Speaker 1: A guest Sunday Sampler time, So we'll do the Bobbycast
Speaker 1: in a second, where I went through the top ten
Speaker 1: controversial country songs and a bunch of the artists were
Speaker 1: on actually talking about these songs.
Speaker 2: So that's coming up in a minute.
Speaker 1: In the Vets office with doctor Josie, she talked with
Speaker 1: Taylor Lawan, the wife of Taylor Lawan, who's a former
Speaker 1: NFL player. But they talk about navigating an aging pet
Speaker 1: and a farm with a ton of animals. Now, Morgan
Speaker 1: has a new podcast called Take This Personally. She has
Speaker 1: on two guests, one five time Olympic gold medalist Missy
Speaker 1: Franklin and adaptive athlete Amy Bream, who was born with
Speaker 1: one leg. Both of these conversations were super inspiring, so
Speaker 1: make sure you go take a listen to the whole episode.
Speaker 1: But let's get started with a clip of this episode.
Speaker 1: It's Take This Personally. Here we go with Morgan.
Speaker 3: Take Personal Life Juelsman.
Speaker 4: Right now, I'm joined by Olympian Missy Franklin. Many would
Speaker 4: know her for her incredible swimming talent. She has a
Speaker 4: five Olympic gold medals, two NCAA National championship titles, eleven
Speaker 4: world swimming titles. The list goes on of what Missy
Speaker 4: has accomplished in her life and career, and I'm just
Speaker 4: so excited to welcome her to the podcast.
Speaker 5: Thank you so much for coming on. How are you
Speaker 5: You're some so good, Thank you so much for having me.
Speaker 5: I'm so excited. I'm excited too.
Speaker 4: Did you always see Olympics in your future? Was that
Speaker 4: always the dream or did that not come true until
Speaker 4: a little bit later on in your life?
Speaker 6: It honestly was always the dream. I mean, we have
Speaker 6: pictures that I drew when I was five of me
Speaker 6: standing on top of an Olympic podium with a gold medal,
Speaker 6: and I think there's just something really special about the Olympics.
Speaker 6: For some sports, it's the peak. I mean, that's it.
Speaker 6: And so growing up and being a swimmer and having
Speaker 6: swimming really be an Olympic sport, that to me was
Speaker 6: the end all be all. This is one of the
Speaker 6: most incredible things. And to be named the best athlete
Speaker 6: in the world, it's just while representing your own country,
Speaker 6: I mean, just seemed to me like such an unbelievable
Speaker 6: thing to strive for an almost to a degree impossible,
Speaker 6: but I think it was because of that that it
Speaker 6: made it so much more fun. You know, when you
Speaker 6: set goals that scare you, it makes working towards them
Speaker 6: and getting closer to them such a fulfilling journey. And
Speaker 6: that was such a big lesson that I learned, I
Speaker 6: mean the entire process, but now especially being able to
Speaker 6: look back on it was. Yes, standing up on those
Speaker 6: podiums and getting those medals were absolutely unbelievable moments in
Speaker 6: my life. But when I look back on my swimming career,
Speaker 6: those aren't necessarily the first moments I think of. It's
Speaker 6: actually some of the smallest, maybe seemingly insignificant moments of
Speaker 6: dancing with all my teammates after Saturday morning practice and
Speaker 6: Friday night carbo loading dinners before the swim meets, like
Speaker 6: those small moments, and you really do realize that it's
Speaker 6: great to have a destination, to have a goal, but
Speaker 6: at the end of the day, I really is about
Speaker 6: the journey getting there.
Speaker 4: Yeah, and that journey has to be tough too. I know.
Speaker 4: You look at it and you can see all the
Speaker 4: successes you've had, and there's been Gosh, you have so
Speaker 4: many titles and being one of.
Speaker 7: The best athletes in the world.
Speaker 4: You have so much success in this sport, but there
Speaker 4: had to be hardships on the way of What were
Speaker 4: some of those moments where you were like, Oh, my gosh,
Speaker 4: is this going to happen?
Speaker 5: Can I do this?
Speaker 7: What did that all look like?
Speaker 6: Absolutely, I would say those hardships really came for me
Speaker 6: in between the twenty twelve and twenty sixteen Olympic Games.
Speaker 6: I think leading up to twenty twelve in London, I
Speaker 6: was so naive and that really worked to my advantage.
Speaker 6: Like I was so young, I was sixteen seventeen years old,
Speaker 6: and I didn't really have a care in the world, right, Like,
Speaker 6: I was just swimming. It was so fun and I
Speaker 6: was doing well. So I trained harder and I swam faster,
Speaker 6: and like it was all just this very seemingly simple.
Speaker 6: Of course, it was a ton of hard work, but
Speaker 6: it kind of made sense, you know, Like I worked
Speaker 6: harder and harder and harder every single day, and I
Speaker 6: got faster and I kept achieving my goals and I
Speaker 6: had a blast while doing it, and no one knew
Speaker 6: who I was. I was the young one. I was
Speaker 6: the rookie on the scene. So my first Olympics was
Speaker 6: just so like no pressure, like let's just go out,
Speaker 6: I have a great time, Like we're here for the experience.
Speaker 5: And that's how I performed.
Speaker 6: You know, you could kind of see that, like I
Speaker 6: was just so full of joy and I wasn't swimming
Speaker 6: out of fear. I was just swimming because I was
Speaker 6: just happy to be there. You just love this story
Speaker 6: exactly exactly, And then things really changed over the next
Speaker 6: four years. I decided to remain amateur. So after London,
Speaker 6: I didn't accept any money, sponsorships, anything like that, because
Speaker 6: I really wanted to go to college and swim for
Speaker 6: my college team, because that was another dream of mine
Speaker 6: that I really wanted to see come true. So I
Speaker 6: went through that process and had two years at cal Berkeley,
Speaker 6: and then I came home to train for the twenty
Speaker 6: sixteen games, and that's when things kind.
Speaker 5: Of shifted for me.
Speaker 6: I think that year was probably the hardest of my
Speaker 6: life because I went from an amazing team environment and
Speaker 6: having been a part of a team and having a
Speaker 6: lot of balance in my life with school and friends
Speaker 6: and swimming. So it kind of really, for the first
Speaker 6: time ever, just honing in on training alone. And I
Speaker 6: think I really made that decision because I was scared.
Speaker 6: I really wanted twenty sixteen to be better than twenty twelve,
Speaker 6: and I had set the bar quite high in twenty twelve,
Speaker 6: and it wasn't just me that wanted that, but I
Speaker 6: started to feel those outside expectations and that outside pressure,
Speaker 6: which I had never really let get to me before.
