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Speaker 1: I mean, I'm gonna sound like a like a jerk,

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Speaker 1: but I feel like the people who get super hype

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Speaker 1: about the high school re union are the people who

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Speaker 1: peaked Tonighthigh School Because like, I don't know, I don't

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Speaker 1: get I'm not really high about anything that happened twenty

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Speaker 2: I miss it so much.

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Speaker 1: High school, Yes, I see, I don't. It's so much better.

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Speaker 1: I left that place and they got better, better, better,

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Speaker 1: better better. Really, No, did you peak in high You

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Speaker 1: didn't look at you. You're here on this show. You

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Speaker 1: what don't I do? Philanthropist power suit wearing TV on

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Speaker 1: on Lady. So I would not say you peaked in

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Speaker 1: high school. You got a beautiful daughter and a husband.

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Speaker 3: I feel like that was just a time was had

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Speaker 3: and people say, oh, I went to college and had

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Speaker 2: It wasn't necessarily fun. It just was what it was,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, high school wasn't bad. I just was in no

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Speaker 1: very long time, Like what are we going to talk about?

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Speaker 1: You know, I don't know. It's very awkward.

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Speaker 1: And people were really offended that I wasn't into the

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Speaker 1: for the Fresh Show on demand. So guys, I want

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Speaker 1: to start the show. This made me laugh this morning

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Speaker 1: with this is how you know if you're old. Gen

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Speaker 1: Z has now defined how we know if someone's old.

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Speaker 1: If you don't have any numbers in your Gmail address,

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Speaker 1: then you're an OG. You're an og.

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Speaker 4: Now.

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Speaker 1: I'm not going to tell you what my Gmail is

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Speaker 1: because that's my private email and because there are no

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Speaker 1: numbers in it. Yeah you do, big daddy Fred Gmail

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Speaker 1: dot com with no. Sixty nine, no one, two, three four, nothing,

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Speaker 1: But think about that. You don't know.

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Speaker 2: But my name is spelled weird. There never will be numbers.

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Speaker 1: Gen Z professionals are using Gmail to determine their colleagues'

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Speaker 1: ages now. One Reddit poster shared an anecdote from work

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Speaker 1: explaining that they're gen Z. Coworker called him out for

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Speaker 1: I can remember this. This is terrible. I mean it

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Speaker 1: And the dude his name was Jose Brown and Jose goes, dude,

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Speaker 1: have you heard about this email where you get like

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Speaker 1: Like we barely have internet that this and dial up

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Speaker 1: I'll send you an invitation. It's invite only, oh stop.

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Speaker 1: And Gmail was invite only in the very beginning, and

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Speaker 1: you still use it I want to do. I'm not

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Speaker 1: going to change it because again I've had it's the

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Speaker 1: same like my phone number, unless you don't want people

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Speaker 6: I guess when I'm at Northstrum and I tell them

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Speaker 1: Like, you know, like brunette, see right, but that's what

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Speaker 1: I mean. Like, you got to go up there a minute.

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Speaker 1: What's your email? You know, tig Mama sixty nine sixty nine.

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Speaker 1: Sorry, big Mama sixty nine sixty nine. You know now

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Speaker 1: what I mean. At the time, you know, when you

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Speaker 1: But yeah, this was the post. It is that gen zer

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, I'm old. There are other ones like

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Speaker 1: if you have an AOL address, a badge of honor

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Speaker 1: at this point, if you have an earthlink dot net address,

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Speaker 1: What about Yahoo?

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Speaker 1: I feel embarrassed if I kind of nobody's using Yahoo?

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Speaker 8: Yeah, you and my mom mm hmm. And the address

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Speaker 8: is embarrassing. It's miss with the z lady B two k,

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Speaker 1: So you're like you are the doctor or whatever, and

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Speaker 1: they're like, hey, we're gonna send your results to an email.

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Speaker 1: What is your email address? You're like, miss lady, And.

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Speaker 8: Then I would try to spell it out so they

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Speaker 1: People always look at me like that's your email. I'm like, oh,

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Speaker 1: because again I'm not going to change it now. And

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Speaker 1: it's just one more thing I got to check I

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Speaker 1: I don't know how to get the Yahoo at all,

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Speaker 6: How you in college too, that like, when you leave college,

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Speaker 6: they're going to take that email away.

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Speaker 1: They don't always know. They don't always some colleges you

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Speaker 6: Okay for ours day. After a certain point, they're like,

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Speaker 9: So in all my notification stuff that I've printed, that

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Speaker 1: don't use this email anymore because it's embarrassing. But when

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Speaker 1: Jonah Brothers still am and my email was my name

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Speaker 1: You know, you got to go to the you're at

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Speaker 1: nordstrum and they're like, would you like to sign up

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Speaker 1: It's uh, fred fred at I love thespice girls dot net.

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Speaker 1: Yeah whatever, you know in his own No one you

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Speaker 1: can change. Someone just texted this too. You can change

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Speaker 1: your email address if you want to, because you have

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Speaker 1: twenty seven thousand un read emails anyway, so what difference

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Speaker 8: Yeah, man, there was a time in college where you

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Speaker 8: can get a free appetizer at tgif if you had

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Speaker 8: a new email and you signed up for their email. So, baby,

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Speaker 8: I had a new email every week, Go get my

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Speaker 8: free appetizer from CGI.

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Speaker 1: So I have plenty of email look accounts. I still

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Speaker 1: have the same email address that I set up when

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Speaker 1: I was sixteen years old through hotmail forty seven, and

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Speaker 1: I had set one up for each of my family members.

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Speaker 1: So it was our last name and then my I

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Speaker 1: was the number one at hotmail, my mom was last

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Speaker 1: name whatever. Okay, yeah, so thirty one years ago, So

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Speaker 1: that would be how you would do that, you know,

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Speaker 1: of it or whatever, and that's how we can now

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Speaker 1: tell that you were an old person already knew, but yeah,

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Speaker 1: I never thought about that, but I guess it's kind

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Speaker 1: of impressive. I have a Gmail that has no numbers

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Speaker 1: in its amazing. That's right. Yeah, I know. Thank you,

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Speaker 1: Thank you so much. I did that.

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Speaker 10: I did.

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Speaker 1: That's my new party trick now to impress all the

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Speaker 1: young uns. As if the gray Hair and the Gray

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Speaker 1: Beard didn't give it away. Good morning. Thank you so

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Speaker 1: No, but it doesn't look wrong because it looks perfect

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Speaker 1: I've acquired. It's on the way. It's friends, yes, yes, yes, hi.

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Speaker 1: that's right. Yeah, yes, Klen Kalen from that Klen? Are

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Speaker 5: Are you Kaitlyn Collins?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? No, Actually, are you come here?

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Speaker 5: Please?

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Speaker 1: I'd like to do it on her.

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Speaker 2: Is it true that your last piece isn't fully complete?

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Speaker 2: And how do you feel moving on to your next piece?

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Speaker 10: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: You know what, go full press secretary right now, be

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Speaker 1: I'm putting terrif on you. I put a four thousand

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Speaker 1: I would just I would look, I'd like to address that.

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Speaker 2: You put this together? Look at Yeah, you put this together.

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Speaker 1: But here's the thing. Do you see where the screen

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Speaker 1: is like like where the fake screen is and the

435
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Speaker 1: Lego screen the glue. Okay, oh my god, don't feed

436
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Speaker 1: your boyfriend the acids posit you your business. You know

437
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Speaker 1: what I'm gonna do. I'm gonna put together a little

438
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Speaker 1: Lego container for him. You need to for its depositories. Yeah, no,

439
00:19:18,520 --> 00:19:20,639
Speaker 1: where the screen is though, Like you have to be

440
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Speaker 1: a mechanical engineer to assemble that. Like it took like

441
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Speaker 1: three or four hours because everything moves, and there's there

442
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Speaker 1: are little gears and levers and light and there's a

443
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Speaker 1: light but like all and then there's a Okay, so

444
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Speaker 1: I think I may have said this before, but there's

445
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Speaker 1: a chain. There are chains that make that move behind it.

446
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Speaker 1: You can't see it inside the build. They don't send

447
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Speaker 1: you chains, they send you links. You have to put

448
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Speaker 1: the chain to everything. There's nothing comes assembled. You have

449
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Speaker 1: to put everything together.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, women in stem it makes me wonder

451
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Speaker 3: if something's wrong with me, because you guys seem like

452
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Speaker 3: you guys have the want, the will, the patience to

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Speaker 3: do this.

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Speaker 2: This doesn't excite me, like i' you got mad looking.

455
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Speaker 1: It's okay that it doesn't exciting kids. But see now

456
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Speaker 1: that I was I was educated about this. That's not

457
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Speaker 1: for kids. Like, yeah, I guess the black one. The

458
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Speaker 1: black boxes, I guess are not intended for children. Oh okay,

459
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Speaker 1: my friend TJ told me about this because I guess,

460
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Speaker 1: you know, like my niece couldn't do that.

461
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Speaker 2: I couldn't do this. I'm not evening funny you could.

462
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Speaker 1: Though, you could?

463
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Speaker 2: You guys same doing the whole thing together. Like I

464
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Speaker 2: can't do this.

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Speaker 9: I thrive on a good set of instructions and being

466
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Speaker 9: able to fall like that gives me comfort. So the

467
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Speaker 9: fact that you get like a book and you get

468
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Speaker 9: to go step by step like flip the page, like

469
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Speaker 9: that's everything I could watch.

470
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Speaker 1: But there I have a few I have layers of

471
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Speaker 1: issues with this, and yeah, I'm still doing it, but like, okay,

472
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Speaker 1: so that thing had fourteen came with fourteen bags of

473
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Speaker 1: legos and then like sometimes inside the bag or other

474
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Speaker 1: bags of smaller legos, but they're all mixed up, right,

475
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Speaker 1: so you I use plates and I wind up pouring

476
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Speaker 1: the pieces on from each bag on the plate. But

477
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Speaker 1: then you have to like you still have to the

478
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Speaker 1: pieces among them. It's layers of anxiety and a lot

479
00:21:06,119 --> 00:21:08,280
Speaker 1: of times there's similar shape so you have to look

480
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Speaker 1: and say, okay, I need this piece. So first I

481
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Speaker 1: have to find the pieces in this madness of hundreds

482
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Speaker 1: of pieces, and then I have to organize them, and

483
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Speaker 1: then I have to put it together, and I have

484
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Speaker 1: to make sure I got the right pieces in the

485
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Speaker 1: right places. It's a lot. I don't know why I'm

486
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Speaker 1: enjoying this. I'm not sure if I am. But there

487
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Speaker 1: was a point to this and it took twenty minutes

488
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Speaker 1: to get there. But whatever, what are you? Because this

489
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Speaker 1: came up yesterday too. Is a lot of adults in

490
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Speaker 1: the in the comments on TikTok on Fred Show Radio,

491
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Speaker 1: saying that now that they have adult money, they're buying

492
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Speaker 1: more Legos than ever before because they got adult money

493
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Speaker 1: and they're loving this. You got grown up money, you

494
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Speaker 1: know when you were a kid you could I mean

495
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Speaker 1: these Lego sets that was two hundred bucks, the Concord

496
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Speaker 1: was two hundred bucks, the McLaren was two hundred dollars.

497
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Speaker 1: And if you're putting these things together every few days,

498
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Speaker 1: I mean that's you're talking of. It's expensive. Yeah, I

499
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Speaker 1: own eight hundred dollars in legos. Now, like, what am

500
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Speaker 1: I going to do with these things. I know, I

501
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Speaker 1: realize that, but I couldn't afford that as a kid.

502
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Speaker 1: I mean, that's a kid I would have got. I

503
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Speaker 1: would have gotten a set for my birthday, and I

504
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Speaker 1: would have gotten a set for Christmas maybe. And when

505
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Speaker 1: I was a kid, we didn't have sets like this.

506
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Speaker 1: It was just big buckets of Legos and you had

507
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Speaker 1: to make it up yourself. Yeah, but I'm wondering, what

508
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Speaker 1: are you doing? It doesn't have to be Legos. What

509
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Speaker 1: are you doing with your grown up money now? Because

510
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Speaker 1: it's kind of a it's kind of amazing that I can.

511
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Speaker 1: I I'm bragging now, I can walk into it. I

512
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Speaker 1: don't have kids. I don't have to put you in

513
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Speaker 1: through college. I only have to take care of myself.

