WEBVTT - EP 81 "Seduction vs Manipulation"

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<v Speaker 1>We're just too unapologetically black women with an opinion who

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<v Speaker 1>talked back? But what's up, y'all? Thank you for tuning

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<v Speaker 1>in for a new episode we talked back and show

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<v Speaker 1>dedicated to these niggas, and you host this, your co

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<v Speaker 1>host a j What up? Hey, y'all, it's tam bad.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank y'all for tuning in. I love y'all. Man, I

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<v Speaker 1>gotta I gotta change my life. I gotta that you

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<v Speaker 1>best stop budgeting. Mother a month, this ship said, asked

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<v Speaker 1>me two thousand dollars on dining and drinks, three thousand

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<v Speaker 1>dollars on personal care, two thousand dollars on shopping, two

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<v Speaker 1>thousand dollars under categories and uncategorized, and then two thousand

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<v Speaker 1>dollars on entertainment and recreation. Bitch, did you pay any bills?

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<v Speaker 1>I ain't hear that. No utilities. Oh wait, it's more

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<v Speaker 1>loan payments eight hundred dollars, although in transport nine hundred dollars.

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<v Speaker 1>I ain't spend up, but two hundred dollars on grocery. YoY, y'all, listen, listen,

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<v Speaker 1>I follow money, and we have been in the recession

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<v Speaker 1>since last October. For what they're trying to say, and

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<v Speaker 1>then they're trying to change the definition of recession same

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<v Speaker 1>way they change the definition of vaccine and vaccination. Let's

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<v Speaker 1>be clear, we're in a recession and you're spending like that. Girl,

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<v Speaker 1>You've gotta buy a lot of silver and gold. I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't realize I spent that much money last month.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sad. That's how I'm here. Salads be y'all live

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<v Speaker 1>like drug dealers. Y'all, y'all make the money right back,

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<v Speaker 1>and y'all spending that's that's that's just how it goes down.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not spending no month in the month of August money.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what you need? You need a motherfucking baby

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<v Speaker 1>to stop budgeting that. Don't you wish that bad? Look

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<v Speaker 1>on me? Dy Bobby. You know they say mom has

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<v Speaker 1>come with a with a loaf of bread. Bitch sh

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<v Speaker 1>all My friends were kids rich. Meanwhile, I'm just out here. Goodness,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna do better this month. Dad is ridiculous. Girl.

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<v Speaker 1>We got a lot of this month to try and look,

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<v Speaker 1>try it again. What's the other month, September? Try to

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<v Speaker 1>get a September. I'm not going on. I didn't go

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<v Speaker 1>anywhere this weekend. This weekend, I didn't spend no money.

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<v Speaker 1>How the fund did I still managed to spend that money.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't order nothing to your house this weekend? Oh

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<v Speaker 1>yeah I did. See. Look I didn't leave to spend money.

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<v Speaker 1>I spent it from home. How her My weekend was cool?

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<v Speaker 1>Ship my dad? Uh, we're actually I hope none of

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<v Speaker 1>my family and my daddy side listened to the show.

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<v Speaker 1>But anyway, because I'm talking a little bit of ship

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<v Speaker 1>about that. So one of my older aunts, she's about

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<v Speaker 1>to she's the age of my excuse me, she's not

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<v Speaker 1>my aunt, one of my older cousins. She's an auntie age,

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<v Speaker 1>but she's an actual cousin. She's my mom's niece, but

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<v Speaker 1>my daddy's niece. But she's the same age as my mom,

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<v Speaker 1>is what I'm trying to say. So this is an

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<v Speaker 1>older person. So she had like a gathering for all

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<v Speaker 1>the cousins ages eighteen to fifty at my dad's house.

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<v Speaker 1>So it was like a meet and Greek, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>for the cousins. Sorry, I know more majority thing, but

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know like people's kids. Um, she had like

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<v Speaker 1>a whole thing. She said a prayer for about I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know twenty minutes, and everybody kept saying a man

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<v Speaker 1>to get her to stop, but she fucking wouldn't. But

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<v Speaker 1>she was just trying to, you know, cover us, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>on my daddy side of the families. Like everybody dies

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<v Speaker 1>of heart disease or they get murdered. Like the niggas

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<v Speaker 1>isn't either in prison or dead, and the women die

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<v Speaker 1>young of heart disease. Like most of the people are older,

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<v Speaker 1>older people exactly, and like I'm there right, and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>like and macarda cheese. Now, they just all they had

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<v Speaker 1>was hot dogs, hamburgers, and a bunch of crabs, you know, Charlston,

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<v Speaker 1>that's the thing, blue crabs. I don't know how many

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<v Speaker 1>damn crabs I ate this weekend. So thank god they

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<v Speaker 1>had something there for me to eat. But yeah, but

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<v Speaker 1>everybody just unhealthy, barely on road ton Like I literally

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<v Speaker 1>be in the mirror talking to my stomach, bitchet. I

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<v Speaker 1>want my stomach to stay how it is, Like I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to be walking around with that big gass

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<v Speaker 1>booty do. Oh yeah, all of them got a booty

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<v Speaker 1>do over there. They ain't gonna invite you to the

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<v Speaker 1>next custure man, I'll be feeling like a celebrity around

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<v Speaker 1>the people you've been at. Bitch 'all know nowhere. No,

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<v Speaker 1>you can't have my number, give them your number for what,

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<v Speaker 1>But they can call me cousin, cousin. That's the favorite thing. Girl,

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<v Speaker 1>Just because we were lad, you think you could use me. No,

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<v Speaker 1>they ain't nobody trying to use you. They're trying to

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<v Speaker 1>build a relationship with you. A family. The motherfucker' don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to ride. They need some money. They don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to bond. They might need bond, But I love my

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<v Speaker 1>family though, so it was a good time drinking and

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<v Speaker 1>eating crabs to get to see my daddy. I love

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<v Speaker 1>my daddy. I'm so in love with my dad. Yep.

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<v Speaker 1>My daddy is getting old, man, and they can move

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<v Speaker 1>and slower and slower. It's crazy watching your parents get old.

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<v Speaker 1>You know they are always be It's like superheroes and

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<v Speaker 1>your eyes. And then they get a whole ship wow,

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<v Speaker 1>walking slow. How was your weekend? I didn't do ship

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<v Speaker 1>but spend money apparently. God damn, I didn't go nowhere

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<v Speaker 1>at all this weekend. I chilled. I would like I

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<v Speaker 1>was exhausted from all the birthday festivities all month of July.

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<v Speaker 1>Apparently I've been running a muck So I didn't do

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<v Speaker 1>nothing this weekend. I just uh smoke weed and watched

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<v Speaker 1>UM rap Shit. I like that new show on HBO

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<v Speaker 1>if y'all need something to watch rap shit, it's Eastern

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<v Speaker 1>Ray's new show. Uh. It has two I love Chameleon,

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<v Speaker 1>yeah she's in it, and I'm not sure the other girl.

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<v Speaker 1>She's a new face to me. Um, but they both

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<v Speaker 1>wrapped and they start a rap group and it's such

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<v Speaker 1>a cute little show. I like it. So I watched

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<v Speaker 1>that this weekend. And P Valley. If y'all watch um

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<v Speaker 1>if y'all have stars, or you can get on somebody

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<v Speaker 1>else the stars, watch P Valley. It's uh very entertaining

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<v Speaker 1>Pussy Valley or d Valley, whichever one you want to

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<v Speaker 1>call it, because there's a lot of uh male uh

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<v Speaker 1>love triangles going on as well as female. So yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a good show. Watch it. That's what I did

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<v Speaker 1>this weekend. And I smoked weed and I bought some tequila.

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<v Speaker 1>I had me a little drink of drink and that

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<v Speaker 1>was it. I didn't really how mm hmmm. Had my

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<v Speaker 1>little friend, my little friend came over and that was it.

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<v Speaker 1>Nothing too special. In fact, he owed me a hundred

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<v Speaker 1>fifty dollars because I had bought the dinner on my

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<v Speaker 1>uh my door dash and he's supposed to give me

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<v Speaker 1>that money back. And I just realized that he'd give

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<v Speaker 1>me that hundred feety dollars for dinner back. I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>need that. Let me find out paying for dick. Look

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<v Speaker 1>like I did I did on Friday. Look's see we

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<v Speaker 1>do by dinner? Okay, I don't mean to back in good. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll be like, let me get your phone. That's how i'dy.

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<v Speaker 1>Let me heard your phone. I'm ordering. I'm ordering the

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<v Speaker 1>uber off your phone. I'm ordering the food off your phone. Like,

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<v Speaker 1>who's be forgetting Let me help you? Remember? It's cool.

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<v Speaker 1>I know I'll get it back. What we got going on?

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<v Speaker 1>A stupid ass internet news this week? A single winner

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<v Speaker 1>one of the Mega Millions jack pot, which was an

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<v Speaker 1>estimated with one point two billion dollars. Yes, girl, it's

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<v Speaker 1>probably an old Hispanic person. It's always an old white person,

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<v Speaker 1>it really is. You saw it? Damn? Why what what

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<v Speaker 1>y'all gonna do with that? Man? I'm really jealous, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm trying not to be jealous about it, because I

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<v Speaker 1>did play, and I've been doing my little money rituals

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<v Speaker 1>all fucking month, well all of the July actually for

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<v Speaker 1>the New Moon the end of July. Like, why the

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<v Speaker 1>fuck all I needed was one of the million. I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't need the whole because that's like they would probably settle,

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<v Speaker 1>not settle, but like could take a lump some of

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<v Speaker 1>what a half a million, I mean a half a billion.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll find out what their name is and start messaging them.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe they've seen you. No, so the jackpot was one

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<v Speaker 1>point too, so they do like the cash out, they're

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<v Speaker 1>probably gonna get like four hundred and something thousands, especially

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<v Speaker 1>a million. What am I talking about? Four hundred and

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<v Speaker 1>something million dollars? Right? Yeah? Would you do the cash

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<v Speaker 1>out or take that? Absolutely? Because we we could see

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<v Speaker 1>right now a dollar is not worth the same tomorrow,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, as it is today, and vice versa, So

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<v Speaker 1>it's always best to take the lump some ship. With inflation,

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<v Speaker 1>how much you're really getting. Yeah, she's gonna keep going up,

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<v Speaker 1>so yeah, you gotta you gotta get that lump something

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<v Speaker 1>and then try to convert it into some to some

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<v Speaker 1>other ship, bitch, you ain't guy to confer four seventy

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<v Speaker 1>million and nothing, just it's a lot. Yeah, But what

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<v Speaker 1>happens when they'd be like, um, you see what happened

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<v Speaker 1>in China, how they locked the doors at the bank.

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<v Speaker 1>They're not letting people get their money out. They basically

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<v Speaker 1>saying like that this money in this bank is for

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<v Speaker 1>investment purposes money. Yes, what happens when the banks, because

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<v Speaker 1>that's what happens in a recession and depression. The bank

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<v Speaker 1>if everybody start running to the bank for that paper

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<v Speaker 1>fiat money, they're gonna be like, oh, you can't get

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<v Speaker 1>that money. That's why you have to have tangible things

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<v Speaker 1>like silver and gold. So yeah, I would definitely do

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<v Speaker 1>half of that ship in silver and gold if I could,

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<v Speaker 1>If they would let me buy that much, I would.

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<v Speaker 1>My great grandma I remember, she would not put her

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<v Speaker 1>money in the bank. She used to put her money

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<v Speaker 1>in old uh coffee ground cans and bury it because

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<v Speaker 1>she was alive during the recession. Right, can believe in

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<v Speaker 1>no fucking bank? Well you shouldn't, because you technically can

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<v Speaker 1>start a bank with fifty if we wanted to open

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<v Speaker 1>a bank, we can open a bank. The banks make

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<v Speaker 1>money off of everybody else money. While I'm giving you

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<v Speaker 1>two percent interest on your money, I'm charging somebody else

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<v Speaker 1>to borrow your money. That's how the banks work. Smucking bullshit.

