1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:05,320 Speaker 1: Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time y'all 2 00:00:05,320 --> 00:00:16,320 Speaker 1: don't know y'all a sun giving them like the million 3 00:00:17,400 --> 00:00:26,880 Speaker 1: things and its tobins true good. Steve har to other 4 00:00:27,040 --> 00:00:59,800 Speaker 1: for please, I don't join jo. You gotta use that 5 00:01:01,840 --> 00:01:43,200 Speaker 1: turn you gotta turn to turn them out. Turn you 6 00:01:43,440 --> 00:01:47,280 Speaker 1: haven't got to turn them out? Then turn the water 7 00:01:47,520 --> 00:02:01,840 Speaker 1: the water go. Come come on your baby now. Uh huh. 8 00:02:02,440 --> 00:02:06,279 Speaker 1: I share will a good morning everybody. You' are listening 9 00:02:06,320 --> 00:02:08,840 Speaker 1: to the voice Come on dig me now, one and 10 00:02:08,880 --> 00:02:13,040 Speaker 1: all is Steve Harvey got a radio show. Okay, today 11 00:02:13,160 --> 00:02:18,880 Speaker 1: is simple. I want to tell you. I want to 12 00:02:18,919 --> 00:02:23,760 Speaker 1: just talk to you about effort today. Just about effort. 13 00:02:25,360 --> 00:02:28,080 Speaker 1: You know, it's it's it's it's a word that people 14 00:02:28,320 --> 00:02:34,079 Speaker 1: use to describe sometimes trying. But what I found out 15 00:02:34,120 --> 00:02:37,799 Speaker 1: about trying is trying is just a noble way of 16 00:02:37,919 --> 00:02:43,560 Speaker 1: saying you didn't get it done. I tried when and 17 00:02:43,639 --> 00:02:46,400 Speaker 1: then everybody go, well, he tried, that was the best. 18 00:02:47,200 --> 00:02:51,520 Speaker 1: Well that's that's not exactly true though, that that's that's 19 00:02:51,639 --> 00:02:54,840 Speaker 1: not exactly true. You are and I want to talk 20 00:02:54,919 --> 00:02:57,320 Speaker 1: to you about that because I don't want you to 21 00:02:57,440 --> 00:03:02,280 Speaker 1: be one of the people who just tried. See trying, 22 00:03:03,520 --> 00:03:06,680 Speaker 1: I mean, I gotta tell you to attempt something. You're 23 00:03:06,720 --> 00:03:09,799 Speaker 1: gonna have to first try, but I want you to 24 00:03:09,919 --> 00:03:15,880 Speaker 1: change your mindset from trying to getting it done. See, 25 00:03:15,960 --> 00:03:19,160 Speaker 1: that's a big difference. I'm really more apt to listen 26 00:03:19,240 --> 00:03:21,480 Speaker 1: to the person that says to me, I'm gonna get 27 00:03:21,520 --> 00:03:25,239 Speaker 1: it done. I'm gonna try. What try does is it 28 00:03:25,360 --> 00:03:28,320 Speaker 1: allows you to fail. It's the person that has the 29 00:03:28,480 --> 00:03:31,880 Speaker 1: mindset that I'm gonna get it done. Is the person 30 00:03:31,960 --> 00:03:36,120 Speaker 1: who changes the complexion of things. I'm gonna get it done. 31 00:03:36,200 --> 00:03:40,080 Speaker 1: It's very different than I'm gonna try. You know. Look, man, 32 00:03:40,160 --> 00:03:42,760 Speaker 1: I know, I know this sounds a little harsh, but 33 00:03:43,120 --> 00:03:47,320 Speaker 1: you gotta stop feeding yourself these little old wise sayings 34 00:03:47,680 --> 00:03:51,560 Speaker 1: that ain't it was a valiant tribe. Hey man, you 35 00:03:51,760 --> 00:03:55,440 Speaker 1: talk to anybody that took second place in the super 36 00:03:55,480 --> 00:03:58,280 Speaker 1: Bowl and see how they feel about their valiant try. 37 00:03:58,760 --> 00:04:05,160 Speaker 1: The only way to gain God's real blessings is you 38 00:04:05,320 --> 00:04:10,800 Speaker 1: have to try something. Steve your backpedaling, now, listen to 39 00:04:10,920 --> 00:04:17,600 Speaker 1: me close. You have to put forth an effort to 40 00:04:18,800 --> 00:04:22,640 Speaker 1: allow God to put his finger on something to bless 41 00:04:23,160 --> 00:04:29,960 Speaker 1: on your behalf. You must start to attempt now, insane 42 00:04:30,080 --> 00:04:33,480 Speaker 1: getting it done and I'm gonna try. That's a difference 43 00:04:33,480 --> 00:04:37,480 Speaker 1: of two different faiths to me that I'm just talking 44 00:04:37,520 --> 00:04:39,760 Speaker 1: about me. Now, you may be different, so I can't. 45 00:04:39,800 --> 00:04:42,640 Speaker 1: I can't say this about you, but I can't say 46 00:04:42,680 --> 00:04:46,600 Speaker 1: this about me. If I say I'm gonna get it done, 47 00:04:47,680 --> 00:04:52,240 Speaker 1: I have a lot of faith in it. I am 48 00:04:52,440 --> 00:04:55,200 Speaker 1: going to get it done because I just don't see 49 00:04:55,240 --> 00:04:58,680 Speaker 1: failure as an option. A lot of times now, if 50 00:04:58,760 --> 00:05:02,280 Speaker 1: somebody says to me, like the Olympic team invited me 51 00:05:02,360 --> 00:05:05,440 Speaker 1: out to curl one day, which is throw these stones 52 00:05:05,520 --> 00:05:08,560 Speaker 1: on the ice. If you're not familiar with it's very simple, 53 00:05:09,360 --> 00:05:13,400 Speaker 1: and so I said, man, I'd like to give that 54 00:05:13,520 --> 00:05:19,200 Speaker 1: a try. I went in full well knowing I may 55 00:05:19,320 --> 00:05:24,680 Speaker 1: not come away from this little curling lesson as a 56 00:05:24,880 --> 00:05:27,279 Speaker 1: person who could make the Olympic team. I just wanted 57 00:05:27,320 --> 00:05:29,560 Speaker 1: to try it because I thought it looked cool and 58 00:05:29,600 --> 00:05:32,040 Speaker 1: I always wanted to get it done. Well. I failed twice. 59 00:05:33,400 --> 00:05:37,440 Speaker 1: I threw a stone completely into the other lane. I 60 00:05:37,640 --> 00:05:40,160 Speaker 1: lost that little ice shoe. It shot out under me. 61 00:05:41,279 --> 00:05:45,320 Speaker 1: But you know what, I kept trying though. I kept 62 00:05:45,440 --> 00:05:48,200 Speaker 1: trying until I got four of them stones in that 63 00:05:48,360 --> 00:05:52,000 Speaker 1: circle right where I ain't. But now had I give 64 00:05:52,080 --> 00:05:56,240 Speaker 1: it up after I failed, after I threw that stone 65 00:05:56,279 --> 00:05:59,440 Speaker 1: in the other lane, after I shot my shoe down 66 00:05:59,520 --> 00:06:01,360 Speaker 1: all the way to the bottom side, the little ice 67 00:06:01,400 --> 00:06:04,160 Speaker 1: shoe they give you, I never would did it. But 68 00:06:04,320 --> 00:06:09,080 Speaker 1: because I was trying, something got me together a little 69 00:06:09,120 --> 00:06:11,760 Speaker 1: bit because of my effort, and it caused me not 70 00:06:11,880 --> 00:06:14,080 Speaker 1: to fall the next time, not to throw it in 71 00:06:14,160 --> 00:06:16,320 Speaker 1: the other lane, not to shoot my shoe to the 72 00:06:16,400 --> 00:06:20,360 Speaker 1: back of the wall. All of a sudden, my trying 73 00:06:20,480 --> 00:06:24,080 Speaker 1: became something. Now had I stayed out there and it 74 00:06:24,240 --> 00:06:27,200 Speaker 1: wasn't so cold, and I went back week after week 75 00:06:27,320 --> 00:06:32,080 Speaker 1: after week after week, I promise you I could get 76 00:06:32,120 --> 00:06:36,039 Speaker 1: it done. I could at least know how to compete 77 00:06:36,400 --> 00:06:39,160 Speaker 1: in a game of curling. Might not be the best. 78 00:06:39,520 --> 00:06:42,520 Speaker 1: I might not win the championship, but I could have 79 00:06:42,600 --> 00:06:44,280 Speaker 1: got it done to the point where I could have 80 00:06:44,360 --> 00:06:47,800 Speaker 1: competed in the game of curling. So sometimes if you're 81 00:06:47,880 --> 00:06:50,320 Speaker 1: scared to say I'm gonna get it done, just go 82 00:06:50,440 --> 00:06:54,760 Speaker 1: out there and get started. You know, learn from every 83 00:06:54,920 --> 00:06:58,720 Speaker 1: attempt that you make. See, don't quit writing yourself off 84 00:06:58,800 --> 00:07:01,520 Speaker 1: as a failure every time something don't go right. And 85 00:07:01,680 --> 00:07:03,880 Speaker 1: when I failed on that ice. I could have said, Man, 86 00:07:03,920 --> 00:07:06,479 Speaker 1: I can't curl, but hold up, man, I'm watching four 87 00:07:06,480 --> 00:07:09,239 Speaker 1: other women out here curl, four other dudes out here curling, 88 00:07:09,320 --> 00:07:12,560 Speaker 1: little kids out here curling. Hold up, Pardner, You know, man, 89 00:07:12,920 --> 00:07:15,600 Speaker 1: So I learned when I threw that stone on the 90 00:07:15,720 --> 00:07:18,120 Speaker 1: other ice, when I when I fail, when when my 91 00:07:18,520 --> 00:07:22,080 Speaker 1: shoe shot off, I learned from every attempt a little 92 00:07:22,120 --> 00:07:27,080 Speaker 1: bit more about it. And then I said to myself 93 00:07:27,080 --> 00:07:29,560 Speaker 1: at one point time, man, I'm gonna get this stone 94 00:07:29,640 --> 00:07:33,239 Speaker 1: in that circle. I'm gonna get this stone in this circle. 95 00:07:34,280 --> 00:07:38,160 Speaker 1: And guess what I got it done. Now what you're 96 00:07:38,160 --> 00:07:40,760 Speaker 1: saying to me, Steve, I'm saying to you that you 97 00:07:40,840 --> 00:07:44,119 Speaker 1: gotta get started, That you gotta put forth an effort. 98 00:07:44,160 --> 00:07:47,760 Speaker 1: Give God something to bless. Oh God, bless me, Oh God, 99 00:07:47,840 --> 00:07:51,880 Speaker 1: bless me. Bless you? What? Bless you? Where? Bless you? How? 100 00:07:53,320 --> 00:07:56,239 Speaker 1: Stop basing your results on what you're thinking. You gotta 101 00:07:56,320 --> 00:07:59,160 Speaker 1: think higher. You get God in your life, man, He 102 00:07:59,240 --> 00:08:04,640 Speaker 1: allows you to think higher, bigger, better more. I'm sitting 103 00:08:04,720 --> 00:08:06,600 Speaker 1: up in my debt. I came up with a plan 104 00:08:06,720 --> 00:08:08,720 Speaker 1: to get out of debt in five years. I came 105 00:08:08,800 --> 00:08:11,000 Speaker 1: up with this plan right I was sitting up and 106 00:08:11,040 --> 00:08:13,640 Speaker 1: I was tripping on it. Now, I said, wait a minute, man, 107 00:08:13,720 --> 00:08:16,760 Speaker 1: hold up, this is what I came up with. I said, 108 00:08:17,240 --> 00:08:23,920 Speaker 1: God created heaven and earth, all of it, the mountains, 109 00:08:24,000 --> 00:08:29,320 Speaker 1: the sky, the valleys, the oceans, trees, the birds, the 110 00:08:29,440 --> 00:08:32,400 Speaker 1: Indian Ocean, all of it, made all of it in 111 00:08:32,600 --> 00:08:38,559 Speaker 1: six days, and then he rested on the seventh. So 112 00:08:38,760 --> 00:08:41,880 Speaker 1: why am I taking to God the five year plan? 113 00:08:43,400 --> 00:08:47,400 Speaker 1: If he can create heaven and Earth in six days, 114 00:08:47,880 --> 00:08:50,040 Speaker 1: why am I walking in there talking about helped me 115 00:08:50,200 --> 00:08:54,760 Speaker 1: in five years? How is it gonna take God five 116 00:08:54,960 --> 00:08:58,160 Speaker 1: years to getting me out of debt? And he made 117 00:08:58,240 --> 00:09:01,240 Speaker 1: heaven and Earth in six days. You're the math hill man. 118 00:09:01,960 --> 00:09:05,559 Speaker 1: I ain't that big. You ain't that big. You ain't 119 00:09:05,600 --> 00:09:09,000 Speaker 1: in that much trouble. I ain't in that much trouble. See, 120 00:09:09,080 --> 00:09:11,319 Speaker 1: God got a way of showing you some things, man, 121 00:09:11,600 --> 00:09:14,240 Speaker 1: but it's gonna take some faith, and faith gonna take 122 00:09:14,320 --> 00:09:17,640 Speaker 1: some effort on your part. Man, Get out and do something. Man, 123 00:09:18,000 --> 00:09:20,439 Speaker 1: you God to bless you a little bit and give 124 00:09:20,440 --> 00:09:22,520 Speaker 1: you a little bit more courage. And then all them 125 00:09:22,559 --> 00:09:25,040 Speaker 1: attempts you making is gonna and all this so I'll 126 00:09:25,080 --> 00:09:27,319 Speaker 1: try you know what that turn into. I'm gonna get 127 00:09:27,360 --> 00:09:29,800 Speaker 1: it done. And at the end of the day, that's 128 00:09:29,840 --> 00:09:32,679 Speaker 1: what you have to do, because trying to pay your 129 00:09:32,760 --> 00:09:35,680 Speaker 1: rent and not paying your rent, it's two different things. 