514
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Speaker 1: You know, I make several dollars an hour. I could

515
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Speaker 1: walk into a Lego store buy whatever. I'm not any

516
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Speaker 1: not as much as I want, But I could walk

517
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Speaker 1: into a Lego set. I'm bragging, and I can pick

518
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Speaker 1: out a Lego set and buy it and not feel

519
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Speaker 1: bad about it. True, but that's something you can only

520
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Speaker 1: do if you have a job and you're a grown up. Yeah,

521
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Speaker 1: you know what I mean. So, like, what what do

522
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Speaker 1: you find yourself doing with your grown up money? Is

523
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Speaker 1: it legos, is it models? Is it makeup? Is it

524
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Speaker 1: like you know what growing up money. I'm buying that

525
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Speaker 1: because I can. But like as a grown up being

526
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Speaker 1: able to walk into an equivalent of a toy store

527
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Speaker 1: and just it's like when you were a kid. Remember

528
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Speaker 1: you'd walk into a toy store when they had them,

529
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Speaker 1: and you would be like, I want everything, and your

530
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Speaker 1: mom's like, you can have one thing, or you can't

531
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Speaker 1: have anything. Most of the time it was that. Well

532
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Speaker 1: now even a grocery store. Remember the grocery store you'd

533
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Speaker 1: walk into, I want that cereal and your mom would

534
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Speaker 1: be like, you can't have that. We're not buying that.

535
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Speaker 1: We have cereal at home. You got to eat the

536
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Speaker 1: cereal that you got first. Now if I want and

537
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Speaker 1: I realized that's like a twelve dollars investment. You know,

538
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Speaker 1: cereal is expensive. But if I want, if I want

539
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Speaker 1: that box of cereal, I can have it because I'm

540
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Speaker 1: a grown up. I made that money. What do you

541
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Speaker 1: find yourself doing with your grown up money? Makeup and food?

542
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Speaker 1: For sure, Like I think about it every day. Like

543
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Speaker 1: when I was a kid, you didn't have McDonald's money.

544
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Speaker 1: You had to go home and he spaghetti or whatever

545
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Speaker 1: was it?

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Speaker 4: Ye?

547
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Speaker 1: The dinner plan for the like I want a cheeseburger,

548
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Speaker 1: and Mom's like we have we can make that at home. Like, no,

549
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Speaker 1: we can't make a McDonald's cheeseburger at home. Not the same.

550
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Speaker 8: So now as an adult, like whatever whatever I want,

551
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Speaker 8: whatever restaurant I want to try, I can try whatever

552
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Speaker 8: makeup products I want, fashion Nova like it's bad.

553
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Speaker 9: Or whatever you want at the grocery store. Is how

554
00:24:08,280 --> 00:24:10,920
Speaker 9: many times you asked for something? I bought a jar

555
00:24:10,960 --> 00:24:13,040
Speaker 9: of nutella yesterday. Nothing to put it on. I'm just

556
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Speaker 9: eating it with a spoon because cars, Yes, because you get.

557
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Speaker 1: Up at three in the morning, and if you want

558
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Speaker 1: the jar on utella, you can have it.

559
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Speaker 5: I want to face dive into that when I get

560
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Speaker 5: home from work. That's what I'm gonna do.

561
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Speaker 3: I want to iced coffee I'm giving That's what I

562
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Speaker 3: can make my mine at home.

563
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Speaker 2: But three o'clock hits, I'm running Duncan. Yeah, I'm taking

564
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Speaker 2: the baby in the stroller. We're going to a Duncan Alina

565
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Speaker 2: runs on, don I run on.

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Speaker 1: This is't a matter of whether you have a lot

567
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Speaker 1: of money or don't. This is simply a matter of

568
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Speaker 1: if I choose it, I can do it because I'm

569
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Speaker 1: a grown up and I have grown up money. And

570
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Speaker 1: I noticed for a lot of people it was Legos.

571
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Speaker 1: But there are people in my comments going, hey, I

572
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Speaker 1: am a grown up and I can buy any Lego

573
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Speaker 1: I want, and I do it and I don't care.

574
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Speaker 1: And it's a very liberating feeling. But this is a

575
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Speaker 1: whole thing. I mean, there was a whole article about it,

576
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Speaker 1: trading cards, model kits, clay, sculpting miniatures, Legos, Legos. So

577
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Speaker 1: when if you sent me this, I think it was you,

578
00:25:01,600 --> 00:25:04,600
Speaker 1: maybe Caitlin or no, my sister. Lego's are on a

579
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Speaker 1: cover of Time magazine. Mm hmm. Yeah, there's a movement.

580
00:25:08,880 --> 00:25:12,159
Speaker 1: There's a move going on. Hey, Victory girl, Hello, what

581
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Speaker 1: are you spending your growing up money on? Victor?

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Speaker 10: So it's been about I was, say, twenty plus years

583
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Speaker 10: and the last time I collected Pokemon cards. Uh, that's

584
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Speaker 10: the thing I got back into actually at the end

585
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Speaker 10: of last year.

586
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Speaker 1: Pokemon cards. All right, So where do you you go

587
00:25:26,960 --> 00:25:28,359
Speaker 1: to like a Are you one of these two that

588
00:25:28,400 --> 00:25:30,399
Speaker 1: goes like the Walmart and like digs around trying to

589
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Speaker 1: find them, or do you go to the sports card

590
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Speaker 1: store or what do you do?

591
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Speaker 10: So now it's actually kind of difficult to go to

592
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Speaker 10: like sports cards are like collectible stores because everything's marked up. Unfortunately,

593
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Speaker 10: there's a lot of scalpers right now. I don't know

594
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Speaker 10: if you've seen like the videos with Costco where people

595
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Speaker 10: are like kind of lining it and yeah, yeah, now

596
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Speaker 10: there's thankfully there's like Facebook groups that you know, let

597
00:25:53,080 --> 00:25:57,240
Speaker 10: people know when this drafts that target Walmart Costco. So

598
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Speaker 10: been using those routes thankfully to be able to get

599
00:26:00,280 --> 00:26:03,200
Speaker 10: some product because any news has to come out. It's

600
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Speaker 10: kind of impossible to be able to get stuff on

601
00:26:05,440 --> 00:26:08,720
Speaker 10: the day of or even game stop right now, they're kind.

602
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Speaker 1: Of limited on the stock to what's that? What's your

603
00:26:10,920 --> 00:26:11,960
Speaker 1: best pull? Victor?

604
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Speaker 10: I actually got a hyper rich harzard from a called

605
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Speaker 10: the Obsidian Flames.

606
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Speaker 1: What's it worth?

607
00:26:21,280 --> 00:26:21,359
Speaker 10: How?

608
00:26:21,600 --> 00:26:22,280
Speaker 1: How much is it worth?

609
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Speaker 10: So unfortunately that car is only about twenty two bucks.

610
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Speaker 10: I do have one card that's I think granted as

611
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Speaker 10: a PSA ten right now, it's a couple of hundred dollars.

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Speaker 1: What is the Dragonaire?

613
00:26:33,880 --> 00:26:36,640
Speaker 10: Yeah, the Dragonaire secret illustration there.

614
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Speaker 1: To spend forty dollars to get it.

615
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Speaker 10: So yeah, yeah, I mean yeah at this point. I

616
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Speaker 10: mean I started collecting maybe like in September of last year,

617
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Speaker 10: and I've busily spent around the amount that you have

618
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Speaker 10: on legos right now.

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Speaker 1: So I'm telling you got that growing up money, Victor.

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Speaker 1: Thank you man, have a great day. I love you, guys.

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Speaker 1: I'm one of the thirteen. By the way, I'm thank

622
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Speaker 1: you brother. Number. Take that number, Victor, you take that

623
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Speaker 1: hy Hello, hey, how and a good morning. How are

624
00:27:04,400 --> 00:27:05,679
Speaker 1: you spending your grown up money?

625
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Speaker 11: This is really kind of like silly but basically donuts

626
00:27:11,280 --> 00:27:15,040
Speaker 11: because in high school this was more than ten years ago. Yeah,

627
00:27:15,080 --> 00:27:17,680
Speaker 11: I know, it's just donuts. But I went to Religious

628
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Speaker 11: High school and every Tuesday we had something called Tuesdays

629
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Speaker 11: with Joe like coffee, and they would be like, you

630
00:27:25,560 --> 00:27:30,000
Speaker 11: can either spend your like period before class started doing nothing,

631
00:27:30,200 --> 00:27:32,040
Speaker 11: or you can come to this religious ferment because we

632
00:27:32,119 --> 00:27:35,639
Speaker 11: have donuts and coffee, and I never got sweets at

633
00:27:35,680 --> 00:27:38,479
Speaker 11: home ever, so I would always go just for the donuts,

634
00:27:38,480 --> 00:27:40,160
Speaker 11: and I would try to sneak out if I could

635
00:27:40,400 --> 00:27:42,160
Speaker 11: sentimes out day, but I would try to sneak out

636
00:27:42,160 --> 00:27:47,040
Speaker 11: with the donut. And then a senior year, we had

637
00:27:47,160 --> 00:27:50,560
Speaker 11: a Jewish philosophy class and the teacher was like, draw

638
00:27:50,600 --> 00:27:52,480
Speaker 11: a picture of what you want your life to look

639
00:27:52,520 --> 00:27:55,760
Speaker 11: like in ten years, and I literally do myself with

640
00:27:55,840 --> 00:27:58,520
Speaker 11: a husband and baby, of course, and donuts.

641
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Speaker 1: And that was all I want, Like, no one's going

642
00:28:01,359 --> 00:28:03,480
Speaker 1: to make me attend to any sort of thing. I'm

643
00:28:03,480 --> 00:28:05,520
Speaker 1: going to get my own donuts on my own terms.

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Speaker 11: Yes, I and I I love donuts. And it's it's

645
00:28:10,880 --> 00:28:12,240
Speaker 11: so like wildish.

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Speaker 12: I guess, oh.

647
00:28:13,359 --> 00:28:15,520
Speaker 1: No, it's not. You do you, Hannah. You're grown up now.

648
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Speaker 1: Thank you. Have a good day, you too. Yeah, that's

649
00:28:18,960 --> 00:28:21,200
Speaker 1: like when I was a kid in the sports card

650
00:28:21,200 --> 00:28:24,560
Speaker 1: stuff and I'd mow the lawn for two weeks and

651
00:28:24,600 --> 00:28:27,080
Speaker 1: I could go get like two packs or something. Now

652
00:28:27,119 --> 00:28:28,439
Speaker 1: I got a little bit of grown up money if

653
00:28:28,480 --> 00:28:30,160
Speaker 1: I wanted to. And I don't need to be getting

654
00:28:30,200 --> 00:28:32,679
Speaker 1: back into sports card collecting because I'll go in there

655
00:28:32,720 --> 00:28:34,800
Speaker 1: and I'll spend grown up money on this stuff and

656
00:28:34,920 --> 00:28:37,120
Speaker 1: it'll get out of hand because then I'll be like, oh,

657
00:28:37,200 --> 00:28:40,400
Speaker 1: if I keep buying, then I'll this is what they want. Yeah,

658
00:28:40,640 --> 00:28:43,719
Speaker 1: people are saying I spend money on monthly massages. Legos

659
00:28:43,720 --> 00:28:46,600
Speaker 1: already plural NOAs whatever. Oh yeah, but it's like everything

660
00:28:46,600 --> 00:28:47,760
Speaker 1: else in the Midwest.

661
00:28:47,400 --> 00:28:49,040
Speaker 2: Okay, you gotta add the ass.

662
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Speaker 6: For me, it's concerts like I always like keep starting

663
00:28:51,880 --> 00:28:54,160
Speaker 6: young middle school, which like obviously sheet my mom and

664
00:28:54,200 --> 00:28:55,840
Speaker 6: want me to go to concerts alone, so I would

665
00:28:55,840 --> 00:28:57,880
Speaker 6: always have to find someone to take me, or if

666
00:28:57,920 --> 00:28:59,840
Speaker 6: the concert wasn't like appropriate, like my dad was going

667
00:28:59,920 --> 00:29:02,600
Speaker 6: to take me to and I'm an anger management tour,

668
00:29:02,680 --> 00:29:05,120
Speaker 6: like shocking, and my mom said no, and I'm still

669
00:29:05,160 --> 00:29:07,720
Speaker 6: mad at her, and like now no matter what concert, like,

670
00:29:07,800 --> 00:29:09,520
Speaker 6: I can go. I can say the whole time, doesn't

671
00:29:09,520 --> 00:29:11,840
Speaker 6: matter if I'm tired the next day. Nobody's telling me

672
00:29:11,880 --> 00:29:12,360
Speaker 6: I can't go.

