WEBVTT - Episode 253: Just Put the Seat Down (Feat. Jacob Latimore) 0:00:02.279 --> 0:00:05.440 What's up? What's up this Lift Service? I'm Angel Lady, 0:00:05.640 --> 0:00:08.880 I'm g G Maguire, I'm Maurial. We have a version 0:00:08.920 --> 0:00:16.239 on the show till lip Service. Jacob Latimer said, this 0:00:16.280 --> 0:00:17.799 is your first time. That's why I said your version. 0:00:17.840 --> 0:00:19.520 That's that you're a version in real life, but you're 0:00:19.520 --> 0:00:24.040 a lip Service version. But we are. We are celebrating 0:00:24.079 --> 0:00:26.720 with you. So let's have a little toast of Jacob Latimore, 0:00:26.760 --> 0:00:32.000 who put out a New Years C three Baby Connection 0:00:32.120 --> 0:00:36.400 three three C three C three. It's nice that you 0:00:36.479 --> 0:00:38.919 have the whole collection together. Now you can listen to one, 0:00:38.960 --> 0:00:42.640 two and three. Yeah. I think that confused a lot 0:00:42.640 --> 0:00:45.000 of people because I feel like a lot of people 0:00:45.000 --> 0:00:49.319 are still discovering the last two albums. I mean, it's 0:00:49.320 --> 0:00:51.280 important for me to just sort of keep everything on 0:00:52.320 --> 0:00:55.240 just like one project, you know what I'm saying, And 0:00:55.280 --> 0:00:58.840 it's like the last Connection show, Like my next album 0:00:58.880 --> 0:01:00.640 won't be called Connection at So I was just like, 0:01:00.720 --> 0:01:03.160 let me just put it all on playlist, at least 0:01:03.160 --> 0:01:06.679 for the core fans who really know each song. You gotta, 0:01:06.920 --> 0:01:08.920 you know, cook around and go to the next album 0:01:09.080 --> 0:01:11.360 to listen to, you know, they favor the songs. They 0:01:11.360 --> 0:01:15.080 could just your mom, right, and on this project, you've 0:01:15.080 --> 0:01:16.840 got a bunch of songs for them to listen to. 0:01:17.319 --> 0:01:20.760 You got about how many? Is it thirty? No, that's 0:01:20.800 --> 0:01:25.280 three different albums? Connection is that? Why? So? Maybe I'm 0:01:25.319 --> 0:01:28.800 just as done a photo of so many? It's it's 0:01:28.800 --> 0:01:31.399 a it's a collection of the last two albums I released, 0:01:31.600 --> 0:01:35.240 and then the first eleven are the new album. Yeah, okay, 0:01:35.240 --> 0:01:39.679 well that makes sense. Now I sell the video for fashion. 0:01:39.680 --> 0:01:43.640 I gotta ask you who is that dancing? That's Naima. 0:01:43.920 --> 0:01:46.240 It's out of here in Atlanta. She actually from St. Louis, 0:01:46.280 --> 0:01:49.000 but I've been knowing her for a while since, like 0:01:49.360 --> 0:01:52.480 I was helly young and she just she fired, she fired. 0:01:52.520 --> 0:01:55.760 So it was very sexy yeah, and promptu and I 0:01:55.840 --> 0:01:57.400 know she was gonna come with the vibe. So I 0:01:57.480 --> 0:01:59.520 was just like, I was like, you gotta just pull up. 0:01:59.600 --> 0:02:01.960 We like basically just listened to the song for like 0:02:02.040 --> 0:02:05.040 twny minutes and then we just got to recording m 0:02:05.080 --> 0:02:11.200 about a sexy the dirty dancing bring into life. Mm hmmm. 0:02:11.600 --> 0:02:15.320 Now how's everything with Soreyair? She actually just left how 0:02:15.400 --> 0:02:17.240 she owned about to get her nails done? Meet up 0:02:17.240 --> 0:02:19.480 with her home girls. Okay, I was making sure she 0:02:19.480 --> 0:02:23.920 saw the video and approved before she see everything. So 0:02:23.960 --> 0:02:26.760 how does that work. It's never like, okay, y'all, y'all 0:02:26.800 --> 0:02:29.120 getting a little bit too close. Let's put a couple 0:02:29.120 --> 0:02:31.760 of inches in between. I wouldn't even say that because 0:02:31.960 --> 0:02:34.280 I mean before we even started dating, we all we 0:02:34.280 --> 0:02:36.720 already knew what we do. You know, she actress, I'm 0:02:36.840 --> 0:02:40.320 