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Speaker 1: of Horrible Decisions. This year, Girl maybv a k A

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Speaker 1: Corona beer. I have been drinking Hella Corona because it's

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Speaker 1: actually on sale. Of course it is at the bodega.

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Speaker 1: really tired of this Corona hysteria. I do want to

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Speaker 1: but like Italy, I was about to buy a flight

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Speaker 1: I I don't know. I don't see too many flight

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Speaker 1: I want to make Norwegian and all those Well, I

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Speaker 1: But I did get a LIT deal. I'm gonna go

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Speaker 1: So like everyone, I mean, that's fine, we can not

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Speaker 1: I don't necessarily feel like it's Game five, but I

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Speaker 1: one of the games we play. We allow people to

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Speaker 1: of Nigel sense it. He caught the whole thing on tape.

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Speaker 1: I'll forward it to the horrible citness what happened this morning?

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Speaker 1: She just jumped, you'll see it. I'll send it to you.

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Speaker 1: So basically, the girl jumps and I'm like, what the fuck?

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Speaker 1: as compliments. So I wanted to go through some of

427
00:20:36,720 --> 00:20:39,600
Speaker 1: these and then maybe weezy you can share some compliments

428
00:20:39,600 --> 00:20:42,879
Speaker 1: that you've gotten, um from some of your lovers or

429
00:20:43,000 --> 00:20:46,879
Speaker 1: friends that made you feel just really confident. Um. Um, Well,

430
00:20:46,920 --> 00:20:49,159
Speaker 1: I want to read through the ones in in the

431
00:20:49,280 --> 00:20:51,720
Speaker 1: article first, UM, just so that you guys can get

432
00:20:51,720 --> 00:20:55,520
Speaker 1: an idea of things that do sound good from guys. UM.

433
00:20:55,560 --> 00:20:57,640
Speaker 1: So this one is, you have the most beautiful legs

434
00:20:57,680 --> 00:21:00,760
Speaker 1: I've ever seen. You're like my just like a rabbit.

435
00:21:01,440 --> 00:21:03,920
Speaker 1: You make the hottest sex face. I think that that's

436
00:21:03,920 --> 00:21:06,040
Speaker 1: funny because I think a lot of us are. It's

437
00:21:06,119 --> 00:21:09,639
Speaker 1: kind of cautious about what we look like during sex. Um,

438
00:21:09,800 --> 00:21:11,960
Speaker 1: you wear a wicked grin. I don't know if many

439
00:21:12,000 --> 00:21:14,639
Speaker 1: black guys use the word wicked, but just saying someone's

440
00:21:14,640 --> 00:21:19,520
Speaker 1: smile is nice, wicked is what that's Boston they say

441
00:21:19,520 --> 00:21:23,040
Speaker 1: Wicked and Boston Wicked is like their ship, and I

442
00:21:23,040 --> 00:21:25,040
Speaker 1: feel like in the UK they do. Um, you have

443
00:21:25,080 --> 00:21:29,479
Speaker 1: the softest skin. Your body is perfect exactly as it is.

444
00:21:29,760 --> 00:21:33,440
Speaker 1: I like that compliment. Um, baby, you smell so good

445
00:21:33,960 --> 00:21:37,800
Speaker 1: and I could wrap myself in you all day. So

446
00:21:37,840 --> 00:21:42,280
Speaker 1: these are just a few that women has said bringing

447
00:21:42,400 --> 00:21:47,440
Speaker 1: them the most confidence. Um. I would say the compliments

448
00:21:47,520 --> 00:21:50,480
Speaker 1: that I think make me smile the most are the

449
00:21:50,520 --> 00:21:54,520
Speaker 1: acknowledgments of the work I put in and where I'm

450
00:21:54,560 --> 00:21:57,399
Speaker 1: at now. Like I think someone's saying how proud they

451
00:21:57,440 --> 00:22:00,399
Speaker 1: are of me, I thought you meant like your body. No,

452
00:22:00,840 --> 00:22:04,760
Speaker 1: well that too. That that I think speaks to my mind. Um.

453
00:22:04,800 --> 00:22:09,440
Speaker 1: As far as my body, UM, I don't know. I like,

454
00:22:09,680 --> 00:22:13,639
Speaker 1: I love my thighs, and when I started losing weight,

455
00:22:13,680 --> 00:22:17,520
Speaker 1: I actually hated how small they had gotten. But I'm

456
00:22:17,560 --> 00:22:20,800
Speaker 1: like into my thighs. So I love when guys like

457
00:22:20,960 --> 00:22:23,520
Speaker 1: compliment my thighs because it is a part of me

458
00:22:23,600 --> 00:22:27,959
Speaker 1: that Um, especially with shopping for jeans and skirts and

459
00:22:27,960 --> 00:22:30,880
Speaker 1: how they used to make me feel, I didn't really

460
00:22:30,920 --> 00:22:33,159
Speaker 1: like them as much, but my thighs are something that

461
00:22:33,240 --> 00:22:36,240
Speaker 1: when that compliments me, I'm like reassured, that. Okay, big

462
00:22:36,280 --> 00:22:39,159
Speaker 1: thighs are kind of you know, cool. I also like

463
00:22:39,280 --> 00:22:43,160
Speaker 1: the compliments on my breast um, specifically my large area.

464
00:22:43,160 --> 00:22:46,240
Speaker 1: Is so when guys talk about how much they like

465
00:22:46,760 --> 00:22:50,760
Speaker 1: silver dollar, Hell, yes, silver dollar. Maybe fucking cup mats.

466
00:22:50,840 --> 00:22:53,520
Speaker 1: I don't know, but the bitches they're big. They're big

467
00:22:53,560 --> 00:22:57,480
Speaker 1: at fun like hoster it. Oh is that what it is?

468
00:22:57,720 --> 00:23:00,439
Speaker 1: A cup matt? It could be called a cup matt,

469
00:23:02,280 --> 00:23:09,080
Speaker 1: a coaster bit I am so, I mean a coaster.

470
00:23:09,359 --> 00:23:11,960
Speaker 1: I don't think going to work. This is pretty bad.

471
00:23:12,840 --> 00:23:16,880
Speaker 1: It could be called a cut mat. The dope it's

472
00:23:16,920 --> 00:23:20,960
Speaker 1: only called a coaster bitch. Fuck you anyway. My ariola

473
00:23:21,000 --> 00:23:23,280
Speaker 1: is I like when niggas compliment on my big old arials.

474
00:23:23,440 --> 00:23:29,199
Speaker 1: Fuck you, bro, fuck you. I took my head um.

475
00:23:29,240 --> 00:23:32,280
Speaker 1: Oh okay, I think I'm trying to think of something

476
00:23:32,320 --> 00:23:34,119
Speaker 1: that compliments the specific. But one thing I like that

477
00:23:34,160 --> 00:23:37,159
Speaker 1: Amanda's is like he'll like we'll be like in the

478
00:23:37,200 --> 00:23:39,359
Speaker 1: mirror and he'll like tell me to look at myself

479
00:23:39,359 --> 00:23:41,000
Speaker 1: and tell me a compliment about myself. He'll be like,

480
00:23:41,080 --> 00:23:45,000
Speaker 1: look how pretty you are? Oh that's cute. Yeah. He

481
00:23:45,040 --> 00:23:47,399
Speaker 1: always does the offsets of Cardi on me, like fixes

482
00:23:47,440 --> 00:23:49,639
Speaker 1: me up and that makes me feel so special. And

483
00:23:49,680 --> 00:23:51,840
Speaker 1: then it used to actually really know me. I'd be like,

484
00:23:51,840 --> 00:23:54,680
Speaker 1: I would think something is wrong with my face, um,

485
00:23:55,160 --> 00:23:57,000
Speaker 1: and he just tells me how much he loves touching me.

486
00:23:57,600 --> 00:24:00,560
Speaker 1: I'm thinking, like something that I really loved. Obviously, you

487
00:24:00,640 --> 00:24:03,200
Speaker 1: taste so good. It's like the number one compliment, because bitch,

488
00:24:03,200 --> 00:24:07,520
Speaker 1: I'll be drinking hollow water to tastes good. Um, I

489
00:24:07,560 --> 00:24:09,879
Speaker 1: don't know. I had this girl say something when we

490
00:24:09,880 --> 00:24:12,720
Speaker 1: were sucking her in Puerto Rico and she was like

491
00:24:13,920 --> 00:24:16,679
Speaker 1: where she's from, Oh, New Zealand, I can't do the accent,

492
00:24:17,200 --> 00:24:19,639
Speaker 1: but she kept talking about how she was both of

493
00:24:19,680 --> 00:24:21,160
Speaker 1: us were making her so wet. She's like, I can't

494
00:24:21,200 --> 00:24:23,000
Speaker 1: I can't even look at you. You're bothn'tet me so wet.

495
00:24:23,040 --> 00:24:25,440
Speaker 1: Boh blah blah blah blah blah, and like would say

496
00:24:25,480 --> 00:24:27,040
Speaker 1: it over and over and it was kind of annoying,

497
00:24:27,040 --> 00:24:29,880
Speaker 1: but I started to believe the bitch, not like, yeah,

498
00:24:29,880 --> 00:24:33,399
Speaker 1: I get it. I would say that that's uh indirect

499
00:24:34,000 --> 00:24:37,280
Speaker 1: non verbal compliment that I would say I get is

500
00:24:37,320 --> 00:24:40,040
Speaker 1: when a guy is around me and we're not even

501
00:24:40,080 --> 00:24:42,360
Speaker 1: having sex. I ain't sucking his dick, but he's hard

502
00:24:42,359 --> 00:24:45,160
Speaker 1: as a rock. That just makes me. You you gotta

503
00:24:45,200 --> 00:24:46,879
Speaker 1: say that you know I look good because now I

504
00:24:46,960 --> 00:24:49,359
Speaker 1: know you think I look good because you think is man.

505
00:24:50,160 --> 00:24:53,320
Speaker 1: So I love like not. And I told y'all, I

506
00:24:53,359 --> 00:24:55,639
Speaker 1: actually hate seeing soft dick because I'm not used to

507
00:24:55,640 --> 00:24:59,320
Speaker 1: seeing soft dick, like like he was hard upon arrival.

508
00:25:00,000 --> 00:25:02,840
Speaker 1: Like you have to use another flies. It is the

509
00:25:02,880 --> 00:25:07,119
Speaker 1: word another reference point for a person. I mean all

510
00:25:07,200 --> 00:25:10,399
Speaker 1: the other little one off niggas too well, perpendicular. His

511
00:25:10,520 --> 00:25:12,680
Speaker 1: dick be hard like when he came right through the door.

512
00:25:13,960 --> 00:25:16,880
Speaker 1: Green Eyes, green Eyes be perpendiculars the guy you went

513
00:25:16,960 --> 00:25:21,840
Speaker 1: to n SFW with no that's Canada, bay um. And

514
00:25:21,880 --> 00:25:25,120
Speaker 1: then oh green Eyes, green Eyes be rock hard too.

515
00:25:26,040 --> 00:25:27,720
Speaker 1: Who I just saw green Eyes not too long ago.

516
00:25:27,760 --> 00:25:31,399
Speaker 1: Green Eyes is amazing. Um green Eyes has has sex

517
00:25:32,200 --> 00:25:36,199
Speaker 1: seven Like he literally is like the most sweetest chill person.

