Speaker 1: We're just too unapologetically black women with an opinion who
Speaker 1: talked back? But what's up, y'all? Thank you for tuning
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Speaker 1: dedicated to these niggas, and you host this, your co
Speaker 1: host a j What up? Hey, y'all, it's tam bad.
Speaker 1: Thank y'all for tuning in. I love y'all. Man, I
Speaker 1: gotta I gotta change my life. I gotta that you
Speaker 1: best stop budgeting. Mother a month, this ship said, asked
Speaker 1: me two thousand dollars on dining and drinks, three thousand
Speaker 1: dollars on personal care, two thousand dollars on shopping, two
Speaker 1: thousand dollars under categories and uncategorized, and then two thousand
Speaker 1: dollars on entertainment and recreation. Bitch, did you pay any bills?
Speaker 1: I ain't hear that. No utilities. Oh wait, it's more
Speaker 1: loan payments eight hundred dollars, although in transport nine hundred dollars.
Speaker 1: I ain't spend up, but two hundred dollars on grocery. YoY, y'all, listen, listen,
Speaker 1: I follow money, and we have been in the recession
Speaker 1: since last October. For what they're trying to say, and
Speaker 1: then they're trying to change the definition of recession same
Speaker 1: way they change the definition of vaccine and vaccination. Let's
Speaker 1: be clear, we're in a recession and you're spending like that. Girl,
Speaker 1: You've gotta buy a lot of silver and gold. I don't.
Speaker 1: I didn't realize I spent that much money last month.
Speaker 1: I'm sad. That's how I'm here. Salads be y'all live
Speaker 1: like drug dealers. Y'all, y'all make the money right back,
Speaker 1: and y'all spending that's that's that's just how it goes down.
Speaker 1: I'm not spending no month in the month of August money.
Speaker 1: You know what you need? You need a motherfucking baby
Speaker 1: to stop budgeting that. Don't you wish that bad? Look
Speaker 1: on me? Dy Bobby. You know they say mom has
Speaker 1: come with a with a loaf of bread. Bitch sh
Speaker 1: all My friends were kids rich. Meanwhile, I'm just out here. Goodness,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna do better this month. Dad is ridiculous. Girl.
Speaker 1: We got a lot of this month to try and look,
Speaker 1: try it again. What's the other month, September? Try to
Speaker 1: get a September. I'm not going on. I didn't go
Speaker 1: anywhere this weekend. This weekend, I didn't spend no money.
Speaker 1: How the fund did I still managed to spend that money.
Speaker 1: You don't order nothing to your house this weekend? Oh
Speaker 1: yeah I did. See. Look I didn't leave to spend money.
Speaker 1: I spent it from home. How her My weekend was cool?
Speaker 1: Ship my dad? Uh, we're actually I hope none of
Speaker 1: my family and my daddy side listened to the show.
Speaker 1: But anyway, because I'm talking a little bit of ship
Speaker 1: about that. So one of my older aunts, she's about
Speaker 1: to she's the age of my excuse me, she's not
Speaker 1: my aunt, one of my older cousins. She's an auntie age,
Speaker 1: but she's an actual cousin. She's my mom's niece, but
Speaker 1: my daddy's niece. But she's the same age as my mom,
Speaker 1: is what I'm trying to say. So this is an
Speaker 1: older person. So she had like a gathering for all
Speaker 1: the cousins ages eighteen to fifty at my dad's house.
Speaker 1: So it was like a meet and Greek, you know,
Speaker 1: for the cousins. Sorry, I know more majority thing, but
Speaker 1: I don't know like people's kids. Um, she had like
Speaker 1: a whole thing. She said a prayer for about I
Speaker 1: don't know twenty minutes, and everybody kept saying a man
Speaker 1: to get her to stop, but she fucking wouldn't. But
Speaker 1: she was just trying to, you know, cover us, you know,
Speaker 1: on my daddy side of the families. Like everybody dies
Speaker 1: of heart disease or they get murdered. Like the niggas
Speaker 1: isn't either in prison or dead, and the women die
Speaker 1: young of heart disease. Like most of the people are older,
Speaker 1: older people exactly, and like I'm there right, and I'm
Speaker 1: like and macarda cheese. Now, they just all they had
Speaker 1: was hot dogs, hamburgers, and a bunch of crabs, you know, Charlston,
Speaker 1: that's the thing, blue crabs. I don't know how many
Speaker 1: damn crabs I ate this weekend. So thank god they
Speaker 1: had something there for me to eat. But yeah, but
Speaker 1: everybody just unhealthy, barely on road ton Like I literally
Speaker 1: be in the mirror talking to my stomach, bitchet. I
Speaker 1: want my stomach to stay how it is, Like I
Speaker 1: don't want to be walking around with that big gass
Speaker 1: booty do. Oh yeah, all of them got a booty
Speaker 1: do over there. They ain't gonna invite you to the
Speaker 1: next custure man, I'll be feeling like a celebrity around
Speaker 1: the people you've been at. Bitch 'all know nowhere. No,
Speaker 1: you can't have my number, give them your number for what,
Speaker 1: But they can call me cousin, cousin. That's the favorite thing. Girl,
Speaker 1: Just because we were lad, you think you could use me. No,
Speaker 1: they ain't nobody trying to use you. They're trying to
Speaker 1: build a relationship with you. A family. The motherfucker' don't
Speaker 1: want to ride. They need some money. They don't want
Speaker 1: to bond. They might need bond, But I love my
Speaker 1: family though, so it was a good time drinking and
Speaker 1: eating crabs to get to see my daddy. I love
Speaker 1: my daddy. I'm so in love with my dad. Yep.
Speaker 1: My daddy is getting old, man, and they can move
Speaker 1: and slower and slower. It's crazy watching your parents get old.
Speaker 1: You know they are always be It's like superheroes and
Speaker 1: your eyes. And then they get a whole ship wow,
Speaker 1: walking slow. How was your weekend? I didn't do ship
Speaker 1: but spend money apparently. God damn, I didn't go nowhere
Speaker 1: at all this weekend. I chilled. I would like I
Speaker 1: was exhausted from all the birthday festivities all month of July.
Speaker 1: Apparently I've been running a muck So I didn't do
Speaker 1: nothing this weekend. I just uh smoke weed and watched
Speaker 1: UM rap Shit. I like that new show on HBO
Speaker 1: if y'all need something to watch rap shit, it's Eastern
Speaker 1: Ray's new show. Uh. It has two I love Chameleon,
Speaker 1: yeah she's in it, and I'm not sure the other girl.
Speaker 1: She's a new face to me. Um, but they both
Speaker 1: wrapped and they start a rap group and it's such
Speaker 1: a cute little show. I like it. So I watched
Speaker 1: that this weekend. And P Valley. If y'all watch um
Speaker 1: if y'all have stars, or you can get on somebody
Speaker 1: else the stars, watch P Valley. It's uh very entertaining
Speaker 1: Pussy Valley or d Valley, whichever one you want to
Speaker 1: call it, because there's a lot of uh male uh
Speaker 1: love triangles going on as well as female. So yeah,
Speaker 1: it's a good show. Watch it. That's what I did
Speaker 1: this weekend. And I smoked weed and I bought some tequila.
Speaker 1: I had me a little drink of drink and that
Speaker 1: was it. I didn't really how mm hmmm. Had my
Speaker 1: little friend, my little friend came over and that was it.