acting different from me doing the movie scene, but as 0:02:40.400 --> 0:02:45.799 naked you know, on the shot. Right. We've seen these 0:02:45.800 --> 0:02:49.440 scenes with Yeahs and Mario, and you know, like I 0:02:49.440 --> 0:02:51.400 didn't come into her life to sort of change what 0:02:51.520 --> 0:02:53.280 she do. You know what I'm saying, I already know 0:02:53.320 --> 0:02:55.160 what she do. I know how professionals she is. So 0:02:55.560 --> 0:02:57.239 and then she wanted to be with anybody else, you 0:02:57.280 --> 0:02:58.720 know what I'm saying, Like she had grown, but she's 0:02:58.720 --> 0:03:00.120 gonna be like, look, I don't want to be with you. 0:03:00.120 --> 0:03:02.200 I don't. You know what I'm saying. So she is 0:03:02.200 --> 0:03:08.160 super popping. You're right, she could really be. She could anybody. So, um, 0:03:08.200 --> 0:03:10.880 you know I'm securing that way. Keep it all the 0:03:10.880 --> 0:03:12.880 way real, though, Did you ever get just a little 0:03:12.880 --> 0:03:16.960 bit jealous? Um? I think for me in the beginning. 0:03:17.560 --> 0:03:19.840 I right, it's my first time dating in the industry. 0:03:20.680 --> 0:03:23.480 I was like, you, like, you dated any other celebrities before, 0:03:23.600 --> 0:03:24.840 Like and did she like, why are you asking me? 0:03:24.880 --> 0:03:28.400 I'm like, I mean, there's really nothing. This is my 0:03:28.440 --> 0:03:30.520 first time dating in my field, so I are just 0:03:30.560 --> 0:03:33.000 like it, really, it really not even that important. What 0:03:33.040 --> 0:03:36.320 if it was somebody that she felt like she wasn't 0:03:36.320 --> 0:03:39.000 that important and then maybe you found out later on 0:03:39.440 --> 0:03:42.000 and she's like, man, I didn't mention this one to 0:03:42.040 --> 0:03:44.200 you because I didn't think it was that serious. Would 0:03:44.200 --> 0:03:47.040 you be upset with her? Um, and it's in the 0:03:47.080 --> 0:03:50.120 past that was not you know, if I had asked 0:03:50.200 --> 0:03:52.280 and then yeah, it just then she like didn't tell 0:03:52.280 --> 0:03:55.200 me the truth about it. I probably, yeah, I would so, 0:03:55.640 --> 0:03:58.160 but she just doesn't seem like the type of person, 0:03:58.360 --> 0:03:59.880 or she's not the type of person to really do 0:04:00.160 --> 0:04:02.440 be like, I'm not I didn't do that. But it's 0:04:02.520 --> 0:04:05.680 not telling the full truth. Not telling the truth, Like 0:04:05.760 --> 0:04:07.720 if she chose to keep that out because she felt 0:04:07.720 --> 0:04:10.240 like it just really didn't matter, is that her really 0:04:10.280 --> 0:04:13.280 not telling the truth or is it just I feel 0:04:13.320 --> 0:04:15.160 like it is? Yeah to me. I mean like I 0:04:15.160 --> 0:04:16.920 feel like if I if I if I tell her 0:04:17.000 --> 0:04:19.840 something like this happened, and then I left out the 0:04:19.839 --> 0:04:23.760 other part. I didn't tell you anything. But if you 0:04:23.960 --> 0:04:25.960 what if you only got your dick sucked, would you 0:04:25.960 --> 0:04:33.360 tell her that she counts not sex right, I would 0:04:33.360 --> 0:04:35.760 tell you everything that happen. That's why I don't even like. 0:04:35.760 --> 0:04:37.720 I don't even if I'm about to be in a relationship. 0:04:37.760 --> 0:04:39.280 I ain't even about to do none of that because 0:04:39.279 --> 0:04:43.480 I've been that guy before. I gotta dance around and lie, 0:04:43.480 --> 0:04:45.880 I gotta delete text messages. It's a lot of work, 0:04:45.960 --> 0:04:49.480 you know what I'm saying. I'm shocked at you. You 0:04:49.600 --> 0:04:53.880 pick that. Delete delete, delete all that ship in my 0:04:53.920 --> 0:04:57.680 past relationships, for sure, I'll tell your mom, Like my 0:04:57.720 --> 0:05:01.280 mom in the way and she asked you to like 0:05:01.360 --> 0:05:03.560 you tell me the list of celebrity