1 00:00:00,600 --> 00:00:03,120 Speaker 1: Your best advice for getting through a breakup. I'll take 2 00:00:03,160 --> 00:00:04,920 Speaker 1: it because I've had a lot of Carissa. The floor 3 00:00:05,040 --> 00:00:07,680 Speaker 1: is yours. Calm Down with Aaron and Carissa is a 4 00:00:07,680 --> 00:00:12,600 Speaker 1: production of I Heart Radio. I'm in an ether network, 5 00:00:12,600 --> 00:00:14,680 Speaker 1: all girl? What does that mean? You know? I have 6 00:00:14,720 --> 00:00:17,759 Speaker 1: a hard line. I got a heart out. Great sweatshirt. 7 00:00:17,800 --> 00:00:19,880 Speaker 1: What's that? Thank you? Steve just got it for me. 8 00:00:19,920 --> 00:00:21,880 Speaker 1: It's kind of our thing, like matching sweatshirts. And I 9 00:00:21,920 --> 00:00:24,480 Speaker 1: always like I'm really large because then I like they're 10 00:00:24,480 --> 00:00:28,440 Speaker 1: like cozier. I don't hate a tight sweatshirt, peaking sweatshirts. 11 00:00:28,600 --> 00:00:30,960 Speaker 1: I'm putting you on blast and welcome everybody to the 12 00:00:31,000 --> 00:00:33,599 Speaker 1: Calm Down Podcast where we just get right into it. 13 00:00:33,920 --> 00:00:37,919 Speaker 1: I want to borrow your jacket from Patriots bills. Can 14 00:00:37,960 --> 00:00:40,080 Speaker 1: I borrow it for playoffs? If I go somewhere cold, 15 00:00:40,120 --> 00:00:43,800 Speaker 1: like a Philly situation, because that thing was majestic? Oh 16 00:00:43,840 --> 00:00:46,080 Speaker 1: my god, it would be my absolute pleasure. And I 17 00:00:46,120 --> 00:00:48,360 Speaker 1: will give you your jacket back from the Green Bay 18 00:00:48,440 --> 00:00:52,400 Speaker 1: situation that blew halo of goodness. I think you're a 19 00:00:52,400 --> 00:00:55,040 Speaker 1: gray one coming your way to the one from a 20 00:00:55,040 --> 00:00:56,600 Speaker 1: couple of weeks ago. If you want to try it out. 21 00:00:56,640 --> 00:00:59,200 Speaker 1: Are you going I'm going a lot of places cold 22 00:00:59,200 --> 00:01:01,360 Speaker 1: I'm going to see and I'm going to New York 23 00:01:01,440 --> 00:01:03,360 Speaker 1: and Tennessee is going to be cold when I go there. 24 00:01:03,400 --> 00:01:07,920 Speaker 1: I need three for Welcome everybody to the pregame. This 25 00:01:08,000 --> 00:01:11,199 Speaker 1: is our fun ten minutes of conversation and a chance 26 00:01:11,240 --> 00:01:13,800 Speaker 1: where we get a chance where we get to Jesus, 27 00:01:14,040 --> 00:01:16,399 Speaker 1: a time where we get to answer your questions, which 28 00:01:16,440 --> 00:01:19,000 Speaker 1: we absolutely love to induce this conversation, and half the 29 00:01:19,000 --> 00:01:23,319 Speaker 1: time we end up talking about yeah, well that too. Um. 30 00:01:23,360 --> 00:01:26,720 Speaker 1: All right, here we go. First, up, Abby's. I'm gonna 31 00:01:26,720 --> 00:01:29,960 Speaker 1: assume it's Abbey's. You guys know, I'm terrible at this. 32 00:01:30,080 --> 00:01:34,160 Speaker 1: Abbey's No up, Okay. Favorite memory with each other, Oh 33 00:01:34,200 --> 00:01:38,759 Speaker 1: we have so much. Um My first one that stands out, 34 00:01:38,880 --> 00:01:41,280 Speaker 1: just like off the top of my head is the 35 00:01:41,400 --> 00:01:44,160 Speaker 1: to Loom vacation. I was going to say, to Loom 36 00:01:44,160 --> 00:01:48,040 Speaker 1: where we were sitting like everyone else is going to 37 00:01:48,080 --> 00:01:50,400 Speaker 1: be the same one as yours. We were sitting um 38 00:01:50,520 --> 00:01:52,080 Speaker 1: and by the hot tub, and like we were waiting 39 00:01:52,120 --> 00:01:53,520 Speaker 1: to go to dinner and we were just like I 40 00:01:53,520 --> 00:01:55,440 Speaker 1: don't know, it was just like easy and fun and 41 00:01:55,480 --> 00:01:58,320 Speaker 1: I don't really nothing like monumental about it. It was 42 00:01:58,400 --> 00:02:01,200 Speaker 1: just we're with Jared and Stephen, just a fun little group. 