130 00:09:35,920 --> 00:09:38,880 Speaker 1: You can try to play or pay your rent, or 131 00:09:38,920 --> 00:09:40,760 Speaker 1: you can get it done. Now, how long you think 132 00:09:40,800 --> 00:09:43,400 Speaker 1: you're gonna stay in that house trying? You got to 133 00:09:43,520 --> 00:09:45,679 Speaker 1: go with the mindset of getting it done. And if 134 00:09:45,720 --> 00:09:48,040 Speaker 1: you can put some stuff out there and give God 135 00:09:48,080 --> 00:09:49,720 Speaker 1: a chance to put his finger on it and bless 136 00:09:49,760 --> 00:09:51,719 Speaker 1: it for you, the most stuff he can do for you. 137 00:09:51,960 --> 00:09:54,439 Speaker 1: Quit looking around what everybody else has gotten. Gonna get 138 00:09:54,480 --> 00:09:57,640 Speaker 1: some of it for yourself. Okay, all right, you're listening 139 00:09:57,920 --> 00:10:03,480 Speaker 1: to show, ladies and gentlemen, let me have it your 140 00:10:03,559 --> 00:10:06,520 Speaker 1: undivided attention. Please. This is the Steve Harvey Morning Show, 141 00:10:06,800 --> 00:10:10,959 Speaker 1: alive and where we are in vivid color. We are 142 00:10:11,120 --> 00:10:15,800 Speaker 1: here full accompaniment, all players present, Ladies and gentlemen. Let 143 00:10:15,920 --> 00:10:19,880 Speaker 1: us begin with roll call. Shirley Strawberry, Happy Monday, Still, 144 00:10:20,280 --> 00:10:27,640 Speaker 1: Carla Farrell present here, Good morning here, Junior Spates, morning everybody, 145 00:10:28,440 --> 00:10:33,200 Speaker 1: Jay Anthony, watch out there now, Brian up, Steve Hardy, 146 00:10:33,400 --> 00:10:38,680 Speaker 1: my boy, Thomas King of the Prank Miles, I am here, 147 00:10:38,920 --> 00:10:44,240 Speaker 1: Uncle Steve, I'm in the building. Baby government name Broderick 148 00:10:44,360 --> 00:10:53,360 Speaker 1: Stephen Harvey slash Wonder Love. Come on wonderlan County for none, 149 00:10:53,640 --> 00:10:58,160 Speaker 1: come on time. No, no, he got to stay back. Yeah, 150 00:10:58,520 --> 00:11:02,000 Speaker 1: that's part of the past. He can't come here, nor 151 00:11:02,120 --> 00:11:06,959 Speaker 1: him out, none of this. None, no, no, no, no, no, no, 152 00:11:07,120 --> 00:11:13,439 Speaker 1: no no he he cannot make appearances. What no, I 153 00:11:13,600 --> 00:11:18,240 Speaker 1: think you can man, No, Old Tommy. I want so bad, 154 00:11:18,559 --> 00:11:29,400 Speaker 1: but I want not brand friendly. He show because he 155 00:11:29,720 --> 00:11:34,079 Speaker 1: had nothing to lose. Now he had nothing to lose. 156 00:11:34,600 --> 00:11:37,800 Speaker 1: And as question, Yeah, now, who you want to answer 157 00:11:37,840 --> 00:11:40,880 Speaker 1: the question? I want you to? Well, I don't, I 158 00:11:40,920 --> 00:11:44,320 Speaker 1: don't know. Careful, careful, Okay, I'll tell you what. Let 159 00:11:44,400 --> 00:11:46,800 Speaker 1: me give you a subdued version. Let me give you 160 00:11:46,880 --> 00:11:50,120 Speaker 1: a filtered version Wonder Love asking the question. Go ahead, 161 00:11:51,240 --> 00:11:57,480 Speaker 1: Jay Anthony Brown, here, Junior Spades, Thomas Nephew, Tommy my 162 00:11:58,280 --> 00:12:03,200 Speaker 1: comedy show, you host it? Can we do it? Yeah? 163 00:12:03,280 --> 00:12:05,840 Speaker 1: The only one belonging that stage with me is Jameson 164 00:12:05,920 --> 00:12:11,839 Speaker 1: and Brown, not that you. That's why I told you, 165 00:12:12,120 --> 00:12:15,280 Speaker 1: don't let Wonder Love answer none of these questions, because 166 00:12:15,320 --> 00:12:17,640 Speaker 1: see that's the non feel to the answer, and I 167 00:12:17,800 --> 00:12:20,360 Speaker 1: feel to that. That's why I'm telling y'all he can't 168 00:12:20,679 --> 00:12:25,120 Speaker 1: be He's not brand friend. Now, the idea is a 169 00:12:25,280 --> 00:12:28,960 Speaker 1: wonderful idea. Go ahead, me and me and Junior gonna 170 00:12:29,000 --> 00:12:34,280 Speaker 1: hold out on, make no mistakes, were gonna hold out on. 171 00:12:35,240 --> 00:12:36,920 Speaker 1: All I want you to do is host the show. 172 00:12:37,559 --> 00:12:40,040 Speaker 1: That's all I want you to do. That's highly possible. 173 00:12:40,120 --> 00:12:42,800 Speaker 1: But I thought I had presented that idea to you. 174 00:12:44,360 --> 00:12:48,959 Speaker 1: You did, but I got scared. Can I take no? 175 00:12:49,520 --> 00:12:52,400 Speaker 1: I don't think you got scared. I don't think there's 176 00:12:52,880 --> 00:12:55,880 Speaker 1: You've never been scared of anything. I think we can 177 00:12:55,960 --> 00:13:00,040 Speaker 1: do this. I think you can hold Here's concerns to 178 00:13:00,160 --> 00:13:03,240 Speaker 1: me about it? If I do it on the date 179 00:13:03,320 --> 00:13:07,199 Speaker 1: that I propose to you all, Could I be putting 180 00:13:07,760 --> 00:13:11,599 Speaker 1: something at risk that's so great a value than the 181 00:13:11,760 --> 00:13:16,480 Speaker 1: return on the investment for that show? That's all questions? 182 00:13:17,360 --> 00:13:20,480 Speaker 1: Can I say this, Augustine, Yes, sir, yes, you every 183 00:13:20,559 --> 00:13:27,840 Speaker 1: man and I have brought up and mumbling all right? 184 00:13:28,080 --> 00:13:30,440 Speaker 1: Coming up next more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 185 00:13:30,600 --> 00:13:36,319 Speaker 1: Right after this. You're listening to the show. Steve. You 186 00:13:36,559 --> 00:13:40,120 Speaker 1: are the relationship expert on the show, and I have 187 00:13:40,200 --> 00:13:43,240 Speaker 1: a list of things that what women really want and 188 00:13:43,679 --> 00:13:47,959 Speaker 1: what we want from our men. Okay, superman. Women love 189 00:13:48,040 --> 00:13:51,440 Speaker 1: to be protected. Women of course like men who smell good. 190 00:13:52,240 --> 00:13:56,680 Speaker 1: We like men who surprise us galore. We love surprises. 191 00:13:57,160 --> 00:13:59,960 Speaker 1: Women love surprises. We don't care if it's chocolates, if 192 00:14:00,080 --> 00:14:03,720 Speaker 1: it's love notes, if it's gifts or even bouquets of flowers. 193 00:14:03,880 --> 00:14:08,040 Speaker 1: We love flowers. We love everything. Transparency, that's what we 194 00:14:08,120 --> 00:14:11,080 Speaker 1: love from our men. We love honesty. All your liars 195 00:14:11,160 --> 00:14:14,880 Speaker 1: out there, that's still the best policy. Never lie. We 196 00:14:15,000 --> 00:14:17,400 Speaker 1: like when you dress well, when you look nice. We 197 00:14:17,559 --> 00:14:19,520 Speaker 1: like when you're okay. We like when you dress well. 198 00:14:19,680 --> 00:14:22,560 Speaker 1: Nothing turns off a woman. Uh, let me tell you 199 00:14:22,680 --> 00:14:26,840 Speaker 1: the top three things that women won't Okay, security absolutely, 200 00:14:27,040 --> 00:14:31,080 Speaker 1: women won't. A future, Yeah, women won't. Loyalty. If you 201 00:14:31,200 --> 00:14:35,000 Speaker 1: give a woman some security, provide her with a good 202 00:14:35,080 --> 00:14:39,280 Speaker 1: look at a great future, and you give her your loyalty, 203 00:14:40,320 --> 00:14:43,440 Speaker 1: she rideed that for you. Less security, future and loy 204 00:14:43,880 --> 00:14:49,760 Speaker 1: and flowers and chocolates. Don't leave that love, gifts and transparency. 205 00:14:50,000 --> 00:14:52,280 Speaker 1: We don't want you to lie to us. Where was 206 00:14:52,320 --> 00:14:59,040 Speaker 1: that is? If you're loyal, loyal to cover hu, but 207 00:14:59,200 --> 00:15:08,960 Speaker 1: in your the loyalty is honesty. Loyalty is honesty and 208 00:15:09,160 --> 00:15:13,800 Speaker 1: they want they want honesty. Actually gonna be like honest, 209 00:15:18,520 --> 00:15:22,760 Speaker 1: everybody's gonna be all over. You can't be all You 210 00:15:22,880 --> 00:15:25,880 Speaker 1: can't tell everything. Okay, I agree with that, you can't 211 00:15:25,880 --> 00:15:29,200 Speaker 1: tell everything. But we're saying, don't lie. That's what we're saying. 212 00:15:29,240 --> 00:15:31,800 Speaker 1: We don't want you to lie to us. Sometimes we 213 00:15:31,920 --> 00:15:35,080 Speaker 1: have excuse me, Sometimes we happen. What why would you 214 00:15:35,200 --> 00:15:39,240 Speaker 1: have to detect you from the truth. We don't heed 215 00:15:39,360 --> 00:15:43,240 Speaker 1: protecting from the truth. We want the truth. No, that 216 00:15:43,440 --> 00:15:48,040 Speaker 1: is not true. That is not why I'm late. Sometimes 217 00:15:48,240 --> 00:15:52,800 Speaker 1: will require a lie. No, you're protecting yourself. Were protecting 218 00:15:53,600 --> 00:16:00,200 Speaker 1: down that procla lie that my car broke? No, no, 219 00:16:00,320 --> 00:16:02,960 Speaker 1: what was her name? No, the time it can do that. 220 00:16:03,080 --> 00:16:05,400 Speaker 1: I can't go home till my wife who But here's 221 00:16:05,400 --> 00:16:08,880 Speaker 1: the deal. I'm home, so I ain't got now. Back 222 00:16:08,920 --> 00:16:12,040 Speaker 1: in the day, you were the best at it. The 223 00:16:12,200 --> 00:16:15,360 Speaker 1: lie is for a protection of me. Yeah, it's protection 224 00:16:15,440 --> 00:16:19,080 Speaker 1: of you, not of the woman's protection of you too. No, 225 00:16:19,240 --> 00:16:25,080 Speaker 1: it's not. It's not protecting me nor your feeling. No, no, no, no, 226 00:16:26,480 --> 00:16:29,040 Speaker 1: from the truth. You don't know. We need to hear 227 00:16:29,080 --> 00:16:33,320 Speaker 1: the truth. We can handle you can't handle our reaction 228 00:16:33,440 --> 00:16:38,520 Speaker 1: to the truth exactly there. That's why there. So the 229 00:16:38,640 --> 00:16:41,880 Speaker 1: lie is for you, not for for you, because I 230 00:16:41,920 --> 00:16:44,360 Speaker 1: don't want you to have to go off. No, it's okay, 231 00:16:44,520 --> 00:16:47,960 Speaker 1: it's gonna no, no, I won't oh yeah, will no 232 00:16:48,080 --> 00:16:50,440 Speaker 1: if I don't go off that message, right, that is 233 00:16:50,440 --> 00:16:52,280 Speaker 1: a lie when they tell you tell me the truth, 234 00:16:52,320 --> 00:16:57,880 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna be upset. That's not that's okay that 235 00:16:58,320 --> 00:17:00,240 Speaker 1: I want to look like the bad guy. We have 236 00:17:00,400 --> 00:17:02,680 Speaker 1: to say that. Yeah, and we have to Yeah, we 237 00:17:02,800 --> 00:17:04,480 Speaker 1: have to lie to you guys so we can get 238 00:17:04,480 --> 00:17:07,440 Speaker 1: the truth out of me. And then we know that 239 00:17:09,520 --> 00:17:12,560 Speaker 1: we like lots of gifts, flowers, you know what about 240 00:17:12,600 --> 00:17:19,800 Speaker 1: those things? Do? Yeah? We love all in the yard. 241 00:17:19,920 --> 00:17:27,280 Speaker 1: She's seated when she pulled in, and you cheap Carla, 242 00:17:28,480 --> 00:17:34,280 Speaker 1: She would go with the words, so cham thing, Jay, 243 00:17:34,359 --> 00:17:37,440 Speaker 1: what do you have to say? Three times they didn't 244 00:17:37,440 --> 00:17:39,280 Speaker 1: work out, I'm done, I'm up. Well did you do 245 00:17:39,520 --> 00:17:43,480 Speaker 1: any of these things and I still ended up in court? Now? 246 00:17:43,520 --> 00:17:50,560 Speaker 1: What yell? She got a lot of stuff on that list. 247 00:17:51,440 --> 00:17:55,639 Speaker 1: Did you give her chocolate? Love notes? Yes, give me 248 00:17:55,680 --> 00:17:58,160 Speaker 1: an example of one of your love notes? Get court? 249 00:18:01,080 --> 00:18:07,800 Speaker 1: So right, then, what about honesty? Were you honest, very honest. 250 00:18:08,160 --> 00:18:15,679 Speaker 1: That one. Where were you last? Where were you last night? 251 00:18:15,720 --> 00:18:17,920 Speaker 1: While you come in so lately? Yeah, I don't like that. 252 00:18:18,359 --> 00:18:21,960 Speaker 1: I don't like questions. No, I don't like we were 253 00:18:21,960 --> 00:18:24,200 Speaker 1: you in your relationship? You have to answer to people. 254 00:18:25,880 --> 00:18:30,040 Speaker 1: Fool's head. I don't like questions. I don't like them either, Jay, 255 00:18:30,440 --> 00:18:34,879 Speaker 1: Most men don't like questions. They will not. Where you going? Honey? 256 00:18:34,960 --> 00:18:37,679 Speaker 1: You look all nice? You know you got all dressed up. 257 00:18:37,720 --> 00:18:41,720 Speaker 1: You're smelling good. Where you going? It's nine o'clock? You 258 00:18:41,800 --> 00:18:43,920 Speaker 1: know they eat late in Europe. Oh, you're going to 259 00:18:44,000 --> 00:18:46,240 Speaker 1: where we live in New York and people are meeting 260 00:18:46,280 --> 00:18:52,000 Speaker 1: with it from bad? Where are you meeting? Perhaps I 261 00:18:52,040 --> 00:18:54,080 Speaker 1: can join you? It will only take me a few 262 00:18:54,119 --> 00:18:56,399 Speaker 1: minutes to get ready. No, we've meete that a club? 263 00:18:56,720 --> 00:18:59,639 Speaker 1: Oh I love clubs. Oh which one the new one? No? 264 00:18:59,760 --> 00:19:02,840 Speaker 1: It's old when Oh it's just a men's club. No 265 00:19:02,960 --> 00:19:05,400 Speaker 1: women allowed. There will be no women in the club. 266 00:19:06,480 --> 00:19:09,320 Speaker 1: What well? I know how you are. You don't like 267 00:19:10,040 --> 00:19:13,040 Speaker 1: men serving you, So I'm surprised you're going to this 268 00:19:13,160 --> 00:19:15,080 Speaker 1: club at all. Well, they got a shift. They just 269 00:19:15,160 --> 00:19:20,680 Speaker 1: stick the stuff out to one man. Now, can I 270 00:19:20,760 --> 00:19:24,000 Speaker 1: ask you a question? Can you tell can you say 271 00:19:24,040 --> 00:19:26,560 Speaker 1: this at home? What you just said? I'm going to 272 00:19:26,680 --> 00:19:29,840 Speaker 1: meet nine o'clock at night? We're just men at a club, 273 00:19:30,080 --> 00:19:31,920 Speaker 1: but they stick the food at the wind. Yeah I 274 00:19:32,000 --> 00:19:34,200 Speaker 1: could say that, but the club? She did. Know what's 275 00:19:34,240 --> 00:19:36,080 Speaker 1: different if I say the club, because you know I 276 00:19:36,119 --> 00:19:38,480 Speaker 1: don't go. Yeah, but I could. I could say I'm 277 00:19:38,520 --> 00:19:40,320 Speaker 1: going to a late week Yeah I could, so I 278 00:19:40,400 --> 00:19:44,400 Speaker 1: got them lives right there after ten o'clock. I could 279 00:19:44,440 --> 00:19:47,320 Speaker 1: say that. What kind of would you say? But I'm 280 00:19:47,359 --> 00:19:50,399 Speaker 1: in a different place in my life now, Yes, you 281 00:19:50,560 --> 00:19:53,359 Speaker 1: settle down. Yeah, I'm going to meeting at nine o'clock 282 00:19:53,600 --> 00:19:56,119 Speaker 1: because that's the day. Oh that's a rock chicken on 283 00:19:56,240 --> 00:20:01,280 Speaker 1: your on your head, across your forehead. Rocks. Well you 284 00:20:01,400 --> 00:20:07,159 Speaker 1: don't cook? Where are you getting? I know he's been 285 00:20:07,280 --> 00:20:09,560 Speaker 1: hit with one, but it would never have been for me. 286 00:20:09,800 --> 00:20:17,159 Speaker 1: You're right. He was lying straight bony and chicken. You're right, 287 00:20:17,280 --> 00:20:20,760 Speaker 1: Jay though, And the fact that hang off got the 288 00:20:20,840 --> 00:20:28,399 Speaker 1: little tail kind of went in my mouth. So I 289 00:20:28,480 --> 00:20:30,800 Speaker 1: got take slapped out of my mouth with the potential 290 00:20:31,000 --> 00:20:38,680 Speaker 1: Simon Ellapo, who was he gonna sue? Who? Through the chicken? 