Speaker 1: Nothing too special. In fact, he owed me a hundred
Speaker 1: fifty dollars because I had bought the dinner on my
Speaker 1: uh my door dash and he's supposed to give me
Speaker 1: that money back. And I just realized that he'd give
Speaker 1: me that hundred feety dollars for dinner back. I'm gonna
Speaker 1: need that. Let me find out paying for dick. Look
Speaker 1: like I did I did on Friday. Look's see we
Speaker 1: do by dinner? Okay, I don't mean to back in good. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'll be like, let me get your phone. That's how i'dy.
Speaker 1: Let me heard your phone. I'm ordering. I'm ordering the
Speaker 1: uber off your phone. I'm ordering the food off your phone. Like,
Speaker 1: who's be forgetting Let me help you? Remember? It's cool.
Speaker 1: I know I'll get it back. What we got going on?
Speaker 1: A stupid ass internet news this week? A single winner
Speaker 1: one of the Mega Millions jack pot, which was an
Speaker 1: estimated with one point two billion dollars. Yes, girl, it's
Speaker 1: probably an old Hispanic person. It's always an old white person,
Speaker 1: it really is. You saw it? Damn? Why what what
Speaker 1: y'all gonna do with that? Man? I'm really jealous, Okay,
Speaker 1: I'm trying not to be jealous about it, because I
Speaker 1: did play, and I've been doing my little money rituals
Speaker 1: all fucking month, well all of the July actually for
Speaker 1: the New Moon the end of July. Like, why the
Speaker 1: fuck all I needed was one of the million. I
Speaker 1: didn't need the whole because that's like they would probably settle,
Speaker 1: not settle, but like could take a lump some of
Speaker 1: what a half a million, I mean a half a billion.
Speaker 1: We'll find out what their name is and start messaging them.
Speaker 1: Maybe they've seen you. No, so the jackpot was one
Speaker 1: point too, so they do like the cash out, they're
Speaker 1: probably gonna get like four hundred and something thousands, especially
Speaker 1: a million. What am I talking about? Four hundred and
Speaker 1: something million dollars? Right? Yeah? Would you do the cash
Speaker 1: out or take that? Absolutely? Because we we could see
Speaker 1: right now a dollar is not worth the same tomorrow,
Speaker 1: you know, as it is today, and vice versa, So
Speaker 1: it's always best to take the lump some ship. With inflation,
Speaker 1: how much you're really getting. Yeah, she's gonna keep going up,
Speaker 1: so yeah, you gotta you gotta get that lump something
Speaker 1: and then try to convert it into some to some
Speaker 1: other ship, bitch, you ain't guy to confer four seventy
Speaker 1: million and nothing, just it's a lot. Yeah, But what
Speaker 1: happens when they'd be like, um, you see what happened
Speaker 1: in China, how they locked the doors at the bank.
Speaker 1: They're not letting people get their money out. They basically
Speaker 1: saying like that this money in this bank is for
Speaker 1: investment purposes money. Yes, what happens when the banks, because
Speaker 1: that's what happens in a recession and depression. The bank
Speaker 1: if everybody start running to the bank for that paper
Speaker 1: fiat money, they're gonna be like, oh, you can't get
Speaker 1: that money. That's why you have to have tangible things
Speaker 1: like silver and gold. So yeah, I would definitely do
Speaker 1: half of that ship in silver and gold if I could,
Speaker 1: If they would let me buy that much, I would.
Speaker 1: My great grandma I remember, she would not put her
Speaker 1: money in the bank. She used to put her money
Speaker 1: in old uh coffee ground cans and bury it because
Speaker 1: she was alive during the recession. Right, can believe in
Speaker 1: no fucking bank? Well you shouldn't, because you technically can
Speaker 1: start a bank with fifty if we wanted to open
Speaker 1: a bank, we can open a bank. The banks make
Speaker 1: money off of everybody else money. While I'm giving you
Speaker 1: two percent interest on your money, I'm charging somebody else
Speaker 1: to borrow your money. That's how the banks work. Smucking bullshit.
Speaker 1: It's really bullshit. So yeah, I would take my lumps
Speaker 1: some in uh gold, thank you. What would be the
Speaker 1: first thing that you would buy? Uh? I don't know, Okay.
Speaker 1: The first thing I would buy would probably be my
Speaker 1: dream home in Barbados on the ocean, ocean front villa,
Speaker 1: next estate in Barbadoes. That would be the first thing
Speaker 1: I buy. I swear because I'm just like that and
Speaker 1: my soul is supposed to be I just Uh. The
Speaker 1: first thing I'm gonna do is just like spoil my
Speaker 1: mama with everything she want. That would be the first thing.
Speaker 1: What you want, Mama, house, a car, a man, I'll
Speaker 1: buy you a man out this bitch. What you want. Look,
Speaker 1: all the nigs got a price. Shit, they definitely be
Speaker 1: right there. I don't know that's the first thing I'll do, though,
Speaker 1: I'll get get settled. I might not even tell anybody.
Speaker 1: I fucking one bitch. If I hit your ass up
Speaker 1: and be like, damn, what's your bank account number? And
Speaker 1: if you try to act like you don't wanna give
Speaker 1: it to me. I'm like, all right, cool, I ain't
Speaker 1: gonna never call your ass again. Bit, you wanna trust me.
Speaker 1: You know I would give you my bank account. You
Speaker 1: already got it. How about that. I know that's what
Speaker 1: I was about to say. You know I would give
Speaker 1: it to you, but you already got bit check your account,
Speaker 1: check your account, but I just checked your ass. Bitch,
Speaker 1: these niggas, I know. I was laying in bed thinking about,
Speaker 1: like if my ticket, you know one, how many people
Speaker 1: are accounts I would bless And I thought about fifteen
Speaker 1: people I would give a million off the gate. Just yeah,
Speaker 1: if I got four something million, like that wouldn't be
Speaker 1: shifting me to give out. Yeah, it's fifteen people. I
Speaker 1: would throw a million right in their pocket right away, Yeah,
Speaker 1: like no questions. And then all this ship in my house,
Speaker 1: I was thinking everything here I would leave in this
Speaker 1: motherfucker's nothing I would take with me. Maybe pictures my
Speaker 1: grandma old photo albums. That would be the only thing
Speaker 1: I would want to take all this other year I
Speaker 1: live right in this motherfucker holds no value, Like I
Speaker 1: still be trying to make my money out airbnb. That
Speaker 1: bitch out. I take this to girlfuck that I'm leaving
Speaker 1: all this ship here, I still be trying to make
Speaker 1: more money. Like people were mad because some celebrities is
Speaker 1: playing the Megan millions. Like if I had it, am,
Speaker 1: I would still be playing, Like right, what the hell?
Speaker 1: But I still need rich people for wanting to be rich,
Speaker 1: they have to maintain those riches, you know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: Like y'all see basketball players who go broke five years
Speaker 1: after retirement. Like if you don't know money and don't
Speaker 1: matter if you're a millionaire today, you can still be
Speaker 1: broke tomorrow. These niggas is just in a different tax bracket.