Speaker 6: But I think once you compete and achieve at that level,
Speaker 6: it does get really hard to tune that out. And
Speaker 6: so for the first time in my life, I really
Speaker 6: stopped swimming because I loved it, and I started swimming
Speaker 6: because I felt like I had to achieve these things
Speaker 6: that were expected of me, and it became much more
Speaker 6: fear based out of not wanting to disappoint other people
Speaker 6: as opposed to just going out there and doing my best.
Speaker 6: So there was a lot that I struggled with during
Speaker 6: that time. Just a few months out from Olympic trials,
Speaker 6: I got diagnosed with depression, insomnia, anxiety, and eating disorder,
Speaker 6: like just a whole gamut of things that just came
Speaker 6: from essentially lack of balance, just training day in and
Speaker 6: day out, and for the first time in my life,
Speaker 6: feeling like my self worth was completely wrapped up in
Speaker 6: my sport, and if I didn't achieve in my sport,
Speaker 6: then I had nothing else to really offer as a
Speaker 6: human being.
Speaker 4: Yeah, you're listening to in the VETS office with doctor
Speaker 4: Josie Horschak.
Speaker 8: One thing that we had talked about that I think
Speaker 8: a lot of people will be able to connect with
Speaker 8: and really resonate with, is I know how bonded you
Speaker 8: are with a cure, but I feel like just having
Speaker 8: her since you were a teenager and you know you
Speaker 8: had shared with me, like going through some like really
Speaker 8: hard family hardships with you know, family members passing away,
Speaker 8: and like having that bond with her. I feel like
Speaker 8: so many of us bond with our animals because of
Speaker 8: the own traumas that we experience and like the way
Speaker 8: we rely on them.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 9: So I was eighteen, and honestly, if anybody who's a
Speaker 9: big animal advocate in their early twenties, I actually would say,
Speaker 9: get a dog. Yes, Like, if you have the means
Speaker 9: for it, it's it'll be the best experience.
Speaker 5: You ever have with a dog. I agree, before the kids.
Speaker 9: Come and the husband comes and all the other things come, Like,
Speaker 9: your dog will just do so much for you.
Speaker 5: But I got a cure at eighteen.
Speaker 9: When I had no business getting it on her, and
Speaker 9: I got her after my my uncle had committed suicide
Speaker 9: right after my eighteenth birthday and graduation, and then I
Speaker 9: was kind of like it kind of like diff Like
Speaker 9: I had a great childhood, My family is incredible, and
Speaker 9: it was the first time I kind of saw the
Speaker 9: bubble pop, you know, especially like you're coming into an
Speaker 9: adulthood too. There's just so much going on, and so
Speaker 9: at that time in my life, it was like, you know,
Speaker 9: the people who were my rocks were really sad, and
Speaker 9: so all of a sudden, I was just like, I
Speaker 9: kind of think I need to leave. Because I came
Speaker 9: from a small town. I was like, I think I
Speaker 9: need to go away for a while and go figure
Speaker 9: out who I am. So I moved to Calgary, which
Speaker 9: is like eight hours away from my hometown, and that's
Speaker 9: where I found her. And right right before I found her,
Speaker 9: my mom's boyfriend, like my stepdad of ten years, he
Speaker 9: committed suicide.
Speaker 5: Wow, it was just back to back. It was crazy.
Speaker 5: It's almost you know.
Speaker 8: When you're eighteen, like it's hard to process that.
Speaker 9: Yeah, because he had two sons that were like my
Speaker 9: little brothers that were now gone, you know, because we
Speaker 9: didn't get to see them anymore because of his situation.
Speaker 9: And so I got a Kira, and a care kind
Speaker 9: of just fell into my life. And I think that
Speaker 9: like I got a curio. She was probably six months.
Speaker 9: She didn't come like from the best situation. I don't
Speaker 9: think she had a lot of agress issues.
Speaker 5: They I never know. It's like I'm thinking, like, oh,
Speaker 5: they're gonna listen to.
Speaker 9: This, Okay, probably not. They called her eat them like
Speaker 9: they wanted a different path for her. Okay, you know,
Speaker 9: like she had like a badge of the bone collar
Speaker 9: on and stuff. Okay, So I ended up getting her
Speaker 9: and we just I mean she came everywhere with me,
Speaker 9: Like we would go hiking if I went to I
Speaker 9: became a yoga instructor. It was the first thing I
Speaker 9: did after high school. And she would like sit on
Speaker 9: my yoga mat with me, and or she'd it was
Speaker 9: with winter, and I'd make a little nest for her
Speaker 9: and she'd sit in my car I was in class,
Speaker 9: and you know, anything that happened, she was with me.
Speaker 9: I never left her at home, And I mean, I
Speaker 9: can't tell you how many times I've buried my face
Speaker 9: into her fur, like she's got the world's softest fur.
Speaker 9: But she was always very and even now like a
Speaker 9: cat like. I love that she's facing away from the
Speaker 9: camera because that's exactly where she should be because she
Speaker 9: doesn't care about people very much unless unless she truly
Speaker 9: bonds with you, and then you're almost.
Speaker 5: You feel chosen. Yeah, I have so many of my friends.
Speaker 9: Like the day that a Kierra passes, if I was
Speaker 9: to throw a funeral, they'd be like five people, but
Speaker 9: they would be crying so hard that.
Speaker 5: They'd be like an ugly cry. Her chosen circle, small
Speaker 5: circle exactly.
Speaker 9: I think that, And I said this to you that
Speaker 9: I think that when building my foundation app from the
Speaker 9: grief that I was feeling at Kira.
Speaker 5: At Kia was like she was your girl. She was
Speaker 5: a lot of those bricks.
Speaker 9: Yeah, And I assume, especially because when I talk about it,
Speaker 9: that when she passes, I think some of those bricks
Speaker 9: will fall.
Speaker 5: It's hard.
Speaker 8: I mean, being in your early twenties and eighteen nineteen,
Speaker 8: twenty twenty that's hard enough, and then having you know,
Speaker 8: losing people on top of that.
Speaker 9: Yeah, you're discovering yourself, you know, And so like I
Speaker 9: was never alonecause I had a Kira. So like if
Speaker 9: I want to go for a hike, I could, you
Speaker 9: know side of Kira, If I want to go for
Speaker 9: a kayak, I could. And she was always down for everything, right,
Speaker 9: That's what I loved about her, Like I mean, she
Speaker 9: moved to Florida with me, then we came up to
Speaker 9: Nashville and she's you know, I always had this thing
Speaker 9: with her that I needed her to meet all my kid.
Speaker 5: Yeah, not that she loved kidser, she's just really good,
Speaker 5: Like this is about me.