518
00:25:36,280 --> 00:25:38,040
Speaker 1: Like we just be smoking together. I'd really just be

519
00:25:38,040 --> 00:25:40,480
Speaker 1: smoking with my niggas a lot before sex. Sorry, like

520
00:25:41,520 --> 00:25:44,280
Speaker 1: that's my thing. I feel like wine. I mean, I

521
00:25:44,320 --> 00:25:47,000
Speaker 1: feel like I'm saying something cheesy now, but actually, you

522
00:25:47,000 --> 00:25:48,720
Speaker 1: know what I really love to do. This is dumb,

523
00:25:48,800 --> 00:25:53,280
Speaker 1: but I'm into it. I like, um, so let me

524
00:25:53,320 --> 00:25:55,040
Speaker 1: tell you guys a name of these cigarettes. They're not

525
00:25:55,119 --> 00:26:00,960
Speaker 1: real cigarettes. They're made out of flowers, what seriously, chrysanthemums,

526
00:26:02,240 --> 00:26:05,119
Speaker 1: what's the lavender? And like herbs? Um? I got them

527
00:26:05,200 --> 00:26:08,120
Speaker 1: in too loom. I know what I sound like right now, definitely,

528
00:26:08,280 --> 00:26:12,920
Speaker 1: but they sound exactly like anyway. They're like so fucking

529
00:26:13,040 --> 00:26:16,440
Speaker 1: natural and if sometimes I feel like smoking actual cigarettes,

530
00:26:16,480 --> 00:26:17,879
Speaker 1: it's just too hard, but like I want like a

531
00:26:17,880 --> 00:26:21,720
Speaker 1: little something. But they're these Mexican cigarettes and they're called

532
00:26:21,840 --> 00:26:24,600
Speaker 1: like Floria to Mesco. If you guys can order them,

533
00:26:24,720 --> 00:26:27,720
Speaker 1: fucking order them. They're so fire and they make them

534
00:26:27,800 --> 00:26:31,000
Speaker 1: out of actual flowers and herbs. Maybe a little tobacco

535
00:26:31,119 --> 00:26:33,080
Speaker 1: is in it. But I like rolling them up like

536
00:26:33,200 --> 00:26:35,159
Speaker 1: that's like something I love doing. I love rolling up

537
00:26:35,200 --> 00:26:37,080
Speaker 1: like little cigarette. The way these nails are set up,

538
00:26:37,119 --> 00:26:39,879
Speaker 1: the niggas gonna roll. I'd be making them roll extra

539
00:26:40,000 --> 00:26:41,760
Speaker 1: just so they could leave it when they leave, because

540
00:26:41,800 --> 00:26:43,560
Speaker 1: I can't be rolling bloods with these nails and be

541
00:26:43,640 --> 00:26:46,240
Speaker 1: taking can't up blunt because the licking gets annoying, But

542
00:26:46,320 --> 00:26:49,800
Speaker 1: the cigarette papers I can kind of do. Um. That's

543
00:26:49,840 --> 00:26:51,760
Speaker 1: a weird. God damn, why does all my sta do

544
00:26:51,760 --> 00:26:55,280
Speaker 1: with smoking, alcohol and drugs, what else. Yeah, I do

545
00:26:55,400 --> 00:26:57,360
Speaker 1: that right before, and I just love like it gets

546
00:26:57,400 --> 00:26:58,960
Speaker 1: this chill and then he like I said, like that

547
00:26:59,080 --> 00:27:01,040
Speaker 1: nigga turns into another beast. But like I said, like,

548
00:27:01,480 --> 00:27:03,399
Speaker 1: I'm not used to being like having to get a

549
00:27:03,480 --> 00:27:06,920
Speaker 1: dick hard. So like the compliment, I just read the

550
00:27:07,000 --> 00:27:10,200
Speaker 1: whole facts. Are you kidding? No, I'm not. Well, fine,

551
00:27:10,240 --> 00:27:14,200
Speaker 1: we'll get into the whole facts already. Yes it is, Yes,

552
00:27:14,359 --> 00:27:17,200
Speaker 1: it is real, bro. You know what, let me tell

553
00:27:17,200 --> 00:27:20,200
Speaker 1: you Sam, I forgot to get my source for this. No,

554
00:27:20,359 --> 00:27:23,080
Speaker 1: it's not fake news, bro. I literally was looking up

555
00:27:23,320 --> 00:27:25,480
Speaker 1: facts that women should know about sex and then it

556
00:27:25,600 --> 00:27:27,880
Speaker 1: went into like some other stuffs. Anyways, let's get into

557
00:27:27,960 --> 00:27:30,239
Speaker 1: the whole facts. If you guys have not picked up

558
00:27:30,320 --> 00:27:32,159
Speaker 1: on the new segment that we have, Hope facts is

559
00:27:32,560 --> 00:27:35,480
Speaker 1: sex facts that you just wouldn't You just wouldn't know

560
00:27:35,680 --> 00:27:37,400
Speaker 1: unless you listen to horrible decisions. And I'm just saying,

561
00:27:37,520 --> 00:27:39,760
Speaker 1: unless you just google weird sex facts that you think

562
00:27:39,760 --> 00:27:43,000
Speaker 1: we should know. So the whole facts for this is,

563
00:27:43,200 --> 00:27:47,680
Speaker 1: for seventy five percent of men, ejaculation occurs within three

564
00:27:47,720 --> 00:27:50,600
Speaker 1: minutes of penetration. However, however, I do want to say

565
00:27:50,800 --> 00:27:53,520
Speaker 1: ejaculation could be considered pre come as well. Like, if

566
00:27:53,520 --> 00:27:57,720
Speaker 1: you think about it, nigga's pre come. Ejaculation is pre come,

567
00:27:57,840 --> 00:27:59,199
Speaker 1: I know, but how did they know nigga fre come?

568
00:27:59,240 --> 00:28:02,280
Speaker 1: And how do they test it? I mean science, I

569
00:28:02,280 --> 00:28:05,120
Speaker 1: don't believe it either, so thank you for not believing. Yeah,

570
00:28:05,160 --> 00:28:09,440
Speaker 1: well this is just no, it's not. And then, um,

571
00:28:09,800 --> 00:28:12,320
Speaker 1: so when I get sex facts, I like to like

572
00:28:12,440 --> 00:28:15,080
Speaker 1: do the opposite end of the spectrum. So if seventy

573
00:28:15,640 --> 00:28:19,600
Speaker 1: of men are ejaculating within three minutes of penetration, um,

574
00:28:19,960 --> 00:28:24,040
Speaker 1: the average woman can reach orgasm in about four minutes

575
00:28:24,119 --> 00:28:27,359
Speaker 1: through masturbation, while through intercourse it actually takes up to

576
00:28:27,520 --> 00:28:30,119
Speaker 1: twenty minutes, which is why I would assume a lot

577
00:28:30,200 --> 00:28:32,560
Speaker 1: of us are not coming because men are coming before

578
00:28:32,600 --> 00:28:35,960
Speaker 1: we can technically reach the amount of time it takes

579
00:28:36,000 --> 00:28:40,600
Speaker 1: for us to orgasm through penetration. A woman will have

580
00:28:40,720 --> 00:28:43,800
Speaker 1: sex with a partner more than three three thousand times

581
00:28:44,320 --> 00:28:46,719
Speaker 1: over the course of her reproductive years is also one

582
00:28:46,760 --> 00:28:49,240
Speaker 1: that I found, which I think that's believable because I

583
00:28:49,800 --> 00:28:51,280
Speaker 1: would say the nigga that you just said I can't

584
00:28:51,320 --> 00:28:53,200
Speaker 1: reference anymore, we had sex at least a thousand times

585
00:28:53,240 --> 00:28:55,880
Speaker 1: like we were fucking we were sucking three rounds every time.

586
00:28:56,840 --> 00:28:59,280
Speaker 1: I'm just saying I feel bad that I mean that

587
00:28:59,360 --> 00:29:02,080
Speaker 1: I'm no longer sucking out good dick. It's still him.

588
00:29:02,280 --> 00:29:04,840
Speaker 1: I mean there's other niggas, but they haven't I haven't

589
00:29:04,880 --> 00:29:06,920
Speaker 1: funded him in a while, like green Eyes because they're

590
00:29:06,920 --> 00:29:10,320
Speaker 1: not local. Local Dick is yeah, and I've had no

591
00:29:10,480 --> 00:29:14,120
Speaker 1: other local Dick and green Eyes is literally only like

592
00:29:14,360 --> 00:29:16,720
Speaker 1: ship when he was playing in town or offseason. We

593
00:29:16,760 --> 00:29:18,800
Speaker 1: see each other a lot because he can. He's met

594
00:29:18,880 --> 00:29:20,800
Speaker 1: me in cities. He met me in Atlanta that one time. Like,

595
00:29:20,880 --> 00:29:23,000
Speaker 1: so green Eyes is you know, local Dick is a

596
00:29:23,120 --> 00:29:26,480
Speaker 1: serious gift from God. Ironically, some of you may remember this,

597
00:29:27,160 --> 00:29:32,720
Speaker 1: Jeeves moved into Old Bays building. I'm downstairs. I don't

598
00:29:32,760 --> 00:29:34,680
Speaker 1: know what made me think of it, but I thought

599
00:29:34,720 --> 00:29:36,640
Speaker 1: about Jeeves for a second. I'm in the lobby of

600
00:29:36,680 --> 00:29:40,200
Speaker 1: the plushes of the building and I was like, damn,

601
00:29:40,320 --> 00:29:42,880
Speaker 1: that was some really good pink Dick, and bam, it

602
00:29:43,040 --> 00:29:45,760
Speaker 1: was like God wanted to test me. Bro He fucking

603
00:29:46,360 --> 00:29:48,440
Speaker 1: walks by. He's like, hey, I'm like, what do you

604
00:29:48,560 --> 00:29:50,680
Speaker 1: live here? Now? So I don't know what to do

605
00:29:50,840 --> 00:29:53,640
Speaker 1: right and I'm like, feeling so awkward. I go upstairs,

606
00:29:53,640 --> 00:29:56,000
Speaker 1: I go to sleep. Why had a dream? Both these

607
00:29:56,080 --> 00:29:58,200
Speaker 1: niggas gang like, well, is that what you want? You

608
00:29:58,240 --> 00:30:01,160
Speaker 1: want to three someone with them? BO? Yes you do.

609
00:30:01,480 --> 00:30:03,440
Speaker 1: But I was like, damn, these are two best dicks

610
00:30:03,440 --> 00:30:05,160
Speaker 1: I've had in New York and they're right in the

611
00:30:05,280 --> 00:30:08,720
Speaker 1: thing one blowing up. I know you have threesomes on

612
00:30:08,920 --> 00:30:11,640
Speaker 1: with girls. Is this something that you've had the conversation

613
00:30:11,680 --> 00:30:14,160
Speaker 1: about possibly having a threesome with another guy? And would

614
00:30:14,160 --> 00:30:16,720
Speaker 1: he have a problem? Would it be someone that maybe

615
00:30:16,760 --> 00:30:18,680
Speaker 1: you've had sex with all right now, I'm sure he would.

616
00:30:18,680 --> 00:30:20,400
Speaker 1: That's not just sex to you know. We really cared

617
00:30:20,400 --> 00:30:22,880
Speaker 1: about each other. But I don't know how he would

618
00:30:22,880 --> 00:30:25,000
Speaker 1: feel about three sims with another guy. I actually haven't

619
00:30:25,000 --> 00:30:27,680
Speaker 1: talked to him about it. I did say one night

620
00:30:27,760 --> 00:30:30,400
Speaker 1: he ain't saying no. There was a super lit couple

621
00:30:30,480 --> 00:30:32,440
Speaker 1: we were at last Lap and I ain't front. We

622
00:30:32,440 --> 00:30:34,560
Speaker 1: always suites after the last light, which is so terrible

623
00:30:34,600 --> 00:30:37,560
Speaker 1: to say, it was true. And there's this girl who

624
00:30:37,640 --> 00:30:39,120
Speaker 1: was fine at fun when we were flirting with her,

625
00:30:39,400 --> 00:30:40,840
Speaker 1: and she was like, I really know what I'll trying

626
00:30:40,840 --> 00:30:42,920
Speaker 1: to do. And I got a man and he was like, okay,

627
00:30:43,000 --> 00:30:45,160
Speaker 1: she got a man, it's the point to me. And

628
00:30:45,360 --> 00:30:46,840
Speaker 1: she was like, he in the bathroom, and I was like,

629
00:30:47,120 --> 00:30:51,400
Speaker 1: what do you look like? He came out and YA

630
00:30:51,720 --> 00:30:53,520
Speaker 1: did like a couple of sas. I was thinking about

631
00:30:53,560 --> 00:30:54,959
Speaker 1: it right the whole time. But they were like being

632
00:30:55,000 --> 00:30:57,840
Speaker 1: buddy buddy cool. So the threesome ship went away when

633
00:30:57,880 --> 00:31:00,120
Speaker 1: it came to her, right, But all I'm thinking is like,

634
00:31:00,400 --> 00:31:04,080
Speaker 1: let's fucking boat. But I just I wasn't ready to

635
00:31:04,120 --> 00:31:06,720
Speaker 1: bring it up. But and then I kept thinking, like

636
00:31:06,880 --> 00:31:08,640
Speaker 1: I was thinking real deep because she was like, yeah,

637
00:31:08,920 --> 00:31:10,720
Speaker 1: he's playing ball in China right now, and you know,

638
00:31:10,840 --> 00:31:12,680
Speaker 1: so it's finally nice to have him back. Blah blah

639
00:31:12,680 --> 00:31:14,560
Speaker 1: blah blah. And I was like, damn, well when you

640
00:31:14,680 --> 00:31:16,560
Speaker 1: go back, She's like in like ten days. I was like, okay,

641
00:31:16,600 --> 00:31:19,000
Speaker 1: we got a show on eight, so maybe we got

642
00:31:19,080 --> 00:31:22,640
Speaker 1: like six days to dude. We get in the car

643
00:31:23,000 --> 00:31:25,720
Speaker 1: and I was like they were cool, right, and he

644
00:31:25,880 --> 00:31:28,160
Speaker 1: was like yeah, they were cool? And I was like like,

645
00:31:28,320 --> 00:31:31,040
Speaker 1: real cool? Are he looking at me like this? And

646
00:31:31,480 --> 00:31:34,240
Speaker 1: I know he knew what I meant. And I feel

647
00:31:34,320 --> 00:31:36,840
Speaker 1: like maybe if there was another vibe like that, maybe

648
00:31:36,880 --> 00:31:39,520
Speaker 1: he'd be down. But Also, I know he has a

649
00:31:39,600 --> 00:31:41,560
Speaker 1: thing in his head about like what we do at home.

