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Speaker 1: talked back? But what's up, y'all? Thank you for tuning

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Speaker 1: in for a new episode we talked back and show

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Speaker 1: dedicated to these niggas, and you host this, your co

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Speaker 1: host a j What up? Hey, y'all, it's tam bad.

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Speaker 1: Thank y'all for tuning in. I love y'all. Man, I

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Speaker 1: gotta I gotta change my life. I gotta that you

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Speaker 1: best stop budgeting. Mother a month, this ship said, asked

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Speaker 1: me two thousand dollars on dining and drinks, three thousand

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Speaker 1: dollars on personal care, two thousand dollars on shopping, two

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Speaker 1: thousand dollars under categories and uncategorized, and then two thousand

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Speaker 1: dollars on entertainment and recreation. Bitch, did you pay any bills?

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Speaker 1: I ain't hear that. No utilities. Oh wait, it's more

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Speaker 1: loan payments eight hundred dollars, although in transport nine hundred dollars.

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Speaker 1: I ain't spend up, but two hundred dollars on grocery. YoY, y'all, listen, listen,

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Speaker 1: I follow money, and we have been in the recession

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Speaker 1: since last October. For what they're trying to say, and

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Speaker 1: then they're trying to change the definition of recession same

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Speaker 1: way they change the definition of vaccine and vaccination. Let's

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Speaker 1: be clear, we're in a recession and you're spending like that. Girl,

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Speaker 1: You've gotta buy a lot of silver and gold. I don't.

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Speaker 1: I didn't realize I spent that much money last month.

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Speaker 1: I'm sad. That's how I'm here. Salads be y'all live

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Speaker 1: like drug dealers. Y'all, y'all make the money right back,

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Speaker 1: and y'all spending that's that's that's just how it goes down.

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Speaker 1: I'm not spending no month in the month of August money.

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Speaker 1: You know what you need? You need a motherfucking baby

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Speaker 1: to stop budgeting that. Don't you wish that bad? Look

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Speaker 1: on me? Dy Bobby. You know they say mom has

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Speaker 1: come with a with a loaf of bread. Bitch sh

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Speaker 1: all My friends were kids rich. Meanwhile, I'm just out here. Goodness,

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna do better this month. Dad is ridiculous. Girl.

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Speaker 1: We got a lot of this month to try and look,

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Speaker 1: try it again. What's the other month, September? Try to

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Speaker 1: get a September. I'm not going on. I didn't go

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Speaker 1: anywhere this weekend. This weekend, I didn't spend no money.

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Speaker 1: How the fund did I still managed to spend that money.

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Speaker 1: You don't order nothing to your house this weekend? Oh

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Speaker 1: yeah I did. See. Look I didn't leave to spend money.

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Speaker 1: I spent it from home. How her My weekend was cool?

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Speaker 1: Ship my dad? Uh, we're actually I hope none of

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Speaker 1: But anyway, because I'm talking a little bit of ship

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Speaker 1: about that. So one of my older aunts, she's about

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Speaker 1: to she's the age of my excuse me, she's not

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Speaker 1: my aunt, one of my older cousins. She's an auntie age,

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Speaker 1: but she's an actual cousin. She's my mom's niece, but

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Speaker 1: is what I'm trying to say. So this is an

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Speaker 1: older person. So she had like a gathering for all

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Speaker 1: So it was like a meet and Greek, you know,

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Speaker 1: older people exactly, and like I'm there right, and I'm

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Speaker 1: like and macarda cheese. Now, they just all they had

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Speaker 1: damn crabs I ate this weekend. So thank god they

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Speaker 1: next custure man, I'll be feeling like a celebrity around

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Speaker 1: the people you've been at. Bitch 'all know nowhere. No,

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Speaker 1: Apparently I've been running a muck So I didn't do

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Speaker 1: UM rap Shit. I like that new show on HBO

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Speaker 1: a cute little show. I like it. So I watched

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Speaker 1: like I did I did on Friday. Look's see we

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Speaker 1: I'll be like, let me get your phone. That's how i'dy.

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Speaker 1: who's be forgetting Let me help you? Remember? It's cool.

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Speaker 1: I know I'll get it back. What we got going on?

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Speaker 1: A stupid ass internet news this week? A single winner

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Speaker 1: estimated with one point two billion dollars. Yes, girl, it's

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Speaker 1: probably an old Hispanic person. It's always an old white person,

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Speaker 1: it really is. You saw it? Damn? Why what what

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Speaker 1: fuck all I needed was one of the million. I

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Speaker 1: didn't need the whole because that's like they would probably settle,

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Speaker 1: not settle, but like could take a lump some of

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Speaker 1: what a half a million, I mean a half a billion.

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Speaker 1: We'll find out what their name is and start messaging them.

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Speaker 1: Maybe they've seen you. No, so the jackpot was one

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Speaker 1: out or take that? Absolutely? Because we we could see

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Speaker 1: saying like that this money in this bank is for

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Speaker 1: My great grandma I remember, she would not put her

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Speaker 1: money off of everybody else money. While I'm giving you

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Speaker 1: first thing I'm gonna do is just like spoil my

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Speaker 1: What you want, Mama, house, a car, a man, I'll

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Speaker 1: buy you a man out this bitch. What you want. Look,

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Speaker 1: all the nigs got a price. Shit, they definitely be

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Speaker 1: right there. I don't know that's the first thing I'll do, though,

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Speaker 1: I'll get get settled. I might not even tell anybody.

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Speaker 1: and be like, damn, what's your bank account number? And

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Speaker 1: You know I would give you my bank account. You

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Speaker 1: already got it. How about that. I know that's what

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Speaker 1: these niggas, I know. I was laying in bed thinking about,

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Speaker 1: gonna do. Yep. Is that seduction or manipulation? Right? Because yeah,

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Speaker 1: I didn't think what he was doing with snitching at all.

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Speaker 1: It's scary for me. It's a scary situation for me.

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Speaker 1: But what else happing Neo and his wife or going

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Speaker 1: the air. She was like, she was not with him

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Speaker 1: how you get him? A heartway that that saying goes.

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Speaker 1: She was saying that, yeah, you losing how you get him? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: but not hear fucking bitches man, either you'renna deal? What

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Speaker 1: Why do why do people take to social media to

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Speaker 1: I just don't understand that, Like, why y'all want people

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Speaker 1: stay in place. We would know nothing if y'all break up.

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Speaker 1: manipulat It's it's kind of manipulative when you put stuff

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Speaker 1: well be hurt, but it's almost like it's kind of

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't do that. Yeah, I wouldn't do that to

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Speaker 1: I know, I've talked some about my ex on this

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Speaker 1: who he is? That's different. I would never like if

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Speaker 1: some people do know who he is, who you people

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Speaker 1: old behavior. I don't like that. Don't send no word,

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Speaker 1: I said, asked to be catching at the goddamn cramps.

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Speaker 1: If you can sun, if you were flexible enough and

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Speaker 1: Why not not suck my own dick? Dog? Why not?

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Speaker 1: Is that the same as sucking and titties? Because I

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Speaker 1: way I know that's in bullshit, but I thought someone

419
00:25:14,800 --> 00:25:17,119
Speaker 1: if they did pay for it, they can't cancel your ticket.

420
00:25:17,760 --> 00:25:20,560
Speaker 1: I know, I know you can put a security code

421
00:25:20,600 --> 00:25:22,840
Speaker 1: on your ticket to keep anybody from tampering with it,

422
00:25:22,920 --> 00:25:25,480
Speaker 1: though he would have to. He would have to have

423
00:25:25,760 --> 00:25:29,080
Speaker 1: a woman then calling then cancel her ticket because the

424
00:25:29,160 --> 00:25:32,080
Speaker 1: airline and the airlines ain't gonna let you do that.

425
00:25:32,840 --> 00:25:35,639
Speaker 1: A man can't call and cancel your ticket. It's in

426
00:25:35,760 --> 00:25:38,119
Speaker 1: your name once it's paid for it. But how how

427
00:25:38,200 --> 00:25:40,840
Speaker 1: do they know? Like with the climate today, you could

428
00:25:40,880 --> 00:25:44,640
Speaker 1: be very well say you that moment and they can't

429
00:25:44,640 --> 00:25:47,680
Speaker 1: say you're not right, girl. I don't know. This ship

430
00:25:47,800 --> 00:25:53,959
Speaker 1: is so sketchy, but anyway, she needs to. Uh, hey, yo,

431
00:25:54,600 --> 00:25:57,840
Speaker 1: this Katherine Jones and I want to cancel my motherfucking ticket.