Speaker 9: Has like you got to meet all my kids, and
Speaker 9: me and my husband have been gone to playing number
Speaker 9: three and she's actually like a big part of that
Speaker 9: because she's getting slower and that's been hard for me
Speaker 9: to swallow. Like she lost her eye to cancer three
Speaker 9: four years ago, and that was kind of the first okay,
Speaker 9: like she's not invincible, you know, like the day's coming
Speaker 9: and you know the days it's like I have, the
Speaker 9: day is shorter to win. I don't have her to win,
Speaker 9: I did, you know what I mean? Like that's around
Speaker 9: the corner. And so when she lost her eye to cancer,
Speaker 9: that was an eye opening experience. But then all of
Speaker 9: a sudden, I went through something weird, and I don't
Speaker 9: know if anyone would be able to relate with this.
Speaker 9: I carried guilt about it, but I found that I
Speaker 9: avoided Akira for a while.
Speaker 5: Yes, I've had a lot of clients.
Speaker 9: Yeah, not to me, and I didn't notice it, but
Speaker 9: I found that, like I gotten a routine with her,
Speaker 9: but I didn't like go see her or like do
Speaker 9: things with her. I kind of avoided her. And it
Speaker 9: was because she was aging.
Speaker 5: And I did like a coping mechanism almost yeah, and
Speaker 5: I didn't know I was doing it.
Speaker 9: And then one day I kind of had to like
Speaker 9: go to the terms of like, you know, she's gray,
Speaker 9: she's white, she gets up slower, she's different. You know,
Speaker 9: she's not who she was in her prime. And I
Speaker 9: had a good, solid cry about it, and then we
Speaker 9: even good. Ever since we're back.
Speaker 8: Yeah, I mean it's hard to they've been She's been
Speaker 8: with you such a huge part of your life, and
Speaker 8: trying to picture life without her, I'm sure feels impossible.
Speaker 9: Yeah, I don't remember life before her, you know, Like
Speaker 9: it's like majority like my whole adult life she's been
Speaker 9: in it, you know, And it's like before her, I
Speaker 9: was a kid. Yeah, and so like that's just as
Speaker 9: hard as this grief will be. I will I mean,
Speaker 9: I'm so thankful, yeah, you know.
Speaker 8: And it's like she walked you through your hardest some
Speaker 8: of your hardest days, I'm sure, and now look at
Speaker 8: this beautifull life you have from when you were eighteen,
Speaker 8: and so she's gotten you to where you are and
Speaker 8: when it's her time, you know, she'll leave you better
Speaker 8: than she found you.
Speaker 2: Girl crushed from a little big town.
Speaker 10: Yeah, but was it ever about lesbian love?
Speaker 1: It's about a girl crush. Yeah, okay, I mean that's yeah, Okay.
Speaker 1: That's why I was kind of controversy.
Speaker 10: Because I remember at the time as people were just like, well, no,
Speaker 10: I mean, it could just be like I have a
Speaker 10: just crush on a girl, not in a loving way,
Speaker 10: but like, but.
Speaker 1: What does that even mean? A crush on a girl
Speaker 1: that's you. You don't have to be a lesbian but
Speaker 1: have a girl crush as like that in the middle ground.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and you got.
Speaker 10: To find like, I have a crush on you, dude,
Speaker 10: And I'm not trying to.
Speaker 1: Ever say that I got a boy crush, and then
Speaker 1: people will be like, oh, what you're saying.
Speaker 2: What am I saying?
Speaker 11: Tell me?
Speaker 2: I know what you're saying. You're staring me deep in
Speaker 2: my eyes.
Speaker 1: So people saw it as encouraging homosexuality. I was a
Speaker 1: bit a part of this story too, because I was
Speaker 1: the first one to play it. But it was bigger
Speaker 1: than just that, because a little bitdown had to deal
Speaker 1: with it. And so here's episode sixty six. Karen Fairchild,
Speaker 1: a little bigdown, talked about how they handled the backlash.
Speaker 12: I've had people in the business stop me and go man,
Speaker 12: that was a good one. Y'all did, like, woul do
Speaker 12: you think that we would actually do that? A couple
Speaker 12: of weeks before trying to ward off some of the
Speaker 12: negativity of just like moms that didn't think they wanted
Speaker 12: their children to hear I want to taste her lips
Speaker 12: in the morning on country radio and they were calling
Speaker 12: into complain, and so we were getting on there saying,
Speaker 12: you know, oh, it's a song about jealousy, and having
Speaker 12: to try to like get in the stations to play
Speaker 12: it that were thinking about dropping it because of the
Speaker 12: negative calls.
Speaker 2: So I want to taste your lips and come on,
Speaker 2: that's not that's.
Speaker 10: Yeah, yeah, you know that definitely crosses that line.
Speaker 2: That's great you want to cross it grade. I have
Speaker 2: no problem with the line.
Speaker 10: I'm just saying that that makes it a little different.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I forgot that line too. I would have used
Speaker 1: that when I was trying to counterpoint Garth Brooks we
Speaker 1: Shall be Free?
Speaker 10: Oh yeah, big time.
Speaker 2: They say is most controversial song in the catalog. Why
Speaker 2: I mean we Shall Be Free? Was you're a big
Speaker 2: Garth guy too.
Speaker 10: I am a big Garth guy. But I mean I
Speaker 10: was young when We Shall Be Free came out, But
Speaker 10: I think I even then I understood that it was,
Speaker 10: you know, just freeing people from not how to word this,
Speaker 10: I mean, is it like I think it was racism
Speaker 10: part yeah, part of right, absolutely, and that was a
Speaker 10: big part of it, just like you know, so you're
Speaker 10: all equal.
Speaker 13: Yep.
Speaker 2: So that's exactly what it was.
Speaker 1: So it's, by the way, one of his only songs
Speaker 1: to ever not even land in the top ten because
Speaker 1: stations wouldn't play it.
Speaker 2: That's crazy.
Speaker 1: But the song and the video imagine a world where
Speaker 1: there's no racism, to homophobia, no violence, but stations wouldn't
Speaker 1: play it.
Speaker 2: Wow, And I believe that's the video, the super Bowl video.
Speaker 1: That's it where he refused to go on to sing
Speaker 1: the national anthemunless they play the super Bowl.
Speaker 13: They showed you.
Speaker 10: I mean, that's how you do it.
Speaker 2: And then they have a new rule now where they
Speaker 2: always have.
Speaker 10: A backup, a backup performer.
Speaker 2: Yeah, just a case.
Speaker 1: Because he was like, hey, Joby there, Yeah, bon Job's
Speaker 1: in the crowd. They were gonna go ask on Joby
Speaker 1: to do it, but Garth was like, I'm not going
Speaker 1: to sing it unless you play the video like last
Speaker 1: minute wow.