Speaker 1: But look, we're talking about what we're gonna buy as
Speaker 1: soon as we get the money. You see what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: Like it's gonna start even and out the more ship
Speaker 1: you buy. I want to goddamn asking. All right, we
Speaker 1: just talked about all I didn't even say nothing about
Speaker 1: what I would buy. I just talked about all the
Speaker 1: money I would give away. I just realized that I
Speaker 1: didn't even say my mama. In fifteen people, I didn't
Speaker 1: say nothing for my You're nice because I need to
Speaker 1: get the funk away first and then and then because
Speaker 1: imagine like people gonna be busting your door down about
Speaker 1: this money. You have seen videos of people being murdered,
Speaker 1: not videos, but new its headlines. People got murdered after
Speaker 1: they won lottery. Yeah, there there's a lot of recurse. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so I needed I needed these safers and Ship, I
Speaker 1: might get that check with my mama name the herd
Speaker 1: cash it right now. There ain't nothing for us to
Speaker 1: worry about. We still got go to work, so he's
Speaker 1: still regular. What else happened? Um? Oh, you're gonna talk
Speaker 1: about Beyonce album just right quickly? So the album came out, y'all? Okay, renaissance,
Speaker 1: you know, started something new. How do y'all feel about
Speaker 1: the album? I only listened to a few songs. Uh,
Speaker 1: that breaks my heart, Ship, I cannot break my soulf.
Speaker 1: I can't listen to that song. But I listened to
Speaker 1: a few other songs on the album. How do you
Speaker 1: like it? Uh? I love Beyonce this this particular album.
Speaker 1: I don't feel like I was the target audience for it.
Speaker 1: I do like, um, Church Girl was good and what's
Speaker 1: the thick? I did like that? When those are the
Speaker 1: two songs that I kept playing from the album, but
Speaker 1: it did not, uh give me the feelings that like
Speaker 1: Lemonade gave me or b they gave me. It just
Speaker 1: didn't do the same for me. But I still love Beyonce.
Speaker 1: I'm always going to be a big fan of hers.
Speaker 1: But yeah, it wasn't. It wasn't my favorite Beyonce album.
Speaker 1: It's for the girls, not the girls. That's how I
Speaker 1: felt about it. Yeah, because the girls. The girls are
Speaker 1: loving it now, the girls, they're loving it. But yeah, no,
Speaker 1: mm hmm um. The Baby. There was a video released
Speaker 1: over this past weekend of the Baby in the Miami
Speaker 1: interrogation room and he's just running off at the mouth
Speaker 1: and people are like saying, oh, he's a sneez looking
Speaker 1: at him snitching, But really, if you listen to what
Speaker 1: he's saying, he's just defending himself, right, Yeah, that's all
Speaker 1: I saw, you Know. To me, snitching is when you're
Speaker 1: telling some ship that don't have nothing to do with
Speaker 1: why you're arrested. He was only talking about what was
Speaker 1: happening in whatever situation, which I don't even remember that
Speaker 1: whole ordeal what he's talking about. But I don't consider
Speaker 1: that a snitch. And I got a real problem with
Speaker 1: civilians calling people snitches, Like you don't know what you
Speaker 1: wanna do when you get in a real situation to
Speaker 1: be calling somebody a snitch, because the majority of y'all
Speaker 1: would really be snitching in a real way. Sorry, nigga,
Speaker 1: I'm just trying to come home in a real way.
Speaker 1: So I don't think what he was doing with snitch
Speaker 1: and he was really defending himself. And my question is
Speaker 1: where's your lawyer? And how did this video get on
Speaker 1: the internet? It like some first forty eight ship, Like
Speaker 1: what the what? What? I was laughing when I watched it,
Speaker 1: because though it's because why every time a nigga in
Speaker 1: the interrogation room that motherfucking room must be cold, is
Speaker 1: because they always have their arms and their sleeves. It
Speaker 1: don't never fail. They pulled their arms into their shirt
Speaker 1: every single time, this cold interrogation room, Like he was
Speaker 1: nervous arms coming in and out the shirt because woman
Speaker 1: he had Like what, yeah, I never noticed that, but
Speaker 1: you'll be looking at it in detail. I never realized
Speaker 1: that that's true. So is that a side of lying?
Speaker 1: What is that? I always feel like a nigga from
Speaker 1: the tail when he put his arms in the shirt down.
Speaker 1: That's what I'll be thinking. It must be like some
Speaker 1: psychology to make the room cold. Does doesn't uncomfortable? Right? Okay?
Speaker 1: They want to get the funk about of this, So
Speaker 1: whatever I gotta do to get out of here, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna do. Yep. Is that seduction or manipulation? Right? Because yeah,
Speaker 1: I didn't think what he was doing with snitching at all.
Speaker 1: I wish you would stop saying that, and I wish
Speaker 1: that video was not on the internet. I just don't
Speaker 1: like talk about other people like not no, like street ship.
Speaker 1: I don't like talking about people street ship, Uh, legal issues.
Speaker 1: It's scary for me. It's a scary situation for me.
Speaker 1: But what else happing Neo and his wife or going
Speaker 1: back at it back at it again on the internet
Speaker 1: they're oh by you know, Gossip of the City. I
Speaker 1: think that's that blog they've been reporting on his ass
Speaker 1: for the longest. Then they could ben had a side bitch.
Speaker 1: I feel like Cristal Smith knew about it. She cleared
Speaker 1: the air. She was like, she was not with him
Speaker 1: while he was with his ex. He didn't, he didn't,
Speaker 1: she didn't know him at the time, so people can
Speaker 1: stop saying that ship like you know, you keep them,
Speaker 1: how you get him? A heartway that that saying goes.
Speaker 1: She was saying that, yeah, you losing how you get him? Yeah,
Speaker 1: she was saying that that they were She didn't even
Speaker 1: know him when he was with his ex wife, so
Speaker 1: you know, trying to dispel that lie. But uh yeah,
Speaker 1: like she she knows that man, She know that man,
Speaker 1: but not hear fucking bitches man, either you'renna deal? What
Speaker 1: are you? Are you or you weren't. I feel like
Speaker 1: I thought that they were married before, but from some
Speaker 1: other ship I've seen, this is their first marriage. They
Speaker 1: just recently got married two months ago. Now. They were
Speaker 1: saying they were renewing vials, but there was not a
Speaker 1: marriage certificate out there prior to now. From the information
Speaker 1: I've seen, I just don't understand. I'm seeing a lot
Speaker 1: of people air their dirty laundry via social media, like
Speaker 1: Tyrese and his girlfriend. I not made my stomach sick.
Speaker 1: Why do why do people take to social media to
Speaker 1: air their marital affairs and their relationship problems on social media?
Speaker 1: I just don't understand that, Like, why y'all want people
Speaker 1: in your business like that, right, because I've never seen
Speaker 1: any side checks come out about NEO, so obviously they
Speaker 1: stay in place. We would know nothing if y'all break up.
Speaker 1: Y'all break up. But to me, it's kind of like
Speaker 1: manipulat It's it's kind of manipulative when you put stuff
Speaker 1: like that on on an internet. So she could very
Speaker 1: well be hurt, but it's almost like it's kind of
Speaker 1: man pipulative to put him on blast like that. M hmm.
Speaker 1: I wouldn't do that. Yeah, I wouldn't do that to
Speaker 1: a man. That's embarrassingly because especially when you love someone,
Speaker 1: y'all go through like ship and y'all my end up
Speaker 1: back together, and now you're looking crazy, you know. I'm like, now,
Speaker 1: I know, I've talked some about my ex on this
Speaker 1: damn show, but nothing too crazy. And don't nobody know
Speaker 1: who he is? That's different. I would never like if
Speaker 1: people knew who he was, I wouldn't just be putting
Speaker 1: out no goddamn p s A about the nigga. Well,
Speaker 1: some people do know who he is, who you people
Speaker 1: who know you and know him. It's like this many people.
