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Speaker 1: Second date Update. Today's second date update is kind of
Speaker 1: the anti second date update. What means the girl on
Speaker 1: the phone doesn't want a date with the guy that
Speaker 1: she wants us to call, but she does want some clarification.
Speaker 1: Her name is Steph. Steph, how are you? I'm good?
Speaker 1: How are you not too bad? Um? So this is
Speaker 1: a different kind of second date update. Huh yeah, I
Speaker 1: like how you're laughing. Thanks. Um, it's just a crazy situation.
Speaker 1: That's really why I'm calling you, guys, is because there's
Speaker 1: nothing in the handbook about how to take care of this.
Speaker 1: What situation are you talking about? Well, I'm a teacher,
Speaker 1: and um, you know, I have some lovely students and everything,
Speaker 1: and but I'm single. So on the weekends I go out.
Speaker 1: Can I get a little pta conference? Okay, well no
Speaker 1: you may not. So you're a teacher and you have
Speaker 1: great students, yeah, but you know I am single. So
Speaker 1: I go out on the weekends and I was at
Speaker 1: this bar with my friends and this guy comes up
Speaker 1: to me and he's like, hey, do I know you?
Speaker 1: And I'm like, uh, that's a pickup line or something,
Speaker 1: you know, because I didn't recognize the guy right and
Speaker 1: and he goes, you're my son's teacher. Oh okay, okay,
Speaker 1: So ends up he actually is his son, Noah is
Speaker 1: in my class. So I'm hanging with my friends, and
Speaker 1: then you know, he just sort of interjects himself into
Speaker 1: the conversation and is asking all kinds of questions, trying
Speaker 1: to like actually get to know me, and he he's
Speaker 1: crossing that parent teacher Lyne. You know, it's becoming a
Speaker 1: little bit more intimateent and all of a sudden, he's
Speaker 1: like asking if he could buy me a drink, and
Speaker 1: you know, I say, no, I don't want to drink.
Speaker 1: I don't want to have that kind of a relationship
Speaker 1: with him, um, which means he's not cute enough, right well,
Speaker 1: I mean he's decent looking, but I just I don't
Speaker 1: want to date the father of one of my students.
Speaker 1: Have you ever done that before? No? No, no, I
Speaker 1: have not. I have a co worker who did, and
Speaker 1: she's no longer a teacher because of it. So I
Speaker 1: just distanced myself, you know. Okay, so he was just
Speaker 1: like giving you the hard press, and I wanted to
Speaker 1: buy you drinks and stuff, yes, and you know, I
Speaker 1: clearly said no, that's okay. I've got my own money.
Speaker 1: I can I can get my own drinks. And then
Speaker 1: he ends up ordering shots for all of us. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean it kind of seems like he was trying
Speaker 1: to get me drunk. I don't know, it just I
Speaker 1: had that feeling it. I just didn't want to know.
Speaker 1: I didn't want that. So did you explain your boundaries
Speaker 1: to him? Well, I was trying, he just was not listening.
Speaker 1: I wanted to be nice because he is the father
Speaker 1: of one of my students, and I didn't want to
Speaker 1: cause a rift. But he actually asked if we could,
Speaker 1: me and him could actually go somewhere private and talk
Speaker 1: and get away from my friend. So he was like,
Speaker 1: just come on, let's just sit at the table and
Speaker 1: just get to know each other. And I was trying
Speaker 1: to be nice, so I said, okay, we'll sit for
Speaker 1: a few minutes, but then I have to leave, and
Speaker 1: I just kind of made a signal to my friends
Speaker 1: and I kind of saved me, rescue me. But they
Speaker 1: were laughing. They were laughing at me. It was hilarious.
Speaker 1: I would have done the same thing if I was
Speaker 1: your friend. I really had no choice. So I sat
Speaker 1: down and talked to him, and he's asking all kinds
Speaker 1: of questions and yeah, it must be it must be
Speaker 1: awkward when you go to class enough to teach his son. Now, yeah,
Speaker 1: it's very, very awkward. But that's not the end of it.
Speaker 1: I finally, I finally escaped. Essentially, it felt like I
Speaker 1: was having to escape. And then he offered to take
Speaker 1: me home and I was like, no, I've got to
Speaker 1: ride with my friends. And he's like, well, hey, you know,
Speaker 1: why don't we just buy some shots and then head
Speaker 1: on over to my place and just keep the party going. Wow.
