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Speaker 1: In the Vets office with doctor Josie, she talked with

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Speaker 1: on two guests, one five time Olympic gold medalist Missy

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Speaker 1: make sure you go take a listen to the whole episode.

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Speaker 1: But let's get started with a clip of this episode.

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Speaker 1: It's Take This Personally. Here we go with Morgan.

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Speaker 3: Take Personal Life Juelsman.

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Speaker 4: Right now, I'm joined by Olympian Missy Franklin. Many would

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Speaker 4: know her for her incredible swimming talent. She has a

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Speaker 5: Thank you so much for coming on. How are you

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Speaker 5: You're some so good, Thank you so much for having me.

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Speaker 4: Did you always see Olympics in your future? Was that

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Speaker 6: It honestly was always the dream. I mean, we have

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Speaker 5: You feel chosen. Yeah, I have so many of my friends.

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Speaker 8: And it's like she walked you through your hardest some

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Speaker 10: To find like, I have a crush on you, dude,

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Speaker 2: What am I saying?

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Speaker 1: So people saw it as encouraging homosexuality. I was a

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Speaker 12: I've had people in the business stop me and go man,

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Speaker 2: So I want to taste your lips and come on,

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Speaker 10: Yeah, yeah, you know that definitely crosses that line.

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Speaker 10: I'm just saying that that makes it a little different.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I forgot that line too. I would have used

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Speaker 1: Shall be Free?

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Speaker 10: Oh yeah, big time.

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Speaker 2: They say is most controversial song in the catalog. Why

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Speaker 10: I am a big Garth guy. But I mean I

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Speaker 10: I mean, is it like I think it was racism

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Speaker 13: Yep.

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Speaker 2: So that's exactly what it was.

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Speaker 1: So it's, by the way, one of his only songs

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Speaker 2: That's crazy.

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Speaker 1: But the song and the video imagine a world where

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Speaker 13: They showed you.

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Speaker 10: I mean, that's how you do it.

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Speaker 2: And then they have a new rule now where they

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Speaker 10: A backup, a backup performer.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, just a case.

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Speaker 1: Because he was like, hey, Joby there, Yeah, bon Job's

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Speaker 2: And they did. They played it, played the video.

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Speaker 13: Good cast up, little food for yourself.

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Speaker 1: Life.

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Speaker 2: Oh it's pretty bad.

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Speaker 13: It's pretty beautiful, beautiful for.

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Speaker 1: A little more exciting, of course, said he can.

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Speaker 14: So let's jump into the dating side of divorce. And

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Speaker 11: Well, let me comey at this by saying that I

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Speaker 11: It takes two to tango right. You're in a relationship

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Speaker 11: at this point in my life? What do I really want?

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Speaker 11: What have I learned from the relationship that I'm getting

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Speaker 11: to bring all that crap to someone else. Hurt someone else,

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Speaker 11: there are people who rebound immediately and start dating, go

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Speaker 11: But I think personally, from what I see in my experience,

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Speaker 11: when you are ready, but it may take some time.

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Speaker 12: Yeah.

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Speaker 14: I think that my fear around realizing that I was

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Speaker 11: I know guys who've been married four times, and I mean,

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Speaker 14: Are apps like the way to go when you're thinking

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Speaker 14: of times when you threw that out there, and I

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Speaker 11: Oh yeah, totally weird. I'm at fifties. So when I

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Speaker 11: I think there's a usefulness to them. They are apps

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Speaker 11: it's a part of the game, but it's also a

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Speaker 11: of them. But my wife and I connected on an app.

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Speaker 11: So when I met my wife for the first time

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Speaker 11: We took a walk in April of twenty twenty. And

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Speaker 11: my marriage and for my relationship. But I think that

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Speaker 11: you've got to know who you are and what you

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Speaker 11: you know, or worse.

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Speaker 14: That sounds exhausting.

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Speaker 11: Oh yeah, I mean I think they're exhausting, and I

444
00:20:37,720 --> 00:20:41,960
Speaker 11: think the in dosents very healthy and important part of

445
00:20:42,000 --> 00:20:46,200
Speaker 11: getting back out there because the personal networks that got

446
00:20:46,240 --> 00:20:50,800
Speaker 11: disrupted during COVID. Many people live in smaller towns. Even

447
00:20:50,880 --> 00:20:53,639
Speaker 11: a big city becomes a small town on the apps.

448
00:20:54,080 --> 00:20:57,280
Speaker 11: Maybe not New York City, maybe not LA. But I've

449
00:20:57,320 --> 00:21:01,520
Speaker 11: got friends, for instance, in Knoxville or Cincinnati or that

450
00:21:01,600 --> 00:21:03,480
Speaker 11: are you know, like a small to mid size city,

451
00:21:03,920 --> 00:21:07,240
Speaker 11: those become small. I mean, I live in the San

452
00:21:07,280 --> 00:21:10,080
Speaker 11: Francisco Bay Area, south of San Francisco, in a suburb,

453
00:21:10,119 --> 00:21:11,959
Speaker 11: and I remember when I was on the app Samy.

454
00:21:12,280 --> 00:21:14,400
Speaker 11: I was running a fairly large company at the time,

455
00:21:14,800 --> 00:21:17,760
Speaker 11: and I didn't think about this, but I put myself

456
00:21:17,800 --> 00:21:19,760
Speaker 11: on the apps. I got out there and I started

457
00:21:19,800 --> 00:21:24,000
Speaker 11: seeing people in my company on the apps, and I thought, oh,

458
00:21:24,320 --> 00:21:28,120
Speaker 11: they're seeing me. Of course, because I'm seeing them. What

459
00:21:28,160 --> 00:21:31,520
Speaker 11: the heck. So it's not what you think in some respects,

460
00:21:31,760 --> 00:21:33,680
Speaker 11: but I think an important part of the mix.

461
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Speaker 5: The thing is too.

462
00:21:35,240 --> 00:21:37,600
Speaker 14: Like you said, you're seeing them, they're seeing you, and

463
00:21:37,600 --> 00:21:41,520
Speaker 14: it's like, Okay, we're all trying to figure this thing out.

464
00:21:41,960 --> 00:21:45,159
Speaker 14: I've only done hinge and let me tell you something

465
00:21:45,320 --> 00:21:48,639
Speaker 14: that makes me cringe. And maybe you're into this. I

466
00:21:48,680 --> 00:21:50,800
Speaker 14: don't know, but you know the little how you have

467
00:21:50,880 --> 00:21:54,040
Speaker 14: the option to like say something and you can hit

468
00:21:54,080 --> 00:21:57,200
Speaker 14: the voice yes. To me, it's like less is more

469
00:21:57,280 --> 00:22:00,560
Speaker 14: like I'd rather just know sort of the fact about you,

470
00:22:01,000 --> 00:22:03,840
Speaker 14: what you're looking for. You can be direct in certain things,

471
00:22:03,840 --> 00:22:06,359
Speaker 14: but then those options that allow you to get a

472
00:22:06,400 --> 00:22:09,560
Speaker 14: little bit more personal, Like anytime I hit play, Like

473
00:22:09,600 --> 00:22:11,800
Speaker 14: sometimes for entertainment, we would just hit play and like

474
00:22:11,880 --> 00:22:15,639
Speaker 14: listen to what they would say, and the voice recordings

475
00:22:15,680 --> 00:22:18,680
Speaker 14: always made me cringe. Like on the profile, it wasn't

476
00:22:18,680 --> 00:22:21,920
Speaker 14: a message like to me, it was just on their

477
00:22:21,960 --> 00:22:25,359
Speaker 14: main page like they'd tell some story or say a joke.