Speaker 2: And they did. They played it, played the video.
Speaker 13: Good cast up, little food for yourself.
Speaker 1: Life.
Speaker 2: Oh it's pretty bad.
Speaker 13: It's pretty beautiful, beautiful for.
Speaker 1: A little more exciting, of course, said he can.
Speaker 2: You're kicking it with four with Amy Brown.
Speaker 14: So let's jump into the dating side of divorce. And
Speaker 14: I'm sort of new to that layer. My ex started
Speaker 14: dating almost immediately, which I guess is pretty common, and
Speaker 14: I have been slow to join the dating party. But
Speaker 14: what are your thoughts on how do you start that
Speaker 14: process and when do you know that you're ready?
Speaker 11: Well, let me comey at this by saying that I
Speaker 11: think most people aren't ready when they get separated to
Speaker 11: date again in a serious way, or look for a
Speaker 11: serious relationship. I think that it takes some time and
Speaker 11: introspection to look and say, Okay, I've just failed at
Speaker 11: a marriage which I didn't think would happen. Whether you're
Speaker 11: in it for a few years or twenty years, that's
Speaker 11: a major event, and I think you have to take
Speaker 11: a responsible perspective, meaning what was my part? You can't
Speaker 11: point the finger right at your spouse and say it
Speaker 11: was their fault and therefore I'm ready to date again.
Speaker 11: It takes two to tango right. You're in a relationship
Speaker 11: with someone. There are cases obviously where there's a few
Speaker 11: so there's something unusual. Well, obviously that's different, But I'm
Speaker 11: talking in a decently normal relationship. So I think you
Speaker 11: need to take some time and understand who am I
Speaker 11: at this point in my life? What do I really want?
Speaker 11: What have I learned from the relationship that I'm getting
Speaker 11: out of. Because if you take all your hurt, roll
Speaker 11: that up and go forward into the apps into a
Speaker 11: new relationship uncertain of what you want, you're just going
Speaker 11: to bring all that crap to someone else. Hurt someone else,
Speaker 11: can puse someone else. Now I'm not judging okay, because
Speaker 11: there are people who rebound immediately and start dating, go
Speaker 11: and create on the apps, and it's an individual choice.
Speaker 11: But I think personally, from what I see in my experience,
Speaker 11: you need some time. Trust your intuition. You will know
Speaker 11: when you are ready, but it may take some time.
Speaker 12: Yeah.
Speaker 14: I think that my fear around realizing that I was
Speaker 14: going to get divorced was knowing, Okay, I don't want
Speaker 14: to end up like my dad who was married four
Speaker 14: times and going from one relationship to the next.
Speaker 11: I know guys who've been married four times, and I mean,
Speaker 11: that's that's tough.
Speaker 14: Are apps like the way to go when you're thinking
Speaker 14: about dating? I know you mentioned apps like a couple
Speaker 14: of times when you threw that out there, and I
Speaker 14: guess for me, apps seemed a little bit weird because
Speaker 14: they came about when I was married, and so I
Speaker 14: never used them, and so now being single in my
Speaker 14: forties and thinking about getting on an app, it's very weird.
Speaker 11: Oh yeah, totally weird. I'm at fifties. So when I
Speaker 11: was dating my ex and got married, no one used apps,
Speaker 11: and now it's it's just par for the course. And
Speaker 11: I think there's a usefulness to them. They are apps
Speaker 11: that are more selective than you know that you've got
Speaker 11: to pay a bit more for and I think that
Speaker 11: it's a part of the game, but it's also a
Speaker 11: bit of a drug. And I think most people who
Speaker 11: had been on them for a while or completely sick
Speaker 11: of them. But my wife and I connected on an app.
Speaker 11: So when I met my wife for the first time
Speaker 11: in the spring of twenty twenty, this was like a
Speaker 11: COVID date amy that COVID had hit March of twenty twenty.
Speaker 11: We took a walk in April of twenty twenty. And
Speaker 11: I'll give credit to Bumble, which you know bumbles, the
Speaker 11: app where women get to decide if they want to
Speaker 11: connect with you. For all of the negatives that you
Speaker 11: would hear out there, I would thank that app for
Speaker 11: my marriage and for my relationship. But I think that
Speaker 11: you've got to know who you are and what you
Speaker 11: want and be overt about it and kind of hold
Speaker 11: to some standards as opposed to just going crazy and
Speaker 11: you know, kind of meeting three people a day and
Speaker 11: you know, or worse.
Speaker 14: That sounds exhausting.
Speaker 11: Oh yeah, I mean I think they're exhausting, and I
Speaker 11: think the in dosents very healthy and important part of
Speaker 11: getting back out there because the personal networks that got
Speaker 11: disrupted during COVID. Many people live in smaller towns. Even
Speaker 11: a big city becomes a small town on the apps.
Speaker 11: Maybe not New York City, maybe not LA. But I've
Speaker 11: got friends, for instance, in Knoxville or Cincinnati or that
Speaker 11: are you know, like a small to mid size city,
Speaker 11: those become small. I mean, I live in the San
Speaker 11: Francisco Bay Area, south of San Francisco, in a suburb,
Speaker 11: and I remember when I was on the app Samy.
Speaker 11: I was running a fairly large company at the time,
Speaker 11: and I didn't think about this, but I put myself
Speaker 11: on the apps. I got out there and I started
Speaker 11: seeing people in my company on the apps, and I thought, oh,
Speaker 11: they're seeing me. Of course, because I'm seeing them. What
Speaker 11: the heck. So it's not what you think in some respects,
Speaker 11: but I think an important part of the mix.
Speaker 5: The thing is too.
Speaker 14: Like you said, you're seeing them, they're seeing you, and
Speaker 14: it's like, Okay, we're all trying to figure this thing out.
Speaker 14: I've only done hinge and let me tell you something
Speaker 14: that makes me cringe. And maybe you're into this. I
Speaker 14: don't know, but you know the little how you have
Speaker 14: the option to like say something and you can hit
Speaker 14: the voice yes. To me, it's like less is more
Speaker 14: like I'd rather just know sort of the fact about you,
Speaker 14: what you're looking for. You can be direct in certain things,
Speaker 14: but then those options that allow you to get a
Speaker 14: little bit more personal, Like anytime I hit play, Like
Speaker 14: sometimes for entertainment, we would just hit play and like
Speaker 14: listen to what they would say, and the voice recordings
Speaker 14: always made me cringe. Like on the profile, it wasn't
Speaker 14: a message like to me, it was just on their
Speaker 14: main page like they'd tell some story or say a joke.
Speaker 14: And any thoughts on profiles.