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<v Speaker 1>It's really bullshit. So yeah, I would take my lumps

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<v Speaker 1>some in uh gold, thank you. What would be the

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<v Speaker 1>first thing that you would buy? Uh? I don't know, Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>The first thing I would buy would probably be my

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<v Speaker 1>dream home in Barbados on the ocean, ocean front villa,

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<v Speaker 1>next estate in Barbadoes. That would be the first thing

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<v Speaker 1>I buy. I swear because I'm just like that and

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<v Speaker 1>my soul is supposed to be I just Uh. The

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<v Speaker 1>first thing I'm gonna do is just like spoil my

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<v Speaker 1>mama with everything she want. That would be the first thing.

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<v Speaker 1>What you want, Mama, house, a car, a man, I'll

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<v Speaker 1>buy you a man out this bitch. What you want. Look,

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<v Speaker 1>all the nigs got a price. Shit, they definitely be

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<v Speaker 1>right there. I don't know that's the first thing I'll do, though,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll get get settled. I might not even tell anybody.

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<v Speaker 1>I fucking one bitch. If I hit your ass up

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<v Speaker 1>and be like, damn, what's your bank account number? And

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<v Speaker 1>if you try to act like you don't wanna give

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<v Speaker 1>it to me. I'm like, all right, cool, I ain't

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<v Speaker 1>gonna never call your ass again. Bit, you wanna trust me.

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<v Speaker 1>You know I would give you my bank account. You

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<v Speaker 1>already got it. How about that. I know that's what

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<v Speaker 1>I was about to say. You know I would give

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<v Speaker 1>it to you, but you already got bit check your account,

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<v Speaker 1>check your account, but I just checked your ass. Bitch,

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<v Speaker 1>these niggas, I know. I was laying in bed thinking about,

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<v Speaker 1>like if my ticket, you know one, how many people

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<v Speaker 1>are accounts I would bless And I thought about fifteen

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<v Speaker 1>people I would give a million off the gate. Just yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>if I got four something million, like that wouldn't be

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<v Speaker 1>shifting me to give out. Yeah, it's fifteen people. I

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<v Speaker 1>would throw a million right in their pocket right away, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>like no questions. And then all this ship in my house,

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<v Speaker 1>I was thinking everything here I would leave in this

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<v Speaker 1>motherfucker's nothing I would take with me. Maybe pictures my

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<v Speaker 1>grandma old photo albums. That would be the only thing

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<v Speaker 1>I would want to take all this other year I

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<v Speaker 1>live right in this motherfucker holds no value, Like I

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<v Speaker 1>still be trying to make my money out airbnb. That

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<v Speaker 1>bitch out. I take this to girlfuck that I'm leaving

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<v Speaker 1>all this ship here, I still be trying to make

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<v Speaker 1>more money. Like people were mad because some celebrities is

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<v Speaker 1>playing the Megan millions. Like if I had it, am,

0:13:40.760 --> 0:13:43.800
<v Speaker 1>I would still be playing, Like right, what the hell?

0:13:44.280 --> 0:13:47.280
<v Speaker 1>But I still need rich people for wanting to be rich,

0:13:47.960 --> 0:13:50.520
<v Speaker 1>they have to maintain those riches, you know what I'm saying,

0:13:50.520 --> 0:13:54.120
<v Speaker 1>Like y'all see basketball players who go broke five years

0:13:54.120 --> 0:13:56.920
<v Speaker 1>after retirement. Like if you don't know money and don't

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<v Speaker 1>matter if you're a millionaire today, you can still be

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<v Speaker 1>broke tomorrow. These niggas is just in a different tax bracket.

0:14:02.440 --> 0:14:05.080
<v Speaker 1>But look, we're talking about what we're gonna buy as

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<v Speaker 1>soon as we get the money. You see what I'm saying,

0:14:07.720 --> 0:14:10.520
<v Speaker 1>Like it's gonna start even and out the more ship

0:14:10.559 --> 0:14:13.800
<v Speaker 1>you buy. I want to goddamn asking. All right, we

0:14:13.960 --> 0:14:16.040
<v Speaker 1>just talked about all I didn't even say nothing about

0:14:16.040 --> 0:14:17.520
<v Speaker 1>what I would buy. I just talked about all the

0:14:17.559 --> 0:14:20.680
<v Speaker 1>money I would give away. I just realized that I

0:14:20.720 --> 0:14:24.320
<v Speaker 1>didn't even say my mama. In fifteen people, I didn't

0:14:24.360 --> 0:14:31.320
<v Speaker 1>say nothing for my You're nice because I need to

0:14:31.320 --> 0:14:35.760
<v Speaker 1>get the funk away first and then and then because

0:14:35.800 --> 0:14:39.040
<v Speaker 1>imagine like people gonna be busting your door down about

0:14:39.040 --> 0:14:42.240
<v Speaker 1>this money. You have seen videos of people being murdered,

0:14:42.280 --> 0:14:45.160
<v Speaker 1>not videos, but new its headlines. People got murdered after

0:14:45.200 --> 0:14:49.080
<v Speaker 1>they won lottery. Yeah, there there's a lot of recurse. Yeah,

0:14:49.160 --> 0:14:53.360
<v Speaker 1>so I needed I needed these safers and Ship, I

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<v Speaker 1>might get that check with my mama name the herd

0:14:56.080 --> 0:14:58.760
<v Speaker 1>cash it right now. There ain't nothing for us to

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<v Speaker 1>worry about. We still got go to work, so he's

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<v Speaker 1>still regular. What else happened? Um? Oh, you're gonna talk

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<v Speaker 1>about Beyonce album just right quickly? So the album came out, y'all? Okay, renaissance,

0:15:11.920 --> 0:15:14.760
<v Speaker 1>you know, started something new. How do y'all feel about

0:15:14.760 --> 0:15:18.280
<v Speaker 1>the album? I only listened to a few songs. Uh,

0:15:18.400 --> 0:15:20.760
<v Speaker 1>that breaks my heart, Ship, I cannot break my soulf.

0:15:20.760 --> 0:15:22.480
<v Speaker 1>I can't listen to that song. But I listened to

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<v Speaker 1>a few other songs on the album. How do you

0:15:24.080 --> 0:15:30.520
<v Speaker 1>like it? Uh? I love Beyonce this this particular album.

0:15:30.560 --> 0:15:33.800
<v Speaker 1>I don't feel like I was the target audience for it.

0:15:34.680 --> 0:15:40.080
<v Speaker 1>I do like, um, Church Girl was good and what's

0:15:40.120 --> 0:15:42.880
<v Speaker 1>the thick? I did like that? When those are the

0:15:42.920 --> 0:15:46.920
<v Speaker 1>two songs that I kept playing from the album, but

0:15:47.360 --> 0:15:51.120
<v Speaker 1>it did not, uh give me the feelings that like

0:15:51.240 --> 0:15:55.520
<v Speaker 1>Lemonade gave me or b they gave me. It just

0:15:55.560 --> 0:15:58.120
<v Speaker 1>didn't do the same for me. But I still love Beyonce.

0:15:58.240 --> 0:15:59.920
<v Speaker 1>I'm always going to be a big fan of hers.

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<v Speaker 1>But yeah, it wasn't. It wasn't my favorite Beyonce album.

0:16:04.960 --> 0:16:07.240
<v Speaker 1>It's for the girls, not the girls. That's how I

0:16:07.280 --> 0:16:12.320
<v Speaker 1>felt about it. Yeah, because the girls. The girls are

0:16:12.320 --> 0:16:16.800
<v Speaker 1>loving it now, the girls, they're loving it. But yeah, no,

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<v Speaker 1>mm hmm um. The Baby. There was a video released

0:16:25.040 --> 0:16:28.480
<v Speaker 1>over this past weekend of the Baby in the Miami

0:16:28.600 --> 0:16:33.000
<v Speaker 1>interrogation room and he's just running off at the mouth

0:16:33.120 --> 0:16:35.320
<v Speaker 1>and people are like saying, oh, he's a sneez looking

0:16:35.320 --> 0:16:38.640
<v Speaker 1>at him snitching, But really, if you listen to what

0:16:38.720 --> 0:16:46.720
<v Speaker 1>he's saying, he's just defending himself, right, Yeah, that's all

0:16:46.760 --> 0:16:49.600
<v Speaker 1>I saw, you Know. To me, snitching is when you're

0:16:49.600 --> 0:16:51.240
<v Speaker 1>telling some ship that don't have nothing to do with

0:16:51.280 --> 0:16:54.960
<v Speaker 1>why you're arrested. He was only talking about what was

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<v Speaker 1>happening in whatever situation, which I don't even remember that

0:16:58.080 --> 0:17:00.960
<v Speaker 1>whole ordeal what he's talking about. But I don't consider

0:17:00.960 --> 0:17:02.800
<v Speaker 1>that a snitch. And I got a real problem with

0:17:02.920 --> 0:17:05.639
<v Speaker 1>civilians calling people snitches, Like you don't know what you

0:17:05.680 --> 0:17:08.359
<v Speaker 1>wanna do when you get in a real situation to

0:17:08.440 --> 0:17:11.400
<v Speaker 1>be calling somebody a snitch, because the majority of y'all

0:17:11.440 --> 0:17:15.320
<v Speaker 1>would really be snitching in a real way. Sorry, nigga,

0:17:15.640 --> 0:17:18.720
<v Speaker 1>I'm just trying to come home in a real way.

0:17:18.840 --> 0:17:20.879
<v Speaker 1>So I don't think what he was doing with snitch

0:17:20.920 --> 0:17:22.919
<v Speaker 1>and he was really defending himself. And my question is

0:17:22.920 --> 0:17:25.320
<v Speaker 1>where's your lawyer? And how did this video get on

0:17:25.359 --> 0:17:28.119
<v Speaker 1>the internet? It like some first forty eight ship, Like

0:17:28.160 --> 0:17:31.359
<v Speaker 1>what the what? What? I was laughing when I watched it,

0:17:31.400 --> 0:17:36.800
<v Speaker 1>because though it's because why every time a nigga in

0:17:36.800 --> 0:17:39.800
<v Speaker 1>the interrogation room that motherfucking room must be cold, is

0:17:40.200 --> 0:17:43.119
<v Speaker 1>because they always have their arms and their sleeves. It

0:17:43.240 --> 0:17:48.440
<v Speaker 1>don't never fail. They pulled their arms into their shirt

0:17:48.600 --> 0:17:52.399
<v Speaker 1>every single time, this cold interrogation room, Like he was

0:17:52.480 --> 0:17:55.000
<v Speaker 1>nervous arms coming in and out the shirt because woman

0:17:55.119 --> 0:17:58.000
<v Speaker 1>he had Like what, yeah, I never noticed that, but

0:17:58.080 --> 0:18:00.359
<v Speaker 1>you'll be looking at it in detail. I never realized

0:18:00.400 --> 0:18:06.119
<v Speaker 1>that that's true. So is that a side of lying?

0:18:06.240 --> 0:18:09.040
<v Speaker 1>What is that? I always feel like a nigga from

0:18:09.080 --> 0:18:11.080
<v Speaker 1>the tail when he put his arms in the shirt down.

0:18:11.359 --> 0:18:13.880
<v Speaker 1>That's what I'll be thinking. It must be like some

0:18:13.920 --> 0:18:20.280
<v Speaker 1>psychology to make the room cold. Does doesn't uncomfortable? Right? Okay?