650
00:31:42,440 --> 00:31:45,440
Speaker 1: I think he's really are you bringing him to Jamaica. No,

651
00:31:45,600 --> 00:31:47,480
Speaker 1: he said that ship to get up, he told me.

652
00:31:48,560 --> 00:31:51,080
Speaker 1: But it's only because ghetto was just black as he

653
00:31:51,400 --> 00:31:54,440
Speaker 1: No no, no, I made like comments about he didn'tism

654
00:31:54,480 --> 00:31:58,400
Speaker 1: the first time. He was like, what he's angling Atonism?

655
00:31:58,440 --> 00:32:00,560
Speaker 1: It's a whole different and not I think that's what

656
00:32:00,680 --> 00:32:03,400
Speaker 1: he's associated with. So I was like, you know what,

657
00:32:04,440 --> 00:32:06,960
Speaker 1: we already do enough at home, might as well just

658
00:32:07,120 --> 00:32:08,560
Speaker 1: let it be like a girl's trip. So I think

659
00:32:08,600 --> 00:32:10,520
Speaker 1: I might bring Rashida and Brandon if you guys know

660
00:32:10,640 --> 00:32:13,440
Speaker 1: Brandon from the Patreon episode, and a couple other friends.

661
00:32:13,480 --> 00:32:15,880
Speaker 1: I don't know, but I don't think he's gonna come. Plus,

662
00:32:15,920 --> 00:32:17,920
Speaker 1: it's Memorial Day weekend. He's gonna want to do the

663
00:32:17,960 --> 00:32:20,040
Speaker 1: Hampton because it's nikaboogy, which I would have been doing

664
00:32:20,080 --> 00:32:22,120
Speaker 1: if I wasn't in Jamaica anyway, So it might as

665
00:32:22,160 --> 00:32:24,320
Speaker 1: well be up. Let it be my whole time. Let

666
00:32:24,480 --> 00:32:28,760
Speaker 1: me fuck somebody new Well. I wanted to get into

667
00:32:29,560 --> 00:32:32,800
Speaker 1: um this week's horrible Decision Um, just because like I

668
00:32:32,880 --> 00:32:35,840
Speaker 1: think that there's a lot of talking points UM and

669
00:32:36,000 --> 00:32:39,200
Speaker 1: things that UM this actually has to do with UM

670
00:32:39,600 --> 00:32:43,440
Speaker 1: reality TV, and then just questions that came about just

671
00:32:43,600 --> 00:32:45,960
Speaker 1: the relationships and things like that. I don't know if

672
00:32:46,040 --> 00:32:50,840
Speaker 1: y'all know, but I am a huge like fucking Real

673
00:32:50,920 --> 00:32:55,120
Speaker 1: Housewives of Atlanta married to medicine l A and we

674
00:32:55,200 --> 00:32:57,080
Speaker 1: might have an ad for one. Listen, I don't already like,

675
00:32:57,160 --> 00:32:58,560
Speaker 1: can we bring one of them holes on the show?

676
00:32:58,600 --> 00:33:03,280
Speaker 1: Because I stand I actually just listen. I just ran

677
00:33:03,320 --> 00:33:05,200
Speaker 1: into UM Angela. I had to go to the studio

678
00:33:05,280 --> 00:33:08,920
Speaker 1: to pick up a box, and bitch I I looked like, ma'am,

679
00:33:09,280 --> 00:33:12,600
Speaker 1: the next time you have Ninie leaks in the fucking building.

680
00:33:12,800 --> 00:33:14,680
Speaker 1: I said, I'll just come and be your bartender. I

681
00:33:14,760 --> 00:33:17,000
Speaker 1: don't care if all the girls are here, all come

682
00:33:17,040 --> 00:33:19,760
Speaker 1: and just make drinks for everyone. But I stand, Nini

683
00:33:21,480 --> 00:33:26,560
Speaker 1: your we gotta get you a new hunt love those things.

684
00:33:26,600 --> 00:33:29,680
Speaker 1: So actually, because we've been touring, like from Charlotte and

685
00:33:29,800 --> 00:33:33,040
Speaker 1: just UM Orlando and all of the touring, I've been

686
00:33:33,120 --> 00:33:37,200
Speaker 1: so behind in my Real Housewives. So I went ahead

687
00:33:37,280 --> 00:33:40,520
Speaker 1: and binge watched UM about four or five episodes, and

688
00:33:40,600 --> 00:33:42,400
Speaker 1: while I'm watching it, I'm like, these would be some

689
00:33:42,520 --> 00:33:46,240
Speaker 1: really good conversations UM to have between us as far

690
00:33:46,280 --> 00:33:49,920
Speaker 1: as just atta, well this is all I've been just yesterday. Um.

691
00:33:50,000 --> 00:33:52,320
Speaker 1: And so these were the questions that arose. And because

692
00:33:52,400 --> 00:33:54,120
Speaker 1: we do have so many, I know, we just had

693
00:33:54,160 --> 00:33:57,840
Speaker 1: the episode with Brandon where we talked about relationships stuff, um,

694
00:33:57,960 --> 00:34:00,440
Speaker 1: and then you know, um the girls from Good Mom's Choices,

695
00:34:00,480 --> 00:34:02,920
Speaker 1: we talked about dating with being a parent. Um. So

696
00:34:03,200 --> 00:34:07,880
Speaker 1: this is actually one that stemmed from of course Kenya

697
00:34:08,040 --> 00:34:11,680
Speaker 1: and I don't even like Kenya ho um, Kenya horror.

698
00:34:12,239 --> 00:34:17,440
Speaker 1: But if you're yeah, more Kenya horror. Um. Anyways, her

699
00:34:17,560 --> 00:34:20,920
Speaker 1: relationship was trash, but you could tell like there was

700
00:34:21,080 --> 00:34:25,120
Speaker 1: very there was differences where in public she was I

701
00:34:25,160 --> 00:34:26,880
Speaker 1: would look at it as disrespect. But I want to

702
00:34:26,920 --> 00:34:30,320
Speaker 1: know what you think. So, say you don't like somebody,

703
00:34:31,560 --> 00:34:34,640
Speaker 1: is your spouse supposed to also not like that person?

704
00:34:34,800 --> 00:34:37,200
Speaker 1: How much do I not like them? Um? Well it's

705
00:34:37,280 --> 00:34:41,480
Speaker 1: it's Niny and and and Kenya their relationship, but regardless,

706
00:34:41,520 --> 00:34:43,560
Speaker 1: I mean regardless, I just want to know. It's actually

707
00:34:43,600 --> 00:34:47,880
Speaker 1: a very interesting question that you proposed because Scissors made

708
00:34:47,920 --> 00:34:51,239
Speaker 1: a comment to me, Um after the Orlando show, there

709
00:34:51,320 --> 00:34:53,600
Speaker 1: was a girl with that it was speaking to her

710
00:34:53,640 --> 00:34:56,360
Speaker 1: and when we were leaving, she was like, I felt

711
00:34:56,400 --> 00:34:58,560
Speaker 1: so bad in that moment, like she was talking to

712
00:34:58,640 --> 00:34:59,560
Speaker 1: me and I didn't know what to do, And I

713
00:34:59,640 --> 00:35:02,160
Speaker 1: was like, tell you something like I don't ever want

714
00:35:02,600 --> 00:35:05,160
Speaker 1: you to have energy that I have. You know what

715
00:35:05,200 --> 00:35:08,080
Speaker 1: I'm saying, Like to me, that's just just so honestly,

716
00:35:08,360 --> 00:35:10,920
Speaker 1: I'm on a different frequency, bro. I'm not worried about

717
00:35:11,080 --> 00:35:14,120
Speaker 1: someone that's talking to someone. And went like, no, don't

718
00:35:14,160 --> 00:35:15,879
Speaker 1: get me wrong. If they're like kicking it and going

719
00:35:15,920 --> 00:35:18,280
Speaker 1: to lunch, sure i'd feel a way. But you speaking

720
00:35:18,320 --> 00:35:20,759
Speaker 1: to someone and being cordial. I want my partner or

721
00:35:20,800 --> 00:35:24,440
Speaker 1: even my ex partner to be that way, like be

722
00:35:24,680 --> 00:35:27,160
Speaker 1: high above that ship, because I'm not. As we know,

723
00:35:27,280 --> 00:35:29,879
Speaker 1: I will jump off the stage. But I just think

724
00:35:30,480 --> 00:35:33,080
Speaker 1: sometimes it can get cancerous when you don't like someone,

725
00:35:33,480 --> 00:35:35,040
Speaker 1: and I don't want to be that person. If I

726
00:35:35,080 --> 00:35:37,759
Speaker 1: don't funk with someone, that's for a reason. I don't

727
00:35:37,840 --> 00:35:42,520
Speaker 1: need you to feel like you can't speak. Now. I

728
00:35:42,560 --> 00:35:44,400
Speaker 1: don't know the extent of her and Nini, and I

729
00:35:44,440 --> 00:35:46,440
Speaker 1: also don't know how far her spouse went. But if

730
00:35:46,480 --> 00:35:48,759
Speaker 1: I was in a party and my man so so

731
00:35:48,960 --> 00:35:50,920
Speaker 1: so I'll get hey to a bitch online. No, no, no,

732
00:35:51,000 --> 00:35:56,080
Speaker 1: I'll give you the scenario. So Kenya's man is friends

733
00:35:56,120 --> 00:35:59,120
Speaker 1: with Nini's man. Can you can you? Nini don't deal

734
00:35:59,120 --> 00:36:00,800
Speaker 1: with each other, but he deals with man. He was

735
00:36:00,880 --> 00:36:03,719
Speaker 1: throwing a charity event and wanted the couples to come,

736
00:36:04,560 --> 00:36:08,760
Speaker 1: and he was like, I'm inviting Nini to even knowing

737
00:36:08,960 --> 00:36:11,279
Speaker 1: his wife does not funk with Ninie at all. Was like,

738
00:36:11,600 --> 00:36:14,359
Speaker 1: if Greg is coming, Nini needs to come as well.

739
00:36:14,719 --> 00:36:17,799
Speaker 1: So imagine if you're in that sense to where your

740
00:36:17,920 --> 00:36:21,680
Speaker 1: husband knows that you don't funk with someone, but he's like, Na,

741
00:36:21,880 --> 00:36:23,800
Speaker 1: she gotta be at my event too. But that's a

742
00:36:23,880 --> 00:36:27,160
Speaker 1: different thing because they already have a tie. It's not

743
00:36:27,280 --> 00:36:29,240
Speaker 1: like he just invited Ninnie of the Street he fuss

744
00:36:29,239 --> 00:36:32,440
Speaker 1: with her husband. Imagine that now, I don't know, I

745
00:36:32,440 --> 00:36:36,040
Speaker 1: don't know like that. That's why it's weird because because

746
00:36:36,200 --> 00:36:38,040
Speaker 1: a lot of the other girls on the show and

747
00:36:38,080 --> 00:36:40,600
Speaker 1: a lot of the other words, you gotta right, yeah,

748
00:36:40,600 --> 00:36:42,680
Speaker 1: but it's like you're supposed to be on my stat

749
00:36:42,800 --> 00:36:45,279
Speaker 1: Like Porscha was like, if I don't like a bit

750
00:36:45,440 --> 00:36:48,520
Speaker 1: my nigga, don't like a bitch period. Yeah, that's that's

751
00:36:48,560 --> 00:36:50,440
Speaker 1: where I want to have but so what where I

752
00:36:50,520 --> 00:36:53,920
Speaker 1: have these feelings as for example, what happened to me

753
00:36:54,080 --> 00:36:57,719
Speaker 1: with scissors? They know each other right like it just

754
00:36:58,200 --> 00:37:00,560
Speaker 1: it was a new thing. So what are you supposed

755
00:37:00,560 --> 00:37:03,880
Speaker 1: to do not to I just I really feel a

756
00:37:03,920 --> 00:37:08,040
Speaker 1: way about your partner being a good representation of you,

757
00:37:08,560 --> 00:37:11,520
Speaker 1: and I don't really like to be that person. That's

758
00:37:11,560 --> 00:37:13,520
Speaker 1: just like I'll fuck that hell to get Like no,

759
00:37:14,040 --> 00:37:16,480
Speaker 1: like my man ain't gona kiki with a bitch, but

760
00:37:16,600 --> 00:37:19,520
Speaker 1: like if you smile and he's cordial, like that ship

761
00:37:19,680 --> 00:37:22,759
Speaker 1: is fine for me. Now. I think the other thing

762
00:37:22,880 --> 00:37:27,880
Speaker 1: too about this is like we associate loyalty sometimes with

763
00:37:28,840 --> 00:37:32,000
Speaker 1: within our circle, as in like you can't you know,

764
00:37:32,120 --> 00:37:34,840
Speaker 1: like there's no fucking way, And I just don't believe that.

