1 00:00:00,480 --> 00:00:03,880 Speaker 1: All right, Steve. This is from JB on Steve Harve FM. 2 00:00:04,640 --> 00:00:07,480 Speaker 1: JB says, my girlfriend and I are both twenty five 3 00:00:07,520 --> 00:00:10,320 Speaker 1: and we've been together for two years. We've talked about 4 00:00:10,320 --> 00:00:13,120 Speaker 1: our future and both agree we want to get married 5 00:00:13,160 --> 00:00:17,560 Speaker 1: and have a family, but not yet. Lately, though, I've 6 00:00:17,600 --> 00:00:20,560 Speaker 1: started to worry that she's trying to get pregnant now 7 00:00:20,640 --> 00:00:24,920 Speaker 1: without telling me. She's been extra insistent about sex at 8 00:00:24,920 --> 00:00:28,120 Speaker 1: certain times, and I'm starting to wonder if she stopped 9 00:00:28,160 --> 00:00:31,120 Speaker 1: taking the pill. I love her and I don't want 10 00:00:31,160 --> 00:00:34,959 Speaker 1: to accuse her of anything, but something feels off. How 11 00:00:34,960 --> 00:00:38,720 Speaker 1: do I bring this up without messing up our relationship? 12 00:00:38,960 --> 00:00:43,400 Speaker 2: Wow, well it's like this, Bruh. Here's what you have 13 00:00:43,479 --> 00:00:47,040 Speaker 2: to think of. How do I bring this up without 14 00:00:47,080 --> 00:00:52,000 Speaker 2: messing up our relationship? If she has stopped taking the 15 00:00:52,080 --> 00:00:55,120 Speaker 2: pill and she is trying to get pregnant without you 16 00:00:55,240 --> 00:00:58,400 Speaker 2: knowing how you gonna feel about that? So now you 17 00:00:58,440 --> 00:01:00,560 Speaker 2: want to wait until you have to deal with that, 18 00:01:01,320 --> 00:01:03,160 Speaker 2: or you want to go ahead and address it now. 19 00:01:04,560 --> 00:01:06,959 Speaker 2: Just say, hey, baby, I need to talk to you 20 00:01:06,959 --> 00:01:11,280 Speaker 2: about something because I've noticed the difference. You're incredibly insistent 21 00:01:11,319 --> 00:01:15,720 Speaker 2: that we have sex during a certain time. Are you 22 00:01:15,800 --> 00:01:19,440 Speaker 2: trying to get pregnant right now, because I think that's 23 00:01:19,480 --> 00:01:22,520 Speaker 2: a decision that both of us should make together. I 24 00:01:22,640 --> 00:01:26,920 Speaker 2: like it what you're talking about. I'm talking about how 25 00:01:27,000 --> 00:01:33,440 Speaker 2: you keep out and found this chart that you got. Now, 26 00:01:33,480 --> 00:01:35,440 Speaker 2: I don't know what all this mean, but you got 27 00:01:35,440 --> 00:01:37,760 Speaker 2: to have sex on a certain day a certain time. 28 00:01:38,280 --> 00:01:41,679 Speaker 2: Are you trying to get pregnant? Because if you are, 29 00:01:41,880 --> 00:01:45,840 Speaker 2: I should know that because I'm not in agreement with 30 00:01:45,920 --> 00:01:47,560 Speaker 2: that until after we're married. 31 00:01:48,520 --> 00:01:48,600 Speaker 1: Now. 32 00:01:48,640 --> 00:01:50,840 Speaker 2: I know we've talked about having a family, but let's 33 00:01:50,880 --> 00:01:54,520 Speaker 2: not put the cart in front of the horse, and ladies, 34 00:01:54,600 --> 00:01:59,520 Speaker 2: I'm telling you, hard to trap a man with a baby. 35 00:02:00,080 --> 00:02:04,200 Speaker 2: That's a hard trap to lay. Yeah, if that's your plan, 36 00:02:04,360 --> 00:02:07,640 Speaker 2: you need to get another one. You need to get 37 00:02:07,680 --> 00:02:09,880 Speaker 2: another one that ain't nothing to play with. I'm gonna 38 00:02:09,880 --> 00:02:11,680 Speaker 2: have his baby, then he gonna stay with me. No 39 00:02:11,760 --> 00:02:15,600 Speaker 2: he not, No, he not, no, he Not's that is 40 00:02:16,720 --> 00:02:17,560 Speaker 2: in the book. 41 00:02:18,040 --> 00:02:20,720 Speaker 1: It's proven every day, every single day. That's all I 42 00:02:20,840 --> 00:02:26,240 Speaker 1: was trick in the book. And it doesn't work. No, no, yeah, 43 00:02:26,320 --> 00:02:29,200 Speaker 1: all right, we have time for another one. 44 00:02:29,240 --> 00:02:29,520 Speaker 2: Steve. 