291 00:20:39,960 --> 00:20:43,040 Speaker 1: All right, we gotta go. We'll be back. You're listening 292 00:20:44,600 --> 00:20:48,919 Speaker 1: Morning show right now. Stephen and Jay and and Tommy 293 00:20:48,960 --> 00:20:53,159 Speaker 1: and Junior. Jay explains, well, she Shelly call me up. 294 00:20:53,160 --> 00:20:55,720 Speaker 1: Steven said she saw us a little boy. Tell it 295 00:20:55,760 --> 00:20:58,760 Speaker 1: because you saw it, Okay, I actually did see this. Yeah. 296 00:20:59,720 --> 00:21:02,159 Speaker 1: Next and I were having breakfast one morning outside and 297 00:21:02,240 --> 00:21:04,399 Speaker 1: we see this little kid, this little white kid, roll 298 00:21:04,520 --> 00:21:07,200 Speaker 1: up on the skateboard and turn around and he was 299 00:21:07,280 --> 00:21:09,240 Speaker 1: talking to his dad. And he turned around and he 300 00:21:09,359 --> 00:21:14,560 Speaker 1: was like, you're lying, dad, You're a liar. Stop lying, dad, 301 00:21:14,920 --> 00:21:18,639 Speaker 1: you're lying. And he's still a lie. It is still alive. 302 00:21:18,840 --> 00:21:22,040 Speaker 1: And then the dad was like, son, no, I'm not 303 00:21:22,280 --> 00:21:27,560 Speaker 1: lying to you. The dad Dad was arguing that I 304 00:21:27,680 --> 00:21:29,840 Speaker 1: were looking at each other like Daddy would have split 305 00:21:29,920 --> 00:21:34,119 Speaker 1: the back of my hand. That's when we were staying 306 00:21:34,160 --> 00:21:36,720 Speaker 1: there is no We couldn't even say the word lie. 307 00:21:37,240 --> 00:21:39,240 Speaker 1: We could even we had to say telling a story. 308 00:21:39,280 --> 00:21:42,280 Speaker 1: And the grown person was never lying, never even if 309 00:21:42,320 --> 00:21:47,159 Speaker 1: they were lying, yeah, even if yeah. So what you 310 00:21:47,280 --> 00:21:49,639 Speaker 1: got now, Oh, we got a list of things that 311 00:21:49,840 --> 00:21:54,720 Speaker 1: white kids can say, but you definitely cannot say it 312 00:21:54,760 --> 00:21:57,880 Speaker 1: as a black child. Right Like, for instance, I'm going 313 00:21:58,040 --> 00:22:07,040 Speaker 1: to my room and please do not disturb me. Tell 314 00:22:07,119 --> 00:22:13,480 Speaker 1: me what, man. I slammed the door in my house 315 00:22:13,600 --> 00:22:17,040 Speaker 1: one day and my daddy came in there and took 316 00:22:17,080 --> 00:22:22,040 Speaker 1: the dough off the in the garage. You don't have 317 00:22:22,240 --> 00:22:29,680 Speaker 1: a dough. Don't just things that white kids can say 318 00:22:29,720 --> 00:22:40,119 Speaker 1: that black kids can't. No, you hush, you hush. Wow. Wow, No, no, 319 00:22:40,359 --> 00:22:43,720 Speaker 1: you you hush. I got warm white kids to say 320 00:22:43,760 --> 00:22:53,200 Speaker 1: the black kids can't. Now right now, all black kids 321 00:22:53,320 --> 00:23:00,200 Speaker 1: get out of Wow. Touched me, touched me, And I'm 322 00:23:00,240 --> 00:23:11,000 Speaker 1: calling the authority. First of all, who's the authority talking talking? Oh? 323 00:23:11,080 --> 00:23:12,840 Speaker 1: I got one right here? I got one right here. 324 00:23:13,480 --> 00:23:22,760 Speaker 1: That's my father left. Oh wait, I like this right here. Wow, 325 00:23:23,560 --> 00:23:26,399 Speaker 1: it's my party and I didn't have over here whoever 326 00:23:26,560 --> 00:23:37,159 Speaker 1: I want? Wow, it's really different, so different. You got one. 327 00:23:37,640 --> 00:23:45,480 Speaker 1: You're not my friend to your parents. I did for you. 328 00:23:49,280 --> 00:23:56,880 Speaker 1: I hate you every day you happen to you for real? Right? Yeah. 329 00:23:57,080 --> 00:23:59,959 Speaker 1: I was at the airport j and this little white kid, 330 00:24:00,040 --> 00:24:02,320 Speaker 1: it was going through security. He was mad at his 331 00:24:02,480 --> 00:24:05,680 Speaker 1: parents and then moving walk away. The entire time, he 332 00:24:05,840 --> 00:24:15,200 Speaker 1: screamed to his dad, I hate you every day, Dad, Steve, 333 00:24:15,320 --> 00:24:20,720 Speaker 1: What you got man? I was trying to think of one, really, 334 00:24:20,880 --> 00:24:26,440 Speaker 1: just really what one that I thought, but I knew 335 00:24:26,560 --> 00:24:31,440 Speaker 1: not to say. Uh. Here go one right here? Okay, Hey, 336 00:24:32,119 --> 00:24:40,920 Speaker 1: I wish I lived with Billy's parents. Okay, well you 337 00:24:41,040 --> 00:24:44,080 Speaker 1: take your little cup, take your ass on over there. 338 00:24:51,640 --> 00:24:54,440 Speaker 1: I got one, right? How long do I have to 339 00:24:54,600 --> 00:25:04,920 Speaker 1: live without my own phone? Freedom? It's ignorant, right, you'll 340 00:25:05,040 --> 00:25:12,120 Speaker 1: say that. Man, they can say this, get away with mom. 341 00:25:12,119 --> 00:25:14,200 Speaker 1: I don't mean to say this, but I'm just gonna 342 00:25:14,240 --> 00:25:29,200 Speaker 1: say it. This spaghetti sucks. Spaghetti that's getting hit on 343 00:25:29,280 --> 00:25:32,480 Speaker 1: the plate. Spaghetti right there. Ye, these are things white 344 00:25:32,560 --> 00:25:37,640 Speaker 1: kids can say to their parents. I'm not going over 345 00:25:37,760 --> 00:25:45,520 Speaker 1: Grandmama's house stinks. What did you just say? What? What 346 00:25:46,240 --> 00:25:51,560 Speaker 1: did you just say? By my mom? My? Mom? Hey, 347 00:25:52,720 --> 00:25:58,520 Speaker 1: damn it, Mom, you're getting on my nerves. We can't 348 00:25:58,600 --> 00:26:03,800 Speaker 1: say that to our parents. We again, it's different. I 349 00:26:03,920 --> 00:26:07,679 Speaker 1: got one. Okay, Hey, I'm all enough to make up 350 00:26:07,760 --> 00:26:11,640 Speaker 1: my own mind. But no, no, no, First of all, 351 00:26:11,920 --> 00:26:18,160 Speaker 1: you ain't got no matter right right? Hey, got girl over? 352 00:26:19,080 --> 00:26:21,320 Speaker 1: Hey mom, dad, we don't want to have to hear this. 353 00:26:21,640 --> 00:26:32,520 Speaker 1: Me and Rebecca going to the room. What girl, But 354 00:26:32,680 --> 00:26:40,000 Speaker 1: now go down that hallway to see you cut your 355 00:26:40,040 --> 00:26:42,960 Speaker 1: lights on in here? I got one I got one. 356 00:26:43,520 --> 00:26:54,120 Speaker 1: Oh my god, spinach again. Yes, we're dead. We're dead 357 00:26:54,200 --> 00:27:01,960 Speaker 1: with every one of these good Blair's mom cooks better 358 00:27:02,000 --> 00:27:19,040 Speaker 1: than you can. You Astandma, you're listening to show? All right? 359 00:27:20,680 --> 00:27:25,960 Speaker 1: Here we are the sensitive crew that we are, hot 360 00:27:26,359 --> 00:27:35,399 Speaker 1: crew that we are. We're all admit to something. What Okay? 361 00:27:35,880 --> 00:27:39,000 Speaker 1: I am the one on the show that likes to 362 00:27:39,200 --> 00:27:45,639 Speaker 1: keep the most mess Oh by, I want to volunteer 363 00:27:45,720 --> 00:27:49,879 Speaker 1: for that because for me it's exciting. Like if I 364 00:27:50,000 --> 00:27:52,760 Speaker 1: see any two of y'all about to go at it, 365 00:27:53,000 --> 00:27:55,760 Speaker 1: I'm not show you do oh you are the head. 366 00:28:01,320 --> 00:28:03,800 Speaker 1: Can let me ask you a question, Steve? Is that healthy? 367 00:28:04,160 --> 00:28:07,560 Speaker 1: Do you think that's a healthy word? Absolutely? Do? I do? 368 00:28:07,720 --> 00:28:11,000 Speaker 1: I do that the CEO. I think that's way for 369 00:28:11,119 --> 00:28:14,200 Speaker 1: us to operate as a company successfully is to get 370 00:28:14,240 --> 00:28:18,160 Speaker 1: it all out. I love when the the the argument 371 00:28:18,280 --> 00:28:22,040 Speaker 1: or whatever, the disagreement has died down, and then he'll 372 00:28:23,160 --> 00:28:26,480 Speaker 1: walked away, thought of something, come back and get it 373 00:28:26,560 --> 00:28:31,119 Speaker 1: started all over again. He'll throw bomb you. Oh, ain't 374 00:28:31,200 --> 00:28:34,640 Speaker 1: no doubt, thank you. And that's what I'm here for, guy, 375 00:28:35,440 --> 00:28:40,880 Speaker 1: to make sure that we have healthy, healthy relationship. You know, 376 00:28:41,000 --> 00:28:45,040 Speaker 1: nobody's harboring any sentiments and ill will towards one another 377 00:28:45,040 --> 00:28:47,280 Speaker 1: because we get it all out. You want to get 378 00:28:47,320 --> 00:28:50,520 Speaker 1: it for exams? Now, come on, let's go. I'm thinking 379 00:28:50,640 --> 00:28:55,360 Speaker 1: between Junior and and Jay. I think the two of 380 00:28:55,440 --> 00:28:59,840 Speaker 1: them being the sikest people on. I think the fact 381 00:29:00,000 --> 00:29:03,880 Speaker 1: that they go at one another. I think that's actually 382 00:29:05,400 --> 00:29:10,680 Speaker 1: what It makes me feel better knowing he grown that. Junior. Y'all, 383 00:29:10,920 --> 00:29:17,960 Speaker 1: y'all have what his name? Now? Junior? What if you 384 00:29:18,080 --> 00:29:22,600 Speaker 1: had to speak at his funeral after? What would you say? Though? 385 00:29:22,920 --> 00:29:25,480 Speaker 1: First of all, over going and kick the casket over 386 00:29:25,560 --> 00:29:30,120 Speaker 1: see if his body show, you're not gonna be sad 387 00:29:30,280 --> 00:29:35,479 Speaker 1: or cried. Wait a minute, hey, he has not been 388 00:29:35,520 --> 00:29:41,600 Speaker 1: a supporter. It's true, Jay, it is absolutely true. He 389 00:29:41,760 --> 00:29:44,680 Speaker 1: was gonna have the sticker sell walk right, and remember 390 00:29:44,720 --> 00:29:48,520 Speaker 1: that they had this is the flood they had the flood. 391 00:29:49,200 --> 00:29:51,400 Speaker 1: All I said is well, he said, well it's raindy, 392 00:29:51,480 --> 00:29:53,640 Speaker 1: we can't have the walk. I said, why can't you 393 00:29:53,760 --> 00:30:00,720 Speaker 1: have to swim? And so he got really upset about that. Yeah, 394 00:30:01,120 --> 00:30:07,120 Speaker 1: you know, but here's my thing. If I do die, 395 00:30:07,240 --> 00:30:11,680 Speaker 1: I have left instructions that my funeral be cold as 396 00:30:15,320 --> 00:30:19,680 Speaker 1: I mean, it's gonna be in an ice box. So 397 00:30:19,920 --> 00:30:29,000 Speaker 1: he dum it. Wow, guy, but this is all day, 398 00:30:29,160 --> 00:30:33,920 Speaker 1: This is all all day love. Jay will hit you 399 00:30:34,000 --> 00:30:37,200 Speaker 1: with a mic stand testing improvement. I have heard that 400 00:30:37,280 --> 00:30:41,440 Speaker 1: he will hit you. I was with me when he 401 00:30:41,520 --> 00:30:50,360 Speaker 1: did some things happen laugh at allegedly allegedly, there's no 402 00:30:50,520 --> 00:30:56,440 Speaker 1: film on that. We're all very very sensitive, very sensitive. 403 00:30:56,760 --> 00:30:59,840 Speaker 1: Now you want to know who throw the most punch 404 00:31:00,280 --> 00:31:11,000 Speaker 1: at Tommy thought, oh you're looking at really throws him. 405 00:31:11,040 --> 00:31:15,120 Speaker 1: Steve just takes the alley oop and dumb, you're throwing 406 00:31:15,160 --> 00:31:16,760 Speaker 1: the holly hoop. And I don't go up and get 407 00:31:16,800 --> 00:31:20,120 Speaker 1: it that right there would be Now I'm now I'm 408 00:31:20,160 --> 00:31:24,160 Speaker 1: a pop power forward now because I just love seeing 409 00:31:24,280 --> 00:31:30,720 Speaker 1: him snap off. I just pushing. But why but he's 410 00:31:30,760 --> 00:31:34,360 Speaker 1: gotten so much better but a lot. Because he's gotten better, 411 00:31:34,560 --> 00:31:37,440 Speaker 1: that means I have to go harder. And I think, 412 00:31:37,480 --> 00:31:41,280 Speaker 1: you know, he's finally reached the point where he's really 413 00:31:41,360 --> 00:31:43,200 Speaker 1: doing what he wants to. So he's happy. And now 414 00:31:43,760 --> 00:31:46,400 Speaker 1: I'm in a good place. You know, you know what, Tommy, 415 00:31:46,520 --> 00:31:51,440 Speaker 1: you know what Joe Jr. Meant He really is, He's 416 00:31:51,480 --> 00:31:54,520 Speaker 1: in a much better place and he's this is the 417 00:31:54,640 --> 00:31:57,600 Speaker 1: happiest he's and he's not home much. That is the 418 00:31:57,720 --> 00:32:01,400 Speaker 1: main that was gonna say. And he's been in a 419 00:32:01,480 --> 00:32:09,840 Speaker 1: lot of movies home. That's a side kidney. She just did. 420 00:32:11,680 --> 00:32:15,360 Speaker 1: Come on, he's been in so many movies. Let's talk 421 00:32:15,400 --> 00:32:25,040 Speaker 1: about that. It's secure. That was that was his unliography, 422 00:32:25,560 --> 00:32:33,480 Speaker 1: story of his life. That's too. What was it like? Yes, heart, 423 00:32:35,040 --> 00:32:39,680 Speaker 1: he was in Media Boo the first one. Yeah, he 424 00:32:39,840 --> 00:32:41,440 Speaker 1: was in Think like a Man. I think he said 425 00:32:41,440 --> 00:32:43,840 Speaker 1: that was. What about that karate movie? He was in 426 00:32:46,400 --> 00:32:55,120 Speaker 1: that weak low ass kicks? There was some kicks kick 427 00:32:56,040 --> 00:33:00,920 Speaker 1: the to All you was doing was kicking me in 428 00:33:01,040 --> 00:33:06,120 Speaker 1: my stomach. Oh my god, I forgot about him. No, 429 00:33:06,440 --> 00:33:10,520 Speaker 1: we have it, I think. But he is much happier now. 430 00:33:11,920 --> 00:33:19,920 Speaker 1: Guess guess who started that? Folks, Sure, Charlotte, Shirley, you started. 