765
00:37:35,480 --> 00:37:38,040
Speaker 1: I really don't. So I'm glad that you brought that

766
00:37:38,160 --> 00:37:42,000
Speaker 1: up because the next conversation actually comes um from something

767
00:37:42,040 --> 00:37:45,560
Speaker 1: that Kenya was saying. Um, but also think a conversation

768
00:37:45,640 --> 00:37:48,439
Speaker 1: that I've had with my friends. And so I want

769
00:37:48,480 --> 00:37:52,439
Speaker 1: to ask you if you think she's does a good

770
00:37:52,760 --> 00:37:58,239
Speaker 1: man cheat she's That's literally the question. She said, you

771
00:37:58,400 --> 00:38:00,959
Speaker 1: can't be with a good man if he cheats, because

772
00:38:01,000 --> 00:38:03,520
Speaker 1: if you're a cheater, then you're a liar. And she

773
00:38:03,719 --> 00:38:06,320
Speaker 1: was just like, you can't be with someone and claim

774
00:38:06,400 --> 00:38:09,440
Speaker 1: that he's a good man if he's a cheater. I

775
00:38:09,520 --> 00:38:13,359
Speaker 1: could see that because I think that cheating is dishonesty,

776
00:38:13,560 --> 00:38:16,359
Speaker 1: which in that case now I agree with that one.

777
00:38:16,719 --> 00:38:18,560
Speaker 1: It's hard because I haven't had that. You can be

778
00:38:18,640 --> 00:38:20,759
Speaker 1: a good person to to slip, but I mean, if

779
00:38:20,760 --> 00:38:24,040
Speaker 1: you're a fucking liar, you're a liar. And of course

780
00:38:24,200 --> 00:38:26,839
Speaker 1: this is the conversation that you know, so many people

781
00:38:26,880 --> 00:38:29,239
Speaker 1: are uncomfortable when when I admit to it. But I

782
00:38:29,320 --> 00:38:32,759
Speaker 1: recently had this conversation with my home girls because I

783
00:38:34,160 --> 00:38:38,759
Speaker 1: kind of brag about, like my my lovers, like the

784
00:38:38,880 --> 00:38:42,600
Speaker 1: married men, because I think they are some of the

785
00:38:43,000 --> 00:38:44,880
Speaker 1: best men that I actually that I know, and I

786
00:38:44,960 --> 00:38:47,440
Speaker 1: have both we actually said this maybe a few months back,

787
00:38:47,480 --> 00:38:49,000
Speaker 1: when you kept talking about how great they were, and

788
00:38:49,080 --> 00:38:51,520
Speaker 1: I'm like, but they lie, but yeah, and so like

789
00:38:51,800 --> 00:38:54,560
Speaker 1: when when she posed this conversation, she was sitting with

790
00:38:54,600 --> 00:38:57,480
Speaker 1: Cynthia and not yeah, she was sitting with Cynthia, and

791
00:38:57,560 --> 00:39:00,480
Speaker 1: she was talking about, like, well, he can't be a

792
00:39:00,520 --> 00:39:03,319
Speaker 1: good manny be cheats. Literally, the conversation that I had

793
00:39:03,360 --> 00:39:07,400
Speaker 1: with my what my friends were like damn, Like no,

794
00:39:07,560 --> 00:39:10,839
Speaker 1: but that's I mean, they're not such good. They're good,

795
00:39:11,200 --> 00:39:13,479
Speaker 1: but you have them for moments. There's there are women

796
00:39:13,520 --> 00:39:16,040
Speaker 1: in their lives that they've made vows to promises too,

797
00:39:16,440 --> 00:39:18,880
Speaker 1: and that have deeper connections with than they do to you,

798
00:39:19,000 --> 00:39:21,439
Speaker 1: and they're lying to them and being deceitful to someone

799
00:39:21,480 --> 00:39:24,719
Speaker 1: that trust their mind, body and spirit with that's deep ship.

800
00:39:25,320 --> 00:39:28,320
Speaker 1: And if you're continually lying and doing something like that, no,

801
00:39:28,480 --> 00:39:29,920
Speaker 1: you're not that good of a man. If I got

802
00:39:30,000 --> 00:39:31,680
Speaker 1: to wonder because I don't even know if they lie anymore.

803
00:39:31,680 --> 00:39:34,160
Speaker 1: I just feel like they're women because of the lifestyles

804
00:39:34,200 --> 00:39:35,960
Speaker 1: they have. It's cool, like yeah, but if it's a

805
00:39:36,000 --> 00:39:38,839
Speaker 1: don't ask, don't tell things, well, I mean I don't ask,

806
00:39:38,920 --> 00:39:40,480
Speaker 1: but you said that you don't know. I don't know.

807
00:39:41,080 --> 00:39:44,120
Speaker 1: I don't know. There's one thing I thought about. There

808
00:39:44,360 --> 00:39:48,080
Speaker 1: was a conversation I had about married lovers with um

809
00:39:48,880 --> 00:39:51,279
Speaker 1: old Bay because he asked me a question about you

810
00:39:51,640 --> 00:39:55,080
Speaker 1: reading something or it was like watching a YouTube and

811
00:39:55,239 --> 00:39:58,880
Speaker 1: he was like, why did everyone say many married niggers

812
00:39:58,920 --> 00:40:00,680
Speaker 1: or whatever? I mean, but I say, sun me nigga.

813
00:40:02,440 --> 00:40:04,480
Speaker 1: It was in the comments or something on our YouTube

814
00:40:04,480 --> 00:40:06,440
Speaker 1: page or it was something that someone was saying, was like,

815
00:40:06,480 --> 00:40:07,560
Speaker 1: why are they saying that. I was like, oh, well,

816
00:40:07,600 --> 00:40:10,440
Speaker 1: like she did or whatever, and so he was like

817
00:40:10,800 --> 00:40:13,040
Speaker 1: he was like, I get he has a chick he's

818
00:40:13,080 --> 00:40:17,400
Speaker 1: to funk with that was married, and you know, we

819
00:40:17,800 --> 00:40:19,759
Speaker 1: we obviously some of you guys know. We talked about

820
00:40:19,760 --> 00:40:21,359
Speaker 1: being a monogamous and stuff like that. And I said,

821
00:40:21,360 --> 00:40:23,480
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be rong with you if you are ever

822
00:40:23,600 --> 00:40:26,000
Speaker 1: sleeping with someone like you know and we like every

823
00:40:26,040 --> 00:40:28,400
Speaker 1: funk around. I really have a feeling about it being

824
00:40:28,480 --> 00:40:32,120
Speaker 1: her because I don't like that deceitful ship. I want

825
00:40:32,160 --> 00:40:34,520
Speaker 1: you to be with someone or funk with someone that

826
00:40:34,800 --> 00:40:36,920
Speaker 1: I just feel like she could drag him down, like

827
00:40:37,080 --> 00:40:39,440
Speaker 1: you want to fuck mind again? Secret and then you're

828
00:40:39,440 --> 00:40:41,160
Speaker 1: going what make him like? Lie to me too. I

829
00:40:41,239 --> 00:40:43,440
Speaker 1: just don't like that like lying ship. But I have

830
00:40:43,640 --> 00:40:46,279
Speaker 1: been for the last few years pretty open and trying

831
00:40:46,320 --> 00:40:49,759
Speaker 1: to practice honestly with with partners. That's why I've had

832
00:40:49,840 --> 00:40:52,480
Speaker 1: such an issue with the lying. It ain't the married thing,

833
00:40:52,600 --> 00:40:56,520
Speaker 1: it's the lying thing. But what's crazy is those be

834
00:40:57,200 --> 00:41:00,920
Speaker 1: just I feel like in dating people, a lie people

835
00:41:00,960 --> 00:41:04,000
Speaker 1: out of themselves. People lie in order to get you

836
00:41:04,080 --> 00:41:07,160
Speaker 1: into bed. People lie because they they're telling you what

837
00:41:07,280 --> 00:41:09,239
Speaker 1: they think you want to hear in order to get

838
00:41:09,280 --> 00:41:11,480
Speaker 1: what they want out of you. So I feel like, well,

839
00:41:11,719 --> 00:41:14,560
Speaker 1: I feel like that's dating. So I'll be honest and

840
00:41:14,719 --> 00:41:18,520
Speaker 1: saying yes, they whatever lies they're telling their partners. Again,

841
00:41:18,600 --> 00:41:20,400
Speaker 1: I don't know the arrangements are what they have set up.

842
00:41:20,400 --> 00:41:23,880
Speaker 1: We've never had that conversation, but wholeheartedly, those are the

843
00:41:23,920 --> 00:41:26,040
Speaker 1: men who are the most honest in my life. But

844
00:41:26,120 --> 00:41:28,799
Speaker 1: you always come on this podcast and talk about communication

845
00:41:28,880 --> 00:41:31,080
Speaker 1: and openness and like, yeah, but I'm not going to

846
00:41:31,160 --> 00:41:33,440
Speaker 1: ask them about that. I know that it's there, but

847
00:41:33,560 --> 00:41:36,480
Speaker 1: I'm not going to ask them about their life with

848
00:41:36,560 --> 00:41:40,239
Speaker 1: someone else. I'm not about the people that lie when

849
00:41:40,280 --> 00:41:42,520
Speaker 1: their homemaale and talk about how they should open up

850
00:41:42,640 --> 00:41:44,440
Speaker 1: or like not. I mean, I open up to my

851
00:41:44,520 --> 00:41:46,560
Speaker 1: relationship with them. They know when I'm dating, I've told

852
00:41:46,600 --> 00:41:48,359
Speaker 1: them as soon as I get someone up, you'm open

853
00:41:48,440 --> 00:41:51,040
Speaker 1: with them to our relationship. Talking about when there's a

854
00:41:51,080 --> 00:41:54,120
Speaker 1: homemale and someone's upset about somebody lying, you be acting

855
00:41:54,160 --> 00:41:56,120
Speaker 1: like them niggas is trash. So how could you think

856
00:41:56,160 --> 00:41:58,759
Speaker 1: I don't know if you can reference what you're talking about. Yes,

857
00:41:59,480 --> 00:42:02,680
Speaker 1: but and then you're they'll talk about how their man's

858
00:42:02,680 --> 00:42:04,920
Speaker 1: been lying about something. You're like, no, if you can't communicate,

859
00:42:04,920 --> 00:42:06,759
Speaker 1: and blah blah blah blah blah. I'm and that's what

860
00:42:06,840 --> 00:42:09,680
Speaker 1: I'm telling you. I communicate with them wholeheartedly. They don't

861
00:42:09,719 --> 00:42:12,000
Speaker 1: lie to me. Them lying to someone that I'm not

862
00:42:12,080 --> 00:42:15,239
Speaker 1: involved with nothing car But I'm also but that's not

863
00:42:15,360 --> 00:42:17,319
Speaker 1: the person I get. But I'm also telling you when

864
00:42:17,480 --> 00:42:19,920
Speaker 1: dating single niggas, single niggas lie to me more than

865
00:42:19,960 --> 00:42:22,360
Speaker 1: them niggas. I mean, I get so like, okay, so

866
00:42:22,480 --> 00:42:25,839
Speaker 1: do I take four or five six? No, But it's

867
00:42:25,840 --> 00:42:27,600
Speaker 1: also okay. Do I sit here and take a nigga

868
00:42:27,680 --> 00:42:29,520
Speaker 1: that I don't know for faith the whole time or

869
00:42:29,600 --> 00:42:31,239
Speaker 1: dame because he's single, Or do I sit here and