673
00:29:13,120 --> 00:29:17,720
Speaker 1: Okay, okay. Someone says they have two thousand dollars worth

674
00:29:17,720 --> 00:29:21,840
Speaker 1: of yo yos ooh yeah, I light up yo yo

675
00:29:22,320 --> 00:29:27,280
Speaker 1: remember those A lot of legos, a lot of video games,

676
00:29:27,320 --> 00:29:28,920
Speaker 1: a lot of people spending a ton of money on

677
00:29:29,000 --> 00:29:32,120
Speaker 1: video games because they can. This makes sense. When you

678
00:29:32,120 --> 00:29:33,840
Speaker 1: were a kid, it's like, you know, you might get

679
00:29:33,840 --> 00:29:36,360
Speaker 1: a game here and there, maybe if you were lucky, holiday,

680
00:29:36,440 --> 00:29:40,840
Speaker 1: birthday whatever. Now it's like, yeah, really I'll get it. Now, Hey, Reba,

681
00:29:40,920 --> 00:29:42,240
Speaker 1: you're with me in that team Lego.

682
00:29:43,240 --> 00:29:44,920
Speaker 13: Hey, Brad, yes, I am.

683
00:29:45,320 --> 00:29:48,600
Speaker 1: And you what is your latest build Riba since we're

684
00:29:48,600 --> 00:29:50,360
Speaker 1: talking about you know, since you and I are on

685
00:29:50,400 --> 00:29:51,040
Speaker 1: the same team.

686
00:29:51,720 --> 00:29:55,320
Speaker 13: My daughter built a big, huge Hogwarts castle, the big

687
00:29:56,440 --> 00:29:59,240
Speaker 13: four thousand piece. I think it was four seven thousand.

688
00:29:59,320 --> 00:30:01,760
Speaker 1: It's the big new see that does look cool. I

689
00:30:01,800 --> 00:30:04,480
Speaker 1: just didn't really think about anything about it. Hogwarts, I

690
00:30:04,520 --> 00:30:06,000
Speaker 1: don't know it looks and plus, what am I going

691
00:30:06,040 --> 00:30:07,440
Speaker 1: to I don't know why I'm gonna put these things.

692
00:30:07,440 --> 00:30:10,240
Speaker 1: That's the other thing. Because I thought about I'd buy

693
00:30:10,280 --> 00:30:11,800
Speaker 1: them and I put them together, and then I would

694
00:30:11,800 --> 00:30:14,120
Speaker 1: like donate them. The problem with that is I don't

695
00:30:14,120 --> 00:30:19,200
Speaker 1: think kids want pre assembled legos right exactly.

696
00:30:19,320 --> 00:30:21,920
Speaker 13: I have a whole room of Harry Potter legos that

697
00:30:22,080 --> 00:30:23,040
Speaker 13: nobody wants.

698
00:30:23,240 --> 00:30:24,480
Speaker 1: There you go. I don't know what I would. They

699
00:30:24,480 --> 00:30:26,240
Speaker 1: look so cool, but I don't know anything about it.

700
00:30:26,280 --> 00:30:28,120
Speaker 1: I have no context. I only read the first book

701
00:30:28,160 --> 00:30:29,440
Speaker 1: and I don't even know what's happening.

702
00:30:29,480 --> 00:30:31,560
Speaker 2: Hogwarts had to be hard, though, that's intricate.

703
00:30:32,080 --> 00:30:36,000
Speaker 13: They're all in very very they're very, very very hard.

704
00:30:36,040 --> 00:30:38,640
Speaker 13: And she started when she was like thirteen years old,

705
00:30:38,680 --> 00:30:42,080
Speaker 13: when they very first came out. Yeah, she's a good

706
00:30:42,200 --> 00:30:45,600
Speaker 13: kid and she's on the honor roll, and I would

707
00:30:45,680 --> 00:30:49,520
Speaker 13: rather her spend her money on and spend our money

708
00:30:49,600 --> 00:30:51,440
Speaker 13: on that kind of stuff versus drugs.

709
00:30:52,160 --> 00:30:56,240
Speaker 1: Well, yeah, no, I think that's a great compromise. Thank you,

710
00:30:56,760 --> 00:30:59,760
Speaker 1: have a good day. No, I mean, I'll tell you what.

711
00:30:59,760 --> 00:31:02,320
Speaker 1: That's a great parenting technique for Gigi and for Polly.

712
00:31:02,320 --> 00:31:04,160
Speaker 1: And how about we just say, I'll tell you what.

713
00:31:04,760 --> 00:31:06,920
Speaker 1: I'll give you two hundred dollars a month to spend

714
00:31:06,920 --> 00:31:08,800
Speaker 1: on legos if you'd like, as long as you don't

715
00:31:08,800 --> 00:31:12,000
Speaker 1: spend it on black Tar heroin. You have two choices,

716
00:31:12,040 --> 00:31:13,600
Speaker 1: black to O Heroin or legos, and if you pick

717
00:31:13,640 --> 00:31:16,280
Speaker 1: black Tar Heroin, you don't get the money. I think

718
00:31:16,280 --> 00:31:21,200
Speaker 1: that's fair. Hey, Michelle, Yes, Michelle, your husband spends his

719
00:31:21,320 --> 00:31:22,920
Speaker 1: big boy, grown up money.

720
00:31:22,640 --> 00:31:25,640
Speaker 2: On a train layout.

721
00:31:26,000 --> 00:31:28,280
Speaker 1: He has a train layout. How do you know he's

722
00:31:28,320 --> 00:31:30,600
Speaker 1: not going to cheat on you. That's how he's got

723
00:31:30,640 --> 00:31:32,120
Speaker 1: a train layout in his house.

724
00:31:33,800 --> 00:31:36,640
Speaker 14: Fifteen by five foot train layout.

725
00:31:37,160 --> 00:31:38,640
Speaker 1: And so let me guess he's got to have the

726
00:31:38,680 --> 00:31:40,960
Speaker 1: tracks and little stations, and he has to have the

727
00:31:41,000 --> 00:31:43,440
Speaker 1: whole like you know, I had a little stores, and

728
00:31:43,480 --> 00:31:44,720
Speaker 1: he has to have the whole community.

729
00:31:44,840 --> 00:31:49,320
Speaker 14: Right, Yes, I made a sipulation with him. He took

730
00:31:49,360 --> 00:31:52,120
Speaker 14: my hot chop down to put the train layout, so

731
00:31:52,200 --> 00:31:54,320
Speaker 14: I said, let me decorate the train layout.

732
00:31:54,600 --> 00:31:56,960
Speaker 1: See, it's the whole thing. I've seen this on TikTok too.

733
00:31:57,160 --> 00:31:59,640
Speaker 1: It's very addicting because it's not just a train on

734
00:31:59,680 --> 00:32:01,600
Speaker 1: the train. Now you've got to build the whole like

735
00:32:01,680 --> 00:32:06,000
Speaker 1: the world around it, hills and landscape and buildings and

736
00:32:06,120 --> 00:32:10,080
Speaker 1: cities and hospitals and stations and oh yeah, you can

737
00:32:10,120 --> 00:32:12,000
Speaker 1: get really into this. Don't get me started.

738
00:32:12,080 --> 00:32:16,680
Speaker 14: Thank you extensive the one building, it can be hundreds

739
00:32:16,680 --> 00:32:18,920
Speaker 14: of dollars for trains, thousands of dollars.

740
00:32:19,040 --> 00:32:19,800
Speaker 4: It's crazy.

741
00:32:20,080 --> 00:32:22,640
Speaker 1: Yep, there you go. Thank you. Have a good day, Michelle,

742
00:32:23,360 --> 00:32:26,680
Speaker 1: thank you too. What is it? Don't? What is it same?

743
00:32:29,200 --> 00:32:33,200
Speaker 1: I don't. Oh oh, it's the person's arguing with me

744
00:32:33,240 --> 00:32:33,720
Speaker 1: about lego.

745
00:32:33,800 --> 00:32:34,120
Speaker 2: Oh good.

746
00:32:34,400 --> 00:32:35,960
Speaker 6: This is like what I wanted to get my metal

747
00:32:36,000 --> 00:32:38,080
Speaker 6: detector again, because I had fond memories when I was

748
00:32:38,120 --> 00:32:39,680
Speaker 6: little and you guys made fun of Oh ye.

749
00:32:41,760 --> 00:32:42,880
Speaker 1: Right, it's so similar.

750
00:32:43,000 --> 00:32:45,440
Speaker 2: So it is. I played with a metal detection when

751
00:32:45,480 --> 00:32:48,240
Speaker 2: I was little on the beach, and I want one now.

752
00:32:48,560 --> 00:32:50,360
Speaker 1: Well, you know you should get one's roasted me. No,

753
00:32:50,440 --> 00:32:53,400
Speaker 1: you should get one big lego money, big big metal

754
00:32:53,440 --> 00:32:57,480
Speaker 1: detector money, big money treasure. Yeah, you're right when you're right,

755
00:32:57,520 --> 00:33:00,840
Speaker 1: when you find when you find that point that everyone's

756
00:33:00,840 --> 00:33:03,400
Speaker 1: been looking for, you know, and you can retire, you

757
00:33:03,440 --> 00:33:05,440
Speaker 1: know what. I hope. So I hope I'm laughing one

758
00:33:05,480 --> 00:33:08,040
Speaker 1: day when you're like, hey, Fred, I retired because I

759
00:33:08,120 --> 00:33:10,320
Speaker 1: was out on the North Avenue, be to my middle,

760
00:33:10,360 --> 00:33:11,160
Speaker 1: to the way.

761
00:33:11,920 --> 00:33:16,640
Speaker 9: Wait, Fred's show is on now hot this morning show

762
00:33:17,600 --> 00:33:19,040
Speaker 9: one get it way good.

763
00:33:19,600 --> 00:33:19,840
Speaker 10: Yeah.

764
00:33:19,880 --> 00:33:22,520
Speaker 6: So I hung out with my friend Tatiana on Saturday.

765
00:33:22,960 --> 00:33:25,520
Speaker 6: She has a very fresh baby, and I just was like,

766
00:33:25,520 --> 00:33:26,840
Speaker 6: can I come over? Can I get you out of

767
00:33:26,840 --> 00:33:28,280
Speaker 6: the house? What are we looking to do? She's like,

768
00:33:28,480 --> 00:33:30,400
Speaker 6: I guess we could go on a walk, and I'm like, okay,

769
00:33:30,800 --> 00:33:32,920
Speaker 6: I know. I had my dog with me, Willie, and

770
00:33:32,920 --> 00:33:34,240
Speaker 6: so I was like, I know there's a bar that

771
00:33:34,280 --> 00:33:37,000
Speaker 6: allows dogs, so we could always stop there if you

772
00:33:37,040 --> 00:33:37,520
Speaker 6: want to drink.

773
00:33:37,560 --> 00:33:39,400
Speaker 2: If not, no big deal. And it was like two

774
00:33:39,400 --> 00:33:41,240
Speaker 2: men in a baby like truly, neither of us knew

775
00:33:41,280 --> 00:33:42,840
Speaker 2: what the hell we were doing. We're like, does she

776
00:33:43,160 --> 00:33:44,640
Speaker 2: how bundled up? Does she need to be?

777
00:33:44,880 --> 00:33:44,960
Speaker 10: Like?

778
00:33:45,000 --> 00:33:46,640
Speaker 6: Can I change her at the park, like we just

779
00:33:46,760 --> 00:33:48,479
Speaker 6: it was. It was a very funny sight and I

780
00:33:48,520 --> 00:33:50,960
Speaker 6: was like yeah. She's like, okay, so is it weird

781
00:33:51,000 --> 00:33:52,960
Speaker 6: to bring your baby to a bar? And I'm like,

782
00:33:53,080 --> 00:33:55,720
Speaker 6: absolutely not. I see babies and bars all the time,

783
00:33:56,200 --> 00:33:58,600
Speaker 6: you know, no judgment. Moms need to drink too, And

784
00:33:58,640 --> 00:33:59,720
Speaker 6: she's like, okay.

785
00:33:59,440 --> 00:34:03,000
Speaker 2: I guess. So I bring her to the bar and Willie,

786
00:34:03,000 --> 00:34:03,800
Speaker 2: my dog, gets in.

787
00:34:04,080 --> 00:34:06,320
Speaker 6: I get in and then Tatiana's behind me with the

788
00:34:06,320 --> 00:34:08,799
Speaker 6: stroller and the guy at the front goes, is that

789
00:34:08,880 --> 00:34:11,080
Speaker 6: a baby? Which I wanted to be a smart ass

790
00:34:11,120 --> 00:34:13,040
Speaker 6: because like what else would we have in the stroller?

791
00:34:13,040 --> 00:34:14,960
Speaker 2: And I was like yeah, and he goes, I'm sorry,

792
00:34:15,000 --> 00:34:16,000
Speaker 2: no baby's allowed.

