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Speaker 1: It's like a baller location right in a big purple house.

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Speaker 1: Big eggplant purple. Yeah, very bright purple. Well, eggplants pretty dark.

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Speaker 1: wrote an entire letter about how they should change it

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Speaker 1: to the who haa monologue because her little six year

424
00:25:45,760 --> 00:25:48,119
Speaker 1: old said, Mommy, what's a vagina? And I was like,

425
00:25:48,160 --> 00:25:50,720
Speaker 1: your six year old has one? So I don't understand

426
00:25:50,720 --> 00:25:56,040
Speaker 1: why who ha is better? But you're not still asking, right,

427
00:25:56,240 --> 00:25:59,679
Speaker 1: I was like, you're dumb. No purple rule, I guess

428
00:26:00,840 --> 00:26:03,119
Speaker 1: just to say we haven't got much better about vaginas.

429
00:26:03,119 --> 00:26:05,520
Speaker 1: That's all I'm saying. I would have. I don't know

430
00:26:05,520 --> 00:26:07,120
Speaker 1: if you did this, but I would have immediately gone

431
00:26:07,119 --> 00:26:09,720
Speaker 1: home and written the who ha monologues. I did not,

432
00:26:09,840 --> 00:26:12,280
Speaker 1: but I should, and they'd probably be way filthier than

433
00:26:12,320 --> 00:26:15,720
Speaker 1: the vagina monologue ever wanted to be. Send us your

434
00:26:15,720 --> 00:26:22,360
Speaker 1: who monologues? Oh my, no video? Please? Yeah, I think

435
00:26:22,359 --> 00:26:24,560
Speaker 1: we can all get in trouble with it. Thank you,

436
00:26:24,840 --> 00:26:27,679
Speaker 1: all right. So they have a hard time talking about sex,

437
00:26:27,800 --> 00:26:31,200
Speaker 1: but Victor felt that in order to have really good sex,

438
00:26:31,480 --> 00:26:35,600
Speaker 1: you have to have conversations. Just true, very true, still today,

439
00:26:36,280 --> 00:26:41,000
Speaker 1: still today, still hasn't changed yet. One day, well, we

440
00:26:41,000 --> 00:26:43,560
Speaker 1: can stop having all these conversations about sex, I start

441
00:26:43,600 --> 00:26:46,919
Speaker 1: talking about it. But he also felt that you had

442
00:26:46,960 --> 00:26:51,000
Speaker 1: to be intentionally present to the sensations of sex instead

443
00:26:51,000 --> 00:26:52,879
Speaker 1: of just being in your head about it. So like,

444
00:26:53,040 --> 00:26:55,800
Speaker 1: say you're having sex with somebody and instead of thinking

445
00:26:55,880 --> 00:26:58,359
Speaker 1: about how good it's making you feel, or how close

446
00:26:58,400 --> 00:27:00,080
Speaker 1: you are to the person you're doing it with, and

447
00:27:00,080 --> 00:27:03,080
Speaker 1: all that, you're thinking about maybe things you don't like

448
00:27:03,119 --> 00:27:05,440
Speaker 1: about your body, or you're worried that the other person

449
00:27:05,480 --> 00:27:09,080
Speaker 1: isn't having a good time or whatever. The victor that

450
00:27:09,160 --> 00:27:16,160
Speaker 1: made you what he called a lazy comer comer come

451
00:27:17,240 --> 00:27:19,639
Speaker 1: right because he felt like you're not you're not engaging

452
00:27:19,680 --> 00:27:23,840
Speaker 1: all your senses in what you're doing. You're distracted, you're elsewhere,

453
00:27:23,920 --> 00:27:26,280
Speaker 1: You're you're doing too many things at once. Right again,

454
00:27:26,359 --> 00:27:30,320
Speaker 1: you're here and now that's all you're doing. Right, which

455
00:27:30,520 --> 00:27:32,240
Speaker 1: when you're having sex. Yeah, I don't care where I

456
00:27:32,280 --> 00:27:34,040
Speaker 1: am or what time it is. That's a great time

457
00:27:34,080 --> 00:27:36,719
Speaker 1: to say what time is it? It's now, keep at it.

458
00:27:37,320 --> 00:27:38,920
Speaker 1: You know why you ask me what time it is

459
00:27:38,920 --> 00:27:43,960
Speaker 1: while we're having sex? Down, I feel incredibly offended. We

460
00:27:44,000 --> 00:27:47,320
Speaker 1: have to have a conversation about this man real clockwatcher.

461
00:27:48,760 --> 00:27:52,760
Speaker 1: But Linda Gray, who's another more House trainee, described all

462
00:27:52,760 --> 00:27:55,520
Speaker 1: this as sort of what Victor was saying. She said, quote,

463
00:27:55,880 --> 00:27:59,920
Speaker 1: most of our obstacles to orgasmic intensity center on our

464
00:28:00,160 --> 00:28:04,160
Speaker 1: limiting preconceived notions about sex, and we carry these thoughts

465
00:28:04,240 --> 00:28:08,240
Speaker 1: into bed. The training involves getting to know our physical

466
00:28:08,280 --> 00:28:14,159
Speaker 1: bodies as instruments capable of exquisite music, instruments that we

467
00:28:14,240 --> 00:28:18,159
Speaker 1: can play alone or with a partner at any time

468
00:28:18,280 --> 00:28:23,240
Speaker 1: of our choosing technique is far outweighed by our ability

469
00:28:23,280 --> 00:28:26,880
Speaker 1: to pay attention, our ability to focus on a particular

470
00:28:27,000 --> 00:28:31,920
Speaker 1: stroke in a particular moment, and to approve of what's happening.

471
00:28:32,680 --> 00:28:35,679
Speaker 1: And that's important. I do think that's really interesting to

472
00:28:35,760 --> 00:28:39,840
Speaker 1: think about, like applying your mind very much to what

473
00:28:39,880 --> 00:28:42,560
Speaker 1: you're doing, because I think a lot of sex talk

474
00:28:43,120 --> 00:28:47,800
Speaker 1: is about how orgasm or feeling good before an orgasm,

475
00:28:47,880 --> 00:28:50,440
Speaker 1: to the build up to climax or something is very

476
00:28:50,480 --> 00:28:52,920
Speaker 1: like it cloud your brain and you know you kind

477
00:28:52,920 --> 00:28:56,640
Speaker 1: of stop thinking altogether. Um, but they're feeling is that's

478
00:28:56,640 --> 00:29:00,240
Speaker 1: not true? If you if you engage your brain, it'll

479
00:29:00,280 --> 00:29:03,200
Speaker 1: be like ten times better for you then if you

480
00:29:03,480 --> 00:29:06,440
Speaker 1: disengage your And I think that can be true, especially

481
00:29:06,480 --> 00:29:08,880
Speaker 1: if you you are thinking I like this, I approve

482
00:29:08,920 --> 00:29:12,480
Speaker 1: of this, I'm into it. Like that must be helpful, right, Yeah?