girls, Like did 0:05:03.560 --> 0:05:08.039 you just offer up that information? Um? Well, he said 0:05:08.040 --> 0:05:09.839 you never dating in the industry before, I say, you 0:05:09.880 --> 0:05:12.799 lie to us too. I've never did an industry before, 0:05:13.160 --> 0:05:16.320 but slept slept with someone in the industry is different. No, 0:05:16.960 --> 0:05:20.520 every every girl I like, mestwit was like just on 0:05:20.680 --> 0:05:23.200 some like nine to five. I gotta go to work, 0:05:25.200 --> 0:05:27.240 so she don't got to name those people, like if 0:05:27.279 --> 0:05:29.640 it's like a nine to five guy, I she gotta 0:05:29.640 --> 0:05:31.599 be like, well it was one guy James, Like what 0:05:31.680 --> 0:05:36.520 if you're working craft services on set? But he wasn't necessary. Yeah, 0:05:36.640 --> 0:05:38.960 I think I want to be aware. I don't want 0:05:38.960 --> 0:05:43.240 to that wasn't really my makeup artist. That was really 0:05:43.279 --> 0:05:50.600 my makeup artist. So I'm like, I ain't gonna surprise 0:05:50.680 --> 0:05:52.560 you by nothing. And then you know, I don't want 0:05:52.560 --> 0:05:55.160 to be a problem. All right. Now you have this 0:05:55.200 --> 0:05:57.200 song called Can't Wait for Losing? What are some things 0:05:57.200 --> 0:06:00.240 that make you lose it? Like? What are some things 0:06:00.279 --> 0:06:02.560 in a relationship that could be like pet peeves of 0:06:02.560 --> 0:06:06.560 yours that gets you upset? Pet piece? Um, I don't 0:06:06.600 --> 0:06:11.000 like a just a dirty chick. I mean like like 0:06:11.080 --> 0:06:14.880 a like a messy chick, Like I don't know I 0:06:15.400 --> 0:06:18.159 p in the world. Girl like treat herself, her feet, 0:06:18.160 --> 0:06:24.400 her nails room even during quarantine because you know you 0:06:24.440 --> 0:06:27.280 got to give us a pass right now, Yes, yes, 0:06:27.440 --> 0:06:32.279 I mean absolutely school during quarantine, I guess. But I 0:06:32.360 --> 0:06:35.280 was like but the most just I like, I like 0:06:35.320 --> 0:06:37.400 a girl who pay attention to detail. I'm a real 0:06:37.480 --> 0:06:40.960 neat freak myself. I've always go that way. Like both 0:06:41.080 --> 0:06:43.599 sides of my family are like really clean freaks. My 0:06:43.680 --> 0:06:46.120 dad and my grandmother on that side, they clean their 0:06:46.120 --> 0:06:48.839 house every morning like this faithfully, you know what I'm saying. 0:06:49.279 --> 0:06:51.360 And then like my mother she gets in the morning, 0:06:51.440 --> 0:06:54.160 she vacuum and she's riping down stuff like I'm just 0:06:54.600 --> 0:06:57.000 I come from that so and I've seen most of 0:06:57.040 --> 0:06:58.560 the women in my life do that. So when I 0:06:58.800 --> 0:07:02.400 see a woman on really treat her environment the way 0:07:02.440 --> 0:07:07.039 I'm used to, I'm just like you keeping your bucklean, Like, yeah, 0:07:07.440 --> 0:07:10.120 you're right. I have a question. Have you ever had 0:07:10.120 --> 0:07:13.520 a situation where you were talking to who are dating 0:07:13.520 --> 0:07:16.720 a girl? And then you went to her house and 0:07:16.760 --> 0:07:21.880 it was a total mess? Yeah, and what happened? Did 0:07:21.920 --> 0:07:23.920 you like he brought his own sheets with him, stel 0:07:23.960 --> 0:07:28.680 hit or did you just like leaven tell her that 0:07:28.720 --> 0:07:37.240 it was he hit? Standing up? Honest, I didn't even 0:07:38.040 --> 0:07:39.880 because I wasn't gonna be that involved with her. I 0:07:39.960 --> 0:07:43.000 didn't even like you didn't care. I don't even care, 0:07:43.160 --> 0:07:45.400 you know then. I was just my mind was my 0:07:45.480 --> 0:07:47.480 mindset was different. You know what I'm saying. I'm just like, 0:07:47.520 --> 0:07:49.080 I'm coming here to do my thing, and I'm dead, 0:07:49.160 --> 0:07:52.240 I ain't about to, like damn. But if it was 