793
00:34:16,320 --> 00:34:18,400
Speaker 1: And I thought that must be That has got to

794
00:34:18,400 --> 00:34:21,360
Speaker 1: be a restaurant policy. That's not about bars.

795
00:34:21,400 --> 00:34:23,399
Speaker 2: They don't serve some food there at this point, but.

796
00:34:23,360 --> 00:34:24,880
Speaker 1: I mean, that has to be there. I'm saying that

797
00:34:24,920 --> 00:34:27,239
Speaker 1: has to be their policy, okay, because I don't think

798
00:34:27,239 --> 00:34:29,360
Speaker 1: that's a law, Like, why can't I bring my baby

799
00:34:29,400 --> 00:34:35,279
Speaker 1: into a bar? I've ever been left waiting by the phone.

800
00:34:36,080 --> 00:34:38,440
Speaker 1: It's the Fred Show. Hey Abby, good morning, Welcome to

801
00:34:38,480 --> 00:34:39,279
Speaker 1: the show. How are you.

802
00:34:39,520 --> 00:34:41,919
Speaker 4: I'm good guys, how are you doing great?

803
00:34:42,280 --> 00:34:43,960
Speaker 1: Welcome to waiting by the phone. So we're trying to

804
00:34:43,960 --> 00:34:46,480
Speaker 1: figure out what happened with this guy Patrick, and we

805
00:34:46,520 --> 00:34:48,839
Speaker 1: got to have the backstory. So how did you meet?

806
00:34:49,080 --> 00:34:51,839
Speaker 1: Tell us about any dates you've been on, uh and

807
00:34:51,880 --> 00:34:53,759
Speaker 1: how those went, and then where things are now?

808
00:34:54,239 --> 00:34:57,839
Speaker 4: All right? So first I met Patrick at a Saint

809
00:34:57,920 --> 00:35:04,520
Speaker 4: Patrick's Day party the irony there, and we just we

810
00:35:04,640 --> 00:35:10,040
Speaker 4: just talked for like hours. We both have kids, and

811
00:35:10,239 --> 00:35:13,160
Speaker 4: we bonded over that, like we're both single parents, you know,

812
00:35:14,840 --> 00:35:18,040
Speaker 4: just talking about like the funny stories that our that

813
00:35:18,120 --> 00:35:21,440
Speaker 4: our kids, you know, do, So we just like really

814
00:35:22,320 --> 00:35:26,640
Speaker 4: clicked right away. It was like instant connection. Then we

815
00:35:26,800 --> 00:35:28,799
Speaker 4: like the more we talk, like he was asking like,

816
00:35:28,880 --> 00:35:31,000
Speaker 4: you know, whereabouts I lived. We found out that we

817
00:35:31,040 --> 00:35:34,640
Speaker 4: lived pretty close to each other, and he asked for

818
00:35:34,680 --> 00:35:36,759
Speaker 4: my number before he left, which was like, you know,

819
00:35:36,800 --> 00:35:38,520
Speaker 4: I was excited because like I thought he was really

820
00:35:38,560 --> 00:35:41,719
Speaker 4: cute and we feel like I felt like there was

821
00:35:41,760 --> 00:35:45,560
Speaker 4: definitely connection there. So we had been kind of texting

822
00:35:45,640 --> 00:35:48,239
Speaker 4: back and forth after he got my number, and then

823
00:35:48,320 --> 00:35:51,719
Speaker 4: a few days later it was a really nice day

824
00:35:51,920 --> 00:35:53,960
Speaker 4: and Patrick was like, hey, you know, like I'm gonna

825
00:35:54,000 --> 00:35:56,879
Speaker 4: take my son to the park, which was not too

826
00:35:56,880 --> 00:35:58,919
Speaker 4: far from my house because they said it was pretty

827
00:35:58,960 --> 00:36:00,720
Speaker 4: close to his and like I said, you lived pretty

828
00:36:00,719 --> 00:36:03,440
Speaker 4: close and he was like, hey, do you want to

829
00:36:03,440 --> 00:36:06,080
Speaker 4: come and join? It's like I felt comfortable because it's

830
00:36:06,080 --> 00:36:09,600
Speaker 4: like a big thing, like introducing your children to any

831
00:36:09,719 --> 00:36:11,839
Speaker 4: other adult that you had, Like even if he's like

832
00:36:11,960 --> 00:36:14,759
Speaker 4: not my boyfriend, it's just a lot to introduce to

833
00:36:14,840 --> 00:36:18,880
Speaker 4: anybody coming into our lives. So I really appreciated him

834
00:36:18,920 --> 00:36:21,600
Speaker 4: saying like if I felt comfortable, like bringing my kids over,

835
00:36:22,760 --> 00:36:26,120
Speaker 4: so I grat So I have two daughters, and I said, sure,

836
00:36:26,160 --> 00:36:28,399
Speaker 4: you know what, like what why not? You know, it's

837
00:36:28,480 --> 00:36:30,480
Speaker 4: it's innocent. It's not a date. You know, it's just

838
00:36:30,560 --> 00:36:32,120
Speaker 4: kind of meeting up and kind of getting to know

839
00:36:32,239 --> 00:36:35,560
Speaker 4: us better. And you know, we had like a real

840
00:36:35,640 --> 00:36:36,800
Speaker 4: like it was a really it was really nice to

841
00:36:36,800 --> 00:36:39,319
Speaker 4: see him again. We trid a lot, the kids had

842
00:36:39,360 --> 00:36:43,719
Speaker 4: a lot of fun playing. But after that, like I

843
00:36:43,880 --> 00:36:46,280
Speaker 4: never heard from him again, Like it was very weird,

844
00:36:46,360 --> 00:36:48,760
Speaker 4: Like he didn't like I sent him a text afterwards,

845
00:36:48,800 --> 00:36:51,080
Speaker 4: they said, hey, like, you know, thanks for inviting us.

846
00:36:51,120 --> 00:36:53,440
Speaker 4: We had a great time. You know, talk to you

847
00:36:53,520 --> 00:36:55,279
Speaker 4: soon or like love to see you again, you know,

848
00:36:55,360 --> 00:36:58,640
Speaker 4: let me know, and it was just cricket. So I

849
00:36:58,680 --> 00:37:01,040
Speaker 4: just don't know, like what happened if I said something,

850
00:37:01,120 --> 00:37:03,799
Speaker 4: you know, It's just I'm just sitting here trying to

851
00:37:03,840 --> 00:37:04,439
Speaker 4: figure it out.

852
00:37:04,520 --> 00:37:06,600
Speaker 1: Yeah. That's interesting because you guys, you did meet in

853
00:37:06,920 --> 00:37:08,920
Speaker 1: the wild per se, you met in person, so this

854
00:37:09,000 --> 00:37:11,560
Speaker 1: guy wasn't a total stranger, and you have kids and

855
00:37:11,560 --> 00:37:14,359
Speaker 1: he has kids, so you know, getting them together and

856
00:37:14,440 --> 00:37:16,280
Speaker 1: figuring out, you know, if they're going to get along

857
00:37:16,360 --> 00:37:19,520
Speaker 1: and stuff. I suppose that's innocence enough. And since things

858
00:37:19,560 --> 00:37:21,520
Speaker 1: went well in your opinion, then it's like, well, wait

859
00:37:21,560 --> 00:37:24,960
Speaker 1: a minute, what's going on? Why wouldn't this guy call

860
00:37:25,000 --> 00:37:25,359
Speaker 1: me again?

861
00:37:25,440 --> 00:37:27,400
Speaker 4: Yeah, it was just very strange. Like I feel like

862
00:37:27,520 --> 00:37:30,920
Speaker 4: both interactions, like the first and the second, you know,

863
00:37:31,040 --> 00:37:33,920
Speaker 4: like you know, hanging out, we're fine, like total you know,

864
00:37:34,040 --> 00:37:36,880
Speaker 4: innocent but fun, and you know, there was no awkwardness

865
00:37:37,120 --> 00:37:40,120
Speaker 4: at all. So I'm just I'm kind of stumped of

866
00:37:40,160 --> 00:37:41,320
Speaker 4: what could have happened.

867
00:37:41,400 --> 00:37:44,239
Speaker 1: Okay, Well, let's call this guy Patrick, see if we

868
00:37:44,239 --> 00:37:46,040
Speaker 1: can get him on the phone. We'll ask these questions

869
00:37:46,080 --> 00:37:47,480
Speaker 1: for you. You'll be on the phone, of course, at

870
00:37:47,480 --> 00:37:49,560
Speaker 1: the same time. At some point You're welcome to jump

871
00:37:49,600 --> 00:37:51,200
Speaker 1: in after we get you some info. And the hope

872
00:37:51,239 --> 00:37:53,480
Speaker 1: is always is that we can figure out what happened

873
00:37:53,520 --> 00:37:56,080
Speaker 1: or what's going on. Set you guys up on another date,

874
00:37:56,200 --> 00:37:59,000
Speaker 1: and we'll pay for that. All right, Let's see what

875
00:37:59,000 --> 00:38:01,080
Speaker 1: happens next. Part two of Waiting by the phone after

876
00:38:01,160 --> 00:38:04,959
Speaker 1: this song on the Friend Show, Hey Abby, Hello, Hi Abby,

877
00:38:05,040 --> 00:38:07,720
Speaker 1: Let's call Patrick. You guys met at the Saint Patrick's party.

878
00:38:07,760 --> 00:38:10,680
Speaker 1: You talked for a long time. You thought it went

879
00:38:10,719 --> 00:38:12,600
Speaker 1: really well. You bonded over the fact that you both

880
00:38:12,640 --> 00:38:14,600
Speaker 1: are single parents and you have kids, and so you

881
00:38:14,680 --> 00:38:18,480
Speaker 1: decided collectively to get together at a park or playground

882
00:38:18,560 --> 00:38:20,719
Speaker 1: or whatever with the kids. And it wasn't really a

883
00:38:20,800 --> 00:38:22,520
Speaker 1: date per se, but you know, the kids got to

884
00:38:22,560 --> 00:38:24,160
Speaker 1: meet each other and you guys got to talk some more,

885
00:38:24,280 --> 00:38:26,840
Speaker 1: and you thought everything went really well. Except you have

886
00:38:26,920 --> 00:38:29,160
Speaker 1: not heard from Patrick since then, and you want to

887
00:38:29,200 --> 00:38:30,640
Speaker 1: know why exactly.

888
00:38:30,760 --> 00:38:33,280
Speaker 4: So I'm just kind of racking my brain. What's happening.

889
00:38:33,960 --> 00:38:38,560
Speaker 4: So I don't know, Like at this point, I need

890
00:38:38,560 --> 00:38:39,960
Speaker 4: some help, I need some intervention.

891
00:38:40,680 --> 00:38:43,000
Speaker 1: Look at mom multitasking over there. I got the kids

892
00:38:43,000 --> 00:38:45,560
Speaker 1: in the background. They'll try to figure out. Yeah, you know,

893
00:38:45,680 --> 00:38:48,239
Speaker 1: I mean you got needs or I understand. Let's call

894
00:38:48,280 --> 00:38:49,600
Speaker 1: this guy now? Good luck? Abby?

895
00:38:50,040 --> 00:38:59,960
Speaker 4: Thank you?

896
00:39:00,719 --> 00:39:02,760
Speaker 1: Hello? Hi is this Patrick?

897
00:39:03,320 --> 00:39:03,520
Speaker 10: Yes?

898
00:39:03,640 --> 00:39:04,560
Speaker 5: This is he?

899
00:39:04,560 --> 00:39:06,480
Speaker 1: Hey Patrick, good morning. My name is Bred. I'm calling

900
00:39:06,520 --> 00:39:08,520
Speaker 1: for the Fred's Show, the Morning radio Show, and I

901
00:39:08,560 --> 00:39:10,000
Speaker 1: have to tell you that we are on the radio

902
00:39:10,120 --> 00:39:12,960
Speaker 1: right now and I would need your permission to continue

903
00:39:12,960 --> 00:39:14,880
Speaker 1: with the call. Is uh? Is he coo? If we

904
00:39:14,920 --> 00:39:15,800
Speaker 1: talk for just a second.

905
00:39:17,480 --> 00:39:18,880
Speaker 15: Yeah, yeah, that's that's fine.

906
00:39:19,000 --> 00:39:20,799
Speaker 1: Okay, Well, thank you for calling on behalf of a

907
00:39:20,800 --> 00:39:22,560
Speaker 1: woman who reached out to us. Her name is Abby.

908
00:39:22,640 --> 00:39:24,720
Speaker 1: I guess you guys met at at a party recently

909
00:39:24,800 --> 00:39:27,040
Speaker 1: and went on a date. I guess it was kind

910
00:39:27,040 --> 00:39:29,120
Speaker 1: of more of like like an outing with your kids.

