Speaker 1: Second date up date for guys. When it comes to
Speaker 1: dating and actually meeting women, Let's face it, we need
Speaker 1: all the help that we can get because the apps
Speaker 1: can be very frustrating and slow. Going out to a
Speaker 1: bar armed with three horrible pickup lines is almost impossible.
Speaker 2: Pickup lines is going to make it really hard.
Speaker 1: Yes, with all these clowns around here, feels like we're
Speaker 1: at the circus.
Speaker 3: Huh, Drake, So you totally kept going with it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm the same. Seem clearly they didn't work in
Speaker 1: here either. But now there's a new dating trend that
Speaker 1: people are doing. And I've never heard about this before,
Speaker 1: but it's how one of our listeners met someone the
Speaker 1: other day. So let's talk to him about it. His
Speaker 1: name is Andre. Andre. Welcome to the show. Hi, Hi, how.
Speaker 4: You doing all of it?
Speaker 3: Well? Stop, I want to know where you learn this
Speaker 3: dating trick or hack or whatever it is from.
Speaker 1: Apparently it's a different like dating activity than people are.
Speaker 5: Doing it is. It's kind of like speed dating meets
Speaker 5: to basically, Oh, it's.
Speaker 2: Like an event that you went to meet someone.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, it's put together okay, like a restaurant hosts
Speaker 1: the event.
Speaker 2: Yeah, speed dating? Is it new?
Speaker 1: But yeah, what makes this different than normal speed dating?
Speaker 5: Well, first of all, you have a set like meat time,
Speaker 5: but the ladies arrived first, and they none of them
Speaker 5: are alone, you know, they're groups of friends and they
Speaker 5: order like drinks or something to eat.
Speaker 2: Oh you like this because you don't have to pay
Speaker 2: for them?
Speaker 3: Is that?
Speaker 1: What it is?
Speaker 5: The way it works is when you bash come in
Speaker 5: maybe about half an hour to forty five minutes later, okay,
Speaker 5: and you get to you know, walk around and say hi.
Speaker 5: But if you sit down, you actually end up paying
Speaker 5: for the meal.
Speaker 1: The guys have to pay for the things that the
Speaker 1: girls order.
Speaker 3: Well, there's multiple women at the table. This sounds expensive, man, Yeah,
Speaker 3: that sounds great.
Speaker 1: If you're a girl.
Speaker 6: I don't know.
Speaker 2: We just do a girl's night. You talk to one
Speaker 2: guys we paid.
Speaker 6: Was amazing to me too. I would annoy everyone with
Speaker 6: my food knowledge, all the food coming.
Speaker 1: But then you have to pay for everything that they order.
Speaker 6: But at least I got attention from a girl for once.
Speaker 5: That's kind of like a blind Uh you're going in
Speaker 5: blind on that one. But myself, a couple of friends
Speaker 5: of mine decided we were going to do this just
Speaker 5: for a funny evening. You figured, if you're splitting the
Speaker 5: bill three ways, how bad could it be?
Speaker 2: You know?
Speaker 3: Okay, so you would all go to the same table
Speaker 3: to meet, like three.
Speaker 5: We were hanging out. I'm hanging out with my friends.
Speaker 5: You're hanging out with your friends. Let's see how it works.
Speaker 2: Okay, So who'd you meet?
Speaker 5: I met a lovely young lady named Becca.
Speaker 1: Did you get a weird feeling when he said lovely
Speaker 1: young lady too?
Speaker 2: Yes to describe someone?
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, let's try it again. You met a really
Speaker 1: hot girl named Becca.
Speaker 5: I met a really hot girl named Beck.
Speaker 1: That's funny.
Speaker 2: How did you guys connect?
Speaker 3: Well?
Speaker 5: I actually asked her if she was just here for
Speaker 5: the food, and she said, it depends on the guy.
Speaker 5: So we just started flirting back and forth.
Speaker 6: Oh okay, And that's such an honest answer. It's like, yeah,
Speaker 6: kind of am But if a cute guy that hits
Speaker 6: it off is yeah, then of course I'm into it.
Speaker 2: How long do you guys spend together? Like, do you
Speaker 2: do the whole meal together?
Speaker 1: Mill?