478
00:22:25,560 --> 00:22:28,560
Speaker 14: And any thoughts on profiles.

479
00:22:28,200 --> 00:22:30,680
Speaker 11: My biggest thing for a profile would be be real

480
00:22:30,960 --> 00:22:33,359
Speaker 11: in terms of who you are. If you have kids,

481
00:22:33,400 --> 00:22:36,280
Speaker 11: celebrate that you have kids, if you have certain religious faith,

482
00:22:36,320 --> 00:22:38,159
Speaker 11: put it out there who you are in terms of

483
00:22:38,160 --> 00:22:39,800
Speaker 11: what you really like to do and how you spend

484
00:22:39,800 --> 00:22:42,480
Speaker 11: your time. Let people know who you are. Do I

485
00:22:42,520 --> 00:22:43,960
Speaker 11: want to have more kids, so I not want to

486
00:22:43,960 --> 00:22:47,639
Speaker 11: have more kids. Anything that helps select out the wrong

487
00:22:47,680 --> 00:22:49,720
Speaker 11: people and select them the right people. And in terms

488
00:22:49,720 --> 00:22:52,920
Speaker 11: of that voice piece, I mean, you're you're a personality,

489
00:22:53,080 --> 00:22:54,879
Speaker 11: So what people are going to do is they're going

490
00:22:54,920 --> 00:22:59,160
Speaker 11: to try to backwards engineer googling you and finding you right,

491
00:22:59,240 --> 00:23:01,200
Speaker 11: which is not that hard to do. It's pretty easy

492
00:23:01,240 --> 00:23:03,280
Speaker 11: to find people in terms of who they are and

493
00:23:03,280 --> 00:23:05,199
Speaker 11: match them up with their profile. It's the other thing

494
00:23:05,240 --> 00:23:08,040
Speaker 11: I think you should expect, but do what you feel

495
00:23:08,080 --> 00:23:10,240
Speaker 11: comfortable with. You know, a lot of pictures are you know,

496
00:23:10,320 --> 00:23:15,359
Speaker 11: quadruple filtered and don't really look like the person, which

497
00:23:15,400 --> 00:23:17,879
Speaker 11: is another thing that I recommend against.

498
00:23:18,200 --> 00:23:19,760
Speaker 14: Oh, putting up filtered photos.

499
00:23:20,119 --> 00:23:23,280
Speaker 11: Well, I mean filtered. There's filtered, then there's like altered.

500
00:23:23,600 --> 00:23:26,080
Speaker 11: That's another big aspect that I think is a negative.

501
00:23:39,280 --> 00:23:40,359
Speaker 2: We're gonna do it live.

502
00:23:41,880 --> 00:23:46,680
Speaker 15: Oh the one, two, three, sore losers?

503
00:23:46,840 --> 00:23:49,120
Speaker 13: What up, everybody? I am lunchbox. I know the most

504
00:23:49,160 --> 00:23:52,160
Speaker 13: about sports. I'll give you the sports facts, my sports

505
00:23:52,200 --> 00:23:55,920
Speaker 13: opinions because I'm pretty much a sports genius, y'all.

506
00:23:56,000 --> 00:23:58,320
Speaker 15: It's Sison. I'm from the North. I'm an alpha male.

507
00:23:58,359 --> 00:24:00,600
Speaker 15: I live on the north side of Nashville with Baser,

508
00:24:00,680 --> 00:24:02,600
Speaker 15: my wife. We do have a farm. It's beautiful, a

509
00:24:02,640 --> 00:24:06,480
Speaker 15: lot of acreage, no animals, a lot of crops, hopefully

510
00:24:06,520 --> 00:24:12,440
Speaker 15: soon corn pumpkins, rye. I believe maybe a little fescue

511
00:24:12,840 --> 00:24:13,800
Speaker 15: to be determined.

512
00:24:14,880 --> 00:24:15,639
Speaker 2: Over to you, coach.

513
00:24:16,720 --> 00:24:18,960
Speaker 13: And here's a clip from this week's episode of The

514
00:24:18,960 --> 00:24:25,119
Speaker 13: Sore Losers. Right, baby Box don't like being called baby box,

515
00:24:25,200 --> 00:24:26,240
Speaker 13: but anyway.

516
00:24:26,119 --> 00:24:28,680
Speaker 15: Yeah, we learned on the podcast also when he tried

517
00:24:28,720 --> 00:24:30,600
Speaker 15: to throw his trash right next to my feet.

518
00:24:31,000 --> 00:24:35,040
Speaker 13: He started kindergarten and we started putting him on the bus.

519
00:24:35,560 --> 00:24:39,040
Speaker 13: And let me tell you this, dude loves the bus.

520
00:24:39,400 --> 00:24:43,280
Speaker 13: Night nanny can't drive. Now night nanny can't drive, can't drive,

521
00:24:43,320 --> 00:24:45,600
Speaker 13: doesn't have a has to get home. You know, their

522
00:24:45,920 --> 00:24:48,960
Speaker 13: shift ends at seven, bus comes at like seven thirty,

523
00:24:48,960 --> 00:24:51,359
Speaker 13: seven forty five, something like that. I don't know. But

524
00:24:52,920 --> 00:24:55,000
Speaker 13: he told my wife after four days on the bus,

525
00:24:56,520 --> 00:24:58,879
Speaker 13: we always meet him at the bus stop after school,

526
00:24:59,160 --> 00:25:00,920
Speaker 13: see him get off the us, give him big hug.

527
00:25:01,000 --> 00:25:03,640
Speaker 13: Let's go dude. You know guess what, he'll never remember

528
00:25:03,680 --> 00:25:08,680
Speaker 13: that continue. After four days he told my wife, oh no,

529
00:25:10,119 --> 00:25:14,800
Speaker 13: oh no, no, he said, this is this is bad.

530
00:25:15,280 --> 00:25:17,400
Speaker 13: She was waiting for him when he's good. This is bad.

531
00:25:18,640 --> 00:25:20,320
Speaker 13: After the fourth day of the bus she's sitting there

532
00:25:20,320 --> 00:25:24,879
Speaker 13: at the bus stop. It's a Friday afternoon. I was

533
00:25:24,920 --> 00:25:27,400
Speaker 13: on the golf course and she texted me Hey, you're

534
00:25:27,400 --> 00:25:30,560
Speaker 13: going to be back for bus stop pick up. I said, nope,

535
00:25:31,160 --> 00:25:33,160
Speaker 13: not going to finish in time. She said, okay, that's cool,

536
00:25:33,480 --> 00:25:36,040
Speaker 13: see when you get home. And when I got home,

537
00:25:36,080 --> 00:25:39,280
Speaker 13: she goes, I was waiting at the bus stop and

538
00:25:39,320 --> 00:25:43,119
Speaker 13: he came bounding down those stairs off the bus and

539
00:25:43,200 --> 00:25:46,920
Speaker 13: he gave me a hug. Oh no. He looked at

540
00:25:46,920 --> 00:25:50,320
Speaker 13: me in the eyes and said, Mom, I don't want

541
00:25:50,320 --> 00:25:54,280
Speaker 13: you to wait at the bus stop. I know, I

542
00:25:54,440 --> 00:25:54,960
Speaker 13: knew it.