43 00:02:01,240 --> 00:02:03,200 Speaker 1: I also was thinking about when we went to that 44 00:02:03,320 --> 00:02:06,720 Speaker 1: I'll say at day club and we were off by 45 00:02:06,760 --> 00:02:09,880 Speaker 1: ourselves and our mind was blown, and then we were like, 46 00:02:10,400 --> 00:02:13,000 Speaker 1: who are these people? In a great way, for all 47 00:02:13,040 --> 00:02:15,000 Speaker 1: those people that were there, we love you very much 48 00:02:15,040 --> 00:02:18,359 Speaker 1: and we hope it back as you know who initials 49 00:02:18,360 --> 00:02:21,120 Speaker 1: c K was being paraded around on a chair with 50 00:02:21,160 --> 00:02:23,400 Speaker 1: a wig and a costume, and it was Aaron and 51 00:02:23,440 --> 00:02:25,000 Speaker 1: I for the first time. We're like standing there. We're like, 52 00:02:25,160 --> 00:02:29,160 Speaker 1: we're the normal ones, which is wastastic. All right, that's funny. 53 00:02:29,160 --> 00:02:32,080 Speaker 1: That's the same. Next girl, U D D I Y 54 00:02:32,240 --> 00:02:36,200 Speaker 1: no idea? Is Pineapple a legitimate pizza topping? I don't 55 00:02:36,200 --> 00:02:38,840 Speaker 1: go with it. It's not my thing. My husband's into it, 56 00:02:38,880 --> 00:02:42,200 Speaker 1: which weirds me out. Does he ever say why? I mean, 57 00:02:42,240 --> 00:02:44,519 Speaker 1: but this guy has catch up with everything. I mean, 58 00:02:44,600 --> 00:02:47,200 Speaker 1: it's like a Canadian. Is it Jared or is it Canadian? 59 00:02:47,919 --> 00:02:50,120 Speaker 1: That's true? Okay, I don't know. I'm not into it either. 60 00:02:50,360 --> 00:02:53,480 Speaker 1: Next time shell this kiss you guys. This is the worship. 61 00:02:53,560 --> 00:02:56,000 Speaker 1: I mean, we've watched a lot here I'm so so sorry. 62 00:02:56,240 --> 00:02:59,040 Speaker 1: Did you love your questions? Love? Please keep them coming. 63 00:02:59,280 --> 00:03:01,160 Speaker 1: In fact, one of your questions can be can you 64 00:03:01,160 --> 00:03:04,360 Speaker 1: guys work on your pronunciations? The question common and concern. 65 00:03:04,680 --> 00:03:06,600 Speaker 1: Did you ever have a point in your career where 66 00:03:06,600 --> 00:03:09,239 Speaker 1: you thought about quitting? And what gave you motivation to 67 00:03:09,320 --> 00:03:12,080 Speaker 1: keep going. I'm gonna tell you this fucking troll bag 68 00:03:12,400 --> 00:03:16,080 Speaker 1: that has been stalking me with the dumb little comments 69 00:03:16,080 --> 00:03:17,720 Speaker 1: on Twitter, and I normally don't give a ship, but 70 00:03:17,720 --> 00:03:20,280 Speaker 1: I told you last night, it really pisces me off. 71 00:03:20,760 --> 00:03:23,040 Speaker 1: Like whatever. We've both been through different things. A lot 72 00:03:23,040 --> 00:03:25,360 Speaker 1: of people have been through stuff and it sucks. But 73 00:03:26,000 --> 00:03:31,080 Speaker 1: when you have dad in your profile and your religious 74 00:03:31,480 --> 00:03:34,400 Speaker 1: or yeah, like of God, yeah, and then yet you 75 00:03:34,440 --> 00:03:38,840 Speaker 1: take shots at women or you know whatever, and it's 76 00:03:38,880 --> 00:03:41,160 Speaker 1: like and so I finally fired back, and I was like, Oh, 77 00:03:41,240 --> 00:03:44,280 Speaker 1: you're a father of a little girl. I would wonder 78 00:03:44,320 --> 00:03:46,200 Speaker 1: what she would think about this or