911
00:39:29,160 --> 00:39:30,000
Speaker 1: Do you remember this woman?

912
00:39:30,400 --> 00:39:30,640
Speaker 11: Uh?

913
00:39:30,719 --> 00:39:32,320
Speaker 15: Yeah, yeah I remember Abby?

914
00:39:32,600 --> 00:39:35,239
Speaker 1: Yeah? Okay, So what happened? Because she we just talked

915
00:39:35,280 --> 00:39:36,879
Speaker 1: to her a second ago and she was talking about

916
00:39:36,880 --> 00:39:38,400
Speaker 1: how she met you at the party and you guys

917
00:39:38,400 --> 00:39:41,759
Speaker 1: bonded over being parents and and you know, she thought

918
00:39:41,760 --> 00:39:44,359
Speaker 1: everything went great. You guys apparently decided to meet up

919
00:39:44,640 --> 00:39:47,560
Speaker 1: with your kids and she hasn't heard from you since.

920
00:39:47,640 --> 00:39:49,400
Speaker 1: So what what happened?

921
00:39:49,680 --> 00:39:49,919
Speaker 10: Yeah?

922
00:39:50,000 --> 00:39:52,879
Speaker 15: Yeah, I was I was gonna take my son out

923
00:39:52,880 --> 00:39:55,080
Speaker 15: to a park and just called her up to see

924
00:39:55,120 --> 00:39:59,120
Speaker 15: if she wanted to join, you know, nothing serious, but yeah,

925
00:39:59,160 --> 00:40:02,279
Speaker 15: we met up. She's she was great, you know, I mean,

926
00:40:02,719 --> 00:40:07,879
Speaker 15: she's really fun to be around. Honestly, her her two

927
00:40:08,000 --> 00:40:12,200
Speaker 15: kids were just paris.

928
00:40:12,000 --> 00:40:13,440
Speaker 4: That was kind of my opinion.

929
00:40:14,160 --> 00:40:19,400
Speaker 15: Yeah, well, I just in the in the way that

930
00:40:19,480 --> 00:40:22,920
Speaker 15: they terrorized my son, and I guess me, I do

931
00:40:23,000 --> 00:40:25,520
Speaker 15: want to say though, you know, I'm I'm a dad,

932
00:40:25,560 --> 00:40:28,120
Speaker 15: I'm a single dad. I understand how kids can be.

933
00:40:28,160 --> 00:40:31,920
Speaker 15: But her her two kids were just next level. I

934
00:40:31,920 --> 00:40:35,160
Speaker 15: mean they they spent most of the afternoon just double

935
00:40:35,200 --> 00:40:39,799
Speaker 15: teaming on my son, taking his toys, pushing him. One

936
00:40:40,239 --> 00:40:42,399
Speaker 15: of her daughters sneezed at one point, you know, I said,

937
00:40:42,400 --> 00:40:44,760
Speaker 15: God bless you, and she just made a bee line

938
00:40:44,800 --> 00:40:47,840
Speaker 15: straight for me and wiped her nose and just wiped

939
00:40:47,880 --> 00:40:50,480
Speaker 15: it all over my jeans. You know, we kind of laughed,

940
00:40:50,480 --> 00:40:53,160
Speaker 15: but I was thinking, this is this is really out

941
00:40:53,160 --> 00:40:55,160
Speaker 15: of line, and so I tried to get him to

942
00:40:55,200 --> 00:40:57,719
Speaker 15: play some games. They just didn't want to listen to me.

943
00:40:57,760 --> 00:40:59,000
Speaker 15: One of them just straight up told me I was

944
00:40:59,120 --> 00:41:07,759
Speaker 15: ugly and then running. Okay, I mean that that hurts

945
00:41:07,760 --> 00:41:09,640
Speaker 15: the ego a little bit. And I'm like, all right, whatever,

946
00:41:10,760 --> 00:41:14,320
Speaker 15: But you know the worst part of it. They they're biers.

947
00:41:14,480 --> 00:41:17,720
Speaker 15: Both of her kids bite like, one of them literally

948
00:41:17,800 --> 00:41:18,080
Speaker 15: bit me.

949
00:41:18,120 --> 00:41:19,040
Speaker 1: I don't know if you've ever been.

950
00:41:18,920 --> 00:41:22,200
Speaker 15: Bit by a kid, but that hurts.

951
00:41:22,520 --> 00:41:25,719
Speaker 1: I'm sorry to laugh, but I mean, okay, So yeah,

952
00:41:26,040 --> 00:41:27,919
Speaker 1: rob In germs on you. They're biting you, they're calling

953
00:41:27,960 --> 00:41:31,399
Speaker 1: you ugly, they're roasting you. And what is during all

954
00:41:31,440 --> 00:41:34,000
Speaker 1: of this? Like, what what she just watching this and laughing?

955
00:41:34,080 --> 00:41:34,799
Speaker 1: Is she enabling it?

956
00:41:34,880 --> 00:41:35,080
Speaker 4: Is she?

957
00:41:35,440 --> 00:41:37,840
Speaker 1: Is she trying to correct them? I mean, what's happening?

958
00:41:38,040 --> 00:41:38,480
Speaker 1: What is her?

959
00:41:38,640 --> 00:41:41,399
Speaker 15: Well, no, she wasn't trying to correct them. I don't

960
00:41:41,400 --> 00:41:44,640
Speaker 15: know that she was enabling other than just not stepping in.

961
00:41:44,840 --> 00:41:47,040
Speaker 1: But it just seemed like they ran the show.

962
00:41:47,960 --> 00:41:51,479
Speaker 15: I could tell that there's probably no consequences at home,

963
00:41:51,800 --> 00:41:54,120
Speaker 15: you know, if they get in trouble. It just felt

964
00:41:54,160 --> 00:41:57,120
Speaker 15: like they were in charge. So I don't know, it

965
00:41:57,160 --> 00:41:58,440
Speaker 15: was it was just a lot for.

966
00:41:58,440 --> 00:42:01,200
Speaker 1: Me for an afternoon. She never told him to stop,

967
00:42:01,600 --> 00:42:02,439
Speaker 1: and I.

968
00:42:02,360 --> 00:42:04,520
Speaker 15: Didn't really feel like it was my place to do that,

969
00:42:04,560 --> 00:42:06,560
Speaker 15: so I thought, I'll just remove myself from the situation.

970
00:42:06,640 --> 00:42:08,000
Speaker 1: After this afternoon, we can kind of.

971
00:42:08,000 --> 00:42:08,520
Speaker 4: Be done with it.

972
00:42:08,760 --> 00:42:10,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, I would like that much either. But let me

973
00:42:10,600 --> 00:42:12,640
Speaker 1: bring Abby in. I forgot to mention that Abby is here.

974
00:42:12,760 --> 00:42:15,400
Speaker 1: Abb you didn't say it was that your kids were

975
00:42:15,440 --> 00:42:16,719
Speaker 1: biting this man.

976
00:42:17,040 --> 00:42:21,080
Speaker 4: Okay, so my two year old cuz like we are

977
00:42:21,200 --> 00:42:27,239
Speaker 4: working on it. I old her to apologize. Like, first

978
00:42:27,239 --> 00:42:30,160
Speaker 4: of all, Terris is like really extreme and like I

979
00:42:30,200 --> 00:42:32,920
Speaker 4: really don't like that word, especially associated with my children.

980
00:42:33,040 --> 00:42:36,759
Speaker 4: So I really hate that, Like that's just for me,

981
00:42:36,840 --> 00:42:38,680
Speaker 4: Like if he's turned off by me, that's fine. Like

982
00:42:38,920 --> 00:42:41,080
Speaker 4: him using that word to describe my children, that's a

983
00:42:41,160 --> 00:42:45,120
Speaker 4: huge turn off by for him, like for me towards him,

984
00:42:45,400 --> 00:42:49,200
Speaker 4: they're not. They obviously were like a little more on

985
00:42:49,239 --> 00:42:52,320
Speaker 4: the excited side obviously to like meet new people. I

986
00:42:52,400 --> 00:42:54,319
Speaker 4: meet a new kids, Like they weren't ganging up on

987
00:42:54,400 --> 00:42:57,600
Speaker 4: his son. I did try to interject. There's just so

988
00:42:57,800 --> 00:43:00,319
Speaker 4: much like it's hard to be a single parent, like

989
00:43:01,040 --> 00:43:03,280
Speaker 4: you know, like it's kind of hard since he I

990
00:43:03,320 --> 00:43:05,959
Speaker 4: devote some issues like with my acts, like I don't

991
00:43:06,000 --> 00:43:10,160
Speaker 4: have much of support from my child's father, so it's

992
00:43:10,200 --> 00:43:12,680
Speaker 4: me doing it all. So it's like really hard that

993
00:43:12,719 --> 00:43:16,600
Speaker 4: he's like blasting me as a mother. It's just very

994
00:43:16,680 --> 00:43:19,880
Speaker 4: hurtful because I was trying, so like he's kind of

995
00:43:19,920 --> 00:43:21,600
Speaker 4: going to the stream, but I did nothing.

996
00:43:21,920 --> 00:43:24,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean my mom, my sister, and I were

997
00:43:24,040 --> 00:43:26,239
Speaker 1: raised by my mom primarily and she was a single

998
00:43:26,280 --> 00:43:30,960
Speaker 1: parent for a while. And I commiserate with what you're saying.

999
00:43:31,800 --> 00:43:34,680
Speaker 1: I think, though you know your kids could act up.

1000
00:43:34,680 --> 00:43:37,440
Speaker 1: But just from my perspective, if it were me and

1001
00:43:37,480 --> 00:43:39,560
Speaker 1: i'm Patrick, I guess what I would have been looking

1002
00:43:39,600 --> 00:43:41,800
Speaker 1: for is less about what a two year old's doing

1003
00:43:42,160 --> 00:43:46,160
Speaker 1: and more about maybe what you're doing about it, because

1004
00:43:46,200 --> 00:43:49,640
Speaker 1: he certainly couldn't discipline the kids that would have been unaccessible.

1005
00:43:50,040 --> 00:43:52,400
Speaker 4: But that's what I'm saying. So you're listening to what

1006
00:43:52,440 --> 00:43:54,120
Speaker 4: he's saying that I didn't discisten my child.

1007
00:43:54,120 --> 00:43:57,840
Speaker 1: Friend, Well, i'm asking you if, okay, I'm not criticaging you.

1008
00:43:58,280 --> 00:44:00,799
Speaker 1: I started myselfing out by not criticized, but I'm saying

1009
00:44:00,960 --> 00:44:02,200
Speaker 1: if but I.

1010
00:44:02,160 --> 00:44:06,279
Speaker 4: Had already I had already explained that when she did

1011
00:44:06,320 --> 00:44:09,399
Speaker 4: go to bite him, I put her aside and said,

1012
00:44:09,400 --> 00:44:11,840
Speaker 4: you cannot be doing that and you need to apologize.

1013
00:44:12,000 --> 00:44:14,440
Speaker 1: Is that what happened? Patrick? Did she did? She was

1014
00:44:14,560 --> 00:44:16,799
Speaker 1: Are you not giving her enough credit for her trying

1015
00:44:16,800 --> 00:44:19,239
Speaker 1: to manage her kids? Well, no, no, she did. She

1016
00:44:19,320 --> 00:44:20,040
Speaker 1: did step in.

1017
00:44:20,200 --> 00:44:22,160
Speaker 15: I mean, it's not like she didn't do anything. It's

1018
00:44:22,239 --> 00:44:26,839
Speaker 15: just that I didn't see necessarily the results coming out

1019
00:44:26,920 --> 00:44:29,160
Speaker 15: of her telling her her kids what to do.

1020
00:44:29,239 --> 00:44:30,480
Speaker 4: I mean, it's not like.

1021
00:44:30,440 --> 00:44:32,239
Speaker 1: They just continue doing it.

1022
00:44:32,239 --> 00:44:34,000
Speaker 15: They would stop, but then it would they would a

1023
00:44:34,200 --> 00:44:34,640
Speaker 15: back up.

1024
00:44:34,719 --> 00:44:38,359
Speaker 1: So and again I support for her, for.

1025
00:44:38,440 --> 00:44:41,480
Speaker 15: Single moms, and and I do apologize for using the

1026
00:44:41,480 --> 00:44:43,680
Speaker 15: word terrorists. That may have been a little harsh. That's

1027
00:44:43,680 --> 00:44:45,799
Speaker 15: not necessarily what I meant. It just it was a

1028
00:44:45,880 --> 00:44:48,480
Speaker 15: lot for me and my boy. We're just not used

1029
00:44:48,480 --> 00:44:50,640
Speaker 15: to that kind of energy. So it was just a lot.