0:18:22.359 --> 0:18:23.800
<v Speaker 1>They want to get the funk about of this, So

0:18:23.880 --> 0:18:25.320
<v Speaker 1>whatever I gotta do to get out of here, I'm

0:18:25.359 --> 0:18:35.960
<v Speaker 1>gonna do. Yep. Is that seduction or manipulation? Right? Because yeah,

0:18:36.000 --> 0:18:37.840
<v Speaker 1>I didn't think what he was doing with snitching at all.

0:18:37.920 --> 0:18:39.520
<v Speaker 1>I wish you would stop saying that, and I wish

0:18:39.600 --> 0:18:42.760
<v Speaker 1>that video was not on the internet. I just don't

0:18:42.840 --> 0:18:46.560
<v Speaker 1>like talk about other people like not no, like street ship.

0:18:46.640 --> 0:18:51.360
<v Speaker 1>I don't like talking about people street ship, Uh, legal issues.

0:18:51.520 --> 0:18:55.200
<v Speaker 1>It's scary for me. It's a scary situation for me.

0:18:56.080 --> 0:19:02.880
<v Speaker 1>But what else happing Neo and his wife or going

0:19:02.920 --> 0:19:05.800
<v Speaker 1>back at it back at it again on the internet

0:19:06.640 --> 0:19:10.240
<v Speaker 1>they're oh by you know, Gossip of the City. I

0:19:10.240 --> 0:19:13.600
<v Speaker 1>think that's that blog they've been reporting on his ass

0:19:13.680 --> 0:19:16.320
<v Speaker 1>for the longest. Then they could ben had a side bitch.

0:19:16.680 --> 0:19:19.240
<v Speaker 1>I feel like Cristal Smith knew about it. She cleared

0:19:19.240 --> 0:19:20.959
<v Speaker 1>the air. She was like, she was not with him

0:19:21.000 --> 0:19:22.680
<v Speaker 1>while he was with his ex. He didn't, he didn't,

0:19:22.720 --> 0:19:24.359
<v Speaker 1>she didn't know him at the time, so people can

0:19:24.440 --> 0:19:27.880
<v Speaker 1>stop saying that ship like you know, you keep them,

0:19:27.880 --> 0:19:30.240
<v Speaker 1>how you get him? A heartway that that saying goes.

0:19:30.760 --> 0:19:33.920
<v Speaker 1>She was saying that, yeah, you losing how you get him? Yeah,

0:19:33.920 --> 0:19:35.960
<v Speaker 1>she was saying that that they were She didn't even

0:19:36.000 --> 0:19:38.360
<v Speaker 1>know him when he was with his ex wife, so

0:19:38.600 --> 0:19:44.520
<v Speaker 1>you know, trying to dispel that lie. But uh yeah,

0:19:44.560 --> 0:19:47.800
<v Speaker 1>like she she knows that man, She know that man,

0:19:47.800 --> 0:19:49.840
<v Speaker 1>but not hear fucking bitches man, either you'renna deal? What

0:19:49.880 --> 0:19:52.760
<v Speaker 1>are you? Are you or you weren't. I feel like

0:19:53.280 --> 0:19:56.320
<v Speaker 1>I thought that they were married before, but from some

0:19:56.359 --> 0:20:00.800
<v Speaker 1>other ship I've seen, this is their first marriage. They

0:20:00.880 --> 0:20:03.199
<v Speaker 1>just recently got married two months ago. Now. They were

0:20:03.240 --> 0:20:07.720
<v Speaker 1>saying they were renewing vials, but there was not a

0:20:07.800 --> 0:20:13.320
<v Speaker 1>marriage certificate out there prior to now. From the information

0:20:13.400 --> 0:20:17.000
<v Speaker 1>I've seen, I just don't understand. I'm seeing a lot

0:20:17.080 --> 0:20:22.560
<v Speaker 1>of people air their dirty laundry via social media, like

0:20:22.640 --> 0:20:26.400
<v Speaker 1>Tyrese and his girlfriend. I not made my stomach sick.

0:20:26.840 --> 0:20:30.240
<v Speaker 1>Why do why do people take to social media to

0:20:30.480 --> 0:20:35.800
<v Speaker 1>air their marital affairs and their relationship problems on social media?

0:20:35.920 --> 0:20:39.080
<v Speaker 1>I just don't understand that, Like, why y'all want people

0:20:39.080 --> 0:20:42.600
<v Speaker 1>in your business like that, right, because I've never seen

0:20:42.640 --> 0:20:45.360
<v Speaker 1>any side checks come out about NEO, so obviously they

0:20:45.440 --> 0:20:49.159
<v Speaker 1>stay in place. We would know nothing if y'all break up.

0:20:49.200 --> 0:20:50.919
<v Speaker 1>Y'all break up. But to me, it's kind of like

0:20:51.040 --> 0:20:54.280
<v Speaker 1>manipulat It's it's kind of manipulative when you put stuff

0:20:54.320 --> 0:20:57.200
<v Speaker 1>like that on on an internet. So she could very

0:20:57.200 --> 0:20:59.720
<v Speaker 1>well be hurt, but it's almost like it's kind of

0:20:59.760 --> 0:21:03.640
<v Speaker 1>man pipulative to put him on blast like that. M hmm.

0:21:04.480 --> 0:21:06.920
<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't do that. Yeah, I wouldn't do that to

0:21:07.000 --> 0:21:11.680
<v Speaker 1>a man. That's embarrassingly because especially when you love someone,

0:21:11.760 --> 0:21:14.320
<v Speaker 1>y'all go through like ship and y'all my end up

0:21:14.359 --> 0:21:18.560
<v Speaker 1>back together, and now you're looking crazy, you know. I'm like, now,

0:21:18.600 --> 0:21:20.560
<v Speaker 1>I know, I've talked some about my ex on this

0:21:20.640 --> 0:21:23.840
<v Speaker 1>damn show, but nothing too crazy. And don't nobody know

0:21:23.880 --> 0:21:26.840
<v Speaker 1>who he is? That's different. I would never like if

0:21:26.880 --> 0:21:31.280
<v Speaker 1>people knew who he was, I wouldn't just be putting

0:21:31.280 --> 0:21:34.920
<v Speaker 1>out no goddamn p s A about the nigga. Well,

0:21:34.960 --> 0:21:38.879
<v Speaker 1>some people do know who he is, who you people

0:21:38.880 --> 0:21:42.520
<v Speaker 1>who know you and know him. It's like this many people.

0:21:44.000 --> 0:21:47.280
<v Speaker 1>It's not the whole internet. It's just different it's nothing.

0:21:47.320 --> 0:21:50.600
<v Speaker 1>It doesn't compare it to Neo and his wife. Yeah,

0:21:51.280 --> 0:21:53.680
<v Speaker 1>and I mean that's and it's also how I how

0:21:53.720 --> 0:21:56.399
<v Speaker 1>I would talk about an X. It's just different. I'm

0:21:56.400 --> 0:21:59.359
<v Speaker 1>talking about my life experiences at that point. It's not

0:21:59.440 --> 0:22:02.600
<v Speaker 1>me putting on blast for something in particular. It's just like,

0:22:02.680 --> 0:22:05.160
<v Speaker 1>this happened, and this is what happened in this particular situation.

0:22:05.160 --> 0:22:07.760
<v Speaker 1>It is also my business to down. But the way

0:22:07.960 --> 0:22:10.480
<v Speaker 1>that they do it, like celebrities do it online, is

0:22:10.520 --> 0:22:13.840
<v Speaker 1>really blasting the other person. That's what they're trying to do.

0:22:14.200 --> 0:22:19.920
<v Speaker 1>That ship with what's the nigga um tyrese that he's

0:22:19.920 --> 0:22:23.600
<v Speaker 1>a narcissist. He is a narcissist that girl, and say shit,

0:22:24.080 --> 0:22:26.119
<v Speaker 1>he really didn't have nothing to put out about her.

0:22:26.160 --> 0:22:30.040
<v Speaker 1>He just basically was telling fans to spam her. Yeah,

0:22:30.119 --> 0:22:32.439
<v Speaker 1>go in and go d m her Like that's weird,

0:22:32.480 --> 0:22:35.160
<v Speaker 1>old behavior. I don't like that. Don't send no word,

0:22:35.240 --> 0:22:40.520
<v Speaker 1>don't send your fans to harass me. Yeah no, this

0:22:40.640 --> 0:22:44.240
<v Speaker 1>wasn't in our mentions. But did you see that video

0:22:45.119 --> 0:22:47.159
<v Speaker 1>that guy who goes around he's like, Oh, what's the

0:22:47.160 --> 0:22:50.240
<v Speaker 1>freakiest thing you've ever done? Did you see that? And

0:22:50.280 --> 0:22:52.480
<v Speaker 1>that man was like, I sucked my own dick and

0:22:52.520 --> 0:23:02.639
<v Speaker 1>came in my own mouth. No dick out here. It's trouble. Listen,

0:23:04.520 --> 0:23:06.959
<v Speaker 1>they're really trying to do some population control because if

0:23:07.000 --> 0:23:12.040
<v Speaker 1>nigga start learning how to suck over for that day, flexible,

0:23:12.080 --> 0:23:14.760
<v Speaker 1>I said, asked to be catching at the goddamn cramps.

0:23:14.320 --> 0:23:18.040
<v Speaker 1>Ain't that flexi dick? Now? I had an X where

0:23:18.040 --> 0:23:20.800
<v Speaker 1>it was a video going around of a person suckingly

0:23:20.880 --> 0:23:26.880
<v Speaker 1>on dick and it looked like him. Bitch, he did

0:23:26.920 --> 0:23:29.080
<v Speaker 1>not like that that video was going around the job.

0:23:30.480 --> 0:23:33.000
<v Speaker 1>If you can sun, if you were flexible enough and

0:23:33.040 --> 0:23:34.680
<v Speaker 1>you had a dick, would you suck your own dick?

0:23:36.680 --> 0:23:41.400
<v Speaker 1>Why not not suck my own dick? Dog? Why not?

0:23:42.080 --> 0:23:44.199
<v Speaker 1>Is that the same as sucking and titties? Because I

0:23:44.280 --> 0:23:47.719
<v Speaker 1>do that. If you look at your own titty, why

0:23:47.760 --> 0:23:51.280
<v Speaker 1>wouldn't you suck your own dick. My titty ain't big

0:23:51.359 --> 0:23:55.239
<v Speaker 1>enough to get into my face. My titty won't come

0:23:55.280 --> 0:23:59.520
<v Speaker 1>to my face. Are you trying to fit yourself? Yea,

0:24:00.040 --> 0:24:04.200
<v Speaker 1>they won't get there. I'd definitely be sucking by teams.

0:24:04.200 --> 0:24:05.639
<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I'm about the suck a whole dick.

0:24:05.720 --> 0:24:07.399
<v Speaker 1>If I was a man, come on, man, that's a

0:24:07.440 --> 0:24:13.639
<v Speaker 1>little extreme. No, it's your dick. Is it gay? You

0:24:13.680 --> 0:24:17.920
<v Speaker 1>can't be a game with yourself? No, that's allo auto sexual, right,

0:24:19.000 --> 0:24:21.800
<v Speaker 1>I guess I don't know. I don't know about that.

0:24:22.560 --> 0:24:24.000
<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I'm not a man. I don't know.

0:24:24.200 --> 0:24:25.879
<v Speaker 1>I don't know. If I were a man, i'd probably

0:24:25.880 --> 0:24:28.640
<v Speaker 1>feel different. Men gonna say no, but they probably done.