Speaker 5: The meal was they had something to eat before we
Speaker 5: got there. You have the option to eat if you want,
Speaker 5: but you know, you don't want to eat in front
Speaker 5: of somebody if they're not eating.
Speaker 4: Okay, I just had.
Speaker 5: A couple of drinks. One of my friends got an apetizer.
Speaker 5: You know, we were just basically talking.
Speaker 6: It's just so many of the guys to eat first.
Speaker 2: So how long did you spend with Becca?
Speaker 5: The speed anything goes for about another forty five minutes,
Speaker 5: but she had someplace else to be, so she ended
Speaker 5: up leaving maybe about like a half an hour, and
Speaker 5: so it was still like fifteen minutes left. My guys
Speaker 5: weren't leaving, and I didn't get a chance to ask
Speaker 5: her for her content information. So I asked one of
Speaker 5: her friends, and her friend was nice enough to give
Speaker 5: me her contact information. So I ended up texting her
Speaker 5: later that evening.
Speaker 3: Oh, okay, did you guys go out again? Or is
Speaker 3: that what we're calling on this experience?
Speaker 5: On text? We agreed to like meet up again, like
Speaker 5: did we kind of like lesson at that And here's
Speaker 5: where I think I kind of went maybe went wrong,
Speaker 5: Maybe they came in a little too strong. Was that
Speaker 5: I texted her like between fourteen and seventeen times?
Speaker 1: Oh man, only seventeen times?
Speaker 5: Okay, Okay, they weren't all about the date. Some of
Speaker 5: them were just like a couple of funny memes.
Speaker 3: You know, was there a response from her in between
Speaker 3: all these seventeen texts or was it just your bubbles?
Speaker 5: I still haven't heard from her.
Speaker 6: Oh, no, one thing that there was like one or
Speaker 6: two responses.
Speaker 2: What we can do?
Speaker 1: Are you sure it's the right number because you said
Speaker 1: that the friend gave.
Speaker 6: It to you.
Speaker 5: Yet it's the right number because we texted back and
Speaker 5: forth and once we agreed to meet up, that's.
Speaker 6: When she stopped.
Speaker 2: And it was helpful.
Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe she's working some extra side jobs, trying to
Speaker 1: save up enough money to pay for his next meal.
Speaker 1: That way, it's evened out because he already paid for hers.
Speaker 2: Think they said he just had drinks and maybe an appetizer.
Speaker 1: Well, how much did you spend on her meal?
Speaker 5: That though? Andre found out between me and my friends,
Speaker 5: we only haven't spending like seventy five seventy.
Speaker 6: Five dollars each?
Speaker 2: Are you that? Three ways?
Speaker 5: Total? Okays?
Speaker 6: Like one hundred bucks a person.
Speaker 2: That's that's a lot.
Speaker 1: That's a lot, a lot.
Speaker 3: It's why would a group of girls hold back if
Speaker 3: you're not and it's not like fancy restaurants are the
Speaker 3: ones hosting these type of things.
Speaker 1: No, And that's two hundred and seventy five dollars worth
Speaker 1: of food in a half hour.
Speaker 6: That's like power.
Speaker 1: Eating for it. So yeah, I like Alexis does not
Speaker 1: feel bad for you.
Speaker 6: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Yeah, he came in knowing exactly what he was going
Speaker 2: to get. Why would there be any pity.
Speaker 1: There just because he's a listener to our show and
Speaker 1: we're supposed to act like we're on their side.
Speaker 2: Yeah, well I am. But he doesn't seem upset about
Speaker 2: the bill, Jeff, No, No, I'm.
Speaker 5: Not upset at all. I mean, when you think about it,
Speaker 5: you get right to the point because you're actually making
Speaker 5: a physical, in person connection, you know. Yeah, spending the money,
Speaker 5: I think it's.
Speaker 6: Yeah, a good rab is like seventy dollars in a steake.
Speaker 2: Okay, we could still stop going down the menu. I mean,
Speaker 2: you know howbody else's there's some huggy girls. I like that,
Speaker 2: all right, Okay.
Speaker 5: Person, they were a lot of high end there were
Speaker 5: a couple of high end cocktails on the.
Speaker 1: All right, okay, well not the money that Yeah, he's
Speaker 1: happy to.
Speaker 2: Have met her.
Speaker 1: Good, all right, Well, hopefully we can get her on
Speaker 1: the phone one more time and convince her to meet
Speaker 1: up with you again.