Speaker 1: It's not the whole internet. It's just different it's nothing.
Speaker 1: It doesn't compare it to Neo and his wife. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and I mean that's and it's also how I how
Speaker 1: I would talk about an X. It's just different. I'm
Speaker 1: talking about my life experiences at that point. It's not
Speaker 1: me putting on blast for something in particular. It's just like,
Speaker 1: this happened, and this is what happened in this particular situation.
Speaker 1: It is also my business to down. But the way
Speaker 1: that they do it, like celebrities do it online, is
Speaker 1: really blasting the other person. That's what they're trying to do.
Speaker 1: That ship with what's the nigga um tyrese that he's
Speaker 1: a narcissist. He is a narcissist that girl, and say shit,
Speaker 1: he really didn't have nothing to put out about her.
Speaker 1: He just basically was telling fans to spam her. Yeah,
Speaker 1: go in and go d m her Like that's weird,
Speaker 1: old behavior. I don't like that. Don't send no word,
Speaker 1: don't send your fans to harass me. Yeah no, this
Speaker 1: wasn't in our mentions. But did you see that video
Speaker 1: that guy who goes around he's like, Oh, what's the
Speaker 1: freakiest thing you've ever done? Did you see that? And
Speaker 1: that man was like, I sucked my own dick and
Speaker 1: came in my own mouth. No dick out here. It's trouble. Listen,
Speaker 1: they're really trying to do some population control because if
Speaker 1: nigga start learning how to suck over for that day, flexible,
Speaker 1: I said, asked to be catching at the goddamn cramps.
Speaker 1: Ain't that flexi dick? Now? I had an X where
Speaker 1: it was a video going around of a person suckingly
Speaker 1: on dick and it looked like him. Bitch, he did
Speaker 1: not like that that video was going around the job.
Speaker 1: If you can sun, if you were flexible enough and
Speaker 1: you had a dick, would you suck your own dick?
Speaker 1: Why not not suck my own dick? Dog? Why not?
Speaker 1: Is that the same as sucking and titties? Because I
Speaker 1: do that. If you look at your own titty, why
Speaker 1: wouldn't you suck your own dick. My titty ain't big
Speaker 1: enough to get into my face. My titty won't come
Speaker 1: to my face. Are you trying to fit yourself? Yea,
Speaker 1: they won't get there. I'd definitely be sucking by teams.
Speaker 1: I don't know. I'm about the suck a whole dick.
Speaker 1: If I was a man, come on, man, that's a
Speaker 1: little extreme. No, it's your dick. Is it gay? You
Speaker 1: can't be a game with yourself? No, that's allo auto sexual, right,
Speaker 1: I guess I don't know. I don't know about that.
Speaker 1: I don't know. I'm not a man. I don't know.
Speaker 1: I don't know. If I were a man, i'd probably
Speaker 1: feel different. Men gonna say no, but they probably done.
Speaker 1: Tried to something on Dick. He bawled up in the bed,
Speaker 1: trying something on Dick doing getting a Charlotte horse in
Speaker 1: your stomach? Yoga, naga, suck y'all, Dick, I know it,
Speaker 1: all of yoga. Bayes. Listen, did you see that video
Speaker 1: with that girl? I believe it's a skit. Okay, half
Speaker 1: of these videos I see online. I think it's like
Speaker 1: people just doing ship for clickbait. But it's a guy
Speaker 1: dropping her off at the airport. And basically because team
Speaker 1: and fucking he was like, I can't I'm dropping your
Speaker 1: ass off and I cancel your ticket back home, which
Speaker 1: we know that he can't cancel her ticket. It's in
Speaker 1: her name. She'd have to cancel. Even if he paid
Speaker 1: for it, she'd have to cancel it. So that's another
Speaker 1: way I know that's in bullshit, but I thought someone
Speaker 1: if they did pay for it, they can't cancel your ticket.
Speaker 1: I know, I know you can put a security code
Speaker 1: on your ticket to keep anybody from tampering with it,
Speaker 1: though he would have to. He would have to have
Speaker 1: a woman then calling then cancel her ticket because the
Speaker 1: airline and the airlines ain't gonna let you do that.
Speaker 1: A man can't call and cancel your ticket. It's in
Speaker 1: your name once it's paid for it. But how how
Speaker 1: do they know? Like with the climate today, you could
Speaker 1: be very well say you that moment and they can't
Speaker 1: say you're not right, girl. I don't know. This ship
Speaker 1: is so sketchy, but anyway, she needs to. Uh, hey, yo,
Speaker 1: this Katherine Jones and I want to cancel my motherfucking ticket.
Speaker 1: What they're gonna say? I can't say ship you have
Speaker 1: sound like what's doing from St. Louis delivered? No? No delivered?
Speaker 1: Yeah yo called, Well that's something called no. I don't
Speaker 1: know whatever that boy, David, that's when you have sound
Speaker 1: like yo, I want to cancel my ticket? Yeah, but
Speaker 1: she needs that, she needs that, she needs the food
Speaker 1: out um episode. We have an episode for that. It
Speaker 1: was episode go back and look at it. Flute out
Speaker 1: one on one. All the rules are getting flew out. One.
Speaker 1: You never leave without no money, never, never, that's the
Speaker 1: biggest mistake. You don't want to be dependent on nobody
Speaker 1: like that. That's friend because you know, and then you
Speaker 1: have people saying, oh, why would you like the guy?
Speaker 1: Whole thing is like you flying out and ain't fucking
Speaker 1: like what's up with that? But who's to say that
Speaker 1: she didn't have all intentions to fuck but you did something,
Speaker 1: you know, Yeah, you got body older like that, cheesy
Speaker 1: bits around it, and she saw it like all type
Speaker 1: of reasons why women change their minds and then to
Speaker 1: change their mind exactly. But you know what the problem is,
Speaker 1: tim is that nigga's sucking regardless. There's gonna be nothing
Speaker 1: a woman can do to turn a man off. Okay,
Speaker 1: he gonna suck you at least and then and then
Speaker 1: play with your ass after that, like exactly, but he
Speaker 1: gonna sto fun. Y'all mad at us because we got
Speaker 1: standards and integrity and goddamn, I don't know, self esteem.
Speaker 1: All these different things will make me not want to
Speaker 1: let you funk on me when I know, like gonna
Speaker 1: be disgusted while it's happening. It's kind of his breath.
Speaker 1: Here you from behind and hold his breath. Nasty sank
Speaker 1: as it wouldn't be he just for this might as well. No, nigga,
Speaker 1: four hundred dollars old clarinal, he's still playing for it.
Speaker 1: Have some self respect, So y'all look at that. That's
Speaker 1: crazy or you ain't sucking. He didn't flut, y'all. He
Speaker 1: don't spend money. How dare you? Like? Y'all don't know
Speaker 1: what could happen in between time, like, especially if you're
Speaker 1: chatting it up sex and sexting it up with a
Speaker 1: man like you're set to do this. I am anyway,
Speaker 1: you know I'm not flying awhere where I'm not right.
