WEBVTT - 2nd Date Update PODCAST: Teacher Gets Hit On At The Bar

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<v Speaker 1>Second date Update. Today's second date update is kind of

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<v Speaker 1>the anti second date update. What means the girl on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone doesn't want a date with the guy that

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<v Speaker 1>she wants us to call, but she does want some clarification.

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<v Speaker 1>Her name is Steph. Steph, how are you? I'm good?

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<v Speaker 1>How are you not too bad? Um? So this is

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<v Speaker 1>a different kind of second date update. Huh yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>like how you're laughing. Thanks. Um, it's just a crazy situation.

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<v Speaker 1>That's really why I'm calling you, guys, is because there's

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<v Speaker 1>nothing in the handbook about how to take care of this.

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<v Speaker 1>What situation are you talking about? Well, I'm a teacher,

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<v Speaker 1>and um, you know, I have some lovely students and everything,

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<v Speaker 1>and but I'm single. So on the weekends I go out.

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<v Speaker 1>Can I get a little pta conference? Okay, well no

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<v Speaker 1>you may not. So you're a teacher and you have

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<v Speaker 1>great students, yeah, but you know I am single. So

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<v Speaker 1>I go out on the weekends and I was at

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<v Speaker 1>this bar with my friends and this guy comes up

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<v Speaker 1>to me and he's like, hey, do I know you?

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm like, uh, that's a pickup line or something,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, because I didn't recognize the guy right and

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<v Speaker 1>and he goes, you're my son's teacher. Oh okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So ends up he actually is his son, Noah is

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<v Speaker 1>in my class. So I'm hanging with my friends, and

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<v Speaker 1>then you know, he just sort of interjects himself into

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<v Speaker 1>the conversation and is asking all kinds of questions, trying

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<v Speaker 1>to like actually get to know me, and he he's

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<v Speaker 1>crossing that parent teacher Lyne. You know, it's becoming a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit more intimateent and all of a sudden, he's

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<v Speaker 1>like asking if he could buy me a drink, and

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I say, no, I don't want to drink.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to have that kind of a relationship

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<v Speaker 1>with him, um, which means he's not cute enough, right well,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean he's decent looking, but I just I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to date the father of one of my students.

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<v Speaker 1>Have you ever done that before? No? No, no, I

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<v Speaker 1>have not. I have a co worker who did, and

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<v Speaker 1>she's no longer a teacher because of it. So I

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<v Speaker 1>just distanced myself, you know. Okay, so he was just

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<v Speaker 1>like giving you the hard press, and I wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>buy you drinks and stuff, yes, and you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>clearly said no, that's okay. I've got my own money.

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<v Speaker 1>I can I can get my own drinks. And then

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<v Speaker 1>he ends up ordering shots for all of us. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean it kind of seems like he was trying

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<v Speaker 1>to get me drunk. I don't know, it just I

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<v Speaker 1>had that feeling it. I just didn't want to know.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't want that. So did you explain your boundaries

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<v Speaker 1>to him? Well, I was trying, he just was not listening.

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to be nice because he is the father

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<v Speaker 1>of one of my students, and I didn't want to

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<v Speaker 1>cause a rift. But he actually asked if we could,

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<v Speaker 1>me and him could actually go somewhere private and talk

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<v Speaker 1>and get away from my friend. So he was like,

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<v Speaker 1>just come on, let's just sit at the table and

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<v Speaker 1>just get to know each other. And I was trying

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<v Speaker 1>to be nice, so I said, okay, we'll sit for

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<v Speaker 1>a few minutes, but then I have to leave, and

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<v Speaker 1>I just kind of made a signal to my friends

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<v Speaker 1>and I kind of saved me, rescue me. But they

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<v Speaker 1>were laughing. They were laughing at me. It was hilarious.

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<v Speaker 1>I would have done the same thing if I was

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<v Speaker 1>your friend. I really had no choice. So I sat

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<v Speaker 1>down and talked to him, and he's asking all kinds

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<v Speaker 1>of questions and yeah, it must be it must be

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<v Speaker 1>awkward when you go to class enough to teach his son. Now, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's very, very awkward. But that's not the end of it.

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<v Speaker 1>I finally, I finally escaped. Essentially, it felt like I

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<v Speaker 1>was having to escape. And then he offered to take

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<v Speaker 1>me home and I was like, no, I've got to

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<v Speaker 1>ride with my friends. And he's like, well, hey, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>why don't we just buy some shots and then head

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<v Speaker 1>on over to my place and just keep the party going. Wow.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like no, So I get out of that,

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<v Speaker 1>and a couple of days later, he starts texting me.