Speaker 11: My biggest thing for a profile would be be real
Speaker 11: in terms of who you are. If you have kids,
Speaker 11: celebrate that you have kids, if you have certain religious faith,
Speaker 11: put it out there who you are in terms of
Speaker 11: what you really like to do and how you spend
Speaker 11: your time. Let people know who you are. Do I
Speaker 11: want to have more kids, so I not want to
Speaker 11: have more kids. Anything that helps select out the wrong
Speaker 11: people and select them the right people. And in terms
Speaker 11: of that voice piece, I mean, you're you're a personality,
Speaker 11: So what people are going to do is they're going
Speaker 11: to try to backwards engineer googling you and finding you right,
Speaker 11: which is not that hard to do. It's pretty easy
Speaker 11: to find people in terms of who they are and
Speaker 11: match them up with their profile. It's the other thing
Speaker 11: I think you should expect, but do what you feel
Speaker 11: comfortable with. You know, a lot of pictures are you know,
Speaker 11: quadruple filtered and don't really look like the person, which
Speaker 11: is another thing that I recommend against.
Speaker 14: Oh, putting up filtered photos.
Speaker 11: Well, I mean filtered. There's filtered, then there's like altered.
Speaker 11: That's another big aspect that I think is a negative.
Speaker 2: We're gonna do it live.
Speaker 15: Oh the one, two, three, sore losers?
Speaker 13: What up, everybody? I am lunchbox. I know the most
Speaker 13: about sports. I'll give you the sports facts, my sports
Speaker 13: opinions because I'm pretty much a sports genius, y'all.
Speaker 15: It's Sison. I'm from the North. I'm an alpha male.
Speaker 15: I live on the north side of Nashville with Baser,
Speaker 15: my wife. We do have a farm. It's beautiful, a
Speaker 15: lot of acreage, no animals, a lot of crops, hopefully
Speaker 15: soon corn pumpkins, rye. I believe maybe a little fescue
Speaker 15: to be determined.
Speaker 2: Over to you, coach.
Speaker 13: And here's a clip from this week's episode of The
Speaker 13: Sore Losers. Right, baby Box don't like being called baby box,
Speaker 13: but anyway.
Speaker 15: Yeah, we learned on the podcast also when he tried
Speaker 15: to throw his trash right next to my feet.
Speaker 13: He started kindergarten and we started putting him on the bus.
Speaker 13: And let me tell you this, dude loves the bus.
Speaker 13: Night nanny can't drive. Now night nanny can't drive, can't drive,
Speaker 13: doesn't have a has to get home. You know, their
Speaker 13: shift ends at seven, bus comes at like seven thirty,
Speaker 13: seven forty five, something like that. I don't know. But
Speaker 13: he told my wife after four days on the bus,
Speaker 13: we always meet him at the bus stop after school,
Speaker 13: see him get off the us, give him big hug.
Speaker 13: Let's go dude. You know guess what, he'll never remember
Speaker 13: that continue. After four days he told my wife, oh no,
Speaker 13: oh no, no, he said, this is this is bad.
Speaker 13: She was waiting for him when he's good. This is bad.
Speaker 13: After the fourth day of the bus she's sitting there
Speaker 13: at the bus stop. It's a Friday afternoon. I was
Speaker 13: on the golf course and she texted me Hey, you're
Speaker 13: going to be back for bus stop pick up. I said, nope,
Speaker 13: not going to finish in time. She said, okay, that's cool,
Speaker 13: see when you get home. And when I got home,
Speaker 13: she goes, I was waiting at the bus stop and
Speaker 13: he came bounding down those stairs off the bus and
Speaker 13: he gave me a hug. Oh no. He looked at
Speaker 13: me in the eyes and said, Mom, I don't want
Speaker 13: you to wait at the bus stop. I know, I
Speaker 13: knew it.
Speaker 2: They grow up so fast, dude, he heart. He doesn't
Speaker 2: watch you guys around.
Speaker 15: Okay, so I'm gonna miss those four days. He told
Speaker 15: you to get the inside. Dude, I don't need your
Speaker 15: ass out here.
Speaker 13: My wife said, oh, I said, well, what do you mean?
Speaker 13: He goes, Mom, just stay on the porch.
Speaker 15: Dad's already in the shadows.
Speaker 13: And she goes, but it's I like to see you
Speaker 13: get off the bus. He goes, it's only four houses, Mom,
Speaker 13: I'll just walk home by myself.
Speaker 15: Oh my gosh, dude, cat's in the cradle in the
Speaker 15: silver spoon.
Speaker 13: And my wife's heart broke into a million pieces. I'll
Speaker 13: wait until he kisses another woman. And I mean, she said,
Speaker 13: oh my god, I knew he was going to grow up,
Speaker 13: and I knew that he was gonna want to do things.
Speaker 13: I'm sorry, she said.
Speaker 15: He said, what, honey, after four days and you missed
Speaker 15: out on it.
Speaker 13: He's already kicking me off the bus stop. What about
Speaker 13: your dad? Old pal?
Speaker 2: You care if I'm down there?
Speaker 13: Four days and he's already had enough of me going
Speaker 13: to the bus stop.
Speaker 15: With dude, it's cooler you walk home on the sidewalk,
Speaker 15: then you wave to the pearance on the patio or whatever.
Speaker 13: Then he thinks he's a badass. All of a sudden,
Speaker 13: he has all his independence. We had a babysitter, and
Speaker 13: he tells the babysitter, Oh, yeah, I'll be back. I'm
Speaker 13: just gonna go ride my bike to my friend's house.
Speaker 13: Excuse me, we don't let you do that. Well, no,
Speaker 13: he's never wanted to do that before. But all of
Speaker 13: a sudden, he's been in kindergarten for five days and
Speaker 13: he wants to go ride his bike to his friend's house. Yo, man, Yeah,
Speaker 13: out riding. He's kicking us from the bus stop. You're
Speaker 13: about to pull up. He's riding his bike to friend's house.
Speaker 2: Yeah, dad, we'll just pull up. I'll let you know
Speaker 2: when I pull up.
Speaker 13: My wife didn't agree to the bus stop thing. She said,
Speaker 13: I'll wait two houses down.
Speaker 15: Yeah, because also, I mean, listen, son, I love that
Speaker 15: you're growing up. You're gonna get kidnapped in these streets.
Speaker 13: No, I'm not worried about kidnapping. That's weird. I don't
Speaker 13: worry about that. Oh, because you know, most kidnappings are
Speaker 13: someone that you know, like stat, Like, if you look
Speaker 13: it up.
Speaker 15: You're like bazer dude.
Speaker 2: She looks over at me.
Speaker 13: You know, most of the.
Speaker 15: Time when a woman gets killed, it's by her own husband.