1030
00:44:50,840 --> 00:44:53,279
Speaker 4: And that's fine. But like also I feel like he's

1031
00:44:53,320 --> 00:44:55,440
Speaker 4: trying to come off at like their boat says like

1032
00:44:55,560 --> 00:44:57,600
Speaker 4: his son, Yes, his son has behaved, but his son

1033
00:44:57,680 --> 00:44:59,800
Speaker 4: also like through stand at my daughter's a few times.

1034
00:45:00,000 --> 00:45:06,080
Speaker 4: I want to say, they weren't biting the child like

1035
00:45:06,120 --> 00:45:09,279
Speaker 4: by like I said, only my two year old bit him,

1036
00:45:09,400 --> 00:45:11,920
Speaker 4: And like again I try, I disciplined them. We're working

1037
00:45:11,960 --> 00:45:15,600
Speaker 4: on it, like she's too, so like maybe she got scared,

1038
00:45:15,680 --> 00:45:18,960
Speaker 4: you know, like we're trying to communicate with her, We're

1039
00:45:18,960 --> 00:45:21,560
Speaker 4: trying to explain that that's not okay. Sometimes her older

1040
00:45:21,560 --> 00:45:23,640
Speaker 4: sister will get upset and bite her back, but my

1041
00:45:23,760 --> 00:45:27,040
Speaker 4: other my older daughter does not bite other people. Like

1042
00:45:27,200 --> 00:45:29,640
Speaker 4: it's a it's a sibling thing between them that like

1043
00:45:29,719 --> 00:45:32,239
Speaker 4: we're trying to work on. So the fact that like

1044
00:45:32,320 --> 00:45:34,800
Speaker 4: it's all coming down on me, it's just like really hard,

1045
00:45:34,920 --> 00:45:38,840
Speaker 4: Like I'm trying my best, and I know he's trying

1046
00:45:38,880 --> 00:45:41,360
Speaker 4: his best, Like I would never have used that, like,

1047
00:45:41,440 --> 00:45:43,879
Speaker 4: you know, feeling that he didn't disciplined his son enough

1048
00:45:43,960 --> 00:45:46,040
Speaker 4: or that his son was doing things like I give

1049
00:45:46,080 --> 00:45:48,920
Speaker 4: everybody like I give everybody, like the greatest all I

1050
00:45:48,920 --> 00:45:53,240
Speaker 4: give everybody, Like you know, I feel for I feel

1051
00:45:53,239 --> 00:45:55,560
Speaker 4: for every single parent out there trying the best they can.

1052
00:45:55,680 --> 00:45:58,960
Speaker 8: Yeah, we are not trying to criticize you. We are

1053
00:45:59,000 --> 00:46:01,359
Speaker 8: not trying to criticize you at all, but I think

1054
00:46:01,360 --> 00:46:03,360
Speaker 8: we have to respect his decision to not want to

1055
00:46:03,360 --> 00:46:05,160
Speaker 8: be a part of that right now. It was a

1056
00:46:05,160 --> 00:46:07,920
Speaker 8: lot for him. And you can admit that, right, fine,

1057
00:46:07,960 --> 00:46:08,840
Speaker 8: you can admit that.

1058
00:46:09,560 --> 00:46:11,840
Speaker 4: Fine, God is totally fine. I can admit that. The

1059
00:46:11,880 --> 00:46:14,600
Speaker 4: whole thing is is just like be a man and say,

1060
00:46:14,600 --> 00:46:16,640
Speaker 4: you know what, I feel like this is not working

1061
00:46:17,160 --> 00:46:19,520
Speaker 4: and like you know, like it's better off exactly we see.

1062
00:46:19,560 --> 00:46:21,239
Speaker 1: Okay, but hold on, hold on, I mean just one

1063
00:46:21,239 --> 00:46:23,520
Speaker 1: a second. This is not an indictment on parents his

1064
00:46:23,600 --> 00:46:25,919
Speaker 1: so parents as a whole. And I also understand we're

1065
00:46:25,920 --> 00:46:30,040
Speaker 1: talking about your children, and so understandably you have emotion

1066
00:46:30,160 --> 00:46:33,480
Speaker 1: about this and you should and that is fair. But

1067
00:46:33,520 --> 00:46:37,080
Speaker 1: that's probably why he chose not to say anything and

1068
00:46:37,200 --> 00:46:40,839
Speaker 1: just sort of fade away, because he probably didn't want

1069
00:46:40,880 --> 00:46:42,680
Speaker 1: to have to tell a woman who he just met,

1070
00:46:42,960 --> 00:46:45,839
Speaker 1: I think your kids were unruly and then get into

1071
00:46:45,880 --> 00:46:48,600
Speaker 1: this sort of conversation because I understand why you're defensive.

1072
00:46:48,640 --> 00:46:51,279
Speaker 1: I totally do, but I also think you need to

1073
00:46:51,360 --> 00:46:54,719
Speaker 1: understand from the other side that it's a difficult conversation

1074
00:46:54,800 --> 00:46:57,000
Speaker 1: to have with someone when you're talking about their kids.

1075
00:46:57,520 --> 00:46:59,359
Speaker 4: Well, sure, but he didn't even have to bring up

1076
00:46:59,360 --> 00:47:01,000
Speaker 4: the kids. I could have just said, you know what,

1077
00:47:01,040 --> 00:47:03,080
Speaker 4: I'm just not feeling the vibe, like I think you

1078
00:47:03,120 --> 00:47:08,000
Speaker 4: know a relationship, you know what, honestly, like just say

1079
00:47:08,080 --> 00:47:12,840
Speaker 4: something like don't leave somebody on red, like just be respectful,

1080
00:47:13,200 --> 00:47:16,120
Speaker 4: Like I've had to end things. They're not they're uncomfortable.

1081
00:47:16,200 --> 00:47:18,560
Speaker 4: They're uncomfortable when you have to tell someone yeah, you know,

1082
00:47:18,680 --> 00:47:22,080
Speaker 4: like I'm not feeling it or like you could. There's

1083
00:47:22,080 --> 00:47:26,759
Speaker 4: a respectful way to end things without ghosting. That's all

1084
00:47:26,800 --> 00:47:28,719
Speaker 4: I'm saying, Like, I just feel like I deserved a

1085
00:47:28,719 --> 00:47:30,719
Speaker 4: little bit more respect than that after I feel like

1086
00:47:30,760 --> 00:47:31,800
Speaker 4: you really didn't have a connection.

1087
00:47:32,160 --> 00:47:35,280
Speaker 3: But that's fine, that's I think that's I think that's fair.

1088
00:47:35,760 --> 00:47:37,680
Speaker 1: I think that's fair. I think that you're you know,

1089
00:47:37,760 --> 00:47:40,720
Speaker 1: your your emotion and defensiveness about this is also fair.

1090
00:47:41,040 --> 00:47:43,399
Speaker 1: But I also think that it's possible that when we're

1091
00:47:43,400 --> 00:47:45,799
Speaker 1: talking about our own kids and our own families and

1092
00:47:45,840 --> 00:47:49,440
Speaker 1: our own especially when they're our own kids, that maybe

1093
00:47:49,440 --> 00:47:52,120
Speaker 1: you're a little blinded by how that experience may have

1094
00:47:52,160 --> 00:47:54,000
Speaker 1: been for someone else and why that may not be

1095
00:47:54,120 --> 00:47:57,920
Speaker 1: for them. I also understand the communication part of this.

1096
00:47:58,080 --> 00:48:00,799
Speaker 1: So look, no one's coming down on, you know, criticizing you.

1097
00:48:00,840 --> 00:48:03,760
Speaker 1: It's not for him. He has that right. That is dating.

1098
00:48:05,080 --> 00:48:07,040
Speaker 1: But Patrick, I'll ask the question, I mean, would you

1099
00:48:07,120 --> 00:48:09,759
Speaker 1: like to go out with her again? Maybe we you know,

1100
00:48:09,800 --> 00:48:12,959
Speaker 1: don't bring the kids this time, and then slowly work

1101
00:48:13,000 --> 00:48:15,480
Speaker 1: on that whole thing, you know another time.

1102
00:48:15,800 --> 00:48:20,200
Speaker 15: You know, Honestly, had we had this conversation, I may

1103
00:48:20,239 --> 00:48:22,879
Speaker 15: have understood a little more. We we kind of kept

1104
00:48:22,920 --> 00:48:27,359
Speaker 15: it pretty surface, but I really dig the fire that

1105
00:48:27,400 --> 00:48:31,120
Speaker 15: she has that she's representing standing up her kids. I

1106
00:48:31,160 --> 00:48:35,960
Speaker 15: see that she's working on it. I'm absolutely not opposed

1107
00:48:36,000 --> 00:48:37,799
Speaker 15: to going out again.

1108
00:48:37,840 --> 00:48:42,240
Speaker 1: It's oh, I see this. I did not see this coming,

1109
00:48:42,360 --> 00:48:44,560
Speaker 1: So you have no problem being a human Kleenex again.

1110
00:48:45,600 --> 00:48:47,560
Speaker 10: Well, I don't think it's going to be that way.

1111
00:48:47,640 --> 00:48:49,279
Speaker 15: I think I just have a bit more of an

1112
00:48:49,360 --> 00:48:52,440
Speaker 15: understanding of what she's going through, and I like her passion,

1113
00:48:52,800 --> 00:48:53,400
Speaker 15: all right.

1114
00:48:53,480 --> 00:48:56,560
Speaker 1: I mean, look, I'm a little surprised, but Abby, I

1115
00:48:56,560 --> 00:48:59,640
Speaker 1: I understand where you're coming from. Patrick, I I didn't

1116
00:48:59,680 --> 00:49:02,439
Speaker 1: expect this. But great, So it'll be an adult date.

1117
00:49:02,520 --> 00:49:05,200
Speaker 1: You guys go out again. We'll pay for it and then, uh,

1118
00:49:05,320 --> 00:49:08,400
Speaker 1: you know, maybe we'll check in down the road. But Abby,

1119
00:49:08,400 --> 00:49:10,520
Speaker 1: I appreciate your perspective, and I hope that you can

1120
00:49:10,560 --> 00:49:13,480
Speaker 1: see his and maybe see where we're coming from as observers.

1121
00:49:13,520 --> 00:49:16,000
Speaker 1: And I hope you guys have a great day.

1122
00:49:16,280 --> 00:49:18,600
Speaker 4: I can. I mean, I appreciate it, and obviously, like

1123
00:49:18,920 --> 00:49:20,719
Speaker 4: maybe we do have some stuff to talk about, so

1124
00:49:20,760 --> 00:49:23,560
Speaker 4: I do appreciate it. Like Patrick being honest, I can

1125
00:49:23,600 --> 00:49:26,840
Speaker 4: respect the honesty here, so I can. So hopefully you

1126
00:49:26,880 --> 00:49:28,880
Speaker 4: know if it doesn't work, it doesn't work. Like Patrick,

1127
00:49:28,920 --> 00:49:30,160
Speaker 4: you could be honest with me. We don't have to

1128
00:49:30,160 --> 00:49:31,879
Speaker 4: do this with the radio if it doesn't work.

1129
00:49:32,160 --> 00:49:34,799
Speaker 1: Yeah you did. You did kind of chew us out

1130
00:49:34,800 --> 00:49:36,480
Speaker 1: a little bit. So I'm a little afraid of I'm

1131
00:49:36,520 --> 00:49:42,520
Speaker 1: a little afraid of that we're talking about your kids.

1132
00:49:42,600 --> 00:49:43,120
Speaker 1: I get it.

1133
00:49:43,680 --> 00:49:48,520
Speaker 4: Yeah, I've had a rough go and I do stand up.

1134
00:49:48,680 --> 00:49:51,400
Speaker 4: So I mean, I really wasn't trying to fight anybody's

1135
00:49:51,440 --> 00:49:53,040
Speaker 4: head off, but like when you start talking about my

1136
00:49:53,120 --> 00:49:55,440
Speaker 4: kids and me as a parent, like you know, obviously

1137
00:49:56,120 --> 00:49:58,839
Speaker 4: I'm always going to defend what I believe is right.

1138
00:49:59,080 --> 00:50:01,360
Speaker 4: So it wasn't I think that against you guys because

1139
00:50:01,360 --> 00:50:02,680
Speaker 4: we all we all don't know each other.

1140
00:50:05,840 --> 00:50:07,920
Speaker 1: It's a fread show. Good morning. Thanks for having us

1141
00:50:07,960 --> 00:50:10,320
Speaker 1: on the radio, on the iHeart app live and anytime

1142
00:50:10,360 --> 00:50:12,040
Speaker 1: search for a Fred show on demand. Aren't you of

1143
00:50:12,080 --> 00:50:12,960
Speaker 1: you watching Severance?