483
00:29:12,680 --> 00:29:14,200
Speaker 1: And I was gonna say too at the end there

484
00:29:14,440 --> 00:29:17,320
Speaker 1: she says, to approve of what's happening. That's that's your

485
00:29:17,360 --> 00:29:19,760
Speaker 1: consent right right exactly you're talking about you should be

486
00:29:19,760 --> 00:29:22,640
Speaker 1: conscious of what's going on, and you should say like this,

487
00:29:22,640 --> 00:29:27,120
Speaker 1: this works, not that, Yeah, but I I approve of

488
00:29:27,160 --> 00:29:30,640
Speaker 1: that works. Goodness, HERD approval, HERD approval on that. And

489
00:29:30,720 --> 00:29:33,520
Speaker 1: what it presupposes is that you know what you approve

490
00:29:33,600 --> 00:29:35,440
Speaker 1: of and what you like. And I think a lot

491
00:29:35,480 --> 00:29:38,520
Speaker 1: of people don't know, Like they're not willing to experiment necessarily,

492
00:29:38,600 --> 00:29:41,160
Speaker 1: either alone or with a partner, about what they like.

493
00:29:41,800 --> 00:29:43,960
Speaker 1: And so it's like, Okay, you're supposed to figure that

494
00:29:44,000 --> 00:29:46,120
Speaker 1: out and then you can tell people and then you

495
00:29:46,120 --> 00:29:48,560
Speaker 1: have a great time together and who loses, you know,

496
00:29:48,720 --> 00:29:52,640
Speaker 1: which I think is true definitely. So they taught courses

497
00:29:52,800 --> 00:29:57,360
Speaker 1: on how to achieve this orgasmic potential, and interestingly, they

498
00:29:57,400 --> 00:30:01,280
Speaker 1: feel like intercourse, like penis and vagina a sex is

499
00:30:01,400 --> 00:30:08,320
Speaker 1: quote a haphazard proposition. They're like, sometimes it goes great,

500
00:30:08,360 --> 00:30:12,280
Speaker 1: but not always. That's one of the more clumsy ways

501
00:30:12,360 --> 00:30:15,160
Speaker 1: to have sex. I suppose it's a hit and miss way,

502
00:30:15,280 --> 00:30:19,400
Speaker 1: all right. To them, mutual masturbation is the most effective

503
00:30:19,440 --> 00:30:22,720
Speaker 1: way for everyone to have the best possible time together.

504
00:30:23,640 --> 00:30:28,080
Speaker 1: Because with mutual masturbation, each person is fully focused on

505
00:30:28,080 --> 00:30:32,160
Speaker 1: one person's enjoyment. Right, So if if you and I

506
00:30:32,200 --> 00:30:35,760
Speaker 1: are having sex and you're masturbating me, you and I

507
00:30:35,800 --> 00:30:39,120
Speaker 1: are both fully focused on me. My brain is engaged

508
00:30:39,200 --> 00:30:41,480
Speaker 1: on how much I'm enjoying and creating it, and you're

509
00:30:41,520 --> 00:30:44,320
Speaker 1: engaged on me as well, and then we vice versa.

510
00:30:44,640 --> 00:30:48,600
Speaker 1: Whereas if we're having intercourse, we're both concentrating on either

511
00:30:48,640 --> 00:30:51,680
Speaker 1: ourselves or the other person rather than putting all our

512
00:30:51,720 --> 00:30:56,000
Speaker 1: focus on our own pleasure or your own pleasure. So

513
00:30:56,040 --> 00:30:59,400
Speaker 1: they're like one orgasm at a time so that it

514
00:30:59,440 --> 00:31:01,440
Speaker 1: gets so so like you get the full focus and

515
00:31:01,480 --> 00:31:03,360
Speaker 1: then I get the full focus. If we're both trying

516
00:31:03,400 --> 00:31:06,480
Speaker 1: to happen at the same time, there's too much distinct.

517
00:31:06,520 --> 00:31:08,840
Speaker 1: So I wouldn't say one orgasm at a time because

518
00:31:08,880 --> 00:31:13,320
Speaker 1: they want continual especially, but like exactly one person at

519
00:31:13,320 --> 00:31:15,880
Speaker 1: a time, Yeah, to take turns kind of vibe, Yeah,

520
00:31:15,960 --> 00:31:18,960
Speaker 1: one person at a time. You know, one person has

521
00:31:18,960 --> 00:31:22,160
Speaker 1: ten orgasms, the other person as one, and you know

522
00:31:22,240 --> 00:31:24,280
Speaker 1: we call it even and we call it even. Yeah,

523
00:31:24,480 --> 00:31:29,800
Speaker 1: I guess, uh, they call it doing another person when

524
00:31:29,800 --> 00:31:32,600
Speaker 1: you masturbate them. They're doing you. I guess, you know,

525
00:31:32,680 --> 00:31:35,000
Speaker 1: I just some way that makes more sense than what

526
00:31:35,040 --> 00:31:38,480
Speaker 1: we you know, casually refer to as doing someone. It's true,

527
00:31:38,720 --> 00:31:41,560
Speaker 1: you're you're really doing something right there. It makes sense.

528
00:31:42,400 --> 00:31:46,320
Speaker 1: The course is about to have the perfect do so

529
00:31:46,600 --> 00:31:49,240
Speaker 1: I'll do you super well, I guess, and I'm going

530
00:31:49,280 --> 00:31:53,880
Speaker 1: to use this do dad. I wonder if they do

531
00:31:53,960 --> 00:31:56,520
Speaker 1: employ toys. I think it's mostly about fingers, but they

532
00:31:56,600 --> 00:31:59,680
Speaker 1: probably do. Do they do? Do they do? Do what

533
00:31:59,720 --> 00:32:03,680
Speaker 1: they do? Do do your duty? Just don't douty, don't

534
00:32:03,680 --> 00:32:06,080
Speaker 1: do while we are doing the do unless you approve.

535
00:32:07,360 --> 00:32:09,920
Speaker 1: I don't know. We're throwing a lot onto them at this.

536
00:32:10,200 --> 00:32:14,240
Speaker 1: I don't into is brought up on their website whatsoever.

537
00:32:15,440 --> 00:32:17,800
Speaker 1: I think what we need to do do right now

538
00:32:18,120 --> 00:32:21,040
Speaker 1: is go to a commercial break because what's the poop

539
00:32:21,120 --> 00:32:23,760
Speaker 1: jokes hit? They don't stop better, we need to stop.