543
00:25:55,680 --> 00:26:02,959
Speaker 2: They grow up so fast, dude, he heart. He doesn't

544
00:26:03,000 --> 00:26:04,480
Speaker 2: watch you guys around.

545
00:26:05,000 --> 00:26:10,399
Speaker 15: Okay, so I'm gonna miss those four days. He told

546
00:26:10,400 --> 00:26:13,720
Speaker 15: you to get the inside. Dude, I don't need your

547
00:26:13,800 --> 00:26:14,600
Speaker 15: ass out here.

548
00:26:16,080 --> 00:26:19,560
Speaker 13: My wife said, oh, I said, well, what do you mean?

549
00:26:20,080 --> 00:26:22,600
Speaker 13: He goes, Mom, just stay on the porch.

550
00:26:26,280 --> 00:26:27,960
Speaker 15: Dad's already in the shadows.

551
00:26:28,480 --> 00:26:30,879
Speaker 13: And she goes, but it's I like to see you

552
00:26:30,880 --> 00:26:33,840
Speaker 13: get off the bus. He goes, it's only four houses, Mom,

553
00:26:34,160 --> 00:26:35,720
Speaker 13: I'll just walk home by myself.

554
00:26:35,880 --> 00:26:39,439
Speaker 15: Oh my gosh, dude, cat's in the cradle in the

555
00:26:39,480 --> 00:26:40,240
Speaker 15: silver spoon.

556
00:26:41,160 --> 00:26:45,480
Speaker 13: And my wife's heart broke into a million pieces. I'll

557
00:26:45,520 --> 00:26:48,680
Speaker 13: wait until he kisses another woman. And I mean, she said,

558
00:26:49,240 --> 00:26:51,800
Speaker 13: oh my god, I knew he was going to grow up,

559
00:26:51,800 --> 00:26:53,919
Speaker 13: and I knew that he was gonna want to do things.

560
00:26:55,080 --> 00:26:58,200
Speaker 13: I'm sorry, she said.

561
00:26:58,359 --> 00:27:02,480
Speaker 15: He said, what, honey, after four days and you missed

562
00:27:02,520 --> 00:27:03,159
Speaker 15: out on it.

563
00:27:03,280 --> 00:27:07,280
Speaker 13: He's already kicking me off the bus stop. What about

564
00:27:07,320 --> 00:27:08,560
Speaker 13: your dad? Old pal?

565
00:27:08,720 --> 00:27:10,160
Speaker 2: You care if I'm down there?

566
00:27:10,640 --> 00:27:14,480
Speaker 13: Four days and he's already had enough of me going

567
00:27:14,520 --> 00:27:15,480
Speaker 13: to the bus stop.

568
00:27:15,240 --> 00:27:18,200
Speaker 15: With dude, it's cooler you walk home on the sidewalk,

569
00:27:18,280 --> 00:27:20,639
Speaker 15: then you wave to the pearance on the patio or whatever.

570
00:27:20,880 --> 00:27:23,000
Speaker 13: Then he thinks he's a badass. All of a sudden,

571
00:27:23,040 --> 00:27:26,919
Speaker 13: he has all his independence. We had a babysitter, and

572
00:27:26,960 --> 00:27:29,720
Speaker 13: he tells the babysitter, Oh, yeah, I'll be back. I'm

573
00:27:29,760 --> 00:27:31,680
Speaker 13: just gonna go ride my bike to my friend's house.

574
00:27:32,160 --> 00:27:35,479
Speaker 13: Excuse me, we don't let you do that. Well, no,

575
00:27:35,680 --> 00:27:37,480
Speaker 13: he's never wanted to do that before. But all of

576
00:27:37,480 --> 00:27:40,479
Speaker 13: a sudden, he's been in kindergarten for five days and

577
00:27:40,520 --> 00:27:44,400
Speaker 13: he wants to go ride his bike to his friend's house. Yo, man, Yeah,

578
00:27:44,440 --> 00:27:47,080
Speaker 13: out riding. He's kicking us from the bus stop. You're

579
00:27:47,080 --> 00:27:51,200
Speaker 13: about to pull up. He's riding his bike to friend's house.

580
00:27:51,560 --> 00:27:53,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, dad, we'll just pull up. I'll let you know

581
00:27:53,880 --> 00:27:54,760
Speaker 2: when I pull up.

582
00:27:54,880 --> 00:27:56,880
Speaker 13: My wife didn't agree to the bus stop thing. She said,

583
00:27:56,920 --> 00:27:58,240
Speaker 13: I'll wait two houses down.

584
00:27:58,800 --> 00:28:01,680
Speaker 15: Yeah, because also, I mean, listen, son, I love that

585
00:28:01,720 --> 00:28:03,920
Speaker 15: you're growing up. You're gonna get kidnapped in these streets.

586
00:28:04,320 --> 00:28:07,440
Speaker 13: No, I'm not worried about kidnapping. That's weird. I don't

587
00:28:07,440 --> 00:28:09,840
Speaker 13: worry about that. Oh, because you know, most kidnappings are

588
00:28:09,840 --> 00:28:13,320
Speaker 13: someone that you know, like stat, Like, if you look

589
00:28:13,359 --> 00:28:13,800
Speaker 13: it up.

590
00:28:14,040 --> 00:28:15,080
Speaker 15: You're like bazer dude.

591
00:28:15,119 --> 00:28:15,960
Speaker 2: She looks over at me.

592
00:28:16,160 --> 00:28:16,880
Speaker 13: You know, most of the.

593
00:28:16,800 --> 00:28:18,800
Speaker 15: Time when a woman gets killed, it's by her own husband.

594
00:28:18,840 --> 00:28:21,119
Speaker 15: I'm like, nice, stat, I'm not gonna kill you. I'm

595
00:28:21,160 --> 00:28:25,040
Speaker 15: going to bed, good night, thanks for bringing She looks

596
00:28:25,320 --> 00:28:28,400
Speaker 15: righty like I'm gonna killer. I've got better things to do.

597
00:28:28,560 --> 00:28:32,040
Speaker 15: I'm a little preoccupied with the big show. Trust me,

598
00:28:32,680 --> 00:28:34,520
Speaker 15: I'm not planning a killing.

599
00:28:34,760 --> 00:28:38,000
Speaker 13: Yes, sorry, good We got Landy Wilson coming in next week.

600
00:28:38,080 --> 00:28:40,640
Speaker 13: I can't I can't miss that. Have you ever seen

601
00:28:40,680 --> 00:28:41,520
Speaker 13: me when I come home.

602
00:28:41,640 --> 00:28:45,719
Speaker 15: I'm dog ass tired, Like I'm the least threatening person

603
00:28:45,800 --> 00:28:48,440
Speaker 15: there is. You could easily kill me with a fucking

604
00:28:48,560 --> 00:28:49,320
Speaker 15: butter knife.

605
00:28:49,960 --> 00:28:52,680
Speaker 13: Keep that. Yeah, you have a better chance of killing

606
00:28:52,720 --> 00:28:55,840
Speaker 13: me because I go to bed purs like, I go

607
00:28:55,960 --> 00:28:57,959
Speaker 13: to sleep a lot earlier than you do, so you

608
00:28:57,960 --> 00:28:59,800
Speaker 13: could probably take me out if you wanted to.