0:07:52.240 --> 0:07:54.920 a girl that you were interested in seeing like that, 0:07:54.960 --> 0:07:57.960 like you really really was digging her and then bam 0:07:58.040 --> 0:07:59.760 you get to her house and it's a sucking pig styck, 0:08:00.840 --> 0:08:03.119 I would say right now, I'd probably be a little 0:08:03.120 --> 0:08:05.320 more on defense, like I would say maybe a few 0:08:05.400 --> 0:08:09.360 years ago, I probably just been like now could turn 0:08:09.400 --> 0:08:12.160 me off right now? You know what I'm saying. I 0:08:12.160 --> 0:08:14.720 don't know. I just like you grow, you kind of 0:08:14.760 --> 0:08:17.680 go through the growing phases, get more selective. You just 0:08:17.720 --> 0:08:22.320 be like, I'm cool on that. Actual think it's different 0:08:22.400 --> 0:08:25.320 levels of like messy or dirty, you know what I'm saying, 0:08:25.320 --> 0:08:27.760 Because sometimes MESSI could be like I did my laundry, 0:08:28.080 --> 0:08:29.840 it's on the bed. I just didn't put it away. 0:08:29.880 --> 0:08:31.880 I changed my clothes three times the day. And here 0:08:32.800 --> 0:08:39.280 dirty dirty is like the sticky, Yeah, got shiped stains 0:08:39.400 --> 0:08:42.920 on it, like you haven't done these dishes in like 0:08:43.080 --> 0:08:48.160 four days. Sticky, It's like it's not that the bathroom. 0:08:48.200 --> 0:08:51.000 If you're come on, a woman, got a woman supposed 0:08:51.040 --> 0:08:53.160 to keep her toilet eight one, we gotta sit on it. 0:08:53.400 --> 0:08:55.080 I felt like a man too, because I don't want 0:08:55.080 --> 0:08:57.040 to go to a man's house and oh my god, 0:08:57.080 --> 0:09:00.480 that brings around the toilet or you know, bet y'all 0:09:00.480 --> 0:09:02.400 do it, y'all don't be sometimes putting the seat up, 0:09:02.440 --> 0:09:04.319 and then you pee on a guy, damn seat and 0:09:04.520 --> 0:09:06.959 Will says the pet and you're like, yo, but it's 0:09:06.960 --> 0:09:09.720 wrong with you. Like and I'll be like, you know, 0:09:09.720 --> 0:09:12.280 when I'm I'm not home alone by myself too long, 0:09:12.480 --> 0:09:15.959 I was like, damn, I'm gonna so I get to 0:09:16.000 --> 0:09:18.720 Washington clean. You know what I'm saying. So we gotta 0:09:18.720 --> 0:09:20.960 be away that because I feel like, for me, we 0:09:21.040 --> 0:09:24.520 just got a lazier like opportunities. When we peek, you 0:09:24.640 --> 0:09:27.480 just like, yeah, so you don't you don't put the 0:09:27.480 --> 0:09:33.000 seat up? Come on, Jack, what did they deal? I 0:09:33.080 --> 0:09:35.400 just sometimes I gotta be so bad. I'll be like, 0:09:36.800 --> 0:09:40.079 throw it out. I think the weight down is worse 0:09:40.120 --> 0:09:42.360 than not putting it up. But when you pee on 0:09:42.480 --> 0:09:45.520 the seat is disgusting. Then you can clean it up. 0:09:45.559 --> 0:09:47.160 But when you live with a female and you leave 0:09:47.200 --> 0:09:50.560 the toilet seat open, that's just so rude and respectone 0:09:50.640 --> 0:09:52.319 we go to sit down, we don't look so now 0:09:52.360 --> 0:09:56.320 I'm fell in the toilet. Before doing that, you're going 0:09:56.400 --> 0:09:58.280 the bathroom in the dark, in the dark, in the 0:09:58.280 --> 0:10:00.760 middle of the dark, and then you finish have facts too, 0:10:00.920 --> 0:10:06.160 and then you go to the bathroom. Growth. No, I 0:10:06.200 --> 0:10:08.120 feel like I've been I've been guilty of that a 0:10:08.200 --> 0:10:16.240 few times. So sometimes already all right, now, let me 0:10:16.280 --> 0:10:17.959 ask you this. And you also have this song called 0:10:17.960 --> 0:10:20.400 too Long? Is that a real story? Like you ever 0:10:20.880 --> 0:10:23.360 took too long to tell somebody you were interested in? 0:10:23.360 --> 0:10:27.080 Now she don't moved on to somebody else, uh Conda. 