540
00:32:24,680 --> 00:32:32,560
Speaker 1: We'll be right back, stick around and we're back. So

541
00:32:32,640 --> 00:32:37,160
Speaker 1: in the class of basic sensuality, women and men are

542
00:32:37,200 --> 00:32:41,080
Speaker 1: given plaster penises and vaginas to practice their techniques on.

543
00:32:41,240 --> 00:32:44,320
Speaker 1: I wonder if today it's more like dildos, like you know, yeah,

544
00:32:44,720 --> 00:32:47,880
Speaker 1: regular sex toys. Um, but They also are given homework,

545
00:32:48,000 --> 00:32:51,200
Speaker 1: which is to go home on a bath, koda, do

546
00:32:51,280 --> 00:32:55,840
Speaker 1: not disturb, sign on the door, and masterate. Okay, Now,

547
00:32:55,840 --> 00:32:58,200
Speaker 1: I have always been very anti homework. I know you

548
00:32:58,240 --> 00:33:00,959
Speaker 1: hate it. I've only got a few waking hours at

549
00:33:01,000 --> 00:33:04,080
Speaker 1: home in between school and bed uh and I and

550
00:33:04,160 --> 00:33:07,200
Speaker 1: I you know, you know I benefited from doing well

551
00:33:07,240 --> 00:33:11,760
Speaker 1: on tests and stuff without anyway. Point I'm making is

552
00:33:11,560 --> 00:33:14,240
Speaker 1: this would have drastically changed my opinion on homework. You

553
00:33:14,280 --> 00:33:18,560
Speaker 1: would have done this homework homework you just didn't even

554
00:33:18,600 --> 00:33:22,000
Speaker 1: know you were a little well makes sense. I think

555
00:33:22,040 --> 00:33:23,719
Speaker 1: the point is to figure out what you like, right,

556
00:33:23,760 --> 00:33:27,640
Speaker 1: so you know you approve. Now, Apparently some women, including

557
00:33:27,840 --> 00:33:31,080
Speaker 1: Susie Baranko, we're able to get to a point where

558
00:33:31,080 --> 00:33:35,040
Speaker 1: they could come immediately at the first touch and just

559
00:33:35,400 --> 00:33:40,560
Speaker 1: keep coming for hours in intense of that kind of time.

560
00:33:42,200 --> 00:33:44,920
Speaker 1: If you do it's now. Man, if you devote all

561
00:33:44,960 --> 00:33:46,520
Speaker 1: your life to it, then you got all the time,

562
00:33:47,560 --> 00:33:50,880
Speaker 1: just like God. These people have never you know, they

563
00:33:50,920 --> 00:33:53,880
Speaker 1: never watched ted Lasso. They don't time, They probably don't. Yeah,

564
00:33:54,120 --> 00:33:56,640
Speaker 1: now would you rather come for three hours or watch

565
00:33:56,680 --> 00:33:59,560
Speaker 1: ted Lasso? Can I watch two hours of ted Lasso?

566
00:34:00,080 --> 00:34:06,280
Speaker 1: Had come for one hour, because sometimes out an episode

567
00:34:06,280 --> 00:34:18,640
Speaker 1: of ted Lassoed end being choice I mean, Hannah, well,

568
00:34:19,280 --> 00:34:24,560
Speaker 1: for real, my god, and listen to this. In ninety six,

569
00:34:25,280 --> 00:34:30,120
Speaker 1: Victor Baranco actually put on the first public demonstration of

570
00:34:30,160 --> 00:34:33,760
Speaker 1: this of the three hour Organs of the three hour Orgasm.

571
00:34:33,800 --> 00:34:36,840
Speaker 1: This was at the Lafayette More House. A woman named

572
00:34:36,840 --> 00:34:40,719
Speaker 1: Diana was in the proverbial hot scene, and since it

573
00:34:40,800 --> 00:34:44,120
Speaker 1: was meant to be an educational experience, Victor put her

574
00:34:44,200 --> 00:34:46,840
Speaker 1: on a gynecological table, so she had like her feet

575
00:34:46,880 --> 00:34:50,120
Speaker 1: up in stirrups, not very sexy, and he wore latex

576
00:34:50,200 --> 00:34:54,120
Speaker 1: gloves as he stimulated her. Apparently, um so again, it

577
00:34:54,160 --> 00:34:56,920
Speaker 1: was supposed to be more of a medical you know vibes,

578
00:34:56,960 --> 00:34:59,160
Speaker 1: so we're supposed to get a porno feeling out of this.

579
00:34:59,239 --> 00:35:04,040
Speaker 1: Well for something that is a porno feeling, we're very true.

580
00:35:04,760 --> 00:35:10,520
Speaker 1: And for three hours people watch Diana have orgasm after orgasm.

581
00:35:11,160 --> 00:35:14,800
Speaker 1: They would only pause for brief cigarette breaks before getting

582
00:35:14,920 --> 00:35:16,239
Speaker 1: right back to it. And I say, you know, you're

583
00:35:16,280 --> 00:35:20,040
Speaker 1: in the sixties. In the seventies, there stop for cigarettes.

584
00:35:22,040 --> 00:35:25,520
Speaker 1: He also had her recite nursery rhymes the whole time,

585
00:35:26,520 --> 00:35:29,600
Speaker 1: and if she trailed off, he would stop until she

586
00:35:29,719 --> 00:35:32,240
Speaker 1: picked it back up again. So she'd be like, get lost,

587
00:35:32,440 --> 00:35:36,160
Speaker 1: you know, because she's orgasming for hours. Right, She'd be like,

588
00:35:36,200 --> 00:35:38,880
Speaker 1: I'd get kind of like sucked into what was happening

589
00:35:38,880 --> 00:35:41,560
Speaker 1: to me, and he would stop, and I'm like, oh, yeah,

590
00:35:41,800 --> 00:35:45,080
Speaker 1: Mary had a little or whatever. Little Jack Horner sat

591
00:35:45,120 --> 00:35:53,399
Speaker 1: in his corner eating his Christmas high Hi. Hi, back

592
00:35:53,400 --> 00:35:57,359
Speaker 1: to the story. Oh sorry, sorry, um weird. So it was.