Speaker 1: I'll just stay home, okay. But if I get there
Speaker 1: and it ain't what it should be and I don't
Speaker 1: feel comfortable comfortable enough to do it, I'm not nigga,
Speaker 1: and you can feel how you want to feel about it.
Speaker 1: And guess what I got sucking money because I never
Speaker 1: worried about not being able to get back to where
Speaker 1: I'm going, right, y'all, bitch has better grow up? Yeah,
Speaker 1: don't go nowhere with no money. That's the first rule.
Speaker 1: Your mama should have talked to you that you don't
Speaker 1: be depending on the nigga because then you gotta pay
Speaker 1: for your flight with your COUCHI like, you really gotta
Speaker 1: pay for it with your COUCHI at that point, you
Speaker 1: can't clariner that pussy. Oh you could, you could after
Speaker 1: pay it though, after pay definitely got flights. Yeah, you know,
Speaker 1: you can't clariner a flight, but you can't clariner that pussy.
Speaker 1: Then shame all right, y'all right, one more thing, y'all,
Speaker 1: Mystical ass is back in fucking jail with no bond
Speaker 1: for rape and a few other charges. These names exist
Speaker 1: in our community. Dog, we gotta stop acting like they don't.
Speaker 1: Will have, yes, people will have. All excuse is for
Speaker 1: these predatory men, you know, because they only men, are
Speaker 1: only concerned about the people under their fucking roof technically,
Speaker 1: you know, but these these guys exist out here. Man,
Speaker 1: We don't be making this ship up. Most most Black
Speaker 1: women in particular are attacked by people they know. It's
Speaker 1: not strangers. A lot of times there's people we know
Speaker 1: that's crazy, but Mystical gives off rape vibes. Honestly does he?
Speaker 1: I always thought he was so fine, nice looking man,
Speaker 1: Like why you need to take pussy? The way he'd
Speaker 1: be yelling in him song watch yourself, show me what
Speaker 1: you're working with. Guys, just thick is scary. This nick
Speaker 1: is yelling at me. So I feel like he gives
Speaker 1: rap people with Somebody gonna be mad about these jokes, y'all.
Speaker 1: These are we're not making fun of rape. Okay, it's
Speaker 1: not wasn't he in the military. Does he have PTSD
Speaker 1: or something? I remember him being in the military, right, Oh,
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't mm hmm. But he did
Speaker 1: seven years before for rape. Got arrested again in two
Speaker 1: thousand seventeen for rape, but they said they couldn't prosecute
Speaker 1: because it wasn't enough evidence, supposedly, and then now here's
Speaker 1: and now here here he is again like he's a rapist,
Speaker 1: like he gets off from taking it. He's a rapist.
Speaker 1: I don't know, but listen, this this kind of leaves
Speaker 1: us into what we want to talk about briefly to day.
Speaker 1: We want to talk about manipulation versus seduction. We'll be
Speaker 1: right back, y'all. Okay, y'all. So I was talking to
Speaker 1: Tam and I know y'all know Taylor fun Sized t Yeah,
Speaker 1: our producer, and we were talking about like, like I said,
Speaker 1: I don't know. I know I'm not the only one
Speaker 1: that this has happened too, but I don't think men
Speaker 1: consider this uh predatory behavior kinda anyway. Have you, guys, Tammy,
Speaker 1: have you ever been in a situation where you just
Speaker 1: like you're around a guy made in a close setting
Speaker 1: with a man, right, And I don't want to I
Speaker 1: don't want to say it's rape, right, but you got
Speaker 1: a little more pressured than you would have liked to,
Speaker 1: and you engaged in sexual activity when you really didn't
Speaker 1: want to. H and I have just blocked the neck
Speaker 1: and goes to them afterwards, right if they want to do.
Speaker 1: I definitely have been in the situation when I was
Speaker 1: much younger in my early twenties where I engaged in
Speaker 1: sex that I really didn't want to have but the
Speaker 1: pressure was just a lot and I did right, But
Speaker 1: I can't I couldn't call it right because I consented
Speaker 1: to something I didn't really want to do. So so
Speaker 1: that's why I want to talk about like manipulation versus seduction,
Speaker 1: because I think like a lot of men think that damn,
Speaker 1: I kissed her in the neck. That didn't work. Let
Speaker 1: me try someplace else. Like they keep trying different orogenous
Speaker 1: zones to see if they can get you going right.
Speaker 1: But if somebody got to tell you no, move stop,
Speaker 1: I'm just chilling too many fu times. And then I
Speaker 1: don't know, maybe you just get on top of him.
Speaker 1: I don't have somebody humped the hell out of me
Speaker 1: with clothes on before, and that's just like borderline disgusting rape. Okay, yeah,
Speaker 1: we were fully clothed, but he dry humped me for
Speaker 1: a long time. Yes, And I was like, you don't
Speaker 1: gonna clean up? He was like, it's not that much
Speaker 1: like this actually happened. So not to make fun of
Speaker 1: the situation, but this ship happens. And I want to
Speaker 1: say to younger women because I feel like even when
Speaker 1: men get older, this is not something that they probably
Speaker 1: go around doing. You know what I'm saying. But when
Speaker 1: that testosterone click kicks in a lot of times, men
Speaker 1: can't control themselves. Yeah you know, so women, we just
Speaker 1: you know, to get it over with. You might engage
Speaker 1: in some ship that you didn't want to do. So
Speaker 1: is that manipulation or is it seduction? Combin Right? So, um,
Speaker 1: I like to look up the definitions of words, because
Speaker 1: clearly we know what manipulation is and we know what
Speaker 1: seduction is. But you know, when you look up definitions,
Speaker 1: you get a better context of things sometimes. So, uh,
Speaker 1: manipulate is to handle or control, typically in a skillful manner, alter, edit,
Speaker 1: or remove, examine, or treat a part of the body
Speaker 1: by feeling or moving it with the hand, control, or
Speaker 1: influence a personal situation cleverly, unfairly, unscrupulously. Um. And then yeah,
Speaker 1: that's basically it. That's manipulation mm hmm right um. Attempting
Speaker 1: or attractive thing. Okay, so even we if we look
Speaker 1: at seduction like that, like maybe this person is already
Speaker 1: attractive to you, He's already already kind of tempting, so
Speaker 1: he might do a couple of little things and that
Speaker 1: gets you there to go ahead and and go on.
Speaker 1: So I guess it becomes manipulation when you really don't
Speaker 1: want to, Right, how do men maneuver in a world
Speaker 1: like that? See, it's kind of fucked up for the
Speaker 1: guys because his attention may not be to manipulate you.
Speaker 1: But if you don't like him, and he don't know that,
Speaker 1: then it looks like he manipulated you, you know, right,
Speaker 1: And see that's why I always be like, y'all think
Speaker 1: I'm crazy, But I don't like to go to like
Speaker 1: if I don't want to fuck at this age and
Speaker 1: then like I and I because I've putting myself in
Speaker 1: situations I really should not have, right, so you see
Speaker 1: ship you know in hindsight, But I don't like to
Speaker 1: go on close settings with any man if I don't
Speaker 1: plan on having sex with them, like I'm not coming
Speaker 1: to your house eleven o'clock at night, and not because
Speaker 1: women shouldn't be able to. But we know the stories.
