,840 Speaker 1: he shared with me on a daine he was going 197 00:09:52,880 --> 00:09:56,280 Speaker 1: to take all his kids to Disney right, and then 198 00:09:56,320 --> 00:09:58,800 Speaker 1: I guess the mother found out about the bear, so 199 00:09:58,920 --> 00:10:00,880 Speaker 1: they were like, well, we're not doing a family trip, 200 00:10:01,200 --> 00:10:03,120 Speaker 1: and he said that he still went on the trip 201 00:10:03,360 --> 00:10:07,679 Speaker 1: to Disney with the nanny. Wait, no kids or kids 202 00:10:07,760 --> 00:10:12,320 Speaker 1: do with them? No kids? He took them nanny to 203 00:10:12,320 --> 00:10:17,480 Speaker 1: Disney Lands. Oh okay, that's a lot of information on 204 00:10:17,520 --> 00:10:21,720 Speaker 1: a first date. Yeah, that's a lot. Yeah, especially you 205 00:10:21,720 --> 00:10:23,679 Speaker 1: know when you're just starting to date somebody, you might 206 00:10:23,720 --> 00:10:26,520 Speaker 1: have questions if they got a divorce because they were 207 00:10:26,520 --> 00:10:28,440 Speaker 1: having an affair with the nanny and then had a 208 00:10:28,480 --> 00:10:30,560 Speaker 1: trip scheduled to Disneyland with their kids and everything else, 209 00:10:30,600 --> 00:10:32,079 Speaker 1: but then blew that off to just take the nanny. 210 00:10:32,160 --> 00:10:35,880 Speaker 1: There might raise a flag or two. Yeah, I mean, like, 211 00:10:36,000 --> 00:10:38,160 Speaker 1: it's crazy. I can't believe that he would think that 212 00:10:39,240 --> 00:10:42,119 Speaker 1: any date would be going well. If dad is information 213 00:10:42,160 --> 00:10:45,280 Speaker 1: that I'm getting okay, okay, but so yeah, to look 214 00:10:45,280 --> 00:10:48,400 Speaker 1: at the other side though, like he definitely overshared, but 215 00:10:48,440 --> 00:10:50,280 Speaker 1: it was what was going on with his life, and 216 00:10:50,320 --> 00:10:53,120 Speaker 1: at least he was honest about it. I don't know, 217 00:10:53,280 --> 00:10:56,559 Speaker 1: like I feel like he was trying to make excuses 218 00:10:56,640 --> 00:10:59,560 Speaker 1: for himself like that. He just sleared sort of like 219 00:11:00,000 --> 00:11:04,000 Speaker 1: that into an affair with his children's nanny. Excuse me, 220 00:11:04,080 --> 00:11:09,520 Speaker 1: I have something to say here. Oh, I'm sure you do. Way, 221 00:11:09,880 --> 00:11:12,520 Speaker 1: what is going on right now? Abby? That's Howard. He 222 00:11:12,559 --> 00:11:14,080 Speaker 1: was actually on the other line listing and wants to 223 00:11:14,080 --> 00:11:16,480 Speaker 1: talk to you. What I want to talk to him? 224 00:11:17,440 --> 00:11:21,200 Speaker 1: It's a little too late now, Yeah, I just gotta 225 00:11:21,280 --> 00:11:24,040 Speaker 1: jump in here. Abby. I really wish you would have 226 00:11:24,080 --> 00:11:27,240 Speaker 1: told me that that was an issue. I mean, who 227 00:11:27,240 --> 00:11:30,560 Speaker 1: would that not be an issue for We were talking 228 00:11:30,559 --> 00:11:33,680 Speaker 1: about our divorces. You were open, I was being open 229 00:11:33,840 --> 00:11:36,800 Speaker 1: about it, and I was being truthful and honest and like, yeah, 230 00:11:36,880 --> 00:11:38,839 Speaker 1: it was a mistake, but that was it wasn't enough 231 00:11:38,920 --> 00:11:43,079 Speaker 1: time ago. That wasake. Wait wait, wait, Howard, you told 232 00:11:43,120 --> 00:11:47,480 Speaker 1: me that you guys were involved for six months. That's 233 00:11:47,480 --> 00:11:51,199 Speaker 1: a relationship as far as I'm concerned. I don't think 234 00:11:51,200 --> 00:11:54,800 Speaker 1: you understand though, yes, it was a mistake, but she 235 00:11:54,800 --> 00:12:01,520 Speaker 1: she's really hot. What that's fine? Then, how long you're 236 00:12:01,520 --> 00:12:04,200 Speaker 1: a man who can't control the urges? And I already 237 00:12:04,200 --> 00:12:06,839 Speaker 1: told you that my marriage was not going very well. 238 00:12:06,880 --> 00:12:11,640 Speaker 1: It was already falling apart, and she wasn't. I don't 239 00:12:11,640 --> 00:12:14,960 Speaker 1: need any convincing. I mean, she sounds really hot. She's 240 00:12:15,000 --> 00:12:17,680 Speaker 1: the dude. Oh my god, Howard, I was all for 241 00:12:17,760 --> 00:12:21,160 Speaker 1: like second chances for you, but you don't sound like 242 00:12:21,200 --> 00:12:24,680 Speaker 1: you even understand what you did. Wait