609
00:29:00,080 --> 00:29:04,600
Speaker 15: Trust me, I'll turn the knife are out and put

610
00:29:04,640 --> 00:29:05,680
Speaker 15: it back in the drawer.

611
00:29:06,280 --> 00:29:09,320
Speaker 13: Yeah, yeah, I gotta do that. But then we got

612
00:29:09,360 --> 00:29:14,440
Speaker 13: an incident on the bus. Is that worth a commercial break? Oh,

613
00:29:14,520 --> 00:29:16,640
Speaker 13: we're going into it. He gets off the bus and

614
00:29:16,680 --> 00:29:18,920
Speaker 13: he comes jogging. You know, we gotta have a name

615
00:29:18,960 --> 00:29:21,680
Speaker 13: for this segment. And he gives us a big hug

616
00:29:21,720 --> 00:29:24,040
Speaker 13: and he's like, I'm not the last one on the

617
00:29:24,040 --> 00:29:26,960
Speaker 13: bus today. And I'm like, what, because he's always the

618
00:29:27,040 --> 00:29:28,800
Speaker 13: last one on the bus. He's the last stop.

619
00:29:28,920 --> 00:29:30,280
Speaker 2: Dude, what a brutal break.

620
00:29:30,720 --> 00:29:34,040
Speaker 13: And he's like, yeah, Pamela is still on the bus.

621
00:29:35,240 --> 00:29:38,440
Speaker 13: And I'm like, but Pamela lives on the front side

622
00:29:38,440 --> 00:29:41,160
Speaker 13: of the neighborhood, like her stop is one of the

623
00:29:41,160 --> 00:29:44,600
Speaker 13: first ones. And he goes, yeah, she got off the

624
00:29:44,640 --> 00:29:46,640
Speaker 13: bus and went to her front door, but her door

625
00:29:46,760 --> 00:29:49,760
Speaker 13: was locked, so she had to get back on the bus.

626
00:29:51,800 --> 00:29:57,440
Speaker 13: He brought Pamela home and I'm like, oh, like, so

627
00:29:57,560 --> 00:30:00,280
Speaker 13: her parents weren't there. He goes, I guess not, but

628
00:30:00,360 --> 00:30:04,800
Speaker 13: she doesn't have anywhere to go. He's already bringing Pammy.

629
00:30:06,120 --> 00:30:10,000
Speaker 13: And my wife's like, oh, well, let me call Pamela's mom.

630
00:30:10,600 --> 00:30:13,320
Speaker 13: Luckily my wife knows the mom calls her says, hey,

631
00:30:14,120 --> 00:30:16,240
Speaker 13: you know, Pamela got off the bus at your house,

632
00:30:16,280 --> 00:30:18,400
Speaker 13: but the door was line, so she's back on the bus.

633
00:30:19,360 --> 00:30:21,640
Speaker 13: And she said, oh no, no, no, she was supposed to

634
00:30:21,640 --> 00:30:25,240
Speaker 13: stay it after schoolcare. We're both at the office today,

635
00:30:25,320 --> 00:30:28,880
Speaker 13: so there's no one home. Yeah, your kids bounce around Broadway.

636
00:30:28,960 --> 00:30:32,680
Speaker 13: So the bus makes a loop around the block and

637
00:30:32,720 --> 00:30:35,600
Speaker 13: I have to wave down the bus flag it down.

638
00:30:36,280 --> 00:30:38,760
Speaker 13: What a time in the streets, dude. And the bus

639
00:30:38,880 --> 00:30:41,240
Speaker 13: driver's like, oh, well, you take Pamela. And I'm like, yeah,

640
00:30:41,280 --> 00:30:42,320
Speaker 13: Pamela can come with us.

641
00:30:42,440 --> 00:30:44,560
Speaker 15: The bus drivers like, I'm making like twenty an hour,

642
00:30:44,640 --> 00:30:46,360
Speaker 15: can y'all people seriously pick off?

643
00:30:47,080 --> 00:30:50,000
Speaker 13: And so Pamela came bounding down the bus, had a

644
00:30:50,000 --> 00:30:52,360
Speaker 13: little bit of fear in her eyes, like, oh my gosh,

645
00:30:52,400 --> 00:30:54,720
Speaker 13: Like where am I supposed to go? And so she

646
00:30:54,800 --> 00:30:57,280
Speaker 13: came to our house. I'm your new dad, and we

647
00:30:57,320 --> 00:30:59,400
Speaker 13: gave her a little snack, We played a little bit.

648
00:30:59,520 --> 00:31:01,960
Speaker 13: Mom said, oh, her dad's gonna come get her. You know,

649
00:31:02,000 --> 00:31:04,040
Speaker 13: he has a stopping point he can come and finish

650
00:31:04,120 --> 00:31:06,280
Speaker 13: his work from home. So he shows up at the

651
00:31:06,320 --> 00:31:12,280
Speaker 13: house and he's like, all, hey, Jim, what are you doing. Pamla.

652
00:31:12,320 --> 00:31:14,440
Speaker 13: You were supposed to stay after school. She goes, I

653
00:31:14,560 --> 00:31:17,680
Speaker 13: forgot I got on the bus. And he goes and

654
00:31:17,680 --> 00:31:19,280
Speaker 13: he asked me. He goes, so, why'd you get her

655
00:31:19,320 --> 00:31:23,680
Speaker 13: off the bus? I'm like, well, what did you I mean,

656
00:31:23,840 --> 00:31:27,480
Speaker 13: you guys weren't home, Like the door was locked. He goes, Oh,

657
00:31:27,680 --> 00:31:30,520
Speaker 13: I just assumed the bus would take her back to school.

658
00:31:31,520 --> 00:31:35,240
Speaker 13: Parents in twenty twenty four, now that sales call was

659
00:31:35,280 --> 00:31:38,160
Speaker 13: a little bit more important than your kid. I'm like,

660
00:31:38,600 --> 00:31:40,240
Speaker 13: so you would have rather me just left her on

661
00:31:40,280 --> 00:31:42,040
Speaker 13: the bus, And I hope the bus was gonna just

662
00:31:42,080 --> 00:31:43,120
Speaker 13: take her back to school.

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00:31:46,360 --> 00:31:48,480
Speaker 16: Hey, it's Mike de and this week a movie Mike's

664
00:31:48,520 --> 00:31:51,000
Speaker 16: Movie Podcast. I head on Luke Hemsworth. He's the brother

665
00:31:51,080 --> 00:31:54,240
Speaker 16: to Chris Liam Hemsworth. I talked him all about how

666
00:31:54,360 --> 00:31:56,720
Speaker 16: he and his brothers got started acting. I think we

667
00:31:56,800 --> 00:31:58,720
Speaker 16: bonded a bit because me and my brother both started

668
00:31:58,720 --> 00:32:00,840
Speaker 16: out playing music together. That was kind of our dream.

669
00:32:01,080 --> 00:32:03,720
Speaker 16: It seems like acting was that for his family and

670
00:32:03,720 --> 00:32:05,560
Speaker 16: it worked out a lot better for him and his

671
00:32:05,640 --> 00:32:07,680
Speaker 16: brothers than it did with me and my brother. But

672
00:32:07,840 --> 00:32:10,000
Speaker 16: he's still doing the music thing. We also talked about

673
00:32:10,000 --> 00:32:12,520
Speaker 16: the physical toll his new movie Gunner took on him.