Speaker 1: I was like no, So I get out of that,
Speaker 1: and a couple of days later, he starts texting me.
Speaker 1: Here's the creepy part. I don't my cell phone is
Speaker 1: not public knowledge it. I have a schooline that they
Speaker 1: can call, but my cellphone is not public. So wait,
Speaker 1: did you give him your number? No? I did not.
Speaker 1: Do you think one of your friends gave him your
Speaker 1: number trying to mess with you? I don't know, but
Speaker 1: he somehow got my number and he's texting, Okay, no,
Speaker 1: that was great the other night. Why don't we continue on,
Speaker 1: Let's go on another day. T know, let's I've got
Speaker 1: some ideas, and I'm just like that, can't Why can't
Speaker 1: do that? Are you responding to him? No, I don't
Speaker 1: know what to say to him. That's That's exactly why
Speaker 1: I'm calling you, guys, just because I don't know why
Speaker 1: to do. I mean, there's that fine line and this
Speaker 1: is this is such a freaking awkward position. And you know,
Speaker 1: he keeps asking me if we can go on another date.
Speaker 1: We've never even done on my first date, so he
Speaker 1: thinks you're He obviously thinks that your hangout when he
Speaker 1: saw you at the bar and tried to get you
Speaker 1: drunk and take you home was a date. Yes, he
Speaker 1: thought that was a date and it was not an
Speaker 1: actual date. We did not ask me out. I did
Speaker 1: not say yes. I actually was telling him no the
Speaker 1: whole night and he I don't know why no means
Speaker 1: yes to him, but that's what he's hearing. And I
Speaker 1: don't know he's delusional. And why haven't you just texted
Speaker 1: him and said stop? Because I just don't want to
Speaker 1: talk to him. I don't want to engage with him.
Speaker 1: I don't want to I just don't want to continue
Speaker 1: the conversation. I just need I need you, guys. So
Speaker 1: you want us to call him and tell him that you, guys,
Speaker 1: never went on a first date to begin with, and no,
Speaker 1: there will not be a second date or any other
Speaker 1: dates in the future. Are you guys able to do that? Absolutely?
Speaker 1: Will play a song, come back, and then call this
Speaker 1: guy and tell him why you're not calling him back.
Speaker 1: It's way different than any second day update we've ever done,
Speaker 1: but we'll do it right after this thank you drunking
Speaker 1: jubil in the morning. I'm actually excited to call this
Speaker 1: guy for the second date update today because I always
Speaker 1: wonder what goes through dude's heads when they won't leave
Speaker 1: a girl alone when they obviously don't want to go
Speaker 1: out with them again. And I'm wondering what is going
Speaker 1: through this guy's mind if you're unaware of what's going on.
Speaker 1: Steph called us for a second date update. The only
Speaker 1: problem is it's not a traditional second date update because
Speaker 1: she never actually went out on a date with the
Speaker 1: guy that she wants to call, and she was out
Speaker 1: at a bar one night, guy came up to her
Speaker 1: and said, hey, you're my son's teacher, and then started
Speaker 1: buying her a bunch of drinks and trying to get
Speaker 1: her drunk. Even suggested going back to his place. She
Speaker 1: said no, and then somehow he got her phone number
Speaker 1: and has been texting her NonStop to go out on
Speaker 1: quote another date. So he thought that was a date,
Speaker 1: and now he's trying to get a second date, and
Speaker 1: she wants us to call him and say go away.
Speaker 1: I think what I'd like to do, unless you're against it.
Speaker 1: I want to do this like we do a traditional
Speaker 1: second date. Update. All right, I'm not going to call
Speaker 1: the guy and tell him to go away right away.
Speaker 1: I'll be like you went on a date with Steph,
Speaker 1: so that we can hear him actually break down the
Speaker 1: date that he thinks she went on before we tell
Speaker 1: him to get lost. Can we do that? You know,
Speaker 1: whatever works? I mean, as long as you can just
Speaker 1: get the creeps to back off. Wonderful, Thank you, I
Speaker 1: appreciate it. All right, I'm gonna make the call right now. Hello.
Speaker 1: Hi is this Chris? Yeah, Hey, Chris, how you doing.