1144
00:50:13,680 --> 00:50:15,440
Speaker 2: No, but like I feel like I should because everybody

1145
00:50:15,480 --> 00:50:16,000
Speaker 2: talks about it.

1146
00:50:16,120 --> 00:50:18,120
Speaker 1: Could somebody tell me at Severnce please eight five five

1147
00:50:18,239 --> 00:50:20,880
Speaker 1: five three five. I feel like there's usually somebody in

1148
00:50:20,880 --> 00:50:23,760
Speaker 1: the room who's watching, you know, one of everything. Someone

1149
00:50:23,880 --> 00:50:25,920
Speaker 1: here covers all of it, you know, do we have

1150
00:50:25,960 --> 00:50:27,000
Speaker 1: any Minecraft people?

1151
00:50:27,840 --> 00:50:29,200
Speaker 2: I like it?

1152
00:50:29,520 --> 00:50:32,640
Speaker 1: You like Minecraft the game or the like the movies

1153
00:50:32,840 --> 00:50:34,799
Speaker 1: that kind of stuff. Because it was a movie. Of course,

1154
00:50:34,840 --> 00:50:36,479
Speaker 1: it was I think the biggest movie in a long time.

1155
00:50:36,560 --> 00:50:37,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, the Wee records.

1156
00:50:38,000 --> 00:50:39,120
Speaker 1: But did you go No?

1157
00:50:39,160 --> 00:50:40,959
Speaker 2: They sent me a nice pr box that was cool.

1158
00:50:41,320 --> 00:50:44,320
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, okay, so you're a Minecraft.

1159
00:50:43,880 --> 00:50:46,080
Speaker 2: Girlcraft had no idea I'm going this week.

1160
00:50:45,960 --> 00:50:47,880
Speaker 1: Because you know, we got the housewives people, we have

1161
00:50:47,920 --> 00:50:51,799
Speaker 1: the dateline people, me, you have the we have the

1162
00:50:51,840 --> 00:50:55,799
Speaker 1: sports people, Jason, mom, we have a team Mom, Piky,

1163
00:50:56,640 --> 00:50:57,160
Speaker 1: we have.

1164
00:50:59,200 --> 00:51:01,880
Speaker 2: But we haven't like I really do you do?

1165
00:51:02,120 --> 00:51:02,359
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1166
00:51:02,400 --> 00:51:05,040
Speaker 2: Before where do I have a story for you? That's

1167
00:51:05,040 --> 00:51:06,480
Speaker 2: why I came to works in it and that will

1168
00:51:06,520 --> 00:51:08,440
Speaker 2: be in the second port. So you're gonna have to hang.

1169
00:51:08,320 --> 00:51:10,160
Speaker 1: Around exciting week on Wheel a Fortune.

1170
00:51:10,160 --> 00:51:11,560
Speaker 2: I know that's I'm clucking.

1171
00:51:12,280 --> 00:51:14,360
Speaker 1: Why I bring this up because I don't I'm not

1172
00:51:14,440 --> 00:51:17,880
Speaker 1: watching okay, And you know sometimes I just reject. I

1173
00:51:18,000 --> 00:51:21,400
Speaker 1: just say no, no, Moss is what I say. Sometimes

1174
00:51:21,400 --> 00:51:23,920
Speaker 1: when everyone's talking about something, what do you mean you

1175
00:51:23,960 --> 00:51:25,920
Speaker 1: know how that goes? Yeah? Are you watching Severance?

1176
00:51:26,000 --> 00:51:26,040
Speaker 15: No?

1177
00:51:26,280 --> 00:51:28,239
Speaker 1: What do you mean? You know the thing that people

1178
00:51:28,280 --> 00:51:29,879
Speaker 1: do when you're not watching the show that everyone else

1179
00:51:29,960 --> 00:51:31,600
Speaker 1: is watching, and I just I don't know. I haven't

1180
00:51:31,600 --> 00:51:33,279
Speaker 1: watched it, and now at this point I might just

1181
00:51:33,320 --> 00:51:35,040
Speaker 1: not watch it out of principle, just I'm just not

1182
00:51:35,120 --> 00:51:38,680
Speaker 1: going to. But so I don't really know what it's about.

1183
00:51:38,719 --> 00:51:40,640
Speaker 1: So I need someone to explained this to me. But

1184
00:51:40,640 --> 00:51:43,080
Speaker 1: there's a big story. Today, over a third of real

1185
00:51:43,080 --> 00:51:47,560
Speaker 1: life employees would willingly undergo the procedureroom to sever their

1186
00:51:47,600 --> 00:51:51,600
Speaker 1: work memories from their personal lives, like britt Lower did

1187
00:51:52,280 --> 00:51:56,840
Speaker 1: as Helly on Apple TV Severance. Among eighteen to twenty

1188
00:51:56,840 --> 00:52:00,000
Speaker 1: five year olds, the figure rose to almost fifty percent.

1189
00:52:00,160 --> 00:52:02,920
Speaker 1: Among workers age fifty five and over, only one in

1190
00:52:02,960 --> 00:52:05,319
Speaker 1: five would want to be severed. One expert says the

1191
00:52:05,320 --> 00:52:08,000
Speaker 1: fact that so many employees relate to the characters in

1192
00:52:08,080 --> 00:52:11,279
Speaker 1: Severance shows just how blurred the lines between work and

1193
00:52:11,320 --> 00:52:14,520
Speaker 1: personal life have become. The research is a stark reminder

1194
00:52:14,640 --> 00:52:17,160
Speaker 1: of the stress and pressure people face today. No one

1195
00:52:17,200 --> 00:52:19,680
Speaker 1: should feel the need to completely forget about their work

1196
00:52:19,719 --> 00:52:23,440
Speaker 1: lives just to cope. Rather than employees feeling the need

1197
00:52:23,480 --> 00:52:26,040
Speaker 1: to disconnect entirely from work to protect their mental health,

1198
00:52:26,280 --> 00:52:29,399
Speaker 1: leaders should build cultures where people feel able to bring

1199
00:52:29,480 --> 00:52:34,720
Speaker 1: their whole selves to work without feeling overwhelmed or burnt out. Okay,

1200
00:52:35,040 --> 00:52:36,640
Speaker 1: So I guess I don't know if I need someone

1201
00:52:36,680 --> 00:52:39,600
Speaker 1: to explain this to me, Like, okay, so that's what

1202
00:52:39,640 --> 00:52:42,640
Speaker 1: the show is about. The show is about that you

1203
00:52:42,680 --> 00:52:46,200
Speaker 1: don't remember work when you're at home. I guess that

1204
00:52:46,239 --> 00:52:47,960
Speaker 1: would be nice for something. I guess.

1205
00:52:48,160 --> 00:52:51,680
Speaker 6: Yeah, Okay, So Mark leads a team of office workers

1206
00:52:51,719 --> 00:52:54,760
Speaker 6: whose memories have been surgically divided, like you said, between

1207
00:52:54,800 --> 00:52:57,799
Speaker 6: their work and personal lives. So yeah, you don't have

1208
00:52:57,840 --> 00:53:00,400
Speaker 6: any memories of it when you're at the other I

1209
00:53:00,400 --> 00:53:00,759
Speaker 6: don't know.

1210
00:53:00,880 --> 00:53:01,680
Speaker 5: That's amazing.

1211
00:53:01,960 --> 00:53:04,720
Speaker 8: I feel like that would be good for everyone's mental health, correct,

1212
00:53:04,760 --> 00:53:07,200
Speaker 8: you know, like you can really clock in and enjoy

1213
00:53:07,239 --> 00:53:11,880
Speaker 8: your family without checking email worrying about like Sunday scaries.

1214
00:53:11,920 --> 00:53:14,040
Speaker 8: I don't know if you guys get that, but yeah,

1215
00:53:14,160 --> 00:53:18,400
Speaker 8: like Sunday scaries, you can really just enjoy without thinking

1216
00:53:18,480 --> 00:53:21,360
Speaker 8: about what's what's facing you on Monday.

1217
00:53:21,480 --> 00:53:23,239
Speaker 1: I love the people that think that that's what this

1218
00:53:23,360 --> 00:53:26,480
Speaker 1: job is for a lot of people, like like oh, Fred,

1219
00:53:26,520 --> 00:53:27,960
Speaker 1: you just you just go in there and talk and

1220
00:53:28,000 --> 00:53:29,800
Speaker 1: then you go home and like take a nap and whatever.

1221
00:53:29,880 --> 00:53:34,799
Speaker 1: It's like I yeah, this is not well, not for Jason.

1222
00:53:34,960 --> 00:53:36,279
Speaker 9: Up in the middle of the night at least three

1223
00:53:36,320 --> 00:53:38,160
Speaker 9: to four times screaming, freaking out.

1224
00:53:38,200 --> 00:53:40,759
Speaker 1: Oh you have four full time jobs, so there's that.

1225
00:53:40,800 --> 00:53:42,719
Speaker 5: It would be amazing to not think about that.

1226
00:53:42,840 --> 00:53:45,359
Speaker 1: But don't you think more about the other crap than

1227
00:53:45,360 --> 00:53:47,719
Speaker 1: you do this, Like oh yeah, yeah, because it's like

1228
00:53:47,800 --> 00:53:50,719
Speaker 1: you've got actual jobs once you leave here, Like you're

1229
00:53:50,760 --> 00:53:52,919
Speaker 1: the moron who decided during COVID to come in here

1230
00:53:53,160 --> 00:53:55,959
Speaker 1: and give yourself another job. Yeah, and I'm so glad

1231
00:53:56,040 --> 00:53:59,000
Speaker 1: you did. You were my favorite moron for that because

1232
00:53:59,040 --> 00:54:00,920
Speaker 1: you've made it show so much better. But at the

1233
00:54:00,960 --> 00:54:03,040
Speaker 1: same time, you also made yourself So it was like

1234
00:54:03,080 --> 00:54:06,160
Speaker 1: I remember when you know, COVID started and you you

1235
00:54:06,160 --> 00:54:09,560
Speaker 1: were doing promotions in marketing for a couple of radio stations,

1236
00:54:09,760 --> 00:54:11,640
Speaker 1: and you had the forethought to say, you know what,

1237
00:54:11,960 --> 00:54:13,640
Speaker 1: I don't think we're gonna be doing a lot of events,

1238
00:54:14,840 --> 00:54:16,759
Speaker 1: and so you came in here and decided I'm gonna

1239
00:54:16,760 --> 00:54:18,360
Speaker 1: start learning how to do morning show stuff. And we

1240
00:54:18,360 --> 00:54:20,480
Speaker 1: were like great. And then when COVID was over, I

1241
00:54:20,520 --> 00:54:22,279
Speaker 1: remember the suits at the time were like great, So

1242
00:54:22,360 --> 00:54:24,680
Speaker 1: Jason's going back to work now and I'm like, uhh,

1243
00:54:26,560 --> 00:54:30,600
Speaker 1: that's exactly how I responded professionally. I go, oh, y'all

1244
00:54:30,600 --> 00:54:33,080
Speaker 1: better figure it out, because my boy's not leaving. He's

1245
00:54:33,120 --> 00:54:35,719
Speaker 1: ours now, you know. And then so here you are.

1246
00:54:35,760 --> 00:54:37,440
Speaker 1: But you know what, they did figure it out. They

1247
00:54:37,520 --> 00:54:40,799
Speaker 1: just gave you this and all that. They figured it out.

1248
00:54:41,080 --> 00:54:43,520
Speaker 9: Yeah yeah, I mean I just sit here in the

1249
00:54:43,560 --> 00:54:45,680
Speaker 9: app so yeah, no, it's definitely this stuff after this

1250
00:54:45,960 --> 00:54:46,560
Speaker 9: show that.

1251
00:54:46,719 --> 00:54:50,560
Speaker 1: Well, you do more than that. But yeah, you know,

1252
00:54:51,800 --> 00:54:54,200
Speaker 1: I'm not saying this is a hard people driving work.

1253
00:54:54,320 --> 00:54:56,200
Speaker 1: I'm not speaking for myself. People driving to work right

1254
00:54:56,200 --> 00:54:58,680
Speaker 1: now work a lot harder than I do. That's that's

1255
00:54:58,719 --> 00:55:00,520
Speaker 1: not what I'm saying. But for the those who think

1256
00:55:00,560 --> 00:55:01,960
Speaker 1: that we just get could come in here and talk

1257
00:55:02,000 --> 00:55:04,840
Speaker 1: and then there's like nothing that happens after that, that

1258
00:55:04,880 --> 00:55:07,720
Speaker 1: would be silly. You would be silly for thinking that's silly.