0:24:28.720 --> 0:24:32.639
<v Speaker 1>Tried to something on Dick. He bawled up in the bed,

0:24:32.720 --> 0:24:35.320
<v Speaker 1>trying something on Dick doing getting a Charlotte horse in

0:24:35.359 --> 0:24:38.879
<v Speaker 1>your stomach? Yoga, naga, suck y'all, Dick, I know it,

0:24:41.880 --> 0:24:45.920
<v Speaker 1>all of yoga. Bayes. Listen, did you see that video

0:24:46.000 --> 0:24:49.000
<v Speaker 1>with that girl? I believe it's a skit. Okay, half

0:24:49.000 --> 0:24:50.920
<v Speaker 1>of these videos I see online. I think it's like

0:24:51.040 --> 0:24:53.880
<v Speaker 1>people just doing ship for clickbait. But it's a guy

0:24:54.080 --> 0:24:59.119
<v Speaker 1>dropping her off at the airport. And basically because team

0:24:59.200 --> 0:25:01.520
<v Speaker 1>and fucking he was like, I can't I'm dropping your

0:25:01.560 --> 0:25:04.200
<v Speaker 1>ass off and I cancel your ticket back home, which

0:25:04.800 --> 0:25:07.359
<v Speaker 1>we know that he can't cancel her ticket. It's in

0:25:07.440 --> 0:25:09.359
<v Speaker 1>her name. She'd have to cancel. Even if he paid

0:25:09.400 --> 0:25:11.639
<v Speaker 1>for it, she'd have to cancel it. So that's another

0:25:11.680 --> 0:25:14.680
<v Speaker 1>way I know that's in bullshit, but I thought someone

0:25:14.800 --> 0:25:17.119
<v Speaker 1>if they did pay for it, they can't cancel your ticket.

0:25:17.760 --> 0:25:20.560
<v Speaker 1>I know, I know you can put a security code

0:25:20.600 --> 0:25:22.840
<v Speaker 1>on your ticket to keep anybody from tampering with it,

0:25:22.920 --> 0:25:25.480
<v Speaker 1>though he would have to. He would have to have

0:25:25.760 --> 0:25:29.080
<v Speaker 1>a woman then calling then cancel her ticket because the

0:25:29.160 --> 0:25:32.080
<v Speaker 1>airline and the airlines ain't gonna let you do that.

0:25:32.840 --> 0:25:35.639
<v Speaker 1>A man can't call and cancel your ticket. It's in

0:25:35.760 --> 0:25:38.119
<v Speaker 1>your name once it's paid for it. But how how

0:25:38.200 --> 0:25:40.840
<v Speaker 1>do they know? Like with the climate today, you could

0:25:40.880 --> 0:25:44.640
<v Speaker 1>be very well say you that moment and they can't

0:25:44.640 --> 0:25:47.680
<v Speaker 1>say you're not right, girl. I don't know. This ship

0:25:47.800 --> 0:25:53.959
<v Speaker 1>is so sketchy, but anyway, she needs to. Uh, hey, yo,

0:25:54.600 --> 0:25:57.840
<v Speaker 1>this Katherine Jones and I want to cancel my motherfucking ticket.

0:25:59.160 --> 0:26:02.119
<v Speaker 1>What they're gonna say? I can't say ship you have

0:26:02.280 --> 0:26:08.000
<v Speaker 1>sound like what's doing from St. Louis delivered? No? No delivered?

0:26:09.480 --> 0:26:23.600
<v Speaker 1>Yeah yo called, Well that's something called no. I don't

0:26:23.640 --> 0:26:25.760
<v Speaker 1>know whatever that boy, David, that's when you have sound

0:26:25.800 --> 0:26:37.359
<v Speaker 1>like yo, I want to cancel my ticket? Yeah, but

0:26:38.640 --> 0:26:41.480
<v Speaker 1>she needs that, she needs that, she needs the food

0:26:41.560 --> 0:26:45.639
<v Speaker 1>out um episode. We have an episode for that. It

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<v Speaker 1>was episode go back and look at it. Flute out

0:26:49.320 --> 0:26:52.280
<v Speaker 1>one on one. All the rules are getting flew out. One.

0:26:52.359 --> 0:26:56.960
<v Speaker 1>You never leave without no money, never, never, that's the

0:26:57.040 --> 0:26:59.320
<v Speaker 1>biggest mistake. You don't want to be dependent on nobody

0:26:59.480 --> 0:27:04.520
<v Speaker 1>like that. That's friend because you know, and then you

0:27:04.600 --> 0:27:06.640
<v Speaker 1>have people saying, oh, why would you like the guy?

0:27:06.720 --> 0:27:10.000
<v Speaker 1>Whole thing is like you flying out and ain't fucking

0:27:10.320 --> 0:27:13.080
<v Speaker 1>like what's up with that? But who's to say that

0:27:13.240 --> 0:27:16.400
<v Speaker 1>she didn't have all intentions to fuck but you did something,

0:27:16.800 --> 0:27:23.080
<v Speaker 1>you know, Yeah, you got body older like that, cheesy

0:27:23.160 --> 0:27:26.760
<v Speaker 1>bits around it, and she saw it like all type

0:27:26.800 --> 0:27:29.840
<v Speaker 1>of reasons why women change their minds and then to

0:27:29.920 --> 0:27:33.280
<v Speaker 1>change their mind exactly. But you know what the problem is,

0:27:33.359 --> 0:27:36.720
<v Speaker 1>tim is that nigga's sucking regardless. There's gonna be nothing

0:27:36.760 --> 0:27:38.640
<v Speaker 1>a woman can do to turn a man off. Okay,

0:27:38.680 --> 0:27:41.200
<v Speaker 1>he gonna suck you at least and then and then

0:27:41.840 --> 0:27:45.960
<v Speaker 1>play with your ass after that, like exactly, but he

0:27:46.080 --> 0:27:48.360
<v Speaker 1>gonna sto fun. Y'all mad at us because we got

0:27:48.760 --> 0:27:55.600
<v Speaker 1>standards and integrity and goddamn, I don't know, self esteem.

0:27:55.680 --> 0:27:58.000
<v Speaker 1>All these different things will make me not want to

0:27:58.080 --> 0:28:00.280
<v Speaker 1>let you funk on me when I know, like gonna

0:28:00.280 --> 0:28:04.359
<v Speaker 1>be disgusted while it's happening. It's kind of his breath.

0:28:04.720 --> 0:28:09.040
<v Speaker 1>Here you from behind and hold his breath. Nasty sank

0:28:09.080 --> 0:28:14.160
<v Speaker 1>as it wouldn't be he just for this might as well. No, nigga,

0:28:14.880 --> 0:28:17.359
<v Speaker 1>four hundred dollars old clarinal, he's still playing for it.

0:28:17.800 --> 0:28:23.360
<v Speaker 1>Have some self respect, So y'all look at that. That's

0:28:23.400 --> 0:28:25.399
<v Speaker 1>crazy or you ain't sucking. He didn't flut, y'all. He

0:28:25.440 --> 0:28:27.720
<v Speaker 1>don't spend money. How dare you? Like? Y'all don't know

0:28:27.880 --> 0:28:31.159
<v Speaker 1>what could happen in between time, like, especially if you're

0:28:31.200 --> 0:28:33.560
<v Speaker 1>chatting it up sex and sexting it up with a

0:28:33.640 --> 0:28:37.800
<v Speaker 1>man like you're set to do this. I am anyway,

0:28:37.920 --> 0:28:41.240
<v Speaker 1>you know I'm not flying awhere where I'm not right.

0:28:41.360 --> 0:28:45.440
<v Speaker 1>I'll just stay home, okay. But if I get there

0:28:45.520 --> 0:28:47.240
<v Speaker 1>and it ain't what it should be and I don't

0:28:47.240 --> 0:28:50.360
<v Speaker 1>feel comfortable comfortable enough to do it, I'm not nigga,

0:28:50.520 --> 0:28:51.960
<v Speaker 1>and you can feel how you want to feel about it.

0:28:51.960 --> 0:28:54.680
<v Speaker 1>And guess what I got sucking money because I never

0:28:54.760 --> 0:28:56.560
<v Speaker 1>worried about not being able to get back to where

0:28:56.560 --> 0:29:00.960
<v Speaker 1>I'm going, right, y'all, bitch has better grow up? Yeah,

0:29:01.000 --> 0:29:03.240
<v Speaker 1>don't go nowhere with no money. That's the first rule.

0:29:03.360 --> 0:29:06.120
<v Speaker 1>Your mama should have talked to you that you don't

0:29:06.120 --> 0:29:09.000
<v Speaker 1>be depending on the nigga because then you gotta pay

0:29:09.080 --> 0:29:11.080
<v Speaker 1>for your flight with your COUCHI like, you really gotta

0:29:11.120 --> 0:29:20.440
<v Speaker 1>pay for it with your COUCHI at that point, you

0:29:20.520 --> 0:29:27.320
<v Speaker 1>can't clariner that pussy. Oh you could, you could after

0:29:27.400 --> 0:29:33.240
<v Speaker 1>pay it though, after pay definitely got flights. Yeah, you know,

0:29:33.440 --> 0:29:35.800
<v Speaker 1>you can't clariner a flight, but you can't clariner that pussy.

0:29:35.880 --> 0:29:44.840
<v Speaker 1>Then shame all right, y'all right, one more thing, y'all,

0:29:44.920 --> 0:29:47.840
<v Speaker 1>Mystical ass is back in fucking jail with no bond

0:29:48.280 --> 0:29:53.040
<v Speaker 1>for rape and a few other charges. These names exist

0:29:53.120 --> 0:29:55.480
<v Speaker 1>in our community. Dog, we gotta stop acting like they don't.

0:29:57.080 --> 0:30:00.240
<v Speaker 1>Will have, yes, people will have. All excuse is for

0:30:00.360 --> 0:30:04.160
<v Speaker 1>these predatory men, you know, because they only men, are

0:30:04.240 --> 0:30:08.680
<v Speaker 1>only concerned about the people under their fucking roof technically,

0:30:09.320 --> 0:30:11.720
<v Speaker 1>you know, but these these guys exist out here. Man,

0:30:11.760 --> 0:30:14.400
<v Speaker 1>We don't be making this ship up. Most most Black

0:30:14.480 --> 0:30:18.320
<v Speaker 1>women in particular are attacked by people they know. It's

0:30:18.360 --> 0:30:20.320
<v Speaker 1>not strangers. A lot of times there's people we know

0:30:22.640 --> 0:30:27.200
<v Speaker 1>that's crazy, but Mystical gives off rape vibes. Honestly does he?

0:30:27.480 --> 0:30:30.000
<v Speaker 1>I always thought he was so fine, nice looking man,

0:30:30.200 --> 0:30:32.920
<v Speaker 1>Like why you need to take pussy? The way he'd

0:30:32.960 --> 0:30:39.360
<v Speaker 1>be yelling in him song watch yourself, show me what

0:30:39.440 --> 0:30:42.840
<v Speaker 1>you're working with. Guys, just thick is scary. This nick

0:30:43.000 --> 0:30:45.880
<v Speaker 1>is yelling at me. So I feel like he gives

0:30:46.000 --> 0:30:48.400
<v Speaker 1>rap people with Somebody gonna be mad about these jokes, y'all.