Speaker 15: I'm like, nice, stat, I'm not gonna kill you. I'm
Speaker 15: going to bed, good night, thanks for bringing She looks
Speaker 15: righty like I'm gonna killer. I've got better things to do.
Speaker 15: I'm a little preoccupied with the big show. Trust me,
Speaker 15: I'm not planning a killing.
Speaker 13: Yes, sorry, good We got Landy Wilson coming in next week.
Speaker 13: I can't I can't miss that. Have you ever seen
Speaker 13: me when I come home.
Speaker 15: I'm dog ass tired, Like I'm the least threatening person
Speaker 15: there is. You could easily kill me with a fucking
Speaker 15: butter knife.
Speaker 13: Keep that. Yeah, you have a better chance of killing
Speaker 13: me because I go to bed purs like, I go
Speaker 13: to sleep a lot earlier than you do, so you
Speaker 13: could probably take me out if you wanted to.
Speaker 15: Trust me, I'll turn the knife are out and put
Speaker 15: it back in the drawer.
Speaker 13: Yeah, yeah, I gotta do that. But then we got
Speaker 13: an incident on the bus. Is that worth a commercial break? Oh,
Speaker 13: we're going into it. He gets off the bus and
Speaker 13: he comes jogging. You know, we gotta have a name
Speaker 13: for this segment. And he gives us a big hug
Speaker 13: and he's like, I'm not the last one on the
Speaker 13: bus today. And I'm like, what, because he's always the
Speaker 13: last one on the bus. He's the last stop.
Speaker 2: Dude, what a brutal break.
Speaker 13: And he's like, yeah, Pamela is still on the bus.
Speaker 13: And I'm like, but Pamela lives on the front side
Speaker 13: of the neighborhood, like her stop is one of the
Speaker 13: first ones. And he goes, yeah, she got off the
Speaker 13: bus and went to her front door, but her door
Speaker 13: was locked, so she had to get back on the bus.
Speaker 13: He brought Pamela home and I'm like, oh, like, so
Speaker 13: her parents weren't there. He goes, I guess not, but
Speaker 13: she doesn't have anywhere to go. He's already bringing Pammy.
Speaker 13: And my wife's like, oh, well, let me call Pamela's mom.
Speaker 13: Luckily my wife knows the mom calls her says, hey,
Speaker 13: you know, Pamela got off the bus at your house,
Speaker 13: but the door was line, so she's back on the bus.
Speaker 13: And she said, oh no, no, no, she was supposed to
Speaker 13: stay it after schoolcare. We're both at the office today,
Speaker 13: so there's no one home. Yeah, your kids bounce around Broadway.
Speaker 13: So the bus makes a loop around the block and
Speaker 13: I have to wave down the bus flag it down.
Speaker 13: What a time in the streets, dude. And the bus
Speaker 13: driver's like, oh, well, you take Pamela. And I'm like, yeah,
Speaker 13: Pamela can come with us.
Speaker 15: The bus drivers like, I'm making like twenty an hour,
Speaker 15: can y'all people seriously pick off?
Speaker 13: And so Pamela came bounding down the bus, had a
Speaker 13: little bit of fear in her eyes, like, oh my gosh,
Speaker 13: Like where am I supposed to go? And so she
Speaker 13: came to our house. I'm your new dad, and we
Speaker 13: gave her a little snack, We played a little bit.
Speaker 13: Mom said, oh, her dad's gonna come get her. You know,
Speaker 13: he has a stopping point he can come and finish
Speaker 13: his work from home. So he shows up at the
Speaker 13: house and he's like, all, hey, Jim, what are you doing. Pamla.
Speaker 13: You were supposed to stay after school. She goes, I
Speaker 13: forgot I got on the bus. And he goes and
Speaker 13: he asked me. He goes, so, why'd you get her
Speaker 13: off the bus? I'm like, well, what did you I mean,
Speaker 13: you guys weren't home, Like the door was locked. He goes, Oh,
Speaker 13: I just assumed the bus would take her back to school.
Speaker 13: Parents in twenty twenty four, now that sales call was
Speaker 13: a little bit more important than your kid. I'm like,
Speaker 13: so you would have rather me just left her on
Speaker 13: the bus, And I hope the bus was gonna just
Speaker 13: take her back to school.
Speaker 16: Hey, it's Mike de and this week a movie Mike's
Speaker 16: Movie Podcast. I head on Luke Hemsworth. He's the brother
Speaker 16: to Chris Liam Hemsworth. I talked him all about how
Speaker 16: he and his brothers got started acting. I think we
Speaker 16: bonded a bit because me and my brother both started
Speaker 16: out playing music together. That was kind of our dream.
Speaker 16: It seems like acting was that for his family and
Speaker 16: it worked out a lot better for him and his
Speaker 16: brothers than it did with me and my brother. But
Speaker 16: he's still doing the music thing. We also talked about
Speaker 16: the physical toll his new movie Gunner took on him.
Speaker 16: So be sure to check out this full episode a
Speaker 16: Movie Mike's Movie Podcast. But right now, here's a little
Speaker 16: bit of my interview with Luke Hemsworth. I gotta imagine
Speaker 16: as an actor, doing an American accent is probably hard.
Speaker 13: What word would you.
Speaker 2: Say in the English language?
Speaker 16: An American accent is like the hardest to get down
Speaker 16: where it's like, oh, that kind of gives it away.
Speaker 16: Then I'm Australian.
Speaker 2: There's a few.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and very early on in your career, the people
Speaker 3: are quat uh you know qua liberal was telling you
Speaker 3: that when your accent is bad and what where is
Speaker 3: it pulping out? One of them for me is is
Speaker 3: is we say, being in Australia, where have you been? BWn?
Speaker 13: Where's the American side?
Speaker 3: Ben? Where you been? That's a dead givea wires is
Speaker 3: when you're doing your accent and then those kinds of
Speaker 3: words slipping. But I actually I go but I got
Speaker 3: what let go of a job very early and it
Speaker 3: starts because my accident wasn't good enough, and so I
Speaker 3: spent I spent a lot of time and effort American
Speaker 3: sure that it's it's as good as good as they
Speaker 3: can be.
Speaker 17: Hopefully, Hopefully I put all those things to bread. It's
Speaker 17: kind of been grinding down. People who live here at
Speaker 17: Straka are like, why is your accident sound weird? Because
Speaker 17: there's just americanisms that I've part of the way that
Speaker 17: I speak now.