870
00:42:31,480 --> 00:42:33,680
Speaker 1: because I know this nigga has nothing to lie to

871
00:42:33,760 --> 00:42:37,239
Speaker 1: me about whatever he has. I enjoyed the honesty that

872
00:42:37,280 --> 00:42:39,080
Speaker 1: I have with them, that I have with dealing with

873
00:42:39,200 --> 00:42:41,719
Speaker 1: someone that I don't know their true intentions until it's

874
00:42:41,719 --> 00:42:44,680
Speaker 1: too late to me. Dating these single niggas, they tell

875
00:42:44,719 --> 00:42:47,319
Speaker 1: you the most lies. They tell you exactly what they

876
00:42:47,360 --> 00:42:49,520
Speaker 1: think you want to hear until they get what they want,

877
00:42:49,560 --> 00:42:51,560
Speaker 1: and then it is better dating someone married or some mean,

878
00:42:51,560 --> 00:42:53,319
Speaker 1: I'm not really dating that I don't have the time

879
00:42:53,360 --> 00:43:00,840
Speaker 1: to do. You don't I mean in the wild? I

880
00:43:00,880 --> 00:43:02,279
Speaker 1: mean that's fine if you think it's wild. But the

881
00:43:02,320 --> 00:43:03,799
Speaker 1: people that have been in my life have been really

882
00:43:03,840 --> 00:43:05,680
Speaker 1: fucking honest with me, and right now, I don't have

883
00:43:05,760 --> 00:43:07,800
Speaker 1: the time to date single niggas, And in the times

884
00:43:07,840 --> 00:43:09,680
Speaker 1: that I have thought I had time to date them,

885
00:43:10,120 --> 00:43:12,400
Speaker 1: it's just a whole bunch of bullshit. Maybe it's because

886
00:43:14,040 --> 00:43:17,880
Speaker 1: the relationships that you have with married men are more casual,

887
00:43:18,080 --> 00:43:20,800
Speaker 1: I would say, right, because you're way more than casual

888
00:43:20,880 --> 00:43:23,080
Speaker 1: now they've been in the picture for eight plus years. Well, okay,

889
00:43:23,239 --> 00:43:25,600
Speaker 1: so casual because you know that there's nothing going on there.

890
00:43:25,920 --> 00:43:28,359
Speaker 1: Maybe if you met a single nigga that didn't want

891
00:43:28,400 --> 00:43:30,320
Speaker 1: more and there was nothing going on there, you wouldn't

892
00:43:30,320 --> 00:43:32,880
Speaker 1: have to worry about that ship either because even when

893
00:43:33,520 --> 00:43:35,400
Speaker 1: going on you want when you're dating single men or

894
00:43:35,400 --> 00:43:38,279
Speaker 1: when you're looking to date, which I also applaud, you

895
00:43:38,400 --> 00:43:40,840
Speaker 1: let them know what you want. But if genuinely you

896
00:43:40,960 --> 00:43:42,759
Speaker 1: just wanted sex or to funk around like you do

897
00:43:42,840 --> 00:43:45,800
Speaker 1: it married niggas, but niggas still lie even in that's

898
00:43:46,080 --> 00:43:48,120
Speaker 1: but what do they have to lie to you? Because

899
00:43:48,160 --> 00:43:49,480
Speaker 1: niggas lie? What do you mean what do they have

900
00:43:49,560 --> 00:43:53,319
Speaker 1: to lie about? Like you literally everything, like like I'm

901
00:43:53,320 --> 00:43:55,719
Speaker 1: friends with benefits? How do you get it? And they

902
00:43:55,800 --> 00:43:57,640
Speaker 1: can they can lie and say, oh I got like

903
00:43:57,680 --> 00:43:59,520
Speaker 1: because I've lied to niggas in that sense where I

904
00:43:59,640 --> 00:44:01,360
Speaker 1: to be like, oh I got something to do? What

905
00:44:01,520 --> 00:44:03,640
Speaker 1: you like to get you to leave? To say, oh,

906
00:44:03,760 --> 00:44:05,720
Speaker 1: someone's coming over so I can't see you this weekend,

907
00:44:05,760 --> 00:44:08,759
Speaker 1: like niggas lie, Like, let's not act like nigga's just

908
00:44:08,880 --> 00:44:13,160
Speaker 1: don't lie, just like people like that somebody, how do

909
00:44:13,280 --> 00:44:16,880
Speaker 1: those issues come about? They do? Like it's like they

910
00:44:17,000 --> 00:44:20,040
Speaker 1: just do. Let's get into the next conversation. Because you

911
00:44:20,120 --> 00:44:22,120
Speaker 1: act like niggas don't lie niggas. I didn't say. I

912
00:44:22,120 --> 00:44:24,600
Speaker 1: didn't act like niggas don't lie at all. I'm just

913
00:44:24,719 --> 00:44:27,239
Speaker 1: saying there's many things that niggas lie out. If they

914
00:44:27,280 --> 00:44:28,880
Speaker 1: have to take you on a date next thing, you know,

915
00:44:29,120 --> 00:44:31,960
Speaker 1: oh I gotta go see my mom. If a nigga

916
00:44:32,080 --> 00:44:34,160
Speaker 1: was supposed to come over next thing, you know, they're

917
00:44:34,200 --> 00:44:36,160
Speaker 1: not coming over a little and you don't know what

918
00:44:36,239 --> 00:44:38,040
Speaker 1: the truth is. They could be going to see another

919
00:44:38,080 --> 00:44:40,120
Speaker 1: hole they could be. Like niggas lie all the time.

920
00:44:40,400 --> 00:44:43,000
Speaker 1: Like so, whether they're rescheduling a date, whether they said

921
00:44:43,040 --> 00:44:44,680
Speaker 1: they was gonna come over and they can't come over

922
00:44:44,760 --> 00:44:48,160
Speaker 1: now last minute, whether um, they said they didn't want

923
00:44:48,200 --> 00:44:50,640
Speaker 1: a girlfriend and you've been working with them, next thing

924
00:44:50,680 --> 00:44:52,799
Speaker 1: you know, they got a girlfriend. Like that's what I'm saying,

925
00:44:52,800 --> 00:44:55,439
Speaker 1: Like Nigga's lie all the time. Niggas will say whatever

926
00:44:55,480 --> 00:44:57,560
Speaker 1: they do want, saying I'm I'm I'm eliminated for the

927
00:44:57,560 --> 00:44:58,839
Speaker 1: rest of the show. I ain't gonna say that any

928
00:44:58,880 --> 00:45:00,160
Speaker 1: work because I feel like I've just been saying nick

929
00:45:00,320 --> 00:45:04,560
Speaker 1: nick Nick is my bad. But men, um, guys, you

930
00:45:04,680 --> 00:45:07,279
Speaker 1: know the opposite sex. I don't even want to put

931
00:45:07,320 --> 00:45:09,239
Speaker 1: it to just men. Like if you're dating and you're

932
00:45:09,239 --> 00:45:13,320
Speaker 1: a lesbian or your non binary, everyone lies specifically to

933
00:45:13,800 --> 00:45:16,759
Speaker 1: keep you from your feelings being hurt, be because they

934
00:45:16,800 --> 00:45:18,880
Speaker 1: feel like they can get something out of you. Like

935
00:45:19,239 --> 00:45:22,600
Speaker 1: the reality of it is people lie. And I would'k

936
00:45:22,640 --> 00:45:25,360
Speaker 1: that's interesting too, because it's interesting you brought that up

937
00:45:25,400 --> 00:45:28,600
Speaker 1: because um, old Bay had a girl he was seeing

938
00:45:28,719 --> 00:45:30,920
Speaker 1: when we were just casually dating that was angry that

939
00:45:31,000 --> 00:45:32,640
Speaker 1: he didn't want a girlfriend. And I think she knows

940
00:45:32,680 --> 00:45:35,279
Speaker 1: that he has one now, and we talked about that,

941
00:45:35,400 --> 00:45:37,080
Speaker 1: like do you mean it when you say it right?

942
00:45:37,239 --> 00:45:39,359
Speaker 1: Like do you mean when I say I don't want

943
00:45:39,360 --> 00:45:41,160
Speaker 1: a girlfriend? Da da dada, because now you have one?

944
00:45:41,160 --> 00:45:43,840
Speaker 1: So Nigga, was you lying? And I had this conversation

945
00:45:43,880 --> 00:45:46,640
Speaker 1: with ChIL a C from Houston shout out to La

946
00:45:47,880 --> 00:45:51,560
Speaker 1: he's married. He said that when a guy says he

947
00:45:51,680 --> 00:45:55,160
Speaker 1: doesn't want to have a girlfriend, the with you is silent.

948
00:45:56,040 --> 00:45:59,560
Speaker 1: So I don't like when someone says I am looking

949
00:45:59,640 --> 00:46:02,960
Speaker 1: for relationship right now, The with you is silent if

950
00:46:03,200 --> 00:46:06,719
Speaker 1: they're telling you that. So but however, it sounds good.

951
00:46:06,760 --> 00:46:08,400
Speaker 1: But there's been a lot of times where Nigga has

952
00:46:08,440 --> 00:46:11,200
Speaker 1: said I don't want a relationship and next thing you know,

953
00:46:11,440 --> 00:46:13,680
Speaker 1: y'all are in a relationship. So I mean, you know,

954
00:46:13,800 --> 00:46:16,040
Speaker 1: give or take to get true. I think the main

955
00:46:16,200 --> 00:46:19,040
Speaker 1: thing of it, though, like that happened in our conversation,

956
00:46:19,280 --> 00:46:22,320
Speaker 1: was he's like if I if I say? Because I

957
00:46:22,640 --> 00:46:24,400
Speaker 1: I remember saying to him when I was in Europe

958
00:46:24,440 --> 00:46:26,959
Speaker 1: with Benny this summer. It was in August. I wrote

959
00:46:27,080 --> 00:46:28,600
Speaker 1: him a message and I said, what are you looking for?

960
00:46:28,760 --> 00:46:30,440
Speaker 1: And he never said a girlfriend, never said anything. He

961
00:46:30,480 --> 00:46:33,360
Speaker 1: said something about, oh, I want to skip around answers,

962
00:46:33,719 --> 00:46:37,400
Speaker 1: just a dope vibe that a connection. If something happens,

963
00:46:37,400 --> 00:46:39,640
Speaker 1: it happens. And when I said, like, why did you

964
00:46:39,680 --> 00:46:41,640
Speaker 1: act like you don't want anything? He was like, because

965
00:46:41,800 --> 00:46:44,719
Speaker 1: I felt like if I said it and you knew it,

966
00:46:44,920 --> 00:46:46,759
Speaker 1: it would have to start from right then we would

967
00:46:46,760 --> 00:46:48,960
Speaker 1: have to start working towards a relationship. Well or not

968
00:46:49,080 --> 00:46:51,719
Speaker 1: only that, like specifically now, I think men give you

969
00:46:51,800 --> 00:46:54,440
Speaker 1: that jump around answer because if they do tell you

970
00:46:54,600 --> 00:46:57,359
Speaker 1: I ain't looking for a relationship and a woman who

971
00:46:57,480 --> 00:47:00,440
Speaker 1: may maybe is looking for a relationship, they'll be like no,

972
00:47:00,560 --> 00:47:02,399
Speaker 1: we'll be like all right, well they're gonna saying by

973
00:47:02,840 --> 00:47:04,920
Speaker 1: so I mean, you know we're gonna get those jump

974
00:47:04,960 --> 00:47:07,799
Speaker 1: around So for this, I wanted to get into the homemail. UM.

975
00:47:08,440 --> 00:47:11,640
Speaker 1: It's kind of long, but guys, this is a good

976
00:47:11,719 --> 00:47:16,080
Speaker 1: one and and we and I want to dig into it. Um.

977
00:47:16,600 --> 00:47:18,560
Speaker 1: Also just because we've been getting a lot of feedback

978
00:47:18,600 --> 00:47:20,960
Speaker 1: and how this about how this show has been affecting

979
00:47:21,000 --> 00:47:24,560
Speaker 1: you guys. UM, So if you guys have homemail and

980
00:47:24,640 --> 00:47:27,440
Speaker 1: want to send it in, send it to Horrible Decisions

981
00:47:27,560 --> 00:47:31,439
Speaker 1: at gmail dot com. Um. This one caught our eye

982
00:47:32,960 --> 00:47:37,000
Speaker 1: The title of this week's homemail is Horrible Decisions Ruined

983
00:47:37,080 --> 00:47:39,160
Speaker 1: My Sex Life. I might want to make that the

984
00:47:39,200 --> 00:47:42,520
Speaker 1: title of this episode two because Jesus Sucking Christ anyways,

985
00:47:42,600 --> 00:47:44,719
Speaker 1: especially because we we spent so much time talking about

986
00:47:44,760 --> 00:47:47,320
Speaker 1: the show this episode. Um, so I'm gonna start it.