Speaker 1: I've been looking for you? Why? Well, this is jewel
Speaker 1: from brook and Jewel in the morning. Are you serious? Yeah? Man,
Speaker 1: how are you okay? You guys are calling me from
Speaker 1: the radio station? Yeah? Actually, I wanted to call you
Speaker 1: about a date you recently went on. I heard that
Speaker 1: you recently went out on a date with one of
Speaker 1: your son's teachers. Yeah. How did you hear about that? Oh?
Speaker 1: Because Steph, the woman who you went out on a
Speaker 1: date with, actually emailed us and asked us to call you. Um,
Speaker 1: I mean as weird as she would email guys. Okay, yeah, Well,
Speaker 1: she wanted us to find out why you guys haven't
Speaker 1: had a second date yet. You serious? Yeah? Yeah. We
Speaker 1: talked to her a little bit about the first time
Speaker 1: you guys hung out, and she told us about your date,
Speaker 1: and she's wondering why you guys haven't gone out again.
Speaker 1: Why didn't she just call me? I don't know, understand,
Speaker 1: I don't know, some maybe nerves or something like that.
Speaker 1: She wanted us to do it. I'm not really sure.
Speaker 1: Did you like going on a date with her? Yeah?
Speaker 1: I mean she's nice. She hasn't really been in touch
Speaker 1: with me, so I kind of want to you know,
Speaker 1: things kind of just fizzled out. I wanted to Oh weird,
Speaker 1: she didn't tell us that. She just told us that
Speaker 1: she went on a date with you and wanted us
Speaker 1: to get you on the phone. Oh that's cool. I mean,
Speaker 1: like I said, she hadn't got back to me, so
Speaker 1: I thought she just wasn't interested in me. You know, Yeah,
Speaker 1: maybe she wanted to do it this way. So anyway,
Speaker 1: tell us about that day with her. Yeah, we went
Speaker 1: to a bar and you know, just hanging out. You know,
Speaker 1: I had a couple of drinks and you know, you
Speaker 1: guys actually went to a bar together. Yeah, I mean,
Speaker 1: you know it was we were at the bar together.
Speaker 1: So oh, okay, okay, that's cool. Bar is always a
Speaker 1: good place for a first date. Yeah, I think so,
Speaker 1: you know, nice lively people having fun, dance and drinking.
Speaker 1: You know. Okay, but Chris, what made you think that
Speaker 1: you guys had a connection. Well, you know, we were again,
Speaker 1: we were having drinks and we were talking and you know,
Speaker 1: so you guys hung out and talked, and she said
Speaker 1: that at the end of the night you did ask
Speaker 1: her to go back to your place. Yeah, you know,
Speaker 1: I kind of felt that party could have kept going,
Speaker 1: so we just invited her back to my place, and
Speaker 1: that's when she kind of lost interest or I don't know,
Speaker 1: it just seemed weird at that point. That's interesting because
Speaker 1: you feel like she likes you. Yeah, I thought everything
Speaker 1: was fine to that point. I don't Maybe she was
Speaker 1: just tired. I don't know. Yeah, it could be. Let
Speaker 1: me ask you, what were you Where are you hoping
Speaker 1: to get from all this just to like hook up
Speaker 1: with your son's teacher or actually like date her. Well,
Speaker 1: the thing is, you know, you know, my son is
Speaker 1: in her class. I mean my plan was I kind
Speaker 1: of had a plan to get her a couple of drinks,
Speaker 1: you know, be nice and kind of hang out because
Speaker 1: my son's having a little bit of trouble in her class.
Speaker 1: So I was hoping that maybe, you know, if things
Speaker 1: went well between us, not only would I be able
Speaker 1: to hook up with her because she's you know, she's attractive,
Speaker 1: but that my son would maybe you know, show him
Speaker 1: a little bit more you know, attention, you know, help
Speaker 1: him get along a little better. Wait a second, are
Speaker 1: you saying that you wanted to go out with her
Speaker 1: to help your son do better in school? I mean yeah,
Speaker 1: but also I mean she again, she's attractive, She wasn't attractive,
Speaker 1: I would have done it. But yeah, okay, Chris, I
Speaker 1: do have another question for you too, Like, at the
Speaker 1: end of the night, when you got her phone number
Speaker 1: from her, were you excited about that? Um? Yeah, that's interesting.
Speaker 1: That's interesting because she told us she never gave you
Speaker 1: her phone number. I mean technically she didn't. Technical okay,
Speaker 1: So how did you get her number? Then? You know, Um,
Speaker 1: I just just came upon it, you know, I just
Speaker 1: found it. You know what, you just found her number.