593
00:35:57,600 --> 00:36:01,799
Speaker 1: I mean, it's like having a nursery rhyme power, you know,

594
00:36:01,960 --> 00:36:05,160
Speaker 1: fucking machine or something, I guess. And the point of

595
00:36:05,200 --> 00:36:07,759
Speaker 1: this was apparently to demonstrate that your brain and your

596
00:36:07,760 --> 00:36:10,840
Speaker 1: memory and your motor functions and everything are all completely

597
00:36:10,880 --> 00:36:14,799
Speaker 1: functional during an orgasm, and they can be used to

598
00:36:14,920 --> 00:36:18,440
Speaker 1: intensify your pleasure. So again, instead of acting like a

599
00:36:18,480 --> 00:36:23,320
Speaker 1: good orgasm is so consuming that like your brain disappears,

600
00:36:23,520 --> 00:36:26,440
Speaker 1: you know, and you stop thinking and you stop feeling conscious,

601
00:36:26,800 --> 00:36:29,960
Speaker 1: They're they're saying that your orgasms are better when your

602
00:36:30,000 --> 00:36:33,399
Speaker 1: brain is engaged. As Linda Gray put it, quote, your

603
00:36:33,400 --> 00:36:37,319
Speaker 1: brain is on your side, which is a nice thing

604
00:36:37,360 --> 00:36:41,719
Speaker 1: to say. Not always true, depends on right. My brain

605
00:36:41,760 --> 00:36:45,200
Speaker 1: has been on someone else's side at various times, all right,

606
00:36:45,239 --> 00:36:48,120
Speaker 1: we'll challenge that because I just this week saw a

607
00:36:48,160 --> 00:36:51,200
Speaker 1: headline pop up. I did a quick google here um

608
00:36:51,280 --> 00:36:54,120
Speaker 1: and just from Medical Daily, they said there was a

609
00:36:54,120 --> 00:36:59,279
Speaker 1: study that during an orgasm, the lateral orbitofrontal cortex, the

610
00:36:59,320 --> 00:37:04,000
Speaker 1: brain reach behind the left eye, shuts down. During an orgasm,

611
00:37:04,040 --> 00:37:06,720
Speaker 1: this region is considered to be the voice of reason

612
00:37:07,040 --> 00:37:12,279
Speaker 1: and controls behavior, it says. The brain of both a

613
00:37:12,320 --> 00:37:14,960
Speaker 1: man and woman is said to look much like the

614
00:37:15,000 --> 00:37:20,120
Speaker 1: brain of a person taking heroin during an orgasm, according

615
00:37:20,160 --> 00:37:24,520
Speaker 1: to a study published in the Journal of Neuroscience. Okay, well,

616
00:37:24,520 --> 00:37:27,160
Speaker 1: then you'll see this won't be the first time you'll

617
00:37:27,160 --> 00:37:32,480
Speaker 1: see some specious medical advice. This guy who laid down

618
00:37:32,480 --> 00:37:34,440
Speaker 1: on a rug and thought about it for a while

619
00:37:34,600 --> 00:37:41,319
Speaker 1: didn't come up with sounds scientific results. Okay, Now, you

620
00:37:41,400 --> 00:37:45,200
Speaker 1: might be wondering why this woman, Diana did this public

621
00:37:45,200 --> 00:37:49,440
Speaker 1: demonstration and not Victor's wife Susie, who apparently had been

622
00:37:49,480 --> 00:37:52,040
Speaker 1: the main demonstrator for a number of years. But that's

623
00:37:52,080 --> 00:37:56,480
Speaker 1: because in nineteen seventy six, Victor and Susie got divorced,

624
00:37:57,280 --> 00:38:00,640
Speaker 1: and Susie had continued to live at Lafayette morehow but

625
00:38:00,800 --> 00:38:02,600
Speaker 1: it seems like she wasn't really trying to have a

626
00:38:02,600 --> 00:38:06,320
Speaker 1: sexual relationship with Victor anymore. Yeah, I don't know how.

627
00:38:06,600 --> 00:38:10,200
Speaker 1: There's no information about how they grew apart, what exactly

628
00:38:10,320 --> 00:38:12,359
Speaker 1: came between them, or if they just kind of felt

629
00:38:12,400 --> 00:38:14,680
Speaker 1: like we got to the point where it's over now.

630
00:38:14,719 --> 00:38:16,759
Speaker 1: I don't know, like there's nowhere further for us to

631
00:38:16,800 --> 00:38:21,160
Speaker 1: go together or what. So they had divorced, but meanwhile,

632
00:38:21,400 --> 00:38:24,640
Speaker 1: Diana was in love with Victor, so she was fully

633
00:38:24,640 --> 00:38:27,239
Speaker 1: ready to be a part of this. She had even

634
00:38:27,280 --> 00:38:31,239
Speaker 1: gotten a friend of hers, Cindy Goin's, and her husband Anthony,

635
00:38:31,520 --> 00:38:35,520
Speaker 1: to join more House. In nineteen four, Cindy apparently started

636
00:38:35,520 --> 00:38:39,400
Speaker 1: taking courses because she had a yeast infection that wouldn't

637
00:38:39,440 --> 00:38:44,360
Speaker 1: go away, and quote Vic thought, if your crotch was broken,

638
00:38:44,480 --> 00:38:47,719
Speaker 1: there was a reason it wanted more attention paid to it,

639
00:38:48,800 --> 00:38:51,359
Speaker 1: which again is the kind of medical advice you'd get

640
00:38:51,360 --> 00:38:53,440
Speaker 1: from someone who decided to take smells d and lay

641
00:38:53,480 --> 00:38:56,080
Speaker 1: down and think about it. Yeah, I don't know about

642
00:38:56,120 --> 00:38:58,840
Speaker 1: that one. Do not try that to rid yourself the

643
00:38:58,920 --> 00:39:03,920
Speaker 1: yeast ship. He basically like more orgasms for this yeast infection.

644
00:39:04,040 --> 00:39:07,920
Speaker 1: So I really feel like it's counter into it. Yeah,

645
00:39:08,000 --> 00:39:10,160
Speaker 1: but she said it works She's like, I took no medicine.

646
00:39:10,200 --> 00:39:12,520
Speaker 1: I had a bunch of orgasms. The yeast infection went away.

647
00:39:12,560 --> 00:39:14,520
Speaker 1: But I feel like that ship clears up on its

648
00:39:14,520 --> 00:39:17,040
Speaker 1: own if you let it hang out for a long time.

649
00:39:17,040 --> 00:39:19,960
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know that much about yeast infections,

650
00:39:20,000 --> 00:39:22,080
Speaker 1: but maybe it works, but I ain't gonna try it

651
00:39:23,239 --> 00:39:25,680
Speaker 1: when I get one, like a medicated cream, please and

652
00:39:25,719 --> 00:39:28,759
Speaker 1: thank you. So. Cindy and her husband became residents of

653
00:39:28,800 --> 00:39:32,799
Speaker 1: the Lafayette Morehouse, and when Vic was forty two, he

654
00:39:32,880 --> 00:39:36,960
Speaker 1: had what he called a thunderbolt experience, and he fell

655
00:39:37,080 --> 00:39:40,600
Speaker 1: madly in love with Cindy. He said, quote all the sudden,

656
00:39:40,960 --> 00:39:44,640
Speaker 1: everything I was doing meant something. I never thought the

657
00:39:44,640 --> 00:39:48,440
Speaker 1: party was going to slowly again. Nothing was dull anymore

658
00:39:48,719 --> 00:39:53,480
Speaker 1: because I had this magnificent obsession. What it did was

659
00:39:53,560 --> 00:39:57,839
Speaker 1: put me into my life. Somehow I used her as

660
00:39:57,880 --> 00:40:01,160
Speaker 1: an excuse to pay even more attention to my own life.