431 00:33:20,280 --> 00:33:24,880 Speaker 1: I started about the movie, Yes you did. I owned it, 432 00:33:27,040 --> 00:33:29,280 Speaker 1: So you started. Getting you back out and just do 433 00:33:29,520 --> 00:33:33,720 Speaker 1: last because because if I started, you were sure to 434 00:33:33,920 --> 00:33:37,240 Speaker 1: finish it. That's what I appreciate about you, though, Shirley, 435 00:33:37,400 --> 00:33:46,800 Speaker 1: is you laugh hard? It's about my friend. You're laughing 436 00:33:46,840 --> 00:33:52,040 Speaker 1: at your friend laughing. Yeah, Oh my god, but you 437 00:33:52,120 --> 00:33:55,240 Speaker 1: do sound happier man much happy, Yes, sir, thank you, 438 00:33:55,360 --> 00:34:02,080 Speaker 1: thank you man, you're listening show all right? Time for 439 00:34:02,160 --> 00:34:05,040 Speaker 1: a comedy break right here? Junior is here with things 440 00:34:05,080 --> 00:34:08,360 Speaker 1: I've never seen? What is j Yeah? You know U Tommy. 441 00:34:08,680 --> 00:34:10,399 Speaker 1: This is a lot of things that you have never 442 00:34:10,560 --> 00:34:13,360 Speaker 1: seen in your life. I mean it's some things like 443 00:34:13,480 --> 00:34:15,600 Speaker 1: I know you old everybody you probably have. But it's 444 00:34:15,640 --> 00:34:18,600 Speaker 1: some things I know I ain't never seen. Like, for instance, 445 00:34:19,480 --> 00:34:22,120 Speaker 1: I've never seen a shade treat mechanic with a car 446 00:34:22,160 --> 00:34:26,040 Speaker 1: that's running in perfect condition. You ain't never seen you. 447 00:34:26,520 --> 00:34:29,600 Speaker 1: He gonna tell me everything wrong with my car, but 448 00:34:29,719 --> 00:34:33,520 Speaker 1: with his back door missing, all is all running out 449 00:34:33,560 --> 00:34:37,239 Speaker 1: the car from him and his hat. But he gonna 450 00:34:37,280 --> 00:34:40,120 Speaker 1: tell me I need a new TRANSMITTI well, I've never 451 00:34:40,200 --> 00:34:43,040 Speaker 1: seen it. I just ain't never seen it. He's another 452 00:34:43,120 --> 00:34:46,120 Speaker 1: thing I ain't never seen. I ain't never seen people 453 00:34:46,160 --> 00:34:49,759 Speaker 1: in the South eat a meal without rice. If it's 454 00:34:49,920 --> 00:34:53,960 Speaker 1: chicken and rice, beans and rice, why is rice over 455 00:34:54,080 --> 00:34:59,960 Speaker 1: every plate? Ring? Just rice? You know who I've never 456 00:35:00,000 --> 00:35:02,640 Speaker 1: ever met. I've never met this person. I've never met 457 00:35:02,719 --> 00:35:06,400 Speaker 1: a well rested African American. I've never met one. I 458 00:35:06,400 --> 00:35:09,239 Speaker 1: ain't never seen it. Dog, I ain't never seen a 459 00:35:09,400 --> 00:35:14,200 Speaker 1: well rested African American. Not just like that. How you doing? Man? 460 00:35:14,360 --> 00:35:16,959 Speaker 1: Oh man? Job getting on my nerve wife, talking crazy 461 00:35:17,000 --> 00:35:20,680 Speaker 1: to my kids. Won't live man, I'm tired. I'm just tied. 462 00:35:21,719 --> 00:35:25,160 Speaker 1: You ain't never seen that. I've never seen a big 463 00:35:25,280 --> 00:35:28,480 Speaker 1: person eat a meal without a died beverage. I ain't 464 00:35:28,520 --> 00:35:37,840 Speaker 1: never seen. Yeah, ham hock, you know, but then a 465 00:35:38,000 --> 00:35:40,680 Speaker 1: died coke on the side. As if that's gonna change something. 466 00:35:43,560 --> 00:35:46,200 Speaker 1: I have never seen it, I hear you, Steve. I 467 00:35:46,320 --> 00:35:48,200 Speaker 1: don't I know, I ain't. I ain't gonna do it. 468 00:35:48,200 --> 00:35:51,399 Speaker 1: I ain't gonna getting done. No. Look, I've never seen 469 00:35:51,480 --> 00:35:56,840 Speaker 1: a black funeral. What it is? No clowning going on? Ye, no, 470 00:35:57,160 --> 00:36:02,120 Speaker 1: not one, not one. You ain't ever seen that. Somebody 471 00:36:02,200 --> 00:36:05,680 Speaker 1: gonna get cussed out in front of the casket every time. 472 00:36:09,880 --> 00:36:12,960 Speaker 1: These just things we've never seen. We ain't never seen anything. 473 00:36:14,280 --> 00:36:18,399 Speaker 1: I've never seen Christmas, Valentine's and Halloween declarations being put 474 00:36:18,560 --> 00:36:21,399 Speaker 1: up in the drugs though. You just show up one 475 00:36:21,480 --> 00:36:24,960 Speaker 1: day and they all hanking who that's true. You ain't 476 00:36:25,000 --> 00:36:28,040 Speaker 1: never seen who hangs up. We don't know who that is. 477 00:36:30,360 --> 00:36:33,640 Speaker 1: H I ain't never seen the white person still a 478 00:36:33,719 --> 00:36:37,600 Speaker 1: bike out of black neighborhood. I ain't never seen you 479 00:36:38,680 --> 00:36:46,200 Speaker 1: ain't gonna never seen there already? All right, thank you guys, 480 00:36:46,760 --> 00:36:53,239 Speaker 1: you're listening. All right, Jay, it is time for comedy Roulette. 481 00:36:55,280 --> 00:36:59,280 Speaker 1: It's just the insults. Every week you test out comedy ability. 482 00:37:00,080 --> 00:37:02,400 Speaker 1: What you do. Take five subjects, put them on a wheel, 483 00:37:02,400 --> 00:37:06,440 Speaker 1: spinning wheel. Whit stop, we'll do the damn Then what 484 00:37:06,600 --> 00:37:09,080 Speaker 1: you've got? All right, here we go. I have the categories. 485 00:37:10,800 --> 00:37:14,440 Speaker 1: Let's spendel let's get ready. All right? She she hasn't 486 00:37:14,960 --> 00:37:18,000 Speaker 1: she has an invisible boyfriend. Oh, everybody knows somebody like that. 487 00:37:18,600 --> 00:37:22,839 Speaker 1: All right, that's number one. Number two? Stop lying you're 488 00:37:22,840 --> 00:37:28,000 Speaker 1: staying at your mama's house. Number three? When are you 489 00:37:28,040 --> 00:37:30,239 Speaker 1: gonna get that back? Too? Thick? You know people like 490 00:37:34,400 --> 00:37:39,200 Speaker 1: right back? Number four? You know they repo that car? 491 00:37:41,520 --> 00:37:43,640 Speaker 1: And number five. I don't know how to tell you this, 492 00:37:43,880 --> 00:37:49,399 Speaker 1: but she's singing somebody all of these are good cat. 493 00:37:52,320 --> 00:37:54,920 Speaker 1: I'm on that too, Come on to come on, I'm 494 00:37:54,920 --> 00:38:03,760 Speaker 1: a fiend. Letting the number two. Stop lying? You staying 495 00:38:03,800 --> 00:38:06,560 Speaker 1: at your mama's house. Know how I know you stand 496 00:38:06,640 --> 00:38:09,600 Speaker 1: at your mama house? Yeah, the club, I hear you 497 00:38:09,719 --> 00:38:12,520 Speaker 1: on the phone. Say hey, I'll be there in a minute. Mama, 498 00:38:12,760 --> 00:38:19,319 Speaker 1: lead the key under the door, and your mama's your 499 00:38:19,440 --> 00:38:22,319 Speaker 1: Mama's out. I know you stand at your mama house. 500 00:38:22,480 --> 00:38:25,319 Speaker 1: How I know you'd be trying to hide. But all 501 00:38:25,400 --> 00:38:32,719 Speaker 1: your clothes got creasing. You know I'm that well, you 502 00:38:32,760 --> 00:38:37,640 Speaker 1: know iron that good. Your clothes gotta even crease back 503 00:38:37,760 --> 00:38:43,040 Speaker 1: and on both show. Yeah, you stand at your standing 504 00:38:43,080 --> 00:38:44,919 Speaker 1: at your mama house. When you got a lunch bag 505 00:38:44,960 --> 00:38:48,759 Speaker 1: with your name on it in the car, Mama made 506 00:38:48,840 --> 00:38:56,520 Speaker 1: that for you. Boy. When you when when you on 507 00:38:56,680 --> 00:39:00,680 Speaker 1: your cell phone talking and we can hear the washing 508 00:39:00,760 --> 00:39:10,000 Speaker 1: machine in the bathroom mama house. You know you know, 509 00:39:10,200 --> 00:39:13,960 Speaker 1: I know you stand at your mama house. You ain't 510 00:39:14,000 --> 00:39:16,160 Speaker 1: got your own key an the key you got is 511 00:39:16,200 --> 00:39:20,120 Speaker 1: around your neck. Fooling, fool you You ain't fooling, no 512 00:39:20,320 --> 00:39:27,120 Speaker 1: damn bad you keep growing ass man. I know you 513 00:39:27,200 --> 00:39:28,719 Speaker 1: staying at your mama house. When I come to your 514 00:39:28,760 --> 00:39:38,360 Speaker 1: mama house, own family functions, you first one now, the 515 00:39:38,480 --> 00:39:42,600 Speaker 1: first one here right. We know you staying at your 516 00:39:42,640 --> 00:39:45,000 Speaker 1: mama house when you you only invite us over doing 517 00:39:45,080 --> 00:39:49,520 Speaker 1: prayer meeting. Mama gonna turn tonight we can come through. Yeah, 518 00:39:50,920 --> 00:39:54,840 Speaker 1: I know you at your mama. This is how I 519 00:39:54,960 --> 00:39:58,320 Speaker 1: know you live at your mama's house. You always smell 520 00:39:58,680 --> 00:40:10,200 Speaker 1: damn smell. You know, I know you're just smell everything. 521 00:40:11,920 --> 00:40:14,719 Speaker 1: I know you stand at your mama house every day. 522 00:40:14,880 --> 00:40:18,200 Speaker 1: You coming in talking about a gospel show you watch. 523 00:40:20,560 --> 00:40:26,440 Speaker 1: When you start watching old Steam for I had like 524 00:40:26,520 --> 00:40:30,040 Speaker 1: experience in this area. That's I know you finished your 525 00:40:30,080 --> 00:40:33,960 Speaker 1: mama house when you always into it with her boyfriend. 526 00:40:40,680 --> 00:40:45,960 Speaker 1: You're like nothing earlse like you know you staying until 527 00:40:46,040 --> 00:40:55,399 Speaker 1: mama house. You're lotion. You will smell like a yeah. 528 00:40:55,440 --> 00:40:57,600 Speaker 1: When are you coming to wort? Smelling like white diamond? 529 00:40:57,680 --> 00:41:03,040 Speaker 1: What is that about? Come on, Steve, close it out. 530 00:41:05,400 --> 00:41:07,600 Speaker 1: This is how you know you love Joe. Mama house 531 00:41:08,000 --> 00:41:12,239 Speaker 1: called the car you driving, got a Bible on the 532 00:41:12,400 --> 00:41:32,319 Speaker 1: daskboard and Jesus all right, we'll be back with did 533 00:41:32,360 --> 00:41:35,000 Speaker 1: we not do it? Get it? You guys, get it. 534 00:41:36,400 --> 00:41:38,520 Speaker 1: We'll be back with you tell me as prank phone call. 535 00:41:38,800 --> 00:41:44,360 Speaker 1: After this. You're listening to Steve Morning Show. Coming up 536 00:41:44,400 --> 00:41:46,760 Speaker 1: at the top of the hour, Well about four minutes 537 00:41:46,800 --> 00:41:49,400 Speaker 1: after the hour, I'm gonna read today's strawberry letter. I 538 00:41:49,480 --> 00:41:52,200 Speaker 1: got a good subject for you today. Twenty years later, 539 00:41:52,640 --> 00:41:56,360 Speaker 1: he still wants MGP will explain what that means in 540 00:41:56,440 --> 00:41:58,600 Speaker 1: the letter. But right now the nephew is in the 541 00:41:58,719 --> 00:42:03,640 Speaker 1: building with the phone called you got for nap, mister Wiggins, 542 00:42:05,719 --> 00:42:15,080 Speaker 1: mister Quiggins, Wiggins, that right there, that's the rank mister Higgins. 543 00:42:15,280 --> 00:42:19,560 Speaker 1: Come on Renny, Hello, Hello, Hi, my name is George. 544 00:42:20,000 --> 00:42:22,200 Speaker 1: I'm with Green Lawn Services. We came out and cut 545 00:42:22,239 --> 00:42:25,000 Speaker 1: your yard yesterday, and uh, we're trying to make sure 546 00:42:25,080 --> 00:42:27,879 Speaker 1: that you liked everything thoroughly. That we cut the front 547 00:42:27,920 --> 00:42:30,479 Speaker 1: to back. We also did your hedges, put some mulch 548 00:42:30,520 --> 00:42:32,880 Speaker 1: in the flybeds, the weed eating in the whole nine yards, 549 00:42:33,160 --> 00:42:35,440 Speaker 1: and we also left an invoice on your doorstep. Want 550 00:42:35,480 --> 00:42:39,080 Speaker 1: to make sure you got that as well, y man, 551 00:42:39,400 --> 00:42:45,319 Speaker 1: I'm going around man, look dude, without trying to cut it, sir, Yeah, 552 00:42:45,360 --> 00:42:47,000 Speaker 1: we cut it as of yesterday. You were actually on 553 00:42:47,080 --> 00:42:50,880 Speaker 1: our schedule and we did everything thoroughly. We I'm actually 554 00:42:50,960 --> 00:42:56,440 Speaker 1: just calling as a follow up, all right, sir? Are 555 00:42:56,480 --> 00:43:00,719 Speaker 1: you mister Malone at fifty Timmerman? He No, man, I'm 556 00:43:00,800 --> 00:43:04,439 Speaker 1: Wiggins from fifty Man. You cut the wrong house. That's 557 00:43:04,560 --> 00:43:07,759 Speaker 1: ns do many. I guess you need to put you 558 00:43:07,800 --> 00:43:12,160 Speaker 1: in wards on there though, so so you you're not 559 00:43:12,360 --> 00:43:16,320 Speaker 1: mister Malone at fifty Zimmerman say, man, I'll just told you. 560 00:43:16,760 --> 00:43:19,520 Speaker 1: I'm fifty three and I'm mister Wiggins. You don't cut 561 00:43:19,560 --> 00:43:22,759 Speaker 1: the wrong do y'all need to go miss listen long 562 00:43:22,840 --> 00:43:25,239 Speaker 1: how to get you one because you ain't cuse you 563 00:43:25,360 --> 00:43:28,560 Speaker 1: got the wrong house. No, sir, No y'all coming over 564 00:43:28,640 --> 00:43:30,880 Speaker 1: here trying to collect no money. Well, sir, hold on 565 00:43:31,040 --> 00:43:33,600 Speaker 1: just a second. Head. You're saying we didn't. You don't 566 00:43:33,600 --> 00:43:37,120 Speaker 1: cut the wrong yard, so I don't know schedule. I 567 00:43:37,200 --> 00:43:39,759 Speaker 1: can't tell you come over here and cut and you 568 00:43:39,880 --> 00:43:43,040 Speaker 1: go there and talking Malone get your money. You can't ain't. 569 00:43:43,080 --> 00:43:45,640 Speaker 1: So there's no way we can charge mister Malone if 570 00:43:45,680 --> 00:43:48,040 Speaker 1: we haven't cut his yard. Now, let's let's just you 571 00:43:48,160 --> 00:43:52,560 Speaker 1: need to take the cut, mister Malone. YA put memoirs 572 00:43:52,600 --> 00:43:57,320 Speaker 1: and here you you didn't cut and saying at this 573 00:43:57,840 --> 00:44:02,200 Speaker 1: out sir, nothing cut the room yard. You go cut 574 00:44:02,239 --> 00:44:05,640 Speaker 1: the right yard and get right. You ain't got you 575 00:44:05,640 --> 00:44:09,680 Speaker 1: ain't getting okay, sir, I say that now I didn't 576 00:44:09,680 --> 00:44:14,120 Speaker 1: call him out of the cut. You go there, I 577 00:44:14,239 --> 00:44:17,840 Speaker 1: haven't cut his right and get him real voice. You 578 00:44:17,880 --> 00:44:20,960 Speaker 1: can't get party. I understand that, sir. Listen, what I 579 00:44:21,040 --> 00:44:23,680 Speaker 1: want to say is, uh, we'll go over and we'll 580 00:44:23,719 --> 00:44:25,879 Speaker 1: take care of mister Malone's yard. I understand that we've 581 00:44:25,920 --> 00:44:28,640 Speaker 1: made a mistake, but I understand. I understood. You say 582 00:44:29,120 --> 00:44:31,920 Speaker 1: that you didn't like the services. So wouldn't it be 583 00:44:32,120 --> 00:44:35,680 Speaker 1: even right for you to actually go ahead and send 584 00:44:35,760 --> 00:44:37,640 Speaker 1: the invoice in along with the check since you did 585 00:44:37,800 --> 00:44:42,040 Speaker 1: like the services? Wellever didn't listening like, YO just retarded, 586 00:44:42,040 --> 00:44:44,839 Speaker 1: because then I just tell you you cut the room 587 00:44:45,640 --> 00:44:49,040 Speaker 1: or want to cut the right yard and get you money. 