432
00:25:59,160 --> 00:26:02,119
Speaker 1: What they're gonna say? I can't say ship you have

433
00:26:02,280 --> 00:26:08,000
Speaker 1: sound like what's doing from St. Louis delivered? No? No delivered?

434
00:26:09,480 --> 00:26:23,600
Speaker 1: Yeah yo called, Well that's something called no. I don't

435
00:26:23,640 --> 00:26:25,760
Speaker 1: know whatever that boy, David, that's when you have sound

436
00:26:25,800 --> 00:26:37,359
Speaker 1: like yo, I want to cancel my ticket? Yeah, but

437
00:26:38,640 --> 00:26:41,480
Speaker 1: she needs that, she needs that, she needs the food

438
00:26:41,560 --> 00:26:45,639
Speaker 1: out um episode. We have an episode for that. It

439
00:26:45,760 --> 00:26:49,280
Speaker 1: was episode go back and look at it. Flute out

440
00:26:49,320 --> 00:26:52,280
Speaker 1: one on one. All the rules are getting flew out. One.

441
00:26:52,359 --> 00:26:56,960
Speaker 1: You never leave without no money, never, never, that's the

442
00:26:57,040 --> 00:26:59,320
Speaker 1: biggest mistake. You don't want to be dependent on nobody

443
00:26:59,480 --> 00:27:04,520
Speaker 1: like that. That's friend because you know, and then you

444
00:27:04,600 --> 00:27:06,640
Speaker 1: have people saying, oh, why would you like the guy?

445
00:27:06,720 --> 00:27:10,000
Speaker 1: Whole thing is like you flying out and ain't fucking

446
00:27:10,320 --> 00:27:13,080
Speaker 1: like what's up with that? But who's to say that

447
00:27:13,240 --> 00:27:16,400
Speaker 1: she didn't have all intentions to fuck but you did something,

448
00:27:16,800 --> 00:27:23,080
Speaker 1: you know, Yeah, you got body older like that, cheesy

449
00:27:23,160 --> 00:27:26,760
Speaker 1: bits around it, and she saw it like all type

450
00:27:26,800 --> 00:27:29,840
Speaker 1: of reasons why women change their minds and then to

451
00:27:29,920 --> 00:27:33,280
Speaker 1: change their mind exactly. But you know what the problem is,

452
00:27:33,359 --> 00:27:36,720
Speaker 1: tim is that nigga's sucking regardless. There's gonna be nothing

453
00:27:36,760 --> 00:27:38,640
Speaker 1: a woman can do to turn a man off. Okay,

454
00:27:38,680 --> 00:27:41,200
Speaker 1: he gonna suck you at least and then and then

455
00:27:41,840 --> 00:27:45,960
Speaker 1: play with your ass after that, like exactly, but he

456
00:27:46,080 --> 00:27:48,360
Speaker 1: gonna sto fun. Y'all mad at us because we got

457
00:27:48,760 --> 00:27:55,600
Speaker 1: standards and integrity and goddamn, I don't know, self esteem.

458
00:27:55,680 --> 00:27:58,000
Speaker 1: All these different things will make me not want to

459
00:27:58,080 --> 00:28:00,280
Speaker 1: let you funk on me when I know, like gonna

460
00:28:00,280 --> 00:28:04,359
Speaker 1: be disgusted while it's happening. It's kind of his breath.

461
00:28:04,720 --> 00:28:09,040
Speaker 1: Here you from behind and hold his breath. Nasty sank

462
00:28:09,080 --> 00:28:14,160
Speaker 1: as it wouldn't be he just for this might as well. No, nigga,

463
00:28:14,880 --> 00:28:17,359
Speaker 1: four hundred dollars old clarinal, he's still playing for it.

464
00:28:17,800 --> 00:28:23,360
Speaker 1: Have some self respect, So y'all look at that. That's

465
00:28:23,400 --> 00:28:25,399
Speaker 1: crazy or you ain't sucking. He didn't flut, y'all. He

466
00:28:25,440 --> 00:28:27,720
Speaker 1: don't spend money. How dare you? Like? Y'all don't know

467
00:28:27,880 --> 00:28:31,159
Speaker 1: what could happen in between time, like, especially if you're

468
00:28:31,200 --> 00:28:33,560
Speaker 1: chatting it up sex and sexting it up with a

469
00:28:33,640 --> 00:28:37,800
Speaker 1: man like you're set to do this. I am anyway,

470
00:28:37,920 --> 00:28:41,240
Speaker 1: you know I'm not flying awhere where I'm not right.

471
00:28:41,360 --> 00:28:45,440
Speaker 1: I'll just stay home, okay. But if I get there

472
00:28:45,520 --> 00:28:47,240
Speaker 1: and it ain't what it should be and I don't

473
00:28:47,240 --> 00:28:50,360
Speaker 1: feel comfortable comfortable enough to do it, I'm not nigga,

474
00:28:50,520 --> 00:28:51,960
Speaker 1: and you can feel how you want to feel about it.

475
00:28:51,960 --> 00:28:54,680
Speaker 1: And guess what I got sucking money because I never

476
00:28:54,760 --> 00:28:56,560
Speaker 1: worried about not being able to get back to where

477
00:28:56,560 --> 00:29:00,960
Speaker 1: I'm going, right, y'all, bitch has better grow up? Yeah,

478
00:29:01,000 --> 00:29:03,240
Speaker 1: don't go nowhere with no money. That's the first rule.

479
00:29:03,360 --> 00:29:06,120
Speaker 1: Your mama should have talked to you that you don't

480
00:29:06,120 --> 00:29:09,000
Speaker 1: be depending on the nigga because then you gotta pay

481
00:29:09,080 --> 00:29:11,080
Speaker 1: for your flight with your COUCHI like, you really gotta

482
00:29:11,120 --> 00:29:20,440
Speaker 1: pay for it with your COUCHI at that point, you

483
00:29:20,520 --> 00:29:27,320
Speaker 1: can't clariner that pussy. Oh you could, you could after

484
00:29:27,400 --> 00:29:33,240
Speaker 1: pay it though, after pay definitely got flights. Yeah, you know,

485
00:29:33,440 --> 00:29:35,800
Speaker 1: you can't clariner a flight, but you can't clariner that pussy.

486
00:29:35,880 --> 00:29:44,840
Speaker 1: Then shame all right, y'all right, one more thing, y'all,

487
00:29:44,920 --> 00:29:47,840
Speaker 1: Mystical ass is back in fucking jail with no bond

488
00:29:48,280 --> 00:29:53,040
Speaker 1: for rape and a few other charges. These names exist

489
00:29:53,120 --> 00:29:55,480
Speaker 1: in our community. Dog, we gotta stop acting like they don't.

490
00:29:57,080 --> 00:30:00,240
Speaker 1: Will have, yes, people will have. All excuse is for

491
00:30:00,360 --> 00:30:04,160
Speaker 1: these predatory men, you know, because they only men, are

492
00:30:04,240 --> 00:30:08,680
Speaker 1: only concerned about the people under their fucking roof technically,

493
00:30:09,320 --> 00:30:11,720
Speaker 1: you know, but these these guys exist out here. Man,

494
00:30:11,760 --> 00:30:14,400
Speaker 1: We don't be making this ship up. Most most Black

495
00:30:14,480 --> 00:30:18,320
Speaker 1: women in particular are attacked by people they know. It's

496
00:30:18,360 --> 00:30:20,320
Speaker 1: not strangers. A lot of times there's people we know

497
00:30:22,640 --> 00:30:27,200
Speaker 1: that's crazy, but Mystical gives off rape vibes. Honestly does he?

498
00:30:27,480 --> 00:30:30,000
Speaker 1: I always thought he was so fine, nice looking man,

499
00:30:30,200 --> 00:30:32,920
Speaker 1: Like why you need to take pussy? The way he'd

500
00:30:32,960 --> 00:30:39,360
Speaker 1: be yelling in him song watch yourself, show me what

501
00:30:39,440 --> 00:30:42,840
Speaker 1: you're working with. Guys, just thick is scary. This nick

502
00:30:43,000 --> 00:30:45,880
Speaker 1: is yelling at me. So I feel like he gives

503
00:30:46,000 --> 00:30:48,400
Speaker 1: rap people with Somebody gonna be mad about these jokes, y'all.