0:30:48.440 --> 0:30:51.120
<v Speaker 1>These are we're not making fun of rape. Okay, it's

0:30:51.200 --> 0:30:55.040
<v Speaker 1>not wasn't he in the military. Does he have PTSD

0:30:55.160 --> 0:30:58.080
<v Speaker 1>or something? I remember him being in the military, right, Oh,

0:30:58.160 --> 0:31:02.400
<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I don't mm hmm. But he did

0:31:02.480 --> 0:31:05.320
<v Speaker 1>seven years before for rape. Got arrested again in two

0:31:05.360 --> 0:31:08.040
<v Speaker 1>thousand seventeen for rape, but they said they couldn't prosecute

0:31:08.040 --> 0:31:11.600
<v Speaker 1>because it wasn't enough evidence, supposedly, and then now here's

0:31:11.800 --> 0:31:15.520
<v Speaker 1>and now here here he is again like he's a rapist,

0:31:15.960 --> 0:31:19.440
<v Speaker 1>like he gets off from taking it. He's a rapist.

0:31:20.280 --> 0:31:22.800
<v Speaker 1>I don't know, but listen, this this kind of leaves

0:31:22.880 --> 0:31:24.800
<v Speaker 1>us into what we want to talk about briefly to day.

0:31:25.280 --> 0:31:32.320
<v Speaker 1>We want to talk about manipulation versus seduction. We'll be

0:31:32.480 --> 0:31:40.080
<v Speaker 1>right back, y'all. Okay, y'all. So I was talking to

0:31:40.240 --> 0:31:46.720
<v Speaker 1>Tam and I know y'all know Taylor fun Sized t Yeah,

0:31:46.840 --> 0:31:53.200
<v Speaker 1>our producer, and we were talking about like, like I said,

0:31:53.200 --> 0:31:55.400
<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I know I'm not the only one

0:31:55.520 --> 0:31:57.840
<v Speaker 1>that this has happened too, but I don't think men

0:31:59.400 --> 0:32:05.680
<v Speaker 1>consider this uh predatory behavior kinda anyway. Have you, guys, Tammy,

0:32:05.800 --> 0:32:09.320
<v Speaker 1>have you ever been in a situation where you just

0:32:10.440 --> 0:32:12.680
<v Speaker 1>like you're around a guy made in a close setting

0:32:12.720 --> 0:32:15.520
<v Speaker 1>with a man, right, And I don't want to I

0:32:15.560 --> 0:32:18.320
<v Speaker 1>don't want to say it's rape, right, but you got

0:32:18.400 --> 0:32:21.000
<v Speaker 1>a little more pressured than you would have liked to,

0:32:21.640 --> 0:32:24.320
<v Speaker 1>and you engaged in sexual activity when you really didn't

0:32:24.360 --> 0:32:28.200
<v Speaker 1>want to. H and I have just blocked the neck

0:32:28.280 --> 0:32:31.760
<v Speaker 1>and goes to them afterwards, right if they want to do.

0:32:33.560 --> 0:32:36.280
<v Speaker 1>I definitely have been in the situation when I was

0:32:36.400 --> 0:32:40.600
<v Speaker 1>much younger in my early twenties where I engaged in

0:32:40.720 --> 0:32:42.960
<v Speaker 1>sex that I really didn't want to have but the

0:32:43.040 --> 0:32:48.560
<v Speaker 1>pressure was just a lot and I did right, But

0:32:48.680 --> 0:32:52.440
<v Speaker 1>I can't I couldn't call it right because I consented

0:32:52.560 --> 0:32:59.800
<v Speaker 1>to something I didn't really want to do. So so

0:32:59.880 --> 0:33:03.480
<v Speaker 1>that's why I want to talk about like manipulation versus seduction,

0:33:03.480 --> 0:33:06.200
<v Speaker 1>because I think like a lot of men think that damn,

0:33:06.440 --> 0:33:08.640
<v Speaker 1>I kissed her in the neck. That didn't work. Let

0:33:08.680 --> 0:33:12.800
<v Speaker 1>me try someplace else. Like they keep trying different orogenous

0:33:12.920 --> 0:33:15.640
<v Speaker 1>zones to see if they can get you going right.

0:33:15.760 --> 0:33:18.200
<v Speaker 1>But if somebody got to tell you no, move stop,

0:33:18.360 --> 0:33:22.400
<v Speaker 1>I'm just chilling too many fu times. And then I

0:33:22.480 --> 0:33:24.479
<v Speaker 1>don't know, maybe you just get on top of him.

0:33:26.400 --> 0:33:27.920
<v Speaker 1>I don't have somebody humped the hell out of me

0:33:27.960 --> 0:33:33.400
<v Speaker 1>with clothes on before, and that's just like borderline disgusting rape. Okay, yeah,

0:33:33.480 --> 0:33:37.320
<v Speaker 1>we were fully clothed, but he dry humped me for

0:33:37.400 --> 0:33:41.880
<v Speaker 1>a long time. Yes, And I was like, you don't

0:33:41.920 --> 0:33:44.160
<v Speaker 1>gonna clean up? He was like, it's not that much

0:33:48.240 --> 0:33:51.760
<v Speaker 1>like this actually happened. So not to make fun of

0:33:51.840 --> 0:33:53.960
<v Speaker 1>the situation, but this ship happens. And I want to

0:33:53.960 --> 0:33:55.959
<v Speaker 1>say to younger women because I feel like even when

0:33:56.040 --> 0:33:58.280
<v Speaker 1>men get older, this is not something that they probably

0:33:58.360 --> 0:34:01.520
<v Speaker 1>go around doing. You know what I'm saying. But when

0:34:01.560 --> 0:34:04.040
<v Speaker 1>that testosterone click kicks in a lot of times, men

0:34:04.120 --> 0:34:09.040
<v Speaker 1>can't control themselves. Yeah you know, so women, we just

0:34:09.200 --> 0:34:11.920
<v Speaker 1>you know, to get it over with. You might engage

0:34:11.960 --> 0:34:13.360
<v Speaker 1>in some ship that you didn't want to do. So

0:34:13.520 --> 0:34:20.600
<v Speaker 1>is that manipulation or is it seduction? Combin Right? So, um,

0:34:22.880 --> 0:34:25.040
<v Speaker 1>I like to look up the definitions of words, because

0:34:25.120 --> 0:34:27.640
<v Speaker 1>clearly we know what manipulation is and we know what

0:34:27.760 --> 0:34:32.400
<v Speaker 1>seduction is. But you know, when you look up definitions,

0:34:32.440 --> 0:34:37.040
<v Speaker 1>you get a better context of things sometimes. So, uh,

0:34:37.360 --> 0:34:43.879
<v Speaker 1>manipulate is to handle or control, typically in a skillful manner, alter, edit,

0:34:44.080 --> 0:34:47.880
<v Speaker 1>or remove, examine, or treat a part of the body

0:34:48.040 --> 0:34:52.120
<v Speaker 1>by feeling or moving it with the hand, control, or

0:34:52.320 --> 0:35:02.160
<v Speaker 1>influence a personal situation cleverly, unfairly, unscrupulously. Um. And then yeah,

0:35:02.360 --> 0:35:08.719
<v Speaker 1>that's basically it. That's manipulation mm hmm right um. Attempting

0:35:08.880 --> 0:35:12.799
<v Speaker 1>or attractive thing. Okay, so even we if we look

0:35:12.880 --> 0:35:15.600
<v Speaker 1>at seduction like that, like maybe this person is already

0:35:15.640 --> 0:35:20.239
<v Speaker 1>attractive to you, He's already already kind of tempting, so

0:35:20.560 --> 0:35:22.400
<v Speaker 1>he might do a couple of little things and that

0:35:22.520 --> 0:35:26.160
<v Speaker 1>gets you there to go ahead and and go on.

0:35:26.760 --> 0:35:29.160
<v Speaker 1>So I guess it becomes manipulation when you really don't

0:35:29.200 --> 0:35:34.919
<v Speaker 1>want to, Right, how do men maneuver in a world

0:35:35.000 --> 0:35:39.600
<v Speaker 1>like that? See, it's kind of fucked up for the

0:35:39.680 --> 0:35:44.759
<v Speaker 1>guys because his attention may not be to manipulate you.

0:35:44.920 --> 0:35:46.960
<v Speaker 1>But if you don't like him, and he don't know that,

0:35:48.360 --> 0:35:51.440
<v Speaker 1>then it looks like he manipulated you, you know, right,

0:35:51.640 --> 0:35:53.399
<v Speaker 1>And see that's why I always be like, y'all think

0:35:53.400 --> 0:35:55.040
<v Speaker 1>I'm crazy, But I don't like to go to like

0:35:55.239 --> 0:35:58.200
<v Speaker 1>if I don't want to fuck at this age and

0:35:58.360 --> 0:36:00.880
<v Speaker 1>then like I and I because I've putting myself in

0:36:00.960 --> 0:36:03.719
<v Speaker 1>situations I really should not have, right, so you see

0:36:03.760 --> 0:36:07.960
<v Speaker 1>ship you know in hindsight, But I don't like to

0:36:08.000 --> 0:36:10.120
<v Speaker 1>go on close settings with any man if I don't

0:36:10.120 --> 0:36:12.040
<v Speaker 1>plan on having sex with them, like I'm not coming

0:36:12.080 --> 0:36:14.359
<v Speaker 1>to your house eleven o'clock at night, and not because

0:36:14.440 --> 0:36:17.120
<v Speaker 1>women shouldn't be able to. But we know the stories.

0:36:17.480 --> 0:36:19.600
<v Speaker 1>You know, some men can't control themselves. And you don't

0:36:19.640 --> 0:36:22.480
<v Speaker 1>know somebody until you know them, right, so you might

0:36:22.560 --> 0:36:24.719
<v Speaker 1>think he's cool and then you get there and he

0:36:24.840 --> 0:36:29.360
<v Speaker 1>fucking violates you. Yeah, that's fair. I do you know,

0:36:29.440 --> 0:36:30.879
<v Speaker 1>I go where I want to go when I want

0:36:30.880 --> 0:36:34.680
<v Speaker 1>to go, and I don't feel like any type of

0:36:34.719 --> 0:36:37.440
<v Speaker 1>way about it. I got a gun, I carry a

0:36:37.480 --> 0:36:40.640
<v Speaker 1>gun with me. I would go to a nigger house

0:36:40.640 --> 0:36:42.880
<v Speaker 1>at eleven o'clock with no plans, and I'll leave my

0:36:42.960 --> 0:36:46.160
<v Speaker 1>pussy at home, but bring my pistol with me. You

0:36:46.280 --> 0:36:52.480
<v Speaker 1>hear me? All right? So seduces, entice someone into sexual activity,

0:36:53.320 --> 0:36:57.040
<v Speaker 1>attract someone to a belief or into a course of action.

0:36:57.239 --> 0:37:02.560
<v Speaker 1>That is, um, yeah, I know I can't read hold on.

0:37:03.000 --> 0:37:09.120
<v Speaker 1>Attract someone to believe or into a course of action. Uh,

0:37:09.280 --> 0:37:14.520
<v Speaker 1>that is fool fool hardy, fool hardy, fool heart free,

0:37:15.080 --> 0:37:18.560
<v Speaker 1>fool hardy f O l h A r d y

0:37:19.239 --> 0:37:24.359
<v Speaker 1>that's the word. Yeah. However, what is foolhardy? I don't

0:37:24.400 --> 0:37:32.279
<v Speaker 1>even know that. I don't know. It's as invisible, in advisible,

0:37:32.920 --> 0:37:39.400
<v Speaker 1>or fool hardy. Uh, seduce, seduces, seducing, Yeah, all of

0:37:39.480 --> 0:37:45.040
<v Speaker 1>these acts attract powerfully. So I think the only difference is,

0:37:45.880 --> 0:37:48.680
<v Speaker 1>like beauty is in the eye to beholder, Like we said, like,

0:37:48.880 --> 0:37:52.120
<v Speaker 1>it's only manipulation if the bitch don't like you, and

0:37:52.239 --> 0:37:54.800
<v Speaker 1>that's kind of unfair. But what if I like you,

0:37:54.920 --> 0:37:56.840
<v Speaker 1>but I don't want to suck you right now? And

0:37:56.920 --> 0:37:59.080
<v Speaker 1>here you are pressuring me to funk like I want

0:37:59.120 --> 0:38:01.399
<v Speaker 1>to fuck you at some point, but not right now.