987
00:47:47,640 --> 00:47:50,160
Speaker 1: You guys just follow along with the story, okay, because

988
00:47:50,160 --> 00:47:51,640
Speaker 1: it is kind of long, So I'm just gonna let

989
00:47:51,640 --> 00:47:54,560
Speaker 1: you all know now. First and foremost, I want to

990
00:47:54,600 --> 00:47:57,319
Speaker 1: say that, despite the title of this homemail, I love

991
00:47:57,440 --> 00:48:00,320
Speaker 1: your podcast. Thank you for creating a safe space for

992
00:48:00,400 --> 00:48:03,840
Speaker 1: black women to discuss all their kicky inhibitions and allowing

993
00:48:03,880 --> 00:48:07,880
Speaker 1: me to embrace my inner wore. Now onto the good stuff.

994
00:48:09,080 --> 00:48:12,479
Speaker 1: W D has ruined my sex life. Although I would

995
00:48:12,520 --> 00:48:16,160
Speaker 1: like to remain anonymous, the following details involves several of

996
00:48:16,280 --> 00:48:19,640
Speaker 1: your listeners and my cover may be blown. So guys,

997
00:48:20,239 --> 00:48:24,520
Speaker 1: if you are involved in this goddamn ship, you know

998
00:48:24,640 --> 00:48:27,560
Speaker 1: ruin his sex life. Okay, Now, there are no names

999
00:48:27,719 --> 00:48:30,840
Speaker 1: in this, but I do want to say welcome to

1000
00:48:31,000 --> 00:48:33,600
Speaker 1: being a member of the whore Hive. My boyfriend and

1001
00:48:33,719 --> 00:48:36,359
Speaker 1: I had the pleasure of meeting you guys at two

1002
00:48:36,520 --> 00:48:40,320
Speaker 1: separate live shows, and we're actually both featured separately. I

1003
00:48:40,400 --> 00:48:43,960
Speaker 1: wish said yeah she I don't think she says which one.

1004
00:48:44,040 --> 00:48:45,880
Speaker 1: She just says we're they're from I think um, and

1005
00:48:46,040 --> 00:48:48,960
Speaker 1: so many people travel, so I don't. I don't know. However,

1006
00:48:50,160 --> 00:48:53,640
Speaker 1: after his experience with the live show, I've grown terribly

1007
00:48:53,800 --> 00:48:57,600
Speaker 1: insecure and it has affected our sex life. We were

1008
00:48:57,719 --> 00:49:00,520
Speaker 1: on a quote unquote break a couple of once prior

1009
00:49:00,560 --> 00:49:03,359
Speaker 1: to the live show he attended, and needless to say,

1010
00:49:03,719 --> 00:49:06,600
Speaker 1: he was brought on stage and later how to force

1011
00:49:06,680 --> 00:49:09,759
Speaker 1: them with three of your audience members. Now, niggas, I'll

1012
00:49:09,760 --> 00:49:12,239
Speaker 1: be telling you all, this ship is lit. So if

1013
00:49:12,280 --> 00:49:18,800
Speaker 1: you I'm sorry to this man. Um. Of course, I

1014
00:49:18,960 --> 00:49:21,879
Speaker 1: can't blame you guys for his actions, and in fact,

1015
00:49:22,000 --> 00:49:25,000
Speaker 1: I genuinely want to be happy for him. How many

1016
00:49:25,080 --> 00:49:28,920
Speaker 1: men can say that they've had a successful forsome. Despite

1017
00:49:28,960 --> 00:49:31,719
Speaker 1: wanting to be happy for him, I cannot help but

1018
00:49:31,880 --> 00:49:36,080
Speaker 1: to feel insecure, in somewhat betrayed. Now that we're back together,

1019
00:49:37,320 --> 00:49:42,120
Speaker 1: We've discussed having threesomes, orgies and swinging, etcetera. Multiple times,

1020
00:49:42,200 --> 00:49:44,440
Speaker 1: and I'm upset that he was part of a forsome

1021
00:49:44,560 --> 00:49:47,480
Speaker 1: without me. Not only am I upset about the actual act,

1022
00:49:47,800 --> 00:49:49,960
Speaker 1: but I am even more upset that he lied or

1023
00:49:50,040 --> 00:49:53,920
Speaker 1: withheld the information initially on top of line speaking of Lyne,

1024
00:49:54,320 --> 00:49:57,640
Speaker 1: when he told me, I respectfully asked him to stop

1025
00:49:57,719 --> 00:50:01,160
Speaker 1: sleeping with these women, and he denied. Mira quest this

1026
00:50:01,400 --> 00:50:03,040
Speaker 1: nigga was like, well, I don't sunk him already. I'm

1027
00:50:03,040 --> 00:50:06,560
Speaker 1: gonna keep sucking these it has been. It has been

1028
00:50:06,640 --> 00:50:10,440
Speaker 1: eleven months since the live show and approximately nine months

1029
00:50:10,560 --> 00:50:13,239
Speaker 1: since I found out the truth. He no longer has

1030
00:50:13,320 --> 00:50:15,880
Speaker 1: sex with those women and constantly tries to reassure me

1031
00:50:16,120 --> 00:50:18,680
Speaker 1: that I don't have to worry about them. We recently

1032
00:50:18,719 --> 00:50:21,080
Speaker 1: got back together and I've been craving to have my

1033
00:50:21,200 --> 00:50:24,640
Speaker 1: first m F F threesome. I've had an F F

1034
00:50:24,920 --> 00:50:27,560
Speaker 1: F threesome before, so that's three females. You know, y'all

1035
00:50:27,600 --> 00:50:30,239
Speaker 1: get them. But a part of me no longer wants

1036
00:50:30,280 --> 00:50:32,760
Speaker 1: to have one with him since he had a foursome

1037
00:50:32,880 --> 00:50:36,279
Speaker 1: without me. I'm even somewhat insecure about having sex with

1038
00:50:36,400 --> 00:50:39,080
Speaker 1: him now because I think, to myself, how can this

1039
00:50:39,200 --> 00:50:43,320
Speaker 1: experience with just me compared to three women. I know

1040
00:50:43,440 --> 00:50:45,920
Speaker 1: it's unhealthy and there are some personal issues that I

1041
00:50:46,000 --> 00:50:47,839
Speaker 1: need to deal with on my own, but I'm coming

1042
00:50:47,880 --> 00:50:49,880
Speaker 1: to you ladies, to see if there's anything else I

1043
00:50:50,000 --> 00:50:53,200
Speaker 1: should or can do to top everything all Off, we

1044
00:50:53,280 --> 00:50:55,839
Speaker 1: are in a long distance relationship going on three years

1045
00:50:55,880 --> 00:50:58,640
Speaker 1: on and off. Can I proceed with having nasty sexual

1046
00:50:58,760 --> 00:51:01,880
Speaker 1: escapades with my boyfriend without comparing myself to his previous

1047
00:51:01,920 --> 00:51:05,279
Speaker 1: slash most recent experiences? Am I wrong for feeling some

1048
00:51:05,360 --> 00:51:07,239
Speaker 1: type of way? Am I just not ready to have

1049
00:51:07,320 --> 00:51:09,600
Speaker 1: a threesome? Or should I just not have one with him?

1050
00:51:09,800 --> 00:51:11,840
Speaker 1: Should I just refrain from having a threesome till we

1051
00:51:11,840 --> 00:51:14,000
Speaker 1: actually live closer to one another. I know this was

1052
00:51:14,040 --> 00:51:17,120
Speaker 1: a long email, but hopefully worth you and the hore hives,

1053
00:51:17,160 --> 00:51:23,799
Speaker 1: while thank you a bitter ruined whore. That was really long. Yes,

1054
00:51:24,000 --> 00:51:25,359
Speaker 1: and you were texting the whole time, so I hope

1055
00:51:25,360 --> 00:51:27,440
Speaker 1: you got the details I did, so I read it

1056
00:51:27,520 --> 00:51:31,680
Speaker 1: like twice. I feel like you gotta dump him if

1057
00:51:31,719 --> 00:51:33,520
Speaker 1: he could suck three bitches and lie about it and

1058
00:51:33,560 --> 00:51:36,279
Speaker 1: not telling you like he's probably sucking more and that

1059
00:51:36,400 --> 00:51:40,960
Speaker 1: he's long distant. What does this look like? Um felling bait?

1060
00:51:41,080 --> 00:51:43,800
Speaker 1: Just face time me and text me what nigga? I

1061
00:51:43,880 --> 00:51:47,360
Speaker 1: feel like you can't really have a relationship with someone

1062
00:51:47,480 --> 00:51:50,759
Speaker 1: that you already known has lied especially to that magnitude,

1063
00:51:50,840 --> 00:51:53,800
Speaker 1: because all you're gonna do is question the truths that

1064
00:51:54,080 --> 00:51:56,320
Speaker 1: he think that you may think he's telling you and

1065
00:51:56,400 --> 00:51:59,400
Speaker 1: always think they're a lie. Like the second guessing is awful. Um,

1066
00:52:00,080 --> 00:52:02,600
Speaker 1: this is why I'm such a big thing about honestly

1067
00:52:02,640 --> 00:52:05,719
Speaker 1: within relationships, because I've been in an unhealthy, toxic relationship

1068
00:52:05,800 --> 00:52:08,759
Speaker 1: my first serious relationship. Um, you know, he was a

1069
00:52:08,840 --> 00:52:12,560
Speaker 1: cheater and then after a while he would just I

1070
00:52:12,600 --> 00:52:14,799
Speaker 1: couldn't even look at him and believe anything he was saying.

1071
00:52:14,840 --> 00:52:16,799
Speaker 1: He could tell me like, all right, I'm just gonna work,

1072
00:52:16,800 --> 00:52:18,200
Speaker 1: and I'd be like I was gonna a bit, Like

1073
00:52:18,280 --> 00:52:20,480
Speaker 1: it was just I became obsessed with the idea that

1074
00:52:20,560 --> 00:52:23,400
Speaker 1: he was constantly lying. And I feel like that is

1075
00:52:23,440 --> 00:52:26,160
Speaker 1: such a quote unquote big lie. Like to have a foursome,

1076
00:52:26,239 --> 00:52:29,920
Speaker 1: that's a big deal. Um, yeah, I would dump him,

1077
00:52:30,080 --> 00:52:33,800
Speaker 1: But the good news is horrible decisions you think ruined

1078
00:52:33,840 --> 00:52:35,920
Speaker 1: your sex life when in reality and may have just

1079
00:52:36,000 --> 00:52:38,880
Speaker 1: shown you that nigga would ship. Yeah, I would look

1080
00:52:38,920 --> 00:52:42,960
Speaker 1: at the positive on that also. Um, I would think

1081
00:52:43,040 --> 00:52:47,120
Speaker 1: that there is something that Yeah, you can only look

1082
00:52:47,200 --> 00:52:49,319
Speaker 1: in yourself. So one of the questions you asked, am

1083
00:52:49,360 --> 00:52:51,239
Speaker 1: I wrong for feeling some type of way. I would

1084
00:52:51,280 --> 00:52:53,360
Speaker 1: never tell someone they are wrong in the way they

1085
00:52:53,440 --> 00:52:55,520
Speaker 1: feel like y'all heard it in the beginning of this episode.

1086
00:52:55,840 --> 00:52:58,920
Speaker 1: I'll agree to disagree. Everyone thinks differently. I'm not going

1087
00:52:58,960 --> 00:53:02,120
Speaker 1: to tell you you're wrong for feeling insecure now and

1088
00:53:02,200 --> 00:53:04,120
Speaker 1: that you're not enough. Since he had sex with three

1089
00:53:04,160 --> 00:53:06,120
Speaker 1: other girls at one time, I ain't a lot of

1090
00:53:06,160 --> 00:53:08,520
Speaker 1: dick gotta be five if a you kept going back.

1091
00:53:08,640 --> 00:53:10,680
Speaker 1: He'd been loan business for three years and he was

1092
00:53:10,760 --> 00:53:13,680
Speaker 1: able to have a successful for someone with three other women.

1093
00:53:14,200 --> 00:53:16,560
Speaker 1: Like purity always that that's a huge thing for women

1094
00:53:16,560 --> 00:53:20,120
Speaker 1: when it comes to sexy enough, especially the appetite of

1095
00:53:20,200 --> 00:53:23,279
Speaker 1: sex that men have. Like absolutely, I felt that before.