504
00:30:48,440 --> 00:30:51,120
Speaker 1: These are we're not making fun of rape. Okay, it's

505
00:30:51,200 --> 00:30:55,040
Speaker 1: not wasn't he in the military. Does he have PTSD

506
00:30:55,160 --> 00:30:58,080
Speaker 1: or something? I remember him being in the military, right, Oh,

507
00:30:58,160 --> 00:31:02,400
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't mm hmm. But he did

508
00:31:02,480 --> 00:31:05,320
Speaker 1: seven years before for rape. Got arrested again in two

509
00:31:05,360 --> 00:31:08,040
Speaker 1: thousand seventeen for rape, but they said they couldn't prosecute

510
00:31:08,040 --> 00:31:11,600
Speaker 1: because it wasn't enough evidence, supposedly, and then now here's

511
00:31:11,800 --> 00:31:15,520
Speaker 1: and now here here he is again like he's a rapist,

512
00:31:15,960 --> 00:31:19,440
Speaker 1: like he gets off from taking it. He's a rapist.

513
00:31:20,280 --> 00:31:22,800
Speaker 1: I don't know, but listen, this this kind of leaves

514
00:31:22,880 --> 00:31:24,800
Speaker 1: us into what we want to talk about briefly to day.

515
00:31:25,280 --> 00:31:32,320
Speaker 1: We want to talk about manipulation versus seduction. We'll be

516
00:31:32,480 --> 00:31:40,080
Speaker 1: right back, y'all. Okay, y'all. So I was talking to

517
00:31:40,240 --> 00:31:46,720
Speaker 1: Tam and I know y'all know Taylor fun Sized t Yeah,

518
00:31:46,840 --> 00:31:53,200
Speaker 1: our producer, and we were talking about like, like I said,

519
00:31:53,200 --> 00:31:55,400
Speaker 1: I don't know. I know I'm not the only one

520
00:31:55,520 --> 00:31:57,840
Speaker 1: that this has happened too, but I don't think men

521
00:31:59,400 --> 00:32:05,680
Speaker 1: consider this uh predatory behavior kinda anyway. Have you, guys, Tammy,

522
00:32:05,800 --> 00:32:09,320
Speaker 1: have you ever been in a situation where you just

523
00:32:10,440 --> 00:32:12,680
Speaker 1: like you're around a guy made in a close setting

524
00:32:12,720 --> 00:32:15,520
Speaker 1: with a man, right, And I don't want to I

525
00:32:15,560 --> 00:32:18,320
Speaker 1: don't want to say it's rape, right, but you got

526
00:32:18,400 --> 00:32:21,000
Speaker 1: a little more pressured than you would have liked to,

527
00:32:21,640 --> 00:32:24,320
Speaker 1: and you engaged in sexual activity when you really didn't

528
00:32:24,360 --> 00:32:28,200
Speaker 1: want to. H and I have just blocked the neck

529
00:32:28,280 --> 00:32:31,760
Speaker 1: and goes to them afterwards, right if they want to do.

530
00:32:33,560 --> 00:32:36,280
Speaker 1: I definitely have been in the situation when I was

531
00:32:36,400 --> 00:32:40,600
Speaker 1: much younger in my early twenties where I engaged in

532
00:32:40,720 --> 00:32:42,960
Speaker 1: sex that I really didn't want to have but the

533
00:32:43,040 --> 00:32:48,560
Speaker 1: pressure was just a lot and I did right, But

534
00:32:48,680 --> 00:32:52,440
Speaker 1: I can't I couldn't call it right because I consented

535
00:32:52,560 --> 00:32:59,800
Speaker 1: to something I didn't really want to do. So so

536
00:32:59,880 --> 00:33:03,480
Speaker 1: that's why I want to talk about like manipulation versus seduction,

537
00:33:03,480 --> 00:33:06,200
Speaker 1: because I think like a lot of men think that damn,

538
00:33:06,440 --> 00:33:08,640
Speaker 1: I kissed her in the neck. That didn't work. Let

539
00:33:08,680 --> 00:33:12,800
Speaker 1: me try someplace else. Like they keep trying different orogenous

540
00:33:12,920 --> 00:33:15,640
Speaker 1: zones to see if they can get you going right.

541
00:33:15,760 --> 00:33:18,200
Speaker 1: But if somebody got to tell you no, move stop,

542
00:33:18,360 --> 00:33:22,400
Speaker 1: I'm just chilling too many fu times. And then I

543
00:33:22,480 --> 00:33:24,479
Speaker 1: don't know, maybe you just get on top of him.

544
00:33:26,400 --> 00:33:27,920
Speaker 1: I don't have somebody humped the hell out of me

545
00:33:27,960 --> 00:33:33,400
Speaker 1: with clothes on before, and that's just like borderline disgusting rape. Okay, yeah,

546
00:33:33,480 --> 00:33:37,320
Speaker 1: we were fully clothed, but he dry humped me for

547
00:33:37,400 --> 00:33:41,880
Speaker 1: a long time. Yes, And I was like, you don't

548
00:33:41,920 --> 00:33:44,160
Speaker 1: gonna clean up? He was like, it's not that much

549
00:33:48,240 --> 00:33:51,760
Speaker 1: like this actually happened. So not to make fun of

550
00:33:51,840 --> 00:33:53,960
Speaker 1: the situation, but this ship happens. And I want to

551
00:33:53,960 --> 00:33:55,959
Speaker 1: say to younger women because I feel like even when

552
00:33:56,040 --> 00:33:58,280
Speaker 1: men get older, this is not something that they probably

553
00:33:58,360 --> 00:34:01,520
Speaker 1: go around doing. You know what I'm saying. But when

554
00:34:01,560 --> 00:34:04,040
Speaker 1: that testosterone click kicks in a lot of times, men

555
00:34:04,120 --> 00:34:09,040
Speaker 1: can't control themselves. Yeah you know, so women, we just

556
00:34:09,200 --> 00:34:11,920
Speaker 1: you know, to get it over with. You might engage

557
00:34:11,960 --> 00:34:13,360
Speaker 1: in some ship that you didn't want to do. So

558
00:34:13,520 --> 00:34:20,600
Speaker 1: is that manipulation or is it seduction? Combin Right? So, um,

559
00:34:22,880 --> 00:34:25,040
Speaker 1: I like to look up the definitions of words, because

560
00:34:25,120 --> 00:34:27,640
Speaker 1: clearly we know what manipulation is and we know what

561
00:34:27,760 --> 00:34:32,400
Speaker 1: seduction is. But you know, when you look up definitions,

562
00:34:32,440 --> 00:34:37,040
Speaker 1: you get a better context of things sometimes. So, uh,

563
00:34:37,360 --> 00:34:43,879
Speaker 1: manipulate is to handle or control, typically in a skillful manner, alter, edit,

564
00:34:44,080 --> 00:34:47,880
Speaker 1: or remove, examine, or treat a part of the body

565
00:34:48,040 --> 00:34:52,120
Speaker 1: by feeling or moving it with the hand, control, or

566
00:34:52,320 --> 00:35:02,160
Speaker 1: influence a personal situation cleverly, unfairly, unscrupulously. Um. And then yeah,

567
00:35:02,360 --> 00:35:08,719
Speaker 1: that's basically it. That's manipulation mm hmm right um. Attempting

568
00:35:08,880 --> 00:35:12,799
Speaker 1: or attractive thing. Okay, so even we if we look

569
00:35:12,880 --> 00:35:15,600
Speaker 1: at seduction like that, like maybe this person is already

570
00:35:15,640 --> 00:35:20,239
Speaker 1: attractive to you, He's already already kind of tempting, so

571
00:35:20,560 --> 00:35:22,400
Speaker 1: he might do a couple of little things and that

572
00:35:22,520 --> 00:35:26,160
Speaker 1: gets you there to go ahead and and go on.

573
00:35:26,760 --> 00:35:29,160
Speaker 1: So I guess it becomes manipulation when you really don't

574
00:35:29,200 --> 00:35:34,919
Speaker 1: want to, Right, how do men maneuver in a world

575
00:35:35,000 --> 00:35:39,600
Speaker 1: like that? See, it's kind of fucked up for the

576
00:35:39,680 --> 00:35:44,759
Speaker 1: guys because his attention may not be to manipulate you.