Speaker 16: I was talking to Dmitri about the movie and how
Speaker 16: it was kind of nostalgic for me, reminding me of
Speaker 16: movies that I used to watch with my dad. Because
Speaker 16: not really in the movies at all, but if you
Speaker 16: put on an action movie where it's people beating each
Speaker 16: other up, he's all in on it. And for you,
Speaker 16: who are those action stars that maybe you watch as
Speaker 16: a kid of like, Oh, someday I want to be
Speaker 16: an actor like them in a movie.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I love I love Van Dam I
Speaker 3: love yeah everything that he did. You know, I remember
Speaker 3: watching Kickboxing and courting every word from Blood Sport. I
Speaker 3: think I think I still do with a couple of
Speaker 3: my buddies that we used to watch it with. Saloon
Speaker 3: you know Schwarzenegger. I think you know, I think Terminator
Speaker 3: two and Terminator Terminator one and two or two of
Speaker 3: the gross movies ever. Aliens. Yeah, I I those those
Speaker 3: action films of that that era were so fundamental. I
Speaker 3: think in my career that were that were a big
Speaker 3: part of me.
Speaker 13: Wanted to you wanted to just play as.
Speaker 3: A human bringing too. You know, you're you're out there
Speaker 3: emulating there's these men who are who are men who
Speaker 3: are getting the job done. You know I'm doing it
Speaker 3: with wonderful one liners out the side of their mouth. Yeah.
Speaker 2: Bruce Lee too.
Speaker 3: I really loved Bruce Lee.
Speaker 16: Growing up, I wanted to be a rock star, and
Speaker 16: my brother and I started a punk band when I
Speaker 16: was like thirteen years old. I played guitar, he played drums,
Speaker 16: and that was like always a passion of mine. And
Speaker 16: it was because you know, with me and my brother
Speaker 16: doing something, you and your brothers are all actors. Was
Speaker 16: that like a thing like you all wanted to be actors?
Speaker 16: Or did somebody get the acting bug first? How did
Speaker 16: that all just unfold?
Speaker 3: I think we just all love playing and you know,
Speaker 3: like you said, you formed the punk band and we
Speaker 3: we would just we would role play. We would make
Speaker 3: wooden swords and wooden guns, and my mom would hide
Speaker 3: the TV.
Speaker 2: You literally carry the.
Speaker 3: TV downstairs and put it in the in the wardrobe,
Speaker 3: and we would have no TV. And so we were
Speaker 3: forced to forced to, you know, ride our own strips,
Speaker 3: and we had flood guns and all sorts of stuff.
Speaker 3: And would you I would dress my brothers up and
Speaker 3: you know, tell them to run because it will hurt
Speaker 3: more the closer you are, you know, Like, I think
Speaker 3: I think that's a big part of it. I think
Speaker 3: a big part of it is neither none of us
Speaker 3: are any good at anything else either. But I went
Speaker 3: to university, you know, I I went and studied that.
Speaker 3: Maybe I started it, but I think three years of
Speaker 3: the contemporary arts, majored in drama, and then onto, you know,
Speaker 3: straying shap operas and straying film and television from there
Speaker 3: and then finally to the US. But yeah, I don't
Speaker 3: know what it is. I don't know their answers to that.
Speaker 17: Other than that, other.
Speaker 18: Than we all like to just look to have fun.
Speaker 18: But you know, I also think I also think it's
Speaker 18: excuse my language, you know, acting is acting is very,
Speaker 18: very difficult, and I think that's an attractive part for
Speaker 18: all of us as well, is that it mixes both
Speaker 18: the ability to have a good time with something that's
Speaker 18: incredibly precise and an inventive and very hard to do it,
Speaker 18: how to do well.
Speaker 16: So somewhere out there there's a script that you wrote
Speaker 16: with all your brothers. Did you, guys, ever film any
Speaker 16: of that? Is there like a video, like a like
Speaker 16: a test movie out there?
Speaker 13: One day?
Speaker 3: I hope one day, one day that's the dream. There'll
Speaker 3: be no action, it will just be three of us.
Speaker 13: Thanks for talking with me, cheers man.
Speaker 19: Thanks very much, Carne, she's a queen and talking to
Speaker 19: you song.
Speaker 5: She's getting really.
Speaker 20: Not afraid to feel this episode, so just let it flow.
Speaker 20: No one can do we quiet care line. It is sounding, Carolyn.
Speaker 21: But the whole album is very sensual sexual you think, yes,
Speaker 21: sexual talking about like laying in bed, put your hand
Speaker 21: on my face like So.
Speaker 22: I wrote those songs trying to be in the same
Speaker 22: veane of Loretta and Conway.
Speaker 21: I was wondering if some of them recovers because they
Speaker 21: felt Mary, Loretta and Conway, thank you.
Speaker 7: That's a great compliment.
Speaker 12: No.
Speaker 22: I wrote those to try to feel the same bame,
Speaker 22: which because all of theirs are about cheating and sensuality
Speaker 22: and all that stuff, and so I was like, we
Speaker 22: can't get away from that, like that's what we have
Speaker 22: to sort of stay on. And so most of those
Speaker 22: were that song that you're talking about. I wrote that
Speaker 22: by myself, mostly sitting in my living room at home,
Speaker 22: just going okay, like what does this look like?
Speaker 17: Like?
Speaker 7: What is her leave in the bedroom? Like touch your head?
Speaker 22: Yeah, And then Mark Narmore he came in and he
Speaker 22: had been I'll.
Speaker 7: Never he is my always going to do with Mark Armore?
Speaker 22: You know why because I can take him anything that
Speaker 22: I'm thinking.
Speaker 7: He never judges me.
Speaker 22: And he puts music behind it and comes up with
Speaker 22: lyrics together and we do it all over the phone
Speaker 22: and then it's done.
Speaker 5: That's great.
Speaker 7: I loved it. Yeah, but they are sentual, yet they
Speaker 7: are very central. Surely you weren't surprised. I wasn't surprised,
Speaker 7: but I was impressed.
Speaker 22: People people always wondered if Conway and Loretta were together.
Speaker 7: They asked that all the time. I tell the story.
Speaker 22: Me and while told me so, I hadn't thought much
Speaker 22: about it when we were growing up they were on
Speaker 22: the road together all the time, and their pictures were
Speaker 22: you know, I'll have to go look at some of
Speaker 22: their pictures. But now it'd be a great time in
Speaker 22: the podcast for you to flash pictures of them holding
Speaker 22: hands in their silk pajamas like rose petals, feeding each other.
Speaker 7: Like face to face.
Speaker 22: And so people would ask after all these shows, like
Speaker 22: did Conway and Loretta ever have anything going on? And
Speaker 22: so one night I was like, you know what, she's
Speaker 22: retired now, Like, I bet she'll tell me and me
Speaker 22: and Mom was always really like blunt and depending on
Speaker 22: her answer, what I tell it or not, you know.