1096
00:53:23,360 --> 00:53:25,520
Speaker 1: I would say that this is something that you you

1097
00:53:25,840 --> 00:53:28,160
Speaker 1: if you haven't yet tell him how you feel about this,

1098
00:53:28,680 --> 00:53:31,160
Speaker 1: especially if you guys have still been teetering the idea

1099
00:53:31,200 --> 00:53:33,480
Speaker 1: of having a threesome together. You need to let him

1100
00:53:33,520 --> 00:53:35,600
Speaker 1: know that you don't feel like you can trust him

1101
00:53:35,600 --> 00:53:38,600
Speaker 1: because he lied during those two months UM without telling

1102
00:53:38,640 --> 00:53:44,320
Speaker 1: you UM. And it also it's weird because there's the

1103
00:53:44,840 --> 00:53:50,279
Speaker 1: idea that there's a conversation between um lying and omission

1104
00:53:50,760 --> 00:53:54,000
Speaker 1: of something that happened, which actually I think that that's

1105
00:53:54,040 --> 00:53:55,920
Speaker 1: what she said. She found out two months later, and

1106
00:53:55,960 --> 00:53:59,399
Speaker 1: it's not that he lied, He just withheld the information, um,

1107
00:53:59,719 --> 00:54:03,399
Speaker 1: and so that's what was there with him. No, she wasn't. Oh,

1108
00:54:03,920 --> 00:54:06,040
Speaker 1: not at that one that he went to a live show.

1109
00:54:06,320 --> 00:54:09,000
Speaker 1: They were on a break. UM. But I would I

1110
00:54:09,000 --> 00:54:10,560
Speaker 1: would say in terms of this, this is something you

1111
00:54:10,640 --> 00:54:12,359
Speaker 1: just have to talk to him one if it's something

1112
00:54:12,400 --> 00:54:14,480
Speaker 1: to where you feel that and secure even in your

1113
00:54:15,000 --> 00:54:19,080
Speaker 1: um solo sex sessions with each other, um, that this

1114
00:54:19,239 --> 00:54:20,959
Speaker 1: is something that is only gonna like it's just gonna

1115
00:54:20,960 --> 00:54:22,840
Speaker 1: add on. You're just gonna if y'all have been together

1116
00:54:22,920 --> 00:54:24,520
Speaker 1: this long and this is weighing down on you this much.

1117
00:54:24,520 --> 00:54:26,800
Speaker 1: You said this was eleven months ago, um, so almost

1118
00:54:26,840 --> 00:54:28,680
Speaker 1: a year ago, and you're still sitting on it, I

1119
00:54:28,719 --> 00:54:30,080
Speaker 1: would say it might be time for you to move on.

1120
00:54:30,200 --> 00:54:32,160
Speaker 1: This reminds me of the Sex of the City episode

1121
00:54:32,800 --> 00:54:37,719
Speaker 1: when Carrie found out that Big was married and he

1122
00:54:37,880 --> 00:54:39,520
Speaker 1: told she, oh, she said, have you ever had a

1123
00:54:39,560 --> 00:54:41,279
Speaker 1: three sons? They were in bed together and he was like, yeah,

1124
00:54:41,320 --> 00:54:42,800
Speaker 1: with my ex wife. She was like, you were married.

1125
00:54:43,400 --> 00:54:45,399
Speaker 1: So the next day she's like obsessed trying to figure

1126
00:54:45,440 --> 00:54:47,359
Speaker 1: out what the wife looks like, all of these all

1127
00:54:47,400 --> 00:54:49,880
Speaker 1: of these details, and all she can think about is

1128
00:54:50,000 --> 00:54:52,239
Speaker 1: she doesn't have wild sex with him because of that

1129
00:54:52,400 --> 00:54:55,439
Speaker 1: one thing she found out and it's existed this whole time,

1130
00:54:56,280 --> 00:54:59,600
Speaker 1: and that it's actually a great point to women that

1131
00:54:59,680 --> 00:55:02,440
Speaker 1: are like digging through phones or looking up ship. You're

1132
00:55:02,440 --> 00:55:04,520
Speaker 1: perfectly fine, and then when you start seeing one thing

1133
00:55:04,640 --> 00:55:06,479
Speaker 1: he may have said, and you're just like your mind

1134
00:55:06,560 --> 00:55:09,640
Speaker 1: can't stop. I think that it's gonna be hard to

1135
00:55:09,719 --> 00:55:12,120
Speaker 1: get over, but I feel like you have to make

1136
00:55:12,160 --> 00:55:14,319
Speaker 1: the choice to get over it. You know, if you're

1137
00:55:14,320 --> 00:55:16,960
Speaker 1: ready to break up with someone one and two, you're

1138
00:55:17,000 --> 00:55:19,279
Speaker 1: ready to know, like you know, when you can let

1139
00:55:19,360 --> 00:55:22,200
Speaker 1: something go, if you need him to say certain words

1140
00:55:22,320 --> 00:55:24,640
Speaker 1: to you, you can ask for those words. Like I've

1141
00:55:24,680 --> 00:55:26,680
Speaker 1: said plenty of times, I need you to tell me

1142
00:55:27,000 --> 00:55:29,000
Speaker 1: that you don't want to do this anymore and mean

1143
00:55:29,040 --> 00:55:30,759
Speaker 1: it when you tell me. If you don't, don't say

1144
00:55:30,920 --> 00:55:33,000
Speaker 1: to me, it's crazy because you just saying what you

1145
00:55:33,080 --> 00:55:35,919
Speaker 1: just said actually came came. Like what came to mind

1146
00:55:36,200 --> 00:55:39,600
Speaker 1: is that I don't have the same sex with everybody.

1147
00:55:40,120 --> 00:55:43,480
Speaker 1: And so that's the thing too, Like depending on the partner,

1148
00:55:43,560 --> 00:55:46,080
Speaker 1: like I ain't just licking everybody else. I'm not just

1149
00:55:46,160 --> 00:55:48,840
Speaker 1: dicking a finger in everybody else. I'm not allowing just

1150
00:55:48,960 --> 00:55:50,600
Speaker 1: everyone to eat me out, if you know, if they

1151
00:55:50,760 --> 00:55:53,279
Speaker 1: allow them to. Like, I'm not just writing everybody dick.

1152
00:55:53,640 --> 00:55:55,319
Speaker 1: I'm not writing a lot of dick I made from

1153
00:55:55,360 --> 00:55:57,080
Speaker 1: time to time, but I'm not like it's that Like

1154
00:55:57,320 --> 00:56:00,560
Speaker 1: so the idea that he had a fourth them without you,

1155
00:56:00,680 --> 00:56:02,800
Speaker 1: but yet y'all have not yet had a threesome together.

1156
00:56:03,080 --> 00:56:06,040
Speaker 1: You have to realize that the comfortability and not only

1157
00:56:06,080 --> 00:56:09,000
Speaker 1: communication about sex, but sex in the acts of it,

1158
00:56:09,560 --> 00:56:12,440
Speaker 1: you behave differently with different people based on how comfortable

1159
00:56:12,520 --> 00:56:16,360
Speaker 1: they make you feel, based on the sexual chemistry that

1160
00:56:16,440 --> 00:56:18,200
Speaker 1: you guys have. There's these three things that I've said

1161
00:56:18,239 --> 00:56:19,920
Speaker 1: they don't want to have three SOMs with their girlfriends

1162
00:56:20,239 --> 00:56:21,960
Speaker 1: because I think what you were saying could come off

1163
00:56:22,000 --> 00:56:26,000
Speaker 1: as like, um, he can't let loose with you. But

1164
00:56:26,400 --> 00:56:28,240
Speaker 1: I think a lot of men get too in their heads.

1165
00:56:28,280 --> 00:56:30,520
Speaker 1: They're like, Okay, I have three girls that I don't

1166
00:56:30,520 --> 00:56:32,320
Speaker 1: really know what care about, or the girl that I

1167
00:56:32,400 --> 00:56:37,200
Speaker 1: have relationship with that I don't know if I could

1168
00:56:37,360 --> 00:56:41,800
Speaker 1: handle the expectations, Like threeesoms are very scary fermit blessing

1169
00:56:41,880 --> 00:56:48,000
Speaker 1: because coronableus. But I can seeze is also allergy season.

1170
00:56:48,360 --> 00:56:50,640
Speaker 1: When I sneezed Uber the other day, I felt like

1171
00:56:50,719 --> 00:56:52,360
Speaker 1: he looked at me like, which, I ain't gonna hold you.

1172
00:56:52,440 --> 00:56:54,200
Speaker 1: I was on the train earlier, and now I got

1173
00:56:54,280 --> 00:56:55,920
Speaker 1: this big as package, so I got an Uber. I

1174
00:56:56,000 --> 00:56:57,400
Speaker 1: was on the train and I was sneezing, and I

1175
00:56:57,560 --> 00:56:59,840
Speaker 1: was like, mind you right across me are to a

1176
00:57:00,200 --> 00:57:01,800
Speaker 1: with masks on, and I was like, I should probably

1177
00:57:01,800 --> 00:57:03,759
Speaker 1: have a mask on too, just like them. They're smart

1178
00:57:03,800 --> 00:57:06,239
Speaker 1: because this is a fucking train and I'm literally sitting

1179
00:57:06,280 --> 00:57:08,279
Speaker 1: and I'm sneezing, and I'm just like, these people are

1180
00:57:08,280 --> 00:57:10,320
Speaker 1: going to kick me off this train. I was just

1181
00:57:10,440 --> 00:57:13,319
Speaker 1: like telling myself, don't sneeze again, bitch. Did you see

1182
00:57:13,320 --> 00:57:15,360
Speaker 1: the flight which I sneeze is a United flight that

1183
00:57:15,480 --> 00:57:17,960
Speaker 1: I saw that got into an argument and they had

1184
00:57:18,000 --> 00:57:21,320
Speaker 1: to land early because they because someone was sneezing. And

1185
00:57:21,360 --> 00:57:24,200
Speaker 1: I'm like, bitches, allergy season. Mind you, you know my

1186
00:57:24,280 --> 00:57:26,120
Speaker 1: sinuses are always sucked around this. The one thing I

1187
00:57:26,200 --> 00:57:28,840
Speaker 1: just saw you do touching your eyes so interesting, Well, yeah,

1188
00:57:28,880 --> 00:57:31,680
Speaker 1: this is the mask. It goes into your eyes more

1189
00:57:31,800 --> 00:57:34,680
Speaker 1: than the mask gloves like it's your hands, but you

1190
00:57:34,720 --> 00:57:37,320
Speaker 1: better where goggles to the droplets from they go into

1191
00:57:37,320 --> 00:57:39,480
Speaker 1: your eyes, nose, the mouth. And Brandon was telling me

1192
00:57:39,640 --> 00:57:42,280
Speaker 1: like makeup artists, He's like, when I'm training makeup artists,

1193
00:57:42,840 --> 00:57:45,000
Speaker 1: I always tell them you cannot touch the soft parts

1194
00:57:45,040 --> 00:57:46,440
Speaker 1: of the face. No in your corners of the eyes,

1195
00:57:46,560 --> 00:57:49,200
Speaker 1: touched the bottom, nothing around the nostril, and nothing in

1196
00:57:49,240 --> 00:57:52,160
Speaker 1: the mouth, like that's how germ spread the fastest. So

1197
00:57:52,280 --> 00:57:54,479
Speaker 1: like touching. And it's hard when you have lashes because

1198
00:57:54,520 --> 00:57:59,120
Speaker 1: they sometimes they itch. And I had freaking extension like anyways,

1199
00:57:59,240 --> 00:58:01,680
Speaker 1: strips on. So he listened to the show. You listened

1200
00:58:01,680 --> 00:58:03,320
Speaker 1: to this show, He's definitely gonna want to talk to

1201
00:58:03,360 --> 00:58:06,480
Speaker 1: you about it now. And because and the three um,

1202
00:58:07,560 --> 00:58:09,760
Speaker 1: any of the three girls that sucked him? Kay, y'all

1203
00:58:09,800 --> 00:58:13,280
Speaker 1: sending the story because we tend y'all hotels, so it

1204
00:58:13,320 --> 00:58:15,200
Speaker 1: ain't even gott to be with no questions at the end.

1205
00:58:15,480 --> 00:58:18,080
Speaker 1: If you had a three a fourced them off of

1206
00:58:18,200 --> 00:58:20,440
Speaker 1: one of our live shows, can you please provide the

1207
00:58:20,520 --> 00:58:23,400
Speaker 1: details to that. Yeah, I would love to hear how

1208
00:58:23,440 --> 00:58:27,280
Speaker 1: I went. So something that um actually an upcoming episode,

1209
00:58:27,400 --> 00:58:30,520
Speaker 1: We've got a new segment whole confessions hold slash home

1210
00:58:30,560 --> 00:58:31,919
Speaker 1: mail where we want you to send in our stuff.