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<v Speaker 1>Here's the creepy part. I don't my cell phone is

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<v Speaker 1>not public knowledge it. I have a schooline that they

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<v Speaker 1>can call, but my cellphone is not public. So wait,

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<v Speaker 1>did you give him your number? No? I did not.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you think one of your friends gave him your

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<v Speaker 1>number trying to mess with you? I don't know, but

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<v Speaker 1>he somehow got my number and he's texting, Okay, no,

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<v Speaker 1>that was great the other night. Why don't we continue on,

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<v Speaker 1>Let's go on another day. T know, let's I've got

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<v Speaker 1>some ideas, and I'm just like that, can't Why can't

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<v Speaker 1>do that? Are you responding to him? No, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know what to say to him. That's That's exactly why

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<v Speaker 1>I'm calling you, guys, just because I don't know why

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<v Speaker 1>to do. I mean, there's that fine line and this

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<v Speaker 1>is this is such a freaking awkward position. And you know,

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<v Speaker 1>he keeps asking me if we can go on another date.

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<v Speaker 1>We've never even done on my first date, so he

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<v Speaker 1>thinks you're He obviously thinks that your hangout when he

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<v Speaker 1>saw you at the bar and tried to get you

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<v Speaker 1>drunk and take you home was a date. Yes, he

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<v Speaker 1>thought that was a date and it was not an

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<v Speaker 1>actual date. We did not ask me out. I did

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<v Speaker 1>not say yes. I actually was telling him no the

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<v Speaker 1>whole night and he I don't know why no means

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<v Speaker 1>yes to him, but that's what he's hearing. And I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know he's delusional. And why haven't you just texted

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<v Speaker 1>him and said stop? Because I just don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>talk to him. I don't want to engage with him.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to I just don't want to continue

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<v Speaker 1>the conversation. I just need I need you, guys. So

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<v Speaker 1>you want us to call him and tell him that you, guys,

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<v Speaker 1>never went on a first date to begin with, and no,

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<v Speaker 1>there will not be a second date or any other

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<v Speaker 1>dates in the future. Are you guys able to do that? Absolutely?

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<v Speaker 1>Will play a song, come back, and then call this

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<v Speaker 1>guy and tell him why you're not calling him back.

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<v Speaker 1>It's way different than any second day update we've ever done,

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<v Speaker 1>but we'll do it right after this thank you drunking

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<v Speaker 1>jubil in the morning. I'm actually excited to call this

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<v Speaker 1>guy for the second date update today because I always

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<v Speaker 1>wonder what goes through dude's heads when they won't leave

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<v Speaker 1>a girl alone when they obviously don't want to go

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<v Speaker 1>out with them again. And I'm wondering what is going

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<v Speaker 1>through this guy's mind if you're unaware of what's going on.

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<v Speaker 1>Steph called us for a second date update. The only

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<v Speaker 1>problem is it's not a traditional second date update because

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<v Speaker 1>she never actually went out on a date with the

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<v Speaker 1>guy that she wants to call, and she was out

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<v Speaker 1>at a bar one night, guy came up to her

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<v Speaker 1>and said, hey, you're my son's teacher, and then started

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<v Speaker 1>buying her a bunch of drinks and trying to get

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<v Speaker 1>her drunk. Even suggested going back to his place. She

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<v Speaker 1>said no, and then somehow he got her phone number

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<v Speaker 1>and has been texting her NonStop to go out on

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<v Speaker 1>quote another date. So he thought that was a date,

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<v Speaker 1>and now he's trying to get a second date, and

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<v Speaker 1>she wants us to call him and say go away.

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<v Speaker 1>I think what I'd like to do, unless you're against it.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to do this like we do a traditional

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<v Speaker 1>second date. Update. All right, I'm not going to call

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<v Speaker 1>the guy and tell him to go away right away.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll be like you went on a date with Steph,

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<v Speaker 1>so that we can hear him actually break down the

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<v Speaker 1>date that he thinks she went on before we tell

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<v Speaker 1>him to get lost. Can we do that? You know,

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<v Speaker 1>whatever works? I mean, as long as you can just

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<v Speaker 1>get the creeps to back off. Wonderful, Thank you, I

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<v Speaker 1>appreciate it. All right, I'm gonna make the call right now. Hello.

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<v Speaker 1>Hi is this Chris? Yeah, Hey, Chris, how you doing.