674
00:32:12,640 --> 00:32:14,440
Speaker 16: So be sure to check out this full episode a

675
00:32:14,440 --> 00:32:16,760
Speaker 16: Movie Mike's Movie Podcast. But right now, here's a little

676
00:32:16,800 --> 00:32:20,640
Speaker 16: bit of my interview with Luke Hemsworth. I gotta imagine

677
00:32:20,680 --> 00:32:24,520
Speaker 16: as an actor, doing an American accent is probably hard.

678
00:32:25,120 --> 00:32:26,040
Speaker 13: What word would you.

679
00:32:26,040 --> 00:32:27,480
Speaker 2: Say in the English language?

680
00:32:27,880 --> 00:32:30,479
Speaker 16: An American accent is like the hardest to get down

681
00:32:30,520 --> 00:32:31,840
Speaker 16: where it's like, oh, that kind of gives it away.

682
00:32:31,880 --> 00:32:32,680
Speaker 16: Then I'm Australian.

683
00:32:33,400 --> 00:32:34,960
Speaker 2: There's a few.

684
00:32:34,800 --> 00:32:37,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, and very early on in your career, the people

685
00:32:37,840 --> 00:32:41,600
Speaker 3: are quat uh you know qua liberal was telling you

686
00:32:41,680 --> 00:32:43,920
Speaker 3: that when your accent is bad and what where is

687
00:32:43,960 --> 00:32:47,040
Speaker 3: it pulping out? One of them for me is is

688
00:32:47,040 --> 00:32:50,360
Speaker 3: is we say, being in Australia, where have you been? BWn?

689
00:32:50,480 --> 00:32:51,400
Speaker 13: Where's the American side?

690
00:32:51,440 --> 00:32:54,040
Speaker 3: Ben? Where you been? That's a dead givea wires is

691
00:32:54,080 --> 00:32:57,320
Speaker 3: when you're doing your accent and then those kinds of

692
00:32:57,320 --> 00:33:01,160
Speaker 3: words slipping. But I actually I go but I got

693
00:33:01,200 --> 00:33:03,080
Speaker 3: what let go of a job very early and it

694
00:33:03,120 --> 00:33:06,320
Speaker 3: starts because my accident wasn't good enough, and so I

695
00:33:06,360 --> 00:33:08,640
Speaker 3: spent I spent a lot of time and effort American

696
00:33:08,720 --> 00:33:11,160
Speaker 3: sure that it's it's as good as good as they

697
00:33:11,160 --> 00:33:11,400
Speaker 3: can be.

698
00:33:12,760 --> 00:33:16,440
Speaker 17: Hopefully, Hopefully I put all those things to bread. It's

699
00:33:16,520 --> 00:33:18,920
Speaker 17: kind of been grinding down. People who live here at

700
00:33:18,920 --> 00:33:21,120
Speaker 17: Straka are like, why is your accident sound weird? Because

701
00:33:21,200 --> 00:33:24,200
Speaker 17: there's just americanisms that I've part of the way that

702
00:33:24,240 --> 00:33:24,800
Speaker 17: I speak now.

703
00:33:24,920 --> 00:33:26,920
Speaker 16: I was talking to Dmitri about the movie and how

704
00:33:26,960 --> 00:33:29,320
Speaker 16: it was kind of nostalgic for me, reminding me of

705
00:33:29,360 --> 00:33:31,840
Speaker 16: movies that I used to watch with my dad. Because

706
00:33:32,120 --> 00:33:34,040
Speaker 16: not really in the movies at all, but if you

707
00:33:34,040 --> 00:33:36,080
Speaker 16: put on an action movie where it's people beating each

708
00:33:36,080 --> 00:33:38,560
Speaker 16: other up, he's all in on it. And for you,

709
00:33:39,200 --> 00:33:41,520
Speaker 16: who are those action stars that maybe you watch as

710
00:33:41,520 --> 00:33:43,480
Speaker 16: a kid of like, Oh, someday I want to be

711
00:33:43,520 --> 00:33:44,959
Speaker 16: an actor like them in a movie.

712
00:33:45,080 --> 00:33:47,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I love I love Van Dam I

713
00:33:48,080 --> 00:33:51,360
Speaker 3: love yeah everything that he did. You know, I remember

714
00:33:51,400 --> 00:33:54,840
Speaker 3: watching Kickboxing and courting every word from Blood Sport. I

715
00:33:54,920 --> 00:33:56,680
Speaker 3: think I think I still do with a couple of

716
00:33:56,720 --> 00:33:59,160
Speaker 3: my buddies that we used to watch it with. Saloon

717
00:34:00,200 --> 00:34:03,640
Speaker 3: you know Schwarzenegger. I think you know, I think Terminator

718
00:34:03,680 --> 00:34:06,280
Speaker 3: two and Terminator Terminator one and two or two of

719
00:34:06,320 --> 00:34:11,520
Speaker 3: the gross movies ever. Aliens. Yeah, I I those those

720
00:34:11,560 --> 00:34:16,160
Speaker 3: action films of that that era were so fundamental. I

721
00:34:16,160 --> 00:34:19,680
Speaker 3: think in my career that were that were a big

722
00:34:19,719 --> 00:34:20,160
Speaker 3: part of me.

723
00:34:20,280 --> 00:34:22,280
Speaker 13: Wanted to you wanted to just play as.

724
00:34:22,160 --> 00:34:25,200
Speaker 3: A human bringing too. You know, you're you're out there

725
00:34:25,239 --> 00:34:29,440
Speaker 3: emulating there's these men who are who are men who

726
00:34:29,440 --> 00:34:33,520
Speaker 3: are getting the job done. You know I'm doing it

727
00:34:33,560 --> 00:34:37,439
Speaker 3: with wonderful one liners out the side of their mouth. Yeah.

728
00:34:37,920 --> 00:34:38,640
Speaker 2: Bruce Lee too.

729
00:34:38,760 --> 00:34:41,080
Speaker 3: I really loved Bruce Lee.

730
00:34:41,120 --> 00:34:43,359
Speaker 16: Growing up, I wanted to be a rock star, and

731
00:34:43,480 --> 00:34:45,440
Speaker 16: my brother and I started a punk band when I

732
00:34:45,480 --> 00:34:48,080
Speaker 16: was like thirteen years old. I played guitar, he played drums,

733
00:34:48,520 --> 00:34:50,400
Speaker 16: and that was like always a passion of mine. And

734
00:34:50,400 --> 00:34:52,040
Speaker 16: it was because you know, with me and my brother

735
00:34:52,120 --> 00:34:55,680
Speaker 16: doing something, you and your brothers are all actors. Was

736
00:34:55,680 --> 00:34:58,320
Speaker 16: that like a thing like you all wanted to be actors?

737
00:34:58,400 --> 00:35:01,279
Speaker 16: Or did somebody get the acting bug first? How did

738
00:35:01,320 --> 00:35:02,440
Speaker 16: that all just unfold?