588 00:44:49,080 --> 00:44:52,640 Speaker 1: You ain't got nothing but practice here. You're done. I 589 00:44:52,880 --> 00:44:56,239 Speaker 1: understand that we cut the wrong yard, sir. I understand that, 590 00:44:56,719 --> 00:44:59,200 Speaker 1: but you got the services, and you like the services. 591 00:44:59,440 --> 00:45:00,960 Speaker 1: I don't want to. I have to come out there 592 00:45:01,160 --> 00:45:04,080 Speaker 1: and get the money from you. We'll come on. If determining, 593 00:45:04,719 --> 00:45:07,719 Speaker 1: come on, if decumbing, I got something, come on over 594 00:45:07,760 --> 00:45:10,160 Speaker 1: here and get you what you said you like. I 595 00:45:10,239 --> 00:45:13,120 Speaker 1: wouldn't give a if I said the moon was green. 596 00:45:13,800 --> 00:45:16,439 Speaker 1: You cut the wrong yard. You go get your money 597 00:45:16,480 --> 00:45:19,440 Speaker 1: from the right one. You ain't getting charge you. I 598 00:45:19,560 --> 00:45:22,080 Speaker 1: got something, You come on over here and see what 599 00:45:22,160 --> 00:45:27,000 Speaker 1: you get. So I cut the room. You're trying to 600 00:45:27,040 --> 00:45:30,520 Speaker 1: get money. Money you ain't getting big now you you 601 00:45:30,560 --> 00:45:32,960 Speaker 1: can go get you from the right one. You're either 602 00:45:33,000 --> 00:45:35,840 Speaker 1: write this dough, go cut that. You leave that paper 603 00:45:35,880 --> 00:45:38,560 Speaker 1: over there. I'm coming over there. You want me to starts, 604 00:45:39,520 --> 00:45:43,480 Speaker 1: I'm starts. Some ain't some come around and do and 605 00:45:43,640 --> 00:45:46,640 Speaker 1: be charging me no money? Now, yeah, I got more 606 00:45:46,719 --> 00:45:50,120 Speaker 1: heath and hill get if you want to come get it. 607 00:45:51,080 --> 00:45:53,480 Speaker 1: You got your yard cut, and we deserve to get 608 00:45:53,600 --> 00:45:57,279 Speaker 1: our money back. Now to get to what you come 609 00:45:57,280 --> 00:45:59,279 Speaker 1: around here trying to get some blundy. Now I tell 610 00:45:59,320 --> 00:46:02,560 Speaker 1: you you don't cut, and I'm gonna tell you. Don't 611 00:46:02,640 --> 00:46:07,160 Speaker 1: make me whoop ya behind this yard. You come you come, 612 00:46:08,920 --> 00:46:11,480 Speaker 1: I will whoop you'all behind in the front yard that 613 00:46:11,719 --> 00:46:16,960 Speaker 1: just got cut? You mammy? Ain't you having you come 614 00:46:17,040 --> 00:46:21,480 Speaker 1: trying to get the money? I'm suing? Hello, you don't you? 615 00:46:21,600 --> 00:46:23,600 Speaker 1: I check? I got one more thing to tell you. 616 00:46:23,719 --> 00:46:29,160 Speaker 1: Is you're listening? Are you come standing now? I'm you 617 00:46:29,400 --> 00:46:33,040 Speaker 1: took the room. I've got one more thing to tell you. 618 00:46:33,600 --> 00:46:38,560 Speaker 1: Is you listening? Mister Wickens? I'm look. This is Nephew 619 00:46:38,719 --> 00:46:46,520 Speaker 1: Timing from the Steve Harding Morning Show. You just got prank? Hello? 620 00:46:47,920 --> 00:47:00,879 Speaker 1: What I you listen to listen to this morning. Look him, 621 00:47:01,200 --> 00:47:14,839 Speaker 1: your boy Gary just pranked you many. Let me ask 622 00:47:14,880 --> 00:47:18,960 Speaker 1: you something, though, man, what is the baddest radio show 623 00:47:19,200 --> 00:47:26,680 Speaker 1: in the land? Man? It's the Steve Harvard Morning. Who 624 00:47:27,800 --> 00:47:29,960 Speaker 1: what you think he wasn't He wasn't back and down. 625 00:47:30,000 --> 00:47:31,800 Speaker 1: You don't cut around, y'all. There ain't gonnhing do with me. 626 00:47:31,840 --> 00:47:34,000 Speaker 1: You didn't go over you. You just cut this, y'all 627 00:47:34,080 --> 00:47:35,840 Speaker 1: for free podding. You ain't that ain't got nothing to 628 00:47:35,840 --> 00:47:41,480 Speaker 1: do with me. All right, I'm gonna tell it to 629 00:47:41,560 --> 00:47:45,880 Speaker 1: you again. Chicago, Illinois. Here we come the United Center, Baby, Washington, 630 00:47:46,040 --> 00:47:50,360 Speaker 1: d C. Here we come Eagle Bank Arena and Atlanta GA. 631 00:47:50,760 --> 00:47:54,279 Speaker 1: State Farm Arena, Chicago. You are on the thirty DC. 632 00:47:54,560 --> 00:47:57,000 Speaker 1: You are on the first, Atlanta GA. You are on 633 00:47:57,120 --> 00:48:00,440 Speaker 1: the second. 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The subject twenty 652 00:49:06,880 --> 00:49:10,400 Speaker 1: years later, he still wants MGP. We'll get into it 653 00:49:10,560 --> 00:49:16,640 Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening to the Steven Show. All right, guys, 654 00:49:16,719 --> 00:49:19,239 Speaker 1: it is time now for today's Strawberry Letter and listen. 655 00:49:19,280 --> 00:49:22,560 Speaker 1: If you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting, 656 00:49:22,600 --> 00:49:25,880 Speaker 1: and more. Please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve Harvey 657 00:49:26,000 --> 00:49:30,239 Speaker 1: FM and click Submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading 658 00:49:30,280 --> 00:49:32,520 Speaker 1: your letter live on the air, just like we're gonna 659 00:49:32,520 --> 00:49:36,359 Speaker 1: read this one right here, right now. Buckle up, hold 660 00:49:36,400 --> 00:49:38,200 Speaker 1: on tight. We got it for you. Here. It is 661 00:49:38,560 --> 00:49:42,959 Speaker 1: the Strawberry Letter. Thank you Nephew. Subject. Twenty years later, 662 00:49:43,560 --> 00:49:48,960 Speaker 1: he still wants MGP. Well, Dear Steve and Shirley. I'm 663 00:49:49,000 --> 00:49:51,120 Speaker 1: a forty six year old single lady, and I am 664 00:49:51,200 --> 00:49:54,280 Speaker 1: ready for the next chapter in my life. In nineteen 665 00:49:54,400 --> 00:49:56,800 Speaker 1: ninety nine, I dated a man off and on for 666 00:49:56,960 --> 00:49:59,680 Speaker 1: a while, but finally ended things with him when I 667 00:50:00,200 --> 00:50:02,880 Speaker 1: out he got another woman pregnant. I moved on with 668 00:50:03,120 --> 00:50:07,520 Speaker 1: my life and moved to another state. Well. In twenty eighteen, 669 00:50:07,880 --> 00:50:11,200 Speaker 1: he and I reconnected on social media. Since we live 670 00:50:11,280 --> 00:50:14,880 Speaker 1: far apart, we texted and called each other daily. He 671 00:50:15,040 --> 00:50:17,000 Speaker 1: told me he was coming to town and wanted to 672 00:50:17,080 --> 00:50:19,479 Speaker 1: see me. I told him to come by the house 673 00:50:19,520 --> 00:50:21,520 Speaker 1: since we were old friends and hadn't seen each other 674 00:50:21,600 --> 00:50:24,320 Speaker 1: in many years. He came over and we had a 675 00:50:24,360 --> 00:50:27,640 Speaker 1: great time catching up in person. He later told me 676 00:50:28,040 --> 00:50:30,640 Speaker 1: that he was not just visiting. He had moved back 677 00:50:30,680 --> 00:50:33,400 Speaker 1: to town and he wanted to see me more. I 678 00:50:33,600 --> 00:50:36,359 Speaker 1: had no idea that he'd be interested in me now, 679 00:50:36,760 --> 00:50:40,840 Speaker 1: because I've been paralyzed since two thousand and four, but 680 00:50:40,960 --> 00:50:44,839 Speaker 1: that didn't matter to him. He asked me quiet, Steve. 681 00:50:44,920 --> 00:50:48,680 Speaker 1: He asked me, if I could still do it, would 682 00:50:48,719 --> 00:50:51,480 Speaker 1: you would just let me finish? Please? He asked me 683 00:50:51,640 --> 00:50:55,520 Speaker 1: if I could still do it? Yeah, yeah, And your 684 00:50:55,640 --> 00:50:57,880 Speaker 1: name is mentioned at the bottom as well. He asked 685 00:50:57,920 --> 00:51:01,520 Speaker 1: me if I could yeah, yeah, yes. He asked her 686 00:51:02,520 --> 00:51:05,520 Speaker 1: if I could still do it like I used to 687 00:51:05,640 --> 00:51:09,560 Speaker 1: do it. I teased him and asked, do you know 688 00:51:09,719 --> 00:51:14,320 Speaker 1: what it is? I teased him and asked, wouldn't you 689 00:51:14,440 --> 00:51:18,760 Speaker 1: like to know? So? About a month ago, I showed 690 00:51:18,880 --> 00:51:22,439 Speaker 1: him that I could still put it on him. You see, 691 00:51:22,520 --> 00:51:25,239 Speaker 1: back in the day he called me miss good P 692 00:51:25,880 --> 00:51:30,200 Speaker 1: or MGP for short, and he said, I still hold 693 00:51:30,280 --> 00:51:33,759 Speaker 1: that title to this day. I have feelings for him, 694 00:51:34,160 --> 00:51:37,400 Speaker 1: but everything is moving so fast. We are moving in 695 00:51:37,480 --> 00:51:39,759 Speaker 1: together soon, and I want to be sure I'm doing 696 00:51:39,880 --> 00:51:42,879 Speaker 1: things the right way. We dated over twenty years ago, 697 00:51:43,160 --> 00:51:46,040 Speaker 1: and I already gave him a sample of MGP. So 698 00:51:46,160 --> 00:51:48,680 Speaker 1: should I put put the ninety day rule on him 699 00:51:48,719 --> 00:51:51,760 Speaker 1: when we move in together. I don't want to get married. 700 00:51:52,000 --> 00:51:53,800 Speaker 1: I do want to get married, so I'm trying to 701 00:51:53,880 --> 00:51:57,640 Speaker 1: do things right. What do you think, Steve, she put 702 00:51:57,719 --> 00:52:05,160 Speaker 1: your letter in. Okay, so you have permission, all right? 703 00:52:05,920 --> 00:52:08,919 Speaker 1: All right? Come on, Now, you dated this guy back 704 00:52:08,960 --> 00:52:12,000 Speaker 1: in nineteen ninety nine. You off and on. It wasn't 705 00:52:12,040 --> 00:52:16,080 Speaker 1: even a regular real relationship, really, it was off and on, 706 00:52:16,640 --> 00:52:19,000 Speaker 1: and then you finally ended things when you found out 707 00:52:19,040 --> 00:52:22,120 Speaker 1: he got another woman pregnant. All right, Then this same 708 00:52:22,239 --> 00:52:25,680 Speaker 1: guy twenty years later comes into your life and you're 709 00:52:25,680 --> 00:52:29,560 Speaker 1: ready to move in with him. Why are you going 710 00:52:29,640 --> 00:52:31,880 Speaker 1: to move in with this man? I mean, why you 711 00:52:32,000 --> 00:52:36,239 Speaker 1: gotta explain this. Nothing in this letter says you need 712 00:52:36,440 --> 00:52:39,800 Speaker 1: to do that. Okay, he lied to you about so 713 00:52:39,960 --> 00:52:43,880 Speaker 1: many things, and uh, you know he actually lives in 714 00:52:43,960 --> 00:52:47,120 Speaker 1: your town. Now, first he said he was just visiting. 715 00:52:47,920 --> 00:52:50,360 Speaker 1: Is this really the case? Or was he hoping to 716 00:52:50,440 --> 00:52:53,080 Speaker 1: move in with you all the time. I just you know, 717 00:52:53,120 --> 00:52:55,480 Speaker 1: I'm going to ask you don't get played by this man. 718 00:52:56,120 --> 00:52:59,920 Speaker 1: He's probably telling you anything to get in your house. Remember, 719 00:53:00,080 --> 00:53:03,560 Speaker 1: now it's been twenty years since you've seen him. Now 720 00:53:03,680 --> 00:53:06,320 Speaker 1: you close your letter by saying you're trying to do 721 00:53:06,480 --> 00:53:10,920 Speaker 1: things right. Nothing about this is right because you've already 722 00:53:10,960 --> 00:53:14,560 Speaker 1: slept with him, and you want to impose the ninety 723 00:53:14,640 --> 00:53:19,040 Speaker 1: day rule on him. That is so backwards, Steve. Please, 724 00:53:19,840 --> 00:53:22,080 Speaker 1: we're all okay. I don't know how you strip around 725 00:53:22,120 --> 00:53:26,600 Speaker 1: all this other information saying I don't know what part 726 00:53:26,680 --> 00:53:28,920 Speaker 1: you read, but I'm going right to where I'm stuck. 