577
00:35:44,920 --> 00:35:46,960
Speaker 1: But if you don't like him, and he don't know that,

578
00:35:48,360 --> 00:35:51,440
Speaker 1: then it looks like he manipulated you, you know, right,

579
00:35:51,640 --> 00:35:53,399
Speaker 1: And see that's why I always be like, y'all think

580
00:35:53,400 --> 00:35:55,040
Speaker 1: I'm crazy, But I don't like to go to like

581
00:35:55,239 --> 00:35:58,200
Speaker 1: if I don't want to fuck at this age and

582
00:35:58,360 --> 00:36:00,880
Speaker 1: then like I and I because I've putting myself in

583
00:36:00,960 --> 00:36:03,719
Speaker 1: situations I really should not have, right, so you see

584
00:36:03,760 --> 00:36:07,960
Speaker 1: ship you know in hindsight, But I don't like to

585
00:36:08,000 --> 00:36:10,120
Speaker 1: go on close settings with any man if I don't

586
00:36:10,120 --> 00:36:12,040
Speaker 1: plan on having sex with them, like I'm not coming

587
00:36:12,080 --> 00:36:14,359
Speaker 1: to your house eleven o'clock at night, and not because

588
00:36:14,440 --> 00:36:17,120
Speaker 1: women shouldn't be able to. But we know the stories.

589
00:36:17,480 --> 00:36:19,600
Speaker 1: You know, some men can't control themselves. And you don't

590
00:36:19,640 --> 00:36:22,480
Speaker 1: know somebody until you know them, right, so you might

591
00:36:22,560 --> 00:36:24,719
Speaker 1: think he's cool and then you get there and he

592
00:36:24,840 --> 00:36:29,360
Speaker 1: fucking violates you. Yeah, that's fair. I do you know,

593
00:36:29,440 --> 00:36:30,879
Speaker 1: I go where I want to go when I want

594
00:36:30,880 --> 00:36:34,680
Speaker 1: to go, and I don't feel like any type of

595
00:36:34,719 --> 00:36:37,440
Speaker 1: way about it. I got a gun, I carry a

596
00:36:37,480 --> 00:36:40,640
Speaker 1: gun with me. I would go to a nigger house

597
00:36:40,640 --> 00:36:42,880
Speaker 1: at eleven o'clock with no plans, and I'll leave my

598
00:36:42,960 --> 00:36:46,160
Speaker 1: pussy at home, but bring my pistol with me. You

599
00:36:46,280 --> 00:36:52,480
Speaker 1: hear me? All right? So seduces, entice someone into sexual activity,

600
00:36:53,320 --> 00:36:57,040
Speaker 1: attract someone to a belief or into a course of action.

601
00:36:57,239 --> 00:37:02,560
Speaker 1: That is, um, yeah, I know I can't read hold on.

602
00:37:03,000 --> 00:37:09,120
Speaker 1: Attract someone to believe or into a course of action. Uh,

603
00:37:09,280 --> 00:37:14,520
Speaker 1: that is fool fool hardy, fool hardy, fool heart free,

604
00:37:15,080 --> 00:37:18,560
Speaker 1: fool hardy f O l h A r d y

605
00:37:19,239 --> 00:37:24,359
Speaker 1: that's the word. Yeah. However, what is foolhardy? I don't

606
00:37:24,400 --> 00:37:32,279
Speaker 1: even know that. I don't know. It's as invisible, in advisible,

607
00:37:32,920 --> 00:37:39,400
Speaker 1: or fool hardy. Uh, seduce, seduces, seducing, Yeah, all of

608
00:37:39,480 --> 00:37:45,040
Speaker 1: these acts attract powerfully. So I think the only difference is,

609
00:37:45,880 --> 00:37:48,680
Speaker 1: like beauty is in the eye to beholder, Like we said, like,

610
00:37:48,880 --> 00:37:52,120
Speaker 1: it's only manipulation if the bitch don't like you, and

611
00:37:52,239 --> 00:37:54,800
Speaker 1: that's kind of unfair. But what if I like you,

612
00:37:54,920 --> 00:37:56,840
Speaker 1: but I don't want to suck you right now? And

613
00:37:56,920 --> 00:37:59,080
Speaker 1: here you are pressuring me to funk like I want

614
00:37:59,120 --> 00:38:01,399
Speaker 1: to fuck you at some point, but not right now.

615
00:38:02,520 --> 00:38:06,840
Speaker 1: So you know, women, uh, it's like almost you have

616
00:38:06,960 --> 00:38:10,239
Speaker 1: to have you know, ten times the wopower not to

617
00:38:10,360 --> 00:38:13,600
Speaker 1: have sex when men can do whatever they want to do, right,

618
00:38:13,880 --> 00:38:16,120
Speaker 1: Because if you don't fuck you a bit, if you do,

619
00:38:16,280 --> 00:38:18,560
Speaker 1: fuck your whole. You know, what I'm saying is, so

620
00:38:18,680 --> 00:38:21,000
Speaker 1: you have to be real meticulous, like it's almost sucking

621
00:38:21,120 --> 00:38:25,879
Speaker 1: like a surgeon with this relationship ship. If you want

622
00:38:25,960 --> 00:38:30,280
Speaker 1: somebody for more than sex, right, if you want somebody

623
00:38:30,320 --> 00:38:33,839
Speaker 1: to like you, you you you can't fuck them fast, right.

624
00:38:36,120 --> 00:38:39,719
Speaker 1: Well that's not necessarily depends on the person, right, but

625
00:38:39,960 --> 00:38:42,719
Speaker 1: but the majority, you know, maybe maybe i'd be a

626
00:38:42,840 --> 00:38:46,200
Speaker 1: lot of times. Maybe I'm speaking from more personal situations

627
00:38:46,239 --> 00:38:50,160
Speaker 1: because I do what I want to do right, But

628
00:38:50,239 --> 00:38:54,560
Speaker 1: I feel like the relationships I've been in, uh for

629
00:38:54,719 --> 00:38:57,359
Speaker 1: some reason, like later on in arguments, it comes up

630
00:38:57,480 --> 00:39:02,040
Speaker 1: like how fast I sucked them? Did you not want

631
00:39:02,040 --> 00:39:05,080
Speaker 1: to fun? Were you not like touching my titties and

632
00:39:05,239 --> 00:39:09,080
Speaker 1: caressing me and cohersing me into this act? And then

633
00:39:09,120 --> 00:39:12,239
Speaker 1: when I actually do it a year later, you're saying

634
00:39:12,280 --> 00:39:16,160
Speaker 1: something about yeah because the first night, yeah, I had

635
00:39:16,239 --> 00:39:20,200
Speaker 1: somebody shamed me after we had sex, like in a

636
00:39:20,280 --> 00:39:23,640
Speaker 1: public place and then shame me for doing it with them,

637
00:39:23,680 --> 00:39:28,919
Speaker 1: And I'm like, way, that was what you hear you? Yeah?

638
00:39:29,920 --> 00:39:31,879
Speaker 1: That was your I did to fuck that movie theater

639
00:39:31,960 --> 00:39:38,440
Speaker 1: and now you want to embarrassing me. It's like what

640
00:39:39,719 --> 00:39:47,920
Speaker 1: you picked that movie? That's a bull suck you because

641
00:39:48,080 --> 00:39:51,160
Speaker 1: why why are we like the things that women do,

642
00:39:51,320 --> 00:39:53,759
Speaker 1: like what you are natural? Because we're sexual being STUPI get,

643
00:39:53,880 --> 00:39:57,120
Speaker 1: it's like you get. It's like you get shunned on

644
00:39:57,280 --> 00:40:02,759
Speaker 1: for doing it. It's normal, right, mm hmm. So men

645
00:40:02,840 --> 00:40:05,000
Speaker 1: need to stop pressure women out here to funk if

646
00:40:05,000 --> 00:40:07,120
Speaker 1: their own wanna fuck, if they don't want to fuck

647
00:40:07,200 --> 00:40:09,040
Speaker 1: the woman. You know what I'm saying, because then when

648
00:40:09,040 --> 00:40:12,879
Speaker 1: I do smash your ass, I'm a whole It's it's

649
00:40:12,920 --> 00:40:15,840
Speaker 1: a double standard that ship right there. It really is.

650
00:40:16,040 --> 00:40:18,279
Speaker 1: It's an ugly double standard with men and women when

651
00:40:18,320 --> 00:40:22,920
Speaker 1: it comes to the whole ship. Because the needy kid

652
00:40:23,040 --> 00:40:24,960
Speaker 1: just roll around in the mud and he's the man.

653
00:40:25,800 --> 00:40:28,200
Speaker 1: But if a woman does anything, oh she is a

654
00:40:28,360 --> 00:40:32,080
Speaker 1: dirty come dumpster. You fucked in a movie theater with

655
00:40:32,239 --> 00:40:39,560
Speaker 1: a slut. I fucked you in a movie theater. We're

656
00:40:39,560 --> 00:40:43,759
Speaker 1: going together. I thought we was a couple, right, whatever, No,

657
00:40:44,200 --> 00:40:46,560
Speaker 1: you ain't no damn couple. You're just a dirty hoore.