739
00:35:02,680 --> 00:35:05,440
Speaker 3: I think we just all love playing and you know,

740
00:35:05,600 --> 00:35:08,680
Speaker 3: like you said, you formed the punk band and we

741
00:35:08,680 --> 00:35:12,040
Speaker 3: we would just we would role play. We would make

742
00:35:12,120 --> 00:35:16,120
Speaker 3: wooden swords and wooden guns, and my mom would hide

743
00:35:16,200 --> 00:35:16,680
Speaker 3: the TV.

744
00:35:17,239 --> 00:35:18,359
Speaker 2: You literally carry the.

745
00:35:18,320 --> 00:35:21,160
Speaker 3: TV downstairs and put it in the in the wardrobe,

746
00:35:21,680 --> 00:35:23,920
Speaker 3: and we would have no TV. And so we were

747
00:35:24,000 --> 00:35:27,960
Speaker 3: forced to forced to, you know, ride our own strips,

748
00:35:28,000 --> 00:35:33,520
Speaker 3: and we had flood guns and all sorts of stuff.

749
00:35:33,560 --> 00:35:36,359
Speaker 3: And would you I would dress my brothers up and

750
00:35:36,560 --> 00:35:39,040
Speaker 3: you know, tell them to run because it will hurt

751
00:35:39,040 --> 00:35:41,680
Speaker 3: more the closer you are, you know, Like, I think

752
00:35:41,719 --> 00:35:44,680
Speaker 3: I think that's a big part of it. I think

753
00:35:45,200 --> 00:35:47,440
Speaker 3: a big part of it is neither none of us

754
00:35:47,440 --> 00:35:50,440
Speaker 3: are any good at anything else either. But I went

755
00:35:50,440 --> 00:35:52,799
Speaker 3: to university, you know, I I went and studied that.

756
00:35:53,560 --> 00:35:56,560
Speaker 3: Maybe I started it, but I think three years of

757
00:35:56,600 --> 00:36:00,719
Speaker 3: the contemporary arts, majored in drama, and then onto, you know,

758
00:36:00,800 --> 00:36:04,879
Speaker 3: straying shap operas and straying film and television from there

759
00:36:05,280 --> 00:36:08,799
Speaker 3: and then finally to the US. But yeah, I don't

760
00:36:08,840 --> 00:36:10,560
Speaker 3: know what it is. I don't know their answers to that.

761
00:36:10,920 --> 00:36:12,080
Speaker 17: Other than that, other.

762
00:36:11,960 --> 00:36:14,040
Speaker 18: Than we all like to just look to have fun.

763
00:36:14,080 --> 00:36:16,839
Speaker 18: But you know, I also think I also think it's

764
00:36:17,840 --> 00:36:20,480
Speaker 18: excuse my language, you know, acting is acting is very,

765
00:36:20,560 --> 00:36:24,360
Speaker 18: very difficult, and I think that's an attractive part for

766
00:36:24,400 --> 00:36:27,319
Speaker 18: all of us as well, is that it mixes both

767
00:36:27,560 --> 00:36:29,799
Speaker 18: the ability to have a good time with something that's

768
00:36:30,000 --> 00:36:36,640
Speaker 18: incredibly precise and an inventive and very hard to do it,

769
00:36:36,960 --> 00:36:37,680
Speaker 18: how to do well.

770
00:36:37,760 --> 00:36:39,799
Speaker 16: So somewhere out there there's a script that you wrote

771
00:36:39,840 --> 00:36:41,719
Speaker 16: with all your brothers. Did you, guys, ever film any

772
00:36:41,760 --> 00:36:43,640
Speaker 16: of that? Is there like a video, like a like

773
00:36:43,640 --> 00:36:45,399
Speaker 16: a test movie out there?

774
00:36:45,840 --> 00:36:46,319
Speaker 13: One day?

775
00:36:46,560 --> 00:36:49,839
Speaker 3: I hope one day, one day that's the dream. There'll

776
00:36:49,880 --> 00:36:53,080
Speaker 3: be no action, it will just be three of us.

777
00:36:54,520 --> 00:36:56,359
Speaker 13: Thanks for talking with me, cheers man.

778
00:36:56,400 --> 00:37:10,800
Speaker 19: Thanks very much, Carne, she's a queen and talking to

779
00:37:10,880 --> 00:37:11,720
Speaker 19: you song.

780
00:37:13,560 --> 00:37:14,759
Speaker 5: She's getting really.

781
00:37:14,480 --> 00:37:17,680
Speaker 20: Not afraid to feel this episode, so just let it flow.

782
00:37:18,200 --> 00:37:25,120
Speaker 20: No one can do we quiet care line. It is sounding, Carolyn.

783
00:37:26,480 --> 00:37:32,200
Speaker 21: But the whole album is very sensual sexual you think, yes,

784
00:37:32,360 --> 00:37:35,279
Speaker 21: sexual talking about like laying in bed, put your hand

785
00:37:35,280 --> 00:37:37,239
Speaker 21: on my face like So.

786
00:37:37,400 --> 00:37:40,439
Speaker 22: I wrote those songs trying to be in the same

787
00:37:40,480 --> 00:37:41,840
Speaker 22: veane of Loretta and Conway.

788
00:37:42,000 --> 00:37:43,960
Speaker 21: I was wondering if some of them recovers because they

789
00:37:44,000 --> 00:37:46,400
Speaker 21: felt Mary, Loretta and Conway, thank you.

790
00:37:46,320 --> 00:37:47,280
Speaker 7: That's a great compliment.

791
00:37:47,440 --> 00:37:47,480
Speaker 12: No.

792
00:37:47,680 --> 00:37:50,239
Speaker 22: I wrote those to try to feel the same bame,

793
00:37:50,320 --> 00:37:54,160
Speaker 22: which because all of theirs are about cheating and sensuality

794
00:37:54,360 --> 00:37:56,719
Speaker 22: and all that stuff, and so I was like, we

795
00:37:56,760 --> 00:37:59,040
Speaker 22: can't get away from that, like that's what we have

796
00:37:59,120 --> 00:38:03,160
Speaker 22: to sort of stay on. And so most of those

797
00:38:03,239 --> 00:38:06,080
Speaker 22: were that song that you're talking about. I wrote that

798
00:38:06,160 --> 00:38:09,279
Speaker 22: by myself, mostly sitting in my living room at home,

799
00:38:09,400 --> 00:38:11,640
Speaker 22: just going okay, like what does this look like?

800
00:38:11,640 --> 00:38:11,759
Speaker 17: Like?

801
00:38:11,800 --> 00:38:14,359
Speaker 7: What is her leave in the bedroom? Like touch your head?

802
00:38:14,440 --> 00:38:17,480
Speaker 22: Yeah, And then Mark Narmore he came in and he

803
00:38:17,520 --> 00:38:19,120
Speaker 22: had been I'll.

804
00:38:18,960 --> 00:38:21,400
Speaker 7: Never he is my always going to do with Mark Armore?

805
00:38:21,440 --> 00:38:24,160
Speaker 22: You know why because I can take him anything that

806
00:38:24,239 --> 00:38:24,960
Speaker 22: I'm thinking.

807
00:38:25,360 --> 00:38:26,239
Speaker 7: He never judges me.

808
00:38:26,280 --> 00:38:29,000
Speaker 22: And he puts music behind it and comes up with

809
00:38:29,200 --> 00:38:32,040
Speaker 22: lyrics together and we do it all over the phone

810
00:38:32,080 --> 00:38:32,719
Speaker 22: and then it's done.