661
00:40:01,360 --> 00:40:05,360
Speaker 1: What I'm telling you is without giving up being interesting,

662
00:40:05,719 --> 00:40:10,719
Speaker 1: if you will direct your attention towards being interested, you

663
00:40:10,800 --> 00:40:14,880
Speaker 1: might stumble across your own magnificent obsession. And it doesn't

664
00:40:14,880 --> 00:40:20,120
Speaker 1: have to be a tall blond, I added, isn't there

665
00:40:20,120 --> 00:40:24,680
Speaker 1: because Cindy and I kind of agree with that. Actually,

666
00:40:24,719 --> 00:40:26,800
Speaker 1: when when I read that, I was like, he sounds

667
00:40:26,800 --> 00:40:29,799
Speaker 1: crazy a bit. But I've always thought that if you

668
00:40:29,800 --> 00:40:32,600
Speaker 1: want to be an interesting person, your first task is

669
00:40:32,680 --> 00:40:36,200
Speaker 1: to be interested. You have to be curious, right, because

670
00:40:36,239 --> 00:40:38,680
Speaker 1: you can't get interesting if you're not interested in what's

671
00:40:38,680 --> 00:40:41,280
Speaker 1: going on around you. Was I wrong that ted Lasso

672
00:40:41,400 --> 00:40:43,200
Speaker 1: is a big part of this, and now be curious,

673
00:40:43,200 --> 00:40:48,080
Speaker 1: not judgmental. Absolutely, So the two of them got married

674
00:40:48,120 --> 00:40:52,480
Speaker 1: in nineteen seventy nine, and Vic then had an artificial

675
00:40:52,560 --> 00:40:55,640
Speaker 1: lake constructed in the shape of a heart as a

676
00:40:55,680 --> 00:40:58,560
Speaker 1: tribute to Cindy. I just find that romantic that if

677
00:40:58,600 --> 00:41:02,800
Speaker 1: you go to Lafayette morehow everything's purple for Susie, there's

678
00:41:02,840 --> 00:41:05,160
Speaker 1: this lake for Cindy, Like you know, there's just all

679
00:41:05,160 --> 00:41:09,760
Speaker 1: these little touches of Vick's true love for these these women.

680
00:41:09,880 --> 00:41:12,160
Speaker 1: I think his his his real love for them was

681
00:41:12,239 --> 00:41:14,600
Speaker 1: very real, for sure. So I just find that kind

682
00:41:14,600 --> 00:41:21,640
Speaker 1: of cute. Okay, But back to the orgasm stuff. Who Now,

683
00:41:21,640 --> 00:41:25,080
Speaker 1: they did not stop at these public demonstrations, all right,

684
00:41:25,239 --> 00:41:30,200
Speaker 1: They started handing out degrees about this. Now. At first

685
00:41:30,640 --> 00:41:34,239
Speaker 1: they called it the Institute of Human abilities, which kind

686
00:41:34,239 --> 00:41:38,040
Speaker 1: of sounds like a professor X type of school or something.

687
00:41:38,400 --> 00:41:44,640
Speaker 1: And they taught courses on basic and advanced sensuality, basic hexing,

688
00:41:45,680 --> 00:41:53,400
Speaker 1: group living, basic and Advanced communication, jealousy, relationships, and something

689
00:41:53,440 --> 00:41:58,440
Speaker 1: called man woman a conversation about gender. Okay, can I

690
00:41:58,520 --> 00:42:02,880
Speaker 1: jump back real quick and say that I would totally

691
00:42:03,160 --> 00:42:06,359
Speaker 1: ask some people to take a group living course because

692
00:42:06,400 --> 00:42:08,640
Speaker 1: I have group lived a few times in my life,

693
00:42:09,280 --> 00:42:11,360
Speaker 1: and we all could have used a course of course

694
00:42:11,400 --> 00:42:14,960
Speaker 1: would have been And I'll tell you basic hexing is

695
00:42:15,000 --> 00:42:20,680
Speaker 1: not like a wizard thing. It's like a wizard thing. No.

696
00:42:21,239 --> 00:42:25,480
Speaker 1: For them. Hexing to them is basically like uh, saying

697
00:42:25,560 --> 00:42:29,000
Speaker 1: mean things to you, essentially, but they're true. So it's

698
00:42:29,000 --> 00:42:32,719
Speaker 1: like being bluntly honest with you about things, or with

699
00:42:32,800 --> 00:42:35,560
Speaker 1: anyone about things that need that are true about you

700
00:42:35,680 --> 00:42:39,160
Speaker 1: or things that need to change whatever. And so you

701
00:42:39,239 --> 00:42:41,120
Speaker 1: kind of bring people down that way. It's sort of

702
00:42:41,120 --> 00:42:44,440
Speaker 1: a manipulation tactic um, and then you bring them back

703
00:42:44,520 --> 00:42:47,440
Speaker 1: up with blessing and you tell them nice things and

704
00:42:47,440 --> 00:42:49,839
Speaker 1: you make them feel good about themselves. And so this

705
00:42:49,920 --> 00:42:51,879
Speaker 1: is like the perfection thing where they tell you how

706
00:42:51,920 --> 00:42:53,640
Speaker 1: perfect you are and then they tell you what you

707
00:42:53,680 --> 00:42:56,320
Speaker 1: need to change. You're great. I love you, You're perfect.

708
00:42:56,320 --> 00:43:00,799
Speaker 1: No change. Hey, welcome to class today. You've got a

709
00:43:00,840 --> 00:43:04,160
Speaker 1: stupid face. Nobody likes you. Your voice is kind of annoying,

710
00:43:04,920 --> 00:43:07,799
Speaker 1: your eyes are too far apart, and I don't like

711
00:43:07,840 --> 00:43:10,200
Speaker 1: the way you smell and the way you say the

712
00:43:10,280 --> 00:43:14,120
Speaker 1: letter S is just a little irritating at all times.

713
00:43:14,440 --> 00:43:19,880
Speaker 1: But you make great brownies. Uh, everybody loves your elbows.

714
00:43:20,800 --> 00:43:25,200
Speaker 1: And um, don't forget that one time that you, you know,

715
00:43:25,320 --> 00:43:28,319
Speaker 1: pulled me away from the be getting hit by that

716
00:43:28,360 --> 00:43:31,520
Speaker 1: moving car. You know, I mean, I think, so okay,

717
00:43:31,880 --> 00:43:35,040
Speaker 1: you know what, Can you just tell me the second part? No,

718
00:43:35,280 --> 00:43:39,040
Speaker 1: because then you won't change and improve a kid? Fix

719
00:43:39,120 --> 00:43:42,280
Speaker 1: my stupid face. What's funny is there? Like? Listen um?