whatever. He's like, Shoot, 79 00:03:46,200 --> 00:03:48,040 Speaker 1: my daughter would never do something like that. I want 80 00:03:48,040 --> 00:03:49,800 Speaker 1: to be like, you know what, I wish your daughter 81 00:03:49,880 --> 00:03:51,520 Speaker 1: the best, but I hope she does grow up to 82 00:03:51,600 --> 00:03:54,320 Speaker 1: be something that you don't approve of, so you can 83 00:03:54,360 --> 00:03:56,880 Speaker 1: have some empathy that not everything has to align with 84 00:03:56,960 --> 00:03:59,520 Speaker 1: your thoughts, buddy. So this is why I don't respond 85 00:03:59,560 --> 00:04:01,440 Speaker 1: to trolls because then it works me into a little 86 00:04:01,520 --> 00:04:04,600 Speaker 1: tizzy and I need to take the high road. But 87 00:04:04,680 --> 00:04:08,240 Speaker 1: every now and then, yes, I have to fire back, 88 00:04:08,280 --> 00:04:10,680 Speaker 1: and then I think, why do I subject myself to this? 89 00:04:10,760 --> 00:04:14,280 Speaker 1: But it's it's the to answer the original question. No, 90 00:04:14,440 --> 00:04:16,080 Speaker 1: I never want to quit my job, but I need 91 00:04:16,120 --> 00:04:20,240 Speaker 1: to quit social media sometimes because if fires me up. Sure. No, 92 00:04:20,440 --> 00:04:22,120 Speaker 1: I never want to quit my job either. I just 93 00:04:22,160 --> 00:04:25,080 Speaker 1: get frustrated about different things. And that's why you. I 94 00:04:25,080 --> 00:04:28,160 Speaker 1: am very fortunate to have good girlfriends in the industry 95 00:04:28,160 --> 00:04:30,800 Speaker 1: where I just called bitch and say I'm sorry, I'm 96 00:04:30,839 --> 00:04:33,599 Speaker 1: a loser. I need to be more positive, Ernie. I 97 00:04:33,640 --> 00:04:36,520 Speaker 1: do have the luxury inventing to one another and others 98 00:04:36,560 --> 00:04:38,880 Speaker 1: about these things. But this is also why it's great to, 99 00:04:39,360 --> 00:04:41,360 Speaker 1: you know, have that, because then we pull it together 100 00:04:41,440 --> 00:04:44,119 Speaker 1: and keep it moving because we're very together. Pull it together. 101 00:04:44,240 --> 00:04:49,360 Speaker 1: Next question, girl, Jules sis Hers, I'm so sorry worst 102 00:04:49,360 --> 00:04:51,680 Speaker 1: trade about you that you are working on that I 103 00:04:51,720 --> 00:04:55,160 Speaker 1: give a ship about what people say in the media 104 00:04:55,560 --> 00:04:58,680 Speaker 1: or on social media. We will talk about this on 105 00:04:58,680 --> 00:05:02,640 Speaker 1: our extended version that's coming out on Thursday. But I 106 00:05:02,720 --> 00:05:04,800 Speaker 1: had a moment last week. We'll talk about you had 107 00:05:04,839 --> 00:05:07,520 Speaker 1: a moment this week. I thought the bottom line you said, 108 00:05:07,680 --> 00:05:11,080 Speaker 1: it's not that fucking serious. It's not and I need 109 00:05:11,120 --> 00:05:13,040 Speaker 1: to be reminded of that. Because I remind you of 110 00:05:13,080 --> 00:05:16,320 Speaker 1: the same thing, I would say that I need to 111 00:05:16,360 --> 00:05:19,200 Speaker 1: work on doing a better job of listening. I'm a talker. 