658
00:40:46,760 --> 00:40:51,920
Speaker 1: A month in the middle of argument, right, I literally

659
00:40:52,040 --> 00:40:55,600
Speaker 1: have been in full blown you know relationships women and

660
00:40:55,719 --> 00:40:58,520
Speaker 1: that type of ship comes out. That was my boyfriend

661
00:40:58,560 --> 00:41:05,160
Speaker 1: who was sex slush shaming you, alright, slush shaming me

662
00:41:05,640 --> 00:41:10,120
Speaker 1: for something he encouraged me to do in the movie theater.

663
00:41:13,800 --> 00:41:15,880
Speaker 1: I don't know, but yeah, like I was saying, if

664
00:41:15,920 --> 00:41:17,759
Speaker 1: I do not want to have sex with somebody like

665
00:41:18,480 --> 00:41:21,000
Speaker 1: now on a days like I'm not, I'm not going

666
00:41:21,120 --> 00:41:24,719
Speaker 1: close settings with them because anything can happen. I don't

667
00:41:24,760 --> 00:41:27,040
Speaker 1: want to have regrets because I'm gonna sucking ghoti as

668
00:41:27,200 --> 00:41:32,080
Speaker 1: the next day. Settings. Where are you gonna smoke weed at?

669
00:41:33,040 --> 00:41:35,640
Speaker 1: Miss see? That's I don't smoke weed like that. I

670
00:41:35,719 --> 00:41:37,719
Speaker 1: don't smoke like that. I mean there's always Hey, I'm

671
00:41:37,719 --> 00:41:39,520
Speaker 1: gonna stop by. We can sit in the car and smoke.

672
00:41:40,360 --> 00:41:43,960
Speaker 1: Maybe we could sit outside, and so I'm coming in

673
00:41:44,080 --> 00:41:50,839
Speaker 1: your house, somebody snacks, listen to music, watch the TV.

674
00:41:51,400 --> 00:41:53,520
Speaker 1: We're gonna smoke, tell some jokes because you know, I'm

675
00:41:53,520 --> 00:41:55,440
Speaker 1: gonna tell some jokes and then I'm gonna go home.

676
00:41:55,520 --> 00:41:57,880
Speaker 1: And it shouldn't have to be I have to be

677
00:41:58,000 --> 00:42:01,160
Speaker 1: so guarded. I think you to have have to have

678
00:42:01,280 --> 00:42:04,400
Speaker 1: a certain level of discernment when you're going like you

679
00:42:04,480 --> 00:42:07,319
Speaker 1: gotta know, I mean, there's no way to know for sure.

680
00:42:07,800 --> 00:42:09,600
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. You don't know people to you

681
00:42:09,680 --> 00:42:12,400
Speaker 1: know him, but you have to have a level of

682
00:42:12,440 --> 00:42:15,000
Speaker 1: discernment when you're going in people's house. Yeah, I'm a

683
00:42:15,040 --> 00:42:17,719
Speaker 1: pretty good judge of character. Like I said, I was younger,

684
00:42:18,000 --> 00:42:20,080
Speaker 1: younger days, and I'd like to talk about these things

685
00:42:20,120 --> 00:42:22,960
Speaker 1: because this is ship that bitches in college is going

686
00:42:23,000 --> 00:42:25,919
Speaker 1: through right now. These are things younger women are going

687
00:42:26,000 --> 00:42:29,319
Speaker 1: through right now. And they probably think it's only them,

688
00:42:29,440 --> 00:42:33,120
Speaker 1: but this is being pressured to have sex. And you

689
00:42:33,200 --> 00:42:34,840
Speaker 1: really don't want to have sex with a person, but

690
00:42:34,920 --> 00:42:39,120
Speaker 1: you go ahead and do it. That is manipulation. That

691
00:42:39,280 --> 00:42:43,279
Speaker 1: is manipulation. You want to have sex with somebody and

692
00:42:43,440 --> 00:42:45,600
Speaker 1: you'll already talked about it, and he coming, you know,

693
00:42:45,800 --> 00:42:49,040
Speaker 1: rubbing you up and rubbing your feet first and kissing

694
00:42:49,080 --> 00:42:51,239
Speaker 1: you at like all of all of four play type

695
00:42:51,280 --> 00:42:55,040
Speaker 1: things that go into sex. That's different. Mm hm. You

696
00:42:55,080 --> 00:42:59,719
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. But somebody just forcefully just harassing

697
00:42:59,760 --> 00:43:03,600
Speaker 1: your asked I won't go to sleep like you know,

698
00:43:03,760 --> 00:43:05,960
Speaker 1: like you, I have stayed over to a man's house

699
00:43:06,000 --> 00:43:08,320
Speaker 1: and had to get up and leave. You know what

700
00:43:08,360 --> 00:43:10,120
Speaker 1: I'm saying, Like the whole thing was for me to

701
00:43:10,160 --> 00:43:13,480
Speaker 1: come stay tonight. Right, not necessarily smash, I never put

702
00:43:13,560 --> 00:43:17,000
Speaker 1: that out there, but I come stay tonight. You cannot

703
00:43:17,040 --> 00:43:19,840
Speaker 1: sleep in men's beds. They're not gonna go to sleep

704
00:43:19,920 --> 00:43:22,080
Speaker 1: that test stop. Strong stopped kicking in, and they're gonna

705
00:43:22,120 --> 00:43:24,920
Speaker 1: harass you all night long. You're gonna have to go home.

706
00:43:25,920 --> 00:43:31,160
Speaker 1: You've never been in that situation. Oh absolutely, I don't go, though, Boy,

707
00:43:31,239 --> 00:43:37,520
Speaker 1: calmed down, you stay there. I'm not. I'm not staying

708
00:43:37,560 --> 00:43:39,319
Speaker 1: because I'm not gonna be able to sleep, and half

709
00:43:39,360 --> 00:43:41,120
Speaker 1: the time I'd rather sleep in my own bed. Anyway,

710
00:43:41,880 --> 00:43:43,360
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna be able to sleep, and you just

711
00:43:43,440 --> 00:43:48,480
Speaker 1: harassing me, touching me all night. Get no, eventually they stopped.

712
00:43:50,719 --> 00:43:52,719
Speaker 1: If they got good sense, they'll just stop and go

713
00:43:52,800 --> 00:43:59,920
Speaker 1: to being mad, don't. I'm making some bacon and eggs.

714
00:44:00,000 --> 00:44:02,279
Speaker 1: If you got something, this motherfucker I'm making for you

715
00:44:02,360 --> 00:44:04,600
Speaker 1: in the morning, and I'm gonna go home. But it

716
00:44:04,760 --> 00:44:06,480
Speaker 1: just depends on you have to have those type of

717
00:44:06,520 --> 00:44:10,160
Speaker 1: conversations though, Like I would let the nigger know that

718
00:44:10,200 --> 00:44:12,200
Speaker 1: I ain't bringing up pussy with me. That don't stop

719
00:44:12,239 --> 00:44:17,480
Speaker 1: them from trying. But at least they were full worn right, Yeah,

720
00:44:17,520 --> 00:44:20,359
Speaker 1: but in their minds, especially in young men mind, they

721
00:44:20,440 --> 00:44:24,640
Speaker 1: can finesse you. Yeah, they think they can finesse because

722
00:44:24,680 --> 00:44:29,520
Speaker 1: they are hunters, right. Men are our hunters, so that's

723
00:44:29,560 --> 00:44:32,000
Speaker 1: why we yeah, by nature, So that's why you do

724
00:44:32,160 --> 00:44:34,279
Speaker 1: give it up too easy. It just becomes like a

725
00:44:35,440 --> 00:44:37,279
Speaker 1: turn off of them because they want to feel like

726
00:44:38,040 --> 00:44:42,160
Speaker 1: they caught you. Yes, that's what they want to feel like.

727
00:44:42,880 --> 00:44:45,120
Speaker 1: They want to feel like they caught you and and

728
00:44:45,360 --> 00:44:47,640
Speaker 1: got you to do something. Like I was telling the

729
00:44:47,680 --> 00:44:49,440
Speaker 1: nigger once, I was like, dude, already knew I was

730
00:44:49,520 --> 00:44:51,680
Speaker 1: working ifore I came here, like, you ain't have nothing

731
00:44:51,760 --> 00:44:53,200
Speaker 1: to do with that, And he does not like to

732
00:44:53,239 --> 00:44:57,200
Speaker 1: hear that, like like I set the whole ship up

733
00:44:57,239 --> 00:44:59,440
Speaker 1: in my mind, like my whole day was set on

734
00:44:59,680 --> 00:45:02,120
Speaker 1: fucking him tonight, Like you have nothing to do with that.