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<v Speaker 1>I've been looking for you? Why? Well, this is jewel

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<v Speaker 1>from brook and Jewel in the morning. Are you serious? Yeah? Man,

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<v Speaker 1>how are you okay? You guys are calling me from

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<v Speaker 1>the radio station? Yeah? Actually, I wanted to call you

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<v Speaker 1>about a date you recently went on. I heard that

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<v Speaker 1>you recently went out on a date with one of

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<v Speaker 1>your son's teachers. Yeah. How did you hear about that? Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>Because Steph, the woman who you went out on a

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<v Speaker 1>date with, actually emailed us and asked us to call you. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean as weird as she would email guys. Okay, yeah, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>she wanted us to find out why you guys haven't

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<v Speaker 1>had a second date yet. You serious? Yeah? Yeah. We

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<v Speaker 1>talked to her a little bit about the first time

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<v Speaker 1>you guys hung out, and she told us about your date,

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<v Speaker 1>and she's wondering why you guys haven't gone out again.

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<v Speaker 1>Why didn't she just call me? I don't know, understand,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, some maybe nerves or something like that.

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<v Speaker 1>She wanted us to do it. I'm not really sure.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you like going on a date with her? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean she's nice. She hasn't really been in touch

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<v Speaker 1>with me, so I kind of want to you know,

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<v Speaker 1>things kind of just fizzled out. I wanted to Oh weird,

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<v Speaker 1>she didn't tell us that. She just told us that

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<v Speaker 1>she went on a date with you and wanted us

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<v Speaker 1>to get you on the phone. Oh that's cool. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>like I said, she hadn't got back to me, so

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<v Speaker 1>I thought she just wasn't interested in me. You know, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe she wanted to do it this way. So anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>tell us about that day with her. Yeah, we went

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<v Speaker 1>to a bar and you know, just hanging out. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>I had a couple of drinks and you know, you

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<v Speaker 1>guys actually went to a bar together. Yeah, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>you know it was we were at the bar together.

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<v Speaker 1>So oh, okay, okay, that's cool. Bar is always a

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<v Speaker 1>good place for a first date. Yeah, I think so,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, nice lively people having fun, dance and drinking.

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<v Speaker 1>You know. Okay, but Chris, what made you think that

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<v Speaker 1>you guys had a connection. Well, you know, we were again,

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<v Speaker 1>we were having drinks and we were talking and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>so you guys hung out and talked, and she said

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<v Speaker 1>that at the end of the night you did ask

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<v Speaker 1>her to go back to your place. Yeah, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I kind of felt that party could have kept going,

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<v Speaker 1>so we just invited her back to my place, and

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<v Speaker 1>that's when she kind of lost interest or I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>it just seemed weird at that point. That's interesting because

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<v Speaker 1>you feel like she likes you. Yeah, I thought everything

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<v Speaker 1>was fine to that point. I don't Maybe she was

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<v Speaker 1>just tired. I don't know. Yeah, it could be. Let

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<v Speaker 1>me ask you, what were you Where are you hoping

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<v Speaker 1>to get from all this just to like hook up

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<v Speaker 1>with your son's teacher or actually like date her. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>the thing is, you know, you know, my son is

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<v Speaker 1>in her class. I mean my plan was I kind

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<v Speaker 1>of had a plan to get her a couple of drinks,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, be nice and kind of hang out because

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<v Speaker 1>my son's having a little bit of trouble in her class.

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<v Speaker 1>So I was hoping that maybe, you know, if things

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<v Speaker 1>went well between us, not only would I be able

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<v Speaker 1>to hook up with her because she's you know, she's attractive,

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<v Speaker 1>but that my son would maybe you know, show him

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit more you know, attention, you know, help

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<v Speaker 1>him get along a little better. Wait a second, are

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<v Speaker 1>you saying that you wanted to go out with her

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<v Speaker 1>to help your son do better in school? I mean yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but also I mean she again, she's attractive, She wasn't attractive,

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<v Speaker 1>I would have done it. But yeah, okay, Chris, I

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<v Speaker 1>do have another question for you too, Like, at the

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<v Speaker 1>end of the night, when you got her phone number

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<v Speaker 1>from her, were you excited about that? Um? Yeah, that's interesting.

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<v Speaker 1>That's interesting because she told us she never gave you

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<v Speaker 1>her phone number. I mean technically she didn't. Technical okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So how did you get her number? Then? You know, Um,

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<v Speaker 1>I just just came upon it, you know, I just

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<v Speaker 1>found it. You know what, you just found her number.