Speaker 1: You know, some men can't control themselves. And you don't
Speaker 1: know somebody until you know them, right, so you might
Speaker 1: think he's cool and then you get there and he
Speaker 1: fucking violates you. Yeah, that's fair. I do you know,
Speaker 1: I go where I want to go when I want
Speaker 1: to go, and I don't feel like any type of
Speaker 1: way about it. I got a gun, I carry a
Speaker 1: gun with me. I would go to a nigger house
Speaker 1: at eleven o'clock with no plans, and I'll leave my
Speaker 1: pussy at home, but bring my pistol with me. You
Speaker 1: hear me? All right? So seduces, entice someone into sexual activity,
Speaker 1: attract someone to a belief or into a course of action.
Speaker 1: That is, um, yeah, I know I can't read hold on.
Speaker 1: Attract someone to believe or into a course of action. Uh,
Speaker 1: that is fool fool hardy, fool hardy, fool heart free,
Speaker 1: fool hardy f O l h A r d y
Speaker 1: that's the word. Yeah. However, what is foolhardy? I don't
Speaker 1: even know that. I don't know. It's as invisible, in advisible,
Speaker 1: or fool hardy. Uh, seduce, seduces, seducing, Yeah, all of
Speaker 1: these acts attract powerfully. So I think the only difference is,
Speaker 1: like beauty is in the eye to beholder, Like we said, like,
Speaker 1: it's only manipulation if the bitch don't like you, and
Speaker 1: that's kind of unfair. But what if I like you,
Speaker 1: but I don't want to suck you right now? And
Speaker 1: here you are pressuring me to funk like I want
Speaker 1: to fuck you at some point, but not right now.
Speaker 1: So you know, women, uh, it's like almost you have
Speaker 1: to have you know, ten times the wopower not to
Speaker 1: have sex when men can do whatever they want to do, right,
Speaker 1: Because if you don't fuck you a bit, if you do,
Speaker 1: fuck your whole. You know, what I'm saying is, so
Speaker 1: you have to be real meticulous, like it's almost sucking
Speaker 1: like a surgeon with this relationship ship. If you want
Speaker 1: somebody for more than sex, right, if you want somebody
Speaker 1: to like you, you you you can't fuck them fast, right.
Speaker 1: Well that's not necessarily depends on the person, right, but
Speaker 1: but the majority, you know, maybe maybe i'd be a
Speaker 1: lot of times. Maybe I'm speaking from more personal situations
Speaker 1: because I do what I want to do right, But
Speaker 1: I feel like the relationships I've been in, uh for
Speaker 1: some reason, like later on in arguments, it comes up
Speaker 1: like how fast I sucked them? Did you not want
Speaker 1: to fun? Were you not like touching my titties and
Speaker 1: caressing me and cohersing me into this act? And then
Speaker 1: when I actually do it a year later, you're saying
Speaker 1: something about yeah because the first night, yeah, I had
Speaker 1: somebody shamed me after we had sex, like in a
Speaker 1: public place and then shame me for doing it with them,
Speaker 1: And I'm like, way, that was what you hear you? Yeah?
Speaker 1: That was your I did to fuck that movie theater
Speaker 1: and now you want to embarrassing me. It's like what
Speaker 1: you picked that movie? That's a bull suck you because
Speaker 1: why why are we like the things that women do,
Speaker 1: like what you are natural? Because we're sexual being STUPI get,
Speaker 1: it's like you get. It's like you get shunned on
Speaker 1: for doing it. It's normal, right, mm hmm. So men
Speaker 1: need to stop pressure women out here to funk if
Speaker 1: their own wanna fuck, if they don't want to fuck
Speaker 1: the woman. You know what I'm saying, because then when
Speaker 1: I do smash your ass, I'm a whole It's it's
Speaker 1: a double standard that ship right there. It really is.
Speaker 1: It's an ugly double standard with men and women when
Speaker 1: it comes to the whole ship. Because the needy kid
Speaker 1: just roll around in the mud and he's the man.
Speaker 1: But if a woman does anything, oh she is a
Speaker 1: dirty come dumpster. You fucked in a movie theater with
Speaker 1: a slut. I fucked you in a movie theater. We're
Speaker 1: going together. I thought we was a couple, right, whatever, No,
Speaker 1: you ain't no damn couple. You're just a dirty hoore.
Speaker 1: A month in the middle of argument, right, I literally
Speaker 1: have been in full blown you know relationships women and
Speaker 1: that type of ship comes out. That was my boyfriend
Speaker 1: who was sex slush shaming you, alright, slush shaming me
Speaker 1: for something he encouraged me to do in the movie theater.
Speaker 1: I don't know, but yeah, like I was saying, if
Speaker 1: I do not want to have sex with somebody like
Speaker 1: now on a days like I'm not, I'm not going
Speaker 1: close settings with them because anything can happen. I don't
Speaker 1: want to have regrets because I'm gonna sucking ghoti as
Speaker 1: the next day. Settings. Where are you gonna smoke weed at?
Speaker 1: Miss see? That's I don't smoke weed like that. I
Speaker 1: don't smoke like that. I mean there's always Hey, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna stop by. We can sit in the car and smoke.
Speaker 1: Maybe we could sit outside, and so I'm coming in
Speaker 1: your house, somebody snacks, listen to music, watch the TV.
Speaker 1: We're gonna smoke, tell some jokes because you know, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna tell some jokes and then I'm gonna go home.
Speaker 1: And it shouldn't have to be I have to be
Speaker 1: so guarded. I think you to have have to have
Speaker 1: a certain level of discernment when you're going like you
Speaker 1: gotta know, I mean, there's no way to know for sure.
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. You don't know people to you
Speaker 1: know him, but you have to have a level of
Speaker 1: discernment when you're going in people's house. Yeah, I'm a
Speaker 1: pretty good judge of character. Like I said, I was younger,
Speaker 1: younger days, and I'd like to talk about these things
Speaker 1: because this is ship that bitches in college is going
Speaker 1: through right now. These are things younger women are going
Speaker 1: through right now. And they probably think it's only them,
Speaker 1: but this is being pressured to have sex. And you
Speaker 1: really don't want to have sex with a person, but
Speaker 1: you go ahead and do it. That is manipulation. That
Speaker 1: is manipulation. You want to have sex with somebody and
Speaker 1: you'll already talked about it, and he coming, you know,
Speaker 1: rubbing you up and rubbing your feet first and kissing
Speaker 1: you at like all of all of four play type
Speaker 1: things that go into sex. That's different. Mm hm. You
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. But somebody just forcefully just harassing
Speaker 1: your asked I won't go to sleep like you know,
Speaker 1: like you, I have stayed over to a man's house
Speaker 1: and had to get up and leave. You know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying, Like the whole thing was for me to
Speaker 1: come stay tonight. Right, not necessarily smash, I never put
Speaker 1: that out there, but I come stay tonight. You cannot
Speaker 1: sleep in men's beds. They're not gonna go to sleep
Speaker 1: that test stop. Strong stopped kicking in, and they're gonna
Speaker 1: harass you all night long. You're gonna have to go home.
Speaker 1: You've never been in that situation. Oh absolutely, I don't go, though, Boy,
Speaker 1: calmed down, you stay there. I'm not. I'm not staying
Speaker 1: because I'm not gonna be able to sleep, and half
Speaker 1: the time I'd rather sleep in my own bed. Anyway,
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna be able to sleep, and you just
Speaker 1: harassing me, touching me all night. Get no, eventually they stopped.
Speaker 1: If they got good sense, they'll just stop and go
Speaker 1: to being mad, don't. I'm making some bacon and eggs.