735
00:45:03,200 --> 00:45:05,000
Speaker 1: I hit you out, what's your address? We hadn't been

736
00:45:05,080 --> 00:45:06,799
Speaker 1: up some dates, like what's your address? I had never

737
00:45:06,880 --> 00:45:11,160
Speaker 1: been this house before, And now like I'm we've had

738
00:45:11,239 --> 00:45:15,000
Speaker 1: conversations after the fact in his mind and in his

739
00:45:15,200 --> 00:45:20,840
Speaker 1: mind he got me to fuck right. I lined you

740
00:45:21,000 --> 00:45:27,279
Speaker 1: up all day. I lined your ass up all day.

741
00:45:27,440 --> 00:45:30,359
Speaker 1: Like men, when a woman gives you pussy a lot

742
00:45:30,440 --> 00:45:32,920
Speaker 1: of times, like willingly, Okay, it has nothing to do

743
00:45:33,000 --> 00:45:36,680
Speaker 1: with you. She already knew. Yeah, you didn't finess the situation.

744
00:45:36,840 --> 00:45:40,520
Speaker 1: You didn't manipulate decision, but sometimes sometimes you do. Sometimes

745
00:45:40,600 --> 00:45:43,120
Speaker 1: they do. I don't definitely gave us some pussy, like

746
00:45:43,360 --> 00:45:45,880
Speaker 1: damn the next day, I did not mean to get

747
00:45:45,920 --> 00:45:50,160
Speaker 1: that whatever, because you probably put on matching brown pennies.

748
00:45:50,360 --> 00:45:53,560
Speaker 1: You did something a little extra in the show. Yeah,

749
00:45:53,719 --> 00:45:56,319
Speaker 1: mother fun, we'll be prepping now. We definitely will prep

750
00:45:56,560 --> 00:46:01,320
Speaker 1: to not get a couci up the case. I just

751
00:46:01,480 --> 00:46:03,239
Speaker 1: just in case the pussy there not like it was

752
00:46:03,280 --> 00:46:05,239
Speaker 1: a nigger, Like I really wanted to fucking, but I

753
00:46:05,280 --> 00:46:06,960
Speaker 1: wanted to wait because I wanted to get to know

754
00:46:07,080 --> 00:46:12,040
Speaker 1: him better. So I wore a holy drawl. I wore

755
00:46:12,120 --> 00:46:14,520
Speaker 1: some holy ass patties. I was like, I cannot let

756
00:46:14,600 --> 00:46:18,120
Speaker 1: him see these draws, and then I still fucked him

757
00:46:21,320 --> 00:46:29,640
Speaker 1: bawling patties up in this trash can think it. Don't

758
00:46:29,680 --> 00:46:31,719
Speaker 1: got no standards. They don't give a damn about no hole.

759
00:46:31,840 --> 00:46:44,000
Speaker 1: Pat you right through that hole in them draw They're easy. Goodness.

760
00:46:44,080 --> 00:46:47,279
Speaker 1: I was joking, y'all some of the stuff. Sometimes I

761
00:46:47,400 --> 00:46:49,360
Speaker 1: really just be making up ship for it to be funny,

762
00:46:51,120 --> 00:46:57,319
Speaker 1: not that though that really did happen. I don't know, man,

763
00:46:57,880 --> 00:46:59,839
Speaker 1: I just say middle thing is to my old life

764
00:46:59,880 --> 00:47:06,040
Speaker 1: a lot. And you know, you're living, you learn, and

765
00:47:06,680 --> 00:47:09,000
Speaker 1: I don't know. I just I don't know. I have

766
00:47:09,080 --> 00:47:11,319
Speaker 1: a niece who is twenty four, and I'd be trying

767
00:47:11,360 --> 00:47:14,920
Speaker 1: to tell her stuff. But everybody just be wanting to

768
00:47:15,520 --> 00:47:17,880
Speaker 1: learn on their own. Yeah, life is going to be

769
00:47:17,960 --> 00:47:21,480
Speaker 1: your best teacher. Yeah, instead of just living vicariously through

770
00:47:21,560 --> 00:47:25,720
Speaker 1: other people like they just got to know it, learning

771
00:47:25,760 --> 00:47:29,640
Speaker 1: from your mistakes. I posted about that um, that girl

772
00:47:29,719 --> 00:47:33,160
Speaker 1: getting fluid out and the guy and I posted about,

773
00:47:33,200 --> 00:47:36,279
Speaker 1: you know, putting your security question on your ticket so

774
00:47:36,360 --> 00:47:38,960
Speaker 1: nobody can tamper with your ticket, and he was like,

775
00:47:39,080 --> 00:47:41,160
Speaker 1: a guy came on the post, like, how did you

776
00:47:41,280 --> 00:47:49,239
Speaker 1: learn that? I said, bitch the hard way? So I'm

777
00:47:49,239 --> 00:47:51,759
Speaker 1: putting their information out so someone doesn't have to learn

778
00:47:51,880 --> 00:47:56,439
Speaker 1: the hard way, you know. Yeah. Look, now he gonna

779
00:47:56,480 --> 00:47:59,000
Speaker 1: be like trying to figure out how he could set

780
00:47:59,040 --> 00:48:02,919
Speaker 1: a security code for first for a bitch ticket, right, See,

781
00:48:03,239 --> 00:48:06,920
Speaker 1: damn the information out there. You can't be telling that

782
00:48:06,920 --> 00:48:11,120
Speaker 1: all the secrets. Look He like, how you know? Right? Yeah,

783
00:48:11,160 --> 00:48:12,840
Speaker 1: you know, fun the game up for the young holes,

784
00:48:13,600 --> 00:48:15,680
Speaker 1: not if they see niggas don't listen as much as

785
00:48:15,719 --> 00:48:18,760
Speaker 1: the women. So if you get that to be at first,

786
00:48:22,480 --> 00:48:26,000
Speaker 1: you'll be up on game. I don't know, I don't know.

787
00:48:26,080 --> 00:48:28,560
Speaker 1: People just gotta be careful out here, man, Just be careful,

788
00:48:29,400 --> 00:48:34,560
Speaker 1: don't you know? Have have some discernment. Okay. I feel

789
00:48:34,600 --> 00:48:37,560
Speaker 1: like that's that's the majority of women's issues. We will

790
00:48:37,600 --> 00:48:41,399
Speaker 1: be complaining about these men, but we just be out

791
00:48:41,440 --> 00:48:45,120
Speaker 1: here and fucking Willie knelling it, just yelling it along.

792
00:48:45,760 --> 00:48:50,040
Speaker 1: No accountability for the ship that happened to you, like

793
00:48:50,120 --> 00:48:54,719
Speaker 1: you gotta have accountability, right and now there's monkey pop

794
00:48:54,800 --> 00:48:56,920
Speaker 1: ship going around. You fly out to the wrong you're

795
00:48:56,920 --> 00:49:03,400
Speaker 1: gonna come back and we're gonna see it. That walker,

796
00:49:03,440 --> 00:49:06,200
Speaker 1: she ain't gonna be a little different, a whole lot

797
00:49:06,239 --> 00:49:09,360
Speaker 1: of different. It's gonna be a bumpy rolled ahead. So

798
00:49:10,680 --> 00:49:12,680
Speaker 1: my advice would be not to fly out and nobody

799
00:49:12,800 --> 00:49:15,239
Speaker 1: right now until they get that ship contained, because girl,

800
00:49:16,600 --> 00:49:18,600
Speaker 1: I feel like it's not it's it not just like

801
00:49:18,719 --> 00:49:24,640
Speaker 1: a chicken pox on steroids. It is definitely chicken pox

802
00:49:24,680 --> 00:49:27,040
Speaker 1: on steroids. Because that girl's that you saw that video,

803
00:49:27,080 --> 00:49:31,879
Speaker 1: that girl from Atlanta her face who with yeah too,

804
00:49:33,840 --> 00:49:36,160
Speaker 1: Like I don't even scared of COVID for real. But listen,

805
00:49:37,040 --> 00:49:41,680
Speaker 1: my fucker's gonna want to be walking around looking crazy now, right,

806
00:49:42,400 --> 00:49:44,839
Speaker 1: nigger's rare to die and'll be walking around looking at ugly.