0:38:02.520 --> 0:38:06.840
<v Speaker 1>So you know, women, uh, it's like almost you have

0:38:06.960 --> 0:38:10.239
<v Speaker 1>to have you know, ten times the wopower not to

0:38:10.360 --> 0:38:13.600
<v Speaker 1>have sex when men can do whatever they want to do, right,

0:38:13.880 --> 0:38:16.120
<v Speaker 1>Because if you don't fuck you a bit, if you do,

0:38:16.280 --> 0:38:18.560
<v Speaker 1>fuck your whole. You know, what I'm saying is, so

0:38:18.680 --> 0:38:21.000
<v Speaker 1>you have to be real meticulous, like it's almost sucking

0:38:21.120 --> 0:38:25.879
<v Speaker 1>like a surgeon with this relationship ship. If you want

0:38:25.960 --> 0:38:30.280
<v Speaker 1>somebody for more than sex, right, if you want somebody

0:38:30.320 --> 0:38:33.839
<v Speaker 1>to like you, you you you can't fuck them fast, right.

0:38:36.120 --> 0:38:39.719
<v Speaker 1>Well that's not necessarily depends on the person, right, but

0:38:39.960 --> 0:38:42.719
<v Speaker 1>but the majority, you know, maybe maybe i'd be a

0:38:42.840 --> 0:38:46.200
<v Speaker 1>lot of times. Maybe I'm speaking from more personal situations

0:38:46.239 --> 0:38:50.160
<v Speaker 1>because I do what I want to do right, But

0:38:50.239 --> 0:38:54.560
<v Speaker 1>I feel like the relationships I've been in, uh for

0:38:54.719 --> 0:38:57.359
<v Speaker 1>some reason, like later on in arguments, it comes up

0:38:57.480 --> 0:39:02.040
<v Speaker 1>like how fast I sucked them? Did you not want

0:39:02.040 --> 0:39:05.080
<v Speaker 1>to fun? Were you not like touching my titties and

0:39:05.239 --> 0:39:09.080
<v Speaker 1>caressing me and cohersing me into this act? And then

0:39:09.120 --> 0:39:12.239
<v Speaker 1>when I actually do it a year later, you're saying

0:39:12.280 --> 0:39:16.160
<v Speaker 1>something about yeah because the first night, yeah, I had

0:39:16.239 --> 0:39:20.200
<v Speaker 1>somebody shamed me after we had sex, like in a

0:39:20.280 --> 0:39:23.640
<v Speaker 1>public place and then shame me for doing it with them,

0:39:23.680 --> 0:39:28.919
<v Speaker 1>And I'm like, way, that was what you hear you? Yeah?

0:39:29.920 --> 0:39:31.879
<v Speaker 1>That was your I did to fuck that movie theater

0:39:31.960 --> 0:39:38.440
<v Speaker 1>and now you want to embarrassing me. It's like what

0:39:39.719 --> 0:39:47.920
<v Speaker 1>you picked that movie? That's a bull suck you because

0:39:48.080 --> 0:39:51.160
<v Speaker 1>why why are we like the things that women do,

0:39:51.320 --> 0:39:53.759
<v Speaker 1>like what you are natural? Because we're sexual being STUPI get,

0:39:53.880 --> 0:39:57.120
<v Speaker 1>it's like you get. It's like you get shunned on

0:39:57.280 --> 0:40:02.759
<v Speaker 1>for doing it. It's normal, right, mm hmm. So men

0:40:02.840 --> 0:40:05.000
<v Speaker 1>need to stop pressure women out here to funk if

0:40:05.000 --> 0:40:07.120
<v Speaker 1>their own wanna fuck, if they don't want to fuck

0:40:07.200 --> 0:40:09.040
<v Speaker 1>the woman. You know what I'm saying, because then when

0:40:09.040 --> 0:40:12.879
<v Speaker 1>I do smash your ass, I'm a whole It's it's

0:40:12.920 --> 0:40:15.840
<v Speaker 1>a double standard that ship right there. It really is.

0:40:16.040 --> 0:40:18.279
<v Speaker 1>It's an ugly double standard with men and women when

0:40:18.320 --> 0:40:22.920
<v Speaker 1>it comes to the whole ship. Because the needy kid

0:40:23.040 --> 0:40:24.960
<v Speaker 1>just roll around in the mud and he's the man.

0:40:25.800 --> 0:40:28.200
<v Speaker 1>But if a woman does anything, oh she is a

0:40:28.360 --> 0:40:32.080
<v Speaker 1>dirty come dumpster. You fucked in a movie theater with

0:40:32.239 --> 0:40:39.560
<v Speaker 1>a slut. I fucked you in a movie theater. We're

0:40:39.560 --> 0:40:43.759
<v Speaker 1>going together. I thought we was a couple, right, whatever, No,

0:40:44.200 --> 0:40:46.560
<v Speaker 1>you ain't no damn couple. You're just a dirty hoore.

0:40:46.760 --> 0:40:51.920
<v Speaker 1>A month in the middle of argument, right, I literally

0:40:52.040 --> 0:40:55.600
<v Speaker 1>have been in full blown you know relationships women and

0:40:55.719 --> 0:40:58.520
<v Speaker 1>that type of ship comes out. That was my boyfriend

0:40:58.560 --> 0:41:05.160
<v Speaker 1>who was sex slush shaming you, alright, slush shaming me

0:41:05.640 --> 0:41:10.120
<v Speaker 1>for something he encouraged me to do in the movie theater.

0:41:13.800 --> 0:41:15.880
<v Speaker 1>I don't know, but yeah, like I was saying, if

0:41:15.920 --> 0:41:17.759
<v Speaker 1>I do not want to have sex with somebody like

0:41:18.480 --> 0:41:21.000
<v Speaker 1>now on a days like I'm not, I'm not going

0:41:21.120 --> 0:41:24.719
<v Speaker 1>close settings with them because anything can happen. I don't

0:41:24.760 --> 0:41:27.040
<v Speaker 1>want to have regrets because I'm gonna sucking ghoti as

0:41:27.200 --> 0:41:32.080
<v Speaker 1>the next day. Settings. Where are you gonna smoke weed at?

0:41:33.040 --> 0:41:35.640
<v Speaker 1>Miss see? That's I don't smoke weed like that. I

0:41:35.719 --> 0:41:37.719
<v Speaker 1>don't smoke like that. I mean there's always Hey, I'm

0:41:37.719 --> 0:41:39.520
<v Speaker 1>gonna stop by. We can sit in the car and smoke.

0:41:40.360 --> 0:41:43.960
<v Speaker 1>Maybe we could sit outside, and so I'm coming in

0:41:44.080 --> 0:41:50.839
<v Speaker 1>your house, somebody snacks, listen to music, watch the TV.

0:41:51.400 --> 0:41:53.520
<v Speaker 1>We're gonna smoke, tell some jokes because you know, I'm

0:41:53.520 --> 0:41:55.440
<v Speaker 1>gonna tell some jokes and then I'm gonna go home.

0:41:55.520 --> 0:41:57.880
<v Speaker 1>And it shouldn't have to be I have to be

0:41:58.000 --> 0:42:01.160
<v Speaker 1>so guarded. I think you to have have to have

0:42:01.280 --> 0:42:04.400
<v Speaker 1>a certain level of discernment when you're going like you

0:42:04.480 --> 0:42:07.319
<v Speaker 1>gotta know, I mean, there's no way to know for sure.

0:42:07.800 --> 0:42:09.600
<v Speaker 1>That's what I'm saying. You don't know people to you

0:42:09.680 --> 0:42:12.400
<v Speaker 1>know him, but you have to have a level of

0:42:12.440 --> 0:42:15.000
<v Speaker 1>discernment when you're going in people's house. Yeah, I'm a

0:42:15.040 --> 0:42:17.719
<v Speaker 1>pretty good judge of character. Like I said, I was younger,

0:42:18.000 --> 0:42:20.080
<v Speaker 1>younger days, and I'd like to talk about these things

0:42:20.120 --> 0:42:22.960
<v Speaker 1>because this is ship that bitches in college is going

0:42:23.000 --> 0:42:25.919
<v Speaker 1>through right now. These are things younger women are going

0:42:26.000 --> 0:42:29.319
<v Speaker 1>through right now. And they probably think it's only them,

0:42:29.440 --> 0:42:33.120
<v Speaker 1>but this is being pressured to have sex. And you

0:42:33.200 --> 0:42:34.840
<v Speaker 1>really don't want to have sex with a person, but

0:42:34.920 --> 0:42:39.120
<v Speaker 1>you go ahead and do it. That is manipulation. That

0:42:39.280 --> 0:42:43.279
<v Speaker 1>is manipulation. You want to have sex with somebody and

0:42:43.440 --> 0:42:45.600
<v Speaker 1>you'll already talked about it, and he coming, you know,

0:42:45.800 --> 0:42:49.040
<v Speaker 1>rubbing you up and rubbing your feet first and kissing

0:42:49.080 --> 0:42:51.239
<v Speaker 1>you at like all of all of four play type

0:42:51.280 --> 0:42:55.040
<v Speaker 1>things that go into sex. That's different. Mm hm. You

0:42:55.080 --> 0:42:59.719
<v Speaker 1>know what I'm saying. But somebody just forcefully just harassing

0:42:59.760 --> 0:43:03.600
<v Speaker 1>your asked I won't go to sleep like you know,

0:43:03.760 --> 0:43:05.960
<v Speaker 1>like you, I have stayed over to a man's house

0:43:06.000 --> 0:43:08.320
<v Speaker 1>and had to get up and leave. You know what

0:43:08.360 --> 0:43:10.120
<v Speaker 1>I'm saying, Like the whole thing was for me to

0:43:10.160 --> 0:43:13.480
<v Speaker 1>come stay tonight. Right, not necessarily smash, I never put

0:43:13.560 --> 0:43:17.000
<v Speaker 1>that out there, but I come stay tonight. You cannot

0:43:17.040 --> 0:43:19.840
<v Speaker 1>sleep in men's beds. They're not gonna go to sleep

0:43:19.920 --> 0:43:22.080
<v Speaker 1>that test stop. Strong stopped kicking in, and they're gonna

0:43:22.120 --> 0:43:24.920
<v Speaker 1>harass you all night long. You're gonna have to go home.

0:43:25.920 --> 0:43:31.160
<v Speaker 1>You've never been in that situation. Oh absolutely, I don't go, though, Boy,

0:43:31.239 --> 0:43:37.520
<v Speaker 1>calmed down, you stay there. I'm not. I'm not staying

0:43:37.560 --> 0:43:39.319
<v Speaker 1>because I'm not gonna be able to sleep, and half

0:43:39.360 --> 0:43:41.120
<v Speaker 1>the time I'd rather sleep in my own bed. Anyway,

0:43:41.880 --> 0:43:43.360
<v Speaker 1>I'm not gonna be able to sleep, and you just

0:43:43.440 --> 0:43:48.480
<v Speaker 1>harassing me, touching me all night. Get no, eventually they stopped.

0:43:50.719 --> 0:43:52.719
<v Speaker 1>If they got good sense, they'll just stop and go

0:43:52.800 --> 0:43:59.920
<v Speaker 1>to being mad, don't. I'm making some bacon and eggs.