Speaker 1: If you got something, this motherfucker I'm making for you
Speaker 1: in the morning, and I'm gonna go home. But it
Speaker 1: just depends on you have to have those type of
Speaker 1: conversations though, Like I would let the nigger know that
Speaker 1: I ain't bringing up pussy with me. That don't stop
Speaker 1: them from trying. But at least they were full worn right, Yeah,
Speaker 1: but in their minds, especially in young men mind, they
Speaker 1: can finesse you. Yeah, they think they can finesse because
Speaker 1: they are hunters, right. Men are our hunters, so that's
Speaker 1: why we yeah, by nature, So that's why you do
Speaker 1: give it up too easy. It just becomes like a
Speaker 1: turn off of them because they want to feel like
Speaker 1: they caught you. Yes, that's what they want to feel like.
Speaker 1: They want to feel like they caught you and and
Speaker 1: got you to do something. Like I was telling the
Speaker 1: nigger once, I was like, dude, already knew I was
Speaker 1: working ifore I came here, like, you ain't have nothing
Speaker 1: to do with that, And he does not like to
Speaker 1: hear that, like like I set the whole ship up
Speaker 1: in my mind, like my whole day was set on
Speaker 1: fucking him tonight, Like you have nothing to do with that.
Speaker 1: I hit you out, what's your address? We hadn't been
Speaker 1: up some dates, like what's your address? I had never
Speaker 1: been this house before, And now like I'm we've had
Speaker 1: conversations after the fact in his mind and in his
Speaker 1: mind he got me to fuck right. I lined you
Speaker 1: up all day. I lined your ass up all day.
Speaker 1: Like men, when a woman gives you pussy a lot
Speaker 1: of times, like willingly, Okay, it has nothing to do
Speaker 1: with you. She already knew. Yeah, you didn't finess the situation.
Speaker 1: You didn't manipulate decision, but sometimes sometimes you do. Sometimes
Speaker 1: they do. I don't definitely gave us some pussy, like
Speaker 1: damn the next day, I did not mean to get
Speaker 1: that whatever, because you probably put on matching brown pennies.
Speaker 1: You did something a little extra in the show. Yeah,
Speaker 1: mother fun, we'll be prepping now. We definitely will prep
Speaker 1: to not get a couci up the case. I just
Speaker 1: just in case the pussy there not like it was
Speaker 1: a nigger, Like I really wanted to fucking, but I
Speaker 1: wanted to wait because I wanted to get to know
Speaker 1: him better. So I wore a holy drawl. I wore
Speaker 1: some holy ass patties. I was like, I cannot let
Speaker 1: him see these draws, and then I still fucked him
Speaker 1: bawling patties up in this trash can think it. Don't
Speaker 1: got no standards. They don't give a damn about no hole.
Speaker 1: Pat you right through that hole in them draw They're easy. Goodness.
Speaker 1: I was joking, y'all some of the stuff. Sometimes I
Speaker 1: really just be making up ship for it to be funny,
Speaker 1: not that though that really did happen. I don't know, man,
Speaker 1: I just say middle thing is to my old life
Speaker 1: a lot. And you know, you're living, you learn, and
Speaker 1: I don't know. I just I don't know. I have
Speaker 1: a niece who is twenty four, and I'd be trying
Speaker 1: to tell her stuff. But everybody just be wanting to
Speaker 1: learn on their own. Yeah, life is going to be
Speaker 1: your best teacher. Yeah, instead of just living vicariously through
Speaker 1: other people like they just got to know it, learning
Speaker 1: from your mistakes. I posted about that um, that girl
Speaker 1: getting fluid out and the guy and I posted about,
Speaker 1: you know, putting your security question on your ticket so
Speaker 1: nobody can tamper with your ticket, and he was like,
Speaker 1: a guy came on the post, like, how did you
Speaker 1: learn that? I said, bitch the hard way? So I'm
Speaker 1: putting their information out so someone doesn't have to learn
Speaker 1: the hard way, you know. Yeah. Look, now he gonna
Speaker 1: be like trying to figure out how he could set
Speaker 1: a security code for first for a bitch ticket, right, See,
Speaker 1: damn the information out there. You can't be telling that
Speaker 1: all the secrets. Look He like, how you know? Right? Yeah,
Speaker 1: you know, fun the game up for the young holes,
Speaker 1: not if they see niggas don't listen as much as
Speaker 1: the women. So if you get that to be at first,
Speaker 1: you'll be up on game. I don't know, I don't know.
Speaker 1: People just gotta be careful out here, man, Just be careful,
Speaker 1: don't you know? Have have some discernment. Okay. I feel
Speaker 1: like that's that's the majority of women's issues. We will
Speaker 1: be complaining about these men, but we just be out
Speaker 1: here and fucking Willie knelling it, just yelling it along.
Speaker 1: No accountability for the ship that happened to you, like
Speaker 1: you gotta have accountability, right and now there's monkey pop
Speaker 1: ship going around. You fly out to the wrong you're
Speaker 1: gonna come back and we're gonna see it. That walker,
Speaker 1: she ain't gonna be a little different, a whole lot
Speaker 1: of different. It's gonna be a bumpy rolled ahead. So
Speaker 1: my advice would be not to fly out and nobody
Speaker 1: right now until they get that ship contained, because girl,
Speaker 1: I feel like it's not it's it not just like
Speaker 1: a chicken pox on steroids. It is definitely chicken pox
Speaker 1: on steroids. Because that girl's that you saw that video,
Speaker 1: that girl from Atlanta her face who with yeah too,
Speaker 1: Like I don't even scared of COVID for real. But listen,
Speaker 1: my fucker's gonna want to be walking around looking crazy now, right,
Speaker 1: nigger's rare to die and'll be walking around looking at ugly.
Speaker 1: Nig's just taking their chances to COVID. But that mucky pox, bro, Yeah,
Speaker 1: because you know how my chicken pox tore us up,
Speaker 1: you know, starring and stuff. So imagine like black people's
Speaker 1: skin is just different. Um. What I don't like about
Speaker 1: the monkey pots about any of these diseases. They always
Speaker 1: try to say it originated in Congo, like they want
Speaker 1: to say all these diseases originated in Africa. But we
Speaker 1: know who brought the diseases to the Indians, right, We
Speaker 1: know who brought smallpox. We know they got a whole
Speaker 1: book written on dirt. The name of the book is dirt.
Speaker 1: If y'all want to go out there and look and
Speaker 1: check it out and see how counterparts weren't washing and
Speaker 1: we had to teach them how Okay, So all these
Speaker 1: diseases really originated from them through through like a natural
Speaker 1: progression of bacteria and viruses and ship like that, or
Speaker 1: they created it in a fucking lab and they can't
Speaker 1: detain it. That's what's happening. So stop putting ship onto Africa.