Speaker 2: He sound lovely, Thank you.
Speaker 1: It's not creepy when Brooks says lovely to someone else,
Speaker 1: though only when he says it. We're not going to
Speaker 1: use that word at all when we call her. Come
Speaker 1: back and try and get your second date update right
Speaker 1: after this. All right, second date update. You know what's
Speaker 1: funny about the number seventeen is that it's actually my
Speaker 1: lucky number. I was born on the seventeenth.
Speaker 6: A brooks favorite number is seventeen.
Speaker 1: Well, she only changed it to that because she found
Speaker 1: out it was my.
Speaker 6: Story.
Speaker 1: Seventeen is also the number of muscles that are in
Speaker 1: the human tongue. I didn't know age you want to demonstrate?
Speaker 1: Oh I hate that there was an eighteenth one. And curiously,
Speaker 1: seventeen is also the number of times that our listener
Speaker 1: Andre has texted a woman named Becca with no response
Speaker 1: from her after they met at a tender speed dating event.
Speaker 2: That it is really looking more unlucky and unlucky as
Speaker 2: it goes.
Speaker 1: Everybody is saying seventeen texts without an answer is a
Speaker 1: bad sign. But here's the thing I've gone hundreds of
Speaker 1: texts and emails without answering people, even higher ups at
Speaker 1: our own company who are asking me to fill up
Speaker 1: my time cards so I could quote get paid. Not
Speaker 1: falling for that one management.
Speaker 2: You haven't gotten a paycheck in three years.
Speaker 1: I mean, I signed a contract. What else do I
Speaker 1: have to do?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 6: Yeah, but you're supposed to check your bank account. I'm
Speaker 6: literally on the air.
Speaker 1: What more do they want me to do? You've got
Speaker 1: to go fill out a time sheet? Ter, It's ridiculous.
Speaker 6: I'm at work.
Speaker 1: But we're gonna see what Becca's reason is if she
Speaker 1: answers the phone for why she's not texting you back? Okay, Andre, Yes, And.
Speaker 5: I really need you guys to go to bat for me.
Speaker 3: Okay, okay, I mean, what do you think is key
Speaker 3: to success here? Do you have any ideas for us?
Speaker 5: Like?
Speaker 2: What does she like about you? Do you know?
Speaker 5: I'm not sure. I'm just hoping at some point that
Speaker 5: maybe she lost service and didn't see all of them.
Speaker 1: All right, Well that's ex I think that's a pretty
Speaker 1: good indicator. All right, But lucky number seventeen is the
Speaker 1: one thing that I'm going to stick on to today.
Speaker 3: So here we go ready, I'm going to really emphasize
Speaker 3: her seventeen ununcered texts.
Speaker 1: I would go with not actually yeah, okay, so we're
Speaker 1: starting with officially nothing as we dial her numbers. Best
Speaker 1: of luck to everybody. Here we go, Hello, Hey, we're
Speaker 1: looking for Becca.
Speaker 4: Uh no, no, no, Becca here?
Speaker 5: Who is?
Speaker 2: Do we have the wrong number?
Speaker 6: Sorry about that?
Speaker 1: Yeah, we're a radio show called Brook and Jeffrey in
Speaker 1: the morning. You're not that.
Speaker 3: No, Oh my god, that's why the text have you
Speaker 3: been getting so many weird texts from?
Speaker 1: I don't understand. We got a phone number here from
Speaker 1: a guy named Andre who says he met Becca the
Speaker 1: other night at a speed dating event. He got this
Speaker 1: number from her friend, and he's been texting back and
Speaker 1: forth at this number.
Speaker 2: Oh, I guess he did say Becca did text?
Speaker 4: Or yeah? I am so sorry.
Speaker 1: It's not Do you are Rebecca and you're pretending not
Speaker 1: to be?
Speaker 5: Uh?
Speaker 4: No, I I am Kayla, I'm I'm Becca's friend. I'm
Speaker 4: thee who gave Andre the number.
Speaker 1: Your number by accident?
Speaker 4: What I mean, I wouldn't say by accident?
Speaker 6: Like him?
Speaker 2: So you liked Andre?
Speaker 4: I thought he was really cute and so I gave
Speaker 4: him my number.
Speaker 6: That's messed up.