720
00:43:42,360 --> 00:43:46,960
Speaker 1: Basic hex sing is like everyone uses hex sing. You

721
00:43:47,000 --> 00:43:48,799
Speaker 1: and I do it every day, even if you don't

722
00:43:48,840 --> 00:43:51,279
Speaker 1: take a course on it. We all hecks, we all

723
00:43:51,280 --> 00:43:53,680
Speaker 1: bless right. And they said, we used to call it

724
00:43:53,719 --> 00:43:56,759
Speaker 1: the Blessing course and nobody took it. Now that's a

725
00:43:56,840 --> 00:44:01,240
Speaker 1: hex that's what they say. That's quote from our little video. Interesting,

726
00:44:01,719 --> 00:44:04,200
Speaker 1: that's a hex. He wants to learn how to be

727
00:44:04,280 --> 00:44:06,640
Speaker 1: nice to someone, but everybody wants to learn how I know,

728
00:44:06,640 --> 00:44:09,480
Speaker 1: how to be how to heck someone, which again I

729
00:44:09,560 --> 00:44:12,400
Speaker 1: kind of get. Um. Oh, they also have a course

730
00:44:12,440 --> 00:44:18,440
Speaker 1: called quote Mutual Pleasurable Stimulation of the Human Nervous System Intensive,

731
00:44:19,360 --> 00:44:23,440
Speaker 1: which is better known as the sixty nine course, and

732
00:44:23,480 --> 00:44:24,840
Speaker 1: I think they should just call it that because I

733
00:44:24,840 --> 00:44:27,360
Speaker 1: was like, I don't know what that means. Ritual pleasurable

734
00:44:27,360 --> 00:44:31,640
Speaker 1: stimulation of the human nervous system. Oh, you're talking about

735
00:44:32,400 --> 00:44:36,520
Speaker 1: the old sixty nine. I think everybody could use a

736
00:44:36,520 --> 00:44:38,520
Speaker 1: course in that, because it's not something you can just

737
00:44:38,600 --> 00:44:44,520
Speaker 1: naturally do. I think there's some acrobat acrobatics involves. Now.

738
00:44:44,560 --> 00:44:48,719
Speaker 1: Of course, all these classes cost money, and so did

739
00:44:48,800 --> 00:44:51,319
Speaker 1: living in the moor House. You paid to live there,

740
00:44:51,960 --> 00:44:55,239
Speaker 1: and upon completing these courses you could start your own

741
00:44:55,280 --> 00:44:59,600
Speaker 1: more House, which basically meant that Victor created a franchise

742
00:44:59,680 --> 00:45:04,239
Speaker 1: of communes that Robin Green called quote so effective and

743
00:45:04,320 --> 00:45:07,840
Speaker 1: profitable that people in Berkeley referred to Baranco as the

744
00:45:07,960 --> 00:45:12,319
Speaker 1: Colonel Sanders of the commune scene. Yeah, yeah, he's like,

745
00:45:12,520 --> 00:45:18,239
Speaker 1: I got eleven herbs and spices for you. Basically, excuse me.

746
00:45:18,280 --> 00:45:20,960
Speaker 1: I should also mention that you can start your own

747
00:45:20,960 --> 00:45:26,080
Speaker 1: more house. But more House the collective. The bigger organization

748
00:45:26,200 --> 00:45:28,759
Speaker 1: would purchase the property, so you never got to own

749
00:45:28,800 --> 00:45:33,239
Speaker 1: the property. They all that money went to the larger organization.

750
00:45:34,920 --> 00:45:37,480
Speaker 1: Just just throwing that in there. Before you start your

751
00:45:37,520 --> 00:45:41,040
Speaker 1: own more House franchise, be aware, don't get excited. This

752
00:45:41,120 --> 00:45:44,200
Speaker 1: is where many of the controversies about Lafayette more House

753
00:45:44,200 --> 00:45:48,200
Speaker 1: are based, and they essentially started with Robin Green's nine

754
00:45:48,480 --> 00:45:51,400
Speaker 1: seventy one Sergeant Bill co article and her follow up

755
00:45:51,440 --> 00:45:55,080
Speaker 1: Beyond Shazam, both of which spent a lot of time

756
00:45:55,200 --> 00:45:58,920
Speaker 1: discussing the money that the courses cost. Usually each course

757
00:45:58,960 --> 00:46:03,200
Speaker 1: was about forty of dollars at the cheapest, which today,

758
00:46:03,360 --> 00:46:07,600
Speaker 1: let me pull up the currency converter is about three

759
00:46:07,680 --> 00:46:10,759
Speaker 1: hundred and thirty dollars. And you would take like a

760
00:46:10,800 --> 00:46:13,959
Speaker 1: three hour class where a teacher would demonstrate the best

761
00:46:14,000 --> 00:46:16,960
Speaker 1: positions for masturbating and then assign you homework to go

762
00:46:17,040 --> 00:46:19,440
Speaker 1: home and masturbate. So to Robin, it was like a

763
00:46:19,520 --> 00:46:25,840
Speaker 1: real scheme. Yeah. Basically, like she's like you're kind of

764
00:46:25,840 --> 00:46:28,040
Speaker 1: getting ripped off to be like told to Everyone knows

765
00:46:28,080 --> 00:46:30,000
Speaker 1: how to masturbate, you know, Like she's kind of like

766
00:46:30,040 --> 00:46:32,200
Speaker 1: sneering at it, and I don't need to pay anyone

767
00:46:32,280 --> 00:46:35,160
Speaker 1: to tell me to go home and masturbate. I'm doing

768
00:46:35,200 --> 00:46:42,000
Speaker 1: it well. So originally we were going to do this,

769
00:46:42,160 --> 00:46:44,520
Speaker 1: you know, as a one part episode, but there's just

770
00:46:44,560 --> 00:46:46,399
Speaker 1: so much more to talk about here because all those

771
00:46:46,440 --> 00:46:50,399
Speaker 1: controversies that we were just referring to, there's so much

772
00:46:50,440 --> 00:46:53,480
Speaker 1: there there is, and they barely scratched the surface. Seriously,

773
00:46:53,560 --> 00:46:54,840
Speaker 1: I mean, we got to talk about some of the

774
00:46:54,880 --> 00:46:58,279
Speaker 1: trouble that this place has gotten into. Uh maybe some

775
00:46:58,320 --> 00:47:04,560
Speaker 1: potential cover ups about some nefarious possibly happenings, we don't know,

776
00:47:04,840 --> 00:47:08,520
Speaker 1: but it's it's, you know, everything we've heard so far

777
00:47:09,480 --> 00:47:12,600
Speaker 1: it sounds kind of nice. I mean mostly there's just

778
00:47:12,600 --> 00:47:15,399
Speaker 1: a couple of things where I'm like, you know, but

779
00:47:15,600 --> 00:47:17,560
Speaker 1: for the most part, it's I mean it is very

780
00:47:17,600 --> 00:47:21,480
Speaker 1: peace and love and now and right, you know, just

781
00:47:21,560 --> 00:47:23,640
Speaker 1: have better sex. What could be problem? What could be

782
00:47:23,640 --> 00:47:26,520
Speaker 1: the problem with that? I mean, this guy went from

783
00:47:26,719 --> 00:47:33,040
Speaker 1: conning sailors for their eight dollar diamond rings having three

784
00:47:33,080 --> 00:47:35,680
Speaker 1: hour orgasms for his wife, you know. I mean, that's

785
00:47:35,760 --> 00:47:38,319
Speaker 1: that's quite a journey, right, And that's the other thing.