811
00:38:32,880 --> 00:38:33,359
Speaker 5: That's great.

812
00:38:33,840 --> 00:38:36,920
Speaker 7: I loved it. Yeah, but they are sentual, yet they

813
00:38:36,920 --> 00:38:40,120
Speaker 7: are very central. Surely you weren't surprised. I wasn't surprised,

814
00:38:40,160 --> 00:38:41,839
Speaker 7: but I was impressed.

815
00:38:42,160 --> 00:38:47,280
Speaker 22: People people always wondered if Conway and Loretta were together.

816
00:38:47,360 --> 00:38:50,920
Speaker 7: They asked that all the time. I tell the story.

817
00:38:52,080 --> 00:38:54,880
Speaker 22: Me and while told me so, I hadn't thought much

818
00:38:54,920 --> 00:38:56,880
Speaker 22: about it when we were growing up they were on

819
00:38:56,960 --> 00:38:58,919
Speaker 22: the road together all the time, and their pictures were

820
00:38:59,040 --> 00:39:00,920
Speaker 22: you know, I'll have to go look at some of

821
00:39:00,960 --> 00:39:02,840
Speaker 22: their pictures. But now it'd be a great time in

822
00:39:02,880 --> 00:39:05,520
Speaker 22: the podcast for you to flash pictures of them holding

823
00:39:05,560 --> 00:39:09,920
Speaker 22: hands in their silk pajamas like rose petals, feeding each other.

824
00:39:09,880 --> 00:39:10,880
Speaker 7: Like face to face.

825
00:39:10,960 --> 00:39:14,440
Speaker 22: And so people would ask after all these shows, like

826
00:39:14,480 --> 00:39:17,239
Speaker 22: did Conway and Loretta ever have anything going on? And

827
00:39:17,320 --> 00:39:20,080
Speaker 22: so one night I was like, you know what, she's

828
00:39:20,160 --> 00:39:22,840
Speaker 22: retired now, Like, I bet she'll tell me and me

829
00:39:22,840 --> 00:39:25,880
Speaker 22: and Mom was always really like blunt and depending on

830
00:39:25,920 --> 00:39:27,719
Speaker 22: her answer, what I tell it or not, you know.

831
00:39:27,800 --> 00:39:30,480
Speaker 22: So I called her and I was like, mem did

832
00:39:30,520 --> 00:39:34,799
Speaker 22: you and Conway like ever even once hook up? And

833
00:39:34,880 --> 00:39:39,160
Speaker 22: she immediately goes, no, Taylor, but if I had to

834
00:39:39,239 --> 00:39:43,640
Speaker 22: do it over again, I would blaze that trail eighty

835
00:39:44,120 --> 00:39:50,239
Speaker 22: eight years old? And said she would blaze that trail

836
00:39:50,880 --> 00:39:51,359
Speaker 22: I died.

837
00:39:51,600 --> 00:39:54,439
Speaker 7: Why did she not blaze it? She said that he well,

838
00:39:54,480 --> 00:39:55,880
Speaker 7: I don't want to disrespect that.

839
00:39:56,120 --> 00:39:57,800
Speaker 22: I don't want to so she just said he was

840
00:39:57,840 --> 00:40:01,280
Speaker 22: busy a lot and so but and she also said

841
00:40:01,320 --> 00:40:04,520
Speaker 22: that he never showed interest towards her like that, like

842
00:40:04,760 --> 00:40:08,040
Speaker 22: he just wasn't, and I guess she always found him

843
00:40:08,080 --> 00:40:11,200
Speaker 22: to be attractive. But when they were out there, they

844
00:40:11,200 --> 00:40:13,640
Speaker 22: were in two different buses, they were always working like

845
00:40:13,719 --> 00:40:16,760
Speaker 22: they just never and I thought that was so funny.

846
00:40:16,800 --> 00:40:19,480
Speaker 22: And now Trey talks about like he wondered how it

847
00:40:19,520 --> 00:40:21,520
Speaker 22: could ever be like that until he had to like

848
00:40:21,560 --> 00:40:24,319
Speaker 22: basically live with me this whole time, and he's like, oh,

849
00:40:24,560 --> 00:40:27,919
Speaker 22: never were the last person on earth I would ever

850
00:40:27,960 --> 00:40:28,640
Speaker 22: want to be with.

851
00:40:28,840 --> 00:40:31,279
Speaker 7: And you do figure it out after a while, like

852
00:40:31,440 --> 00:40:31,959
Speaker 7: people are.

853
00:40:31,880 --> 00:40:34,320
Speaker 22: Like, oh, come on, and you're like, you don't understand,

854
00:40:34,440 --> 00:40:38,840
Speaker 22: Like because even Trey isn't who Trey portrays to be

855
00:40:39,000 --> 00:40:39,560
Speaker 22: on stage.

856
00:40:39,600 --> 00:40:40,960
Speaker 7: His name is Michael Jenkins.

857
00:40:41,280 --> 00:40:42,240
Speaker 5: His name's not Trey.

858
00:40:42,440 --> 00:40:45,000
Speaker 7: No, why do you go well? Conway Twitty's name is

859
00:40:45,040 --> 00:40:50,040
Speaker 7: Harold Jenkins. Would you be in love with a man

860
00:40:50,400 --> 00:40:53,200
Speaker 7: named Harold's on the radio? Or what Colley?

861
00:40:53,320 --> 00:40:58,000
Speaker 21: Possibly they weren't, I mean they weren't. You think Conway

862
00:40:58,040 --> 00:40:59,040
Speaker 21: is sexier than Harold.

863
00:40:59,160 --> 00:41:00,840
Speaker 7: I don't think either one of them. Say That's what

864
00:41:00,840 --> 00:41:02,640
Speaker 7: I'm saying. I would have picked another name, Like you know,

865
00:41:02,680 --> 00:41:04,000
Speaker 7: why not the target.

866
00:41:03,640 --> 00:41:09,320
Speaker 22: Audience like jud So, why Noah is more what you're into?

867
00:41:09,600 --> 00:41:12,359
Speaker 7: I got you I got you. I love why Noah, Judd.

868
00:41:12,800 --> 00:41:16,800
Speaker 22: I'm telling you, she has really become new to me again.

869
00:41:17,239 --> 00:41:19,960
Speaker 7: Why Nonah. Also just I went.

870
00:41:19,840 --> 00:41:22,439
Speaker 22: To that judge. So me Mall died October fifth, twenty

871
00:41:22,480 --> 00:41:27,279
Speaker 22: twenty two. Naomi had passed in April of twenty twenty two,

872
00:41:28,080 --> 00:41:31,640
Speaker 22: and they had that Bridge Stone concert October thirtieth, twenty

873
00:41:31,680 --> 00:41:36,000
Speaker 22: twenty two, and me Ma's celebration of life was October

874
00:41:36,000 --> 00:41:37,480
Speaker 22: thirty first or something like that.

875
00:41:37,560 --> 00:41:40,279
Speaker 7: At the Grandel office you were playing in there. Hobby

876
00:41:40,360 --> 00:41:42,080
Speaker 7: actually said, she saw you, Oh you did.