Speaker 1: Oh my god.
Speaker 3: Wait, why didn't you tell him that it was you
Speaker 3: instead of Becca. Why wouldn't you just say to him, well,
Speaker 3: I'm not going to give you my friend's number, but
Speaker 3: i'll give you mine.
Speaker 4: Oh well, I was at first. I was just like
Speaker 4: upset that he wasn't asking for my number, that he
Speaker 4: asked for her number.
Speaker 7: Oh my god, Oh my god.
Speaker 4: It sounds so stupid now thinking back, But that's like
Speaker 4: why I haven't been texting him because I was. I
Speaker 4: just felt so guilty because like, we made plans and
Speaker 4: I know that that it went too far.
Speaker 3: Oh my got this, dude, this so makes sense, Like
Speaker 3: when he was telling us about this dating event where
Speaker 3: it's like you bring in some of your friends and
Speaker 3: then you meet some other girlfriends, Like this has gotta
Speaker 3: happen all the time, where like maybe not the right
Speaker 3: people liking each other one on one.
Speaker 1: I'm not sure I understand what your plan was.
Speaker 2: I don't think she understood. That's why she's not texting that.
Speaker 1: You gave him your phone number and said it was
Speaker 1: Becca's number.
Speaker 2: In hopes that they could they.
Speaker 1: Fall in love over text.
Speaker 4: I didn't really have the best of plan. I'll be honest,
Speaker 4: but that's not Maybe if they made a plan and
Speaker 4: then he hadn't heard from her a while and then
Speaker 4: you know, reached back out and then I showed up
Speaker 4: and was like, oh my god, you know, like Becca
Speaker 4: was had a link and I was I didn't want
Speaker 4: you to be so you just got up.
Speaker 2: That's a very elaborate plan, you well thought out.
Speaker 4: And I thought like maybe if we were alone, just
Speaker 4: one on one and was talking, that he would see
Speaker 4: just like how wonderful it was.
Speaker 3: So she was going to have Becca ghost him so
Speaker 3: that she could swoop in and come to the rescue.
Speaker 1: Trick him into liking and then be like, I'm better.
Speaker 6: You should just take it on my number. It's the
Speaker 6: same number.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I didn't think about when I finally gave him
Speaker 4: my number and it being the same number, how that
Speaker 4: would go exactly.
Speaker 2: Does your friend Becca know you're doing this?
Speaker 4: No? No, no, she has no God.
Speaker 2: Did she even like him?
Speaker 5: Yes?
Speaker 2: A good question.
Speaker 4: I mean Becca's talking to a lot of guys right now,
Speaker 4: and so he would just be like one of many
Speaker 4: for for me just be warn Okay.
Speaker 3: Oh my god, your voice has been so high this
Speaker 3: entire time.
Speaker 1: All right, well, that's definitely an awkward move. You you've
Speaker 1: been kind of trying to trick him into liking you.
Speaker 4: I mean, I wouldn't say trick.
Speaker 2: Trig him into hanging out with her.
Speaker 1: We've kind of tricked you, but not really because we
Speaker 1: need to tell you that. Well you didn't know this,
Speaker 1: but Andre is on the other line right now listening
Speaker 1: to this conversation. Oh yeah, oh.
Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, and Andre there, well, yeah, I'm here.
Speaker 2: Do you remember Kayla? Andre? Do you remember meeting Kayla?
Speaker 5: Even if you don't, I remember. We really didn't really
Speaker 5: didn't talk much, but we did talk. I'm sorry, I'm
Speaker 5: just a little I'm sorry, I'm a little chat at
Speaker 5: the moment.
Speaker 1: Okay, both flustered right now, and there's a lot of
Speaker 1: information that's all coming out at once. But now, Andre,
Speaker 1: you know that Becca's friend Kayla was kind of into
Speaker 1: you that night. How does that make you feel?
Speaker 5: I don't I don't know like how I feel like
Speaker 5: right now, it's just a little overwhelming, Like it's so
Speaker 5: you never gave her my numbers?
Speaker 7: No, I mean, like I said, she's talking to like
Speaker 7: multiple guys, like we were really there more for me
Speaker 7: that night, like she she was kind of coming as
Speaker 7: like support.
Speaker 6: Even if you did get Becca's number, Bro, she probably
Speaker 6: would have just pushed towards Kayla's direction anyway as a
Speaker 6: good friend.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a good point, Jose.