Speaker 1: You are so creepy right now? How did you give
Speaker 1: her number? At this point? I don't think it matters.
Speaker 1: I mean, she obviously wants to go out on a
Speaker 1: second date because she had you guys call, So you
Speaker 1: know what, I'd rather not comment on what you just said.
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna let her do it because Steph is
Speaker 1: actually on the other line listening right now, and I
Speaker 1: would like to talk to you. Wait what yeah, Steph,
Speaker 1: you're there? Hi, Chris? Hi? What what's going on? Well
Speaker 1: that's actually my question to you, Chris, What is going on?
Speaker 1: I don't I don't know what you mean. First off,
Speaker 1: we were never on a date. Our paths crossed in
Speaker 1: a bar and we just happened upon each other. That's life.
Speaker 1: That does not mean that we went on a first date.
Speaker 1: Even if we had a conversation and there were drinks
Speaker 1: in our hands, that does not mean that we were
Speaker 1: on a date. That's kind of where you're saying this now.
Speaker 1: I mean, because you know what I thought youbody listening,
Speaker 1: because the other night you were, you were flirting and
Speaker 1: everything was fine. Okay, Chris, let me spell it out
Speaker 1: for you. I am your son's teacher. I am not
Speaker 1: a girl for you, okay. And second of all, I
Speaker 1: don't know how you got my phone number, but you
Speaker 1: better delete it and you better not contact me ever again.
Speaker 1: There is a phone number at school that you can
Speaker 1: reach me and leave a voicemail if it pertains to
Speaker 1: your son. And third of all, do not use me
Speaker 1: as some kind of boy to get better grades for
Speaker 1: your son. Yeah, your friends didn't tell me you play
Speaker 1: hard to get. This is kind of you know, this
Speaker 1: is kind of cool. Her friends told you that she'd
Speaker 1: play hard to get. Oh yeah, yeah, they're the ones
Speaker 1: that gave me the number. They said she would, you know,
Speaker 1: be like this, all right, I think we finally figured
Speaker 1: out what happened Chris, I think you were set up, man.
Speaker 1: I think, well both of you guys were actually set up. Uh. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I honestly don't know what the hell is going on here.
Speaker 1: I think that Steph was not into you, and her
Speaker 1: friends knew that, so they gave you her phone number
Speaker 1: so that you would bug her Steph. Does that sound right? Yeah?
Speaker 1: It sounds about right. Oh, I get it. Yeah, they
Speaker 1: did this whole thing to set it up so we
Speaker 1: can actually get together. I got it. No, no, no,
Speaker 1: just ignore everything that my friends said. Okay, I can
Speaker 1: do that. I think, uh, we actually need to discuss
Speaker 1: it over like a beer or something. Not getting it.
Speaker 1: I am not interested. I'm not interested, okay, okay, wow?
Speaker 1: So what about my kid though? How's that? What are you?
Speaker 1: Are you still trying to get better grades for your kid? Chris?
Speaker 1: I think you've lost this whole battle man. All right?
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, Well, I just you know, I heard
Speaker 1: she favors of the kids. I just to favor my
Speaker 1: kids the same with me. I okay. I don't know
Speaker 1: where you heard that, but I treat every one of
Speaker 1: my students with respect and dignity, and I treat them
Speaker 1: all the same. They just weren't. Differently, that is not
Speaker 1: called favor and it's called being a teacher. But stuff.
Speaker 1: Aren't you glad that you finally have an involved parent? Though?
Speaker 1: Oh my god, yeah, teachers always want that. I guess
Speaker 1: not in this case. I always have to ask this
Speaker 1: question on the second date. Maybe I'll ask it a
Speaker 1: little differently for this one. Chris, would you like to
Speaker 1: not go out on a date with staff? We will
Speaker 1: not pay for it? And Staff, would you like to
Speaker 1: not go on a date with Chris? We will not
Speaker 1: pay for it? Yes, okay, wonderful. I'm raa have to
Speaker 1: say knows of the first question and yeah to the
Speaker 1: second question. But I mean, I'm still not sure what
Speaker 1: it really means. Well, I just think it means that
Speaker 1: you guys aren't going to go out on a date.
Speaker 1: So will you stop texting Steph? Chris? I mean, I
Speaker 1: guess I can stop texting her. I mean, I don't
Speaker 1: really understand what happened. I know, I know, broken jewel
Speaker 1: in the morning,