0:10:27.200 --> 0:10:30.319 But it was from my personal experience, it was more 0:10:30.400 --> 0:10:32.920 so like it was really a relationship I really didn't 0:10:32.920 --> 0:10:34.840 need to go back to, you know what I'm saying. 0:10:34.880 --> 0:10:38.080 So sometimes, you know, we get sort of attached to 0:10:38.120 --> 0:10:40.520 that toxic relationship we was in and we want to 0:10:40.559 --> 0:10:42.520 go back, and we're like, Dawn, I took too long 0:10:42.559 --> 0:10:44.920 to say how I felt how I really felt because 0:10:44.960 --> 0:10:48.240 I was just too prideful. But um, from my personal 0:10:48.240 --> 0:10:50.040 experience in the end, it was like more so like 0:10:50.120 --> 0:10:54.320 I'm glad I didn't, but I think, you know I 0:10:54.360 --> 0:10:56.040 heard this song. I felt like it was more so 0:10:56.320 --> 0:10:59.120 just a relatable story period, you know what I mean, 0:10:59.160 --> 0:11:03.840 just to even Matt just imagining just like seeing a 0:11:03.880 --> 0:11:06.320 girl or seeing you know, seeing a guy y'all may 0:11:06.480 --> 0:11:08.960 like just like and then you you're pride and ego 0:11:09.080 --> 0:11:10.880 just got in a way, y'all. Y'all didn't really say 0:11:10.880 --> 0:11:13.040 how y'all felt in the beginning. You know what, I 0:11:13.480 --> 0:11:16.360 had that that defensive the whole time, and then you 0:11:16.480 --> 0:11:19.200 just now he like married kids and you just like 0:11:19.320 --> 0:11:20.840 that and that I miss out on the guy that 0:11:20.920 --> 0:11:28.840 was my Like you know what I'm saying. Stop, I'm 0:11:28.880 --> 0:11:30.920 gonna tell you what Larry y'all does. Larry y'all would 0:11:30.960 --> 0:11:33.120 be like, I don't really like him, blah blah blah, 0:11:33.160 --> 0:11:35.640 and the next you know that be her boyfriend. Yeah, 0:11:35.760 --> 0:11:38.280 that's how like usually I don't like guys in the beginning. 0:11:38.679 --> 0:11:42.880 It takes a while, I don't know. And it's not 0:11:42.920 --> 0:11:45.559 even like an attractive thing or anything, because it'll be like, 0:11:45.640 --> 0:11:48.120 all right, he's attractive, but like I don't like him, 0:11:48.400 --> 0:11:49.600 you know what I mean. I feel like he has 0:11:49.640 --> 0:11:52.640 to gain excuse me, he has to gain my life, 0:11:52.679 --> 0:11:55.560 if that makes sense, Like how you have to gain 0:11:55.640 --> 0:11:57.800 someone's love. I feel like you have to show me 0:11:57.840 --> 0:12:00.000 why I should like you. And and and soon as she said, 0:12:00.000 --> 0:12:01.760 ask you don't like somebody I always be like, oh, 0:12:01.840 --> 0:12:04.480 she like him, she's gonna know she's gonna end up. 0:12:05.480 --> 0:12:09.800 But Jacob Howlan, did it take for you to say 0:12:09.800 --> 0:12:11.960 I'm gonna lock it down? Because obviously you start off 0:12:12.040 --> 0:12:14.319 dating somebody, but then you shift to the phase where 0:12:14.320 --> 0:12:16.680 you're like, okay, this my girl, Like what made you 0:12:16.720 --> 0:12:20.439 realize that's what you wanted? Um? It was kind of 0:12:20.520 --> 0:12:24.720 like we was in Chicago. I think it started started 0:12:24.720 --> 0:12:26.160 out with us just kind of really hanging out. We 0:12:26.200 --> 0:12:29.080 would just we would go to fucking like like Neil 0:12:29.120 --> 0:12:30.959 Salions and stuff, and I'll just be kind of chilling 0:12:31.000 --> 0:12:32.800 by the door waiting for her to get done, and 0:12:32.800 --> 0:12:34.360 then she'd be, hey, you want to get your feet 0:12:34.360 --> 0:12:39.480 done and something like clip. I was like, no, no, no, 0:12:39.520 --> 0:12:40.560 you know, I mean, I don't want to show my 0:12:40.640 --> 0:12:44.960 toes like that. How you have ugly feet? Now? I 0:12:44.960 --> 0:12:48.120 don't really think I got ugly feet, but uh yeah, 0:12:48.160 --> 0:12:53.200 I definitely got a better feed than what they said, 0:12:53.240 --> 0:12:57.640 Oh I got I got some now. Yeah, that's