807
00:49:48,320 --> 00:49:52,399
Speaker 1: Nig's just taking their chances to COVID. But that mucky pox, bro, Yeah,

808
00:49:52,440 --> 00:49:55,080
Speaker 1: because you know how my chicken pox tore us up,

809
00:49:55,440 --> 00:49:58,440
Speaker 1: you know, starring and stuff. So imagine like black people's

810
00:49:58,440 --> 00:50:01,960
Speaker 1: skin is just different. Um. What I don't like about

811
00:50:02,000 --> 00:50:04,760
Speaker 1: the monkey pots about any of these diseases. They always

812
00:50:04,760 --> 00:50:06,759
Speaker 1: try to say it originated in Congo, like they want

813
00:50:06,800 --> 00:50:09,880
Speaker 1: to say all these diseases originated in Africa. But we

814
00:50:10,040 --> 00:50:12,440
Speaker 1: know who brought the diseases to the Indians, right, We

815
00:50:12,560 --> 00:50:14,919
Speaker 1: know who brought smallpox. We know they got a whole

816
00:50:15,080 --> 00:50:18,239
Speaker 1: book written on dirt. The name of the book is dirt.

817
00:50:18,280 --> 00:50:19,560
Speaker 1: If y'all want to go out there and look and

818
00:50:19,640 --> 00:50:23,520
Speaker 1: check it out and see how counterparts weren't washing and

819
00:50:23,600 --> 00:50:26,279
Speaker 1: we had to teach them how Okay, So all these

820
00:50:26,360 --> 00:50:30,000
Speaker 1: diseases really originated from them through through like a natural

821
00:50:30,600 --> 00:50:34,000
Speaker 1: progression of bacteria and viruses and ship like that, or

822
00:50:34,120 --> 00:50:36,000
Speaker 1: they created it in a fucking lab and they can't

823
00:50:36,040 --> 00:50:40,520
Speaker 1: detain it. That's what's happening. So stop putting ship onto Africa.

824
00:50:40,600 --> 00:50:42,279
Speaker 1: What they want to do is they want to keep

825
00:50:42,360 --> 00:50:47,960
Speaker 1: going into Africa and stealing them natural resources over there, right, So, oh,

826
00:50:48,040 --> 00:50:49,960
Speaker 1: this this area, all these people just got all these

827
00:50:50,000 --> 00:50:52,560
Speaker 1: diseases and y'all all over there and making people sick

828
00:50:52,680 --> 00:50:56,360
Speaker 1: to get them out of their natural habitats. That's what

829
00:50:56,400 --> 00:51:01,680
Speaker 1: they're doing. They're killing the people, y'all. You know, we

830
00:51:01,760 --> 00:51:06,160
Speaker 1: gotta pay these bills. We'll be right back. Dumb bitch

831
00:51:06,440 --> 00:51:10,439
Speaker 1: stories because we've all been a dumb bitch at least

832
00:51:10,480 --> 00:51:16,759
Speaker 1: once or twice. Story this week. Um, you know a

833
00:51:16,880 --> 00:51:18,759
Speaker 1: lot of times we get stories they don't really be

834
00:51:18,880 --> 00:51:21,480
Speaker 1: like dumba story. This is motherfucker's gonna tell us say business,

835
00:51:21,560 --> 00:51:23,560
Speaker 1: but I'm here for it. Okay. She don't really need

836
00:51:23,640 --> 00:51:25,399
Speaker 1: no advice based on this, and it's kind of long,

837
00:51:25,560 --> 00:51:28,160
Speaker 1: but I feel like the whole thing needs to be

838
00:51:28,239 --> 00:51:33,120
Speaker 1: read for context. So uh. She starts off by saying,

839
00:51:33,440 --> 00:51:38,080
Speaker 1: I would like to remain anonymous. Okay, so you're anonymous. Um,

840
00:51:39,000 --> 00:51:42,359
Speaker 1: so I started working with this coworker April. Now, if

841
00:51:42,440 --> 00:51:45,800
Speaker 1: you can remember, this was pandemic. Uh, this was peak pandemic.

842
00:51:46,120 --> 00:51:48,399
Speaker 1: So due to that, we were both able to tell

843
00:51:48,480 --> 00:51:50,960
Speaker 1: our significant others that we had to work hours that

844
00:51:51,080 --> 00:51:53,960
Speaker 1: weren't usual times we went in. We were we were

845
00:51:54,000 --> 00:51:56,759
Speaker 1: sucking once a week. Every week we would take one

846
00:51:56,800 --> 00:51:58,960
Speaker 1: day out the month and get a hotel room and

847
00:51:59,040 --> 00:52:02,360
Speaker 1: spend the day together. This went on forever. Excuse me,

848
00:52:02,520 --> 00:52:04,480
Speaker 1: this went on. This went on for over a year.

849
00:52:05,360 --> 00:52:08,160
Speaker 1: I'm add to this. Mid story. This went over. This

850
00:52:08,320 --> 00:52:11,120
Speaker 1: went on for over a year. Things were just getting

851
00:52:11,160 --> 00:52:14,400
Speaker 1: too heavy. Feelings got involved. We both started saying I

852
00:52:14,560 --> 00:52:17,680
Speaker 1: love you. He was pressing me to leave my husband.

853
00:52:18,120 --> 00:52:21,239
Speaker 1: He was going through a divorce. Supposedly, My intentions were

854
00:52:21,320 --> 00:52:23,839
Speaker 1: never to leave my husband. I just wanted the side dick.

855
00:52:24,520 --> 00:52:26,560
Speaker 1: I told him we needed to stop because my husband

856
00:52:26,560 --> 00:52:29,600
Speaker 1: started getting suspicious, taking drastic measures. I just went to

857
00:52:29,760 --> 00:52:33,280
Speaker 1: no contact, but that backfired. He was blowing out my phone,

858
00:52:33,400 --> 00:52:36,720
Speaker 1: so I blocked him. He started emailing me, calling, texting

859
00:52:36,760 --> 00:52:40,280
Speaker 1: me through other another, other numbers. He was like, okay, okay, okay,

860
00:52:40,760 --> 00:52:44,000
Speaker 1: we'll do it your way. No feelings, just fucking I'm like,

861
00:52:44,160 --> 00:52:48,280
Speaker 1: all right, So when he goes, can I see you? Naively,

862
00:52:48,440 --> 00:52:51,719
Speaker 1: I agreed so we hook up again. The next day,

863
00:52:51,800 --> 00:52:56,160
Speaker 1: he sends me still images screenshots of us. I'm staring

864
00:52:56,200 --> 00:53:00,239
Speaker 1: at my phone. I'm staring at my phone trying to

865
00:53:00,320 --> 00:53:02,879
Speaker 1: figure out what I'm looking at. My heart. My heart

866
00:53:03,000 --> 00:53:05,480
Speaker 1: sunk to the pit of my gut. I had to

867
00:53:05,560 --> 00:53:08,319
Speaker 1: pick my job off the floor. This motherfucker recorded us

868
00:53:08,400 --> 00:53:11,839
Speaker 1: having sex without me knowing. The thing was he would

869
00:53:11,880 --> 00:53:15,200
Speaker 1: always ask me when we were, when we were doing

870
00:53:15,239 --> 00:53:17,719
Speaker 1: it if he record, and I'm like, sorry, that's a

871
00:53:17,800 --> 00:53:20,640
Speaker 1: hard no. I replied back, what the fund is that?

872
00:53:22,440 --> 00:53:24,880
Speaker 1: What the excuse me? I replied back, what the funk

873
00:53:25,000 --> 00:53:26,799
Speaker 1: is that what I think it is? And he's like, yep,

874
00:53:27,239 --> 00:53:30,640
Speaker 1: it's a whole movie. I said, send it to me.

875
00:53:30,960 --> 00:53:34,279
Speaker 1: He said, nope, this is through text. She like, this

876
00:53:34,480 --> 00:53:40,719
Speaker 1: is a good writer, this person. Okay, let's be cleared. Reader.

877
00:53:45,640 --> 00:53:49,160
Speaker 1: My immediate response was I'm calling the cops as a joke.

878
00:53:49,400 --> 00:53:52,640
Speaker 1: He's like, call him frustrated. I told him, if you

879
00:53:52,680 --> 00:53:55,080
Speaker 1: don't send me that video in one minute, I'm never

880
00:53:55,160 --> 00:53:57,480
Speaker 1: speaking to you again. He says, don't be like that.