Speaker 1: Or do you like the challenge of beating out all
Speaker 1: those other guys who are into Becca?
Speaker 2: No, don't do that. I'm going out with Kayla.
Speaker 3: I mean they're like the same energy. He's a guy
Speaker 3: who will text seventeen times with no response. She's a
Speaker 3: woman who will pretend to be someone else beget.
Speaker 2: To feel bad.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like.
Speaker 1: Totally dysfunctional, but for some reason it works. Andre, how
Speaker 1: do you feel about that?
Speaker 5: I mean that sounds I don't know, that sounds really
Speaker 5: good for like a movie, I don't know.
Speaker 4: But what if life could be a movie? Andre?
Speaker 1: Wow, that's what they say sometimes, like the most obvious,
Speaker 1: amazing thing is right in front of you and you
Speaker 1: didn't see it, giving you a fake phone number and
Speaker 1: not texting you back after seventeen messages.
Speaker 2: I love that quote, Jeff. I love when people say that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it is so beautiful and so normally we would
Speaker 1: add I mean, this is a little bit of a
Speaker 1: different situation in light of the new information. I think
Speaker 1: first we need to ask Andre because when you called us,
Speaker 1: you wanted to go out with Becca, but instead, maybe
Speaker 1: would it be cool if we sent you out with
Speaker 1: Becca's friend Hayla?
Speaker 2: Cayla? Tell her?
Speaker 1: Why?
Speaker 2: Come on, Kyle?
Speaker 1: I mean, well, hold on, I'm asking. First, we got
Speaker 1: to ask Andre if he's cool with that.
Speaker 4: It's weird.
Speaker 1: It's weird.
Speaker 4: It's more weird than contacting the radio station to contact
Speaker 4: That's the whole thing.
Speaker 5: It's weird all around.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but what's bad about it? Like, honestly, like, what
Speaker 2: could you lose trying one date with Kayla?
Speaker 1: I mean she doesn't seem like crazy or anything like that.
Speaker 3: No, No, it's seventeen texts.
Speaker 5: That's maybe a little over enthusiast. I wouldn't call that crazy,
Speaker 5: maybe rything.
Speaker 1: Yeah, she's just overly enthusiastic to get to know you.
Speaker 1: We're running low on time here, Andre, what do you
Speaker 1: think one date with Cayle? Give it a shot?
Speaker 5: I mean, I somebody went through this much eper? How
Speaker 5: can I say?
Speaker 4: No?
Speaker 1: I guess yeah, he's saying, no, there you go, Cale.
Speaker 4: I love it, you love she needed all right?
Speaker 1: Well, congratulations, you two are going to meet up for
Speaker 1: your first official date.
Speaker 6: Wow.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you may want to send becka thank you text.
Speaker 5: You know, I think I think we've done enough texting.
Speaker 5: I think we'll only.
Speaker 2: From freaking Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 1: Is anybody else thinking it's kind of strange that this
Speaker 1: girl basically can'tfish to guy, lied and planned to trick him,
Speaker 1: and we're all encouraging this type of behavior.
Speaker 2: I don't know, as I guess she went the extra
Speaker 2: mile for sure. I mean, she felt bad about it,
Speaker 2: so I think that was her saving grace. It's not
Speaker 2: like she came on being like a trictim back to the.
Speaker 6: TV show Catfish to going the extra mile. That's a
Speaker 6: better way to put that, really.
Speaker 2: But I got like I feel for her.
Speaker 3: I think because I also have hot girlfriends that people
Speaker 3: always wanted their number and never wanted mine.
Speaker 2: So maybe you gotta do what you gotta do. Maybe
Speaker 2: it's a sympathy, Yeah, I just.
Speaker 1: I want to try to be responsible when we do
Speaker 1: these in encourage our listeners to maybe not pretend to
Speaker 1: be other people to trip them into loving you or
Speaker 1: forget it, lie cheat steals long as you get what
Speaker 1: you want and who cares right supermode, We're willing to
Speaker 1: break laws and screw people over to get you on
Speaker 1: a date. Don't believe us. Email the show. You will
Speaker 1: do whatever it takes to get that person on a
Speaker 1: date with you.
Speaker 2: Freaking Jeffrey in the morning