45 00:02:30,200 --> 00:02:33,919 Speaker 1: This is from RJ on Steve Harvey FM. RJ says 46 00:02:33,960 --> 00:02:36,880 Speaker 1: I was harassed over the weekend because of my swimwear. 47 00:02:37,240 --> 00:02:40,280 Speaker 1: I've always worn a speedo because I was a competitive 48 00:02:40,280 --> 00:02:42,800 Speaker 1: swimmer in high school and college, so it's all I've 49 00:02:42,840 --> 00:02:45,600 Speaker 1: ever known. While at a public pool over the weekend, 50 00:02:45,720 --> 00:02:48,919 Speaker 1: a mother made me the focal point of a whole tirade, 51 00:02:49,080 --> 00:02:52,040 Speaker 1: accusing me of trying to quote show off my junk 52 00:02:52,320 --> 00:02:55,480 Speaker 1: to all the kids. She even called the cops. Meanwhile, 53 00:02:55,560 --> 00:02:57,320 Speaker 1: she didn't seem to have an issue with all the 54 00:02:57,320 --> 00:03:01,120 Speaker 1: bikinis and cameltoes flunging around the place. I found out 55 00:03:01,160 --> 00:03:03,800 Speaker 1: the lady's name, but I haven't decided what to do 56 00:03:03,840 --> 00:03:07,720 Speaker 1: about it yet. What do you suggest? Yeah, I should 57 00:03:07,800 --> 00:03:10,600 Speaker 1: let it go, but I just can't. 58 00:03:11,400 --> 00:03:14,600 Speaker 2: Well, bro, but what you what you're gonna what? What? 59 00:03:14,600 --> 00:03:15,919 Speaker 2: What you're gonna charge her with? 60 00:03:16,800 --> 00:03:16,840 Speaker 1: What? 61 00:03:17,440 --> 00:03:20,960 Speaker 2: What's she gonna charge you with? You were wearing a speedo. 62 00:03:21,160 --> 00:03:24,200 Speaker 2: That's that's legal swimwhere. 63 00:03:23,840 --> 00:03:28,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, and that's all he's he's known, he says, since. 64 00:03:28,440 --> 00:03:33,360 Speaker 2: What her what her fat behind is mad at is 65 00:03:33,480 --> 00:03:37,440 Speaker 2: cause he over here packing? And who she got at 66 00:03:37,480 --> 00:03:42,400 Speaker 2: the house is yeah is yeah is yeah? Yes, yeah, 67 00:03:42,480 --> 00:03:44,680 Speaker 2: yeah yeah it is. She got on the one piece 68 00:03:44,840 --> 00:03:47,400 Speaker 2: and a and a cover, a rap. 69 00:03:48,600 --> 00:03:50,200 Speaker 1: Doesn't say two. 70 00:03:51,840 --> 00:03:57,280 Speaker 2: She got on the one piece and two covers. Big 71 00:03:57,320 --> 00:04:00,440 Speaker 2: dog walking around with the same speed on ain't number. 72 00:04:00,840 --> 00:04:02,800 Speaker 2: Don't look like nothing but electrical tape. 73 00:04:04,280 --> 00:04:07,080 Speaker 1: Beat up? He walking around the pool. 74 00:04:07,120 --> 00:04:10,240 Speaker 2: I'm talking about he walking around this tape oder he 75 00:04:10,360 --> 00:04:12,320 Speaker 2: just opened here. I'm diving in when I get the 76 00:04:12,360 --> 00:04:16,920 Speaker 2: risk of ain't kids, Hey, kids, back up. 77 00:04:17,760 --> 00:04:19,800 Speaker 1: He just called her a mother, though, I just want 78 00:04:19,839 --> 00:04:21,960 Speaker 1: you to know that it didn't say anything. 79 00:04:22,360 --> 00:04:26,200 Speaker 2: Why did he know she was a mother? I'm telling 80 00:04:26,279 --> 00:04:31,520 Speaker 2: you because she had on the mother outfit. She was 81 00:04:31,640 --> 00:04:35,000 Speaker 2: out there with a one piece owner and a house coat. 82 00:04:35,200 --> 00:04:38,560 Speaker 1: One more of the Sea Horby Morning Show coming up 83 00:04:38,560 --> 00:04:41,599 Speaker 1: in twenty minutes after right after this with Flowers on it, 84 00:04:43,040 --> 00:04:45,520 Speaker 1: you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.