Speaker 22: So I called her and I was like, mem did
Speaker 22: you and Conway like ever even once hook up? And
Speaker 22: she immediately goes, no, Taylor, but if I had to
Speaker 22: do it over again, I would blaze that trail eighty
Speaker 22: eight years old? And said she would blaze that trail
Speaker 22: I died.
Speaker 7: Why did she not blaze it? She said that he well,
Speaker 7: I don't want to disrespect that.
Speaker 22: I don't want to so she just said he was
Speaker 22: busy a lot and so but and she also said
Speaker 22: that he never showed interest towards her like that, like
Speaker 22: he just wasn't, and I guess she always found him
Speaker 22: to be attractive. But when they were out there, they
Speaker 22: were in two different buses, they were always working like
Speaker 22: they just never and I thought that was so funny.
Speaker 22: And now Trey talks about like he wondered how it
Speaker 22: could ever be like that until he had to like
Speaker 22: basically live with me this whole time, and he's like, oh,
Speaker 22: never were the last person on earth I would ever
Speaker 22: want to be with.
Speaker 7: And you do figure it out after a while, like
Speaker 7: people are.
Speaker 22: Like, oh, come on, and you're like, you don't understand,
Speaker 22: Like because even Trey isn't who Trey portrays to be
Speaker 22: on stage.
Speaker 7: His name is Michael Jenkins.
Speaker 5: His name's not Trey.
Speaker 7: No, why do you go well? Conway Twitty's name is
Speaker 7: Harold Jenkins. Would you be in love with a man
Speaker 7: named Harold's on the radio? Or what Colley?
Speaker 21: Possibly they weren't, I mean they weren't. You think Conway
Speaker 21: is sexier than Harold.
Speaker 7: I don't think either one of them. Say That's what
Speaker 7: I'm saying. I would have picked another name, Like you know,
Speaker 7: why not the target.
Speaker 22: Audience like jud So, why Noah is more what you're into?
Speaker 7: I got you I got you. I love why Noah, Judd.
Speaker 22: I'm telling you, she has really become new to me again.
Speaker 7: Why Nonah. Also just I went.
Speaker 22: To that judge. So me Mall died October fifth, twenty
Speaker 22: twenty two. Naomi had passed in April of twenty twenty two,
Speaker 22: and they had that Bridge Stone concert October thirtieth, twenty
Speaker 22: twenty two, and me Ma's celebration of life was October
Speaker 22: thirty first or something like that.
Speaker 7: At the Grandel office you were playing in there. Hobby
Speaker 7: actually said, she saw you, Oh you did.
Speaker 22: I was so nervous getting I had to actually talk
Speaker 22: and read a teleprompter of the thing I wrote, and
Speaker 22: I was shaking so bad, and I had to be,
Speaker 22: you know, kind of serious or whatever. And I mean,
Speaker 22: we're talking about my beautiful, legendary grandmother. And it felt
Speaker 22: so important to me to go there and like stand
Speaker 22: as a woman of integrity for her and talk about
Speaker 22: Jesus Christ and why Noa. The night before or right
Speaker 22: around then, had played the Juzz concert without her mama
Speaker 22: in Nashville, and you could see all the emotion on
Speaker 22: her face. You could see the pain in her face,
Speaker 22: like as she sang that song cry myself to sleep.
Speaker 7: And that's what it's called, right, I think that's what
Speaker 7: it did.
Speaker 22: And uh, it just was the saddest, most beautiful celebration
Speaker 22: for a Naomi Judd that I've ever seen. And Ashley
Speaker 22: was there and came out and danced, and when Mema
Speaker 22: had her stroke, Ashley came to see her, and uh,
Speaker 22: it was just a beautiful I don't want to give
Speaker 22: too much away because it was a personal moment with
Speaker 22: my aunt Peggy, myself, Meman Ashley, and there was just
Speaker 22: something Appalachian rootsy about it. And Mema really woke up
Speaker 22: to the voice of Ashley Judd and into that heritage
Speaker 22: and to see that.
Speaker 7: And then and.
Speaker 22: The celebration of life opened with why Onna Judd singing
Speaker 22: how great Thou art? A cappella acapella And it was
Speaker 22: the first time that I cried over me while dying because.
Speaker 7: Why was it the first time?
Speaker 22: I just because we were you know, me Ma had
Speaker 22: been sick for a couple of years, and you know,
Speaker 22: I'm kind of hard about death. And after you lose
Speaker 22: your mom unexpectedly, I don't know what it's like to
Speaker 22: lose a child by any stretch. And I think that
Speaker 22: would be something you can't come But losing my mom
Speaker 22: unexpectedly like that, it was almost like nothing would ever
Speaker 22: hurt like that again. And just why own a opening
Speaker 22: like that? And why nown a loving Memal so much
Speaker 22: Memal loving? Why why I'd been out to the house
Speaker 22: not long before that, before Memi passed, and just like
Speaker 22: there was all this feeling and now she's just out
Speaker 22: there doing her thing, and she looks great and she
Speaker 22: seems to be happy, and like I have sort of
Speaker 22: this new fanatical obsession with her, Like it's cool.
Speaker 21: Do you think it has something to do with surviving grief?
Speaker 22: Maybe so, and the way that she's doing it and
Speaker 22: they're just being so open about it. And so what
Speaker 22: we're talking about, let's see if we can get back
Speaker 22: on topic. What we're talking about is I'm attracted to
Speaker 22: people who are who they are, no matter what their
Speaker 22: flaws are.
Speaker 7: And a lot of people will.
Speaker 22: Say to me like, oh my god, she sings nasally,
Speaker 22: she sings nasally, she sings nasally. And what I have
Speaker 22: found is that people that love me and love my
Speaker 22: voice say that that's a feature, not a flaw, and
Speaker 22: embracing those things because you interrupting to me, is you
Speaker 22: being passionate about what the person is talking about?
Speaker 21: That on my feedback to everyone that I interrupt too
Speaker 21: much and bring the conversation back to myself and I
Speaker 21: make weird mouth noises, which I do.
Speaker 7: Hackt you do, God, and you used you do? That
Speaker 7: is why if I had any there you go.
Speaker 5: That's it.
Speaker 7: But you have to talk a lot and it's hard,
Speaker 7: and I get a lot of hacking situations. Yeah, God,
Speaker 7: and you do that on the show Carol. Well when
Speaker 7: you got a hack, you got a hack? Can y'all
Speaker 7: have edit that part? A lot of hacking? You need
Speaker 7: to stop. I'm working on it. It's hard.
Speaker 22: You need to go see and you need to go
Speaker 22: to Van Dy and go see an earnote and throat person.
Speaker 22: Get that taken care of, because I bet that is gross.
Speaker 22: You're saying, yes, it's gross.
Speaker 2: Thanks for listening to this week's Sunday sampler.
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