727 00:53:29,560 --> 00:53:32,960 Speaker 1: Forty six year old single lady, ready to move on 728 00:53:33,239 --> 00:53:35,680 Speaker 1: day to the man, off and on in nineteen ninety nine, 729 00:53:36,160 --> 00:53:38,440 Speaker 1: but off and on, but found out he got another 730 00:53:38,480 --> 00:53:41,160 Speaker 1: woman pregnant. When you moved on with your life, he 731 00:53:41,320 --> 00:53:45,440 Speaker 1: moved to another state. Well two eighteen, y'all reconnected on 732 00:53:45,560 --> 00:53:48,440 Speaker 1: social media. Since we live far apart, we text and 733 00:53:48,520 --> 00:53:51,120 Speaker 1: called each other daily. He told me he was coming 734 00:53:51,160 --> 00:53:53,400 Speaker 1: to town and won't to see me. I told him, 735 00:53:53,440 --> 00:53:55,320 Speaker 1: come on by the house, or what else are you 736 00:53:55,400 --> 00:54:01,120 Speaker 1: gonna do? I mean, I'm through, Okay, Okay, so he 737 00:54:01,239 --> 00:54:05,279 Speaker 1: comes by to Hell, Okay, see, okay, permission, but don't 738 00:54:05,320 --> 00:54:15,160 Speaker 1: go crazy. Okay, I'm trying to shoot you. Old friends 739 00:54:15,920 --> 00:54:18,120 Speaker 1: and they ain't seen each other many years. He came 740 00:54:18,239 --> 00:54:20,800 Speaker 1: over and we had a great time catching up in person. 741 00:54:21,239 --> 00:54:23,719 Speaker 1: He later told me he wasn't just visited. He had 742 00:54:23,880 --> 00:54:27,799 Speaker 1: moved back to town. Oh that convenient, uh huh got 743 00:54:27,840 --> 00:54:30,920 Speaker 1: over there and found out you staying by yourself. Now, 744 00:54:31,040 --> 00:54:34,879 Speaker 1: he ain't moved back, he ain't visited. He to move back, 745 00:54:36,040 --> 00:54:38,880 Speaker 1: and he wanted to see you more. Now, the lady said, 746 00:54:39,239 --> 00:54:41,960 Speaker 1: I had no idea he'd be interested in me now 747 00:54:42,239 --> 00:54:46,960 Speaker 1: because I've been paralyzed since two thousand and four, so 748 00:54:47,239 --> 00:54:51,440 Speaker 1: fourteen years you've been paralyzed. Before I go in it further, 749 00:54:53,400 --> 00:54:57,320 Speaker 1: is that something I need to know about paralyzation before 750 00:54:57,400 --> 00:55:03,640 Speaker 1: I assume that means paralyzed came moved that all I'm asking, surety, Well, 751 00:55:03,680 --> 00:55:06,279 Speaker 1: I mean it depends on you know what kind of 752 00:55:07,000 --> 00:55:09,919 Speaker 1: that could be, A like a portion of it? Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, 753 00:55:10,040 --> 00:55:12,279 Speaker 1: And there's nothing wrong. This is not a good This 754 00:55:12,400 --> 00:55:14,760 Speaker 1: is just about this lady in this leadder, so please 755 00:55:14,800 --> 00:55:17,640 Speaker 1: don't nobody. But she wrote me and put in the ladder. Now, 756 00:55:17,680 --> 00:55:19,440 Speaker 1: you didn't have to put that in the ladder, but 757 00:55:19,600 --> 00:55:22,640 Speaker 1: you felt it was important. So now, Shirley didn't dance 758 00:55:22,800 --> 00:55:28,680 Speaker 1: round this hill, but you didn't. I just know you. 759 00:55:29,120 --> 00:55:34,439 Speaker 1: You didn't mention it paralyzed since still for fourteen years. 760 00:55:35,719 --> 00:55:38,279 Speaker 1: But that didn't matter to him. He asked me if 761 00:55:38,320 --> 00:55:40,719 Speaker 1: I could still do it like I used to do it? Well, 762 00:55:40,760 --> 00:55:43,640 Speaker 1: way you get that question for him? Now, I don't 763 00:55:43,680 --> 00:55:45,520 Speaker 1: know what she was doing that got you this title 764 00:55:45,600 --> 00:55:48,919 Speaker 1: that he gave you fourteen years ago, but how he's 765 00:55:48,960 --> 00:55:54,120 Speaker 1: still asking that question. So now we're gonna have to 766 00:55:54,200 --> 00:55:56,719 Speaker 1: get into it when we come back. We feel to 767 00:55:56,800 --> 00:55:59,399 Speaker 1: come back and find out why he called her miss 768 00:55:59,480 --> 00:56:07,160 Speaker 1: good Peace or We have part two response coming up 769 00:56:07,200 --> 00:56:11,919 Speaker 1: at twenty three after the hours you're listening to show. 770 00:56:12,520 --> 00:56:15,160 Speaker 1: All right, Steve, come on, let's recap today's strawberry letter. 771 00:56:15,360 --> 00:56:20,000 Speaker 1: The subject is twenty years later, he still wants MGP. Yeah, 772 00:56:20,040 --> 00:56:22,080 Speaker 1: he still want MP. Let's just go and get to 773 00:56:22,160 --> 00:56:25,359 Speaker 1: this letter right quick. What did happened is y'all got 774 00:56:25,440 --> 00:56:29,360 Speaker 1: back together social media. He says he still wanted you, 775 00:56:29,440 --> 00:56:32,480 Speaker 1: and that surprised you that he'd be interested in you 776 00:56:32,520 --> 00:56:35,800 Speaker 1: because you've been paralyzed since two thousand and four. But 777 00:56:35,960 --> 00:56:38,320 Speaker 1: that didn't matter to him. He asked me if I 778 00:56:38,400 --> 00:56:41,120 Speaker 1: could still do it like I used to do. I 779 00:56:41,320 --> 00:56:44,800 Speaker 1: teased him and ask, wouldn't you like to know? So 780 00:56:45,040 --> 00:56:48,239 Speaker 1: about a month ago I showed him that I could 781 00:56:48,280 --> 00:56:50,600 Speaker 1: still put it on him. You see, back in the 782 00:56:50,719 --> 00:56:55,719 Speaker 1: day he called me miss good P or MGP MG 783 00:56:56,640 --> 00:57:01,680 Speaker 1: is where we need. It's either miss good or most 784 00:57:01,880 --> 00:57:05,440 Speaker 1: grand P. You know, unless like like if you're in 785 00:57:05,520 --> 00:57:08,040 Speaker 1: a mate, if you're in an Elks club, you might 786 00:57:08,080 --> 00:57:13,240 Speaker 1: be the master Grand Poopa, or maybe you had the MVP, 787 00:57:13,680 --> 00:57:17,200 Speaker 1: you could have had the most valuable Okay, we get it. 788 00:57:18,000 --> 00:57:20,760 Speaker 1: Or your name is Margaret Gail. I don't know what 789 00:57:20,920 --> 00:57:25,200 Speaker 1: it is, but you paralyzed now. So his question was 790 00:57:25,680 --> 00:57:28,480 Speaker 1: can you still do it like you used to do 791 00:57:28,640 --> 00:57:31,320 Speaker 1: it now? I don't know what she was doing back 792 00:57:31,680 --> 00:57:34,720 Speaker 1: folded before prior to two thousand and four. I don't 793 00:57:34,720 --> 00:57:38,920 Speaker 1: know what she was doing back then, but obviously it 794 00:57:39,240 --> 00:57:42,600 Speaker 1: wasn't what I was thinking. See, I was thinking, to 795 00:57:42,720 --> 00:57:46,400 Speaker 1: get to Tyler MVP. That that has to be some 796 00:57:46,560 --> 00:57:54,840 Speaker 1: monkey flipping, got the chandelio, swinging, some doknob, diving, some 797 00:57:55,120 --> 00:58:00,400 Speaker 1: foot of the bed back, some assaults, some edge of 798 00:58:00,520 --> 00:58:06,440 Speaker 1: the bed, your knees, a lot of bouncing. It's just 799 00:58:06,560 --> 00:58:09,360 Speaker 1: a lot of stuff go in there. When if you 800 00:58:09,440 --> 00:58:14,360 Speaker 1: were to consider someone that, where are anybody? Yeah? But 801 00:58:14,600 --> 00:58:17,360 Speaker 1: now I don't. I can't go too far because I 802 00:58:17,440 --> 00:58:20,720 Speaker 1: don't want anybody that has a situation to think I'm 803 00:58:20,760 --> 00:58:23,000 Speaker 1: making fun of him cause or not. But the lady 804 00:58:23,120 --> 00:58:26,760 Speaker 1: did right me with the pali paraized things since two 805 00:58:26,840 --> 00:58:30,560 Speaker 1: thousand folk. But she thinks, Steve, so, I don't know 806 00:58:30,760 --> 00:58:34,000 Speaker 1: how to heal what y'all doing in that now. I 807 00:58:34,080 --> 00:58:38,400 Speaker 1: don't man what's going on either he had never had 808 00:58:38,600 --> 00:58:43,080 Speaker 1: no MGP before, or it was the best MGP he 809 00:58:43,200 --> 00:58:47,600 Speaker 1: ever had. Maybe didn't require you to do much, Steve, 810 00:58:48,320 --> 00:58:52,040 Speaker 1: she said in the letter, I showed him that I 811 00:58:52,160 --> 00:58:55,520 Speaker 1: could still put it on him. Now she said that, Yeah, 812 00:58:55,680 --> 00:58:58,400 Speaker 1: she said that, Sherley. But now that makes me question, 813 00:58:59,120 --> 00:59:05,200 Speaker 1: what would you putting on it? The MP? You think? Okay? Now, 814 00:59:05,840 --> 00:59:09,680 Speaker 1: the only thing I can think is is that inside 815 00:59:09,840 --> 00:59:19,760 Speaker 1: the MGP, what it's like a It's like once you 816 00:59:20,000 --> 00:59:23,640 Speaker 1: buy mission to an amusement park. Once you go into park, 817 00:59:23,960 --> 00:59:26,800 Speaker 1: that's where the rides is at. See that's what I'm thinking. 818 00:59:27,480 --> 00:59:30,600 Speaker 1: That's why you could So it could be the most 819 00:59:30,720 --> 00:59:35,400 Speaker 1: grand park. It could be go ahead ship. He's sorry, 820 00:59:35,480 --> 00:59:38,720 Speaker 1: sorry for interrupting you, but I need him, he said, 821 00:59:38,880 --> 00:59:41,880 Speaker 1: I still hold that title to this day. That's why 822 00:59:41,920 --> 00:59:44,320 Speaker 1: I'm saying. There must be something going on inside the 823 00:59:44,520 --> 00:59:54,200 Speaker 1: mg Yeah. See see, maybe maybe MG stands for Madison Guard. 824 00:59:55,480 --> 01:00:00,760 Speaker 1: You know, maybe the MG is a short for MGM 825 01:00:00,880 --> 01:00:04,920 Speaker 1: where a lot of activity going build see the shows 826 01:00:06,280 --> 01:00:08,800 Speaker 1: I'm assuming that there's a lot of stuff going on 827 01:00:08,960 --> 01:00:12,720 Speaker 1: once you get inside, the show ain't outside. Maybe they 828 01:00:12,720 --> 01:00:15,560 Speaker 1: ain't got to be nothing going on. Maybe that you know, 829 01:00:15,640 --> 01:00:18,800 Speaker 1: a lot of I don't know if his hands, I 830 01:00:18,880 --> 01:00:20,760 Speaker 1: don't know, if it feels, I don't know what it is. 831 01:00:23,280 --> 01:00:26,080 Speaker 1: Some yeah, if it needs some helps to let me 832 01:00:26,160 --> 01:00:29,360 Speaker 1: help her. You go ahead, Jake. What she wanted him 833 01:00:29,440 --> 01:00:32,520 Speaker 1: to lord, what she would like for him to do 834 01:00:32,720 --> 01:00:35,000 Speaker 1: is roll up on her. Because she is not a 835 01:00:36,320 --> 01:00:41,280 Speaker 1: not a fish around person. She is not handicapped in 836 01:00:41,360 --> 01:00:44,640 Speaker 1: this department. You understand what I'm saying, roll up on me. 837 01:00:44,920 --> 01:00:48,440 Speaker 1: Not she's not. She's not gonna let him walk all 838 01:00:48,560 --> 01:00:55,280 Speaker 1: over her. That hey, Jake, but paralyzing shit you waste, Jake. 839 01:00:55,400 --> 01:00:57,920 Speaker 1: To even it out, you get in the chair and 840 01:00:58,040 --> 01:01:01,240 Speaker 1: you rolled over here watching, Thank you, thank you. Now 841 01:01:01,320 --> 01:01:04,600 Speaker 1: you might think this woman don't have no feeling for you, 842 01:01:04,760 --> 01:01:08,160 Speaker 1: but she do she do? Oh, she gotta leg up 843 01:01:08,200 --> 01:01:10,720 Speaker 1: on the situation. She gotta let up the situation. She's 844 01:01:10,720 --> 01:01:18,120 Speaker 1: not gonna be burial waiting on you. Probably probably some dude, dude. 845 01:01:18,240 --> 01:01:23,680 Speaker 1: I did it with that thing, baby, with that thing, 846 01:01:25,240 --> 01:01:27,360 Speaker 1: I showed him that I could still put it on ys, 847 01:01:27,520 --> 01:01:31,320 Speaker 1: you did, lady, and congratulations and so since you hadn't 848 01:01:31,360 --> 01:01:34,000 Speaker 1: done that and you gave it something and y'all dated 849 01:01:34,080 --> 01:01:36,160 Speaker 1: over twenty years ago, and I already gave him a 850 01:01:36,200 --> 01:01:38,480 Speaker 1: sample of the MGP shit. I put the ninety day 851 01:01:38,560 --> 01:01:40,880 Speaker 1: rude on him when we move in together. Unless you 852 01:01:40,960 --> 01:01:43,160 Speaker 1: want to ask the roll right out of here. You're 853 01:01:43,200 --> 01:01:48,360 Speaker 1: probably too late for this hell to walk out your life. 854 01:01:48,400 --> 01:01:51,600 Speaker 1: You been give it up? Yeah, I feel like twenty 855 01:01:51,680 --> 01:01:55,320 Speaker 1: years you've already committed. He's moving in and you wanted man, 856 01:01:55,560 --> 01:01:57,560 Speaker 1: you do want to get mad, So I'm trying to 857 01:01:57,640 --> 01:02:00,480 Speaker 1: do things right. You've already known it for twenty going 858 01:02:00,600 --> 01:02:03,320 Speaker 1: to see where it go. Congratulations. I don't know how 859 01:02:03,400 --> 01:02:05,720 Speaker 1: you did it, but whatever you're doing, to keep up 860 01:02:05,760 --> 01:02:08,480 Speaker 1: the good work doing it? What? Ye I don't know what. 861 01:02:11,320 --> 01:02:17,880 Speaker 1: Let this man move in your house killing me if 862 01:02:17,880 --> 01:02:20,280 Speaker 1: you won't to a nobody else rolled up over there? 863 01:02:20,760 --> 01:02:23,280 Speaker 1: All right? Look hit us up on Instagram at Steve 864 01:02:23,360 --> 01:02:26,720 Speaker 1: Harvey FM with your own thoughts on today's Strawberry Letter, 865 01:02:26,880 --> 01:02:29,800 Speaker 1: and please check us out on the Strawberry Letter podcast 866 01:02:29,960 --> 01:02:34,680 Speaker 1: on demand. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, 867 01:02:34,760 --> 01:02:37,880 Speaker 1: Jay is in the building. Steve time to murder another hit. 868 01:02:38,360 --> 01:02:41,640 Speaker 1: Please introduce him, give him a good one. I'm scared 869 01:02:46,600 --> 01:02:54,680 Speaker 1: murder good money. Don't the song right here? Dedicated to 870 01:02:54,960 --> 01:02:57,720 Speaker 1: all the ladies. We're going through it. I don't know 871 01:02:58,080 --> 01:03:19,120 Speaker 1: hit it all this hell's got them winds open and 872 01:03:19,360 --> 01:03:24,440 Speaker 1: it's got the ceiling thing on thirty eight and reread 873 01:03:24,640 --> 01:03:29,240 Speaker 1: she wakes up sweat and it has the cool all. 874 01:03:30,160 --> 01:03:35,040 Speaker 1: She's having a hot flash wedding and reading. I want 875 01:03:35,120 --> 01:03:40,160 Speaker 1: a hot flash, hot night. And in the hot flash 876 01:03:40,320 --> 01:03:45,480 Speaker 1: wedding and reading, and she has a hot blast. Ain't 877 01:03:45,640 --> 01:03:51,800 Speaker 1: no man to love the hint I mean a hot 878 01:03:51,960 --> 01:04:04,720 Speaker 1: flash surring through that hot slash, random, the high hat, 879 01:04:04,920 --> 01:04:17,320 Speaker 1: hot time, last hot hot hot, hot hot blast hat 880 01:04:18,880 --> 01:04:22,240 Speaker 1: she had in the hearts that when and read it, 881 01:04:23,240 --> 01:04:28,360 Speaker 1: I want the heart last son been in the heart 882 01:04:28,560 --> 01:04:33,320 Speaker 1: lass when and read it, he shall have a hat 883 01:04:33,400 --> 01:04:44,640 Speaker 1: that so when you live, I mean a heart lass, hearts, 884 01:04:47,600 --> 01:05:01,720 Speaker 1: random hearts, hot, hot time lass, hot genius boy. No 885 01:05:01,840 --> 01:05:09,560 Speaker 1: he's not, No, he's Carlo Carlo. Yeah are you are you? Ladies? 886 01:05:09,600 --> 01:05:12,240 Speaker 1: Did y'all enjoy that? You? H No? I didn't say. 887 01:05:12,520 --> 01:05:14,680 Speaker 1: And you know what the problem is, Steve, me and Jay. 888 01:05:14,800 --> 01:05:17,360 Speaker 1: You know we talk on the phone, and did you 889 01:05:17,440 --> 01:05:21,440 Speaker 1: have a when you was on the phone. Yes, I did, Tommy, 890 01:05:21,520 --> 01:05:25,920 Speaker 1: but the whole world knows. Now, no, you're not and 891 01:05:26,080 --> 01:05:30,200 Speaker 1: turned the air. All right, more of this crazy ignorant show. 892 01:05:30,680 --> 01:05:34,240 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. Right after this. You're listening to 893 01:05:34,680 --> 01:05:39,400 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, guys, here's the question 894 01:05:39,560 --> 01:05:43,200 Speaker 1: for you. What old argument do you or your significant 895 01:05:43,280 --> 01:05:49,080 Speaker 1: others still bring up to this day? Yeah? Man, now 896 01:05:49,280 --> 01:05:51,160 Speaker 1: well no, wait a minute. This was the topic on 897 01:05:51,320 --> 01:05:55,320 Speaker 1: reddit dot com. A man said he complimented a waitress 898 01:05:55,440 --> 01:05:58,520 Speaker 1: on her short, bald haircut in front of his wife, 899 01:05:58,840 --> 01:06:01,960 Speaker 1: and over a year later, his wife still makes him 900 01:06:01,960 --> 01:06:04,560 Speaker 1: feel badly about it. According to the story, his wife 901 01:06:04,640 --> 01:06:07,439 Speaker 1: offers to go to the bathroom and shave her head 902 01:06:07,960 --> 01:06:13,640 Speaker 1: if that will make you happy. I love it, Yes, 903 01:06:13,960 --> 01:06:19,920 Speaker 1: I love it. Right. Well, maybe I need to go 904 01:06:20,000 --> 01:06:22,080 Speaker 1: to the bathroom and shave my head if that'll make 905 01:06:22,120 --> 01:06:24,440 Speaker 1: you happy. Maybe that'll make you happy if I got 906 01:06:24,560 --> 01:06:27,439 Speaker 1: a shave head. Huh, I know just how she said, 907 01:06:27,760 --> 01:06:33,400 Speaker 1: you know, yes, a little our hair cut. Huh, what 908 01:06:33,560 --> 01:06:37,560 Speaker 1: a compliment. It's a compliment. Oh you don't like my 909 01:06:37,720 --> 01:06:41,240 Speaker 1: long hair? Maybe I need to shave my head. Maybe 910 01:06:41,280 --> 01:06:44,320 Speaker 1: that'll make you happy, yes, and said you compliment. You're 911 01:06:44,360 --> 01:06:48,520 Speaker 1: handing out compliments and stuff, all right, So Steven, I 912 01:06:48,560 --> 01:06:51,200 Speaker 1: don't know why this makes me think of you. Do 913 01:06:51,320 --> 01:06:54,880 Speaker 1: you have any arguments in your relationship that never go away? 914 01:06:55,920 --> 01:07:01,040 Speaker 1: And you know something that comes up from time to time? Oh? Well, 915 01:07:01,120 --> 01:07:03,400 Speaker 1: the only thing we really are about over knowing some 916 01:07:03,560 --> 01:07:07,320 Speaker 1: damn kids. You know, it's the damn kids. Most my 917 01:07:07,440 --> 01:07:09,920 Speaker 1: arguments is being about some one of them kids. We 918 01:07:10,080 --> 01:07:11,760 Speaker 1: have a difference of opinion and the way we all 919 01:07:11,840 --> 01:07:14,720 Speaker 1: to handle it. That's one you know comes up all 920 01:07:14,720 --> 01:07:17,120 Speaker 1: the time, you know, And I'm too hard. I don't 921 01:07:17,560 --> 01:07:19,760 Speaker 1: know how to love the kids in spite of their 922 01:07:19,840 --> 01:07:22,880 Speaker 1: problems and stuff. I know kids have problems and everything, 923 01:07:23,000 --> 01:07:27,160 Speaker 1: but you know, I don't want him. What do you 924 01:07:27,320 --> 01:07:33,360 Speaker 1: their parents supposed to listen? I'm tired of parents, do you? 925 01:07:33,520 --> 01:07:36,720 Speaker 1: Damn it? You thank you know everything? Go ahead, that's 926 01:07:36,800 --> 01:07:38,720 Speaker 1: this little section of your life up with your little 927 01:07:38,760 --> 01:07:42,120 Speaker 1: stupid ass. Come in here. I don't know the man. 928 01:07:42,240 --> 01:07:47,440 Speaker 1: I'm so sick, man in hell, go ahead. Try. Oh 929 01:07:47,520 --> 01:07:48,840 Speaker 1: she got so mad at me. The other day I 930 01:07:48,880 --> 01:07:50,280 Speaker 1: took one of the kids. Ask me if I said, 931 01:07:50,360 --> 01:07:53,600 Speaker 1: try if you know that ain't gonna work. Well, okay, 932 01:07:54,920 --> 01:07:56,440 Speaker 1: if you tell them don't do it, they're gonna do 933 01:07:56,480 --> 01:08:03,160 Speaker 1: it anyway. Try it. You just try. Let's see, let's 934 01:08:03,280 --> 01:08:08,800 Speaker 1: go ahead, do it knowing that. That's not knowing what's 935 01:08:08,840 --> 01:08:12,000 Speaker 1: gonna happen. Because when I told you not to do something, 936 01:08:12,080 --> 01:08:13,960 Speaker 1: you do it anyway. Then you come back in here. 937 01:08:14,200 --> 01:08:18,760 Speaker 1: I should have listened to you. You don't she going 938 01:08:18,840 --> 01:08:20,800 Speaker 1: out here and do it fall on your face? But 939 01:08:20,920 --> 01:08:25,040 Speaker 1: did you when you really? Yeah? I did most of 940 01:08:25,080 --> 01:08:28,400 Speaker 1: the time, oh most most of the most of the time. Well, 941 01:08:28,400 --> 01:08:30,000 Speaker 1: I just kept most of my stuff from them. I 942 01:08:30,040 --> 01:08:31,320 Speaker 1: didn't go in there with a pinion. I didn't have 943 01:08:31,479 --> 01:08:34,600 Speaker 1: some nothing. I just went on and blew it. H 944 01:08:34,960 --> 01:08:38,360 Speaker 1: I can't believe that. Shut your punk ass up. What 945 01:08:38,520 --> 01:08:42,000 Speaker 1: did you do now? You didn't want to hear all 946 01:08:42,000 --> 01:08:46,120 Speaker 1: the parents? Yeah? Yeah, all right, So Junior, I know 947 01:08:46,280 --> 01:08:50,320 Speaker 1: you have one. Oh god, oh okay. Girl came to 948 01:08:50,400 --> 01:08:53,320 Speaker 1: the show one time, right uh huh. And after the show, 949 01:08:53,400 --> 01:08:55,760 Speaker 1: you know, go to the bathroom and she hears some 950 01:08:55,840 --> 01:08:57,880 Speaker 1: women in there talking about me about how funny I 951 01:08:58,080 --> 01:09:01,400 Speaker 1: was and how cute I was. She heard, so anytime 952 01:09:01,479 --> 01:09:03,680 Speaker 1: anybody compliment me, she said, well, let me go in 953 01:09:03,720 --> 01:09:05,720 Speaker 1: the bathroom and see what the discussion is this time 954 01:09:05,720 --> 01:09:09,599 Speaker 1: about somebody. Somebody say I like your shirt. She says, 955 01:09:09,680 --> 01:09:11,040 Speaker 1: let me get up and go to the bathroom. It 956 01:09:11,160 --> 01:09:13,479 Speaker 1: must be a conversation. She didn't go on the running 957 01:09:13,520 --> 01:09:16,120 Speaker 1: head like this damn shirt, so he got waiting. I 958 01:09:16,200 --> 01:09:18,240 Speaker 1: don't like to talk about that every day of time 959 01:09:18,280 --> 01:09:19,519 Speaker 1: we go out there. I don't care if we go 960 01:09:19,640 --> 01:09:21,880 Speaker 1: to pulling the drive through. Oh I like your sun glass. 961 01:09:22,080 --> 01:09:24,080 Speaker 1: Let me run in the bathroom and mcdown. It must 962 01:09:24,120 --> 01:09:28,200 Speaker 1: be a conversation about this. Don't matter where we go. 963 01:09:29,520 --> 01:09:31,360 Speaker 1: We was at a cousin funeral. This man I like 964 01:09:31,479 --> 01:09:33,760 Speaker 1: that suit. Oh suscussion in the bathroom at the church. 965 01:09:33,840 --> 01:09:36,479 Speaker 1: Let running the bathroom. What I'm saying about the suit? 966 01:09:37,320 --> 01:09:43,280 Speaker 1: My man? Yeah, she's so fly. Yeah, even doing nothing. 967 01:09:43,680 --> 01:09:47,000 Speaker 1: I didn't ask the ladies to say nothing. But then 968 01:09:47,040 --> 01:09:48,920 Speaker 1: I brought it. I flipped it, you know. I said, well, 969 01:09:49,120 --> 01:09:51,639 Speaker 1: you should have said something first, and we hadn't head this. No, mother, 970 01:09:55,920 --> 01:10:00,559 Speaker 1: why didn't you say that? Because I'm stupid? What she say? 971 01:10:00,640 --> 01:10:03,960 Speaker 1: What happened? She turned around on you. There was no 972 01:10:04,080 --> 01:10:10,840 Speaker 1: more talking for the day. I know that. Yeah, oh yeah, 973 01:10:11,040 --> 01:10:14,800 Speaker 1: the silent treatment is shun. All right, guys, thank you. 974 01:10:15,000 --> 01:10:17,080 Speaker 1: Coming up, we'll have more of a Steve Harvey Morning 975 01:10:17,120 --> 01:10:19,599 Speaker 1: Show and some trending stories the twenty minutes after the hour. 976 01:10:19,760 --> 01:10:23,679 Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. 977 01:10:25,840 --> 01:10:28,439 Speaker 1: All right, Steven, it's time to check your voicemail. If 978 01:10:28,520 --> 01:10:30,400 Speaker 1: you want to leave Steve a message, you're just give 979 01:10:30,439 --> 01:10:33,160 Speaker 1: a holiday greeting to your loved one. Call us right 980 01:10:33,200 --> 01:10:35,840 Speaker 1: now at eight seven seven twenty nine, Steve and leave 981 01:10:35,880 --> 01:10:39,920 Speaker 1: a message. Okay, good morning, Steve, is Mary Henry is 982 01:10:40,240 --> 01:10:42,880 Speaker 1: the way out of cars. That's Mississippi. I would like 983 01:10:43,000 --> 01:10:47,679 Speaker 1: to wish my children the one Agent, Stephanie and Maya 984 01:10:47,920 --> 01:10:52,759 Speaker 1: are happy no year. Good morning, Steve Harvey Morning Show crew, 985 01:10:53,080 --> 01:10:55,320 Speaker 1: Happy holiday, see you guys. I just want to give 986 01:10:55,320 --> 01:10:59,320 Speaker 1: a shout out to my mom Kim, Happy holidays. I 987 01:10:59,439 --> 01:11:03,519 Speaker 1: love you morning Uncle Fee, Morning crew. This is Tony 988 01:11:03,840 --> 01:11:07,439 Speaker 1: all around the country. Truck driver. Just wanted to wish 989 01:11:08,160 --> 01:11:13,759 Speaker 1: my family the Sanders, Johnson, tell Us Boards and Jackson 990 01:11:14,160 --> 01:11:17,280 Speaker 1: wish y'all my happy New year. I Steve Harvey. I 991 01:11:17,400 --> 01:11:20,000 Speaker 1: just wanted to tell you on the radio crew how 992 01:11:20,120 --> 01:11:23,720 Speaker 1: much I really appreciate the radio show. I listened to 993 01:11:23,880 --> 01:11:26,519 Speaker 1: you every morning. I want to stay happy New Year 994 01:11:26,800 --> 01:11:30,679 Speaker 1: and to tell you Steve personally, I really love your story. 995 01:11:30,920 --> 01:11:36,000 Speaker 1: Happy holidays. This is Myra Ware. I live in Los Angeles, California, 996 01:11:36,360 --> 01:11:40,200 Speaker 1: in December twenty second. This my birthday. Love y'all, Hey, 997 01:11:40,280 --> 01:11:43,080 Speaker 1: what's going on? Uncle Steve. My name is Delvin. I'm 998 01:11:43,080 --> 01:11:45,920 Speaker 1: out of the small town about my Texas. I want 999 01:11:45,960 --> 01:11:49,960 Speaker 1: to give a happy New Year, first to the Steve 1000 01:11:50,040 --> 01:11:52,479 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show because I listened to y'all every morning. 