wait, wait, guys, 243 00:12:24,840 --> 00:12:28,880 Speaker 1: you're not getting the best part of everything. She still 244 00:12:28,880 --> 00:12:34,760 Speaker 1: works for him. This nanny, what, Howard, the nanny that 245 00:12:34,800 --> 00:12:37,840 Speaker 1: you had an affair with, is Seal your nanny? Yes, 246 00:12:38,040 --> 00:12:41,040 Speaker 1: she is really really great with the kids, and but 247 00:12:41,800 --> 00:12:44,280 Speaker 1: so many people that can be great with kids. Oh 248 00:12:44,320 --> 00:12:47,080 Speaker 1: my god, I have to pick my jaw up off 249 00:12:47,120 --> 00:12:49,760 Speaker 1: the floor. I cannot believe that. Can you please let 250 00:12:49,760 --> 00:12:53,280 Speaker 1: me finish? Please? It is no longer a thing. She 251 00:12:53,520 --> 00:12:57,120 Speaker 1: works for me, and she is in her own thing, 252 00:12:57,360 --> 00:13:00,280 Speaker 1: her own relationship, and I am I am not a 253 00:13:00,320 --> 00:13:03,920 Speaker 1: part of that. Yeah, and I really don't think it's 254 00:13:03,960 --> 00:13:06,760 Speaker 1: gonna happen again. You don't think you don't think it's 255 00:13:06,760 --> 00:13:12,240 Speaker 1: gonna happen again. But she is hot, so I'm pretty 256 00:13:12,240 --> 00:13:14,680 Speaker 1: sure that's why she's still on the payroll. Just think 257 00:13:14,960 --> 00:13:19,040 Speaker 1: she comes around again, right, Oh, oh my god, you 258 00:13:19,040 --> 00:13:21,960 Speaker 1: don't understand how hard it is to find a good 259 00:13:22,040 --> 00:13:25,480 Speaker 1: childcare and and I'm not just gonna fire her because 260 00:13:25,720 --> 00:13:28,640 Speaker 1: you know, I happen to have had a relationship with 261 00:13:28,640 --> 00:13:31,480 Speaker 1: her for six months. Oh my god, I think that 262 00:13:31,640 --> 00:13:35,680 Speaker 1: nanny sleeping with the husband disqualifies her as good childcare. 263 00:13:35,960 --> 00:13:39,679 Speaker 1: Like that is, she's out whatever, I'm not firing her. 264 00:13:39,679 --> 00:13:42,240 Speaker 1: I mean, she's good at her job, she's good with 265 00:13:42,240 --> 00:13:44,000 Speaker 1: the kids. I'm not getting rid of her. And just 266 00:13:44,400 --> 00:13:47,120 Speaker 1: like Abby, I'm only interested in a relationship with the youth. 267 00:13:47,160 --> 00:13:52,160 Speaker 1: That's it. That's romantic. That is romantic. Abbey, would you 268 00:13:52,200 --> 00:13:53,959 Speaker 1: like to go on a second date with Howard will Pay? 269 00:13:54,160 --> 00:13:56,400 Speaker 1: Are you? Are you crazy? Did you just hear that 270 00:13:56,480 --> 00:13:59,640 Speaker 1: romantic commento? Listen, I used to bang my nanny for 271 00:13:59,640 --> 00:14:03,760 Speaker 1: six month, but you're the one I want. Pretty nice. 272 00:14:03,960 --> 00:14:06,120 Speaker 1: Maybe instead of talking to me about a second date, 273 00:14:06,160 --> 00:14:09,839 Speaker 1: you should call it to nanny. Oh I told you 274 00:14:10,160 --> 00:14:12,120 Speaker 1: her and I are over and it was her choice 275 00:14:12,120 --> 00:14:14,800 Speaker 1: and I respect that. Yeah, so you're not even the 276 00:14:14,800 --> 00:14:17,800 Speaker 1: one that ended it. You were dumped by the nanny Abby. 277 00:14:17,840 --> 00:14:19,560 Speaker 1: Are you sure, because I think you're missing out on 278 00:14:19,560 --> 00:14:23,760 Speaker 1: this one man. Yeah, so you don't want to go 279 00:14:23,760 --> 00:14:27,080 Speaker 1: out with Howard again? Hey, Howard, I do not want 280 00:14:27,080 --> 00:14:29,200 Speaker 1: to go out with you again, nor do I want 281 00:14:29,200 --> 00:14:31,840 Speaker 1: to sit with you at any Little League game in 282 00:14:31,880 --> 00:14:35,560 Speaker 1: the future either. Okay, Okay, let's keep our kids out 283 00:14:35,560 --> 00:14:40,520 Speaker 1: of this, all right. Oh yeah, yeah, you are being 284 00:14:40,560 --> 00:14:41,920 Speaker 1: a little unfair. I think you should be able to 285 00:14:41,920 --> 00:14:44,600 Speaker 1: sit next to you. Listen, this whole thing got out 286 00:14:44,600 --> 00:14:46,920 Speaker 1: of hand. I like, I just want you to be 287 00:14:46,960 --> 00:14:52,120 Speaker 1: able to meet this nanny and then you swear that away. Okay, 288 00:14:52,120 --> 00:14:57,320 Speaker 1: So you said you could understand how hot she was. Okay, 289 00:14:57,600 --> 00:15:00,640 Speaker 1: I got it. Yeah, broken jew will in the morning.