1211
00:58:31,920 --> 00:58:35,480
Speaker 1: We're gonna do all whole confessions. Um and just that

1212
00:58:35,600 --> 00:58:38,400
Speaker 1: I found online, but I really would prefer it to

1213
00:58:38,480 --> 00:58:42,720
Speaker 1: be y'all, so please those ladies. Also, I want to

1214
00:58:42,760 --> 00:58:44,760
Speaker 1: know what y'all look like. We ain't gonna tell nobody.

1215
00:58:44,760 --> 00:58:46,360
Speaker 1: I don't care about what y'all look like. I don't

1216
00:58:46,560 --> 00:58:48,680
Speaker 1: hear the same one. I want to see if like

1217
00:58:48,760 --> 00:58:50,880
Speaker 1: we ran into it in the same way I read

1218
00:58:51,080 --> 00:58:55,400
Speaker 1: Zane and when Addicted came out all the boards, Coujo

1219
00:58:55,520 --> 00:58:57,960
Speaker 1: was perfect. The rest of the characters didn't fit what

1220
00:58:58,040 --> 00:58:59,600
Speaker 1: I thought they did the same way. I still don't

1221
00:58:59,600 --> 00:59:01,560
Speaker 1: know if I wan to see Sister Soldiers cold as

1222
00:59:01,600 --> 00:59:03,560
Speaker 1: wone ever, because midnight we all know what he looks like.

1223
00:59:03,880 --> 00:59:05,320
Speaker 1: And if you just give me a person and it's

1224
00:59:05,320 --> 00:59:07,040
Speaker 1: not what I've envisioned, it's wrong. So I like to

1225
00:59:07,480 --> 00:59:11,200
Speaker 1: take Yeah, I won't open the pictures, Wheezy will, but

1226
00:59:11,320 --> 00:59:14,680
Speaker 1: I just like to hear the stories. Um so yeah,

1227
00:59:14,720 --> 00:59:16,360
Speaker 1: But I do have to say, I just saw a

1228
00:59:16,400 --> 00:59:19,120
Speaker 1: tweet come in. It's secured my Horrible Meet and Green tickets,

1229
00:59:19,160 --> 00:59:24,760
Speaker 1: but not my car payment. Baby damn sis. Well, damn well,

1230
00:59:24,800 --> 00:59:26,600
Speaker 1: just make sure you'll drop you off this well have

1231
00:59:26,720 --> 00:59:29,000
Speaker 1: to pee. Mandy is gonna drop our Patreon ship and

1232
00:59:29,000 --> 00:59:32,120
Speaker 1: our merch ship and tell you about our merch at shows. Okay,

1233
00:59:32,760 --> 00:59:34,440
Speaker 1: all right, y'all, So I want to thank all of

1234
00:59:34,560 --> 00:59:37,720
Speaker 1: y'all for supporting us. Um, wait, let me give a

1235
00:59:37,760 --> 00:59:39,520
Speaker 1: shout out. Hold on, because we ain't done this a while.

1236
00:59:39,600 --> 00:59:41,280
Speaker 1: So I know most of you holds are at desks,

1237
00:59:41,400 --> 00:59:43,000
Speaker 1: but let me shout out the bitches who are not

1238
00:59:43,080 --> 00:59:45,000
Speaker 1: at desks. And we have been meeting you guys on

1239
00:59:45,080 --> 00:59:47,000
Speaker 1: the road. So I want to shout out to the

1240
00:59:47,080 --> 00:59:51,080
Speaker 1: bitches that make cars. I think they work at like

1241
00:59:51,200 --> 00:59:53,640
Speaker 1: a warehouse or they make tires. I forgot what they

1242
00:59:53,680 --> 00:59:56,480
Speaker 1: say they do, but we see y'all. Sis, holiate, y'all.

1243
00:59:56,880 --> 00:59:58,760
Speaker 1: Shout out to y'all for for tuning into us. I

1244
00:59:58,800 --> 01:00:00,160
Speaker 1: want to give a huge shout out to to the

1245
01:00:00,240 --> 01:00:03,760
Speaker 1: truck drivers who are on the roads and listening to us. Um.

1246
01:00:03,920 --> 01:00:06,080
Speaker 1: A few of y'all know that is the business that

1247
01:00:06,120 --> 01:00:08,160
Speaker 1: I am getting into shortly, and I'm so excited to

1248
01:00:08,200 --> 01:00:12,640
Speaker 1: announce f CP. W wait, it's FCP Trucking National. That

1249
01:00:12,760 --> 01:00:14,600
Speaker 1: is my new business. So I'm excited. I'm about to

1250
01:00:14,640 --> 01:00:16,520
Speaker 1: get my eighteen willers. So shout out to the drug driver,

1251
01:00:16,760 --> 01:00:21,360
Speaker 1: the truck drivers, and that includes FedEx um, the post workers,

1252
01:00:22,480 --> 01:00:25,520
Speaker 1: all y'all hoes um, and then yeah, everyone else who

1253
01:00:25,640 --> 01:00:27,080
Speaker 1: just listens to us on their way to work at

1254
01:00:27,120 --> 01:00:29,840
Speaker 1: their desk, during their lunch, on their way home today,

1255
01:00:29,960 --> 01:00:33,240
Speaker 1: children at home. I see y'all watching us on YouTube,

1256
01:00:33,280 --> 01:00:35,680
Speaker 1: So again y'all can't watch us on YouTube, subscribe and

1257
01:00:35,720 --> 01:00:39,160
Speaker 1: watch us um at horrible decisions on YouTube. And yeah,

1258
01:00:39,240 --> 01:00:40,520
Speaker 1: so I want to give a shout out once again

1259
01:00:40,560 --> 01:00:43,080
Speaker 1: to all of our patrons. Y'all have been super lit

1260
01:00:43,440 --> 01:00:45,680
Speaker 1: because of y'all, we are able to provide merch at

1261
01:00:45,680 --> 01:00:48,680
Speaker 1: our lives shows. So at our live shows, you guys

1262
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Speaker 1: can get the tour merch um. And then if you

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Speaker 1: clip from one of our bonus episodes. And once again,

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Speaker 1: this has been yet another episode of Horrible Decisions. Chokes.

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Speaker 1: So like if you have a knife in your hand

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Speaker 1: and I actidentally get poked, like, I don't know, you

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Speaker 1: gotta be a better knife round tips. So I want

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Speaker 1: to read this. Um, this is um Kinkley. UM. If

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Speaker 1: you want to read more on kinks, you can go

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Speaker 1: to Kinkley dot com. Here they explain medical play. I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna read this off real quick. It says medical play

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Speaker 1: often involves an intimate examination, wherein the dominant partner performs

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Speaker 1: quasi medical procedures. An intimate exam I don't know. It says,

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Speaker 1: I feel like when I was about a plastic searcher,

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Speaker 1: like oh take your bros. See that's one saying, or

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Speaker 1: maybe examining around the you know, the patient is often

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Speaker 1: oh this is some ship you would like. The patient,

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Speaker 1: which would be yoho as is often restrained, gagged, stripped, naked,

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Speaker 1: or dressed in a humiliating costume. This I didn't know.

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Speaker 1: So this is interesting, it says, here goes the examination.

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Speaker 1: The examination man involved handling of the genitals and breast,

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Speaker 1: or the insertion of objects into various crevices. The objects

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Speaker 1: may be heated or frozen to reproduce the sensations experience

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Speaker 1: during a real medical exam. I guess you're supposed to

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Speaker 1: experience pain. Strap on play is a common part of

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Speaker 1: this type of examination, bitch, I think I may need

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Speaker 1: to do that part. I have had a thermometer at

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Speaker 1: my butt when I was what, well, that's how they

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Speaker 1: took your temperature as a baby, like uh, some adolescent.

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Speaker 1: So I was really high. Wait when was this? How

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Speaker 1: old were you? Why are you letting thermometers of your

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Speaker 1: That was really high? And I'm like, yo, this is

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Speaker 1: the highest I think I've ever been. I'm not going

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Speaker 1: to tell you on what but I was like, yo,

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Speaker 1: they know you do drugs other than we'd bro well whatever.

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Speaker 1: So I was like, So I was saying to him,

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Speaker 1: I'm like, yo, I feel like my whole body is hot,

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Speaker 1: Like I feel like I got a fever. I feel

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Speaker 1: like really sick. I don't know what's going on. He

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Speaker 1: was like, I was like, I feel like I'm a

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Speaker 1: hundred degrees. He's like, I don't know because I feel

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Speaker 1: really hot. And I'm like he's like, so I can't

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Speaker 1: do like a tester. I'm like, can't do this. So wait,

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Speaker 1: So the ass is the only place in Miami. It's

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Speaker 1: like six or seven in the morning. I want to

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Speaker 1: go get a thermometer. And I'm like, yo, I don't

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Speaker 1: even think So I did it under my tongue and

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Speaker 1: it was a normal type waure. I'm like, I don't

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Speaker 1: think that ship right, you gotta pus you. You just

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Speaker 1: didn't think under your tongue was the right temperature, so

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Speaker 1: you wanted it in your ass. I was like, yo,

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Speaker 1: I got caught in mouth. The ship probably is like

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Speaker 1: not that what it's the right it put up, bro,

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Speaker 1: that's in me. The tongue is like, not that the

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Speaker 1: tongue is in you mean? So I away. So he

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Speaker 1: puts it in my ass and then like I made

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Speaker 1: some kind of noise and then suddenly I felt more

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Speaker 1: of it in my ass, and I'm like, is this

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Speaker 1: turning into sex? Is that he stuck his dicking her ass?

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Speaker 1: And now I mean, like he just kept fucking me

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Speaker 1: with the dude. I'm so glad this is on the Patreon. Everyone. Oh,

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Speaker 1: I'm putting this video though for everyone to see. So

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Speaker 1: you were getting annally fucked with a thermometer and enjoyed it.

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Speaker 1: You were moaning, Okay, I'm finishing it, says I didn't

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Speaker 1: say it, dude. It could be any it could it

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Speaker 1: was a toothbrush. I wouldn't have known. It's not like

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Speaker 1: I enjoyed it being at their mom said that too quick?

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Speaker 1: Do you be sinking toothbrushes to open your ass before

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Speaker 1: you got the butt fluk? And then you moved to

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Speaker 1: a brush. Did I show you the video where the

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Speaker 1: nigga was sucking his ass with the with the end

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Speaker 1: of a brother, I told you what the hair rushes?

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Speaker 1: You have someone looking at it. So it says medical

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Speaker 1: sex toys like Wartenberg, wills and speculums may enhanced examination.

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Speaker 1: The examination may culminate with an enema or the asturbation

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Speaker 1: of the submissipatient. In more extreme cases here we go.

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Speaker 1: Medical play may involve the acting out of an anesthesia, fetish, piercing,

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Speaker 1: skin stapling, or the insertion of urethra sounds. We're going

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Speaker 1: to talk about that later. I don't want to talk

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Speaker 1: about no, no, no, no, the anesthesia fetish. That's fucking

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Speaker 1: someone that's passed out. Right. I was reading about like

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Speaker 1: people using chloroform like for sex and like really enjoyed it,

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Speaker 1: and it's like consensual like chloroform, like they um one

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Speaker 1: of the things that we told me, like her hospital stories.

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Speaker 1: We got an interviewer. She said, like the weirdest thing

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Speaker 1: she's ever pulled out of someone. She said that she

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Speaker 1: had a girl that was addicted to the feeling of

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Speaker 1: like she was swallowing batteries and putting magnets up her

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Speaker 1: ass and apparently when the two touched, like they draw

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Speaker 1: closer to each other and it was fucking with her intestines.

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Speaker 1: She said that bitch was in there four times trying

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Speaker 1: to like they had to remove it from her. She's like,

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Speaker 1: stopped doing this. What all the show it's called Sex

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Speaker 1: in the e Er is something where people like go

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Speaker 1: to the e er off of crazy things that happened

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Speaker 1: during I'm just I don't even if I gotta swallow

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Speaker 1: a battery for him to go inside of me, I will. Oh.

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Speaker 1: So that's the kink of the week for this week, guys,

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Speaker 1: And it had a whole lot of ship to do

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Speaker 1: with it. Be hilarious if you set yourself to the

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Speaker 1: yard and then you're like, what, who is this bench?

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Speaker 1: I wanted doctor? How get him in here? Shit? So

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Speaker 1: there