881
00:53:57,640 --> 00:54:00,200
Speaker 1: I'll show you in person. I texted him back times up.

882
00:54:01,320 --> 00:54:04,239
Speaker 1: At first, I was like, okay, maybe I'm overreacting, but no,

883
00:54:04,440 --> 00:54:07,439
Speaker 1: I trusted him and I felt so violated. I told

884
00:54:07,560 --> 00:54:09,759
Speaker 1: him that was not okay with me, and he did

885
00:54:09,840 --> 00:54:13,040
Speaker 1: it anyway. I was betraying my husband and he did

886
00:54:13,160 --> 00:54:16,319
Speaker 1: that to me. I was so mad, humiliated. I could

887
00:54:16,320 --> 00:54:19,000
Speaker 1: not believe this is happening. I didn't know what he

888
00:54:19,160 --> 00:54:22,480
Speaker 1: was going to do with the film recording blackmail me

889
00:54:22,800 --> 00:54:25,000
Speaker 1: send it to my husband. I was living in fear,

890
00:54:26,160 --> 00:54:29,719
Speaker 1: and she says update. Since then, he stayed trying to

891
00:54:29,800 --> 00:54:32,239
Speaker 1: reach out to me, so I left him on read

892
00:54:32,360 --> 00:54:35,920
Speaker 1: on read what part of I'll never speak to you again?

893
00:54:36,360 --> 00:54:39,920
Speaker 1: Don't you understand no means no um? He ended up

894
00:54:39,960 --> 00:54:42,279
Speaker 1: breaking excuse me. He ended up taking a leave of

895
00:54:42,400 --> 00:54:45,879
Speaker 1: absence from work for five months for personal reasons home

896
00:54:45,960 --> 00:54:49,920
Speaker 1: slash life. He came back to work made two popping

897
00:54:50,040 --> 00:54:51,799
Speaker 1: up on me while I was on the clock. Our

898
00:54:51,840 --> 00:54:54,759
Speaker 1: schedules are posted for all employees to see. He had

899
00:54:54,800 --> 00:54:56,920
Speaker 1: the fucking nerve to ask me how I was. I

900
00:54:57,040 --> 00:54:59,759
Speaker 1: turned my head, shook it and thought, you must have

901
00:55:00,000 --> 00:55:02,719
Speaker 1: wash your mind. So when he goes, well, at least

902
00:55:02,840 --> 00:55:05,239
Speaker 1: I know you ain't dead. I wanted to be like

903
00:55:05,440 --> 00:55:07,520
Speaker 1: and if I was, why the funk would you care?

904
00:55:08,200 --> 00:55:10,160
Speaker 1: But I held strong and kept my mouth shut the

905
00:55:10,239 --> 00:55:13,480
Speaker 1: way I should have in the beginning, don't get me wrong.

906
00:55:13,560 --> 00:55:16,360
Speaker 1: And sex was amazing, and if it was for that,

907
00:55:16,600 --> 00:55:19,080
Speaker 1: I'd probably and if it wasn't for that, I'd probably

908
00:55:19,560 --> 00:55:22,160
Speaker 1: would have still been working with him. But he moved

909
00:55:22,200 --> 00:55:24,480
Speaker 1: the way he moved, and I'm glad I've seen it.

910
00:55:24,600 --> 00:55:26,799
Speaker 1: When I did, I was about to risk it all

911
00:55:27,120 --> 00:55:30,040
Speaker 1: for a little sneaky ass, sneaky link. Shea though my

912
00:55:30,120 --> 00:55:32,239
Speaker 1: husband with the Merryman was the worst thing I've ever

913
00:55:32,400 --> 00:55:35,399
Speaker 1: did in my entire life. That's her dumb big story.

914
00:55:36,719 --> 00:55:40,480
Speaker 1: Yeah you almost got jammed up, my girl. Yeah, he

915
00:55:40,520 --> 00:55:43,440
Speaker 1: could have extorted you for money, but he still got it.

916
00:55:44,160 --> 00:55:47,040
Speaker 1: He still has the video. He still can't extort her,

917
00:55:50,000 --> 00:55:52,120
Speaker 1: not really extored, because I mean, that's why they have

918
00:55:52,239 --> 00:55:55,320
Speaker 1: the laws now against like for revenge porn. So you

919
00:55:55,440 --> 00:55:57,319
Speaker 1: really don't have to worry about that type of ship

920
00:55:58,239 --> 00:56:02,200
Speaker 1: because her thing. Niggas care about that. If he got

921
00:56:02,239 --> 00:56:04,000
Speaker 1: a girl, he probably gonna care, Like, why are you

922
00:56:04,080 --> 00:56:07,040
Speaker 1: releasing footage of you having sex with somebody else and

923
00:56:07,280 --> 00:56:10,200
Speaker 1: you got a wife or a girlfriend, you know what

924
00:56:10,280 --> 00:56:14,279
Speaker 1: I'm saying. So m H, I don't know. I don't

925
00:56:14,320 --> 00:56:16,320
Speaker 1: like ship like that. That has happened to me, and

926
00:56:16,400 --> 00:56:19,920
Speaker 1: it's kind of triggering. Okay, somebody records you and then

927
00:56:20,000 --> 00:56:23,759
Speaker 1: tried to Uh well, I consented to the recording, but

928
00:56:24,080 --> 00:56:27,000
Speaker 1: he posted a still image, like she's saying he's sending

929
00:56:27,040 --> 00:56:29,719
Speaker 1: her still images to the phone. This nigga posted a

930
00:56:29,760 --> 00:56:33,439
Speaker 1: still image online. You know that story. Oh yeah, yeah,

931
00:56:33,480 --> 00:56:35,319
Speaker 1: I got that phone. I got the picture of my phone.

932
00:56:35,719 --> 00:56:44,720
Speaker 1: Shut up deleted, bitch, what's wrong with you? Break girl?

933
00:56:45,320 --> 00:56:48,440
Speaker 1: So I don't know who screenshot that little quick image.

934
00:56:48,480 --> 00:56:50,680
Speaker 1: Anybody could have. Somebody probably got it, but I know

935
00:56:50,800 --> 00:56:53,160
Speaker 1: he still has the video. Also, I don't it's not

936
00:56:53,280 --> 00:56:58,160
Speaker 1: in my possession, so I don't like that either. I

937
00:56:58,280 --> 00:57:01,400
Speaker 1: got I got some real law your money if they

938
00:57:01,520 --> 00:57:06,600
Speaker 1: can ever try it. Okay, right, well, I'm glad that

939
00:57:06,880 --> 00:57:08,640
Speaker 1: ended well for you since because that could have went

940
00:57:08,760 --> 00:57:16,000
Speaker 1: totally bad. She better hope he just dies. Really, how

941
00:57:16,080 --> 00:57:17,880
Speaker 1: else is he gonna get the footage? Like? How else

942
00:57:18,000 --> 00:57:20,560
Speaker 1: can you be like okay with it being out there

943
00:57:22,040 --> 00:57:24,600
Speaker 1: knowing this if this person hasn't, like, what what could

944
00:57:24,640 --> 00:57:29,760
Speaker 1: she do? That's a helpless as feeling. Yeah, um, I

945
00:57:29,880 --> 00:57:32,160
Speaker 1: only send out news that I don't mind the world seeing.

946
00:57:32,880 --> 00:57:35,120
Speaker 1: So if you get like a new picture of me,

947
00:57:35,280 --> 00:57:37,240
Speaker 1: or if it's a video of me, if the world

948
00:57:37,320 --> 00:57:39,200
Speaker 1: see it, I ain't gonna feel that bad. I look

949
00:57:39,240 --> 00:57:44,400
Speaker 1: amazing in it, right. All you're gonna do is turn

950
00:57:44,480 --> 00:57:50,440
Speaker 1: me up bit mine. Now, somebody might do it. Then

951
00:57:50,480 --> 00:57:52,440
Speaker 1: you see how you feeling when it actually happens. I

952
00:57:52,560 --> 00:57:54,680
Speaker 1: know my daddy is still alive. Please don't put that

953
00:57:54,760 --> 00:58:00,880
Speaker 1: out there. So I was just joking, all right, y'all listen,

954
00:58:02,480 --> 00:58:06,320
Speaker 1: y'all may be careful out there. Just be careful, Just

955
00:58:06,680 --> 00:58:10,560
Speaker 1: be fucking careful. But anyway, if you enjoyed this episode,

956
00:58:10,800 --> 00:58:13,480
Speaker 1: tune in every Thursday on an I Heart radio app.

957
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962
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966
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