1001 01:11:52,600 --> 01:11:55,600 Speaker 1: Y'all make my day. And then also I want to 1002 01:11:55,680 --> 01:11:59,240 Speaker 1: give it also to my lovely wife Fran and all 1003 01:11:59,400 --> 01:12:02,560 Speaker 1: my kids for making my life the way it is, 1004 01:12:03,160 --> 01:12:05,400 Speaker 1: him making it jowful. So that's what I gotta live 1005 01:12:05,520 --> 01:12:11,679 Speaker 1: this for. You're listening all right, Time for a comedy 1006 01:12:11,720 --> 01:12:14,840 Speaker 1: break right here? Junior is here with things I've never seen? 1007 01:12:15,000 --> 01:12:17,960 Speaker 1: What is this, Junior? Yeah, you know, Tommy, there's a 1008 01:12:18,040 --> 01:12:20,479 Speaker 1: lot of things that you have never seen in your life. 1009 01:12:20,560 --> 01:12:23,000 Speaker 1: I mean it's some things like I know you old 1010 01:12:23,000 --> 01:12:25,120 Speaker 1: and everybody you probably have, but it's some things I 1011 01:12:25,320 --> 01:12:28,920 Speaker 1: know I ain't never seen, Like, for instance, I've never 1012 01:12:29,040 --> 01:12:31,559 Speaker 1: seen a shade treat mechanic with a car that's running 1013 01:12:31,560 --> 01:12:35,800 Speaker 1: in perfect condition. You ain't never seen it. He gonna 1014 01:12:35,840 --> 01:12:38,760 Speaker 1: tell me everything wrong with my car, but with his 1015 01:12:38,920 --> 01:12:42,599 Speaker 1: back door missing, all is all running out the car 1016 01:12:42,720 --> 01:12:46,320 Speaker 1: from him and his hat. But he gonna tell me 1017 01:12:46,400 --> 01:12:49,240 Speaker 1: I need a new transmitter. Well, I've never seen it. 1018 01:12:49,760 --> 01:12:52,000 Speaker 1: I just ain't never seen it. He's another thing I 1019 01:12:52,000 --> 01:12:55,000 Speaker 1: ain't never seen. I ain't never seen people in the 1020 01:12:55,080 --> 01:12:59,320 Speaker 1: South eat a meal without rice. If it's chicken and rice, 1021 01:13:00,120 --> 01:13:04,679 Speaker 1: beans and rice, why is rice on every plate? Ring? 1022 01:13:06,360 --> 01:13:09,320 Speaker 1: Just rice? You know who I've never met. I've never 1023 01:13:09,400 --> 01:13:12,639 Speaker 1: met this person. I've never met a well rested African America. 1024 01:13:12,760 --> 01:13:16,599 Speaker 1: I've never met one. I ain't never seen it. Dog, 1025 01:13:16,640 --> 01:13:20,000 Speaker 1: I ain't never seen a well rested African American, not 1026 01:13:20,400 --> 01:13:23,519 Speaker 1: just like that. How you doing? Man? Oh man? Job? 1027 01:13:23,600 --> 01:13:25,880 Speaker 1: Getting on my nerves? Wife talking crazy to my kids. 1028 01:13:25,920 --> 01:13:30,479 Speaker 1: Won't live man, I'm tired. I'm just tired. You ain't 1029 01:13:30,479 --> 01:13:34,200 Speaker 1: never seen that. I've never seen a big person eat 1030 01:13:34,240 --> 01:13:43,680 Speaker 1: a meal without a died beverage. I ain't never seen Yeah, hamhock, 1031 01:13:44,720 --> 01:13:47,400 Speaker 1: you know, But then a died coke on the side, 1032 01:13:47,439 --> 01:13:52,760 Speaker 1: As if that's gonna change something. I have never seen it. 1033 01:13:52,920 --> 01:13:55,599 Speaker 1: I hear you Steve, I don't I know, I ain't. 1034 01:13:55,640 --> 01:13:58,479 Speaker 1: I ain't gonna do it. I ain't gonna getting none. No, look, 1035 01:13:58,880 --> 01:14:02,240 Speaker 1: i've never seen a black funeral. What it is? No 1036 01:14:02,479 --> 01:14:07,599 Speaker 1: clowning going on? Yeah, not one, Not when you ain't 1037 01:14:07,680 --> 01:14:11,599 Speaker 1: up seeing that somebody gonna get cussed out in front 1038 01:14:11,640 --> 01:14:18,920 Speaker 1: of the castle every time. Yea, These just things we've 1039 01:14:19,040 --> 01:14:23,479 Speaker 1: never seen. We ain't never seen anything. I've never seen Christmas, 1040 01:14:23,640 --> 01:14:27,920 Speaker 1: Valentine's Halloween declarations being put up in the drug store. 1041 01:14:28,200 --> 01:14:30,360 Speaker 1: You just show up one day and they all hanging 1042 01:14:30,640 --> 01:14:33,920 Speaker 1: who That's true. You ain't never seen who hang this up. 1043 01:14:34,840 --> 01:14:39,920 Speaker 1: We don't know who that he h. I ain't never 1044 01:14:40,000 --> 01:14:43,000 Speaker 1: seen a white person still a bike out of black neighborhood. 1045 01:14:43,400 --> 01:14:47,439 Speaker 1: I ain't never seen. You ain't gonna never see because 1046 01:14:47,479 --> 01:14:54,599 Speaker 1: they already all right, thank you guys. All right, tell 1047 01:14:54,640 --> 01:14:56,840 Speaker 1: us when we come back, last break of the day 1048 01:14:57,000 --> 01:14:59,680 Speaker 1: and Steve's closing remarks. You don't want to miss him. 1049 01:14:59,680 --> 01:15:06,679 Speaker 1: We'll be bat you're listening all right here we are Steve, guys, 1050 01:15:07,000 --> 01:15:10,240 Speaker 1: last break of the day. Steve send us home with 1051 01:15:10,320 --> 01:15:13,360 Speaker 1: some great closing remarks for today. Had a good day 1052 01:15:13,439 --> 01:15:17,720 Speaker 1: to day. Hey, my closing remarks today is something that 1053 01:15:17,760 --> 01:15:19,880 Speaker 1: I want to share with you all that I've been 1054 01:15:20,000 --> 01:15:23,000 Speaker 1: kind of are dealing with a lot lately, and I 1055 01:15:23,080 --> 01:15:26,479 Speaker 1: mean a lot. And the only reason I'm sharing with 1056 01:15:26,560 --> 01:15:30,439 Speaker 1: you because I think there's quite a few people who 1057 01:15:30,520 --> 01:15:33,720 Speaker 1: can relate to this, the thing that I'm trying to 1058 01:15:34,720 --> 01:15:41,479 Speaker 1: correct in my thinking. Uh, you know, the Bible says 1059 01:15:41,600 --> 01:15:46,920 Speaker 1: be anxious for nothing, and there's I'm pretty sure that 1060 01:15:46,960 --> 01:15:49,920 Speaker 1: are people who could explain this a lot better than me. 1061 01:15:51,040 --> 01:15:55,479 Speaker 1: But being anxious for nothing means, you know, in other words, 1062 01:15:55,720 --> 01:16:01,320 Speaker 1: don't worry so much about what is going to happen. 1063 01:16:01,439 --> 01:16:06,200 Speaker 1: Don't don't want something so badly that it consumes you. 1064 01:16:07,080 --> 01:16:10,960 Speaker 1: Don't keep wearing about something that you want to see happen, 1065 01:16:11,600 --> 01:16:15,920 Speaker 1: that you're expecting to receive, that you want to be gifted, 1066 01:16:16,479 --> 01:16:22,160 Speaker 1: that you want to acquire, whatever it is. Be anxious 1067 01:16:22,280 --> 01:16:26,760 Speaker 1: for nothing. Now that's hard to do. It really is 1068 01:16:26,920 --> 01:16:35,439 Speaker 1: because naturally, as people, including myself me personally, I have 1069 01:16:35,560 --> 01:16:38,040 Speaker 1: a tendency to focus on the things that I want. 1070 01:16:40,320 --> 01:16:45,720 Speaker 1: Here's the problem with it. Here's a twofold problem with it. 1071 01:16:46,840 --> 01:16:54,559 Speaker 1: When you focus on what you want. Number one, focusing 1072 01:16:54,680 --> 01:17:00,200 Speaker 1: on it shows a lack of faith because every thing 1073 01:17:00,240 --> 01:17:03,960 Speaker 1: you've ever needed. I mean, really, just ask yourself. Hasn't 1074 01:17:04,040 --> 01:17:08,120 Speaker 1: God always done it? I mean, what you need it. 1075 01:17:09,640 --> 01:17:12,360 Speaker 1: You may not get everything you want. Everything you want 1076 01:17:12,400 --> 01:17:14,439 Speaker 1: ain't good for y'all can tell you that right now. 1077 01:17:14,479 --> 01:17:16,360 Speaker 1: I've wanted a whole lot of stuff turned out not 1078 01:17:16,439 --> 01:17:19,360 Speaker 1: to be good for me. But everything you've needed God 1079 01:17:19,439 --> 01:17:24,760 Speaker 1: has taken care of. So being anxious for his will 1080 01:17:24,880 --> 01:17:27,560 Speaker 1: to be done I mean, I mean being anxious for 1081 01:17:27,760 --> 01:17:31,200 Speaker 1: Him to do something in your life, which is something 1082 01:17:31,320 --> 01:17:36,360 Speaker 1: He's always done. It just exhibits a lack of faith 1083 01:17:36,479 --> 01:17:41,040 Speaker 1: when you become anxious for stuff. The second part of 1084 01:17:41,120 --> 01:17:45,960 Speaker 1: it is is it causes you to lose focus on 1085 01:17:46,160 --> 01:17:50,360 Speaker 1: what you already have. And once you lose focus for 1086 01:17:50,479 --> 01:17:54,439 Speaker 1: what you already have, you are no longer showing the 1087 01:17:54,600 --> 01:17:58,559 Speaker 1: level of gratitude that you need to exhibit in order 1088 01:17:58,640 --> 01:18:01,920 Speaker 1: to move your life forward to the next level. That's 1089 01:18:02,040 --> 01:18:05,800 Speaker 1: a dangerous trap, and I find myself in it oftentimes, 1090 01:18:06,120 --> 01:18:08,519 Speaker 1: and I'm just gonna be I'm just gonna be honest 1091 01:18:08,560 --> 01:18:12,400 Speaker 1: with you. So what I'm trying to learn and teach 1092 01:18:12,520 --> 01:18:15,600 Speaker 1: myself and become comfortable with it, it's how not to 1093 01:18:15,720 --> 01:18:19,280 Speaker 1: be anxious for nothing. Realizing that God has always taken 1094 01:18:19,360 --> 01:18:21,920 Speaker 1: care of me. God has always taken care of you. 1095 01:18:22,439 --> 01:18:25,320 Speaker 1: God has never been late in this world. He ain't 1096 01:18:25,360 --> 01:18:29,840 Speaker 1: ever been late, not now single time. He always comes 1097 01:18:29,920 --> 01:18:32,840 Speaker 1: through with everything you need. He may not come when 1098 01:18:32,880 --> 01:18:36,479 Speaker 1: you want him, but he ain't never laid. So I 1099 01:18:36,600 --> 01:18:40,800 Speaker 1: have to get comfortable in knowing that He has always 1100 01:18:40,920 --> 01:18:44,320 Speaker 1: come through for me. He has always delivered for me. 1101 01:18:44,880 --> 01:18:48,160 Speaker 1: So why am I being anxious? And in my anxiousness 1102 01:18:48,280 --> 01:18:51,600 Speaker 1: for what I don't have, I now cause myself to 1103 01:18:51,760 --> 01:18:55,240 Speaker 1: lose sight and show the proper mind of gratitude for 1104 01:18:55,400 --> 01:18:59,240 Speaker 1: what I do have. And gratitude is one of the 1105 01:18:59,400 --> 01:19:03,840 Speaker 1: major opponents of the principles of success, because the more 1106 01:19:03,960 --> 01:19:06,680 Speaker 1: you are grateful for, the more God will give you 1107 01:19:06,840 --> 01:19:11,240 Speaker 1: to be grateful for. You. See, So sometimes I trick 1108 01:19:11,400 --> 01:19:18,240 Speaker 1: myself out of blessing by overthinking it, over wanting it. 1109 01:19:18,439 --> 01:19:20,320 Speaker 1: I mean, I'm not saying you're not supposed to want 1110 01:19:20,320 --> 01:19:23,320 Speaker 1: anything anymore. You will, but don't be anxious for it. 1111 01:19:23,400 --> 01:19:26,600 Speaker 1: Don't be sitting up fretting about it. He gonna do 1112 01:19:26,680 --> 01:19:30,320 Speaker 1: what he's supposed to do. And then, in another word, 1113 01:19:30,439 --> 01:19:36,120 Speaker 1: God don't really need your help to accomplish nothing. He 1114 01:19:36,280 --> 01:19:38,760 Speaker 1: really don't he can get all this done without you 1115 01:19:40,600 --> 01:19:44,599 Speaker 1: get out of the way. So you know, though, that's 1116 01:19:44,720 --> 01:19:48,760 Speaker 1: something right there. It's been one of the main focuses. 1117 01:19:49,680 --> 01:19:53,919 Speaker 1: And when I get it right, when I'm not anxious 1118 01:19:54,000 --> 01:19:56,960 Speaker 1: for nothing, and I do show the right amount of 1119 01:19:57,040 --> 01:20:02,759 Speaker 1: gratitude for what I've already been given, it releases pressure 1120 01:20:02,840 --> 01:20:06,720 Speaker 1: from me. You know, you've heard old people say, if 1121 01:20:06,760 --> 01:20:08,760 Speaker 1: you're gonna pray about it, don't worry about it, and 1122 01:20:08,800 --> 01:20:10,800 Speaker 1: if you're gonna weary about it, don't pray about it. 1123 01:20:12,120 --> 01:20:15,240 Speaker 1: And you know, sometimes in my anxiousness, I'm praying for 1124 01:20:15,360 --> 01:20:17,960 Speaker 1: stuff over and over and over. But you know, if 1125 01:20:17,960 --> 01:20:20,160 Speaker 1: you're gonna pray about it, you got you got, you 1126 01:20:20,280 --> 01:20:23,560 Speaker 1: gotta not worrying about it. But if you're anxious for 1127 01:20:23,720 --> 01:20:27,320 Speaker 1: something you're worrying about it, you're just worrying about it. 1128 01:20:28,560 --> 01:20:31,519 Speaker 1: And that right there is not the way that it's done. 1129 01:20:31,960 --> 01:20:34,360 Speaker 1: It's just not the way it's done. And I've been 1130 01:20:34,520 --> 01:20:38,519 Speaker 1: learning over the past month or so really how to 1131 01:20:38,720 --> 01:20:42,840 Speaker 1: focus on that a lot better. And that may be 1132 01:20:43,040 --> 01:20:46,000 Speaker 1: something that you might be looking at two or going through, 1133 01:20:46,080 --> 01:20:48,880 Speaker 1: and I just wanted to share that with you because 1134 01:20:48,960 --> 01:20:50,960 Speaker 1: you know, it could be something that you might be 1135 01:20:51,080 --> 01:20:53,240 Speaker 1: dealing with two and I'm just sharing with you that 1136 01:20:53,320 --> 01:20:55,760 Speaker 1: you ain't the only one going through it. You ain't 1137 01:20:55,760 --> 01:20:58,040 Speaker 1: the only one feeling some kind of way about it 1138 01:20:59,000 --> 01:21:03,080 Speaker 1: that in actual a lot of people might be doing 1139 01:21:03,120 --> 01:21:05,720 Speaker 1: it and we and we're doing it injustice to ourselves. 1140 01:21:05,800 --> 01:21:09,160 Speaker 1: So be anxious for nothing, trusting the fact that God 1141 01:21:09,240 --> 01:21:12,960 Speaker 1: has always taken care of you, way better than you've 1142 01:21:13,040 --> 01:21:16,720 Speaker 1: taken care of yourself. Those are my closing moments. Hey man, 1143 01:21:16,920 --> 01:21:23,920 Speaker 1: Steve dropped that. That is the thing that I'm rapidly 1144 01:21:24,040 --> 01:21:27,760 Speaker 1: with a lot lately. Okay, we're all about it, and 1145 01:21:27,840 --> 01:21:30,599 Speaker 1: don't that's right. Well, I have a great week here 1146 01:21:50,800 --> 01:21:54,280 Speaker 1: for all. 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