how 0:12:57.640 --> 0:12:59.439 we wanted to celebrate with you. This is a new 0:12:59.679 --> 0:13:09.200 summer watermelon. So yeah, we started out doing that and 0:13:09.240 --> 0:13:12.200 then after a while, I think for me, I started 0:13:12.360 --> 0:13:15.600 kind of cutting everybody off during the friendship stage. I'm 0:13:15.600 --> 0:13:18.880 not sure for her, but for me, I was almost 0:13:18.920 --> 0:13:21.680 like I don't really got like it's like my friend 0:13:21.840 --> 0:13:23.679 right here, this's like my girl. I feel like we 0:13:23.840 --> 0:13:28.040 just vibing, you know what. I don't really trust no 0:13:28.160 --> 0:13:30.520 other girl to really in my life right now to 0:13:30.920 --> 0:13:32.760 feel that void or whatever. So I just I was 0:13:32.880 --> 0:13:34.559 really just talking to her every day, you know what 0:13:34.640 --> 0:13:36.880 I'm saying. So I was by the time it came 0:13:36.920 --> 0:13:40.720 down for lockdown, I was already like down. I was 0:13:40.760 --> 0:13:42.920 like I was already like myself down, you know what 0:13:42.960 --> 0:13:45.679 I'm saying. So I wouldn't really I wouldn't bringing no 0:13:45.760 --> 0:13:47.720 more girls over to the crib. It wasn't no girls 0:13:47.760 --> 0:13:50.440 in my personal space and energy. It was just like 0:13:50.840 --> 0:13:54.960 she was. Ain't nobody popped up on you during that time, 0:13:55.040 --> 0:13:56.960 Like where is he? Why is he not returning my 0:13:57.040 --> 0:14:00.120 cause you ain't have nobody just showing up. No, I was. 0:14:00.240 --> 0:14:02.760 It was a couple of girls, uh giving me that 0:14:02.880 --> 0:14:06.800 like you're ignoring me? Now you're good? Yeah, So did 0:14:06.800 --> 0:14:12.120 you feel bad? Yeah, like any girl, because say, like 0:14:12.160 --> 0:14:14.640 one of them, I'm sure he was at least cool 0:14:15.040 --> 0:14:16.680 with one of the girls. He was talking to because 0:14:16.679 --> 0:14:19.160 you was communicating with them, So did you like I 0:14:19.240 --> 0:14:22.120 felt like, damn, y'all, I gotta cut it off. I 0:14:22.160 --> 0:14:25.280 gotta ghost shot the girls. The girls I was dealing. 0:14:25.400 --> 0:14:30.960 We were only meeting up for one thing, dinner, I 0:14:33.480 --> 0:14:38.920 annoying Sup and somebody got something going in the mouth. 0:14:40.440 --> 0:14:42.960 Now we was just we was meeting up for one thing. 0:14:43.080 --> 0:14:46.280 So I didn't really feel like that deeply connected to 0:14:46.760 --> 0:14:50.200 personally because we hadn't talked about every personally like me 0:14:50.320 --> 0:14:52.880 and so Red started off like hell like we was 0:14:52.960 --> 0:14:54.800 just talking. You know what I'm saying. It was it 0:14:54.880 --> 0:14:57.360 was the first time I felt like I didn't really 0:14:57.400 --> 0:14:58.920 just want to like hit it and quit it, like 0:14:59.440 --> 0:15:01.560 I want to I want to talk to her about stuff. 0:15:01.600 --> 0:15:03.080 I want to call and see what she's doing. Like 0:15:03.360 --> 0:15:05.960 it was like everything was like sex was like the 0:15:06.040 --> 0:15:09.200 last thing one. So that was I noticed that about myself. 0:15:09.200 --> 0:15:12.000 Are just like wow, I feel like that, you know, 0:15:12.680 --> 0:15:16.400 that's so sweet And by the time it got to it, 0:15:16.400 --> 0:15:19.560 it was amazing. But ship, oh, it's the first time 0:15:19.600 --> 0:15:23.000 did you last or were you like I was there 0:15:25.800 --> 0:15:29.600 look at the blessing because you know that waiting and 0:15:29.640 --> 0:15:32.560 you like know somebody really well and this emotional and 0:15:32.600 --> 0:15:36.000 then you'd be like, oops, you no, I mean I've 0:15:36.080 --> 0:15:40.080 had my time, but not that time. You was like, 0:15:40.120 --> 0:15:42.600 I gotta show I'm gonna put in some work that 0:15:42.800 --> 0:15:44.720 you know, you know, I