877
00:41:42,760 --> 00:41:45,800
Speaker 22: I was so nervous getting I had to actually talk

878
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Speaker 22: and read a teleprompter of the thing I wrote, and

879
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Speaker 22: I was shaking so bad, and I had to be,

880
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Speaker 22: you know, kind of serious or whatever. And I mean,

881
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Speaker 22: we're talking about my beautiful, legendary grandmother. And it felt

882
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Speaker 22: so important to me to go there and like stand

883
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Speaker 22: as a woman of integrity for her and talk about

884
00:42:03,200 --> 00:42:07,040
Speaker 22: Jesus Christ and why Noa. The night before or right

885
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Speaker 22: around then, had played the Juzz concert without her mama

886
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Speaker 22: in Nashville, and you could see all the emotion on

887
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Speaker 22: her face. You could see the pain in her face,

888
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Speaker 22: like as she sang that song cry myself to sleep.

889
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Speaker 7: And that's what it's called, right, I think that's what

890
00:42:22,800 --> 00:42:23,000
Speaker 7: it did.

891
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Speaker 22: And uh, it just was the saddest, most beautiful celebration

892
00:42:28,640 --> 00:42:30,960
Speaker 22: for a Naomi Judd that I've ever seen. And Ashley

893
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Speaker 22: was there and came out and danced, and when Mema

894
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Speaker 22: had her stroke, Ashley came to see her, and uh,

895
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Speaker 22: it was just a beautiful I don't want to give

896
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Speaker 22: too much away because it was a personal moment with

897
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Speaker 22: my aunt Peggy, myself, Meman Ashley, and there was just

898
00:42:47,360 --> 00:42:53,640
Speaker 22: something Appalachian rootsy about it. And Mema really woke up

899
00:42:53,680 --> 00:42:58,120
Speaker 22: to the voice of Ashley Judd and into that heritage

900
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Speaker 22: and to see that.

901
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Speaker 7: And then and.

902
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Speaker 22: The celebration of life opened with why Onna Judd singing

903
00:43:05,200 --> 00:43:09,040
Speaker 22: how great Thou art? A cappella acapella And it was

904
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Speaker 22: the first time that I cried over me while dying because.

905
00:43:11,840 --> 00:43:12,879
Speaker 7: Why was it the first time?

906
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Speaker 22: I just because we were you know, me Ma had

907
00:43:14,960 --> 00:43:17,279
Speaker 22: been sick for a couple of years, and you know,

908
00:43:17,360 --> 00:43:19,439
Speaker 22: I'm kind of hard about death. And after you lose

909
00:43:19,480 --> 00:43:21,799
Speaker 22: your mom unexpectedly, I don't know what it's like to

910
00:43:21,840 --> 00:43:23,440
Speaker 22: lose a child by any stretch. And I think that

911
00:43:23,480 --> 00:43:26,440
Speaker 22: would be something you can't come But losing my mom

912
00:43:26,640 --> 00:43:31,040
Speaker 22: unexpectedly like that, it was almost like nothing would ever

913
00:43:31,200 --> 00:43:36,280
Speaker 22: hurt like that again. And just why own a opening

914
00:43:36,440 --> 00:43:39,279
Speaker 22: like that? And why nown a loving Memal so much

915
00:43:39,360 --> 00:43:41,920
Speaker 22: Memal loving? Why why I'd been out to the house

916
00:43:42,040 --> 00:43:45,000
Speaker 22: not long before that, before Memi passed, and just like

917
00:43:45,440 --> 00:43:47,440
Speaker 22: there was all this feeling and now she's just out

918
00:43:47,480 --> 00:43:49,600
Speaker 22: there doing her thing, and she looks great and she

919
00:43:49,640 --> 00:43:52,080
Speaker 22: seems to be happy, and like I have sort of

920
00:43:52,120 --> 00:43:57,320
Speaker 22: this new fanatical obsession with her, Like it's cool.

921
00:43:57,560 --> 00:43:59,440
Speaker 21: Do you think it has something to do with surviving grief?

922
00:44:00,120 --> 00:44:02,399
Speaker 22: Maybe so, and the way that she's doing it and

923
00:44:02,800 --> 00:44:05,560
Speaker 22: they're just being so open about it. And so what

924
00:44:05,560 --> 00:44:08,400
Speaker 22: we're talking about, let's see if we can get back

925
00:44:08,440 --> 00:44:11,520
Speaker 22: on topic. What we're talking about is I'm attracted to

926
00:44:11,600 --> 00:44:14,919
Speaker 22: people who are who they are, no matter what their

927
00:44:14,920 --> 00:44:15,600
Speaker 22: flaws are.

928
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Speaker 7: And a lot of people will.

929
00:44:16,520 --> 00:44:19,160
Speaker 22: Say to me like, oh my god, she sings nasally,

930
00:44:19,239 --> 00:44:21,360
Speaker 22: she sings nasally, she sings nasally. And what I have

931
00:44:21,480 --> 00:44:24,640
Speaker 22: found is that people that love me and love my

932
00:44:24,760 --> 00:44:28,360
Speaker 22: voice say that that's a feature, not a flaw, and

933
00:44:28,640 --> 00:44:33,600
Speaker 22: embracing those things because you interrupting to me, is you

934
00:44:33,680 --> 00:44:35,919
Speaker 22: being passionate about what the person is talking about?

935
00:44:36,120 --> 00:44:38,040
Speaker 21: That on my feedback to everyone that I interrupt too

936
00:44:38,120 --> 00:44:40,440
Speaker 21: much and bring the conversation back to myself and I

937
00:44:40,520 --> 00:44:42,799
Speaker 21: make weird mouth noises, which I do.

938
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Speaker 7: Hackt you do, God, and you used you do? That

939
00:44:47,080 --> 00:44:49,799
Speaker 7: is why if I had any there you go.

940
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Speaker 5: That's it.

941
00:44:50,280 --> 00:44:51,959
Speaker 7: But you have to talk a lot and it's hard,

942
00:44:52,160 --> 00:44:54,839
Speaker 7: and I get a lot of hacking situations. Yeah, God,

943
00:44:54,920 --> 00:44:57,520
Speaker 7: and you do that on the show Carol. Well when

944
00:44:57,560 --> 00:44:59,040
Speaker 7: you got a hack, you got a hack? Can y'all

945
00:44:59,040 --> 00:45:01,600
Speaker 7: have edit that part? A lot of hacking? You need

946
00:45:01,640 --> 00:45:03,839
Speaker 7: to stop. I'm working on it. It's hard.

947
00:45:03,880 --> 00:45:05,200
Speaker 22: You need to go see and you need to go

948
00:45:05,200 --> 00:45:07,439
Speaker 22: to Van Dy and go see an earnote and throat person.

949
00:45:07,480 --> 00:45:09,520
Speaker 22: Get that taken care of, because I bet that is gross.

950
00:45:10,239 --> 00:45:12,160
Speaker 22: You're saying, yes, it's gross.

951
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Speaker 2: Thanks for listening to this week's Sunday sampler.

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Speaker 1: New episodes of all of those shows, Bobby Cast, Four Things,

953
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Speaker 1: Sore Losers, Movie Might Get Real, Morgan's take this personally,

954
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Speaker 1: They're all out. Hopefully found something that you want to

955
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Speaker 1: listen to, Go subscribe, leave a comment, anything helps, Thank you.

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Speaker 2: Have a good week.

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Speaker 20: Everybody,