0:44:00.000 --> 0:44:02.279
<v Speaker 1>If you got something, this motherfucker I'm making for you

0:44:02.360 --> 0:44:04.600
<v Speaker 1>in the morning, and I'm gonna go home. But it

0:44:04.760 --> 0:44:06.480
<v Speaker 1>just depends on you have to have those type of

0:44:06.520 --> 0:44:10.160
<v Speaker 1>conversations though, Like I would let the nigger know that

0:44:10.200 --> 0:44:12.200
<v Speaker 1>I ain't bringing up pussy with me. That don't stop

0:44:12.239 --> 0:44:17.480
<v Speaker 1>them from trying. But at least they were full worn right, Yeah,

0:44:17.520 --> 0:44:20.359
<v Speaker 1>but in their minds, especially in young men mind, they

0:44:20.440 --> 0:44:24.640
<v Speaker 1>can finesse you. Yeah, they think they can finesse because

0:44:24.680 --> 0:44:29.520
<v Speaker 1>they are hunters, right. Men are our hunters, so that's

0:44:29.560 --> 0:44:32.000
<v Speaker 1>why we yeah, by nature, So that's why you do

0:44:32.160 --> 0:44:34.279
<v Speaker 1>give it up too easy. It just becomes like a

0:44:35.440 --> 0:44:37.279
<v Speaker 1>turn off of them because they want to feel like

0:44:38.040 --> 0:44:42.160
<v Speaker 1>they caught you. Yes, that's what they want to feel like.

0:44:42.880 --> 0:44:45.120
<v Speaker 1>They want to feel like they caught you and and

0:44:45.360 --> 0:44:47.640
<v Speaker 1>got you to do something. Like I was telling the

0:44:47.680 --> 0:44:49.440
<v Speaker 1>nigger once, I was like, dude, already knew I was

0:44:49.520 --> 0:44:51.680
<v Speaker 1>working ifore I came here, like, you ain't have nothing

0:44:51.760 --> 0:44:53.200
<v Speaker 1>to do with that, And he does not like to

0:44:53.239 --> 0:44:57.200
<v Speaker 1>hear that, like like I set the whole ship up

0:44:57.239 --> 0:44:59.440
<v Speaker 1>in my mind, like my whole day was set on

0:44:59.680 --> 0:45:02.120
<v Speaker 1>fucking him tonight, Like you have nothing to do with that.

0:45:03.200 --> 0:45:05.000
<v Speaker 1>I hit you out, what's your address? We hadn't been

0:45:05.080 --> 0:45:06.799
<v Speaker 1>up some dates, like what's your address? I had never

0:45:06.880 --> 0:45:11.160
<v Speaker 1>been this house before, And now like I'm we've had

0:45:11.239 --> 0:45:15.000
<v Speaker 1>conversations after the fact in his mind and in his

0:45:15.200 --> 0:45:20.840
<v Speaker 1>mind he got me to fuck right. I lined you

0:45:21.000 --> 0:45:27.279
<v Speaker 1>up all day. I lined your ass up all day.

0:45:27.440 --> 0:45:30.359
<v Speaker 1>Like men, when a woman gives you pussy a lot

0:45:30.440 --> 0:45:32.920
<v Speaker 1>of times, like willingly, Okay, it has nothing to do

0:45:33.000 --> 0:45:36.680
<v Speaker 1>with you. She already knew. Yeah, you didn't finess the situation.

0:45:36.840 --> 0:45:40.520
<v Speaker 1>You didn't manipulate decision, but sometimes sometimes you do. Sometimes

0:45:40.600 --> 0:45:43.120
<v Speaker 1>they do. I don't definitely gave us some pussy, like

0:45:43.360 --> 0:45:45.880
<v Speaker 1>damn the next day, I did not mean to get

0:45:45.920 --> 0:45:50.160
<v Speaker 1>that whatever, because you probably put on matching brown pennies.

0:45:50.360 --> 0:45:53.560
<v Speaker 1>You did something a little extra in the show. Yeah,

0:45:53.719 --> 0:45:56.319
<v Speaker 1>mother fun, we'll be prepping now. We definitely will prep

0:45:56.560 --> 0:46:01.320
<v Speaker 1>to not get a couci up the case. I just

0:46:01.480 --> 0:46:03.239
<v Speaker 1>just in case the pussy there not like it was

0:46:03.280 --> 0:46:05.239
<v Speaker 1>a nigger, Like I really wanted to fucking, but I

0:46:05.280 --> 0:46:06.960
<v Speaker 1>wanted to wait because I wanted to get to know

0:46:07.080 --> 0:46:12.040
<v Speaker 1>him better. So I wore a holy drawl. I wore

0:46:12.120 --> 0:46:14.520
<v Speaker 1>some holy ass patties. I was like, I cannot let

0:46:14.600 --> 0:46:18.120
<v Speaker 1>him see these draws, and then I still fucked him

0:46:21.320 --> 0:46:29.640
<v Speaker 1>bawling patties up in this trash can think it. Don't

0:46:29.680 --> 0:46:31.719
<v Speaker 1>got no standards. They don't give a damn about no hole.

0:46:31.840 --> 0:46:44.000
<v Speaker 1>Pat you right through that hole in them draw They're easy. Goodness.

0:46:44.080 --> 0:46:47.279
<v Speaker 1>I was joking, y'all some of the stuff. Sometimes I

0:46:47.400 --> 0:46:49.360
<v Speaker 1>really just be making up ship for it to be funny,

0:46:51.120 --> 0:46:57.319
<v Speaker 1>not that though that really did happen. I don't know, man,

0:46:57.880 --> 0:46:59.839
<v Speaker 1>I just say middle thing is to my old life

0:46:59.880 --> 0:47:06.040
<v Speaker 1>a lot. And you know, you're living, you learn, and

0:47:06.680 --> 0:47:09.000
<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I just I don't know. I have

0:47:09.080 --> 0:47:11.319
<v Speaker 1>a niece who is twenty four, and I'd be trying

0:47:11.360 --> 0:47:14.920
<v Speaker 1>to tell her stuff. But everybody just be wanting to

0:47:15.520 --> 0:47:17.880
<v Speaker 1>learn on their own. Yeah, life is going to be

0:47:17.960 --> 0:47:21.480
<v Speaker 1>your best teacher. Yeah, instead of just living vicariously through

0:47:21.560 --> 0:47:25.720
<v Speaker 1>other people like they just got to know it, learning

0:47:25.760 --> 0:47:29.640
<v Speaker 1>from your mistakes. I posted about that um, that girl

0:47:29.719 --> 0:47:33.160
<v Speaker 1>getting fluid out and the guy and I posted about,

0:47:33.200 --> 0:47:36.279
<v Speaker 1>you know, putting your security question on your ticket so

0:47:36.360 --> 0:47:38.960
<v Speaker 1>nobody can tamper with your ticket, and he was like,

0:47:39.080 --> 0:47:41.160
<v Speaker 1>a guy came on the post, like, how did you

0:47:41.280 --> 0:47:49.239
<v Speaker 1>learn that? I said, bitch the hard way? So I'm

0:47:49.239 --> 0:47:51.759
<v Speaker 1>putting their information out so someone doesn't have to learn

0:47:51.880 --> 0:47:56.439
<v Speaker 1>the hard way, you know. Yeah. Look, now he gonna

0:47:56.480 --> 0:47:59.000
<v Speaker 1>be like trying to figure out how he could set

0:47:59.040 --> 0:48:02.919
<v Speaker 1>a security code for first for a bitch ticket, right, See,

0:48:03.239 --> 0:48:06.920
<v Speaker 1>damn the information out there. You can't be telling that

0:48:06.920 --> 0:48:11.120
<v Speaker 1>all the secrets. Look He like, how you know? Right? Yeah,

0:48:11.160 --> 0:48:12.840
<v Speaker 1>you know, fun the game up for the young holes,

0:48:13.600 --> 0:48:15.680
<v Speaker 1>not if they see niggas don't listen as much as

0:48:15.719 --> 0:48:18.760
<v Speaker 1>the women. So if you get that to be at first,

0:48:22.480 --> 0:48:26.000
<v Speaker 1>you'll be up on game. I don't know, I don't know.

0:48:26.080 --> 0:48:28.560
<v Speaker 1>People just gotta be careful out here, man, Just be careful,

0:48:29.400 --> 0:48:34.560
<v Speaker 1>don't you know? Have have some discernment. Okay. I feel

0:48:34.600 --> 0:48:37.560
<v Speaker 1>like that's that's the majority of women's issues. We will

0:48:37.600 --> 0:48:41.399
<v Speaker 1>be complaining about these men, but we just be out

0:48:41.440 --> 0:48:45.120
<v Speaker 1>here and fucking Willie knelling it, just yelling it along.

0:48:45.760 --> 0:48:50.040
<v Speaker 1>No accountability for the ship that happened to you, like

0:48:50.120 --> 0:48:54.719
<v Speaker 1>you gotta have accountability, right and now there's monkey pop

0:48:54.800 --> 0:48:56.920
<v Speaker 1>ship going around. You fly out to the wrong you're

0:48:56.920 --> 0:49:03.400
<v Speaker 1>gonna come back and we're gonna see it. That walker,

0:49:03.440 --> 0:49:06.200
<v Speaker 1>she ain't gonna be a little different, a whole lot

0:49:06.239 --> 0:49:09.360
<v Speaker 1>of different. It's gonna be a bumpy rolled ahead. So

0:49:10.680 --> 0:49:12.680
<v Speaker 1>my advice would be not to fly out and nobody

0:49:12.800 --> 0:49:15.239
<v Speaker 1>right now until they get that ship contained, because girl,

0:49:16.600 --> 0:49:18.600
<v Speaker 1>I feel like it's not it's it not just like

0:49:18.719 --> 0:49:24.640
<v Speaker 1>a chicken pox on steroids. It is definitely chicken pox

0:49:24.680 --> 0:49:27.040
<v Speaker 1>on steroids. Because that girl's that you saw that video,

0:49:27.080 --> 0:49:31.879
<v Speaker 1>that girl from Atlanta her face who with yeah too,

0:49:33.840 --> 0:49:36.160
<v Speaker 1>Like I don't even scared of COVID for real. But listen,

0:49:37.040 --> 0:49:41.680
<v Speaker 1>my fucker's gonna want to be walking around looking crazy now, right,

0:49:42.400 --> 0:49:44.839
<v Speaker 1>nigger's rare to die and'll be walking around looking at ugly.

0:49:48.320 --> 0:49:52.399
<v Speaker 1>Nig's just taking their chances to COVID. But that mucky pox, bro, Yeah,

0:49:52.440 --> 0:49:55.080
<v Speaker 1>because you know how my chicken pox tore us up,

0:49:55.440 --> 0:49:58.440
<v Speaker 1>you know, starring and stuff. So imagine like black people's

0:49:58.440 --> 0:50:01.960
<v Speaker 1>skin is just different. Um. What I don't like about

0:50:02.000 --> 0:50:04.760
<v Speaker 1>the monkey pots about any of these diseases. They always

0:50:04.760 --> 0:50:06.759
<v Speaker 1>try to say it originated in Congo, like they want

0:50:06.800 --> 0:50:09.880
<v Speaker 1>to say all these diseases originated in Africa. But we

0:50:10.040 --> 0:50:12.440
<v Speaker 1>know who brought the diseases to the Indians, right, We

0:50:12.560 --> 0:50:14.919
<v Speaker 1>know who brought smallpox. We know they got a whole

0:50:15.080 --> 0:50:18.239
<v Speaker 1>book written on dirt. The name of the book is dirt.