feel like it's this it's 0:15:44.720 --> 0:15:46.360 this thing with guys, and we feel like we gotta 0:15:46.400 --> 0:15:48.560 tear it up, you know, and you feel like we 0:15:48.560 --> 0:15:52.200 gotta just like but then y'all get lazy. When y'all 0:15:52.200 --> 0:15:56.080 get comfortable and get comfortable that you like turned around, 0:15:56.440 --> 0:15:59.400 You're like, come on, get on the top. I'm aware 0:15:59.440 --> 0:16:02.880 of that too, So I'm like, even though it's only 0:16:02.920 --> 0:16:04.560 been a year, it's just like I always always look 0:16:04.600 --> 0:16:10.000 for things because relationships can't get routine and born, especially 0:16:10.040 --> 0:16:12.600 during quarantine. You know what I'm saying, We if we're 0:16:12.600 --> 0:16:15.640 in a long distance relationship, I'm only I'm calling you 0:16:15.680 --> 0:16:17.280 every day and I'm asking me what you're doing you 0:16:17.320 --> 0:16:25.480 and din nothing right? Yeah, make it interesting, you know 0:16:25.520 --> 0:16:28.000 what I'm saying. How have you been staying busy during quarantine? 0:16:29.000 --> 0:16:33.000 Since I've been back in Atlanta, been been moving, I've 0:16:33.040 --> 0:16:37.560 been stuck in traffic. Listen, we're all At first it 0:16:37.680 --> 0:16:40.080 wasn't though, it was kind of quiet, I felt like 0:16:40.160 --> 0:16:43.240 and then out of nowhere. It's like everybody came outside 0:16:43.240 --> 0:16:46.360 at the same time. I've been in self quarantine since 0:16:46.440 --> 0:16:49.400 the middle of March, and I've only gone outside about 0:16:49.520 --> 0:16:52.200 including today he's six times to go grocery shopping. But 0:16:52.360 --> 0:16:54.840 the past maybe two or three times that I've been outside. 0:16:54.920 --> 0:16:59.360 It's like back to normal traffic, back to northern crowded, 0:16:59.560 --> 0:17:02.200 the gas that like everything is just and and I 0:17:02.240 --> 0:17:04.159 have friends that are like going out, you know, like 0:17:04.200 --> 0:17:06.119 the rest of a rounds our clubs. So I have 0:17:06.240 --> 0:17:08.679 friends that are like going now and the hookah lounge. 0:17:08.840 --> 0:17:11.080 But I was scared to go to g G house, y'all. 0:17:11.119 --> 0:17:14.240 I just part house last week. I swear to guy. 0:17:14.520 --> 0:17:16.720 I was in my house, like g G, I'm not 0:17:16.800 --> 0:17:18.520 coming over there. When I come over with y'all, I'm 0:17:18.600 --> 0:17:21.000 have a mask on because I've just been you know, 0:17:21.080 --> 0:17:24.120 I've been scared of reading the news and stuff like that, 0:17:24.600 --> 0:17:28.280 and I just didn't want to go outside. It was 0:17:28.320 --> 0:17:32.160 definitely scared because I was I spent I spent about 0:17:32.200 --> 0:17:34.480 a month in l A before I came out here. 0:17:35.840 --> 0:17:38.960 You know, it kind of it almost never stopped. It 0:17:39.040 --> 0:17:42.200 slowed down a little bit, but it never really fully stopped. 0:17:42.280 --> 0:17:44.760 What about filming? Like, what all did it shut down 0:17:44.840 --> 0:17:47.040 for you? Because I know we're all waiting for the 0:17:47.080 --> 0:17:49.960 new episodes of The Shot, which is all of our 0:17:50.040 --> 0:17:53.320 favorite show. Wait, so like we're waiting for that, so 0:17:53.560 --> 0:17:56.439 that that is that postponed because of that, and you 0:17:56.480 --> 0:17:58.439 know anything else that got messed up. We want to 0:17:58.440 --> 0:18:00.240 see if you make some more kids on there and 0:18:00.359 --> 0:18:04.200 buy some more sneakers, you know. So luckily with the Shot, 0:18:04.280 --> 0:18:09.480 we have finished the shot, Like November, we finished the Shot. Yeah, 0:18:09.840 --> 0:18:12.600 I would say November, so we feelmed four months out 0:18:12.640 --> 0:18:15.320 the year. During the summer we usually would start getting 0:18:15.440 --> 0:18:18.280 getting