786
00:47:38,360 --> 00:47:42,680
Speaker 1: Like so many like sex cult type stories, it's about

787
00:47:42,719 --> 00:47:45,280
Speaker 1: a guy and he gets a lot of young women.

788
00:47:45,719 --> 00:47:48,919
Speaker 1: You know to have sex with him, and that's why

789
00:47:48,920 --> 00:47:52,840
Speaker 1: it's really gross and exploitative. And this cult is definitely

790
00:47:52,880 --> 00:47:57,680
Speaker 1: a guy, very charismatic leader, but it's all about your pleasure.

791
00:47:57,719 --> 00:48:00,839
Speaker 1: It's not really about his pleasure. And I'm sure he's

792
00:48:00,840 --> 00:48:04,719
Speaker 1: getting laid plenty, but you know, it seems like such

793
00:48:04,719 --> 00:48:08,040
Speaker 1: a different focus um that it's like, well, that's kind

794
00:48:08,040 --> 00:48:12,319
Speaker 1: of a nice change his exchange rates because he's like,

795
00:48:12,520 --> 00:48:15,400
Speaker 1: I'm going to give you three hours, three hours of orgasms,

796
00:48:15,760 --> 00:48:20,120
Speaker 1: now my turn, please, I'd like my ten minutes, thank

797
00:48:20,160 --> 00:48:22,920
Speaker 1: you very much. Well, who knows. They might have had

798
00:48:22,920 --> 00:48:27,359
Speaker 1: some tan trick techniques for gentlemen as well. It's just

799
00:48:27,400 --> 00:48:30,080
Speaker 1: not quite the focus of their website. It's mostly about

800
00:48:30,080 --> 00:48:32,359
Speaker 1: women or using for an hour, but maybe the men

801
00:48:32,440 --> 00:48:36,080
Speaker 1: also orgasm for an hour and they just don't, you know,

802
00:48:36,200 --> 00:48:40,399
Speaker 1: finish until the very end, but they can feel like

803
00:48:40,600 --> 00:48:42,759
Speaker 1: they're having an orgasm for a long time. I don't

804
00:48:42,760 --> 00:48:44,640
Speaker 1: know if that's possible. I don't know. All things are

805
00:48:44,680 --> 00:48:50,160
Speaker 1: possible through drugs. There was a lot of them. That

806
00:48:50,280 --> 00:48:53,720
Speaker 1: was some of the Robin Green articles she mentioned talking

807
00:48:53,760 --> 00:48:56,279
Speaker 1: to people who had dropped a little acid before a

808
00:48:56,280 --> 00:48:59,799
Speaker 1: basic sensuality class like that, so that was the only

809
00:48:59,800 --> 00:49:02,760
Speaker 1: time that anyone ever admitted that, Like, there's some drugs

810
00:49:02,800 --> 00:49:06,000
Speaker 1: going on in this process, but I think you can

811
00:49:06,040 --> 00:49:11,120
Speaker 1: infer some of the ways they talk having a real

812
00:49:11,160 --> 00:49:13,919
Speaker 1: good time. I don't know what L s D does

813
00:49:14,000 --> 00:49:18,520
Speaker 1: dear sex experience. I mean, I've never sund it myself.

814
00:49:18,600 --> 00:49:21,719
Speaker 1: I don't know. Terrifying, like because if it goes the

815
00:49:21,760 --> 00:49:24,960
Speaker 1: wrong way, it's like suddenly I'm having sex with Satan.

816
00:49:25,120 --> 00:49:30,440
Speaker 1: I don't know. It's like a giant cockroach. Yeah, maybe

817
00:49:30,440 --> 00:49:32,040
Speaker 1: that's the good thing about it. Like you drop a

818
00:49:32,080 --> 00:49:34,439
Speaker 1: little acid and I see you as you really are man,

819
00:49:35,440 --> 00:49:38,799
Speaker 1: and your cockroach. Well, I'm not fucking no cockroach. Like,

820
00:49:40,200 --> 00:49:42,879
Speaker 1: but like sometimes I look in your r is so

821
00:49:42,960 --> 00:49:46,239
Speaker 1: beautiful man and knows the right choice, and there's a

822
00:49:46,239 --> 00:49:49,239
Speaker 1: little cockroach going. I knew someone would see for myself.

823
00:49:50,280 --> 00:49:53,480
Speaker 1: I'm a nice I've been having an existential crisis. I

824
00:49:53,560 --> 00:50:01,240
Speaker 1: just woke up like this. I just talk, Oh my gods,

825
00:50:01,320 --> 00:50:06,160
Speaker 1: like a transformer situation, like a fly situation. I was thinking, Kafka,

826
00:50:06,840 --> 00:50:12,440
Speaker 1: that was yeah the fly. Wait, that was was a cockroach?

827
00:50:13,120 --> 00:50:18,720
Speaker 1: Oh I thought it was a fly. Okay, it's a cockroach, Okay, alright,

828
00:50:18,800 --> 00:50:25,439
Speaker 1: well then I knew I gotta. I'm very well. Yeah,

829
00:50:25,520 --> 00:50:27,880
Speaker 1: it's a very upsetting book. You don't need to go

830
00:50:27,920 --> 00:50:31,000
Speaker 1: into Russian literature. We're having an orgasm high right now.

831
00:50:33,719 --> 00:50:38,000
Speaker 1: Russian literature. Oh yeah, I know. It's a bummer to

832
00:50:38,040 --> 00:50:40,640
Speaker 1: split this in the two up. I feel like season

833
00:50:40,680 --> 00:50:43,160
Speaker 1: finale a ted Lasso, Everyone's just gonna be like, what

834
00:50:43,280 --> 00:50:46,440
Speaker 1: happens next? Now? What? It's so weird. We got on

835
00:50:46,480 --> 00:50:52,000
Speaker 1: this like our sexy episode got on this. I don't know,

836
00:50:52,080 --> 00:50:55,399
Speaker 1: although I did like how Keeley when she was still

837
00:50:55,520 --> 00:50:58,719
Speaker 1: dating Jamie Tart, she was like down boy, you know,

838
00:50:59,080 --> 00:51:02,279
Speaker 1: it was like okay, Like damn, that's pretty hot. For

839
00:51:02,360 --> 00:51:05,000
Speaker 1: as wholesome as ted Lasso is. It's a sexy show.