112 00:05:19,240 --> 00:05:21,640 Speaker 1: I go, as we all know, a hundred miles an hour, 113 00:05:22,200 --> 00:05:24,640 Speaker 1: and as the old adage goes, we're given two ears 114 00:05:24,680 --> 00:05:26,800 Speaker 1: and one mouth for a reason. I need to listen 115 00:05:26,839 --> 00:05:29,760 Speaker 1: more and say less. And I also think there's so 116 00:05:29,880 --> 00:05:32,800 Speaker 1: much power in not saying something like I have the 117 00:05:32,839 --> 00:05:34,800 Speaker 1: tendency where I feel like I need to fill the space, 118 00:05:35,520 --> 00:05:38,279 Speaker 1: and so I need to zip it a little bit 119 00:05:38,440 --> 00:05:42,320 Speaker 1: on some things and maybe not feel like I always 120 00:05:42,320 --> 00:05:43,880 Speaker 1: have to fill the space. That's what I'm working on. 121 00:05:44,120 --> 00:05:48,880 Speaker 1: I have space, YE have it. Next up is ted 122 00:05:49,000 --> 00:05:53,440 Speaker 1: Lasso in Ted Lasso. Are you Rebecca or Keiley? A 123 00:05:53,600 --> 00:05:56,400 Speaker 1: Keiley type of person? And why that's a good cushion 124 00:05:57,040 --> 00:05:58,480 Speaker 1: You answered this one because you know the show a 125 00:05:58,480 --> 00:06:01,880 Speaker 1: lot better than me. I mean, I love Rebecca for 126 00:06:02,200 --> 00:06:04,440 Speaker 1: just being a powerful woman, but also you get to 127 00:06:04,480 --> 00:06:07,039 Speaker 1: see the real vulnerable. I can't say that word side 128 00:06:07,040 --> 00:06:09,400 Speaker 1: of her, but I wish I was Kiley in terms 129 00:06:09,440 --> 00:06:11,760 Speaker 1: of being like a hot little nugget that's so cheery 130 00:06:11,800 --> 00:06:14,560 Speaker 1: and bright. I don't think that's me, but also be 131 00:06:14,600 --> 00:06:19,000 Speaker 1: an extra and ted Lasso. Jason said, dacis liking our tweets. 132 00:06:19,760 --> 00:06:23,120 Speaker 1: We see you. I'll keep it cool, I'll keep it fresh. 133 00:06:23,560 --> 00:06:27,400 Speaker 1: Um more on that in the extended episode. I would 134 00:06:27,440 --> 00:06:29,400 Speaker 1: hope that maybe was like a little bit of both. 135 00:06:29,480 --> 00:06:31,560 Speaker 1: Like I like the power of Rebecca, I like being 136 00:06:31,560 --> 00:06:34,800 Speaker 1: a boss lady, right, and then I also like, to 137 00:06:34,839 --> 00:06:37,680 Speaker 1: your point, Killy is like sassy her like one line 138 00:06:37,760 --> 00:06:39,960 Speaker 1: is she and she doesn't put up with any ship, 139 00:06:40,040 --> 00:06:43,680 Speaker 1: which is great. When is that show coming back? And 140 00:06:43,720 --> 00:06:46,880 Speaker 1: when Succession coming back? When a billions? Like? What what 141 00:06:46,920 --> 00:06:48,599 Speaker 1: are we doing here? I thought we were taping these 142 00:06:48,680 --> 00:06:53,320 Speaker 1: years ago, taping people still taping. We're taping this conversation live. 143 00:06:53,520 --> 00:06:57,160 Speaker 1: Simply says your best advice for getting through a breakup. 144 00:06:57,200 --> 00:06:59,479 Speaker 1: I'll take it because I've had a lot, Charissa. The 145 00:06:59,520 --> 00:07:02,960 Speaker 1: floor is yours. Yeah, yeah, yeah, the floor, the ceiling, 146 00:07:03,080 --> 00:07:07,599 Speaker 1: and the walls to the well. Here we go. Um, 147 00:07:08,000 --> 00:07:10,240 Speaker 1: the best advice for a breakup. It depends if you're 148 00:07:10,240 --> 00:07:12,320 Speaker 1: actually sad that you're breaking up, because there are two 149 00:07:12,320 --> 00:07:15,080 Speaker 1: different kinds of breakup. There's one where you're being broken 150 00:07:15,160 --> 00:07:17,000 Speaker 1: up with and there's one where you're doing the breakup. 151 00:07:17,520 --> 00:07:21,120 Speaker 1: I would say, remember why you're doing it and know 152 00:07:21,280 --> 00:07:26,200 Speaker 1: that things always get better because you only get one life, 153 00:07:26,320 --> 00:07:28,760 Speaker 1: and do not waste it on people that are not 154 00:07:28,920 --> 00:07:32,000 Speaker 1: worth your time. And ultimately it's like you're probably not 155 00:07:32,040 --> 00:07:33,800 Speaker 1: the right fit for them, and you're they're not the 156 00:07:33,880 --> 00:07:36,400 Speaker 1: right fit for you, So keep it moving. It's such 157 00:07:36,400 --> 00:07:39,520 Speaker 1: a cliche, but there's a lot of other good ones 158 00:07:39,640 --> 00:07:41,760 Speaker 1: out there, and it's just a matter of aligning yourself 159 00:07:41,760 --> 00:07:43,920 Speaker 1: because it just don't waste time on the wrong people. 