0:50:18.280 --> 0:50:19.560
<v Speaker 1>If y'all want to go out there and look and

0:50:19.640 --> 0:50:23.520
<v Speaker 1>check it out and see how counterparts weren't washing and

0:50:23.600 --> 0:50:26.279
<v Speaker 1>we had to teach them how Okay, So all these

0:50:26.360 --> 0:50:30.000
<v Speaker 1>diseases really originated from them through through like a natural

0:50:30.600 --> 0:50:34.000
<v Speaker 1>progression of bacteria and viruses and ship like that, or

0:50:34.120 --> 0:50:36.000
<v Speaker 1>they created it in a fucking lab and they can't

0:50:36.040 --> 0:50:40.520
<v Speaker 1>detain it. That's what's happening. So stop putting ship onto Africa.

0:50:40.600 --> 0:50:42.279
<v Speaker 1>What they want to do is they want to keep

0:50:42.360 --> 0:50:47.960
<v Speaker 1>going into Africa and stealing them natural resources over there, right, So, oh,

0:50:48.040 --> 0:50:49.960
<v Speaker 1>this this area, all these people just got all these

0:50:50.000 --> 0:50:52.560
<v Speaker 1>diseases and y'all all over there and making people sick

0:50:52.680 --> 0:50:56.360
<v Speaker 1>to get them out of their natural habitats. That's what

0:50:56.400 --> 0:51:01.680
<v Speaker 1>they're doing. They're killing the people, y'all. You know, we

0:51:01.760 --> 0:51:06.160
<v Speaker 1>gotta pay these bills. We'll be right back. Dumb bitch

0:51:06.440 --> 0:51:10.439
<v Speaker 1>stories because we've all been a dumb bitch at least

0:51:10.480 --> 0:51:16.759
<v Speaker 1>once or twice. Story this week. Um, you know a

0:51:16.880 --> 0:51:18.759
<v Speaker 1>lot of times we get stories they don't really be

0:51:18.880 --> 0:51:21.480
<v Speaker 1>like dumba story. This is motherfucker's gonna tell us say business,

0:51:21.560 --> 0:51:23.560
<v Speaker 1>but I'm here for it. Okay. She don't really need

0:51:23.640 --> 0:51:25.399
<v Speaker 1>no advice based on this, and it's kind of long,

0:51:25.560 --> 0:51:28.160
<v Speaker 1>but I feel like the whole thing needs to be

0:51:28.239 --> 0:51:33.120
<v Speaker 1>read for context. So uh. She starts off by saying,

0:51:33.440 --> 0:51:38.080
<v Speaker 1>I would like to remain anonymous. Okay, so you're anonymous. Um,

0:51:39.000 --> 0:51:42.359
<v Speaker 1>so I started working with this coworker April. Now, if

0:51:42.440 --> 0:51:45.800
<v Speaker 1>you can remember, this was pandemic. Uh, this was peak pandemic.

0:51:46.120 --> 0:51:48.399
<v Speaker 1>So due to that, we were both able to tell

0:51:48.480 --> 0:51:50.960
<v Speaker 1>our significant others that we had to work hours that

0:51:51.080 --> 0:51:53.960
<v Speaker 1>weren't usual times we went in. We were we were

0:51:54.000 --> 0:51:56.759
<v Speaker 1>sucking once a week. Every week we would take one

0:51:56.800 --> 0:51:58.960
<v Speaker 1>day out the month and get a hotel room and

0:51:59.040 --> 0:52:02.360
<v Speaker 1>spend the day together. This went on forever. Excuse me,

0:52:02.520 --> 0:52:04.480
<v Speaker 1>this went on. This went on for over a year.

0:52:05.360 --> 0:52:08.160
<v Speaker 1>I'm add to this. Mid story. This went over. This

0:52:08.320 --> 0:52:11.120
<v Speaker 1>went on for over a year. Things were just getting

0:52:11.160 --> 0:52:14.400
<v Speaker 1>too heavy. Feelings got involved. We both started saying I

0:52:14.560 --> 0:52:17.680
<v Speaker 1>love you. He was pressing me to leave my husband.

0:52:18.120 --> 0:52:21.239
<v Speaker 1>He was going through a divorce. Supposedly, My intentions were

0:52:21.320 --> 0:52:23.839
<v Speaker 1>never to leave my husband. I just wanted the side dick.

0:52:24.520 --> 0:52:26.560
<v Speaker 1>I told him we needed to stop because my husband

0:52:26.560 --> 0:52:29.600
<v Speaker 1>started getting suspicious, taking drastic measures. I just went to

0:52:29.760 --> 0:52:33.280
<v Speaker 1>no contact, but that backfired. He was blowing out my phone,

0:52:33.400 --> 0:52:36.720
<v Speaker 1>so I blocked him. He started emailing me, calling, texting

0:52:36.760 --> 0:52:40.280
<v Speaker 1>me through other another, other numbers. He was like, okay, okay, okay,

0:52:40.760 --> 0:52:44.000
<v Speaker 1>we'll do it your way. No feelings, just fucking I'm like,

0:52:44.160 --> 0:52:48.280
<v Speaker 1>all right, So when he goes, can I see you? Naively,

0:52:48.440 --> 0:52:51.719
<v Speaker 1>I agreed so we hook up again. The next day,

0:52:51.800 --> 0:52:56.160
<v Speaker 1>he sends me still images screenshots of us. I'm staring

0:52:56.200 --> 0:53:00.239
<v Speaker 1>at my phone. I'm staring at my phone trying to

0:53:00.320 --> 0:53:02.879
<v Speaker 1>figure out what I'm looking at. My heart. My heart

0:53:03.000 --> 0:53:05.480
<v Speaker 1>sunk to the pit of my gut. I had to

0:53:05.560 --> 0:53:08.319
<v Speaker 1>pick my job off the floor. This motherfucker recorded us

0:53:08.400 --> 0:53:11.839
<v Speaker 1>having sex without me knowing. The thing was he would

0:53:11.880 --> 0:53:15.200
<v Speaker 1>always ask me when we were, when we were doing

0:53:15.239 --> 0:53:17.719
<v Speaker 1>it if he record, and I'm like, sorry, that's a

0:53:17.800 --> 0:53:20.640
<v Speaker 1>hard no. I replied back, what the fund is that?

0:53:22.440 --> 0:53:24.880
<v Speaker 1>What the excuse me? I replied back, what the funk

0:53:25.000 --> 0:53:26.799
<v Speaker 1>is that what I think it is? And he's like, yep,

0:53:27.239 --> 0:53:30.640
<v Speaker 1>it's a whole movie. I said, send it to me.

0:53:30.960 --> 0:53:34.279
<v Speaker 1>He said, nope, this is through text. She like, this

0:53:34.480 --> 0:53:40.719
<v Speaker 1>is a good writer, this person. Okay, let's be cleared. Reader.

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<v Speaker 1>My immediate response was I'm calling the cops as a joke.

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<v Speaker 1>He's like, call him frustrated. I told him, if you

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<v Speaker 1>don't send me that video in one minute, I'm never

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<v Speaker 1>speaking to you again. He says, don't be like that.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll show you in person. I texted him back times up.

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<v Speaker 1>At first, I was like, okay, maybe I'm overreacting, but no,

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<v Speaker 1>I trusted him and I felt so violated. I told

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<v Speaker 1>him that was not okay with me, and he did

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<v Speaker 1>it anyway. I was betraying my husband and he did

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<v Speaker 1>that to me. I was so mad, humiliated. I could

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<v Speaker 1>not believe this is happening. I didn't know what he

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<v Speaker 1>was going to do with the film recording blackmail me

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<v Speaker 1>send it to my husband. I was living in fear,

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<v Speaker 1>and she says update. Since then, he stayed trying to

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<v Speaker 1>reach out to me, so I left him on read

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<v Speaker 1>on read what part of I'll never speak to you again?

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<v Speaker 1>Don't you understand no means no um? He ended up

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<v Speaker 1>breaking excuse me. He ended up taking a leave of

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<v Speaker 1>absence from work for five months for personal reasons home

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<v Speaker 1>slash life. He came back to work made two popping

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<v Speaker 1>up on me while I was on the clock. Our

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<v Speaker 1>schedules are posted for all employees to see. He had

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<v Speaker 1>the fucking nerve to ask me how I was. I

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<v Speaker 1>turned my head, shook it and thought, you must have

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<v Speaker 1>wash your mind. So when he goes, well, at least

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<v Speaker 1>I know you ain't dead. I wanted to be like

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<v Speaker 1>and if I was, why the funk would you care?

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<v Speaker 1>But I held strong and kept my mouth shut the

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<v Speaker 1>way I should have in the beginning, don't get me wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>And sex was amazing, and if it was for that,

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<v Speaker 1>I'd probably and if it wasn't for that, I'd probably

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<v Speaker 1>would have still been working with him. But he moved

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<v Speaker 1>the way he moved, and I'm glad I've seen it.

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<v Speaker 1>When I did, I was about to risk it all

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<v Speaker 1>for a little sneaky ass, sneaky link. Shea though my

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<v Speaker 1>husband with the Merryman was the worst thing I've ever

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<v Speaker 1>did in my entire life. That's her dumb big story.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah you almost got jammed up, my girl. Yeah, he

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<v Speaker 1>could have extorted you for money, but he still got it.

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<v Speaker 1>He still has the video. He still can't extort her,

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<v Speaker 1>not really extored, because I mean, that's why they have

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<v Speaker 1>the laws now against like for revenge porn. So you

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<v Speaker 1>really don't have to worry about that type of ship

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<v Speaker 1>because her thing. Niggas care about that. If he got

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<v Speaker 1>a girl, he probably gonna care, Like, why are you

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<v Speaker 1>releasing footage of you having sex with somebody else and

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<v Speaker 1>you got a wife or a girlfriend, you know what

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<v Speaker 1>I'm saying. So m H, I don't know. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>like ship like that. That has happened to me, and

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<v Speaker 1>it's kind of triggering. Okay, somebody records you and then

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<v Speaker 1>tried to Uh well, I consented to the recording, but

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<v Speaker 1>he posted a still image, like she's saying he's sending

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<v Speaker 1>her still images to the phone. This nigga posted a

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<v Speaker 1>still image online. You know that story. Oh yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I got that phone. I got the picture of my phone.

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<v Speaker 1>Shut up deleted, bitch, what's wrong with you? Break girl?

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<v Speaker 1>So I don't know who screenshot that little quick image.

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<v Speaker 1>Anybody could have. Somebody probably got it, but I know

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<v Speaker 1>he still has the video. Also, I don't it's not

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<v Speaker 1>in my possession, so I don't like that either. I

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<v Speaker 1>got I got some real law your money if they

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<v Speaker 1>can ever try it. Okay, right, well, I'm glad that

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<v Speaker 1>ended well for you since because that could have went

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<v Speaker 1>totally bad. She better hope he just dies. Really, how

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<v Speaker 1>else is he gonna get the footage? Like? How else

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<v Speaker 1>can you be like okay with it being out there

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<v Speaker 1>knowing this if this person hasn't, like, what what could

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<v Speaker 1>she do? That's a helpless as feeling. Yeah, um, I

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<v Speaker 1>only send out news that I don't mind the world seeing.

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<v Speaker 1>So if you get like a new picture of me,

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<v Speaker 1>or if it's a video of me, if the world

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<v Speaker 1>see it, I ain't gonna feel that bad. I look

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<v Speaker 1>amazing in it, right. All you're gonna do is turn

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<v Speaker 1>me up bit mine. Now, somebody might do it. Then

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<v Speaker 1>you see how you feeling when it actually happens. I

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<v Speaker 1>know my daddy is still alive. Please don't put that

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<v Speaker 1>out there. So I was just joking, all right, y'all listen,

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<v Speaker 1>y'all may be careful out there. Just be careful, Just

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<v Speaker 1>be fucking careful. But anyway, if you enjoyed this episode,

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