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<v Speaker 1>You are so creepy right now? How did you give

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<v Speaker 1>her number? At this point? I don't think it matters.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, she obviously wants to go out on a

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<v Speaker 1>second date because she had you guys call, So you

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<v Speaker 1>know what, I'd rather not comment on what you just said.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just gonna let her do it because Steph is

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<v Speaker 1>actually on the other line listening right now, and I

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<v Speaker 1>would like to talk to you. Wait what yeah, Steph,

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<v Speaker 1>you're there? Hi, Chris? Hi? What what's going on? Well

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<v Speaker 1>that's actually my question to you, Chris, What is going on?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't I don't know what you mean. First off,

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<v Speaker 1>we were never on a date. Our paths crossed in

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<v Speaker 1>a bar and we just happened upon each other. That's life.

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<v Speaker 1>That does not mean that we went on a first date.

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<v Speaker 1>Even if we had a conversation and there were drinks

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<v Speaker 1>in our hands, that does not mean that we were

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<v Speaker 1>on a date. That's kind of where you're saying this now.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, because you know what I thought youbody listening,

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<v Speaker 1>because the other night you were, you were flirting and

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<v Speaker 1>everything was fine. Okay, Chris, let me spell it out

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<v Speaker 1>for you. I am your son's teacher. I am not

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<v Speaker 1>a girl for you, okay. And second of all, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know how you got my phone number, but you

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<v Speaker 1>better delete it and you better not contact me ever again.

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<v Speaker 1>There is a phone number at school that you can

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<v Speaker 1>reach me and leave a voicemail if it pertains to

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<v Speaker 1>your son. And third of all, do not use me

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<v Speaker 1>as some kind of boy to get better grades for

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<v Speaker 1>your son. Yeah, your friends didn't tell me you play

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<v Speaker 1>hard to get. This is kind of you know, this

0:12:49.480 --> 0:12:53.680
<v Speaker 1>is kind of cool. Her friends told you that she'd

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<v Speaker 1>play hard to get. Oh yeah, yeah, they're the ones

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<v Speaker 1>that gave me the number. They said she would, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>be like this, all right, I think we finally figured

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<v Speaker 1>out what happened Chris, I think you were set up, man.

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<v Speaker 1>I think, well both of you guys were actually set up. Uh. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I honestly don't know what the hell is going on here.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that Steph was not into you, and her

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<v Speaker 1>friends knew that, so they gave you her phone number

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<v Speaker 1>so that you would bug her Steph. Does that sound right? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>It sounds about right. Oh, I get it. Yeah, they

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<v Speaker 1>did this whole thing to set it up so we

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<v Speaker 1>can actually get together. I got it. No, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>just ignore everything that my friends said. Okay, I can

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<v Speaker 1>do that. I think, uh, we actually need to discuss

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<v Speaker 1>it over like a beer or something. Not getting it.

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<v Speaker 1>I am not interested. I'm not interested, okay, okay, wow?

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<v Speaker 1>So what about my kid though? How's that? What are you?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you still trying to get better grades for your kid? Chris?

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<v Speaker 1>I think you've lost this whole battle man. All right?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh, Well, I just you know, I heard

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<v Speaker 1>she favors of the kids. I just to favor my

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<v Speaker 1>kids the same with me. I okay. I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>where you heard that, but I treat every one of

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<v Speaker 1>my students with respect and dignity, and I treat them

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<v Speaker 1>all the same. They just weren't. Differently, that is not

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<v Speaker 1>called favor and it's called being a teacher. But stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>Aren't you glad that you finally have an involved parent? Though?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, yeah, teachers always want that. I guess

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<v Speaker 1>not in this case. I always have to ask this

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<v Speaker 1>question on the second date. Maybe I'll ask it a

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<v Speaker 1>little differently for this one. Chris, would you like to

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<v Speaker 1>not go out on a date with staff? We will

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<v Speaker 1>not pay for it? And Staff, would you like to

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<v Speaker 1>not go on a date with Chris? We will not

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<v Speaker 1>pay for it? Yes, okay, wonderful. I'm raa have to

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<v Speaker 1>say knows of the first question and yeah to the

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<v Speaker 1>second question. But I mean, I'm still not sure what

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<v Speaker 1>it really means. Well, I just think it means that

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<v Speaker 1>you guys aren't going to go out on a date.

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<v Speaker 1>So will you stop texting Steph? Chris? I mean, I

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<v Speaker 1>guess I can stop texting her. I mean, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>really understand what happened. I know, I know, broken jewel

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<v Speaker 1>in the morning,