160 00:07:44,320 --> 00:07:47,720 Speaker 1: Lord knows I've done that. And work out, work out, 161 00:07:48,160 --> 00:07:51,400 Speaker 1: don't put yourself, go to ship, get it out, get 162 00:07:51,480 --> 00:07:54,760 Speaker 1: the crying in the stretch. You'll cry in the post stretch, 163 00:07:55,280 --> 00:07:58,240 Speaker 1: but you'll feel so damn good, all better than you do. 164 00:07:58,880 --> 00:08:01,440 Speaker 1: It sucks, you're good through it. Well that was rude, 165 00:08:01,680 --> 00:08:06,440 Speaker 1: um Lynn Perndo. Do you have a favorite Christmas cookie? 166 00:08:06,600 --> 00:08:08,960 Speaker 1: I do. I love the peanut butter with the Hershey 167 00:08:09,040 --> 00:08:13,280 Speaker 1: kissings are so easy, but my mom makes um. They're 168 00:08:13,360 --> 00:08:15,920 Speaker 1: the seven layer bars. But in our family we have 169 00:08:16,040 --> 00:08:19,360 Speaker 1: nicknamed them gag bars because I think I've talked about 170 00:08:19,360 --> 00:08:24,120 Speaker 1: this before. They're so gag I know. Uh more on 171 00:08:24,200 --> 00:08:26,920 Speaker 1: that in our later episode of a woman gagging next 172 00:08:26,960 --> 00:08:30,320 Speaker 1: to me on the plane, it was great, Um, this one. This, 173 00:08:31,080 --> 00:08:33,400 Speaker 1: I mean, we've got plenty of jumping off points, don't 174 00:08:33,400 --> 00:08:41,000 Speaker 1: we through the snow in a one horse open sleigh. Um, 175 00:08:41,040 --> 00:08:43,960 Speaker 1: I would say, my, oh, the no bake cookies you 176 00:08:44,000 --> 00:08:46,080 Speaker 1: ever had those? They look like there are a bunch 177 00:08:46,120 --> 00:08:48,200 Speaker 1: of oats and chocolate and they're melted, and you don't 178 00:08:48,200 --> 00:08:50,280 Speaker 1: make them in the oven. They just dry the harden. 179 00:08:50,360 --> 00:08:53,679 Speaker 1: It's like fudge and oats. It's so good. I also, really, 180 00:08:54,400 --> 00:08:56,520 Speaker 1: how about the snowballs. I used to be really into those. 181 00:08:56,520 --> 00:08:59,640 Speaker 1: The ones Okay, i'll make you some. I won't make 182 00:08:59,679 --> 00:09:01,480 Speaker 1: you some, Cathy will send me the recipe on it 183 00:09:01,480 --> 00:09:05,560 Speaker 1: out you'll try, And then the last one is probably 184 00:09:05,600 --> 00:09:08,760 Speaker 1: I just like a classic cutout ones and you decorate out. 185 00:09:08,960 --> 00:09:12,240 Speaker 1: Those are fun. But yeah, anyways, if you guys have 186 00:09:12,280 --> 00:09:14,839 Speaker 1: some fun recipes, send them our way, and as please do, 187 00:09:15,120 --> 00:09:17,480 Speaker 1: send in all and any questions. We get them. We 188 00:09:17,559 --> 00:09:21,120 Speaker 1: love them and we appreciate you plenty more on breaking 189 00:09:21,160 --> 00:09:24,160 Speaker 1: up with people and bagging from eating on the full 190 00:09:24,240 --> 00:09:30,800 Speaker 1: length episode La La La La La La La. Calm 191 00:09:30,840 --> 00:09:33,120 Speaker 1: Down with Aaron and Chrissa is a production of I 192 00:09:33,240 --> 00:09:36,200 Speaker 1: heart Radio. For more podcasts from my heart Radio, visit 193 00:09:36,200 --> 00:09:39,160 Speaker 1: the i heart Radio app, Apple podcast, or wherever you 194 00:09:39,320 --> 00:09:40,319 Speaker 1: get your podcasts.