ready. Actually we usually would start feeling like July 0:18:19.160 --> 0:18:22.680 or something like that. So, um, by that time we 0:18:22.680 --> 0:18:26.760 were done with the season. Now Sirea Empire they had 0:18:26.800 --> 0:18:30.880 to cancel the last two, so they had to edit 0:18:30.960 --> 0:18:33.560 up what they had and then have a finale. But 0:18:33.640 --> 0:18:35.520 you know, luckily we were able to finish our season 0:18:35.520 --> 0:18:38.440 three so people would see the full season three, everything 0:18:38.760 --> 0:18:41.560 that's that was written. You know, you've been out there 0:18:41.560 --> 0:18:44.040 from the beginning and everybody has it. Yeah, boy, Jason 0:18:44.080 --> 0:18:48.359 Mitchell is gone, Barton is gone, and that's our boy. Yeah, 0:18:48.400 --> 0:18:51.400 we love Bart. I'm sad about all that ship because 0:18:51.400 --> 0:18:52.959 I feelt like and I was scared too in the 0:18:52.960 --> 0:18:56.359 beginning because I just felt like damn like and the 0:18:56.440 --> 0:18:58.800 bing like the bang on. You know what I'm saying. 0:18:59.080 --> 0:19:01.880 You know so um, but you know the writers made 0:19:01.920 --> 0:19:04.280 us feel a hell of a lot comfortable, just like 0:19:04.760 --> 0:19:07.400 this ship happens all the time. We've been here before, 0:19:08.320 --> 0:19:11.120 you know what, other shows like, we can write this ship, 0:19:11.119 --> 0:19:13.680 We're gonna we're good at this ship. Figure it out? 0:19:14.680 --> 0:19:16.679 Does Jason stiff reach out to you? Because I know 0:19:16.760 --> 0:19:20.119 he's been in a bunch of uh situations and I 0:19:20.200 --> 0:19:24.000 know you you probably separates as far as friendship, but um, 0:19:24.000 --> 0:19:26.320 have you heard from him? Oh yeah, I've talked to 0:19:26.400 --> 0:19:29.840 him all the time. He's good, He's good at It's 0:19:29.840 --> 0:19:33.919 just I mean, I think that Jason has his character 0:19:34.040 --> 0:19:36.080 is real strong, you know what I'm saying. But I know, 0:19:36.160 --> 0:19:37.760 I know, I know it's hard for him, you know 0:19:37.800 --> 0:19:41.159 what I mean. And just everything's done, you know what 0:19:41.200 --> 0:19:44.760 I mean. He went from being booked out like the 0:19:44.800 --> 0:19:49.640 whole twenty nineteen to just what so I know that's 0:19:49.680 --> 0:19:51.679 that's that's got to be tough. And he got kids, 0:19:51.880 --> 0:19:55.320 you know what I mean, you got them. So I'm 0:19:55.359 --> 0:19:57.159 pretty I'm pretty sure it's tough for him. And you know, 0:19:57.200 --> 0:19:58.680 I just keep him in my prayers and you know, 0:19:58.720 --> 0:20:00.040 I just tell him I love him and I I 0:20:00.280 --> 0:20:02.480 always show a lot of love to him. May think 0:20:02.520 --> 0:20:06.280 there's any coming back from that, it's tough. It's tough. 0:20:06.440 --> 0:20:08.679 I mean we've seen we've seen it happen with you 0:20:08.680 --> 0:20:11.359 know a lot of actors, like you think about Columbus Short, 0:20:11.560 --> 0:20:14.080 you know what I mean. We think about we think 0:20:14.080 --> 0:20:16.879 about any that dope actor that was on his way 0:20:16.880 --> 0:20:19.240 to being like that guy, you know what I mean. 0:20:19.320 --> 0:20:21.919 So it's tough to come back. I'm not saying it's impossible, 0:20:22.520 --> 0:20:25.640 but it has to be somebody that's gonna champion him. 0:20:25.640 --> 0:20:28.720 It's gonna take somebody like to really be like, look, 0:20:29.040 --> 0:20:31.719 you know, he made a mistake, but we're rocking with him, 0:20:31.760 --> 0:20:33.080 you know what I mean. It's got somebody gotta be 0:20:33.200 --> 0:20:35.920 homee I think now when he was removed and it 0:20:36.000 --> 0:20:39.399 came to filming and stuff like that, where you nervous 0:20:39.440 --> 0:20:42.840 about that, like where's the storyline gonna go? Because me personally, 0:20:43.320 --> 0:20:45.560