Speaker 1: What they want to do is they want to keep
Speaker 1: going into Africa and stealing them natural resources over there, right, So, oh,
Speaker 1: this this area, all these people just got all these
Speaker 1: diseases and y'all all over there and making people sick
Speaker 1: to get them out of their natural habitats. That's what
Speaker 1: they're doing. They're killing the people, y'all. You know, we
Speaker 1: gotta pay these bills. We'll be right back. Dumb bitch
Speaker 1: stories because we've all been a dumb bitch at least
Speaker 1: once or twice. Story this week. Um, you know a
Speaker 1: lot of times we get stories they don't really be
Speaker 1: like dumba story. This is motherfucker's gonna tell us say business,
Speaker 1: but I'm here for it. Okay. She don't really need
Speaker 1: no advice based on this, and it's kind of long,
Speaker 1: but I feel like the whole thing needs to be
Speaker 1: read for context. So uh. She starts off by saying,
Speaker 1: I would like to remain anonymous. Okay, so you're anonymous. Um,
Speaker 1: so I started working with this coworker April. Now, if
Speaker 1: you can remember, this was pandemic. Uh, this was peak pandemic.
Speaker 1: So due to that, we were both able to tell
Speaker 1: our significant others that we had to work hours that
Speaker 1: weren't usual times we went in. We were we were
Speaker 1: sucking once a week. Every week we would take one
Speaker 1: day out the month and get a hotel room and
Speaker 1: spend the day together. This went on forever. Excuse me,
Speaker 1: this went on. This went on for over a year.
Speaker 1: I'm add to this. Mid story. This went over. This
Speaker 1: went on for over a year. Things were just getting
Speaker 1: too heavy. Feelings got involved. We both started saying I
Speaker 1: love you. He was pressing me to leave my husband.
Speaker 1: He was going through a divorce. Supposedly, My intentions were
Speaker 1: never to leave my husband. I just wanted the side dick.
Speaker 1: I told him we needed to stop because my husband
Speaker 1: started getting suspicious, taking drastic measures. I just went to
Speaker 1: no contact, but that backfired. He was blowing out my phone,
Speaker 1: so I blocked him. He started emailing me, calling, texting
Speaker 1: me through other another, other numbers. He was like, okay, okay, okay,
Speaker 1: we'll do it your way. No feelings, just fucking I'm like,
Speaker 1: all right, So when he goes, can I see you? Naively,
Speaker 1: I agreed so we hook up again. The next day,
Speaker 1: he sends me still images screenshots of us. I'm staring
Speaker 1: at my phone. I'm staring at my phone trying to
Speaker 1: figure out what I'm looking at. My heart. My heart
Speaker 1: sunk to the pit of my gut. I had to
Speaker 1: pick my job off the floor. This motherfucker recorded us
Speaker 1: having sex without me knowing. The thing was he would
Speaker 1: always ask me when we were, when we were doing
Speaker 1: it if he record, and I'm like, sorry, that's a
Speaker 1: hard no. I replied back, what the fund is that?
Speaker 1: What the excuse me? I replied back, what the funk
Speaker 1: is that what I think it is? And he's like, yep,
Speaker 1: it's a whole movie. I said, send it to me.
Speaker 1: He said, nope, this is through text. She like, this
Speaker 1: is a good writer, this person. Okay, let's be cleared. Reader.
Speaker 1: My immediate response was I'm calling the cops as a joke.
Speaker 1: He's like, call him frustrated. I told him, if you
Speaker 1: don't send me that video in one minute, I'm never
Speaker 1: speaking to you again. He says, don't be like that.
Speaker 1: I'll show you in person. I texted him back times up.
Speaker 1: At first, I was like, okay, maybe I'm overreacting, but no,
Speaker 1: I trusted him and I felt so violated. I told
Speaker 1: him that was not okay with me, and he did
Speaker 1: it anyway. I was betraying my husband and he did
Speaker 1: that to me. I was so mad, humiliated. I could
Speaker 1: not believe this is happening. I didn't know what he
Speaker 1: was going to do with the film recording blackmail me
Speaker 1: send it to my husband. I was living in fear,
Speaker 1: and she says update. Since then, he stayed trying to
Speaker 1: reach out to me, so I left him on read
Speaker 1: on read what part of I'll never speak to you again?
Speaker 1: Don't you understand no means no um? He ended up
Speaker 1: breaking excuse me. He ended up taking a leave of
Speaker 1: absence from work for five months for personal reasons home
Speaker 1: slash life. He came back to work made two popping
Speaker 1: up on me while I was on the clock. Our
Speaker 1: schedules are posted for all employees to see. He had
Speaker 1: the fucking nerve to ask me how I was. I
Speaker 1: turned my head, shook it and thought, you must have
Speaker 1: wash your mind. So when he goes, well, at least
Speaker 1: I know you ain't dead. I wanted to be like
Speaker 1: and if I was, why the funk would you care?
Speaker 1: But I held strong and kept my mouth shut the
Speaker 1: way I should have in the beginning, don't get me wrong.
Speaker 1: And sex was amazing, and if it was for that,
Speaker 1: I'd probably and if it wasn't for that, I'd probably
Speaker 1: would have still been working with him. But he moved
Speaker 1: the way he moved, and I'm glad I've seen it.
Speaker 1: When I did, I was about to risk it all
Speaker 1: for a little sneaky ass, sneaky link. Shea though my
Speaker 1: husband with the Merryman was the worst thing I've ever
Speaker 1: did in my entire life. That's her dumb big story.
Speaker 1: Yeah you almost got jammed up, my girl. Yeah, he
Speaker 1: could have extorted you for money, but he still got it.
Speaker 1: He still has the video. He still can't extort her,
Speaker 1: not really extored, because I mean, that's why they have
Speaker 1: the laws now against like for revenge porn. So you
Speaker 1: really don't have to worry about that type of ship
Speaker 1: because her thing. Niggas care about that. If he got
Speaker 1: a girl, he probably gonna care, Like, why are you
Speaker 1: releasing footage of you having sex with somebody else and
Speaker 1: you got a wife or a girlfriend, you know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying. So m H, I don't know. I don't
Speaker 1: like ship like that. That has happened to me, and
Speaker 1: it's kind of triggering. Okay, somebody records you and then
Speaker 1: tried to Uh well, I consented to the recording, but
Speaker 1: he posted a still image, like she's saying he's sending
Speaker 1: her still images to the phone. This nigga posted a
Speaker 1: still image online. You know that story. Oh yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I got that phone. I got the picture of my phone.
Speaker 1: Shut up deleted, bitch, what's wrong with you? Break girl?
Speaker 1: So I don't know who screenshot that little quick image.
Speaker 1: Anybody could have. Somebody probably got it, but I know
Speaker 1: he still has the video. Also, I don't it's not
Speaker 1: in my possession, so I don't like that either. I
Speaker 1: got I got some real law your money if they
Speaker 1: can ever try it. Okay, right, well, I'm glad that
Speaker 1: ended well for you since because that could have went
Speaker 1: totally bad. She better hope he just dies. Really, how
Speaker 1: else is he gonna get the footage? Like? How else
Speaker 1: can you be like okay with it being out there
Speaker 1: knowing this if this person hasn't, like, what what could
Speaker 1: she do? That's a helpless as feeling. Yeah, um, I
Speaker 1: only send out news that I don't mind the world seeing.
Speaker 1: So if you get like a new picture of me,
Speaker 1: or if it's a video of me, if the world
Speaker 1: see it, I ain't gonna feel that bad. I look
Speaker 1: amazing in it, right. All you're gonna do is turn
Speaker 1: me up bit mine. Now, somebody might do it. Then
Speaker 1: you see how you feeling when it actually happens. I
Speaker 1: know my daddy is still alive. Please don't put that
Speaker 1: out there. So I was just joking, all right, y'all listen,
Speaker 1: y'all may be careful out there. Just be careful, Just
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