1259
00:55:09,480 --> 00:55:10,799
Speaker 1: But I don't know, I don't think you could do that.

1260
00:55:10,880 --> 00:55:13,800
Speaker 1: You couldn't do this job, and pretending you you couldn't

1261
00:55:13,800 --> 00:55:16,719
Speaker 1: do it, I don't think you could. I don't think

1262
00:55:16,760 --> 00:55:19,480
Speaker 1: you could have a radio show and and you know,

1263
00:55:19,600 --> 00:55:24,879
Speaker 1: have a personality radio show and then no personality, well

1264
00:55:25,120 --> 00:55:27,880
Speaker 1: and your life doesn't come into it. Yeah, we wouldn't

1265
00:55:27,880 --> 00:55:29,000
Speaker 1: be able to do this job that way.

1266
00:55:29,080 --> 00:55:29,279
Speaker 10: Yeah.

1267
00:55:29,280 --> 00:55:31,239
Speaker 3: I read an article recently that was talking about like,

1268
00:55:31,320 --> 00:55:33,160
Speaker 3: you know, when you're at work, you know you should

1269
00:55:33,200 --> 00:55:35,600
Speaker 3: never over share, you should never tell your co workers

1270
00:55:35,600 --> 00:55:36,200
Speaker 3: about your life.

1271
00:55:36,280 --> 00:55:38,399
Speaker 2: Keep things separate. And I'm like, honey, with this job,

1272
00:55:38,480 --> 00:55:38,759
Speaker 2: like I.

1273
00:55:38,760 --> 00:55:40,719
Speaker 3: Wouldn't have a job because like I gotta I gotta

1274
00:55:40,760 --> 00:55:45,040
Speaker 3: talk about right or one or the other.

1275
00:55:45,800 --> 00:55:48,320
Speaker 1: On severn someone textedly this seven and eight on severns.

1276
00:55:48,360 --> 00:55:50,480
Speaker 1: You don't even recognize the people you work with outside

1277
00:55:50,520 --> 00:55:53,840
Speaker 1: of work. It's a complete separation. You could go to

1278
00:55:53,880 --> 00:55:58,040
Speaker 1: work hungover and feel bad but not know why. Oh,

1279
00:55:58,160 --> 00:56:00,920
Speaker 1: because you don't bring your personal life into work, and

1280
00:56:00,920 --> 00:56:03,239
Speaker 1: then you don't bring work into your personal life, so

1281
00:56:03,239 --> 00:56:04,320
Speaker 1: it's completely divided.

1282
00:56:04,400 --> 00:56:06,919
Speaker 2: Well, that'd be terrifying to feel crappy and not know why.

1283
00:56:07,760 --> 00:56:09,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know if this would work.

1284
00:56:10,239 --> 00:56:12,399
Speaker 6: And we see each other like we like basically live

1285
00:56:12,440 --> 00:56:14,320
Speaker 6: together out right as well, So I don't think it

1286
00:56:14,320 --> 00:56:15,120
Speaker 6: would work for us.

1287
00:56:16,160 --> 00:56:18,600
Speaker 1: Yeah. I mean Caitlyn Gosh, she hogs all the covers,

1288
00:56:18,640 --> 00:56:19,719
Speaker 1: like every day I wake up.

1289
00:56:19,840 --> 00:56:22,799
Speaker 2: We are the grandparents in willy Wonka. We all share

1290
00:56:22,840 --> 00:56:25,439
Speaker 2: a bed we see each other more than I see

1291
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Speaker 2: my family times.

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Speaker 1: Absolutely really yeah, and GG needs to keep it down

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00:56:28,640 --> 00:56:30,600
Speaker 1: at night, okay, because because his uncle Fred needs some

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Speaker 1: sleep in this fredhouse that we live in together all

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Speaker 1: day on the Real World Fred Show, True Stories. And

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Speaker 1: if you don't know that, Reford, you don't know, you

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Speaker 1: don't know nothing. Hey, Lana, Lana High Okay, so thank

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Speaker 1: you for trying to explain Severance to us. So what

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Speaker 1: is the premise of this show and why should I

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Speaker 1: watch it?

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Speaker 2: Okay?

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Speaker 12: So Stubbance is basically like a corporate sci fi So,

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00:56:58,520 --> 00:57:01,400
Speaker 12: like you've heard like, the premise is that people undergo

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Speaker 12: this surgical procedure to divide their workplace memories from their

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00:57:06,440 --> 00:57:09,319
Speaker 12: personal lives. But it's a procedure that only exists at

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Speaker 12: this one giant corporation, essentially to keep their secrets. But

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Speaker 12: part of what's scary about that is you don't know

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Speaker 12: what the corporation is doing, and also you create this

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Speaker 12: entirely different version of yourself with none of your personal

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00:57:25,080 --> 00:57:29,160
Speaker 12: memories that only exists at work, So they know nothing

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Speaker 12: about anything else except what it's like to be at

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Speaker 12: that office, and you don't know how the office is

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Speaker 12: treating you when you're like outside, like they can do

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Speaker 12: anything to you, and they can just give you a

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00:57:42,880 --> 00:57:46,520
Speaker 12: random explanation for what happened to you, but that's usually

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Speaker 12: in severance at least, not what actually happened to you.

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Speaker 1: Is this a good thing? Like it? Do you watch

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Speaker 1: this and go I would want this?

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 1: Yet, I'm guessing that the premise or the idea is

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Speaker 1: that people and the reason that people in this survey

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Speaker 1: wanted is because they wish they could just leave work

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Speaker 1: and not have to think about it anymore. So I

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Speaker 1: guess that would be the upside, right, is that you

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Speaker 1: don't have to you know, like Kiki's been worried about

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Speaker 1: the show of his Kiky show Down all weekend. Well,

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Speaker 1: I guess if she were on severance, then she'd walk

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Speaker 1: out of here and she wouldn't even know that she

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Speaker 1: had worked here, right, wouldn't worry about it?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's true.

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Speaker 12: I mean, well that's part of like the they have

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Speaker 12: like ethical debates. Like in the show. There's people who

1333
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Speaker 12: are like, no, severance is bad, You're treating like a

1334
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Speaker 12: slave version of yourself, And then there's people who are like, actually,

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Speaker 12: I would really want this, like a lot of the

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Speaker 12: characters who like undergo the procedure had like personal dramas

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Speaker 12: that they were trying to forget, Like the main character's

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Speaker 12: wife died and so he went underwent the severance procedure

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Speaker 12: because of he went to like separate morning time.

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Speaker 1: I guess, but isn't life kind of managing all the

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Speaker 1: different things and trying to figure it out? I mean,

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Speaker 1: I guess I'm making this a little bit more existential

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00:59:01,520 --> 00:59:03,600
Speaker 1: that it needs to be. But I get it. I

1344
00:59:03,640 --> 00:59:05,640
Speaker 1: get the idea that people would like to leave work

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Speaker 1: at work and then go live their personal lives and

1346
00:59:08,160 --> 00:59:10,560
Speaker 1: then come and then work starts again and then they

1347
00:59:10,600 --> 00:59:11,960
Speaker 1: can leave, and you know what I mean. And I

1348
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Speaker 1: think it's true. A lot of businesses don't allow that

1349
00:59:14,240 --> 00:59:16,680
Speaker 1: because now we all have email on our phones and

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Speaker 1: you know, the full internet everywhere we go. I'm like

1351
00:59:20,000 --> 00:59:21,840
Speaker 1: twenty years ago where it was like, oh, you sent

1352
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Speaker 1: me an email, I don't know. I didn't have dial

1353
00:59:23,360 --> 00:59:26,200
Speaker 1: up internet where I was, so I couldn't see it,

1354
00:59:26,240 --> 00:59:28,080
Speaker 1: like you could really only do the work stuff. And

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Speaker 1: even though this place will say like, well, don't email

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00:59:30,200 --> 00:59:33,919
Speaker 1: after five or whatever, everybody emails after five and there's

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Speaker 1: no way that I'm gonna wait to email you back

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Speaker 1: until nine am the next day. And even though they

1359
00:59:37,480 --> 00:59:39,320
Speaker 1: say that's what you're supposed to be allowed to do, that,

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Speaker 1: you're not allowed to do that. Everybody knows that. So

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Speaker 1: I don't know. Lana, Hey, thank you, have a great day.

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Speaker 1: Thanks for listening. Yeah, yeah, oh, thank you so much.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, big fan of you, Lana.

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Speaker 14: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I just don't know. I don't know. I don't know this.

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Speaker 1: This job wouldn't work because you got to be able

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Speaker 1: to bring that in here and whatever. But at the

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Speaker 1: same time, I guess if I had a job that

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Speaker 1: was a little it was it was different. You know,

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Speaker 1: like if I had an accounting job or something and

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Speaker 1: you're paying me forty hours a week or something, and

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Speaker 1: I do that and then I leave you and then

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01:00:10,760 --> 01:00:13,080
Speaker 1: you're texting me about accounting at eight o'clock at night,

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Speaker 1: that would be annoying because well, there's nothing. I'm not

1375
01:00:15,040 --> 01:00:18,280
Speaker 1: going to account for anything until tomorrow, Like there's gonna

1376
01:00:18,280 --> 01:00:20,840
Speaker 1: be no accounting happening now, Like we're going to account tomorrow.

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Speaker 1: But then I think there are probably people listening now

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Speaker 1: going but I throw all of myself into the job

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Speaker 1: That's why I'm good at it, you know, That's why

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Speaker 1: I excel. That's why I make more money than other people,

1381
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Speaker 1: because I'm willing to not have that divide. I don't know,

1382
01:00:34,600 --> 01:00:36,320
Speaker 1: because how do you how do you? How do you

1383
01:00:37,040 --> 01:00:39,400
Speaker 1: separate yourself from everybody else? If you just if you

1384
01:00:39,480 --> 01:00:41,120
Speaker 1: just walk out, it's like you were never there.

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Speaker 2: You know, like a thin toilet paper, So if it.

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Speaker 1: Was wait, no, I don't know that those nails do

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Speaker 1: you like? No? No, no, no, I don't remember this.

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Speaker 1: You like thin toilet papers? Who would who hurt you?

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Speaker 6: No one?

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Speaker 16: No one likes toilet paper purport right, you may choose

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Speaker 16: your and the middle washing. Yes, girl, that would be

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Speaker 16: so mad if you gain miles. But I like a

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Speaker 16: thin toilet paper. I don't want all that, like a

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Speaker 16: like a cloth like, I don't want all that.

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Speaker 1: It leaves the res of doing all that I don't need.

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Speaker 9: That morning, The Fresh Show is on My Friend's Fun

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Speaker 9: Fact Fred's Fun.

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Speaker 1: So bad. Learn so much, guys.

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Speaker 7: Did you know the messages from your brain travel along

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Speaker 7: your nerves at up to two hundred miles an hour,

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01:01:38,680 --> 01:01:40,720
Speaker 7: So in your body right now, when you're thinking about

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01:01:40,720 --> 01:01:43,200
Speaker 7: something and you say like move my arm boom two

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Speaker 7: hundred miles an hour?

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Speaker 1: Oh inside of you see. But for me, I start

1405
01:01:48,040 --> 01:01:50,960
Speaker 1: thinking about this and it's like, you know, thinking about breathing,

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01:01:51,520 --> 01:01:53,880
Speaker 1: Like you don't think about breathing, right, But then when

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01:01:53,920 --> 01:01:56,520
Speaker 1: you start thinking about breathing, then you think about breathing.

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01:01:57,400 --> 01:01:59,680
Speaker 1: You see what I'm saying. And then it's like right

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01:01:59,720 --> 01:02:01,200
Speaker 1: then you it's like, oh, I'm thinking about it now.

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Speaker 1: But normally it would just be like an automatic thing.

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01:02:03,160 --> 01:02:05,040
Speaker 1: You don't think about it. But then when someone's like,

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Speaker 1: you know, how many breasts you think you take? Because

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Speaker 1: that's a question that comes up all the time. People

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Speaker 1: are always asking now, but the human body is capable

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Speaker 1: of amazing things. For instance, when your brain sends messages

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Speaker 1: via your nerves, the signals travel along billions of nerves, cells, neurons, synapses,

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Speaker 1: and neurotransmitters in a process that could be as speedy

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Speaker 1: as two hundred miles an hour wow, according to the

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Speaker 1: National Geographic And then a little bit later on, you know,

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Speaker 1: you take a gummy and slows down a little bit.

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Speaker 1: It's more, you know, forty five, it's more like a

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Speaker 1: school zone. Maybe maybe maybe fifteen, Yeah, I don't know

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Speaker 1: more Press show next