840
00:51:05,160 --> 00:51:08,320
Speaker 1: It is, they say, they curse. It's set in England,

841
00:51:08,440 --> 00:51:14,799
Speaker 1: so much more chill. Everyone is very attractive, unnecessarily so

842
00:51:15,000 --> 00:51:19,280
Speaker 1: for leaving these normal lives. Real people aren't that pretty?

843
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Speaker 1: Are they? I haven't seen a human being in four years.

844
00:51:26,200 --> 00:51:29,040
Speaker 1: Do people really look like you? How are you out there?

845
00:51:29,880 --> 00:51:31,839
Speaker 1: But we do, you know, yeah, we we think it's

846
00:51:31,880 --> 00:51:34,160
Speaker 1: best to split it up. I just you know, honestly,

847
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Speaker 1: I just spent too long talking about my middle school

848
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Speaker 1: chorus Experience. Damn it. I guess we've got to find

849
00:51:39,800 --> 00:51:42,160
Speaker 1: some LSD for you to do. Oh yeah, for the

850
00:51:42,200 --> 00:51:46,840
Speaker 1: next episode, I'll be tripping balls the whole time. Now,

851
00:51:47,040 --> 00:51:51,400
Speaker 1: maybe one day we'll do an episode super high on

852
00:51:51,440 --> 00:51:53,279
Speaker 1: every drug we can get our hands. Oh my god,

853
00:51:53,920 --> 00:51:57,440
Speaker 1: oh god, it'll just be You'll just and then just

854
00:51:57,520 --> 00:52:01,120
Speaker 1: hit upload. I won't even edit it. You'll just hear

855
00:52:01,440 --> 00:52:03,800
Speaker 1: I'll hit record and then you'll just hear me rocking

856
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Speaker 1: in the corner. Where am I? What's happening? My heart?

857
00:52:11,120 --> 00:52:14,759
Speaker 1: I could smell my heart? Yeah? Who wants to get

858
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Speaker 1: together and do drugs? Mr? Experience? Meanwhile I would have left,

859
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Speaker 1: but I'm sorry. Here swinging through the trees outside, singing

860
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Speaker 1: and dancing look at some pretty light Oh man, what um,

861
00:52:32,960 --> 00:52:36,080
Speaker 1: what class would you teach at the Institute of Human Abilities?

862
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Speaker 1: Probably none of them? If I'm honest, What class would

863
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Speaker 1: you make up for the Institute of Human Abilities? I

864
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Speaker 1: should ask? It has to be like advanced oral calculations,

865
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Speaker 1: you know where it sounds like a class, but it's

866
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Speaker 1: when you get down to it, it's just like how

867
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Speaker 1: to funk like this? Oh? You know? Because what was

868
00:52:59,600 --> 00:53:05,160
Speaker 1: one the mutual pleasurable stimulation of the human nervous system. Right,

869
00:53:05,239 --> 00:53:12,120
Speaker 1: it has to sound superman scientific um okay, like digital

870
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Speaker 1: nostril exploration. It sounds like a community does community episode.

871
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Speaker 1: So many of those funny us sounding, let's be honest,

872
00:53:22,719 --> 00:53:27,880
Speaker 1: to probably be digital rectal exploration or digital exploration of

873
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Speaker 1: the hidden human areas or something where we teach you

874
00:53:33,760 --> 00:53:43,040
Speaker 1: how to finger your butt hole forbidden fruit, like the

875
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Speaker 1: geographical exploration of the bodies, canyons, canyons of the body,

876
00:53:49,719 --> 00:53:53,480
Speaker 1: and it's like how to do a rim job. That's

877
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Speaker 1: one I'd love to hear from y'all if you have,

878
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Speaker 1: if you have a class that you would teach at

879
00:53:59,040 --> 00:54:02,239
Speaker 1: at the Institute of Human Abilities. But it has to

880
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Speaker 1: be Yeah, you have to tell us what the government

881
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Speaker 1: name is and then what your yes please send those

882
00:54:13,040 --> 00:54:16,000
Speaker 1: well again, really excited to bring you the second half

883
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Speaker 1: of this episode where it gets, uh, we take this

884
00:54:18,800 --> 00:54:25,080
Speaker 1: really interesting, almost idyllic sounding, uh you know, sex festival

885
00:54:25,200 --> 00:54:28,279
Speaker 1: going on at this place, at this purple place right

886
00:54:28,320 --> 00:54:32,799
Speaker 1: in like self help improvement coach type vibe. Right, But

887
00:54:32,880 --> 00:54:37,959
Speaker 1: there's a darker side. Maybe they're always is not they're

888
00:54:38,000 --> 00:54:40,880
Speaker 1: always true true, there's a darker side to all of

889
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Speaker 1: us the Dark side of the Moon. The moon is

890
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Speaker 1: my butt. Yeah, advanced Dark Side of the Moon add awesome,

891
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Speaker 1: Oh my god? Well, yes, stay tuned for part two,

892
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Speaker 1: where we really dive into the controversies and side if

893
00:55:00,280 --> 00:55:03,040
Speaker 1: this is a cult, because that's the big question, is

894
00:55:03,120 --> 00:55:07,359
Speaker 1: this a cult? And we have the definitive answer. Yeah,

895
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Speaker 1: we will make it, y'all. Please catch us next week.

896
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Speaker 1: In the meantime, we would love to hear from you

897
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Speaker 1: about this episode, about any episode. Uh, feel free to

898
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Speaker 1: reach out through email. We are ridict Romance at gmail

899
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Speaker 1: dot com right, or slide into the d m s

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Speaker 1: on Twitter and Instagram. I'm at Dynamite Boom and I'm

901
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Speaker 1: at Oh great, it's Eli and the show is at

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Speaker 1: predict Romance. That's right. Drop a comment or send us

903
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Speaker 1: a message. We would love to hear from you either way. Yeah,

904
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Speaker 1: and thanks again to Sean for the suggestions. Uh, we're

905
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Speaker 1: getting two episodes out of who Knew? So thank you sir.

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Speaker 1: Awesome and we'll see you all next time. Thanks for

907
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Speaker 1: being here, Thank you, Bye bye, so long friends, it's

908
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Speaker 1: time to go. Thanks so listening to our show tell

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Speaker 1: your friends names Uncle Sandance to listen to our show

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